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Speaker 1: the new year. We made it twenty twenty.

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Speaker 2: No sudden desks. Everything is pretty good.

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Speaker 1: Knock on woodsis. I feel like I could drop dead today. Ah,

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Speaker 1: we all could. I was standing underneath my chandelier and

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Speaker 1: I was putting my hoodie on and I my hand

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Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, is this how

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Speaker 1: I die? A peer one imports light fixture crushes my body?

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Speaker 3: Or or this is how you start jump start getting

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Speaker 3: rich because you sue them get money?

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Speaker 1: Fuck bitches. Well, I have renders insurance now, so I

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Speaker 1: think they would just paying my medical bills and I

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Speaker 1: would still have the same amount of money in the bank.

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Speaker 1: You can't sue them if my light falls down. Yeah, Actually,

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Speaker 1: I don't know how suing works.

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Speaker 3: Like it like it hit the CHANDELI hits you and

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Speaker 3: then I don't know, it's like, I don't know, knocks

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Speaker 3: your eye out then.

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Speaker 1: But I but, Sidney, I would rather have my eye

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Speaker 1: and the money that I already have. You can get

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Speaker 1: a whole new eye, can I. It's not gonna look

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Speaker 1: the same as the other eye. It's literally just gonna

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Speaker 1: like look straight. I can't, you know, And no shod

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Speaker 1: to people who look yeah yeah, if you rock in

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Speaker 1: that eye patch, rap that eye patch, Mama, I see

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Speaker 1: you when you got that glass eye. I don't want that.

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Speaker 2: I don't want a glass eye because you know it

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Speaker 2: just like.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't move, okay, or it does move, but it

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Speaker 2: It's like loose and it just kind of like, no,

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Speaker 2: I don't want that.

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Speaker 1: It's gross, Okay, okay, rigglely eye in the New year anyway,

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Speaker 1: Sidney Howe, has your twenty been so far?

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Speaker 2: It's only like the second week, third week, it's.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's been cool. You know.

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Speaker 3: My job is about to end, so I'm just trying

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Speaker 3: to like figure out loose ends, just you know, making

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Speaker 3: friends with people so that when I bounce, I still

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Speaker 3: have emails like.

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Speaker 1: Hey, what's up? You got work for me? Like stuff

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Speaker 1: like that. Are you working now with the people that

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Speaker 1: you hate at your job?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: No, I don't hate anybody. Love that.

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Speaker 3: I love you guys, Comedy Central, shout out love you. No,

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Speaker 3: But just there's people that I talk to you every day.

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Speaker 3: I just don't have their information. So this time, I'm

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Speaker 3: I'm because they won't be on slack anymore. So I'm

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Speaker 3: just getting their personal emails so that I can what's slack?

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Speaker 1: Slack is a thing.

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Speaker 2: It is like word working. No, it's like instant messenger

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Speaker 4: Yeah, good chat. Yeah, there's differently channels.

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Speaker 2: Andrew, Yes, have you new year?

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Speaker 4: Hi? Yeah, I'm also here.

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Speaker 2: He has not quit yet?

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Speaker 4: Wow?

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Speaker 1: Love?

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Speaker 2: So oh well.

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Speaker 1: Especially okay, okay, well, and we're I mean, if you

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Speaker 2: I don't know if they wouldn't be like you.

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Speaker 1: We would miss you.

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Speaker 4: Dearly, right we would yeah.

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Speaker 2: We wouldn't allow that person to talk on the mind,

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Speaker 1: No? How long did it take you to get a microphone?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I would come and burn this building down.

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Speaker 1: Some of the listeners did like you yelling in the back.

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Speaker 1: You're like about that, and we're like, Andrew said, just

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Speaker 1: I like all the people that made appearances, but I'm

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Speaker 1: Oh okay saying that, yes, Sydney, because we are allowed

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Speaker 1: Little backstory here we record did an episode in December

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Speaker 4: The end of the entire and Sidney won't apologize for it.

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Speaker 1: Why won't you apologize? I just wonder.

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Speaker 3: I just I feel like people the movie had been

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Speaker 3: I mean, Star Wars comes out like movies and shows

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Speaker 3: I don't care. I'm sorry. I literally don't care. I'm

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Speaker 1: He's resolution in twenty twenty is to be a bitch.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You've been less than to a friend. No, I'm still sensitive. No,

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Speaker 3: when you can we give people the backstaye Okay, So Carolina,

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Speaker 3: I just ruined it for you guys.

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Speaker 1: If you're gonna spoil something, you're supposed to say spoiler alert.

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Speaker 4: That I'm about to say it's okay, like Sidney's just

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna say it.

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Speaker 1: And because because you're you ask for another example, and

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Speaker 1: figure out we can decide who's right or who's wrong. Here,

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Speaker 1: we have a friend. Her name is Carolina Sidney, and

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Speaker 1: she are neighbors. Sidney eats at Carolina's house every day. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Carolina cooks, She's a good cook. She feeds you.

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Speaker 2: She makes sure you eat your vegetables, your greens, your fruits.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, yes. You get home from work, you

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Speaker 1: I know you, okay, I know how you joke, I

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Speaker 3: That's I literally came into her house and she hit

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but Sidney, you don't know what at the beginning

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Speaker 3: Did because at the end of it, I genuinely apologized.

441
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Speaker 3: I said, hey, I have a migraine. All this stuff

442
00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:52,240
Speaker 3: went down. I was this your tone of voice?

443
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Speaker 1: Friend?

444
00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:53,680
Speaker 2: You said?

445
00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:55,360
Speaker 1: Did you say I got a migraine and I don't

446
00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:56,560
Speaker 1: have time for this and I'm going home?

447
00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:56,920
Speaker 4: Is that?

448
00:19:57,240 --> 00:19:58,120
Speaker 1: Is that more? Really?

449
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Speaker 2: That was the first time that I said.

450
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Speaker 3: And then and I went back and I said, you

451
00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:04,720
Speaker 3: know what, I'm actually really sorry. I do care about

452
00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:08,240
Speaker 3: your feelings. You know, I'm super appreciative. I pay my

453
00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:11,840
Speaker 3: rent two months in advance. That's how appreciative I am. Like,

454
00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:14,960
Speaker 3: I don't know what else I can do. I don't

455
00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:15,560
Speaker 3: know either friend.

456
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Speaker 1: I just I wanted to I just wanted to put

457
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Speaker 1: up another example of you being insensitive.

458
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Speaker 3: I mean, listen, this is this, and this is going

459
00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:30,520
Speaker 3: forward in any situations. The way we are with each

460
00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:34,760
Speaker 3: other where we give, we literally roast each other all day, right,

461
00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:37,840
Speaker 3: That is the nature of our friendship. Sure, friendship with

462
00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:41,359
Speaker 3: Andrew language, that is how we get down with everybody.

463
00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:43,800
Speaker 1: Sure. So there I have.

464
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Speaker 2: To check myself sometimes because I'm like.

465
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Speaker 3: Okay, well, I mean, this is what I be doing

466
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Speaker 3: all day, so I can't get mad if somebody is

467
00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:54,320
Speaker 3: giving it back or if they're joking, because that's how

468
00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:55,560
Speaker 3: long we've been doing this.

469
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Speaker 1: Yeah. But then you come to my house once and

470
00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:02,399
Speaker 1: we my family was hosting each other so hard that

471
00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:04,280
Speaker 1: you were like I gotta go lay down, Like you

472
00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:07,280
Speaker 1: were like, this is too much for me. Well, I said,

473
00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:09,080
Speaker 1: I set it out because I was like, I can't

474
00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:12,240
Speaker 1: get in it. I can't get but that is but

475
00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:14,920
Speaker 1: that's being honest and being like, hey, if I would

476
00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:16,639
Speaker 1: have tried to go toe to toe for y'all, and

477
00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:18,480
Speaker 1: then your sister would have said something that was like

478
00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:20,280
Speaker 1: out of pocket for me, that hurt my feelings, and

479
00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:22,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, then I'm mad, but I could only be

480
00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:24,800
Speaker 1: mad at myself because I already saw how y'all were

481
00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:27,400
Speaker 1: getting down right, But I'm saying, like Sydney, not everybody

482
00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:30,400
Speaker 1: is like that, and not everybody even even if we

483
00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:32,840
Speaker 1: are our love language is roasting each other and making

484
00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:35,080
Speaker 1: fun of each other. Like there are things that we

485
00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:37,359
Speaker 1: might have said that have hurt Andrews feelings that he

486
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Speaker 1: might not have said anything about it.

487
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Speaker 2: Right, Okay, here we go, boosha kalaka.

488
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Speaker 1: There are things that certain maybe somebody's on their period

489
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Speaker 1: or maybe somebody just found out that their insurance got

490
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:50,520
Speaker 1: denied or whatever. Like certain days, people are in different

491
00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:53,880
Speaker 1: moods and and things that are normal and regular will

492
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Speaker 1: not work.

493
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Speaker 2: This is all that I'm saying.

494
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Speaker 4: It's all about, like how much you're like, you're valuing

495
00:21:57,840 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 4: that relationship with the person. If you're not like, will

496
00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:02,600
Speaker 4: to be like, Okay, I treat it like a joke.

497
00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:02,879
Speaker 4: You know.

498
00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:07,280
Speaker 1: Also, you know, jokes are uh you know, sometime every

499
00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:10,200
Speaker 1: joke is not gonna be funny to everybody, And maybe

500
00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:13,040
Speaker 1: something that is funny to me today is gonna piss

501
00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:13,840
Speaker 1: me off tomorrow.

502
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Speaker 3: Yeah, But for me, I'm just saying moving forward, if

503
00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:20,480
Speaker 3: that's just how it is, and I'd rather just not

504
00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:23,440
Speaker 3: I'd rather take a step back from joking like that,

505
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Speaker 3: because then I don't want to have to be on

506
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Speaker 3: pins and needles with like my roasting.

507
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Speaker 4: But it's not pins and needles, like you're you're signing

508
00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:34,360
Speaker 4: up to be a friend with someone, like you are

509
00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:37,959
Speaker 4: already friends with them, like you know, like they have

510
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:38,600
Speaker 4: bad days.

511
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Speaker 1: Carolina is not like us. We like okay, so if

512
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Speaker 1: my family is a ten when it comes to roasting

513
00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 1: and like being mean and like no ho is barred,

514
00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:51,720
Speaker 1: and you and I are at a seven with roasting

515
00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:54,159
Speaker 1: each other because like there's certain things that we wouldn't

516
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:55,840
Speaker 1: say to each other, but there's things that we'll say

517
00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:57,760
Speaker 1: to each other that people other people will be like

518
00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:01,800
Speaker 1: what Carolina might be a four or a five, like

519
00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:05,320
Speaker 1: she can only take that much heat. She's not She's

520
00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:07,920
Speaker 1: not like us. She like sensitive and she went to

521
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:09,840
Speaker 1: like an art school and all her friends are like,

522
00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:15,000
Speaker 1: you know, like drama nerds or like she's not like us. Yeah, no,

523
00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:16,560
Speaker 1: I understand that.

524
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Speaker 3: And I also there'll be times in the group chat

525
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:22,399
Speaker 3: where like, oh I check myself and be like okay,

526
00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 3: let me And sometimes when Amina says something to her,

527
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Speaker 3: I jump to her defense because I know how Carolina is,

528
00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:32,159
Speaker 3: So it's not like I don't know how my friend is.

529
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Speaker 1: You know.

530
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Speaker 2: I mean, I just, I just I just want to

531
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Speaker 2: say that.

532
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Speaker 1: You know, if if you're listening to this and you

533
00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:39,520
Speaker 1: feel a way, or you want to weigh in on

534
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:42,439
Speaker 1: who you think is wrong right here, or you know,

535
00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:48,320
Speaker 1: whether jokes means like if jokes are base, if you

536
00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:50,399
Speaker 1: can if you could say something disrespectful and then be

537
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 1: like it was a joke and that's base. That like

538
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 1: that like absolves you from any wrongdoing, then let us

539
00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:59,840
Speaker 1: know how you feel about that. It doesn't absolve.

540
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 3: But if a guest comes on here, which has happened,

541
00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:06,480
Speaker 3: and we roasting them and they go back on me,

542
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 3: and then I'll be like, oh that hurt my feelings.

