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Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, Hey, what's some of them?

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Speaker 2: Not much? Who is this? My name is Stephanie, Stephanie.

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Speaker 2: What's up, Stephanie? How are you doing tonight? What you

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Speaker 2: wanna talk about?

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Speaker 3: Ship?

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Speaker 1: There's there's a couple of things. I don't know what's

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Speaker 1: more entertaining to talk about, to be honest, because I

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Speaker 1: don't wanna Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 2: You know what, I don't you know what I want.

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Speaker 2: I want to nip this in the bud really quickly

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Speaker 2: and and normal normally I'll say this too normally. I

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm like when I'm talking to callers, I

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Speaker 2: am in a mindset of like, let's try our best.

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Speaker 2: Let's like steer the conversation in a way that's entertaining

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Speaker 2: to the people who are spending their time listening to this.

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Speaker 2: But something about in this moment right now, I'm like,

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Speaker 2: fuck it, let's you. It's you and me, Stephanie. Let's

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Speaker 2: talk about whatever the fuck you'll want to talk about.

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Speaker 2: You know, I don't care about If we could talk

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Speaker 2: about your fucking grass and we're fine.

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Speaker 1: That's really nice of you.

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Speaker 2: So what do you want to talk about?

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Speaker 1: I mean, so I broke my leg on the nineteenth

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Speaker 1: of December, and that's been not fun.

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Speaker 4: So there's that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what's the other one. I feel like I just

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Speaker 2: totally broke everything I just said to you. Just now,

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Speaker 2: what's the other one?

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Speaker 1: The other one's kind of like a workplace issue that

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Speaker 1: I wanted to get outside perspectives on because I'm having

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what you would call it. There's

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Speaker 1: it's a really long story, but there's a guy that

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Speaker 1: I work with who recently came back to work, I guess,

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Speaker 1: And this doesn't affect me right now because I'm not

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Speaker 1: going to be able to go back to work, like

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Speaker 1: with a broken leg for at least like a couple

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Speaker 1: more months. But I did see him at work once,

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Speaker 1: and I know that I will again. And I just

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Speaker 1: don't really know like how I should approach this situation

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Speaker 1: because it's really fucking awkward.

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Speaker 2: All Right, So you were you were seeing this guy

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Speaker 2: at work, and then he stopped working at your work

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Speaker 2: and now he's coming back.

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Speaker 1: Well, we both worked, so I worked for an airline.

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Speaker 1: I'm a flight attendant, and we both worked for like

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Speaker 1: the regional airline, and I transferred to mainline, and I

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Speaker 1: thought I was rid of him, like I would never

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Speaker 1: got an offer to come over and I saw him

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Speaker 1: once and I know I'm probably going to run into

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Speaker 1: him again, and it was so uncomfortable, and I.

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Speaker 2: Were you were you guys like hooking up? Is that

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Speaker 2: what you date? Or what was up?

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Speaker 1: So we were dating for three months, so it wasn't

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Speaker 1: a long time, but oh my god, it's so bad.

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Speaker 1: He So we were together for three months and he

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Speaker 1: was like calling me his girlfriend, Like he started calling

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Speaker 1: me his girlfriend. He said I love you like really fast.

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Speaker 1: And I kind of chalked it up to like maybe

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Speaker 1: cultural differences, but you know, he said it like very quickly,

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Speaker 1: which is kind of like weird, but I don't know,

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Speaker 1: and he, uh, hold.

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Speaker 2: On cultural, Like where's this guy from?

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Speaker 1: Ethnically, he's Armenian, but he grew up in Iraq, so

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Speaker 1: he's like like all of his friends are like Persian.

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Speaker 2: Oh Okay, I thought you were gonna say he's like

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Speaker 2: from Texas.

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Speaker 1: No, No, I'm from Cana actually, so we both work

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Speaker 1: for a Canadian airline.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so he was calling you his girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he was very like and he would always say like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I want you to feel comfortable at my apartment. I

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Speaker 1: want you to feel like this is your like second home.

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Speaker 1: Like every time I would like leave his apartment, I

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Speaker 1: be like, oh, just just leave your just tell me

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Speaker 1: what shampoo you use, or like leave your shampoo here

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Speaker 1: and it'll just be here for you. Like he was

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Speaker 1: very like he's like, I want you to be comfortable whatever.

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Speaker 2: And and and and at this point, are you well, Okay,

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Speaker 2: first of all, how long had you guys been like,

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Speaker 1: At that point, it was probably like two months because

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Speaker 1: I actually didn't sleep with him until like probably like

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Speaker 1: three or four weeks into it, and then we were yeah,

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Speaker 1: so like in total, it was like three three and

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Speaker 2: That I liked you, and and okay, so this guy, he's, uh,

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Speaker 2: he's getting your favorite shampoo. He's calling you his girlfriend. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you use his toothbrush. What how are you feeling about

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Speaker 2: Are you like, oh, this is great, this is what

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 1: I mean, like two months isn't very long. So I

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Speaker 1: was feeling I don't know, I was just like looking

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Speaker 1: how things were going, like it was good. He was

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Speaker 1: a nice guy, he was handsome, culture, he had a

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Speaker 1: good job. Like he's a pilot.

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Speaker 2: He's a pilot. Yeah, pilot and a flat attendant. That's

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Speaker 2: something about that feels something about that feels naughty.

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Speaker 1: It Yeah, I mean when you start training as a

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Speaker 2: Wait did they tell you that? Yeah, that's funny. Why

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Speaker 1: Because it's always bad news, as as you will discover.

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Speaker 1: So this is where the story gets.

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Speaker 2: Uh, it is kind of funny because like when people

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Speaker 2: talk about like power dynamics, right, I feel like guy

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Speaker 2: as a legitimate power dynamic.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean he was a first officer, though he

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm mainly kidding.

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Speaker 1: But so basically, forgive me if I backtrack, because the

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Speaker 1: timeline of this just like it sometimes I remember certain

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Speaker 1: things anyway, Okay, what happened was that I was working

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Speaker 1: in my life, and I tell her, Oh, I have

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Speaker 1: a newish boyfriend. She says, show me a picture. So

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Speaker 1: I show a picture of this guy, the pilot, and

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Speaker 1: he well, sorry. The girl that I'm working with says,

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Speaker 1: that's not your boyfriend. That's Amy's boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but what do.

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Speaker 1: You what do you mean? She said, Amy, this other

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Speaker 1: the one that I work out at now. And she's like,

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Speaker 1: prove it. So she does, and I've found out that

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Speaker 1: while so, he told me that he was going up

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Speaker 1: And he asked me if I could go over to

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Speaker 1: And while he was gone, he was actually up north

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Speaker 1: with Amy fucking her in the tent that was my tent,

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Speaker 2: With him, Well, he borrowed your tent and then sucked

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Speaker 2: this girl. Yes, God, damn dude, that's I see, like,

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Speaker 2: what's the I don't know. I don't that sounds stressful.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because so I was thinking, Okay, he was dating

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Speaker 1: me and then Amy was the side check, but no, he.

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Speaker 2: Was dating chick.

