1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,760 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEARVIFM dot com and 4 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 5 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're going to read 6 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now, and you never know, 7 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 1: it could be yours. 8 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. 9 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:25,120 Speaker 2: We got it for you. 10 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:25,320 Speaker 3: Here. 11 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 2: It is Strawberry Letter. 12 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject. I'm not as strong as I 13 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:34,919 Speaker 1: think I am. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a forty six 14 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 1: year old married man. My wife is forty, and we've 15 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 1: always had great chemistry. Our marriage was fine until my 16 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: wife's favorite cousin moved in with us. The cousin is 17 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 1: a very bad influence on my wife and they have 18 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:52,880 Speaker 1: been out drinking every weekend this summer. My wife comes 19 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 1: home drunk and passes out, and the cousin starts flirting 20 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: with me as soon as she hears my wife's snoring. 21 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 1: It all started with her playing in my dreads and 22 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 1: then rubbing my beer, trying to hold hands when we 23 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 1: were talking, and even running around in her bra and panties. 24 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:14,039 Speaker 1: She's thick, but it's nothing I can't handle. I feel 25 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 1: like she wants attention, so I try not to be 26 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 1: mean to her, but she's driving me crazy in my 27 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 1: own home. I am afraid of what might happen if 28 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 1: she catches me on a night that I've had a 29 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 1: drink or too. 30 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 3: I have dropped hints to my wife about this. 31 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: I told my wife that her cousin doesn't go straight 32 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:35,399 Speaker 1: to bed when they get home from the club, so 33 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: we watch movies together. All my wife said is that 34 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 1: her cousin is a night owl and she loves staying 35 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 1: up late. She didn't get what I was trying to say. 36 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 1: My therapist said I should record every interaction with the 37 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:51,559 Speaker 1: cousin to protect myself. He also said I should tell 38 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 1: the cousin it's time to move out because she is 39 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 1: coming between me and my wife. I can't do that 40 00:01:57,240 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 1: because then my wife will be upset with me. I 41 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 1: have to separate myself from the temptation and the stress. 42 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 1: Do I tell my wife that her cousin has flirted 43 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 1: with me? What if her cousin lies and says I 44 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 1: flirted with her too. I can't say that I didn't 45 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 1: how do I get the cousin to leave? Not that 46 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 1: it matters now because she has clearly overstayed her welcome. 47 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: But you didn't tell us why the cousin is there. 48 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:29,080 Speaker 1: I mean, usually when people move in, it's for particular 49 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 1: reason and there's a time limit on how long they 50 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 1: should stay. 51 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 3: So the why it's very important here. 52 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 1: But since we don't have that information, we'll deal with 53 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 1: what we do have, and that is that the cousin 54 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 1: does not need to spend another. 55 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 3: Day at your house. 56 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 2: Period. 57 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 1: Your therapist is right. Your cousin is coming. The cousin 58 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: is coming between you and your wife, and you can't 59 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 1: ever let that happen in your house. You mentioned the 60 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:58,239 Speaker 1: word temptation and your letter temptation is real. This girl 61 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 1: waits until your wife goes to sleep and make sure 62 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 1: she's snoring. Then she goes after you with a vengeance. 63 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 1: I mean, this isn't the saint, right. I mean, she's 64 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 1: taking advantage of you guys, hospitality, of your kindness, especially yours. Okay, 65 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 1: this is betrayal in every sense of the word. She 66 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:21,519 Speaker 1: is there to kill your marriage and destroy it. I mean, 67 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 1: I don't know how you don't see this and do 68 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 1: something about it immediately. So if you love your wife 69 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 1: and you don't want to lose her or your marriage, 70 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 1: because that could be what's going to that's what's going 71 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 1: to happen here. 72 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 3: You got to. 73 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 1: Tell your wife that the cousin has to go, give 74 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 1: the cousin an exit date immediately, and you should never 75 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: let anybody bring havoc into your home. I don't think 76 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 1: you're taking this seriously enough because you're enjoying the attention 77 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 1: that you're getting and you're kind of flirting. 