1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:04,360 Speaker 1: Welcome to Stuff you should Know from House Stuff Works 2 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:13,040 Speaker 1: dot com. Hey, and welcome to the podcast. I'm Josh Clark. 3 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: There's Charles Seby, Chuck Bryant, sons out. Jerry's over there. 4 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 1: It's the end of July. There's a son out. Can 5 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 1: you tell him this tone? I can see I have 6 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:26,279 Speaker 1: a window. I can look out behind you over your shoulder. 7 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:30,480 Speaker 1: You must I mean this. I can't imagine you're not depressed, 8 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: just staring at foam. Yeah. When I look behind me, 9 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:37,199 Speaker 1: it's like, jeez, but you're the light. Thanks. That just 10 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 1: makes everything. Okay. That's so nice of you. You're making 11 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:44,479 Speaker 1: me blessed. I know. So how are you doing? Oh 12 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 1: I'm sleepy? Okay, well, well let's get this over with. 13 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 1: So sucking. Let good ticking naps and I guess we 14 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 1: have those like Japanese style nap rooms here. We're very forward. Thing. 15 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 1: That would be wonderful House the Works. Yeah. I don't 16 00:00:57,440 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 1: think i'd be able to do that at work take 17 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 1: a nap, no, no way, No, I don't think I 18 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 1: would be able to either. But I would think it'd 19 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: be wonderful just because it would show how progressive how 20 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 1: Stuff Works is. We should have nap um cubbies that 21 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:13,319 Speaker 1: are like plexi, so you can just watch people nap. 22 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 1: How uncomfortable would that be? Or yeah, it would be 23 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 1: very uncomfortable. There's probably one or two weirdos here that 24 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: would love to do that. Yeah. Jonathan Strickland sucks is 25 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:30,639 Speaker 1: thumb not a surprise. Um? Yeah, this was cobbled together, 26 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 1: this one, which is unusual. Yeah. Where where did you 27 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:36,400 Speaker 1: get some of the information? One was the International Southern 28 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:39,480 Speaker 1: Cemetery Gravestones Association, and the other was the U S 29 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:44,759 Speaker 1: Department of Veterans Affairs, definitive sources. You know all about 30 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 1: headstones and grave markers and tombstones yea by any name. Yeah. 31 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 1: I think the professionals who make headstones or grave markers 32 00:01:56,480 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 1: or tombstones call them funeral markers, are grave markers. That's 33 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 1: the lingo of the jargon of the industry. Yes, and 34 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 1: this pairs nicely with our Coffins podcast. Dude, it pairs 35 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:08,560 Speaker 1: nicely with a bunch of them. This is part of 36 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:13,679 Speaker 1: the Dying Suite. Will never end until we die. Here 37 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 1: lies Josh and Chuck the death Swite. Um, So, Chuck, 38 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:21,640 Speaker 1: you want to talk a little bit about the history 39 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 1: of this stuff. I've got a little bit of history. 40 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 1: I don't know if you have or not about how 41 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 1: long humans have been burying the dead. Let's hear it, 42 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 1: it's pretty old. As a matter of fact, there's evidence 43 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 1: of like weird funeral rights kind of at least an 44 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 1: assemblage of people acting differently, or an assemblage of primates 45 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 1: acting differently, um around a recently deceased member of their 46 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 1: group in bunabo um apes. So they'd like to poke 47 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 1: it and think it's not moving. Um. I don't think 48 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 1: they were poking it, but the way that they were 49 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 1: interacting with one another, like those with the highest rank 50 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 1: had the most access to the body. Um, they were 51 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 1: kind of guarding it from being disturbed. Uh, like early 52 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 1: signs of respect. Interesting and apparently Neanderthals as well, UM 53 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: used to as as as far back as two fifty 54 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:25,079 Speaker 1: years ago. There's evidence that parts of the dead Neanderthals 55 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:29,079 Speaker 1: were put away from the rest of the group in 56 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 1: what you could consider like a resting place like a 57 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:33,959 Speaker 1: cave or something like that. I wonder if that started 58 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: because of just obvious things like smell and rotting bodies, 59 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: or if it was just or maybe both. Well, I mean, 60 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 1: we're hard wired for disgust to experience disgust, and disgust 61 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: warrns is like, don't eat that poop unless it's a 62 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: fecal transplant. Um, don't eat that vomit under any circumstances. 63 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 1: There's a lot of stuff that you shouldn't do, like 64 00:03:55,840 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 1: don't don't um eat that dead body. It's turned Um, 65 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 1: it's not a nice fresh dead body. So I would 66 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 1: guess that funeral rites grew out of the our sense 67 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: of disgust. Like you're saying, um, the that's just kind 68 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 1: of ambiguous stuff. Though the Neanderthals like they they de 69 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:19,279 Speaker 1: fleshed bones and then place the bones in separate places. 70 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 1: Some people are like, well, it's evidence of cannibalism. Other 71 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 1: people are saying, that's a funerary practice. The unambiguous evidence 72 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:31,039 Speaker 1: of burials comes I think about eighty thousand years ago, 73 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:34,359 Speaker 1: between forty thousand and eighty thousand years ago in Egypt, 74 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:40,040 Speaker 1: child was buried um next to a cobble pit. What's that? 75 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 1: It's where you like, you excavate stone to like pave 76 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 1: roads or something with although forty tho years ago they 77 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:50,360 Speaker 1: weren't making roads. I'm not sure what a cobble pit 78 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:55,160 Speaker 1: is nothing to do with it's an excavation pit. Um. 79 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 1: I guess that they were excavating stones to make tools. 80 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 1: I would guess rather them roade. But there was a 81 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 1: child buried by anatomically modern humans between forty thousand and 82 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 1: eighty thousand years ago, so we've been doing it for 83 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 1: a very long time. Yeah, but this is just burial. Right. Well, 84 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 1: we're talking about our headstones and they didn't come along 85 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 1: until far after that, right. Uh, Well, there weren't well 86 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 1: let's go back and them further to Roman and Celtic times. Uh, 87 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 1: they had headstones that there were kind of it seems 88 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 1: like they were pretty advanced for the time. And then 89 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: there was a period where they weren't so um detailed, 90 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:38,040 Speaker 1: but early on they were super detailed. They would have pictures. 91 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 1: They would describe things that happened, these battles that took place. 92 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 1: If they died in battle and uh, Salmon's in Scotland, 93 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 1: they would describe the profession maybe uh if sometimes it 94 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:54,159 Speaker 1: was pictorial, like if someone was a carpenter, they wouldn't 95 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 1: say here lies a carpenter. They would just have a 96 00:05:55,920 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 1: hammer maybe, um, like a saw. Yeah, that's a that 97 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:04,279 Speaker 1: giveaway that it was a carpenter. Uh. Scotland was very descriptive. 