Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 1: Seth is on the phone today for it to Catch
Speaker 1: a Cheater. He's been with his girlfriend, Allison for four years,
Speaker 1: and I guess they just moved in with each other
Speaker 1: about a year ago. But he thinks that she might
Speaker 1: be cheating now, so we'll see if we can help
Speaker 1: him out. Seth, thank you for your email and agreeing
Speaker 1: to do the ward. The rows is to catch a teater. Man,
Speaker 1: tell us what's going on.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so, my girlfriend and I moved in together about
Speaker 2: a year ago. In the last three months or so,
Speaker 2: it just seems like she's not happy with the relationship.
Speaker 2: We haven't had sex anymore. She says that she's constantly tired.
Speaker 2: I don't know if it's all in my head, but
Speaker 2: it just seems like the telltale signs of someone cheating
Speaker 2: are all there. It's like, there's the sex thing, but
Speaker 2: then she just seems to lash out at me for nothing.
Speaker 2: She starts fights on days that we finally get to
Speaker 2: spend together. She's working so much. We both worked ten
Speaker 2: and eleven hour days. It's like when we finally spend
Speaker 2: time together and she's starting fights, it's a lot.
Speaker 1: What is she picking fights about?
Speaker 3: I mean, are they even legit things or is it
Speaker 3: just kind of like nitpicking you?
Speaker 2: No, just nitpicking me?
Speaker 1: So Nina in a relationship and when you start nick picking, well,
Speaker 1: like what could you would you say? That would mean?
Speaker 3: Well, it just means that they're starting to get on
Speaker 3: my nerves. I mean, to be honest, And usually there's
Speaker 3: no reason for it. It would just be you know,
Speaker 3: sometimes when you're feeling agitated about other things in life,
Speaker 3: it's easier to take out your frustration on the person
Speaker 3: that's closest to you, which is kind of sucky and
Speaker 3: a bit of a.
Speaker 1: Cop out, but happens a lot.
Speaker 3: Right, So maybe like her work stuff is legit, I mean,
Speaker 3: does she go anywhere else? Like does she leave the
Speaker 3: house by herself outside of work or is she doing
Speaker 3: anything else to blow off steam?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: I mean she works a lot, I work a lot,
Speaker 2: and when she's tired, you know, she's she's just there
Speaker 2: at the house. I mean I thought that it was
Speaker 2: the fact that we moved in together. Right, It's a
Speaker 2: big change, and it's hard. I've been trying to be
Speaker 2: as attentive to her i'd been. Therefore, when she needs me.
Speaker 2: But when she nitpicks like that and gets on me,
Speaker 2: it just it feels like I'm being pushing into a corner.
Speaker 2: And I love her, but it feels like I'm stuck.
Speaker 1: Are you engaging? Like, are you yelling back or are
Speaker 1: you just taking it?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean I'm taking it.
Speaker 1: Why do you go to cheating right away?
Speaker 2: Well, she's also mentioned this guy named Jerry. Every once
Speaker 2: in a while. I'll bring something up and she'll just
Speaker 2: be like, oh, well, Jerry says this, or Jerry says that,
Speaker 2: And it just sounds like it's a guy that she's
Speaker 2: been going to for advice, like a coworker.
Speaker 1: Who's Jerry? Do you know?
Speaker 2: Well she says it's some work friend. Okay, that on
Speaker 2: top of every out there, it's just it really seems
Speaker 2: like she could be cheating.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's weird.
Speaker 2: I mean, we've been together for four years. I never
Speaker 2: thought that it would get to this point. Okay, I
Speaker 2: just think that something's really going on with this Sherry dude.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, we'll see if we can help you out.
Speaker 1: Then you've already told us what grocery store. She's a
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Speaker 1: pretend to be from the grocery store and say that
Speaker 1: every single month we give one Lucky Rewards Card member
Speaker 1: free flowers delivered from our floral department, and we'll see
Speaker 1: if she sends those to you or to someone else. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, man, we'll play us. Don't come back and
Speaker 1: see what we can help you out and get your to
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Speaker 2: Time to Catch a Cheater only on.
Speaker 1: The Jubile Show. Right in the middle of to Catch
Speaker 1: a Teeter if you're just joining us, set this on
Speaker 1: the phone, and he thinks that his girlfriend of four years, Allison,
Speaker 1: might be cheating on him. They just moved in together
Speaker 1: a year ago, and we're about to call her and
Speaker 1: pretend to be from the grocery store that she shops at,
Speaker 1: and say that we just reimagined our whole new floral department.
