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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Red and I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio podcast. Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. We

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Speaker 1: are scrubbing in because is it a wet one today?

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Speaker 1: It is, well, not in here, but out there out there. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's um it's raining in l A. Which we've had

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Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of I missed it. I

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Speaker 1: went to Florida to see my family, but I always

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Speaker 1: leave when it's like, this is my ideal weather. Well,

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Speaker 1: don't you worry because it is sticking around all weeks. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is now a weather podcast so much. Let us

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Speaker 1: know where you are. Russure system coming through. That's gonna

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Speaker 1: reak havoc on the barometric pressure. What he said, Well,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if that's a bad thing, But I,

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Speaker 1: for one love this weather. It's just a nice break.

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Speaker 1: I love the sun like I live in l A

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Speaker 1: for a reason. I paid to live in l A

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Speaker 1: for a reason. But I do love these like burst

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Speaker 1: of cozy. Cozy. Cozy is nice when you're not when

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Speaker 1: you don't have things to do. I agree, I agree.

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Speaker 1: And when you have things to do, it becomes a

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Speaker 1: little problematic in Los Angeles because people don't know how

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Speaker 1: to drive. Rocks are in the roads, things are bursting

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Speaker 1: in the streets. Yeah, like we it's not made for this,

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Speaker 1: but we are. We are made We're made for anything.

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Speaker 1: We are made for anything. Yeah, what's up? What's up?

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Speaker 1: And I also have like the craziest um cramps going

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Speaker 1: on right now, But it's all good because I just

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Speaker 1: took two more and so we're here. So motorin does

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Speaker 1: it for you? Oh yeah, I thought that you had

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Speaker 1: conquered your cramps by So there's only so much you

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Speaker 1: can do with um at a time, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean. Like I have I'm on my Hashimoto's pursuit,

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Speaker 1: focusing focusing on that food and like what I need

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Speaker 1: to be eating and consuming for that. It's just it's

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Speaker 1: too much energy to do it all simultaneously whilst cycle sinking. I,

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Speaker 1: for one, I am happy to hear you say that

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Speaker 1: I'm still cycle sinking in the sense that, like I'm

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Speaker 1: aware of my phases of the cycle, and I'm like

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Speaker 1: eating like more red meat when I'm on my period

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Speaker 1: and like relaxing more on my period. But like that's

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Speaker 1: pretty much the extent of it. But we still need

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Speaker 1: a little assistance from the mo Trin the mo Trint

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Speaker 1: Mo Trin is my best friend. I luckily got my

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Speaker 1: period while I was in Florida, which was so exciting.

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Speaker 1: You know, we're not We're about a week off. A

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Speaker 1: couple of days and I literally was dying. I never

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Speaker 1: really had bad cram sertay. I have one day of cramps.

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Speaker 1: I think I got like a little bit of food

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Speaker 1: poisoning or something, or a stomach bug. It was just

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Speaker 1: it was. I had a rough few days in Florida,

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Speaker 1: but it was really great. I surprised my parents and

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Speaker 1: UM got to meet my niece, my brother's baby for

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Speaker 1: the first time, and it was really great. I'm glad.

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Speaker 1: I glad I went to the day before. So how

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Speaker 1: less hectic was that than traveling during the holidays. I

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Speaker 1: feel like that might be your new move, Like maybe

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Speaker 1: you're like, hey, family, let's celebrate Christmas like after the

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Speaker 1: New Year. I actually was talking to my mom about

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Speaker 1: this because if if moving forward, every holiday season looks

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Speaker 1: like it did in the airport this year, I don't

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Speaker 1: know if I want to tackle that, Like I don't

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Speaker 1: booking a flight, getting canceled, panicking it's it just might

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Speaker 1: be nicer to like do it after the fact because

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Speaker 1: the airports were chilling, chilling villain. I part also what

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Speaker 1: a luxury I parked. I drove my car to the

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Speaker 1: airport and parked it there, so then I got homeless night.

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Speaker 1: I just got in my car and it was so nice.

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Speaker 1: But it was about the same as I would have

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Speaker 1: paid to get totally totally. Well, the rest of us

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Speaker 1: like parking ramps near by, you know, well even that's

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Speaker 1: a luxury though. You just get on a shuttle right right.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying it's world's cheaper than an uber or

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Speaker 1: parking at the airport. Really, is it like thirty bucks

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Speaker 1: you can find pretty good deals, but that's what most

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Speaker 1: people do. Oh look at me, Like I literally uber

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Speaker 1: packed a carry on. Can you believe that I got

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Speaker 1: to the airport well on time? Yes? Did I made

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Speaker 1: my flight? Yes? Was there some rushing happening, yes, especially

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Speaker 1: That was. That was, But I haven't done that in

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Speaker 1: a long time. Like, I've actually been pretty consistent because

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Speaker 1: here's my thing. If I'm traveling with someone who was

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Speaker 1: like airport anxiety, I will meet them in the middle

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Speaker 1: like we I'm like, I'm not getting there two and

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Speaker 1: been trying to be better about that. But when it's myself,

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Speaker 1: I'm reckless. That gives me anxiety that you missed your

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Speaker 1: if you miss your terminal and there's so many cars

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Speaker 1: again with a million other cars. That sounds awful. I

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Speaker 1: certainly was. I certainly was, and I was I was

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Speaker 1: just going. You know what, This is what I did.