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Speaker 1: He was dating both of us full on. Neither of

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Speaker 1: us were the side check. He had introduced both me

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Speaker 2: That's why I don't know how the fuck he thought

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. So he actually, like like

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Speaker 1: sent me a text and said it's not working out.

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Speaker 1: He was like, you're an angel, but this just isn't

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Speaker 1: And I just looked at that text and I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: so you like chose her over me, which like I

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Speaker 1: don't like at this point, like I'm not heartbroken, like

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Speaker 1: I'm just angry. But yeah, he thought it could all

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Speaker 1: So it ended up getting really ugly because I did

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Speaker 2: So did the other girl break out with him too?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, one hundred percent she But it was so bad

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Speaker 1: because so I was kind of like iffy on this guy,

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Speaker 1: Like there was things I liked about him, but there

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Speaker 4: A fool of.

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Speaker 1: But this other girl that I work with, she thought

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Speaker 2: Oh this girl Amy, Yeah, was she was when you

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Speaker 2: to her? What did she say?

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Speaker 1: She was sobbing. It was extremely uncomfortable, and I felt

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Speaker 1: guilty for having told her, But like, really, what else

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Speaker 3: To do right?

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Speaker 2: Right? It was part of you like wondering if you

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Speaker 2: did the right thing even, Yeah, but.

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Speaker 1: Like I should have told he, like what else then

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah right, yeah, God, there's just I think there's

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Speaker 2: just something. There's gotta be something about, like defying gravity

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Speaker 2: by piloting an airplane with you know, one hundred people

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Speaker 1: No, he's a fucking idiot. He's a moron. I remember

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Speaker 1: one time we were in a fucking Starbucks parking lot

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Speaker 1: a funny noise when he was backing up, and I

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Speaker 1: had to look him dead in the eyes and release

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Speaker 1: the fucking emergency break.

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Speaker 2: Damn. And this guy flies planes.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's why there's two of them.

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Speaker 2: Hmmm. See, I feel like I feel like a co pilot.

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Speaker 2: Co pilots are They're definitely like the nice guys of

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Speaker 2: the pilot, you know what I mean. I feel like,

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Speaker 2: if you're looking to really settle down, you go for

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Speaker 2: a co pilot, not a pilot.

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Speaker 1: No, that's that's him. He's he's the first officer. The

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Speaker 1: first officer is in the right seat. They're the co pilot.

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Speaker 2: He's not even a real.

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Speaker 1: Pot that's oh my god, you don't say that. They're

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Speaker 2: Maybe that's you know what, that's probably what it fucking is, right,

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Speaker 2: is he's like he's he's so close to being a

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Speaker 1: He's a real pilot. He's just he's a man child.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what were you gonna say. You said

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Speaker 2: So what's your name again, Stephanie, Stephanie, Sophie. I'm sorry that, uh,

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Speaker 1: Probably just don't ship where you eat, like, never hook

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Speaker 2: All right, I'm going to answer that question with this

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Speaker 1: Probably just ignoring him.

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Speaker 2: M I can't answer that question for you, but that's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just hard because part of me wants to

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Speaker 2: Again, it's a question of what's going to make your

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Speaker 2: Bye, Stephanie. Kay see Hey folks, this is Lyle. I

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Speaker 3: touching me. Fucking so she asked. I was in my head.

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00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:49,680
Speaker 3: I was like, should I tell her my egg, which

440
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:52,080
Speaker 3: I'm twenty four, by the way, Should I tell her

441
00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 3: my egg? Or should I? I said?

442
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:56,240
Speaker 2: Fuck? All right, you haul on it. You're cutting out.

443
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 2: I don't know what your your your phone is like

444
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 2: getting horny listening you tell the story, and it's it's

445
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 2: driving a car, so you're cutting What do you keep

446
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:07,199
Speaker 2: repeat where you were saying? You were cutting out? And

447
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:10,119
Speaker 2: I know that you're You're probably horny and running all

448
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 2: around your house right now, so just stay in one

449
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 2: place and continue speaking.

450
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:18,120
Speaker 1: All right, I'll sit down.

451
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 3: I'll sit down on my bed.

452
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 2: Okay, great?

453
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:24,240
Speaker 3: You I love you too. So well, she started rubbing

454
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 3: up on my shoulder, and in my head I was thinking, damn,

455
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 3: should I tell her? No? No, no, I was son her

456
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 3: my age. She hasked about my age, so I told

457
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:32,919
Speaker 3: her I was twenty four, and she was like, damn,

458
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:34,959
Speaker 3: I'm double your age. I'm like, what do you mean

459
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 3: you're double my age? She pulls out her id again.

460
00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:41,399
Speaker 3: Turns out she was double my age. She was born

461
00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:45,240
Speaker 3: I believe nineteen seventy eight, which I thought was crazy.

462
00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 3: I'm like, damn, you want to rub up on me?

463
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 3: Fucking coolgar over here plotting and shit. So I offered

464
00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:54,640
Speaker 3: her a glass of wine because I'm a wine clumps through.

465
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:57,080
Speaker 3: I love wine, and she was a patriot seft but

466
00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:59,119
Speaker 3: she said, when you were talking a little bit, so

467
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:00,879
Speaker 3: I offered her some wine. We drank a little bit

468
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 3: of wine. We listened to music, chopping it up, and

469
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 3: then she come on to me and start kissing me,

470
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 3: and I'm like, this shit is crazy. I had like

471
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:10,359
Speaker 3: a a that's soul raven moment when time she had

472
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:14,119
Speaker 3: stopped and I'm over here thinking about the motors, is

473
00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 3: thinking about everything that's going on. And then after you know,

474
00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:18,920
Speaker 3: she started kissing the ball me, she tried to touch

475
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:20,679
Speaker 3: upon me. She was like, oh, I got to go

476
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 3: back home to my daughters. So then she was like,

477
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:25,359
Speaker 3: let me get your Instagram and your phone number. I'm

478
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:29,119
Speaker 3: gonna catch you later. So I hadn't heard from her since,

479
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 3: but that shit was weird yesterday.

480
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 2: Wow, that's uh, that's fucking awesome. Man, that's a that's.

481
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 3: It was cool.

482
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:40,879
Speaker 2: That's really hard to come back over. That's really cool.

483
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 2: Did she message you again? What's what?

484
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 4: Are you?

485
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 2: Are you going to message her? What's up?

486
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 3: So I messaged her the pictures that she needed for

487
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:52,879
Speaker 3: her little apartment and then she said, oh, thank you. You know,

488
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:54,840
Speaker 3: I really want to get back together sometime with you.

489
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 3: And I said, whenever you're free, you're more than welcome

490
00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:59,439
Speaker 3: to come over. And then she just hearted my message

491
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 3: and loved it on red.

492
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I mean when something like that happens to you,

493
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:11,879
Speaker 2: I you probably you know, she leaves right, and then

494
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:16,119
Speaker 2: you just start fantasizing all the fucking crazy porn scenarios

495
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 2: that you have and you're like, oh my god, and

496
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,200
Speaker 2: then you're like, oh, it's all gonna happen, and then

497
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:28,160
Speaker 2: she hearts your message and you're like, oh no, it's over. Yeah,

498
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:32,480
Speaker 2: it's over. It's gone. So yeah, whatever was up with

499
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:36,880
Speaker 2: her that day was is the Is she is fixed?

