WEBVTT - Sam: Part 2 - For This Dater, Fourth Tat’s A Charm? 0:00:05.080 --> 0:00:07.920 Have you had a few dates but don't know why 0:00:07.960 --> 0:00:11.960 they fizzle out, not getting a text back and don't 0:00:11.960 --> 0:00:15.800 feel like calling ghostbusters? Is your family asking when you're 0:00:15.840 --> 0:00:19.560 going to bring somebody home. If you've turned to your 0:00:19.560 --> 0:00:22.759 Awalita for help in the past, maybe she can help again. 0:00:22.800 --> 0:00:23.040 Now. 0:00:23.720 --> 0:00:26.960 This is Date My Awalia First, where our fabulous a 0:00:27.800 --> 0:00:32.440 plays matchmaker for our star dater and three lucky contestants 0:00:32.479 --> 0:00:35.480 looking for Alwalita's stamp of approval. 0:00:36.040 --> 0:00:37.280 Let Awalita soul of. 0:00:37.320 --> 0:00:43.840 Your dating woes and turn them into dating. I'm your host, 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:49.479 Vico Ortiz, side by side with our loving Ahilita. And 0:00:49.680 --> 0:00:52.279 when I say love and I mean tough love too, right, 0:00:52.400 --> 0:00:54.400 alilitas La Chankla is ready. 0:00:54.560 --> 0:00:55.720 Oh we love that Changla. 0:00:55.840 --> 0:00:59.800 We've got three lovely contestants visiting Awalita's house for the 0:01:00.280 --> 0:01:00.880 time today. 0:01:01.400 --> 0:01:03.520 Let's see if they can handle the heat. 0:01:04.400 --> 0:01:08.160 Last time, Alitha and I got to know Sam, Awalita's 0:01:08.240 --> 0:01:13.040 new niette. Sam is the life of the party, but 0:01:13.120 --> 0:01:15.280 it is looking to meet someone in a different way 0:01:15.360 --> 0:01:19.480 from the party life. Our three contestants are Skyler, an 0:01:19.520 --> 0:01:23.880 illustrator who is a dog enthusiast, Destiny who splits time 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:27.759 between theater school and working at the nightclub, and Angela, 0:01:27.800 --> 0:01:30.399 who is making space and taking time for dating in 0:01:30.440 --> 0:01:34.759 a more furious capacity. Today, Awalita is going to get 0:01:34.800 --> 0:01:38.920 to know our three contestants more thorough through some fun games, 0:01:38.959 --> 0:01:42.720 and one might get a shot at quitting the apps 0:01:42.760 --> 0:01:48.600 and get to some muchin Famn, Hi, famm. 0:01:49.160 --> 0:01:54.280 You can come over and say a little hello, Hey, hi, hi. 0:01:55.240 --> 0:01:58.680 I know that you've been eavesdropping. What are your thoughts 0:01:58.920 --> 0:02:01.440 on the contestant so far? 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:06.600 They're all so cute. Yeah, I like love a scorpio, 0:02:07.120 --> 0:02:09.320 love a somber person. You know that water and earth 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:13.000 really match. Then the third person, Yeah, very cute, Libra, 0:02:13.280 --> 0:02:13.640 you know. 0:02:15.520 --> 0:02:18.280 So into it, into it. 0:02:18.520 --> 0:02:22.399 Okay, take it easy, Sam, Almost see you in a bit. 0:02:24.040 --> 0:02:25.920 Since Awilita has had. 0:02:25.760 --> 0:02:29.880 Own cafese though, with these three sweethearts one on one, 0:02:30.120 --> 0:02:33.360 we're going to bring them all together for a few. 0:02:33.160 --> 0:02:34.640 Games before Awalita. 0:02:34.720 --> 0:02:38.320 The signs of one of our contestants is the one 0:02:38.639 --> 0:02:39.720 for Sam. 0:02:40.120 --> 0:02:40.880 Come on in. 0:02:42.680 --> 0:02:49.079 Hello everybody, Okay, my darlings, welcome back today, my Awalita. 0:02:49.160 --> 0:02:52.160 First, you all impressed. 