WEBVTT - This Conduct Cannot be Tolerated 0:00:03.760 --> 0:00:05.600 That's what's good. 0:00:05.640 --> 0:00:07.040 Family. It's your girl to Mika d. 0:00:07.200 --> 0:00:11.119 Mallory and it's your boy my song the gentlemen, and 0:00:11.160 --> 0:00:11.720 we are. 0:00:11.720 --> 0:00:14.560 Your host of street Politicians. 0:00:13.760 --> 0:00:16.160 The place on the streets and politics. 0:00:16.200 --> 0:00:21.320 Me, mister Lennon, has been a good June teenth week. 0:00:22.320 --> 0:00:26.840 Yes, ma'am, very good, very good June teens, June teenth, 0:00:27.320 --> 0:00:30.080 shout out to you. You were honored at a Juneteenth 0:00:30.080 --> 0:00:36.320 event the other day and the Juneteenth Honors, and our 0:00:36.479 --> 0:00:40.800 sister mc like was the host of the night and 0:00:40.920 --> 0:00:44.519 she she was very educational. She gave a lot of 0:00:45.040 --> 0:00:48.440 different things educating people about Juneteenth that probably didn't know. 0:00:48.640 --> 0:00:50.519 If you didn't see the show, you should probably go 0:00:50.600 --> 0:00:52.320 check it out. It on FUSE channel. 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:54.640 The night. 0:00:56.880 --> 0:01:00.000 Yeah, Fuse TV, FEU TV. Go check the show out. 0:01:00.880 --> 0:01:03.800 Shout out to everybody who was honored. Chuck d was honored, 0:01:06.160 --> 0:01:08.200 my guy, my new. 0:01:08.000 --> 0:01:13.240 Best friend, well Herbie Handcott was also honored, yep. 0:01:14.840 --> 0:01:16.920 The president of Morris Brown College. 0:01:17.800 --> 0:01:19.959 President of Morris Brown College. 0:01:20.880 --> 0:01:23.320 I think. And then your new best friend. 0:01:23.760 --> 0:01:27.680 Yes, my new best friend, my boy Rohan Marley, who 0:01:27.760 --> 0:01:32.119 you know, we've been I've always admired him and respected 0:01:32.160 --> 0:01:34.200 that the legacy of the Mally's. But when we met 0:01:34.600 --> 0:01:35.720 it was like we were brothers. 0:01:35.760 --> 0:01:36.000 Man. 0:01:36.560 --> 0:01:40.000 And his energy is dope. He a tourist just like myself. 0:01:43.200 --> 0:01:46.959 Who Rohan Marley is. You shouldn't just assume everybody Maley. 0:01:47.480 --> 0:01:52.040 Rohan Marley is the son of Barb you know, also 0:01:52.160 --> 0:02:00.440 the the father of Lauren Hill's children as well. So 0:02:01.920 --> 0:02:04.280 he and he's a dope. He's just a dope individual. 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:04.520 Man. 0:02:04.560 --> 0:02:08.120 His energy is on high. You know, we were in 0:02:08.200 --> 0:02:10.120 this hotel. He ran up to me like, yo, I 0:02:10.160 --> 0:02:14.040 loved everything you do, you know, and we just clicked 0:02:14.040 --> 0:02:16.519 from there. Man. And he's and he loves the party. 0:02:17.320 --> 0:02:18.359 He loves to have a good time. 0:02:19.120 --> 0:02:21.720 He didn't even party that much though, No. 0:02:21.720 --> 0:02:25.000 But he's just chilling. He just loves the energy. He 0:02:25.160 --> 0:02:27.840 just he's one of those people that has beautiful energy. 0:02:27.880 --> 0:02:28.040 You know. 0:02:28.120 --> 0:02:30.840 We talked about a lot of different things. Man, So 0:02:32.200 --> 0:02:33.880 I really I really appreciate what it is. 0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:39.079 I wouldn't say sorry, I'm loving my my little nuts 0:02:39.080 --> 0:02:41.239 that they left me and excuse me. I guess I 0:02:41.240 --> 0:02:42.960 don't know if he's supposed to say, youlltow nuts. But 0:02:43.800 --> 0:02:47.640 the little fruit and peanuts that they left me in 0:02:47.680 --> 0:02:50.160 the hotel. So I've been over there munching on him. 0:02:50.720 --> 0:02:57.720 So anyway, whatever that is so twenty year old ish okay, 0:02:58.040 --> 0:03:01.520 and you are so damn nippit telling about somebody's pause. 