WEBVTT - The Royal Wedding Part 2 0:00:00.600 --> 0:00:04.840 Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:08.960 --> 0:00:14.160 Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in scrub. 0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:16.640 Dub Dub and the wife. 0:00:16.200 --> 0:00:17.120 A tub tub. 0:00:18.360 --> 0:00:21.160 This is part two of the wedding recap. 0:00:22.239 --> 0:00:26.240 Tanya and Becca's version. I think we need to have version. 0:00:27.080 --> 0:00:27.479 Maybe we'll have. 0:00:29.120 --> 0:00:34.200 Yeah, Oh, I see, We'll see it could Yeah. 0:00:34.240 --> 0:00:35.880 I'm just saying it could be its own thing because 0:00:35.880 --> 0:00:37.440 I feel like being in the wedding and being a 0:00:37.479 --> 0:00:39.840 guest and a wedding of two very different perspectives. 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:40.200 Sure. 0:00:40.640 --> 0:00:43.600 Yeah, I forgot to mention this on the part one. 0:00:43.920 --> 0:00:45.160 The weather was. 0:00:47.600 --> 0:00:50.559 When I was walking down I finally I was like, 0:00:50.640 --> 0:00:52.879 I should have just been outside all day and let 0:00:52.880 --> 0:00:54.960 the wind hit me. Because as soon as the fresh 0:00:55.000 --> 0:00:57.240 air was on me and I was in that moment, 0:00:57.440 --> 0:00:59.920 I was like revived. It was like the most per 0:01:00.040 --> 0:01:02.600 picked weather I've ever experienced. 0:01:02.880 --> 0:01:03.400 It was perfect. 0:01:03.440 --> 0:01:05.520 It's perfect, And I have to admit I was wrong 0:01:05.560 --> 0:01:07.720 because when she was planning this, I was like, Tanya, 0:01:07.880 --> 0:01:09.840 just pick a place you can't control the weather. 0:01:09.959 --> 0:01:12.000 It's gonna be fine. Just do it in La It's 0:01:12.040 --> 0:01:13.200 the best climate in the world. 0:01:13.959 --> 0:01:17.200 Range sometimes in La in March and sure enough that 0:01:17.319 --> 0:01:19.280 day in Los Angeles. 0:01:18.959 --> 0:01:20.720 Was rating, so I was wrong. 0:01:21.160 --> 0:01:23.920 She chose correctly and wow. 0:01:24.560 --> 0:01:28.600 And it was also National Butterfly Day? 0:01:29.400 --> 0:01:30.200 Was that planned? 0:01:30.880 --> 0:01:33.600 What if I told you this was accidental? 0:01:34.360 --> 0:01:34.560 No? 0:01:34.560 --> 0:01:35.360 No no, no no no? 0:01:35.600 --> 0:01:37.440 And a blood moon and. 0:01:38.120 --> 0:01:42.199 Period money like everything? 0:01:42.640 --> 0:01:44.640 Did you know the National Butterfly Day? 0:01:47.480 --> 0:01:49.680 I feel like you saw someone call your mastermind and 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:51.320 now you're playing into there's no way. 0:01:52.600 --> 0:01:53.480 Wudn't you like to know? 0:01:54.360 --> 0:01:57.120 No, we didn't pick the date because it was National 0:01:57.160 --> 0:02:01.920 Butterfly Day. But it's so funny because everything honestly works 0:02:01.960 --> 0:02:04.720 out to your benefit. Because we were obviously planning on 0:02:04.760 --> 0:02:07.080 having a wedding on Saturday, as most people get married 0:02:07.120 --> 0:02:10.320 on Saturdays, and they ended up booking the Garden, which 0:02:10.360 --> 0:02:12.680 is where we wanted to have our reception for like 0:02:12.720 --> 0:02:15.960 a corporate dinner the Saturday that weekend, which we had 0:02:16.000 --> 0:02:19.040 already kind of like locked down that weekend. So Rob 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:23.200 and I were like so upset about it, and it 0:02:23.280 --> 0:02:25.320 could not have worked out better because I feel like 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:28.080 having the weddings, the