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Speaker 1: I humiliated my boyfriend in front of his boss. But

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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole?

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Speaker 2: Hey? They say, if you don't know you're an a hole,

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Speaker 2: you're double the ahole? Hoare you?

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Speaker 1: We're talking about two seuth aware like eyes. Could we

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Speaker 1: make a whole glasses and just like just like you know,

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Speaker 1: there's like scafey eyes, but it's just too freaking sphincters

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Speaker 1: just staring you down.

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 1: I twenty two female, am dating and living with G

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Speaker 1: twenty four male, not his real name. I've had memory

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Speaker 1: issues since I got in a wreck that required most

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Speaker 1: of my head to be stitched back up. To prevent

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Speaker 1: myself from losing my phone, wallet keys, I've made a

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Speaker 1: specific spot in my apardon for them for my phone

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Speaker 1: and wallet. I have a whistle tag that sucks. Sorry op, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm very sorry to hear that. But it sticks to

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Speaker 1: things and when I whistle, it'll play a sound if

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Speaker 1: I've misplaced it. That's pretty cool. Just go and it's

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Speaker 1: like here, it's like that's sex files.

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Speaker 2: What is it? Then? Tell John? I'm not going to

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Speaker 2: say anything, Just tell John in the commons what what

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Speaker 2: it is.

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Speaker 1: I kept forgetting ask someone if I forgot my keys.

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Speaker 1: Whenever I drive, I use my GPS so I don't

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Speaker 1: get lost, even if I've been there many times. But

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Speaker 2: Dang, okay, Op has got some brain going on. Tough. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Once G moved into my place, things started moving. At first,

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Speaker 1: my phone or wallet wouldn't be where I put it,

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Speaker 1: I noticed. G got confused at me finding them and

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Speaker 1: annoyed when I explained the tags. Then my keys would

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Speaker 1: I'd be in a panic because this would make me

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Speaker 1: late for work. Understandable After the fifth time I started

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Speaker 1: walking to work and it is an hour walk. When

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Speaker 1: I got home, G would ask why didn't just use

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Speaker 1: my car? And I explained and pointed to the hook

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Speaker 1: that's where I usually find my keys, but they're not

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Speaker 1: they After about a month of walking in a really

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Speaker 1: bad rainstorm, my boss realized I was walking and offered

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Speaker 1: me a ride every day.

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Speaker 2: That's pretty nice.

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Speaker 1: That is nice, so I said that I'd be grateful

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Speaker 1: and I would pay for guests. Well, this morning, when

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Speaker 1: my boss showed up and knocked on my door, g

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Speaker 1: with my boss since I can never find my keys

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Speaker 1: is messing up again. That's when he throws my keys

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Speaker 1: at me and yells that it was an effing joke

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Speaker 2: He was hiding the keys and moving her stuff. That

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Speaker 2: is awful, And he blew up in front of the

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Speaker 2: boss too.

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Speaker 1: Literally like humiliating when she's already having to do all

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Speaker 2: And what kind of joke is that?

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Speaker 1: Who's laughing?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Like literally he's watched her for a month, walk an

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Speaker 2: The reason that he like fesces up to it is

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Speaker 1: Literally literally don't even gotta wait till the end for

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I started.

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Speaker 1: Crying and reminded him of how hard it been working

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Speaker 2: Sounds like a standard ay.

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Speaker 1: G and a few of his buddies have been blowing

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Speaker 2: Reacting you made walk for a month. Yeah, that's just

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Speaker 1: Maybe I did overreact, but I thought I was having

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Speaker 1: a lot. I explained that I posted on here, shared

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Speaker 1: My boss offered me his guest room, so I'll be

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Speaker 2: Oh wow.

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Speaker 1: Boss thinks that G will try to use my poor

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Speaker 1: been longer than a month that I realized it was

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Speaker 1: still March time is tricky for me. I have to

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Speaker 1: use alarms and everything. My goodness, I did not realize

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Speaker 1: this was abuse. I get off work in a few hours.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to tell g it's over when I.

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Speaker 2: Get to sea. Sounds literally like a terrible person, so.

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Speaker 1: Bad, disgusting, Like anytime your partner and he does anything

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Speaker 1: Even if he did this one time, that would be awful. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this guy is absolutely awful. He is not just an ahole,

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Speaker 1: of human. But let us know you what do you think?

