WEBVTT - Jess & Eric - The Doll Wall Disaster

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<v Speaker 1>First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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<v Speaker 2>Yess is on the phone today for a first date

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<v Speaker 2>follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Eric.

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<v Speaker 2>So in a few minutes we're gonna call him and

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<v Speaker 2>see if he'll tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe

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<v Speaker 2>get her a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>But first, just how long has it been since you

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<v Speaker 1>heard from Eric.

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<v Speaker 3>It's been since the date, so I haven't heard from

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<v Speaker 3>him since the night we went out.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, how did you guys leave that?

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<v Speaker 3>At the end of the day, I thought we left

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<v Speaker 3>it really great, you know, I thought we definitely had chemistry. So, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>we met up at this at this bar. It's at

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<v Speaker 3>this like speakeasy. It was a pop up bar behind

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<v Speaker 3>a record store, so it was like a really cool setting,

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<v Speaker 3>you know. And conversation went, well, he's a graphic designer,

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<v Speaker 3>he's got a really great smile. Well, he's got kind eyes.

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<v Speaker 3>He was really funny. It felt very flirty. He was

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<v Speaker 3>a little dry and sarcastic, but I don't know, it

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<v Speaker 3>still felt really flirty when he would, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>make a joke, and I really liked his style, his

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<v Speaker 3>his vintage jacket. Well it smelled like tom Ford tobacco

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<v Speaker 3>and vanilla. I don't know, it felt.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, very specific.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, he was close enough to me. Did I get

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<v Speaker 3>smell as jacket is when I'm trying to stay Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So we were at this pop up bar, like I said, uh,

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<v Speaker 3>there's a DJ there. So we danced some playing nineties

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<v Speaker 3>hip hop, and then we had some mestal concoctions. There

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<v Speaker 3>was like a mystery mixology challenge and if you guess

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<v Speaker 3>the secret ingredient, you got a free round. So that

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<v Speaker 3>was fun, and we did indeed get a free round,

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<v Speaker 3>so that was cool. So you know, we had some drinks,

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<v Speaker 3>we had some laughs, and the night went really well.

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<v Speaker 3>So everything at the restaurant, like I've replayed it in

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<v Speaker 3>my mind a million times, you know, nothing seemed weird there.

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<v Speaker 3>And then after the bar closed, we went to my

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<v Speaker 3>apartment for a nightcap, and you know, we had a

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<v Speaker 3>nightcap and some fun. And then the next morning, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>we woke up or whatever, and then I noticed that

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<v Speaker 3>this is so, this is what I think happened, but

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not sure, but I noticed that my exit electric

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<v Speaker 3>razor was on the bathroom shelf, and I kept I've

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<v Speaker 3>kept my Exits Electric Raider because it works really well

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<v Speaker 3>and I like to shame my legs with it, and

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<v Speaker 3>I like it better than anything I've used. I'm afraid

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<v Speaker 3>that he might have seen it and think that I

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<v Speaker 3>have like a revolving door of guys, you know. But

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that's really the only thing I can think of,

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<v Speaker 3>because we had chemistry, We had a really fun time,

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<v Speaker 3>like we really seemed to be vibing. The date went

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<v Speaker 3>whole and well, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>He came back to your place. I mean that's definitely

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<v Speaker 4>I think he was definitely feeling it. So then when

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<v Speaker 4>he left in the morning, did you hit him up later,

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<v Speaker 4>did you guys like say we'll do this again, or

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<v Speaker 4>was he just kind of like peace?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like in person in person, like it elluded, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll talk to you soon.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't follow up with a text, just because I'm

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<v Speaker 3>trying to let the guy make the next move. You know.

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<v Speaker 3>It just it felt like ball was in his court,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, but now we're taking the ball back.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa fig Oh yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it just it just doesn't make sense to me.