0:03:01.960 --> 0:03:02.359 Of course. 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:07.320 Anyway, we ended up spending the evening with him and 0:03:07.400 --> 0:03:10.840 Hill Harper, who Hill Harper is a friend. 0:03:11.240 --> 0:03:12.560 Hill's already a friend. 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:18.320 We love Hill, and Hill was the presenter for Rohan's award, 0:03:18.800 --> 0:03:20.799 and so all of us were there together. 0:03:20.840 --> 0:03:21.800 It was a great event. 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:25.799 Ja Rul and Ashanti performed a whole concert at the end, 0:03:26.080 --> 0:03:30.639 their songs together, their individual songs. It was amazing. DJ 0:03:30.760 --> 0:03:33.760 had the people June teenth chilling, you know. And it 0:03:34.080 --> 0:03:36.360 was a good mixture at the event too, because you 0:03:36.520 --> 0:03:40.880 had the enjoyable things that we love our music, all 0:03:40.920 --> 0:03:45.200 of the craft, Leila Hathaway and her voice with one 0:03:45.240 --> 0:03:48.080 of the Wayian's sons. 0:03:48.120 --> 0:03:49.680 I don't know exactly which one it is. 0:03:49.720 --> 0:03:51.680 I missed his name, but we're gonna find out because 0:03:51.680 --> 0:03:53.680 he has a powerful song that I would love for 0:03:53.800 --> 0:03:55.120 us to make sure we uplift. 0:03:55.440 --> 0:03:57.120 So it was like a lot of great things and 0:03:57.200 --> 0:03:59.080 the show people should really check it out on Fuse. 0:03:59.360 --> 0:04:02.240 But what I was gonna say about Rohan is I'm 0:04:02.240 --> 0:04:04.160 sure he does love to party because he comes from 0:04:04.160 --> 0:04:07.480 the Marley family, like they are a music family, a 0:04:07.480 --> 0:04:10.760 soul family, a party family, a turn up family. 0:04:11.120 --> 0:04:12.600 That's who they are, right. 0:04:12.960 --> 0:04:18.680 But he wasn't even partying so much as he likes 0:04:18.720 --> 0:04:23.360 to hold court. And that is the thing that I 0:04:23.400 --> 0:04:30.840 appreciate about some of about some of the men and 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:33.920 people in general, because I love it about Cora masses Berry, 0:04:34.000 --> 0:04:38.240 which is the wife of the late Great Marion Barry 0:04:38.360 --> 0:04:44.000 DC Mayor. These are people who've had such experiences and 0:04:44.279 --> 0:04:47.400 or they come from such a legacy that when they're 0:04:47.440 --> 0:04:51.400 holding court they're able to draw you into their storytelling 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:54.560 by telling you about things you don't know, giving you 0:04:54.640 --> 0:04:56.600 the history of stuff, telling you that we were talking 0:04:56.640 --> 0:04:59.520 about a whole different situation, and he had a whole 0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:03.960 other side to a conversation that we asked about and 0:05:04.000 --> 0:05:06.400 what it's. By the time he was finished explaining it, 0:05:06.600 --> 0:05:11.720 we laughed one like hell because he's hilarious. 0:05:11.920 --> 0:05:12.960 But also. 0:05:14.240 --> 0:05:16.440 Even though he was being funny, what he was saying 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:19.680 was some real shit about like black people and how 0:05:20.040 --> 0:05:23.919 we always think somebody else's ice is colder than the 0:05:23.960 --> 0:05:27.120 ice that's right here. It's already freezing your drink, but 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:29.440 you over there trying to get to do ice or 0:05:29.440 --> 0:05:33.000 the other people's ice or the clearer ice, instead of 0:05:33.080 --> 0:05:36.200 working with your own people. And even though he was 0:05:36.240 --> 0:05:40.640 saying funny things, when you think about the reality of 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:45.120 his message, it's so true. And I love people like that, 0:05:45.120 --> 0:05:49.800 that they are able to articulate, make you laugh but also. 0:05:49.600 --> 0:05:50.200 Make you think. 