Speaker 1: What's up in sauce on the side, And I am
Speaker 1: here with Diamond, who's not feeling something that one of
Speaker 1: our guests did in the past. So I'm super stoked
Speaker 1: because literally earlier this week, the news came out that Colossal,
Speaker 1: the company Colossal and our dude Ben Lamb from one.
Speaker 2: Of our really early episodes, What are you looking at?
Speaker 3: Elvis has on a suit or like a blazer.
Speaker 4: I swear to god, he just walked.
Speaker 3: By his back.
Speaker 2: Oh man, we're screwed.
Speaker 1: We have an event today.
Speaker 2: No, I'm just gonna let this keep going.
Speaker 1: Where are you going? He's going to this event that
Speaker 1: we're all going to? But I was told you didn't
Speaker 1: need a suit.
Speaker 3: Make it seem like you're underdressed.
Speaker 1: I mean, I am what he's wearing sweary. She told
Speaker 1: me she was wearing like a jacket and jeans and sneakers.
Speaker 2: You're such a.
Speaker 3: Dick now, because that is giving. I'm going to a
Speaker 3: wedding or funeral, That's what.
Speaker 2: It looks like.
Speaker 1: He's going to bust in here to and be like,
Speaker 1: oh need got very watch he did almost did.
Speaker 3: Yeah, But I love Dacy.
Speaker 1: So one we're recording early and two what were we talking.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Ben Lamb from Colossal. They just brought back
Speaker 1: the dire wolves, which is super cool, and everyone's saying
Speaker 1: why dire wolves were real? They were from Game of
Speaker 1: Thrones and also just history. But there's reasoning why they're
Speaker 1: doing some of the things that they're doing, and apparently
Speaker 1: bringing back these dire wolves will help to protect the
Speaker 1: red wolf population and diversify their DNA so that they
Speaker 1: continue to thrive.
Speaker 2: So that could be cool.
Speaker 4: It's not cool.
Speaker 2: You're not feeling anyone know, because this opens the door to.
Speaker 3: Things that I don't want to see. Number One, I
Speaker 3: don't want to see a dire wolf. I didn't want
Speaker 3: to see a wooly mouse either. I already am terrified
Speaker 3: of rodents. Why would I want to see a new species.
Speaker 3: You don't think they're a cute species? No, wow, No,
Speaker 3: because they creep me out. The next thing, you know,
Speaker 3: we're going to bring back cavemen and dinosaurs.
Speaker 1: Or so they don't even happen.
Speaker 2: I don't know if you've seen what's happening in the world,
Speaker 2: but they're back.
Speaker 3: But we're gonna bring back dinosaurs. We don't even know
Speaker 3: what they really looked like. So we're just gonna manipulate
Speaker 3: and play with DNA. I don't know about that.
Speaker 1: I don't think they're gonna bring back dinosaurs because I
Speaker 1: don't think they have a reason to bring back dinosaurs.
Speaker 3: Do you think they have a reason to bring back
Speaker 3: the wooly mouse.
Speaker 1: Yes, because it's a step to getting to the wooly mammoth,
Speaker 1: which will then help save the Asian elephant population and
Speaker 1: bring back flora that has been gone for a long time.
Speaker 1: That if we can bring it, maybe the Earth will
Speaker 1: be changed and saved.
Speaker 2: You're not down to save the earth.
Speaker 4: We will not live to see this.
Speaker 2: Do you see how the world is right now? Diamonds?
Speaker 1: But if they're bringing these animals back, who's to say
Speaker 1: that there's not technology out there, which we know there
Speaker 1: already is that can just make you live forever.
Speaker 3: I have I don't know if quantum Yeah, well, I
Speaker 3: used to want to live forever, but now I'm very
Speaker 3: I'm becoming a very pessimistic person. Like I don't want
Speaker 3: to say that.
Speaker 4: You say it, no, I can't, but listen.
Speaker 3: If I'm not meant to live forever, then maybe there's
Speaker 3: a reason I don't want to see what the world
Speaker 3: is going to be like in the next few months,
Speaker 3: not in the next few years.
Speaker 1: See, I'm like a I think I'm more of a
Speaker 1: hopeful person where I think things are bad right now
Speaker 1: and everybody feels it.
Speaker 2: We all know it.
Speaker 1: I don't care what your politics are, you know in
Speaker 1: your heart things are not great right now. This is
Speaker 1: not the happiest time of our lives. This is not
Speaker 1: the most politically amazing time of our lives, more peaceful,
Speaker 1: none of that. But I think everything goes through a cycle,
Speaker 1: and I think this is just the downside of that cycle,
Speaker 1: and hopefully it will come back up. Sure, I've never
Speaker 1: seen such a downside of my life, however, and.
Speaker 3: This is coming from someone who has lived through how
Speaker 3: many unprecedented times.
Speaker 2: All of them.
Speaker 1: This is the worst, literally everything I used to be
Speaker 1: afraid of as a little kid. Global warming, tornadoes all
Speaker 1: over the place, pandemics, a depression or recession, if that's
Speaker 1: what you want to call it in fancy terms whatever.
Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, I hope those things ever happen,
Speaker 2: and my parents will be like, that's never gonna happen
Speaker 2: to you. Don't worry.
Speaker 1: People aren't gonna let these things take flight and here.
Speaker 1: We are just fucking flying through it.
Speaker 2: It's crazy.
Speaker 1: But it's funny that we're talking about all this because
Speaker 1: our episode today.
Speaker 2: Is about happiness. Oh yes, feeling good? No, yeah, sure, no.
Speaker 3: It's very hard to be happy right.
Speaker 2: Now, it is.
Speaker 1: But you know what, I am stubborn and I just
Speaker 1: refuse to let people snatch my joy. Like there's so
Speaker 1: much that we can still be happy about on this planet.
Speaker 1: We have good lives, we have healthy families, we have,
Speaker 1: you know, a lot of good stuff going for us.
Speaker 1: We're in careers that we like, knock on wood, We're pretty.
Speaker 2: Healthy at the moment.
Speaker 1: You know, none of those things stay, and I think
Speaker 1: even the bad times they don't say. That is why
Speaker 1: I have tattooed across my heart.
Speaker 2: This too shall pass, because on.
Speaker 1: Your best days and your worst days, it's not gonna
Speaker 1: be there forever. So just feel it at that moment.
Speaker 1: And right now we're really feeling some shit, So let's
Speaker 1: talk about happiness. Sure recorded this episode to be completely honest,
Speaker 1: and I know what my happiness score was, and I
Speaker 1: was thinking I was a little delusional. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna keep it.
