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Speaker 1: in to another episode of Poor Mine, where a drunk

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Speaker 1: ass motherfucking week dog. Yes, please just tell us about

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Speaker 1: y'all weekend, because that's really all we want to hear about. Yes, So,

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Speaker 1: of course y'all know, because I've been posting it every

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Speaker 1: day because I was proud of myself. Goddamnit it on

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Speaker 1: the back. Yeah. So this weekend I was at the

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Speaker 1: BT Awards working the red or should I say blue

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Speaker 1: the Social Awards. And the Social Awards is lit, you

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Speaker 1: Mary J Blie bruh. First of all, SIS said, fuck

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Speaker 2: No more drama, no more pain, no more pain.

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Speaker 1: I'm not no drama. You ain't sing any right? Broken again?

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Speaker 1: Another lesson? Come on, get burned, check me out. It's like, no,

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Speaker 1: The little note I heard it. You gotta do that.

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Speaker 1: See No, it's just don't hit right when you do it.

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Speaker 1: other women. No, I'll be saying men too, like do

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Speaker 1: But you definitely lyeing need to these people. You do

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Speaker 1: some people like Ambarros who looks better with short hair.

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Speaker 1: he didn't like closures, He ain't like frontals. He't really

426
00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:10,359
Speaker 1: like weave in general. But he's like, if you gonna

427
00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:13,280
Speaker 1: wear a weave, it needs to be a natural looking weed. Yeah.

428
00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:15,840
Speaker 1: I just feel like no matter what hairstyle I have,

429
00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:19,000
Speaker 1: they just niggas just likes long shit. Well, at the

430
00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:20,840
Speaker 1: end of the day, one thing about these two things

431
00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:22,840
Speaker 1: for show, bitch, Sha'm gonna wear my hair how to

432
00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:24,960
Speaker 1: fuck I don't want to wear this sheet, so I

433
00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:26,680
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck what you think. And if you

434
00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:28,760
Speaker 1: got to issue with how to fuck I wear my hair,

435
00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:31,159
Speaker 1: then pay for it. Well, now you just ain't a

436
00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:32,919
Speaker 1: nigga for me if you want to judge me and

437
00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:34,400
Speaker 1: don't want to fuck with me based off of how

438
00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:36,920
Speaker 1: to fuck I'm wearing my hair. Yeah that's true too,

439
00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:39,040
Speaker 1: But like I said, you pay for me. Yeah, No,

440
00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:41,160
Speaker 1: niggas got all these opinions on my hair, but don't

441
00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,440
Speaker 1: be trying to pay for shit. You don't like my hair,

442
00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:45,440
Speaker 1: then pay for me to get it done and then pay

443
00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:47,959
Speaker 1: for it. Niggas don't always got an opinion on something

444
00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:50,199
Speaker 1: but never want to chip in on to fix the

445
00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:54,280
Speaker 1: problem exactly. So in my opinion and all, like I said,

446
00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:56,320
Speaker 1: I just feel like men like longer hair. But me,

447
00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:58,359
Speaker 1: do I give a fuck? Absolutely? I don't give a

448
00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:02,880
Speaker 1: fuck with you niggas like, Okay, so this topic next.

449
00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:06,240
Speaker 1: Oh god, I'm nervous. This is kind of embarrassing. I

450
00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:13,639
Speaker 1: don't know if I well, yeah, you go ahead. You know,

451
00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:17,400
Speaker 1: I can honestly say, I don't think I've ever been

452
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:20,119
Speaker 1: in a situation like this before. Well maybe not somebody

453
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:22,840
Speaker 1: necessarily fucked, but maybe somebody used to talk to, or

454
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:24,760
Speaker 1: somebody you dealt with, somebody went on a date with.