0:05:50.240 --> 0:05:55.080 And so Rowan to me, I mean you, I've not 0:05:55.240 --> 0:05:58.080 met many Marley's, but I have been in rooms where 0:05:58.120 --> 0:06:02.520 there have been other family members of Bob Marley's, and 0:06:02.640 --> 0:06:06.440 one thing that is so clear is that that family 0:06:06.800 --> 0:06:11.960 is full of brilliant people. Like these people, they came 0:06:12.000 --> 0:06:15.080 from greatness, you know, and I think we we we 0:06:15.120 --> 0:06:16.880 got to see a lot of that up close and 0:06:16.920 --> 0:06:18.719 personal with Rohan. 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:20.520 Your best. 0:06:20.960 --> 0:06:22.839 We gotta he said, he want to come on the show, 0:06:22.880 --> 0:06:24.760 so we gotta have him on the show. That'll be 0:06:24.800 --> 0:06:25.200 a dope in. 0:06:26.560 --> 0:06:29.599 And maybe he learned how to say June teenth, June. 0:06:29.800 --> 0:06:32.400 Tenth, June teenth, that that was the joke of the night. 0:06:32.880 --> 0:06:38.200 He said, I'm Jamaican, I can say June and teenth. 0:06:38.279 --> 0:06:38.479 Yeah. 0:06:38.520 --> 0:06:41.039 It was really good. The event, it's great. Please check 0:06:41.080 --> 0:06:42.039 it out again. 0:06:42.080 --> 0:06:45.279 It's on fu TV and it's on demand now you 0:06:45.320 --> 0:06:46.320 can find the show. 0:06:46.440 --> 0:06:48.159 It was a beautiful, beautiful moment. 0:06:48.440 --> 0:06:53.440 The Juneteenth Foundation presented Juneteenth Honors. 0:06:53.480 --> 0:06:54.600 This is their third year. 0:06:55.560 --> 0:07:02.120 And as you said, our sister mc lights was the. 0:07:00.440 --> 0:07:01.280 The the host. 0:07:01.880 --> 0:07:06.039 She also and the mc she was the host, and 0:07:06.120 --> 0:07:08.960 I guess what, mc light is also funny, so that 0:07:09.040 --> 0:07:10.840 it's gonna be it's gonna be a good show. 0:07:10.880 --> 0:07:12.560 So I well, it is a good show, so make 0:07:12.600 --> 0:07:13.320 sure you check it out. 0:07:13.680 --> 0:07:19.840 Also, I think I don't know if it was specifically 0:07:20.240 --> 0:07:25.440 a Juneteenth event, but my girlfriend, uh, someone who's also 0:07:25.600 --> 0:07:28.160 coordinated you being involved in a lot of black mail 0:07:28.240 --> 0:07:35.360 initiative stuff, especially with Lewis Carr, who has been the 0:07:35.400 --> 0:07:37.960 head of I think that the not chief marketing but 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:39.640 the chief financial officer. 0:07:39.640 --> 0:07:42.120 Anyway, he raises massive money at b e T. 0:07:42.680 --> 0:07:45.840 He's in charge of like all the sponsorship dollars and 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:48.640 and you know, the corporate partners and what have you 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:55.080 at at b ET and she, Yvonne McNair, helped to 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:57.800 facilitate you being involved with some of his black mail 0:07:57.880 --> 0:07:59.080 initiative work. 0:08:00.360 --> 0:08:02.040 Which they do every year. 0:08:03.040 --> 0:08:08.640 And she honored me at the Black Independence Awards, so 0:08:08.880 --> 0:08:13.200 you know, same time period Juneteenth, looking at our independence 0:08:13.240 --> 0:08:17.200 and emancipation, and it also was a very fabulous event. 