actual ceremony of the reception on 0:02:28.120 --> 0:02:31.520 a Friday, and then having that next day to still 0:02:31.560 --> 0:02:33.600 be with everybody and like not have to like rush 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:35.920 to the airport and go home. The next day was 0:02:35.960 --> 0:02:39.720 like such a blessing, Yes, and that it was National 0:02:39.800 --> 0:02:40.960 Butterfly Day, like it all. 0:02:41.000 --> 0:02:42.480 I was like, this is it. That's what was meant 0:02:42.520 --> 0:02:44.400 to be. It's what I meant to be. I literally 0:02:44.520 --> 0:02:44.880 was saying. 0:02:44.880 --> 0:02:47.040 I told Haley, I was like, we will do a 0:02:47.080 --> 0:02:50.680 Friday wedding because if we do a destination having people 0:02:50.800 --> 0:02:54.239 have the time to hang out Saturday and then still 0:02:54.240 --> 0:02:56.760 have that full day or Sunday to go back. 0:02:56.760 --> 0:02:58.600 Because like the most people will do like a brif 0:02:58.600 --> 0:03:00.960 it's a destination, they'll do like a bunch on the Sunday. 0:03:01.000 --> 0:03:04.040 But like nobody wants to go. You're trying to get 0:03:04.080 --> 0:03:06.680 to an airport, you're trying to pack. But also like 0:03:06.680 --> 0:03:08.840 look cute for this brunch for the bride, you know 0:03:08.840 --> 0:03:10.400 what I mean. Like it's like there's a lot going on. 0:03:10.480 --> 0:03:13.040 So like, I don't know, it just totally worked out. 0:03:13.400 --> 0:03:19.400 So after the ceremony you went and took photos. Yeah, Robbie, quickly, quickly, quickly, 0:03:19.800 --> 0:03:23.120 we all headed to the reception area, which again it 0:03:23.200 --> 0:03:28.560 was a tent of twinkle lights and all the tables 0:03:28.600 --> 0:03:30.720 were set up and all the tables had a theme. 0:03:31.200 --> 0:03:32.840 First of all, it makes me so happy that you 0:03:32.880 --> 0:03:36.160 said that it was like so beautiful because we did 0:03:36.240 --> 0:03:39.400 it like I don't want to say low budget, but 0:03:39.520 --> 0:03:44.160 like what we stripped down so much of the Like 0:03:44.840 --> 0:03:48.440 we were gonna have so many crazy flower installments like 0:03:48.560 --> 0:03:53.720 along the along the aisle and like along the the 0:03:53.720 --> 0:03:56.440 the staircase of the ceremony, and then we were gonna 0:03:56.480 --> 0:03:59.480 have like crazy flowers on all the tables. And then 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:02.800 who knew flowers were so expensive and in Mexico they're 0:04:02.880 --> 0:04:05.640 like times ten what they are like here for some reason, 0:04:06.080 --> 0:04:07.720 and so we were like, we don't need all this, 0:04:08.320 --> 0:04:11.040 Like we don't need all these flowers. It's so gorgeous 0:04:11.080 --> 0:04:13.240 the setting in and of itself. So we got rid 0:04:13.240 --> 0:04:14.880 of all of that stuff. We got rid of all 0:04:14.920 --> 0:04:18.680 those extra flowers, and and like it still. 0:04:18.400 --> 0:04:21.160 Looked stunning, it looked like expense. 0:04:22.839 --> 0:04:25.160 Yeah, no, we didn't. We were like, let's just do 0:04:25.920 --> 0:04:28.200 single bud based flowers. And we did it for the 0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:32.800 welcome the welcome dinner too, because you use less flowers. 0:04:33.120 --> 0:04:34.720 You just put one in the vase and it takes 0:04:34.800 --> 0:04:38.040 up like more space. But yeah, we like totally cut 0:04:38.080 --> 0:04:40.240 costs from the flower like so much cost. 0:04:40.760 --> 0:04:41.320 Whoa. 0:04:41.440 --> 0:04:45.320 Yeah, where we really sprung was the Twinkle Tent. But 0:04:45.360 --> 0:04:47.039 I feel like that's what made it. 0:04:47.040 --> 0:04:50.440 It was worth every penny. Yeah, the lighting, it was stunning. 