0:02:51.600 --> 0:02:55.079 Akalita on these speed dates, so we have to do 0:02:55.760 --> 0:02:58.880 a little sum sum to help her decide who is 0:02:58.960 --> 0:03:01.880 the best match for our main data. 0:03:01.960 --> 0:03:03.239 We're gonna play a few. 0:03:03.040 --> 0:03:08.600 Group games before sadly we have to send someone home. 0:03:09.080 --> 0:03:13.680 But don't know, YOI HOI I know, I know, But 0:03:13.800 --> 0:03:20.560 for now, let's see who becomes your favorite Niette. We're 0:03:20.600 --> 0:03:26.079 gonna start off with the game we all love call hypothetacols. 0:03:27.680 --> 0:03:32.280 We've all let our brains get the best of us, 0:03:32.720 --> 0:03:37.200 running through with the what if scenarios and wondering how 0:03:37.280 --> 0:03:41.280 we might act in certain scenarios. So in this game, 0:03:41.720 --> 0:03:46.000 we're going to present you with some situations and ask 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:49.480 you to think about what you might do if you 0:03:49.680 --> 0:03:52.400 found yourself in these little pickles. 0:03:52.680 --> 0:03:56.320 I don't like pickles. Hour lead that. What's your first hypothetical? Okay, 0:03:56.520 --> 0:03:57.360 listen to this one. 0:03:58.120 --> 0:04:00.400 What would you do if you found out you have 0:04:00.480 --> 0:04:04.120 to go to the Meddala in twenty four hours? 0:04:04.560 --> 0:04:07.880 Ooh, that's a good one, Angela, take it away. 0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:11.560 I would go, and I would stunt to say the 0:04:11.640 --> 0:04:16.720 least one of my hobbies is actually designer like plus size, 0:04:16.720 --> 0:04:17.680 ethical fashion. 0:04:18.160 --> 0:04:21.520 Excuse you? Is there anything you do not do? 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:25.520 And went to trust me and honestly, like one of 0:04:25.560 --> 0:04:28.320 my friend's favorite time of the year is live tweeting 0:04:28.360 --> 0:04:32.880 the met Gala red carpet, So I would humbly say 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:36.080 that I would make Los Angeles and my friends crowd. 0:04:36.800 --> 0:04:38.880 That is a Libra answer way there, and I'm obsessed 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:41.520 with you, amazing Destiny take us away. 0:04:41.720 --> 0:04:42.440 What would you do? 0:04:43.160 --> 0:04:47.320 I would ask Angela to help because I don't know 0:04:47.440 --> 0:04:50.040 any designers. I think I'd be good with the hair 0:04:50.040 --> 0:04:51.960 in the makeup part because on that all myself I 0:04:52.080 --> 0:04:53.880 do pretty well, you know. And sometimes I'll go to 0:04:54.160 --> 0:04:56.120 do photo shoots or something and people go, oh, you 0:04:56.240 --> 0:04:58.279 hired like a makeup artist or something, and I'm like, no, 0:04:58.520 --> 0:05:00.400 I just looked at a video on YouTube. But as 0:05:00.400 --> 0:05:03.000 far as the alpit, I think I could pull something together. 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:05.359 I would probably have to go look up a store 0:05:05.360 --> 0:05:07.680 and get something really quick. It would not be you know, 0:05:07.760 --> 0:05:10.680 some Saint Laurent or something, but it will look high end. 0:05:10.680 --> 0:05:11.279 I would hope. 0:05:11.600 --> 0:05:13.400 Hell yeah, what about you, Skyler. 0:05:13.880 --> 0:05:17.080 Let's see, I'm also pretty big into fashion, especially like 0:05:17.160 --> 0:05:21.760 sustainable and fifted stuff, so I'm kind of into creation 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:24.680 as well as I'm you know, a designer and illustrator, 0:05:25.320 --> 0:05:27.159 so I'd kind of love to try and like do 0:05:27.279 --> 0:05:32.000 a last minute craft project to be on themes great. 0:05:31.800 --> 0:05:34.839 Ups, love love love. That's your question. 0:05:35.440 --> 0:05:37.320 What would you do if you found out later in 0:05:37.360 --> 0:05:40.680 life that you had an evil, long lost sibling who 0:05:40.720 --> 0:05:44.799 had been secretly conspiring to steal your identity for years? 