0:08:18.080 --> 0:08:22.240 And you know, I think that I've been talking in 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:27.160 all of my speeches for Juneteenth. I've been speaking for 0:08:28.000 --> 0:08:33.199 every day for the last two weeks about the Juneteenth 0:08:33.360 --> 0:08:37.240 Holiday and what it means. And I think the biggest 0:08:37.320 --> 0:08:41.280 message is this idea that still some of our people 0:08:41.280 --> 0:08:44.480 don't know that we're free right because of their conditions, 0:08:44.520 --> 0:08:47.680 because of what they experience every day, it sure doesn't 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:50.520 feel like freedom, and there's so much more of a 0:08:50.559 --> 0:08:51.360 fight to go. 0:08:51.960 --> 0:08:54.719 We asked for reparations, they gave us a. 0:08:54.679 --> 0:08:58.120 Holiday, but it's our responsibility to take that holiday and 0:08:58.200 --> 0:09:02.760 turn it into the continuation of the fight for reparations. 0:09:02.840 --> 0:09:05.920 And I think that's the message, is that Juneteenth is 0:09:05.920 --> 0:09:08.120 not a day off, but it's a day on to 0:09:08.280 --> 0:09:11.120 get ourselves organized for the fight to make sure that 0:09:14.240 --> 0:09:19.439 for the fight, to make sure that what has happened 0:09:19.440 --> 0:09:24.000 to us on American soil, that there is repair for 0:09:24.080 --> 0:09:26.600 the damage, because certainly damage has been. 0:09:26.440 --> 0:09:28.760 Caused, definitely man. 0:09:28.800 --> 0:09:33.400 And this weekend was also Father's Day, you know, so 0:09:33.679 --> 0:09:38.319 shout out to Father's Day. I did two marches shout 0:09:38.320 --> 0:09:41.920 out to my boy Hunk Team Hunk in Harlem. We 0:09:41.920 --> 0:09:47.240 did a big rally to declare most of the basketball tournaments. 0:09:47.400 --> 0:09:50.920 We marched about a good twenty to thirty blocks to 0:09:50.960 --> 0:09:53.240 each to each of the tournaments that are going to 0:09:53.280 --> 0:09:55.840 be starting next week to declare them safe havens and 0:09:55.880 --> 0:09:58.400 you know, and to make sure that the kids are 0:09:58.440 --> 0:10:00.880 able to be safe out there. Don't want any guns, 0:10:00.920 --> 0:10:03.240 We don't want any violence, you know, and we wanted 0:10:03.240 --> 0:10:05.760 to declare that. So you know, we let a march 0:10:06.160 --> 0:10:09.040 on Saturday that did that and also shout out to 0:10:09.040 --> 0:10:10.040 my brother eighteen Mitchell. 0:10:10.040 --> 0:10:13.240 I was not able to actually be there, but he did. 0:10:13.040 --> 0:10:18.079 His annual Father's Day Walk which the mayor and others attended. 0:10:18.480 --> 0:10:20.920 You know, was suited and booted. Everybody was suited up, 0:10:21.320 --> 0:10:23.400 so that was a great event. You know, I usually 0:10:23.440 --> 0:10:26.040 go to his event, but I already obligated to be 0:10:26.600 --> 0:10:30.160 the marshal of this rally that we did, so, you know, 0:10:30.200 --> 0:10:33.440 shout out to him. And then on Father's Day Counselman 0:10:33.559 --> 0:10:36.840 Rally in the Bronx, we did a march there on 0:10:37.000 --> 0:10:39.520 Father's there Father's Day walk in which we did there. 0:10:39.559 --> 0:10:41.760 So it was it was a busy weekend just seeing 0:10:42.040 --> 0:10:46.400 strong men together with their children. You know, we celebrated us, 0:10:46.559 --> 0:10:49.520 the fathers celebrated each other man, So that was it 0:10:49.559 --> 0:10:50.320 was a dope weekend. 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:52.000 That's as you should. 0:10:52.320 --> 0:10:55.760 So just make sure that folks are aware of keeping 0:10:55.800 --> 0:10:59.880 people up on the news. The man who choked Jordan 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:03.880 nearly to death was indicted, so you know, he was 0:11:04.040 --> 0:11:07.360 arrested in charged. First of all, he was taken in 0:11:07.440 --> 0:11:12.120 for questioning release, and then we went buck fool crazy 0:11:12.760 --> 0:11:16.280 on everybody to say that that man should have been arrested. 