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Speaker 2: Yess is on the phone today for a first date
Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Eric.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we're gonna call him and
Speaker 2: see if he'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe
Speaker 2: get her a second date.
Speaker 1: But first, just how long has it been since you
Speaker 1: heard from Eric.
Speaker 3: It's been since the date, so I haven't heard from
Speaker 3: him since the night we went out.
Speaker 1: Okay, how did you guys leave that?
Speaker 3: At the end of the day, I thought we left
Speaker 3: it really great, you know, I thought we definitely had chemistry. So, yeah,
Speaker 3: we met up at this at this bar. It's at
Speaker 3: this like speakeasy. It was a pop up bar behind
Speaker 3: a record store, so it was like a really cool setting,
Speaker 3: you know. And conversation went, well, he's a graphic designer,
Speaker 3: he's got a really great smile. Well, he's got kind eyes.
Speaker 3: He was really funny. It felt very flirty. He was
Speaker 3: a little dry and sarcastic, but I don't know, it
Speaker 3: still felt really flirty when he would, I don't know,
Speaker 3: make a joke, and I really liked his style, his
Speaker 3: his vintage jacket. Well it smelled like tom Ford tobacco
Speaker 3: and vanilla. I don't know, it felt.
Speaker 1: Wow, very specific.
Speaker 3: Well, he was close enough to me. Did I get
Speaker 3: smell as jacket is when I'm trying to stay Yeah.
Speaker 3: So we were at this pop up bar, like I said, uh,
Speaker 3: there's a DJ there. So we danced some playing nineties
Speaker 3: hip hop, and then we had some mestal concoctions. There
Speaker 3: was like a mystery mixology challenge and if you guess
Speaker 3: the secret ingredient, you got a free round. So that
Speaker 3: was fun, and we did indeed get a free round,
Speaker 3: so that was cool. So you know, we had some drinks,
Speaker 3: we had some laughs, and the night went really well.
Speaker 3: So everything at the restaurant, like I've replayed it in
Speaker 3: my mind a million times, you know, nothing seemed weird there.
Speaker 3: And then after the bar closed, we went to my
Speaker 3: apartment for a nightcap, and you know, we had a
Speaker 3: nightcap and some fun. And then the next morning, you know,
Speaker 3: we woke up or whatever, and then I noticed that
Speaker 3: this is so, this is what I think happened, but
Speaker 3: I'm not sure, but I noticed that my exit electric
Speaker 3: razor was on the bathroom shelf, and I kept I've
Speaker 3: kept my Exits Electric Raider because it works really well
Speaker 3: and I like to shame my legs with it, and
Speaker 3: I like it better than anything I've used. I'm afraid
Speaker 3: that he might have seen it and think that I
Speaker 3: have like a revolving door of guys, you know. But
Speaker 3: I mean that's really the only thing I can think of,
Speaker 3: because we had chemistry, We had a really fun time,
Speaker 3: like we really seemed to be vibing. The date went
Speaker 3: whole and well, yeah.
Speaker 4: He came back to your place. I mean that's definitely
Speaker 4: I think he was definitely feeling it. So then when
Speaker 4: he left in the morning, did you hit him up later,
Speaker 4: did you guys like say we'll do this again, or
Speaker 4: was he just kind of like peace?
Speaker 3: Yeah, like in person in person, like it elluded, like, hey,
Speaker 3: I'll talk to you soon.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 3: I didn't follow up with a text, just because I'm
Speaker 3: trying to let the guy make the next move. You know.
Speaker 3: It just it felt like ball was in his court,
Speaker 3: you know, but now we're taking the ball back.
Speaker 1: Whoa fig Oh yeah, okay.
Speaker 3: Well, it just it just doesn't make sense to me.
Speaker 3: It just does not make sense because like we had
Speaker 3: a really good time.
Speaker 1: Well, it could be a raiser.