0:04:51.400 --> 0:04:56.320 So y'all come down the stairs. Everyone tears, and then 0:04:57.640 --> 0:05:00.880 we already talked about Sophia do well. 0:05:01.440 --> 0:05:02.440 I have a little bit of that too. 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:04.960 But we should also mention that Tanya and Robbie took 0:05:05.000 --> 0:05:08.560 the time, oh to write a brand written card to 0:05:08.800 --> 0:05:10.560 every single person at. 0:05:10.440 --> 0:05:12.719 The wedding, every single guest I've ever even heard of. 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:16.080 Such a thing, never happened before. Like that's incredible. 0:05:16.560 --> 0:05:19.200 It's so funny because like we agreed, like Robbery and 0:05:19.240 --> 0:05:22.200 I are like, we really want the guest list was 0:05:22.240 --> 0:05:24.720 like our biggest thing for the wedding, and so like 0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:27.680 everybody that's there are people who have either been in 0:05:27.680 --> 0:05:29.880 a part of our lives that we want in our 0:05:29.920 --> 0:05:32.520 lives moving forward, like these were. This was like this 0:05:32.640 --> 0:05:34.440 was like our core, and we were like, how do 0:05:34.480 --> 0:05:36.960 we convey how important it is and how special it is. 0:05:37.000 --> 0:05:39.000 Everybody took the time and the effort to like be 0:05:39.120 --> 0:05:41.440 out here for us, and so we're like, let's write 0:05:41.440 --> 0:05:44.440 them all like a note and Robbie goes, are you 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:45.840 sure you don't want to do it by like couple 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:49.279 like Wright to like the couple, and I'm like, no, 0:05:49.680 --> 0:05:53.359 each individual gets their own letter, and he was like 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:55.800 so happy that we did it that way. 0:05:55.839 --> 0:05:57.839 He's like, I think it was so much better. 0:05:58.480 --> 0:06:02.359 Haley did not stop talking about that. She was like, 0:06:03.240 --> 0:06:08.440 I have never experienced such a thoughtful gesture from like 0:06:08.480 --> 0:06:11.360 a bride and groom or someone someone who's like putting 0:06:11.400 --> 0:06:13.960 on an event like that, for them to take the 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:16.000 time to write every single person. 0:06:16.520 --> 0:06:19.880 She was like, I have never experienced that in my life. 0:06:19.880 --> 0:06:22.800 And I everyone kept talking like it was like constantly, 0:06:23.080 --> 0:06:25.880 and I think because I knew you were doing it. 0:06:25.600 --> 0:06:27.520 It didn't hit as hard hit it. 0:06:27.560 --> 0:06:30.280 Hard, but like the more people were talking about it, 0:06:30.360 --> 0:06:36.400 I realized, like how insanely thoughtful and just giving. 0:06:36.480 --> 0:06:39.960 That was one of my favorite things was getting videos, 0:06:40.000 --> 0:06:42.360 like people were taking videos of other people like reading 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:49.039 their cards. Yeah, but Mark is like weeping like a baby. 