1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:03,400 Speaker 1: Lavender Hayes on a Kiss FM. I got a bottle 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: of water in my hand. I dropped it. It's spilt 3 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: right into the console and into my lap. 4 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 2: Good News Tubs top was on. Oh wow, the top 5 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 2: was on, We're good. Then I didn't ruin any equipment 6 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 2: this morning. 7 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 1: So I have to say, just like a couple of 8 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: things that might give you hope, right, it's there are 9 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 1: great people. 10 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 2: Everywhere. 11 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: And is it weird that I feel a special bond 12 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 1: when someone lets me in? In traffic, I was on 13 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 1: my way to the gym. It was bumper to bumper 14 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 1: on Beverly Boulevard and I need to make a left 15 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:52,959 Speaker 1: to cross two lanes of opposing traffic. Mm hmm. 16 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 2: Left. And then there's two people in the world. 17 00:00:56,960 --> 00:01:00,160 Speaker 1: One crams you and doesn't let you turn when the 18 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 1: traffic is stopped, they just block you. And then there 19 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 1: are others that that actually see you trying to get 20 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:07,479 Speaker 1: across the way and they wave you. 21 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 2: Across the lane. They help you. 22 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:11,959 Speaker 1: I don't know who they were, but I like them, 23 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 1: and I felt good about the world in that stupid, 24 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 1: simple moment. And so I just said to myself, you 25 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: know self, be that guy. That guy lets people in 26 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 1: and wave to them after I did a big thank 27 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 1: you wave like a parade. 28 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. 29 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 3: I always whenever somebody thank them five times, thank you. 30 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:34,759 Speaker 1: And I'm saying it, but I'm not saying it. I'm 31 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 1: like my mouth is saying it. So be that person 32 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 1: lets people in in traffic, doesn't take much totally actually 33 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 1: feels good. 34 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 2: So Mark, you sent me this? Who do you know? 35 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 2: Who it is? Jessica Osaka? I don't know her personally, 36 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 2: I don't know. I didn't know of her before this. 37 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 2: How'd you find this? 38 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 1: I leave Jen posted it in the group, sent it. 39 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 2: To you, and so we should have. We should Yeah, 40 00:01:58,480 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 2: let's play it. 41 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 1: So Jessessica is driving her grandma out to do errands, 42 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 1: and her grandma looks fantastic and she's definitely got a 43 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:11,799 Speaker 1: lot of wisdom on earth, you know, like she's been 44 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 1: here for a while. But it's so cute because she's 45 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 1: drives taking her with her to go do the errands. 46 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 1: And here's what they were saying, We're. 47 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:20,239 Speaker 3: Just gonna go run two quick errands. 48 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:25,919 Speaker 2: I'm gonna see Ryan, I'm gonna Geo, I'm gonna chee him. 49 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 3: You want to see Ryan Seacrest yes, I don't know 50 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 3: if he's going. 51 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 2: To be at the places we're going. Do you like 52 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 2: Ryan Seacrest? My fair part is her shock? What who? 53 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 2: You like that guy? 54 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 1: But I guess she brought it up randomly as they 55 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: were driving around doing area. Yes, and so Mark, have 56 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:48,360 Speaker 1: we booked grandma as a guest? 57 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 2: Jessica's online seven right now. 58 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 1: Jessica's here, great, Jessica losaka Jessica, it's Ryan Seacrest. 59 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 3: Hi. 60 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 2: I had the best. 61 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 1: They sent me this video of you guys running errands 62 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 1: and it just made me smile. Your grandma's so sweet. 63 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, she loves you well. 64 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: She has very good taste, and I had some. I also, 65 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 1: I love the shock on your face when you're like, wait. 66 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 2: What who? 67 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 3: It came out of nowhere? Because a lot of times 68 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:22,239 Speaker 3: she doesn't even remember like relative's name. So the fact 69 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 3: that she was like, are you going to see Ryan 70 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 3: Seacrest today? I was like it was I. 71 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 1: Almost felt bad that I was not going to be 72 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:29,919 Speaker 1: at the car wash when you. 73 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 2: Guys got there. 74 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:33,800 Speaker 3: We were looking for you. 75 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 2: So you just take her out and just run her 76 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 2: around sometimes? 77 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, Because so now that she has like pretty advanced 78 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 3: dementia she's home most of the time, so when I 79 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 3: go over to visit, I like to take her out 80 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 3: of the house and just kind of run errands with 81 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 3: her where we don't have to get out of the car. 82 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 3: And usually that entails like picking up food or going 83 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 3: to the car wash. So those are the activities I 84 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 3: take my grandma on with me. 85 00:03:56,880 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 2: And where do you guys live. 86 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 3: We're into in California, so we're like. 87 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 2: In a witty er so a little nice Well, we. 88 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 3: Know in La County, Orange County. 89 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 1: We know where it is, and we know it takes 90 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 1: a full day to do errands anyway. So she I 91 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: was just reading about it. So she lived in the 92 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 1: Philippines during World War two. 93 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 3: Mm hmm. Yeah. She was born in the Philippines in 94 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:20,840 Speaker 3: nineteen thirty and she she was there during like the 95 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:24,720 Speaker 3: Japanese occupation and her dad actually he passed away in 96 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 3: a pow hospital. 97 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 2: Oh my god. Wow, she has seen some life. 98 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:30,799 Speaker 1: Huh. 99 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 3: Yeah. When I was in college, I actually I took 100 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 3: this class where it was like interviewing your relative, So 101 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 3: I chose my grandma and I got this whole oral 102 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:41,920 Speaker 3: history of her time going up during World War two 103 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 3: in the Philippines. So yeah, and I actually recently found 104 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:46,719 Speaker 3: like the paper I wrote on her, and it's just 105 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 3: it's very interesting to read. 106 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:51,559 Speaker 2: Wow, that's so fascinating. That's amaze. 107 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 1: Well, I'm gonna send her a video to you, but 108 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 1: she probably won't even know it's me. 109 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know, but at least you can. You 110 00:04:58,120 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 2: can tell her next time it comes up that I 111 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 2: have a message for her. 112 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was, buddy. So the reason why like your 113 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 3: name even came up was because the night before, my 114 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:09,600 Speaker 3: cousin was showing her videos of Ian telling me because 115 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 3: like he's a big fan of him. Yeah, so the 116 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 3: fact that she remembered the next day that she was 117 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:16,159 Speaker 3: watching videos of you the night before is like a 118 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 3: pretty big deal. 119 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:21,839 Speaker 1: Today, I'll try and get a video, maybe even with IM, 120 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 1: and we'll send it to you. 121 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 3: Oh my god, that'd be so great. 122 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 2: How is Coachelle? I see you went to Coachell. 123 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, actually I just went to the Revolt party. 124 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:33,679 Speaker 3: I didn't go to actual coach. 125 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 1: It's amazing how we can find out so much about 126 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 1: strangers just by Instagram. 127 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 3: I'm the Internet. 128 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:44,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, Jessica, thank you so much for coming on. 129 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:45,479 Speaker 2: We'll send this video to you later. 130 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:47,600 Speaker 3: Okay, all right, thank you so much. 131 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 2: Take her. Nice to meet you. 132 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 3: Bye bye bye. 133 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:56,160 Speaker 2: That's a good grand child. Yeah, that really is all right. 134 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 2: So listen, are you all ready? You all ready for this? 135 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 1: We ahead, Disneyland tickets next, and then it's time for 136 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 1: this second date update, which is interesting because well, let 137 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 1: me tell you next. 138 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:07,039 Speaker 2: Hang on,