543
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:10,680
Speaker 2: It's like already you can't.

544
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,680
Speaker 1: I came in hot, so now I'm upset. But that

545
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:18,280
Speaker 1: theear that's here in the studio. They listen to the episode,

546
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:21,640
Speaker 1: They know us, They listen to our comedy, They are

547
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:24,440
Speaker 1: familiar with our style. They walk in and sit down,

548
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 1: and they know what they potentially got themselves into.

549
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:29,159
Speaker 3: Not all of them, not all the guests some of

550
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 3: the guests. I've talked to them afterwards. Oh shit, I

551
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 3: were I didn't know it was like that.

552
00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:36,840
Speaker 1: And okay, sure, maybe not everybody, but for the most part,

553
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:38,399
Speaker 1: you sit in that chair. You know what the hell

554
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 1: you signing up for? Carolyna was at her house. Okay,

555
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 1: that's a safe space. I'm home and you coming into

556
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 1: my house and you didn't put no groceries in here.

557
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:50,159
Speaker 1: You haven't been to the supermarket in X amount of

558
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:53,440
Speaker 1: years and you complaining about my food not being full

559
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 1: enough for you. It was an The audacity that you

560
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:03,000
Speaker 1: think that I had have to like that was Sidney. Actually, yeah,

561
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:05,640
Speaker 1: the audacity that I think that you have is crazy

562
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 1: because I asked you X amount of weeks ago, when's

563
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:08,879
Speaker 1: the last time you went to the supermarket? And you

564
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 1: couldn't answer that question. So then you go to somebody

565
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 1: else's house who's in the supermarket regularly, and you're like, girl,

566
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 1: y'are poor not doing really bad in here? That is

567
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:21,479
Speaker 1: not where is the food feed the children? Like if

568
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:23,400
Speaker 1: you had said all of that stuff, I did feel

569
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:26,840
Speaker 1: like that's a joke. No, I would think that's more disrespect.

570
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:29,040
Speaker 1: I would feel in my mind that feels more.

571
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Speaker 4: A joke, because I also don't often and so if

572
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:38,399
Speaker 4: someone said that, I would be like, oh my god.

573
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Speaker 1: I feel like that in my mind, Sydney.

574
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Speaker 2: I feel like that's the energy that you had that

575
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 2: is not you. Weren't you weren't there.

576
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Speaker 3: And what I really think happened is that she was

577
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,639
Speaker 3: having a bad day and any little thing I was

578
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:52,639
Speaker 3: going to do was going to.

579
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:55,080
Speaker 2: Give her a hard time. Okay, So then that's so.

580
00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:59,240
Speaker 3: And that and and that's fine, that's totally fine. And

581
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:00,920
Speaker 3: and I said at the end of it, I said,

582
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 3: my bad. Moving forward, I'm not gonna eat in your place.

583
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna ask for your food. I'm glad this

584
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 3: happened because now I can.

585
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 1: You're not gonna eat her friends. I will go to

586
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 1: the grocery store, which when I'll go.

587
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:15,400
Speaker 2: But even if I don't, you don't have to worry

588
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 2: about it. You see what I'm saying.

589
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 1: But Carolina doesn't have a problem sharing her food, but

590
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:24,159
Speaker 1: I don't want to. That's that's fine.

591
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:28,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't want that, Okay, that's.

592
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 1: That's that's when your friend. That's all on you. It's

593
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:33,639
Speaker 1: not on me. It's like you just you said I

594
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 1: don't want that. Then it is on you friend.

595
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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm also like, if I'm in your place,

596
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 3: I don't want to be thrown in my in my

597
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:42,640
Speaker 3: face that I come through.

598
00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 1: Either you want me to come through, you don't. She

599
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 1: wants you to come through. She doesn't want you to

600
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 1: be disrespectful to her. That's it.

601
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:52,680
Speaker 3: So but you're I'm never I'm never disrespectful, except for that.

602
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:54,199
Speaker 1: One time you were trying to say that you're not

603
00:26:54,240 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 1: disrespect disrespected. Okay, wow, got it, Like I need I

604
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 1: need a break. We'll be right back on this break.

605
00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:11,720
Speaker 1: Go to the ads.

606
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:16,440
Speaker 3: For the listeners, I mean the people who who listen

607
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:22,160
Speaker 3: to me every Friday, the listeners. The listeners. I am

608
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:25,639
Speaker 3: probably the most understanding. When somebody hits me with something,

609
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:29,439
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, like that is my first initial like

610
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 3: oh okay, because either I've been in that place or

611
00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 3: I'm fucking sensitive, so I get it. But then there's

612
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 3: just sometimes and I'm just like, okay, uh, you know,

613
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:45,239
Speaker 3: we have to hold our emotions accountable sometimes because I

614
00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 3: know that I'm irrational.

615
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 1: Yes, And then you sound a real irrational right now.

616
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:51,119
Speaker 3: I don't think I don't I don't think so okay,

617
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 3: well let's agree.

618
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:55,160
Speaker 1: I don't agree, Andrew. You can be judge judy on this.

619
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Speaker 4: I don't know. I think that we're all irrational in

620
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,719
Speaker 4: some ways, and I think that do gang up on

621
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:03,440
Speaker 4: Sydney a lot.

622
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,840
Speaker 3: If you listen to go back to the to the episodes,

623
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 3: there's tons of times and I'm like, this is what

624
00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:09,680
Speaker 3: we do.

625
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 1: You know, Yes, but Carolina is not on this podcast.

626
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:16,200
Speaker 3: Okay, but but I'm also talking about just holding things accountable.

627
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 3: It's just like I have to sometimes you just have

628
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:21,159
Speaker 3: to check your emotions because you're like, well, this is

629
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:22,119
Speaker 3: what we're doing.

630
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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, let's moving forward. It's a new year, it's

631
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:28,679
Speaker 1: a new us. If ever, if ever there's a moment

632
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 1: on this mother e f In podcast that you feel slighted,

633
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 1: I always say respectful. I always say something disrespected. I

634
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 1: always I'm very vocal.

635
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 3: Okay, I don't go back to Amina and be like

636
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 3: Marie was on a podcast doing dah da da da da.

637
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: I don't do that. I handle it with you and

638
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 1: then move forward. Okay, but everybody's not you Sydney.

639
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I already explained to people that I don't

640
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:53,959
Speaker 3: want that.

641
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, this is.

642
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 1: This is what this is. Let me finish what I'm

643
00:28:56,640 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 1: about to say. If anybody in this room who does

644
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:05,240
Speaker 1: this podcast with Sidney and I and Andrew, if any

645
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 1: of us ever feel disrespected or there's a moment where

646
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 1: you're like whoha, wha, wha, wha, what's they get it

647
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:13,280
Speaker 1: too far? Then call it out. We need a safe word. Okay,

648
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 1: let's let's come up with a safe word. You get,

649
00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 1: you gotta you gotta scream it out and we'll stop

650
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 1: what we're doing and go like whoa what what? Whoa what?

651
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 1: What's the safe I'm gonna throw the word snickers out there.

652
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 2: Snickers?

653
00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 4: Oh no, I'm not saying. That's way too close to another.

654
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:38,040
Speaker 1: Word we are not doing. Then what is your okay, episode,

655
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 1: Snickers is too close? Sidney? What what word are you think?

656
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:44,480
Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be food, it could be anything.

657
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 1: It could be a toilet paper. I mean, what's your

658
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 1: safe word? That's fine, Twigs is fine. Oh, I kind

659
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:51,960
Speaker 1: of like toilet paper.

660
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 4: I just I don't I don't know if I want

661
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 4: to really fully commit to going into this, but I

662
00:29:57,200 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 4: just think there is something funny about you bringing this

663
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 4: up because you maybe Sidney has my back here. You're

664
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 4: sometimes difficult to confront talking.

665
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 2: I know, but that's why. But that's I I said that.

666
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 1: I said, I'm saying this to you, Sidney as somebody

667
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:23,520
Speaker 1: who you know, it's hard for me to say to

668
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:26,400
Speaker 1: apologize sometimes. But if I'm saying this to you, then

669
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 1: I feel like that means something. If I'm bringing this up,

670
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 1: I feel like that means something. Well.

671
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:34,360
Speaker 3: I'm also like how it was explained to you. I

672
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:37,000
Speaker 3: don't know how it was explained. I just told you, yeah,

673
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 3: but I'm I'm like, you weren't there. So there's been

674
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 3: situations where somebody here explained to me what happened, and

675
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 3: then I get the reals and I'm like, oh, see.

676
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:49,600
Speaker 1: What where what I when I introduced the story, I

677
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 1: said what happened? And you didn't disagree? I did? I

678
00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 1: told you. I was like, that's not how I said that.

679
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:58,480
Speaker 1: But the words were the same. Maybe the tone that

680
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 1: I use was different, but the words were the same. Right.

681
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 2: I didn't change the story.

682
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 1: She didn't. She didn't add extra characters or special effects

683
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 1: or c g. I she just told you. She told

684
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:09,840
Speaker 1: me what happened. And then I what about do you?

685
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 1: And You're Okay, anyway, and you finished what you were saying.

686
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 4: No, I don't I don't know if I really want

687
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 4: to get in.

688
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:24,600
Speaker 1: Toilet toilet paper. Go ahead say because I've heard your

689
00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 1: feelings before and I didn't apologize.

690
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're sometimes difficult too, and I'm learning this through

691
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:36,320
Speaker 4: working with you both.

692
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:43,600
Speaker 1: Where Oh my god, he's turning so rare, it's hilarious.

693
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:47,240
Speaker 4: You're just sometimes difficult to have a conversation with a

694
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:49,280
Speaker 4: difficult conversation. And that was why when we had a

695
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 4: difficult conversation, I was very uncomfortable and I was short

696
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 4: of breath in seventeen Yeah, and I was like, oh God,

697
00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 4: like I need to have this conversation with Marie and

698
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 4: Sydney mostly Marie. Uh, And it's it was hard.

699
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 1: But when you had the conversation with me, did I

700
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 1: say to you that happened X amount of weeks ago?

701
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 4: It was relevant, It was relevant to the time, and

702
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 4: I knew that where are you going just leaving this conversation.

703
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 1: I will not sit for this. But my lips are dry,

704
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 1: you know when people when people confront me, my lips

705
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 1: get dry.

706
00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 4: My face turns right.

707
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 1: Okay, so uh, you felt away, But then after we talked,

708
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 1: did you feel better?

709
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 4: What did? I don't know because it's hard to we

710
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 4: can't really talk about the exact.

711
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:51,240
Speaker 2: Actually what happened the you.

712
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:51,680
Speaker 1: Talk around it?

713
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, can we give them the gist you were, Oh,

714
00:32:57,760 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 4: it was about cut. We can talk about this. Yeah,

715
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:03,160
Speaker 4: it was about making cuts in the episode. And there

716
00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 4: we didn't see eye to eye with what was being

717
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 4: released in the episode. Well, and I was just like,

718
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 4: I don't think that that's appropriate. And we just didn't

719
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 4: see eye to eye. And then I realized that actually, contractually,

720
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:20,280
Speaker 4: you're allowed to say whatever you want and keep whatever

721
00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:22,800
Speaker 4: it is, despite how fucked up I think it is

722
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 4: or whatever.

723
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:27,120
Speaker 1: So what was the issue?

724
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 4: And then because I thought it?

725
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 1: I thought you made a cut that didn't need to

726
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 1: be made, and you thought that I wasn't nice to you,

727
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 1: and how I responded to you about it.

728
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 4: And then because then in that story, in the entire exchange,

729
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 4: you found out that I cut something out that you

730
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 4: said a while ago that Sidney was aware of.

731
00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 1: Andrew, Andrew, that's erasure, okay, realistically, and I'm gonna let

732
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 1: you finish your I'm gonna let you finish your thought.

733
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 1: But Sidney and I have been doing this podcast long

734
00:33:57,840 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 1: before Forever Dog. We say what we.

735
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 2: Want, when we want, how we want to who we want.

736
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 2: We don't cutn't.

737
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 1: We never cut anything out of our podcast unless a

738
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 1: guest asked us to cut something out. So for me,

739
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 1: it was problematic and it made me angry because you

740
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:16,319
Speaker 1: you know, a gay white man is telling me, a

741
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 1: straight black woman what I can and can't say on

742
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 1: a podcast that I started right right, So for me,

743
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 1: you know, I'm like, Andrew, who are you talking to?