Speaker 1: It's amazing. We do flower delivery now and she's the
Speaker 1: lucky winner this month of free flowers delivered to anybody
Speaker 1: that she wants to listen herm to and see if
Speaker 1: she sends them to her boyfriend Seth or to someone else.
Speaker 1: And Seth even has an idea of who he thinks
Speaker 1: it might be before we call her, Seth, just refresh
Speaker 1: everybody's memory on your situation. What's going on.
Speaker 2: My girlfriend and I moved in together about a year ago.
Speaker 2: On the last three months, it just seems like she's
Speaker 2: so happy with the relationship. And I've tried talking to her.
Speaker 2: She's close off and I think that there's a guy
Speaker 2: named Jerry that's in her life somehow. I don't know
Speaker 2: who he is, but I have a feeling that it's
Speaker 2: someone that she's with.
Speaker 1: All Right, man, I'm going a dollar fune of right
Speaker 1: now here we go.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hi, is this Alison who's a Rewards card member?
Speaker 3: Ed?
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is Alison, who.
Speaker 1: Says Alison, please don't hang up. My name is Jordan,
Speaker 1: and I'm calling from the grocery store saying congratulations, you're
Speaker 1: the most big winner.
Speaker 4: What winner for?
Speaker 2: What?
Speaker 1: For the flowers? Oh?
Speaker 4: My goodness.
Speaker 2: Oh that's awesome.
Speaker 4: Wow, okay, Oh that's so great. I didn't even know
Speaker 4: that you guys did this. That's awesome. Thank you.
Speaker 1: Every single month, we choose one Rewards Card member totally
Speaker 1: random to say thank you for shopping by giving them
Speaker 1: free flowers delivered from our beautiful new and improved Laura apartment.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you've been in lately, but we're
Speaker 1: doing delivering now. We're trying to get the word out
Speaker 1: and also say thank you very much for being a
Speaker 1: loyal customer.
Speaker 2: Wow, thank you. That's great.
Speaker 1: You've won a bouquet of your choosing and a card
Speaker 1: to be delivered to anybody that you want to absolutely free.
Speaker 4: Oh wow, Oh my goodness, that is so awesome.
Speaker 2: Thank you so much.
Speaker 1: So all we would need to do from here is
Speaker 1: there's a few ways we can go about this. It
Speaker 1: would just take a matter of minutes over the phone.
Speaker 1: If you know who you want to send the flowers to,
Speaker 1: and I can If you don't have that right now,
Speaker 1: I can call you back, or you can set up
Speaker 1: time to come into the store. Most people don't go
Speaker 1: with that option because kind.
Speaker 2: Of a pain.
Speaker 4: Oh no, I definitely know who I want to send them,
Speaker 4: so I want to send them to my boyfriend obviously.
Speaker 1: All right, So let's start with the name first and
Speaker 1: last of your boyfriend.
Speaker 4: H Yeah, my boyfriend's name is sath.
Speaker 1: Okay and last name? All right, and how long you
Speaker 1: been with your boyfriend?
Speaker 4: Just out of curiosity, we've been together for four years now.
Speaker 1: Four years? Oh wow, do you ever think about, you know,
Speaker 1: stepping out on your man?
Speaker 4: No, No, that has literally never even crossed my mind.
Speaker 4: I love my life so much I would never even
Speaker 4: think about that.
Speaker 1: Okay, onto the other stuff here, you know what, I'll
Speaker 1: just let you know that this is not the grocery store.
Speaker 4: Oh who is this?
Speaker 2: Son?
Speaker 1: My name is Jubil from a radio show called The
Speaker 1: Jebel Show him. I'm here too, and I'm Victoria. I'm
Speaker 1: also here. And we do a segment on our show
Speaker 1: where if you suspect your significant other of cheating, we
Speaker 1: can try to find out if they are by seeing
Speaker 1: who they send flowers to. And your boyfriend Seth is
Speaker 1: on the phone, been listening the whole time.
Speaker 4: And yeah, my god, Sach are you there?
Speaker 2: Yeah, Alison, I'm here. Oh my god, like so relieved
Speaker 2: right now?
Speaker 4: Hey, why would you think that I was cheating.
Speaker 2: For a multitude of things, Alison? I mean, you can't
Speaker 2: deny that we've been distant and who he is this
Speaker 2: hearing that you keep talking about?