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:52.479 We could definitely post that video on scrubbing in right, 0:06:52.560 --> 0:06:56.240 I'll send it to Crystal, but I love it. But 0:06:57.320 --> 0:06:58.760 that was like one of my favorite things because that 0:06:58.880 --> 0:07:01.280 was also we were like, what's thing because we're not 0:07:01.360 --> 0:07:03.640 doing a seat at dinner. What's something people can do 0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:06.480 while we're taking a couple of photos before we get there, 0:07:06.480 --> 0:07:08.200 and we're like, oh, they can read their letters, so like, 0:07:08.400 --> 0:07:10.080 but I was like, I want to see everybody's faces 0:07:10.080 --> 0:07:11.560 when they do it, and so I was really glad 0:07:11.600 --> 0:07:14.200 that like other people like caught videos of people like 0:07:14.280 --> 0:07:15.960 reading them. 0:07:16.120 --> 0:07:17.120 So that was really cool. 0:07:17.760 --> 0:07:21.920 We did enjoy that and it was incredible, truly, and 0:07:21.960 --> 0:07:23.560 I was I remember I think I even said on 0:07:23.560 --> 0:07:26.040 the podcast, like you should you were thinking saying all 0:07:26.080 --> 0:07:27.720 the things that you still needed to do, and You're like, 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:29.320 I need to write cards for everyone, and I was like, 0:07:29.720 --> 0:07:33.520 take that off that nice, take that off your. 0:07:33.440 --> 0:07:35.440 Like one card and copy it and put it in. 0:07:36.480 --> 0:07:37.440 But it made a difference. 0:07:37.680 --> 0:07:39.520 Oh god, everyone talked about it. 0:07:39.640 --> 0:07:39.880 Yeah. 0:07:39.960 --> 0:07:42.040 It took us like and that was one of the 0:07:42.120 --> 0:07:44.520 last things we did before we left for Mexico because 0:07:44.520 --> 0:07:47.040 we had to wait to get like the card stock 0:07:47.080 --> 0:07:49.760 that we did them on. But it took us like 0:07:51.080 --> 0:07:54.160 two to three full days. We didn't like sit there 0:07:54.200 --> 0:07:56.480 at the table like twenty four hours writing them, but. 0:07:56.480 --> 0:08:03.600 Like, yeah, yeah, yeah, it was incredible. So first dance comes, 0:08:03.760 --> 0:08:09.200 y'all get announced missus and mister Yadagar yes, and they 0:08:09.480 --> 0:08:10.320 announced Sophia. 0:08:11.920 --> 0:08:15.440 By the way, I was going back and forth about 0:08:15.480 --> 0:08:19.600 this MC of the night and I wanted to ask 0:08:19.680 --> 0:08:24.040 you Mark, and Robbie was like, it's so not nice 0:08:24.240 --> 0:08:27.600 to have a guest, like have a guest have a 0:08:28.080 --> 0:08:30.760 like work, like make a guess work like that, and 0:08:30.800 --> 0:08:35.480 I'm like, ah, you're right, but I think Mark would 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:37.400 like it, like I don't think it would be like 0:08:37.960 --> 0:08:41.319 imposing on his time. But then everybody got in my 0:08:41.360 --> 0:08:43.280 head about like it's not nice to do that, you know, 0:08:43.320 --> 0:08:45.200 I mean, like you should have if we wanted Mark 0:08:45.200 --> 0:08:46.680 to do it, we should have asked him like a 0:08:46.720 --> 0:08:48.760 month ago, and like, you know, you know, I'm not 0:08:48.840 --> 0:08:50.880 sprung it on him the night before. So then I 0:08:50.920 --> 0:08:53.319 was like, you know what, You're right, these these band members, 0:08:53.360 --> 0:08:54.680 this is what they do, and we'll just like let 0:08:54.760 --> 0:08:55.199 them do it. 0:08:56.360 --> 0:08:57.439 I regret not having you. 0:08:57.400 --> 0:08:58.640 Do it again. 0:08:58.679 --> 0:09:00.240 I have no complaints about the whole week and so 0:09:00.240 --> 0:09:01.840 it's not a big deal, but I would have loved to. 0:09:02.520 --> 0:09:06.079 I go listen, I heard the sentiment of not making 0:09:06.080 --> 0:09:10.280 a guest work, but Mark would be honored because. 0:09:10.679 --> 0:09:12.839 You could have sprung it on me thirty seconds you 0:09:12.920 --> 0:09:14.880 had me in a microphone and that would have been honored. 