455
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,679
Speaker 1: I've never been in a situation like that before. But

456
00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:32,000
Speaker 1: one of our lists, what you mean, Well, we could

457
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,440
Speaker 1: elaborate on these after I bring in the topic, because

458
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:39,879
Speaker 1: I would like to know what's interesting. So anyways, the

459
00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:43,520
Speaker 1: same listener that we mentioned earlier, she says, that's another No,

460
00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 1: this is actually from Gunny. Oh it is, I shout

461
00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:50,320
Speaker 1: out to Gunna. Then hey, hey little boo. Okay, so

462
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 1: he said, how do you feel about getting introduced to

463
00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:58,840
Speaker 1: someone that you already fucked or like Lixen, not necessarily fucked,

464
00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:01,320
Speaker 1: but you know, went on a date with you ton

465
00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:04,240
Speaker 1: met them before y'all are hung out. This never happened

466
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:07,399
Speaker 1: to you, No, I can remember that good night in

467
00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 1: the studio with your man and somebody had showed up

468
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:16,360
Speaker 1: and I told you not to go when you just

469
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:19,359
Speaker 1: insisted on going. I didn't fuck him, though, so I said,

470
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:22,359
Speaker 1: but the message said. But what I'm I'm speaking on

471
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:25,200
Speaker 1: what the message initially said, which was that he said,

472
00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:28,720
Speaker 1: fuck I didn't, But I'm saying that. But then you

473
00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 1: just say, but, like Lex said, also somebody you hung

474
00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:33,919
Speaker 1: out with or went on a date because you elaborated

475
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:36,520
Speaker 1: and you added it. Yeah, but that's not what he sink.

476
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:39,040
Speaker 1: But we're gonna we're gonna make it a broader talk

477
00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 1: talking about what he sent us. But I've definitely been

478
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:46,439
Speaker 1: introduced to somebody that I went on a date with.

479
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:49,439
Speaker 1: So how did you handle the situation? Like what was

480
00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:53,320
Speaker 1: the outcome? I would like to know, since you just

481
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:56,639
Speaker 1: so picky and you don't nobody can fuck with Drea.

482
00:23:57,160 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 1: Nobody can't fuck with the girl. But but something didn't

483
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,159
Speaker 1: fucking with you if you with enough people to let

484
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 1: niggas introducing you and you know not, but I didn't

485
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,919
Speaker 1: get introduced. It just ended up happening. He walked in.

486
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:12,199
Speaker 1: He didn't introduce me. He wasn't like, hey, this is

487
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:13,680
Speaker 1: so and so and this is so and so, and

488
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:15,920
Speaker 1: we introduced and we shook hands. It wouldn't know shit

489
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:17,920
Speaker 1: like that. It was just like I was there because

490
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:21,600
Speaker 1: I was with my nigga, with my new nigga at

491
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 1: the time. I was with my nigga and the little nigga,

492
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:30,120
Speaker 1: because that's what he was walked in and it was like, oh, hey, peasant,

493
00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:35,439
Speaker 1: is that how I went down? Or was there? Like

494
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:45,600
Speaker 1: who talked like this? No, he fucking don't anyway. Okay,

495
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:52,080
Speaker 1: sorry y'all anyway, So no, okay. So basically what happened

496
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:56,920
Speaker 1: was I was there and he walked in. I didn't

497
00:24:56,960 --> 00:25:01,119
Speaker 1: say anything. We ended up not talking about later it

498
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:03,360
Speaker 1: down the line. He found out that I knew the person,

499
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:09,399
Speaker 1: and he was mad and he blocked me. He blocked me.

500
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 1: He need but but but y'all unblocking me and everything

501
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 1: worked out and we had makeup sticks and everything was

502
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,879
Speaker 1: all great. So in my situation, this is how I

503
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:22,679
Speaker 1: always had him because I'm not gonna lie bitch. Y'all know,

504
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 1: I'm a whole. I'd have been a hole in my

505
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 1: past life whatever. So this has actually happened to me

506
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 1: like a few times, and I handle it the same

507
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 1: way every time. Like when he introduced me to the person,

508
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:35,880
Speaker 1: I was like, oh hey, what's up and fed him yeah,

509
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:39,879
Speaker 1: like he introduced me to his partner but a dirty bed. Honestly,

510
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:41,919
Speaker 1: I didn't know they were friends. Tried to judge me

511
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:45,400
Speaker 1: over here, but I didn't even fucked the nigga that

512
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:47,679
Speaker 1: the nigga that they ended up knowing, the nigga that

513
00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 1: I knew. Well, first of all, I didn't know that

514
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 1: they were friends. I did not know because it was

515
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 1: just like this is weird as fuck, but it was

516
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 1: all some ship. Like when he introduced me, I was like,

517
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 1: oh hey, what's up, Like, oh yeah, I know him.