Speaker 1: You're crazy, Yeah, get to Okay. His name is Layton Campbell.
Speaker 1: Fun fact about Layton, I actually grew up with his
Speaker 1: little brothers, the middle There are five kids in the family,
Speaker 1: and I grew up with his middle brother and then
Speaker 1: met his second to youngest brother when I was in college,
Speaker 1: and then I met him, So I've known them like
Speaker 1: the family for a very long time. And he wrote
Speaker 1: a book about being happy and I think all of
Speaker 1: us could use that some Moreland honors.
Speaker 2: So here's Layton.
Speaker 1: All right, I am here with Layton Campbell. High Layton,
Speaker 1: who it's It's you just called me Mata, which is
Speaker 1: very funny because obviously I've known you for a very
Speaker 1: long time.
Speaker 2: Because now when I.
Speaker 1: Meet people specifically through work, they all call me by
Speaker 1: my last name, which is Gandhi. And then when anyone
Speaker 1: drops that, people say, who's up?
Speaker 4: Who's his person? I'm an insider.
Speaker 1: You are an insider. So I have you here for
Speaker 1: a lot of reasons. One, you came to town and
Speaker 1: you've had a good time.
Speaker 2: Right, amazing you saw Othello.
Speaker 4: It was absolutely amazing. People need to go see it.
Speaker 1: Really. Yeah, what was so great about it?
Speaker 4: Well, first of all, I love Denzel okay, and he
Speaker 4: was awesome. And I went to see Denzel, but Jake
Speaker 4: Jenlellen Hall. I probably didn't pronounce that right. Did he
Speaker 4: stole the show?
Speaker 1: Really?
Speaker 4: He was absolutely fabulous. Go for Denzel, fall in love
Speaker 4: with Jake?
Speaker 1: What a good review? Did you guys pay ten thousand
Speaker 1: dollars for these tickets because we heard they were through
Speaker 1: the roof crazy?
Speaker 4: We got a discount nine thousand.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, thank god, glad you did that.
Speaker 1: This New York crisis. It's amazing.
Speaker 2: All right.
Speaker 1: So I have you here for a specific reason because
Speaker 1: you have been talking about something, writing about something, and
Speaker 1: researching a little bit something that is really close to
Speaker 1: my heart and all of our hearts, which is happiness,
Speaker 1: something Diamond could find a little more of at some
Speaker 1: point that was actually a pretty happy person, I think.
Speaker 1: But you have a book, the Happiness Equation, where you
Speaker 1: talk about the things that make us happy. There's a
Speaker 1: test you can take, by the way, if you go
Speaker 1: to your happiness eq dot com.
Speaker 2: Correct, you can take the test.
Speaker 1: It's seven questions and based on the answers to those
Speaker 1: seven questions, you are going to get a score.
Speaker 2: And then you can start doing the.
Speaker 1: Work on yourself to figure out why is my score
Speaker 1: what it is?
Speaker 2: And here's where I'm nervous.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 1: I took the tests. First time I took it, I
Speaker 1: swear I got a ninety seven.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 1: I was talking to your brother about it. He's like,
Speaker 1: I don't think anyone's ever gotten a ninety seven. Hi,
Speaker 1: you take it again.
Speaker 2: So I took it again that time I got a
Speaker 2: ninety five.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 2: I may be delusional about my answers.
Speaker 4: Maybe not. I mean from an outsider's view, you know,
Speaker 4: I think you're doing in terms of the quiz and
Speaker 4: the questions and all that, I can see why you
Speaker 4: would score high in a lot of these categories. That's nice.
Speaker 4: It's up to you to determine, like how you show
Speaker 4: up in different areas. But you saying that you have
Speaker 4: a high score is not surprising to me.
Speaker 1: Okay. So Diamond, will you come over to this mic
Speaker 1: first second, because I want us both to answer these
Speaker 1: questions together. Okay, So give.
Speaker 2: Us the questions and I think we'll both tell you
Speaker 2: where we fell on this.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 2: Okay, So the first.
Speaker 4: One, first one is are your basic human needs being met?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 4: Okay. Second one, do you belong to any groups that
Speaker 4: meet regularly and are meaningful to you.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I guess she started to say no, but
Speaker 1: then I told her that you said this show could
Speaker 1: be a meaningful group, and she went back and said yes, sure.
Speaker 4: And also her context for your listeners and viewers, it's
Speaker 4: your family can be that group also, Okay, you know.
Speaker 2: So, yes, she's very close with her family one hundred percent.
Speaker 4: The idea is where I'm trying to identify people who
Speaker 4: wake up, go to work, come home, they say hi,
Speaker 4: and buy to people, but they have no meaningful connections
Speaker 4: with other people. Those are the people that really I'd
Speaker 4: like to shake them out of that potentially and have
Speaker 4: them go and connect with other people.
Speaker 1: Okay, So that's kind of getting harder and harder though now,
Speaker 1: because as much as we have more technology, it's actually
Speaker 1: disconnecting people more than connecting people, because you feel like
Speaker 1: you're talking. I'm guilty of this. I feel like I'm
Speaker 1: talking to people. Oh yeah, I know what so and
Speaker 1: so is doing. I don't know if I've actually talked
Speaker 1: to that person in months, but I see what they're
Speaker 1: doing on Instagram and I think, yep, I know what's
Speaker 1: going on in your life.
Speaker 2: No, I don't. I know what I put on Instagram,
Speaker 2: people think they know what's going on in my life.
Speaker 2: No it's not.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's you know, we only put the best stuff
Speaker 1: on there, so that connection seems to be really disconnected anymore.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So I talk about that in the book. Technology
Speaker 4: is not going anywhere. It makes no sense to even
Speaker 4: try and do that.
Speaker 2: I'm like, unplug it, find it, and unplug.
Speaker 1: It wherever it is if you can.
Speaker 4: If that is for your life, sure, one hundred percent.
Speaker 4: But trying to make a societal move where we're gonna
Speaker 4: like get off of social media not happening. It's not
Speaker 4: going anywhere. So I think online friends, chat groups, social media,
Speaker 4: all that stuff has its place and can be awesome.
Speaker 4: And not trying to tell anybody to go away from it.
Speaker 4: But what I am encouraging people, and it's in the
Speaker 4: book also, is you need to go and have a
Speaker 4: group of people that you physically meet with in person,
Speaker 4: that you hug, handshake, icon tech, the whole human thing,
Speaker 4: the way we were designed to be like communal creatures.
