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Speaker 2: Of our really early episodes, What are you looking at?

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Speaker 3: Elvis has on a suit or like a blazer.

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Speaker 4: I swear to god, he just walked.

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Speaker 3: By his back.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, we're screwed.

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Speaker 1: We have an event today.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm just gonna let this keep going.

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Speaker 1: Where are you going? He's going to this event that

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Speaker 3: Make it seem like you're underdressed.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I am what he's wearing sweary. She told

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Speaker 2: You're such a.

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Speaker 3: Dick now, because that is giving. I'm going to a

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Speaker 1: He's going to bust in here to and be like,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, But I love Dacy.

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Speaker 1: So one we're recording early and two what were we talking.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Ben Lamb from Colossal. They just brought back

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Speaker 2: So that could be cool.

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Speaker 4: It's not cool.

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Speaker 2: You're not feeling anyone know, because this opens the door to.

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Speaker 1: You're crazy, Yeah, get to Okay. His name is Layton Campbell.

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Speaker 1: Fun fact about Layton, I actually grew up with his

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Speaker 1: All right, I am here with Layton Campbell. High Layton,

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Speaker 1: who it's It's you just called me Mata, which is

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Speaker 4: Who's his person? I'm an insider.

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Speaker 2: Right, amazing you saw Othello.

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Speaker 4: It was absolutely amazing. People need to go see it.

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Speaker 4: He was absolutely fabulous. Go for Denzel, fall in love

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Speaker 1: So I have you here for a specific reason because

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Speaker 1: But you have a book, the Happiness Equation, where you

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Speaker 2: Correct, you can take the test.

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Speaker 1: It's seven questions and based on the answers to those

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we were in your room now, mom like things

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Speaker 2: That's a very normal thing.

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Speaker 1: Like it's the last thing I would ever think of that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I look at my little cousins. It's

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's that may be one of those dopamine,

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Speaker 4: Okay, hot problematic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a constant problem over here. Do you take

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Speaker 4: Oh. I run pretty much every post by them, Oh

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Speaker 1: Fame is the most deadly drug known to man. I

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Speaker 4: I won't name them, damn it.

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Speaker 2: But I'm talking to you. Pay attention to me.

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Speaker 3: they're really happy because they don't care about the things

446
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Speaker 3: that they don't know are out there for them. Sure, sure,

447
00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:34,720
Speaker 3: which one do you think you'd rather?

448
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Speaker 4: I think there are mutually exclusive, Like, it doesn't have

449
00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:42,840
Speaker 4: to be one or the other. It's it's happiness and

450
00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:45,399
Speaker 4: it's it's going to be different for everybody. And if

451
00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:47,440
Speaker 4: you look at our logos and so on, it's half

452
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Speaker 4: of a happy face because there's some basic principles, but

453
00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:53,560
Speaker 4: you have to figure out the rest, you know. So,

454
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Speaker 4: if you're finding happiness working minimum wage, living wherever you live,

455
00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:02,240
Speaker 4: and you have happiness and however you're doing it, awesome.

456
00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:04,960
Speaker 4: If you have happiness and you either have a bunch

457
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Speaker 4: of money or you have access to a bunch of money, awesome.

458
00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:10,040
Speaker 4: Now if you don't have happiness and you're in either

459
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Speaker 4: of those scenarios, that's where the issues come into play.

460
00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:16,320
Speaker 4: So I don't think having one or the other is

461
00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:18,680
Speaker 4: really the answer. It's not the answer at all. That's

462
00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:23,720
Speaker 4: kind of a recurring pattern that you see with like

463
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Speaker 4: high level athletes, like once I win the Super Bowl,

464
00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:30,600
Speaker 4: I'm going to be happy. Once I get the gold medal,

465
00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:32,119
Speaker 4: I'm going to be happy, and then they get it

466
00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:34,840
Speaker 4: and they're very depressed for a lot of them. So

467
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Speaker 4: if you think, Okay, I'm making minimum wage or whatever,

468
00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:40,320
Speaker 4: and if you're making minimum wage and you can do better,

469
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Speaker 4: you should if you want to, and you should. I'm

470
00:19:43,040 --> 00:19:46,840
Speaker 4: not telling anybody to stay there or whatever. But if

471
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Speaker 4: you think getting that particular job, getting a yacht or

472
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Speaker 4: whatever is going to make you happy, you may be

473
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Speaker 4: really surprised that you actually get it, and you become

474
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Speaker 4: sad because it's not about the It's about the other things.

