Speaker 1: Hey, babe, it's your bestie La La Kent. Welcome to
Speaker 1: the Give Them La La Podcast. I'm so excited right
Speaker 1: this second because to Give Them La La brand new
Speaker 1: tour number one is on and poppin Well, it's about
Speaker 1: to be. But Irvine is officially sold out, so if
Speaker 1: you don't have your tickets, you can't come. But you
Speaker 1: can come to Fort Lauderdale, Clearwater, Orlando, Hotlanta, Nashville, New Orleans, Houston, Austin,
Speaker 1: and Dallas. I will catch you there. I can't wait
Speaker 1: to meet all of you guys. Jess. How was your weekend?
Speaker 1: How's your week bend? All of the things.
Speaker 2: Weekend was good, week has been great. I just did
Speaker 2: a little early spring cleaning, so boring to talk about,
Speaker 2: but I want to know how your weekend was.
Speaker 1: My weekend was actually great. Okay, Yes, I went to
Speaker 1: dinner with Katie and Stassey on Saturday.
Speaker 3: Fun.
Speaker 1: It was so much fun. And I like going to
Speaker 1: dinner with them because we dine like Europeans. Okay, does
Speaker 1: that mean? Here's what I mean by that. It's a
Speaker 1: full on experience. We sit down, we talk, we order
Speaker 1: our drinks. The waiter comes fifteen different times. And we're like,
Speaker 1: we haven't looked at the menu yet. You know, it's
Speaker 1: a four hour experience. We were at dinner, yeah, from
Speaker 1: seven thirty until eleven thirty. And the only reason we
Speaker 1: left was because the waiter came over and said, I'm
Speaker 1: letting you guys know that we're actually closed. Now get
Speaker 1: We were like, oh, I guess that we should leave.
Speaker 1: And my mom was like, what do you talk about
Speaker 1: for four hours? And I'm like, what do we not
Speaker 1: talk about?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: No, we thought like we were in and just like we.
Speaker 2: Were in, Just like that you were because you have
Speaker 2: your like little drinks, alcoholic and non alcoholic.
Speaker 1: You're chatting, you're catching up. Yes, that's the thing. Two
Speaker 1: of you have babies.
Speaker 2: I'm sure Katie's busy with a bunch of other stuff.
Speaker 1: Right, there's so much to talk about.
Speaker 2: There's so much to catch up on too, right. It's
Speaker 2: not like you see each other every single day. No, Oh,
Speaker 2: I think that's nice.
Speaker 1: You know we have it's like the little we usually have.
Speaker 1: The three of us every so often go to Polo lounge, okay,
Speaker 1: And I was like, I want to try something different.
Speaker 1: I want to try something different. You know. We went
Speaker 1: to Pull a lounge last time. Yeah, so we went
Speaker 1: to the Pendry Hotel. It's right on sunset, super cute,
Speaker 1: very quaint, and we just like enjoyed ourselves. That's fun,
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah. So my weekend was actually amazing. I've
Speaker 1: started hiking, which is awesome. So fun. Okay, so fun.
Speaker 1: And my weekend was also really fun because my mom
Speaker 1: is fucking hilarious. So listen to this, jess what My
Speaker 1: mom bought this cute little basket for my shower to
Speaker 1: keep all of my stuff organized. And I was like,
Speaker 1: that's so nice, thank you, And I said, can you
Speaker 1: grab that out of the basket and I point, I
Speaker 1: point at it. Okay, I said, I want to put
Speaker 1: it through the washer. It's my water pick okay And
Speaker 1: she goes a water pick and I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: for my teeth, and she goes, ha. I thought, that's
Speaker 1: what you used to wash your vagina. Oh what what
Speaker 1: stop the water pick? Like with the long yes, Nick,
Speaker 1: I'm like, do you realize how thin, how thin that
Speaker 1: water squirter is. It's like a thin stream, a very
Speaker 1: powerful water And if I were to put that anywhere
Speaker 1: near myho ha, damage would be done and my IUD
Speaker 1: would be destroyed.
Speaker 2: That's the funniest thing I ever heard.
Speaker 1: She was like, thinking I was gonna put my cookie
Speaker 1: washer through the dishwasher.
Speaker 2: She's like, oh, oh, her vagina washer.
Speaker 1: Why didn't you back? She thought that It's disgusting. I
Speaker 1: love that. No, so I'm sure she was put at ease.
Speaker 2: And also how wild if she thought it was your
Speaker 2: vagina washer and then came upstairs and you were also
Speaker 2: using it in your mouth, she'd be so confused.
Speaker 1: What is going on? That would have been really, really funny.
Speaker 1: I wish that would have happened. That's funny. I love Lisa.
Speaker 1: I love Lisa too. So the other thing I want
Speaker 1: to talk about is how just a couple of these
Speaker 1: people on Instagram think that they found the mystery man
Speaker 1: that I went on a date with. And I looked
Speaker 1: at I didn't look at Reddit, but someone sent me
Speaker 1: my friend. Yeah, they like send me things that like
Speaker 1: people are calling me out on and on her podcast,
Speaker 1: she said she wasn't ready to date. She must not
Speaker 1: have been that into her ex It's like, oh, no, shit,
Speaker 1: but you read it. You read it. Writers are such
Speaker 1: a joy. They're the run.
Speaker 2: Once it said I was up your ass further than
Speaker 2: a proctologist, which listen, listen, I laughed, but don't say
Speaker 2: it again.
Speaker 1: No, they're definitely If you can remove yourself and just
Speaker 1: focus on the work they put into the post, then
Speaker 1: it's funny. Okay. Yeah, I'm not ready to like date
Speaker 1: like that. I think there's a huge difference between like
Speaker 1: going to dinner with someone in a group setting, like
Speaker 1: having fun. Yeah, and there's no end goal for it.
Speaker 1: I'm not dating just one person. I went on my
Speaker 1: first group date with someone. It's nice to have like
Speaker 1: a little companion when all of your friends are like,
Speaker 1: let's go on a group date. Like perfect, I'll bring someone.
Speaker 1: But I'm not dating just one person. Right, you're not exclusive.
Speaker 1: I'm not exclusive. I just want to have fun. I
Speaker 1: don't want to be serious with anybody. And I feel
Speaker 1: super fulfilled in my life right now. I have a
Speaker 1: great friends circle. I have my brothers, I got my mama,
Speaker 1: I got my kid, got you. I don't need anybody else,
Speaker 1: anyone else who's coming in, who might be a dude.
Speaker 1: It's just like a little filler, right, You're just having fun. Yes,
Speaker 1: you're just having fun. It's not that deep. You're doing
Speaker 1: your thing. No, and hanging out and people like to
Speaker 1: be detective.
Speaker 4: See.
Speaker 2: Good for you for being able to deal with it,
Speaker 2: because if that were me when I was single, I
Speaker 2: was just with one guy one weekend and then I'm like, eh,
Speaker 2: then another guy the next.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's what's fun about it. But then these
Speaker 1: and yes, but then I see that, like certain people
Speaker 1: are posting photos of my who are my friends who
Speaker 1: want nothing to do with that? Yeah, like, please don't
Speaker 1: post my friends who just want to be like normal people, right,
Speaker 1: because Bravo fans like they could solve every cold case
Speaker 1: in the entire world.
Speaker 2: Bravo fans and Lisa Birningham can solve every cold case
Speaker 2: that obviously Lala's mom, right, Yeah, they dig.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, these people don't want to be dug into. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if they wanted you to know who they were, they
Speaker 1: would be out and about I would let you know
Speaker 1: who they were, right. They just want to kick it, right,
Speaker 1: don't post them all?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: And by the way, you got the wrong dude, got
Speaker 1: the wrong guy? Good God, no PI checks for you. You
Speaker 1: want to solve shit for me? Come on, anyway, do
Speaker 1: we have any voicemails? There's my rant we do. That's good.
Speaker 1: I'm excited to have James Kennedy on today. James, you guys.
Speaker 2: I was sitting in the podcast area off to the side,
Speaker 2: and I've only met James once and I've seen him
Speaker 2: on the show, so I've always been like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 2: he's funny.
Speaker 1: I was like dying.
