1 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, watch it. Ah, this is Tiffany and Mandy. 2 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 2: I didn't have coffee today. I couldn't handle it extra 3 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 2: octave and we are around ambition round. 4 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 1: Ohday is Q two tax day for me? 5 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:41,840 Speaker 2: Ooh exciting? 6 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:45,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, it really was. I was like, so that's when 7 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:50,480 Speaker 1: for those of you who are business owners, you know that. Well, 8 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 1: even if you're not a business owner, you know you 9 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 1: might know that the taxier for business owners is split 10 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 1: in two quarters, and a quarter is just three months 11 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 1: at a time. So first three months out of the year, 12 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 1: I paid my taxes and now the second three months 13 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: out of the year, which is what is that? So, 14 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:10,039 Speaker 1: Jenny Fevry March, April, May June. So I have to 15 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 1: pay taxes on the income that I earned minus expenses 16 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: on April, May and June. So I met with my 17 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:22,120 Speaker 1: my big accountant, Carlos. And Carlos and I were just 18 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: going over the numbers. It was you know, the business 19 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 1: is doing, you know well, but it's like one, paying 20 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 1: taxes it's not fun, but two as business grows. Manday, 21 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, so for those who know, you know 22 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 1: I have three well, yes, three companies. I've got the 23 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 1: budgetist to the original company. I've got the Liverature Academy, 24 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 1: you know, my online school, and then I have a 25 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: marketing company. And so because I have three companies and 26 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: I have like folks that work for me that kind 27 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 1: of do work on all of the companies, payroll was 28 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 1: getting really crazy. And so Arloso, just give me some 29 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: really good advice about how to manage that. 30 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 2: It's the next level of your business man, your media empire, 31 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 2: your bud just needs to empire. 32 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:09,799 Speaker 1: What is. 33 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 2: Yeah interested about quarterly taxes? Because you know, I've always 34 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 2: heard that it's a good practice for entrepreneurs, small business owners, 35 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 2: self employed people basically to pay taxes quarterly. So what 36 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 2: do you do to prepare for that? Because even just 37 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:29,639 Speaker 2: every three months, if you don't prepare for it could 38 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 2: be a lot of money. So, like, what are you 39 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 2: doing month to month to make sure you're ready for 40 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 2: that quarterly tax bill? And what is that? 41 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 1: Like? 42 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:37,080 Speaker 2: What does that actually entail? Do you keep it in 43 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 2: a separate account, does your accountant keep it? Do you 44 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 2: do automatic debits? How do you even like calculate? Oh? 45 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:44,359 Speaker 2: So many questions. 46 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 1: All right, So, honestly, three years ago, well the first 47 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 1: three or four, maybe even five years of business. Honestly, 48 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 1: I didn't have all of this, but now I have 49 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 1: my profit and laws statement for each of my three businesses. 50 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 1: And then what Rachel does is that when it's time 51 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 1: for me to meet with Carlos every quarter, she combines 52 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:07,079 Speaker 1: them into the quarterly statement and then that's what I bring. Literally, 53 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: it's usually like like a one to two page paper 54 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 1: where it just looks like just like a I don't know, 55 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 1: not an Excel spreadsheet, but just like like a word 56 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 1: doc in three columns, where it's like, this is how 57 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:23,399 Speaker 1: much Tiffany made, this is how much she spent each 58 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: of these months, and this is what's left over, and 59 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 1: this is what kind of like the category she spent on. 60 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:30,919 Speaker 1: And Carlos will review it. If something looks off, he 61 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 1: might say, you know you're missing this or something is 62 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 1: off or whatever, and then from that Carlos says, well, 63 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 1: based upon what you've made, this is what your taxes are. 64 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 1: And then he gives me some paper that basically says, 65 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 1: because my tax is the way I pay them, I 66 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 1: pay them as an individual, so my companies passed through 67 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 1: me and I because I own es Corpse, so well, 68 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 1: my companies are LLCs but I'm taxed as an X 69 00:03:57,640 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 1: corpse or an es corp is your tax like kind 70 00:03:59,880 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 1: of allocation, and so that means that I'm not self employed. 71 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: I actually work for my companies and so as a result, 72 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 1: I pay my taxes. And you really, once you reach 73 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 1: a certain amount of money, you have to pay requarter. 74 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: So what Carlos having to do when I first started 75 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 1: is I used to set aside twenty five percent of 76 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: every every time my companies paid me because that was enough. 77 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 1: And then when it wasn't enough, I had to set 78 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 1: up thirty five percent, and most recently, as of this year, 79 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 1: I had to start setting inside thirty five percent in 80 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 1: order to cover. And I honestly like I say that 81 00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 1: in like an ALLY savings account, I'm not super fancy. 82 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:41,280 Speaker 1: They have, you know, a decent interest rate for their savings. 83 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 1: And I look at my ALLY savings and I'm like, yep, 84 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: there's money there, Thank goodness, because I've been saving. And 85 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:50,360 Speaker 1: then I pay online and that way the IRS doesn't 86 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 1: come for me. 87 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 2: Is that ALA account set up with your business entity 88 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 2: or do you personally? Is like your personal ALLY account. 89 00:04:57,560 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 1: My personal because one, this is money that been already 90 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: paid out to me so, and I don't. I actually 91 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 1: asked called the ally decease they had an allied business account, 92 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 1: they did it? They yeah, no they didn't. So it's 93 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 1: just my person because like I'm at this point, I'm 94 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 1: paying these are this is personal taxes that I'm paying. 95 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 1: So now that I'm married, my husband no longer gets 96 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 1: a tax refund because our taxes are now jointly done together. 97 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: And so because because I'm married and because of him working, 98 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 1: he actually helps me save money on taxes. So I 99 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 1: asked Carlos what's better should we do? Married filing separately 100 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 1: or married filing jointly, and Carlos running both numbers and 101 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 1: found that I could save Like last year, I saved 102 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 1: like almost fifteen thousand dollars in real money and taxes 103 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 1: by filing jointly. And so we filed jointly. But he 104 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 1: doesn't get a tax refund anymore. So instead I know 105 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:54,719 Speaker 1: what his refund would only be. So instead I just 106 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:56,360 Speaker 1: break him off a little bit and was like, you know, babe, 107 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 1: this is you know you said. 108 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 2: You're nicer than me. I don't do that stuff. 