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Speaker 1: I didn't tell the only person who knew I was going.

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Speaker 1: was going. Yeah, I knew you were going, okay, because

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Speaker 1: I saw the day before. Yeah, but I was. I

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Speaker 1: I knew I had gotta vibe, gotta get Tanya and

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Speaker 1: Haley were like the only people who knew. So in

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Speaker 1: to sleep, she says, because no one has expectations of

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Speaker 1: me coming. Did you want to gas recently? Yes, that's

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Speaker 1: that's another thing that I can't even fathom too. That

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Speaker 1: People think and that's on us, the people who this

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Speaker 1: is making me anxious for my flight. I haven't flown

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm flying at the beginning of February. I'm

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Speaker 1: already like stress. Yeah, I would get there some time. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm not. I don't like risk it. I don't like

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Speaker 1: I don't. I know, Tanya, I know these are just

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Speaker 1: eighty dollars for three years, but you do have to

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Speaker 1: they have one right on riverside here in Burbank. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, there's it's not quite as easy as

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Speaker 1: get it for our kids and we haven't gone around right.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it is a step. It's a step it's

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Speaker 1: just like Johns like chaos, chaos and chaos like long lines,

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Speaker 1: Milwaukee on New Year's Day and there was no line

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Speaker 1: The cares are probably cleaner over there. Well, you didn't

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Speaker 1: people don't wash their feet too. I don't really wash

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Speaker 1: my feet. That's so upsetting, but pedicures every two weeks.

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Speaker 1: she washes, yes, says I washed my armpits and cross

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Speaker 1: missed while you were home, and it's about thirty headlines

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Speaker 1: about Prince Harry. I gotta say I could not care less. No,

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Speaker 1: I'm dead serious, Like when I see it, kind of

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Speaker 1: like me too. They have turned me from team them

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Speaker 1: more headlines. I couldn't even keep them straight. What is it?

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Speaker 1: I haven't even like and Marco and I just keep going,

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Speaker 1: will be going on a yes, very smaller media tour

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Speaker 1: figger than my head. It was scary, because are you red?

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Speaker 1: I would have walked with its every day to cut

423
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Speaker 1: my apple. Washing come with excalibur. I was like, they

424
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Speaker 1: let you in the building with dog like that feels

425
00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 1: like a hazard. Maybe I have some weird things, man,

426
00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:01,199
Speaker 1: you know you do have some quirks. Yeah, have some

427
00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:05,760
Speaker 1: weird things. Yeah. I got smarter and just cut my

428
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:09,680
Speaker 1: apples before I left my house, not to cut them

429
00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:15,399
Speaker 1: at the office. Yeah, you got smarter, smart, working, working, working, smarter,

430
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 1: not harder. I think we should take a break. All right,

431
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:42,520
Speaker 1: we are back, Tanya. What else did you do all going? Well?

432
00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 1: You missed Avatar. We did a fun family I missed.

433
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Speaker 1: They all went, yeah you didn't go I did? I

434
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 1: saw it? Yeah, oh I saw it weeks ago, like

435
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 1: the weekend. It came out like two weeks ago. No,

436
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 1: like before Christmas. It came up a for Christmas. What Yeah, yeah,

437
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 1: I think that time stands still for me, like that

438
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:15,040
Speaker 1: two week period around the Christmas time. Tricky times. So

439
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 1: this is old news to you. Did you cry like

440
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:22,119
Speaker 1: a baby? I cried and I had to like literally

441
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Speaker 1: close my eyes at some point. I got so upset. Oh,

442
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:29,640
Speaker 1: but you were not tired close because you were tired. No, no, no,

443
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:32,159
Speaker 1: I mean I wasn't like a recliner seat, so I

444
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:34,760
Speaker 1: could have was very It was very peaceful to me,

445
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 1: like the water. It was so visually beautiful that I

446
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 1: was like very relaxed. But some of the scenes were

447
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:42,639
Speaker 1: very intent. I had to I realized I can't handle

448
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:45,920
Speaker 1: anything that involves like I guess spoiler alert if you

449
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:50,639
Speaker 1: haven't seen it yet, like animal animal harm. You know

450
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 1: what's interesting even but the whole movie is c G

451
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Speaker 1: I or computer somehow, so obviously no real animals like

452
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Speaker 1: the storyline. I had the same feeling, so I like again,

453
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 1: I know I have some weird things, so forgive me.

