Speaker 1: Forever. Hi, Happy New Year? Who I mean, it is
Speaker 1: the new year. We made it twenty twenty.
Speaker 2: No sudden desks. Everything is pretty good.
Speaker 1: Knock on woodsis. I feel like I could drop dead today. Ah,
Speaker 1: we all could. I was standing underneath my chandelier and
Speaker 1: I was putting my hoodie on and I my hand
Speaker 1: hit it and it started to like shake a little bit,
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, is this how
Speaker 1: I die? A peer one imports light fixture crushes my body?
Speaker 3: Or or this is how you start jump start getting
Speaker 3: rich because you sue them get money?
Speaker 1: Fuck bitches. Well, I have renders insurance now, so I
Speaker 1: think they would just paying my medical bills and I
Speaker 1: would still have the same amount of money in the bank.
Speaker 1: You can't sue them if my light falls down. Yeah, Actually,
Speaker 1: I don't know how suing works.
Speaker 3: Like it like it hit the CHANDELI hits you and
Speaker 3: then I don't know, it's like, I don't know, knocks
Speaker 3: your eye out then.
Speaker 1: But I but, Sidney, I would rather have my eye
Speaker 1: and the money that I already have. You can get
Speaker 1: a whole new eye, can I. It's not gonna look
Speaker 1: the same as the other eye. It's literally just gonna
Speaker 1: like look straight. I can't, you know, And no shod
Speaker 1: to people who look yeah yeah, if you rock in
Speaker 1: that eye patch, rap that eye patch, Mama, I see
Speaker 1: you when you got that glass eye. I don't want that.
Speaker 2: I don't want a glass eye because you know it
Speaker 2: just like.
Speaker 1: It doesn't move, okay, or it does move, but it
Speaker 1: moves too much or it's too slow.
Speaker 2: It's like loose and it just kind of like, no,
Speaker 2: I don't want that.
Speaker 1: It's gross, Okay, okay, rigglely eye in the New year anyway,
Speaker 1: Sidney Howe, has your twenty been so far?
Speaker 2: It's only like the second week, third week, it's.
Speaker 1: You know, it's been cool. You know.
Speaker 3: My job is about to end, so I'm just trying
Speaker 3: to like figure out loose ends, just you know, making
Speaker 3: friends with people so that when I bounce, I still
Speaker 3: have emails like.
Speaker 1: Hey, what's up? You got work for me? Like stuff
Speaker 1: like that. Are you working now with the people that
Speaker 1: you hate at your job?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: No, I don't hate anybody. Love that.
Speaker 3: I love you guys, Comedy Central, shout out love you. No,
Speaker 3: But just there's people that I talk to you every day.
Speaker 3: I just don't have their information. So this time, I'm
Speaker 3: I'm because they won't be on slack anymore. So I'm
Speaker 3: just getting their personal emails so that I can what's slack?
Speaker 1: Slack is a thing.
Speaker 2: It is like word working. No, it's like instant messenger
Speaker 2: for for work.
Speaker 4: Yeah, good chat. Yeah, there's differently channels.
Speaker 2: Andrew, Yes, have you new year?
Speaker 4: Hi? Yeah, I'm also here.
Speaker 2: He has not quit yet?
Speaker 4: Wow?
Speaker 1: Love?
Speaker 2: So oh well.
Speaker 1: Especially okay, okay, well, and we're I mean, if you
Speaker 1: want to leave, there's the door from Honestly, there's people
Speaker 1: who want to be here. A million girls would kill
Speaker 1: for this job. Absolutely.
Speaker 2: I don't know if they wouldn't be like you.
Speaker 1: We would miss you.
Speaker 4: Dearly, right we would yeah.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, it would take some time. We
Speaker 1: have to readjust yeah, we miss you. Would like the spring?
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, thank you.
Speaker 2: We wouldn't allow that person to talk on the mind,
Speaker 2: absolutely at all.
Speaker 4: What if they were fun?
Speaker 1: No? How long did it take you to get a microphone?
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's talk about it exactly.
Speaker 3: Imagine somebody gets right in and gets a mic.
Speaker 2: I would how bitterre you?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I would come and burn this building down.
Speaker 4: I was yelling from the back for the longest time.
Speaker 1: Exactly, which is our favorite. Those are.
Speaker 4: Episodes.
Speaker 1: Some of the listeners did like you yelling in the back.
Speaker 1: They're like, I love that he's there, but I can't
Speaker 1: hear him. Really, yeah, you.
Speaker 4: Can hear half of the conversation.
Speaker 1: You're like about that, and we're like, Andrew said, just
Speaker 1: repeat your question for you. Uh, these bones right here
Speaker 1: in my shoulders are very prominent, Sydney, are your bones
Speaker 1: sticking out right here?
Speaker 2: Am I dying right here?
Speaker 1: Yeah? But I'm really skinny, So what do you don't
Speaker 1: say about me? Sidney? Are sticking out?
Speaker 2: You're muscular? Like, it's they're sticking out because like.
Speaker 1: Because you work out a lot. Is that how bones works?
Speaker 1: And I feel like it's just like muscles make bones
Speaker 1: stick out. You're like, you're you're just really muscular. No,
Speaker 1: I'm saying that the bones are sticking out. I feel
Speaker 1: it right here. Yeah, my bones are sticking out. Okay, Andrew, you.
Speaker 4: Don't know anything about bones.
Speaker 1: She's like, it's because you're muscular your bones when you
Speaker 1: work out your own my bones stick out?
Speaker 2: Your bones get sharper.
Speaker 1: I'm a skinny lady, Ladies, I'm very felt spelt. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, okay, Well, uh, so you're trying to connect
Speaker 1: with people at work, trying to make some moves. Have
Speaker 1: you read anything recently? Have you seen anything recently that
Speaker 1: you want to talk about? Have I done anything recent
Speaker 1: that I want to talk about.
Speaker 3: I actually got to see Aquafina's new show that's about.
Speaker 1: To come out.
Speaker 4: Oh.
Speaker 1: I watched the first three episode.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's I was really really like, Okay, this
Speaker 3: is gonna be like.
Speaker 2: Like Broad City adjacent.
Speaker 3: After the third episode, I was like, oh, yes, this
Speaker 3: is dope, and everybody who made appearances were really funny.
Speaker 3: Michelle Butteu crushed it.
Speaker 1: I like all the people that made appearances, but I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna compare it to nobody's Broad City says oh okay.
Speaker 2: I was watching it, and it was kind of a
Speaker 2: struggle for me.
Speaker 1: Oh okay saying that, yes, Sydney, because we are allowed
Speaker 1: to have different opinions about something that is art. Okay. Realistically,
Speaker 1: I watched it and I was like, the first two
Speaker 1: episodes were hard for me to get through. But I
Speaker 1: remember I spoke to you and you said it gets
Speaker 1: good around the third episode, and I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: So I watched the third episode, and I enjoyed that
Speaker 1: the most of the three that I watched. But you know,
Speaker 1: sometimes I watch stuff and I'm like, oh, I too
Speaker 1: can write a television show because I think as people
Speaker 1: who are like as writers, we think our thing has
Speaker 1: to be perfect when we first write it. But these
Speaker 1: shows go through a bunch of different drafts and a
Speaker 1: bunch of revisions and a bunch of like a team
Speaker 1: of people get together and like put notes on it
Speaker 1: and tweak it, and when we do it.
Speaker 2: It's just us by ourselves.
Speaker 3: So the show has been in the works for five
Speaker 3: years now, So that's that.
Speaker 1: Lets you know how long ago that was.
Speaker 3: Yikes, like the like the pilot and just it shit
Speaker 3: takes time, and then like after the third episode, there's
Speaker 3: just it's like probably like a different different writers room
Speaker 3: and everything.
Speaker 2: So like things evolve and change, and so you know.
Speaker 1: She's fun though, you know, Golden Globe winner Aquafena.
Speaker 2: What is she win the Golden Globe for?
Speaker 4: For the farewell? Is that the thing where her grandma
Speaker 4: or something with the grandma? It was really really good.
Speaker 4: Oh I didn't have it spoiled for me either.
Speaker 2: Andrew was still upset.
Speaker 1: Little backstory here we record did an episode in December
Speaker 1: and Sidney and I had just seen Queen and Slim,
Speaker 1: and she ruined the ending live on the podcast, and
Speaker 1: Andrew was here and he took that part out of
Speaker 1: the episode, so it didn't ruin it for y'all. But
Speaker 1: he went just in a movie a couple weeks later,
Speaker 1: and he was thinking about.
Speaker 4: The end of the entire and Sidney won't apologize for it.
Speaker 1: Why won't you apologize? I just wonder.
Speaker 3: I just I feel like people the movie had been
Speaker 3: out for such a long time that spoilers are gonna happen.
Speaker 3: I mean, Star Wars comes out like movies and shows
Speaker 3: come out all the time, and people are live tweeting
Speaker 3: while it comes out and telling you exactly what's happening.
Speaker 1: So like, yeah, but you can unfollow the person that's tweeting,
Speaker 1: or you can stop, you can log off of Twitter.
Speaker 1: We were in here recording and having a conversation about it,
Speaker 1: and you said what the ending was while he was
Speaker 1: sitting here.
Speaker 3: I don't care. I'm sorry. I literally don't care. I'm
Speaker 3: sorry that I ruined it for you, but I don't care.
Speaker 1: He's resolution in twenty twenty is to be a bitch.
Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know.
Speaker 3: I like, I'm very like compassionate towards people and understanding.
Speaker 3: I'm a sensitive person, like, so I understand, but there's
Speaker 3: just some things I'm like, No, I'm not, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't care about that.
Speaker 4: Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I think since you started taking this medication.
Speaker 1: You've been less than to a friend. No, I'm still sensitive. No,
Speaker 1: I'm saying sensitive to other people's feelings. You're sensitive, you
Speaker 1: feel things, you feel everything. But I think since you
Speaker 1: started taking this medication, you are kind of an insensitive person.
Speaker 2: Okay, what other example, Well, we have a friend.
Speaker 3: I know we talked about Carolina, and we spoke last night,
Speaker 3: and I was actually really annoyed by that, because it's like, one,
Speaker 3: if I don't know that you're mad at me, or
Speaker 3: you're annoyed at me and you're telling somebody else, that's
Speaker 3: when you can we give people the backstaye Okay, So Carolina,
Speaker 3: I just ruined it for you guys.
Speaker 1: So sorry, I'm spoiler.
Speaker 2: And I'll say this about spoilers.
Speaker 1: If you're gonna spoil something, you're supposed to say spoiler alert.
Speaker 1: You're supposed to say there's spoilers at the end, it
Speaker 1: is sentenced.
Speaker 4: That I'm about to say it's okay, like Sidney's just
Speaker 4: not taking anyway.
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna say it.