0:05:46.240 --> 0:05:47.200 Dialer take it. 0:05:49.680 --> 0:05:51.800 I guess my first impulse was to be like, do 0:05:51.839 --> 0:05:55.320 you need help? I don't think you want my identity. 0:05:55.400 --> 0:05:57.360 I don't have like a ton of money or anything, 0:05:57.400 --> 0:05:59.680 but I'll like do whatever I can to guess you 0:05:59.720 --> 0:06:01.359 on your blast. 0:06:01.839 --> 0:06:03.680 Oh my gosh, Angela. 0:06:04.600 --> 0:06:06.760 I know they're supposed to be evil, but I LOKI 0:06:06.839 --> 0:06:10.280 think it's really funny. And I would be like, can 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:12.839 I get in on your grift? Can we make money 0:06:12.839 --> 0:06:13.400 off of this? 0:06:13.560 --> 0:06:13.760 You know? 0:06:14.480 --> 0:06:18.480 Amazing? Hey, what destiny? What's your answer? 0:06:19.160 --> 0:06:22.160 I guess I would try to confront them about it 0:06:22.320 --> 0:06:24.080 or something. Do you if we could come to some 0:06:24.120 --> 0:06:26.760 sort of resolution about it? But you know, if not, 0:06:26.920 --> 0:06:28.240 then that would be horrible. 0:06:28.640 --> 0:06:32.640 Yeah, it's horrible. Indeed, I would eat that. Give us 0:06:32.640 --> 0:06:34.360 the next hypothetical. 0:06:34.320 --> 0:06:36.360 What would you do if your partner came home one 0:06:36.440 --> 0:06:41.119 day with a tattoo of your face on their entire 0:06:41.240 --> 0:06:45.039 back and want you to return the favor. Come on, Styler, 0:06:45.720 --> 0:06:46.800 I would be horrified. 0:06:47.640 --> 0:06:50.479 I would say, you need to set aside money to 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:51.400 get that removed. 0:06:51.520 --> 0:06:57.920 That don't Oh my gosh, incredible, Angela, what's your answer? 0:06:58.839 --> 0:07:06.440 I would laugh. First, I would personally say no to reciprocating, 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:10.040 but I wouldn't necessarily suggest that they have it removed. 0:07:10.040 --> 0:07:12.800 If they're happy about it, you know, why not? You know, 0:07:13.160 --> 0:07:18.120 a permanent reminder of myself on your body, that's the 0:07:18.280 --> 0:07:20.840 entire back What about you, Destiny? 0:07:21.400 --> 0:07:24.360 I guess I would be flattered, like if it was 0:07:24.400 --> 0:07:26.320 a good portrait. I don't know. I don't think I 0:07:26.320 --> 0:07:29.480 would personally want to get their face, but I do 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:32.240 have a couple of small dumb tattoos anyway, so like 0:07:32.400 --> 0:07:34.720 I would maybe get their name or something like about 0:07:34.800 --> 0:07:36.800 my ankle and be like, hey, this, and then I 0:07:36.840 --> 0:07:38.760 could always just get it covered up. I guess if 0:07:38.760 --> 0:07:40.560 they really really wanted that, I don't know. 0:07:40.960 --> 0:07:44.000 That is amazing, Well, thank you for showing us your 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:44.880 true colors. 0:07:45.080 --> 0:07:47.080 I would eat that sadly. It's time for one. 0:07:46.920 --> 0:07:50.960 Of these qutis to you know, hand the road. Who 0:07:51.000 --> 0:07:54.880 are you gonna send packing already? 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:57.880 I know, I know, I'm so sorry. I know you 0:07:57.960 --> 0:08:00.720 hate doing this. She really does like fall in love 0:08:00.720 --> 0:08:04.280 with everybody. It's uh yeah, it's great. The prices in 0:08:04.360 --> 0:08:06.360 her great balls of fire. 0:08:06.960 --> 0:08:10.800 Okay, I love each of you. You have to know 0:08:10.880 --> 0:08:13.960 that a will Eita has a huge heart. But I 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:18.120 have to consider our main dator and what this person 0:08:18.240 --> 0:08:23.760 is looking for. So, oh my goodness, this hurts so much. 0:08:24.400 --> 0:08:26.200 We're gonna have to say goodbye to Skyler. 