Speaker 2: I was like, hand over my mouth so I didn't
Speaker 2: so I didn't laugh and like make it obvious that
Speaker 2: I was in the room on the recording.
Speaker 1: But funny.
Speaker 2: I'm so excited for you guys to hear this.
Speaker 1: I know, so his segment. We pre recorded his segment
Speaker 1: just earlier today, so just knows what it's all about.
Speaker 1: And it was so funny. So I'm excited for you
Speaker 1: guys to hear him on the next segment. Ask or play,
Speaker 1: play some voicemails.
Speaker 5: All right, here we go, Hi, Lalla and Jess.
Speaker 4: My name's Chloe and I live in Atlanta. I know
Speaker 4: that Laala is coming here for her tour, and one
Speaker 4: of my girlfriends works at the venue that's going to
Speaker 4: take place at. So we were discussing a custom La
Speaker 4: La cocktail, a mocktail in La LA's name that she
Speaker 4: can sip on while she's doing her appearance. So if
Speaker 4: you have any ideas favorite flavors and colors and all
Speaker 4: the fun.
Speaker 5: Stuff, let us know.
Speaker 1: Chloe. I mean the fact that you're saying that you're
Speaker 1: going to name a mocktail after me for the show.
Speaker 1: I feel like this is a big decision. I need
Speaker 1: to think about names. I need to think about what
Speaker 1: I want it to look like. I'm into clear. I
Speaker 1: like my clear stuff. You know, I'm not like, I'm
Speaker 1: not trying to be sucking down red drink or you
Speaker 1: drink and like, what did you eat a thousand Jolly Ranchers?
Speaker 1: When are you twelve?
Speaker 2: What did you drink when you were not sober? And
Speaker 2: then maybe we can we can get.
Speaker 1: A mocktail now. I drink everything else, okay, but mostly
Speaker 1: I would drink vodka sodas. And that's why I always
Speaker 1: say when I want to have like a mom joke,
Speaker 1: I say to the bar and I'm like, can I
Speaker 1: have a ver Urgin vodka soda? And they're like, so
Speaker 1: just so like you got it. See, I think that's funny.
Speaker 3: It is funny.
Speaker 1: It's a mom joke. But I'm gonna think about something
Speaker 1: fun because I usually would have like a fun drink
Speaker 1: when I was a drinker, and then I would switch
Speaker 1: to my vodka sodas because lallag heavy in the paint,
Speaker 1: right you know?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 1: Did you do you like grapefruit?
Speaker 2: Because like soda water with a splash of fresh grapefruit juice,
Speaker 2: little splash of lime. It's like I like pineapple more
Speaker 2: than this grapefruit pineapple that sounds bomb.
Speaker 1: Actually, what the pine like? Pineapple? Soda water, soda water,
Speaker 1: pineapple lime, Maybe a little ta heen on the rim
Speaker 1: that sounds good. My mouth is watering. I think that
Speaker 1: should be the one. Or anything with watermelon that's also bomb.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, So.
Speaker 2: You're giving her options.
Speaker 1: There we go. I told you I had to think
Speaker 1: about it. There you go, right, suprisor what's our next? Voice? Mouth?
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 6: Hey La La, It's Katie from Toronto, Canada. Love you,
Speaker 6: love your podcast, Love everything that you're about these days.
Speaker 6: I wanted to ask you because I know you haven't
Speaker 6: touched on this about the man we no longer speak
Speaker 6: of kids. I know that must be so hard for
Speaker 6: you to have to give up that relationship. So I
Speaker 6: wonder if there's any a time that you're going to
Speaker 6: talk about that or you're going to leave that off
Speaker 6: the table for now. Anyway, Love you love all your stuff.
Speaker 6: Keep going, girl, You're amazing.
Speaker 1: This is a question that is asked a lot. It's
Speaker 1: obviously very nuanced, and the whole situation is sad, and
Speaker 1: I just feel like I don't want to talk about
Speaker 1: it if the question is asked. I mean, I would
Speaker 1: prefer it not be asked at all. But this is
Speaker 1: the response that everyone's going to get. It's complicated.
Speaker 5: Moving on, Hai la La. My name is Torri Love
Speaker 5: the I'm calling to ask for some professional advice. I
Speaker 5: am about to be graduating in peace school and I'm
Speaker 5: gonna be interviewing for jobs, and I feel like my
Speaker 5: biggest problem when I interview is my confidence. So I
Speaker 5: wanted to ask you what your recommendations are for just
Speaker 5: getting that la la confidence before my interview. My interview
Speaker 5: is coming up here soon. You always walk in a
Speaker 5: room and just kind of take over, and I want
Speaker 5: to have that same feeling when I go, So help
Speaker 5: me out.
Speaker 1: Hey, Tory, First of all, congratulations, You're going to kill
Speaker 1: all of your interviews. I know it for a fact.
Speaker 1: I was also not confident in any way, shape or
Speaker 1: like I had zero confidence. You done for a really
Speaker 1: long time.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I don't think I got my confidence until I was
Speaker 1: probably twenty six. Wow. Yeah, And I really faked it
Speaker 1: in until I made it.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 1: I would walk into a room and it was like,
Speaker 1: I'll be damned if I think if I'm gonna let
Speaker 1: you think that I'm some scared, timid little person. I
Speaker 1: felt like when I walked into a room, these people
Speaker 1: in the room were gonna eat me for lunch. These
Speaker 1: people didn't give a fuck about me, Like I always thought,
Speaker 1: like all eyes are on me. Where when you're walking
Speaker 1: into your interview, Toy, all eyes are going to be
Speaker 1: on you. I think you should be kind. I think
Speaker 1: if you just put on I think you should step
Speaker 1: into someone who isn't you. Like Lauren is very different
Speaker 1: from la La. Lauren is very sweet. Lauren gets sad
Speaker 1: and cries. La La is like here to show you
Speaker 1: like you've never seen a batterer bitch. Okay, yeah, I
Speaker 1: want Toy to do that, even if she has to
Speaker 1: watch a lot of vander Pump Rules and see why
Speaker 1: ah and say maybe don't see the fuckword in your interview.
Speaker 1: Don't talk about cookie either, be very professional, be very sweet.
Speaker 1: You know what the job entails. You've got this. And
Speaker 1: what's crazy is when you start to do that, there's
Speaker 1: gonna be a day that you wake up and you're like,
Speaker 1: I'm the most confident motherfucker if you know, like you
Speaker 1: fake it and it happens overnight. Yeah, because you've you've
Speaker 1: conditioned yourself to be insecure or feeling like you're not
Speaker 1: good enough, so reverse it. Yeah, that's right.
Speaker 2: It's kind of like they tell you to smile when
Speaker 2: you're feeling really really down, force a smile on your
Speaker 2: face and it's gonna feel so weird, but force it,
Speaker 2: and then it tricks your like brain or your senses
Speaker 2: into thinking like, oh, she's happy, and then eventually yes, And.
Speaker 1: Like before you go into your interview, you give yourself
Speaker 1: a pep talk. You've got this, and if you don't
Speaker 1: get the job, their loss, Yeah, wasn't your loss? Right?
Speaker 1: You know That's what my mom always told me. I'd
Speaker 1: be like, they don't want to be my friends, be
Speaker 1: like their loss. Let's get your nails done. I love that,
Speaker 1: And I want you, toy, to only allow yourself ten
Speaker 1: minutes after any interview gone ten minutes to obsess over
Speaker 1: every detail and then you throw it in the trash.
Speaker 1: That's all the time, so you can say, after my interview,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call my mom to obsess, I'm gonna call
Speaker 1: my best friend to obsess. But you only have ten
Speaker 1: minutes and then yeah, put it in the trash.
Speaker 2: Did you learn that for auditions?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I've heard that, yes.
Speaker 2: And that helps it that that applied to interviews and
Speaker 2: also toy I've heard this through some of my friends
Speaker 2: who've auditioned for things. Feel your feet on the ground
Speaker 2: because you walk in. There's so many times you walk
Speaker 2: in for like an audition or an interview and then
Speaker 2: you walk out and you're like, what just happened? I
Speaker 2: don't remember anything at all. So you walk in, you
Speaker 2: take a moment to like wiggle your toes. It like
Speaker 2: brings your yourself back in your body, like okay, I'm here.