0:09:14.960 --> 0:09:17.959 So because we asked, we like floated the idea to 0:09:18.040 --> 0:09:20.880 Paulina and she was like, ah, it feels kind of weird. 0:09:20.920 --> 0:09:22.679 And so then I got in my head about like 0:09:22.679 --> 0:09:24.160 a guest doing. I was like, yeah, she'd probably I 0:09:24.160 --> 0:09:26.640 shouldn't be a guest. And then I was going to 0:09:26.679 --> 0:09:29.079 ask you the night before at the rehearsal because I 0:09:29.120 --> 0:09:29.760 was like, I got at. 0:09:29.720 --> 0:09:30.480 Least give him a day. 0:09:30.640 --> 0:09:32.880 Yeah, And then everybody got in my head about like 0:09:32.920 --> 0:09:35.920 not asking a guest. And then as we were taking 0:09:35.920 --> 0:09:38.960 our photos on the sunset, our wedding planner, Marger was like, 0:09:39.080 --> 0:09:41.600 so it's not it's it's going to be the band member, right, 0:09:41.640 --> 0:09:42.959 And I was like, well, we can't do it now. 0:09:43.000 --> 0:09:43.880 It's so last minute. 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:46.240 We can't just like go in there and ask Mark. 0:09:47.080 --> 0:09:49.640 So anyways, thank you for thinking of me. It's fine, 0:09:49.640 --> 0:09:51.439 it's okay, it worked out great. Yeah, yeah. 0:09:51.520 --> 0:09:51.720 Yeah. 0:09:51.760 --> 0:09:55.000 The only reason why this is funny is because when 0:09:55.000 --> 0:09:58.439 he announced Sophia, yeah, because she had what did you 0:09:58.440 --> 0:09:59.880 write my butterfly sister? 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:03.200 Yeah, and he said my buttery But. 0:10:04.720 --> 0:10:09.840 I was like, so he's like a Tanya's buttery sister. 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:14.360 I was like, yeah, that's that's her, my buttery sister. 0:10:16.160 --> 0:10:22.040 So beyond that the announcement, I knew that what I 0:10:22.120 --> 0:10:25.960 knew about the Sophia arrangement was that she changed the lyrics. 0:10:26.120 --> 0:10:28.000 I did not know she had come up with an 0:10:28.320 --> 0:10:32.000 entire arrangement of the song. Yeah. 0:10:32.160 --> 0:10:33.080 I didn't know that either. 0:10:33.559 --> 0:10:35.959 So we had told her that we wanted the songs 0:10:36.000 --> 0:10:37.640 for four and a half minutes, and we didn't want 0:10:37.679 --> 0:10:40.000 to be like having everybody stare at us dance for 0:10:40.040 --> 0:10:41.280 four and a half minutes, so we were like, can 0:10:41.320 --> 0:10:42.960 you cut it to like two two and a half minutes. 0:10:43.520 --> 0:10:44.920 I didn't know she was going to do like a 0:10:44.960 --> 0:10:47.959 whole new arrangement. Thank god we didn't have like a 0:10:48.040 --> 0:10:51.600 choreographed dance. Really thrown me off. 0:10:52.320 --> 0:10:55.760 I'm like, because she had her cellis with her, Yeah, 0:10:56.000 --> 0:10:58.320 like she flew her cellis so oh yeah. No. 0:10:58.440 --> 0:10:59.840 She took it very seriously. 0:11:00.120 --> 0:11:03.640 She was in rehearsals like she had a I'm taking 0:11:03.640 --> 0:11:06.079 photos in my room. She was on with her vocal 0:11:06.120 --> 0:11:08.920 courch like coach warming up like before, like she was 0:11:08.960 --> 0:11:10.560 like she I don't know if you noticed, Like she 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:12.760 barely drank and spoke the night before because she was 0:11:12.800 --> 0:11:14.199 like saving her voice. 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:18.720 Which now makes sense because I was like, this is 0:11:18.840 --> 0:11:21.280 she's doing a lot for just singing the song. But 0:11:21.400 --> 0:11:25.200 when I heard when it started, oh my. 0:11:25.120 --> 0:11:27.520 Gosh, I know, it was like an angel came down 0:11:27.520 --> 0:11:28.000 from heaven? 