0:08:26.960 --> 0:08:30.280 So sorry, Skyler. We love and adore you. You're so 0:08:30.320 --> 0:08:33.760 sweet and tender. Thank you for your energy and your time. 0:08:33.960 --> 0:08:35.439 Thank you, Skyler. 0:08:36.160 --> 0:08:39.679 All Right, when we get back, our last two contestants 0:08:39.720 --> 0:08:42.800 will go head to head in the final game before 0:08:42.880 --> 0:08:45.240 I will eat the decides who can handle the heat 0:08:45.800 --> 0:08:52.680 in her cossina. Yeah, welcome back today. 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:53.880 Am I wily the first? 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:58.800 Okay, folks, I know we've put you through a lot 0:08:58.840 --> 0:09:02.520 with the hypothetical game already, but we have one more 0:09:02.600 --> 0:09:07.240 game before Auralita picks her favorite Niette least. 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:11.160 This let's go. This is a red flags game. 0:09:12.080 --> 0:09:15.280 Okay, contestants, imagine you've gone a few dates and they 0:09:15.320 --> 0:09:16.880 have been amazing. 0:09:17.240 --> 0:09:19.880 You are falling for this person really hard. 0:09:20.200 --> 0:09:23.319 And I'm gonna present you with a few behaviors that 0:09:23.480 --> 0:09:28.679 some might find undesirable. So what would it take for 0:09:28.760 --> 0:09:31.120 you to call things off? Each of you will rank 0:09:31.200 --> 0:09:34.400 them from best to worst based on what you would 0:09:34.400 --> 0:09:38.360 put up with for an otherwise piterfect partner. 0:09:39.160 --> 0:09:41.040 Our lead that take it away? What are your first 0:09:41.080 --> 0:09:42.679 three kisses? 0:09:42.760 --> 0:09:47.040 The reflection in the mirror every morning, gossips about your 0:09:47.080 --> 0:09:52.000 sex life to your friends, lies about returning the clothes 0:09:52.040 --> 0:09:55.120 they borrowed from you, destiny. 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:58.560 Okay, the kisses, the reflection in the mirror. I wouldn't 0:09:58.559 --> 0:10:01.160 consider that bad. I think it's good if that's something 0:10:01.160 --> 0:10:03.640 that makes you feel more positive or whatever. I mean. 0:10:03.679 --> 0:10:06.120 I do affirmations in the mirror, which I guess could 0:10:06.120 --> 0:10:08.440 be seen as the same thing, So I think that's good. 0:10:08.480 --> 0:10:10.520 You know, you want to be with somebody that loves themselves, 0:10:10.559 --> 0:10:13.200 I guess, so if that helps them, that's a good thing. 0:10:14.559 --> 0:10:17.440 I guess. The talking about my sex life with my 0:10:17.760 --> 0:10:20.560 friends would bother me a little bit, But if they're 0:10:20.600 --> 0:10:22.720 my friends, is gonna come back around to me, and 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:24.480 then I would just come to them and be like, hey, 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:27.720 if there's issues, you could just talk to me instead, 0:10:27.800 --> 0:10:30.760 you know, go right to the source instead of doing 0:10:30.800 --> 0:10:32.880 like a merry girl, because it's going to come back 0:10:32.920 --> 0:10:37.480 to me eventually lying about borrowing my clothes. This, I 0:10:37.520 --> 0:10:39.000 don't know if it would be a deal breaker. It 0:10:39.000 --> 0:10:41.200 does remind me of like of siblings a little bit. 0:10:41.080 --> 0:10:41.240 You know. 0:10:41.800 --> 0:10:44.360 Yeah, I would be like, hey, I know you're taking them, 0:10:44.400 --> 0:10:46.040 so just on up to the fact. 0:10:46.080 --> 0:10:49.000 If you can't bring them back, at least pay for them, Okay. 0:10:49.800 --> 0:10:52.560 Right yeah, or like we can share clothes or something 0:10:52.559 --> 0:10:53.160 if you want. 0:10:53.040 --> 0:10:53.600 To borrow them. 0:10:53.920 --> 0:10:56.880 I'm there with you. I'm there with you, Angela tell Us. 0:10:57.520 --> 0:11:00.880 So I think my first one that I would is 0:11:01.200 --> 0:11:04.920 sipping about our sex life to my friends. I'm low 0:11:05.000 --> 0:11:10.480 key a chronic oversharer, so I probably, honestly, I probably 0:11:10.480 --> 0:11:11.760 would be the one gossiping. 