109 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 1: Well what we do is like he because now my 110 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 1: husband's getting good at it, where he has, So I 111 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 1: think normally his refund might be like, I don't know, 112 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:09,919 Speaker 1: three thousand dollars, so I would just be like, Okay, 113 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:13,280 Speaker 1: here's three thousand dollars. And he typically is like a 114 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:17,839 Speaker 1: thousand for Supergirl, a thousand for savings, five hundred for fun, 115 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 1: and another five hundred for like paying down bill, so 116 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 1: he has like his own system. So but yeah, but 117 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 1: I'm like at this, you know, but you saved me money, 118 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 1: so I don't mind, you know, because if it wasn't 119 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 1: for him, I'd be paying an additional fifteen thousand and 120 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 1: real money, like actually writing an additional check for fifteen 121 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:36,280 Speaker 1: thousand dollars because I pay taxes, doesn't get withdrawn from 122 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 1: my paycheck. 123 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:39,040 Speaker 2: Do you watch a profit? 124 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 1: Do I have one? 125 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 2: Do you watch the profit on SANBC? 126 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:45,359 Speaker 1: I've watched some of it, like I've watched like everyone 127 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 1: and why, I've caught a show or two. 128 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 2: What it's good Marcus lamonas he's just like this billionaire 129 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:54,280 Speaker 2: who goes around helping struggling businesses while he scoops up 130 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:57,360 Speaker 2: like forty to fifty percent of the equity in the process. 131 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 2: But now it's fascinating. It's like you get to watch 132 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 2: these businesses fail and he shows them what they're doing wrong. 133 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 2: I don't know, I learned a lot to learn a 134 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 2: little bit more about business. I like it better than 135 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 2: Shark Tank. I feel like it really shows you the 136 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 2: day to day operations of running a business and what 137 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 2: can go wrong when people let themselves get in the way. 138 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 2: Shame No. I like I free Plug. 139 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 1: I've seen like. I saw this one where it was 140 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 1: like a cookie lady and her son and that was 141 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: so good. I remember that one. I felt bad for 142 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 1: he because she said like a bad deal where someone 143 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 1: was going to own ninety percent of her company and 144 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 1: I was like, wait, how is that legal? You know 145 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: that you signed away ninety percent and she didn't know, 146 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 1: and so yeah, I remember that one. Okay, maybe I'll 147 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 1: watch it more to get some more inspiration. 148 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 2: There was a recent one where it was a Atlanta 149 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 2: based company, so shout out to them. It was what 150 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 2: are they called Southern Comfort Foods or something they do 151 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 2: like Southern foods prepared and it's this it's a young 152 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 2: African American woman and her mom together running this business 153 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 2: out of the Squarehouse and they were part of Oprah's 154 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 2: favorite things and they had all this early sex and 155 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 2: then they were all of a sudden struggling, and turns 156 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 2: out that she has signed up for these short term 157 00:08:06,760 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 2: business loans, which I've been learning a lot more about recently. 158 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:10,880 Speaker 2: Do you, I don't know if you've ever been in 159 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 2: a place, hopefully not where you've had to consider short 160 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 2: term business loans. They're terrible products. I mean, they are 161 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 2: really expensive. First of all. Sometimes the repayment terms are 162 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 2: like a week, a month, two months, six months. They're 163 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 2: really short term. And because there are such short term loans, 164 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 2: they put crazy interest rates on them, like double digit, 165 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 2: you know, forty percent. She had a forty percent loan 166 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:35,680 Speaker 2: that she took out originally for fifty thousand dollars. I 167 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 2: had a balloon to like hundreds of thousands of dollars. 168 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 2: And it's nuts. And these products are out there, man, Like, 169 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:44,839 Speaker 2: the more that we write about small business loans or 170 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 2: business loans in general, the more I'm just like, man, 171 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 2: I've been wasting my time writing about payday loans like 172 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 2: business loans and merchant cash advances, these nasty products. That's 173 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:55,839 Speaker 2: where it's at. So if you're out there and you're considering, 174 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:58,960 Speaker 2: you know, or if you have or you're considering, you know, 175 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 2: taking out a business loan. I would love to get 176 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 2: more questions about that kind of stuff, because that's where 177 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 2: I feel like young entrepreneurs can easily make like really 178 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:10,719 Speaker 2: expensive mistakes that can haunt them forever. 179 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I could see that I have. 180 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 2: I have it. 181 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 1: I mean the only one I ever took out was 182 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:20,199 Speaker 1: from my ex boyfriend. He was the worst because. 183 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 2: You took out a business loan for your ex. 184 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 1: Well, look though, this is like when I very first started. 185 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 1: We had just broken up, Like I broke up with 186 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:28,080 Speaker 1: him because I was like I knew I wanted to 187 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: pursue more in life, and I knew that he wanted 188 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 1: to be like barefoot and pregnant. But we tried to 189 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 1: remain cool for like two years, two or three years 190 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 1: after breaking up, and so he lent me money, like 191 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 1: to like buy like a laptop and stuff cause I 192 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 1: had lost my job at the time, so and then 193 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 1: to also helped me stay afloat with my with my 194 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 1: my my condo at the time. But meanwhile, I mean, 195 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 1: really is it lending money because or is it payback? 196 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 1: Because I for six years we were together, I was 197 00:09:57,760 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 1: young and foolish and he was younger than I was, 198 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 1: so while he was in school, I was working, So 199 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 1: I used to pay for all the bills, so he 200 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 1: lived with me. I bought a condo, pay no mortgage, 201 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 1: pay no electricity, no water. I mean it was to 202 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: a point where he was literally like my child. One 203 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:13,079 Speaker 1: of the reasons why I broke up with him is 204 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 1: because I remember one day we went to go get 205 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 1: like ice cream, and like, he ordered his ice cream 206 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:20,199 Speaker 1: and walked away, and I remember thinking, like, what is happening. 207 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 1: At the time, I was like twenty eight or something, 208 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 1: and I was like, did I just bring my son 209 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 1: to get ice cream? 