744
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 1: Like what do you mean? Yeah? And You're like, well,

745
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:31,279
Speaker 1: you know this person might be offended, and these types

746
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:33,640
Speaker 1: of people might be offended, and you know this could

747
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:37,759
Speaker 1: be problematic for the for the Forever Dog universe. And

748
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:41,120
Speaker 1: I still don't agree with you on that. If no,

749
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:43,880
Speaker 1: I say something bad, then let me take the heat

750
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 1: on that, right, And I still stand by that.

751
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean that's what we discovered, was that, fully, Like,

752
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 4: I don't have any say and whatever you say in

753
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:55,040
Speaker 4: the podcast.

754
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 1: Right, but you still feel a way about it.

755
00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:59,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't agree with it. I mean that's just me.

756
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 4: But again, like that's.

757
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 1: That's how you feel. But do you think I deserve

758
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 1: you deserve an apology for that.

759
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:10,880
Speaker 4: Oh no, no, no, because because I'm I'm like, you're just

760
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 4: it was difficult to have a conversation.

761
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 1: It was difficult to have a conversation because you're afraid

762
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say something mean to.

763
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 2: You, right, That's why.

764
00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:21,439
Speaker 4: And then yeah, and then I said something you.

765
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:25,480
Speaker 2: Do yeah, or the or just the tone just sometimes.

766
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:29,400
Speaker 1: Look, this is I understand, I'm intimidating. I mean, I

767
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 1: got these little paper mache muscles. I get that. But

768
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 1: at the same time, like, at the same time you

769
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 1: felt away.

770
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:38,839
Speaker 2: We had a conversation about it.

771
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:41,399
Speaker 1: I didn't. There wasn't a time limit on it. I also,

772
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 1: you made the cut and didn't tell me. And then

773
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:47,400
Speaker 1: after X amount of weeks had months had passed, I

774
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 1: found out and I was like the look are you doing.

775
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, that that for me was problematic.

776
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 1: Not only did you not talk to me about it,

777
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 1: not only did you not ask me, you then did

778
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 1: it and I didn't even realize that you had done it.

779
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:01,200
Speaker 1: So for me, that that's like a betrayal friend.

780
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 4: It was like, well, in my defense, and I don't

781
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:06,520
Speaker 4: want all the listeners to just like hate me for

782
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:13,839
Speaker 4: a race, but Sydney and I discussed it and when

783
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 4: it happened.

784
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 3: But the cut had already been made.

785
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you do. You guys not understand my position? No, no, no,

786
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:23,440
Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, I understand, hold on, hold on totally.

787
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:25,719
Speaker 1: When you said that, I was understand my position here.

788
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 1: You spoke to Sydney about something that I said. You

789
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:31,440
Speaker 1: didn't speak to me. You spoke to Sydney. You made

790
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:32,919
Speaker 1: the cut. Y'all agreed to make the cut.

791
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 2: No, no, no, he had already made the cut.

792
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:35,920
Speaker 1: This was month. This was months.

793
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:39,839
Speaker 3: I've basically found out a little bit before you found out.

794
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 1: And then you didn't tell me. So for you to

795
00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:44,479
Speaker 1: be upset about our friend talking to me about something

796
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:48,360
Speaker 1: that happened between y'all is kind of laughable. Friend. Why

797
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 1: because me and Carolina had a conversation about you, I'm

798
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 1: friends with both of y'all. You and Andrew had a

799
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 1: conversation about me. Neither of y'all told me.

800
00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:58,719
Speaker 2: I mean, I felt like it wasn't for me to

801
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:00,800
Speaker 2: tell that was for him to tell you.

802
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:03,279
Speaker 4: Okay, but you don't.

803
00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 1: But okay, I just I'm I'm just gonna leave it

804
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:12,759
Speaker 1: right there. Because people are listening. They're from different walks

805
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 1: of life. They're they live in different countries, they live

806
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 1: in different states. They I just want y'all to.

807
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 4: Weigh in here because no, yeah, because I mean.

808
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 3: After we spoke, I said absolutely, I totally understood, and

809
00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 3: we should have all spoke together. And that's what and

810
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:29,840
Speaker 3: moving forward, that's what we said. If there's any issues,

811
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:33,760
Speaker 3: we talked to us before there's like outside or whatever.

812
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 1: I just Andrew had an issue with something that I said,

813
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:38,239
Speaker 1: and he spoke to Sydney about it. It's that's like

814
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:42,359
Speaker 1: hilarious to me, that is all I'm saying, Andrew. It's

815
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:47,320
Speaker 1: it's scary as I am fire breathing dragon reezi. Uh,

816
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 1: you still should have spoke to me about it, and

817
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:51,839
Speaker 1: now Sydney, and that's a nice one.

818
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, no, no, And that's exactly That's how I

819
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:57,840
Speaker 3: felt when she spoke to you and not me.

820
00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 1: So it's that it's that's exactly how But then she

821
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:04,320
Speaker 1: did speak to you, you know, and he did speak

822
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 1: to you. Yeah, but the whole thing, it was within

823
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 1: a twenty four hour period.

824
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 2: You did what you did.

825
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 1: We spoke about it in the afternoon, and then that

826
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:15,480
Speaker 1: evening she spoke to you about it again. So the

827
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 1: Andrew and you thing was y Y've been going behind

828
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 1: my back for you?

829
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:23,839
Speaker 4: No sorry looking out? It was.

830
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,920
Speaker 3: It was literally I was told the week before and

831
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:28,120
Speaker 3: then he told you right after.

832
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:30,719
Speaker 4: And I had also when we were recording the episode

833
00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:33,759
Speaker 4: that I forget what episode it was, but the guest

834
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 4: so long ago. The guest and Sydney were both like

835
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 4: they also had a reaction to it, and I believe

836
00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:41,319
Speaker 4: that Sydney made a joke about cutting it, and I

837
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 4: was just like, okay, that's all. I really the same, y'all.

838
00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 1: Can oof all you want with the words that I say,

839
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 1: right you oof you? You present your argument. If I

840
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 1: say leave it in there, leave it in there, and

841
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:56,280
Speaker 1: if something bad happens and it hits.

842
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:58,040
Speaker 2: The wall, then let me take that heat.

843
00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 1: I roast Rihanna and Beyond on this podcast regularly, and

844
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 1: the Behigh have the Beehive must not have heard the

845
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 1: episodes yet, but we don't cut the Beyonce stuff out

846
00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:10,280
Speaker 1: and her fans are brutal, So like, if you really

847
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 1: truly care about this podcast and what we're talking.

848
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 3: About, Beyonce is not The difference is not the same

849
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 3: as like transphobia, homophobia, racism.

850
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 2: But I didn't say anything trans but you didn't.

851
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 3: But when we when we were talking about it, we

852
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 3: were just like, listen, this is how it could come off.

853
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:33,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, listen, guys, it's okay. There's no more cuts.

854
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:34,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's no more cuts.

855
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 4: There's nothing.

856
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 1: Listen. You listen to the Unofficial Expert Podcast, you're like, oh,

857
00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 1: Marie is the one with the deep voice that says

858
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:44,840
Speaker 1: mean stuff. Sometimes you listen to this episode, like episode,

859
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 1: you'll be like, Sidney's the one that well, Sidney's the

860
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 1: mean one too. Now I am the mean one. Now

861
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 1: the nice one is Andrew. I know Andrew. Andrew, Andrew

862
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:02,640
Speaker 1: is passive aggressive, that's what you are. No, I don't know.

863
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 1: I I think that like again, if it hits the fan,

864
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 1: like the letter hit the fan, if anything, that episode

865
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:10,759
Speaker 1: might go like a little bit viral, and like that

866
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,080
Speaker 1: helps us more than it hurts us. Oh my god,

867
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:16,240
Speaker 1: think about the future of the pod.

868
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 3: Okay, I agree with I agree with you on that,

869
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:21,919
Speaker 3: but also you said let you take the heat. That's

870
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:24,839
Speaker 3: not how it goes. It's weird together on this. If

871
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 3: something is said on the podcast, then I have to

872
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:29,719
Speaker 3: I will have to defend you.

873
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 1: I'm in it.

874
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:33,239
Speaker 3: You your name is involved. It's our podcast. It's not

875
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 3: the same.

876
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:37,319
Speaker 1: It's our podcast. Yes, but if I say something and

877
00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:42,440
Speaker 1: people drag our podcast, then Sidney, you with your your

878
00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:47,640
Speaker 1: PC like logic and you're like, you know your your

879
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:52,279
Speaker 1: LGBTQ ways can say that you know this. This is

880
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:54,280
Speaker 1: my colleague. And I don't agree with what she said,

881
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:56,680
Speaker 1: but we're comedians and it was a joke. You can say,

882
00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:58,279
Speaker 1: you can use the it was a joke, excuse the

883
00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 1: same way you used it was a joke with Carolina. Realistically,

884
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:02,319
Speaker 1: you can do that.

885
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:03,960
Speaker 3: I mean, but you when you said it was not

886
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 3: a joke, that was a it was a matter of fact.

887
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna just say what I said so that

888
00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:10,960
Speaker 1: y'all can hear it. And I mean, because it's you

889
00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 1: guys are making it sound like it was so much more.

890
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 4: No, it was.

891
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 1: We actually talked about it on the Patreon, so I

892
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:19,000
Speaker 1: didn't say anything transphobic, and I did. We did talk

893
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:21,360
Speaker 1: about ether patreon, and I think you guys agree with

894
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:22,840
Speaker 1: what I said, And if you want to hear it,

895
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 1: you got to go to the Patreon. So if you

896
00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 1: want to hear about what was said, you got to

897
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:30,239
Speaker 1: go to the Patreon, you go there go. What was

898
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 1: the name of the episode, I don't remember.

899
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:34,960
Speaker 2: I don't remember, but it was like two episodes ago.

900
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:38,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, well three after this episode four four episode

901
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:44,399
Speaker 1: was out. Yeah, I don't know. Words are powerful from

902
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 1: the so am.

903
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:48,920
Speaker 4: I yes, that very clear, and.

904
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:53,880
Speaker 1: So was Andrew because he with like like his like

905
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:57,759
Speaker 1: with the power of God just deleted the words that

906
00:41:57,800 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 1: I said and no one ever heard them. So you too,

907
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:02,920
Speaker 1: Andrew made it very clear that you're bowerful.

908
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:09,400
Speaker 4: I okay, there's no more cuts, but stop, okay, go ahead, finish.

909
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 4: I was just like, and then I was just like

910
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 4: really hurt because I was just like, I feel like

911
00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 4: I do a lot for you guys, and then and

912
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 4: then for you to respond in this way, I don't know.

913
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 1: But Andrew, you have to understand why I reacted that way.

914
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 4: I totally understand.

915
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, So you're like, you're the Carolina here and

916
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:32,799
Speaker 1: I'm the Sydney. You're like, I do a lot for you,

917
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 1: and you reacted that way and it made hurt your feelings. Yes, well,

918
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 1: I'm sorry I hurt your feelings, friend, Sydney. You see

919
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:40,759
Speaker 1: how you apologize to somebody?

920
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:43,439
Speaker 4: Okay, you can't do that to stop it.

921
00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 1: Yes, I can, Andrew stop it. You stop it. Take

922
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 1: my apology back. I'm sorry you felt offended, but I

923
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:52,840
Speaker 1: was joking.

924
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:55,120
Speaker 4: You see that, Sydney. How you apologize?

925
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 1: How you do it? Oh my god? No I listen?

926
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:04,320
Speaker 2: Okay, no, no, no, all right, he hear me out.

927
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:05,239
Speaker 1: Don't even hear me out?

928
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 2: No, go ahead, well listen for me.

929
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:09,120
Speaker 1: Right.

930
00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:15,359
Speaker 3: I'm used to being it's it's usually Marie. For five years,

931
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 3: it's been just me and you, and now we have

932
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 3: other people in the in the crew, and I have

933
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:23,040
Speaker 3: to adjust to everybody.

934
00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:24,920
Speaker 2: But it's been it's been me.