0:11:28.200 --> 0:11:28.800 Am I crazy? 0:11:28.840 --> 0:11:29.400 Is that would have found? 0:11:29.600 --> 0:11:33.480 It? Was an angel under the twinkly lights? It was 0:11:33.520 --> 0:11:35.239 like an we were all ascended. 0:11:35.640 --> 0:11:38.280 Yeah, and then she like changed the lyrics and she 0:11:38.360 --> 0:11:40.200 made it all about the maid worn, which is where 0:11:40.240 --> 0:11:43.839 we got engaged. Red is the color that made my. 0:11:43.880 --> 0:11:46.520 Stars burst round? Were the color of his eyes? 0:11:48.000 --> 0:11:50.559 Yeah, Like she changed all the lyrics and then the 0:11:50.679 --> 0:12:04.400 final lyric lyric is right here, just the whole stream 0:12:06.720 --> 0:12:08.520 telling you a lot, lady tea. 0:12:11.960 --> 0:12:12.559 So good. 0:12:14.160 --> 0:12:15.120 It's so crazy. 0:12:15.840 --> 0:12:18.839 I've never seen a first dance to do that. 0:12:19.400 --> 0:12:20.520 I was caught off guard. 0:12:20.600 --> 0:12:23.840 How about this now I'm getting. 0:12:25.120 --> 0:12:28.200 Can I play the intro of it? Because I do? 0:12:28.240 --> 0:12:28.679 You have it? 0:12:28.760 --> 0:12:29.000 Yeah? 0:12:29.080 --> 0:12:29.560 I just have. 0:12:29.760 --> 0:12:32.240 That's all I have is just that clip because I 0:12:32.280 --> 0:12:35.120 wanted to like just be present and I was like, 0:12:35.120 --> 0:12:36.560 someone's filming the whole thing. 0:12:46.400 --> 0:12:48.560 I guess she ended it the same way. Huh. That 0:12:48.640 --> 0:12:53.760 was the beginning. Oh I didn't realize that she was all. 0:12:53.679 --> 0:12:59.640 Around like there was like I felt like very like 0:12:59.640 --> 0:13:01.679 like I felt like she was like like coming down from. 0:13:05.600 --> 0:13:06.120 It was. 0:13:06.520 --> 0:13:10.079 It was magical like that was. I can't wait to 0:13:10.120 --> 0:13:12.520 see the video of us dancing to that because like 0:13:12.559 --> 0:13:16.000 every lyric change, I would like cry and like seeing 0:13:16.040 --> 0:13:18.120 her like I could tell she was getting choked up 0:13:18.120 --> 0:13:25.120 to it was so special. Treated that like so with 0:13:25.160 --> 0:13:27.720 such care. It was like the most important thing in 0:13:27.760 --> 0:13:28.400 the world to her. 0:13:28.600 --> 0:13:31.559 It was one of my favorite parts of the weekend. Yeah, same, 0:13:31.800 --> 0:13:33.200 it was incredible. 0:13:35.120 --> 0:13:36.240 Then we do hold on. 0:13:36.320 --> 0:13:38.920 I think we should maybe let people know about some 0:13:38.960 --> 0:13:42.720 wonderful products or services that they should take advantage of. 0:13:43.160 --> 0:14:06.640 Oh yeah, yeah, to let him know. All right, we 0:14:06.800 --> 0:14:07.480 are back. 0:14:08.000 --> 0:14:11.040 So the reception, you had the first dance and then 0:14:11.080 --> 0:14:12.199 you did the dances of your dad. 0:14:12.200 --> 0:14:13.840 People wanted to know what song you danced. 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:18.280 We did Van Morrison Days like this Love Days like this, Yeah, 0:14:18.480 --> 0:14:21.400 and uh I found out like two days before we 0:14:21.440 --> 0:14:23.760 left for Mexico, I picked the wrong song accident, No 0:14:24.600 --> 0:14:31.880 It's day. Uh these are the days song. I'm like, 0:14:31.920 --> 0:14:34.760 how many days Van Morris are there? 0:14:34.480 --> 0:14:37.120 The songs that days like this and these are. 