210 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 2: Yeah? 211 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:29,320 Speaker 1: And I thought like wow. I remember it was such 212 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 1: a good lesson because it wasn't all his fault. I 213 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:35,079 Speaker 1: had turned it into this, you know, because I was like, oh, well, 214 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 1: I'm a little older than him. I was like two 215 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 1: or three years older than him. I'm a little older 216 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 1: than him, and I'm more established, and when he gets 217 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 1: more established, he's gonna contribute. And it got to be 218 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:46,040 Speaker 1: I mean, it got to be bad. I mean it 219 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 1: was so bad, only the only kind of bad that 220 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:50,559 Speaker 1: you could do when you're in your twenties. I mean, Mandy, 221 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 1: we used to go out to dinner, and I would 222 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 1: put money on the dining room table so he could 223 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 1: put in his wallet so we'd go out to eat. 224 00:10:56,840 --> 00:11:00,199 Speaker 1: He looked like he paid. It was I know it was, 225 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 1: and I told myself, never eva again. So you imagine 226 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:07,320 Speaker 1: my shock and surprise, you know. So he quote unquote 227 00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:10,440 Speaker 1: let me money after we broke up for you know, 228 00:11:10,520 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 1: like a laptop, and maybe it was like three or 229 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 1: four hundred dollars, And of course I'm struggling to pay 230 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:15,960 Speaker 1: it back because you know, I'm broke, I don't have 231 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 1: a job, so I you know, the business is doing 232 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 1: was doing. I can't even say okay. But then he 233 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 1: kind of like demanded his money back because his new 234 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 1: girlfriend needed a purse and he wanted to buy it 235 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 1: for her. Can you imagine it took everything in me 236 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 1: to be like kick Rocks, dude, like you owe me 237 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:33,559 Speaker 1: your life, like you lived with me like a child 238 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 1: for like four years, and I paid for everything. But 239 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:40,440 Speaker 1: you know what I said, I didn't want him to 240 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:42,839 Speaker 1: have any tie to me, so I gave him a 241 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:46,440 Speaker 1: little punk four hundred dollars back. But yeah, but I'm 242 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 1: sure he and her get to enjoy watching me skyrocking 243 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 1: my way to the top. But no, but I just 244 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 1: can't believe that he asked for the money back and 245 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:55,959 Speaker 1: had the nerve to tell me he was going to 246 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 1: use it to buy her a coach bag. And I 247 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:01,200 Speaker 1: just remember being like, yo, I'm like eating and you 248 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:04,680 Speaker 1: want you want your four hundred dollars back. But yeah, 249 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 1: it was just it just was another like confirmation of 250 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 1: why he was not the one, the two, or the three, 251 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 1: and now Superman is the exact He's the exact opposite. Like, 252 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 1: although I make more, we live off his income and 253 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 1: save and invest. Mind, So it feels nice to have 254 00:12:19,080 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 1: someone who is a giver and not a taker. 255 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 3: Amen, right, Yes, you know what? 256 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 1: We forgot to hit up the social street. 257 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:40,079 Speaker 2: Oh you're right, okay. 258 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:42,560 Speaker 1: So actually just one really cute one which I thought 259 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 1: was great. This young woman tweeted us. Her name is 260 00:12:46,480 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 1: Mish and her Twitter name is at the Underscore Tamish 261 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:55,720 Speaker 1: and she said, praise report, I just made a final 262 00:12:55,760 --> 00:12:59,320 Speaker 1: payment on a personal loan. Exclamation, exclamation, so thankful for 263 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:03,319 Speaker 1: the resources. An inspiration game from the b A podcast 264 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:06,440 Speaker 1: cash Haag is a journey. I love that. And she 265 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:08,440 Speaker 1: has this meme of like her with like this money 266 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 1: bag on her back and it says payment. I just 267 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:13,200 Speaker 1: thought that that was awesome. Now paying off a loan 268 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:17,199 Speaker 1: is it's honestly, it's awesome and so and then she 269 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:18,680 Speaker 1: shout us out. She was like, if you're looking to 270 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 1: increase your financial literacy to be in a community with others, 271 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 1: you know, check out the Buganista and Brown Ambition. So 272 00:13:26,880 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 1: thank you. 273 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 2: What was her name or her handle? 274 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:34,200 Speaker 1: Her handle was at the Underscore t a m I s. 275 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:38,839 Speaker 2: H tell me at girlfriends, yes, and if you. 276 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 1: Want to go to the Praise Report or just you know, 277 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 1: you want to tell us it was so awesome. You 278 00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 1: just want to say whatever. You know, you can tweet us. 279 00:13:46,080 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 1: We are at the b a podcast on Twitter. 280 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 2: And on Instagram. We're at brann Ambition podcast all one 281 00:13:55,640 --> 00:13:57,680 Speaker 2: word and I wanted to give a shout out to 282 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 2: our Instagram follower nothos and a not Chosen Day. Okay, 283 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:08,400 Speaker 2: she says. She shouted us out. On another podcast page. 284 00:14:08,400 --> 00:14:12,440 Speaker 2: She was asking for people to list their favorite podcasts, 285 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:16,319 Speaker 2: and she says more hashtag brown Boost for the Budgetnista 286 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 2: and Mandy on at Brown Ambition podcast. Their podcast is 287 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:22,240 Speaker 2: so beautiful and the Black Girl magic is so real. 288 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 1: I think that I was like, thank you, you love us. 289 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 2: I love when they brag on us to other on 290 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 2: other people's pages. 291 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: That's I know. That is kind of fun. I'm like, hey, 292 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 1: I didn't write it, she wrote it. I'm just here 293 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 1: to gloat. 294 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 2: And one more from if this Instagram slash listener If 295 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 2: These Kinks Could Talk, she says, she posted her own 296 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 2: post shouting us out. She said, has should I get 297 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:49,560 Speaker 2: your Financial Life Brand and Vision podcast. Thank you, Thank you, 298 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 2: Thank you for creating this podcast. I learned something new 299 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:54,520 Speaker 2: every day. If you're looking for financial guidance, check out 300 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 2: this podcast. Too Beautiful Soul sharing great information for free 301 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 2: ninety nine. That's how you know she listens because she 302 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 2: quotes one of your sayings. 303 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 1: You know, I love the silmory love it now. That's awesome. Yeah, well, 304 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:11,160 Speaker 1: this is a good little transition into brown boosts or 305 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:12,600 Speaker 1: brown break. What's your finna do? 306 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 2: I'm gonna boost this week me, So you want to 307 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:19,240 Speaker 2: go first? Very optimistic? Yeah, I'm late. I'm late to 308 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 2: the party, but I'm going to do my boost this 309 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:25,000 Speaker 2: week for YELP cash back. Oh I never heard of that, right, 310 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:28,240 Speaker 2: It's been around since twenty seventeen, I started doing some 311 00:15:28,280 --> 00:15:30,240 Speaker 2: research because I wondered how long it's been since I've 312 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:32,840 Speaker 2: been out of the loop. But Yelp, if you order 313 00:15:32,920 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 2: food on Yelp, because you know, you can actually order 314 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 2: takeout or delivery through the app, I think in most cities, 315 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:43,160 Speaker 2: definitely in New York, and if you get enrolled, you 316 00:15:43,160 --> 00:15:45,240 Speaker 2: can earn up to ten percent cash back just for 317 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 2: ordering through the app. You link a credit card and 318 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:50,720 Speaker 2: they just once a month deposit