935
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:27,920
Speaker 3: And you for so long, and there is some things

936
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 3: that we've even talked about. I was like, oh that

937
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 3: hurt my feelings and we move forward. And I was

938
00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 3: just like, but wait, this is this is how you

939
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 3: get down and if I want to be a part

940
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:40,880
Speaker 3: of what we're doing, like, I can't be sensitive about

941
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:43,520
Speaker 3: every freaking thing. Some of the things I'm like, I

942
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:46,240
Speaker 3: know that's not she's not coming from a bad place.

943
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:48,959
Speaker 3: That's just how loose we are. And we've been loose

944
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 3: for so long. It's I just pick and choose what

945
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 3: I'm like. Oh that that was like.

946
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 1: Unacceptable, Sydney. We're older now, right, we've been friends now.

947
00:43:58,719 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 1: I got a Facebook memory from two fifteen us in

948
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 1: that dusty basement.

949
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 5: Oh my god, the my bangs were awful with the

950
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:12,160
Speaker 5: curly hair banks curly and the bangs were too short

951
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 5: when had the breakdown?

952
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 1: Yes, that's what I have bangs? Oh my god. Yes, yes,

953
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 1: the lighting was awful, Jenny. Yes, we've been friends for

954
00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 1: that long, but we've changed. We're not the same people

955
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:27,959
Speaker 1: we were five years ago. We were older, and we

956
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:31,320
Speaker 1: are maybe a little bit more set in our ways.

957
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:33,960
Speaker 1: I don't know, cells reset every seven years or whatever

958
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:36,279
Speaker 1: the hell the logic is here. We're not the same

959
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 1: people we were when we met. So there are things

960
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:41,239
Speaker 1: that I say that maybe back then would have rolled

961
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 1: off your back, but now they are problematic, and I

962
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:46,239
Speaker 1: think that you should call me out on them. I

963
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 1: feel like I remember the first time you confronted me

964
00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 1: on something. I think I was at your job and

965
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:53,839
Speaker 1: I could and she was just like you, Andrew. She

966
00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:56,040
Speaker 1: she didn't turn red, but I could tell she didn't

967
00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 1: want a confrontation with me, and she was like, I

968
00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:01,839
Speaker 1: need to I need to speak with you. And I'm say,

969
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:02,840
Speaker 1: what was it about I.

970
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:03,439
Speaker 2: Don't even remember.

971
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:06,479
Speaker 1: I don't know something that I said that that hurt

972
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 1: your feelings or you felt disrespected in some way. And

973
00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:12,759
Speaker 1: I could tell looking at you that you did not

974
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:15,759
Speaker 1: want to have the conversation with me, and I could

975
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:17,759
Speaker 1: see how much it took for you to bring it up,

976
00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:20,400
Speaker 1: same as when you did it, Andrew. But you did it,

977
00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 1: and I apologized and then we moved forward. But you, like,

978
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 1: you can't like like at the same way, like you

979
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:34,920
Speaker 1: can't use my strong personality as an excuse for me

980
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:37,040
Speaker 1: saying that I'm offended by something that you say, like

981
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 1: you're not allowed to say. Well, Marie, you say mean

982
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 1: things to me all the time. I'm telling you right

983
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:45,960
Speaker 1: now that you hurt my feelings, So you can't be like, well, Marie,

984
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:49,279
Speaker 1: you mean too. In twenty sixteen, you said that, like

985
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:52,439
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, Sydney, it's January twenty twenty, and I'm

986
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:56,440
Speaker 1: telling you that I didn't like that. Okay, so like valid,

987
00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:58,480
Speaker 1: But I feel like you know this is this should

988
00:45:58,480 --> 00:45:59,360
Speaker 1: be a safe space.

989
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:03,800
Speaker 3: Valid I mean, and it is a safe space clearly

990
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:04,440
Speaker 3: because we have in.

991
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 2: This personal ask as long as conversation.

992
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:11,080
Speaker 4: On podcast, The entire episode so one thing.

993
00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 1: I mean, apologies are hard and friendship is hard. They

994
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 1: are so hard but also so easy. And so.

995
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:24,200
Speaker 2: I think.

996
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 3: Maybe I am in my feelings about stuff because I

997
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 3: feel like I am the first person to say sorry,

998
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 3: You're the first person to be apologizic. I'm the first

999
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:39,480
Speaker 3: one to be like, it's my fault. So I think

1000
00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:42,719
Speaker 3: I am coming into another place in my life where

1001
00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, i think I'm tired of saying sorry

1002
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 3: all the time.

1003
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:50,360
Speaker 1: That's real, Sydney. And I feel like, yes, when I

1004
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:51,719
Speaker 1: said that, we're not the same people we were five

1005
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 1: years ago. You're a completely different person to me now,

1006
00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 1: completely different. You're the opposite of almost the Sydney that

1007
00:46:57,120 --> 00:46:58,960
Speaker 1: I met in twenty fifteen.

1008
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:01,280
Speaker 3: When you met me, I was sucking dick and drinking

1009
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:02,400
Speaker 3: tequila and there we go.

1010
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 1: Second, is that there?

1011
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:10,200
Speaker 4: There?

1012
00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 1: It is there? It is so Yeah, you're a completed

1013
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 1: and you're like sober now and you're on medication and

1014
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,880
Speaker 1: you're a little bit you're a lot meaner, but also

1015
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 1: you stand up for yourself more. You're stronger now. Yeah,

1016
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 1: And I feel like I'm how have I changed in

1017
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:31,360
Speaker 1: the last five years? Sidney, No, You're I feel like you.

1018
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:36,239
Speaker 3: You are a lot nicer and thoughtful, and I used

1019
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:38,160
Speaker 3: to be meaner than them, less.

1020
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:41,279
Speaker 1: Less, less selfish, and.

1021
00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:46,840
Speaker 3: Uh yeah, I feel like I can talk to you

1022
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 3: more if I have an issue. Before I feel like

1023
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:52,720
Speaker 3: it wasn't possible.

1024
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 1: See impossible. It felt impossible, and yet here we are

1025
00:47:57,239 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 1: growth a breakthrough. I mean it's still hard, but it's

1026
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:02,480
Speaker 1: it's like less hard. Yeah, but you know what part

1027
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:04,160
Speaker 1: of me likes that is hard to talk to me,

1028
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 1: you know, no, I'm being realistic. Part of me likes

1029
00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:10,880
Speaker 1: that like this way, like it's a it's a buffer

1030
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:14,320
Speaker 1: for bs, like you know, yeah.

1031
00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 4: No, but there's like been times and you you like,

1032
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:19,920
Speaker 4: uh picked up on like Sydney's like like not being

1033
00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:22,239
Speaker 4: able to speak clearly because she was trying to have

1034
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:24,920
Speaker 4: a difficult conversation right now. When I had a difficult

1035
00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:27,920
Speaker 4: conversation with you at that time, I was like slipping

1036
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:30,359
Speaker 4: over my words and you made a joke about like, oh,

1037
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:37,840
Speaker 4: like you need some water, fram like.

1038
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:37,320
Speaker 1: But your throat felt dry.

1039
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:39,400
Speaker 4: And I was like and then I started like realized,

1040
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 4: I was like, oh no, fuck that, like, don't talk

1041
00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 4: to me that way, you know. So I think there

1042
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:45,600
Speaker 4: is a line that I think that you should be.

1043
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:48,600
Speaker 1: In those in those moments that you should just say that,

1044
00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:49,360
Speaker 1: say fuck that.

1045
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:53,400
Speaker 4: No I did, and I like you saying that. Actually

1046
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 4: I was able to like reclaim my power a little

1047
00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:58,799
Speaker 4: bit and okay, okay, I made stop, but.

1048
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 1: Shoun andrew yes. And in that moment also I saw

1049
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:08,799
Speaker 1: how hard it was for you and I didn't need

1050
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: to say that, but so heavy, and you know, I'm

1051
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:13,359
Speaker 1: breaking the ice.

1052
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:16,960
Speaker 2: I think.

1053
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:19,719
Speaker 4: Nothing I did learn.

1054
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:22,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, we both did.

1055
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 3: I mean, I mean we come a long way, just

1056
00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:30,440
Speaker 3: like you expressing your emotions and and being honest and

1057
00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:32,719
Speaker 3: telling you all your business like you know. I mean,

1058
00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 3: we still don't know your age, but I mean you've

1059
00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:36,799
Speaker 3: been so transparent on the podcast, and.

1060
00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:38,760
Speaker 1: You still need to know how old I am. I mean.

1061
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:42,680
Speaker 3: Somebody so you know, I put on the on the

1062
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:46,839
Speaker 3: Unofficial Expert a picture of me in elementary school and

1063
00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 3: it had the date and what grade I was in,

1064
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:53,759
Speaker 3: and people message like, oh yo, I'm trying to do

1065
00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:56,240
Speaker 3: the math to figure out if you were in the eleven.

1066
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,960
Speaker 1: It's like yo, and they're like and then someone wrote me,

1067
00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 1: They're like, Reid's been twenty four for a long time. Wow.

1068
00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:08,960
Speaker 1: I'm like well, you know, well, I mean I don't

1069
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:11,799
Speaker 1: have a picture of me from elementary school, but my

1070
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 1: uh the year and my birthday is not on any

1071
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:16,400
Speaker 1: of the stuff that I took anything.

1072
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I like, I just posted it and I

1073
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:20,759
Speaker 3: didn't even look at I was like, yo, when I

1074
00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 3: saw that, I was like, fuck, I really.

1075
00:50:23,280 --> 00:50:25,279
Speaker 1: Did I did see that. I did see that.

1076
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 3: I say, my age, I don't. I'm like, I don't care.

1077
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:30,239
Speaker 3: But I did look at that, and I was like, man,

1078
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:31,120
Speaker 3: that was a good joke.

1079
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 1: When you when you made the joke, I was like, well,

1080
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:35,640
Speaker 1: cause you were like I don't even remember. You were

1081
00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:37,759
Speaker 1: like I was in high school some of these references.

1082
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:41,600
Speaker 1: You were like what was like, Sidney, how old issue? Yeah,

1083
00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 1: well you have a birthday coming up? Friend? Are you

1084
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:45,719
Speaker 1: excited about it? I mean birthdays are hard for me.

1085
00:50:45,880 --> 00:50:47,400
Speaker 1: I don't know how hard they are for you.

1086
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:53,480
Speaker 2: No that I like, no, I'm like so annoyed about

1087
00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:54,000
Speaker 2: your birthday.

1088
00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:54,239
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1089
00:50:54,239 --> 00:50:55,719
Speaker 2: I'm trying to get I'm trying to get dinner for

1090
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:56,640
Speaker 2: us for free somewhere.

1091
00:50:57,239 --> 00:50:58,200
Speaker 1: So I'm working on that.

1092
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:03,239
Speaker 2: I've been hey, hi, how you know, like, oh, you

1093
00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:03,960
Speaker 2: had a baby.

1094
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 3: Just sending those dusty texts that are kind of inappropriate.

1095
00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:10,880
Speaker 2: But I'm like, I don't know.

1096
00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:13,719
Speaker 3: I waitress for ten years and I went to so

1097
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:14,800
Speaker 3: many places.

1098
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:16,640
Speaker 2: I've served so many people.

1099
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:19,279
Speaker 1: It's like, take care of me, dude. I don't ask

1100
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 1: for much. I don't know those people are still in

1101
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 1: those places some of them. Yes, actually they are.

1102
00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:25,719
Speaker 2: They're still there.

1103
00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:28,799
Speaker 3: And so I'm like, you know, just look out for

1104
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:31,360
Speaker 3: a sister. And it's Black History Month. It's like you

1105
00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:34,200
Speaker 3: have to you know, the Sydney's but they said you

1106
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:34,800
Speaker 3: every second.

1107
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:36,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you know.

1108
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:40,800
Speaker 3: I mean all these changes have been made and like yes,

1109
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:44,640
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh yeah, I'm doing it. I'm like being positive,

1110
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:46,880
Speaker 3: but I'm also like, oh my god, all my friends

1111
00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:51,040
Speaker 3: are younger than me, and like it's not my job

1112
00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:53,480
Speaker 3: to feel like, oh people should look up to me,

1113
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 3: but I just feel.

1114
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:57,320
Speaker 1: Like where I am right now in my age, I'm.