0:11:12.160 --> 0:11:14.600 So it's a little more like showing off rather than 0:11:14.600 --> 0:11:15.360 anything else. 0:11:16.360 --> 0:11:19.800 The second one for me is kissing the reflection. It's 0:11:19.840 --> 0:11:22.960 a little bit American psycho Christian Bale, not gonna lie. 0:11:23.200 --> 0:11:26.360 It's a little bit bigger. Again, it's like, as long 0:11:26.400 --> 0:11:29.679 as you're not mimicking, like making out with yourself like 0:11:29.720 --> 0:11:33.720 that's you know, to each their own. And my last 0:11:33.720 --> 0:11:36.400 one that I think would be this would bother me 0:11:36.440 --> 0:11:41.520 a lot, actually, the large returning the clothes. Yeah, like 0:11:41.559 --> 0:11:44.280 I said, like fashion is a really big like hotey 0:11:44.440 --> 0:11:47.360 for me, and I like really take a lot of 0:11:47.400 --> 0:11:51.559 effort and pride and money into like curating my wardrobe. 0:11:51.920 --> 0:11:55.040 I would like not only notice that something is missing, 0:11:55.160 --> 0:11:58.600 I would be like angry because that is that's like 0:11:58.640 --> 0:12:03.080 an important piece, like the puzzle of that is my wardrobe, 0:12:03.160 --> 0:12:05.520 and like you need to give that back if it's 0:12:05.520 --> 0:12:08.160 in my closet, it's probably like important, you know. 0:12:09.920 --> 0:12:13.200 All right, So three more on my end raises their 0:12:13.280 --> 0:12:18.120 voice when you advocate for yourself, rolls their eyes at 0:12:18.160 --> 0:12:22.320 you whenever you say something they don't agree with, makes 0:12:22.360 --> 0:12:25.960 you feel badly if you won't leave somewhere early with 0:12:26.080 --> 0:12:27.720 them when they want. 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:30.960 To leave Angela, let's go to town. 0:12:33.080 --> 0:12:35.120 I think the one that I would be okay with 0:12:35.559 --> 0:12:39.439 is make me feel shitty for not leaving when they 0:12:39.480 --> 0:12:42.560 want to leave. It sucks that they made me feel bad, 0:12:42.640 --> 0:12:45.000 but you know, maybe they were already having a bad day. 0:12:45.200 --> 0:12:47.240 Like I could get over it and we can talk 0:12:47.280 --> 0:12:49.560 about it later. It's not really too big of a 0:12:49.600 --> 0:12:54.000 deal for me. I would say. Rolling eyes would be 0:12:54.280 --> 0:12:58.680 my middle It's more context dependent. Again, it's like, not 0:12:59.160 --> 0:12:59.559 the end. 0:12:59.559 --> 0:12:59.960 Of the world. 0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:02.880 If someone can post their eyes at me, even if 0:13:02.920 --> 0:13:05.559 it was my partner, if it made me feel really 0:13:05.600 --> 0:13:07.720 bad in the moment, I think we could talk it through. 0:13:09.120 --> 0:13:13.200 But the raises voice thing. I don't like anybody yelling 0:13:13.240 --> 0:13:17.040 at me. I don't like having shouting matches. If it 0:13:17.080 --> 0:13:19.320 was something that was like reoccurring, I would be like, 0:13:19.840 --> 0:13:22.319 this mode of communication is like not going to work 0:13:22.360 --> 0:13:23.120 for us. 0:13:22.960 --> 0:13:26.480 It's disrespectful. Yes, how about you, destiny. 0:13:27.120 --> 0:13:29.920 The bottom for me would be the rolling the eyes. 0:13:30.040 --> 0:13:32.440 It would irk me for sure, But I think compared 0:13:32.440 --> 0:13:36.520 to the other ones, it was the least the making 0:13:36.559 --> 0:13:38.280 me feel bad, Like I don't want to be made 0:13:38.320 --> 0:13:41.360 to feel bad about something that is just not that 0:13:41.440 --> 0:13:43.440 big of a deal, or like some sort of decision. 