518
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 1: And in one situation that happened, it was two different

519
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 1: times with you all four different people. Because so the

520
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:10,919
Speaker 1: first situation, I was like, oh, what's up? I already

521
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 1: know him, like you know what's up? And he was

522
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:14,760
Speaker 1: just like he didn't think nothing of it. He never asked,

523
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 1: so I never had to have the conversation with him.

524
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:19,959
Speaker 1: The second time it happened, he was on some like

525
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,120
Speaker 1: oh shit, how you know what's yourself? I was like, oh,

526
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 1: I know him now, the situation was actually closer. I

527
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 1: did lie because y'all know I'm a liar. I always

528
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 1: say that I'm a liar, but I just feel like

529
00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 1: sometime it softens the blow. So me and the dude

530
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 1: had probably fucked probably like a year ago type shit,

531
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 1: but I told him it was like some college shit.

532
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:38,440
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, it was like four or five

533
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:40,800
Speaker 1: years ago, like it was a long time ago. It

534
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 1: was like some college shit. So he was like, oh,

535
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 1: was it the truth? No, it was actually not. I

536
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,600
Speaker 1: fucked him last year, like the previous year, like he

537
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 1: was kind of like on my recent roster type shit.

538
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:55,360
Speaker 1: So freak jumped out. The freaks jumped out that night. Hey,

539
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 1: hey during the day. So I feel like, honestly, but

540
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:00,879
Speaker 1: I just feel like it's how you hand. It depends

541
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,440
Speaker 1: how close the friends they are. But I will say

542
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:06,200
Speaker 1: this one thing you do not do ladies. Do not

543
00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:08,320
Speaker 1: act like you don't know that nigga, because you never

544
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 1: know how petty niggas are. And if you act like

545
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 1: you don't know somebody you introduce them to you, a

546
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 1: nigga might feel played. So no, I never have did that,

547
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 1: Like even with that situation. Now, like I said, I

548
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:20,639
Speaker 1: didn't even get introduced to the nigga. It was just

549
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 1: like he ended up coming where we was at and

550
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:24,639
Speaker 1: we was just all in the same home and we

551
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 1: just kind of didn't make our contact and needn't like right,

552
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:30,119
Speaker 1: But I'm talking about for a ladies, the ladies that

553
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 1: have been in this situation or the situation might happen

554
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 1: to them once you actually get introduced to that person.

555
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:37,959
Speaker 1: Please don't act like you don't know the nigga because

556
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:41,479
Speaker 1: that's gonna make that nigga mad. You never know. Some

557
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:44,679
Speaker 1: niggas don't care, but some niggas might feel played. So

558
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 1: they could text the dude and be like, oh that's you.

559
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,639
Speaker 1: I used to fuck old girl. Yeah, she a toss.

560
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 1: But if you be like a toss, I took an

561
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 1: old school. She a motherfucking toss. You don't know how

562
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 1: people might react because I'll tell you one thing. I'll

563
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:02,439
Speaker 1: tell you one thing. I don't like to feel played,

564
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,199
Speaker 1: so I wouldn't do no shit like that. Like if

565
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 1: if like somebody introduced me to somebody like it's like,

566
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 1: say you introduced me to somebody like me and you

567
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 1: aren't that close to friends. But we associates, right, So

568
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:15,480
Speaker 1: say you introduced me like, oh hey, Lex, this is

569
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,359
Speaker 1: my dude, and I just fucked him and he tried

570
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 1: to play me like, oh how you doing les, I'm

571
00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:23,679
Speaker 1: be like, first of all, nigga, I know you like,

572
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,360
Speaker 1: you never know how people might react, So don't try

573
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:28,600
Speaker 1: to ever act like you don't know somebody because that'll

574
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 1: be some whole ass shit and you never know how

575
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 1: people might react. I'm gonna always be like, oh, what's up.

