WEBVTT - “DON’T SLEEP WITH A PILOT”

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Hi, Hey, what's some of them?

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<v Speaker 2>Not much? Who is this? My name is Stephanie, Stephanie.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up, Stephanie? How are you doing tonight? What you

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<v Speaker 2>wanna talk about?

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<v Speaker 3>Ship?

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<v Speaker 1>There's there's a couple of things. I don't know what's

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<v Speaker 1>more entertaining to talk about, to be honest, because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't wanna Yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what, I don't you know what I want.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to nip this in the bud really quickly

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<v Speaker 2>and and normal normally I'll say this too normally. I

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'm like when I'm talking to callers, I

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<v Speaker 2>am in a mindset of like, let's try our best.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's like steer the conversation in a way that's entertaining

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<v Speaker 2>to the people who are spending their time listening to this.

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<v Speaker 2>But something about in this moment right now, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>fuck it, let's you. It's you and me, Stephanie. Let's

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<v Speaker 2>talk about whatever the fuck you'll want to talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I don't care about If we could talk

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<v Speaker 2>about your fucking grass and we're fine.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really nice of you.

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<v Speaker 2>So what do you want to talk about?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, so I broke my leg on the nineteenth

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<v Speaker 1>of December, and that's been not fun.

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<v Speaker 4>So there's that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, what's the other one. I feel like I just

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<v Speaker 2>totally broke everything I just said to you. Just now,

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<v Speaker 2>what's the other one?

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<v Speaker 1>The other one's kind of like a workplace issue that

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to get outside perspectives on because I'm having

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what you would call it. There's

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<v Speaker 1>it's a really long story, but there's a guy that

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<v Speaker 1>I work with who recently came back to work, I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>And this doesn't affect me right now because I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going to be able to go back to work, like

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<v Speaker 1>with a broken leg for at least like a couple

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<v Speaker 1>more months. But I did see him at work once,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know that I will again. And I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't really know like how I should approach this situation

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<v Speaker 1>because it's really fucking awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>All Right, So you were you were seeing this guy

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<v Speaker 2>at work, and then he stopped working at your work

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<v Speaker 2>and now he's coming back.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we both worked, so I worked for an airline.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a flight attendant, and we both worked for like

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<v Speaker 1>the regional airline, and I transferred to mainline, and I

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<v Speaker 1>thought I was rid of him, like I would never

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<v Speaker 1>have to see him again. And then I guess he

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<v Speaker 1>got an offer to come over and I saw him

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<v Speaker 1>once and I know I'm probably going to run into

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<v Speaker 1>him again, and it was so uncomfortable, and I.

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<v Speaker 2>Were you were you guys like hooking up? Is that

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<v Speaker 2>what you date? Or what was up?

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<v Speaker 1>So we were dating for three months, so it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>a long time, but oh my god, it's so bad.

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<v Speaker 1>He So we were together for three months and he

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<v Speaker 1>was like calling me his girlfriend, Like he started calling

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<v Speaker 1>me his girlfriend. He said I love you like really fast.

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<v Speaker 1>And I kind of chalked it up to like maybe

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<v Speaker 1>cultural differences, but you know, he said it like very quickly,

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<v Speaker 1>which is kind of like weird, but I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>and he, uh, hold.

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<v Speaker 2>On cultural, Like where's this guy from?

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<v Speaker 1>Ethnically, he's Armenian, but he grew up in Iraq, so

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<v Speaker 1>he's like like all of his friends are like Persian.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh Okay, I thought you were gonna say he's like

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<v Speaker 2>from Texas.

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<v Speaker 1>No, No, I'm from Cana actually, so we both work

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<v Speaker 1>for a Canadian airline.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so he was calling you his girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he was very like and he would always say like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to feel comfortable at my apartment. I

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<v Speaker 1>want you to feel like this is your like second home.

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<v Speaker 1>Like every time I would like leave his apartment, I

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<v Speaker 1>would like go and gather my items, and he would

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<v Speaker 1>be like, oh, just just leave your just tell me

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<v Speaker 1>what shampoo you use, or like leave your shampoo here

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<v Speaker 1>and it'll just be here for you. Like he was

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<v Speaker 1>very like he's like, I want you to be comfortable whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>And and and and at this point, are you well, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>first of all, how long had you guys been like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, buddy buddy for.

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<v Speaker 1>At that point, it was probably like two months because

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<v Speaker 1>I actually didn't sleep with him until like probably like

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<v Speaker 1>three or four weeks into it, and then we were yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so like in total, it was like three three and

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<v Speaker 1>a half months. And by the two month point, he

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<v Speaker 1>was like referring to me as his girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>That I liked you, and and okay, so this guy, he's, uh,

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<v Speaker 2>he's getting your favorite shampoo. He's calling you his girlfriend. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you use his toothbrush. What how are you feeling about

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<v Speaker 2>Are you like, oh, this is great, this is what

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<v Speaker 2>I want. Or are you like, like, how are you

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<v Speaker 2>feeling about it?

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<v Speaker 4>Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like two months isn't very long. So I

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<v Speaker 1>was feeling I don't know, I was just like looking

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<v Speaker 1>how things were going, like it was good. He was

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<v Speaker 1>a nice guy, he was handsome, culture, he had a

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<v Speaker 1>good job. Like he's a pilot.

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<v Speaker 2>He's a pilot. Yeah, pilot and a flat attendant. That's

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<v Speaker 2>something about that feels something about that feels naughty.

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<v Speaker 1>It Yeah, I mean when you start training as a

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<v Speaker 1>flight attendant, the first thing they tell you is never

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<v Speaker 1>sleep with pilots.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait did they tell you that? Yeah, that's funny. Why

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<v Speaker 2>do they tell you?

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<v Speaker 1>Because it's always bad news, as as you will discover.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is where the story gets.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh, it is kind of funny because like when people

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<v Speaker 2>talk about like power dynamics, right, I feel like guy

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<v Speaker 2>driving the plane that I'm in, I would take that

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<v Speaker 2>as a legitimate power dynamic.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean he was a first officer, though he

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't a captain.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm I'm mainly kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>But so basically, forgive me if I backtrack, because the

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<v Speaker 1>timeline of this just like it sometimes I remember certain

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<v Speaker 1>things anyway, Okay, what happened was that I was working

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<v Speaker 1>with this girl and she's asking me what's going on

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<v Speaker 1>in my life, and I tell her, Oh, I have

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<v Speaker 1>a newish boyfriend. She says, show me a picture. So

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<v Speaker 1>I show a picture of this guy, the pilot, and

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<v Speaker 1>he well, sorry. The girl that I'm working with says,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not your boyfriend. That's Amy's boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but what do.

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<v Speaker 1>You what do you mean? She said, Amy, this other

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<v Speaker 1>flight attendant that we work with, and we know each

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<v Speaker 1>other fairly well, because this is back when we were

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<v Speaker 1>at the regional airline, which is like way smaller than

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<v Speaker 1>the one that I work out at now. And she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's Amy's boyfriend. And I was like, you're joking, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>prove it. So she does, and I've found out that

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<v Speaker 1>while so, he told me that he was going up

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<v Speaker 1>north with his guy friends and going for like for

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<v Speaker 1>a little trip to a cottage up north or something.

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<v Speaker 1>And he asked me if I could go over to

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<v Speaker 1>his apartment and like water his plants while he was gone. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And while he was gone, he was actually up north

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<v Speaker 1>with Amy fucking her in the tent that was my tent,

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<v Speaker 1>and he brought up.

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<v Speaker 2>With him, Well, he borrowed your tent and then sucked

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<v Speaker 2>this girl. Yes, God, damn dude, that's I see, like,

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<v Speaker 2>what's the I don't know. I don't that sounds stressful.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because so I was thinking, Okay, he was dating

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<v Speaker 1>me and then Amy was the side check, but no, he.

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<v Speaker 2>Was dating chick.

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<v Speaker 1>He was dating both of us full on. Neither of

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<v Speaker 1>us were the side check. He had introduced both me

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<v Speaker 1>and Amy on different days of the week to his

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<v Speaker 1>friends and his fucking brother as his girlfriend, and they

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<v Speaker 1>all kept the secret.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I don't know how the fuck he thought

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<v Speaker 2>that would eventually end.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's what I'm saying. So he actually, like like

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<v Speaker 1>a day after my coworker spilled the beans to me

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<v Speaker 1>and told me like, hey, that's fucking Amy's boyfriend, he

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<v Speaker 1>sent me a text and said it's not working out.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, you're an angel, but this just isn't

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<v Speaker 1>isn't working out, So I think we should break up.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just looked at that text and I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you like chose her over me, which like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like at this point, like I'm not heartbroken, like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just angry. But yeah, he thought it could all

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<v Speaker 1>go away because he would like choose the other flight

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<v Speaker 1>attendant over me, but I he didn't know that I knew.

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<v Speaker 1>So it ended up getting really ugly because I did

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<v Speaker 1>tell him that I knew, and I also told the

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<v Speaker 1>other girl about the whole situation, and it wasn't good

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<v Speaker 1>for him.

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<v Speaker 2>So did the other girl break out with him too?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, one hundred percent she But it was so bad

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<v Speaker 1>because so I was kind of like iffy on this guy,

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<v Speaker 1>Like there was things I liked about him, but there

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<v Speaker 1>was also like a lot of stuff I didn't like

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<v Speaker 1>about him, and I probably would have just broken up

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<v Speaker 1>with him like in a few months myself. So I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't really like heartbroken at all. I was just like

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<v Speaker 1>really angry that I had been made.

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<v Speaker 4>A fool of.

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<v Speaker 1>But this other girl that I work with, she thought

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<v Speaker 1>that she was gonna like have babies with him and

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<v Speaker 1>get married.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh this girl Amy, Yeah, was she was when you

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<v Speaker 2>talked to her, when you when you spilled the beans

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<v Speaker 2>to her? What did she say?

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<v Speaker 1>She was sobbing. It was extremely uncomfortable, and I felt

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<v Speaker 1>guilty for having told her, But like, really, what else

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<v Speaker 1>was I supposed.

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<v Speaker 3>To do right?

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<v Speaker 2>Right? It was part of you like wondering if you

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<v Speaker 2>did the right thing even, Yeah, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I should have told he, like what else then

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<v Speaker 1>I supposed to be.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Yeah right, yeah, God, there's just I think there's

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<v Speaker 2>just something. There's gotta be something about, like defying gravity

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<v Speaker 2>by piloting an airplane with you know, one hundred people

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<v Speaker 2>in it to safety. That just makes you feel like

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<v Speaker 2>you can do anything.

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<v Speaker 1>No, he's a fucking idiot. He's a moron. I remember

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<v Speaker 1>one time we were in a fucking Starbucks parking lot

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<v Speaker 1>and he couldn't figure out why his car was making

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<v Speaker 1>a funny noise when he was backing up, and I

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<v Speaker 1>had to look him dead in the eyes and release

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<v Speaker 1>the fucking emergency break.

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<v Speaker 2>Damn. And this guy flies planes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, that's why there's two of them.

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<v Speaker 2>Hmmm. See, I feel like I feel like a co pilot.

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<v Speaker 2>Co pilots are They're definitely like the nice guys of

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<v Speaker 2>the pilot, you know what I mean. I feel like,

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<v Speaker 2>if you're looking to really settle down, you go for

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<v Speaker 2>a co pilot, not a pilot.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's that's him. He's he's the first officer. The

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<v Speaker 1>first officer is in the right seat. They're the co pilot.

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<v Speaker 2>He's not even a real.