Speaker 4: You have to scratch that itch, and technology is not
Speaker 4: going to do it. So I'm not trying to replace
Speaker 4: technology tell people to stop. I'm just telling them you
Speaker 4: need to add the component of having a physical group
Speaker 4: of people that you meet.
Speaker 1: With, because vibrations are real and you feed off of
Speaker 1: each other and you need a human connection. I know
Speaker 1: when we stayed home during COVID, we actually broadcast from
Speaker 1: home for like a.
Speaker 2: Year and a half.
Speaker 4: Oh wow, it was forever.
Speaker 1: I know you're from Florida, so there was like novid
Speaker 1: down there. I just kept going normally.
Speaker 4: What was going on?
Speaker 1: Yeah, my parents are in Tampa, and they're like, no,
Speaker 1: everyone's fine. People's faces. So it really changed for us,
Speaker 1: and I realized how much I disliked working remotely in
Speaker 1: this specific job and how important these weirdos really are
Speaker 1: to me in my life.
Speaker 2: Diamond is one of my.
Speaker 1: Favorite people who I actually between every break on the air,
Speaker 1: I go into her studio and sit with her and
Speaker 1: we just like talk about other stuff that has nothing
Speaker 1: to do with what's going on in here, and I
Speaker 1: don't know what I do, No, I do know what
Speaker 1: I would do without that, And it was terrible.
Speaker 2: I hated it.
Speaker 1: I loved it.
Speaker 2: Diamond is one step away from being a female insel.
Speaker 1: That hurts. That hurts no, but she's very happy. She's
Speaker 1: very content being at home watching her shows, hanging out
Speaker 1: with her family, and that's it. She doesn't care much
Speaker 1: about the rest of it.
Speaker 3: The thing that I think I have that maybe a
Speaker 3: lot of people don't have is I live in the
Speaker 3: house with multip like my entire family.
Speaker 1: So you love yeah, you actually like them.
Speaker 3: I'm in the house with people all day.
Speaker 1: I loved it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we were in your room now, mom like things
Speaker 3: like that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right, So that's good. So one of the
Speaker 1: things that Diamond and I were actually talking about today
Speaker 1: speaking of social media and human connection. And you have kids,
Speaker 1: So how old is your oldest child? Eighteen, so you
Speaker 1: definitely will know about this. You've noticed such a rise
Speaker 1: for years at this point of people being sad and
Speaker 1: instead of taking it to friends, they take it to
Speaker 1: social media and they are crying and they pick up
Speaker 1: a camera and they start to record themselves and then
Speaker 1: they post that online for other people that they have
Speaker 1: no connection with, and they do not know to come
Speaker 1: and leave them comments that could be good comments or
Speaker 1: they could be terrible comments. What is this about and
Speaker 1: how do you think that impacts happiness?
Speaker 4: Okay, can't speak to this from personal experience because in
Speaker 4: our household, the rule is no social media until you're
Speaker 4: a senior in high school. And when you're a senior
Speaker 4: in high school, you have no rules, no curfew, You
Speaker 4: can come and go, you do whatever you want. And
Speaker 4: the idea is you're about to go to college anyway,
Speaker 4: or you're going about to start your life, whatever's next
Speaker 4: for you, So we want to you to have a
Speaker 4: training wheels year where you can do whatever you want
Speaker 4: because we're right around the corner from us not even
Speaker 4: really having any control of your life anyway. So that
Speaker 4: was our rule. So we never experienced that with my son,
Speaker 4: and we have you know, three others that are coming
Speaker 4: right behind them, and it worked so far. You know,
Speaker 4: we'll see where it goes. But I don't know what
Speaker 4: that's like like because my kids haven't done it. And
Speaker 4: then when we released him to the wild, he's like, uh,
Speaker 4: I don't even really want to be on it that much.
Speaker 4: He's on it now and he has like he's one
Speaker 4: of those people. He follows people, but he has no
Speaker 4: posts that's like his vibe unless there is a hidden
Speaker 4: burner account that he's crying and spilling his guts and
Speaker 4: how I'm a bad father. And all that we have
Speaker 4: a great relationship, but it's possible he's got a secret account.
Speaker 1: One of the things that you talked about was dopamine
Speaker 1: and sort of instant gratification. And I think because Diamond
Speaker 1: was saying, this phenomenon of people crying in the phone
Speaker 1: and like posting it all the time is becoming normal
Speaker 1: to people.
Speaker 2: That's a very normal thing.
Speaker 1: Like it's the last thing I would ever think of that.
Speaker 1: I'm sad and I'm crying, my face is puffy and
Speaker 1: there's like SnO coming out of my nose, and I
Speaker 1: pick up a camera like this is me, guys, let's
Speaker 1: talk about it. I don't want people to see that.
Speaker 1: But she's saying it's becoming normal, and in my head,
Speaker 1: I just think there's nothing normal about that. Normal is
Speaker 1: connecting with human not connecting with a bunch of strangers who,
Speaker 1: let's be honest, have of them.
Speaker 2: We're gonna shit on you for this. What are you doing?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I look at my little cousins. It's
Speaker 3: not normal for us, right because we grew up without
Speaker 3: social media and crying online would get you clowned by everyone.
Speaker 1: Now it's like, okay, we.
Speaker 3: Have to take care of people's feelings and be more
Speaker 3: sensitive with them so they feel like at least my
Speaker 3: little cousins, they have pictures of them crying, like they
Speaker 3: pick up the phone cry take a picture, So send
Speaker 3: it to our chat. Our group chat is literally called
Speaker 3: real tears because we make fun of them. And so
Speaker 3: now they're like, Okay, we're not gonna post it online,
Speaker 3: but we're gonna send it to you guys. But they
Speaker 3: think it's normal. I'm like, this is a little nuts.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's that may be one of those dopamine,
Speaker 4: you know, hit type of things, because you put that
Speaker 4: out there and now you're getting comments, you're getting likes,
Speaker 4: you get into the people who sympathize with you, which
Speaker 4: is one level of probably dopamine. Then you get the
Speaker 4: haters and the trolls. That's probably even you're getting something
Speaker 4: out of that as well too. It's negative, but it's
Speaker 4: like I'm getting interaction. It's like the one of the
Speaker 4: worst things for a post, and I've done this. I
Speaker 4: think everybody's done it. At some point. You make the
Speaker 4: best post in the world and literally nobody cares.
Speaker 1: I got shadow Band because apparently Instagram flagged me as
Speaker 1: a pedophile for some reason. And I'm not kidding baby
Speaker 1: in hot, you're not only allowed to use those terms together.
Speaker 4: Okay, hot problematic.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a constant problem over here. Do you take
Speaker 2: it down or you just leave it?