1115
00:51:57,160 --> 00:52:00,200
Speaker 3: Like, oh, I wish I was like a little bit

1116
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:03,799
Speaker 3: more settled or a lot more settled, and just not

1117
00:52:04,080 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 3: as immature as I am. Because I am immature. I

1118
00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:12,040
Speaker 3: think that's why people have a hard time when they

1119
00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:15,319
Speaker 3: hear my age. You're like what, because I don't it

1120
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:17,440
Speaker 3: don't line up, you don't look at you don't active.

1121
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, nothing lines up.

1122
00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know I read something one of these

1123
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 1: like you know, live Love Laugh posts or something on Instagram.

1124
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:30,879
Speaker 1: But the post essentially said there's no timeline or there's

1125
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 1: no time limits on life. Like you, there's no age

1126
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 1: where you're supposed to have everything figured out. There's no

1127
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:38,680
Speaker 1: age we're supposed to buy a house or have a

1128
00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:39,799
Speaker 1: baby or whatever whatever.

1129
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:41,240
Speaker 2: I mean, before you're fifty.

1130
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:44,319
Speaker 1: Obviously you should have a baby because you know them

1131
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 1: eggs is who But you know, you do things at

1132
00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:53,120
Speaker 1: your own pace. Friend, And it's again, it's twenty twenty.

1133
00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 1: So it's so easy to compare what we got with

1134
00:52:56,560 --> 00:52:59,040
Speaker 1: what other people have because we see it. You see

1135
00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:02,719
Speaker 1: it on social media, you see it on their you know, I.

1136
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:06,920
Speaker 3: Think where I'm at, it's not even about like other people.

1137
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:10,480
Speaker 3: Because if you're twenty six and you already like sold

1138
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:13,280
Speaker 3: a book and you're you got an HBO special, that's

1139
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:18,440
Speaker 3: that's that's not real, like that. You are a specific

1140
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:20,319
Speaker 3: case and everybody's not doing that.

1141
00:53:20,360 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 1: So I don't even look.

1142
00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:23,239
Speaker 3: At those people because I'm like, this is not that's

1143
00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:25,640
Speaker 3: not the norm, and that's great for you, but I'm

1144
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:28,480
Speaker 3: not aspiring to do that that's not I would didn't

1145
00:53:28,480 --> 00:53:30,279
Speaker 3: want to be twenty six and have all of it

1146
00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:31,279
Speaker 3: because I didn't live.

1147
00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:33,799
Speaker 1: You know, those are the only people I compare myself to. Yeah,

1148
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 1: ill be like, damn, Jabookie is how old?

1149
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:38,840
Speaker 2: I know he's been like yeah, damn.

1150
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:41,239
Speaker 1: Every time I see him, like little clips of him

1151
00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 1: on Daily Show, I'm like, oh, he's just so amazing.

1152
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:45,520
Speaker 1: But I don't meet that.

1153
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:47,919
Speaker 3: I don't mean people, but I don't meet that many

1154
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 3: people that are twenty six that are like him.

1155
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:53,879
Speaker 1: But then I'm like Io and Utra and Jack Nice

1156
00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:57,880
Speaker 1: Jack Knight, and I was like, ah, but I like, again,

1157
00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:01,279
Speaker 1: that's just that's something very specific. I think where I

1158
00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:05,200
Speaker 1: am right now, God forbid. All I think about is

1159
00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:08,279
Speaker 1: like that little blurb of like, oh my god, if

1160
00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 1: something happened to me. They put your fucking accomplishments every

1161
00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:16,759
Speaker 1: time I look at When somebody dies and they're in

1162
00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:20,680
Speaker 1: a newspaper, they give two sentences of what the fuck

1163
00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 1: they've done? Since when are you reading obituaries?

1164
00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:27,440
Speaker 4: This is while she's eating the cereal.

1165
00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:35,480
Speaker 3: The creator of Ugly Betty just just died. He committed suicide. Like, yeah,

1166
00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:36,200
Speaker 3: but how old was he?

1167
00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:38,600
Speaker 2: Forty two?

1168
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:42,759
Speaker 1: But he created Ugly Betty. So wait Ugly Betty the

1169
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:47,359
Speaker 1: American version or the original Spanish version, because I thought

1170
00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:49,200
Speaker 1: that was a Spanish lady or.

1171
00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 3: Some he No, it's just it's just Latin guy. I

1172
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:56,200
Speaker 3: think he's like the creator, Creator Creator. But anyway, like

1173
00:54:56,840 --> 00:55:00,120
Speaker 3: all I think about is that's that's at the end

1174
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:02,680
Speaker 3: of the day, that's what they put down, and it's

1175
00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:06,160
Speaker 3: just it's it's so frustrating because that's that's all you see.

1176
00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:10,279
Speaker 3: And it especially in comedy, like when Kevin Barnett died,

1177
00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 3: he had accomplished so much fucking stuff that they like

1178
00:55:14,320 --> 00:55:16,479
Speaker 3: there was pages of what he did.

1179
00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:17,800
Speaker 1: And then when.

1180
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:21,959
Speaker 3: Somebody like like our friend or Chris Cotton he passed away,

1181
00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:24,440
Speaker 3: it's just like, yeah, he's got a wife, he's got

1182
00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:25,840
Speaker 3: a wife and a baby on the way, and he

1183
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:28,080
Speaker 3: was a part of this and that, but not too

1184
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:31,719
Speaker 3: much and not like I need that. But when you

1185
00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 3: see all that stuff, it does put pressure on you

1186
00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:36,880
Speaker 3: to be like, Okay, what is my legacy?

1187
00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:37,680
Speaker 1: When am I leaving?

1188
00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:40,200
Speaker 3: When I I when I'm done with this, I just

1189
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:42,799
Speaker 3: want to have done more.

1190
00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:47,640
Speaker 2: I don't want to be like thirty something roommate has a.

1191
00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:53,440
Speaker 1: Roommate leaves behind her roommate and six yeah, and her

1192
00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:57,120
Speaker 1: vanity that that costs too much money. Yeah, but sometimes

1193
00:55:57,200 --> 00:56:00,640
Speaker 1: that's what it is. I think ultimately, for me, I

1194
00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 1: want to be happy, like truly happy. And I think

1195
00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:06,000
Speaker 1: in order for me to be happy, a lot of

1196
00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:07,960
Speaker 1: people got to be jealous of me. So you know,

1197
00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:10,319
Speaker 1: you're saying that you don't need all that, but I

1198
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:13,120
Speaker 1: need all of that or as of right now, in

1199
00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:16,799
Speaker 1: my mind, I need that because it is hard for

1200
00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:19,120
Speaker 1: me to not compare myself to what other people have. Yeah,

1201
00:56:20,040 --> 00:56:23,359
Speaker 1: you know what is my legacy. I'm the mean bald one.

1202
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:24,320
Speaker 2: That's my legacy.

1203
00:56:25,360 --> 00:56:27,319
Speaker 1: That was on a show that got canceled after ten

1204
00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:30,000
Speaker 1: weeks like that. I have to do more. But I

1205
00:56:30,040 --> 00:56:31,480
Speaker 1: have to do more because I need to stay busy,

1206
00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:33,600
Speaker 1: and I know that I am capable of more.

1207
00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:35,120
Speaker 2: That's why I have to do more because I know

1208
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:35,480
Speaker 2: I can.

1209
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:37,800
Speaker 1: Me too. These people who are getting these specials and

1210
00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:41,560
Speaker 1: they're twenty six again, like they not better than us,

1211
00:56:41,560 --> 00:56:47,520
Speaker 1: They're just more. They got they procrastinate less, Yeah, motivated.

1212
00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:50,279
Speaker 3: I mean Tyler Perry putting out all those scripts that

1213
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:53,520
Speaker 3: he made in twenty nineteen that were terribly written. I

1214
00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:55,879
Speaker 3: mean he wrote, So it doesn't matter if they're bad,

1215
00:56:55,920 --> 00:56:59,759
Speaker 3: it's just you actually did it and you and then

1216
00:56:59,800 --> 00:57:01,840
Speaker 3: you're like, who's editing this ship?

1217
00:57:02,280 --> 00:57:06,080
Speaker 1: Tyler Perry starring Tyler Perry, Tyler scripts.

1218
00:57:06,400 --> 00:57:10,960
Speaker 3: I mean, that's insanity like it, but I'm saying like

1219
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:16,400
Speaker 3: that is the type of motivation in determination a bitch needs.

1220
00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:18,320
Speaker 1: Listen. You have the same amount of hours in a

1221
00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:22,360
Speaker 1: day as Tyler Perry. Okay, Beyonce, it's about It's about

1222
00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:25,520
Speaker 1: Tyler Tyler Perry. Okay, Okay, that's it. That's the title

1223
00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:30,200
Speaker 1: of the same amount of that's merch that's going on

1224
00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:33,080
Speaker 1: a key chain, that's going on a wait, we gotta

1225
00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 1: draft this up quick. We need to put that out.

1226
00:57:35,160 --> 00:57:38,000
Speaker 1: We need to have them shirts by in two weeks.

1227
00:57:38,040 --> 00:57:40,680
Speaker 1: That's the name of my memoirs. You have the same

1228
00:57:40,720 --> 00:57:44,800
Speaker 1: amount of hours in a day as Tyler Perry's so

1229
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:49,320
Speaker 1: good well because like, yeah, well you know, whatever Tyler

1230
00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:53,439
Speaker 1: Perry presents, that could be the title there, that could

1231
00:57:53,440 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 1: be the description of the episode. You have the same

1232
00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:56,560
Speaker 1: amount of hours and as Tyler Perry.

1233
00:57:56,560 --> 00:57:58,720
Speaker 4: We have initially and drinking tequila.

1234
00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:01,600
Speaker 1: But that might be good one too, that people might

1235
00:58:01,640 --> 00:58:05,920
Speaker 1: go to that that's a hot title. That's like, what

1236
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:09,040
Speaker 1: the fuck is going on there? You know, Dick and

1237
00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:11,800
Speaker 1: I think that my and then they'll listen to the

1238
00:58:11,960 --> 00:58:13,400
Speaker 1: well like what are they gonna get to the second

1239
00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:16,120
Speaker 1: like we're stop talking about this god damn cereal? Yeah?

1240
00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:19,320
Speaker 1: What kind of cereal was it? Yeah? What kind of

1241
00:58:19,320 --> 00:58:19,840
Speaker 1: cereal was it?

1242
00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:21,680
Speaker 4: Yeah? I was curious as well.

1243
00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:25,160
Speaker 1: Something I don't even funk with, like that honey bunches

1244
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 1: of oats the box. No, no, no, I know what

1245
00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 1: you mean, but like I know what you can I get.

1246
00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:35,560
Speaker 3: I eat like Lucky charms and corn pops like that's

1247
00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:36,240
Speaker 3: that's what I had.

1248
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:39,720
Speaker 2: Snucks, Yeah, stuff like oh smacks, that was the really.

1249
00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:42,240
Speaker 1: Portra never had smacks. My mother loved us way too much.

1250
00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:45,360
Speaker 1: Honey bunch of the oats is the best cereal in

1251
00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:49,640
Speaker 1: the world. The blue box with the almonds antie who Yeah.

1252
00:58:49,680 --> 00:58:53,640
Speaker 3: So I mean these are all real things, but you know,

1253
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:54,920
Speaker 3: I just obviously wanted what.

1254
00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:55,880
Speaker 2: Do you want your legacy to be?

1255
00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:57,400
Speaker 1: Friend? Just be more positive?

1256
00:58:58,360 --> 00:59:03,080
Speaker 3: No, I really want to nail this freaking solo show

1257
00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:07,880
Speaker 3: down and and tour and go to Edinburgh with it

1258
00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:12,280
Speaker 3: and yes and fucking win crush. You know, I come

1259
00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:14,880
Speaker 3: to Edinburgh with you for like a week. I like,

1260
00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:19,240
Speaker 3: I literally feel like I can do it. And it's

1261
00:59:19,280 --> 00:59:21,919
Speaker 3: not like I don't have the material. There's stuff that's

1262
00:59:21,920 --> 00:59:26,240
Speaker 3: like funny or an interesting life.

1263
00:59:26,560 --> 00:59:30,000
Speaker 1: But so what is the solo show going to be about?