money into your account, 319 00:15:50,760 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 2: which is just awesome. So it's kind of like ebates, 320 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:56,520 Speaker 2: but specifically for Yelp, and I've been using it ever 321 00:15:56,560 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 2: since we moved to our new neighborhood. A couple of 322 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:02,880 Speaker 2: restaurants near us participate, And yeah, I just made like 323 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 2: five bucks cash back on our dinner the other day. 324 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 2: And I just checked my bank statement and I made 325 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 2: another two dollars cash back from Yelp. So it adds up. 326 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:14,680 Speaker 2: And the beauty of it is that, at least in 327 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 2: my experience, so I have a cash back credit card 328 00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 2: where I earn three points when I order from restaurants, 329 00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:23,560 Speaker 2: when I when I go to restaurants, and I was 330 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:28,440 Speaker 2: sometimes these these like restaurant and food apps can be tricky, 331 00:16:28,440 --> 00:16:32,920 Speaker 2: and sometimes they do trigger the three points for restaurants 332 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:35,440 Speaker 2: spending with credit cards, and sometimes they don't. So I 333 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:37,800 Speaker 2: was just double checking because I was thinking, Man, if 334 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 2: I make five percent cash back by using Yelp cash 335 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 2: back plus three percent cash back by using this rewards 336 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 2: credit card, then I'm just almost saving ten percent of 337 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 2: my dinner, which is pretty dope. So I double checked 338 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:53,560 Speaker 2: with my credit card and my Yelp grub Hub. They yeah, 339 00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 2: it counted as three points for every dollar I spent, 340 00:16:57,280 --> 00:17:00,800 Speaker 2: so I basically earned eight percent cash bag. Just dope. 341 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:06,639 Speaker 1: That is dope. Honestly, cash back is like it's like 342 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:11,160 Speaker 1: the chocolate icing on a yellow cake. It's just it's 343 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:13,359 Speaker 1: just get any better than that. It's the extra chocolate 344 00:17:13,440 --> 00:17:16,159 Speaker 1: chip in the chocolate chip cookie, an extra chocolate chunk 345 00:17:16,720 --> 00:17:17,879 Speaker 1: in a chocolate chip cookie. 346 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:20,440 Speaker 2: It's the pineapple jam and a Dominican birthday cake. 347 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 1: Whoa, it is the. 348 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:27,160 Speaker 2: Girl on your on your ding dong. 349 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 1: It is the strip in your in your in your payea. Honestly, 350 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:37,880 Speaker 1: it's like it's like, I don't know when when people 351 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 1: don't decide it for cash back programs, I'm like, so 352 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:41,840 Speaker 1: you just don't like money, so you just don't you know, 353 00:17:42,040 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 1: you don't like money. Oh okay, No, it. 354 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 2: Doesn't even require that much work exactly. 355 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 1: It's just so awesome cash back programs like ebays, this 356 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 1: Yelp cash back. It's just literally live your life like 357 00:17:54,960 --> 00:17:56,679 Speaker 1: link whatever you have to link, and they live your 358 00:17:56,680 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: life and enjoy the fruits of your labor. So that's awesome. 359 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, dope. And it's not something that I'm not shopping 360 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:04,880 Speaker 2: to get the cash back. It's just like one I'm 361 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 2: if I'm gonna order from this trushaurant anyway, maybe I'm 362 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:09,480 Speaker 2: gonna use Yelp to do it, and maybe I'll get 363 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:10,200 Speaker 2: a little money back. 364 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying exactly. Well, my Brown booths are 365 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:19,080 Speaker 1: two people, one Brown Boosts for Damon Young. You know, 366 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 1: have you ever heard of Very Smart Brothers? 367 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:24,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I love that website. They're really funny. 368 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:26,800 Speaker 1: They are really funny. And he is I guess I 369 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 1: don't want to say he's the CEO, but anyway, he's 370 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:32,800 Speaker 1: got a memoir coming out like he's super smart, super funny, 371 00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:36,520 Speaker 1: super woke, young Brown ambition and young man. And his 372 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 1: book is called What Doesn't Kill You Makes you blacker, 373 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:44,160 Speaker 1: which I'm like, thank god, I a memoir in Essays 374 00:18:44,240 --> 00:18:47,080 Speaker 1: by Damon Young. Honestly, I feel like this is gonna 375 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:48,359 Speaker 1: be a New York Times bestseller and it's going to 376 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 1: be everything. So I'm excited. He is. It's going to 377 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:56,639 Speaker 1: be on HarperCollins and so yeah, so fun facts, which 378 00:18:56,760 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 1: you know what, you know what I'm gonna say it. 379 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:01,160 Speaker 1: So remember I told you that the doctors the TV 380 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:02,080 Speaker 1: show reached out to me. 381 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:06,080 Speaker 2: The doctors, no, but yes, okay. 382 00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:07,439 Speaker 1: So I feel like I said it maybe like an 383 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:09,400 Speaker 1: episode or two ago. So anyway, the doctors reached out 384 00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:11,119 Speaker 1: to me, which is like, you know, one of these 385 00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 1: daytime talk shows and like, you know, my dad loves it, right, 386 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:16,159 Speaker 1: so why do they reach out? And they said, hey, 387 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:18,600 Speaker 1: Damon Young, we saw your article in the New York 388 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:21,919 Speaker 1: Times about post traumatic broke syndrome. Would you like to 389 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:25,480 Speaker 1: come on? I said, my name is not Daman Young. 390 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:28,720 Speaker 2: But wait you snatched it. 391 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but you know, I said, my name's not 392 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:34,280 Speaker 1: Dami Young, but you know, like I mean, you're free 393 00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:36,160 Speaker 1: obviously to go with Daman Young. But this is Tiffany, 394 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:38,520 Speaker 1: but I too talk about financial education. They're like, well, 395 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:40,760 Speaker 1: grandma on girl. So the lady wrote me back. She's like, no, 396 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 1: I'm a DreamCatcher. I knew about you. She's like, I 397 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:44,639 Speaker 1: was thinking about both of you and him, and I 398 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:47,439 Speaker 1: guess when I press enter to you, you know, And 399 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:50,119 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, so thanks Damon. 400 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:54,800 Speaker 2: So is that why you're giving him the brown boos 401 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:55,720 Speaker 2: because you feel guilty? 402 00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:58,919 Speaker 1: I do, and I'm like, sorry, but David honestly is fine. 403 00:19:58,960 --> 00:20:02,919 Speaker 1: He is like or slaying and yeah, just like living 404 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:04,480 Speaker 1: his best life. But I just thought that was funny 405 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:07,080 Speaker 1: because I was like, oh, I didn't write that article, 406 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:08,720 Speaker 1: but I could certainly speak to it. 407 00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:10,840 Speaker 2: And then you know, we need to have him on 408 00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:13,240 Speaker 2: the show because I think post traumatic broke syndrome is 409 00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:15,040 Speaker 2: a is. I don't even know what it is, but 410 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:17,359 Speaker 2: I feel like I suffer from it, so I would 411 00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 2: like to talk to him about it. 412 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:20,639 Speaker 1: I don't, but you know what, I know people who 413 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:22,800 Speaker 1: know him, so you never know. Maybe I'll reach out 414 00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:27,760 Speaker 1: to my connects and the thing to think I do. 415 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 1: And my second of brown booth is a the first 416 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:38,359 Speaker 1: black woman to earn her PhD in nuclear engineering from MIT. 417 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 1: Did you see this? 418 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:40,440 Speaker 2: No? No? 419 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:44,920 Speaker 1: So her name is Maria Marina Robinson Snowden. She became 420 00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:47,200 Speaker 1: the first black woman to earn a PhD in nuclear 421 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:50,040 Speaker 1: engineering at MI T. MIT is like the smarty smarty 422 00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:52,360 Speaker 1: smarty school. It's like the school for the smarty smarties. 