576
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,959
Speaker 1: Oh that's the homie. I'm gonna always say the homie. Now,

577
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 1: if you choose to ask how we know each other,

578
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you something and crying. When that shit

579
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 1: happened to me, I was like, I was like, I

580
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 1: didn't know. I didn't know. I was just say cause

581
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 1: that nigga couldn't fucking wait to tell that nigga that's

582
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 1: what happened with me. He couldn't wait to tell the

583
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 1: nigga that he had went on a day with me.

584
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:58,239
Speaker 1: I was like, what the fuck? We went on a

585
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 1: fucking day, like a day like, that's what I'm saying,

586
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 1: That's what That's what it was about. It was we

587
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 1: went out to eat. Okay, I just feel I just

588
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:16,520
Speaker 1: feel like we gong out afterwards. I just feel like

589
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,880
Speaker 1: people are really petty, so you never really know what

590
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:21,959
Speaker 1: people might do. So that Nigga knew, I didn't take

591
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:23,720
Speaker 1: him serious. So it was like, what's shaw beef and

592
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 1: what's your issue? Why are you trying to make DC

593
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:30,000
Speaker 1: into something egg? I don't know for me, Like I said,

594
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 1: if I fucked you and my home and who I'm with,

595
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 1: introduce me to you just be cool. But that goes

596
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 1: back into our conversation that we had last week. Niggas

597
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 1: love to say that they fucked you or love to

598
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:44,719
Speaker 1: be like, oh, I used to fuck with her. So

599
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 1: that's why on some lame ship. So that's why I

600
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 1: really tread lightly with Nigga. Sometimes I'm not gonna let

601
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 1: you play me because don't get it twisted. I can

602
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:55,480
Speaker 1: make you look lame. I can't do that. I'm not

603
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:57,960
Speaker 1: really gotta do much to make these niggas look like

604
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 1: So if you just keep it going, if you keep

605
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:03,400
Speaker 1: it cool, I'm gonna keep it cool, you know what

606
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So don't trying to fuck up my new

607
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 1: ship with my new niggas. Like I'm not with that

608
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 1: out there because I ain't going nowhere, bitch like I'm not.

609
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 1: I ain't going nowhere like I'm not messing with you

610
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:15,760
Speaker 1: in your new bitch. So please don't mess with me

611
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: and my new bitch. So if you see me and

612
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 1: my new nigga, just please walk the other way. And

613
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 1: especially if I didn't fuck you when we went on

614
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 1: a day. You don't know what this pussy do? He

615
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:26,160
Speaker 1: not about to leave me. I'm dead well for my situation.

616
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 1: I definitely gave the pussy up a few times. See,

617
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:30,920
Speaker 1: I didn't get a pussy up to the nigga that

618
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,239
Speaker 1: the dude that I was hooking with knew and he had.

619
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:36,520
Speaker 1: You never know how life ends up. You never like

620
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 1: people be friends, people be cool, like shit happens. I

621
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 1: mean yeah, because I definitely never anticipated that situation happened yet,

622
00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 1: but it happened. And I even when it happened, I

623
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 1: didn't think it was gonna be that big of a deal,

624
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 1: but obviously it was a big deal to the nigga

625
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:51,960
Speaker 1: I was fucking with. I don't know, I just feel

626
00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:55,680
Speaker 1: like life be taking you to some places, Like it's

627
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 1: been a situation where I was fucking with a nigga

628
00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 1: and he introduced me to his friend, and his friend

629
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,240
Speaker 1: slid in my d MS and I ended up liking

630
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: his friend, and me and his friend dated for three years.

631
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,080
Speaker 1: I see you just a hole, That's what I'm dub.