500
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:39,920
Speaker 3: I don't know, But between me and you, I think

501
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:42,160
Speaker 3: she want to fuck sheet this weekend.

502
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 2: I don't know. Man. The heart react on the message

503
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 2: followed by nothing is it tells a different story. But

504
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 2: I'm I look, I'm I'm, I'm I. I hope that

505
00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 2: you live your fairy tale dream.

506
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 3: I really hope I do too, man, because there's some

507
00:27:57,960 --> 00:27:59,959
Speaker 3: ship out of a movie and I couldn't leave it.

508
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 3: I still can't believe it.

509
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 2: How's your sex life going otherwise?

510
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 3: Besides that, it's honestly been very quiet. I was living

511
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:10,560
Speaker 3: up my grandmothers for two years, saving up trying to

512
00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:13,040
Speaker 3: get back out of debt to be able to get

513
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 3: into this new apartment that I'm in, so thank God

514
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:18,680
Speaker 3: for that. God did so once I moved out of

515
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 3: the apartment. Now I'm really trying to explore more being

516
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:24,680
Speaker 3: into sexually active and things of that nature. But I

517
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 3: don't want to go around fucking everything to have the

518
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 3: ad and that wear some fucking genes. So we're gonna see.

519
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:32,399
Speaker 3: I mean, I might rebuttal what I'm saying because I

520
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 3: really want to fuck that milk. But outside of that,

521
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:37,400
Speaker 3: I'm talking to this girl right now. I'm not gonna lie.

522
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 3: We work together, so we don't have to see how

523
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 3: that go.

524
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 2: Um. Yeah, man, you know this, I'm trying to think

525
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:46,160
Speaker 2: of why this woman started making out with you, and

526
00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 2: if there's any like a weird alternative, well, like maybe

527
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:54,400
Speaker 2: she's trying to like sue the landlord and like having

528
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 2: you as a booty call is like away into the apartment.

529
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 3: You know that might be what it truly is, because

530
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 3: I truly don't understand either. What does a person double

531
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:07,920
Speaker 3: my age have any business doing at seven o'clock at nine?

532
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 3: By the way, she mentioned she had an eighteen year

533
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 3: old daughter, So what you doing coming over here trying

534
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 3: to fuck around and then go back home? To your daughter, like,

535
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 3: get the fuck.

536
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 1: Out of here.

537
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know. I don't know why

538
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 2: anyone ever does anything, but I sometimes that is true.

539
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 2: Sometimes you don't even sometimes you don't want to know

540
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 2: the answers to those questions.

541
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 3: Absolutely absolutely, I might have to discover. I might not

542
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 3: will allow to see.

543
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 4: We'll have to see.

544
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:35,280
Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Some people. I think some people are saying

545
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 2: that your brag you called in just a brag, but

546
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 2: I don't, which my don't say anything, which might be true,

547
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 2: but I don't. I don't care. That was Look I

548
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 2: wish I that's a fun brag, it's a worthy brag.

549
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 2: Brag away. Are you still there?

550
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 1: Yeah?

551
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 3: I'm still here. To cut out a little bit.

552
00:29:57,160 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 2: Okay, I just don't let this woman murder you.

553
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:03,640
Speaker 3: Oh, absolutely not. We'll have to see and chat. I

554
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 3: did not come into brag. Honestly. This was just so spontaneous,

555
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:08,480
Speaker 3: and you got to keep in mind, I haven't been

556
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 3: sexually active in two years, so for this.

557
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 2: Whole time to come up that it is crast do

558
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:14,720
Speaker 2: you why do you think you had? Why do you

559
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 2: feel like you haven't been sexually active in two years?

560
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:17,560
Speaker 2: What's been going on?

561
00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 3: Because I've been living at my grating's house. Like, what

562
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:21,800
Speaker 3: am I supposed to do? Have a woman come over

563
00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 3: and be like, hey, granny going to the other room,

564
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 3: I'm about to fuck this trick or real quick, Like, no, I.

565
00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 5: Can't do that.

566
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 2: Rect And you could always you could have sex with

567
00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:30,480
Speaker 2: your grandmother. I don't know why I said that. I

568
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 2: really I don't want to do it, and I don't

569
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 2: regret I don't and I don't regret saying it. I

570
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 2: did and I can't take it back, and we're putting

571
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 2: it on the internet forever. What's your name again?

572
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 3: My name is Cereal Milk.

573
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 2: Cereal Milk. Is there anything else you want to say

574
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 2: to the people of the computer before we go?

575
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 3: You know what? Man Alaska is the Sydney out of state.

576
00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 3: And by the way, Loud, I came to the show

577
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,120
Speaker 3: in Vegas last year. It was amazing.

578
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 2: Oh cool.

579
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 3: I wish Vegas was on the tour list again. But

580
00:30:58,400 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 3: it's all good.

581
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 2: I might have to buy you know, all right? You

582
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:02,960
Speaker 2: know what, I'm gonna tell you something. I was like

583
00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:07,240
Speaker 2: you mother, I was I got offered to go back

584
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 2: to Vegas today and I was debating if I was

585
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 2: going to do it. But now I'll I guess I'll

586
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 2: do it.

587
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 3: Now, Please do it? Please do it?

588
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 2: All right, I'll go all right, man, appreciate. Is there

589
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 2: anything else you want to say to the I guess

590
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 2: I think I asked you that already. But take care

591
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 2: of cereal milk and God bless.

592
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 3: You, God bless you. Wow forever.

593
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 2: Thanks man. Why did I say that? If that that

594
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 2: guy could have sex with his grandma? Because sometimes it's

595
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:56,239
Speaker 2: fun to say horrible things. Oh my god, Hey, what's up?

596
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 1: Man?

597
00:31:57,160 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 2: Hey? This gag?

598
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 3: Yeah?

599
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 2: Is this? Who is this?

600
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 5: This is Paris?

601
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 2: Well, what's going on Paris?

602
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 4: Well, I'm not doing too good right now, to be

603
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 4: honest with you. I got four broken ribs and like

604
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 4: five or six more that are fractured, and then two

605
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 4: of my spinal things got knocked out of alignment when

606
00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 4: I got into a car accident two days ago, and

607
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 4: this woman pulled me from the burning car. So that

608
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 4: was quite good, kind of a little Guardian angel moment.

609
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 4: But yeah, so that was basically how I've been feeling

610
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 4: for the past couple of days. Because that's a little

611
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 4: bit of a wreck. I mean, I'm sure you can't

612
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:59,479
Speaker 4: receive texts through the message line because people would probably

613
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 4: just send you but I tried.

614
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, I'm looking at I'm looking

615
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:08,239
Speaker 2: at there we go. Yeah, this is a picture of

616
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 2: you in the hospital bed. Oh shit, this is a

617
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 2: picture of the car. The car looks pretty fucked.

618
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, the car is fucked.

619
00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 2: And then right underneath that is is yep, a big

620
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 2: picture of your cock.

621
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:23,800
Speaker 4: Oh that I didn't mean to send you. That's my fault.

622
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 2: No, these pictures look crazy.

623
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 1: Man.

624
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 2: This car looks like it's uh, that was the car.