0:11:16.400 --> 0:11:19.360 Even if you think that the facts will come out 0:11:19.760 --> 0:11:26.480 to support his theory or his statements that they felt 0:11:26.520 --> 0:11:30.200 threatened on the train, even if you think that that's true, 0:11:30.400 --> 0:11:33.319 he still should have to face a court of his 0:11:33.520 --> 0:11:39.640 peers that will determine if they also believe right that 0:11:39.720 --> 0:11:43.040 they will decide if what he did, just like. 0:11:43.040 --> 0:11:45.600 Anybody else, if I shot somebody in my house, if 0:11:45.640 --> 0:11:48.280 I shot somebody in my house right now, or not 0:11:48.360 --> 0:11:51.280 in my house, if I shot somebody outside, even though 0:11:51.280 --> 0:11:53.679 if I'm a legal gun on or whatever, I would 0:11:53.679 --> 0:11:56.560 have to prove in the court of Lord. Not my words. 0:11:56.640 --> 0:11:58.440 Is just not going to be like, hey, he did 0:11:58.440 --> 0:12:02.280 something to me without any video without anything that I'm 0:12:02.280 --> 0:12:04.600 just gonna walk off without being skinny. No, you're gonna 0:12:04.600 --> 0:12:07.240 be charged, and then you're gonna have to present evidence 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:10.720 that shows that you that you were right, You were 0:12:10.880 --> 0:12:12.920 justified for taking someone's life. 0:12:13.160 --> 0:12:15.400 Right, And the police were not even intending to do that. 0:12:15.400 --> 0:12:17.760 I don't know how people don't see the problems with policing. 0:12:17.840 --> 0:12:20.240 But anyway, they weren't. 0:12:20.760 --> 0:12:21.920 That's a whole other ship. 0:12:22.840 --> 0:12:24.680 Right, they weren't. They weren't even trying to do that. 0:12:24.720 --> 0:12:28.120 They just let the man go home. But and and 0:12:28.120 --> 0:12:31.240 and and. 0:12:30.080 --> 0:12:33.240 The officials in not all of them, but we have 0:12:33.360 --> 0:12:39.080 to say Mayor Adams, the level of uh, like how 0:12:39.160 --> 0:12:42.640 quick they just the tone was like even even the 0:12:42.679 --> 0:12:46.920 governor the first day, Kathy Hockel. The tone was as 0:12:47.040 --> 0:12:52.960 if people were just so sure that mental illness caused 0:12:53.000 --> 0:12:56.800 the situation and that it's more than likely that this 0:12:56.920 --> 0:13:00.440 man was defending and protecting people. I mean, that was 0:13:00.480 --> 0:13:05.040 the energy that folks were given until more details came out, 0:13:05.360 --> 0:13:09.760 until more people organize. And so now a jury, a 0:13:09.800 --> 0:13:14.600 grand jury, has heard some evidence, and clearly they also 0:13:14.720 --> 0:13:17.959 agreed that the man should go before a court of 0:13:18.080 --> 0:13:21.240 law so that the courts can determine what he did 0:13:21.280 --> 0:13:22.840 and what he didn't do, and why he did it, 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:25.520 and whether or not it was justified or not. I mean, 0:13:25.600 --> 0:13:28.600 we just want simple shit. We just want simple things, 0:13:28.960 --> 0:13:33.760 so that that's the deal with that. So also the 0:13:33.960 --> 0:13:35.840 and by the way, he raised two million, more than 0:13:35.840 --> 0:13:39.559 two million dollars, so they're you know, there, there's there's that. 0:13:40.040 --> 0:13:41.800 So there's been this whole thing going on. 0:13:41.840 --> 0:13:46.040 And let me tell you, I only educated myself because 0:13:46.120 --> 0:13:50.400 our sister Teslain Figureo posted something about how she wanted 0:13:50.440 --> 0:13:56.400 to talk about the issue of Sukiyana aka Suki with 0:13:56.520 --> 0:14:01.600 the Good Kuchi and why k O Cyrus who I 0:14:01.640 --> 0:14:04.920 don't know anything about what he does. I don't know 0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:08.240 