1264
00:59:30,000 --> 00:59:30,960
Speaker 1: The news? I changed it.

1265
00:59:31,240 --> 00:59:33,320
Speaker 3: I changed the name. It's called how to Start a

1266
00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:35,320
Speaker 3: Fire and it's.

1267
00:59:35,160 --> 00:59:35,919
Speaker 1: At a fire.

1268
00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:38,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, that also how to start a fire.

1269
00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:43,240
Speaker 3: And it's so it's little bits of situations that start

1270
00:59:43,520 --> 00:59:46,520
Speaker 3: something bigger than what it was going to be. So like,

1271
00:59:46,640 --> 00:59:50,040
Speaker 3: I didn't grow up with my mom, and that is

1272
00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:54,040
Speaker 3: essentially why I burned my house down. But then I'm

1273
00:59:54,040 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 3: going to talk about it, I mean or no, just

1274
00:59:57,600 --> 00:59:59,720
Speaker 3: acting out like because I was, I grew up with

1275
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:00,680
Speaker 3: your citizens.

1276
01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:02,280
Speaker 1: So it's like you a kid, you want to do kitchen,

1277
01:00:02,800 --> 01:00:05,280
Speaker 1: You don't. Not all kids burn their houses down. But

1278
01:00:05,320 --> 01:00:09,600
Speaker 1: I heard friend no, Wow, Okay, so I think everything

1279
01:00:09,800 --> 01:00:14,680
Speaker 1: leading facts fox, everything leading up to the fire or

1280
01:00:14,760 --> 01:00:21,960
Speaker 1: like like that, plus yeah other yeah, other little fires. Okay.

1281
01:00:21,960 --> 01:00:23,840
Speaker 1: It's gonna be an hour long thing. Yeah, and you're

1282
01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:25,560
Speaker 1: gonna run in a couple of times before you try

1283
01:00:25,560 --> 01:00:28,000
Speaker 1: to How do you submit for Edinburgh? You gotta tape it?

1284
01:00:28,760 --> 01:00:30,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta tape it and submit it.

1285
01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:33,800
Speaker 3: But also there's the booker of like Live Nation and

1286
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:36,720
Speaker 3: stuff that like goes out and like looks for people

1287
01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:37,920
Speaker 3: who have these hours.

1288
01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:40,600
Speaker 1: Okay, well who the booker for Live Nation. Let's google that.

1289
01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:45,640
Speaker 3: No, she saw me last year and so and she

1290
01:00:45,760 --> 01:00:49,400
Speaker 3: had reached out to Brandon about it. So hopefully we

1291
01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:52,200
Speaker 3: can come back. But that was about death of a

1292
01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:55,760
Speaker 3: bottle girl. So and uh I need that because it's

1293
01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:57,120
Speaker 3: just like I don't want to I don't want to

1294
01:00:57,120 --> 01:00:58,080
Speaker 3: talk about that stuff no more.

1295
01:00:58,200 --> 01:01:03,000
Speaker 1: Yeah we've grown, Yeah, that's we are anymore. No, but yeah,

1296
01:01:03,160 --> 01:01:05,160
Speaker 1: so we'll see. I don't know.

1297
01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:09,920
Speaker 3: I'm like, just be positive, you know, just speaking into

1298
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:11,240
Speaker 3: an existence and.

1299
01:01:11,280 --> 01:01:15,160
Speaker 1: Well that's what okay, but you you say that in

1300
01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:19,360
Speaker 1: that tone and speaking stuff into existence is is kind

1301
01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:22,520
Speaker 1: of real sometimes, you know, like no yes.

1302
01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:24,400
Speaker 2: And none of what I'm saying it is, yeah, you're

1303
01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:25,120
Speaker 2: no yes.

1304
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Speaker 1: Because like the episode of the Patreon and I feel

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01:01:28,600 --> 01:01:30,960
Speaker 1: like we should almost release that one episode of the

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01:01:30,960 --> 01:01:32,920
Speaker 1: Patreon on the regular podcast because I thought it was

1307
01:01:32,960 --> 01:01:36,080
Speaker 1: really good. It was about me going to just for

1308
01:01:36,160 --> 01:01:39,840
Speaker 1: Last in Montreal whatever twenty seventeen, and I was talking

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01:01:39,840 --> 01:01:42,760
Speaker 1: about it like I got it. Remember, Yeah, I was like,

1310
01:01:42,800 --> 01:01:44,800
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be available that day. I'm gonna be

1311
01:01:44,840 --> 01:01:48,640
Speaker 1: in Montreal. And then I got it and it was like, oh,

1312
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:52,960
Speaker 1: I never talk like that. I never speak things into existence,

1313
01:01:53,000 --> 01:01:56,120
Speaker 1: and then it happened. So I don't know, friend, maybe

1314
01:01:56,160 --> 01:01:59,600
Speaker 1: he keeps speaking positively, Andrew Is, there's stuff that you

1315
01:01:59,640 --> 01:02:01,400
Speaker 1: want to speak into existence.

1316
01:02:01,760 --> 01:02:04,000
Speaker 4: I just want to be able to do more, but

1317
01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:07,760
Speaker 4: do more. What I like being in front of people.

1318
01:02:08,160 --> 01:02:10,960
Speaker 4: I'm around comedians all the time. Obviously you want to

1319
01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:15,040
Speaker 4: be a comedian. No, I but I like I like trivia.

1320
01:02:15,360 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 4: I like that's fun for me, like competition and watching

1321
01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:24,800
Speaker 4: people when they're competing for something. And yeah, maybe you should.

1322
01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:30,160
Speaker 1: Maybe you should write some type of trivia show or competition.

1323
01:02:29,800 --> 01:02:31,840
Speaker 2: I have and pitch it to a network.

1324
01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:37,520
Speaker 4: Oh okay, maybe for the Stars event the first week

1325
01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:40,480
Speaker 4: of February Oscars Trivia Coco Downtown.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I've been to Poco.

1327
01:02:42,600 --> 01:02:45,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's cute. Yeah it's nice too.

1328
01:02:45,720 --> 01:02:49,800
Speaker 4: It'll be downstairs, right, Yeah, I've done it before there.

1329
01:02:49,960 --> 01:02:53,440
Speaker 4: And if they do it upstairs or downstairs, upstairs and downstairs,

1330
01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:55,200
Speaker 4: maybe they.

1331
01:02:55,120 --> 01:02:57,360
Speaker 1: Got colum are you there? I feel like they got kind.

1332
01:02:57,200 --> 01:03:01,920
Speaker 4: Of like Spanish fit. I feel like column are Spanish.

1333
01:03:04,200 --> 01:03:05,280
Speaker 1: The word feels Spanish.

1334
01:03:05,600 --> 01:03:08,920
Speaker 2: Calm is like, isn't it Mediterranean?

1335
01:03:11,040 --> 01:03:11,480
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1336
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:18,880
Speaker 1: Well, listen, you ask this dumb and dumber, two stupid dogs.

1337
01:03:20,040 --> 01:03:24,560
Speaker 1: That is us, that is us. Yeah.

1338
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:27,040
Speaker 3: Well, if you made it this far to the damn podcast,

1339
01:03:27,040 --> 01:03:28,080
Speaker 3: because we did.

1340
01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:29,040
Speaker 1: We did drag that on.

1341
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:30,960
Speaker 2: I mean, that's just what it is.

1342
01:03:31,040 --> 01:03:31,120
Speaker 4: Like.

1343
01:03:31,240 --> 01:03:33,520
Speaker 3: I mean, sometimes you listen to podcasts and it's all

1344
01:03:33,600 --> 01:03:36,360
Speaker 3: like structured and they're talking about pop culture, and then

1345
01:03:36,520 --> 01:03:37,560
Speaker 3: it's us giving.

1346
01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:41,480
Speaker 2: You real ship, giving you what's in our life for real.

1347
01:03:41,560 --> 01:03:47,520
Speaker 1: Tea behind the weave curtains, Yes, behind the Brazilian Remy

1348
01:03:47,960 --> 01:03:51,600
Speaker 1: curtains by Maven Hair? Thank you shut up? Were remy hair?

1349
01:03:51,680 --> 01:03:54,280
Speaker 1: Is that a thing? Probably? I don't know, but.

1350
01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:58,800
Speaker 3: I think that's, Uh, that's important because you you listen

1351
01:03:58,840 --> 01:04:01,600
Speaker 3: to podcasts and you think you're friends with that person

1352
01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:04,200
Speaker 3: or you know them, and but you're just getting a

1353
01:04:04,280 --> 01:04:07,720
Speaker 3: version of them. You don't know what really is going

1354
01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:12,959
Speaker 3: on because they're giving you a caricature of who they are.

1355
01:04:13,320 --> 01:04:15,000
Speaker 2: Because that's like, that's how you get fans.

1356
01:04:15,080 --> 01:04:20,240
Speaker 3: But I do appreciate us because from from jump, we

1357
01:04:20,360 --> 01:04:23,680
Speaker 3: have been very honest, and we're not trying to make

1358
01:04:23,720 --> 01:04:26,760
Speaker 3: any caricterture of ourselves is just just what it is.

1359
01:04:27,200 --> 01:04:30,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, also, you know, some our friends made

1360
01:04:30,480 --> 01:04:33,120
Speaker 1: two hundred and fifty thousand dollars podcast.

1361
01:04:33,600 --> 01:04:36,720
Speaker 3: I was, I'm gonna send you the episode. I mean,

1362
01:04:36,760 --> 01:04:38,480
Speaker 3: she's coming on the podcast anyway, but you got to

1363
01:04:38,520 --> 01:04:41,720
Speaker 3: listen to it before we interview her, because it's fucking amazing.

1364
01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:44,600
Speaker 3: It is probably the best episode I've ever heard of

1365
01:04:44,640 --> 01:04:48,800
Speaker 3: a podcast. Yes, she gives you everything anything that you

1366
01:04:48,840 --> 01:04:52,640
Speaker 3: need to like succeed in a podcast. I'm like, you

1367
01:04:52,680 --> 01:04:54,000
Speaker 3: need to listen to it, and then we need to

1368
01:04:54,000 --> 01:04:59,120
Speaker 3: get together and like ready breaks, Okay, dollars Ford podcast.

1369
01:05:00,120 --> 01:05:05,160
Speaker 3: We've been we've been doing what this, yeah, which is great,

1370
01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:08,720
Speaker 3: but yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, but the subject matter

1371
01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:11,520
Speaker 3: was different. And she said when they went on tour,

1372
01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:16,120
Speaker 3: they paid the venues, They paid the venues, and then

1373
01:05:16,320 --> 01:05:18,000
Speaker 3: they do the show and then they gave the money back,

1374
01:05:18,200 --> 01:05:21,400
Speaker 3: So they were they were putting their money into themselves

1375
01:05:21,440 --> 01:05:24,120
Speaker 3: and and actually tripled, quadrupled.

1376
01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:26,440
Speaker 1: What do you mean they paid the venues because they

1377
01:05:26,480 --> 01:05:28,000
Speaker 1: didn't just sell tickets.

1378
01:05:29,840 --> 01:05:32,360
Speaker 3: There, they didn't have agents or anything like that, so

1379
01:05:32,440 --> 01:05:36,040
Speaker 3: they were they were picking up the phone, doing the

1380
01:05:36,080 --> 01:05:37,960
Speaker 3: emails and reaching out.

1381
01:05:38,200 --> 01:05:41,400
Speaker 1: Good for them. Yeah, it literally it couldn't happen to

1382
01:05:41,440 --> 01:05:43,480
Speaker 1: two better girls from the Bronx.

1383
01:05:43,640 --> 01:05:47,720
Speaker 3: Yes, it made me flip. I message her and I said,

1384
01:05:47,760 --> 01:05:51,000
Speaker 3: you know everything I said about your nails. I was kidding, no,

1385
01:05:51,080 --> 01:05:53,360
Speaker 3: but I messed her. I was like, this is so inspiring.

1386
01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:56,280
Speaker 3: And you know, some people like hold back information and

1387
01:05:56,320 --> 01:05:58,600
Speaker 3: they don't want to be helpful, but she was like.