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<v Speaker 1>Pot that's oh my god, you don't say that. They're

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<v Speaker 1>not real pilots to their faces.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe that's you know what, that's probably what it fucking is, right,

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<v Speaker 2>is he's like he's he's so close to being a

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<v Speaker 2>real pilot, and so he's just compensating for every for

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<v Speaker 2>like he's like, I need to have as many girlfriends

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<v Speaker 2>as possible. I need to like, like he's just I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>the crushing insecurity of almost being a pilot that's got

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<v Speaker 2>to get to someone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that, honestly, that might be a part of it,

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<v Speaker 1>because I do know, like for a fact, that he

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<v Speaker 1>must be super insecure to have to like juggle to

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<v Speaker 1>women at the same time, because like, but yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>never thought about the the co pilot dynamic, Like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he does feel inadequate.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm I'm mainly just saying these things as jokes, but

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<v Speaker 2>that they could be.

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<v Speaker 1>True.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, So what do you what do you

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<v Speaker 2>have to Oh, okay, so now he's coming back.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so I I transferred from regional to mainline and

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's a way bigger airline. So I'm thinking, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm never gonna fucking see this guy again because he

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<v Speaker 1>had like lower seniority than I did, and I thought

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<v Speaker 1>he would just fucking stay at Regional and I saw

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<v Speaker 1>him like right before I left for disability. I had

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<v Speaker 1>a flight where he was there, and when we did

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<v Speaker 1>the briefing together, I just totally zoned out and I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't say a fucking word to him. And I, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you do a briefing like before each each day, like

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<v Speaker 1>before the first flight of the day.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to be like a crew. Yeah that's wild, goddamn,

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<v Speaker 2>But like.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I like froze and like didn't know what's Like.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like so angry because like it's it's just

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<v Speaker 1>really bad terms. And also it's kind of like freaky

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<v Speaker 1>because when we when I did find out what the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck he was doing, I like reamed him out through

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<v Speaker 1>text message. And I also went to his apartment and

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<v Speaker 1>to get my stuff, Like he told me to like

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<v Speaker 1>go to his apartment and get his stuff. So I

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<v Speaker 1>like finally planned a date with him, like Okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>coming on this day to go get my shit, and

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't there, Like he's like, oh, it'll be better

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<v Speaker 1>if I just leave, and I'm not there when you

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<v Speaker 1>get your stuff, I'm like, okay, you fucking pussy. So

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<v Speaker 1>I like showed up and got my stuff, and while

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<v Speaker 1>I was there, I stole his.

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<v Speaker 2>Bike and stole his bike. Why did you?

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<v Speaker 1>Because he was dragging me on bike rides all the

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<v Speaker 1>time and I actually got really into it, and he

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<v Speaker 1>had like multiple bikes, like bicycles, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I'm going to use this more than

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<v Speaker 1>you do. Oh wait, sorry, I'm missing car of the story.

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<v Speaker 1>So Amy, the other woman, she lent him his car,

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<v Speaker 1>her car, and when he had her car, he damaged it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not really sure of the specifics, but I guess

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<v Speaker 1>he like damaged her car and it was like a

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<v Speaker 1>couple hundred bucks of repairs. And before they broke up,

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<v Speaker 1>he was like, oh, I'm going to cover it. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to cover it. And then after they broke up,

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<v Speaker 1>he went like radio silence. So I like was contacting

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<v Speaker 1>Amy and like figuring, like I actually took Amy's stuff

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<v Speaker 1>from his apartment as well, because she didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>go there, and she was telling me about all the

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<v Speaker 1>money that he owed her. So I took the bike

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<v Speaker 1>as collateral and said, I'll give you your bike back.

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<v Speaker 2>It's too complicated at that point. Car, that's too complicated

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<v Speaker 2>at that point. What okay, So what are you doing now, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>are you are you are? Do you are you dating anyone?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you chilling? What's what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm kind of over it. I'm just yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>hard to trust people after finding out that they like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just some of the details of like what this guy

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<v Speaker 1>did to juggle to women at the same time is

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<v Speaker 1>like really fucking scary and like, I just don't trust

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<v Speaker 1>people anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm, yeah, yeah, I can see. Uh, I can

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<v Speaker 2>see why. I can see why. It's crazy people trust

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<v Speaker 2>that man every day. It's not well, I guess he's

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<v Speaker 2>the co pilot. He doesn't really do anything. I was

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<v Speaker 2>gonna say, if people trust him too so really so

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<v Speaker 2>if you if you tell him he's not a real pilot,

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<v Speaker 2>he'll get is so mad.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh he could not take a joke, Like I remember,

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<v Speaker 1>why do you.

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<v Speaker 2>Think is he really? Is he not a real pilot?

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<v Speaker 2>Is he a real pilot? I might be honest, is

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<v Speaker 2>a real pilot.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a real pilot. He's just he's a man child.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what were you gonna say. You said

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<v Speaker 2>you were making fun of him?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, he just he couldn't take a joke. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>remember one time I made a joke about his landings

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<v Speaker 1>being rough, and instead of laughing, he got like really upset.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was like the moment I knew that it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't gonna work out.

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<v Speaker 2>You made a joke about his landings being rough, did he?

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's I think it's important for the landings,

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<v Speaker 2>like the most the landings when most people like die right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, takeoff and landing is like eighty five percent of

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<v Speaker 1>all accidents.

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<v Speaker 2>So what's your name again, Stephanie, Stephanie, Sophie. I'm sorry that, uh,

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<v Speaker 2>this has broken your trust in people, especially in pilots, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, oh, oh my god. Yeah, it's to anyone listening.

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<v Speaker 1>Never fuck a pilot, like I was stupid by doing

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<v Speaker 1>it myself. But like they are notorious womanizers.

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<v Speaker 3>The older they.

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<v Speaker 1>Get they get, the more perverted and like fucking weird

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<v Speaker 1>they get. Just just don't do.

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<v Speaker 2>It, fucking fucking uber driver instead, they'll be much more grateful. Yeah, Stephanie,

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<v Speaker 2>is there anything else you want to say to the

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<v Speaker 2>people of the computer before we go?

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<v Speaker 1>Probably just don't ship where you eat, like, never hook

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<v Speaker 1>up with.

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<v Speaker 2>A coworker mm hmm, especially not in the sky.

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<v Speaker 1>But so my question is, should I be nice to

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<v Speaker 1>him if I see him again? Or should I be

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<v Speaker 1>mean to him? Like? Am I justified to be mean

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<v Speaker 1>to him?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, I'm going to answer that question with this

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<v Speaker 2>question to you, and like you don't have to answer

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<v Speaker 2>this right away, but like to answer that this is

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<v Speaker 2>what this is what I would think about in this situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Should you be nice to him? Should you be mean

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<v Speaker 2>to him? Truly think about that. You don't have to

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<v Speaker 2>answer right now, but like, which of those two things

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<v Speaker 2>will make your life easier?

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<v Speaker 1>Probably just ignoring him.

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<v Speaker 2>M I can't answer that question for you, but that's

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<v Speaker 2>how I would frame what you just asked.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's just hard because part of me wants to

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<v Speaker 1>like make his life miserable while we're working together, and

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<v Speaker 1>then the other part of me is like you're like

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<v Speaker 1>like you're an ass whole, or like you're pathetic if

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<v Speaker 1>you like care so much.

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<v Speaker 2>Again, it's a question of what's going to make your

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<v Speaker 2>life and your day easier, right, Because sometimes harboring anger

0:20:10.359 --> 0:20:14.880
<v Speaker 2>and trying to get back at people is a distraction

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<v Speaker 2>from happiness, and then other times it feels good. But

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes that that good feeling is like is a vice

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<v Speaker 2>of some kind. But I you know, I can't answer

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<v Speaker 2>that question for you, but that's how I would think

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<v Speaker 2>about it. Okay, thank you for calling, Stephanie, and I

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<v Speaker 2>hope maybe one day I will ask you in the

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<v Speaker 2>sky for a bag of.

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<v Speaker 1>Peanuts bag of pretzels. That sounds good too, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for taking my call, dude.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye, Stephanie. Kay see Hey folks, this is Lyle. I

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<v Speaker 2>am very excited to announce that I am going back

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<v Speaker 2>Live all across the country. If you've never been to

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<v Speaker 2>group Geko therapy sessions where people from the audience come

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<v Speaker 2>on stage to talk to a gecko about whatever they want,

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<v Speaker 2>just like we do right here on the podcast. Plus

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<v Speaker 2>I mix in a few stories and presentations and little

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<v Speaker 2>tidbits from my own life. Tickets are available right now

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<v Speaker 2>at Therapy geckotour dot com, or you can find the

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<v Speaker 2>say your city, you can still go to the link

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<v Speaker 2>and hit the RSVP button to get notified for when

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<v Speaker 2>I do come to your city in the second half

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<v Speaker 2>of the year. This is my third tour so far,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think it's going to be sick, so I

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<v Speaker 2>hope to see you there. Thanks. Hello, Hey, what's up dog?

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<v Speaker 3>How you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing all right, man? What'd you want to talk

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<v Speaker 2>about today?

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<v Speaker 1>So?

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<v Speaker 3>I've just moved into my apartment about two weeks ago,

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<v Speaker 3>and the previous tenant came over last night and she

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<v Speaker 3>knocked on my door. Let's me backtrack a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>Ten minutes. Part of her knocking on my door. The

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<v Speaker 3>neighbor next door. I was walking in the hall ready

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<v Speaker 3>to come back to my apartment, and he goes, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>did you get new floors. I'm like, yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 3>I got new floors. They looked fresh, they looked clean meat.

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<v Speaker 3>So after that happened, ten minutes later, the previous tenant

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<v Speaker 3>came by. She knocked on the door. I'm over here

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<v Speaker 3>cooking in the kitchen, getting my gym prep bright, things

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<v Speaker 3>of that nature. I looked through the peepole. It's this

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<v Speaker 3>woman in all business attires. He looks a little older.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, oh, what's going on? The manager ain't coming

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<v Speaker 3>to my apartment?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, so.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, keep going. I'm not I want to interrupt anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, thank you, thank you. So I let her in

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<v Speaker 3>and she showed me her id. She was explaining how

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<v Speaker 3>she was the previous tennant and that she wanted to

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<v Speaker 3>come in and see something about something she had to

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<v Speaker 3>pay for. I believe it was something with the floors

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<v Speaker 3>in the window and things of that nature. So I

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<v Speaker 3>let her in, showed her around. And this is bold

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<v Speaker 3>of me. I usually don't let strangers in. You know

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<v Speaker 3>what I'm saying. I don't really like dealing with a

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<v Speaker 3>whole lot of people coming into my personal space. Is

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<v Speaker 3>my orders, is where my energy is high. You know

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<v Speaker 3>what I'm saying. By the way, if I sow high,

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<v Speaker 3>I am very high right now. I just took a

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<v Speaker 3>dab with some Cereal milk and I'm said, look pretty good,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what I'm saying. So I'm not.

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<v Speaker 2>Gonna story to ask what a dab of cereal milk means,

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<v Speaker 2>but go.

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<v Speaker 3>Ahead, Oh, a dab of cereal milk.

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<v Speaker 2>Sogd Just continue?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, my bad. So so I let her in, I

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<v Speaker 3>let her sew you know, I sold her around. And

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<v Speaker 3>after I showed her around for a little bit, she

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<v Speaker 3>was like starting to touch up on me a little bit,

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<v Speaker 3>starting to touch my shoulder. In my head, I'm thinking,

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<v Speaker 3>why is she touching me like this? But at the

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<v Speaker 3>same time, I'm like, I watch a let her keep

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<v Speaker 3>touching me. Fucking so she asked. I was in my head.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, should I tell her my egg, which

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<v Speaker 3>I'm twenty four, by the way, Should I tell her

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<v Speaker 3>my egg? Or should I? I said?