475
00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:06,920
Speaker 4: Your connection to people. You know, how grateful you are

476
00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:09,000
Speaker 4: for the things you do have. Those are the things

477
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Speaker 4: that are important.

478
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Speaker 1: So we were talking about this lighton and I before

479
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Speaker 1: he actually came into the room to do this, about

480
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Speaker 1: money and happiness. What is that actual correlation there, because

481
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Speaker 1: there were research studies done that say at about seventy

482
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Speaker 1: five thousand dollars a year is when people are the

483
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Speaker 1: most happy, and that's of course the national average. In

484
00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:27,639
Speaker 1: New York you would be poor, so you wouldn't be

485
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Speaker 1: happy in New York with that, but other places across

486
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Speaker 1: the country seventy five thousand dollars a year and you're

487
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Speaker 1: happy because you can take care of most of the

488
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Speaker 1: things that you need to take care of. But you're

489
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Speaker 1: also not at that point where you're now surrounded by

490
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Speaker 1: maybe billionaires, if you're a millionaire and realizing, Wow, there's

491
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Speaker 1: so much more that I don't have. But at the

492
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Speaker 1: same time, when people say money can't buy you happiness,

493
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Speaker 1: it is kind of a croc which Layton is saying

494
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Speaker 1: he's seen some more recent research that hasn't really been

495
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Speaker 1: vetted all the way but that say, no, there's a

496
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Speaker 1: direct correlation between money and happiness.

497
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Speaker 4: Okay, So I saw this literally yesterday and they say

498
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Speaker 4: that there is no courtly like above seventy five thousand.

499
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Speaker 4: If you make more money, you will continue to be happier.

500
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Speaker 4: O dout know that to be true?

501
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Speaker 2: Wait, so you will continue to be happier, Yes, as

502
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Speaker 2: you make more money.

503
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Speaker 4: As you make more money, that's true.

504
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Speaker 2: I think so, I think it's true. What I do

505
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Speaker 2: think it has a cap.

506
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Speaker 1: So money can't buy you happiness, which is what we

507
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Speaker 1: were talking about specifically. It can't buy you happiness, but

508
00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:21,600
Speaker 1: it can buy you a lot of the things to

509
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Speaker 1: make you happy, like freedom and time, quality time with

510
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Speaker 1: your family, good doctors to take care of your health

511
00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:30,240
Speaker 1: if you're struggling, the ability to pay your medical bills,

512
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Speaker 1: if you have a problem, it can take you there,

513
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Speaker 1: I would say, And I have nothing to go on

514
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Speaker 1: except my own brain at this point. With this thought,

515
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Speaker 1: getting into the millions is probably going to be great.

516
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Speaker 1: I don't know that it makes a difference between a

517
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Speaker 1: million and a billion, but I also think that a

518
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Speaker 1: lot of people who get to millionaire status then just

519
00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:49,680
Speaker 1: start to feel as though, Wow, now there's so much more,

520
00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:51,520
Speaker 1: and they keep chasing it, sort of to your point,

521
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Speaker 1: like the professional athletes, Okay, I got a gold medal, Well,

522
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Speaker 1: now I want another one?

523
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Speaker 2: Or do I want another one? This thing hasn't made

524
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Speaker 2: me happy. I think to get to.

525
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Speaker 1: A point where you've made billions of dollars, you have

526
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Speaker 1: to just be unhappy because you're continuing to chase something.

527
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Speaker 2: My own thought. I don't know any billionaires.

528
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 4: They're probably really happy billionaires.

529
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Speaker 1: I don't know they seem to Eli almost does not

530
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Speaker 1: seem like a heavy person. He kind of seems like

531
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Speaker 1: a little turd. They all seem like they were This

532
00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:18,280
Speaker 1: is going to be a very antiquated statement, I know it,

533
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Speaker 1: but they just seem like they were big dorks who

534
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Speaker 1: now have this chip on their shoulder to prove to

535
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Speaker 1: the world the unknown, A dork on the richest maleive,

536
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Speaker 1: but you're still being dorky about things.

537
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Speaker 4: One thing you mentioned that I think is kind of

538
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Speaker 4: important is like, I don't think any amount of money

539
00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:35,680
Speaker 4: can make you happy. I think it can contribute to

540
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Speaker 4: things that can add to your happiness. And I specifically

541
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Speaker 4: talk about this in the book as well too, because

542
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Speaker 4: I give people like a toolkit of things to protect

543
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Speaker 4: your happiness, and one of the things is be as

544
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Speaker 4: financially strong as you can be. It's going to be

545
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:53,119
Speaker 4: different for everybody, but you want to basically have the

546
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Speaker 4: things that you need to cover your basic human needs

547
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Speaker 4: and emergencies that arise, because without that, I could be problematic.