0:13:43.800 --> 0:13:45.320 But I think I'm in the same boat. If they 0:13:45.360 --> 0:13:47.160 really wanted to leave, I would probably be like, Okay, 0:13:47.160 --> 0:13:49.520 well you can leave and I will stay here. Likes 0:13:49.760 --> 0:13:53.079 that's how we would solve that, I guess. And then 0:13:53.120 --> 0:13:55.240 the raising the voice for me, it would be the 0:13:55.240 --> 0:13:57.480 worst one too, because I also don't like being yelled 0:13:57.520 --> 0:14:00.000 at like somebody that can't communicate or just screams or 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:02.520 Whatever's like it's very triggering. I just don't like it, 0:14:02.600 --> 0:14:05.400 you know. So if we can't find a way to communicate, 0:14:05.480 --> 0:14:07.480 or if it's you know, sometimes two people just don't mention, 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:09.920 it ends up being that way. So yeah, for me, 0:14:09.960 --> 0:14:12.080 that would probably be a deal breaker if it was 0:14:12.160 --> 0:14:13.040 a reoccurring thing. 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:17.120 You are both very similar in that. That's very good 0:14:17.120 --> 0:14:21.480 to know. Now, last one, you ready lets their pets 0:14:21.520 --> 0:14:25.120 stay on the bed during sex, has never been dumped, 0:14:25.200 --> 0:14:29.280 and has only been the dumper refuses to take their 0:14:29.320 --> 0:14:34.200 shoes off at your Elita's house. Where's my Changla? How 0:14:34.240 --> 0:14:34.720 about it? 0:14:34.800 --> 0:14:35.280 Destiny? 0:14:36.280 --> 0:14:39.680 I guess the leaving the pet on the bed that 0:14:39.840 --> 0:14:44.040 is creepy and weird. I would maybe tolerated. I don't know. 0:14:44.120 --> 0:14:47.520 You know, some people are really they really love their pets, 0:14:47.560 --> 0:14:50.480 you know, so if anything, I would try to have 0:14:50.520 --> 0:14:53.560 a conversation like maybe maybe the dog can you know, 0:14:53.600 --> 0:14:54.960 go outside, or something like. 0:14:54.880 --> 0:14:57.840 Maybe the dog wents company and they just jumped on 0:14:57.880 --> 0:14:58.240 the bed. 0:14:59.080 --> 0:15:01.120 You know, I would just bad for the dog. At 0:15:01.120 --> 0:15:04.479 that point, I was just like, what, I don't understand 0:15:05.720 --> 0:15:08.320 the refuses to take the shoes off. That annoys me. 0:15:08.440 --> 0:15:10.560 I always take my shoes off in my house, and 0:15:10.640 --> 0:15:12.640 all my friends always know too. I always get something 0:15:12.920 --> 0:15:14.240 like take off your shoes. I just got a track 0:15:14.240 --> 0:15:16.560 stuff in there, so that for me, I know, it's 0:15:16.600 --> 0:15:19.000 like very much a cultural thing too. So depending on 0:15:19.000 --> 0:15:21.400 how the person grew up, you know, maybe they didn't 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:22.920 grow up that way and I just have to. 0:15:22.920 --> 0:15:24.640 Maybe they feed stink and they don't want to take 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:25.160 them off. 0:15:25.360 --> 0:15:28.480 Right, And then the I guess the other one has 0:15:28.560 --> 0:15:31.520 only been the dumper. I don't know if that's necessarily 0:15:31.560 --> 0:15:33.760 like such a bad thing too, because maybe you know, 0:15:33.880 --> 0:15:36.920 they just were not ready to be dating or whatever. 