Speaker 2: And also, don't be afraid to pause before answering questions.
Speaker 2: I've heard that too, Yeah, because it's a sign of intelligence.
Speaker 2: It's not an awkward like it's not going to be awkward.
Speaker 2: So many people think, oh, the faster I answer this question,
Speaker 2: the like smarter and more prepared I am. But if
Speaker 2: you take a little pause before you answer to give
Speaker 2: a thought out response, that's a sign. The pause is
Speaker 2: a sign of intelligence.
Speaker 1: And I think asking questions, Like if they're asking you
Speaker 1: questions and you're like, not understanding, I think it's totally
Speaker 1: fine to say, can you explain, like in order to
Speaker 1: give a well thought out answer. Yeah, ask questions. Right,
Speaker 1: You're a human being, You're not a robot. Right. I
Speaker 1: love what you said, though. Keep someone told me this
Speaker 1: like a few months ago, keep your head where your
Speaker 1: feet are. Yeah, yes, I was like, grounds you who
Speaker 1: for profound and you guys. I love when you call in.
Speaker 1: But there is some technical difficulty happening with the old
Speaker 1: phone number, so please continue to call in. But the
Speaker 1: new number is four two four two five five nine
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Speaker 1: come back, we have one of my most favorite humans,
Speaker 1: DJ James Kennedy. We're back with the Give Them Lalla Podcast,
Speaker 1: and I have my incredible friend, who, by the way,
Speaker 1: hates podcast. I literally had to like bitch slap his
Speaker 1: Johnny mute Johnny neutron hair to be here.
Speaker 7: Jimmy Tron is the name festival and I'm going for
Speaker 7: more of a Johnny Bravo vibe.
Speaker 3: Okay, what the hell is it's Jimmy Muttah. What did
Speaker 3: you call it, Joey Neutron?
Speaker 1: Joe No, I called it Johnny Jimmy Jimmy Neutron.
Speaker 3: But you're here, good old Jimmy.
Speaker 7: I'm sure everyone can tell who the hell this is
Speaker 7: right now, but if you don't, it's James Kennedy.
Speaker 3: In the mix.
Speaker 1: It's James fucking Kennedy. DJ James Kennedy.
Speaker 3: I miss you.
Speaker 1: I miss you too. We're here shit both single, which
Speaker 1: is how weird.
Speaker 3: It slipped into the other dimension, didn't we It was like.
Speaker 1: A quick We literally got into relationships at the same time.
Speaker 1: We then had issues with each other's significant others, and
Speaker 1: then we literally came to the conclusion like, eh, I'm
Speaker 1: good on this at the same time.
Speaker 3: Pretty much, pretty much, we're so in sync. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: we always have been. Though.
Speaker 1: I feel like, do you think people want to see
Speaker 1: you and me together? James?
Speaker 7: Yes, you should go to my Instagram and read all
Speaker 7: the comments. It's like, you guys are so mates. You
Speaker 7: guys are meant to be.
Speaker 1: Together because we're both crazy, you think.
Speaker 7: Honestly maybe, I mean, like, look, I think that you
Speaker 7: could say the word crazy, you could say whatever. But
Speaker 7: I've come to the conclusion that you just you know,
Speaker 7: I'm just myself.
Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Passionate?
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm so passionate. You know about so much in life.
Speaker 7: And yeah, I don't know, call us crazy, call us
Speaker 7: whatever you want. I mean, I don't know when I
Speaker 7: say that we've definitely got chemistry, I would say, and
Speaker 7: like you know that whole thing.
Speaker 1: But whatever, Well, because we made great television.
Speaker 3: Together to I'm like, so jitty.
Speaker 7: By the way, I've just drank a viente sosso so am.
Speaker 3: I allowed to swear on this thing? Yeah?
Speaker 1: We swear on this day.
Speaker 3: There's no Andy Cohen, no live what happens? Is it?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 1: No no? When they played that, when we did watch
Speaker 1: what Happens? Like, get way back, take it back, let's
Speaker 1: let's go. So the point of having you on the
Speaker 1: podcast Number one is I love and adore you, even
Speaker 1: though you have said fucked up ship, which I can
Speaker 1: now laugh my ass off. Can I tell you I
Speaker 1: won't even lie?
Speaker 3: You know what?
Speaker 1: When things were ever said that's true.
Speaker 3: Actually it's true. No, I'm not going to say that
Speaker 3: there's parts to no I have said toe but like
Speaker 3: also I have said a lot of truth.
Speaker 1: It was all truth.
Speaker 3: A lot of people have said I've said a lot
Speaker 3: of truth.
Speaker 1: You only speak truth. Although back then, we're going to
Speaker 1: dig into it. Like the whole reason I have you
Speaker 1: on is because number one, I love you, You're my dude.
Speaker 1: And two I want to go back in the day
Speaker 1: when La La and James first stepped on the scene together,
Speaker 1: and here's why, because we made excellent television and now
Speaker 1: when we look back on it, we can be like, Okay,
Speaker 1: it's funny in the moment, like you and I watching
Speaker 1: it back was mortifying, but you actually were the one
Speaker 1: who you were Like, I actually don't care. Like there
Speaker 1: were so many moments that would go off on people
Speaker 1: and I'd come to you the next day and be like,
Speaker 1: we really overdid it.
Speaker 3: Well.
Speaker 7: I was so young back then in the beginning, do
Speaker 7: you know what I mean? I feel like I was
Speaker 7: young and like I was so fresh, like in the sea.
Speaker 7: I really wanted to just be like you know myself,
Speaker 7: but I also knew, you know what I wanted to
Speaker 7: see in reality TV. I'm sorry, but I'm just saying
Speaker 7: the truth. Like I knew what it took to like
Speaker 7: create something crazy or wherever you want to cool it.
Speaker 7: We would come in guns blazing, do you know what
Speaker 7: I mean? Every scene, every day, do you know what
Speaker 7: I mean? And it was just natural. We didn't plan this,
Speaker 7: just just how we were and how we were living.
Speaker 7: We were just out here having fun and you know,
Speaker 7: at the time, thinking we were living to the we were.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but we fucking were. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Season Season four was the most fun I think I've
Speaker 1: ever had in my whole life, Like going out with you,
Speaker 1: making out just randomly, like shoving our tongues down each
Speaker 1: other's throats, getting super fucked up, waking up, going to
Speaker 1: Ralphs and getting fried chicken to cure the hangover, and
Speaker 1: then dreamy classic we lived the dreams. So when you
Speaker 1: go back to like that time in our lives, actually
Speaker 1: all of our moments together, what moments do you think
Speaker 1: are iconic?
Speaker 7: Obviously the PASTA, oh yeah, I mean there's so many
Speaker 7: iconic moments. I think that when we went to Hawaii,
Speaker 7: you know, and like I was still just chasing La
Speaker 7: La and like I couldn't.
Speaker 3: Quite like you know what I mean, I haven't stealed
Speaker 3: the deal yet.
Speaker 7: Like I was just so like obsessed honestly, and like
Speaker 7: thinking back, like wow, like it's crazy, I think, singing.
Speaker 1: Back, you have you realize you're still obsessed?
Speaker 3: Still obsessed?
Speaker 7: Yeah, well, I mean there's always going to be something
Speaker 7: I think. But yeah, back in the day, do you
Speaker 7: remember do you remember all the little shows.
Speaker 3: That I would do in like DJ and I was like,
Speaker 3: you got to come see me, like and I did
Speaker 3: because yeah, yeah, obviously it was so much fun.
Speaker 1: It was so much fun. And we went to Hawaii.
Speaker 1: Do you remember you tried to crawl in my bed?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, and you were trying.
Speaker 3: I don't remember this. I don't remember. Tell me.
Speaker 1: It was me, you, Faith and Max and we were
Speaker 1: in my hotel room. Everyone had just everyone was mean
Speaker 1: to me. They had just bullied me because Jax was
Speaker 1: telling me that I was making it up that he
Speaker 1: had hit on me. Do you remember I had taken
Speaker 1: my top off at the waterfall.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, I didn't go to the waterfall.
Speaker 1: No you didn't.