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<v Speaker 2>Fuck? All right, you haul on it. You're cutting out.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what your your your phone is like

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<v Speaker 2>getting horny listening you tell the story, and it's it's

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<v Speaker 2>driving a car, so you're cutting What do you keep

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<v Speaker 2>repeat where you were saying? You were cutting out? And

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<v Speaker 2>I know that you're You're probably horny and running all

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<v Speaker 2>around your house right now, so just stay in one

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<v Speaker 2>place and continue speaking.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, I'll sit down.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll sit down on my bed.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, great?

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<v Speaker 3>You I love you too. So well, she started rubbing

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<v Speaker 3>up on my shoulder, and in my head I was thinking, damn,

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<v Speaker 3>should I tell her? No? No, no, I was son her

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<v Speaker 3>my age. She hasked about my age, so I told

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<v Speaker 3>her I was twenty four, and she was like, damn,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm double your age. I'm like, what do you mean

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<v Speaker 3>you're double my age? She pulls out her id again.

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<v Speaker 3>Turns out she was double my age. She was born

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<v Speaker 3>I believe nineteen seventy eight, which I thought was crazy.

0:25:45.240 --> 0:25:46.800
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, damn, you want to rub up on me?

0:25:47.200 --> 0:25:52.600
<v Speaker 3>Fucking coolgar over here plotting and shit. So I offered

0:25:52.600 --> 0:25:54.640
<v Speaker 3>her a glass of wine because I'm a wine clumps through.

0:25:54.720 --> 0:25:57.080
<v Speaker 3>I love wine, and she was a patriot seft but

0:25:57.240 --> 0:25:59.119
<v Speaker 3>she said, when you were talking a little bit, so

0:25:59.160 --> 0:26:00.879
<v Speaker 3>I offered her some wine. We drank a little bit

0:26:00.920 --> 0:26:03.520
<v Speaker 3>of wine. We listened to music, chopping it up, and

0:26:03.560 --> 0:26:05.240
<v Speaker 3>then she come on to me and start kissing me,

0:26:05.280 --> 0:26:07.240
<v Speaker 3>and I'm like, this shit is crazy. I had like

0:26:07.280 --> 0:26:10.359
<v Speaker 3>a a that's soul raven moment when time she had

0:26:10.400 --> 0:26:14.119
<v Speaker 3>stopped and I'm over here thinking about the motors, is

0:26:14.160 --> 0:26:17.280
<v Speaker 3>thinking about everything that's going on. And then after you know,

0:26:17.359 --> 0:26:18.920
<v Speaker 3>she started kissing the ball me, she tried to touch

0:26:18.960 --> 0:26:20.679
<v Speaker 3>upon me. She was like, oh, I got to go

0:26:20.760 --> 0:26:23.560
<v Speaker 3>back home to my daughters. So then she was like,

0:26:23.640 --> 0:26:25.359
<v Speaker 3>let me get your Instagram and your phone number. I'm

0:26:25.359 --> 0:26:29.119
<v Speaker 3>gonna catch you later. So I hadn't heard from her since,

0:26:29.240 --> 0:26:31.760
<v Speaker 3>but that shit was weird yesterday.

0:26:31.800 --> 0:26:36.600
<v Speaker 2>Wow, that's uh, that's fucking awesome. Man, that's a that's.

0:26:36.480 --> 0:26:37.320
<v Speaker 3>It was cool.

0:26:37.720 --> 0:26:40.879
<v Speaker 2>That's really hard to come back over. That's really cool.

0:26:41.560 --> 0:26:44.040
<v Speaker 2>Did she message you again? What's what?

0:26:44.080 --> 0:26:44.280
<v Speaker 4>Are you?

0:26:44.400 --> 0:26:45.920
<v Speaker 2>Are you going to message her? What's up?

0:26:46.840 --> 0:26:50.080
<v Speaker 3>So I messaged her the pictures that she needed for

0:26:50.119 --> 0:26:52.879
<v Speaker 3>her little apartment and then she said, oh, thank you. You know,

0:26:52.920 --> 0:26:54.840
<v Speaker 3>I really want to get back together sometime with you.

0:26:54.920 --> 0:26:56.760
<v Speaker 3>And I said, whenever you're free, you're more than welcome

0:26:56.800 --> 0:26:59.439
<v Speaker 3>to come over. And then she just hearted my message

0:26:59.480 --> 0:27:03.600
<v Speaker 3>and loved it on red.

0:27:02.960 --> 0:27:08.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because I mean when something like that happens to you,

0:27:08.119 --> 0:27:11.879
<v Speaker 2>I you probably you know, she leaves right, and then

0:27:11.920 --> 0:27:16.119
<v Speaker 2>you just start fantasizing all the fucking crazy porn scenarios

0:27:16.160 --> 0:27:19.240
<v Speaker 2>that you have and you're like, oh my god, and

0:27:19.240 --> 0:27:21.200
<v Speaker 2>then you're like, oh, it's all gonna happen, and then

0:27:21.320 --> 0:27:28.160
<v Speaker 2>she hearts your message and you're like, oh no, it's over. Yeah,

0:27:28.200 --> 0:27:32.480
<v Speaker 2>it's over. It's gone. So yeah, whatever was up with

0:27:32.520 --> 0:27:36.880
<v Speaker 2>her that day was is the Is she is fixed?

0:27:38.320 --> 0:27:39.920
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, But between me and you, I think

0:27:39.960 --> 0:27:42.160
<v Speaker 3>she want to fuck sheet this weekend.

0:27:44.359 --> 0:27:47.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. Man. The heart react on the message

0:27:47.040 --> 0:27:49.320
<v Speaker 2>followed by nothing is it tells a different story. But

0:27:49.400 --> 0:27:53.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm I look, I'm I'm, I'm I. I hope that

0:27:53.200 --> 0:27:55.080
<v Speaker 2>you live your fairy tale dream.

0:27:56.119 --> 0:27:57.960
<v Speaker 3>I really hope I do too, man, because there's some

0:27:57.960 --> 0:27:59.959
<v Speaker 3>ship out of a movie and I couldn't leave it.

0:28:00.280 --> 0:28:01.320
<v Speaker 3>I still can't believe it.

0:28:01.840 --> 0:28:04.040
<v Speaker 2>How's your sex life going otherwise?

0:28:05.440 --> 0:28:08.280
<v Speaker 3>Besides that, it's honestly been very quiet. I was living

0:28:08.320 --> 0:28:10.560
<v Speaker 3>up my grandmothers for two years, saving up trying to

0:28:10.560 --> 0:28:13.040
<v Speaker 3>get back out of debt to be able to get

0:28:13.080 --> 0:28:15.280
<v Speaker 3>into this new apartment that I'm in, so thank God

0:28:15.320 --> 0:28:18.680
<v Speaker 3>for that. God did so once I moved out of

0:28:18.680 --> 0:28:22.280
<v Speaker 3>the apartment. Now I'm really trying to explore more being

0:28:22.320 --> 0:28:24.680
<v Speaker 3>into sexually active and things of that nature. But I

0:28:24.680 --> 0:28:26.560
<v Speaker 3>don't want to go around fucking everything to have the

0:28:26.640 --> 0:28:30.560
<v Speaker 3>ad and that wear some fucking genes. So we're gonna see.

0:28:30.680 --> 0:28:32.399
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I might rebuttal what I'm saying because I

0:28:32.440 --> 0:28:35.280
<v Speaker 3>really want to fuck that milk. But outside of that,

0:28:35.320 --> 0:28:37.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm talking to this girl right now. I'm not gonna lie.

0:28:37.400 --> 0:28:39.200
<v Speaker 3>We work together, so we don't have to see how

0:28:39.280 --> 0:28:39.520
<v Speaker 3>that go.

0:28:40.480 --> 0:28:44.000
<v Speaker 2>Um. Yeah, man, you know this, I'm trying to think

0:28:44.040 --> 0:28:46.160
<v Speaker 2>of why this woman started making out with you, and

0:28:46.160 --> 0:28:50.160
<v Speaker 2>if there's any like a weird alternative, well, like maybe

0:28:50.240 --> 0:28:54.400
<v Speaker 2>she's trying to like sue the landlord and like having

0:28:54.440 --> 0:28:57.920
<v Speaker 2>you as a booty call is like away into the apartment.

0:28:59.200 --> 0:29:02.080
<v Speaker 3>You know that might be what it truly is, because

0:29:02.120 --> 0:29:04.920
<v Speaker 3>I truly don't understand either. What does a person double

0:29:05.000 --> 0:29:07.920
<v Speaker 3>my age have any business doing at seven o'clock at nine?

0:29:07.960 --> 0:29:09.520
<v Speaker 3>By the way, she mentioned she had an eighteen year

0:29:09.560 --> 0:29:12.000
<v Speaker 3>old daughter, So what you doing coming over here trying

0:29:12.040 --> 0:29:14.920
<v Speaker 3>to fuck around and then go back home? To your daughter, like,

0:29:14.920 --> 0:29:15.720
<v Speaker 3>get the fuck.

0:29:15.560 --> 0:29:16.040
<v Speaker 1>Out of here.

0:29:16.920 --> 0:29:18.760
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I don't know. I don't know why

0:29:18.760 --> 0:29:22.120
<v Speaker 2>anyone ever does anything, but I sometimes that is true.

0:29:22.280 --> 0:29:24.760
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes you don't even sometimes you don't want to know

0:29:24.840 --> 0:29:26.360
<v Speaker 2>the answers to those questions.

0:29:27.080 --> 0:29:30.560
<v Speaker 3>Absolutely absolutely, I might have to discover. I might not

0:29:30.720 --> 0:29:31.640
<v Speaker 3>will allow to see.

0:29:31.800 --> 0:29:32.560
<v Speaker 4>We'll have to see.

0:29:33.240 --> 0:29:35.280
<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm. Some people. I think some people are saying

0:29:35.320 --> 0:29:37.360
<v Speaker 2>that your brag you called in just a brag, but

0:29:37.440 --> 0:29:40.960
<v Speaker 2>I don't, which my don't say anything, which might be true,

0:29:41.640 --> 0:29:43.920
<v Speaker 2>but I don't. I don't care. That was Look I

0:29:44.160 --> 0:29:48.160
<v Speaker 2>wish I that's a fun brag, it's a worthy brag.

0:29:48.400 --> 0:29:53.960
<v Speaker 2>Brag away. Are you still there?

0:29:54.680 --> 0:29:54.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:29:54.880 --> 0:29:56.440
<v Speaker 3>I'm still here. To cut out a little bit.

0:29:57.160 --> 0:30:00.320
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I just don't let this woman murder you.

0:30:01.280 --> 0:30:03.640
<v Speaker 3>Oh, absolutely not. We'll have to see and chat. I

0:30:03.680 --> 0:30:06.680
<v Speaker 3>did not come into brag. Honestly. This was just so spontaneous,

0:30:06.680 --> 0:30:08.480
<v Speaker 3>and you got to keep in mind, I haven't been

0:30:08.480 --> 0:30:10.520
<v Speaker 3>sexually active in two years, so for this.

0:30:10.400 --> 0:30:12.920
<v Speaker 2>Whole time to come up that it is crast do

0:30:12.960 --> 0:30:14.720
<v Speaker 2>you why do you think you had? Why do you

0:30:14.760 --> 0:30:16.680
<v Speaker 2>feel like you haven't been sexually active in two years?

0:30:16.760 --> 0:30:17.560
<v Speaker 2>What's been going on?

0:30:18.040 --> 0:30:20.120
<v Speaker 3>Because I've been living at my grating's house. Like, what

0:30:20.160 --> 0:30:21.800
<v Speaker 3>am I supposed to do? Have a woman come over

0:30:21.840 --> 0:30:23.400
<v Speaker 3>and be like, hey, granny going to the other room,

0:30:23.400 --> 0:30:25.680
<v Speaker 3>I'm about to fuck this trick or real quick, Like, no, I.