0:15:37.040 --> 0:15:39.600 You know, at least maybe they were just being real, 0:15:39.800 --> 0:15:40.680 telling it like it is. 0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:42.560 Yeah, I guess I'm out of those ones that would 0:15:42.600 --> 0:15:44.120 be the top one, you know. But it wouldn't be 0:15:44.160 --> 0:15:46.120 like a deal breaker, you know, it'd just be something 0:15:46.120 --> 0:15:48.760 to be wearing, like, oh, maybe I'm gonna get dumb 0:15:48.800 --> 0:15:49.600 by you too. 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:51.720 But yeah, Angela. 0:15:52.720 --> 0:15:56.400 So my thing that I would tolerate is the pet 0:15:56.640 --> 0:15:58.920 being in the room or being on the bed during sex. 0:15:59.000 --> 0:16:02.280 It's like all of our petsias naked or like pooping 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:04.600 or peeing. It's like fine, they want to follow us. 0:16:04.640 --> 0:16:08.520 I get it. And my middle one that's like more 0:16:08.600 --> 0:16:13.480 context dependent. Is never been dumped, always been the dumper. 0:16:14.040 --> 0:16:14.440 I don't know. 0:16:14.480 --> 0:16:17.200 I don't like to assume that the person who is 0:16:17.320 --> 0:16:21.400 choosing to end the relationship also isn't heartbroken or distraught 0:16:21.480 --> 0:16:24.840 over it. Of course, sometimes I think they're unhealthy. Like 0:16:24.920 --> 0:16:27.400 Destiny said, they're not ready. It's not the right time, 0:16:27.600 --> 0:16:30.320 it's not the right person. And even if you're having 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:33.040 a good time with that person and you care for them, 0:16:33.320 --> 0:16:36.000 sometimes it's just not the best decision for either of you, 0:16:36.080 --> 0:16:38.600 and that decision has to be made by somebody. And 0:16:38.880 --> 0:16:41.800 my thing that really pissed me off is definitely not 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:47.000 taking their shoes off at my Abulita's place. I would 0:16:47.040 --> 0:16:50.200 be like, okay, like, let's get you some house slippers 0:16:50.240 --> 0:16:53.000 if you want. But if it was just like not 0:16:53.120 --> 0:16:57.520 respecting my grandma's space, I would just be like, well 0:16:58.320 --> 0:17:02.440 then leave, well bye bye. Wait in the car. 0:17:03.400 --> 0:17:05.960 Oh, thank you think you, thank you so so much 0:17:06.359 --> 0:17:10.159 for playing. We are going to pick a winner, but 0:17:10.280 --> 0:17:12.600 first we're going to do a little deliberation. 0:17:13.200 --> 0:17:16.080 Talk to you soon, Ahalita. 0:17:16.200 --> 0:17:18.080 Do you think it's time for us to let our 0:17:18.119 --> 0:17:21.399 beautiful contestants in our little secret? 0:17:21.960 --> 0:17:23.200 I think it's time. 0:17:23.600 --> 0:17:26.800 Yes, all right, contestants, little did you know that our 0:17:26.920 --> 0:17:31.879 main dater has been listening in this whole time, And 0:17:31.960 --> 0:17:34.199 I know Awalita might have an idea of who she 0:17:34.359 --> 0:17:37.159 likes for Sam. But let's see if we have a 0:17:37.320 --> 0:17:41.040 unanimous decision. To all of our contestants, thank you so 0:17:41.119 --> 0:17:46.720 much on your search for love. Thank you for playing. 0:17:47.200 --> 0:17:50.720 We are going to pick a winner, but first we're 0:17:50.720 --> 0:17:54.199 going to do a little deliberation. Talk to you soon, 0:18:00.200 --> 0:18:02.960 a Wilita, I don't know. I'm kind of torn between 0:18:03.160 --> 0:18:06.719 Destiny and Angela. I think they both are wonderful people. 