548
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Speaker 1: And that was all of our thoughts on question two.

549
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Speaker 1: So what's the third question in the Happiness The.

550
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Speaker 4: Third question is on an A plus to F scale,

551
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:11,680
Speaker 4: what is the value that you bring to the groups

552
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:12,320
Speaker 4: that you belong to?

553
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Speaker 1: What do you think?

554
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:13,280
Speaker 2: Diamond?

555
00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:13,879
Speaker 3: I said, C.

556
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Speaker 1: You think you're C.

557
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 3: I don't know, you know? And I also think it

558
00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:22,160
Speaker 3: varies depending on the day, right, Like sometimes I walk

559
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Speaker 3: in and I'm like, hey, you know, I'm trying to

560
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 3: give people energy, and sometimes I don't even have the

561
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Speaker 3: energy to give. So I'm like, you know whatever, So

562
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Speaker 3: I think it balances out.

563
00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:33,480
Speaker 2: So I said, C see that is a balanced answer.

564
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Speaker 2: I gave myself an A.

565
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Speaker 1: I was like, I am contributing. I am happy, I'm

566
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Speaker 1: coming in here and doing what I need to do.

567
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Speaker 1: And I actually wasn't even just specifically thinking about this show.

568
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 1: As the group, we do some volunteer stuff on the

569
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Speaker 1: side that actually it makes me really.

570
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Speaker 2: Happy to do it.

571
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Speaker 1: And I'm not sure when I answer that question if

572
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Speaker 1: I gave it enough thought of what am I contributing

573
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Speaker 1: to the group versus what is that group giving me back?

574
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Speaker 1: Because I really like it and I get a lot

575
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Speaker 1: out of it, but they are fun. And I mean

576
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 1: even here DuMond, I wouldn't give you a C yesterday.

577
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 2: He works like twenty.

578
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:06,240
Speaker 1: Four hours, and I know that just hours isn't enough.

579
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:08,560
Speaker 1: But what you contributed is a lot in that one day,

580
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Speaker 1: and you do that every day.

581
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Speaker 4: How does that make you feel? Diamond? When she says

582
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:14,040
Speaker 4: it doesn't somebody sees it.

583
00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 1: Everybody sees it. They just don't say it to you

584
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Speaker 1: because then they have to pay more save it for

585
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Speaker 1: the aircheck. Yeah, I told you that's how you have to.

586
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Speaker 2: Negotiate, taking it right down the hall, take it, take

587
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Speaker 2: it to.

588
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 1: Her, and let me know how it goes, all right.

589
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Speaker 4: The fourth question fourth question is on an A plus

590
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Speaker 4: to F scale. How would you rate your gratitude?

591
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Speaker 2: I am. I would give myself an A.

592
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 1: Again. Every day I think about I literally wake up

593
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 1: in the morning, I look out my window and I think.

594
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Speaker 2: Wow, this is where I live.

595
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Speaker 1: This is crazy, what an amazing city. I feel like

596
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:51,600
Speaker 1: I worked hard to get to something that I always wanted,

597
00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:53,880
Speaker 1: and now that I have it, I appreciate it every day.

598
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,520
Speaker 1: I appreciate my health. I appreciate my family's health. I

599
00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:59,480
Speaker 1: appreciate the health of my friends. That's the biggest one.

600
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Speaker 1: I just I think there's so much to be happy for.

601
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Speaker 1: And when I go to sleep at night, I don't

602
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:06,840
Speaker 1: say prayers. I'm not really asking for anything.

603
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 2: But every night I do go through the list of

604
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,480
Speaker 2: the things for which I'm grateful, and it makes me happy.

605
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:12,399
Speaker 4: Because my mother doesn't it.

606
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:12,840
Speaker 1: There's a lot.

607
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:14,119
Speaker 2: Today it does make me happy.

608
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Speaker 1: Diamond A, I agree grateful. Yesterday she was talking about

609
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 1: she's just happy to be alive. Yeah, you know what

610
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Speaker 1: I mean.

611
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Speaker 3: There are a lot of people like, who I know

612
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,199
Speaker 3: a lot of people like grown up in Brooklyn that

613
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:28,280
Speaker 3: aren't with me now that we were like in high school,

614
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 3: and stuff like that. Things happen to people, things happen

615
00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:33,679
Speaker 3: to our family members and stuff like that. I'm happy

616
00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:36,159
Speaker 3: that my body is healthy. It may not look the

617
00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:38,199
Speaker 3: way that I wanted to, but it gets me to

618
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 3: where I need to be every day, you know, so

619
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Speaker 3: I'm happy about it.

