1 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:06,400 Speaker 1: Okay, we got another video to react to. I don't 2 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 1: know where you find these. 3 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 2: Well, TikTok. A scroll on TikTok. My algorithm is feeding 4 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 2: me some good content right now. 5 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 1: I like this, all right, play it. 6 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 2: The thing about TikTok real quick though, thing about TikTok. 7 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 2: It can be all over the place too. You can 8 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 2: be going along, you can have some great church videos, 9 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 2: you can get some deep theology going along, and then 10 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 2: there's the husband and wife that tell a dirty joke 11 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:32,919 Speaker 2: and then it flips back. It's like, how did that 12 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 2: get in there? That's so random? 13 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 1: Something I have to do with China. I guess the 14 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 1: title on this all I could see is the title says, 15 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:46,560 Speaker 1: this one habit could change how you fight temptation piqued 16 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:48,479 Speaker 1: your interest yet, Okay, let me hear it here. 17 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:50,319 Speaker 3: It is. Have you ever been in a situation where 18 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 3: it's like, Okay, I'm watching porn and I feel bad, 19 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 3: and it's like, oh, I probably should just turn this off, 20 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 3: but you decide to just keep on doing it because 21 00:00:57,320 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 3: it's like I'm already in it. I'm already in it, 22 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 3: so I as well just keep going right, Well, you're 23 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 3: in sin at that point right, But there are things 24 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:06,959 Speaker 3: that you can do even at that stage. I'll give 25 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 3: you one of the ones that I the Lord showed me. 26 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 3: It's like complete, God's merciful. He is merciful, bro. But 27 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:14,759 Speaker 3: I you know, so the Lord gave me this. This 28 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 3: I'm giving you. I'm giving you some real, real stuff. 29 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 3: But there's a point when I was going through my 30 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:22,960 Speaker 3: process where the Lord gave me this idea about creating 31 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 3: essentially what it's called or talk me down video. And 32 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 3: this is for the moments where I don't have the 33 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:33,960 Speaker 3: strength to correct myself. So I'm not in the mindset 34 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 3: to be able to say, you know what, I'm not 35 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 3: gonna do this. I can't pray, I don't want to pray, 36 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:40,680 Speaker 3: I don't want to read my Bible. I'm just not there, right. 37 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 3: But what the Lord showed me was that you don't 38 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 3: have to be there in that moment. You can actually 39 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 3: do something prior to the instance and it'll be just 40 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 3: as powerful as if you were in that space. So 41 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 3: the Lord told me to create what's essentially called a 42 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 3: talk me down video, which is a time where I 43 00:01:57,040 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 3: am super sober, like in my mind super sober, and 44 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 3: I actually went to the extent of like praying and 45 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 3: like having a really deep time with the Lord before 46 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 3: doing this, And I actually recorded a video of myself 47 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:14,519 Speaker 3: encouraging myself and basically coaching myself out of walking in sin. 48 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 3: So I was literally telling myself, like, Bro, you know 49 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 3: what this is going to lead to. You know what 50 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 3: ends up getting you to this point. I know how 51 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 3: you feel right now. You feel like you just want 52 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 3: to do X, Y or Z. But this is the 53 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 3: reason why you shouldn't do it. Remember, this is what 54 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:29,799 Speaker 3: God has called you to. This is what God has 55 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 3: for you in the future. And if you do it right, 56 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 3: if you allow yourself to literally allow the spirit of 57 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:39,519 Speaker 3: God to like infuse this conversation that you have with yourself. 58 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 3: You put it on your phone and you say you 59 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:45,959 Speaker 3: don't watch it over, you just save it. And in 60 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 3: the moment of temptation, when you're at that point where 61 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:50,959 Speaker 3: you're in sin, right, you're like, you got the website 62 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 3: up and you're like, I want to stop. I haven't 63 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 3: gone all the way, but I just don't know how. 64 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 3: If you play that video, I promise you it will 65 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 3: suck the air out of the ta. It sucks, like 66 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:04,799 Speaker 3: I believe it, Bro, how about that. 67 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's I mean, it's solid to be 68 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:10,080 Speaker 1: able to think through ideas like this. You and I 69 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 1: have run into a lot of questions about this. I mean, 70 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 1: porn is devastating. It's devastating, and it has to be eradicated. 71 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:23,639 Speaker 1: You have to fight it like a war, like you're 72 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:28,079 Speaker 1: in a war. So yeah, A couple thoughts, just initial reactions. 73 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:31,519 Speaker 1: I hope that in that video he's making there is 74 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 1: there's the concept that Christ died for sin, died died 75 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 1: for sin to not not only like a like a 76 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 1: in a way that we would think a painful, bloody death, 77 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 1: but in a way that he absorbed the wrath of God. 78 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 1: So when you read through the Old Testament and you 79 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 1: see the wrath of God coming down on people or 80 00:03:56,840 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 1: towns or cities or all, this wrath, this this stored 81 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 1: up wrath, as Paul says in Romans, is all directed 82 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 1: towards that the person of Christ for that porn addiction. 83 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 2: Yep. 84 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: So I hope that that that's in the video say that. 85 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 2: In that talk me down video and talk me down video. 