Speaker 4: Oh my god. All right, I'm sorry. I'm just like
Speaker 4: a little mad right now, because, like I think I'm
Speaker 4: just kind of like in shock right now. No, I'm
Speaker 4: not cheating on you, like you're right, Like things have
Speaker 4: been off lately and I have been hiding something on you,
Speaker 4: But I am not cheating on you, and I would
Speaker 4: never ever do that to you. Okay, So Jerry is
Speaker 4: actually my doctor. I know I liked you and I
Speaker 4: said that from work, but we both worked a lot,
Speaker 4: and when we first moved in together, we were, you know,
Speaker 4: having sex with each other all the time, like we
Speaker 4: were crazy like bunny rabbitas well. I just kind of
Speaker 4: started like freaking out a little bit because I was
Speaker 4: scared that I would get pregnant, and so I went
Speaker 4: on the pill. And the reason that I keep bringing
Speaker 4: up Jerry is because I've been having some really really
Speaker 4: bad side effects from the pill. Like I get these
Speaker 4: like insane swings and I just start lashing out at
Speaker 4: people or crying and just feeling super super tired all
Speaker 4: the time. So my doctor, he's just been giving me
Speaker 4: advice with all the side effects I've been having, and
Speaker 4: I don't know, I just felt like feeling really weird,
Speaker 4: bib about bringing it up to you. I guess I
Speaker 4: was just trying to handle it on my own. I
Speaker 4: don't know, we both just work so much and we
Speaker 4: get stressed out and tired, and I just didn't want
Speaker 4: you to have to worry about this too on top
Speaker 4: of everything.
Speaker 2: Well, man, why didn't you talk to me about this?
Speaker 2: I mean, this is a really big decision. I feel
Speaker 2: like we should both have a saying.
Speaker 4: I get it. It's not that I don't want to
Speaker 4: have kids with you, Like obviously someday I want to
Speaker 4: have kids with you, but we both just work so
Speaker 4: much and we've only been living together for like a
Speaker 4: year now, and I don't know, I just feel like
Speaker 4: in order to have a kid, we should like get
Speaker 4: to a point in our lives where we're not just
Speaker 4: both focusing so much on work and on adjusting the
Speaker 4: living with each other, you know what I mean. Like,
Speaker 4: I didn't think that going on the pill was going
Speaker 4: to cause all those side effects. Like I thought that
Speaker 4: I would just be normal and you know, everything would
Speaker 4: be fine. But then I just started feeling really guilty
Speaker 4: when I started getting really tired, and I started like
Speaker 4: starting fights with you all the time, and I don't know,
Speaker 4: I just thought it would be easier to try to
Speaker 4: deal with it by myself.
Speaker 2: The mood swing so that's why you've been argumentative.
Speaker 4: Yeah, totally. It doesn't have anything to do with you
Speaker 4: or with us. I think it's really just the pill
Speaker 4: and I've just been having really bad mood swings and
Speaker 4: side effects from it. I'm sorry I didn't come to
Speaker 4: you and talk to you about it. I really thought
Speaker 4: I could figure it out by myself.
Speaker 2: No, I get it, I understand. I promise that I
Speaker 2: will be more patient with you.
Speaker 4: Thank you. I mean, you haven't done anything wrong at all,
Speaker 4: Like you've been like a literal saint, Like you have
Speaker 4: been perfect and amazing, and honestly, I'm actually glad that
Speaker 4: like this is all out in the open now, and
Speaker 4: I feel like I don't have to hide anything from
Speaker 4: you anymore because you have already just been like the
Speaker 4: most amazing boyfriend I have ever had. And now I
Speaker 4: feel like our relationship can get even better and stronger
Speaker 4: because now you know the truth is finally out in
Speaker 4: the open. So thank you so much.
Speaker 1: Such you guys are so nice.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 1: You guys, Allison, you should get rid of those bills
Speaker 1: and have a kid. You guys are so nice, you
Speaker 1: deserve a gosh. I love it. Well, Seth, I'm glad
Speaker 1: you found out she wasn't cheating, and I'm glad that
Speaker 1: you guys, you know, we're got it all out there
Speaker 1: in the open. I'm glad you understand each other and
Speaker 1: just there's so much love.
Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you, yeah, thank you so much. And I definitely,
Speaker 4: you know, I want to have chicks some day, but
Speaker 4: I think for now, I'm just going to work on
Speaker 4: getting the pill right.
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