Speaker 3: You missed out.
Speaker 1: My My tits were like grade A in season four.
Speaker 3: No, but you know, well I saw your titsatue.
Speaker 1: Okay, I think everyone did.
Speaker 3: But not at the waterfall. Jack's like stopped me from
Speaker 3: going to that, by the way, he did.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they we were not wanted on that trip.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, he did not want James Kennedy on that trip.
Speaker 1: No, we go back after I'm sobbing and you guys
Speaker 1: come to check in on me, and you would not
Speaker 1: get out of my bed.
Speaker 7: But then I swear every time I tried to leave
Speaker 7: the room, though, you'd be like stay yeah.
Speaker 8: Because I wanted you to stay, right, Okay, That's why
Speaker 8: That's why I get so confusing, because it was like
Speaker 8: she's making out with this dude every never wants him
Speaker 8: to go home, but like, please don't touch the cookie.
Speaker 1: Right the cookie was.
Speaker 3: On off limits.
Speaker 1: Until I shoved Christen too the ground in the finale,
Speaker 1: and then it was like, I guess you've earned it.
Speaker 3: Wow that finale night, what a night. I'm sorry, like
Speaker 3: I'm getting flashbacks now.
Speaker 7: I haven't thought of any of this in so long,
Speaker 7: Like that night, Oh my god, you were wearing that
Speaker 7: white dress, your hair up.
Speaker 1: I looked like a drunk ship. So no, we went
Speaker 1: to my we went to Starcey's old apartment. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: and now I just have a baby.
Speaker 7: Well it's been so long, so we flashed forward. I
Speaker 7: mean we're really taking it back, like this is how
Speaker 7: many years ago?
Speaker 3: Now? Half a decade? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I think what are we?
Speaker 3: Season five is nine, so that's five years.
Speaker 1: Yes, Well, this is what I want to take you
Speaker 1: back to, Big Bear.
Speaker 7: I love going through these memories. Oh ship the Big Bear.
Speaker 3: All right, all right, big Bear, this is an emotional
Speaker 3: one for me.
Speaker 1: Wait tell me why.
Speaker 7: Well, you know I was with Raquel, wasn't I? Yeah,
Speaker 7: but like I was still you were.
Speaker 1: You've been with the only season that you and I
Speaker 1: have not been in a relationship with season four.
Speaker 3: Right, which blows my mind.
Speaker 7: But yeah, it's crazy time flirt like how we are
Speaker 7: right now today after going through all of that, with
Speaker 7: like most of the time being not together.
Speaker 3: Do you know what I'm saying?
Speaker 7: Like out of the five years, it was just one
Speaker 7: year of us like flirting and stuff, and then you got.
Speaker 3: Serious with Randall.
Speaker 7: I got serious with Raquel, and then it's like we
Speaker 7: just kind of maintained our friendship kind of thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, in a sense, I probably didn't in Big Bear,
Speaker 1: I should have listened to.
Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, so big Bear right it was big Man
Speaker 7: ware who we were with then all that.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, James, were you that slammed? Honestly, I'm
Speaker 1: so jealous, Yes, Big Bear. I can't remember if it
Speaker 1: was before or after the Pasta incident. Either way, I
Speaker 1: should have listened to you about in the Pasta scene
Speaker 1: and in Big Bear.
Speaker 3: Oh shit, oh shit, I told.
Speaker 1: You so moment, yes, because I know, yeah, but tell
Speaker 1: me more. There you were wait in front of your
Speaker 1: girlfriend at the time.
Speaker 7: Well, I was confused at the time, and I was
Speaker 7: drunk and like, I think Tom gave me some mushroom.
Speaker 1: So it wasn't even real how you felt and what.
Speaker 3: No, I mean parts of it must have been real.
Speaker 7: Yeah, And like when I said I loved you, it
Speaker 7: was more of like a like, I have so much
Speaker 7: love for you and I just don't want you to like,
Speaker 7: you know, I don't know, do something that you're going
Speaker 7: to regret, or he was someone that isn't going to
Speaker 7: treat you right, or I don't know what I was thinking.
Speaker 3: But it was deep. It was deep.
Speaker 1: It was deep. And I watched this scene the other
Speaker 1: day and you like.
Speaker 3: And even when I was wasted, like everything I said
Speaker 3: was always.
Speaker 1: Like pretty no, I yes, you're very deep, James, James
Speaker 1: runs deep. We're sitting outside and you had just told
Speaker 1: me you didn't want to be my friend. You were
Speaker 1: like giving me whiplash because it was like you would
Speaker 1: hug me and they'd be like, I don't want to
Speaker 1: be your friend.
Speaker 7: See, And I hated that, Like I hated that up
Speaker 7: and down like seesaw vibe. I God, sometimes when I
Speaker 7: got sucked up, it was if you're cool with me
Speaker 7: and we're good, then I'm good. But then if there's
Speaker 7: any slight anything I sense, yeah, then it's back, and
Speaker 7: like I would mentally go from being good to not
Speaker 7: being good.
Speaker 3: Like that's just how it was.
Speaker 7: And like you know, with cameras around and fucking all
Speaker 7: the booze and everyone is literally creating drama, it's like
Speaker 7: a cauldron of just like yeah, my god, I mean
Speaker 7: you know what I mean, Like I think I honestly
Speaker 7: handled it pretty well.
Speaker 1: Considering no, you forget that there's a camera there. I
Speaker 1: watch it happen.
Speaker 7: I never even thought about the camera. I swear the
Speaker 7: first like from season three to four to five, six,
Speaker 7: I mean until I really actually stopped drinking, I didn't
Speaker 7: even think there was a camera.
Speaker 1: But even now this season, I watch you and just
Speaker 1: like the way that you move and like you can
Speaker 1: see you blush in moments you can see like like
Speaker 1: you really don't realize there's a camera there, like me,
Speaker 1: even though I'm I'm used to the camera, I'm used
Speaker 1: to it being there, right, but I still know it's there,
Speaker 1: you know, Like I do my angles, I'm like, all right,
Speaker 1: the right side is better because the nose tips to
Speaker 1: the left.
Speaker 7: Nose look smaller this day if I did all that
Speaker 7: stuff and like and I would like try to make
Speaker 7: myself look like good all the time.
Speaker 1: You're pretty symmetrical, so you don't need to worry about sides.
Speaker 1: But in Big Bear, we go outside so that you
Speaker 1: can decompress. It's just the two of us. You get
Speaker 1: down on your knees and you're like, you have to
Speaker 1: understand something, Lala. I think it was too you say
Speaker 1: you have no It was it was more of like
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get you to understand something law like
Speaker 1: this is what I'm like, you need to hear me.
Speaker 1: And I wish looking back with what where I am now.
Speaker 1: I wish I would have picked up on what you
Speaker 1: were putting down.
Speaker 3: You said, how could you have done?
Speaker 1: You said, you have to understand something, Lala, I loved
Speaker 1: you and and I have a negative you of that
Speaker 1: man because he put the one I love in danger.
Speaker 1: Okay you said that, and now here I am. You
Speaker 1: know it almost six years later looking back on that moment,
Speaker 1: and it's like I was in danger.
Speaker 3: Yeah, holy shit, it was in danger.
Speaker 1: Like it makes my heart pound thinking of a home
Speaker 1: that was that you Like, how did you how could
Speaker 1: you see it? How could all these people see it
Speaker 1: from the outside, But me living in it, I felt
Speaker 1: that it was so safe and I was in the
Speaker 1: most dangerous position that I could possibly put myself in. Yeah, damn.
Speaker 7: I mean back then, it was a sense of you know, look,
Speaker 7: how many people do you connect to it in life?
Speaker 3: Do you know what I'm saying?
Speaker 7: Like the night you walked into surf for the first time,
Speaker 7: Like we connected, right, we had a connection. It was
Speaker 7: like make out city, and like we were having so
Speaker 7: much fun and like that doesn't happen to just like
Speaker 7: for all these people, Like we were upseting each other
Speaker 7: like every day, hanging out and stuff like that, So
Speaker 7: you have to understand like there was definitely like something there.
Speaker 7: And I feel like, you know, when Randal did come
Speaker 7: around right in the beginning, like we were still sneaking.