Speaker 4: I leave it. I leave everything up. I open booked.
Speaker 4: It's like, it is what it is, it's who I am.
Speaker 4: Take her or leave it.
Speaker 2: Because it doesn't give you a sense of worth.
Speaker 1: Or value, not at all.
Speaker 4: It's trying to, you know, help people. Okay, So I
Speaker 4: have personal stuff, I have business stuff, I have book stuff.
Speaker 4: So I wear a bunch of hats and I just
Speaker 4: put it out there. And it's like, if people love it, cool,
Speaker 4: If they don't love it, that's cool too.
Speaker 1: It's good that your kids don't have social media then,
Speaker 1: because I was going to ask you if they ever
Speaker 1: come like, duh, dude, take that down.
Speaker 2: That's so cringey.
Speaker 4: Oh. I run pretty much every post by them, Oh
Speaker 4: do you? Oh yeah? And they hate most of it.
Speaker 1: So why do you run it by them?
Speaker 4: Just so they could be like this is you want
Speaker 4: to make sure I'm being consistent.
Speaker 1: Fair enough? So okay, this is a yes or no.
Speaker 1: Fame is the most deadly drug known to man. I
Speaker 1: used to think it was fentanyl, but I'm starting to fame.
Speaker 4: It begins a letter F for sure, one of those.
Speaker 4: I could see how that would be problematic, but I
Speaker 4: would probably think fame is like money. It doesn't really
Speaker 4: change you. It just amplifies a person that you are.
Speaker 4: Because I know people who are famous, and they're some
Speaker 4: of the coolest people on the planet.
Speaker 2: Name them who.
Speaker 4: I won't name them, damn it.
Speaker 2: Nobody ever falls for that one.
Speaker 1: Go ahead, name it.
Speaker 4: No, I'm not going to say, Okay, yeah, I know
Speaker 4: people who have a bunch of money and some of
Speaker 4: them are awesome. And then I know the reverse for
Speaker 4: for that as well too. They have a bunch of
Speaker 4: money and they're really not good people, and they're I think,
Speaker 4: for the right person. If you're grounded and you're just
Speaker 4: aware that, Okay, I am stepping into something that could
Speaker 4: be problematic. If I don't do it right, you're gonna
Speaker 4: be fine.
Speaker 1: I think I would get drunk with power. I say
Speaker 1: that in my head, but I actually don't know what
Speaker 1: would operate any differently, except maybe sometimes I want to
Speaker 1: smack a phone out of somebody's stands, And I think
Speaker 1: if I had enough money and I had like a
Speaker 1: phone slap fund. That's what I would do with it.
Speaker 2: But I'm talking to you. Pay attention to me.
Speaker 1: Diamond actually posed a question to us not too long
Speaker 1: ago about well you ask your question.
Speaker 3: Okay, I get long winded, so to be bored.
Speaker 1: We were.
Speaker 3: I don't remember how it came up, but I was
Speaker 3: talking to I think it started with Danielle and I
Speaker 3: was like, we live a life where we have access
Speaker 3: to If we don't have the access ourselves to a
Speaker 3: lot of money and experiences, we're very close to.
Speaker 1: People who do have that, right does that? So?
Speaker 3: Would you rather live a life where you know that
Speaker 3: access that you have and could have? Like you could
Speaker 3: have a lot of money, you see it right there,
Speaker 3: but you complain about the random little things, like everyday
Speaker 3: things that really don't matter because you like it's like
Speaker 3: your life is great.
Speaker 2: You pick little crappy.
Speaker 3: Things to complain about, sure, or would you rather live
Speaker 3: like a lot of people in this country who may
Speaker 3: not they may be making like minimum wage, and they
Speaker 3: find a way to make it happen for themselves because
Speaker 3: they think that this is all that life is, and
Speaker 3: they're really happy because they don't care about the things
Speaker 3: that they don't know are out there for them. Sure, sure,
Speaker 3: which one do you think you'd rather?
Speaker 4: I think there are mutually exclusive, Like, it doesn't have
Speaker 4: to be one or the other. It's it's happiness and
Speaker 4: it's it's going to be different for everybody. And if
Speaker 4: you look at our logos and so on, it's half
Speaker 4: of a happy face because there's some basic principles, but
Speaker 4: you have to figure out the rest, you know. So,
Speaker 4: if you're finding happiness working minimum wage, living wherever you live,
Speaker 4: and you have happiness and however you're doing it, awesome.
Speaker 4: If you have happiness and you either have a bunch
Speaker 4: of money or you have access to a bunch of money, awesome.
Speaker 4: Now if you don't have happiness and you're in either
Speaker 4: of those scenarios, that's where the issues come into play.
Speaker 4: So I don't think having one or the other is
Speaker 4: really the answer. It's not the answer at all. That's
Speaker 4: kind of a recurring pattern that you see with like
Speaker 4: high level athletes, like once I win the Super Bowl,
Speaker 4: I'm going to be happy. Once I get the gold medal,
Speaker 4: I'm going to be happy, and then they get it
Speaker 4: and they're very depressed for a lot of them. So
Speaker 4: if you think, Okay, I'm making minimum wage or whatever,
Speaker 4: and if you're making minimum wage and you can do better,
Speaker 4: you should if you want to, and you should. I'm
Speaker 4: not telling anybody to stay there or whatever. But if
Speaker 4: you think getting that particular job, getting a yacht or
Speaker 4: whatever is going to make you happy, you may be
Speaker 4: really surprised that you actually get it, and you become
Speaker 4: sad because it's not about the It's about the other things.
Speaker 4: Your connection to people. You know, how grateful you are
Speaker 4: for the things you do have. Those are the things
Speaker 4: that are important.
Speaker 1: So we were talking about this lighton and I before
Speaker 1: he actually came into the room to do this, about
Speaker 1: money and happiness. What is that actual correlation there, because
Speaker 1: there were research studies done that say at about seventy
Speaker 1: five thousand dollars a year is when people are the
Speaker 1: most happy, and that's of course the national average. In
Speaker 1: New York you would be poor, so you wouldn't be
Speaker 1: happy in New York with that, but other places across
Speaker 1: the country seventy five thousand dollars a year and you're
Speaker 1: happy because you can take care of most of the
Speaker 1: things that you need to take care of. But you're
Speaker 1: also not at that point where you're now surrounded by
Speaker 1: maybe billionaires, if you're a millionaire and realizing, Wow, there's
Speaker 1: so much more that I don't have. But at the
Speaker 1: same time, when people say money can't buy you happiness,
Speaker 1: it is kind of a croc which Layton is saying
Speaker 1: he's seen some more recent research that hasn't really been
Speaker 1: vetted all the way but that say, no, there's a
Speaker 1: direct correlation between money and happiness.