454
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:10,119
Speaker 1: I really um one of the animals without spoiling anything,

455
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 1: reminded me of my dog's sunny and like I just

456
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:19,440
Speaker 1: like how protective she was, and like I got really

457
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 1: emotional about this animal throughout the whole movie. Like I

458
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:25,639
Speaker 1: was crying when it was hurt and like I was like,

459
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:27,960
Speaker 1: I'm I okay. Well now that in hindsight, I was

460
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 1: pre period, so I think I was just like extra emotional.

461
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 1: But I was crying in many scenes of that movie. Yeah,

462
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 1: that's how I felt too, I know what you're talking.

463
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 1: Not many people's eyes were wet in my theater, so

464
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 1: I was like, am I okay? Did they have their

465
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:47,400
Speaker 1: glasses on them when we were leaving? No, I looked like,

466
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:52,040
Speaker 1: what's the heart cried during a movie like where you're

467
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Speaker 1: just like you know that kind of gasping and weeping.

468
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 1: Mine in a theater was Marley and me. That's what

469
00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, I've seen it. Don't want to

470
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:05,159
Speaker 1: know you should not definitely not now that you have

471
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 1: a dog, because like I didn't even have a dog

472
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:10,160
Speaker 1: at the time, and I went by myself because my sister,

473
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,159
Speaker 1: my brother in law wanted to see another movie that

474
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Speaker 1: I didn't want to see, So I went and saw

475
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 1: Merlin mean by myself and I came out and I

476
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 1: was like, uncontrollable. It is devastating. God. Mine was because

477
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,679
Speaker 1: I was trying so desperately to hold it in for

478
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,359
Speaker 1: the whole time, and then finally it was just that

479
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:31,879
Speaker 1: I let that big gasp. It was very embarrassing, but

480
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 1: real men, crime Mark, I get that cancer. I'm a

481
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 1: c along, but I was trying not to for whatever reason.

482
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 1: Was rough. Yeah, And then on a plane, what was

483
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,639
Speaker 1: the worst you've cried in a theater? I mean, I

484
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 1: can't think of one. From sadness, like I cried from

485
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:53,400
Speaker 1: happiness a lot, like like I wept wept pretty enthusiastically

486
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 1: during avengesting game, like from joy and from like seeing

487
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 1: all my friends and stuff on the screen. But that's

488
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,920
Speaker 1: not a joke. I was like weeping in the well

489
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:07,120
Speaker 1: the studious theater. But I don't know. I cried during

490
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:10,719
Speaker 1: the Notebook in that theater. I cried during that. Um.

491
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 1: There's this movie that the late Anton Yalkin did called

492
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:16,679
Speaker 1: Like Crazy. It's about like that movie made me weep

493
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:20,960
Speaker 1: a lot. That was a very emotional movie. No one

494
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:24,119
Speaker 1: talked about that enough. No, they didn't even heard of that.

495
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:26,640
Speaker 1: I've never heard of long distance relation. If you're in one,

496
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,680
Speaker 1: you like the movie, it might make you, might make

497
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 1: your heart hurt a little bit, but it is beautiful,

498
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:35,680
Speaker 1: beautiful storytelling. All I can think about now when I'm

499
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 1: in the theaters is when I see the Nicole Kidman

500
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 1: thing I like think of the I think Tea doing

501
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 1: the Nicole kid Somehow, hot breake feels good in a

502
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:54,959
Speaker 1: place like this. I cannot control my laughter every time

503
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 1: I see it now. And people applaud for that, now,

504
00:28:57,080 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 1: don't they when man, Yes, we saw again Opening Night,

505
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 1: which is fantastic, by the way, and people were going

506
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 1: nuts for the Nicole Kidney Nicola kid me A commercial.

507
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 1: It's such a joy every Yeah, it really is, really

508
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 1: everyone's never time I see it. Sure, Yeah, Sometimes heartbreak

509
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 1: feels good in a place like this. Why she said

510
00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: the first time, I'm just gonna Oh the first time

511
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 1: was southern too, And I was like, maybe I missed something.

512
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:27,600
Speaker 1: Sometimes heartbreak feels good in a place like this. No,

513
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:29,640
Speaker 1: that wasn't anything. The first time I was better. I

514
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 1: got it. The first time you know necessarily her Australian accent.

515
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 1: The most in um would come to AMC theatis to laugh,

516
00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 1: to cry so funny. Oh and then we watched we

517
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 1: binged Cook It All Costs. It's just like that sounds

518
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 1: like Australian said that. Yeah, we just binged a Cook

519
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 1: It All Costs. It's such a great show. And I'm

520
00:29:57,080 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 1: finding that I'm loving I love cooking those and I'm

521
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:06,000
Speaker 1: not a cook. What's there? Okay, I'm glad you asked.