423 00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:57,760 Speaker 1: And yeah, I just like like, According to her, her 424 00:20:57,800 --> 00:21:01,440 Speaker 1: degree was a culmination of eleven years a whole secondary study. 425 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:03,960 Speaker 1: She was often the only black woman or a black 426 00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:07,760 Speaker 1: person in her nuclear engineering classes, but she took them 427 00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:11,280 Speaker 1: as an opportunity to represent and shine. And she actually, 428 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 1: which I thought was so sweet, this is why representation matters. 429 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:16,919 Speaker 1: She said, I had a picture of Catherine Johnson on 430 00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:19,639 Speaker 1: my wall right after Hidden Figures came out because she 431 00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:22,639 Speaker 1: was one of the women. I don't know who played 432 00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:26,879 Speaker 1: Catherine Johnson and Hidden Figures Hudson, right, I think so, 433 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:29,439 Speaker 1: And she said, because she was a role model for me, 434 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:33,199 Speaker 1: and so yeah, and I just thought that that was awesome. 435 00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:35,480 Speaker 1: And she was like, people asked who her mole model was, 436 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 1: and she was like, you know, you pick and choose 437 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:39,320 Speaker 1: from different places, and she was like, now she has 438 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 1: a tangible woman, Catherin Johnson, who was a mathematician and 439 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:44,840 Speaker 1: a black woman killing it. So I just want to say, 440 00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:48,600 Speaker 1: go ahead, and Marina Robinson and she is fly. So 441 00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:50,440 Speaker 1: you go ahead being the first black woman to earn 442 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:53,400 Speaker 1: a PhD in nuclear engineering from MIT. I'm not sure 443 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:54,600 Speaker 1: what you do with it, but I'm sure you used 444 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:55,280 Speaker 1: to lay the world. 445 00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:59,200 Speaker 2: I mean it sounds dangerous, so I'm glad that you're 446 00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 2: on our side exactly. 447 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:07,800 Speaker 1: Don't forget that. SI cool. So that's my two great, 448 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:08,720 Speaker 1: my two booths. 449 00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:10,159 Speaker 2: How positive we are today? 450 00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:13,440 Speaker 1: I know right, I don't know why because this weather 451 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 1: has be irritated. Question on, I'm sure we have some 452 00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:30,359 Speaker 1: great ones in the inbox. Anything good? 453 00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:33,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's get some questions. So if you guys want 454 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:35,439 Speaker 2: to email us a question, you can hit us up 455 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 2: directly at Brand Ambition Podcast at gmail dot com, or 456 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:41,840 Speaker 2: you can go to brand Ambition podcast dot com and 457 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:44,760 Speaker 2: click that ask us anything tab and leave us a 458 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:46,479 Speaker 2: question there. Let me know if you want me to 459 00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:48,760 Speaker 2: say your name or if you want to be anonymous. 460 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:51,720 Speaker 2: We love getting your questions, and this week we have 461 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:56,359 Speaker 2: two great questions from some listeners. Question number one comes 462 00:22:56,400 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 2: from listeners Simone. Simone says, if you close your credit 463 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:02,679 Speaker 2: card account and start to pay it off, does it 464 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:06,240 Speaker 2: still add interest? My mom has a heavy balance on 465 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,840 Speaker 2: a closed credit card and she needs to stop paying 466 00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 2: the interest. 467 00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 1: Oh child, if it was that easy, we'd all be 468 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:19,080 Speaker 1: closed back right. No, girl, you will still have to 469 00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 1: pay interests on that credit card. What it does do 470 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:23,080 Speaker 1: is means that you can't continue to add charges, which 471 00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:26,480 Speaker 1: is good. But yes, like the credit card companies would 472 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:29,280 Speaker 1: never because that's their bread and butter. They get paid 473 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 1: by charging you for still having a balance. 474 00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:35,480 Speaker 2: A better thing to do if your mom wants to 475 00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:38,679 Speaker 2: give herself extra time to pay off the card and 476 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:40,640 Speaker 2: to save money on interest, is to look and see 477 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:44,880 Speaker 2: if she qualifies for any good balance transfer options because 478 00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:46,880 Speaker 2: a balance What a balance transfer does is you open 479 00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:49,479 Speaker 2: up a different credit card with a zero percent intro 480 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:54,120 Speaker 2: APR for twelve months or however long, and you use 481 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:56,560 Speaker 2: that new credit card to pay to transfer the balance 482 00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:58,920 Speaker 2: from your old credit card onto it, and then you 483 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:01,920 Speaker 2: have that period of time to pay it down without 484 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:04,359 Speaker 2: having any interest. Because interest is what kills people because 485 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:07,119 Speaker 2: you're trying to get one step ahead, but then interest 486 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:09,520 Speaker 2: is piling up and you're not actually making any progress. 487 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:12,600 Speaker 2: So I would say look into balance transfer options. I can. 488 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 2: I can send you a link to a good page 489 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:19,080 Speaker 2: with zero percent intro APR balance transfers. Just read the 490 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:21,639 Speaker 2: fine print, because sometimes they say you have to you 491 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:24,160 Speaker 2: have to actually complete the transfer within a certain number 492 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:27,360 Speaker 2: of days, like forty five or sixty days in order 493 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:31,160 Speaker 2: to qualify for the intro APR and then watch out 494 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:34,159 Speaker 2: for deferred interest balance transfer options. 495 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:34,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 496 00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:37,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's kind of sneaky. So they say we'll give 497 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:40,080 Speaker 2: you zero percent for twelve months, what they mean is 498 00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:42,760 Speaker 2: in the fine print it'll say if you so much 499 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:46,120 Speaker 2: as miss a single payment during that year, or if 500 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,360 Speaker 2: you don't pay off the full balance by the end 501 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:50,639 Speaker 2: of the twelve months, we're actually going to charge you 502 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:52,680 Speaker 2: interest as if you were earning it for the full 503 00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 2: year and tack it on to you to your transfer. 504 00:24:56,880 --> 00:25:00,399 Speaker 1: That sense don't make ident But honestly, I found my 505 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:02,760 Speaker 1: very first well maybe not my very first, but I 506 00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:05,480 Speaker 1: found at the time of my balance transfer card actually 507 00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:08,840 Speaker 1: from magnify money dot com Woo woo, where Mandy works. 508 00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 1: So it's a great resource, honestly because you get to 509 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:13,320 Speaker 1: kind of I think I last time I remember, there 510 00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:15,560 Speaker 1: was like this sliding little like scale where you could 511 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 1: put in your your credit score and they would say 512 00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:21,720 Speaker 1: basically what you would be like cards that would be 513 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:23,199 Speaker 1: good for you for balance trenchs or like you can 514 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,840 Speaker 1: literally just a drop down menu like credit cards, which 515 00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:28,399 Speaker 1: credit card you are you looking for? You choose balance transfer, 516 00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:32,000 Speaker 1: you put in your your score, and literally sometimes Magna 517 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:33,400 Speaker 1: Fund of Money will play you and be like, girl, 518 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:36,840 Speaker 1: ain't nobody giving you a balance tres for card? Which 519 00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 1: I think is how Larry's But I love that. 520 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,360 Speaker 2: Because I don't think that's the exact language, but that's not. 521 00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:44,440 Speaker 1: But it's so funny. I was like, you know, okay, okay, 522 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:47,639 Speaker 1: you got that, and then you know, but then if 523 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:51,000 Speaker 1: your score is good, then you know, then it'll tell 524 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,199 Speaker 1: you like what cards would be more most likely to 525 00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:55,600 Speaker 1: get the yes from. So it's a really good resource. 