Speaker 3: Around it having fun and like we.
Speaker 7: Were some bathing by the palazzo and pool, and I remember, like,
Speaker 7: you know, you would like hide Randal from me sometimes
Speaker 7: and then Randall would like show up.
Speaker 3: And he'd be like hiding behind the bush or something
Speaker 3: like something.
Speaker 1: Freaky, right, And that is not normal, I know.
Speaker 7: But to me back then, I mean what was normal.
Speaker 7: I mean I was so young, like I was probably
Speaker 7: like twenty three, holy shit, Like I was a baby.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we were baby.
Speaker 3: It was not a baby.
Speaker 1: You know, if you're a good human being, I'll defend you.
Speaker 1: I won't allow people to come for you the second
Speaker 1: that you're not. Let the motherfucking dogs out, all right, Yeah, like.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what he did to you, obviously, you know what
Speaker 3: I think about it.
Speaker 1: But it's just completely many people, not just anyone, not
Speaker 1: just me.
Speaker 3: Everyone left on his side.
Speaker 7: Honestly, it's like you're cut off in my life as well,
Speaker 7: because it's just just.
Speaker 3: Be like that, you know, it just be like that.
Speaker 1: How did you feel this season.
Speaker 3: Oh my god. Wait, let's go back to what we
Speaker 3: were talking about for a second. Tell me, tell me
Speaker 3: what we're talking about.
Speaker 1: We're talking about Big Bear.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, the big Bear thing. Oh yeah, we could
Speaker 3: pass Big Bear, we know.
Speaker 7: Like yeah, that was just a moment of like, you know,
Speaker 7: but then also like I was kind of like I
Speaker 7: was obviously fucked up, So it was like how could
Speaker 7: you know, how could you listen to me type thing?
Speaker 7: You can't think like damn, I should have listened or
Speaker 7: it should have been like that, like everything in life
Speaker 7: obviously happens for a reason. And but yeah, I mean
Speaker 7: like there were moments where it was like Jesus, part
Speaker 7: of my anger and the passion that would come out
Speaker 7: when I would talk about randall right and what led
Speaker 7: to the pastor moment you know with Logan there and everything,
Speaker 7: like you know, we were having some shots and stuff
Speaker 7: and then yeah, you want to bring up that, you
Speaker 7: want to bring up that guy right now that's always
Speaker 7: making me look like a bad person.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I'm just fucking James Kennedy.
Speaker 7: I'm twenty three year old, twenty four year old fucking
Speaker 7: London boy DJ just getting it in in La I'm innocent.
Speaker 3: I'm having a good fucking time.
Speaker 7: I'm playing music to people and making out with hot
Speaker 7: girls like I'm not doing anything ronga. Meanwhile, this guy
Speaker 7: was apparently doing a lot of shit wrong. Yeah right,
Speaker 7: And how fucking frustrating for me with the girl that
Speaker 7: I thought was everything right.
Speaker 3: Now looking at me like I was nothing.
Speaker 7: And you know, that passion that spark what we had
Speaker 7: completely out the door.
Speaker 3: You know, damn it was.
Speaker 7: It was intense and like obviously with the booze, I'm
Speaker 7: going to fucking fire.
Speaker 1: Up, you know, of course.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I get that to the.
Speaker 7: Pastor moment and whatever fight after came after that. I mean,
Speaker 7: I don't think we talked for like two weeks after
Speaker 7: that pasta.
Speaker 3: Fight or whatever.
Speaker 1: That's actually not true.
Speaker 7: Really we made up. How did that day go? Because
Speaker 7: I really don't remember.
Speaker 1: Well, let's tell people how that day went. You said
Speaker 1: all of those at the time, I thought mean things.
Speaker 1: Now I just think they're really funny things.
Speaker 3: And we made up and we went out.
Speaker 1: Yes, So so the Pastor really.
Speaker 3: Was it was Pastor. It was pasta because you tells Spaghetti's.
Speaker 1: Her, because we all got stoned out of our minds,
Speaker 1: including Raquel, and she left the pasta for an hour.
Speaker 7: It was. The joke is the fact that you actually
Speaker 7: remembered that when we were fucking at lunch with Logan.
Speaker 7: You actually brought it up out of know it when
Speaker 7: I made it a big deal that night, and you
Speaker 7: you flicked it off your show like yeah, So that
Speaker 7: was like.
Speaker 1: The stoner brain. Stoner brain.
Speaker 7: But I wasn't even mad about the past that it
Speaker 7: was about Randall and sucking him, pissing me off and.
Speaker 3: Lid there we go.
Speaker 1: That's that's exactly what I thought it was. So then
Speaker 1: after I leave, right, I get in my uber. You
Speaker 1: text me and you suave amy with your James Kennedy niss,
Speaker 1: I have the uber turn around and we go to
Speaker 1: the bar next store and continue drinking. Do you remember
Speaker 1: that fucking dive bar? No one in there except one
Speaker 1: guy who clearly did not have a job or anything else,
Speaker 1: and we joined.
Speaker 3: Him had some good stories to tell me that he.
Speaker 1: Did have great stories like classic, classic day dream.
Speaker 3: Make a good time out of whatever we were doing.
Speaker 1: No, we had the best time ever. On that note,
Speaker 1: we're going to cut to a short break and then
Speaker 1: we're back with my writer died DJ whom Kennedy back,
Speaker 1: How did you feel about this season? Don't be a square?
Speaker 3: Gee, scuse me. I don't want to answer it because
Speaker 3: I think I feel about I don't know.
Speaker 1: That's why I'm fucking asking.
Speaker 3: Oh that's interesting, Yeah, that's interesting.
Speaker 1: Look, I just like if you asked me how I feel,
Speaker 1: I don't expect you to know.
Speaker 7: I can't just answer it without like the detail, like
Speaker 7: vander Pump Rules for me has been such a significant
Speaker 7: part of my life. I've grown up on this fucking
Speaker 7: show and like the person that I've become from when
Speaker 7: I started it to now, it's just crazy, Like I
Speaker 7: wouldn't trade it for anything, And I still have so
Speaker 7: much yet to accomplish and grow and do right right,
Speaker 7: you know what I mean? And as every day goes by,
Speaker 7: like you don't see the hurdles that you cross and everything,
Speaker 7: but as the whole, then you I wonder how the
Speaker 7: hell did I get this far already? Right?
Speaker 1: Yes, I totally Yeah.
Speaker 3: All of us are on our journey anyway.
Speaker 7: So with this season, Okay, you know I've accomplished a
Speaker 7: lot this year, and you know I went through a
Speaker 7: lot and a lot fucking happened.
Speaker 3: You know, I thought I was getting married.
Speaker 7: And got engaged on the season and like everything was happening,
Speaker 7: and it's just yeah, I.
Speaker 3: Mean, look from where I was even the day of
Speaker 3: the reunion.
Speaker 7: I'm definitely not much better place now. I've had a
Speaker 7: lot of time to think. I went back to England,
Speaker 7: I visited my roots.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, You're grounded again.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I definitely.
Speaker 7: Well, I always like to stay grounded, you know, I'm
Speaker 7: not up in the air and like I'm not fucking.
Speaker 3: Partying and shit.
Speaker 7: So you know, it was hard, Like Raquel fucking we
Speaker 7: broke up with December third or something.
Speaker 3: Then we filmed the reunion the very next day.
Speaker 7: We came out with the truth, and then it was
Speaker 7: you know, like Christmas came up, Like I spent Christmas
Speaker 7: alone Christmas Day because my mom and my brother had
Speaker 7: CUTVID so I couldn't even go to their house.
Speaker 3: Like I was like, oh, James, you could have come
Speaker 3: to mind. I just didn't know what to do, Like
Speaker 3: I didn't call anyone.
Speaker 7: Like it was just like fucking a very depressing time
Speaker 7: for me, and I just had to get through it.
Speaker 7: And honestly, I didn't drink on Christmas like I got
Speaker 7: through New Year's like recall and ized anniversary. Right New
Speaker 7: Year's Eve, it's the biggest DJ fucking night of the
Speaker 7: year for me. I'm making the most money I do
Speaker 7: any other night. So obviously I still have to be
Speaker 7: out there professional doing my job playing all the songs
Speaker 7: that I heard this year everything to me, Yeah, all
Speaker 7: the songs that I thought I was gonna play in
Speaker 7: my wedding. Like, look, I've gone through the fucking ringer
Speaker 7: and like, honestly.