1388
01:05:59,520 --> 01:06:03,040
Speaker 1: So help Like she's helpful, but she's making money. She's like,

1389
01:06:03,080 --> 01:06:05,240
Speaker 1: I'm not worried about y'all all stealing my money. My

1390
01:06:05,280 --> 01:06:07,320
Speaker 1: money is gonna get it's gonna be here regardless of

1391
01:06:07,360 --> 01:06:10,640
Speaker 1: you guys. We're talking about our friends at Horrible Decisions podcasts.

1392
01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:14,160
Speaker 1: Shout out to those hosts. They are fucking fantastic, horrible

1393
01:06:14,320 --> 01:06:15,480
Speaker 1: yea horribles.

1394
01:06:15,520 --> 01:06:17,600
Speaker 3: You should listen to the podcast. I don't know what

1395
01:06:17,680 --> 01:06:20,080
Speaker 3: y'all do, but y'all should definitely listen. It's they're great.

1396
01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:22,000
Speaker 1: We did an episode. I don't know, I feel like,

1397
01:06:22,240 --> 01:06:25,160
Speaker 1: you know, it's hard to be that open. Uh. They

1398
01:06:25,280 --> 01:06:27,520
Speaker 1: you know, they be talking about who they banging and

1399
01:06:27,560 --> 01:06:32,000
Speaker 1: how they bang them. And our most listened episode last

1400
01:06:32,040 --> 01:06:32,960
Speaker 1: year was Ibrahu.

1401
01:06:33,480 --> 01:06:35,760
Speaker 2: So y'all are some nosey ass.

1402
01:06:35,920 --> 01:06:37,439
Speaker 1: But that's what that's what they are.

1403
01:06:37,560 --> 01:06:39,800
Speaker 2: I mean, they they waiting, they waiting for me.

1404
01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:42,320
Speaker 1: They like Sydney Sidney, I also am waiting for They

1405
01:06:42,400 --> 01:06:46,040
Speaker 1: DM me frequently like Sydney, Okay, what's good? What's what's

1406
01:06:46,080 --> 01:06:46,480
Speaker 1: going on?

1407
01:06:46,560 --> 01:06:49,600
Speaker 2: And I'm like, calm down, like I'm not Sydney.

1408
01:06:49,600 --> 01:06:51,200
Speaker 1: You need to spill the tea. I'm trying to get

1409
01:06:51,240 --> 01:06:54,600
Speaker 1: my mental together. I'm we don't care about your mental

1410
01:06:54,640 --> 01:06:56,400
Speaker 1: right now. Tell us what the cat doing so we

1411
01:06:56,440 --> 01:06:58,040
Speaker 1: can make a quarter million doubts.

1412
01:06:58,080 --> 01:07:01,040
Speaker 3: All right, Well, if y'all just keep going to the Patreon,

1413
01:07:01,040 --> 01:07:03,120
Speaker 3: I'll have enough money to spread my cat real thin.

1414
01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:09,280
Speaker 3: I'll be able to go on trips and be like, ah,

1415
01:07:09,640 --> 01:07:13,400
Speaker 3: that's good, you know, going up put your pussy on

1416
01:07:13,480 --> 01:07:15,600
Speaker 3: some brioch toast and tell people what's happening with it?

1417
01:07:15,640 --> 01:07:18,600
Speaker 3: Please let us know what also merch? You know, I'm

1418
01:07:18,640 --> 01:07:21,200
Speaker 3: ready for you know, pussy excursions?

1419
01:07:21,680 --> 01:07:24,439
Speaker 1: Are you not? Really? But I mean I just want

1420
01:07:24,560 --> 01:07:25,120
Speaker 1: to pretend.

1421
01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:27,840
Speaker 3: I literally I'll go on trips and see other people

1422
01:07:27,880 --> 01:07:29,240
Speaker 3: do stuff and I'll be like I did that.

1423
01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:30,680
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?

1424
01:07:31,120 --> 01:07:32,560
Speaker 2: You were to take other people's storiesn't.

1425
01:07:32,760 --> 01:07:35,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, when I was doing Uberpool, When I was doing

1426
01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:37,560
Speaker 3: Uberpool stories, there was like, yeah, a lot of stuff

1427
01:07:37,560 --> 01:07:39,080
Speaker 3: had happened to me. But there was also times I

1428
01:07:39,120 --> 01:07:41,240
Speaker 3: was talking to people and drivers and they would tell

1429
01:07:41,240 --> 01:07:42,440
Speaker 3: me stuff and I would write that shit down.

1430
01:07:42,480 --> 01:07:46,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, ah, that happened to me. Due erasure. God

1431
01:07:46,000 --> 01:07:49,360
Speaker 1: bless if you're erasing other people. Those are real people

1432
01:07:49,680 --> 01:07:54,280
Speaker 1: and you're stealing their stories, They're fantastic. I don't know.

1433
01:07:54,360 --> 01:07:57,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep that's an American way. I'm gonna keep

1434
01:07:57,120 --> 01:07:59,080
Speaker 1: sitting on people's faces and then maybe I'll tell you

1435
01:07:59,120 --> 01:08:01,520
Speaker 1: guys about it. But you know, because it's a lot.

1436
01:08:01,600 --> 01:08:03,360
Speaker 1: It's a lot to be putting all of my sexual

1437
01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:05,760
Speaker 1: congress out there because some of these hoes be listening

1438
01:08:05,800 --> 01:08:08,200
Speaker 1: to what I do. And uh, and these hoes, I mean,

1439
01:08:08,200 --> 01:08:11,600
Speaker 1: the people that I'm sleeping with, the they're loyal, No

1440
01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:13,440
Speaker 1: they're not. But also like maybe I want to run

1441
01:08:13,480 --> 01:08:17,640
Speaker 1: for senator someday, you know, like I really marine maybe.

1442
01:08:17,280 --> 01:08:21,880
Speaker 4: Sidney Andrew, No, not say what you said earlier about

1443
01:08:21,920 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 4: like you just saying whatever you want.

1444
01:08:24,040 --> 01:08:27,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, also I can say whatever and they're run for

1445
01:08:27,439 --> 01:08:29,519
Speaker 1: senate and for Senate. But that's what I'm saying. I

1446
01:08:29,560 --> 01:08:31,160
Speaker 1: say what I want, are you guys? You guys are

1447
01:08:31,160 --> 01:08:34,120
Speaker 1: missing the word want. There. I can say whatever I want, right,

1448
01:08:34,240 --> 01:08:35,880
Speaker 1: you can, but I don't want to say I'm not

1449
01:08:35,880 --> 01:08:39,360
Speaker 1: gonna say it because I might run for the Senate. Okay, Andrew,

1450
01:08:39,400 --> 01:08:41,240
Speaker 1: I see that you're not. You're not gonna be donating

1451
01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:46,160
Speaker 1: to the campaign. Sis. Well if they pull up episodes

1452
01:08:46,200 --> 01:08:50,000
Speaker 1: from what two years ago? What did I said?

1453
01:08:50,000 --> 01:08:50,719
Speaker 2: Two years Okay?

1454
01:08:50,760 --> 01:08:51,120
Speaker 6: You know what.

1455
01:08:53,280 --> 01:08:56,080
Speaker 1: I want. I want us to do one weekend where

1456
01:08:56,080 --> 01:08:58,439
Speaker 1: we go over a couple of episodes and just like

1457
01:08:58,800 --> 01:09:00,800
Speaker 1: pick a date and be like boom, let's listen and

1458
01:09:00,800 --> 01:09:03,880
Speaker 1: be like, wow, that was problematic. Everything that we say

1459
01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:05,200
Speaker 1: is not problem I think you just like saying the

1460
01:09:05,240 --> 01:09:05,919
Speaker 1: word problematic.

1461
01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:08,000
Speaker 4: I know that. When I started working for you and

1462
01:09:08,040 --> 01:09:12,599
Speaker 4: you immediately assigned gay intern to me, I was like.

1463
01:09:12,840 --> 01:09:15,040
Speaker 1: I was like tall gay producer intern.

1464
01:09:15,120 --> 01:09:18,080
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, and like I was like annoyed by. I

1465
01:09:18,120 --> 01:09:20,920
Speaker 4: was like because I didn't understand you guys yet. And

1466
01:09:20,960 --> 01:09:25,400
Speaker 4: I was like they're calling me identifying me like gay,

1467
01:09:25,520 --> 01:09:28,160
Speaker 4: that's it. That's and then also intern, which I'm.

1468
01:09:28,040 --> 01:09:30,680
Speaker 3: Not wait, wit, hold on, you just erased the other

1469
01:09:30,880 --> 01:09:32,759
Speaker 3: we said producer tall, sexy.

1470
01:09:33,080 --> 01:09:34,800
Speaker 2: No, but producer was added.

1471
01:09:34,720 --> 01:09:37,320
Speaker 4: After after I said I am not.

1472
01:09:37,760 --> 01:09:39,240
Speaker 1: Because Andrew, I don't know you was getting paid. I

1473
01:09:39,280 --> 01:09:41,160
Speaker 1: was like, you're doing this for credits.

1474
01:09:43,960 --> 01:09:45,720
Speaker 4: You not in school. But still get this.

1475
01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:47,479
Speaker 1: I didn't know that you weren't in school. You got

1476
01:09:47,479 --> 01:09:50,160
Speaker 1: this young ass baby face, you know, beige people age

1477
01:09:50,320 --> 01:09:55,599
Speaker 1: like Sydney finished the sentence like Steve Steve Bush. So

1478
01:09:55,920 --> 01:09:57,960
Speaker 1: I didn't know how old you were, but you are

1479
01:09:58,479 --> 01:10:01,599
Speaker 1: quite young, so I young. I called you an intern

1480
01:10:01,680 --> 01:10:04,840
Speaker 1: because I didn't think that you were getting paid. I mean,

1481
01:10:04,880 --> 01:10:07,920
Speaker 1: you work here, so we called you sexy hot.

1482
01:10:08,040 --> 01:10:11,360
Speaker 3: There was like so many other things on top of it,

1483
01:10:11,439 --> 01:10:12,759
Speaker 3: said I was so offended.

1484
01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:15,080
Speaker 4: I wasn't offended. I was just like, Okay, I don't

1485
01:10:15,120 --> 01:10:18,880
Speaker 4: really know what they they're you know how they're He

1486
01:10:19,000 --> 01:10:21,800
Speaker 4: was like, how dare he how they're saying it? Yeah,

1487
01:10:21,880 --> 01:10:23,640
Speaker 4: but honestly, Andrew.

1488
01:10:23,400 --> 01:10:26,600
Speaker 1: Mek you tall gay producer intern is will put you

1489
01:10:26,680 --> 01:10:28,120
Speaker 1: on the map with the podcast, So.

1490
01:10:28,080 --> 01:10:30,240
Speaker 4: You I know that's like.

1491
01:10:31,880 --> 01:10:34,559
Speaker 1: To be thinking me, but I'm not gonna wait for that.

1492
01:10:34,720 --> 01:10:39,559
Speaker 1: But yeah, because the Lost Culture reasons were called Joe Joe,

1493
01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:40,840
Speaker 1: I didn't even know that.

1494
01:10:41,040 --> 01:10:43,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, not h I A.

1495
01:10:44,200 --> 01:10:45,880
Speaker 1: Yeah mm hmmm.

1496
01:10:46,720 --> 01:10:47,360
Speaker 4: Disrespect.

1497
01:10:47,600 --> 01:10:50,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, well I'm glad you got that off your chest.

1498
01:10:50,560 --> 01:10:53,519
Speaker 1: But the EXPRESSI date for you being angry about that past.

1499
01:10:53,760 --> 01:10:56,320
Speaker 4: I understand and thought it was relevant to bring up.

1500
01:10:56,880 --> 01:10:58,080
Speaker 1: But you feel better about it now.

1501
01:10:58,320 --> 01:10:59,920
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you guys can call me whatever.

1502
01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:03,200
Speaker 1: We'll call you by your name, thank you.

1503
01:11:03,479 --> 01:11:04,400
Speaker 4: Prob by my name.

1504
01:11:04,680 --> 01:11:08,719
Speaker 1: Okay. Well, Happy New Year, Happy birthday, Andrew.

1505
01:11:08,520 --> 01:11:11,559
Speaker 4: Wins your birthday, Well, happy birthday.