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<v Speaker 3>It just does not make sense because like we had

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<v Speaker 3>a really good time.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it could be a raiser.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean if you guys weren't if you weren't able

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<v Speaker 4>to explain it, I mean, maybe this would be an

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<v Speaker 4>opportunity to do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and he didn't seem like a guy who was

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<v Speaker 3>just like looking to like hook up and then you know,

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<v Speaker 3>see it, it didn't seem like that at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Okay, we'll see if we can figure it out

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<v Speaker 1>for you.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll play a song, come back and call him and

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<v Speaker 2>see to tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe

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<v Speaker 2>get you a second date.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, thanks so much.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, we'll get your first day follow up right

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<v Speaker 2>after this if you're just joining us for today's first

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<v Speaker 2>Day follow up. Jess is on the phone and she's

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<v Speaker 2>getting ghosted by a dude named Eric. So we're about

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<v Speaker 2>to call him and see ifho tell us why he's

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<v Speaker 2>ghosting her and maybe get her a second date if

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<v Speaker 2>she still wants one. But before we do that, Jess,

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<v Speaker 2>why don't you catch us up on your date again?

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<v Speaker 3>Real quick? Okay. So we met and this really cool

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<v Speaker 3>speakeasy bar. We had a really fun time. We danced,

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<v Speaker 3>we made some drinks, and then he went back to

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<v Speaker 3>my place. We had some funny stayed the night, and

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<v Speaker 3>then I noticed the next morning that my ex's razor

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<v Speaker 3>was on the shelf and I kept it because I

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<v Speaker 3>like it better than any radio views. But I'm afraid

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<v Speaker 3>to be saw and thinks that, like I have a

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<v Speaker 3>revolving door of guy, and I think that might have

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<v Speaker 3>garred him away. Okay, but I haven't heard from him

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<v Speaker 3>since that night. But it really felt everything else felt great,

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm afraid the razor.

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<v Speaker 1>Scared him away.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Well, well are you ready for us to

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<v Speaker 2>call him?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, here here we go. Hello, I'm askepeak to Eric. Please.

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<v Speaker 5>This is Eric.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Eric, how are you? This is a radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called The Jewel Show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi Eric, I'm Nina.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jewbell. What's up?

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<v Speaker 3>Good?

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<v Speaker 5>Wow? Yeah, I wasn't ready for that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you've listened to Have you listened to the

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<v Speaker 1>show before?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? I listened all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, great. Have you heard a first a follow up before?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't realize it'd be a victim of one.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a segment where if you go out on a

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<v Speaker 2>day with somebody and you end up ghosting them, they

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<v Speaker 2>can email us to call you and find out why

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<v Speaker 2>you're ghosting them. And we got an email about you, Eric, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>any idea who would email us?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh? What was the name?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>Je Jeff, Jessica Jeh Jeff.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that's it, jess. She told us about your date,

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<v Speaker 2>said that you were awesome and really liked you, but

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<v Speaker 2>can't figure out why your ghost sting her. Do you

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<v Speaker 2>mind telling us?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean so, yeah. The night the night of the date,

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<v Speaker 5>she we went her place, she gave she gave me

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<v Speaker 5>a tour and she yeah, okay, she pulled a curtain

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<v Speaker 5>in her bedroom and boom, there's a wall of dolls

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<v Speaker 5>staring at me like a like a like a creepy jury. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, honestly, I don't know how to recover from that.

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<v Speaker 1>She yeah, like a collection, like you know, maybe it's just.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, at least thirty I'm not even kidding, Like

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<v Speaker 5>thirty dolls just all facing out making eye contact with me.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes those dolls are worth a lot of money.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I don't care what they are. It was totally freaky.

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<v Speaker 4>They're hiding behind the curtain too, huh.