522
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 1: It's these three contestants in their home cooks. So they're

523
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 1: like just like you and I like cooking in the kitchen,

524
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 1: you know, but they're good, like they have skills, and

525
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 1: so they have in their bank. And there's three surprise boxes, right.

526
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 1: One of them is a save box, one of them

527
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 1: is a spend box, and one of them is a surprise.

528
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 1: So the first round, they all make bids and how

529
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:28,240
Speaker 1: how much they're willing to spend on like whatever. The

530
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 1: lowest bid gets the save box, like they saving the money.

531
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 1: The highest bidder gets the spend box, and then one

532
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:37,800
Speaker 1: in the middle gets the surprise, and the save box

533
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 1: will have like mashed potatoes in a in a brown

534
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 1: bag and like sardines and like really like the bottom

535
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:47,960
Speaker 1: of the barrel like stuff. And then the spin box

536
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:50,640
Speaker 1: will have like ah he tune on, like really just

537
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 1: like high end stuff. So you'd think, like, then the

538
00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:55,680
Speaker 1: second round comes and people will want to spend, you know,

539
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:57,480
Speaker 1: get the spin box, and then then you can auction

540
00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 1: off if they bring items down the line that you

541
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 1: can let. It sounds so weird, I'm telling you. It

542
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 1: is like because there's an auction so that they'll be

543
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,240
Speaker 1: like Cilantro will be coming down the line and then

544
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 1: people like I need Cilantro, so they're like outbidding each

545
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 1: other to like get the Cilantro for their dish or whatever.

546
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 1: But it's about creativity. So like somebody who made I

547
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 1: got the same box. She made um spaghetti out of

548
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 1: peta chips. She cut up and made spaghetti, and then

549
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 1: she took they had fish and chips and she bawled

550
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 1: them up and made like um spaghetti and meatballs. And

551
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,040
Speaker 1: so she won because it was like a creative out

552
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 1: of the box. And then whoever ends up winning wins

553
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 1: all the money left in their bank account. It's amazing

554
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:38,440
Speaker 1: how many different versions of cooking shows they've been able

555
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 1: to come up with it. I mean crime scene, kitchen

556
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:43,680
Speaker 1: like re creating, is it cake? Like? I will watch

557
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 1: anything they bring to me in form of cooking, like

558
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 1: the most of it. Some guy named Jordan. He's a

559
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 1: chef and he's actually really good. Like I watched this

560
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 1: other show about like recreating snacks and the hosts really

561
00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 1: bothered me in that one. But this guy is really good.

562
00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 1: I liked him. I love a cooking competition. Yeah, and

563
00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 1: each episode is like solitary, like you can watch it.

564
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 1: You don't have to watch the one before to the

565
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 1: all new chefs. It's a new judge, so it's like

566
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 1: all you can just like kind of pop in, pop out.

567
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:15,480
Speaker 1: Speaking of watching it in whatever order, did anyone start

568
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 1: or watch Kaleidoscope? Yes, I started. I started it. When

569
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 1: I started with I started with Orange and I did

570
00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 1: not like it. Okay, we started with Yellow and I

571
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 1: had the same thing. I was like, this show sucks.

572
00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 1: I don't want to watch it. And then we show

573
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:30,960
Speaker 1: on Netflix that doesn't have episodes. You can watch it

574
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:34,040
Speaker 1: in any order you want. They have an order, but

575
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 1: you can start any However, you have to do what

576
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 1: White goes last. Other than that, you can watch any

577
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:41,960
Speaker 1: order you want and it will make sense. I didn't

578
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 1: know that, why I'm glad I didn't start with definitely

579
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 1: could be the only one you have to watch last.

580
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: But and so apparently Netflix like gives everybody a different order,

581
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 1: so you're just supposed to kind of watch it in

582
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 1: whatever order you get. But we too. We watched Yellow first,

583
00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 1: and I was like, I don't like this, I don't

584
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 1: want to watch anymore. Was like, let's give it one more.

585
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 1: So watched Green next, and Green was actually really good.

586
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 1: And I feel like if I had watched Green first,

587
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 1: I maybe would have wanted to watch more, but I

588
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 1: was so annoyed already that I and then we watched

589
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:14,040
Speaker 1: one more. So I watched Yellow, Green, and Blue. So

590
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 1: will you continue? I could care less to continue, but

591
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 1: I think I'm going to continue because I want to

592
00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 1: see white. Like now, I'm just like I want to

593
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 1: be You're ready to get to the end. I want

594
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 1: to finish, Like I'm not excited about it, but I

595
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 1: feel like I need to finish it. See, this is

596
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 1: the difference. This is why you're This is why you

597
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 1: were able to get through season five of Love Island,

598
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 1: because you can just you're like ready I persevere, persevere.