98 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:06,480 Speaker 1: Apparently in their early days of headstones too, they would 99 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 1: describe professions. So like early on it seems just like 100 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:12,479 Speaker 1: the profession was a big deal, right, like this is 101 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 1: what they did here on earth. And in other cultures too, 102 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 1: there was this idea that you could erect a memorial 103 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:25,279 Speaker 1: to somebody by placing a stone or something, an upright stone, 104 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 1: not necessarily at their grave, but like there's things called 105 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 1: stella um that are basically just markers that say like 106 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 1: this person did this um, or this person fought this 107 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 1: battle in one or lost, or this person was great 108 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: for some reason that makes us want to memorialize it 109 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 1: by carving this into a stone and placing it upright 110 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 1: and never said this person didn't do so much. Not really, 111 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 1: that came later in the twentieth century. But the idea 112 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:56,360 Speaker 1: of stones period was before gravestones even. I think the 113 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 1: term headstone from what I gathered, is from the Jewish 114 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 1: custom of marking graves with stones and then um. I 115 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:07,599 Speaker 1: think the other cultures did that too, like uh, supposedly 116 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 1: to keep the dead from rising, they would I thought 117 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 1: that was cool. But I've also heard and I think 118 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 1: it makes sense that they didn't want the bodies to 119 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 1: be disturbed by, you know, packs of wild coyotes. Yeah, 120 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 1: so to combat that, and if you were lazy and 121 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 1: didn't feel like burying, or you lived in a place 122 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 1: where the dirt was just too hard, you could make 123 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 1: something called a cairn or carn. Yes, c A I 124 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 1: r n and right, yeah, I'm not sure I was pronounced, 125 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: which is basically like you lay the body on the ground, 126 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: maybe you dig out a little bit of a shallow pit, 127 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 1: and then you place rocks around and on top of 128 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: it so that no, not even like the hungriest coyote 129 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 1: is not going to be able to get through this 130 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 1: pile of rubble. And then you may also erect like 131 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 1: a marker at the head of it. Sure, and these 132 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 1: I think at this point pre nineteenth century, I don't 133 00:07:57,240 --> 00:08:00,240 Speaker 1: even think there were cemeteries. It was just you would 134 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 1: be buried near your family plot, near your home with 135 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 1: your family. Um, but they weren't all gathered together a 136 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 1: bunch of dead people in one area. Uh well, it 137 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 1: was the whole family, was there, Yeah, but not like 138 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 1: a cemetery. And then depending um, on where how how 139 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 1: many people lived in a village, say, eventually that morphed 140 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:26,119 Speaker 1: into a churchyard. The graveyard was moved to the church 141 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 1: because the church was so intertwined in people's everyday lives 142 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 1: that it just made sense that that's where you would 143 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 1: go to be buried. The thing is these were almost um, 144 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:44,079 Speaker 1: purposefully gloomy places. They were um reminders. Yeah, it was 145 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 1: a reminder that you're gonna die a memnto maori. The 146 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 1: churchyard itself was a reminder that you're gonna die. Um. 147 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:55,719 Speaker 1: And they were not landscaped. They were usually they had 148 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 1: a fence around him maybe, and there were the markers, 149 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 1: but that was about it. It wasn't meant to be 150 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 1: a place of solace or peace or meditation. Yeah, there's 151 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:10,199 Speaker 1: one over in my neighborhood. There's a churchyard. Uh cemetery, 152 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 1: and it is it feels a little different than just 153 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 1: your average cemetery. It is, it looks a little different, 154 00:09:16,280 --> 00:09:19,199 Speaker 1: and it's does seem a little like I don't know. Well, 155 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 1: the reason why is because you and I are used 156 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 1: to what's called the Rural Cemetery Movement, the the RCM. Right, 157 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 1: you know, you have that T shirt but that that 158 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:33,960 Speaker 1: was that came out of the nineteenth century. The I 159 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:38,319 Speaker 1: think um the early mid nineteenth century where this idea. 160 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 1: As cities built up and people became further and further 161 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 1: removed from nature, and you also had less and less 162 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:48,920 Speaker 1: space to just bury somebody in a churchyard, they started 163 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 1: moving the dead slightly to the outskirts of the city 164 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:58,080 Speaker 1: and also put some thought into landscaping the area as well. 165 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 1: So what you have is what you and I think 166 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:05,839 Speaker 1: of as a modern cemetery, very park like, nice shrubbery 167 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:09,600 Speaker 1: um paved roads that that allow people to go through 168 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 1: a nice place for visitors. So much so that very 169 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 1: early on in the rural cemetery movement, for a while 170 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: families would go picnic there on Sundays. It was like 171 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 1: a park, but you also plant you're dead there too. 172 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:25,160 Speaker 1: It was a little bit of both, but it and 173 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 1: also during this time that's not very surprising because during 174 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 1: this time death was so much more fully intricate, integrated 175 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 1: into the life of the average person that um having 176 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:38,720 Speaker 1: a picnic there on a Sunday it didn't seem at 177 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:41,680 Speaker 1: least bit bizarre. Macaw. Yeah, there weren't the hang ups 178 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:43,720 Speaker 1: like we have these days. It seems like right, because 179 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 1: nowadays it's sterilized and removed. Death is Yeah. Back to 180 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:54,720 Speaker 1: the headstones the Celts started using once Christianity came to Ireland, 181 00:10:55,160 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 1: they started using the the Celtic cross, which was originally 182 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 1: the I think called the sun cross, which was a 183 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 1: pagan symbol. But then um, I think St Patrick and 184 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 1: put the Christian cross over the sun cross and we 185 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 1: now had our Celtic cross and they started using that 186 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:18,839 Speaker 1: became kind of a common but again not um specific, 187 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:22,160 Speaker 1: just sort of like an unmarked grave still with the 188 00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: Celtic cross, no inscription, right right, Yeah, that didn't come 189 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:30,480 Speaker 1: until later. But like you said, there was um, there 190 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:33,640 Speaker 1: was a lot of symbology or symbols attached, and then 191 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:36,360 Speaker 1: over time it evolved to include things like date of birth, 192 00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 1: date of death, the person's name, um, and then inscriptions 193 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:44,079 Speaker 1: later on. Yeah, and thanks also to the Irish um. 194 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 1: They were the first ones I believed to get a 195 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:51,199 Speaker 1: little cheeky with their uh sense of humor um And 196 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 1: I don't know, but well they probably yeah. But one 197 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 1: example that in the article I read said I think 198 00:11:58,040 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 1: of me as you walk by where you now stay, 199 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 1: and so once did I, which is you know for 200 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 1: the eighteenth century. That's that's a big time funny, right 201 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 1: because it rhymes yeah exactly. But again that's what's called 202 00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:11,680 Speaker 1: the memento More. It's like a reminder that you're gonna die, 203 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:14,560 Speaker 1: so don't get too big for your breeches or don't 204 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 1: forget to go live your life. There's all sorts of 205 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:22,479 Speaker 1: reasons for that. Uh. And America and the colonies, um, 206 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:28,440 Speaker 1: colonial times, it wasn't super fancy um, and they used 207 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 1: they started to use things like limestone and marble instead 208 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:33,439 Speaker 1: of wood, which would last longer in sandstone. But then 209 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:37,120 Speaker 1: in the eighteen sixties they moved to igneous rock. Which 210 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:42,400 Speaker 1: always want to say ignacious because of I always want 211 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:45,840 Speaker 1: to say because Confederacy dunces. I think was it the 212 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 1: name of one of the characters. Yeah, the main guy, 213 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:52,839 Speaker 1: Ignacious Riley was. It's igneous. What about saying ignacious who? 214 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 1: I don't know who was? If there was ever a 215 00:12:54,960 --> 00:12:59,200 Speaker 1: name for a saint, it's ignacious saying ignacious? But what 216 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 1: was he? The saint? I don't remember, just his name 217 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:04,199 Speaker 1: always stood out to me like that is a saints name, 218 00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:08,839 Speaker 1: patron saint of podcasting? All right, Um. In the six 219 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:11,719 Speaker 1: so they started using the igneous rock, which is underground 220 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 1: cooled rock, and that was much more permanent because other 221 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:19,840 Speaker 1: stuff crumbled and you know the sandstone. Yeah, let's talk 222 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:24,160 Speaker 1: about weathering, shall we. Um And in colonial times too, 223 00:13:24,160 --> 00:13:28,600 Speaker 1: when they were using these markers and headstones. Um. So, 224 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 1: symbology has been a part of headstones for a very 225 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 1: long time, whether it was the Celtic cross or a 226 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:41,439 Speaker 1: saw to indicate a carpenter or whatever. And in the colonies, apparently, 227 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:45,679 Speaker 1: um they like to remind everybody that only the most 228 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 1: pious select few we're going to go to heaven. The 229 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 1: rest of you are going to hell. Like, no bones 230 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:56,720 Speaker 1: about it, buddy, you are going to hell. Sorry, And um, 231 00:13:57,000 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 1: I would like to use my headstone to remind you 232 00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:01,200 Speaker 1: of it. So I'm gonna put a sculling crossbones on it, 233 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 1: the death's head. They carved the death head, the death's 234 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:07,200 Speaker 1: head onto the gravestone to remind others that they were 235 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:11,959 Speaker 1: going to hell. That's what the Puritans did. Yeah. The 236 00:14:12,040 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 1: Victorians were fancy and always so they had really elaborate 237 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 1: headstones and tombs, and they were also big on like 238 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:24,880 Speaker 1: the really nice park atmosphere. Well that's what that's what 239 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:26,920 Speaker 1: it grew out of, was the Victorian era. Yeah, and 240 00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:30,520 Speaker 1: you sent a link to about some what some of 241 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 1: the Victorian symbols mean, right, Yeah, they had some there's 242 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:38,200 Speaker 1: weren't quite as they weren't intended to be a reminder 243 00:14:38,240 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 1: that you're going to hell. They were a lot more 244 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:42,560 Speaker 1: hopeful and a lot of these you still see on 245 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 1: tombstones today, headstones like modern ones and people who are 246 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 1: buried today, Like you'll see a bundle of wheat gathered together, 247 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 1: and that's the indicate that somebody lived a nice, long 248 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 1: life and and they were harvested and they will go 249 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: on and into the next life. A gateway might be 250 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:02,440 Speaker 1: nice because that means sure, that's the gateway to heaven. Yes, 251 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 1: any kind of arch or gate Yeah, butterfly is the 252 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:09,120 Speaker 1: symbol of resurrection. That's very nice. Um, if you have 253 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 1: a broken column, it indicates that you were cut down 254 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 1: in the prime of life, taken too young. Um. If 255 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 1: you have a flower that's broken, have you ever seen that? 256 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:25,360 Speaker 1: Uh No, it's like it's it's it'll be like a 257 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:28,320 Speaker 1: rose or something and then it's like snapped into That 258 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:32,400 Speaker 1: indicates that, um, you were you died suddenly and if 259 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 1: it's a bud, if it's not an open flower, it 260 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:38,120 Speaker 1: indicates it was a child. So there's like all this code. Yeah, 261 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 1: an hourglass is the transience of this life, right, or lamp, 262 00:15:42,280 --> 00:15:45,600 Speaker 1: the light of truth. Clasped hands, you know where there's 263 00:15:45,640 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 1: like somebody holding somebody else's hand that means like take care, 264 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:55,720 Speaker 1: I'll see you in a few years. Or the saddest 265 00:15:55,760 --> 00:15:58,200 Speaker 1: maybe maybe the willow tree. That's just morning and that's 266 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 1: just really sad. It is sad, but there's none of 267 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:05,040 Speaker 1: these are reminders that you're going to You're gonna go 268 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 1: to hell when you die. It's gonna be bad. The 269 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 1: Victorians were a little more uplifting. If anybody had their 270 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 1: finger on the pulse of death, it was the Victorians. 271 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 1: They just knew what they were doing. Another thing human 272 00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 1: beings did in the eighteenth century was more safe. These cages, 273 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:24,440 Speaker 1: iron cages they would put over um. But the Victorians 274 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:27,720 Speaker 1: were like, no, that's really untoward. Well get rid of those. 275 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 1: Part of the reason why is because there wasn't that 276 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:33,400 Speaker 1: need for it anymore. It was remember the cairns or 277 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 1: the carns me to stay carns. And it's probably wrong, 278 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 1: but that was to protect from coyotes disturbing the grave. 279 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 1: He also said Morls, yeahs and Kama Jacoma. Yeah, that's 280 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 1: what I said, Laura said Jacama. The more safe were 281 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 1: to protect the body from being dug up by people 282 00:16:57,880 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 1: who were robbing graves to sell the body to anatomists. Yeah, 283 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:04,160 Speaker 1: or I imagine, you know, maybe loot the body as well. 284 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:08,760 Speaker 1: On your way, like here's your body. Um, disregard where 285 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:11,639 Speaker 1: that wedding gold wedding band was on the finger right? 286 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 1: Remember Mr Burns has um the suit that Charlie Chaplin 287 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 1: was buried in in a shadow box on it. That's 288 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:22,879 Speaker 1: a good one. Uh. And that kind of you know, 289 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 1: brings us I guess, I mean that's skipping forward though. 290 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:29,520 Speaker 1: But the modern era, the last hundred years has been um, 291 00:17:29,560 --> 00:17:32,520 Speaker 1: I mean headstone. The headstone industry is a big deal. 292 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:37,159 Speaker 1: It's it's you know, people put a lot of thought 293 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 1: into what goes on their headstone or their family's headstone, 294 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 1: and cost a lot of money. And you can be 295 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 1: as ornate as you want to, or you can do 296 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 1: like in Royal Tannin bombs and invent your own fake headstone, 297 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:52,040 Speaker 1: which is pretty good. You wanting to talk about some 298 00:17:52,119 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 1: of these ones. Yeah, some of these epitats. We have 299 00:17:54,920 --> 00:17:58,399 Speaker 1: the slide show on stuff you Should Know dot Com 300 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:01,639 Speaker 1: called the twenty one remark Coble Epitaphs, and it is 301 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:05,439 Speaker 1: definitely worth checking out. Um, and this one's my favorite. 302 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 1: Chuck Charleskowski, Yeah, Fewkowski's don't try that on. Yeah, and 303 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 1: he has a little pugilist too. Yeah. Well, he was 304 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:17,240 Speaker 1: a huge boxing fan. I think he might have been 305 00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:22,280 Speaker 1: a boxer himself. He died, yeah, crazy. Yeah, for some reason, 306 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 1: I thought he was like in the eighties or something. No, 307 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:27,920 Speaker 1: he's still working in the eighties. Yeah. Boy, he didn't 308 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:31,120 Speaker 1: look good there at the end. Well, he pretty much 309 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:33,879 Speaker 1: drank him to death, I know, but he Yeah, he 310 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:36,160 Speaker 1: looked really bad. I remember seeing a documentary I think 311 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 1: from the eighties or not early nineties. Is that the 312 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:40,600 Speaker 1: one where he like kicks his wife off of the 313 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:44,400 Speaker 1: couch or something. He's like being physically abusive in the documentary. 