1506
01:11:12,200 --> 01:11:16,240
Speaker 1: But lated you know, I hope that everybody in this room,

1507
01:11:16,520 --> 01:11:19,439
Speaker 1: maybe not this year, but in the very near future,

1508
01:11:20,439 --> 01:11:24,439
Speaker 1: you know, our legacies start to really pop off this year.

1509
01:11:24,720 --> 01:11:25,800
Speaker 1: That's that's what I hope.

1510
01:11:26,520 --> 01:11:29,519
Speaker 4: You both already have a great legacy. I am like

1511
01:11:29,600 --> 01:11:31,920
Speaker 4: so proud to say that I work with you.

1512
01:11:32,800 --> 01:11:36,479
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, Andrew, Okay, before we go, heard that some

1513
01:11:36,600 --> 01:11:41,040
Speaker 1: podcast listeners have recognized your voice in the streets recently.

1514
01:11:41,320 --> 01:11:43,919
Speaker 4: So crazy. I was talking to my friend on the phone.

1515
01:11:44,560 --> 01:11:46,960
Speaker 4: I always talk so loudly on the phone on the street.

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01:11:47,120 --> 01:11:51,240
Speaker 3: That's crazy because you have such a like WBLS sexy,

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01:11:52,000 --> 01:11:53,799
Speaker 3: quiet storm gay voice.

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01:11:54,080 --> 01:11:56,679
Speaker 2: Here you talked loudly to your friends on the phone, yea.

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01:11:56,880 --> 01:11:59,080
Speaker 4: Like everyone could hear everything, and you're.

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01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:01,800
Speaker 1: A black woman at the movies. Okay, so you're on

1521
01:12:01,840 --> 01:12:03,400
Speaker 1: the phone with your friend and what happened?

1522
01:12:03,520 --> 01:12:07,240
Speaker 4: And someone sees me walking into my apartment and they're like,

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01:12:07,320 --> 01:12:10,080
Speaker 4: are you Andrew? It was Near's Eve and I was

1524
01:12:10,120 --> 01:12:12,360
Speaker 4: like yeah, and they're like, oh, we listen to the podcast,

1525
01:12:12,360 --> 01:12:13,720
Speaker 4: so they didn't even know what I looked like, which

1526
01:12:13,720 --> 01:12:15,960
Speaker 4: I thought was like the funniest part Psycho.

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01:12:16,160 --> 01:12:20,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, but they heard fucking crazy and we love it

1528
01:12:20,479 --> 01:12:20,800
Speaker 1: for it.

1529
01:12:20,880 --> 01:12:22,320
Speaker 2: Ah, keep that same energy.

1530
01:12:22,320 --> 01:12:24,320
Speaker 1: In twenty two, we were walking into your apartment and

1531
01:12:24,360 --> 01:12:25,879
Speaker 1: somebody was like, are you Andrew?

1532
01:12:26,040 --> 01:12:27,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I was like this is the window, Like

1533
01:12:27,680 --> 01:12:29,719
Speaker 4: this is the window that I saw. I'm getting fucked

1534
01:12:30,720 --> 01:12:32,320
Speaker 4: wow l lol.

1535
01:12:32,840 --> 01:12:35,240
Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, y'all need to just do that more.

1536
01:12:35,320 --> 01:12:38,439
Speaker 3: Y'all need to go up to people who Sidney Marie.

1537
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:41,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, but the podcast people recognize our faces though.

1538
01:12:41,479 --> 01:12:44,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like people have recognized me on the subway and

1539
01:12:44,560 --> 01:12:46,200
Speaker 1: they won't say anything to me, but I'll get home

1540
01:12:46,240 --> 01:12:47,240
Speaker 1: and I'll have a message.

1541
01:12:46,960 --> 01:12:48,559
Speaker 2: In my Instagram and they'll be like, oh, so you're

1542
01:12:48,560 --> 01:12:49,160
Speaker 2: on the B train.

1543
01:12:49,320 --> 01:12:53,240
Speaker 1: You did not look happy, Yeah, big fan, And I'd

1544
01:12:53,280 --> 01:12:56,960
Speaker 1: be like, that's just my face mm hm, anyway, I

1545
01:12:57,000 --> 01:12:57,320
Speaker 1: love that.

1546
01:12:57,840 --> 01:13:00,519
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was a great way to end the decade

1547
01:13:00,600 --> 01:13:00,840
Speaker 4: for me.

1548
01:13:01,400 --> 01:13:01,960
Speaker 2: We love it.

1549
01:13:02,040 --> 01:13:05,800
Speaker 1: Please continue to recognize Andrew's voice and stopping him on

1550
01:13:05,840 --> 01:13:07,800
Speaker 1: the street and telling him what you do, what you

1551
01:13:07,840 --> 01:13:09,160
Speaker 1: do like about him. Don't tell me what you don't

1552
01:13:09,160 --> 01:13:11,000
Speaker 1: like about him. You could send that to us a message.

1553
01:13:11,120 --> 01:13:14,880
Speaker 3: And I got on iTunes and people were messaging and

1554
01:13:14,920 --> 01:13:18,200
Speaker 3: saying we bullied them into putting comments and reviewing.

1555
01:13:18,240 --> 01:13:19,040
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck.

1556
01:13:19,120 --> 01:13:21,640
Speaker 3: If you feel like you're getting bullied, get to iTunes,

1557
01:13:21,920 --> 01:13:24,559
Speaker 3: keep rating, and I see, I see your comments. I

1558
01:13:24,560 --> 01:13:27,000
Speaker 3: see the rates they're going up. I want to make

1559
01:13:27,040 --> 01:13:30,360
Speaker 3: sure that we have a thousand reviews in a few

1560
01:13:30,479 --> 01:13:31,519
Speaker 3: oh my god, few weeks.

1561
01:13:31,520 --> 01:13:35,920
Speaker 1: Speaking of joining and adding, so you know a but

1562
01:13:36,200 --> 01:13:39,360
Speaker 1: like twenty people will subscribe to the patreon Yeah and

1563
01:13:39,479 --> 01:13:41,559
Speaker 1: the last yea the paton is.

1564
01:13:43,640 --> 01:13:45,040
Speaker 2: So I sent a message to.

1565
01:13:45,439 --> 01:13:49,280
Speaker 1: Like eighteen people, just thanking them for like joining or whatever. Whatever.

1566
01:13:49,400 --> 01:13:52,639
Speaker 1: Oh wow, And this woman sent me a message she said,

1567
01:13:52,760 --> 01:13:54,519
Speaker 1: I know, I know it took me a while, but

1568
01:13:54,560 --> 01:13:56,720
Speaker 1: I can say I'm glad I finally did. I'm a

1569
01:13:56,760 --> 01:14:00,000
Speaker 1: serial podcast listener and I heard you too on Horrible decision.

1570
01:14:00,240 --> 01:14:01,960
Speaker 1: Oh look at that, And you two have been all

1571
01:14:02,000 --> 01:14:04,679
Speaker 1: I listened to since I'm a forty six year old

1572
01:14:04,720 --> 01:14:08,320
Speaker 1: recent empty nester that lives in Dallas, Okay, and your

1573
01:14:08,360 --> 01:14:10,519
Speaker 1: podcast has literally helped me get through some quiet, boring

1574
01:14:10,560 --> 01:14:12,800
Speaker 1: ass evenings at home by myself while I attempt to

1575
01:14:12,800 --> 01:14:14,840
Speaker 1: figure out who the fuck I am now that I'm

1576
01:14:14,880 --> 01:14:17,160
Speaker 1: no longer just a single mom raising a star athlete

1577
01:14:17,280 --> 01:14:19,439
Speaker 1: and an amazing daughter. So she's bragging about, you know,

1578
01:14:19,479 --> 01:14:22,040
Speaker 1: scholarship athletes. Okay, work, work work. Because of Marie, I

1579
01:14:22,080 --> 01:14:24,799
Speaker 1: cut my massive head of hair, and because of Sydney

1580
01:14:24,840 --> 01:14:25,760
Speaker 1: I started looking for.

1581
01:14:25,720 --> 01:14:27,519
Speaker 2: A therapist betterhelp dot com.

1582
01:14:28,600 --> 01:14:32,000
Speaker 1: I really appreciate your transparency and honesty and how mean

1583
01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:34,840
Speaker 1: you are, because I too am a mean ass little

1584
01:14:34,880 --> 01:14:37,960
Speaker 1: beach and I'm so glad I've found your tribe. If

1585
01:14:38,000 --> 01:14:39,679
Speaker 1: you ever do a live show in Dallas, I will

1586
01:14:39,680 --> 01:14:43,040
Speaker 1: definitely have my oldest sexy hoe ass in the audience.

1587
01:14:43,479 --> 01:14:46,080
Speaker 1: Found a great podcast, now, I could now if I

1588
01:14:46,080 --> 01:14:50,479
Speaker 1: could just find some good dick from Danny June. Anyway,

1589
01:14:50,600 --> 01:14:53,800
Speaker 1: Thanks day, Daday, love it so sweet? You didn't want it?

1590
01:14:54,120 --> 01:14:57,479
Speaker 1: Was that on Patreon Patreon. Wow, it's not a review, friend,

1591
01:14:57,520 --> 01:15:01,880
Speaker 1: that's a message goodness, great message love in Dallas. So,

1592
01:15:02,160 --> 01:15:05,040
Speaker 1: uh yeah, you're missing out on the Patreons. It's just us,

1593
01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:09,839
Speaker 1: I mean saying names. I mean, it's been wild, truly beautiful.

1594
01:15:10,000 --> 01:15:12,160
Speaker 1: The last episode we talked about, oh my god less

1595
01:15:12,200 --> 01:15:14,000
Speaker 1: episode was so good, but the audio was messed up.

1596
01:15:14,120 --> 01:15:16,080
Speaker 2: So that's what happens when you have to do stuff

1597
01:15:16,080 --> 01:15:16,840
Speaker 2: on your own, you know.

1598
01:15:16,920 --> 01:15:18,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I may or may not have talked about it

1599
01:15:18,320 --> 01:15:20,920
Speaker 1: three someone there, but you gotta go to the Patreon

1600
01:15:20,960 --> 01:15:26,920
Speaker 1: and listen to the whoa wow, wow, wow wow boomsho.

1601
01:15:27,400 --> 01:15:31,120
Speaker 1: Cute for you, Marie, cute for you, cute for us,

1602
01:15:32,280 --> 01:15:36,240
Speaker 1: cut for you, I mean the people in three. Yeah, anyway,

1603
01:15:36,320 --> 01:15:37,559
Speaker 1: thanks so much for listening.

1604
01:15:37,840 --> 01:15:39,400
Speaker 2: I hope you made it all the way to the end.

1605
01:15:39,520 --> 01:15:40,280
Speaker 2: I hope so too.

1606
01:15:40,400 --> 01:15:42,080
Speaker 1: You know, this was the lead at the end. You

1607
01:15:42,479 --> 01:15:45,960
Speaker 1: only did thirty minutes of that. You know it wasn't

1608
01:15:46,000 --> 01:15:48,960
Speaker 1: that bad, You're I mean, I'm sure people, I'm sure

1609
01:15:49,000 --> 01:15:50,479
Speaker 1: it was like a boxing match because they were like,

1610
01:15:50,640 --> 01:15:53,240
Speaker 1: they gonna fight. It's getting tense. What's up?

1611
01:15:53,360 --> 01:15:55,599
Speaker 2: They're like, no, I'm gonna say what. I didn't feel

1612
01:15:55,640 --> 01:15:57,160
Speaker 2: like I was tense. I feel like, you know, maybe

1613
01:15:57,160 --> 01:15:57,400
Speaker 2: it was.

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01:15:57,360 --> 01:16:03,080
Speaker 1: A little this is like your natural state shot. I heard,

1615
01:16:03,160 --> 01:16:05,880
Speaker 1: I receive that, and I see you, and I do

1616
01:16:05,920 --> 01:16:09,920
Speaker 1: not care. You are seeing, you are heard, and you

1617
01:16:09,960 --> 01:16:14,600
Speaker 1: are ignored. Left one red hun Yeah. We love you

1618
01:16:14,600 --> 01:16:17,559
Speaker 1: guys so much. Thanks for.

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01:16:20,720 --> 01:16:24,240
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1620
01:16:24,240 --> 01:16:29,600
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01:16:29,680 --> 01:16:33,840
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