620
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Speaker 1: Can't really complain.

621
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Speaker 2: I found all that cheers.

622
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 1: Wait, and you haven't answered your scores on these things,

623
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Speaker 1: So start with the first one.

624
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Speaker 4: Basically of being met. Yes, okay, I belong to several

625
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:55,639
Speaker 4: groups that are extremely meaningful to me. For sure. The

626
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:57,480
Speaker 4: value that I bring to those groups, I would say

627
00:25:57,520 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 4: is about an A.

628
00:25:58,320 --> 00:25:58,679
Speaker 1: Okay.

629
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Speaker 4: Also my gratitude, I would say, I'm like in a

630
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:07,520
Speaker 4: plus territory. That's great because I, first of all, talking

631
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 4: about this stuff all the time just makes it like

632
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 4: I'm preaching to myself. And even I've been in a

633
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 4: couple of months recently, but I've been working on my audiobook,

634
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 4: which is not released to the public yet. But I'm

635
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 4: like talking to myself through my own things that are

636
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:25,400
Speaker 4: going on pretty well. And then the next question I'll

637
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:27,479
Speaker 4: put up to you, and I'll give you my answer

638
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:30,639
Speaker 4: as well, is when a meaningful situation does not go

639
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:34,680
Speaker 4: as expected, negative impact on your emotions lasts three options.

640
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:37,120
Speaker 4: Short time, modern time, long time.

641
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 1: So before I answer this question, which again I may

642
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 1: have answered in delusion, when you say something meaningful, give

643
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,720
Speaker 1: me an example of something meaningful that could go the

644
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 1: wrong way.

645
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 4: I'm not necessarily talking about like the most tragic things

646
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 4: in life, sure, because that clearly is an another.

647
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:56,159
Speaker 2: Category, right like when my boyfriend died.

648
00:26:56,119 --> 00:27:01,119
Speaker 4: Not yeah, yeah, so the I'm also not talking about

649
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 4: like super trivial things either, right, meaningful, meaningful. So it

650
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 4: would be like, just off the top of my head,

651
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 4: you not getting into a school that you applied for,

652
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 4: you not getting a grant, you not landing a client

653
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:20,360
Speaker 4: that you were trying to land, or something like that.

654
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 4: Something at work doesn't pan out, Okay.

655
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 1: So at this point in my life, I would say

656
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:27,440
Speaker 1: I focus on that stuff for a short amount of time.

657
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:29,400
Speaker 1: I think it's taken a long time to get there,

658
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:32,359
Speaker 1: because you realize as you grow up the things you

659
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 1: thought were so serious really weren't that serious. And if

660
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:37,879
Speaker 1: you believe in fate that this is exactly where I'm

661
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:39,440
Speaker 1: supposed to be. So all of these things that didn't

662
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 1: work out got me to where I am, and I'm

663
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:43,879
Speaker 1: supposed to be here, so I don't That's not a

664
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 1: huge thing for me when I don't get my way.

665
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Speaker 3: Well, you, I think the answer was moderate because I'm

666
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:54,440
Speaker 3: still working on that. I'm an overthinker, so if there's

667
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:57,679
Speaker 3: something that goes wrong in my life, I always like,

668
00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:00,359
Speaker 3: I rethink what I could have done differently on my part.

669
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 3: Even if the answer is nothing, I still think about it.

670
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 3: But I'm starting to get to the point where I'm like, well,

671
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:07,639
Speaker 3: things happen for a reason.

672
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 1: It is what it is.

673
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 3: So we're working our way to short term but I

674
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 3: don't know the overthinker in me, I may never get there.

675
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:14,119
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, I'm thinking about things that

676
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 3: happened in junior high school.

677
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:17,440
Speaker 4: Yeah.

678
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:19,880
Speaker 1: So I got nominated for this award that I've won

679
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 1: a couple times before and I didn't win it this year,

680
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:24,879
Speaker 1: and I got the email and everybody was very apologetic

681
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:26,480
Speaker 1: and weird about it, and I was like, why do

682
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 1: you guys care so much? I'm sure whoever won this

683
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:30,880
Speaker 1: probably deserved it. We'll move on but then I felt

684
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,240
Speaker 1: like people were pitying me, and that made me feel weird, like, oh,

685
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 1: we can rebuild for next year. I'm like, I don't care.