625
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 2: I wish I could. I mean, it's like a reactions enough.

626
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 2: This is an audio medium. But yeah, this car looks

627
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 2: like it's completely Oh yeah, it was on fucking fire man,

628
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 2: So like, how'd you get out?

629
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 4: Literally exploded?

630
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 2: Uh?

631
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 4: I was knocked out, unconscious and this woman, ah, well,

632
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 4: actually first I was in the passenger seat, right, So

633
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 4: first the guy who's in the driver's seat, who is

634
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 4: a friend but so an acid dealer and had acid

635
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:05,800
Speaker 4: on him. So he pulled me out of the car

636
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 4: and then started running because I guess it wasn't on

637
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:11,800
Speaker 4: fire at that point. And then the woman across the

638
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:13,879
Speaker 4: street noticed it was on fire and saw me laying

639
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 4: in the middle of the road and pulled me away

640
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:21,000
Speaker 4: from the the fire. And then that's when I woke up.

641
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:24,360
Speaker 4: And then I saw that it was about to explode,

642
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:27,280
Speaker 4: and then it did and it was quite alarming.

643
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:32,799
Speaker 2: Damn, dude, that's some action movie shit that you just

644
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:33,640
Speaker 2: escaped out of.

645
00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:40,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely felt like it. We got t boned into

646
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:46,239
Speaker 4: two telephone poles, I guess, according to you know what

647
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:49,480
Speaker 4: they told me at the afterwards at the accident site.

648
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:51,360
Speaker 4: But then I just kind of went in the ambulance.

649
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:55,720
Speaker 4: But the biggest problem was since that he wasn't there,

650
00:34:55,880 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 4: they thought I was driving, and I said my name

651
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 4: was my brother's name, and I don't even really remember

652
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 4: doing that, but I was really out of it. And uh,

653
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,480
Speaker 4: then I was what I was in the hospital and

654
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 4: then discharged from the hospital under my brother's name, which

655
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 4: I'm scared is fraud.

656
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 2: Is that is that pause to ask me if that's fraud?

657
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:24,839
Speaker 4: I don't know.

658
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 2: I'm not I'm not the guy for any of your

659
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 2: legal questions. Unfortunately, probably not. But it's okay though, I

660
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:36,280
Speaker 2: don't know. Man, Yeah, that's a that's an attorney tom question.

661
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:39,399
Speaker 2: But well, I hear, let's talk about this though, how

662
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 2: do you feel? Uh, I mean, just how do you

663
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 2: feel in general? Are you have you are you making

664
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:46,399
Speaker 2: any changes to your life now that you almost died?

665
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely, I kinda. I mean I was obviously a

666
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 4: little messed up to be in the passenger seat of

667
00:35:56,840 --> 00:36:00,759
Speaker 4: my own car, you know what I mean? So I

668
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 4: uh well, well, I say, in my own car, but

669
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 4: it was a family car. We kind of me and

670
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 4: my brother share a vehicle, shared a vehicle.

671
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 2: Mh.

672
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:15,280
Speaker 4: I no longer have that right at this point.

673
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,880
Speaker 2: The vehicle yeah, oh, but he got a.

674
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 4: Rental and obvious and I'm not going to ask to

675
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:22,479
Speaker 4: drive it anytime soon.

676
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,560
Speaker 2: Okay. Anyway, so all right, man, So like, how did

677
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:28,239
Speaker 2: you how do you feel about you had a near

678
00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 2: death experience? You know, how does that? Yeah, how did

679
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 2: that be anything? What did that become for you?

680
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 4: Uh? Well, I was pretty at first, I was pretty

681
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:46,839
Speaker 4: like sad in the way that I was like, oh, man,

682
00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 4: I kind of wish I had died. But then a

683
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 4: lot of that is because I had a best friend

684
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:57,360
Speaker 4: who died very recently, so that like added to my

685
00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 4: sadness a bit. But then once I was in the

686
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:05,640
Speaker 4: hospit and they like told me about all my wounds

687
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:10,840
Speaker 4: and whatnot and started like helping me heal. I stopped

688
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:17,400
Speaker 4: feeling that way and then tried to more think about

689
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:22,120
Speaker 4: what kind of decisions I can make to not put

690
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:25,320
Speaker 4: myself in that position, such as like you know, making

691
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:28,879
Speaker 4: sure I I mean, we were driving too late at night.

692
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:32,400
Speaker 4: It was stupid. The other guy hitt and ran, so

693
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,880
Speaker 4: he was probably drunk or in a stolen car or

694
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 4: some shit. And yeah, I just feel I mean, one

695
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 4: of my friends is really trying to push me towards

696
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 4: like religion at this point and God and spirituality, but

697
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 4: I've always been a little bit hesitant on that. I

698
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 4: don't know, how do you feel about it?

699
00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 2: Well? Why did you? And you know, luck can get

700
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 2: into this if you if you want, or we don't

701
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:03,719
Speaker 2: have to if you don't want to. But why did

702
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:06,280
Speaker 2: you feel like you wish you would have dined?

703
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:16,400
Speaker 4: Well, just because I've been pretty depressed since he died,

704
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 4: and I was really upset with myself for having you know,

705
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 4: been out that late at night and letting all this happen,

706
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 4: and also in a lot of pain, I guess too,

707
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:33,879
Speaker 4: So it was just kind of a combination of all

708
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:41,879
Speaker 4: that because I usually I would say, I'm like, not suicidal,

709
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 4: but maybe wish I had been aborted, But like, uh I,

710
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 4: I did genuinely feel like it in the moments, not

711
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 4: in the moments afterwards, but once I kind of was

712
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:01,840
Speaker 4: coming to grips with like the fact that I almost

713
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 4: just die because I was like too out of it

714
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 4: and because to really process it through the very beginning mhm.

715
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 2: And then in terms of how you feel like you're

716
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:18,759
Speaker 2: going to act differently in the future, you know, tell

717
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:19,400
Speaker 2: me more about that.

718
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 4: Uh well, first of all, I am gonna make sure

719
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 4: that I trust more sparingly. I mean, I shouldn't have

720
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:39,280
Speaker 4: put I should have not put anyone in that position

721
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:44,359
Speaker 4: to be driving my car unless like they're my brother

722
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 4: or something like that. If I wasn't, you know, ah

723
00:39:52,480 --> 00:40:00,560
Speaker 4: affed up on the asset, I would have you know,

724
00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 4: been fine to drive myself home. And I also in

725
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:11,080
Speaker 4: the past have had.

726
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:15,680
Speaker 3: Some like.

727
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 4: I would say, issues with drinking. But this kind of

728
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 4: made me realize that I can't, you like, use any

729
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 4: mind altering substance that much for sure. And then also

730
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 4: just being more cautious with like, well, I guess it

731
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:51,840
Speaker 4: was kind of out a character for me. To do

732
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:53,719
Speaker 4: that in the first place, but just making sure that

733
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 4: I realized when I'm like about to do something that's

734
00:40:56,680 --> 00:41:03,000
Speaker 4: dumb and like manage or something, I give it was

735
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:05,759
Speaker 4: a bad decision to go out late at night to

736
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 4: do acid in the first place.