314 00:18:45,200 --> 00:18:47,159 Speaker 1: He wasn't a nice fellow. No, he really wasn't. No, 315 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:50,640 Speaker 1: he's not at all. You saw bar Flat, right, That's 316 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 1: one of my all time favorite movies. I figured it's 317 00:18:53,320 --> 00:18:57,760 Speaker 1: a good one. Who's that one? Mitchell's Oh, it's just 318 00:18:57,800 --> 00:19:01,040 Speaker 1: a person. Yeah, these are just like no worthy. Well 319 00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:04,639 Speaker 1: this sucks that awesome, Yeah, that seems like something I 320 00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:07,920 Speaker 1: might do. Actually, well this sucks on your grace stone. Yeah, 321 00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 1: because this got me thinking of what I would want, 322 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:13,320 Speaker 1: you know, um, And I mean I didn't come up 323 00:19:13,359 --> 00:19:15,240 Speaker 1: with anything, but I think I would just want something 324 00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 1: sort of like humble, like, you know, he tried his best, 325 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:22,159 Speaker 1: but you know, maybe he didn't do such a good 326 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:28,000 Speaker 1: job all the time. Yet more, I wouldn't want to 327 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:31,720 Speaker 1: like flout, like to out anything or trump up in 328 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:34,680 Speaker 1: a life, you know, like he was a simple dude 329 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:38,359 Speaker 1: who tried to not be such a jerk. How's that? 330 00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:41,960 Speaker 1: That's a good one. What about mel Blanks? Yeah, that's 331 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:45,439 Speaker 1: all folks, that's a good one. Man. Of one thousand voices, 332 00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:47,800 Speaker 1: that's very nice. Some of these are a little smallsey 333 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:52,240 Speaker 1: and sweet. This one was good. Robert Klay Allison his tombstone. 334 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:54,960 Speaker 1: He died in seven at the age of forty seven. 335 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 1: His epitaph says he never killed a man that did 336 00:19:58,119 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 1: not need killing. That's pretty good. That's a gun slinger 337 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:03,879 Speaker 1: right there. Did you know that only like four or 338 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,920 Speaker 1: five times in the history of the United States, where 339 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:10,439 Speaker 1: was there an actual gunfight in the center of town. No, 340 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 1: it sounds like a good don't be dumb. Oh yeah, 341 00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:16,680 Speaker 1: make a mental note. I think it's verified like five 342 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:19,679 Speaker 1: times or something. It's very much a movie thing. I 343 00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:22,480 Speaker 1: mean there were plenty of gun you know, people shooting 344 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:25,920 Speaker 1: in gunfights, but but like the whole like, hi, yeah, 345 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:27,600 Speaker 1: come out in the middle of town and draw your 346 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:30,199 Speaker 1: guns at the tick of the clock or whatever. You know. 347 00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 1: Whaticed was a surprisingly good movie Three o'clock High. Did 348 00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:37,280 Speaker 1: you ever see that Richard Tyson and Casey Samasco. Yeah. 349 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:39,120 Speaker 1: I saw that when it came out and thought, man, 350 00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:41,240 Speaker 1: this is kind of a different movie. And then years 351 00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:45,520 Speaker 1: later it's sort of a cult favorite. Uh. That guy 352 00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:48,359 Speaker 1: what was his name in the movie The Bully but 353 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:50,440 Speaker 1: his real name, No, his name in the movie, I 354 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 1: don't remember. It was like he had like a scary 355 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:55,600 Speaker 1: first name or something, and he went on to a sale. 356 00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:58,680 Speaker 1: Arnold Schwartz and anger in Kindergarten Cop. I didn't see 357 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:02,440 Speaker 1: Kindergarten Cop. Really, Yeah, you should see it? All right, 358 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:04,800 Speaker 1: you want to do anymore? We should we just tell 359 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:08,320 Speaker 1: everybody to go check these out. I think we should 360 00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:11,680 Speaker 1: just near let's see this one more raised four beautiful 361 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:14,720 Speaker 1: daughters with only one bathroom, and still there was love. 362 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:18,719 Speaker 1: That's nice, It is nice. He wants to be morbid, 363 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:21,280 Speaker 1: you know, I don't know. I think there's something to 364 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 1: be said. You're just gonna be some morbids. Mine will 365 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:28,920 Speaker 1: probably say boom, I'm coming to get you right and chuck. 366 00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:32,359 Speaker 1: One more thing about um epitaphs and gravestones before we 367 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:35,239 Speaker 1: move on. UM. There was this thing. Remember why two 368 00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:38,119 Speaker 1: K y two K bug I wasn't sold on that 369 00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:40,760 Speaker 1: to begin with, Well, there are a lot of potential problems. 370 00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:44,439 Speaker 1: It wasn't just with computer programs. One of them was 371 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:47,760 Speaker 1: the grave marker industry. A lot of people by their 372 00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:52,439 Speaker 1: headstones ahead of time, and they had nineteen and then 373 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:56,560 Speaker 1: nothing after the date because they expected to die in 374 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:59,280 Speaker 1: the twentieth century. Well, a lot of people had to 375 00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 1: have this filled in and re etched because they lived 376 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:05,399 Speaker 1: into the two thousand's. There was a big problem, and 377 00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:10,840 Speaker 1: apparently a lot of long standing UM gravestone makers around 378 00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:14,000 Speaker 1: the sixties or seventies started really trying to persuade their 379 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:17,040 Speaker 1: customers did not etch that in. A lot of people 380 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:19,720 Speaker 1: didn't listen, some people did, some people didn't. Why would 381 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:22,120 Speaker 1: you get that done ahead of time? I understand picking 382 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:24,120 Speaker 1: out your plot and you're what you wanted to say, 383 00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 1: but the actual etching, like who cares? I guess these 384 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:30,439 Speaker 1: people really didn't want their families that have to do 385 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:33,520 Speaker 1: almost anything. I get that, like, just put nine nine 386 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:38,480 Speaker 1: in there, like I'm alive, it's two thousand. I gotta 387 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:41,560 Speaker 1: call that guy. Yeah exactly. I mean, what a what 388 00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:43,800 Speaker 1: a thing to have on your to do list. You 389 00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:47,480 Speaker 1: need to get my epithelf filled in and recarve, drink 390 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:51,680 Speaker 1: ovaltee and get epithets carve um. All right, So we'll 391 00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:53,480 Speaker 1: move on here after this message break and talk a 392 00:22:53,480 --> 00:23:01,840 Speaker 1: little bit about military graves and government funded headstone Okay, 393 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:05,120 Speaker 1: so government furnished headstones and this is from the Veterans 394 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 1: Affairs website. But I thought that's pretty interesting. They also 395 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:14,520 Speaker 1: call them Obama stones. That was off the cup. That 396 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 1: was good originally. UM. I found it interesting that standard 397 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 1: grave markers were even before the national cemeteries were established 398 00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:27,240 Speaker 1: in eighteen sixty two, and they had, like you know, 399 00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:29,120 Speaker 1: prior to the Civil War, they had all these frontier 400 00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:34,439 Speaker 1: armies and they would just bury you in uh, don't 401 00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:37,800 Speaker 1: bury me on the open prairie. Basically they would bury 402 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 1: you if you died in battle, not a mass grave 403 00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:41,840 Speaker 1: as in they would dump everyone in there, but um 404 00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 1: a mass grave site. Yeah. Initially, like they would just 405 00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:48,840 Speaker 1: bury everyone together, or and they wouldn't even market yeah, 406 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:51,280 Speaker 1: or you were just buried in battle like where you 407 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:53,719 Speaker 1: died if things were really tough, yeah, if yeah, if 408 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:55,520 Speaker 1: you were lucky. I'm quite sure there are plenty of 409 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:58,480 Speaker 1: soldiers who were not left on the frontier to basically 410 00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:02,840 Speaker 1: be picked off by vultures sky burial sky burials on 411 00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:06,959 Speaker 1: the on the American front here. Um, yeah, you're exactly right, 412 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 1: I'm sure. It wasn't until like the nineteenth century that 413 00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:12,719 Speaker 1: they started even marking these mask grades. It was like, oh, 414 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 1: a bunch of soldiers died here, let's take a pit, 415 00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 1: fill it in and just forget about it. Then in 416 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 1: the mid nineteenth century, like the Crimean War, for example, 417 00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:23,840 Speaker 1: they would raise a monument saying, there's a bunch of 418 00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:27,359 Speaker 1: guys buried here who fell in this battle. And it 419 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:29,880 Speaker 1: wasn't until World War One that they started to really 420 00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:34,680 Speaker 1: try to individually bury men who fell in battle. Yeah. Initially, 421 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:36,600 Speaker 1: in the Civil War days, they would um used a 422 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:40,800 Speaker 1: wooden board, UM, and it would have a registration number 423 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:43,200 Speaker 1: and some sort of inscription. But they didn't keep any 424 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:45,880 Speaker 1: kind of records of burials at that point. That came 425 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 1: along later as well. But once the Civil War happened 426 00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:53,560 Speaker 1: after the Battle of Manassas, they were like, a lot 427 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,000 Speaker 1: of people are dying here. This is becoming a problem, 428 00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:59,120 Speaker 1: Like we need to find a way to respect these soldiers. 