632
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 1: But I'm saying that these niggas block you from y'all love.

633
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: He slid in my DMS. He was like, what's up, y'all? Please,

634
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 1: queen's queen? Please don't why? You never know where y'all

635
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 1: you never know. I do agree with that your true

636
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,800
Speaker 1: love might be in a relationship right now. It's your

637
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:31,800
Speaker 1: job to.

638
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 2: Go get he can.

639
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 1: He can't need to be rescued. He came and saved

640
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 1: my pussy. He did. He came and like, who girl?

641
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 1: I remember the first time we fucked? Soon too, Damn

642
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 1: that was my nigga. I was on his Facebook other day.

643
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 1: He for GP. I mean, I fucking him. We had

644
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:53,240
Speaker 1: a good conversation the boys. You know how we talk

645
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 1: about the voids, But I don't know that boys. We was.

646
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:58,720
Speaker 1: It was a good boy. We were together for three years, bitch,

647
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 1: and I know that's right, little Bee. That's my dog bee,

648
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 1: little bee, little bee girl. Anyways, let's move on. So

649
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 1: I want to talk about what you want to talk

650
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:19,240
Speaker 1: about sees, you know, being some bad bitches. We're just

651
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 1: used to men loving on us and being all up

652
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 1: on top of us, and we don't really have to

653
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 1: do shit to get some dick. But you know, sometimes

654
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 1: niggas don't be in the mood or they just not

655
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 1: thinking about something we want to fuck. So, as women,

656
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 1: how do we initiate sex? And I'll say this, I

657
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 1: feel like it's easy to do that in a relationship

658
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 1: with somebody you being fucking. But let's say it's somebody

659
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 1: you haven't fucked yet and you're ready to get that

660
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 1: pussy up. How do you initiate sex? Bitch? I don't

661
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 1: know because I ain't used to having an initiate sex.

662
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 1: The last nigga that I sucked, we like that for real.

663
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 1: He played a fucking r klly song for me, and

664
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 1: I knew he was weary. The fuck niggas be very

665
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 1: nigga very. I'm gonna sing the song. No you fucking not,

666
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 1: leg I swear to God, I can't see God. I

667
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 1: kill you. If it's such a good bop, IM go

668
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 1: to God, I'll kill you. Sing it, Okay, I'm not

669
00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 1: gonna sing it, okay, I'm not gonna sing it, but

670
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 1: how so, how do you initiate? You've never had an

671
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 1: initiate sex? No? I no, Okay, so many things deep

672
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 1: about the sheet, like, no, I haven't never had to initiate. Well,

673
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 1: I have, but if I got to, I will. Well,

674
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 1: we're talking about experiences and we're trying to give advice,

675
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 1: so I'll tell y'all my story, bitch, because like I said,

676
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 1: let the whole speak, Let the whole speak. So I

677
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 1: definitely I have definitely initiated sex more than a few times, bitch,

678
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 1: because the first time. Yes, yes, because I'll say this.

679
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is about me, but I

680
00:33:56,600 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 1: feel like sometimes men just but I've said this before

681
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:01,960
Speaker 1: or in past episodes. I say this a lot every

682
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 1: time I meet dudes. I'm a relationship girl, though I

683
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:07,479
Speaker 1: will say that, but I feel like that's why I've

684
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 1: been in so many relationships. They always want to be

685
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:13,799
Speaker 1: in a relationship and take things slow and do this,

686
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:15,759
Speaker 1: like they always want to be in a relationship with me. Like,

687
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:18,080
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to you. If I could think

688
00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:20,879
Speaker 1: about ten niggas that I've been with, on top, eight

689
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 1: of them wanted to have a relationship with me. You

690
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:24,920
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So I feel like niggas sometimes

691
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 1: a bit's just want to get fucked. I'm not trying

692
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:29,440
Speaker 1: to do all this wine and done and get to

693
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:31,239
Speaker 1: know each other. I'm trying to get some big I

694
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 1: want your dick in and around my fucking mouth. I

695
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:35,400
Speaker 1: want it down my throat. I want that come in

696
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:37,640
Speaker 1: my hair, I want that thumb in my booty hole.