737
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 2: M hmm, well, you know, I mean, look, going out

738
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 2: late at night and doing acid, I think I don't

739
00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 2: think that was a horrible decision until you involved a car.

740
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 4: Yeah.

741
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm glad to hear that you're uh processing this

742
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:32,360
Speaker 2: in a in a beneficial way, right, because man, you

743
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 2: totally could have died and you didn't, and now you're

744
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 2: you're giving a new chance to make better decisions.

745
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:43,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's I'm still kind of feeling like I'm coming

746
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:46,680
Speaker 4: to terms with the whole like near death aspect of

747
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:49,000
Speaker 4: it all. Like I feel like I haven't fully sank in,

748
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:53,760
Speaker 4: but I definitely feel a lot more grateful than I

749
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 4: had in the past, like for being alive.

750
00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:00,759
Speaker 2: That's good. That sounds like the opposite of suicidal.

751
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:06,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, well now, yeah, I feel I feel more like,

752
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:16,759
Speaker 4: uh engaged to not want to, uh you know, have

753
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:19,719
Speaker 4: anything like that happen again, or you know, die in

754
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 4: some kind of accident or something like that I want

755
00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 4: to make sure that I can do something that, uh,

756
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:26,840
Speaker 4: you know, at the end of the day, matters a

757
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:27,279
Speaker 4: little bit.

758
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:30,280
Speaker 2: What do you want to do that you think will matter?

759
00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 4: Well, I went to film school. I went to ny

760
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:43,759
Speaker 4: U Tish for UH filmmaking and minored in uh screenwriting,

761
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:48,840
Speaker 4: And so I've been trying. I've been trying to uh

762
00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 4: sell scripts and stuff like that. I mean, I've sold

763
00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:55,319
Speaker 4: a couple, but there's not a lot of buzz on

764
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 4: my name right now. After the writer's strike and everything,

765
00:42:58,120 --> 00:43:03,359
Speaker 4: things kind of uh reset. I feel like I'm back

766
00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:05,480
Speaker 4: kind of almost as square one. I mean that maybe

767
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:09,239
Speaker 4: square two because I have an agent still, but I'm

768
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:14,000
Speaker 4: like still kind of struggling trying to make some smaller

769
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 4: short films and convince people to do it for a

770
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 4: little to know money and shit like that.

771
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:24,440
Speaker 2: Are you going to adapt any of this into into

772
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:25,359
Speaker 2: your writing at all?

773
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 4: I mean, if I got a budget where I could

774
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:34,399
Speaker 4: crash a car, I would do it. But I don't

775
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 4: think I would go out of my way to do

776
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 4: that on a on a you know, personal budget. But

777
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:42,840
Speaker 4: I think that it definitely would be good for a

778
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:46,720
Speaker 4: screen writing And that's a actually a really beneficial idea

779
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:49,440
Speaker 4: that I don't know why I didn't think of, like sooner.

780
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:57,399
Speaker 2: What's your name again, man, Paris, like to be in France, Paris. Well,

781
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:02,240
Speaker 2: thanks for sharing the story, Paris. Yeah again, I'm happy

782
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:05,719
Speaker 2: to hear that you're processing it very well. You know,

783
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 2: is there any other aspect of any of this or

784
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 2: anything at all that you want to shore or say

785
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:11,080
Speaker 2: before we go?

786
00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:15,280
Speaker 4: Yeah? I mean, I guess what would be your general

787
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 4: take on like near death experiences and stuff like that,

788
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:26,600
Speaker 4: and how to kind of you know, how they might

789
00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:32,319
Speaker 4: like either change your life or how they can make

790
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:33,240
Speaker 4: your outlook better.

791
00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 2: Well, that one's easy. I mean, look, man, you got

792
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 2: nothing if you're dead, right, And so the things that

793
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:43,560
Speaker 2: stress you out in life, like you know, I'm not

794
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:47,239
Speaker 2: selling enough screenplays, or oh my friend's mad at me,

795
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:51,280
Speaker 2: or oh this or that, any day to day problemly,

796
00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 2: even if it's a big one, I mean, any day

797
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:56,520
Speaker 2: to day stress or whatever, it just fucking pales in

798
00:44:56,560 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 2: comparison to the stress that you you've experienced of being

799
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:05,760
Speaker 2: on a car, of being in a car on fire.

800
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:10,120
Speaker 2: So next time somebody's not responding to your email fast

801
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 2: enough after you sent them your script, you can just

802
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:15,240
Speaker 2: be like, well, at least I'm not in a car

803
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 2: that's on fire. You can use, you get to use

804
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 2: and you're actually you're even lucky because you get to

805
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:25,400
Speaker 2: use that every day for the for the rest of

806
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 2: your life. Anytime anything bad happens to you, you can go, well,

807
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 2: at least I'm not in a car that's on fire,

808
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:35,239
Speaker 2: you know.

809
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:36,360
Speaker 1: I Uh.

810
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 2: One of my one of someone of my family actually

811
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:42,680
Speaker 2: was in it was in a car accident. And she

812
00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:46,520
Speaker 2: told me that every time something annoying happens to her, like,

813
00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:50,839
Speaker 2: you know whatever, there's there's like a long line at

814
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 2: the grocery store. She she imagines this. She's like, she

815
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:59,440
Speaker 2: imagines herself in a burning car and and and an

816
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:03,000
Speaker 2: angel comes to her and says, now listen, now the

817
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:05,400
Speaker 2: car is on fire. And the angel says, now listen,

818
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 2: I can cut you with deal. I can let you

819
00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 2: out of this burning car, but in return you have

820
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:16,319
Speaker 2: to wait in a long line at the grocery store. Yes,

821
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 2: of course, let me have the car. Jesus right now,

822
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:23,840
Speaker 2: I'll do it. So think about that.

823
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:26,239
Speaker 4: I guess is more of a literal case with me,

824
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:28,600
Speaker 4: because I did have a woman physically pulled me out

825
00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 4: of the car. Kind of a guardian angel situation, so

826
00:46:32,239 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 4: I can take that one literally.

827
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:36,920
Speaker 2: Take care, Paris. Thank you very much for calling.

828
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:40,879
Speaker 4: Love you, ghek, Thank you so much. I really appreciate it.

829
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:42,319
Speaker 4: First time call a long time.

830
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 2: Take care. I hope to see your name on a

831
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 2: on a movie someday.

832
00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 4: Yes, sir, when you do, make sure to shout it out.

833
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 4: And you know, if I get to direct it, I'll

834
00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 4: throw you a bone and give you a cameo. If

835
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:56,399
Speaker 4: you want to old roll, I'll give you a big one.

836
00:46:57,760 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 1: Yeah.

837
00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:00,400
Speaker 2: When I you know, when when my career is uh

838
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:02,239
Speaker 2: all the way at its bottom, I will very much

839
00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:14,239
Speaker 2: accept your bone. Take care of parts. Hello, Hi, what

840
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:14,919
Speaker 2: is your name?

841
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:16,800
Speaker 1: Holy shit?

842
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:19,800
Speaker 5: Oh, my name's Steph.

843
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 2: What's up Steph? Would you want to talk about today?

