Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2: Daniel is on the phone today for a first date
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Ashley.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we're gonna call her and
Speaker 2: see if she's hells why she's ghosting him, and maybe
Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Daniel, how long has
Speaker 2: evinces you heard from Ashley?
Speaker 3: I think it's been like a week.
Speaker 2: Now, Okay, Well have you been trying to get a
Speaker 2: hold of her?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I sent her a few messages and she like, this
Speaker 5: is a flat out ghost There's no like messages saying
Speaker 5: do you like short messages?
Speaker 3: This is just like really pissed.
Speaker 5: Actually, I'm actually I can tell you. I mean the
Speaker 5: stories you want.
Speaker 3: To hear it?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, absolutely, yeah.
Speaker 3: So yeah, I'm pissed.
Speaker 5: Such I'm getting ghosted because like the date was really,
Speaker 5: really awesome.
Speaker 3: I took her to dinner and drinks and I thought
Speaker 3: she's really beautiful.
Speaker 5: I thought she was awesome. She even does like guy things,
Speaker 5: like she tell.
Speaker 3: You golf of all things.
Speaker 5: And I was like, oh my god, this is because
Speaker 5: I love golf, right and sparks flew. We had chemistry,
Speaker 5: like everything was perfect.
Speaker 3: And I and we got you know, a.
Speaker 5: Little tipsy drunk, and I think I think we made
Speaker 5: out all right.
Speaker 2: So you got that where you don't remember if you
Speaker 2: made out or not.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it was kind of debauchery at the end.
Speaker 3: But nothing like I would have remembered something terrible.
Speaker 2: Was she on the same level as far.
Speaker 3: As drunks is. I probably drank a little bit more
Speaker 3: than her. Again, I don't I remember things.
Speaker 5: I don't blackout, so there's no way that I would
Speaker 5: have forgotten something.
Speaker 3: I'm really pissed though. Let me tell you the this
Speaker 3: part is because like the reason.
Speaker 5: I'm I think the reason I'm getting ghosted actually this
Speaker 5: this is just.
Speaker 3: My series, like I might be getting scammed by.
Speaker 2: This person getting scammed.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so everything went well, but then when I wake up,
Speaker 3: like the next.
Speaker 5: Morning, I found that my Venmo account had five hundred
Speaker 5: dollars sent to hers from mine.
Speaker 2: Oh well five one hundred dollars.
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I don't think that I sent it, and
Speaker 5: maybe she.
Speaker 3: I think she might have stolen it.
Speaker 5: And that's why she's ghosting me, because I can't think
Speaker 5: of any other reason why i'd send her five hundred
Speaker 5: dollars under them. I don't do that kind of thing,
Speaker 5: So she must have grabbed my phone when I was
Speaker 5: drunk and sent it to herself.
Speaker 2: Did people do that on first date? I never. I
Speaker 2: must start trying I mean, I'm assuming people are going
Speaker 2: to start trying out if they don't already.
Speaker 1: But I mean I could see people doing something like
Speaker 1: that too. I can also see people scaring people just
Speaker 1: for dinner. Like you hear about that all the time.
Speaker 2: Were you away from your phone at any time where
Speaker 2: she could have grabbed it? And bet?
Speaker 3: I mean, of course, like I might have gone to
Speaker 3: the bathroom. I just left it on a table, so
Speaker 3: I don't know if that's not what happened. Like, I
Speaker 3: definitely want to go out on another date with her.
Speaker 3: I don't want to accuse her of things that she
Speaker 3: didn't do, because I really like.
Speaker 1: Oh man, we're a lot of extremes here. You don't
Speaker 1: remember if you made out with her or not. You
Speaker 1: don't know how the five hundred dollars got there, but
Speaker 1: you do want to see her again. If she didn't
Speaker 1: steal it, Seriously.
Speaker 3: If she did steal this, I really want to call
Speaker 3: it constant so I really need Well, yeah.
Speaker 2: That's five hundred bucks. She's still have you ever accidentally
Speaker 2: or on purpose venmoes somebody like that before and not
Speaker 2: known it?
Speaker 3: No, No, that's just not like me.
Speaker 5: I don't do those kind of things.