Speaker 1: And because because you're you ask for another example, and
Speaker 1: I'm going to give this example, and then we can
Speaker 1: figure out we can decide who's right or who's wrong. Here,
Speaker 1: we have a friend. Her name is Carolina Sidney, and
Speaker 1: she are neighbors. Sidney eats at Carolina's house every day. Yes,
Speaker 1: Carolina cooks, She's a good cook. She feeds you.
Speaker 2: She makes sure you eat your vegetables, your greens, your fruits.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, yes. You get home from work, you
Speaker 1: go to her house, the door be open. Yes, y'all
Speaker 1: are like it's like a dorm, right. So Sidney eats
Speaker 1: a lot of cereal, and so Carolina and her cousin
Speaker 1: who lived together, started leaving cereal, keeping cereal in the
Speaker 1: house because they eat it now. So Sidney went to
Speaker 1: Carolina's house after work, shows up. Carolina fixes her a
Speaker 1: plate of food like dinner. Sidney eats it. Then after
Speaker 1: dinner wants a bowl of cereal. Okay, so dinner and
Speaker 1: the cereal for supper, same meal, same city, Syne. He
Speaker 1: goes to the refrigerator. She picks up a box of cereal.
Speaker 1: She's like, oh, there's nothing in here. It's like powder
Speaker 1: or like dust. And Carolina's like, Carolina was offended. I
Speaker 1: was joking.
Speaker 3: I you weren't there. I'm telling you exactly wasn't there.
Speaker 3: I said it in such a voice that's not even
Speaker 3: my voice.
Speaker 1: I was.
Speaker 3: I was joking because there was stuff in there. It
Speaker 3: was just literally like the it was it was the
Speaker 3: it wasn't oh, it wasn't completely gone, but it was
Speaker 3: a lot of like the ends of the cereal.
Speaker 2: But I was, I was literally joking.
Speaker 1: Carolina says that hurt her feelings. Right, you're saying you
Speaker 1: were joking. Whether you're joking or not, she told you
Speaker 1: it hurt her feelings. She just fed you. You don't
Speaker 1: pay for any food in that house, none of it. Right,
Speaker 1: she feeds you regardless she got the cereal because you
Speaker 1: like eating cereal. It's not your.
Speaker 2: Cereal, it's still her, it's still her cereal. I was
Speaker 2: completely I have my own cereal downstairs.
Speaker 1: And yet you were complained about her not having It
Speaker 1: was a joke. But Sydney, we've joke. Can we can
Speaker 1: joke and you can hurt somebody's feelings and they tell
Speaker 1: you that you hurt them, and you can't keep saying
Speaker 1: it was a joke. You can apologize, or you can
Speaker 1: buy some cereal, or you could.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Like, Okay, so Andrew, you heard what what are your
Speaker 1: thoughts here?
Speaker 4: Wait? So it's it's fully her cereal? Yeah, okay, So
Speaker 4: I could see you doing that. And especially if I
Speaker 4: I'm like giving so much to you and then you're like, oh,
Speaker 4: complaining that there isn't like one thing, I would be
Speaker 4: hurt as well. And I think that's just like the
Speaker 4: place to apologize, right.
Speaker 3: But that's but this is why I did apologize. I said,
Speaker 3: I'm joking. I'm so sorry.
Speaker 4: I was.
Speaker 2: I was completely joking.
Speaker 3: And then the next day I come in and she's like,
Speaker 3: I'm mad at you, and I was like what And
Speaker 3: she tells me about what happened, and I was like,
Speaker 3: I was completely joking and I had already said sorry,
Speaker 3: But did you apologize? I said, I'm sorry, I was
Speaker 3: joking that when it actually happened, I was like, I'm
Speaker 3: totally kidding.
Speaker 2: I was saying, so what happens when she says she's
Speaker 2: met at you. The next day, I was like, I
Speaker 2: text you earlier that day.
Speaker 1: Nothing.
Speaker 3: She didn't tell me that she was upset at me,
Speaker 3: So she had been upset all day. And then I
Speaker 3: finally see her and I'm like, oh, so.
Speaker 2: Why didn't you just mention this earlier?
Speaker 3: But also I was just joking, and the way our
Speaker 3: relationship is the way you joke, Amina jokes, Carolina jokes,
Speaker 3: the way we are on this podcast. There's stuff that's
Speaker 3: been said that's way more hurtful, and we.
Speaker 2: Just that's just how our rapport is.
Speaker 3: So there's some things that I'm like, I gotta take
Speaker 3: that l or I'll be like, oh, that really hurt
Speaker 3: my feelings. But I constantly checked myself in the group
Speaker 3: chat with everybody and the things that we've said to
Speaker 3: each other in passing that I'm like, am I overreacting?
Speaker 2: Or is this person serious? Is this person joking?
Speaker 4: Like?
Speaker 1: What is the matter? Yeah, But Sidney, that's the cool
Speaker 1: thing about being friends with somebody. You if you feel
Speaker 1: something and you want to talk to them about it,
Speaker 1: there's no expiration date on how you feel. Sis feelings
Speaker 1: don't have an expiration date, right, She didn't want to
Speaker 1: say anything, or if you felt away in a group
Speaker 1: chat with your rude ass friends, which is us, then
Speaker 1: you like there's conversations that we've had that you're like, uh,
Speaker 1: X amount of days ago, because sometimes you need to
Speaker 1: build up to saying something to somebody. Sometimes, like you
Speaker 1: don't want to confront somebody because you're like, ah, maybe
Speaker 1: I'm overreacting.
Speaker 2: But it's like it's weighing on you.
Speaker 1: It's sitting on you for a couple of days, right,
Speaker 1: and you're like, well, I have to say something. You
Speaker 1: can't say, well, it happened two days ago. It happened
Speaker 1: X amount of weeks ago. Like there's stuff that's happened.
Speaker 1: Andrew still upset about Queen and Slim and you won't
Speaker 1: apologize to him. I won't.
Speaker 2: You literally just said I'm not going to apologize.
Speaker 1: And then that's why I said you're being insensitive and
Speaker 1: why I bought the Carolina thing up in the first place.
Speaker 1: So and you still sitting here like you still don't care.
Speaker 2: I'm not. Then it's not I don't care.
Speaker 3: It's just like there's so much like more important things
Speaker 3: to you.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, not not to me.
Speaker 3: I'm talking about in general that you can't say, oh,
Speaker 3: I am sensitive and then dish out all this stuff
Speaker 3: on a daily and then all all of a sudden
Speaker 3: when I'm like, I'm completely joking because I am, like,
Speaker 3: I totally am appreciative of everything that Carolena does. When
Speaker 3: Carolina did that whole party, she asked me for money,
Speaker 3: and I here you go, boom, I gave whatever. I
Speaker 3: gave a great amount of money to that party, to
Speaker 3: the food.
Speaker 1: That I barely ate it.
Speaker 2: But I'm not upset about them.
Speaker 1: They know that.
Speaker 3: But I'm just saying, like, I know what you mean,
Speaker 3: Like she does a lot for me, but whenever she
Speaker 3: needs anything or whatever, I'm I'm very a and I
Speaker 3: tell her every single.
Speaker 4: Day, well no, because like a person to respond that
Speaker 4: way and get upset over making a joke, you know,
Speaker 4: that's like a slow burn. You know they're getting upset
Speaker 4: over like a number of things. And maybe she didn't
Speaker 4: feel appreciated by you, and maybe you, like you weren't
Speaker 4: showing appreciation the way that she wants to be appreciated.
Speaker 3: She listened to the podcast that we just had, and
Speaker 3: I talk about how appreciative I am of Carolina and
Speaker 3: how much she does for me.
Speaker 4: Well, well, don't you get her like five boxes of cereal?
Speaker 1: Sidney. That's what I said.
Speaker 2: I was like, out, what do you need more cereal?
Speaker 1: What do you need? I'll need you. She didn't need
Speaker 1: more cereal. You needed more cereal. You went up, you
Speaker 1: left your cereal downstairs, went to her house. A yeah,
Speaker 1: and then you were like, oh, it's not no cereal.
Speaker 1: Whether you were joking or not, that wasn't. She didn't left,
Speaker 1: She's and she sat and thought about it and could
Speaker 1: She told me about it the next day and I said, well, Carolina,
Speaker 1: if you feel a certain way about this, then you
Speaker 1: need to say something, right. That's all I said to her.
Speaker 1: I said, if you feel strong, if you're this upset,
Speaker 1: then you need to talk to Sidney because she's gonna
Speaker 1: keep doing this because she's gonna think that you're fine
Speaker 1: with it. She's gonna keep making these same types of jokes.
Speaker 3: No, she's the way she responded, I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: I was joking, but I haven't joked like that. That
Speaker 3: was the first time I made a joke like that ever.
Speaker 2: Sidney.
Speaker 1: I know you, okay, I know how you joke, I
Speaker 1: know what you say, I know how you are when
Speaker 1: you get into people's houses. I know how you like
Speaker 1: to like make yourself real comfortable when you go to someone.
Speaker 1: Oh you know what, food you go this, You open
Speaker 1: people's fridges, you take stuff out, you eat what you
Speaker 1: want whatever. That's fine, but that's not fine for everybody.
Speaker 1: And that's not fine for your friend who loves Carolina,
Speaker 1: adores you. You like Carolina, you appreciate her or whatever whatever.
Speaker 1: These are all true, but in that moment, she didn't
Speaker 1: feel appreciated, and she told you about it the next day,
Speaker 1: and you responded by saying all of this other stuff
Speaker 1: and adding to that, you started talking about you know,
Speaker 1: like how like it didn't really matter that she was
Speaker 1: upset because it.
Speaker 3: And that also is annoying to me that she's talking
Speaker 3: to you about like something that I'm like, I had
Speaker 3: already spoke to her. I'm like, you can't talk to
Speaker 3: people in the group about something that is first of all,
Speaker 3: it's in the house, and I'm telling you, like, oh,
Speaker 3: I said that, I'm sorry, But also I was just like.
Speaker 2: Well, there's tons of things that we all do in here.
Speaker 1: That's just like lou But Sidney, that's not how you
Speaker 1: apologize to somebody, and I'm saying that as somebody who
Speaker 1: is It's hard for me to apologize, right. You can't
Speaker 1: say I'm sorry, but I'm sorry, but we all say
Speaker 1: crazy things. I'm sorry, but I've been offended before and
Speaker 1: I didn't say anything.
Speaker 2: That doesn't matter, that's on uses. No, no, no.
Speaker 3: When I told her what I was offended about and
Speaker 3: the way she responded and she was like, I'm sorry,
Speaker 3: Like I mean, I've she's done things, and I'm like, okay,
Speaker 3: it's Carolina, like I get it.
Speaker 1: Whatever, and I moved forward. Yeah, but that's you, Sidney.
Speaker 1: Those things didn't affect you as much. You moved forward
Speaker 1: because you could. She couldn't move forward because she was
Speaker 1: stuck in it. When I saw her literally twenty four,
Speaker 1: I was later and then she called you on it
Speaker 1: and you were like, too much time has passed?
Speaker 2: How dare you bring this up?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: No, no, that's not what I said.