0:30:25.640 --> 0:30:26.120
<v Speaker 5>Can't do that.

0:30:26.640 --> 0:30:28.520
<v Speaker 2>Rect And you could always you could have sex with

0:30:28.600 --> 0:30:30.480
<v Speaker 2>your grandmother. I don't know why I said that. I

0:30:30.520 --> 0:30:33.000
<v Speaker 2>really I don't want to do it, and I don't

0:30:33.080 --> 0:30:35.720
<v Speaker 2>regret I don't and I don't regret saying it. I

0:30:35.800 --> 0:30:37.960
<v Speaker 2>did and I can't take it back, and we're putting

0:30:37.960 --> 0:30:40.880
<v Speaker 2>it on the internet forever. What's your name again?

0:30:42.160 --> 0:30:43.360
<v Speaker 3>My name is Cereal Milk.

0:30:43.840 --> 0:30:45.720
<v Speaker 2>Cereal Milk. Is there anything else you want to say

0:30:45.720 --> 0:30:47.200
<v Speaker 2>to the people of the computer before we go?

0:30:48.400 --> 0:30:51.200
<v Speaker 3>You know what? Man Alaska is the Sydney out of state.

0:30:51.400 --> 0:30:53.160
<v Speaker 3>And by the way, Loud, I came to the show

0:30:53.200 --> 0:30:55.120
<v Speaker 3>in Vegas last year. It was amazing.

0:30:55.720 --> 0:30:56.240
<v Speaker 2>Oh cool.

0:30:56.280 --> 0:30:58.400
<v Speaker 3>I wish Vegas was on the tour list again. But

0:30:58.400 --> 0:30:58.920
<v Speaker 3>it's all good.

0:30:58.960 --> 0:31:00.920
<v Speaker 2>I might have to buy you know, all right? You

0:31:00.960 --> 0:31:02.960
<v Speaker 2>know what, I'm gonna tell you something. I was like

0:31:04.840 --> 0:31:07.240
<v Speaker 2>you mother, I was I got offered to go back

0:31:07.280 --> 0:31:10.160
<v Speaker 2>to Vegas today and I was debating if I was

0:31:10.200 --> 0:31:11.880
<v Speaker 2>going to do it. But now I'll I guess I'll

0:31:11.920 --> 0:31:12.280
<v Speaker 2>do it.

0:31:12.200 --> 0:31:15.080
<v Speaker 3>Now, Please do it? Please do it?

0:31:15.120 --> 0:31:19.160
<v Speaker 2>All right, I'll go all right, man, appreciate. Is there

0:31:19.200 --> 0:31:20.840
<v Speaker 2>anything else you want to say to the I guess

0:31:20.960 --> 0:31:24.040
<v Speaker 2>I think I asked you that already. But take care

0:31:24.080 --> 0:31:26.760
<v Speaker 2>of cereal milk and God bless.

0:31:26.400 --> 0:31:28.760
<v Speaker 3>You, God bless you. Wow forever.

0:31:29.320 --> 0:31:39.880
<v Speaker 2>Thanks man. Why did I say that? If that that

0:31:39.960 --> 0:31:43.480
<v Speaker 2>guy could have sex with his grandma? Because sometimes it's

0:31:43.520 --> 0:31:56.239
<v Speaker 2>fun to say horrible things. Oh my god, Hey, what's up?

0:31:56.280 --> 0:31:56.480
<v Speaker 1>Man?

0:31:57.160 --> 0:31:59.040
<v Speaker 2>Hey? This gag?

0:32:00.280 --> 0:32:00.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

0:32:00.880 --> 0:32:04.160
<v Speaker 2>Is this? Who is this?

0:32:04.160 --> 0:32:05.080
<v Speaker 5>This is Paris?

0:32:05.440 --> 0:32:07.840
<v Speaker 2>Well, what's going on Paris?

0:32:08.640 --> 0:32:10.920
<v Speaker 4>Well, I'm not doing too good right now, to be

0:32:11.000 --> 0:32:14.280
<v Speaker 4>honest with you. I got four broken ribs and like

0:32:15.680 --> 0:32:18.920
<v Speaker 4>five or six more that are fractured, and then two

0:32:18.960 --> 0:32:22.920
<v Speaker 4>of my spinal things got knocked out of alignment when

0:32:22.920 --> 0:32:28.200
<v Speaker 4>I got into a car accident two days ago, and

0:32:30.520 --> 0:32:34.640
<v Speaker 4>this woman pulled me from the burning car. So that

0:32:34.840 --> 0:32:38.200
<v Speaker 4>was quite good, kind of a little Guardian angel moment.

0:32:42.080 --> 0:32:47.840
<v Speaker 4>But yeah, so that was basically how I've been feeling

0:32:47.840 --> 0:32:50.960
<v Speaker 4>for the past couple of days. Because that's a little

0:32:50.960 --> 0:32:54.800
<v Speaker 4>bit of a wreck. I mean, I'm sure you can't

0:32:54.840 --> 0:32:59.479
<v Speaker 4>receive texts through the message line because people would probably

0:32:59.520 --> 0:33:01.880
<v Speaker 4>just send you but I tried.

0:33:02.040 --> 0:33:06.080
<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, no, no, I'm looking at I'm looking

0:33:06.080 --> 0:33:08.239
<v Speaker 2>at there we go. Yeah, this is a picture of

0:33:08.320 --> 0:33:12.200
<v Speaker 2>you in the hospital bed. Oh shit, this is a

0:33:12.200 --> 0:33:14.240
<v Speaker 2>picture of the car. The car looks pretty fucked.

0:33:14.280 --> 0:33:15.560
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, the car is fucked.

0:33:15.880 --> 0:33:19.400
<v Speaker 2>And then right underneath that is is yep, a big

0:33:19.480 --> 0:33:20.400
<v Speaker 2>picture of your cock.

0:33:21.640 --> 0:33:23.800
<v Speaker 4>Oh that I didn't mean to send you. That's my fault.

0:33:24.880 --> 0:33:26.200
<v Speaker 2>No, these pictures look crazy.

0:33:26.240 --> 0:33:26.400
<v Speaker 1>Man.

0:33:26.600 --> 0:33:30.400
<v Speaker 2>This car looks like it's uh, that was the car.

0:33:30.480 --> 0:33:34.080
<v Speaker 2>I wish I could. I mean, it's like a reactions enough.

0:33:34.160 --> 0:33:37.440
<v Speaker 2>This is an audio medium. But yeah, this car looks

0:33:37.440 --> 0:33:39.840
<v Speaker 2>like it's completely Oh yeah, it was on fucking fire man,

0:33:40.040 --> 0:33:41.160
<v Speaker 2>So like, how'd you get out?

0:33:41.280 --> 0:33:42.280
<v Speaker 4>Literally exploded?

0:33:43.000 --> 0:33:43.120
<v Speaker 2>Uh?

0:33:44.000 --> 0:33:48.920
<v Speaker 4>I was knocked out, unconscious and this woman, ah, well,

0:33:49.280 --> 0:33:52.600
<v Speaker 4>actually first I was in the passenger seat, right, So

0:33:52.680 --> 0:33:57.280
<v Speaker 4>first the guy who's in the driver's seat, who is

0:33:58.400 --> 0:34:02.920
<v Speaker 4>a friend but so an acid dealer and had acid

0:34:02.960 --> 0:34:05.800
<v Speaker 4>on him. So he pulled me out of the car

0:34:05.880 --> 0:34:08.120
<v Speaker 4>and then started running because I guess it wasn't on

0:34:08.200 --> 0:34:11.800
<v Speaker 4>fire at that point. And then the woman across the

0:34:11.840 --> 0:34:13.879
<v Speaker 4>street noticed it was on fire and saw me laying

0:34:13.880 --> 0:34:15.560
<v Speaker 4>in the middle of the road and pulled me away

0:34:15.600 --> 0:34:21.000
<v Speaker 4>from the the fire. And then that's when I woke up.

0:34:21.040 --> 0:34:24.360
<v Speaker 4>And then I saw that it was about to explode,

0:34:24.360 --> 0:34:27.280
<v Speaker 4>and then it did and it was quite alarming.

0:34:28.960 --> 0:34:32.799
<v Speaker 2>Damn, dude, that's some action movie shit that you just

0:34:32.960 --> 0:34:33.640
<v Speaker 2>escaped out of.

0:34:35.200 --> 0:34:40.759
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, definitely felt like it. We got t boned into

0:34:41.239 --> 0:34:46.239
<v Speaker 4>two telephone poles, I guess, according to you know what

0:34:46.800 --> 0:34:49.480
<v Speaker 4>they told me at the afterwards at the accident site.

0:34:49.480 --> 0:34:51.360
<v Speaker 4>But then I just kind of went in the ambulance.

0:34:53.040 --> 0:34:55.720
<v Speaker 4>But the biggest problem was since that he wasn't there,

0:34:55.880 --> 0:35:00.560
<v Speaker 4>they thought I was driving, and I said my name

0:35:00.719 --> 0:35:03.160
<v Speaker 4>was my brother's name, and I don't even really remember

0:35:03.200 --> 0:35:06.520
<v Speaker 4>doing that, but I was really out of it. And uh,

0:35:06.680 --> 0:35:09.480
<v Speaker 4>then I was what I was in the hospital and

0:35:09.480 --> 0:35:12.480
<v Speaker 4>then discharged from the hospital under my brother's name, which

0:35:13.400 --> 0:35:17.600
<v Speaker 4>I'm scared is fraud.

0:35:19.080 --> 0:35:22.640
<v Speaker 2>Is that is that pause to ask me if that's fraud?

0:35:24.280 --> 0:35:24.839
<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

0:35:25.520 --> 0:35:28.239
<v Speaker 2>I'm not I'm not the guy for any of your

0:35:28.360 --> 0:35:33.759
<v Speaker 2>legal questions. Unfortunately, probably not. But it's okay though, I

0:35:33.760 --> 0:35:36.280
<v Speaker 2>don't know. Man, Yeah, that's a that's an attorney tom question.

0:35:36.520 --> 0:35:39.399
<v Speaker 2>But well, I hear, let's talk about this though, how

0:35:39.400 --> 0:35:42.200
<v Speaker 2>do you feel? Uh, I mean, just how do you

0:35:42.200 --> 0:35:44.120
<v Speaker 2>feel in general? Are you have you are you making

0:35:44.120 --> 0:35:46.399
<v Speaker 2>any changes to your life now that you almost died?

0:35:47.360 --> 0:35:54.560
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, definitely, I kinda. I mean I was obviously a

0:35:54.600 --> 0:35:56.799
<v Speaker 4>little messed up to be in the passenger seat of

0:35:56.840 --> 0:36:00.759
<v Speaker 4>my own car, you know what I mean? So I

0:36:00.920 --> 0:36:03.680
<v Speaker 4>uh well, well, I say, in my own car, but

0:36:04.320 --> 0:36:06.560
<v Speaker 4>it was a family car. We kind of me and

0:36:06.640 --> 0:36:09.640
<v Speaker 4>my brother share a vehicle, shared a vehicle.

0:36:10.400 --> 0:36:10.680
<v Speaker 2>Mh.

0:36:11.480 --> 0:36:15.280
<v Speaker 4>I no longer have that right at this point.

0:36:16.360 --> 0:36:19.880
<v Speaker 2>The vehicle yeah, oh, but he got a.

0:36:19.680 --> 0:36:21.440
<v Speaker 4>Rental and obvious and I'm not going to ask to

0:36:21.520 --> 0:36:22.479
<v Speaker 4>drive it anytime soon.