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:39.360 The days, Yes, and these are the days is the 0:14:39.440 --> 0:14:44.800 more like beautiful one. I totally messed that up. I 0:14:44.800 --> 0:14:47.920 was like, oh, hell, but the band. You have to 0:14:47.920 --> 0:14:50.120 give the band like a three week it's like three 0:14:50.200 --> 0:14:51.520 weeks that you have to tell them the songs that 0:14:51.520 --> 0:14:53.160 they could learn them. So it was like two days 0:14:53.200 --> 0:14:54.560 before we left from Mexico. So I was like, there's 0:14:54.560 --> 0:14:57.280 no way I can change it now, but we did. 0:14:57.320 --> 0:15:00.560 Days like this, it's still beautiful, and like it was the. 0:15:00.560 --> 0:15:01.600 Van Morrison of it all. 0:15:01.640 --> 0:15:03.760 That was my connection to my dad and like he 0:15:03.840 --> 0:15:05.640 used to play that every summer in our backyard, so 0:15:05.680 --> 0:15:07.800 it was really about Van Morrison, not so much of 0:15:07.840 --> 0:15:09.320 the song, but like I totally picked. 0:15:09.120 --> 0:15:09.560 Up the song. 0:15:11.640 --> 0:15:14.520 Yeah, so we don't know, no one knew. And then 0:15:14.760 --> 0:15:16.440 Robbie and his mom danced to. 0:15:17.960 --> 0:15:20.040 Celine Dion because you loved Me. 0:15:20.080 --> 0:15:22.600 Yeah, because you loved Me, which seemed to be a cloud, 0:15:22.640 --> 0:15:25.720 a crowd pleasing. People enjoyed that, and then we went 0:15:25.880 --> 0:15:26.760 right into the horror. 0:15:27.480 --> 0:15:31.680 That was the first Jewish wedding. That was my first 0:15:31.680 --> 0:15:32.920 time experiencing that. 0:15:34.280 --> 0:15:35.240 Everyone should do that. 0:15:35.600 --> 0:15:35.840 Yeah. 0:15:35.920 --> 0:15:40.960 Absolutely, yeah, so fun, it's so fun, it's so fun. 0:15:41.040 --> 0:15:42.480 So that's a banger. 0:15:43.280 --> 0:15:45.080 First of all, yeah. 0:15:44.600 --> 0:15:47.080 And everybody like, that's what's I love so much because 0:15:47.120 --> 0:15:50.040 like it wasn't a so like fully jewish, Like half 0:15:50.040 --> 0:15:51.720 of the people there had no idea what was going on, 0:15:51.840 --> 0:15:54.280 had never even heard that song, I'm sure. And everybody 0:15:54.360 --> 0:15:57.160 was in it, Like from the minute the party started, 0:15:57.360 --> 0:16:00.560 every single guest was like in it. Everybody gave one 0:16:00.640 --> 0:16:02.760 hundred and ten percent. I could not I had no 0:16:02.800 --> 0:16:05.840 notes for anybody, Like, there was not anybody like straggling 0:16:05.880 --> 0:16:09.360 around like on their phone. Like everybody was locked in 0:16:09.520 --> 0:16:12.920 and gave it all of them. It was so fun 0:16:13.280 --> 0:16:15.800 being up in that chair. Yeah, was so fun and 0:16:15.880 --> 0:16:19.360 also so terrifying because I'm like, I think people are 0:16:19.400 --> 0:16:20.400 kind of drunk at this point. 0:16:21.240 --> 0:16:22.080 Well, and how many. 0:16:21.960 --> 0:16:24.000 Videes have you seen it on social media? People falling 0:16:24.040 --> 0:16:24.680 off those chairs? 0:16:24.840 --> 0:16:26.720 Yeah, Like I was like sick. 0:16:26.880 --> 0:16:29.040 Yeah, one second it's very fun, the next second it's 0:16:29.080 --> 0:16:29.840 like terrifying. 