Speaker 3: I said that I messaged you and I literally had
Speaker 3: text her like hey girl, like oh did you get
Speaker 3: your did you? I'm gonna research you. That was the
Speaker 3: time to be like, hey can I do it Vieta? Yeah,
Speaker 3: But you can be like hey, I want to talk
Speaker 3: to you, and so you'd be like, what, what do
Speaker 3: you want to talk about? So you can poke at
Speaker 3: that so she can finally tell you what she wants to.
Speaker 1: Talk now about.
Speaker 3: That's I literally came into her house and she hit
Speaker 3: me with that I'm mad at you, which I was.
Speaker 3: I had came in her house and I had a
Speaker 3: migraine and I was just there to say, hey, did
Speaker 3: you did you get your gift? And come to get
Speaker 3: my light? And it was just like I had already
Speaker 3: just came off of work. It was like, oh, I
Speaker 3: got to I got it was I was defensive because
Speaker 3: the way she approached it, and it was just like
Speaker 3: not an inviting situation.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but Sidney, you don't know what at the beginning
Speaker 1: of Carolina's day was the day that you was complaining
Speaker 1: about the cereal. You don't know what happened to her
Speaker 1: before you said It's not No, you don't know what
Speaker 1: she had experienced before that moment, in the same way
Speaker 1: that she didn't know what you had just gone through
Speaker 1: at your job or on your commute. So like, everything
Speaker 1: that you're saying is real for you, but everything that
Speaker 1: she was saying was real for her. So you can't
Speaker 1: you're not allowed to do that, friend. And I'm saying
Speaker 1: this as somebody who'll be like, ah, well, I'm sorry
Speaker 1: you felt offended, but like, that's not apologizing to somebody, right.
Speaker 3: But I said, And then we ended, and I had
Speaker 3: said all this stuff that I was like, I apologize.
Speaker 3: So she goes back to you and tells you after
Speaker 3: the fact that I genuinely gave her an apology to
Speaker 3: complain about what what.
Speaker 2: With down it.
Speaker 1: I don't appreciate that I and she just was saying
Speaker 1: it didn't go well, but it.
Speaker 3: Did because at the end of it, I genuinely apologized.
Speaker 3: I said, hey, I have a migraine. All this stuff
Speaker 3: went down. I was this your tone of voice?
Speaker 1: Friend?
Speaker 2: You said?
Speaker 1: Did you say I got a migraine and I don't
Speaker 1: have time for this and I'm going home?
Speaker 4: Is that?
Speaker 1: Is that more? Really?
Speaker 2: That was the first time that I said.
Speaker 3: And then and I went back and I said, you
Speaker 3: know what, I'm actually really sorry. I do care about
Speaker 3: your feelings. You know, I'm super appreciative. I pay my
Speaker 3: rent two months in advance. That's how appreciative I am. Like,
Speaker 3: I don't know what else I can do. I don't
Speaker 3: know either friend.
Speaker 1: I just I wanted to I just wanted to put
Speaker 1: up another example of you being insensitive.
Speaker 3: I mean, listen, this is this, and this is going
Speaker 3: forward in any situations. The way we are with each
Speaker 3: other where we give, we literally roast each other all day, right,
Speaker 3: That is the nature of our friendship. Sure, friendship with
Speaker 3: Andrew language, that is how we get down with everybody.
Speaker 1: Sure. So there I have.
Speaker 2: To check myself sometimes because I'm like.
Speaker 3: Okay, well, I mean, this is what I be doing
Speaker 3: all day, so I can't get mad if somebody is
Speaker 3: giving it back or if they're joking, because that's how
Speaker 3: long we've been doing this.
Speaker 1: Yeah. But then you come to my house once and
Speaker 1: we my family was hosting each other so hard that
Speaker 1: you were like I gotta go lay down, Like you
Speaker 1: were like, this is too much for me. Well, I said,
Speaker 1: I set it out because I was like, I can't
Speaker 1: get in it. I can't get but that is but
Speaker 1: that's being honest and being like, hey, if I would
Speaker 1: have tried to go toe to toe for y'all, and
Speaker 1: then your sister would have said something that was like
Speaker 1: out of pocket for me, that hurt my feelings, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, then I'm mad, but I could only be
Speaker 1: mad at myself because I already saw how y'all were
Speaker 1: getting down right, But I'm saying, like Sydney, not everybody
Speaker 1: is like that, and not everybody even even if we
Speaker 1: are our love language is roasting each other and making
Speaker 1: fun of each other. Like there are things that we
Speaker 1: might have said that have hurt Andrews feelings that he
Speaker 1: might not have said anything about it.
Speaker 2: Right, Okay, here we go, boosha kalaka.
Speaker 1: There are things that certain maybe somebody's on their period
Speaker 1: or maybe somebody just found out that their insurance got
Speaker 1: denied or whatever. Like certain days, people are in different
Speaker 1: moods and and things that are normal and regular will
Speaker 1: not work.
Speaker 2: This is all that I'm saying.
Speaker 4: It's all about, like how much you're like, you're valuing
Speaker 4: that relationship with the person. If you're not like, will
Speaker 4: to be like, Okay, I treat it like a joke.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 1: Also, you know, jokes are uh you know, sometime every
Speaker 1: joke is not gonna be funny to everybody, And maybe
Speaker 1: something that is funny to me today is gonna piss
Speaker 1: me off tomorrow.
Speaker 3: Yeah, But for me, I'm just saying moving forward, if
Speaker 3: that's just how it is, and I'd rather just not
Speaker 3: I'd rather take a step back from joking like that,
Speaker 3: because then I don't want to have to be on
Speaker 3: pins and needles with like my roasting.
Speaker 4: But it's not pins and needles, like you're you're signing
Speaker 4: up to be a friend with someone, like you are
Speaker 4: already friends with them, like you know, like they have
Speaker 4: bad days.
Speaker 1: Carolina is not like us. We like okay, so if
Speaker 1: my family is a ten when it comes to roasting
Speaker 1: and like being mean and like no ho is barred,
Speaker 1: and you and I are at a seven with roasting
Speaker 1: each other because like there's certain things that we wouldn't
Speaker 1: say to each other, but there's things that we'll say
Speaker 1: to each other that people other people will be like
Speaker 1: what Carolina might be a four or a five, like
Speaker 1: she can only take that much heat. She's not She's
Speaker 1: not like us. She like sensitive and she went to
Speaker 1: like an art school and all her friends are like,
Speaker 1: you know, like drama nerds or like she's not like us. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I understand that.
Speaker 3: And I also there'll be times in the group chat
Speaker 3: where like, oh I check myself and be like okay,
Speaker 3: let me And sometimes when Amina says something to her,
Speaker 3: I jump to her defense because I know how Carolina is,
Speaker 3: So it's not like I don't know how my friend is.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 2: I mean, I just, I just I just want to
Speaker 2: say that.
Speaker 1: You know, if if you're listening to this and you
Speaker 1: feel a way, or you want to weigh in on
Speaker 1: who you think is wrong right here, or you know,
Speaker 1: whether jokes means like if jokes are base, if you
Speaker 1: can if you could say something disrespectful and then be
Speaker 1: like it was a joke and that's base. That like
Speaker 1: that like absolves you from any wrongdoing, then let us
Speaker 1: know how you feel about that. It doesn't absolve.
Speaker 3: But if a guest comes on here, which has happened,
Speaker 3: and we roasting them and they go back on me,
Speaker 3: and then I'll be like, oh that hurt my feelings.
Speaker 2: It's like already you can't.
Speaker 1: I came in hot, so now I'm upset. But that
Speaker 1: theear that's here in the studio. They listen to the episode,
Speaker 1: They know us, They listen to our comedy, They are
Speaker 1: familiar with our style. They walk in and sit down,
Speaker 1: and they know what they potentially got themselves into.
Speaker 3: Not all of them, not all the guests some of
Speaker 3: the guests. I've talked to them afterwards. Oh shit, I
Speaker 3: were I didn't know it was like that.
Speaker 1: And okay, sure, maybe not everybody, but for the most part,
Speaker 1: you sit in that chair. You know what the hell
Speaker 1: you signing up for? Carolyna was at her house. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's a safe space. I'm home and you coming into
Speaker 1: my house and you didn't put no groceries in here.
Speaker 1: You haven't been to the supermarket in X amount of
Speaker 1: years and you complaining about my food not being full
Speaker 1: enough for you. It was an The audacity that you
Speaker 1: think that I had have to like that was Sidney. Actually, yeah,
Speaker 1: the audacity that I think that you have is crazy
Speaker 1: because I asked you X amount of weeks ago, when's
Speaker 1: the last time you went to the supermarket? And you
Speaker 1: couldn't answer that question. So then you go to somebody
Speaker 1: else's house who's in the supermarket regularly, and you're like, girl,
Speaker 1: y'are poor not doing really bad in here? That is
Speaker 1: not where is the food feed the children? Like if
Speaker 1: you had said all of that stuff, I did feel
Speaker 1: like that's a joke. No, I would think that's more disrespect.
Speaker 1: I would feel in my mind that feels more.
Speaker 4: A joke, because I also don't often and so if
Speaker 4: someone said that, I would be like, oh my god.
Speaker 1: I feel like that in my mind, Sydney.
Speaker 2: I feel like that's the energy that you had that
Speaker 2: is not you. Weren't you weren't there.
Speaker 3: And what I really think happened is that she was
Speaker 3: having a bad day and any little thing I was
Speaker 3: going to do was going to.
Speaker 2: Give her a hard time. Okay, So then that's so.
Speaker 3: And that and and that's fine, that's totally fine. And
Speaker 3: and I said at the end of it, I said,
Speaker 3: my bad. Moving forward, I'm not gonna eat in your place.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna ask for your food. I'm glad this
Speaker 3: happened because now I can.
Speaker 1: You're not gonna eat her friends. I will go to
Speaker 1: the grocery store, which when I'll go.
Speaker 2: But even if I don't, you don't have to worry
Speaker 2: about it. You see what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But Carolina doesn't have a problem sharing her food, but
Speaker 1: I don't want to. That's that's fine.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't want that, Okay, that's.
Speaker 1: That's that's when your friend. That's all on you. It's
Speaker 1: not on me. It's like you just you said I
Speaker 1: don't want that. Then it is on you friend.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm also like, if I'm in your place,
Speaker 3: I don't want to be thrown in my in my
Speaker 3: face that I come through.
Speaker 1: Either you want me to come through, you don't. She
Speaker 1: wants you to come through. She doesn't want you to
Speaker 1: be disrespectful to her. That's it.
Speaker 3: So but you're I'm never I'm never disrespectful, except for that.
Speaker 1: One time you were trying to say that you're not
Speaker 1: disrespect disrespected. Okay, wow, got it, Like I need I
Speaker 1: need a break. We'll be right back on this break.
Speaker 1: Go to the ads.