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Speaker 1: Paint west with your comments and we will see you

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Speaker 2: I told my family to f off because you're not

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Speaker 2: seeing my babbie. Am I the a hole? Okay, Opie,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know. I don't know. That

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Speaker 2: seems like a little aggressive. I mean, maybe you'll never

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Speaker 1: Maybe they like dude, maybe they ate like the last

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Speaker 2: Or maybe they ate the firstborn child. They're like, hey,

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Speaker 2: I can't let you know. You know, I let you

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Speaker 2: see the first baby, you guys ate it, can't let

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Speaker 2: you see the second baby. That's what I call a

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Speaker 2: reasonable scenario on Op's part. The parents are not condoning.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm like, John, are you trying to eat

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Speaker 2: Have you seen you said reasonable? There's a modest proposal.

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Speaker 2: A modest proposal I have not. Okay, So modest proposal

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Speaker 2: is a it's like a piece of satire written by

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Speaker 2: I forgot who. But basically it's like, hey, I know

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Speaker 2: It's like he's got a point. You've got a point.

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Speaker 2: We get food, we get lower population. Boom, that's amazing.

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Speaker 2: have you heard of that? Oh? No, I have it.

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Speaker 2: Rule thirty four of the Internet means, if it exists,

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Speaker 2: If you did you know about on casts, on cast,

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Speaker 1: Wow, I wonder being porn do they just do they

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't, I don't. I think it's hard

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Speaker 2: like satire or something where they can Yeah, what a world?

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Speaker 2: What a world? What thirty four, I five, female, have

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Speaker 2: why like the family don't want to like interact with

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Speaker 2: I've read and heard enough to know that I shouldn't

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Speaker 2: There's some context we're missing here because like like both

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know what it could possibly could

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Speaker 2: The only thing I can think of is like it

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Speaker 2: but like I could see more of that reaction. There's

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Speaker 2: there's some context we're missing here. Yeah, everyone does this

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I'd rather be lonely. What is terrible? Like

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Speaker 1: holidays they've just give and up on giving them any

435
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Speaker 1: meeting whatsoever. And they just call them bank holidays. And

436
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Speaker 1: they honestly could have like close to two months of

437
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Speaker 1: like if you aggregate all of them, it's so many

438
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Speaker 1: bank holidays, dude. It was so hard to get anything

439
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Speaker 1: done because like, oh, let's do a call this week,

440
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Speaker 1: I'll be gone, and then the next time like, oh, well,

441
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Speaker 1: I'll be gone again. It's another bank holiday. Dude.

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Speaker 2: It's crazy. They're living life over there. Man, what are

443
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Speaker 2: we doing over here? Well, like, why why can't we

444
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Speaker 2: take any breaks over here?

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Speaker 1: Amer It's a great question. Like the culture in America

446
00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:30,760
Speaker 1: is just like so.

447
00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:35,440
Speaker 2: It's so work focused, dude, it's so work focused. But hey,

448
00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:38,000
Speaker 2: that's why I guess we're the cultural epicenter of the

449
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Speaker 2: world right now, you know.

450
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Speaker 1: And also also coming from the man who told me,

451
00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:45,280
Speaker 1: he's like, man, I didn't work on I didn't work

452
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Speaker 1: one day on Sunday.

453
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Speaker 2: I was like, man, I'm ready to get back. That

454
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Speaker 2: is true. I mean it's like I think like once

455
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Speaker 2: you get I mean, we have like pretty fun jobs. Yeah,

456
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Speaker 2: so it's like it's not like it's like like I

457
00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:02,080
Speaker 2: feel like I I've like viewed work as Okay, what

458
00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:05,560
Speaker 2: is the most fun way to explore the world, and

459
00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:09,440
Speaker 2: like it's I would rather be exploring the world through

460
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Speaker 2: this content that we make than really doing any other activity.

461
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Speaker 1: And my take is like, if you're enjoying it, there's

462
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Speaker 1: no reason to not to not, you know what I mean,

463
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Speaker 1: like unless I feel like it's once we know it's

464
00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:25,359
Speaker 1: like okay, we're like tired or on focus or need

465
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Speaker 1: a recent Like when we feel it, okay, then we

466
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Speaker 1: take a break.

467
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Speaker 2: But if you don't feel it, then you know need

468
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Speaker 2: to and vice versa.

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Speaker 1: Like if you're like, you know what I need to

470
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Speaker 1: even know there's no bank holiday today, you know it's

471
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Speaker 1: to take a break.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I feel like I don't know. I feel

473
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Speaker 2: like I really like my routine, you know, Like I

474
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Speaker 2: mean you have here your like bike rides in the morning.

475
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Speaker 2: Like once you get into the routine, it's like it

476
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Speaker 2: helps a Yeah.