0:18:06.800 --> 0:18:09.879 I think they're both they would bring something very different 0:18:09.880 --> 0:18:13.119 and unique in Sam. I think that there are some 0:18:13.280 --> 0:18:16.800 great conversations that Angela can bring to Sam, and I 0:18:16.840 --> 0:18:19.720 also think that Destiny has a lot of emotional depth 0:18:19.880 --> 0:18:21.080 that maybe Sam. 0:18:20.880 --> 0:18:23.200 Is also looking for. I'm kind of torn between both. 0:18:23.320 --> 0:18:26.240 You're so right, Vigo. There's one thing that you mentioned 0:18:26.240 --> 0:18:29.200 that is the absolute truth. Each of them would bring 0:18:29.280 --> 0:18:32.520 something completely different to this relationship, and for that reason, 0:18:32.560 --> 0:18:35.080 we have to be a little cautious on who we 0:18:35.160 --> 0:18:38.480 match Sam with, only because we want them to pair 0:18:38.600 --> 0:18:42.120 up and be magnificent together. So let's talk a little 0:18:42.119 --> 0:18:46.840 bit about destiny. Destiny is a very creative person, has 0:18:46.920 --> 0:18:50.639 been battling with her own issues through the years and 0:18:50.720 --> 0:18:53.760 has come out a survivor, has come up on top 0:18:53.840 --> 0:18:57.760 of it all, is good at coping, good at communicating, 0:18:57.960 --> 0:19:01.720 is an excellent person. Wants to have fun, and we 0:19:01.880 --> 0:19:05.200 know that that's exactly what Sam wants. Not only that, 0:19:05.320 --> 0:19:09.200 but wants a supportive relationship, a place where she can 0:19:09.280 --> 0:19:12.240 be herself and laugh and have a lot of fun. 0:19:12.320 --> 0:19:15.440 And with Sam, I think they would have great, great adventures. 0:19:15.840 --> 0:19:19.399 Now if we look at Angela, well, they're a little 0:19:19.400 --> 0:19:24.159 bit more into the logical part of a relationship, not 0:19:24.359 --> 0:19:26.760 really looking for that foundation, but. 0:19:27.240 --> 0:19:28.919 Just seeing what it all leads to. 0:19:29.520 --> 0:19:32.919 So at this point, it's very interesting to see the 0:19:32.960 --> 0:19:35.440 difference between these beautiful human beings. 0:19:35.920 --> 0:19:37.520 But I still have to make up my mind. 0:19:37.600 --> 0:19:45.720 So we'll be back after the break. Welcome back to 0:19:45.840 --> 0:19:51.440 day might Alida first, okay, welcome back to our lovely, 0:19:51.640 --> 0:19:56.280 lovely contestants. The moment of truth is here. The jury 0:19:56.560 --> 0:20:00.560 has a verdict. Alida, tell us who who gets a 0:20:00.560 --> 0:20:04.280 shot at mum and why I. 0:20:04.280 --> 0:20:05.480 Do have a decision. 0:20:06.040 --> 0:20:07.800 Before I go into it, I like to tell you 0:20:07.920 --> 0:20:15.040 both Destiny and Angela that you're both amazing human beings. 0:20:15.640 --> 0:20:18.359 I love each of you. You have a lot to 0:20:18.440 --> 0:20:22.440 bring to the table on a relationship. However, at this 0:20:22.560 --> 0:20:25.240 point that Welita has to look out for our main 0:20:25.320 --> 0:20:28.919 data a little bit close. Who would be more supportive, 0:20:28.960 --> 0:20:32.480 who would have more fun, or who just has more 0:20:32.480 --> 0:20:34.160 of a parallel life and. 0:20:34.440 --> 0:20:35.919 Goals to where they're going. 0:20:36.480 --> 0:20:39.960 And at this point my decision is that the person 0:20:40.400 --> 0:20:50.000 dating Sam will be Destiny. Thank you, Angela, It's been 0:20:50.040 --> 0:20:55.040 a pleasure meeting you. You are amazing, such an educated person, 0:20:55.160 --> 0:20:58.360 so knowledgeable, you have so much going for you, your fashion. 0:20:58.440 --> 0:21:00.760 I'm looking forward to see and it's somewhere on the 0:21:00.920 --> 0:21:04.199 big runway, so please we will might just see you 0:21:04.280 --> 0:21:07.000 back in one of our shows, never know, so keep 0:21:07.040 --> 0:21:09.400 the faith and much like to you in your daily life. 0:21:09.640 --> 0:21:12.159 Thank you so much of Lilisa, Thank you everybody. I 0:21:12.440 --> 0:21:15.639 was very happy. Congratulations Destiny, You're wonderful. 0:21:16.000 --> 0:21:19.919 Thank you everyone, mo Cheesy Magasias to all of our contestants. 0:21:20.400 --> 0:21:22.919 Now let's get this little introduction. 0:21:23.240 --> 0:21:30.200 Go in Sam Destiny, Destiny, Sam, Hi, Well you're both here. 0:21:30.280 --> 0:21:37.080