429 00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:03,720 Speaker 1: And oh, the Quartermaster General Um from the General's Orders 430 00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:08,480 Speaker 1: in September eighteen sixty one was directed to finally start 431 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:13,879 Speaker 1: keeping records and provide headboards headboards in blank forms to 432 00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:17,080 Speaker 1: all of the commanders around the country so they could 433 00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 1: just keep track of everything at least, right, And this 434 00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 1: is the first time that anybody ever made a coordinated 435 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:27,840 Speaker 1: effort to track burials ever. Apparently. Yeah, and after the 436 00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:30,200 Speaker 1: Civil War they made an effort for the first time 437 00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 1: to relocate um people that were buried in battle and 438 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:40,080 Speaker 1: have them relocated to an official grave. Yeah. After the 439 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:42,840 Speaker 1: Civil War. Oh yeah, because they had a bunch of 440 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:48,480 Speaker 1: Confederate dead that the Southern States reclaimed and moved down 441 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,679 Speaker 1: south to bury so that they wouldn't have to be 442 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 1: buried in any Yankee earth. Yankee dirt. Uh. In eighteen 443 00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:01,760 Speaker 1: sixty five is when they started thinking, hey, these wooden 444 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:05,200 Speaker 1: burial markers are not lasting very long. No, they were 445 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:08,240 Speaker 1: expected to last about five years. They each cost at 446 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:10,920 Speaker 1: the time a dollar twenty three, which is not cheap. 447 00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 1: And so when you suddenly multiplied that by the three 448 00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:18,199 Speaker 1: hundred thousand expected dead from the Civil War that you 449 00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:22,560 Speaker 1: had to bury and then maintain their their headboards every 450 00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:25,159 Speaker 1: five years, they suddenly were like, this is gonna go 451 00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:28,680 Speaker 1: well into a million dollars over the next twenty years. 452 00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:30,440 Speaker 1: Maybe we should come up with something a little more 453 00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:35,239 Speaker 1: permanent than popsicle sticks. It was the economics of it, 454 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:39,360 Speaker 1: and the public sentiments started growing to um to hey, 455 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:42,960 Speaker 1: maybe we should memorialize these soldiers in a more permanent way. Yeah, 456 00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:45,119 Speaker 1: because a little wood thing that's rotting after a few 457 00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:48,359 Speaker 1: years is pretty kind of a disrespectful thing. And apparently 458 00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:52,399 Speaker 1: there was a huge and um vigorous debate over what 459 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:55,159 Speaker 1: we should use as a headstone. Should we use like 460 00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:59,440 Speaker 1: something like marble, or should we use something like galvanized 461 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 1: iron coated in zinc, which I wasn't even familiar that 462 00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:05,080 Speaker 1: was the thing until today. Yeah, I've never heard of 463 00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:07,359 Speaker 1: it either. And I guess over the course of like 464 00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 1: seven years there was a lot of debate and angry 465 00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,680 Speaker 1: words flying, and and um, I'm sure the marble industry 466 00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:17,159 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, yeah, Marble, and the galvanized iron industry 467 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,760 Speaker 1: was like, you better get in there and get this passed. 468 00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:22,920 Speaker 1: And then finally the marvel people won. Yeah. And in 469 00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:27,160 Speaker 1: eighteen seventy three, Secretary of War William W. Bell nap 470 00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:29,679 Speaker 1: Um said, you know what we're gonna design. These stones 471 00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:32,440 Speaker 1: are gonna be in national cemeteries, are going to be permanent, 472 00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:34,840 Speaker 1: but they're only gonna be for the known dead at 473 00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:39,080 Speaker 1: this point. The unknown came about later as well. And 474 00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:42,720 Speaker 1: not only that this is just for Union soldiers. Yeah, 475 00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,159 Speaker 1: that we're not providing for the Confederate soldiers was a 476 00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:46,880 Speaker 1: bit of a slap in the base. I believe they 477 00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:49,480 Speaker 1: reversed that position later on, and they did. And then 478 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,400 Speaker 1: anybody who'd ever fallen in battle in the United States 479 00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:56,720 Speaker 1: got a marker, and they made different markers for the 480 00:27:56,800 --> 00:28:00,240 Speaker 1: unknown dead. They were basically just blocks of stone, and 481 00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:04,800 Speaker 1: then it had the grave the burial plot carved into 482 00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:07,919 Speaker 1: the top of it. And then eventually they said we're 483 00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:11,800 Speaker 1: gonna make all of them the same everybody gets the 484 00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,639 Speaker 1: same marker. Yeah, and they made it retroactive to and 485 00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:18,960 Speaker 1: started started including past wars, Revolutionary War, War of eighteen twelve, 486 00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:23,600 Speaker 1: Mexican War, and Indian campaigns, and then eventually the Spanish 487 00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 1: American War. So a lot of thought went into it. 488 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:29,120 Speaker 1: I thought it was just kind of never really think 489 00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:30,920 Speaker 1: about that kind of thing. You just see like Arlington, 490 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,359 Speaker 1: and you don't think about all the behind the scenes 491 00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 1: work and decisions that need to be made on exactly 492 00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:36,960 Speaker 1: how to do that. Yeah. And they even did a 493 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,760 Speaker 1: study in nineteen two to find out how the the 494 00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:45,960 Speaker 1: eighteen seventy nine markers were holding up, and they said, 495 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 1: we need to change these a little bit. So if 496 00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 1: anyone ever asks you what the official military um headstone 497 00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:58,320 Speaker 1: in the US dimensions are, this would be the most 498 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 1: arcane piece of trivia anyone would asked. It's pretty arcane, 499 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,200 Speaker 1: but you could probably impress some weird uncle or your 500 00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,400 Speaker 1: grandpa or something like that with this one. Uh. The 501 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 1: height of the stone is thirty nine inches tall, twelve 502 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:16,120 Speaker 1: inches wide, and the thickness is four inches and apparently 503 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,920 Speaker 1: the height extends twelve inches above the ground, so you 504 00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:23,239 Speaker 1: have twenty seven inches Bury below the ground. You've been 505 00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:26,680 Speaker 1: to Darlington, m hm, it's pretty neat. It is really something. 