0:16:30.400 --> 0:16:33.800 I have live photos of Tanya in that moment, and 0:16:34.640 --> 0:16:38.240 every photo starts with her smiling, waving the towel, and 0:16:38.280 --> 0:16:40.680 then the ends with her like with this terrified look 0:16:40.680 --> 0:16:41.200 on her face. 0:16:41.440 --> 0:16:43.440 Yea, all have the same She was in and out 0:16:43.480 --> 0:16:44.320 of fear and joy. 0:16:44.560 --> 0:16:46.280 So then the horror ends and I needed to do 0:16:46.320 --> 0:16:50.080 my alpha change, and so I grabbed Becca, grab Robbie 0:16:50.360 --> 0:16:53.160 and we go back to the room. I change my dress, 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:57.200 change my hair, Robbie changes, and then we get back out. 0:16:57.240 --> 0:16:58.600 I don't know how long we were gone for. I 0:16:58.600 --> 0:17:00.560 didn't feel like we were gone for the twentynutes. I 0:17:00.560 --> 0:17:03.360 was gonna say maybe fifteen twenty minutes. Yeah, And at 0:17:03.360 --> 0:17:05.760 that point I was like, Mamma eats to eat, Like 0:17:05.840 --> 0:17:08.439 Mom's gonna go down if she doesn't eat something. So 0:17:08.520 --> 0:17:12.040 I like finally get my plate together. Sierra runs over. 0:17:12.160 --> 0:17:13.919 She's wanting to take photos and then. 0:17:13.840 --> 0:17:17.120 Like you know, like again like everybody, and I respect 0:17:17.160 --> 0:17:18.679 it because like you want to take your photo with 0:17:18.720 --> 0:17:20.560 like the bride and groom. But I was like, I 0:17:20.640 --> 0:17:22.119 have to eat. So then I finally get down to 0:17:22.160 --> 0:17:24.520 the table. I sit down to eat, and then I 0:17:24.560 --> 0:17:26.760 Will Survive comes on, which is like my mom's favorite song. 0:17:26.800 --> 0:17:28.760 So she's like you have to come and I was like, 0:17:28.800 --> 0:17:31.240 if I don't eat, I'm going to fall down. 0:17:31.480 --> 0:17:33.280 Like I like needed. 0:17:32.920 --> 0:17:35.399 To eat, so after I will Survive, I was like 0:17:35.400 --> 0:17:36.879 nobody touched me for like five minutes. 0:17:36.880 --> 0:17:38.720 I got to eat and then it was like. 0:17:38.760 --> 0:17:42.480 Game on, Yeah, game on until the end of the night. 0:17:42.560 --> 0:17:43.520 It was so fun. 0:17:43.680 --> 0:17:48.600 It was so fun. The DJ crushed, the band crushed. 0:17:48.840 --> 0:17:52.280 H I Like we had two to choose from and 0:17:52.320 --> 0:17:54.000 we just kind of like crossed our fingers and hope 0:17:54.000 --> 0:17:56.800 we picked the best ones and like they nailed it. 0:17:57.480 --> 0:18:01.360 Yeah, they were amazing on the dance floor the whole night. 0:18:02.000 --> 0:18:03.680 You know what. Else was really cute that we did that, 0:18:03.800 --> 0:18:06.280 like only a couple people picked up on because it 0:18:06.320 --> 0:18:07.800 really only impacted like two. 0:18:07.720 --> 0:18:08.320 Of our guests. 0:18:08.400 --> 0:18:11.240 But we gave every table and said we didn't want 0:18:11.240 --> 0:18:12.920 a number table because we don't want be able to feel 0:18:12.920 --> 0:18:16.040 like your table number one, your table number ten. So 0:18:16.080 --> 0:18:17.760 we gave them all names that had something to do 0:18:17.800 --> 0:18:22.119 with like our relationship, and one of the tables was 0:18:22.200 --> 0:18:24.600 named Ace because we love to play cards. It's like 0:18:24.600 --> 0:18:28.320 our favorite thing to do. And we sat our friends 0:18:28.320 --> 0:18:30.800 Heather and Josh Altman at the Ace table because they 0:18:30.800 --> 0:18:33.639 have a son named Ace. Oh, so like they like 0:18:33.680 --> 0:18:36.400 thought that was like really cute. And then we named 0:18:36.440 --> 0:18:39.000 another table Delilah because that's the restaurant that Robbie asked 0:18:39.040 --> 0:18:41.359 me to be his girlfriend. And we put the owner 0:18:41.359 --> 0:18:45.080 of Delilah and his wife at the Delilah table. Yeah, 0:18:45.119 --> 0:18:48.040 so like that was like really cute. Robbie had no 0:18:48.080 --> 0:18:48.879 idea I did that. 0:18:49.720 --> 0:18:52.600 We were at the t R L L Table, Yeah, Trust, respect, 0:18:53.160 --> 0:18:55.000 Lust table, the four Pillars. 0:18:54.600 --> 0:18:55.359