86 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 1: A couple of thoughts. I also, like, I thought, Man, 87 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 1: if this guy's married, the wife should be in the 88 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 1: talk Me Down video? 89 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh absolutely, you think about that? 90 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:34,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, if you are in that, if if you're 91 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:37,479 Speaker 1: in a battle where you're you actually want to defeat 92 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 1: this and sin, bring bring your mom if you're not married, 93 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:45,719 Speaker 1: and your wife if you are married, and say hey, 94 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 1: here we are watching you. 95 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 96 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:53,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. So so there's that, And there's also the idea 97 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:57,679 Speaker 1: of would would a person do that, Would they click 98 00:04:57,720 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 1: on that video or would they think I know that 99 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:02,360 Speaker 1: video is in my photo album, go in there. 100 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 2: It depends. I think it depends on how serious you 101 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:06,040 Speaker 2: are about defeating the sin and fighting this. 102 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:09,280 Speaker 1: War, because then if you're if you are that serious, 103 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 1: there's other things like you need to go to a 104 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 1: flip phone. 105 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 2: There you go. 106 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's like a go to the flip phone. I've 107 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 1: heard I've heard guys say that they could change their 108 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 1: setting to black and white. 109 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:22,720 Speaker 2: That's what I was about to say. I've seen that. Yeah, 110 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 2: I've seen a guy. I noticed his phone was black 111 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 2: and he told me, he goes, yeah, I have a 112 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 2: problem with born. Yeah, and this takes most of the 113 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 2: the enticement out of it. 114 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 1: Yeah. 115 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 2: Interesting. 116 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 1: And then there's also the Covenant Eyes dot com. You 117 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: and I have talked about before. It's it's a this 118 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 1: is a an organization that will take your IP addresses 119 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 1: on your computer and your phone, and if you go 120 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 1: to one of those compromising websites, it sends a notification 121 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 1: to your safety crew, your mom, your girlfriend, your your wife, 122 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 1: accountability group, accountability group, for sure, it says, Bob, visit 123 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 1: this website at this time and send it to mom. Yeah, 124 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 1: so that's and and then there's other way. There's there's 125 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 1: more practical accountability ways where you text your accountability buddy 126 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 1: and you say, tonight, I feel compromised tonight. I'm gonna 127 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:18,640 Speaker 1: text you at seven o'clock tomorrow morning and tell you 128 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 1: what happened. And then the accountability buddy says, don't do it. 129 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 1: I'll wait to hear from you at seven. Yeah, you know, 130 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 1: And then seven am, how was last night? It was defeated, 131 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 1: you know, or whatever. I think the point what I'm 132 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:34,599 Speaker 1: talking about here is that we should fight these things 133 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:38,720 Speaker 1: with every piece of weaponry we could come up with. 134 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:40,599 Speaker 1: And if that if that guy, I think that's a 135 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 1: good idea, and if that's something that works for him, yeah, fantastic. 136 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 2: I love that whole idea of a time when you 137 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 2: know that you're strong, when you feel when you're in 138 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 2: the Lord's press. Of course, taking that opportunity to fight 139 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 2: the battle before the battle comes to you. We've talked 140 00:06:56,480 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 2: about being on the offensive, being an offensive Christian, taking 141 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 2: the battle to or taking the fight to the battle. 142 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 2: And rather than waiting for it to come at you. 143 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 2: And if you wait for it to come at you, 144 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:10,119 Speaker 2: it's only looking for you at your most compromised time. 145 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 2: It's not coming at you when you're strong. It doesn't 146 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 2: come at you Sunday morning when your group of believers 147 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 2: is around you at church. Holy that's right. It comes 148 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 2: at things like this come at you when you are 149 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 2: tired and you're hungry, and you're your run down and 150 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 2: you haven't been in the Word and you have. Boy, 151 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 2: if you start your day and the Word and you 152 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 2: start you and I were talking about that this before 153 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 2: this conversation on camera. But starting your day in repentance, 154 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 2: not repenting after something happens, but start your day by 155 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 2: turning from the world and turning to God. This is 156 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 2: another great I mean, you find yourself in a situation 157 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 2: that you and it doesn't have to be just pornography. 158 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 2: It can be anything that you struggle with that you 159 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:57,600 Speaker 2: need to help talking down, make one of those for yourself. 160 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 1: That's great. You know in water safety that Amber and 161 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 1: I speak a bunch about It's it's always about layers 162 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 1: we talk about We talk about it in terms of 163 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 1: layers of protection. Just one thing is not enough, But 164 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:12,480 Speaker 1: the more layers you add to protect yourself, the better 165 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 1: chance you have of avoiding or defeating the problem. 166 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 2: That's good. 167 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 1: This is a good layer. That's a great layer. Thanks 168 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 1: for the video.