526 00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:58,160 Speaker 2: I want to add a pop up video that comes 527 00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:00,439 Speaker 2: up every time someone has bad credit and puts their 528 00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:02,960 Speaker 2: puts their info, just of like your voice saying. 529 00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 1: That, yeah, it would not be fun. 530 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, that's a good point. Though. A lot of 531 00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:15,439 Speaker 2: balance transfer cards do you require decent credit, you know, 532 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:18,399 Speaker 2: mid six hundreds to get approved, So if you have 533 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:22,680 Speaker 2: poor credit already, your options are more limited. But one 534 00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:25,320 Speaker 2: thing that you can do is look into personal loans 535 00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:29,640 Speaker 2: and use them to consolidate credit card debt, and I'll 536 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,160 Speaker 2: also send a link because personal loans can be great, 537 00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:34,639 Speaker 2: but there's some bad ones out there, bad ones that 538 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 2: are almost as bad as payday loans. So we do 539 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,240 Speaker 2: a lot, a lot, a lot of reviews of different 540 00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:42,360 Speaker 2: personal loan companies, like every single one you can imagine. 541 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:45,480 Speaker 2: So and we've actually found some good options for people 542 00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:48,080 Speaker 2: who have poor credit to so I'll I'll try and 543 00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:52,359 Speaker 2: post something in there too, But definitely, someone closing your 544 00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:54,679 Speaker 2: credit card is not going to fix it. It's only gonna, 545 00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:56,639 Speaker 2: you know, put it out of sight, out of mind, 546 00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:58,560 Speaker 2: probably for you, but it's still going to be accruing. 547 00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:01,200 Speaker 2: So tell your mom to see if she qualifies for 548 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:05,640 Speaker 2: any balance transfer options. And over and one last thing 549 00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:08,280 Speaker 2: with the balance transfer, So let's say it's only twelve months. 550 00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:10,560 Speaker 2: What you can do is set a reminder on your 551 00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:14,080 Speaker 2: calendar for eleven months and then say, okay, see if 552 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:17,440 Speaker 2: you can qualify for another balance transfer option, and then 553 00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:21,119 Speaker 2: transfer that balance onto the new card, a different balance 554 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:25,120 Speaker 2: transfer card. If you're approaching that twelve month period and 555 00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:26,679 Speaker 2: you look like you're not going to pay it off, 556 00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 2: that's something that you can do as long as you're 557 00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:33,200 Speaker 2: not transferring funds to the same to a credit card 558 00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:35,600 Speaker 2: from the same bank. A lot of banks don't let 559 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:35,919 Speaker 2: you do that. 560 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:40,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, say, we got your girl, Well, we got your mama. Yep. 561 00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:42,480 Speaker 2: When I learned about balance transfers, I was like, oh, hallelujah, 562 00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:44,960 Speaker 2: where was that when I was, you know, had my 563 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:47,520 Speaker 2: little one thousand dollars student credit card and kept getting 564 00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,800 Speaker 2: eleven dollars finance charges every month. You can never pay 565 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:53,119 Speaker 2: it down. Didn't know what I was doing then, But 566 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:54,639 Speaker 2: when I know better, I. 567 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:56,280 Speaker 1: Tell you better exactly. 568 00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 2: Okay, how about one more question real quick? Yeah, let's 569 00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:04,719 Speaker 2: do it, Okay, listener, James, Oh hey, James, got a 570 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:05,400 Speaker 2: man up in here. 571 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:08,199 Speaker 1: What was our fake What was our guy name that 572 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:09,119 Speaker 1: we had for Jamal? 573 00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:13,240 Speaker 2: Jamal? Yeah, we forgot about Jama. Yeah, I love that 574 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:17,560 Speaker 2: named James. Okay. So, James says, I have almost fifty 575 00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:20,359 Speaker 2: thousand dollars of student loan debt that I'm working to 576 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 2: get rid of. My wife and I have saved about 577 00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,679 Speaker 2: one hundred and sixty thousand dollars, mostly saved by my 578 00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:29,720 Speaker 2: wife prior to our marriage. Other than our mortgage, this 579 00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:33,399 Speaker 2: is the only debt in our household. While discussing an 580 00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:37,040 Speaker 2: unrelated financial topic, my wife mentioned that she would be 581 00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:39,640 Speaker 2: hesitant to dip into one hundred and sixty thousand dollars 582 00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:42,800 Speaker 2: long term saving for fear of weakening our long term 583 00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 2: security to pay off that fifty thousand dollars of student 584 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:50,240 Speaker 2: loan debt paying the student loan. If we paid our 585 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:53,080 Speaker 2: student loan at the current pace we're on, we would 586 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:56,480 Speaker 2: actually end up spending almost one hundred thousand dollars on 587 00:28:56,600 --> 00:29:00,800 Speaker 2: the loan after interest charges. Should we a fifty thousand 588 00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 2: dollars check and get that cleared up? Or just our 589 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:06,760 Speaker 2: saving amount to pay it in installments? But attack it 590 00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 2: with ferocity? This is an excellinquish it is. 591 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:13,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, ooh, Jane, you sound like you're married to me, 592 00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:16,680 Speaker 1: So I too, I too, am a money hoarder because 593 00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 1: one hundred and sixty thousand dollars in cash and depending 594 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:23,120 Speaker 1: on like what your lifestyle looks like. But for the 595 00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:26,240 Speaker 1: average person, that's really a lot of money to have 596 00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:27,960 Speaker 1: in a savings account. 597 00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 2: I wonder if that's if and he didn't specify, but 598 00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:34,320 Speaker 2: I wonder if that's like in a regular savings account, 599 00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:36,560 Speaker 2: or if he's including their retirement money in with that, 600 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:39,720 Speaker 2: because it's not you know, I mean, unless I mean 601 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:41,920 Speaker 2: by all means you know, you can have that much 602 00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:43,960 Speaker 2: saved for the average person, I think it'd be a 603 00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,120 Speaker 2: little hard to imagine having that much in the bank. 604 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:48,640 Speaker 2: I wonder if it's like, you know, a four one K, 605 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:52,360 Speaker 2: but that that would change the answer a little bit differently. 606 00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:55,960 Speaker 2: But maybe just for our questions, for our answers, we 607 00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:59,080 Speaker 2: can let's just let's just say that it's regular savings, 608 00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:01,840 Speaker 2: just like a regular checking a savings account versus a 609 00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:02,440 Speaker 2: four to one K. 610 00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 1: So, well, one thing, I will so remember one thing 611 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,800 Speaker 1: that we learned from Angela that she said, if you 612 00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:10,680 Speaker 1: have the money to pay off an alump sum member, 613 00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:14,440 Speaker 1: you can negotiate down like up to fifteen fifteen one 614 00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:17,760 Speaker 1: five percent yep, saying hey, I've got it, So what 615 00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:20,600 Speaker 1: is what is fifteen percent? All fifty thousand? You know 616 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 1: how to do the massa good? Let me see, let 617 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:22,720 Speaker 1: me get. 618 00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:26,000 Speaker 2: The five hundred. Ooh, did I do it right? I 619 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:29,480 Speaker 2: seventy five hundred, seventy five hundred. 