anything much about Sukie with the Good Kuchi either, except 0:14:08.320 --> 0:14:12.880 I watched her interview on the Breakfast Club, and I 0:14:12.920 --> 0:14:15.360 saw many clips out there when she was talking about 0:14:15.400 --> 0:14:18.240 like how you know, people want her to say like 0:14:18.320 --> 0:14:21.840 she's gay, and she's not trying to say she's gay, 0:14:21.880 --> 0:14:25.440 she's just you know, like a lot of the younger generation, 0:14:25.600 --> 0:14:28.120 they kind of feel like they just free so that 0:14:28.280 --> 0:14:29.680 so I did watch a little bit of that, and 0:14:29.680 --> 0:14:31.360 that was the first time I kind of learned anything 0:14:31.360 --> 0:14:33.800 about her so this is a real new thing. I 0:14:33.920 --> 0:14:37.240 still don't know why they what show they were on, 0:14:37.360 --> 0:14:42.120 or what happened, but I do know that or I 0:14:42.160 --> 0:14:44.200 saw the images of him trying to kiss her in 0:14:44.200 --> 0:14:47.240 her mouth, and then. 0:14:47.080 --> 0:14:51.160 You posted about it, so so you know, I get it. 0:14:51.240 --> 0:14:53.160 I get the essence of it, but I'm a little 0:14:53.200 --> 0:14:54.600 bit lost on the details. 0:14:54.840 --> 0:14:57.000 Well, I mean details is pretty much what you've seen 0:14:57.080 --> 0:14:57.520 on the tape. 0:14:57.560 --> 0:14:57.720 You know. 0:14:58.520 --> 0:15:01.400 I believe they were hosting some type of basketball game 0:15:01.560 --> 0:15:04.240 or some type of event that they were at, and 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:09.960 sexual conversation broke out, and based on their conversation, he 0:15:10.080 --> 0:15:12.520 took it as a challenge, which I don't know why, 0:15:13.000 --> 0:15:15.160 and he decided to try to kiss in the mouth 0:15:15.360 --> 0:15:18.360 two times, and you see her moving away with this 0:15:18.600 --> 0:15:21.280 kind of a shock look on face. He laughed, everybody 0:15:21.280 --> 0:15:26.760 else laughed it off, you know, and social media. At 0:15:26.800 --> 0:15:29.280 first there was no comment from either side at all, 0:15:29.800 --> 0:15:32.800 and then after the day of social media constantly, you know, 0:15:32.920 --> 0:15:37.520 then she she released some statements basically, you know, saying 0:15:37.520 --> 0:15:39.800 that what happened to her, she was hurt and she 0:15:39.920 --> 0:15:42.520 was taking time to process, you know. Then he came 0:15:42.560 --> 0:15:45.760 out with an apology, and then her mother responded pretty 0:15:45.840 --> 0:15:48.280 much like, fucked that, apologies on when we see you, 0:15:48.520 --> 0:15:51.680 you know. And it's been this big debate online, you know, 0:15:52.040 --> 0:15:56.360 basically just about Sukiana, which we've had these conversations before 0:15:56.440 --> 0:16:00.000 Old Time, which was about Sukiana and the imagery she portrayed. 0:16:00.400 --> 0:16:03.480 Her music and her image is sexual in nature, you know, 0:16:03.600 --> 0:16:08.200 and it is over there. Yes, she's an artist, and 0:16:08.320 --> 0:16:12.400 it's very she has I don't know if you know Poundtown. 0:16:13.240 --> 0:16:16.280 I don't know if you ever heard Poundtown. I don't 0:16:16.280 --> 0:16:19.360 know if you but it's it's very, very explicit, and 0:16:19.440 --> 0:16:21.760 she talks about sex. She does a lot of sexual 0:16:21.800 --> 0:16:27.200 things on her Instagram, on her social media, most of 0:16:27.200 --> 0:16:30.240 her interviews are very sexual nature. Everything she does is 0:16:30.280 --> 0:16:32.880 pretty much very sexual. So a lot of people were 0:16:32.920 --> 0:16:35.200 saying that, well, this is the energy she invites, and 0:16:35.240 --> 0:16:37.280 there was this big debate, and what I just went 0:16:37.360 --> 0:16:39.640 on my page is it was talking to the men. 0:16:40.000 --> 0:16:43.120 You know, what I've learned about from being around you guys, 0:16:43.480 --> 0:16:48.800 A lot is that I don't get to okay, I'm sorry, 0:16:48.960 --> 0:16:52.160 being around you ladies, you know, is that I don't 0:16:52.160 --> 0:16:56.280 get to man explain what women need to do. My 0:16:57.000 --> 0:16:59.480 job was to talk to men, and I just wanted 0:16:59.480 --> 0:17:03.200 them to under staying that there's no time where you 0:17:03.600 --> 0:17:06.240 are in control of any sexual encounter with the women. 