Speaker 3: For the listeners, I mean the people who who listen
Speaker 3: to me every Friday, the listeners. The listeners. I am
Speaker 3: probably the most understanding. When somebody hits me with something,
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, like that is my first initial like
Speaker 3: oh okay, because either I've been in that place or
Speaker 3: I'm fucking sensitive, so I get it. But then there's
Speaker 3: just sometimes and I'm just like, okay, uh, you know,
Speaker 3: we have to hold our emotions accountable sometimes because I
Speaker 3: know that I'm irrational.
Speaker 1: Yes, And then you sound a real irrational right now.
Speaker 3: I don't think I don't I don't think so okay,
Speaker 3: well let's agree.
Speaker 1: I don't agree, Andrew. You can be judge judy on this.
Speaker 4: I don't know. I think that we're all irrational in
Speaker 4: some ways, and I think that do gang up on
Speaker 4: Sydney a lot.
Speaker 3: If you listen to go back to the to the episodes,
Speaker 3: there's tons of times and I'm like, this is what
Speaker 3: we do.
Speaker 1: You know, Yes, but Carolina is not on this podcast.
Speaker 3: Okay, but but I'm also talking about just holding things accountable.
Speaker 3: It's just like I have to sometimes you just have
Speaker 3: to check your emotions because you're like, well, this is
Speaker 3: what we're doing.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, let's moving forward. It's a new year, it's
Speaker 1: a new us. If ever, if ever there's a moment
Speaker 1: on this mother e f In podcast that you feel slighted,
Speaker 1: I always say respectful. I always say something disrespected. I
Speaker 1: always I'm very vocal.
Speaker 3: Okay, I don't go back to Amina and be like
Speaker 3: Marie was on a podcast doing dah da da da da.
Speaker 1: I don't do that. I handle it with you and
Speaker 1: then move forward. Okay, but everybody's not you Sydney.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I already explained to people that I don't
Speaker 3: want that.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, this is.
Speaker 1: This is what this is. Let me finish what I'm
Speaker 1: about to say. If anybody in this room who does
Speaker 1: this podcast with Sidney and I and Andrew, if any
Speaker 1: of us ever feel disrespected or there's a moment where
Speaker 1: you're like whoha, wha, wha, wha, what's they get it
Speaker 1: too far? Then call it out. We need a safe word. Okay,
Speaker 1: let's let's come up with a safe word. You get,
Speaker 1: you gotta you gotta scream it out and we'll stop
Speaker 1: what we're doing and go like whoa what what? Whoa what?
Speaker 1: What's the safe I'm gonna throw the word snickers out there.
Speaker 2: Snickers?
Speaker 4: Oh no, I'm not saying. That's way too close to another.
Speaker 1: Word we are not doing. Then what is your okay, episode,
Speaker 1: Snickers is too close? Sidney? What what word are you think?
Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be food, it could be anything.
Speaker 1: It could be a toilet paper. I mean, what's your
Speaker 1: safe word? That's fine, Twigs is fine. Oh, I kind
Speaker 1: of like toilet paper.
Speaker 4: I just I don't I don't know if I want
Speaker 4: to really fully commit to going into this, but I
Speaker 4: just think there is something funny about you bringing this
Speaker 4: up because you maybe Sidney has my back here. You're
Speaker 4: sometimes difficult to confront talking.
Speaker 2: I know, but that's why. But that's I I said that.
Speaker 1: I said, I'm saying this to you, Sidney as somebody
Speaker 1: who you know, it's hard for me to say to
Speaker 1: apologize sometimes. But if I'm saying this to you, then
Speaker 1: I feel like that means something. If I'm bringing this up,
Speaker 1: I feel like that means something. Well.
Speaker 3: I'm also like how it was explained to you. I
Speaker 3: don't know how it was explained. I just told you, yeah,
Speaker 3: but I'm I'm like, you weren't there. So there's been
Speaker 3: situations where somebody here explained to me what happened, and
Speaker 3: then I get the reals and I'm like, oh, see.
Speaker 1: What where what I when I introduced the story, I
Speaker 1: said what happened? And you didn't disagree? I did? I
Speaker 1: told you. I was like, that's not how I said that.
Speaker 1: But the words were the same. Maybe the tone that
Speaker 1: I use was different, but the words were the same. Right.
Speaker 2: I didn't change the story.
Speaker 1: She didn't. She didn't add extra characters or special effects
Speaker 1: or c g. I she just told you. She told
Speaker 1: me what happened. And then I what about do you?
Speaker 1: And You're Okay, anyway, and you finished what you were saying.
Speaker 4: No, I don't I don't know if I really want
Speaker 4: to get in.
Speaker 1: Toilet toilet paper. Go ahead say because I've heard your
Speaker 1: feelings before and I didn't apologize.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're sometimes difficult too, and I'm learning this through
Speaker 4: working with you both.
Speaker 1: Where Oh my god, he's turning so rare, it's hilarious.
Speaker 4: You're just sometimes difficult to have a conversation with a
Speaker 4: difficult conversation. And that was why when we had a
Speaker 4: difficult conversation, I was very uncomfortable and I was short
Speaker 4: of breath in seventeen Yeah, and I was like, oh God,
Speaker 4: like I need to have this conversation with Marie and
Speaker 4: Sydney mostly Marie. Uh, And it's it was hard.
Speaker 1: But when you had the conversation with me, did I
Speaker 1: say to you that happened X amount of weeks ago?
Speaker 4: It was relevant, It was relevant to the time, and
Speaker 4: I knew that where are you going just leaving this conversation.
Speaker 1: I will not sit for this. But my lips are dry,
Speaker 1: you know when people when people confront me, my lips
Speaker 1: get dry.
Speaker 4: My face turns right.
Speaker 1: Okay, so uh, you felt away, But then after we talked,
Speaker 1: did you feel better?
Speaker 4: What did? I don't know because it's hard to we
Speaker 4: can't really talk about the exact.
Speaker 2: Actually what happened the you.
Speaker 1: Talk around it?
Speaker 4: Yeah, can we give them the gist you were, Oh,
Speaker 4: it was about cut. We can talk about this. Yeah,
Speaker 4: it was about making cuts in the episode. And there
Speaker 4: we didn't see eye to eye with what was being
Speaker 4: released in the episode. Well, and I was just like,
Speaker 4: I don't think that that's appropriate. And we just didn't
Speaker 4: see eye to eye. And then I realized that actually, contractually,
Speaker 4: you're allowed to say whatever you want and keep whatever
Speaker 4: it is, despite how fucked up I think it is
Speaker 4: or whatever.
Speaker 1: So what was the issue?
Speaker 4: And then because I thought it?
Speaker 1: I thought you made a cut that didn't need to
Speaker 1: be made, and you thought that I wasn't nice to you,
Speaker 1: and how I responded to you about it.
Speaker 4: And then because then in that story, in the entire exchange,
Speaker 4: you found out that I cut something out that you
Speaker 4: said a while ago that Sidney was aware of.
Speaker 1: Andrew, Andrew, that's erasure, okay, realistically, and I'm gonna let
Speaker 1: you finish your I'm gonna let you finish your thought.
Speaker 1: But Sidney and I have been doing this podcast long
Speaker 1: before Forever Dog. We say what we.
Speaker 2: Want, when we want, how we want to who we want.
Speaker 2: We don't cutn't.
Speaker 1: We never cut anything out of our podcast unless a
Speaker 1: guest asked us to cut something out. So for me,
Speaker 1: it was problematic and it made me angry because you
Speaker 1: you know, a gay white man is telling me, a
Speaker 1: straight black woman what I can and can't say on
Speaker 1: a podcast that I started right right, So for me,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm like, Andrew, who are you talking to?
Speaker 1: Like what do you mean? Yeah? And You're like, well,
Speaker 1: you know this person might be offended, and these types
Speaker 1: of people might be offended, and you know this could
Speaker 1: be problematic for the for the Forever Dog universe. And
Speaker 1: I still don't agree with you on that. If no,
Speaker 1: I say something bad, then let me take the heat
Speaker 1: on that, right, And I still stand by that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean that's what we discovered, was that, fully, Like,
Speaker 4: I don't have any say and whatever you say in
Speaker 4: the podcast.
Speaker 1: Right, but you still feel a way about it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't agree with it. I mean that's just me.
Speaker 4: But again, like that's.
Speaker 1: That's how you feel. But do you think I deserve
Speaker 1: you deserve an apology for that.
Speaker 4: Oh no, no, no, because because I'm I'm like, you're just
Speaker 4: it was difficult to have a conversation.
Speaker 1: It was difficult to have a conversation because you're afraid
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say something mean to.
Speaker 2: You, right, That's why.
Speaker 4: And then yeah, and then I said something you.
Speaker 2: Do yeah, or the or just the tone just sometimes.
Speaker 1: Look, this is I understand, I'm intimidating. I mean, I
Speaker 1: got these little paper mache muscles. I get that. But
Speaker 1: at the same time, like, at the same time you
Speaker 1: felt away.
Speaker 2: We had a conversation about it.
Speaker 1: I didn't. There wasn't a time limit on it. I also,
Speaker 1: you made the cut and didn't tell me. And then
Speaker 1: after X amount of weeks had months had passed, I
Speaker 1: found out and I was like the look are you doing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that that for me was problematic.
Speaker 1: Not only did you not talk to me about it,
Speaker 1: not only did you not ask me, you then did
Speaker 1: it and I didn't even realize that you had done it.
Speaker 1: So for me, that that's like a betrayal friend.
Speaker 4: It was like, well, in my defense, and I don't
Speaker 4: want all the listeners to just like hate me for
Speaker 4: a race, but Sydney and I discussed it and when
Speaker 4: it happened.
Speaker 3: But the cut had already been made.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you do. You guys not understand my position? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, I understand, hold on, hold on totally.
Speaker 1: When you said that, I was understand my position here.
Speaker 1: You spoke to Sydney about something that I said. You
Speaker 1: didn't speak to me. You spoke to Sydney. You made
Speaker 1: the cut. Y'all agreed to make the cut.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, he had already made the cut.
Speaker 1: This was month. This was months.
Speaker 3: I've basically found out a little bit before you found out.
Speaker 1: And then you didn't tell me. So for you to
Speaker 1: be upset about our friend talking to me about something
Speaker 1: that happened between y'all is kind of laughable. Friend. Why
Speaker 1: because me and Carolina had a conversation about you, I'm
Speaker 1: friends with both of y'all. You and Andrew had a
Speaker 1: conversation about me. Neither of y'all told me.
Speaker 2: I mean, I felt like it wasn't for me to
Speaker 2: tell that was for him to tell you.
Speaker 4: Okay, but you don't.
Speaker 1: But okay, I just I'm I'm just gonna leave it
Speaker 1: right there. Because people are listening. They're from different walks
Speaker 1: of life. They're they live in different countries, they live
Speaker 1: in different states. They I just want y'all to.
Speaker 4: Weigh in here because no, yeah, because I mean.
Speaker 3: After we spoke, I said absolutely, I totally understood, and
Speaker 3: we should have all spoke together. And that's what and
Speaker 3: moving forward, that's what we said. If there's any issues,
Speaker 3: we talked to us before there's like outside or whatever.