599
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 1: That was my word for two and I really feel

600
00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 1: I embodied it was that your work. I can confirm

601
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 1: that was there another word. I've had many words, So

602
00:33:46,800 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 1: what you want that all in? All in? Okay? That's uh.

603
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:10,880
Speaker 1: I think it was spawned from the trigger event we

604
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:16,239
Speaker 1: broke up and then was all in. Yeah. I was like,

605
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:22,400
Speaker 1: I want somebody that's all in about what's about you

606
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:25,359
Speaker 1: and more about just the energy of bringing in. Yeah,

607
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 1: anybody's coming to my life, they're gonna be all in.

608
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 1: It's nice. Nice. Um, yeah, you persevere. I'm not like that,

609
00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:36,239
Speaker 1: Like if I don't like a book, if I don't

610
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:37,960
Speaker 1: like a movie, if I don't like a show, I'm

611
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:40,320
Speaker 1: very checked out and I'm just kind of like, I

612
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 1: don't need to spend my time doing this. If it's

613
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 1: not gonna be something I enjoy. I've already put so

614
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 1: much time into it. No, I put one episode in

615
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:50,839
Speaker 1: the annoying when people say to you, like, you gotta

616
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:52,319
Speaker 1: watch the show, so then you watch it and then

617
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:54,439
Speaker 1: you're like, it's not that great that you just got

618
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 1: to get through the first season. That's awesome after that,

619
00:34:59,880 --> 00:35:02,800
Speaker 1: I for me, yeah, I agree, I agree. Everyone Wishi.

620
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:05,719
Speaker 1: It's creek is like once you get past the first season.

621
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,720
Speaker 1: Now it's not the first season, it's like the first

622
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:11,800
Speaker 1: few episodes. It's like the first half of the first season.

623
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:14,279
Speaker 1: Did you end up liking it? Yeah, we never finished it.

624
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:18,360
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I give to watch that show with

625
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 1: virgin eyes again. Yeah, it would be happy happily give

626
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:29,800
Speaker 1: mine to you. I've considered getting hypnotized to forget Eternal Sunshine.

627
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 1: That's a good movie. Okay, let's take a break. When

628
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Speaker 1: we're going to come back and do emails, we have

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Speaker 1: a couple of Hey, I'm Lance Bass, host of the

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Speaker 1: new I Heart podcast Frosted Tips with Lance Bass. The

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Speaker 1: questions arise, or times get tough, or you're at the

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Speaker 1: end of the road. Okay, I see what you're doing.

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Speaker 1: Do you ever think to yourself, what advice would Lance

635
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Speaker 1: Bass and my favorite boy bands give me in this situation.

636
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Speaker 1: If you do, you've come to the right place, because

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Speaker 1: I'm here to help this. I promise you, seriously, I swear,

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Speaker 1: and you won't have to send an S O S

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Speaker 1: because I'll be there for you. And so my husband

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Speaker 1: Michael Hey, that's me. Yeah, we know that Michael and

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Speaker 1: a different hot sexy teen crush boybander each week to

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Speaker 1: guide you through life step by step, not another one. Kids, relationships,

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Speaker 1: Listen to Frosted Tips with a Lance Bass on the

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Speaker 1: to podcasts. Okay, we are back and we have a

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Speaker 1: couple of emails, the challenging emails before we get to those.

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Speaker 1: By the way, find East East Awards. I think, thank

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Speaker 1: you episode with that, but congratulation, thank you Easton with

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Speaker 1: the East Awards. From what I could tell, you know,

654
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Speaker 1: consistent viewers. Is that good, bad, best ever, worst ever

655
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Speaker 1: and best ever by my favorite though, because you can

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Speaker 1: play videos on the East on Instagram live now, so

657
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Speaker 1: we saw when you when I first started doing it,

658
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Speaker 1: you couldn't do that. So when I had guest presenters,

659
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Speaker 1: I'd have to have them join live and it would

660
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Speaker 1: bring their followers. And I think Tanya did it once

661
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Speaker 1: and I got like two thousand people watching and they

662
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Speaker 1: were like, who is this? What is happening? Who's this guy?

663
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Speaker 1: Do people still do that now? The joint Instagram's yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think try to schedule. So I stopped doing it,

665
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 1: but it was a great show, thanks to everyone who

666
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Speaker 1: watched it. Tanya presented Top Potato and she did such

667
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Speaker 1: a good job. She had an envelope what one I forget?