477
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Speaker 1: So now I'm getting up like a little bit earlier too,

478
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Speaker 1: and I'm like, I back now, I feel six thirty.

479
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Speaker 1: So you know, it's nothing crazy, but like I feel

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Speaker 1: better getting up six started, like I feel getting slightly

481
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Speaker 1: less sleep.

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Speaker 2: That's actually something that I've noticed is like I oper

483
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Speaker 2: I think I operate best between like seven and eight

484
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Speaker 2: hours of sleep. Any lesson that, I'm kind of fucked.

485
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Speaker 2: But any more than that, I'm also kind of fucked.

486
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Speaker 1: It to me, it doesn't it doesn't do anything. And

487
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Speaker 1: like I feel like when you sleep in late, your

488
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Speaker 1: whole day ends up being sedentary, and like because you're

489
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Speaker 1: not moving, you just.

490
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Speaker 2: Lose all steam. Yeah, facts, facts, y'all are welcome. We

491
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Speaker 2: are giving some gym. This is the self development podcast.

492
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Speaker 2: We are. We are our slash knowledge for your ear holes.

493
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Speaker 2: Right Yeah, yeah, we're just we're just giving some some

494
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Speaker 2: golden nugget to right into your canal. Dude, just burst

495
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Speaker 2: in your ear drums. Yeah, freaking philosophy of going straight

496
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Speaker 2: into the brain. You're infecting your brain with invasive gold tumors. Exactly.

497
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Speaker 2: They're welcome on to paragraph too. You know, it's a

498
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Speaker 2: good warm up episode. Yeah, dude, we are, We're We're

499
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Speaker 2: getting so we opened up the windows too. Oh yeah,

500
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Speaker 2: we're feeling the vibes. Yeah, feeling the vibes today. Wear

501
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Speaker 2: my favorite hat, unlocking a whole new level where where

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Speaker 2: he's also wearing my favorite we're wearing both of my

503
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Speaker 2: favorite shirts. Sam's wearing shirt yeah, because I brought I

504
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:26,000
Speaker 2: brought another shirt, but like blended into. Yeah, I looked

505
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Speaker 2: like I was like, uh uh, I forgot, Like what

506
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Speaker 2: what's like sand? Yeah? I was, That's what I was

507
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Speaker 2: about to say. I was about to say, like it

508
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Speaker 2: looks like I'm about to go to like Afghanistan, and

509
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Speaker 2: I'm like a military guy, and I'm like, Okay, I'm

510
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Speaker 2: going to try to like like blend into the surroundings.

511
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Speaker 2: And so it's just it's just sand, just sand the

512
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Speaker 2: wall sand. Yeah, and it's just like a floating head. Yeah,

513
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Speaker 2: all right, let's get let's get back to it. Let's

514
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Speaker 2: do this.

515
00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:57,400
Speaker 1: So my husband started spending most of his time on

516
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Speaker 1: his phone.

517
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Speaker 2: That ain't work. Oh maybe maybe it is.

518
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe he's on the Indeed app, but you know,

519
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 1: yeah monster dot com on his phone. He's going completely mobile. Yeah, yeah,

520
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:13,920
Speaker 1: it's the next way.

521
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Speaker 2: That's that's how we know we'll make it is when

522
00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:19,639
Speaker 2: we don't need computers, we're just purely on the phone.

523
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Speaker 2: That's that's a true sign. Yeah, bro, that's so lit.

524
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Speaker 2: I know. I think I told you about that founder

525
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Speaker 2: guy that's like doesn't have a computer, just Gary Vee.

526
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Speaker 1: I believe he like, oh is he only phone? I

527
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Speaker 1: think he's like ninety nine percent.

528
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, like anything, I wonder you know, if

529
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Speaker 2: we like what what what would what would our operations

530
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Speaker 2: look like if we didn't have computers? Like do you

531
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Speaker 2: think I went? But like do you think like do

532
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Speaker 2: you think we could do that?

533
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Speaker 1: I think we could get Damn. I mean I think

534
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 1: my clo my optimal existence, and I think yours is too.

535
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Speaker 1: Is just like the actual recording or creating process, Like

536
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Speaker 1: that's the Yeah, So if we get to a point

537
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Speaker 1: like miss he's like the most valuable time I can

538
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:06,719
Speaker 1: spend is by recording. So like him like being you know,

539
00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:08,800
Speaker 1: on the set and like doing all that stuff or

540
00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:10,680
Speaker 1: or in meetings planning stuff like those are the two

541
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 1: things he does. He's either in meetings directing people to

542
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Speaker 1: do stuff, or he's.