0:17:06.600 --> 0:17:08.399 And that's just the reality of what it is. And 0:17:08.440 --> 0:17:11.840 you have to be very mindful of that. You can't assume, 0:17:12.560 --> 0:17:16.760 you can't misread a situation. You can't touch a woman 0:17:16.840 --> 0:17:21.280 because you believe that she's she said something that other 0:17:21.359 --> 0:17:24.840 than touch me. You know that there has to be 0:17:24.920 --> 0:17:29.800 real understanding because these situations can be very detrimental to men. 0:17:30.080 --> 0:17:35.399 Society has has evolved in that regard, you know. I 0:17:35.480 --> 0:17:38.199 was talking about how back in the days, you know, 0:17:38.280 --> 0:17:42.120 you will see love scenes where a man walked into 0:17:42.119 --> 0:17:45.200 the room, he looked at women in her eyes and 0:17:45.320 --> 0:17:47.160 he grabs her by the arms and she said no, 0:17:47.200 --> 0:17:49.320 get off me, and he kissed her and then she 0:17:49.359 --> 0:17:52.000 said no, no, and then she kissed her back, and 0:17:52.040 --> 0:17:55.080 that was sort of the thing. That's not the thing 0:17:55.160 --> 0:17:58.359 no more. That is sexual assault, and it is raped 0:17:58.400 --> 0:18:01.080 now and we have to evolve, we have to understand 0:18:01.119 --> 0:18:04.440 those things, you know, and a lot of people, most 0:18:04.440 --> 0:18:06.800 people agree, but then there are women saying, oh, you're 0:18:06.840 --> 0:18:09.600 trying to act like he is a victim, and this 0:18:09.640 --> 0:18:10.000 and that. 0:18:09.920 --> 0:18:11.560 And I'm like, I don't understand what you mean. 0:18:11.840 --> 0:18:15.520 I'm talking about the reality of where we are in society. 0:18:15.920 --> 0:18:19.640 Men do not control any sexual ENCOUNTERSS and and if 0:18:19.800 --> 0:18:22.159 our men, if we're not educating our men to that 0:18:22.320 --> 0:18:26.000 understand that they can't afford to be wrong about situations, 0:18:26.400 --> 0:18:28.160 then what do you what do you want us to do? 0:18:28.359 --> 0:18:28.560 You know? 0:18:28.640 --> 0:18:31.439 And I also said to women some of the women like, 0:18:31.840 --> 0:18:35.920 I don't I don't appreciate the fact that you're trying 0:18:35.960 --> 0:18:39.520 to women explain me how to talk to men, you know, like, like, 0:18:40.520 --> 0:18:43.280 I've given the grace when I hear women talking about 0:18:43.359 --> 0:18:44.440 women should do it, I don't. 0:18:44.480 --> 0:18:46.520 I no longer say what she should do. 0:18:46.920 --> 0:18:50.200 It doesn't matter what my opinion is of her, of 0:18:50.320 --> 0:18:53.320 how she presents herself. It doesn't matter, you know what 0:18:53.359 --> 0:18:55.960 I'm saying. The reality of the situation is she I 0:18:55.960 --> 0:18:59.120 don't give for how she presents herself. No man has 0:18:59.160 --> 0:19:02.760 the right to invade her space and to force himself 0:19:02.960 --> 0:19:05.359 to kiss or do anything else, you know. So when 0:19:05.400 --> 0:19:07.320 women were coming to me like, wow, you're trying to 0:19:07.320 --> 0:19:10.080 make it seem like, no, I'm talking to men. I 0:19:10.119 --> 0:19:13.040 have three sons, right, and that this is the conversation 0:19:13.080 --> 0:19:15.439 I'm gonna have to them is that you have to 0:19:15.440 --> 0:19:18.520 be very aware because there is a double like there's 0:19:18.560 --> 0:19:22.719 a double less world. Yes, there are situations where you 0:19:22.760 --> 0:19:25.639 can be aggressive, you can be doing something wrong, you 0:19:25.640 --> 0:19:27.960 can be there. But there are also situations where you 0:19:28.000 --> 0:19:31.080 are a successful man and a person a woman who 0:19:31.160 --> 0:19:35.919 has who has malicious intent can utilize that to get you. 0:19:36.720 --> 0:19:39.119 So you have to be aware of either of those situations. 