686
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 2: I nominate myself. It's fine what you win.

687
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 3: So often that they're probably like, give this girl a break.

688
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 1: Whatever it is. It didn't bother me as much as

689
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 1: seemed to bother other people. And then that made me

690
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 1: take a step back and think.

691
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 2: Wait, should I be bothered by this?

692
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 4: You shouldn't be.

693
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:48,960
Speaker 1: I'm not.

694
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,239
Speaker 4: I let it go as quickly as you can let that.

695
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, and be happy for whoever it is. I got

696
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 1: that because I'm sure they really did deserve it and

697
00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 1: don't have to go figure out who this person was.

698
00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm sure it was great. Yeah, what about you?

699
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 4: Like, I'm in the moderate category, really trying to get

700
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 4: too short. One of the things, so a couple things

701
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 4: that I have been doing lately, and this is not

702
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:11,240
Speaker 4: in the book, but it's just the whole idea is

703
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 4: you answer the questions, you see what pings you, and

704
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 4: then you start to work on it. So one of

705
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 4: the things that I tell myself is that I have

706
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:20,719
Speaker 4: to process everything before I can let it go. But

707
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 4: now I stop telling myself that I don't have to

708
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 4: process things. I just let it go. Yes, you know,

709
00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 4: like you said, Now, I'm saying this because I'm you.

710
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 4: I'm essentially you. Is like, just let it go. Like

711
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:37,720
Speaker 4: it's hard to do it, but sometimes I can do

712
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 4: it. It's like, you know, I don't need to actually process this,

713
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 4: I'm just let it go. I try and identify as

714
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 4: quickly as possible that I'm holding onto something. Once I realize, oh,

715
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 4: you're holding onto that, then kind of light bulbs go

716
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:52,320
Speaker 4: off in my brain and I'm like, well, why am

717
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 4: I holding onto this? Now I can start doing something

718
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 4: about it, because you can't change anything unless you become

719
00:29:56,920 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 4: aware of it. And now I am trying to become

720
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 4: aware as quickly as possible that I'm holding onto something.

721
00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 4: And then I'm also giving myself the grace that I

722
00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 4: don't have to let it go right away, although that

723
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:09,959
Speaker 4: I want to. And that's kind of where I'm at

724
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 4: on that.

725
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:21,480
Speaker 2: All right, what's the next question?

726
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 4: So do you believe your life has a purpose?

727
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 2: I think it does. I don't know what that purpose is.

728
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:26,560
Speaker 2: Does that matter?

729
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 4: No?

730
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:29,680
Speaker 1: Because I think there is a purpose, I'm just not

731
00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:32,120
Speaker 1: sure that I know what it is yet same.

732
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:33,960
Speaker 3: I think I said it out loud when I was

733
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 3: doing it. I'm like, I do, but I don't know

734
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:39,040
Speaker 3: what it is yet. So we'll get there. But you know, yeah,

735
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 3: I wouldn't say no. I think everybody's life has a purpose.

736
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:43,000
Speaker 4: I think everyone's life has a purpose.

737
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 2: Do you know what your purpose is?

738
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 4: I do?

739
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:46,959
Speaker 1: What is your purpose? Or if you're comfortable sharing, If

740
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 1: you're not.

741
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 4: You don't have I'm not comfortable, no open book. So

742
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 4: I think I was put on this earth to be

743
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 4: a good husband and a good father. Okay, pretty basic,

744
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 4: nothing like earth shattering. But and if you read the book,

745
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 4: you'll hear some of the backstory of my life and

746
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 4: the backstory of my father and how he, you know,

747
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 4: was in our family, which was not good. So part

748
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 4: of that is trying to undo some of the generational

749
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 4: things that have happened in my family. And because I

750
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 4: know my purpose, and I've known it for a very

751
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 4: very long time, since I was a teen, you can

752
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 4: trace everything that I do, the good things. When I'm

753
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 4: at my best, I'm moving towards my purpose. Oh you know,

754
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 4: so even this book, me being here right now all

755
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 4: like everything good that I've ever done in life you

756
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:34,120
Speaker 4: can trace it back to that, which.

757
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 2: Would bring us to the seventh question, which is on

758
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 2: an A.

759
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 4: Plus to f scale. How would you rate your progress

760
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 4: to achieving your purpose in life? So, not knowing your purposes,

761
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 4: it would be hard to answer that question I talk about.

762
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 2: I think I gave myself an eight.

763
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 1: I don't know what purposes, but yeah, I'm moving in

764
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 1: the right direction.