0:36:22.920 --> 0:36:25.560
<v Speaker 2>Okay. Anyway, so all right, man, So like, how did

0:36:25.600 --> 0:36:28.239
<v Speaker 2>you how do you feel about you had a near

0:36:28.320 --> 0:36:31.279
<v Speaker 2>death experience? You know, how does that? Yeah, how did

0:36:31.320 --> 0:36:33.600
<v Speaker 2>that be anything? What did that become for you?

0:36:34.880 --> 0:36:40.200
<v Speaker 4>Uh? Well, I was pretty at first, I was pretty

0:36:40.360 --> 0:36:46.839
<v Speaker 4>like sad in the way that I was like, oh, man,

0:36:46.880 --> 0:36:50.200
<v Speaker 4>I kind of wish I had died. But then a

0:36:50.200 --> 0:36:52.080
<v Speaker 4>lot of that is because I had a best friend

0:36:52.080 --> 0:36:57.360
<v Speaker 4>who died very recently, so that like added to my

0:36:57.520 --> 0:36:59.719
<v Speaker 4>sadness a bit. But then once I was in the

0:36:59.719 --> 0:37:05.640
<v Speaker 4>hospit and they like told me about all my wounds

0:37:05.640 --> 0:37:10.840
<v Speaker 4>and whatnot and started like helping me heal. I stopped

0:37:12.960 --> 0:37:17.400
<v Speaker 4>feeling that way and then tried to more think about

0:37:18.040 --> 0:37:22.120
<v Speaker 4>what kind of decisions I can make to not put

0:37:22.160 --> 0:37:25.320
<v Speaker 4>myself in that position, such as like you know, making

0:37:25.360 --> 0:37:28.879
<v Speaker 4>sure I I mean, we were driving too late at night.

0:37:29.000 --> 0:37:32.400
<v Speaker 4>It was stupid. The other guy hitt and ran, so

0:37:32.480 --> 0:37:34.880
<v Speaker 4>he was probably drunk or in a stolen car or

0:37:34.920 --> 0:37:44.440
<v Speaker 4>some shit. And yeah, I just feel I mean, one

0:37:44.480 --> 0:37:46.680
<v Speaker 4>of my friends is really trying to push me towards

0:37:46.719 --> 0:37:50.400
<v Speaker 4>like religion at this point and God and spirituality, but

0:37:50.440 --> 0:37:54.200
<v Speaker 4>I've always been a little bit hesitant on that. I

0:37:54.200 --> 0:37:55.600
<v Speaker 4>don't know, how do you feel about it?

0:37:57.360 --> 0:38:00.319
<v Speaker 2>Well? Why did you? And you know, luck can get

0:38:00.320 --> 0:38:02.239
<v Speaker 2>into this if you if you want, or we don't

0:38:02.280 --> 0:38:03.719
<v Speaker 2>have to if you don't want to. But why did

0:38:03.760 --> 0:38:06.280
<v Speaker 2>you feel like you wish you would have dined?

0:38:08.520 --> 0:38:16.400
<v Speaker 4>Well, just because I've been pretty depressed since he died,

0:38:16.640 --> 0:38:24.000
<v Speaker 4>and I was really upset with myself for having you know,

0:38:24.200 --> 0:38:26.640
<v Speaker 4>been out that late at night and letting all this happen,

0:38:28.360 --> 0:38:31.560
<v Speaker 4>and also in a lot of pain, I guess too,

0:38:31.800 --> 0:38:33.879
<v Speaker 4>So it was just kind of a combination of all

0:38:33.880 --> 0:38:41.879
<v Speaker 4>that because I usually I would say, I'm like, not suicidal,

0:38:41.920 --> 0:38:48.600
<v Speaker 4>but maybe wish I had been aborted, But like, uh I,

0:38:49.160 --> 0:38:56.759
<v Speaker 4>I did genuinely feel like it in the moments, not

0:38:56.960 --> 0:38:59.440
<v Speaker 4>in the moments afterwards, but once I kind of was

0:38:59.640 --> 0:39:01.840
<v Speaker 4>coming to grips with like the fact that I almost

0:39:01.880 --> 0:39:05.520
<v Speaker 4>just die because I was like too out of it

0:39:05.560 --> 0:39:10.520
<v Speaker 4>and because to really process it through the very beginning mhm.

0:39:12.360 --> 0:39:15.160
<v Speaker 2>And then in terms of how you feel like you're

0:39:15.200 --> 0:39:18.759
<v Speaker 2>going to act differently in the future, you know, tell

0:39:18.760 --> 0:39:19.400
<v Speaker 2>me more about that.

0:39:21.160 --> 0:39:27.040
<v Speaker 4>Uh well, first of all, I am gonna make sure

0:39:27.040 --> 0:39:33.680
<v Speaker 4>that I trust more sparingly. I mean, I shouldn't have

0:39:35.200 --> 0:39:39.280
<v Speaker 4>put I should have not put anyone in that position

0:39:39.400 --> 0:39:44.359
<v Speaker 4>to be driving my car unless like they're my brother

0:39:44.480 --> 0:39:51.520
<v Speaker 4>or something like that. If I wasn't, you know, ah

0:39:52.480 --> 0:40:00.560
<v Speaker 4>affed up on the asset, I would have you know,

0:40:00.680 --> 0:40:08.200
<v Speaker 4>been fine to drive myself home. And I also in

0:40:08.280 --> 0:40:11.080
<v Speaker 4>the past have had.

0:40:13.920 --> 0:40:15.680
<v Speaker 3>Some like.

0:40:17.400 --> 0:40:24.480
<v Speaker 4>I would say, issues with drinking. But this kind of

0:40:24.960 --> 0:40:31.239
<v Speaker 4>made me realize that I can't, you like, use any

0:40:32.360 --> 0:40:40.640
<v Speaker 4>mind altering substance that much for sure. And then also

0:40:41.400 --> 0:40:50.080
<v Speaker 4>just being more cautious with like, well, I guess it

0:40:50.480 --> 0:40:51.840
<v Speaker 4>was kind of out a character for me. To do

0:40:51.880 --> 0:40:53.719
<v Speaker 4>that in the first place, but just making sure that

0:40:53.800 --> 0:40:56.560
<v Speaker 4>I realized when I'm like about to do something that's

0:40:56.680 --> 0:41:03.000
<v Speaker 4>dumb and like manage or something, I give it was

0:41:03.040 --> 0:41:05.759
<v Speaker 4>a bad decision to go out late at night to

0:41:05.840 --> 0:41:07.480
<v Speaker 4>do acid in the first place.

0:41:09.760 --> 0:41:12.920
<v Speaker 2>M hmm, well, you know, I mean, look, going out

0:41:13.000 --> 0:41:16.600
<v Speaker 2>late at night and doing acid, I think I don't

0:41:16.600 --> 0:41:19.400
<v Speaker 2>think that was a horrible decision until you involved a car.

0:41:20.400 --> 0:41:22.520
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:41:22.600 --> 0:41:27.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm glad to hear that you're uh processing this

0:41:27.560 --> 0:41:32.360
<v Speaker 2>in a in a beneficial way, right, because man, you

0:41:32.400 --> 0:41:35.279
<v Speaker 2>totally could have died and you didn't, and now you're

0:41:35.400 --> 0:41:38.960
<v Speaker 2>you're giving a new chance to make better decisions.

0:41:39.480 --> 0:41:43.920
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's I'm still kind of feeling like I'm coming

0:41:43.960 --> 0:41:46.680
<v Speaker 4>to terms with the whole like near death aspect of

0:41:46.719 --> 0:41:49.000
<v Speaker 4>it all. Like I feel like I haven't fully sank in,

0:41:49.680 --> 0:41:53.760
<v Speaker 4>but I definitely feel a lot more grateful than I

0:41:53.760 --> 0:41:56.200
<v Speaker 4>had in the past, like for being alive.

0:41:58.280 --> 0:42:00.759
<v Speaker 2>That's good. That sounds like the opposite of suicidal.

0:42:01.800 --> 0:42:06.360
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well now, yeah, I feel I feel more like,

0:42:07.200 --> 0:42:16.759
<v Speaker 4>uh engaged to not want to, uh you know, have

0:42:17.040 --> 0:42:19.719
<v Speaker 4>anything like that happen again, or you know, die in

0:42:19.800 --> 0:42:22.000
<v Speaker 4>some kind of accident or something like that I want

0:42:22.040 --> 0:42:25.000
<v Speaker 4>to make sure that I can do something that, uh,

0:42:25.120 --> 0:42:26.840
<v Speaker 4>you know, at the end of the day, matters a

0:42:26.880 --> 0:42:27.279
<v Speaker 4>little bit.

0:42:28.480 --> 0:42:30.280
<v Speaker 2>What do you want to do that you think will matter?

0:42:32.239 --> 0:42:36.120
<v Speaker 4>Well, I went to film school. I went to ny

0:42:36.280 --> 0:42:43.759
<v Speaker 4>U Tish for UH filmmaking and minored in uh screenwriting,

0:42:43.920 --> 0:42:48.840
<v Speaker 4>And so I've been trying. I've been trying to uh

0:42:49.239 --> 0:42:51.480
<v Speaker 4>sell scripts and stuff like that. I mean, I've sold

0:42:51.520 --> 0:42:55.319
<v Speaker 4>a couple, but there's not a lot of buzz on

0:42:55.400 --> 0:42:58.040
<v Speaker 4>my name right now. After the writer's strike and everything,

0:42:58.120 --> 0:43:03.359
<v Speaker 4>things kind of uh reset. I feel like I'm back

0:43:03.520 --> 0:43:05.480
<v Speaker 4>kind of almost as square one. I mean that maybe

0:43:05.560 --> 0:43:09.239
<v Speaker 4>square two because I have an agent still, but I'm

0:43:09.320 --> 0:43:14.000
<v Speaker 4>like still kind of struggling trying to make some smaller

0:43:14.080 --> 0:43:17.000
<v Speaker 4>short films and convince people to do it for a

0:43:17.040 --> 0:43:18.640
<v Speaker 4>little to know money and shit like that.

0:43:19.760 --> 0:43:24.440
<v Speaker 2>Are you going to adapt any of this into into

0:43:24.480 --> 0:43:25.359
<v Speaker 2>your writing at all?

0:43:26.960 --> 0:43:30.120
<v Speaker 4>I mean, if I got a budget where I could

0:43:30.120 --> 0:43:34.399
<v Speaker 4>crash a car, I would do it. But I don't

0:43:34.440 --> 0:43:37.600
<v Speaker 4>think I would go out of my way to do

0:43:37.640 --> 0:43:40.600
<v Speaker 4>that on a on a you know, personal budget. But

0:43:40.640 --> 0:43:42.840
<v Speaker 4>I think that it definitely would be good for a

0:43:42.920 --> 0:43:46.720
<v Speaker 4>screen writing And that's a actually a really beneficial idea

0:43:46.719 --> 0:43:49.440
<v Speaker 4>that I don't know why I didn't think of, like sooner.

0:43:51.640 --> 0:43:57.399
<v Speaker 2>What's your name again, man, Paris, like to be in France, Paris. Well,

0:43:57.400 --> 0:44:02.240
<v Speaker 2>thanks for sharing the story, Paris. Yeah again, I'm happy

0:44:02.239 --> 0:44:05.719
<v Speaker 2>to hear that you're processing it very well. You know,

0:44:05.760 --> 0:44:08.040
<v Speaker 2>is there any other aspect of any of this or

0:44:08.520 --> 0:44:10.520
<v Speaker 2>anything at all that you want to shore or say

0:44:10.520 --> 0:44:11.080
<v Speaker 2>before we go?

0:44:12.080 --> 0:44:15.280
<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I mean, I guess what would be your general

0:44:15.360 --> 0:44:19.239
<v Speaker 4>take on like near death experiences and stuff like that,

0:44:19.400 --> 0:44:26.600
<v Speaker 4>and how to kind of you know, how they might

0:44:26.760 --> 0:44:32.319
<v Speaker 4>like either change your life or how they can make

0:44:32.360 --> 0:44:33.240
<v Speaker 4>your outlook better.