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Speaker 1: What one for Top Potato? Was it the Russet the

669
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Speaker 1: red Potato. It was so excited because I got like

670
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Speaker 1: the text of like kind of what to do, and

671
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Speaker 1: so I like put the winner in it. I had

672
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Speaker 1: a red because it was the red potatoes. I was like,

673
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Speaker 1: I have a red envelope and like a red card,

674
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Speaker 1: so like wrote it in on the car and I

675
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:18,719
Speaker 1: had Robbie like handed to me and I was like

676
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Speaker 1: and I had. I did a couple of takes and

677
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Speaker 1: he was like, no, no, this time you should like

678
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Speaker 1: be like oh wow, you know, and was like I

679
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Speaker 1: can make some background. I was like really, it was

680
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Speaker 1: so great. I was surprised orange one fruit to the year. Man,

681
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Speaker 1: I'm having an orange year. And also why are you

682
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Speaker 1: surprised about that? Like vitamin sees that it's prime high. Yes,

683
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 1: that was just thinking would be something a little bit

684
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Speaker 1: more less common. You know, apples and orange the most

685
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:52,759
Speaker 1: common fruits. Oh, you thought it was going to be

686
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Speaker 1: more of like unexpected Yeah fruit, yes, like a star

687
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Speaker 1: fruit stru be a great track fruit jack fruit right,

688
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:04,240
Speaker 1: orange just takes it away. I got really into orange

689
00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 1: advertisements this year to like look at the old orange

690
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 1: crates from like the forties. I just stare at those things.

691
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Speaker 1: So that pushed him over the top. Give him the win. Yeah,

692
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Speaker 1: eating more oranges lately than usual to have a tree

693
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Speaker 1: and they bring us bags of the extra oranges. They're

694
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Speaker 1: delicious and they're gonna have a great year as the

695
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Speaker 1: winner for the Fruit of the Year. But if you

696
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Speaker 1: missed it, it's on my Instagram where it we'll live

697
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Speaker 1: at The fruit two was no wait, it won Fruit

698
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Speaker 1: of the Year. Yes, yes, for twenty two. Yes, so

699
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Speaker 1: oranges had a big year, had a big year, but

700
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Speaker 1: it shall it's the champion until okay, god o years. Yeah,

701
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:51,800
Speaker 1: you know and what other a word show says that

702
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Speaker 1: exactly that's what you get when you come to the

703
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 1: I showed I showed it to my wife and you

704
00:39:57,480 --> 00:40:00,399
Speaker 1: were a mid song, you were singing something and she said,

705
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Speaker 1: why does he do this? As I just even know

706
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 1: it for a long time because man I thought I

707
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Speaker 1: married weird. So there you go, all right, this is

708
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 1: from anonymous, and she says, I've actually I don't know

709
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Speaker 1: if it's a she, So they say, I've been with

710
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Speaker 1: my partner for six years. She's always been a little

711
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Speaker 1: more Type A than me and has O c D

712
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Speaker 1: and anxiety, but now it's gotten to the point where

713
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Speaker 1: it really affects her home life. We're not sure if

714
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Speaker 1: it's age she's forty eight, or having COVID or something else,

715
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 1: but she's got to the point We're always late, which

716
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 1: gives me anxiety. I'm ready in an hour, she digs

717
00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 1: two to three. A lot of times she's canceled plans

718
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Speaker 1: with my family and or friends, leaving me to go

719
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:37,479
Speaker 1: alone and then having to explain each time why she's

720
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Speaker 1: not coming, including my own birthday dinners. Now people just

721
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 1: expect me to come alone. She doesn't want to plan anything.

722
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 1: She'll say, we never do anything or plan anything, but

723
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 1: if there's a concert, a restaurant, a place I want

724
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:50,480
Speaker 1: to go, even mentioning it puts her in a foul

725
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 1: mood because the thought of doing it stresses her out.

726
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:55,239
Speaker 1: I want her to be a part of things, but

727
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 1: she doesn't like me going without her either, so now

728
00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 1: we both miss out. She tellsn't one of my best

729
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 1: friends after six years. She's big on the gym and

730
00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:05,000
Speaker 1: working up for releasing stress, but she won't go on

731
00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 1: meds because of the side effects. How much can you

732
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:09,799
Speaker 1: do for a partner before it's unfair? What is the

733
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 1: next step? I feel like I'm always the gardener in

734
00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:16,319
Speaker 1: our relationship, tending to her anxieties, But isn't that what

735
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Speaker 1: you do for a partner? Help? Please? That's a tough one. Yeah,

736
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 1: that's really hard. I feel like you need a professional

737
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:26,919
Speaker 1: and not I was gonna say, yeah, we're not gonna

738
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 1: be able to help, But I do think that uh

739
00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:32,800
Speaker 1: taking this step and like talking to a couple of

740
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:36,719
Speaker 1: therapists and navigating how to be there for each other,

741
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 1: because obviously, when you have when your partner is going

742
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:41,239
Speaker 1: through something, you need to be able to show up

743
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 1: for them and not just like run when it gets hard.

744
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 1: But I also think that you're missing out on life

745
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: and important things due to her um anxiety and o

746
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:51,920
Speaker 1: c D. So I don't think it's fair to you.