78 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 3: With her too. 79 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 1: But don't be stupid. You gotta talk to your wife. 80 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: The two of you have to agree to get this 81 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 1: girl out of your life and out of your house, 82 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 1: a house before MSS cousin ruined everything. 83 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 3: You don't need to risk this. 84 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 4: Steve, listening to this letter that's written from a man, see, 85 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 4: I see all the other stuff in this letter, and 86 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 4: that's what makes this letter even crazier than you know, Shirley. 87 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:19,599 Speaker 4: This letter is crazier than you know, because I'm gonna 88 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 4: tell y'all something. 89 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:22,479 Speaker 2: Man, I've been a man. 90 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 4: My whole life, and I know a lot of men, 91 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:29,600 Speaker 4: and once you were a man, there are rules to this, 92 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 4: and we all know the rules, but he acts like 93 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 4: he don't. Now he's forty six year old, married to 94 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 4: his wife. Forty had great kndrashey until his wife's favorite 95 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:41,840 Speaker 4: cousin moved in. 96 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 2: Then they started having an influence on the wife. 97 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 4: They were staying out, getting drunk every weekend this summer 98 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:51,280 Speaker 4: and pass out, and then the cousin starts flirting with 99 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 4: me as soon as she hears my wife snoring. Now, 100 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 4: then he said, it all started with her playing in 101 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 4: my dreads and then rubb in my bed, trying to 102 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:04,280 Speaker 4: hold my hand when we were talking, and even running 103 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:08,159 Speaker 4: around in her bra and panties. She's thick, but it's 104 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:14,279 Speaker 4: nothing I can't handle. Stop, let's stop right here. Listen 105 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 4: to me. A man that wrote this letter, y'all, he 106 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:21,840 Speaker 4: know this woman playing in his dreads, in his bed, 107 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:28,159 Speaker 4: holding his hand, rubbing his chest, running round in her 108 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 4: bra and panties. Dog, you know, good and well, what's 109 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 4: going on you forty six? This ain't a new movie, man, 110 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 4: Everybody know what this is. 111 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:41,160 Speaker 2: Right here? 112 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 4: He says, she's thick, but it's nothing I can't handle. Well, 113 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:51,160 Speaker 4: that's not true, dog, And it's not true that you 114 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 4: ain't handle it. It's something that happened here, and I'm 115 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 4: gonna tell you why in just a second. I feel 116 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:01,279 Speaker 4: like she wants attention. Ain't no feel like nothing. You 117 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 4: know what's happening. So I try not to be mean 118 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:09,280 Speaker 4: to her. So oh so now you accommodate. See, y'all, 119 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 4: this is what I want you all to understand. I 120 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:14,480 Speaker 4: try not to be mean to her, but she's driving 121 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 4: me crazy in my own home. That means now he's 122 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 4: faced with the options because if it's driving him crazy, 123 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 4: he don't know what to do. Man o, man if 124 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:28,279 Speaker 4: she come a kill his pennies on the trunk, playing 125 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:31,760 Speaker 4: my damn my bed. All this here, I'm telling y'all. 126 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:33,359 Speaker 4: When I come back, I'm gonna tell y'all what the 127 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 4: real deal is. And then y'all y'all help me help here. 128 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:39,600 Speaker 1: Okay, we'll have part two of your response coming up 129 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour. 130 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:45,360 Speaker 3: Steve Today's Strawberry letter subject is I'm not. 131 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 1: As strong as I think I am. 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Get down to your local Hondai dealer 140 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 4: and get away with a great deal only during the 141 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:21,119 Speaker 4: Hondai Getaway Sell event. 