Speaker 3: I've fucking got through it. Like I'm on the other side.
Speaker 3: I'm smiling and you know, and I'm living good.
Speaker 7: Like I don't want to give too much away of
Speaker 7: what I'm doing in my life right now, but I'm
Speaker 7: on a great track.
Speaker 1: Like that's true. I know what you've been doing. You
Speaker 1: you're definitely on a great track when you think about
Speaker 1: this season, because I, oh, yeah, so this season.
Speaker 7: I mean, look, everything happens for a reason. I have
Speaker 7: no regrets, you know, I really have no regrets on anything.
Speaker 1: And I don't mean to ask this question to take
Speaker 1: you darker deep.
Speaker 3: No, this isn't dark or deep.
Speaker 7: Okay, it's like almost like therapy with you honestly, And
Speaker 7: it's just like and like even when before the podcast,
Speaker 7: I always say like I'm not gonna say anything or
Speaker 7: do anything, but it's like, honestly, I'm just being myself
Speaker 7: and I have to just be truthful to myself.
Speaker 1: And you know, like I couldn't watch I couldn't watch
Speaker 1: this season. I had to like binge watch it before.
Speaker 1: But I'm sure it was the same for you, you
Speaker 1: get well, actually not not at all, because yours happened
Speaker 1: at the reunion, so we had already seen the season.
Speaker 7: Yeah, but even watching it back, like Rickalla and I's
Speaker 7: breakup was much less traumatic than yours, right, Like you
Speaker 7: just have to realize that like me and Raquel.
Speaker 1: Well, there was no closure with mine.
Speaker 3: Right exactly like.
Speaker 1: You know, you had a no, you had a conversation
Speaker 1: like with how mine happened, zero closure and there has
Speaker 1: yet to be any type of conversation. And and to me,
Speaker 1: there doesn't need to be a conversation because when you
Speaker 1: lose trust in everything that someone says, why would I
Speaker 1: need to talk to you Because I've been lied to enough.
Speaker 1: So now I'm gonna put myself in a situation where
Speaker 1: I can open myself up to more lies like you
Speaker 1: had a very grown up like separation.
Speaker 7: Yeah, that a lot, but like then to answer the
Speaker 7: question as a whole, like the season was good, do
Speaker 7: you know what I mean? I do miss like parts
Speaker 7: of the old vandermumb right when we were crazy, when
Speaker 7: we were young, like having fun and dad out and
Speaker 7: you know what, at the end of the day, like
Speaker 7: I'm still fucking like DJ, I'm still out here like
Speaker 7: party boy, like like you know what I mean, I
Speaker 7: don't want to fucking like I want to bring back
Speaker 7: like honestly, next year, I know another season's most likely
Speaker 7: going to happen.
Speaker 3: Nothing's confirmed yet, no.
Speaker 7: One, nothing's confirmed yet, but like you know what, we're
Speaker 7: going to stop online before a decade of hits.
Speaker 1: That's true, and so much has happened in everyone's life
Speaker 1: since we film that.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I just want to have some fun this year, honestly,
Speaker 7: and just you know, stop caring so much about what
Speaker 7: everything like, you know what I mean, Like when did
Speaker 7: James Kennedy start caring about what people think? Like And
Speaker 7: I'm not saying I even do right now, but I've
Speaker 7: definitely I had to for a minute, That's what I'm
Speaker 7: saying with the relationship with quitting booze and everything. You know,
Speaker 7: it's like that mentality has kind of like matured me
Speaker 7: a lot, you know what I mean. Like, I definitely
Speaker 7: I've spent I spend my time doing other things other
Speaker 7: than like drinking. So it's like, because I'm sober, it's
Speaker 7: like I'm fucking like working out a lot more and
Speaker 7: then I'm thinking what can I do with my brain
Speaker 7: and my life to better everything very moment and like, yeah,
Speaker 7: it's a lot of work, but at the same time,
Speaker 7: I'm very blessed, like I'm living in Los Angeles, like
Speaker 7: the weather, the lifestyle, you know, I have a beautiful
Speaker 7: apartment again and like a sick car, do you know
Speaker 7: what I mean?
Speaker 3: I'm very blessed.
Speaker 7: Like I shouldn't be down in the dumb spy anything
Speaker 7: that's happening in my life.
Speaker 1: No, but but you're still human and I think it's
Speaker 1: okay to have those moments. The fact that I think
Speaker 1: the part that you have to focus on is the
Speaker 1: fact that you pull yourself out of them.
Speaker 7: And and I spent like I said, like a month
Speaker 7: alone in my new apartment just thinking, went to London
Speaker 7: with my brother at the end of that month it
Speaker 7: was January first through the sixth you know, came back
Speaker 7: and I felt, honestly, like.
Speaker 3: You say, sixth sick.
Speaker 9: So crazy that you always used to say that six yeah,
Speaker 9: sixth six done English, done in English?
Speaker 1: The London boy. I think you should if we get
Speaker 1: another season, I think you should blow it out the ass.
Speaker 1: You're young, right, exactly, You're good, I'm looking, you don't
Speaker 1: have children, you're single, Go live your best life. And
Speaker 1: can I tell you when you lose your mind on people?
Speaker 1: By the way, you're making sense, right, Everything you're saying
Speaker 1: makes sense. It's just that you go from zero to
Speaker 1: one hundred, which I do too. That's why I'm telling you, like, yes,
Speaker 1: because in my mind, in my mind, I make more
Speaker 1: sense than everybody, right, do I make more sense than everybody?
Speaker 1: Just I think we make all the sense.
Speaker 7: I mean I don't really say stuff that I don't
Speaker 7: think you know. And honestly, this year I think I
Speaker 7: was pretty contained.
Speaker 3: There was a there was.
Speaker 7: A there was a few moments that I lost my
Speaker 7: like not on someone you know, don't want to go into.
Speaker 1: It, but I mean you've gone into everything.
Speaker 3: That agree rather than disagree.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, you and me both, yeah, you and me both?
Speaker 3: Yes, So like can I give a ship?
Speaker 7: And like honestly, like like I'm not even on fucking
Speaker 7: Instagram and that ship I'm so over it. Like this
Speaker 7: year it's all about just like reconnecting with mother Earth,
Speaker 7: like JK, living into his best, highest potential, making hits,
Speaker 7: DJing as much as I can, living my best fucking life,
Speaker 7: do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: And making out with a bunch of cars. Obviously, I'm
Speaker 3: gonna have a lot of fun this year. Like I'm
Speaker 3: not really trying, like I am a lover and it's
Speaker 3: like I'm not a fighter. Do you know someone talk?
Speaker 3: When I do meet someone, I am kind of only
Speaker 3: into them, I know, because you're the sexy thing about it,
Speaker 3: do you know what I mean?
Speaker 7: It's like I might not be into like in two
Speaker 7: weeks or three weeks, right, but for that moment, like
Speaker 7: I don't want to make out with the mother girl,
Speaker 7: like I just want you.
Speaker 3: That's how we were by the way, Yeah, how I
Speaker 3: still am with girls?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 3: I might be seeing someone kind of right now?
Speaker 1: Is it the one on the Instagram holding the hand?
Speaker 3: Huh yeah, yeah, I'm gonna show you a picture. They
Speaker 3: just want to get your local reaction.
Speaker 1: Okay, show me a picture.
Speaker 3: Do you really want to see it? Yes?
Speaker 1: Obviously?
Speaker 3: Well if my phone's broken though, But is this cute?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: She's very pretty, James.
Speaker 3: She's like, you like the pretty girls.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you love beautiful women, obviously, obviously you do. All
Speaker 1: the girls that I've seen are very beautiful. Do you
Speaker 1: have a picture of her full face? Can I say what?
Speaker 1: That's a picture? Ever?
Speaker 3: No? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Have you kissing her?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: All right, that's a picture of James kissing her? But
Speaker 1: I want to see full face of hers.
Speaker 3: Obviously, she's not like on Instagram and.