747
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 1: So I think you need to actually like make an

748
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:57,640
Speaker 1: effort to do this together and like see a couple

749
00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 1: of therapists, because I think this is actually going to

750
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:06,000
Speaker 1: take some something like way more official than us. Yeah, honestly,

751
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 1: because I do, like I don't even know. I can't

752
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:13,200
Speaker 1: even I can't even picture because it's like it's a

753
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:16,120
Speaker 1: real it's a it's an illness, you know. So it's

754
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 1: like you have to to care for it in a

755
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 1: very careful and specific way, but it's also having a

756
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 1: very bad and negative impact on your life. I mean,

757
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 1: he'r not going to your birthday dinners. I think some

758
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 1: would see that as a deal breaker, that she's just

759
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 1: too stressed to make it to your birthday dinners. Yeah,

760
00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 1: but if it's stressed coming from like deep rooted anxiety

761
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:40,439
Speaker 1: and like all these things, like it's not like she's

762
00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:43,760
Speaker 1: just like, oh I'm too stress, Like it's like it's debilitating.

763
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:46,399
Speaker 1: But how is that anonymous problem? I mean, I feel

764
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:49,400
Speaker 1: like it's too much of an anonymous problems in six years.

765
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 1: I just think it's like I agree, she it sounds

766
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 1: like it's gotten worse though it hasn't been like this

767
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 1: the whole. Since it sounds like it's gotten worse people,

768
00:42:57,680 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 1: I think it's happened to a lot of people. So

769
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:01,120
Speaker 1: I think it's like have in a conversation of like

770
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:04,960
Speaker 1: going to see someone and also being there worked through

771
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:07,799
Speaker 1: their own issues. For sure, they need to work through that,

772
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:09,919
Speaker 1: but like not like being there for her, but also

773
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 1: not like making yourself miserable in that fact, and also

774
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 1: like ruining and hurting other relationships in your life. So um,

775
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 1: but I wish the best for all that's They don't

776
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:24,240
Speaker 1: mentioned if if they're in therapy or if she's in therapy.

777
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 1: There's mentioned meds, which seems like a step too far.

778
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:29,799
Speaker 1: If I feel like therapy could be very helpful for

779
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 1: both of you together and for each of you individually,

780
00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:34,719
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's realistic, but all right. Another

781
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:37,800
Speaker 1: one from anonymous. I was actually on The Bachelor several

782
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:39,920
Speaker 1: years ago. I had gone through a recent divorce and

783
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:42,640
Speaker 1: my act in laws spread some horrible things about me

784
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 1: on social media when they found out I was going on.

785
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:47,360
Speaker 1: It was really hard on me and my family. I

786
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:49,279
Speaker 1: got sent home night one, so luckily it was on

787
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:51,800
Speaker 1: a smaller scale than what other people go through. Making

788
00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:53,920
Speaker 1: the decision to do the show felt extremely right at

789
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:56,320
Speaker 1: the time. Everything worked out perfectly for it to happen,

790
00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:59,040
Speaker 1: and I'm so thankful for the opportunity, but I had

791
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 1: to give and spend a lot in order to make

792
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:03,880
Speaker 1: it work. Overall, it was a pretty negative experience for me,

793
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:06,200
Speaker 1: so I still struggle wondering what the reason for it

794
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 1: all was. I'm about to turn I'm about to turn thirty.

795
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:11,319
Speaker 1: I've been in a wonderful relationship for two years and

796
00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:13,759
Speaker 1: finally feel like I found my person. My boyfriend and

797
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:15,239
Speaker 1: I just moved out of my home state for his

798
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 1: job a few months ago, when it's a place we

799
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:18,920
Speaker 1: don't love, don't know anybody, and I've had a hard

800
00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:20,799
Speaker 1: time getting a new job, so I'm struggling to find

801
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 1: my path and my purpose. I still feel a sting

802
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:26,120
Speaker 1: when I see girls from my season and people from

803
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:28,239
Speaker 1: the show in general, living their best life and getting

804
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 1: these amazing opportunities, when I just feel stuck and constantly

805
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:33,719
Speaker 1: I'm reminded of what I missed out on every time

806
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 1: I opened social media. I truly believe that everything happens

807
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 1: for a reason, but how do I move forward without

808
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 1: feeling anger and know that what's meant for me is coming,

809
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:46,839
Speaker 1: even when I feel lost. Well, I think, first of all,

810
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 1: I think looking back and wonder like feeling everything happens

811
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:52,879
Speaker 1: for a reason. It felt like you were It felt

812
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:55,760
Speaker 1: like it was the opportunity to go. I mean, I

813
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:58,319
Speaker 1: if you hadn't gone, you would have always been like, oh,

814
00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:00,239
Speaker 1: what if I had gone on the show? Like that's

815
00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 1: just the fact, Like you would have always been like,

816
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 1: what if I didn't take the opportunity to go? So

817
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:05,959
Speaker 1: I think you need to let go. They like, what

818
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:07,600
Speaker 1: was the meaning of it all? What did it mean?