Speaker 1: I just Andrew had an issue with something that I said,
Speaker 1: and he spoke to Sydney about it. It's that's like
Speaker 1: hilarious to me, that is all I'm saying, Andrew. It's
Speaker 1: it's scary as I am fire breathing dragon reezi. Uh,
Speaker 1: you still should have spoke to me about it, and
Speaker 1: now Sydney, and that's a nice one.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, no, no, And that's exactly That's how I
Speaker 3: felt when she spoke to you and not me.
Speaker 1: So it's that it's that's exactly how But then she
Speaker 1: did speak to you, you know, and he did speak
Speaker 1: to you. Yeah, but the whole thing, it was within
Speaker 1: a twenty four hour period.
Speaker 2: You did what you did.
Speaker 1: We spoke about it in the afternoon, and then that
Speaker 1: evening she spoke to you about it again. So the
Speaker 1: Andrew and you thing was y Y've been going behind
Speaker 1: my back for you?
Speaker 4: No sorry looking out? It was.
Speaker 3: It was literally I was told the week before and
Speaker 3: then he told you right after.
Speaker 4: And I had also when we were recording the episode
Speaker 4: that I forget what episode it was, but the guest
Speaker 4: so long ago. The guest and Sydney were both like
Speaker 4: they also had a reaction to it, and I believe
Speaker 4: that Sydney made a joke about cutting it, and I
Speaker 4: was just like, okay, that's all. I really the same, y'all.
Speaker 1: Can oof all you want with the words that I say,
Speaker 1: right you oof you? You present your argument. If I
Speaker 1: say leave it in there, leave it in there, and
Speaker 1: if something bad happens and it hits.
Speaker 2: The wall, then let me take that heat.
Speaker 1: I roast Rihanna and Beyond on this podcast regularly, and
Speaker 1: the Behigh have the Beehive must not have heard the
Speaker 1: episodes yet, but we don't cut the Beyonce stuff out
Speaker 1: and her fans are brutal, So like, if you really
Speaker 1: truly care about this podcast and what we're talking.
Speaker 3: About, Beyonce is not The difference is not the same
Speaker 3: as like transphobia, homophobia, racism.
Speaker 2: But I didn't say anything trans but you didn't.
Speaker 3: But when we when we were talking about it, we
Speaker 3: were just like, listen, this is how it could come off.
Speaker 4: Yeah, listen, guys, it's okay. There's no more cuts.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's no more cuts.
Speaker 4: There's nothing.
Speaker 1: Listen. You listen to the Unofficial Expert Podcast, you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: Marie is the one with the deep voice that says
Speaker 1: mean stuff. Sometimes you listen to this episode, like episode,
Speaker 1: you'll be like, Sidney's the one that well, Sidney's the
Speaker 1: mean one too. Now I am the mean one. Now
Speaker 1: the nice one is Andrew. I know Andrew. Andrew, Andrew
Speaker 1: is passive aggressive, that's what you are. No, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I I think that like again, if it hits the fan,
Speaker 1: like the letter hit the fan, if anything, that episode
Speaker 1: might go like a little bit viral, and like that
Speaker 1: helps us more than it hurts us. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: think about the future of the pod.
Speaker 3: Okay, I agree with I agree with you on that,
Speaker 3: but also you said let you take the heat. That's
Speaker 3: not how it goes. It's weird together on this. If
Speaker 3: something is said on the podcast, then I have to
Speaker 3: I will have to defend you.
Speaker 1: I'm in it.
Speaker 3: You your name is involved. It's our podcast. It's not
Speaker 3: the same.
Speaker 1: It's our podcast. Yes, but if I say something and
Speaker 1: people drag our podcast, then Sidney, you with your your
Speaker 1: PC like logic and you're like, you know your your
Speaker 1: LGBTQ ways can say that you know this. This is
Speaker 1: my colleague. And I don't agree with what she said,
Speaker 1: but we're comedians and it was a joke. You can say,
Speaker 1: you can use the it was a joke, excuse the
Speaker 1: same way you used it was a joke with Carolina. Realistically,
Speaker 1: you can do that.
Speaker 3: I mean, but you when you said it was not
Speaker 3: a joke, that was a it was a matter of fact.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna just say what I said so that
Speaker 1: y'all can hear it. And I mean, because it's you
Speaker 1: guys are making it sound like it was so much more.
Speaker 4: No, it was.
Speaker 1: We actually talked about it on the Patreon, so I
Speaker 1: didn't say anything transphobic, and I did. We did talk
Speaker 1: about ether patreon, and I think you guys agree with
Speaker 1: what I said, And if you want to hear it,
Speaker 1: you got to go to the Patreon. So if you
Speaker 1: want to hear about what was said, you got to
Speaker 1: go to the Patreon, you go there go. What was
Speaker 1: the name of the episode, I don't remember.
Speaker 2: I don't remember, but it was like two episodes ago.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, well three after this episode four four episode
Speaker 1: was out. Yeah, I don't know. Words are powerful from
Speaker 1: the so am.
Speaker 4: I yes, that very clear, and.
Speaker 1: So was Andrew because he with like like his like
Speaker 1: with the power of God just deleted the words that
Speaker 1: I said and no one ever heard them. So you too,
Speaker 1: Andrew made it very clear that you're bowerful.
Speaker 4: I okay, there's no more cuts, but stop, okay, go ahead, finish.
Speaker 4: I was just like, and then I was just like
Speaker 4: really hurt because I was just like, I feel like
Speaker 4: I do a lot for you guys, and then and
Speaker 4: then for you to respond in this way, I don't know.
Speaker 1: But Andrew, you have to understand why I reacted that way.
Speaker 4: I totally understand.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, So you're like, you're the Carolina here and
Speaker 1: I'm the Sydney. You're like, I do a lot for you,
Speaker 1: and you reacted that way and it made hurt your feelings. Yes, well,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry I hurt your feelings, friend, Sydney. You see
Speaker 1: how you apologize to somebody?
Speaker 4: Okay, you can't do that to stop it.
Speaker 1: Yes, I can, Andrew stop it. You stop it. Take
Speaker 1: my apology back. I'm sorry you felt offended, but I
Speaker 1: was joking.
Speaker 4: You see that, Sydney. How you apologize?
Speaker 1: How you do it? Oh my god? No I listen?
Speaker 2: Okay, no, no, no, all right, he hear me out.
Speaker 1: Don't even hear me out?
Speaker 2: No, go ahead, well listen for me.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 3: I'm used to being it's it's usually Marie. For five years,
Speaker 3: it's been just me and you, and now we have
Speaker 3: other people in the in the crew, and I have
Speaker 3: to adjust to everybody.
Speaker 2: But it's been it's been me.
Speaker 3: And you for so long, and there is some things
Speaker 3: that we've even talked about. I was like, oh that
Speaker 3: hurt my feelings and we move forward. And I was
Speaker 3: just like, but wait, this is this is how you
Speaker 3: get down and if I want to be a part
Speaker 3: of what we're doing, like, I can't be sensitive about
Speaker 3: every freaking thing. Some of the things I'm like, I
Speaker 3: know that's not she's not coming from a bad place.
Speaker 3: That's just how loose we are. And we've been loose
Speaker 3: for so long. It's I just pick and choose what
Speaker 3: I'm like. Oh that that was like.
Speaker 1: Unacceptable, Sydney. We're older now, right, we've been friends now.
Speaker 1: I got a Facebook memory from two fifteen us in
Speaker 1: that dusty basement.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, the my bangs were awful with the
Speaker 5: curly hair banks curly and the bangs were too short
Speaker 5: when had the breakdown?
Speaker 1: Yes, that's what I have bangs? Oh my god. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: the lighting was awful, Jenny. Yes, we've been friends for
Speaker 1: that long, but we've changed. We're not the same people
Speaker 1: we were five years ago. We were older, and we
Speaker 1: are maybe a little bit more set in our ways.
Speaker 1: I don't know, cells reset every seven years or whatever
Speaker 1: the hell the logic is here. We're not the same
Speaker 1: people we were when we met. So there are things
Speaker 1: that I say that maybe back then would have rolled
Speaker 1: off your back, but now they are problematic, and I
Speaker 1: think that you should call me out on them. I
Speaker 1: feel like I remember the first time you confronted me
Speaker 1: on something. I think I was at your job and
Speaker 1: I could and she was just like you, Andrew. She
Speaker 1: she didn't turn red, but I could tell she didn't
Speaker 1: want a confrontation with me, and she was like, I
Speaker 1: need to I need to speak with you. And I'm say,
Speaker 1: what was it about I.
Speaker 2: Don't even remember.
Speaker 1: I don't know something that I said that that hurt
Speaker 1: your feelings or you felt disrespected in some way. And
Speaker 1: I could tell looking at you that you did not
Speaker 1: want to have the conversation with me, and I could
Speaker 1: see how much it took for you to bring it up,
Speaker 1: same as when you did it, Andrew. But you did it,
Speaker 1: and I apologized and then we moved forward. But you, like,
Speaker 1: you can't like like at the same way, like you
Speaker 1: can't use my strong personality as an excuse for me
Speaker 1: saying that I'm offended by something that you say, like
Speaker 1: you're not allowed to say. Well, Marie, you say mean
Speaker 1: things to me all the time. I'm telling you right
Speaker 1: now that you hurt my feelings, So you can't be like, well, Marie,
Speaker 1: you mean too. In twenty sixteen, you said that, like
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, Sydney, it's January twenty twenty, and I'm
Speaker 1: telling you that I didn't like that. Okay, so like valid,
Speaker 1: But I feel like you know this is this should
Speaker 1: be a safe space.
Speaker 3: Valid I mean, and it is a safe space clearly
Speaker 3: because we have in.
Speaker 2: This personal ask as long as conversation.
Speaker 4: On podcast, The entire episode so one thing.
Speaker 1: I mean, apologies are hard and friendship is hard. They
Speaker 1: are so hard but also so easy. And so.
Speaker 2: I think.
Speaker 3: Maybe I am in my feelings about stuff because I
Speaker 3: feel like I am the first person to say sorry,
Speaker 3: You're the first person to be apologizic. I'm the first
Speaker 3: one to be like, it's my fault. So I think
Speaker 3: I am coming into another place in my life where
Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, i think I'm tired of saying sorry
Speaker 3: all the time.
Speaker 1: That's real, Sydney. And I feel like, yes, when I
Speaker 1: said that, we're not the same people we were five
Speaker 1: years ago. You're a completely different person to me now,
Speaker 1: completely different. You're the opposite of almost the Sydney that
Speaker 1: I met in twenty fifteen.
Speaker 3: When you met me, I was sucking dick and drinking
Speaker 3: tequila and there we go.
Speaker 1: Second, is that there?
Speaker 4: There?