Speaker 4: Okay, So I saw this literally yesterday and they say
Speaker 4: that there is no courtly like above seventy five thousand.
Speaker 4: If you make more money, you will continue to be happier.
Speaker 4: O dout know that to be true?
Speaker 2: Wait, so you will continue to be happier, Yes, as
Speaker 2: you make more money.
Speaker 4: As you make more money, that's true.
Speaker 2: I think so, I think it's true. What I do
Speaker 2: think it has a cap.
Speaker 1: So money can't buy you happiness, which is what we
Speaker 1: were talking about specifically. It can't buy you happiness, but
Speaker 1: it can buy you a lot of the things to
Speaker 1: make you happy, like freedom and time, quality time with
Speaker 1: your family, good doctors to take care of your health
Speaker 1: if you're struggling, the ability to pay your medical bills,
Speaker 1: if you have a problem, it can take you there,
Speaker 1: I would say, And I have nothing to go on
Speaker 1: except my own brain at this point. With this thought,
Speaker 1: getting into the millions is probably going to be great.
Speaker 1: I don't know that it makes a difference between a
Speaker 1: million and a billion, but I also think that a
Speaker 1: lot of people who get to millionaire status then just
Speaker 1: start to feel as though, Wow, now there's so much more,
Speaker 1: and they keep chasing it, sort of to your point,
Speaker 1: like the professional athletes, Okay, I got a gold medal, Well,
Speaker 1: now I want another one?
Speaker 2: Or do I want another one? This thing hasn't made
Speaker 2: me happy. I think to get to.
Speaker 1: A point where you've made billions of dollars, you have
Speaker 1: to just be unhappy because you're continuing to chase something.
Speaker 2: My own thought. I don't know any billionaires.
Speaker 4: They're probably really happy billionaires.
Speaker 1: I don't know they seem to Eli almost does not
Speaker 1: seem like a heavy person. He kind of seems like
Speaker 1: a little turd. They all seem like they were This
Speaker 1: is going to be a very antiquated statement, I know it,
Speaker 1: but they just seem like they were big dorks who
Speaker 1: now have this chip on their shoulder to prove to
Speaker 1: the world the unknown, A dork on the richest maleive,
Speaker 1: but you're still being dorky about things.
Speaker 4: One thing you mentioned that I think is kind of
Speaker 4: important is like, I don't think any amount of money
Speaker 4: can make you happy. I think it can contribute to
Speaker 4: things that can add to your happiness. And I specifically
Speaker 4: talk about this in the book as well too, because
Speaker 4: I give people like a toolkit of things to protect
Speaker 4: your happiness, and one of the things is be as
Speaker 4: financially strong as you can be. It's going to be
Speaker 4: different for everybody, but you want to basically have the
Speaker 4: things that you need to cover your basic human needs
Speaker 4: and emergencies that arise, because without that, I could be problematic.
Speaker 1: And that was all of our thoughts on question two.
Speaker 1: So what's the third question in the Happiness The.
Speaker 4: Third question is on an A plus to F scale,
Speaker 4: what is the value that you bring to the groups
Speaker 4: that you belong to?
Speaker 1: What do you think?
Speaker 2: Diamond?
Speaker 3: I said, C.
Speaker 1: You think you're C.
Speaker 3: I don't know, you know? And I also think it
Speaker 3: varies depending on the day, right, Like sometimes I walk
Speaker 3: in and I'm like, hey, you know, I'm trying to
Speaker 3: give people energy, and sometimes I don't even have the
Speaker 3: energy to give. So I'm like, you know whatever, So
Speaker 3: I think it balances out.
Speaker 2: So I said, C see that is a balanced answer.
Speaker 2: I gave myself an A.
Speaker 1: I was like, I am contributing. I am happy, I'm
Speaker 1: coming in here and doing what I need to do.
Speaker 1: And I actually wasn't even just specifically thinking about this show.
Speaker 1: As the group, we do some volunteer stuff on the
Speaker 1: side that actually it makes me really.
Speaker 2: Happy to do it.
Speaker 1: And I'm not sure when I answer that question if
Speaker 1: I gave it enough thought of what am I contributing
Speaker 1: to the group versus what is that group giving me back?
Speaker 1: Because I really like it and I get a lot
Speaker 1: out of it, but they are fun. And I mean
Speaker 1: even here DuMond, I wouldn't give you a C yesterday.
Speaker 2: He works like twenty.
Speaker 1: Four hours, and I know that just hours isn't enough.
Speaker 1: But what you contributed is a lot in that one day,
Speaker 1: and you do that every day.
Speaker 4: How does that make you feel? Diamond? When she says
Speaker 4: it doesn't somebody sees it.
Speaker 1: Everybody sees it. They just don't say it to you
Speaker 1: because then they have to pay more save it for
Speaker 1: the aircheck. Yeah, I told you that's how you have to.
Speaker 2: Negotiate, taking it right down the hall, take it, take
Speaker 2: it to.
Speaker 1: Her, and let me know how it goes, all right.
Speaker 4: The fourth question fourth question is on an A plus
Speaker 4: to F scale. How would you rate your gratitude?
Speaker 2: I am. I would give myself an A.
Speaker 1: Again. Every day I think about I literally wake up
Speaker 1: in the morning, I look out my window and I think.
Speaker 2: Wow, this is where I live.
Speaker 1: This is crazy, what an amazing city. I feel like
Speaker 1: I worked hard to get to something that I always wanted,
Speaker 1: and now that I have it, I appreciate it every day.
Speaker 1: I appreciate my health. I appreciate my family's health. I
Speaker 1: appreciate the health of my friends. That's the biggest one.
Speaker 1: I just I think there's so much to be happy for.
Speaker 1: And when I go to sleep at night, I don't
Speaker 1: say prayers. I'm not really asking for anything.
Speaker 2: But every night I do go through the list of
Speaker 2: the things for which I'm grateful, and it makes me happy.
Speaker 4: Because my mother doesn't it.
Speaker 1: There's a lot.
Speaker 2: Today it does make me happy.
Speaker 1: Diamond A, I agree grateful. Yesterday she was talking about
Speaker 1: she's just happy to be alive. Yeah, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean.
Speaker 3: There are a lot of people like, who I know
Speaker 3: a lot of people like grown up in Brooklyn that
Speaker 3: aren't with me now that we were like in high school,
Speaker 3: and stuff like that. Things happen to people, things happen
Speaker 3: to our family members and stuff like that. I'm happy
Speaker 3: that my body is healthy. It may not look the
Speaker 3: way that I wanted to, but it gets me to
Speaker 3: where I need to be every day, you know, so
Speaker 3: I'm happy about it.