Speaker 1: That's a weird number too, It's like five hundred dollars.
Speaker 1: This is go for five thousand.
Speaker 2: Well, if the date was going so well and then
Speaker 2: now she's ghosting you and then there's five hundred dollars
Speaker 2: missing from your VENMO, I would think that that's the reason.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I was thinking. I don't know. Again,
Speaker 3: I just need some clarity here.
Speaker 2: Well, play a song, come back, and then call her
Speaker 2: and see if she stole your five hundred bucks or
Speaker 2: if there's a different reason that she's ghosting you, and
Speaker 2: maybe get you another date if you still want one. Okay,
Speaker 2: and yeah, all right, Well play a song, come back,
Speaker 2: and then call her and get your first date follow
Speaker 2: up next right in the middle of your first date
Speaker 2: follow up or a new edition of Crime Stoppers. I'm
Speaker 2: not sure because Daniel is on the phone and Daniel's
Speaker 2: getting ghosted by Ashley. So we're about to call her
Speaker 2: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him
Speaker 2: and maybe get him another date. But first, Daniel, why
Speaker 2: don't you catch us up on your situation?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 5: So I took this go out and bought her, you know,
Speaker 5: dinner and drinks, and we had an amazing time.
Speaker 3: Got a little drunk. I don't remember what happened because that.
Speaker 5: I have five hundred dollars missing off of my Venmo
Speaker 5: account I.
Speaker 3: Was sent to her, So either she stole it or.
Speaker 5: I gave it to her, and I'm trying to figure
Speaker 5: that out.
Speaker 1: Okay, which neither of them makes sense? But I guess
Speaker 1: scamming part that sucks.
Speaker 2: That does really suck. Maybe she got you drunk on
Speaker 2: purpose in order to get your phone and spend more
Speaker 2: her money. Maybe that's her thing. All right, man, are
Speaker 2: you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 5: I don't know what to expect right now, but I'm
Speaker 5: definitely ready.
Speaker 3: For the call.
Speaker 6: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to
Speaker 6: Ashley please. Yeah, Hey, Ashley, how are you?
Speaker 2: My name is Jubel and I'm calling from a radio show.
Speaker 2: It's called the Jubil Show.
Speaker 1: Hi, Ashley, the show's here.
Speaker 2: I'm Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 4: Oh, who's calling?
Speaker 7: Me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is the Jubl Show. It's a radio show.
Speaker 2: Have you ever heard it before?
Speaker 4: I mean I know the name. Yeah, but why are
Speaker 4: you calling?
Speaker 2: We actually got an email about you from somebody who
Speaker 2: does listen to the show.
Speaker 4: Oh okay.
Speaker 2: So we do a segment on the show. It's called
Speaker 2: the first Date follow Up. What that is is if
Speaker 2: you go out on a date with somebody and then
Speaker 2: you end up ghosting them, that person can email us
Speaker 2: to get you on the phone and ask why you're
Speaker 2: ghosting them. So you went out on a date recently
Speaker 2: and you haven't been talking to them, and they were
Speaker 2: wondering if we could figure out why.
Speaker 7: Oh okay, yeah.
Speaker 4: I think I know who you're talking about.
Speaker 2: Now, Okay, who do you think it is?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm gonna say it's Daniel.
Speaker 2: And you are correct. Daniel emailed us and then we
Speaker 2: talked to him a little bit about your date and
Speaker 2: he's really confused. He liked you a lot. He's wondering
Speaker 2: why you're ghosting him.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I mean it's pretty straightforward. I mean he
Speaker 4: disrespected me, like all the way. He was great, you know,
Speaker 4: for most of the night.
Speaker 7: Then he got really drunk and like completely turned into
Speaker 7: a different person.
Speaker 2: Wait, so what did he do to disrespect you?
Speaker 7: Well, he does if he spent so much time talking
Speaker 7: about money, like he thought that that would be impressive,
Speaker 7: impressive to me, and it.
Speaker 4: Was just gross.
Speaker 7: Like I'm not the kind of woman that needs someone
Speaker 7: to like flaunt cash. And that's why I've been avoiding him.