765
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 2: To go and retool this now that I'm thinking about

766
00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 2: it a little bit more.

767
00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 4: You should try and find out figure out what your

768
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 4: purpose is is in life. But if you don't know,

769
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 4: you should just move in a general direction.

770
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 2: That's positive Diamond. What do you think you're on the

771
00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 2: path to fulfilling your purpose?

772
00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 3: See, because I really didn't know. I don't know what

773
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 3: my purpose is yet, but I would hope that I'm

774
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:18,280
Speaker 3: moving in the right direction. You know, I don't know.

775
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 1: So sometimes when I think about purpose, I don't know

776
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 1: about the bigger, heavier things. But I think about what

777
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 1: my mom always said, which is what I have tried

778
00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 1: to do.

779
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 2: With my life.

780
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 1: And I don't know if it's necessarily a purpose, but

781
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:32,480
Speaker 1: it is leave the room better than when you entered.

782
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 1: Metaphorically and literally actually come into a room, if the

783
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 1: chairs are pushed out, push back in.

784
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 2: And I would like to think that with what.

785
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:44,200
Speaker 1: We do, sometimes you are leaving the room, that metaphorical

786
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:46,680
Speaker 1: room a little bit better, if it's spreading laughter, if

787
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 1: it's giving people an outlet to talk about something to

788
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: a stranger that they didn't want to before. So if

789
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 1: I were to make that my purpose, and then I

790
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 1: would say I'm fulfilling my purpose. I give myself an

791
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 1: a which again could be delusion because I just created it.

792
00:32:59,880 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 1: I fulfilled it.

793
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 3: Great.

794
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 4: Your purpose in life doesn't have to be like care

795
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 4: and cancer. It can and for some people though that

796
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 4: if you're that person, like that's awesome. Leaving the room

797
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 4: better than you found. It could be someone's purpose in

798
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 4: life because if you go through life with that mindset,

799
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:22,960
Speaker 4: like you're setting people up for success, having people enter

800
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:27,120
Speaker 4: a space a literal and a metaphorical space where they're

801
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:29,360
Speaker 4: going to be able to shine and operate at the

802
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 4: highest capacity. So that could be huge, Like you could

803
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 4: be teeing up someone who then goes to cure cancer

804
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 4: because of a space that you left that they entered.

805
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:41,280
Speaker 1: Yes, I am creating the people who cure cancer. That

806
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 1: is what I'm gonna go.

807
00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, new tagline, tagline.

808
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 2: It's all because of us. This is amazing.

809
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 1: Okay, So this is the question that I wanted to

810
00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 1: ask you about like purpose and this entire thing, and

811
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:52,480
Speaker 1: it's a little personal, so you don't have to answer

812
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:54,479
Speaker 1: obviously if you don't want to. Sure, are you in

813
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 1: therapy or have you been to therapy?

814
00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 4: I have been to therapy in the past. I'm not

815
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 4: currently in therapy therapy, but I have like therapy like

816
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 4: stuff lined up shortly, Okay.

817
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 1: Because I was going to say, we have conversations about

818
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 1: this all the time. How important do you feel therapy

819
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:11,799
Speaker 1: is to self discovery?

820
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:15,200
Speaker 4: Okay? Therapy is kind of complicated for me because I've

821
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:19,399
Speaker 4: had bad therapists and I've had therapists who give really

822
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:23,359
Speaker 4: bad advice, So that is very harmful. If you can

823
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:26,400
Speaker 4: get a good therapist, that is like gold. But if

824
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 4: you have a bad therapist, and it's really hard to

825
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 4: know if you have a bad therapist, because a good

826
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 4: therapist is probably going to challenge you and the conversations

827
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:36,920
Speaker 4: are going to be difficult. I don't know how to

828
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:38,840
Speaker 4: tell people if they have a good one or not.

829
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:40,919
Speaker 4: But I know that having a good one is great

830
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:42,319
Speaker 4: and having a bad one is really bad.

831
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:44,440
Speaker 1: That's fair. I mean the same as we would say

832
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:46,200
Speaker 1: with any doctor. You have to find a right fit,

833
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:48,719
Speaker 1: somebody that actually makes you feel like you're being heard,

834
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:49,960
Speaker 1: you're being seen, you're being listened to.

835
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:51,360
Speaker 2: All of that's important.

836
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:53,239
Speaker 1: Diamond will tell you the most selfish person that you've

837
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 1: ever met in your life is somewhere in a therapist's

838
00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 1: office being told that they need to be more selfish. Absolutely,

839
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:00,320
Speaker 1: She's like, it has ruined everybody.