Speaker 1: Can't really complain.
Speaker 2: I found all that cheers.
Speaker 1: Wait, and you haven't answered your scores on these things,
Speaker 1: So start with the first one.
Speaker 4: Basically of being met. Yes, okay, I belong to several
Speaker 4: groups that are extremely meaningful to me. For sure. The
Speaker 4: value that I bring to those groups, I would say
Speaker 4: is about an A.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 4: Also my gratitude, I would say, I'm like in a
Speaker 4: plus territory. That's great because I, first of all, talking
Speaker 4: about this stuff all the time just makes it like
Speaker 4: I'm preaching to myself. And even I've been in a
Speaker 4: couple of months recently, but I've been working on my audiobook,
Speaker 4: which is not released to the public yet. But I'm
Speaker 4: like talking to myself through my own things that are
Speaker 4: going on pretty well. And then the next question I'll
Speaker 4: put up to you, and I'll give you my answer
Speaker 4: as well, is when a meaningful situation does not go
Speaker 4: as expected, negative impact on your emotions lasts three options.
Speaker 4: Short time, modern time, long time.
Speaker 1: So before I answer this question, which again I may
Speaker 1: have answered in delusion, when you say something meaningful, give
Speaker 1: me an example of something meaningful that could go the
Speaker 1: wrong way.
Speaker 4: I'm not necessarily talking about like the most tragic things
Speaker 4: in life, sure, because that clearly is an another.
Speaker 2: Category, right like when my boyfriend died.
Speaker 4: Not yeah, yeah, so the I'm also not talking about
Speaker 4: like super trivial things either, right, meaningful, meaningful. So it
Speaker 4: would be like, just off the top of my head,
Speaker 4: you not getting into a school that you applied for,
Speaker 4: you not getting a grant, you not landing a client
Speaker 4: that you were trying to land, or something like that.
Speaker 4: Something at work doesn't pan out, Okay.
Speaker 1: So at this point in my life, I would say
Speaker 1: I focus on that stuff for a short amount of time.
Speaker 1: I think it's taken a long time to get there,
Speaker 1: because you realize as you grow up the things you
Speaker 1: thought were so serious really weren't that serious. And if
Speaker 1: you believe in fate that this is exactly where I'm
Speaker 1: supposed to be. So all of these things that didn't
Speaker 1: work out got me to where I am, and I'm
Speaker 1: supposed to be here, so I don't That's not a
Speaker 1: huge thing for me when I don't get my way.
Speaker 3: Well, you, I think the answer was moderate because I'm
Speaker 3: still working on that. I'm an overthinker, so if there's
Speaker 3: something that goes wrong in my life, I always like,
Speaker 3: I rethink what I could have done differently on my part.
Speaker 3: Even if the answer is nothing, I still think about it.
Speaker 3: But I'm starting to get to the point where I'm like, well,
Speaker 3: things happen for a reason.
Speaker 1: It is what it is.
Speaker 3: So we're working our way to short term but I
Speaker 3: don't know the overthinker in me, I may never get there.
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, I'm thinking about things that
Speaker 3: happened in junior high school.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So I got nominated for this award that I've won
Speaker 1: a couple times before and I didn't win it this year,
Speaker 1: and I got the email and everybody was very apologetic
Speaker 1: and weird about it, and I was like, why do
Speaker 1: you guys care so much? I'm sure whoever won this
Speaker 1: probably deserved it. We'll move on but then I felt
Speaker 1: like people were pitying me, and that made me feel weird, like, oh,
Speaker 1: we can rebuild for next year. I'm like, I don't care.
Speaker 2: I nominate myself. It's fine what you win.
Speaker 3: So often that they're probably like, give this girl a break.
Speaker 1: Whatever it is. It didn't bother me as much as
Speaker 1: seemed to bother other people. And then that made me
Speaker 1: take a step back and think.
Speaker 2: Wait, should I be bothered by this?
Speaker 4: You shouldn't be.
Speaker 1: I'm not.
Speaker 4: I let it go as quickly as you can let that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and be happy for whoever it is. I got
Speaker 1: that because I'm sure they really did deserve it and
Speaker 1: don't have to go figure out who this person was.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm sure it was great. Yeah, what about you?
Speaker 4: Like, I'm in the moderate category, really trying to get
Speaker 4: too short. One of the things, so a couple things
Speaker 4: that I have been doing lately, and this is not
Speaker 4: in the book, but it's just the whole idea is
Speaker 4: you answer the questions, you see what pings you, and
Speaker 4: then you start to work on it. So one of
Speaker 4: the things that I tell myself is that I have
Speaker 4: to process everything before I can let it go. But
Speaker 4: now I stop telling myself that I don't have to
Speaker 4: process things. I just let it go. Yes, you know,
Speaker 4: like you said, Now, I'm saying this because I'm you.
Speaker 4: I'm essentially you. Is like, just let it go. Like
Speaker 4: it's hard to do it, but sometimes I can do
Speaker 4: it. It's like, you know, I don't need to actually process this,
Speaker 4: I'm just let it go. I try and identify as
Speaker 4: quickly as possible that I'm holding onto something. Once I realize, oh,
Speaker 4: you're holding onto that, then kind of light bulbs go
Speaker 4: off in my brain and I'm like, well, why am
Speaker 4: I holding onto this? Now I can start doing something
Speaker 4: about it, because you can't change anything unless you become
Speaker 4: aware of it. And now I am trying to become
Speaker 4: aware as quickly as possible that I'm holding onto something.
Speaker 4: And then I'm also giving myself the grace that I
Speaker 4: don't have to let it go right away, although that
Speaker 4: I want to. And that's kind of where I'm at
Speaker 4: on that.
Speaker 2: All right, what's the next question?
Speaker 4: So do you believe your life has a purpose?
Speaker 2: I think it does. I don't know what that purpose is.
Speaker 2: Does that matter?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: Because I think there is a purpose, I'm just not
Speaker 1: sure that I know what it is yet same.
Speaker 3: I think I said it out loud when I was
Speaker 3: doing it. I'm like, I do, but I don't know
Speaker 3: what it is yet. So we'll get there. But you know, yeah,
Speaker 3: I wouldn't say no. I think everybody's life has a purpose.
Speaker 4: I think everyone's life has a purpose.
Speaker 2: Do you know what your purpose is?
Speaker 4: I do?