506 00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:30,440 Speaker 1: You go to Oakland Cemetery here in Atlanta, Yep, I've 507 00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:34,160 Speaker 1: been there too. Yeah, it's pretty nice. It is really something. Yeah. 508 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:38,440 Speaker 1: And they Oakland even has and I've always felt I 509 00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:39,960 Speaker 1: don't think I have death hang ups, but they have 510 00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:43,880 Speaker 1: like concerts there and stuff like that. Yeah. And I 511 00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 1: think they show movies there, yeah, I think so. Like 512 00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:50,720 Speaker 1: in the outside, um, there's some really neat mausoleums. There's 513 00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:55,360 Speaker 1: like a miniature, uh, statue of Liberty. There's some really ornate, 514 00:29:55,400 --> 00:30:00,280 Speaker 1: beautiful mausoleums. Bobby Jones, the famous golfer, is buried there, 515 00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:04,320 Speaker 1: and there's a putting green on his graves. I've never 516 00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:06,600 Speaker 1: seen that one. Yeah, if you if you, there's usually 517 00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 1: golf balls there. I think if you bring your own 518 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:11,360 Speaker 1: putter you can just sit there and put on his grave. Interesting. Yeah, 519 00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:15,720 Speaker 1: well I just recently saw Washington and Mrs Washington's grave 520 00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:20,040 Speaker 1: at Um up there in d C. Which was cool. Um, 521 00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,560 Speaker 1: but they were moved as well. That one's really kind 522 00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:24,600 Speaker 1: of when you go there to Mount Vernon, you know 523 00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:27,480 Speaker 1: you see them Bury. Oh yeah, we saw that recently too. Yeah, 524 00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:29,640 Speaker 1: you see, they were moved from their original one, but 525 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,760 Speaker 1: the original tomb is still there and they made a 526 00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:35,200 Speaker 1: nicer one. And then there's the slave burial ground, which 527 00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:36,760 Speaker 1: is just a really kind of a sad place to 528 00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:39,680 Speaker 1: visit because it's not I mean, they've done something now, 529 00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 1: but um, I don't know, it's just sort of a reminder, yeah, 530 00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:46,840 Speaker 1: of what went on, which, um, you know, speaking of 531 00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,600 Speaker 1: that Washington, it was like, you know, he's lauded for 532 00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:55,120 Speaker 1: freeing his slaves, but it was after he he freed 533 00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:57,680 Speaker 1: them after he died, and then in his will it 534 00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:02,040 Speaker 1: was after Martha Washington was to die. Um, then they 535 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:06,080 Speaker 1: would be officially freed. And you know that's that's great. Whatever, 536 00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:11,000 Speaker 1: he still held slaves until he died. At least Martha 537 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 1: Washington did something remarkable though. Um. She gave the slaves 538 00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:18,480 Speaker 1: that she inherited from her husband their freedom within a 539 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:21,240 Speaker 1: year of his death. She didn't wait until she died. 540 00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:24,120 Speaker 1: She was like, you guys, be free, and I mean 541 00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:28,400 Speaker 1: in Washington's favor for sure. He also provided a substantial 542 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:31,040 Speaker 1: amounts of money for their for them to just start 543 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,480 Speaker 1: a new free life. It wasn't just like your free 544 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:36,520 Speaker 1: good luck. It was you guys are free, like, here's 545 00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:40,240 Speaker 1: here's a new life for you. Did you go recently? Yeah? Yeah, 546 00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:44,840 Speaker 1: pretty neat it is. It's like really well done. I 547 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:47,800 Speaker 1: guess Living Museum. Yeah. I went last year with just 548 00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,200 Speaker 1: my sister and then went again. Actually, you and I 549 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,240 Speaker 1: probably went within the last like a few weeks of 550 00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:54,520 Speaker 1: each other. It's funny, yeah, because I went with my 551 00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:58,480 Speaker 1: niece and Emily and um highly recommend going to melt Burnon. 552 00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:02,000 Speaker 1: It's and Monicello too. I still haven't been there. That's amazing. 553 00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:04,360 Speaker 1: Both of them are just really great spots to go 554 00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:06,480 Speaker 1: check out. It's pretty cool. I mean you can stand 555 00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:09,000 Speaker 1: there and look at the bed where he died. Yeah, 556 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 1: it's you're like five ft from it. Yeah. I try 557 00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:13,560 Speaker 1: to get in and lay down, and they did. I 558 00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:17,760 Speaker 1: got some. I got smacked on the wrist. Um. All right, 559 00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:20,640 Speaker 1: after this break, we're going to talk a little bit 560 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:35,720 Speaker 1: about unmarked graves. Chuck. Yeah, I am interested in learning 561 00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:41,680 Speaker 1: the definition of an armarked grave, as per say someone 562 00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:45,840 Speaker 1: named Joe len uh, Well, it means it's a great 563 00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:49,239 Speaker 1: that's not march right. Pretty much, it's almost exactly what 564 00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:51,320 Speaker 1: you think it is. Is if somebody is buried in 565 00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:53,960 Speaker 1: a grave. And this is according from this article from 566 00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:58,240 Speaker 1: How Stuff Works. According to um Joelene Mason, who's the 567 00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:01,640 Speaker 1: general manager of Pierce Brothers Westwood Village Memorial Park, which 568 00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:03,880 Speaker 1: is where a lot of celebrities are buried in Los Angeles, 569 00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:05,880 Speaker 1: it's really one of the most useless quotes I've ever seen. 570 00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:09,800 Speaker 1: She says, quote, if there's no marker, headstone, or nameplate 571 00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:13,320 Speaker 1: and there's someone in the grave, it qualifies as unmarked. 572 00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:17,840 Speaker 1: She was probably like, yeah, she hung up, just shaking 573 00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:21,920 Speaker 1: her head. Uh, there are many reasons. There's a lot 574 00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:25,520 Speaker 1: of reasons why you might want your grave unmarked. Um man, 575 00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:28,560 Speaker 1: that was so caddy of us. Just then to make 576 00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:30,800 Speaker 1: fun of that lady, well, to make fun of the quote, 577 00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:36,640 Speaker 1: the whole thing. Yeah, that's sorry. Sorry everyone. I didn't 578 00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:41,360 Speaker 1: think it was that caddy. I was moved to say something, right, Um, 579 00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:43,680 Speaker 1: Like I said, there's a lot of reasons you might want, 580 00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:47,000 Speaker 1: uh or not want. There's all the reasons you might 581 00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:51,200 Speaker 1: have an unmarked grave. Historically, you might have an unmarked 582 00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:54,760 Speaker 1: grave if you are a really bad person. Um like Himmler. 583 00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:59,080 Speaker 1: Oh his grave isn't mark That makes sense, Yeah, pretty 584 00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:03,960 Speaker 1: bad persons, bad person, good example of a bad person. Hey, thanks, 585 00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:09,000 Speaker 1: you're welcome. Um executed criminals a lot of times have 586 00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:11,840 Speaker 1: unmarked graves a lot of times the show like you know, 587 00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:14,239 Speaker 1: contempt for what they did on Earth, but a lot 588 00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:16,800 Speaker 1: of times too. It's also so it doesn't draw people 589 00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:20,080 Speaker 1: there to you know, go do bad things to face 590 00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:23,000 Speaker 1: the grave in any way, um, family victims or whatever. 591 00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:26,600 Speaker 1: It's also if families. If you die of pauper, you 592 00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:28,759 Speaker 1: will be buried in what's called the potter's field. And 593 00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:32,799 Speaker 1: Oakland Cemetery has a potter's field. Yeah, like one next 594 00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,000 Speaker 1: to the theater to the drive in theater. Is there 595 00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:37,239 Speaker 1: a potter's field there? Oh yeah, I know that right 596 00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:40,560 Speaker 1: next to it. But basically it's just a plot of 597 00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:44,560 Speaker 1: unmarked graves and the state still does that. Yeah. The 598 00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:47,759 Speaker 1: one next to uh starlight drive in is um, like 599 00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:50,160 Speaker 1: a lot of bad stuff goes on over there. Apparently 600 00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:56,279 Speaker 1: it's like prostitution and drugs and yeah, um, what else 601 00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:59,000 Speaker 1: could you do? You could scatter the remains of a 602 00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:01,600 Speaker 1: bad person and not even have a grave at all. 603 00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:04,799 Speaker 1: And that's what some of the Nazi war criminals that 604 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,920 Speaker 1: was their fate. Like I commend and Guring were just 605 00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:10,480 Speaker 1: scattered and like, so no one would know where they were. 606 00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:14,759 Speaker 1: You know, it wasn't around then, but today it would 607 00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:17,280 Speaker 1: seem like if you came up against the Nazis again, 608 00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:19,840 Speaker 1: the best way to dispose of their body would be 609 00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:23,399 Speaker 1: something we mentioned in our episode, what are different ways 610 00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:26,440 Speaker 1: to dispose of a body? And remember the auto licens 611 00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:30,239 Speaker 1: one where you turned into a biscus goo that can 612 00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:33,160 Speaker 1: be poured down the drain. That's what you should do 613 00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:35,560 Speaker 1: with Nazis these days. Put it in the toilet and 614 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:41,960 Speaker 1: flush it. Yes, yes, heads up Nazis. Yeah, but in 615 00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:44,920 Speaker 1: some cities don't they treat waste water for eventual drinking 616 00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:50,680 Speaker 1: water That the process of auto licens renders it um sterile, 617 00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:53,080 Speaker 1: So you can just pour it down the drain. But 618 00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:56,040 Speaker 1: would