0:44:33.840 --> 0:44:37.040
<v Speaker 2>Well, that one's easy. I mean, look, man, you got

0:44:37.200 --> 0:44:40.640
<v Speaker 2>nothing if you're dead, right, And so the things that

0:44:40.680 --> 0:44:43.560
<v Speaker 2>stress you out in life, like you know, I'm not

0:44:43.560 --> 0:44:47.239
<v Speaker 2>selling enough screenplays, or oh my friend's mad at me,

0:44:47.440 --> 0:44:51.280
<v Speaker 2>or oh this or that, any day to day problemly,

0:44:51.280 --> 0:44:53.200
<v Speaker 2>even if it's a big one, I mean, any day

0:44:53.239 --> 0:44:56.520
<v Speaker 2>to day stress or whatever, it just fucking pales in

0:44:56.560 --> 0:45:02.040
<v Speaker 2>comparison to the stress that you you've experienced of being

0:45:02.120 --> 0:45:05.760
<v Speaker 2>on a car, of being in a car on fire.

0:45:06.880 --> 0:45:10.120
<v Speaker 2>So next time somebody's not responding to your email fast

0:45:10.200 --> 0:45:12.560
<v Speaker 2>enough after you sent them your script, you can just

0:45:12.600 --> 0:45:15.240
<v Speaker 2>be like, well, at least I'm not in a car

0:45:15.280 --> 0:45:19.160
<v Speaker 2>that's on fire. You can use, you get to use

0:45:19.480 --> 0:45:21.480
<v Speaker 2>and you're actually you're even lucky because you get to

0:45:21.600 --> 0:45:25.400
<v Speaker 2>use that every day for the for the rest of

0:45:25.440 --> 0:45:30.560
<v Speaker 2>your life. Anytime anything bad happens to you, you can go, well,

0:45:30.560 --> 0:45:32.920
<v Speaker 2>at least I'm not in a car that's on fire,

0:45:35.040 --> 0:45:35.239
<v Speaker 2>you know.

0:45:35.600 --> 0:45:36.360
<v Speaker 1>I Uh.

0:45:37.239 --> 0:45:39.200
<v Speaker 2>One of my one of someone of my family actually

0:45:39.239 --> 0:45:42.680
<v Speaker 2>was in it was in a car accident. And she

0:45:42.880 --> 0:45:46.520
<v Speaker 2>told me that every time something annoying happens to her, like,

0:45:48.239 --> 0:45:50.839
<v Speaker 2>you know whatever, there's there's like a long line at

0:45:50.880 --> 0:45:54.680
<v Speaker 2>the grocery store. She she imagines this. She's like, she

0:45:54.760 --> 0:45:59.440
<v Speaker 2>imagines herself in a burning car and and and an

0:45:59.520 --> 0:46:03.000
<v Speaker 2>angel comes to her and says, now listen, now the

0:46:03.040 --> 0:46:05.400
<v Speaker 2>car is on fire. And the angel says, now listen,

0:46:06.239 --> 0:46:08.040
<v Speaker 2>I can cut you with deal. I can let you

0:46:08.760 --> 0:46:13.279
<v Speaker 2>out of this burning car, but in return you have

0:46:13.360 --> 0:46:16.319
<v Speaker 2>to wait in a long line at the grocery store. Yes,

0:46:16.360 --> 0:46:18.160
<v Speaker 2>of course, let me have the car. Jesus right now,

0:46:18.480 --> 0:46:23.840
<v Speaker 2>I'll do it. So think about that.

0:46:23.920 --> 0:46:26.239
<v Speaker 4>I guess is more of a literal case with me,

0:46:26.360 --> 0:46:28.600
<v Speaker 4>because I did have a woman physically pulled me out

0:46:28.600 --> 0:46:31.040
<v Speaker 4>of the car. Kind of a guardian angel situation, so

0:46:32.239 --> 0:46:33.560
<v Speaker 4>I can take that one literally.

0:46:35.120 --> 0:46:36.920
<v Speaker 2>Take care, Paris. Thank you very much for calling.

0:46:38.239 --> 0:46:40.879
<v Speaker 4>Love you, ghek, Thank you so much. I really appreciate it.

0:46:40.880 --> 0:46:42.319
<v Speaker 4>First time call a long time.

0:46:43.280 --> 0:46:44.960
<v Speaker 2>Take care. I hope to see your name on a

0:46:45.640 --> 0:46:46.960
<v Speaker 2>on a movie someday.

0:46:47.880 --> 0:46:50.520
<v Speaker 4>Yes, sir, when you do, make sure to shout it out.

0:46:50.560 --> 0:46:52.560
<v Speaker 4>And you know, if I get to direct it, I'll

0:46:52.560 --> 0:46:54.560
<v Speaker 4>throw you a bone and give you a cameo. If

0:46:54.600 --> 0:46:56.399
<v Speaker 4>you want to old roll, I'll give you a big one.

0:46:57.760 --> 0:46:57.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:46:58.000 --> 0:47:00.400
<v Speaker 2>When I you know, when when my career is uh

0:47:00.480 --> 0:47:02.239
<v Speaker 2>all the way at its bottom, I will very much

0:47:02.280 --> 0:47:14.239
<v Speaker 2>accept your bone. Take care of parts. Hello, Hi, what

0:47:14.400 --> 0:47:14.919
<v Speaker 2>is your name?

0:47:15.760 --> 0:47:16.800
<v Speaker 1>Holy shit?

0:47:18.080 --> 0:47:19.800
<v Speaker 5>Oh, my name's Steph.

0:47:19.880 --> 0:47:25.600
<v Speaker 2>What's up Steph? Would you want to talk about today?

0:47:25.920 --> 0:47:31.640
<v Speaker 5>I don't really have anything too crazy going on. I mean,

0:47:31.640 --> 0:47:36.840
<v Speaker 5>there's always stuff, but nothing that I need like urgent

0:47:36.880 --> 0:47:37.520
<v Speaker 5>advice on.

0:47:39.040 --> 0:47:41.839
<v Speaker 2>That's good. So your life is perfect and nothing bad

0:47:41.880 --> 0:47:42.880
<v Speaker 2>has happened to you.

0:47:43.120 --> 0:47:47.200
<v Speaker 5>It's pretty no no, no, definitely bad stuff a lot,

0:47:47.360 --> 0:47:49.600
<v Speaker 5>but like I feel like I don't know, like you've

0:47:49.640 --> 0:47:53.400
<v Speaker 5>had some crazy stuff on yours, Like I none of

0:47:53.400 --> 0:47:57.239
<v Speaker 5>my stories are as crazy you know.

0:47:57.200 --> 0:48:01.040
<v Speaker 2>It's fun Okay, so there's a phone there was a caller.

0:48:02.160 --> 0:48:04.040
<v Speaker 2>It's always funny when people say that. They're like, oh,

0:48:04.040 --> 0:48:05.680
<v Speaker 2>I feel like I have nothing to talk about because

0:48:05.760 --> 0:48:08.400
<v Speaker 2>you you know, you have all these crazy stories of people,

0:48:09.360 --> 0:48:13.360
<v Speaker 2>you know, getting into a weird sex colts and doing

0:48:13.560 --> 0:48:18.759
<v Speaker 2>methamphetamine and running from the cops in Argentina. But you know,

0:48:18.800 --> 0:48:21.040
<v Speaker 2>one of my favorite phone calls, and maybe it wasn't

0:48:21.040 --> 0:48:23.080
<v Speaker 2>the call itself, what it was the idea behind it.

0:48:23.360 --> 0:48:25.160
<v Speaker 2>There was this guy who called in. This was a

0:48:25.160 --> 0:48:27.719
<v Speaker 2>while ago, this is over of one or two years ago.

0:48:27.920 --> 0:48:34.799
<v Speaker 2>Is this guy called in to talk about how he

0:48:34.840 --> 0:48:38.040
<v Speaker 2>has this pizza place that he really likes in the

0:48:38.080 --> 0:48:41.239
<v Speaker 2>state that he lives in. But then he took a

0:48:41.280 --> 0:48:45.759
<v Speaker 2>trip to the state right over, like one stayed over

0:48:46.719 --> 0:48:51.400
<v Speaker 2>and he had pizza at their pizza place and it

0:48:51.520 --> 0:48:54.920
<v Speaker 2>was better. And so now when he eats pizza at

0:48:54.920 --> 0:48:58.000
<v Speaker 2>the pizza place in his state, it's not as good anymore,

0:48:58.920 --> 0:49:02.400
<v Speaker 2>even though even though he liked it before he tried

0:49:02.680 --> 0:49:07.920
<v Speaker 2>the other pizza place. Isn't that fascinating? Isn't that There's

0:49:07.920 --> 0:49:10.759
<v Speaker 2>so much there's like life in that story, and that

0:49:10.840 --> 0:49:14.239
<v Speaker 2>is nothing that is like I that's not interesting at all,

0:49:14.280 --> 0:49:16.640
<v Speaker 2>but it is. It is interesting. It's like the micro

0:49:17.440 --> 0:49:22.359
<v Speaker 2>cosm of I don't know, a desire for a never

0:49:22.520 --> 0:49:27.239
<v Speaker 2>a never ending lust for novelty or something. I think.

0:49:27.280 --> 0:49:29.319
<v Speaker 2>I think about that guy every time people say that

0:49:29.360 --> 0:49:32.400
<v Speaker 2>they don't have anything to talk about, because the things

0:49:32.960 --> 0:49:34.239
<v Speaker 2>at least that I want to hear about, I mean,

0:49:34.280 --> 0:49:36.480
<v Speaker 2>people will call it like people will call in and

0:49:36.480 --> 0:49:41.319
<v Speaker 2>be like, yeah, man, I once did acid and ran

0:49:41.400 --> 0:49:43.640
<v Speaker 2>from the cops, And I'll be like, all right, but

0:49:43.680 --> 0:49:47.840
<v Speaker 2>that's not really a story there. There's no humanity and

0:49:47.840 --> 0:49:51.640
<v Speaker 2>they didn't learn anything. You didn't discover anything. You know,

0:49:52.120 --> 0:49:55.440
<v Speaker 2>There's much more interesting stories that are lower concepts. So

0:49:55.600 --> 0:49:58.840
<v Speaker 2>that's I guess I'm saying that to make you hopefully

0:49:58.920 --> 0:50:01.480
<v Speaker 2>think of anything that you you know, it's going on

0:50:01.640 --> 0:50:07.160
<v Speaker 2>that you know, maybe you've ruled out as too minute, gotcha.

0:50:07.719 --> 0:50:09.799
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I guess it's about like how you tell it

0:50:10.280 --> 0:50:17.680
<v Speaker 5>versus like the actual content. Sometimes I don't know. Well,

0:50:18.560 --> 0:50:21.759
<v Speaker 5>I guess the main thing on my mind is I

0:50:21.880 --> 0:50:24.120
<v Speaker 5>have like five more months on my lease in my

0:50:24.200 --> 0:50:27.719
<v Speaker 5>current city, and I'm trying to think about like my

0:50:27.760 --> 0:50:30.880
<v Speaker 5>next moves. I'm like, should I move home for a

0:50:30.960 --> 0:50:33.080
<v Speaker 5>couple of months and save it and then move. Or

0:50:33.560 --> 0:50:35.799
<v Speaker 5>should I just move straight to another city and just

0:50:35.840 --> 0:50:37.160
<v Speaker 5>be struggling again?

0:50:39.920 --> 0:50:41.560
<v Speaker 2>Or you're struggling with paying rent?

