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Speaker 1: What would you talk about on your on your podcast

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Speaker 1: represents show. So here we are time for another fifteen

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Speaker 1: minute morning show. Every mic is on in the room.

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Speaker 1: That means we've got a full house. Let's go around

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Speaker 1: the table. There's Bethany, my hot boyfriend Alex is here. Hello.

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Speaker 1: Our hot producer Dave Rody is here. Hello. Great, he's

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Speaker 1: a scorcher. He's here. Yeah, what's up. There's producer Sam,

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Speaker 1: she's here. Scary's here. What's going on? There's Danielle and

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Speaker 1: straight Nate. Where were you going? He's on he's on

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Speaker 1: the phone leaving. All right. Well bye. Who wants to

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Speaker 1: sit in a straight night spot? Oh no, yes, Gary

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Speaker 1: doesn't have a chair. Okay, Scary, you get right over there. Well,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show. We start out with a Dave

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Speaker 1: Rody talking about shopping cart etiquette. Yes, I got into

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Speaker 1: a fight with someone. So I was at the big

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Speaker 1: opening of Wegmans, which is a supermarket in the Northeast.

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Speaker 1: Huge crowds, so we took twenty minutes to get a

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Speaker 1: parking space, and there was shopping cart returns, you know,

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Speaker 1: but people were just running into their cars and shopping

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Speaker 1: carts everywhere. Now there's four things you can do with

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Speaker 1: a shopping cart. When you're done with it, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: give you three. You let me know if you do

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Speaker 1: any of these three, and I'll tell you the fourth one.

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Speaker 1: Got a strong opinion about cart. So these are the

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Speaker 1: three you have an option of doing. One, you can

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Speaker 1: return it to the shopping cart holder the stable, and

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Speaker 1: that's what you should do every time, right. Number Two,

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Speaker 1: If you can't make it there, they don't have one,

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Speaker 1: sure it doesn't move, or put it like the front

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Speaker 1: can't get to the return. Three, you can look for

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Speaker 1: someone to give your cart too and say, hey, you

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Speaker 1: did I cover everyone's options in this room? Is there

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Speaker 1: anyone here that does something else? I actually, on a

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Speaker 1: It's a nice day. So I'm walking from my car.

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Speaker 1: that woman just left it to somebody else to move

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Speaker 1: come from the front of that car? How lazy can mean?

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Speaker 1: have you shopping? You can't go and put the carts

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Speaker 1: the thing, this lady, I mean, she's so lazy. She

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Speaker 1: She didn't even look around. She didn't do it like

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Speaker 1: really rude people today. People. You know, how many times

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Speaker 1: can fall on people? That's fine. Can I talk about

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Speaker 1: the zipper technique. The zipper technique, Yes, left cargoes right, cargoes, left,

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Speaker 1: like I'm trying to figure out what the show is.

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Speaker 1: so much more meaningful. That's the one Scary actually totally

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