you want to drink it? Tho? I can't imagine 619 00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:59,200 Speaker 1: the molecules that we drink, the things that we drink 620 00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:01,719 Speaker 1: what they used to be. Yeah, that's still make it 621 00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:04,000 Speaker 1: into our body on a molecular level. I'm sure it 622 00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:06,839 Speaker 1: would be revolting to know. As a matter of fact, 623 00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:08,680 Speaker 1: if anybody out there does know, if you work in 624 00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:13,000 Speaker 1: like wastewater treatment or something, share some stories. Yeah, that'd 625 00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:14,839 Speaker 1: be a good podcast. I don't know if I want 626 00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,200 Speaker 1: to know. Do you remember the story of that poor 627 00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:21,200 Speaker 1: girl in Los Angeles who um went missing? She was 628 00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:24,120 Speaker 1: on a trip there by herself for a few days 629 00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:26,799 Speaker 1: from Canada in the last couple of years. Oh, the 630 00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:28,960 Speaker 1: one in the tank. Yeah. They found her in the 631 00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:33,279 Speaker 1: drinking and the hotel water tank on the roof after 632 00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:35,400 Speaker 1: like I think a week or two. Yeah, because people 633 00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:38,640 Speaker 1: said the water tasted funny, yeah, and looked funny. Yeah. 634 00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:40,719 Speaker 1: She was the one that did the strange stuff with 635 00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:44,040 Speaker 1: the elevator, right, Yes, yeah, she was. She was mentally ill. 636 00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:46,239 Speaker 1: That was really sad. Wasn't mental illness or was she 637 00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:48,920 Speaker 1: on drugs? I don't believe she had a history of 638 00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:51,399 Speaker 1: mental illness. Did Yeah she did? Oh she did. Yeah. 639 00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:54,600 Speaker 1: It is sad. I mean it's sad either way. Yeah, 640 00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:56,400 Speaker 1: But at first it's like, oh my gosh, it's the 641 00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:59,319 Speaker 1: creepiest thing I've ever seen, because her behavior was so weird. Yeah. 642 00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:01,240 Speaker 1: If you look on line, there's a lot of sixteen 643 00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:03,920 Speaker 1: year olds, they're like stoof that she was possessed by 644 00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:08,759 Speaker 1: a demon, and they actually mean it, chuck, they mean it. 645 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:13,960 Speaker 1: Come on, sixteen year olds, get tracked together all right, 646 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:16,840 Speaker 1: And now to close, we're gonna go over some famous 647 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:21,200 Speaker 1: people with unmarked graves, because sometimes if you're famous, your 648 00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:23,399 Speaker 1: family might want to unmark graves so your grave site 649 00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:28,319 Speaker 1: doesn't become a tourist stop. Um, that's one reason, I guess, 650 00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:31,880 Speaker 1: because you've ever been to like, No, I haven't, but 651 00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:34,239 Speaker 1: I've seen pictures. Yeah. I went, of course, because I 652 00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:36,960 Speaker 1: was just out of college, way into the doors, and 653 00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:41,279 Speaker 1: you didn't. No, I went and looked at it. You 654 00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:46,400 Speaker 1: don't like the doors anymore, there, do you it? Um? 655 00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:48,840 Speaker 1: It was a passing fancy, but I don't like dislike 656 00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:50,960 Speaker 1: the doors. But I was like really into him for 657 00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:54,200 Speaker 1: a while, and then I now I'm coming to Morrison 658 00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:56,520 Speaker 1: was not much of a poet. I bought his poetry 659 00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:59,719 Speaker 1: books back then, and I was all into the Lizard King. 660 00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:03,399 Speaker 1: I think it's something that happens when you're twenty. Yeah, 661 00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:07,319 Speaker 1: what's good music. I still like him. Um. I was 662 00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:09,160 Speaker 1: into Pink Floyd for a while too, but I don't 663 00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:11,160 Speaker 1: listen to them much anymore. They have a new album 664 00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:13,600 Speaker 1: coming out, from what I understand, Yeah, I did hear 665 00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:16,959 Speaker 1: that old material that they've is gonna be awesome. Yeah, 666 00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:19,640 Speaker 1: I still love Pink Floyd, but not like I did 667 00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:24,440 Speaker 1: when I was fourteen. Yeah, alright, Mozart, he's in an 668 00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:28,359 Speaker 1: unmarked to him. Um, because even though we see him 669 00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:32,920 Speaker 1: as a big shot, he at the time was not 670 00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:37,439 Speaker 1: in the upper Echelona society. No, you had to be 671 00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:41,520 Speaker 1: pretty high falutin in the eighteenth century in Vienna to 672 00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:44,000 Speaker 1: get a grave marker. Yeah, so he's buried. They now 673 00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:46,320 Speaker 1: have an In the eighteen fifties, they built a monument 674 00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:49,680 Speaker 1: over where they think he was buried. Um. And then 675 00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:52,600 Speaker 1: that was later moved to a space where they just 676 00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:55,759 Speaker 1: had honored various musicians that were buried there. And they 677 00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:59,920 Speaker 1: put up another monument near his original assumed or prison 678 00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:05,719 Speaker 1: grave site at Marks Cemetery St. Mark's m r x UM. 679 00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:09,880 Speaker 1: And it has an angel leaning up against the broken column, which, 680 00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:12,920 Speaker 1: as you remember, indicates someone who has cut down the 681 00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:15,319 Speaker 1: prime of life. And Mozart died at age thirty five 682 00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:20,440 Speaker 1: suddenly of rheumatic fever. The vapors he had the vapors, 683 00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:23,680 Speaker 1: So that that's what I call the Enna's nice ever 684 00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:29,040 Speaker 1: been there? Uh? No, lovely? Uh it is John Wayne. 685 00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:33,520 Speaker 1: He is buried in his family gives his reason for 686 00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:37,880 Speaker 1: his unmarked grave for just not wanting to be uh, 687 00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:41,840 Speaker 1: disrespectful to others that are also buried there, which I 688 00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:43,719 Speaker 1: think is a pretty nice thing. That's kind of a 689 00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:45,560 Speaker 1: I don't want to say a trend, but a lot 690 00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:49,800 Speaker 1: of celebrities families do that they they're buried in unmarked 691 00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:54,640 Speaker 1: graves either because they have the same thought that you have, 692 00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:57,719 Speaker 1: Like you want to be humble. You can't be much 693 00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:01,120 Speaker 1: more humble than being buried in an mark grave. Yeah, 694 00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:04,000 Speaker 1: I want to be marked at least, so like George C. Scott, 695 00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:08,200 Speaker 1: Frank Zappa, they're both buried in on Mark graves. Roy Orbison. 696 00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:12,640 Speaker 1: Roy Orbison is um because apparently his family never got 697 00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:15,839 Speaker 1: around to putting a headstone on his grave. They were 698 00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:18,160 Speaker 1: planning on moving him and never have, so he's been 699 00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:23,720 Speaker 1: laying in on Mark Graves since Yah Bessie Smith famous 700 00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:26,719 Speaker 1: blue singer. She was big in the vaudeville scene in 701 00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:30,920 Speaker 1: the nineteen twenties and like a lot of the siren 702 00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:35,280 Speaker 1: singers of the day, I had a problem with alcoholism 703 00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:38,359 Speaker 1: and died in a car crash in ninety seven. And 704 00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:42,880 Speaker 1: she didn't have a grave because her husband apparently the 705 00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:45,399 Speaker 1: rumors didn't want to pay for it, and years later 706 00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:49,719 Speaker 1: Janice Joplin was such a fan she had moved to 707 00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:53,080 Speaker 1: pay for and commission a headstone for her um and 708 00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:54,520 Speaker 1: I didn't see if it was ever done. It says 709 00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:57,000 Speaker 1: she died shortly thereafter, but I don't know if that 710 00:40:57,040 --> 00:41:00,600 Speaker 1: project was ever completed. It was okay, it went through 711 00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:03,880 Speaker 1: all right. Mike Tyson did that too. His mother was 712 00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:07,600 Speaker 1: died very poor and I think had an unmarked grave 713 00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:11,480 Speaker 1: or a very small marker. And after he hit it big, 714 00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:14,680 Speaker 1: one of the first things he did was get this huge, gaudy, 715 00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:21,640 Speaker 1: elaborate headstone erected for Belushi has been uh. They've had 716 00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:24,760 Speaker 1: some problems with fans of Belushi's partying at his grave, 717 00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:28,760 