Speaker 1: I meet out for the first time, what I meet
Speaker 1: out for the first time in probably in tears? James,
Speaker 1: I know that that's shocking. Yeah, I'm funny with people's mouths.
Speaker 1: You have to have like a clean mouth if I'm
Speaker 1: going to make out with you. She's so cute. Yep. Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm so happy for you. Where'd you meet her?
Speaker 3: At a show?
Speaker 7: Tom Sand's Most Extra showj DJ after the band?
Speaker 3: You know?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Wait at the Canyon Go Hills in the came.
Speaker 3: Wow, random random fan?
Speaker 10: Well look yeah, well look she's with She was with
Speaker 10: her friends that were fans they're in like the business,
Speaker 10: you know what I mean, one of them works.
Speaker 1: They're always friends of the.
Speaker 3: Fans, right, and you know what, who isn't a fan
Speaker 3: of the sexes? So like, I'm sorry, who isn't a
Speaker 3: fan of like every single person?
Speaker 2: On me?
Speaker 3: It's like, oh, yeah, but I don't watch. It's like, yeah,
Speaker 3: but you do.
Speaker 1: But you know it, and that's good enough.
Speaker 3: You know it that like your mom watches, your mom
Speaker 3: watched someone does exactly.
Speaker 1: That's good enough for me though. When people are like, oh,
Speaker 1: I know that show, I'm not scared.
Speaker 3: I don't know what everyone's fucking. I don't. I don't.
Speaker 3: I don't see what everyone's obsession is. We don't date
Speaker 3: a fan and stuff.
Speaker 7: It's like, oh, okay, because you're doing so much in
Speaker 7: your life at one point, I'm a fan of someone else,
Speaker 7: do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Like, who am I to say, like, oh, I'm not
Speaker 3: going to do a fan like you know, I hate that.
Speaker 3: I would date all the fans, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Why not?
Speaker 1: It's different for me because we have more of a female.
Speaker 3: Yeahs to guys might be a little bit different.
Speaker 1: And the only guys that are watching the show usually
Speaker 1: are watching because their wife or girlfriend watches.
Speaker 7: I see that, you know, so most the female male
Speaker 7: difference in that whole situation, because.
Speaker 1: There is one No, you're lucky, you're lucky or else
Speaker 1: I'd be bagging these bros left and fucking right.
Speaker 3: Oh that's hilarious, you know.
Speaker 1: But a six seven NBA player is not like huge fan.
Speaker 1: It's like what do you do? What?
Speaker 3: Exactly? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: And plus girls like to date up as well, do
Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Like like father for guys
Speaker 3: like I don't.
Speaker 7: I don't think guys are like, oh I want to
Speaker 7: date a girl that's like famous and blah blah.
Speaker 1: I don't think that way.
Speaker 3: I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck either. I just want to
Speaker 1: know that when the person I'm dating when he leaves
Speaker 1: the house isn't like banging anything that walks. You know.
Speaker 1: That's what I would like, That's what I would like.
Speaker 1: The bars very low for anybody looks wise.
Speaker 7: Personality wouldn't be your boss should be fucking high up.
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is like, you don't have to
Speaker 1: compete with the X in any when she perform you.
Speaker 1: Your ex is fine, right, So any girl that you're
Speaker 1: dating is going to be like Raquel, he was engaged.
Speaker 1: She's beautiful, she's sweet. Like anyone that I'm dating now
Speaker 1: is not going to be like very intimidated. You know, nobody, nobody,
Speaker 1: So that's good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, yeah, I guess if you look at it like.
Speaker 1: That, But that's how I think most people look at it.
Speaker 3: Yeah. One, I mean for me, it's just like, you know,
Speaker 3: I'm not even even thinking about the past. I'm living
Speaker 3: in the future.
Speaker 1: I'm going to live in the future with you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's hot, all right.
Speaker 1: So let's say we get a phone call. Let's just
Speaker 1: say hypothetically you're picked up for season ten.
Speaker 3: Y'all when we get that phone cool?
Speaker 1: But yeah, went right, well I love that when we
Speaker 1: get the phone call, put it into the universe. What
Speaker 1: do you expect James Kennedy to be like in a
Speaker 1: new me?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, okay, So I've got a lot of
Speaker 7: great releases coming out this year.
Speaker 3: I'm going to be DJing a lot. I think I'm
Speaker 3: going to be like more of a matured thirty year old.
Speaker 3: I'm thirteen now, la la, Like, wow, I'm not in
Speaker 3: my twenties anymore.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're grown.
Speaker 7: So you know, I feel like my brain I think
Speaker 7: they say also like the male brain completely, like it clicks,
Speaker 7: like it matures completely at thirty, and it actually happens
Speaker 7: for women earlier. I think the age is twenty six
Speaker 7: for girls.
Speaker 1: Okay, that would be wrong.
Speaker 3: I could be wrong, but look it up. Look it up,
Speaker 3: tell me later.
Speaker 7: Yeah, but like so, yeah, so this is going to
Speaker 7: be that year for me. I already feel more mature.
Speaker 7: But like every day that goes on after your birthday,
Speaker 7: you know, you start feeling that. Yeah, it's like I
Speaker 7: don't feel twenty nine anymore, but I don't also feel
Speaker 7: like that thirty year old man yet.
Speaker 1: Right, You're in like a good space.
Speaker 3: I'm headed up.
Speaker 7: It's like it's a ride, do you know what I mean,
Speaker 7: like a rock shit. So I'm headed there and that's
Speaker 7: where we're going to be some summertime mid year. I mean,
Speaker 7: I'm going to be at my best. I think I'm
Speaker 7: going to be in the best shape I've ever been.
Speaker 7: You know, I'm working out every single day. I can't
Speaker 7: wait to show off my six pack this year.
Speaker 1: No big big vibes.
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, yeah, Like if I don't have a six pack,
Speaker 7: this summer where like you want to like wash your
Speaker 7: clothes off it. You know what I'm saying, Like I'm
Speaker 7: going to show off a liar at this point, I'm.
Speaker 1: Going to show off my new tits. Season ten, you're
Speaker 1: getting new tits, getting new tips. Holy, I know I
Speaker 1: want to see so happy for me. I'm weaning my
Speaker 1: little baby off the boobies. Wow, you know they're more
Speaker 1: of a comfort. You know, she doesn't use my fun
Speaker 1: bags for meals anymore. It's more of just like a
Speaker 1: comfort at night. So like there's the milk is like
Speaker 1: I used to have. My boobs this season were massive
Speaker 1: and I loved.
Speaker 7: I tried not to stay obviously, you know I wasn't
Speaker 7: engaged man, So I was just like trying to like,
Speaker 7: but it was.
Speaker 1: Hard not to because they were always.
Speaker 3: I think I literally used to say hello like that
Speaker 3: every seedy. It'd be like.
Speaker 1: Your face is red, my face is red. No, I
Speaker 1: I want new boobies because I just do. I just do.
Speaker 1: So That's what I'm going to show off this season.
Speaker 3: We can another season, you know what I mean? Like
Speaker 3: in whatever that is, will.
Speaker 1: You bring this girl on the show if you're still
Speaker 1: seeing her, Like are you going to be locked down
Speaker 1: if you bring one girl on the show. Like that's
Speaker 1: if I were her, I'd be like, we're committed. He's
Speaker 1: like parading me around to every look.
Speaker 7: Look, it's still too early to say. Honestly, I do
Speaker 7: like this girl. I really do, okay, and you know
Speaker 7: what I mean, I don't know, like we'll see what happens.
Speaker 7: Like I can't ask any girl to do that. And like, listen,
Speaker 7: that's kind of what where my head work was with Raquel.
Speaker 3: Back in the day.
Speaker 7: Like you know, it was like, oh, yeah, you're gonna
Speaker 7: come on the show, We're gonna move you out to
Speaker 7: La like like it was all set up.
Speaker 1: Right right right, Yes, you gave for a drawer.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and she was in college before.
Speaker 7: So when you come down, like you film a little
Speaker 7: bit when you're in town, but when you come down,
Speaker 7: we're living together.