0:50:43.080 --> 0:50:46.719
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'm only like a couple years postgrad, but yeah,

0:50:46.760 --> 0:50:50.319
<v Speaker 5>I'm like struggling to pay rent, which is fine. You know,

0:50:50.400 --> 0:50:53.960
<v Speaker 5>I don't really live like a super expensive lifestyle anyway,

0:50:54.280 --> 0:50:56.200
<v Speaker 5>but it would be nice to like have a little

0:50:56.200 --> 0:50:58.759
<v Speaker 5>extra money. So I've thought about when my lease is up,

0:50:58.800 --> 0:51:01.640
<v Speaker 5>like moving home for a couple months, which I would hate,

0:51:01.680 --> 0:51:03.440
<v Speaker 5>Like I wouldn't even have like a room, Like I'd

0:51:03.480 --> 0:51:06.960
<v Speaker 5>be like on my mom's like couch. But I'm like,

0:51:07.239 --> 0:51:09.319
<v Speaker 5>is it worth it to do that just for the

0:51:09.320 --> 0:51:12.240
<v Speaker 5>summer to get like, you know, like five six thousand

0:51:12.320 --> 0:51:14.399
<v Speaker 5>dollars to help me move somewhere else?

0:51:14.480 --> 0:51:15.319
<v Speaker 2>What do you do?

0:51:16.840 --> 0:51:18.280
<v Speaker 5>I'm a graphic designer?

0:51:18.960 --> 0:51:23.680
<v Speaker 2>Okay, cool? What do you like? Are you cool with

0:51:23.800 --> 0:51:26.200
<v Speaker 2>your parents? Uh?

0:51:26.640 --> 0:51:29.399
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's fine, all right.

0:51:29.800 --> 0:51:32.879
<v Speaker 2>I mean, listen, man, I've said this a billion times

0:51:32.880 --> 0:51:34.520
<v Speaker 2>on here, but I've done that. I mean, I started

0:51:34.560 --> 0:51:39.279
<v Speaker 2>doing this podcast in my mom's basement. Granted, if I

0:51:39.280 --> 0:51:41.160
<v Speaker 2>didn't have my own room, and if I didn't have

0:51:41.200 --> 0:51:43.439
<v Speaker 2>my own private like space, I think that would drive

0:51:43.520 --> 0:51:45.799
<v Speaker 2>me significantly more insane.

0:51:46.280 --> 0:51:49.160
<v Speaker 5>But yeah, that's the thing, like she it's just my

0:51:49.239 --> 0:51:51.600
<v Speaker 5>mom because my dad lives somewhere else. She just has

0:51:51.640 --> 0:51:54.319
<v Speaker 5>like a small apartment now, so I'm like it would

0:51:54.320 --> 0:51:56.720
<v Speaker 5>be really cramped and like my younger brother would probably

0:51:56.719 --> 0:51:57.640
<v Speaker 5>be there this summer too.

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<v Speaker 2>M hm.

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<v Speaker 5>So it's like, where is it?

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<v Speaker 2>Look, I don't think it's a terrible idea. Uh, this

0:52:04.320 --> 0:52:07.480
<v Speaker 2>is this is we're getting into financial advice gecko now.

0:52:07.520 --> 0:52:11.520
<v Speaker 2>But I don't think that living at home to save

0:52:11.600 --> 0:52:14.640
<v Speaker 2>money is a is a horrible idea. I mean, can

0:52:14.680 --> 0:52:18.920
<v Speaker 2>you what what city? What city are you in?

0:52:20.040 --> 0:52:20.680
<v Speaker 5>I'm silly.

0:52:21.719 --> 0:52:25.040
<v Speaker 2>Why don't you get once you get Like I lived

0:52:25.080 --> 0:52:27.400
<v Speaker 2>in Philly. I had like a bunch of roommates and

0:52:27.440 --> 0:52:30.480
<v Speaker 2>the rent was cheap as hell. There's so many like

0:52:30.880 --> 0:52:36.360
<v Speaker 2>there's can't you live in? Uh? Can't you live in

0:52:36.440 --> 0:52:38.040
<v Speaker 2>like one of the neighborhood in Philly and get a

0:52:38.080 --> 0:52:40.000
<v Speaker 2>bunch of roommates? And I.

0:52:42.080 --> 0:52:43.520
<v Speaker 5>Don't like Philly, Like I'm trying to.

0:52:43.560 --> 0:52:46.759
<v Speaker 2>Leave Silly, No Philly rocks. What are you doing you

0:52:46.800 --> 0:52:49.080
<v Speaker 2>like about Philly? Oh?

0:52:49.840 --> 0:52:52.520
<v Speaker 5>I don't know, Like I don't really like the cold.

0:52:53.840 --> 0:52:56.560
<v Speaker 5>So that's like one thing, and I don't know, it

0:52:56.560 --> 0:52:58.920
<v Speaker 5>feels a little bit limited. And I grew up in

0:52:58.960 --> 0:53:00.560
<v Speaker 5>New York, so it just feels a little bit like

0:53:00.680 --> 0:53:01.920
<v Speaker 5>small comparison.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hm hmmm. I don't know, man, I think Phillys

0:53:10.040 --> 0:53:11.520
<v Speaker 2>is six. Are you trying to move to New York

0:53:11.560 --> 0:53:13.239
<v Speaker 2>because if that's the case, you're gonna have to live

0:53:13.239 --> 0:53:15.520
<v Speaker 2>on your mom's couch for the next five years.

0:53:16.800 --> 0:53:18.520
<v Speaker 5>That's true. No, I kind of want to move to

0:53:18.560 --> 0:53:21.920
<v Speaker 5>like the West Coast. That's why I'm like, I probably

0:53:21.960 --> 0:53:23.240
<v Speaker 5>should save money first.

0:53:24.000 --> 0:53:27.439
<v Speaker 2>What's a nice I mean, not La right, m hmm,

0:53:28.400 --> 0:53:31.319
<v Speaker 2>maybe okay, because I mean I'm trying to think of, like,

0:53:31.360 --> 0:53:36.040
<v Speaker 2>what are some cheap nice city. I think Phoenix is like,

0:53:36.200 --> 0:53:40.239
<v Speaker 2>and correct me if I'm wrong, Phoenicians. But I think

0:53:40.280 --> 0:53:45.160
<v Speaker 2>Phoenix is like like an up and coming, moderately affordable

0:53:45.840 --> 0:53:50.279
<v Speaker 2>West Coast cities. And it's hot as balls there, so

0:53:50.400 --> 0:53:52.520
<v Speaker 2>it's it's hot enough to make up for however many

0:53:53.520 --> 0:53:56.600
<v Speaker 2>cold years you spent in Philadelphia.

0:53:57.239 --> 0:54:01.279
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I have heard about Phoenix. I'm thinking about it.

0:54:01.280 --> 0:54:03.279
<v Speaker 5>I'm not really thinking too much about where I'm gonna

0:54:03.280 --> 0:54:05.239
<v Speaker 5>move yet more, just like if I should just send

0:54:05.280 --> 0:54:06.279
<v Speaker 5>it or not?

0:54:07.160 --> 0:54:09.120
<v Speaker 2>Do you do you have a job you have to like, like,

0:54:09.160 --> 0:54:11.040
<v Speaker 2>as a designer, do you have to like go into

0:54:11.040 --> 0:54:13.920
<v Speaker 2>a place or are you beat booping on the computer.

0:54:15.080 --> 0:54:18.080
<v Speaker 5>So I work like at a law firm, so it's

0:54:18.120 --> 0:54:20.680
<v Speaker 5>like all remote. I mean they have offices places, and

0:54:20.719 --> 0:54:24.480
<v Speaker 5>I do go in, but like it's not really essential

0:54:24.520 --> 0:54:25.480
<v Speaker 5>that I go in every.

0:54:25.360 --> 0:54:29.560
<v Speaker 2>Day, live your live, your digital nomad life. Dog.

0:54:31.719 --> 0:54:34.640
<v Speaker 5>Well, the thing is like technically we're supposed to even

0:54:34.719 --> 0:54:36.239
<v Speaker 5>like when I go in, it's really just to like

0:54:36.320 --> 0:54:39.880
<v Speaker 5>hang out with my coworkers that are my friends. But

0:54:40.000 --> 0:54:41.759
<v Speaker 5>like technically we have to go in like a couple

0:54:41.800 --> 0:54:42.439
<v Speaker 5>of times a week.

0:54:43.800 --> 0:54:46.600
<v Speaker 2>So mm hmmm.

0:54:46.880 --> 0:54:48.440
<v Speaker 5>So I just have to move somewhere where they have

0:54:48.480 --> 0:54:49.040
<v Speaker 5>an office.

0:54:49.920 --> 0:54:51.000
<v Speaker 2>Where do they have offices?

0:54:52.840 --> 0:54:53.960
<v Speaker 5>Like a lot of places?

0:54:54.520 --> 0:55:00.239
<v Speaker 2>Okay, do they have Do they have offices in Phoenix, Arizona?

0:55:01.320 --> 0:55:02.200
<v Speaker 5>Unfortunately no?

0:55:03.280 --> 0:55:07.359
<v Speaker 2>Do they exclusively have offices in cities with extremely high

0:55:07.440 --> 0:55:13.480
<v Speaker 2>cost of living but also can't pay in those fucking cities.

0:55:14.800 --> 0:55:19.239
<v Speaker 5>Yeah that sounds about right.

0:55:20.040 --> 0:55:23.279
<v Speaker 2>Well, I don't know, man, I mean I don't know.

0:55:23.280 --> 0:55:26.799
<v Speaker 2>I mean I like Philly, but that well, I don't

0:55:26.800 --> 0:55:29.880
<v Speaker 2>know why I'm telling you that. That's me liking Philly

0:55:29.920 --> 0:55:37.880
<v Speaker 2>has absolutely nothing to do with your situation at all. Uh,

0:55:38.080 --> 0:55:42.160
<v Speaker 2>you could live, I don't know where you could live?

0:55:43.320 --> 0:55:45.080
<v Speaker 2>Where could you live? Where do you want to live?

0:55:46.520 --> 0:55:49.680
<v Speaker 5>I don't know. I mean I've thought about like spending

0:55:49.680 --> 0:55:52.000
<v Speaker 5>a year like abroad or something like I think that'd

0:55:52.000 --> 0:55:54.160
<v Speaker 5>be really cool, but I don't know. He's like, I

0:55:54.800 --> 0:55:58.080
<v Speaker 5>have this issue where like I'm like twenty four, and

0:55:58.160 --> 0:56:00.719
<v Speaker 5>I'm so scared to like go live abroad that or

0:56:00.760 --> 0:56:02.560
<v Speaker 5>like go fuck around for another year and then like

0:56:03.080 --> 0:56:05.440
<v Speaker 5>first I don't know. I always just like worry about

0:56:05.520 --> 0:56:08.440
<v Speaker 5>like being forever alone. You know, I'm like single of

0:56:08.480 --> 0:56:11.160
<v Speaker 5>like no strings, and I'm scared to like leave and

0:56:11.200 --> 0:56:14.080
<v Speaker 5>then first come and start like looking for a husband

0:56:14.120 --> 0:56:16.919
<v Speaker 5>basically like first at like twenty eight or twenty nine,

0:56:17.040 --> 0:56:21.200
<v Speaker 5>Like that is kind of scary.

0:56:21.360 --> 0:56:23.440
<v Speaker 2>You are you're afraid to start looking for a husband

0:56:23.480 --> 0:56:24.239
<v Speaker 2>at twenty eight.

0:56:24.840 --> 0:56:29.239
<v Speaker 5>Well, yeah, I guess like I'm afraid to waste time

0:56:29.320 --> 0:56:32.839
<v Speaker 5>abroad and then first start settling down like kind of late.