Speaker 1: It is there? It is so Yeah, you're a completed
Speaker 1: and you're like sober now and you're on medication and
Speaker 1: you're a little bit you're a lot meaner, but also
Speaker 1: you stand up for yourself more. You're stronger now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I feel like I'm how have I changed in
Speaker 1: the last five years? Sidney, No, You're I feel like you.
Speaker 3: You are a lot nicer and thoughtful, and I used
Speaker 3: to be meaner than them, less.
Speaker 1: Less, less selfish, and.
Speaker 3: Uh yeah, I feel like I can talk to you
Speaker 3: more if I have an issue. Before I feel like
Speaker 3: it wasn't possible.
Speaker 1: See impossible. It felt impossible, and yet here we are
Speaker 1: growth a breakthrough. I mean it's still hard, but it's
Speaker 1: it's like less hard. Yeah, but you know what part
Speaker 1: of me likes that is hard to talk to me,
Speaker 1: you know, no, I'm being realistic. Part of me likes
Speaker 1: that like this way, like it's a it's a buffer
Speaker 1: for bs, like you know, yeah.
Speaker 4: No, but there's like been times and you you like,
Speaker 4: uh picked up on like Sydney's like like not being
Speaker 4: able to speak clearly because she was trying to have
Speaker 4: a difficult conversation right now. When I had a difficult
Speaker 4: conversation with you at that time, I was like slipping
Speaker 4: over my words and you made a joke about like, oh,
Speaker 4: like you need some water, fram like.
Speaker 1: But your throat felt dry.
Speaker 4: And I was like and then I started like realized,
Speaker 4: I was like, oh no, fuck that, like, don't talk
Speaker 4: to me that way, you know. So I think there
Speaker 4: is a line that I think that you should be.
Speaker 1: In those in those moments that you should just say that,
Speaker 1: say fuck that.
Speaker 4: No I did, and I like you saying that. Actually
Speaker 4: I was able to like reclaim my power a little
Speaker 4: bit and okay, okay, I made stop, but.
Speaker 1: Shoun andrew yes. And in that moment also I saw
Speaker 1: how hard it was for you and I didn't need
Speaker 1: to say that, but so heavy, and you know, I'm
Speaker 1: breaking the ice.
Speaker 2: I think.
Speaker 4: Nothing I did learn.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we both did.
Speaker 3: I mean, I mean we come a long way, just
Speaker 3: like you expressing your emotions and and being honest and
Speaker 3: telling you all your business like you know. I mean,
Speaker 3: we still don't know your age, but I mean you've
Speaker 3: been so transparent on the podcast, and.
Speaker 1: You still need to know how old I am. I mean.
Speaker 3: Somebody so you know, I put on the on the
Speaker 3: Unofficial Expert a picture of me in elementary school and
Speaker 3: it had the date and what grade I was in,
Speaker 3: and people message like, oh yo, I'm trying to do
Speaker 3: the math to figure out if you were in the eleven.
Speaker 1: It's like yo, and they're like and then someone wrote me,
Speaker 1: They're like, Reid's been twenty four for a long time. Wow.
Speaker 1: I'm like well, you know, well, I mean I don't
Speaker 1: have a picture of me from elementary school, but my
Speaker 1: uh the year and my birthday is not on any
Speaker 1: of the stuff that I took anything.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I like, I just posted it and I
Speaker 3: didn't even look at I was like, yo, when I
Speaker 3: saw that, I was like, fuck, I really.
Speaker 1: Did I did see that. I did see that.
Speaker 3: I say, my age, I don't. I'm like, I don't care.
Speaker 3: But I did look at that, and I was like, man,
Speaker 3: that was a good joke.
Speaker 1: When you when you made the joke, I was like, well,
Speaker 1: cause you were like I don't even remember. You were
Speaker 1: like I was in high school some of these references.
Speaker 1: You were like what was like, Sidney, how old issue? Yeah,
Speaker 1: well you have a birthday coming up? Friend? Are you
Speaker 1: excited about it? I mean birthdays are hard for me.
Speaker 1: I don't know how hard they are for you.
Speaker 2: No that I like, no, I'm like so annoyed about
Speaker 2: your birthday.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to get I'm trying to get dinner for
Speaker 2: us for free somewhere.
Speaker 1: So I'm working on that.
Speaker 2: I've been hey, hi, how you know, like, oh, you
Speaker 2: had a baby.
Speaker 3: Just sending those dusty texts that are kind of inappropriate.
Speaker 2: But I'm like, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I waitress for ten years and I went to so
Speaker 3: many places.
Speaker 2: I've served so many people.
Speaker 1: It's like, take care of me, dude. I don't ask
Speaker 1: for much. I don't know those people are still in
Speaker 1: those places some of them. Yes, actually they are.
Speaker 2: They're still there.
Speaker 3: And so I'm like, you know, just look out for
Speaker 3: a sister. And it's Black History Month. It's like you
Speaker 3: have to you know, the Sydney's but they said you
Speaker 3: every second.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you know.
Speaker 3: I mean all these changes have been made and like yes,
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh yeah, I'm doing it. I'm like being positive,
Speaker 3: but I'm also like, oh my god, all my friends
Speaker 3: are younger than me, and like it's not my job
Speaker 3: to feel like, oh people should look up to me,
Speaker 3: but I just feel.
Speaker 1: Like where I am right now in my age, I'm.
Speaker 3: Like, oh, I wish I was like a little bit
Speaker 3: more settled or a lot more settled, and just not
Speaker 3: as immature as I am. Because I am immature. I
Speaker 3: think that's why people have a hard time when they
Speaker 3: hear my age. You're like what, because I don't it
Speaker 3: don't line up, you don't look at you don't active.
Speaker 2: Yeah, nothing lines up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know I read something one of these
Speaker 1: like you know, live Love Laugh posts or something on Instagram.
Speaker 1: But the post essentially said there's no timeline or there's
Speaker 1: no time limits on life. Like you, there's no age
Speaker 1: where you're supposed to have everything figured out. There's no
Speaker 1: age we're supposed to buy a house or have a
Speaker 1: baby or whatever whatever.
Speaker 2: I mean, before you're fifty.
Speaker 1: Obviously you should have a baby because you know them
Speaker 1: eggs is who But you know, you do things at
Speaker 1: your own pace. Friend, And it's again, it's twenty twenty.
Speaker 1: So it's so easy to compare what we got with
Speaker 1: what other people have because we see it. You see
Speaker 1: it on social media, you see it on their you know, I.
Speaker 3: Think where I'm at, it's not even about like other people.
Speaker 3: Because if you're twenty six and you already like sold
Speaker 3: a book and you're you got an HBO special, that's
Speaker 3: that's that's not real, like that. You are a specific
Speaker 3: case and everybody's not doing that.
Speaker 1: So I don't even look.
Speaker 3: At those people because I'm like, this is not that's
Speaker 3: not the norm, and that's great for you, but I'm
Speaker 3: not aspiring to do that that's not I would didn't
Speaker 3: want to be twenty six and have all of it
Speaker 3: because I didn't live.
Speaker 1: You know, those are the only people I compare myself to. Yeah,
Speaker 1: ill be like, damn, Jabookie is how old?
Speaker 2: I know he's been like yeah, damn.
Speaker 1: Every time I see him, like little clips of him
Speaker 1: on Daily Show, I'm like, oh, he's just so amazing.
Speaker 1: But I don't meet that.
Speaker 3: I don't mean people, but I don't meet that many
Speaker 3: people that are twenty six that are like him.
Speaker 1: But then I'm like Io and Utra and Jack Nice
Speaker 1: Jack Knight, and I was like, ah, but I like, again,
Speaker 1: that's just that's something very specific. I think where I
Speaker 1: am right now, God forbid. All I think about is
Speaker 1: like that little blurb of like, oh my god, if
Speaker 1: something happened to me. They put your fucking accomplishments every
Speaker 1: time I look at When somebody dies and they're in
Speaker 1: a newspaper, they give two sentences of what the fuck
Speaker 1: they've done? Since when are you reading obituaries?
Speaker 4: This is while she's eating the cereal.
Speaker 3: The creator of Ugly Betty just just died. He committed suicide. Like, yeah,
Speaker 3: but how old was he?
Speaker 2: Forty two?
Speaker 1: But he created Ugly Betty. So wait Ugly Betty the
Speaker 1: American version or the original Spanish version, because I thought
Speaker 1: that was a Spanish lady or.
Speaker 3: Some he No, it's just it's just Latin guy. I
Speaker 3: think he's like the creator, Creator Creator. But anyway, like
Speaker 3: all I think about is that's that's at the end
Speaker 3: of the day, that's what they put down, and it's
Speaker 3: just it's it's so frustrating because that's that's all you see.
Speaker 3: And it especially in comedy, like when Kevin Barnett died,
Speaker 3: he had accomplished so much fucking stuff that they like
Speaker 3: there was pages of what he did.
Speaker 1: And then when.
Speaker 3: Somebody like like our friend or Chris Cotton he passed away,
Speaker 3: it's just like, yeah, he's got a wife, he's got
Speaker 3: a wife and a baby on the way, and he
Speaker 3: was a part of this and that, but not too
Speaker 3: much and not like I need that. But when you
Speaker 3: see all that stuff, it does put pressure on you
Speaker 3: to be like, Okay, what is my legacy?
Speaker 1: When am I leaving?
Speaker 3: When I I when I'm done with this, I just
Speaker 3: want to have done more.
Speaker 2: I don't want to be like thirty something roommate has a.
Speaker 1: Roommate leaves behind her roommate and six yeah, and her
Speaker 1: vanity that that costs too much money. Yeah, but sometimes
Speaker 1: that's what it is. I think ultimately, for me, I
Speaker 1: want to be happy, like truly happy. And I think
Speaker 1: in order for me to be happy, a lot of
Speaker 1: people got to be jealous of me. So you know,
Speaker 1: you're saying that you don't need all that, but I
Speaker 1: need all of that or as of right now, in
Speaker 1: my mind, I need that because it is hard for
Speaker 1: me to not compare myself to what other people have. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what is my legacy. I'm the mean bald one.
Speaker 2: That's my legacy.
Speaker 1: That was on a show that got canceled after ten
Speaker 1: weeks like that. I have to do more. But I
Speaker 1: have to do more because I need to stay busy,
Speaker 1: and I know that I am capable of more.
Speaker 2: That's why I have to do more because I know
Speaker 2: I can.
Speaker 1: Me too. These people who are getting these specials and
Speaker 1: they're twenty six again, like they not better than us,
Speaker 1: They're just more. They got they procrastinate less, Yeah, motivated.
Speaker 3: I mean Tyler Perry putting out all those scripts that
Speaker 3: he made in twenty nineteen that were terribly written. I
Speaker 3: mean he wrote, So it doesn't matter if they're bad,
Speaker 3: it's just you actually did it and you and then
Speaker 3: you're like, who's editing this ship?
Speaker 1: Tyler Perry starring Tyler Perry, Tyler scripts.
Speaker 3: I mean, that's insanity like it, but I'm saying like
Speaker 3: that is the type of motivation in determination a bitch needs.