819
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:11,040
Speaker 1: Because I think for you the alternative would have been

820
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:13,439
Speaker 1: just as like daunting of like what if? What if?

821
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:16,879
Speaker 1: And now you're in a wonderful relationship with someone that

822
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:20,400
Speaker 1: has worked out. And I think, just like all social media,

823
00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:24,280
Speaker 1: comparison is the thief of joy. And I think sometimes

824
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 1: we compare ourselves to like everyone's exciting best moments, But

825
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:31,880
Speaker 1: I think that's a lesson we all are like dealing

826
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 1: with on a daily basis, whether you're compair and despair. Yeah,

827
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:37,480
Speaker 1: whether it's someone that's on the Bachelor or someone who's

828
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:40,799
Speaker 1: just like getting job promotions over you, like in a

829
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 1: corporate world, Like there's always going to be that feeling

830
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:48,840
Speaker 1: of comparison. I think finding contentment and like like worth

831
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 1: in yourself without comparing yourself to others is like very

832
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:57,600
Speaker 1: important no matter what the situation looks like, you have

833
00:45:57,719 --> 00:45:59,840
Speaker 1: to like go that. I think anger is like truly

834
00:45:59,880 --> 00:46:01,919
Speaker 1: a poison. It can make you do things and say

835
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 1: things that you don't mean or that you don't want

836
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:05,239
Speaker 1: to do, and like when you live in when you

837
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:08,800
Speaker 1: come and live in a place of anger, it's really bad. Um,

838
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:10,920
Speaker 1: So you have to really really really try and let

839
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 1: that go and just know that that wasn't your path,

840
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:16,440
Speaker 1: that it was just wasn't your path. You can't you

841
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:18,759
Speaker 1: can't live in that anger. It's so toxic. Yeah, And

842
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:21,400
Speaker 1: it's not a bad thing to mute people in social media,

843
00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 1: like I think I think a lot of people are like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to have to go that route. But

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Speaker 1: if it's causing anger and bitterness and resentment every time

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Speaker 1: you get on an app and you don't want to

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Speaker 1: fully delete social media, just mute the people who make

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Speaker 1: you feel that way round follow them if you don't

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Speaker 1: have like a close relationship with them. I think it's

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Speaker 1: just like we put so much stress and weight on

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Speaker 1: social media and who we follow, and it's like destroying

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Speaker 1: our confidence in our lives, and we don't even realize

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Speaker 1: how simple it is just to eliminate it, eliminate the

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Speaker 1: things that do that. So I agree. I think bitterness

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Speaker 1: and comparison is literal poison, and I we've watched it

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Speaker 1: happen more and more with people with social media. So

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Speaker 1: just be gentle with yourself and know that that good

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Speaker 1: things will come to you. You're in a happy, loving relationship,

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Speaker 1: and a lot of people that you're following on social

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Speaker 1: media are probably still searching for that. So just yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's a good point. And I find this really interesting

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Speaker 1: because of all the people you see that we're on

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Speaker 1: the bachlor and they seem to just be having the

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Speaker 1: time of their lives. It's interesting to see the other

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Speaker 1: side of that a little bit. And I wonder about

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Speaker 1: the in laws who were spreading awful things about her

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Speaker 1: on social media. I wonder if that's still hurting her,

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Speaker 1: because I feel like, wh you're applying for new jobs,

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Speaker 1: they're at least gonna look you up on the internet

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Speaker 1: and they're gonna see these bad things about you. I

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Speaker 1: hope not well, hope karma comes back to them if

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Speaker 1: they're spreading false rumors. Um, wish you the best either way.

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Speaker 1: It can be hard. Social media is hard. I think

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Speaker 1: that's it for today, for today. I think that was

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Speaker 1: a great show, everybody. That's a great show. Apples. We

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Speaker 1: talked about a lot of apples and oranges and oranges.

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Speaker 1: Apples and oranges. Yeah, get much better than If you're

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Speaker 1: looking for anything else in the podcast world, Why why

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Speaker 1: are you going else? Avatar to Flying, we hit everything.

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Speaker 1: To Prince Harry, we hit everything, We hit it all.

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Speaker 1: This hand is back in her pants for the period

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Speaker 1: cram hand is in the pants on the cradling the cramps.

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Speaker 1: I have a date tonight. Tonight, have a date with

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend. We're gonna go to a dinner place that

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Speaker 1: we enjoy in a while. I know, no, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: remember when we went to pot one time. Yeah. Alright, Well,

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Speaker 1: we love you guys, have a wonderful week. We'll be

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Speaker 1: back Thursday with the one and only Low Bosworth. Um,

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Speaker 1: So we'll see you then. By love,