142 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 2: Visit HONDAIUSA dot com for details. 143 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve Let's recap today's strawberry letter. 144 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 1: The subject is I'm not as strong as I think 145 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 1: I am. 146 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 2: Well, no, bruh, bruh, br bruh. Nice title. 147 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 4: I'm not as strong as I think I am and 148 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 4: all this here, but I'm a man watching a man 149 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 4: write a letter. Now I'm gonna tell you'll let me 150 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 4: go through this. Try to get through this quick cause 151 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 4: I gotta get to this part. I want to tell 152 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 4: you all about him and his wife been married for 153 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 4: a while, she forty. Her favorite cousin came to stay 154 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 4: with her at a great marriage. So she's a bad influence. 155 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 4: They go out on weekends, get drunk, she come home 156 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:58,679 Speaker 4: and she pass out. And then when she gets drunk 157 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 4: and pass out to cousin, that's a bad influence. On 158 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 4: the wife starts flirting with him, and she waited. She 159 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 4: heard his wife snowing, and it all started when she 160 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 4: started playing in his dredge, holding his hands and even 161 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 4: running around in her bra and pantis. She's thick, But 162 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 4: it's nothing I can't handle. That's not true, dog, that's 163 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:22,239 Speaker 4: just not a true. But it's nothing I can't handle. Okay, 164 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 4: So what you write the letter? Fork, and I'm gonna 165 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 4: show you deeper why he ain't handling this well. But 166 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 4: it's nothing I can't handle. I feel like she wants attention, 167 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 4: so I try not to be mean to her, but 168 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 4: she driving me crazy in my own home. Wait a manue, 169 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:39,439 Speaker 4: hold up, brother, so you know what she trying to do. 170 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:41,560 Speaker 4: You don't want to be a mean to her, so 171 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:44,679 Speaker 4: you accommodating it. But it's driving you crazy in your 172 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 4: own home. You know why he's driving him crazy because 173 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 4: he considering it. It stays on his mind. He go 174 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 4: when he ain't home, he goes, man, I got to 175 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 4: go to the house. 176 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:56,760 Speaker 2: She in here. Ain't no telling what she going. 177 00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 4: To Now listen to me, and then he says, I'm 178 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 4: afraid of what might happen if she catches me on 179 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:04,559 Speaker 4: the night that I've had a drink or too. Bruh, 180 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 4: that's not true. Stop saying that. Stop trying to blame 181 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 4: it on the alcohol. You thinking about this sober, because 182 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 4: you wrote this letter sober. 183 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 2: So this ain't nothing that might happen when you have 184 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 2: a drink or two. 185 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 4: This is something that's on your mind right now because 186 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 4: she in your house driving you crazy. Now, unless you 187 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 4: drunk all the time in your house, there would be 188 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 4: no need for this letter. But you ain't drunk all 189 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:33,440 Speaker 4: the time, and it's on your mind. And I'm gonna 190 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 4: tell you how I know something didn't happen. I have 191 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:38,160 Speaker 4: dropped hints to my wife about this. 192 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 2: What all you gotta do is. 193 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 4: Tell her, baby, listen to me. I'm uncomfortable with your 194 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 4: cousin being here because when you go to sleep at night, 195 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:50,520 Speaker 4: I don't like the way she acts behind your back, 196 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:52,120 Speaker 4: and I think I don't think. 197 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 2: She no good. 198 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:55,840 Speaker 4: I want her out of our house, period. That's all 199 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 4: you got to say. But see this this hit little 200 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 4: statement he made at the top. I'm not as strong 201 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 4: as I think I am. No, Bro, you're trying to 202 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 4: play to both worlds. See I told my wife that 203 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 4: her cousin don't go straight to bed when they get 204 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 4: home from the club, so we watch movies together. All 205 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 4: my wife said is her cousin the night out and 206 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 4: she loves staying them life. She ain't get what I 207 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 4: was trying to say. Hold up, though, how is a 208 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 4: woman not gonna get what you trying to say? 209 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 2: You ain't said nothing. 