844
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:31,640
Speaker 5: I don't really have anything too crazy going on. I mean,

845
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:36,840
Speaker 5: there's always stuff, but nothing that I need like urgent

846
00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 5: advice on.

847
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:41,839
Speaker 2: That's good. So your life is perfect and nothing bad

848
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:42,880
Speaker 2: has happened to you.

849
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:47,200
Speaker 5: It's pretty no no, no, definitely bad stuff a lot,

850
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:49,600
Speaker 5: but like I feel like I don't know, like you've

851
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:53,400
Speaker 5: had some crazy stuff on yours, Like I none of

852
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:57,239
Speaker 5: my stories are as crazy you know.

853
00:47:57,200 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 2: It's fun Okay, so there's a phone there was a caller.

854
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:04,040
Speaker 2: It's always funny when people say that. They're like, oh,

855
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 2: I feel like I have nothing to talk about because

856
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:08,400
Speaker 2: you you know, you have all these crazy stories of people,

857
00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:13,360
Speaker 2: you know, getting into a weird sex colts and doing

858
00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:18,759
Speaker 2: methamphetamine and running from the cops in Argentina. But you know,

859
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 2: one of my favorite phone calls, and maybe it wasn't

860
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,080
Speaker 2: the call itself, what it was the idea behind it.

861
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 2: There was this guy who called in. This was a

862
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:27,719
Speaker 2: while ago, this is over of one or two years ago.

863
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:34,799
Speaker 2: Is this guy called in to talk about how he

864
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:38,040
Speaker 2: has this pizza place that he really likes in the

865
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:41,239
Speaker 2: state that he lives in. But then he took a

866
00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:45,759
Speaker 2: trip to the state right over, like one stayed over

867
00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:51,400
Speaker 2: and he had pizza at their pizza place and it

868
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 2: was better. And so now when he eats pizza at

869
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 2: the pizza place in his state, it's not as good anymore,

870
00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:02,400
Speaker 2: even though even though he liked it before he tried

871
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:07,920
Speaker 2: the other pizza place. Isn't that fascinating? Isn't that There's

872
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:10,759
Speaker 2: so much there's like life in that story, and that

873
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:14,239
Speaker 2: is nothing that is like I that's not interesting at all,

874
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 2: but it is. It is interesting. It's like the micro

875
00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:22,359
Speaker 2: cosm of I don't know, a desire for a never

876
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:27,239
Speaker 2: a never ending lust for novelty or something. I think.

877
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:29,319
Speaker 2: I think about that guy every time people say that

878
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:32,400
Speaker 2: they don't have anything to talk about, because the things

879
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:34,239
Speaker 2: at least that I want to hear about, I mean,

880
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,480
Speaker 2: people will call it like people will call in and

881
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:41,319
Speaker 2: be like, yeah, man, I once did acid and ran

882
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 2: from the cops, And I'll be like, all right, but

883
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:47,840
Speaker 2: that's not really a story there. There's no humanity and

884
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:51,640
Speaker 2: they didn't learn anything. You didn't discover anything. You know,

885
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:55,440
Speaker 2: There's much more interesting stories that are lower concepts. So

886
00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:58,840
Speaker 2: that's I guess I'm saying that to make you hopefully

887
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:01,480
Speaker 2: think of anything that you you know, it's going on

888
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 2: that you know, maybe you've ruled out as too minute, gotcha.

889
00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:09,799
Speaker 5: Yeah, I guess it's about like how you tell it

890
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 5: versus like the actual content. Sometimes I don't know. Well,

891
00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:21,759
Speaker 5: I guess the main thing on my mind is I

892
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:24,120
Speaker 5: have like five more months on my lease in my

893
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:27,719
Speaker 5: current city, and I'm trying to think about like my

894
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:30,880
Speaker 5: next moves. I'm like, should I move home for a

895
00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 5: couple of months and save it and then move. Or

896
00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:35,799
Speaker 5: should I just move straight to another city and just

897
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:37,160
Speaker 5: be struggling again?

898
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:41,560
Speaker 2: Or you're struggling with paying rent?

899
00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm only like a couple years postgrad, but yeah,

900
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:50,319
Speaker 5: I'm like struggling to pay rent, which is fine. You know,

901
00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:53,960
Speaker 5: I don't really live like a super expensive lifestyle anyway,

902
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:56,200
Speaker 5: but it would be nice to like have a little

903
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:58,759
Speaker 5: extra money. So I've thought about when my lease is up,

904
00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:01,640
Speaker 5: like moving home for a couple months, which I would hate,

905
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:03,440
Speaker 5: Like I wouldn't even have like a room, Like I'd

906
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:06,960
Speaker 5: be like on my mom's like couch. But I'm like,

907
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:09,319
Speaker 5: is it worth it to do that just for the

908
00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:12,240
Speaker 5: summer to get like, you know, like five six thousand

909
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:14,399
Speaker 5: dollars to help me move somewhere else?

910
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:15,319
Speaker 2: What do you do?

911
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:18,280
Speaker 5: I'm a graphic designer?

912
00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 2: Okay, cool? What do you like? Are you cool with

913
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 2: your parents? Uh?

914
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:29,399
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's fine, all right.

915
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:32,879
Speaker 2: I mean, listen, man, I've said this a billion times

916
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:34,520
Speaker 2: on here, but I've done that. I mean, I started

917
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:39,279
Speaker 2: doing this podcast in my mom's basement. Granted, if I

918
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 2: didn't have my own room, and if I didn't have

919
00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:43,439
Speaker 2: my own private like space, I think that would drive

920
00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:45,799
Speaker 2: me significantly more insane.

921
00:51:46,280 --> 00:51:49,160
Speaker 5: But yeah, that's the thing, like she it's just my

922
00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 5: mom because my dad lives somewhere else. She just has

923
00:51:51,640 --> 00:51:54,319
Speaker 5: like a small apartment now, so I'm like it would

924
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:56,720
Speaker 5: be really cramped and like my younger brother would probably

925
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:57,640
Speaker 5: be there this summer too.

926
00:51:58,200 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 2: M hm.

927
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:00,520
Speaker 5: So it's like, where is it?

928
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:04,239
Speaker 2: Look, I don't think it's a terrible idea. Uh, this

929
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:07,480
Speaker 2: is this is we're getting into financial advice gecko now.

930
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:11,520
Speaker 2: But I don't think that living at home to save

931
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:14,640
Speaker 2: money is a is a horrible idea. I mean, can

932
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:18,920
Speaker 2: you what what city? What city are you in?

933
00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:20,680
Speaker 5: I'm silly.

934
00:52:21,719 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 2: Why don't you get once you get Like I lived

935
00:52:25,080 --> 00:52:27,400
Speaker 2: in Philly. I had like a bunch of roommates and

936
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 2: the rent was cheap as hell. There's so many like

937
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:36,360
Speaker 2: there's can't you live in? Uh? Can't you live in

938
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 2: like one of the neighborhood in Philly and get a

939
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 2: bunch of roommates? And I.

940
00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:43,520
Speaker 5: Don't like Philly, Like I'm trying to.

941
00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:46,759
Speaker 2: Leave Silly, No Philly rocks. What are you doing you

942
00:52:46,800 --> 00:52:49,080
Speaker 2: like about Philly? Oh?