840
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:03,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, it has. I'm terrified to go to therapy just

841
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 3: because I'm scared that I'm gonna have a bad therapist

842
00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 3: and think that they're amazing and walk through life hurting

843
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 3: people because I need to be selfish. I need to

844
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 3: put myself first. And I'm like, it's not fair.

845
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 4: I would Who am I? What do I know? If

846
00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 4: being selfish is something that pings you for like a therapist,

847
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:27,799
Speaker 4: not being aligned with your values, being selfless is a

848
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 4: good thing to a degree. You can take anything like

849
00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 4: too far. But if you go into a therapist's office

850
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 4: and they're like it's all about you, probably time for

851
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 4: a U turn.

852
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 1: So of the seven different questions, if you had to

853
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:44,720
Speaker 1: isolate one of them as the start here to find

854
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:46,799
Speaker 1: a little more happiness in your life, or at least

855
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:48,720
Speaker 1: identify the things that you think are missing.

856
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 2: Which question is it.

857
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 4: Do you belong to meaningful groups that meet regularly? Yeah,

858
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:57,759
Speaker 4: we talked about this a little bit. But online interactions,

859
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:00,160
Speaker 4: friendships and so on, they have their place, but they're

860
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:06,600
Speaker 4: not supposed to replace physical meeting and being physically in

861
00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 4: the same place as people. We are communal creatures. It's

862
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 4: just a fact you need to be around other people.

863
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:13,320
Speaker 4: That's where I would start.

864
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 1: All right. So if we want to find your book,

865
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 1: where are we going to find it?

866
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:19,959
Speaker 4: So you go to our website. It's your happiness eq

867
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:24,280
Speaker 4: dot com. You can get your completely free happiness score.

868
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:25,920
Speaker 4: You know, our social media links and all that are

869
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:26,279
Speaker 4: in there.

870
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 2: Too, And the happiness score is really easy to get to.

871
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 1: It's not one of those things where you have to

872
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:30,759
Speaker 1: put in your email address and then they send you

873
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 1: the information. You take those seven questions and you get

874
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:35,280
Speaker 1: your answer back and you click on the little plus

875
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:37,359
Speaker 1: button up at the top right corner. Some people were

876
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 1: looking for it, so that's where you get your happiness

877
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 1: score and you get the book. Can you also buy

878
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:44,279
Speaker 1: it on Amazon. For sure you get more money though

879
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 1: if they go to your site.

880
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:48,000
Speaker 4: No, actually I don't. I'm sure you could. I'm not

881
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:51,399
Speaker 4: really doing this for the money necessarily. But the link

882
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:53,960
Speaker 4: on our site takes you to Amazon, so okay, yeah,

883
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:55,760
Speaker 4: I don't fulfilled books. I don't have like a garage

884
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 4: full of books. You go to our website, you can

885
00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:59,279
Speaker 4: click on that link. You'll take you to Amazon. But

886
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 4: you could go anywhere that you buy books and our

887
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:02,719
Speaker 4: book will be there.

888
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:05,359
Speaker 2: Awesome. And you're working on the audiobook, so we're looking

889
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:07,279
Speaker 2: forward to hearing that. Is it you that's reading it?

890
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:07,919
Speaker 4: Sure is? Yeah?

891
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 2: Well, congratulations on everything, and it's nice to see you

892
00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:10,960
Speaker 2: after so long.

893
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:12,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's been too long.

894
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 2: Next time I come down to Miami because we're down

895
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 2: there all the time.

896
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 4: Cool for work?

897
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:18,440
Speaker 2: All right, thanks Layton, thank you?

898
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:31,400
Speaker 1: All right, Diamond, after that conversation, did you feel anything

899
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 1: at all? I'm not saying you needed to feel happier,

900
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: but did you in any way feel like you had

901
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:37,320
Speaker 1: things you could identify that make you happy or that

902
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 1: you want to work on.

903
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 3: Yes, and no, I want to find my purpose, okay,

904
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 3: but I really don't feel like I have to like

905
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:51,360
Speaker 3: search and dig and like do some like grand journey

906
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 3: to discover what my purpose is. I feel like it'll

907
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 3: come to me, like whatever. But I'm grateful. And that

908
00:37:58,040 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 3: was one of the things that I really liked about

909
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 3: his his questions, like are you grateful for the life

910
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 3: you have? And I'm like, yeah, I've always been grateful.