0:19:39.200 --> 0:19:42.040 So the best way is just don't do it. That's 0:19:42.160 --> 0:19:44.520 the best way to be aware of it, you know. 0:19:44.640 --> 0:19:46.600 So that that's the online conversation. 0:19:47.000 --> 0:19:50.560 I don't see anything wrong with what you're saying, because 0:19:51.680 --> 0:19:55.240 it is true that men have to be taught that 0:19:55.440 --> 0:19:57.760 one they need to. 0:19:59.320 --> 0:20:01.680 Not try to read the room. You don't got to 0:20:01.720 --> 0:20:02.240 read the room. 0:20:03.040 --> 0:20:06.639 You gotta at this point, based upon the fact that 0:20:06.680 --> 0:20:10.359 there are people out here who claim that they have 0:20:11.119 --> 0:20:14.440 and it has been done, that they have been falsely 0:20:14.480 --> 0:20:18.840 accused and it has absolutely happened, right, and we've seen 0:20:18.880 --> 0:20:24.600 even more of folks claiming they're being falsely accused and 0:20:24.720 --> 0:20:29.480 women saying no, this was rape, and now trying to 0:20:29.560 --> 0:20:32.919 determine and define the lines of clarity, and all of 0:20:32.960 --> 0:20:36.280 that has become a big part of the public discourse. 0:20:36.600 --> 0:20:40.920 That's a fact, right, And so don't read the room 0:20:41.600 --> 0:20:46.080 because you may read wrong. No, for sure, it is 0:20:46.160 --> 0:20:51.080 nothing wrong with having a conversation with somebody and being 0:20:51.160 --> 0:20:54.720 clear about what they want and a direction that you're 0:20:54.760 --> 0:20:55.560 going to go in. 0:20:56.080 --> 0:20:58.440 And in the situation that I saw, just a little 0:20:58.480 --> 0:21:00.119 bit that I understand. 0:20:59.560 --> 0:21:04.240 About it, the brother tried to read the energy that 0:21:04.320 --> 0:21:08.720 he thought was there and wasn't really sure about what 0:21:08.800 --> 0:21:12.000 she was or was not willing to do. And by 0:21:12.080 --> 0:21:16.440 the way, despite whatever conversation they may have been having, 0:21:16.480 --> 0:21:17.400 they was talking shit. 0:21:18.240 --> 0:21:24.680 Keep key, you don't touch me in public in front 0:21:24.720 --> 0:21:25.159 of people. 0:21:25.200 --> 0:21:27.879 You don't know what my situation is, because by the 0:21:27.920 --> 0:21:32.760 way it sounds to me again, I'm I'm speaking completely 0:21:32.800 --> 0:21:35.680 without knowing either one of these people, really and only 0:21:35.720 --> 0:21:40.679 watching one short clip of this particular young woman. So 0:21:40.800 --> 0:21:43.439 I'm in the best position, I think, to give my 0:21:43.560 --> 0:21:45.920 opinion because I don't even know about all of this 0:21:45.960 --> 0:21:48.200 stuff about her sexy and this, this, that and the third. 0:21:48.280 --> 0:21:51.720 I'm just going on a little bit of information. What 0:21:51.840 --> 0:21:56.640 I know is that people have images. Right, I'll give 0:21:56.640 --> 0:21:59.440 you a perfect well, I won't say the person's name. 0:21:59.800 --> 0:22:02.960 But there's a guy that is on the internet that 0:22:04.119 --> 0:22:10.040 until recently most people had no idea how intelligent and 0:22:10.200 --> 0:22:13.280 intellectual he is and the way he speaks and the 0:22:13.320 --> 0:22:15.000 things that he says, which he still does that all 0:22:15.000 --> 0:22:17.600