943
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 5: I don't know, Like I don't really like the cold.

944
00:52:53,840 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 5: So that's like one thing, and I don't know, it

945
00:52:56,560 --> 00:52:58,920
Speaker 5: feels a little bit limited. And I grew up in

946
00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:00,560
Speaker 5: New York, so it just feels a little bit like

947
00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:01,920
Speaker 5: small comparison.

948
00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 2: Mm hm hmmm. I don't know, man, I think Phillys

949
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:11,520
Speaker 2: is six. Are you trying to move to New York

950
00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:13,239
Speaker 2: because if that's the case, you're gonna have to live

951
00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:15,520
Speaker 2: on your mom's couch for the next five years.

952
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:18,520
Speaker 5: That's true. No, I kind of want to move to

953
00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 5: like the West Coast. That's why I'm like, I probably

954
00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:23,240
Speaker 5: should save money first.

955
00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:27,439
Speaker 2: What's a nice I mean, not La right, m hmm,

956
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:31,319
Speaker 2: maybe okay, because I mean I'm trying to think of, like,

957
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 2: what are some cheap nice city. I think Phoenix is like,

958
00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:40,239
Speaker 2: and correct me if I'm wrong, Phoenicians. But I think

959
00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:45,160
Speaker 2: Phoenix is like like an up and coming, moderately affordable

960
00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:50,279
Speaker 2: West Coast cities. And it's hot as balls there, so

961
00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:52,520
Speaker 2: it's it's hot enough to make up for however many

962
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:56,600
Speaker 2: cold years you spent in Philadelphia.

963
00:53:57,239 --> 00:54:01,279
Speaker 5: Yeah, I have heard about Phoenix. I'm thinking about it.

964
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:03,279
Speaker 5: I'm not really thinking too much about where I'm gonna

965
00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:05,239
Speaker 5: move yet more, just like if I should just send

966
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:06,279
Speaker 5: it or not?

967
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:09,120
Speaker 2: Do you do you have a job you have to like, like,

968
00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:11,040
Speaker 2: as a designer, do you have to like go into

969
00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:13,920
Speaker 2: a place or are you beat booping on the computer.

970
00:54:15,080 --> 00:54:18,080
Speaker 5: So I work like at a law firm, so it's

971
00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:20,680
Speaker 5: like all remote. I mean they have offices places, and

972
00:54:20,719 --> 00:54:24,480
Speaker 5: I do go in, but like it's not really essential

973
00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:25,480
Speaker 5: that I go in every.

974
00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:29,560
Speaker 2: Day, live your live, your digital nomad life. Dog.

975
00:54:31,719 --> 00:54:34,640
Speaker 5: Well, the thing is like technically we're supposed to even

976
00:54:34,719 --> 00:54:36,239
Speaker 5: like when I go in, it's really just to like

977
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:39,880
Speaker 5: hang out with my coworkers that are my friends. But

978
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:41,759
Speaker 5: like technically we have to go in like a couple

979
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:42,439
Speaker 5: of times a week.

980
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:46,600
Speaker 2: So mm hmmm.

981
00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:48,440
Speaker 5: So I just have to move somewhere where they have

982
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:49,040
Speaker 5: an office.

983
00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:51,000
Speaker 2: Where do they have offices?

984
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 5: Like a lot of places?

985
00:54:54,520 --> 00:55:00,239
Speaker 2: Okay, do they have Do they have offices in Phoenix, Arizona?

986
00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 5: Unfortunately no?

987
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:07,359
Speaker 2: Do they exclusively have offices in cities with extremely high

988
00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:13,480
Speaker 2: cost of living but also can't pay in those fucking cities.

989
00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:19,239
Speaker 5: Yeah that sounds about right.

990
00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:23,279
Speaker 2: Well, I don't know, man, I mean I don't know.

991
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:26,799
Speaker 2: I mean I like Philly, but that well, I don't

992
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:29,880
Speaker 2: know why I'm telling you that. That's me liking Philly

993
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:37,880
Speaker 2: has absolutely nothing to do with your situation at all. Uh,

994
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:42,160
Speaker 2: you could live, I don't know where you could live?

995
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:45,080
Speaker 2: Where could you live? Where do you want to live?

996
00:55:46,520 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 5: I don't know. I mean I've thought about like spending

997
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:52,000
Speaker 5: a year like abroad or something like I think that'd

998
00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:54,160
Speaker 5: be really cool, but I don't know. He's like, I

999
00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:58,080
Speaker 5: have this issue where like I'm like twenty four, and

1000
00:55:58,160 --> 00:56:00,719
Speaker 5: I'm so scared to like go live abroad that or

1001
00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:02,560
Speaker 5: like go fuck around for another year and then like

1002
00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:05,440
Speaker 5: first I don't know. I always just like worry about

1003
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:08,440
Speaker 5: like being forever alone. You know, I'm like single of

1004
00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:11,160
Speaker 5: like no strings, and I'm scared to like leave and

1005
00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:14,080
Speaker 5: then first come and start like looking for a husband

1006
00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:16,919
Speaker 5: basically like first at like twenty eight or twenty nine,

1007
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:21,200
Speaker 5: Like that is kind of scary.

1008
00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:23,440
Speaker 2: You are you're afraid to start looking for a husband

1009
00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:24,239
Speaker 2: at twenty eight.

1010
00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:29,239
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, I guess like I'm afraid to waste time

1011
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:32,839
Speaker 5: abroad and then first start settling down like kind of late.

1012
00:56:33,040 --> 00:56:33,480
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1013
00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:37,080
Speaker 2: I don't understand why you look at it as a

1014
00:56:37,080 --> 00:56:37,799
Speaker 2: waste of time.

1015
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:41,920
Speaker 5: I know that's true. That's what people are telling me.

1016
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 5: Like I can't like think about a timeline. It's just

1017
00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:47,360
Speaker 5: like live in a moment and then you know, whatever happens.

1018
00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:50,640
Speaker 2: Look, anytime I've ever left the country, I've never been like,

1019
00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:55,399
Speaker 2: you know, I wish I actually Okay, well, okay, I'm

1020
00:56:55,400 --> 00:56:56,799
Speaker 2: gonna tell you what I was about to say, and

1021
00:56:56,800 --> 00:57:01,359
Speaker 2: then I'm gonna tell you I second guessed it. I

1022
00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:04,839
Speaker 2: was about to say, I've never left the country and

1023
00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:07,719
Speaker 2: then been like and then came back and been like,

1024
00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:10,200
Speaker 2: I wish I spent that time looking for a wife.

1025
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:14,360
Speaker 2: But I second guessed it because maybe I should have

1026
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:16,040
Speaker 2: spent that time looking for a wife. I don't know,

1027
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 2: I don't know. But the point, I've never left the

1028
00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:24,640
Speaker 2: country and regretted it. I've never That's not true. I've

1029
00:57:24,680 --> 00:57:26,520
Speaker 2: never left the country and regretted it. I've never left

1030
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:28,200
Speaker 2: the country and been like, I should have spent that

1031
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:30,280
Speaker 2: time looking for a wife. I've never done that in

1032
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:33,840
Speaker 2: any of the times that I've left the country. It's

1033
00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:36,320
Speaker 2: always and there's places you can go that are like

1034
00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:41,120
Speaker 2: relatively cheap, you know, that are significantly cheaper than fucking Philadelphia.