620 00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:35,360 Speaker 1: So you could potentially save seventy five hundred by negotiating 621 00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:37,160 Speaker 1: saying I have a lump sum amount. So that's instead 622 00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:41,160 Speaker 1: of paying fifty thousand, you'd be paying minus seventy five hundred. 623 00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:44,400 Speaker 1: I'm doing on my part four forty two five, so 624 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:47,200 Speaker 1: you'll be paying forty two thousand, five hundred dollars. So one, 625 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:51,600 Speaker 1: you're saving that way, right. But two, my assumption is 626 00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:53,680 Speaker 1: that your student loan interest rate in this way you 627 00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:57,000 Speaker 1: can share with your wife is large. It's likely greater 628 00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,000 Speaker 1: than the interest that you're earning from your savings accoun 629 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:02,000 Speaker 1: So let's say, for the sake of an argument, that 630 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:03,760 Speaker 1: you have one hundred and sixty thousand dollars in a 631 00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:06,440 Speaker 1: savings account and it's yielding you right. I think right now, 632 00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,600 Speaker 1: allies giving you like well one point seventy five. I 633 00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:12,280 Speaker 1: think that's like their interest rate and your student loans, 634 00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:15,000 Speaker 1: even on the low end, I highly doubt they're giving 635 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:17,400 Speaker 1: you your interest rate with lower than this. So let's 636 00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 1: just say it's four percent. So that means that you 637 00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:25,720 Speaker 1: are your student loans are costing you four percent while 638 00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:29,440 Speaker 1: your savings is only making you let's say about two percent. 639 00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:32,880 Speaker 1: So you're losing on that account. And then, like you mentioned, 640 00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 1: by the time you pay off your student loans that 641 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:38,160 Speaker 1: you really have well have paid double So honestly, you 642 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:41,640 Speaker 1: can share if you to me someone like your wife, 643 00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:44,920 Speaker 1: because I hold money too, because I'm I'm we have 644 00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 1: way too much money in savings and I'm trying to 645 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:50,200 Speaker 1: let go of that. But what would help me is 646 00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:53,600 Speaker 1: to see the numbers in comparison, like, if we keep 647 00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,080 Speaker 1: the money here and work on and stay on your track, 648 00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:59,880 Speaker 1: this is what will actually be spending and have. And 649 00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,880 Speaker 1: if we if we make this decision and pay down 650 00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,360 Speaker 1: the student loan, that this is what we'll actually spend 651 00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:08,480 Speaker 1: in half. And what might help her is how quickly 652 00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:10,240 Speaker 1: can you get back to the one sixty because that 653 00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:11,000 Speaker 1: would help me a lot. 654 00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:14,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, that's the question that our financial planners started 655 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:19,040 Speaker 2: asking to help me get over that hurdle. Yes, I'm 656 00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:21,880 Speaker 2: a hoarder. You know, this was the thing right before 657 00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:24,480 Speaker 2: we got Wait, when did I last summer? The summer 658 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:28,160 Speaker 2: before we paid off and we paid off my husband's 659 00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:31,200 Speaker 2: student loan debt, it was about twenty thousand dollars and 660 00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:33,960 Speaker 2: that was you know, it was a joint effort, but 661 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:36,360 Speaker 2: I was in the same position as his wife. And 662 00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:38,680 Speaker 2: that's and that's also a layer here that we haven't 663 00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:40,440 Speaker 2: talked about yet, is the fact that he says, it's 664 00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:43,040 Speaker 2: basically her money that she's say prior to their marriage, 665 00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:45,920 Speaker 2: and I think that that might be contributing to maybe 666 00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:50,200 Speaker 2: the little bit of a hesitancy, because when we paid 667 00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:52,360 Speaker 2: off my husband's debt, we were using money that I 668 00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:55,360 Speaker 2: had accumulated myself. 669 00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:57,000 Speaker 1: I got. 670 00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:59,080 Speaker 2: I mean, it wasn't it wasn't a huge mental block 671 00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:00,960 Speaker 2: for me using my need to pay off his student 672 00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:03,360 Speaker 2: loan debt, because I really do believe, you know, when 673 00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:07,640 Speaker 2: you're married, you're you're you're merging finances, and his debt 674 00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:09,280 Speaker 2: was holding me back all of a sudden, you know, 675 00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:12,520 Speaker 2: so I wanted to pay it off, and you know, 676 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:16,240 Speaker 2: I was eager to. But yeah, my our financial planner, 677 00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:19,880 Speaker 2: she started asking that question. Okay, well, let's be realistic. Yes, 678 00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:21,440 Speaker 2: it will put a dent in your savings now, but 679 00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 2: how much longer? How much? How long would it take 680 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:26,680 Speaker 2: you to get back to a place where you're replenishing 681 00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:28,880 Speaker 2: that And then she laid it out, oh, three months 682 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:32,040 Speaker 2: to you know, six months or whatever, And then I'm thinking, Okay, 683 00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:35,720 Speaker 2: that's that's not that bad. It's not like we're never 684 00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:38,040 Speaker 2: going to start saving again. And if you got here once, 685 00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:40,200 Speaker 2: you can get there again. And I mean, you guys 686 00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:42,600 Speaker 2: would still have one hundred and ten thousand even if 687 00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:44,600 Speaker 2: you didn't get a fifteen percent discount, you know, if 688 00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:46,760 Speaker 2: you weren't able to you know, negotiate it down, although 689 00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,960 Speaker 2: you probably can, you'd still be left with over one 690 00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:54,600 Speaker 2: hundred thousand dollars in savings, which is phenomenal. And it's 691 00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:57,560 Speaker 2: and you don't you know, it's like TIF said, you 692 00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:01,200 Speaker 2: don't want to let the psychological hang up get in 693 00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:03,360 Speaker 2: the way of the pure math of it, which is 694 00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:05,880 Speaker 2: that it's costing you more money to keep the stet 695 00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:07,840 Speaker 2: on your balance sheet than it would be to pay 696 00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:08,239 Speaker 2: it down. 697 00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:12,040 Speaker 1: And you know, move along, mass her to death. Just 698 00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:14,880 Speaker 1: be like, yeah, babe, honestly, here's some math. Here's some 699 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:17,239 Speaker 1: more math. Here's a maths on top of math that 700 00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:20,239 Speaker 1: will help significantly. A friend of mine helped me with 701 00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:22,560 Speaker 1: that decision when we were deciding to buy the house cash, 702 00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:24,759 Speaker 1: because my husband was kind of like, well, it's up 703 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:28,640 Speaker 1: to you, because you know, we were still really newly married, 704 00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:30,480 Speaker 1: so it was like, that's your money. And I'm like, 705 00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:32,759 Speaker 1: even though we were living off of his income, and 706 00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:35,160 Speaker 1: I'm like, well, no, not really, because although it might 707 00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:38,000 Speaker 1: be my