Speaker 1: Listen. You have the same amount of hours in a
Speaker 1: day as Tyler Perry. Okay, Beyonce, it's about It's about
Speaker 1: Tyler Tyler Perry. Okay, Okay, that's it. That's the title
Speaker 1: of the same amount of that's merch that's going on
Speaker 1: a key chain, that's going on a wait, we gotta
Speaker 1: draft this up quick. We need to put that out.
Speaker 1: We need to have them shirts by in two weeks.
Speaker 1: That's the name of my memoirs. You have the same
Speaker 1: amount of hours in a day as Tyler Perry's so
Speaker 1: good well because like, yeah, well you know, whatever Tyler
Speaker 1: Perry presents, that could be the title there, that could
Speaker 1: be the description of the episode. You have the same
Speaker 1: amount of hours and as Tyler Perry.
Speaker 4: We have initially and drinking tequila.
Speaker 1: But that might be good one too, that people might
Speaker 1: go to that that's a hot title. That's like, what
Speaker 1: the fuck is going on there? You know, Dick and
Speaker 1: I think that my and then they'll listen to the
Speaker 1: well like what are they gonna get to the second
Speaker 1: like we're stop talking about this god damn cereal? Yeah?
Speaker 1: What kind of cereal was it? Yeah? What kind of
Speaker 1: cereal was it?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I was curious as well.
Speaker 1: Something I don't even funk with, like that honey bunches
Speaker 1: of oats the box. No, no, no, I know what
Speaker 1: you mean, but like I know what you can I get.
Speaker 3: I eat like Lucky charms and corn pops like that's
Speaker 3: that's what I had.
Speaker 2: Snucks, Yeah, stuff like oh smacks, that was the really.
Speaker 1: Portra never had smacks. My mother loved us way too much.
Speaker 1: Honey bunch of the oats is the best cereal in
Speaker 1: the world. The blue box with the almonds antie who Yeah.
Speaker 3: So I mean these are all real things, but you know,
Speaker 3: I just obviously wanted what.
Speaker 2: Do you want your legacy to be?
Speaker 1: Friend? Just be more positive?
Speaker 3: No, I really want to nail this freaking solo show
Speaker 3: down and and tour and go to Edinburgh with it
Speaker 3: and yes and fucking win crush. You know, I come
Speaker 3: to Edinburgh with you for like a week. I like,
Speaker 3: I literally feel like I can do it. And it's
Speaker 3: not like I don't have the material. There's stuff that's
Speaker 3: like funny or an interesting life.
Speaker 1: But so what is the solo show going to be about?
Speaker 1: The news? I changed it.
Speaker 3: I changed the name. It's called how to Start a
Speaker 3: Fire and it's.
Speaker 1: At a fire.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that also how to start a fire.
Speaker 3: And it's so it's little bits of situations that start
Speaker 3: something bigger than what it was going to be. So like,
Speaker 3: I didn't grow up with my mom, and that is
Speaker 3: essentially why I burned my house down. But then I'm
Speaker 3: going to talk about it, I mean or no, just
Speaker 3: acting out like because I was, I grew up with
Speaker 3: your citizens.
Speaker 1: So it's like you a kid, you want to do kitchen,
Speaker 1: You don't. Not all kids burn their houses down. But
Speaker 1: I heard friend no, Wow, Okay, so I think everything
Speaker 1: leading facts fox, everything leading up to the fire or
Speaker 1: like like that, plus yeah other yeah, other little fires. Okay.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be an hour long thing. Yeah, and you're
Speaker 1: gonna run in a couple of times before you try
Speaker 1: to How do you submit for Edinburgh? You gotta tape it?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta tape it and submit it.
Speaker 3: But also there's the booker of like Live Nation and
Speaker 3: stuff that like goes out and like looks for people
Speaker 3: who have these hours.
Speaker 1: Okay, well who the booker for Live Nation. Let's google that.
Speaker 3: No, she saw me last year and so and she
Speaker 3: had reached out to Brandon about it. So hopefully we
Speaker 3: can come back. But that was about death of a
Speaker 3: bottle girl. So and uh I need that because it's
Speaker 3: just like I don't want to I don't want to
Speaker 3: talk about that stuff no more.
Speaker 1: Yeah we've grown, Yeah, that's we are anymore. No, but yeah,
Speaker 1: so we'll see. I don't know.
Speaker 3: I'm like, just be positive, you know, just speaking into
Speaker 3: an existence and.
Speaker 1: Well that's what okay, but you you say that in
Speaker 1: that tone and speaking stuff into existence is is kind
Speaker 1: of real sometimes, you know, like no yes.
Speaker 2: And none of what I'm saying it is, yeah, you're
Speaker 2: no yes.
Speaker 1: Because like the episode of the Patreon and I feel
Speaker 1: like we should almost release that one episode of the
Speaker 1: Patreon on the regular podcast because I thought it was
Speaker 1: really good. It was about me going to just for
Speaker 1: Last in Montreal whatever twenty seventeen, and I was talking
Speaker 1: about it like I got it. Remember, Yeah, I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be available that day. I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: in Montreal. And then I got it and it was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I never talk like that. I never speak things into existence,
Speaker 1: and then it happened. So I don't know, friend, maybe
Speaker 1: he keeps speaking positively, Andrew Is, there's stuff that you
Speaker 1: want to speak into existence.
Speaker 4: I just want to be able to do more, but
Speaker 4: do more. What I like being in front of people.
Speaker 4: I'm around comedians all the time. Obviously you want to
Speaker 4: be a comedian. No, I but I like I like trivia.
Speaker 4: I like that's fun for me, like competition and watching
Speaker 4: people when they're competing for something. And yeah, maybe you should.
Speaker 1: Maybe you should write some type of trivia show or competition.
Speaker 2: I have and pitch it to a network.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, maybe for the Stars event the first week
Speaker 4: of February Oscars Trivia Coco Downtown.
Speaker 1: Okay, I've been to Poco.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's cute. Yeah it's nice too.
Speaker 4: It'll be downstairs, right, Yeah, I've done it before there.
Speaker 4: And if they do it upstairs or downstairs, upstairs and downstairs,
Speaker 4: maybe they.
Speaker 1: Got colum are you there? I feel like they got kind.
Speaker 4: Of like Spanish fit. I feel like column are Spanish.
Speaker 1: The word feels Spanish.
Speaker 2: Calm is like, isn't it Mediterranean?
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Well, listen, you ask this dumb and dumber, two stupid dogs.
Speaker 1: That is us, that is us. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Well, if you made it this far to the damn podcast,
Speaker 3: because we did.
Speaker 1: We did drag that on.
Speaker 2: I mean, that's just what it is.
Speaker 4: Like.
Speaker 3: I mean, sometimes you listen to podcasts and it's all
Speaker 3: like structured and they're talking about pop culture, and then
Speaker 3: it's us giving.
Speaker 2: You real ship, giving you what's in our life for real.
Speaker 1: Tea behind the weave curtains, Yes, behind the Brazilian Remy
Speaker 1: curtains by Maven Hair? Thank you shut up? Were remy hair?
Speaker 1: Is that a thing? Probably? I don't know, but.
Speaker 3: I think that's, Uh, that's important because you you listen
Speaker 3: to podcasts and you think you're friends with that person
Speaker 3: or you know them, and but you're just getting a
Speaker 3: version of them. You don't know what really is going
Speaker 3: on because they're giving you a caricature of who they are.
Speaker 2: Because that's like, that's how you get fans.
Speaker 3: But I do appreciate us because from from jump, we
Speaker 3: have been very honest, and we're not trying to make
Speaker 3: any caricterture of ourselves is just just what it is.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, also, you know, some our friends made
Speaker 1: two hundred and fifty thousand dollars podcast.
Speaker 3: I was, I'm gonna send you the episode. I mean,
Speaker 3: she's coming on the podcast anyway, but you got to
Speaker 3: listen to it before we interview her, because it's fucking amazing.
Speaker 3: It is probably the best episode I've ever heard of
Speaker 3: a podcast. Yes, she gives you everything anything that you
Speaker 3: need to like succeed in a podcast. I'm like, you
Speaker 3: need to listen to it, and then we need to
Speaker 3: get together and like ready breaks, Okay, dollars Ford podcast.
Speaker 3: We've been we've been doing what this, yeah, which is great,
Speaker 3: but yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, but the subject matter
Speaker 3: was different. And she said when they went on tour,
Speaker 3: they paid the venues, They paid the venues, and then
Speaker 3: they do the show and then they gave the money back,
Speaker 3: So they were they were putting their money into themselves
Speaker 3: and and actually tripled, quadrupled.
Speaker 1: What do you mean they paid the venues because they
Speaker 1: didn't just sell tickets.
Speaker 3: There, they didn't have agents or anything like that, so
Speaker 3: they were they were picking up the phone, doing the
Speaker 3: emails and reaching out.
Speaker 1: Good for them. Yeah, it literally it couldn't happen to
Speaker 1: two better girls from the Bronx.
Speaker 3: Yes, it made me flip. I message her and I said,
Speaker 3: you know everything I said about your nails. I was kidding, no,
Speaker 3: but I messed her. I was like, this is so inspiring.
Speaker 3: And you know, some people like hold back information and
Speaker 3: they don't want to be helpful, but she was like.
Speaker 1: So help Like she's helpful, but she's making money. She's like,
Speaker 1: I'm not worried about y'all all stealing my money. My
Speaker 1: money is gonna get it's gonna be here regardless of
Speaker 1: you guys. We're talking about our friends at Horrible Decisions podcasts.
Speaker 1: Shout out to those hosts. They are fucking fantastic, horrible
Speaker 1: yea horribles.
Speaker 3: You should listen to the podcast. I don't know what
Speaker 3: y'all do, but y'all should definitely listen. It's they're great.
Speaker 1: We did an episode. I don't know, I feel like,
Speaker 1: you know, it's hard to be that open. Uh. They
Speaker 1: you know, they be talking about who they banging and
Speaker 1: how they bang them. And our most listened episode last
Speaker 1: year was Ibrahu.
Speaker 2: So y'all are some nosey ass.
Speaker 1: But that's what that's what they are.
Speaker 2: I mean, they they waiting, they waiting for me.
Speaker 1: They like Sydney Sidney, I also am waiting for They
Speaker 1: DM me frequently like Sydney, Okay, what's good? What's what's
Speaker 1: going on?
Speaker 2: And I'm like, calm down, like I'm not Sydney.
Speaker 1: You need to spill the tea. I'm trying to get
Speaker 1: my mental together. I'm we don't care about your mental
Speaker 1: right now. Tell us what the cat doing so we
Speaker 1: can make a quarter million doubts.
Speaker 3: All right, Well, if y'all just keep going to the Patreon,
Speaker 3: I'll have enough money to spread my cat real thin.
Speaker 3: I'll be able to go on trips and be like, ah,
Speaker 3: that's good, you know, going up put your pussy on
Speaker 3: some brioch toast and tell people what's happening with it?