1035
00:57:41,200 --> 00:57:46,560
Speaker 2: Even so, if it's I mean, I'm biased because I

1036
00:57:46,680 --> 00:57:49,520
Speaker 2: like doing it. But if you have any inkling of

1037
00:57:49,560 --> 00:57:53,720
Speaker 2: a of a sense that you might enjoy leaving the country,

1038
00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:56,400
Speaker 2: and and you, you know, can save up enough money

1039
00:57:56,600 --> 00:58:01,440
Speaker 2: on your mom's couch to do it, then I mean

1040
00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:06,240
Speaker 2: I'd go for it, but that's just that's just me. Yeah,

1041
00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:11,400
Speaker 2: and there will be plenty of husbands left at twenty eight.

1042
00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:16,320
Speaker 5: Yeah. No, that's definitely true. That's definitely true.

1043
00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:24,960
Speaker 2: That's cool, man. I don't know. My my and my

1044
00:58:25,040 --> 00:58:28,320
Speaker 2: parents met their current spouses when they were like forty something,

1045
00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:31,080
Speaker 2: so this time.

1046
00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:35,480
Speaker 5: Wow, but did they have kids? El eight two.

1047
00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:37,280
Speaker 4: Old?

1048
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:40,440
Speaker 2: How old am I? How old is anyone? I think

1049
00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:42,080
Speaker 2: my parents had me when they were in like their

1050
00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:43,840
Speaker 2: late thirties or something like that.

1051
00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:48,200
Speaker 5: Let's good to know.

1052
00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:50,720
Speaker 2: Plus, Hey, maybe you go abroad and you meet a

1053
00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:57,080
Speaker 2: foreign guy. Yeah that could be cool. Isn't that everyone's

1054
00:58:57,120 --> 00:59:00,439
Speaker 2: fantasy to like meet a hot European dude and get

1055
00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 2: on his moped and never come back. Not well, that

1056
00:59:05,240 --> 00:59:07,560
Speaker 2: never comes back. That sounds like that sounds like taken.

1057
00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:11,840
Speaker 2: That doesn't sound like the fantasy. But you know what

1058
00:59:11,840 --> 00:59:12,360
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

1059
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:16,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know. I feel like most of my

1060
00:59:16,560 --> 00:59:21,400
Speaker 5: friends like have no interest in that that specific fantasy

1061
00:59:22,680 --> 00:59:23,680
Speaker 5: or most of you most.

1062
00:59:23,520 --> 00:59:27,600
Speaker 2: Of your friends are married to their rural Pennsylvania boyfriends.

1063
00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:31,959
Speaker 5: No, not necessarily, but like I don't know the whole

1064
00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:34,720
Speaker 5: like being like in a whole nother country and like

1065
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:37,479
Speaker 5: finding someone there, like so far away from like friends

1066
00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:40,800
Speaker 5: and family, Like isn't super appealing to me?

1067
00:59:41,680 --> 00:59:44,200
Speaker 2: To you?

1068
00:59:44,280 --> 00:59:45,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, like to me, like, I'm not.

1069
00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:47,040
Speaker 2: But I thought you just said you wanted to you

1070
00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:48,480
Speaker 2: were thought about living.

1071
00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:51,400
Speaker 5: Abroad, Yeah, but it would only be for like a

1072
00:59:51,480 --> 00:59:53,760
Speaker 5: year or two probably, mm hmm.

1073
00:59:54,480 --> 01:00:00,000
Speaker 2: Well, I don't know. I I would I mean, if

1074
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:01,760
Speaker 2: if I were, if you're asking, I'm not going to

1075
01:00:01,800 --> 01:00:05,280
Speaker 2: tell you what to do, even though I if you're

1076
01:00:05,320 --> 01:00:07,800
Speaker 2: asking me what I think about this situation, I would

1077
01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:13,800
Speaker 2: tell you that you're not going to be old and

1078
01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:16,480
Speaker 2: decrepit at the age of twenty eight.

1079
01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:21,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, I know. I don't know why I think I am.

1080
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:23,840
Speaker 5: Like when I hit twenty two, I feel like I

1081
01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:25,240
Speaker 5: just spent downhill.

1082
01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:38,280
Speaker 2: I don't know. I haven't. I've never left the country

1083
01:00:38,480 --> 01:00:40,200
Speaker 2: and came back and been like I should have spent

1084
01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:43,000
Speaker 2: time looking for a wife. But maybe I should have.

1085
01:00:43,040 --> 01:00:46,040
Speaker 2: I don't know. I this is why it's weird having

1086
01:00:46,080 --> 01:00:49,520
Speaker 2: a I wouldn't call this an advice show. This is

1087
01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:53,040
Speaker 2: a This is a Gecko Show more than anything. But

1088
01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:54,800
Speaker 2: it's weird because I don't know what makes any I

1089
01:00:54,800 --> 01:00:57,480
Speaker 2: don't know. I don't know it's going to make you

1090
01:00:58,400 --> 01:01:01,520
Speaker 2: stoked in life, Steph. But I do know that you're

1091
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Speaker 2: not gonna be that when you turn twenty eight, if

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Speaker 2: you're lucky enough to turn twenty eight, you're not gonna

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Speaker 2: be like You're not gonna be like that lady, the

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Speaker 2: chocolate lady from SpongeBob.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: No, I mean it's not just that. I just always worry, like,

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Speaker 5: oh if I send you here to abroad and come back,

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Speaker 5: like I'm not gonna be behind in my job and

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Speaker 5: like other stuff. But I gotta live in the.

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Speaker 2: Present, Stephanie. Is there anything else you want to say

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Speaker 2: to the people of the computer before we go? No,

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Speaker 2: that was decisive. I like that. Thank you for calling Stephanie.

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Speaker 5: Good luck, Thank you, have a good night.

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Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna I'm gonna end up on one

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Speaker 2: of those like reality show like I wanna, Oh you

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Speaker 2: know what I should do? I should do The Bachelor.

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Speaker 2: Gek like it like a player. That's a sound as

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Speaker 2: good as I thought it. I thought it was gonna

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Speaker 2: I thought I was gonna be able to successfully rhyme

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Speaker 2: Bachelorette with Bachelor gek, but that didn't work. I think

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Speaker 2: that's what's gonna end up happening is I'm just gonna

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Speaker 2: everyone has to try on a gecko costume, and whoever

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Speaker 2: can be a gecko, the best I will give. I

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Speaker 2: will give a single rose. I give them a single

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Speaker 2: green rose.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 2: Now, I'm actually kind of into this idea. I think

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Speaker 2: that sounds cool. Who gets the green rose? All right,

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Speaker 2: we're doing it. We're doing the Bachelor. Ghak. All I

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Speaker 2: need is, uh, how much money does it cost to

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Speaker 2: make a reality TV show? Actually, now I'm thinking about it,

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Speaker 2: sounds like a lot of work. I'll think of something.

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Speaker 2: Everything goes on the line, making your phone calls every night,

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Speaker 2: Everything goes teaching news live. He's an experture