Speaker 7: I mean, it's just that type of personality that. Oh,
Speaker 7: it just it made me honestly stick to my stomach,
Speaker 7: you know, to be with a guy that thinks money
Speaker 7: is what's going to win me over him out you
Speaker 7: know what, I just remember something else. Okay, So he
Speaker 7: got so drunk towards the end of the night and
Speaker 7: then he started bragging about how much money he has,
Speaker 7: like and he wanted to prove it to me, so
Speaker 7: he sent me. He sent me five hundred dollars on venmo.
Speaker 2: What four? He just was like watch this, I can
Speaker 2: do this.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 4: He was like look at me, like, you know, still
Speaker 4: get something for you, Like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, I make so much cash, let me just
Speaker 2: venmo you five hundred bucks?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, yeah, here's a half rock. Go get
Speaker 2: yourself some nice I don't know what I would do
Speaker 2: with that. And you took the five hundred bucks.
Speaker 7: Of course, at least I'll get something out of this.
Speaker 7: I mean he's being like such a right now.
Speaker 2: That's all right, Well, thank you Ashley for being honest
Speaker 2: with us. I appreciate it. And now have to let
Speaker 2: you know that Daniel is actually on the phone listening
Speaker 2: and does want to talk to you.
Speaker 4: Oh god, you could have told me that, you know.
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, sorry, I just told the truth. It's okay, yeah, Daniel.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 5: Uh wow, Actually, can you can you give me a
Speaker 5: recap of how that happened?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean you were like borrying or like, yeah,
Speaker 7: I'm gonna do I'm underdollar.
Speaker 8: I saw you ripped me off. I was calling them
Speaker 8: to tell you tell them that, like I was gonna
Speaker 8: call a cop. I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. I
Speaker 8: don't think that. I don't think money is everything. I'm sorry. Like, yes,
Speaker 8: I was drunk and maybe I was like really nervous
Speaker 8: and trying to impress you.
Speaker 3: I never do this.
Speaker 1: Does that mean you're subconscious things that like that's oh
Speaker 1: what you're good for?
Speaker 4: Maybe? No, no, no, no, like I just said, I just.
Speaker 3: I guess I do blow or something thing because.
Speaker 8: I don't remember that part, and I sorry, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1: Please, people are like, I'll listen to you talk about
Speaker 1: how rich you are.
Speaker 4: I don't know. The whole thing was just like so
Speaker 4: not funny.
Speaker 7: It was it was really like a d bag move.
Speaker 7: You know that's never happened to you before. And I
Speaker 7: honestly I really don't This is so weird.
Speaker 3: Please please listen. I promise, I promise, I promise. I
Speaker 3: had so much fun.
Speaker 8: I'm sorry about getting drunk and being adbag, Like, I
Speaker 8: just want another day.
Speaker 3: Just please let me have one more chance.
Speaker 8: I just want to go on another date and I
Speaker 8: won't drink a lot, I won't talk about money.
Speaker 5: And we'll go to we'll go play golf, we'll go
Speaker 5: to a range like you want.
Speaker 2: Ashley, would you like to go on another date with Daniel?
Speaker 2: We'll pay forty sounds here to me? Yeah, he does
Speaker 2: to me too.
Speaker 7: Well, I mean, until he got drunk, he was actually
Speaker 7: super fun. So yeah, I'm up for it.
Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, yeah, you're gonna give the money back?
Speaker 7: Well, I haven't thought about that yet, Like, you know what,
Speaker 7: he's got work to do, though, Like if he wants
Speaker 7: me to trust him he can't be an a hole.
Speaker 7: And if I see that, then yeah, I'm fine giving
Speaker 7: him the money back.
Speaker 1: I mean, actlely, you earned it though, you sat through
Speaker 1: that stuff, and you're giving him another chance.
Speaker 2: I think that's just that's a wash. Now, congratulations, Daniel,
Speaker 2: you got another date.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll make a bet, like who can hit the
Speaker 3: ball further. Maybe maybe that will be like a five
Speaker 3: hundred dollars decision.
Speaker 7: Yeah, and I already bought some bear mace with that money,
Speaker 7: so you know I'm not afraid to use.
Speaker 3: Enough.
Speaker 4: You will first date, follow up