Speaker 3: Please let us know what also merch? You know, I'm
Speaker 3: ready for you know, pussy excursions?
Speaker 1: Are you not? Really? But I mean I just want
Speaker 1: to pretend.
Speaker 3: I literally I'll go on trips and see other people
Speaker 3: do stuff and I'll be like I did that.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 2: You were to take other people's storiesn't.
Speaker 3: Yeah, when I was doing Uberpool, When I was doing
Speaker 3: Uberpool stories, there was like, yeah, a lot of stuff
Speaker 3: had happened to me. But there was also times I
Speaker 3: was talking to people and drivers and they would tell
Speaker 3: me stuff and I would write that shit down.
Speaker 1: I'm like, ah, that happened to me. Due erasure. God
Speaker 1: bless if you're erasing other people. Those are real people
Speaker 1: and you're stealing their stories, They're fantastic. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep that's an American way. I'm gonna keep
Speaker 1: sitting on people's faces and then maybe I'll tell you
Speaker 1: guys about it. But you know, because it's a lot.
Speaker 1: It's a lot to be putting all of my sexual
Speaker 1: congress out there because some of these hoes be listening
Speaker 1: to what I do. And uh, and these hoes, I mean,
Speaker 1: the people that I'm sleeping with, the they're loyal, No
Speaker 1: they're not. But also like maybe I want to run
Speaker 1: for senator someday, you know, like I really marine maybe.
Speaker 4: Sidney Andrew, No, not say what you said earlier about
Speaker 4: like you just saying whatever you want.
Speaker 1: Yeah, also I can say whatever and they're run for
Speaker 1: senate and for Senate. But that's what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: say what I want, are you guys? You guys are
Speaker 1: missing the word want. There. I can say whatever I want, right,
Speaker 1: you can, but I don't want to say I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna say it because I might run for the Senate. Okay, Andrew,
Speaker 1: I see that you're not. You're not gonna be donating
Speaker 1: to the campaign. Sis. Well if they pull up episodes
Speaker 1: from what two years ago? What did I said?
Speaker 2: Two years Okay?
Speaker 6: You know what.
Speaker 1: I want. I want us to do one weekend where
Speaker 1: we go over a couple of episodes and just like
Speaker 1: pick a date and be like boom, let's listen and
Speaker 1: be like, wow, that was problematic. Everything that we say
Speaker 1: is not problem I think you just like saying the
Speaker 1: word problematic.
Speaker 4: I know that. When I started working for you and
Speaker 4: you immediately assigned gay intern to me, I was like.
Speaker 1: I was like tall gay producer intern.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, and like I was like annoyed by. I
Speaker 4: was like because I didn't understand you guys yet. And
Speaker 4: I was like they're calling me identifying me like gay,
Speaker 4: that's it. That's and then also intern, which I'm.
Speaker 3: Not wait, wit, hold on, you just erased the other
Speaker 3: we said producer tall, sexy.
Speaker 2: No, but producer was added.
Speaker 4: After after I said I am not.
Speaker 1: Because Andrew, I don't know you was getting paid. I
Speaker 1: was like, you're doing this for credits.
Speaker 4: You not in school. But still get this.
Speaker 1: I didn't know that you weren't in school. You got
Speaker 1: this young ass baby face, you know, beige people age
Speaker 1: like Sydney finished the sentence like Steve Steve Bush. So
Speaker 1: I didn't know how old you were, but you are
Speaker 1: quite young, so I young. I called you an intern
Speaker 1: because I didn't think that you were getting paid. I mean,
Speaker 1: you work here, so we called you sexy hot.
Speaker 3: There was like so many other things on top of it,
Speaker 3: said I was so offended.
Speaker 4: I wasn't offended. I was just like, Okay, I don't
Speaker 4: really know what they they're you know how they're He
Speaker 4: was like, how dare he how they're saying it? Yeah,
Speaker 4: but honestly, Andrew.
Speaker 1: Mek you tall gay producer intern is will put you
Speaker 1: on the map with the podcast, So.
Speaker 4: You I know that's like.
Speaker 1: To be thinking me, but I'm not gonna wait for that.
Speaker 1: But yeah, because the Lost Culture reasons were called Joe Joe,
Speaker 1: I didn't even know that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, not h I A.
Speaker 1: Yeah mm hmmm.
Speaker 4: Disrespect.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well I'm glad you got that off your chest.
Speaker 1: But the EXPRESSI date for you being angry about that past.
Speaker 4: I understand and thought it was relevant to bring up.
Speaker 1: But you feel better about it now.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you guys can call me whatever.
Speaker 1: We'll call you by your name, thank you.
Speaker 4: Prob by my name.
Speaker 1: Okay. Well, Happy New Year, Happy birthday, Andrew.
Speaker 4: Wins your birthday, Well, happy birthday.
Speaker 1: But lated you know, I hope that everybody in this room,
Speaker 1: maybe not this year, but in the very near future,
Speaker 1: you know, our legacies start to really pop off this year.
Speaker 1: That's that's what I hope.
Speaker 4: You both already have a great legacy. I am like
Speaker 4: so proud to say that I work with you.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, Andrew, Okay, before we go, heard that some
Speaker 1: podcast listeners have recognized your voice in the streets recently.
Speaker 4: So crazy. I was talking to my friend on the phone.
Speaker 4: I always talk so loudly on the phone on the street.
Speaker 3: That's crazy because you have such a like WBLS sexy,
Speaker 3: quiet storm gay voice.
Speaker 2: Here you talked loudly to your friends on the phone, yea.
Speaker 4: Like everyone could hear everything, and you're.
Speaker 1: A black woman at the movies. Okay, so you're on
Speaker 1: the phone with your friend and what happened?
Speaker 4: And someone sees me walking into my apartment and they're like,
Speaker 4: are you Andrew? It was Near's Eve and I was
Speaker 4: like yeah, and they're like, oh, we listen to the podcast,
Speaker 4: so they didn't even know what I looked like, which
Speaker 4: I thought was like the funniest part Psycho.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but they heard fucking crazy and we love it
Speaker 1: for it.
Speaker 2: Ah, keep that same energy.
Speaker 1: In twenty two, we were walking into your apartment and
Speaker 1: somebody was like, are you Andrew?
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I was like this is the window, Like
Speaker 4: this is the window that I saw. I'm getting fucked
Speaker 4: wow l lol.
Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, y'all need to just do that more.
Speaker 3: Y'all need to go up to people who Sidney Marie.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but the podcast people recognize our faces though.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like people have recognized me on the subway and
Speaker 1: they won't say anything to me, but I'll get home
Speaker 1: and I'll have a message.
Speaker 2: In my Instagram and they'll be like, oh, so you're
Speaker 2: on the B train.
Speaker 1: You did not look happy, Yeah, big fan, And I'd
Speaker 1: be like, that's just my face mm hm, anyway, I
Speaker 1: love that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was a great way to end the decade
Speaker 4: for me.
Speaker 2: We love it.
Speaker 1: Please continue to recognize Andrew's voice and stopping him on
Speaker 1: the street and telling him what you do, what you
Speaker 1: do like about him. Don't tell me what you don't
Speaker 1: like about him. You could send that to us a message.
Speaker 3: And I got on iTunes and people were messaging and
Speaker 3: saying we bullied them into putting comments and reviewing.
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 3: If you feel like you're getting bullied, get to iTunes,
Speaker 3: keep rating, and I see, I see your comments. I
Speaker 3: see the rates they're going up. I want to make
Speaker 3: sure that we have a thousand reviews in a few
Speaker 3: oh my god, few weeks.
Speaker 1: Speaking of joining and adding, so you know a but
Speaker 1: like twenty people will subscribe to the patreon Yeah and
Speaker 1: the last yea the paton is.
Speaker 2: So I sent a message to.
Speaker 1: Like eighteen people, just thanking them for like joining or whatever. Whatever.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, And this woman sent me a message she said,
Speaker 1: I know, I know it took me a while, but
Speaker 1: I can say I'm glad I finally did. I'm a
Speaker 1: serial podcast listener and I heard you too on Horrible decision.
Speaker 1: Oh look at that, And you two have been all
Speaker 1: I listened to since I'm a forty six year old
Speaker 1: recent empty nester that lives in Dallas, Okay, and your
Speaker 1: podcast has literally helped me get through some quiet, boring
Speaker 1: ass evenings at home by myself while I attempt to
Speaker 1: figure out who the fuck I am now that I'm
Speaker 1: no longer just a single mom raising a star athlete
Speaker 1: and an amazing daughter. So she's bragging about, you know,
Speaker 1: scholarship athletes. Okay, work, work work. Because of Marie, I
Speaker 1: cut my massive head of hair, and because of Sydney
Speaker 1: I started looking for.
Speaker 2: A therapist betterhelp dot com.
Speaker 1: I really appreciate your transparency and honesty and how mean
Speaker 1: you are, because I too am a mean ass little
Speaker 1: beach and I'm so glad I've found your tribe. If
Speaker 1: you ever do a live show in Dallas, I will
Speaker 1: definitely have my oldest sexy hoe ass in the audience.
Speaker 1: Found a great podcast, now, I could now if I
Speaker 1: could just find some good dick from Danny June. Anyway,
Speaker 1: Thanks day, Daday, love it so sweet? You didn't want it?
Speaker 1: Was that on Patreon Patreon. Wow, it's not a review, friend,
Speaker 1: that's a message goodness, great message love in Dallas. So,
Speaker 1: uh yeah, you're missing out on the Patreons. It's just us,
Speaker 1: I mean saying names. I mean, it's been wild, truly beautiful.
Speaker 1: The last episode we talked about, oh my god less
Speaker 1: episode was so good, but the audio was messed up.
Speaker 2: So that's what happens when you have to do stuff
Speaker 2: on your own, you know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I may or may not have talked about it
Speaker 1: three someone there, but you gotta go to the Patreon
Speaker 1: and listen to the whoa wow, wow, wow wow boomsho.
Speaker 1: Cute for you, Marie, cute for you, cute for us,
Speaker 1: cut for you, I mean the people in three. Yeah, anyway,
Speaker 1: thanks so much for listening.
Speaker 2: I hope you made it all the way to the end.
Speaker 2: I hope so too.
Speaker 1: You know, this was the lead at the end. You
Speaker 1: only did thirty minutes of that. You know it wasn't
Speaker 1: that bad, You're I mean, I'm sure people, I'm sure
Speaker 1: it was like a boxing match because they were like,
Speaker 1: they gonna fight. It's getting tense. What's up?
Speaker 2: They're like, no, I'm gonna say what. I didn't feel
Speaker 2: like I was tense. I feel like, you know, maybe
Speaker 2: it was.
Speaker 1: A little this is like your natural state shot. I heard,
Speaker 1: I receive that, and I see you, and I do
Speaker 1: not care. You are seeing, you are heard, and you
Speaker 1: are ignored. Left one red hun Yeah. We love you
Speaker 1: guys so much. Thanks for.
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