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<v Speaker 5>Exactly how they would play like it's just like revealed

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<v Speaker 5>and boomed they were there. I just yeah, I still

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<v Speaker 5>have nine mirarus about it. Okay, Yeah, it felt like

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<v Speaker 5>I was instead of a horror movie or something. You know,

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<v Speaker 5>they're all different, Like each one looked like a different character.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, there's like a blond redhead. It was frightening,

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<v Speaker 5>and they looked very well cared for. That was one

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<v Speaker 5>of the most frightened parts that, Like, it looked like

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<v Speaker 5>they all have the different hairstyles. You know, one had

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<v Speaker 5>like braids. It's like this this you know, just looked

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<v Speaker 5>like you're spending time on these which I don't know

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<v Speaker 5>if I could go out with the girls, like spend

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<v Speaker 5>more time on her dolls and I picture her like

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<v Speaker 5>in the middle of her room, just like laughing, just

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<v Speaker 5>combing their hair, you know, having conversations, like full blown

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<v Speaker 5>conversations with them.

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<v Speaker 1>I yeah, at well, thank you for telling us.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'll also let you know that Jess is on

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<v Speaker 2>the phone and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Whoa wait, she's here.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah he heard all that.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh hey Jes.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so that's ridiculous you ghosted me over that.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, yeah, in the moment it stuck with me, and

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<v Speaker 5>not in a good way.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god. There are a collection of dolls and

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<v Speaker 3>their vintage, and some of them were my mother's dolls.

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<v Speaker 3>And I closed the curtain because I know sometimes it

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<v Speaker 3>can be perceived as creepy, but there worth a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of money. I can't believe you would gost me or

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<v Speaker 3>something like this.

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<v Speaker 5>There were thirty worstlin faces staring right at me, and

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<v Speaker 5>they callowed me like what. I would walk around, they

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<v Speaker 5>would just put their eyes, would just follow me.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, better than a household action figures you probably

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<v Speaker 3>hide from your mom o.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't, I do not have two figures. Just not

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<v Speaker 5>everyone has dolls. I swear one of them even smirked

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<v Speaker 5>at me.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh are you sure it was a smirk and not

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<v Speaker 3>an eye roll at your cocktail skills?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, well I think one, yeah, one did that.

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<v Speaker 5>I just they're like little these little like mossia boxes

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<v Speaker 5>plotting on how to get rid of me.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, they're inanimate. What you literally can't have a

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<v Speaker 3>little quirky fund in someone's apartment.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, look, okay, look if you're if you're having quirky

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<v Speaker 5>fun in your apartment. That's great, just not my jam.

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<v Speaker 5>It's just a little too weird for me. I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>you put up a curtain for them so they can

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<v Speaker 5>get some rest. I don't know, man, that's just really

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<v Speaker 5>out there. That's too out there for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you you made that. I didn't put up a

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<v Speaker 3>curtain for them to get some rest. I put up

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<v Speaker 3>a curtain just so I felt like they wouldn't look

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<v Speaker 3>at me. I'm keeping them because maybe one day I

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<v Speaker 3>want to sell them and their vintage and antique. I

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<v Speaker 3>thought you were cultured. Jeez, Louise, Like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>have you never heard of collectors?

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<v Speaker 5>Of course I've heard of collectors, but these these dolls.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, if you're going to collect something like, why

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<v Speaker 5>collect these lifeless beings that just stare out out at

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<v Speaker 5>you like, you know, like they're about to like they're

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<v Speaker 5>plotting murder. I don't trust them, all right.

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<v Speaker 3>It sounds like you have some hang ups and you

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<v Speaker 3>have some phobias. And you know that's not on me.

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<v Speaker 5>What I don't I mean phobia is it's just it

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<v Speaker 5>just freaks me out.

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<v Speaker 3>Us Test is right about you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's just that's one of your adults.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, no, she wore me about you. She said

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<v Speaker 3>that you weren't good news. I should have listened to her.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, hey, Eric, would you like to go out? What

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<v Speaker 1>Jess again? Will pay for it?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's that's a hard past.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah that's no for me too. You know, I make

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<v Speaker 3>my own dolls do as well as collecting them. I

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<v Speaker 3>might be making one of.

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<v Speaker 5>You two, Please don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, one of these days, if you get a random

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<v Speaker 3>pain in your side, that's me.

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<v Speaker 1>Juble's first date follow up