Speaker 1: so they moved him from his UH grave and Martha's 718 00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,480 Speaker 1: vineyard to a spot that only the family knows. But 719 00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:35,960 Speaker 1: they have two uh cinotaphs, which are empty tombs, one 720 00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:38,640 Speaker 1: at Martha's vineyard, one at his family plot in Chicago 721 00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:42,359 Speaker 1: where you can go visit, but apparently only like his 722 00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:46,600 Speaker 1: family knows where he's truly buried. Now. Um, and you know, 723 00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:48,440 Speaker 1: I hung out in the room where he died a 724 00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:51,400 Speaker 1: couple of times. Yeah, and the in the Belushi Cabana 725 00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:54,200 Speaker 1: at the Chateau Marmott. Oh yeah, I always think he was. 726 00:41:55,440 --> 00:42:00,240 Speaker 1: It was it was Chicago, but that was um Chris Farley, 727 00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:03,879 Speaker 1: who died in exactly the same manner that Belushi did, 728 00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:05,960 Speaker 1: just in Chicago. Yeah, it's a little weird. I mean 729 00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:08,239 Speaker 1: you're sitting there and you're you know, I was having 730 00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:10,439 Speaker 1: a good time and having a few drinks, and it's 731 00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:16,080 Speaker 1: like John Belushi died right here where I'm standing, and um, yeah, 732 00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:20,399 Speaker 1: bad way to go. What speedball? And then chuck out? 733 00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:23,840 Speaker 1: Got one more? Remember the movie Peter Pan, the Disney 734 00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:27,440 Speaker 1: movie The Cartoon. Yeah, a little boy who voices who 735 00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:31,360 Speaker 1: voiced Peter Pan. He is buried in an unmarked Popper's grave. 736 00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:34,400 Speaker 1: That is sad. Yeah, he was in. His name is 737 00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:37,239 Speaker 1: Bobby Driscoll. He was in not just Peter Pan, but 738 00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:42,080 Speaker 1: also um Treasure Island movie called The Window. And he 739 00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:45,640 Speaker 1: was a child star and after he hit puberty he 740 00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:50,080 Speaker 1: was apparently discarded by Hollywood and hit the skids and 741 00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:52,919 Speaker 1: he actually died. The guy who the kid who voiced 742 00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:56,000 Speaker 1: Peter Pan died at age thirty one in an abandoned 743 00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:59,680 Speaker 1: apartment in New York City. Um, not even of a 744 00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:03,160 Speaker 1: drug overdose, but of a whole bunch of drug overdoses 745 00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:08,600 Speaker 1: that finally led to catastrophic heart failure. Um and his 746 00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:11,040 Speaker 1: mother started looking for him a year after he died 747 00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:14,120 Speaker 1: and found that he died because I guess the police 748 00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:16,759 Speaker 1: printed him. He was just a John Doe until his 749 00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:19,560 Speaker 1: mother started looking for him. But he's still buried in 750 00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:22,319 Speaker 1: an omark grave from what I understand. Yeah, and it's 751 00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:24,279 Speaker 1: not just like, oh, he was famous, and it's so 752 00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:27,759 Speaker 1: sad he died that way because thousands of people die 753 00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:31,399 Speaker 1: every day in this country, homeless people that died with 754 00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:34,400 Speaker 1: no family and no one that cares about burying them. Well, 755 00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,280 Speaker 1: there's also a lot of people who have family, whose 756 00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:40,960 Speaker 1: family don't have enough money to do anything. And I 757 00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:43,560 Speaker 1: have no choice but to allow the state to handle 758 00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:47,720 Speaker 1: the funeral. And it is not an elaborate funeral. State 759 00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:51,960 Speaker 1: state run funerals are not elaborate, I'm sure. Unless it's 760 00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:58,560 Speaker 1: ahead of state, then there wizz bangs in salute. I 761 00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:01,360 Speaker 1: got nothing else, I don't either. Go to our website 762 00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:04,160 Speaker 1: Stuff you Should Know dot com and check out twenty 763 00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:09,120 Speaker 1: one remarkable epitaphs. It's pretty good, if I say so myself. Uh, 764 00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:13,040 Speaker 1: you can um read the let's see what is it? 765 00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:16,400 Speaker 1: Ten famous people buried in unmarked graves that articles on 766 00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:19,960 Speaker 1: how stuff works dot com? And since I said how 767 00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:25,040 Speaker 1: stuff works dot com, it's time for listener now. I'm 768 00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:30,000 Speaker 1: gonna call this branical illusion, okay. And this is something 769 00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:32,840 Speaker 1: that we hear about a lot, and UH as fans 770 00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:36,279 Speaker 1: of radio and podcasting myself. If you've never seen someone 771 00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:38,480 Speaker 1: that you've always heard, it's always jarring to see what 772 00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:40,920 Speaker 1: they look like. And some people still don't even want 773 00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:42,600 Speaker 1: to know what we look like, which you know, I get. 774 00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:47,239 Speaker 1: I don't blame you, man, I've seen Kiris Doll before. Yeah, 775 00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:49,480 Speaker 1: it's just fun to look at the NPR people like 776 00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:52,040 Speaker 1: Lois writes, as I expected to be three years old, 777 00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:55,440 Speaker 1: And Lois writes, this looks exactly like I would have 778 00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:58,719 Speaker 1: thought she did. She looked younger than I thought, Um, 779 00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:03,640 Speaker 1: but not much. All right, Hey, guys, uh, Josh, Chuck 780 00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:06,040 Speaker 1: and Jerry and again Jerry spelt correctly. People are really 781 00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:09,680 Speaker 1: getting with it. Man. I've been an avid listener uh 782 00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:13,319 Speaker 1: to your podcasts and the sister podcasts since two thousand nine. 783 00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:16,240 Speaker 1: Never thought I'd have anything interesting enough to write in about. 784 00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:19,320 Speaker 1: But it finally happened, and it was so perception altering, 785 00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:22,160 Speaker 1: so randomly odd. I thought you should know. All these 786 00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:25,080 Speaker 1: years I had an inner podcast movie playing of YouTube 787 00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:27,239 Speaker 1: bantering going through my head. All was good. I could 788 00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:30,880 Speaker 1: see Chuck laughing, I could see Josh studiously explaining things, 789 00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:36,000 Speaker 1: and I stayed in podcast land, never having ventured out 790 00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:38,120 Speaker 1: to see your shows or videos. Yet I would enjoyed 791 00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:40,239 Speaker 1: them in time as well. But what turned my world 792 00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:43,279 Speaker 1: upside down and seemed like a brainical illusion was that 793 00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:45,359 Speaker 1: I finally did see a video of the two of you, 794 00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:48,759 Speaker 1: and Josh's voice was coming out of Chuck's face, and 795 00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:52,480 Speaker 1: Chuck's voice had a beard on it. All this time 796 00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:55,200 Speaker 1: I had thought of each of you was the other person, 797 00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:57,440 Speaker 1: and this is after he had already seen pictures, so 798 00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:02,359 Speaker 1: that must be really weird. Um, seeing those voices coming 799 00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:04,520 Speaker 1: on different faces has done my head in. I think 800 00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:07,759 Speaker 1: the culprit is how your pictures are situated on the 801 00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:09,920 Speaker 1: podcast immans, with Chuck on the left and Josh on 802 00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:12,799 Speaker 1: the right. But since Westerners read from left to right 803 00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:17,200 Speaker 1: and the show always starts with Josh and Chuck and 804 00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:19,319 Speaker 1: then Chuck, that's the order of my brain. Put you 805 00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:21,560 Speaker 1: in I now have to fight with my inner podcast 806 00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:25,480 Speaker 1: movie to correct which face the voices are coming from, 807 00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:29,319 Speaker 1: and it causes constant bewilderment. Uh, you guys sent me 808 00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:32,160 Speaker 1: to my dreamland every night with your friendly voices. Thanks 809 00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:34,040 Speaker 1: a lot. Perhaps I would just follow the advice of 810 00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:36,600 Speaker 1: one of those funny T shirts, I reject your reality 811 00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:39,680 Speaker 1: and substitute my own, because no matter how hard I try, 812 00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:42,319 Speaker 1: I always see Josh with a beard and Chuck with 813 00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:45,120 Speaker 1: a buzz cut. You got it wrong, pal, and that 814 00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:48,359 Speaker 1: even though I did have a buzz cut recently. 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