Speaker 3: Like it's gonna be fucking weird together anyway. So obviously,
Speaker 3: so anyway with this girl, obviously I don't want to
Speaker 3: do I don't want to make the same mistakes. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I've learn a lot, I'm not like you.
Speaker 7: Know what I mean, like just moving on and not
Speaker 7: thinking about everything that I've gone through. Do you know
Speaker 7: what I mean, Like, I'm a fucking book that's just
Speaker 7: added so many more chapters and now it's like I'm
Speaker 7: writing this next. So with her, I'm taking my time,
Speaker 7: you know. She gets to really choose what she wants
Speaker 7: to do with that whole situation, and then for me,
Speaker 7: it's like I have to decide as well, Like shit,
Speaker 7: like what do I truly want?
Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 7: I'm not going to just do something for the bucks
Speaker 7: of it.
Speaker 1: I think you should parade bangers in. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: it's been six years for you that you were in
Speaker 1: a relationship and.
Speaker 3: You but then also I'm gonna do like going on
Speaker 3: dates with just like tons of girls something.
Speaker 1: Yes, that's exactly what you do. Yeah, I know, but
Speaker 1: like I don't know, it sounds so fun.
Speaker 3: Okay, we'll see, we'll see, we'll see. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 7: I really don't I really don't know. But what I
Speaker 7: do know is that I'm going to be doing me
Speaker 7: and I'm going to be fucking enjoying.
Speaker 1: Myself as you shed, as we both shed.
Speaker 7: Yeah truly, because you know, honestly, after Raquel left, it's like,
Speaker 7: now I don't really have anyone to impress or please
Speaker 7: except myself and me.
Speaker 3: No. I want to see no one. Absolutely.
Speaker 7: I literally told my mother this nobody. That's how cutthroat
Speaker 7: I've gone to.
Speaker 3: Like no one.
Speaker 7: My heart cannot break anymore, like my like everything that
Speaker 7: I've went through like now, it's just like I'm past
Speaker 7: like I'm past it all, and it's like, no, Like,
Speaker 7: what do I mean by that hold on?
Speaker 3: What I mean by like my part can't break anymore?
Speaker 7: Is that I like I am not I am going
Speaker 7: to do me to the point of where like I
Speaker 7: am just what's the fucking word I'm looking for. I'm
Speaker 7: just like so like fucking like.
Speaker 1: Liberated.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't care what anyone thinks, what anyone wants.
Speaker 7: That's thirty why I am doing me like I'm a
Speaker 7: fucking man.
Speaker 3: I'm living my life.
Speaker 7: I'm not gonna be forty and think back to jack
Speaker 7: shit except what I wanted to do every single fucking day,
Speaker 7: not giving a shot what anyone anybody thinks, like anyone,
Speaker 7: no one has any control over me anymore.
Speaker 3: No one can say anything to make me.
Speaker 7: Think anything right because look at me, Look honestly, look
Speaker 7: at me. Look how good I fucking look, look, go
Speaker 7: to my fucking Instagram people, right fucking now. Okay, I
Speaker 7: don't understand why every fucking person on the show has
Speaker 7: a million.
Speaker 3: Followers but me. But like, let's just be real, Okay,
Speaker 3: I'm like, by far the sexiest on the show.
Speaker 7: But out of the guys, let's come on, well, who
Speaker 7: am I competing with Schwartz?
Speaker 3: It's like his sexiness is more like fat cute, you
Speaker 3: know what I mean.
Speaker 7: He's got a dad bod vibes like what we love Schwartz, right,
Speaker 7: but like, come on, it's a different league. Did you
Speaker 7: see how good I looks on the Union even though
Speaker 7: I was the saddest person.
Speaker 3: On the planet. My god, we were bothered, very sad.
Speaker 7: Go to my Instagram right now, Look how healthy I
Speaker 7: lo look, how fucking good I look. Like I'm only
Speaker 7: gonna get sexier this year.
Speaker 1: All right, I'm going, I'm going.
Speaker 3: And my whole point is, what was my point is that, like, yeah,
Speaker 3: you look good? Yeah?
Speaker 7: Like my point is is that, like I've gotten me
Speaker 7: to where I am now, Okay, I'm not traveling backwards
Speaker 7: and I'm just going forwards, like and that's why I'm
Speaker 7: going to continue to me.
Speaker 3: I've got fucking my dream job, right, a great picture.
Speaker 3: Look at the last life.
Speaker 7: Bang bam, and it's like if I've gotten this started. Look,
Speaker 7: I'm blessed. I've got so many blessings in my life. Yes,
Speaker 7: some things didn't work out, but I know that those
Speaker 7: that was for a fucking reason. God did that for
Speaker 7: a reason to benefit both of the lives that were involved. Yeah,
Speaker 7: I'm no one one, everyone one, no one one, everyone one. Okay,
Speaker 7: that's how it is.
Speaker 1: That's profound.
Speaker 7: This is some guru ship that I'm learning, Like I've
Speaker 7: actually been listening to this guy.
Speaker 3: But anyway, I so.
Speaker 1: Wish I would have captured that entire thing on my
Speaker 1: rant that I just did. Yeah, because it was very
Speaker 1: inspiring and everyone should feel that way about themselves.
Speaker 3: Wow, yeah, one hundred percent. Everyone should be doing that. Everyone.
Speaker 3: Fuck what everyone thinks.
Speaker 1: Everyone should be sitting here saying why the fuck don't
Speaker 1: I have millions of followers on Instagram, I'm the hottest
Speaker 1: person in the fucking world. Shouldn't feel that way?
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, right right, But like if you don't,
Speaker 3: then fine, I don't give a ship, do you know
Speaker 3: what I mean? Because that's me.
Speaker 7: That's how I am feeling okay, that's why you're listening
Speaker 7: to me right now, right like, like.
Speaker 3: That's what you see.
Speaker 7: The point is here, Like if you want to be
Speaker 7: doing that, go out and do it. But if not,
Speaker 7: don't give a fuck if I'm doing it right or
Speaker 7: what I say.
Speaker 1: You're full of so much profound shit in this moment.
Speaker 7: Yeah, because I just have nothing. I haven't spoken to
Speaker 7: anyone and yeah, this is the first time, like and
Speaker 7: I would only be talking to you.
Speaker 1: Well, I love you, and.
Speaker 3: People that listen to a podcast.
Speaker 7: I know they're actually like you know, they're legit in
Speaker 7: the care I guess, so, guys. I hate doing podcasts.
Speaker 7: I don't do anyone's podcast Like anyone calls me to
Speaker 7: do podcasts, I'm like, no.
Speaker 1: This is how it went down. I texted James, I said,
Speaker 1: can you do my podcast? He said, I hate podcasts.
Speaker 1: I think they're lame. I said, well, when you asked
Speaker 1: me to post a song of yours, that's how I'm
Speaker 1: gonna respond that I don't post people's music because I
Speaker 1: think it's fucking lame. Then he calls me and gives
Speaker 1: me his fucking British actions and apologizes and says he'll
Speaker 1: do it. And I was like, Okay, that's all I wanted.
Speaker 1: You're the only person that could bully me into like
Speaker 1: And then today he was like, can I come Tuesday instead?
Speaker 1: I was like I don't. Like, I don't. Yes, I
Speaker 1: was like, I don't. I don't maneuver. I'm fucking La.
Speaker 3: La, I know, and you're so busy, La La, Like
Speaker 3: I know, all right with me?
Speaker 1: All right, God, alright, mother fucking La La. So the
Speaker 1: fact that I was willing to maneuver my schedule around
Speaker 1: for you, You're welcome.
Speaker 3: I'm just kidding.
Speaker 7: It means a lot, La, It means a lot. And
Speaker 7: I think that you know, we are also the beginning
Speaker 7: of whatever our next chapter is together is James and
Speaker 7: La La. You know, we're going to make some music
Speaker 7: this year just for us, and.
Speaker 1: Like, let's do that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, well let's have some fun.
Speaker 1: You and I let's have some fun. James, thank you
Speaker 1: so much for being on my podcast. I love you
Speaker 1: so much, kid, There's no one like you that's really
Speaker 1: I'm sure you guys, thank you so much for listening
Speaker 1: to the Give Them a La Podcast. We he will
Speaker 1: catch you next week.