Speaker 4: I mean if you guys weren't if you weren't able
Speaker 4: to explain it, I mean, maybe this would be an
Speaker 4: opportunity to do it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and he didn't seem like a guy who was
Speaker 3: just like looking to like hook up and then you know,
Speaker 3: see it, it didn't seem like that at all.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, we'll see if we can figure it out
Speaker 1: for you.
Speaker 2: We'll play a song, come back and call him and
Speaker 2: see to tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe
Speaker 2: get you a second date.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, thanks so much.
Speaker 2: All right, we'll get your first day follow up right
Speaker 2: after this if you're just joining us for today's first
Speaker 2: Day follow up. Jess is on the phone and she's
Speaker 2: getting ghosted by a dude named Eric. So we're about
Speaker 2: to call him and see ifho tell us why he's
Speaker 2: ghosting her and maybe get her a second date if
Speaker 2: she still wants one. But before we do that, Jess,
Speaker 2: why don't you catch us up on your date again?
Speaker 3: Real quick? Okay. So we met and this really cool
Speaker 3: speakeasy bar. We had a really fun time. We danced,
Speaker 3: we made some drinks, and then he went back to
Speaker 3: my place. We had some funny stayed the night, and
Speaker 3: then I noticed the next morning that my ex's razor
Speaker 3: was on the shelf and I kept it because I
Speaker 3: like it better than any radio views. But I'm afraid
Speaker 3: to be saw and thinks that, like I have a
Speaker 3: revolving door of guy, and I think that might have
Speaker 3: garred him away. Okay, but I haven't heard from him
Speaker 3: since that night. But it really felt everything else felt great,
Speaker 3: So I'm afraid the razor.
Speaker 1: Scared him away.
Speaker 2: All right, Well, well are you ready for us to
Speaker 2: call him?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Okay, here here we go. Hello, I'm askepeak to Eric. Please.
Speaker 5: This is Eric.
Speaker 1: Hey Eric, how are you? This is a radio show.
Speaker 1: It's called The Jewel Show.
Speaker 4: Hi Eric, I'm Nina.
Speaker 1: Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jewbell. What's up?
Speaker 3: Good?
Speaker 5: Wow? Yeah, I wasn't ready for that.
Speaker 1: Okay, so you've listened to Have you listened to the
Speaker 1: show before?
Speaker 5: Yeah? I listened all the time.
Speaker 1: Okay, great. Have you heard a first a follow up before?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I didn't realize it'd be a victim of one.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 2: It's a segment where if you go out on a
Speaker 2: day with somebody and you end up ghosting them, they
Speaker 2: can email us to call you and find out why
Speaker 2: you're ghosting them. And we got an email about you, Eric, okay,
Speaker 2: any idea who would email us?
Speaker 1: Was it?
Speaker 5: Uh? What was the name?
Speaker 1: Uh?
Speaker 5: Je Jeff, Jessica Jeh Jeff.
Speaker 2: Yes, that's it, jess. She told us about your date,
Speaker 2: said that you were awesome and really liked you, but
Speaker 2: can't figure out why your ghost sting her. Do you
Speaker 2: mind telling us?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I mean so, yeah. The night the night of the date,
Speaker 5: she we went her place, she gave she gave me
Speaker 5: a tour and she yeah, okay, she pulled a curtain
Speaker 5: in her bedroom and boom, there's a wall of dolls
Speaker 5: staring at me like a like a like a creepy jury. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 5: I mean, honestly, I don't know how to recover from that.
Speaker 1: She yeah, like a collection, like you know, maybe it's just.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, at least thirty I'm not even kidding, Like
Speaker 5: thirty dolls just all facing out making eye contact with me.
Speaker 1: Sometimes those dolls are worth a lot of money.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't care what they are. It was totally freaky.
Speaker 4: They're hiding behind the curtain too, huh.
Speaker 5: Exactly how they would play like it's just like revealed
Speaker 5: and boomed they were there. I just yeah, I still
Speaker 5: have nine mirarus about it. Okay, Yeah, it felt like
Speaker 5: I was instead of a horror movie or something. You know,
Speaker 5: they're all different, Like each one looked like a different character.