210 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 4: I assure you, women ain't stupid when it comes to 211 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 4: they man, they ain't stupid at all. Now they are 212 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 4: act stupid because they start listening to their heart instead 213 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 4: of their head, but they not stupid people. 214 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:43,720 Speaker 2: She didn't give it. Now, listen to this line. 215 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:47,320 Speaker 4: My therapist said, I should record every interaction with the 216 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 4: cousin to protect myself. He also shared said, I said, 217 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:53,079 Speaker 4: tell the cousin's time to move out because she's coming 218 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 4: between me and my wife. 219 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 2: Hold up, bro, I'm not as strong as I think 220 00:10:58,559 --> 00:10:58,839 Speaker 2: I am. 221 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:01,679 Speaker 4: As a Tyler letter, you wrote the Steve Harvey Morning 222 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 4: Show and you got a therapist. You then wrote the 223 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:11,440 Speaker 4: Steve Harvey Morning Show, and you got a therapist. 224 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 2: And all of us know about this big thick thing. 225 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:18,679 Speaker 4: That's running around your house and her brawing panties playing 226 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:24,200 Speaker 4: in your dreads. Now listen to this line right here, 227 00:11:26,800 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 4: He said, I should tell the cousin to move out 228 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 4: because she's coming between me and my wife. Now listen 229 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:35,720 Speaker 4: to this line. I can't do that because then my 230 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 4: wife will be upset with me. Broh, if your wife 231 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 4: find out you're not gonna have no wife, why would 232 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 4: your wife be upset with you for trying to be 233 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 4: loyal and staying true to her and call it out 234 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 4: her cousin and not allowing her cousin. 235 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 2: To ruin your marriage. 236 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:56,560 Speaker 3: Ain't no woman. 237 00:11:56,679 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 2: That's stupid. Man. 238 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:03,720 Speaker 4: I keep telling you stop talking, Then, she said. Then 239 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 4: he said, I have to separate myself from the temptation 240 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 4: and distress. 241 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 2: This is ongoing even without the drink. Shall do I. 242 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 4: Tell my wife that her cousin has flirted with me? 243 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:17,840 Speaker 4: What if her cousin lies and said I flirted with her? 244 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 2: Now watch this. 245 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 4: Suppose her cousin lies and says I flirted with her too. 246 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 4: I can't say that I didn't right that right there? 247 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:35,200 Speaker 4: See that that that See it's it's it's it's been 248 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 4: some pany playing back and forth between him and the Cubs. 249 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 2: I'm just telling you what I know. 250 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:42,559 Speaker 3: Panny playing it's. 251 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 4: Been some panty playing between him and the cuts. They've 252 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:48,559 Speaker 4: been they've been playing around because I ain't a way 253 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 4: where you run around in front of me panting his 254 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 4: own and bra and my wife in their sleep, and 255 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:56,560 Speaker 4: I ain't told her. But this didn't happen more than once. 256 00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 4: And it's creating stress in your house. And now you 257 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 4: done wrote Steve Harvey Morning Show and told your therapist. 258 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 4: And then you said I should tell my wife her 259 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:08,200 Speaker 4: cousin flirted with me. What if her cousin lies and 260 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:10,199 Speaker 4: said I flirted with her too? 261 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:14,360 Speaker 2: I can't say that I didn't. Well, then your cousin 262 00:13:14,400 --> 00:13:18,680 Speaker 2: ain't lying. See if you can't say you didn't, then 263 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:21,320 Speaker 2: the cousin ain't lying. Hey, dog, who did you think 264 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:22,720 Speaker 2: you was? Writing this letter to bro? 265 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:23,959 Speaker 3: All right? 266 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 1: Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Record Stuff. 267 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 2: Don't body believe that? 268 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 1: And check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free 269 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio app Free Never Sounded So good? 270 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:38,720 Speaker 3: You can download it today you're listening to the Steve 271 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 3: Harvey Morning Show