money we save and invest, Like if it 708 00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:39,799 Speaker 1: wasn't for a living off your income, we wouldn't have 709 00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:41,799 Speaker 1: this money to save an invest But basically he left 710 00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 1: it up to me, and so I called him a 711 00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:47,120 Speaker 1: friend of mine, Mark who owns he's a business owner 712 00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:50,000 Speaker 1: and owns several launder matchs in Charlottees and other businesses, 713 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 1: and I said, what do you think you know? I 714 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:54,480 Speaker 1: was asking my other like friends who are trusted their 715 00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:57,319 Speaker 1: financial advice, and he mastered me to death. Basically, he 716 00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:01,160 Speaker 1: was like, well, how quickly could you replace the cost 717 00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:03,440 Speaker 1: of your house, because I know you're nervous, And I 718 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:05,440 Speaker 1: was like, you know, we did the math and I said, Okay, 719 00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:08,120 Speaker 1: I could have this money back in my account in 720 00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:10,920 Speaker 1: under eight months, maybe sooner if I have a really 721 00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:13,360 Speaker 1: good month or two. And I said, he was like, well, 722 00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:15,960 Speaker 1: it sounds like it makes sense. It's not like it 723 00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:18,000 Speaker 1: would take you five years to get this money back 724 00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:20,960 Speaker 1: that within a year you'd be right back where you were. 725 00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:24,200 Speaker 1: And it helped me make the decision to yes, let's 726 00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:28,239 Speaker 1: let's buy this home cash. So yeah, math is your 727 00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:32,279 Speaker 1: friend when you're afraid and you are suffering from post 728 00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:35,440 Speaker 1: traumatic broke syndrum, like me and Mandy math is going 729 00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:35,879 Speaker 1: to be your. 730 00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:39,359 Speaker 2: Friend, and consider if you don't, because sometimes when it's 731 00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:41,319 Speaker 2: coming from the person who wants some money, it's you know, 732 00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:43,839 Speaker 2: I understand it, it's it's you love each other. But 733 00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:46,440 Speaker 2: it can be awkward and it can cause arguments when 734 00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:48,200 Speaker 2: you try to talk about money, even if you are 735 00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:51,680 Speaker 2: completely right, because I've been there, I'm always right about money, right, 736 00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:56,200 Speaker 2: but hiring a financial planner for a couple hundred bucks, 737 00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:58,840 Speaker 2: you know, for you know, a couple hundred bucks, you know, 738 00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:02,360 Speaker 2: to have someone look at our finances and then basically 739 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:05,560 Speaker 2: tell husbe what everything that I had been saying. It 740 00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:08,520 Speaker 2: helped because it got it helped get have a third 741 00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:12,480 Speaker 2: party who was objective, independent, who you don't really know 742 00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:14,200 Speaker 2: so well, so you're not going to talk over them 743 00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:16,080 Speaker 2: and you listen like I feel like there was. It 744 00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:19,640 Speaker 2: really helped us communicate better, and we had someone who 745 00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:23,120 Speaker 2: was directing us versus us kind of arguing with one another. 746 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:25,480 Speaker 2: So you know, if you guys feel if you feel 747 00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:27,400 Speaker 2: like you're not really if he's not really hearing you, 748 00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:29,760 Speaker 2: even when you bring the bring the math to the table. 749 00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:32,600 Speaker 2: After what Tiff and I have said, you know, consider 750 00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:34,040 Speaker 2: that as an option, you don't have to hire a 751 00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:38,040 Speaker 2: financial planner for forever. Get a fee only planner, you 752 00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:41,160 Speaker 2: know who charges you an hourly rate just to have 753 00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:44,759 Speaker 2: the same kind of conversation and see if that helps. 754 00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:48,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. No, so yeah, I think that's a really good 755 00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:50,080 Speaker 1: idea too. It is. That's why I ask you know, 756 00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:52,279 Speaker 1: like I said, I asked more because sometimes you're right. 757 00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:56,160 Speaker 1: It is hard to get past your own kind of 758 00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:58,680 Speaker 1: like wall, and it's hard to hear from someone. I 759 00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:01,759 Speaker 1: feel like around the world are like rolling their eyes 760 00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:04,560 Speaker 1: because like somebody will tell me something and I'll come 761 00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:06,080 Speaker 1: home and be like, oh my god, superman. So I 762 00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:07,840 Speaker 1: was thinking we should do this. He's like, I just 763 00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:13,560 Speaker 1: I just I'm like, did you you know I'm the 764 00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:14,840 Speaker 1: worst of that. I'm like, did you say that? 765 00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:18,319 Speaker 2: So were sounded better when someone else said it? Yeah? 766 00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:23,080 Speaker 1: Ah so yeah, so maybe you need to, like if 767 00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:26,160 Speaker 1: you are cool with her family, like tell my wife. 768 00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:28,759 Speaker 1: So no, but yeah, those are really good. That was 769 00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:29,799 Speaker 1: really good advice. Manby. 770 00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:33,759 Speaker 2: Thank you all right, well, thank thank you James, thanks 771 00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,239 Speaker 2: for listening, get your wife to listen, bring her on 772 00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:40,279 Speaker 2: to the Brown Mission train. And to Simone, thanks for 773 00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:42,120 Speaker 2: your question too. Again, you guys hit us up at 774 00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:46,000 Speaker 2: Brownambission podcast dot com with your questions. We love taking them. 775 00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:48,279 Speaker 1: I just feel like you guys have been asking really 776 00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:51,000 Speaker 1: great questions. Sometimes I am always afraid every week, like 777 00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:52,959 Speaker 1: are they going to be like the same questions? But nope, 778 00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:55,520 Speaker 1: you know, all these years later, you guys bring dope 779 00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:56,360 Speaker 1: and awesome questions. 780 00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 2: So keep them coming, keep them coming, especially more. I 781 00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:02,640 Speaker 2: want more questions from small business owners and entrepreneurs. I 782 00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:04,719 Speaker 2: think that that's some of the most those are. That's 783 00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:06,120 Speaker 2: what I want to answer. That's what I want to 784 00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:06,840 Speaker 2: get into. 785 00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:12,520 Speaker 1: Because that's oh yeah, yes, bring it on, all. 786 00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:14,839 Speaker 2: Right, miss Tiff, another fabulous show. 787 00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:20,120 Speaker 1: Yes, and now it's signed to say goodbye to all 788 00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:23,320 Speaker 1: our companies. Name name that show, Mandy, let's see millennial. 789 00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:24,240 Speaker 1: Name the show. 790 00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:26,919 Speaker 2: This is Mickey Mounce Club. This is why we need 791 00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:29,960 Speaker 2: insurance because you're gonna get a sued for the rights 792 00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:31,000 Speaker 2: for singing these songs I. 793 00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:34,000 Speaker 1: Don't belong to us. Well, you know what, I only 794 00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:36,120 Speaker 1: did a line, and I think as long as you 795 00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:39,120 Speaker 1: sing it and we're not playing the actual recording, we 796 00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:39,920 Speaker 1: should be fine. 797 00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:41,600 Speaker 2: Okay, put me in my place. 798 00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:45,239 Speaker 1: Guy, I'm saying that, but I have no idea. 799 00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:49,080 Speaker 2: It sounds smart though, and you're not married to me, 800 00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:53,560 Speaker 2: so you obviously I trust you. 801 00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:01,319 Speaker 1: What I just said, that this is not from me, 802 00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:02,000 Speaker 1: well no,