Speaker 1: What is your purpose? Or if you're comfortable sharing, If
Speaker 1: you're not.
Speaker 4: You don't have I'm not comfortable, no open book. So
Speaker 4: I think I was put on this earth to be
Speaker 4: a good husband and a good father. Okay, pretty basic,
Speaker 4: nothing like earth shattering. But and if you read the book,
Speaker 4: you'll hear some of the backstory of my life and
Speaker 4: the backstory of my father and how he, you know,
Speaker 4: was in our family, which was not good. So part
Speaker 4: of that is trying to undo some of the generational
Speaker 4: things that have happened in my family. And because I
Speaker 4: know my purpose, and I've known it for a very
Speaker 4: very long time, since I was a teen, you can
Speaker 4: trace everything that I do, the good things. When I'm
Speaker 4: at my best, I'm moving towards my purpose. Oh you know,
Speaker 4: so even this book, me being here right now all
Speaker 4: like everything good that I've ever done in life you
Speaker 4: can trace it back to that, which.
Speaker 2: Would bring us to the seventh question, which is on
Speaker 2: an A.
Speaker 4: Plus to f scale. How would you rate your progress
Speaker 4: to achieving your purpose in life? So, not knowing your purposes,
Speaker 4: it would be hard to answer that question I talk about.
Speaker 2: I think I gave myself an eight.
Speaker 1: I don't know what purposes, but yeah, I'm moving in
Speaker 1: the right direction.
Speaker 2: To go and retool this now that I'm thinking about
Speaker 2: it a little bit more.
Speaker 4: You should try and find out figure out what your
Speaker 4: purpose is is in life. But if you don't know,
Speaker 4: you should just move in a general direction.
Speaker 2: That's positive Diamond. What do you think you're on the
Speaker 2: path to fulfilling your purpose?
Speaker 3: See, because I really didn't know. I don't know what
Speaker 3: my purpose is yet, but I would hope that I'm
Speaker 3: moving in the right direction. You know, I don't know.
Speaker 1: So sometimes when I think about purpose, I don't know
Speaker 1: about the bigger, heavier things. But I think about what
Speaker 1: my mom always said, which is what I have tried
Speaker 1: to do.
Speaker 2: With my life.
Speaker 1: And I don't know if it's necessarily a purpose, but
Speaker 1: it is leave the room better than when you entered.
Speaker 1: Metaphorically and literally actually come into a room, if the
Speaker 1: chairs are pushed out, push back in.
Speaker 2: And I would like to think that with what.
Speaker 1: We do, sometimes you are leaving the room, that metaphorical
Speaker 1: room a little bit better, if it's spreading laughter, if
Speaker 1: it's giving people an outlet to talk about something to
Speaker 1: a stranger that they didn't want to before. So if
Speaker 1: I were to make that my purpose, and then I
Speaker 1: would say I'm fulfilling my purpose. I give myself an
Speaker 1: a which again could be delusion because I just created it.
Speaker 1: I fulfilled it.
Speaker 3: Great.
Speaker 4: Your purpose in life doesn't have to be like care
Speaker 4: and cancer. It can and for some people though that
Speaker 4: if you're that person, like that's awesome. Leaving the room
Speaker 4: better than you found. It could be someone's purpose in
Speaker 4: life because if you go through life with that mindset,
Speaker 4: like you're setting people up for success, having people enter
Speaker 4: a space a literal and a metaphorical space where they're
Speaker 4: going to be able to shine and operate at the
Speaker 4: highest capacity. So that could be huge, Like you could
Speaker 4: be teeing up someone who then goes to cure cancer
Speaker 4: because of a space that you left that they entered.
Speaker 1: Yes, I am creating the people who cure cancer. That
Speaker 1: is what I'm gonna go.
Speaker 4: Yeah, new tagline, tagline.
Speaker 2: It's all because of us. This is amazing.
Speaker 1: Okay, So this is the question that I wanted to
Speaker 1: ask you about like purpose and this entire thing, and
Speaker 1: it's a little personal, so you don't have to answer
Speaker 1: obviously if you don't want to. Sure, are you in
Speaker 1: therapy or have you been to therapy?
Speaker 4: I have been to therapy in the past. I'm not
Speaker 4: currently in therapy therapy, but I have like therapy like
Speaker 4: stuff lined up shortly, Okay.
Speaker 1: Because I was going to say, we have conversations about
Speaker 1: this all the time. How important do you feel therapy
Speaker 1: is to self discovery?
Speaker 4: Okay? Therapy is kind of complicated for me because I've
Speaker 4: had bad therapists and I've had therapists who give really
Speaker 4: bad advice, So that is very harmful. If you can
Speaker 4: get a good therapist, that is like gold. But if
Speaker 4: you have a bad therapist, and it's really hard to
Speaker 4: know if you have a bad therapist, because a good
Speaker 4: therapist is probably going to challenge you and the conversations
Speaker 4: are going to be difficult. I don't know how to
Speaker 4: tell people if they have a good one or not.
Speaker 4: But I know that having a good one is great
Speaker 4: and having a bad one is really bad.
Speaker 1: That's fair. I mean the same as we would say
Speaker 1: with any doctor. You have to find a right fit,
Speaker 1: somebody that actually makes you feel like you're being heard,
Speaker 1: you're being seen, you're being listened to.
Speaker 2: All of that's important.
Speaker 1: Diamond will tell you the most selfish person that you've
Speaker 1: ever met in your life is somewhere in a therapist's
Speaker 1: office being told that they need to be more selfish. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: She's like, it has ruined everybody.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it has. I'm terrified to go to therapy just
Speaker 3: because I'm scared that I'm gonna have a bad therapist
Speaker 3: and think that they're amazing and walk through life hurting
Speaker 3: people because I need to be selfish. I need to
Speaker 3: put myself first. And I'm like, it's not fair.
Speaker 4: I would Who am I? What do I know? If
Speaker 4: being selfish is something that pings you for like a therapist,
Speaker 4: not being aligned with your values, being selfless is a
Speaker 4: good thing to a degree. You can take anything like
Speaker 4: too far. But if you go into a therapist's office
Speaker 4: and they're like it's all about you, probably time for
Speaker 4: a U turn.
Speaker 1: So of the seven different questions, if you had to
Speaker 1: isolate one of them as the start here to find
Speaker 1: a little more happiness in your life, or at least
Speaker 1: identify the things that you think are missing.
Speaker 2: Which question is it.