Speaker 5: You know, there's like a blond redhead. It was frightening,
Speaker 5: and they looked very well cared for. That was one
Speaker 5: of the most frightened parts that, Like, it looked like
Speaker 5: they all have the different hairstyles. You know, one had
Speaker 5: like braids. It's like this this you know, just looked
Speaker 5: like you're spending time on these which I don't know
Speaker 5: if I could go out with the girls, like spend
Speaker 5: more time on her dolls and I picture her like
Speaker 5: in the middle of her room, just like laughing, just
Speaker 5: combing their hair, you know, having conversations, like full blown
Speaker 5: conversations with them.
Speaker 1: I yeah, at well, thank you for telling us.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll also let you know that Jess is on
Speaker 2: the phone and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 5: Whoa wait, she's here.
Speaker 1: Yeah he heard all that.
Speaker 5: Oh hey Jes.
Speaker 3: Okay, so that's ridiculous you ghosted me over that.
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, in the moment it stuck with me, and
Speaker 5: not in a good way.
Speaker 3: Oh my god. There are a collection of dolls and
Speaker 3: their vintage, and some of them were my mother's dolls.
Speaker 3: And I closed the curtain because I know sometimes it
Speaker 3: can be perceived as creepy, but there worth a lot
Speaker 3: of money. I can't believe you would gost me or
Speaker 3: something like this.
Speaker 5: There were thirty worstlin faces staring right at me, and
Speaker 5: they callowed me like what. I would walk around, they
Speaker 5: would just put their eyes, would just follow me.
Speaker 3: You know, better than a household action figures you probably
Speaker 3: hide from your mom o.
Speaker 1: What are you talking about?
Speaker 5: I don't, I do not have two figures. Just not
Speaker 5: everyone has dolls. I swear one of them even smirked
Speaker 5: at me.
Speaker 3: Oh are you sure it was a smirk and not
Speaker 3: an eye roll at your cocktail skills?
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, well I think one, yeah, one did that.
Speaker 5: I just they're like little these little like mossia boxes
Speaker 5: plotting on how to get rid of me.
Speaker 3: You know, they're inanimate. What you literally can't have a
Speaker 3: little quirky fund in someone's apartment.
Speaker 5: Okay, look, okay, look if you're if you're having quirky
Speaker 5: fun in your apartment. That's great, just not my jam.
Speaker 5: It's just a little too weird for me. I mean,
Speaker 5: you put up a curtain for them so they can
Speaker 5: get some rest. I don't know, man, that's just really
Speaker 5: out there. That's too out there for me.
Speaker 3: Okay, you you made that. I didn't put up a
Speaker 3: curtain for them to get some rest. I put up
Speaker 3: a curtain just so I felt like they wouldn't look
Speaker 3: at me. I'm keeping them because maybe one day I
Speaker 3: want to sell them and their vintage and antique. I
Speaker 3: thought you were cultured. Jeez, Louise, Like, I don't know,
Speaker 3: have you never heard of collectors?
Speaker 5: Of course I've heard of collectors, but these these dolls.
Speaker 5: I mean, if you're going to collect something like, why
Speaker 5: collect these lifeless beings that just stare out out at
Speaker 5: you like, you know, like they're about to like they're
Speaker 5: plotting murder. I don't trust them, all right.
Speaker 3: It sounds like you have some hang ups and you
Speaker 3: have some phobias. And you know that's not on me.
Speaker 5: What I don't I mean phobia is it's just it
Speaker 5: just freaks me out.
Speaker 3: Us Test is right about you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's just that's one of your adults.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no, she wore me about you. She said
Speaker 3: that you weren't good news. I should have listened to her.
Speaker 1: Well, hey, Eric, would you like to go out? What
Speaker 1: Jess again? Will pay for it?
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's that's a hard past.
Speaker 3: Yeah that's no for me too. You know, I make
Speaker 3: my own dolls do as well as collecting them. I
Speaker 3: might be making one of.
Speaker 5: You two, Please don't.
Speaker 3: Yeah, one of these days, if you get a random
Speaker 3: pain in your side, that's me.
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