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Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, Welcome to this week's episode of Cheeky's and Chill.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for taking the time to listen.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for loving my podcast. I get a lot

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Speaker 1: of great comments you guys. I just had a few

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Speaker 1: shows this weekend and a lot of people are like,

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Speaker 1: I listen to your podcast, Thank you so much. It's

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Speaker 1: such an inspiration and that makes me happy because that's

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Speaker 1: all I ever want to do you guys, is in

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Speaker 1: some way be an inspiration and make you guys feel empowered.

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Speaker 1: And if I can prevent you from making mistakes like

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Speaker 1: I've made, that is what this podcast and my whole life,

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Speaker 1: my singing, my books, everything that I do, that is

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Speaker 1: like my main focus. Well, this is going to be

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Speaker 1: an episode where it's just you and I again, me

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Speaker 1: to you guys about today is something that has been.

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Speaker 2: On my heart for about a week now.

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Speaker 1: It's been in my prayer and meditation time and I

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Speaker 1: spoke to a few people about it, like what do

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Speaker 1: you think I kind of want to say this, and

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Speaker 1: some people said, yes, I think you should. I think

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Speaker 1: if you have that in your heart and you want

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Speaker 1: to express it, I think you should other said no

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Speaker 1: that I shouldn't, but I always do what I want

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Speaker 1: to do. I follow my heart. There's a lot of

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Speaker 1: heart in this episode right now. But that's my truth

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Speaker 1: way it's going to liberate me. I don't know just

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Speaker 1: the whole thing that happened, you guys, with my miscarriage.

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Speaker 1: And I got a lot of love messages, a lot

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Speaker 1: of comments, a lot of dms from you guys that

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Speaker 1: listen to my podcast.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: Again, I don't know where to start. I don't know

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Speaker 1: how I'm even going to star this. I guess I'm

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Speaker 1: just going to dig deep and I'm going to wean

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Speaker 1: this because there's no right or wrong way to say.

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Speaker 1: In reality, this is just something that I wanted to

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Speaker 1: share because my miscarriage put a lot of things into

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Speaker 1: perspective for me, and I just don't feel right keeping

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Speaker 1: something like this in, especially since I've been so honest

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Speaker 1: But I want to say it was season one or

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Speaker 1: season two of Cheeese and Chill were now in the

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Speaker 1: third season. I've sprinkled it in here and there, in

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Speaker 1: regards to a miscarriage I said I had when I

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Speaker 1: comfortable now, I feel ready because it was actually I

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Speaker 1: decided to terminate the pregnancy. I don't know if termination

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Speaker 1: I hope this is It's sad, but I don't have

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Speaker 1: was a miscarriage. I went by myself. I was nineteen

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Speaker 1: I have also expressed on my podcast it I am

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Speaker 1: pro choice. That's just my opinion. That's my belief. I

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Speaker 1: we had this deep conversation in Las Vegas. We both

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Speaker 1: I said, I just want you to know everything about me.

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Speaker 1: At first, I was like, yeah, you're right, I'm not

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Speaker 1: guys at the end of the day, like, hey, I'm

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Speaker 2: And what part they should play in my life. Now.

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Speaker 1: It's crazy how so much pain can open your eyes

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Speaker 1: to like a different world to appreciating life in a

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I was doing at nineteen year olds,

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Speaker 1: how I got there, Like I drove myself. I had

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Speaker 1: That I'm okay with letting you guys know. Hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: and especially after this weekend, you guys, I had three shows.

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