Speaker 4: Do you belong to meaningful groups that meet regularly? Yeah,
Speaker 4: we talked about this a little bit. But online interactions,
Speaker 4: friendships and so on, they have their place, but they're
Speaker 4: not supposed to replace physical meeting and being physically in
Speaker 4: the same place as people. We are communal creatures. It's
Speaker 4: just a fact you need to be around other people.
Speaker 4: That's where I would start.
Speaker 1: All right. So if we want to find your book,
Speaker 1: where are we going to find it?
Speaker 4: So you go to our website. It's your happiness eq
Speaker 4: dot com. You can get your completely free happiness score.
Speaker 4: You know, our social media links and all that are
Speaker 4: in there.
Speaker 2: Too, And the happiness score is really easy to get to.
Speaker 1: It's not one of those things where you have to
Speaker 1: put in your email address and then they send you
Speaker 1: the information. You take those seven questions and you get
Speaker 1: your answer back and you click on the little plus
Speaker 1: button up at the top right corner. Some people were
Speaker 1: looking for it, so that's where you get your happiness
Speaker 1: score and you get the book. Can you also buy
Speaker 1: it on Amazon. For sure you get more money though
Speaker 1: if they go to your site.
Speaker 4: No, actually I don't. I'm sure you could. I'm not
Speaker 4: really doing this for the money necessarily. But the link
Speaker 4: on our site takes you to Amazon, so okay, yeah,
Speaker 4: I don't fulfilled books. I don't have like a garage
Speaker 4: full of books. You go to our website, you can
Speaker 4: click on that link. You'll take you to Amazon. But
Speaker 4: you could go anywhere that you buy books and our
Speaker 4: book will be there.
Speaker 2: Awesome. And you're working on the audiobook, so we're looking
Speaker 2: forward to hearing that. Is it you that's reading it?
Speaker 4: Sure is? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Well, congratulations on everything, and it's nice to see you
Speaker 2: after so long.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's been too long.
Speaker 2: Next time I come down to Miami because we're down
Speaker 2: there all the time.
Speaker 4: Cool for work?
Speaker 2: All right, thanks Layton, thank you?
Speaker 1: All right, Diamond, after that conversation, did you feel anything
Speaker 1: at all? I'm not saying you needed to feel happier,
Speaker 1: but did you in any way feel like you had
Speaker 1: things you could identify that make you happy or that
Speaker 1: you want to work on.
Speaker 3: Yes, and no, I want to find my purpose, okay,
Speaker 3: but I really don't feel like I have to like
Speaker 3: search and dig and like do some like grand journey
Speaker 3: to discover what my purpose is. I feel like it'll
Speaker 3: come to me, like whatever. But I'm grateful. And that
Speaker 3: was one of the things that I really liked about
Speaker 3: his his questions, like are you grateful for the life
Speaker 3: you have? And I'm like, yeah, I've always been grateful.
Speaker 3: That's you know, some people aren't. And I guess that's
Speaker 3: what makes you unhappy. That's sad.
Speaker 2: I think that.
Speaker 1: And I know that it's so easy to just blame
Speaker 1: social media for the downfall of everything, but I do
Speaker 1: think it's really tough to be happy if you're constantly
Speaker 1: comparing yourself to other people in a world of everything
Speaker 1: that's fake because how many people do you know that
Speaker 1: you know in real life what they're like, and then
Speaker 1: you see what they post online and you're like, girl,
Speaker 1: please yeah, or sir please yeah, give me a break.
Speaker 3: Who are you exactly the person I know?
Speaker 2: Exactly?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: So I think social media taking a big step away
Speaker 1: from it's probably really helpful. A study just came out
Speaker 1: the other day that said women are more negatively impacted
Speaker 1: by social media than men are because of the outside judgment,
Speaker 1: because how many times do you see a picture of
Speaker 1: a beautiful woman posted and these fucking trolls from the
Speaker 1: depths of hell crawl out of their crypt to tell
Speaker 1: her she's fat, or to.
Speaker 2: Say I wouldn't hit that. Sir, you haven't hit anything
Speaker 2: in the last decade. You incel good day. Yeah, and
Speaker 2: you know people don't do that to men.
Speaker 1: There are rarely times where a guy puts a picture
Speaker 1: and girls slide in under there like fat. I wouldn't
Speaker 1: hit that.
Speaker 2: Oh, I know.
Speaker 1: I turn about is fair play, but let me tell
Speaker 1: you from someone who's done it a few times, you
Speaker 1: will get flagged as a bully.
Speaker 2: Uh.
Speaker 1: So, you know, not the greatest, But in that one second,
Speaker 1: it does feel good just to be like.
Speaker 4: You're insane and it makes me happy.
Speaker 2: And my happiness score is ninety five, so join me.
Speaker 3: Your happiness score is a part of your delusion. Okay,
Speaker 3: you are not.
Speaker 1: There's no way, why why who do I have to
Speaker 1: be sad about?
Speaker 3: You don't have anything to be sad about. But the
Speaker 3: answers to your questions, I'm like, that's questionable.
Speaker 2: What is my contribution to groups around me?
Speaker 3: Hey?
Speaker 2: Plus to you? Yeah, but it is to me. This
Speaker 2: is about me?
Speaker 1: How do I feel about these things? So if I
Speaker 1: live in a land of delusion, but I'm happy my land.
Speaker 4: Baby God, she's crazy.
Speaker 2: Welcome, send help. Who are you gonna send?
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 2: Who's somebody that could.
Speaker 1: Like instantly make you unhappy?
Speaker 4: Doctor Oz?
Speaker 2: That was so random.
Speaker 1: All the people in the world.
Speaker 3: It's doctor, doctor Oz, doctor Phil. There are so many
Speaker 3: more people. What's her name? From Fox? The Black Woman?
Speaker 3: Candae Owans throw her on the list?
Speaker 2: Is like her.
Speaker 3: Name is like something hot.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I could see her just face right now. Yep, Harris Faulkner, Yep, yep,
Speaker 3: just just she makes me want to throw up. She's
Speaker 3: a beautiful woman, but when she opens her damn mouth,
Speaker 3: I'm like, you motherfucker.
Speaker 2: Like Stacy Dash Oh, she looks like a ghost. She
Speaker 2: looks crazy as hell.
Speaker 1: She really did not like being black, and she tried
Speaker 1: everything she could to change it.
Speaker 2: It's crazy. And on that note, happy happy Day.
Speaker 1: Everybody, go get the book Diamond. If people want to
Speaker 1: find you online, where can they find you?
Speaker 3: At? Diamond? Sincere on Instagram? I'm kind of over Twitter,
Speaker 3: so whatever.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a dark place at baby Hot Sauce on
Speaker 1: Instagram and we'll see you next time. Say bye bye,