0:56:33.040 --> 0:56:33.480
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:56:33.560 --> 0:56:37.080
<v Speaker 2>I don't understand why you look at it as a

0:56:37.080 --> 0:56:37.799
<v Speaker 2>waste of time.

0:56:40.000 --> 0:56:41.920
<v Speaker 5>I know that's true. That's what people are telling me.

0:56:42.000 --> 0:56:44.200
<v Speaker 5>Like I can't like think about a timeline. It's just

0:56:44.280 --> 0:56:47.360
<v Speaker 5>like live in a moment and then you know, whatever happens.

0:56:47.880 --> 0:56:50.640
<v Speaker 2>Look, anytime I've ever left the country, I've never been like,

0:56:52.640 --> 0:56:55.399
<v Speaker 2>you know, I wish I actually Okay, well, okay, I'm

0:56:55.400 --> 0:56:56.799
<v Speaker 2>gonna tell you what I was about to say, and

0:56:56.800 --> 0:57:01.359
<v Speaker 2>then I'm gonna tell you I second guessed it. I

0:57:01.400 --> 0:57:04.839
<v Speaker 2>was about to say, I've never left the country and

0:57:04.880 --> 0:57:07.719
<v Speaker 2>then been like and then came back and been like,

0:57:07.800 --> 0:57:10.200
<v Speaker 2>I wish I spent that time looking for a wife.

0:57:10.520 --> 0:57:14.360
<v Speaker 2>But I second guessed it because maybe I should have

0:57:14.360 --> 0:57:16.040
<v Speaker 2>spent that time looking for a wife. I don't know,

0:57:16.680 --> 0:57:21.400
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. But the point, I've never left the

0:57:21.440 --> 0:57:24.640
<v Speaker 2>country and regretted it. I've never That's not true. I've

0:57:24.680 --> 0:57:26.520
<v Speaker 2>never left the country and regretted it. I've never left

0:57:26.560 --> 0:57:28.200
<v Speaker 2>the country and been like, I should have spent that

0:57:28.240 --> 0:57:30.280
<v Speaker 2>time looking for a wife. I've never done that in

0:57:30.320 --> 0:57:33.840
<v Speaker 2>any of the times that I've left the country. It's

0:57:33.880 --> 0:57:36.320
<v Speaker 2>always and there's places you can go that are like

0:57:36.520 --> 0:57:41.120
<v Speaker 2>relatively cheap, you know, that are significantly cheaper than fucking Philadelphia.

0:57:41.200 --> 0:57:46.560
<v Speaker 2>Even so, if it's I mean, I'm biased because I

0:57:46.680 --> 0:57:49.520
<v Speaker 2>like doing it. But if you have any inkling of

0:57:49.560 --> 0:57:53.720
<v Speaker 2>a of a sense that you might enjoy leaving the country,

0:57:53.840 --> 0:57:56.400
<v Speaker 2>and and you, you know, can save up enough money

0:57:56.600 --> 0:58:01.440
<v Speaker 2>on your mom's couch to do it, then I mean

0:58:01.480 --> 0:58:06.240
<v Speaker 2>I'd go for it, but that's just that's just me. Yeah,

0:58:06.280 --> 0:58:11.400
<v Speaker 2>and there will be plenty of husbands left at twenty eight.

0:58:13.200 --> 0:58:16.320
<v Speaker 5>Yeah. No, that's definitely true. That's definitely true.

0:58:20.840 --> 0:58:24.960
<v Speaker 2>That's cool, man. I don't know. My my and my

0:58:25.040 --> 0:58:28.320
<v Speaker 2>parents met their current spouses when they were like forty something,

0:58:30.120 --> 0:58:31.080
<v Speaker 2>so this time.

0:58:32.560 --> 0:58:35.480
<v Speaker 5>Wow, but did they have kids? El eight two.

0:58:37.040 --> 0:58:37.280
<v Speaker 4>Old?

0:58:37.600 --> 0:58:40.440
<v Speaker 2>How old am I? How old is anyone? I think

0:58:40.480 --> 0:58:42.080
<v Speaker 2>my parents had me when they were in like their

0:58:42.160 --> 0:58:43.840
<v Speaker 2>late thirties or something like that.

0:58:47.360 --> 0:58:48.200
<v Speaker 5>Let's good to know.

0:58:48.480 --> 0:58:50.720
<v Speaker 2>Plus, Hey, maybe you go abroad and you meet a

0:58:53.360 --> 0:58:57.080
<v Speaker 2>foreign guy. Yeah that could be cool. Isn't that everyone's

0:58:57.120 --> 0:59:00.439
<v Speaker 2>fantasy to like meet a hot European dude and get

0:59:00.480 --> 0:59:05.160
<v Speaker 2>on his moped and never come back. Not well, that

0:59:05.240 --> 0:59:07.560
<v Speaker 2>never comes back. That sounds like that sounds like taken.

0:59:07.800 --> 0:59:11.840
<v Speaker 2>That doesn't sound like the fantasy. But you know what

0:59:11.840 --> 0:59:12.360
<v Speaker 2>I'm saying.

0:59:13.880 --> 0:59:16.480
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I don't know. I feel like most of my

0:59:16.560 --> 0:59:21.400
<v Speaker 5>friends like have no interest in that that specific fantasy

0:59:22.680 --> 0:59:23.680
<v Speaker 5>or most of you most.

0:59:23.520 --> 0:59:27.600
<v Speaker 2>Of your friends are married to their rural Pennsylvania boyfriends.

0:59:29.440 --> 0:59:31.959
<v Speaker 5>No, not necessarily, but like I don't know the whole

0:59:31.960 --> 0:59:34.720
<v Speaker 5>like being like in a whole nother country and like

0:59:34.760 --> 0:59:37.479
<v Speaker 5>finding someone there, like so far away from like friends

0:59:37.520 --> 0:59:40.800
<v Speaker 5>and family, Like isn't super appealing to me?

0:59:41.680 --> 0:59:44.200
<v Speaker 2>To you?

0:59:44.280 --> 0:59:45.320
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, like to me, like, I'm not.

0:59:45.520 --> 0:59:47.040
<v Speaker 2>But I thought you just said you wanted to you

0:59:47.120 --> 0:59:48.480
<v Speaker 2>were thought about living.

0:59:48.240 --> 0:59:51.400
<v Speaker 5>Abroad, Yeah, but it would only be for like a

0:59:51.480 --> 0:59:53.760
<v Speaker 5>year or two probably, mm hmm.

0:59:54.480 --> 1:00:00.000
<v Speaker 2>Well, I don't know. I I would I mean, if

1:00:00.000 --> 1:00:01.760
<v Speaker 2>if I were, if you're asking, I'm not going to

1:00:01.800 --> 1:00:05.280
<v Speaker 2>tell you what to do, even though I if you're

1:00:05.320 --> 1:00:07.800
<v Speaker 2>asking me what I think about this situation, I would

1:00:07.800 --> 1:00:13.800
<v Speaker 2>tell you that you're not going to be old and

1:00:14.160 --> 1:00:16.480
<v Speaker 2>decrepit at the age of twenty eight.

1:00:18.640 --> 1:00:21.320
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I know. I don't know why I think I am.

1:00:21.520 --> 1:00:23.840
<v Speaker 5>Like when I hit twenty two, I feel like I

1:00:23.960 --> 1:00:25.240
<v Speaker 5>just spent downhill.

1:00:35.360 --> 1:00:38.280
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I haven't. I've never left the country

1:00:38.480 --> 1:00:40.200
<v Speaker 2>and came back and been like I should have spent

1:00:40.280 --> 1:00:43.000
<v Speaker 2>time looking for a wife. But maybe I should have.

1:00:43.040 --> 1:00:46.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I this is why it's weird having

1:00:46.080 --> 1:00:49.520
<v Speaker 2>a I wouldn't call this an advice show. This is

1:00:49.560 --> 1:00:53.040
<v Speaker 2>a This is a Gecko Show more than anything. But

1:00:53.080 --> 1:00:54.800
<v Speaker 2>it's weird because I don't know what makes any I

1:00:54.800 --> 1:00:57.480
<v Speaker 2>don't know. I don't know it's going to make you

1:00:58.400 --> 1:01:01.520
<v Speaker 2>stoked in life, Steph. But I do know that you're

1:01:01.560 --> 1:01:07.440
<v Speaker 2>not gonna be that when you turn twenty eight, if

1:01:07.440 --> 1:01:10.960
<v Speaker 2>you're lucky enough to turn twenty eight, you're not gonna

1:01:12.040 --> 1:01:16.520
<v Speaker 2>be like You're not gonna be like that lady, the

1:01:16.600 --> 1:01:18.200
<v Speaker 2>chocolate lady from SpongeBob.

1:01:20.640 --> 1:01:20.840
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

1:01:20.880 --> 1:01:23.480
<v Speaker 5>No, I mean it's not just that. I just always worry, like,

1:01:23.520 --> 1:01:26.200
<v Speaker 5>oh if I send you here to abroad and come back,

1:01:26.320 --> 1:01:28.520
<v Speaker 5>like I'm not gonna be behind in my job and

1:01:28.560 --> 1:01:32.200
<v Speaker 5>like other stuff. But I gotta live in the.

1:01:32.200 --> 1:01:35.960
<v Speaker 2>Present, Stephanie. Is there anything else you want to say

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<v Speaker 2>to the people of the computer before we go? No,

1:01:42.000 --> 1:01:45.880
<v Speaker 2>that was decisive. I like that. Thank you for calling Stephanie.

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<v Speaker 5>Good luck, Thank you, have a good night.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I'm gonna I'm gonna end up on one

1:01:51.440 --> 1:01:56.280
<v Speaker 2>of those like reality show like I wanna, Oh you

1:01:56.320 --> 1:01:58.240
<v Speaker 2>know what I should do? I should do The Bachelor.

1:01:58.320 --> 1:02:00.480
<v Speaker 2>Gek like it like a player. That's a sound as

1:02:00.520 --> 1:02:02.120
<v Speaker 2>good as I thought it. I thought it was gonna

1:02:02.120 --> 1:02:03.960
<v Speaker 2>I thought I was gonna be able to successfully rhyme

1:02:04.400 --> 1:02:09.560
<v Speaker 2>Bachelorette with Bachelor gek, but that didn't work. I think

1:02:09.600 --> 1:02:11.680
<v Speaker 2>that's what's gonna end up happening is I'm just gonna

1:02:12.600 --> 1:02:16.760
<v Speaker 2>everyone has to try on a gecko costume, and whoever

1:02:16.840 --> 1:02:22.160
<v Speaker 2>can be a gecko, the best I will give. I

1:02:22.160 --> 1:02:24.920
<v Speaker 2>will give a single rose. I give them a single

1:02:25.000 --> 1:02:25.680
<v Speaker 2>green rose.

1:02:25.720 --> 1:02:26.000
<v Speaker 3>All right.

1:02:26.000 --> 1:02:27.440
<v Speaker 2>Now, I'm actually kind of into this idea. I think

1:02:27.440 --> 1:02:31.480
<v Speaker 2>that sounds cool. Who gets the green rose? All right,

1:02:31.480 --> 1:02:33.200
<v Speaker 2>we're doing it. We're doing the Bachelor. Ghak. All I

1:02:33.240 --> 1:02:36.640
<v Speaker 2>need is, uh, how much money does it cost to

1:02:36.640 --> 1:02:44.800
<v Speaker 2>make a reality TV show? Actually, now I'm thinking about it,

1:02:44.880 --> 1:02:47.800
<v Speaker 2>sounds like a lot of work. I'll think of something.

1:02:48.440 --> 1:02:52.520
<v Speaker 2>Everything goes on the line, making your phone calls every night,

1:02:53.000 --> 1:02:59.760
<v Speaker 2>Everything goes teaching news live. He's an experture