543
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Speaker 2: Recruited a camera. Yeah, I wonder do you think because

544
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 2: I whenever I see him on like videos and stuff.

545
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Speaker 2: He's always on a phone, Like I don't. I wonder

546
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Speaker 2: if he were uses a computers easily could could could not? Yeah,

547
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Speaker 2: dude him, I could. Maybe.

548
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Speaker 1: The only thing is he's so particular with his editing.

549
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 1: He might he might just want like just enough to

550
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Speaker 1: like stay in the fold, like maybe like hopping on

551
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Speaker 1: someone saying like all right here, this is what you do. Yeah,

552
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Speaker 1: but I can't imagine he does too much more than that.

553
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Speaker 2: No, Yeah, indeed, I I think that should be that

554
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Speaker 2: that's that's a vision. We should have only phones.

555
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Speaker 1: Only phones, and for me, it's just like camera or

556
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Speaker 1: meeting like that's yeah, says I want to.

557
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Speaker 2: Be blue Sky, and right here blue Sky on the

558
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Speaker 2: podcast all right paragraph Yeah, actually, second sentence of this

559
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Speaker 2: second paragraph, Sir, I keep asking if he's looking for

560
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 2: a job while he's on his phone, and we were wondering,

561
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Speaker 2: that's what we were wondering. He said, yes, but it's

562
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Speaker 2: been three months now. Oh three months. That's a long time.

563
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Speaker 1: And I grew suspicious because retail jobs aren't that hard

564
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Speaker 1: to find. On the other hand, I found myself paying

565
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 1: so much towards WiFi because of the endless amount of

566
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Speaker 1: activity on the internet. I didn't say anything until I

567
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:43,440
Speaker 1: ran into his former boss at the supermarket. We talked

568
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Speaker 1: about my husband and I brought up how he fired him,

569
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Speaker 1: bold thing to bring up, damn, but he looked at

570
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Speaker 1: me confused and told me that he didn't fire him.

571
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Speaker 1: What happened my husband quit of his own will after

572
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Speaker 1: giving him this long ran about being sick and tired

573
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Speaker 1: of working in retail and that he will never work

574
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Speaker 1: in this field ever. Again. I was shocked and also fuming.

575
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:10,359
Speaker 1: I went home and confronted him, and he admitted that

576
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:13,399
Speaker 1: it was true and asked me to understand because he

577
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 1: was fed up with having to work as a server

578
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 1: for rude, obnoxious people who don't respect him the way

579
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 1: they should.

580
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Speaker 2: I mean, dude, that's retail. You have to deal with

581
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:25,879
Speaker 2: a lot of shit, dude, so much like terrible. I

582
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 2: asked what he was going to do then, and he

583
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:30,040
Speaker 2: said he has been thinking of going back to school

584
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,400
Speaker 2: to earn a respectable degree and work a decent job.

585
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 2: So I asked him where he would get the money

586
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 2: to go back to school. He shrugged and just said that, oh,

587
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:42,440
Speaker 2: you know, you could start a fund for me with

588
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 2: your salary, because like he will know I won't work

589
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 2: retail anymore. He's like, oh, you you're your peg for

590
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 2: you can start a fund with your salary. I love

591
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:56,399
Speaker 2: how this guy like phrases it as a fun with

592
00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:58,959
Speaker 2: your salary rather than like you could pay for it.

593
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 2: You pay for it, Oh, fun with yourselid. You're just

594
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:04,960
Speaker 2: asking to pay for it. Yeah, you're just asking her

595
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:06,879
Speaker 2: to just pay for it. This is paying for it

596
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 2: with extra steps.

597
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: I lost it at him, and I told him I

598
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 1: won't save any money for anything when I can barely manage.

599
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:18,159
Speaker 2: Oh dude, true, I mean it's not like, oh, piece frickin'

600
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 2: strapped exactly.

601
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Speaker 1: Oh and by the way, I told him losing so

602
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,639
Speaker 1: much money on Wi Fi service that I changed the

603
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:28,960
Speaker 1: password to prohibit him from using the Internet again until

604
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 1: he starts helping me pay for it. He got mad

605
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,359
Speaker 1: and shouted about how how I was robbing him of

606
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 1: his rights to use the Internet. I stated that the

607
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 1: Internet is a privilege, not a right. Hey, come for

608
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 1: her Internet fact, cancel her. I'm just kidding, But he

609
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:49,520
Speaker 1: called me selfish and unsupportive. I left work later and

610
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,479
Speaker 1: he kept calling me to tell me to give him

611
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Speaker 1: the password, but I kept refusing