911
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 3: That's you know, some people aren't. And I guess that's

912
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:08,759
Speaker 3: what makes you unhappy. That's sad.

913
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 2: I think that.

914
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:13,439
Speaker 1: And I know that it's so easy to just blame

915
00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 1: social media for the downfall of everything, but I do

916
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:19,720
Speaker 1: think it's really tough to be happy if you're constantly

917
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 1: comparing yourself to other people in a world of everything

918
00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 1: that's fake because how many people do you know that

919
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 1: you know in real life what they're like, and then

920
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 1: you see what they post online and you're like, girl,

921
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:32,840
Speaker 1: please yeah, or sir please yeah, give me a break.

922
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 3: Who are you exactly the person I know?

923
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 2: Exactly?

924
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:35,879
Speaker 3: Yeah?

925
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 1: So I think social media taking a big step away

926
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:40,879
Speaker 1: from it's probably really helpful. A study just came out

927
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 1: the other day that said women are more negatively impacted

928
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 1: by social media than men are because of the outside judgment,

929
00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 1: because how many times do you see a picture of

930
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:52,719
Speaker 1: a beautiful woman posted and these fucking trolls from the

931
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 1: depths of hell crawl out of their crypt to tell

932
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 1: her she's fat, or to.

933
00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 2: Say I wouldn't hit that. Sir, you haven't hit anything

934
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:05,439
Speaker 2: in the last decade. You incel good day. Yeah, and

935
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 2: you know people don't do that to men.

936
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 1: There are rarely times where a guy puts a picture

937
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 1: and girls slide in under there like fat. I wouldn't

938
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:12,279
Speaker 1: hit that.

939
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:12,759
Speaker 2: Oh, I know.

940
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 1: I turn about is fair play, but let me tell

941
00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:18,840
Speaker 1: you from someone who's done it a few times, you

942
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 1: will get flagged as a bully.

943
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:21,359
Speaker 2: Uh.

944
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 1: So, you know, not the greatest, But in that one second,

945
00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 1: it does feel good just to be like.

946
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 4: You're insane and it makes me happy.

947
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 2: And my happiness score is ninety five, so join me.

948
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 3: Your happiness score is a part of your delusion. Okay,

949
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:36,520
Speaker 3: you are not.

950
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 1: There's no way, why why who do I have to

951
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 1: be sad about?

952
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 3: You don't have anything to be sad about. But the

953
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:47,879
Speaker 3: answers to your questions, I'm like, that's questionable.

954
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 2: What is my contribution to groups around me?

955
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 3: Hey?

956
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 2: Plus to you? Yeah, but it is to me. This

957
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 2: is about me?

958
00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 1: How do I feel about these things? So if I

959
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:00,600
Speaker 1: live in a land of delusion, but I'm happy my land.

960
00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:02,280
Speaker 4: Baby God, she's crazy.

961
00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:06,279
Speaker 2: Welcome, send help. Who are you gonna send?

962
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 4: I don't know.

963
00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 2: Who's somebody that could.

964
00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:13,759
Speaker 1: Like instantly make you unhappy?

965
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 4: Doctor Oz?

966
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 2: That was so random.

967
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 1: All the people in the world.

968
00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 3: It's doctor, doctor Oz, doctor Phil. There are so many

969
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 3: more people. What's her name? From Fox? The Black Woman?

970
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 3: Candae Owans throw her on the list?

971
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:39,239
Speaker 2: Is like her.

972
00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:40,879
Speaker 3: Name is like something hot.

973
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 2: I don't know.

974
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 3: I could see her just face right now. Yep, Harris Faulkner, Yep, yep,

975
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:59,719
Speaker 3: just just she makes me want to throw up. She's

976
00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 3: a beautiful woman, but when she opens her damn mouth,

977
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:04,279
Speaker 3: I'm like, you motherfucker.

978
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 2: Like Stacy Dash Oh, she looks like a ghost. She

979
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 2: looks crazy as hell.

980
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:11,839
Speaker 1: She really did not like being black, and she tried

981
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 1: everything she could to change it.

982
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:16,919
Speaker 2: It's crazy. And on that note, happy happy Day.

983
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:20,319
Speaker 1: Everybody, go get the book Diamond. If people want to

984
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 1: find you online, where can they find you?

985
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:26,360
Speaker 3: At? Diamond? Sincere on Instagram? I'm kind of over Twitter,

986
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:26,920
Speaker 3: so whatever.

987
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:29,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a dark place at baby Hot Sauce on

988
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 1: Instagram and we'll see you next time. Say bye bye,