697
00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 1: Let's get the fuck to it. You know what I mean.

698
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 1: So I know what you're saying. So I be ploting

699
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 1: on niggas. I had a situation where this nigga grew

700
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:49,720
Speaker 1: a plot I'm a plotter. I had a situation where

701
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 1: this nigga we have been talking for a while, like

702
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:54,640
Speaker 1: going on dates, and I just felt like he was

703
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:57,840
Speaker 1: just trying to respect me. Stop fucking respecting me. I'm

704
00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:02,320
Speaker 1: a whore, slut, bitch. Treat me? Yes, are you serious? Serious?

705
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 1: So no, I ain't gonna lie sometimes I don't want

706
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 1: to be like please. So I already knew what tom

707
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 1: it was. So I invited him over. Bitch. I was like,

708
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 1: let's just chill tonight. You know, Mama whipped up a

709
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 1: little show. You knew y'all wasn't about to chill, so

710
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:22,759
Speaker 1: you said him, I set him up. So I cooked

711
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 1: a little something. I had liquor. No, fuck the wine.

712
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:29,640
Speaker 1: I had liquor. Bitch like, and I'm playing like shots.

713
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, let's take a shot. I'm like, let's

714
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 1: just because I'm about to get some deep tomorrow. But

715
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 1: I'm telling you this, lady's listen to me if you

716
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:40,759
Speaker 1: want some dick. And this niggas being too respectful. Now.

717
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 1: I had him over to my house because, like I said,

718
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:44,799
Speaker 1: this is somebody that I knew. It wasn't no first date,

719
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:47,319
Speaker 1: but we had been on like five or six dates. Bitch,

720
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 1: I want some dick. So brought him over to the house.

721
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 1: I think, what were we drinking? No, no, this this

722
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 1: was before du s. This was like and no. It

723
00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 1: was either hennessy or cry like you used to bitch,

724
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:05,319
Speaker 1: I did. But I used to be a wag bit

725
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 1: you look like a four logo. I was a wag bitch,

726
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:10,879
Speaker 1: I used to go. I used to go, no, no, no,

727
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:12,920
Speaker 1: not that I was a whack bitch. You know, I

728
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:14,839
Speaker 1: was young, fucking with niggas with money. I was fucking

729
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:16,279
Speaker 1: with the niggas with money. So I used to go

730
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:19,280
Speaker 1: to the bar and be like, can I get a hunk?

731
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:23,279
Speaker 2: I thought it was like grown, you know, yes, but

732
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 2: I was.

733
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:28,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, I used to drink. Hell yeah, I used to drink.

734
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:31,640
Speaker 1: This is a high school though. Yeah, my mom. I

735
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:33,919
Speaker 1: was drinking that when I was probably fourteen though, because

736
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:35,000
Speaker 1: my mom used to have it, so I used to

737
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:36,319
Speaker 1: drink it out her. I just the want to drink

738
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 1: la though, because I used to watch The Parker. Yeah. No,

739
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 1: I've definitely i've been, but I told y'all, no, i'veen

740
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 1: drinking since I was like eleven or twelve. That ass

741
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:46,800
Speaker 1: no life here. But I will say, like I said,

742
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 1: I was a whack bitch. I used to go to

743
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:50,759
Speaker 1: the bar and order hulks because I thought that was

744
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 1: impressing the because I always fuck with older niggas. I

745
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 1: was young, just being stupid anyways. But I think we

746
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 1: had like Crown. I think it was Crown or Hennessy.

747
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:00,319
Speaker 1: It was probably Crown though, because this is where when

748
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:03,399
Speaker 1: Crowned Apple first came out, bare, when that shit first

749
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 1: came Yeah, so I think it was Crown Apple, bitch,

750
00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 1: and I just was giving this nigga shots, bitch, shots, shots,

751
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:12,399
Speaker 1: getting his ass drunk. And so I was like, it's

752
00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:14,879
Speaker 1: getting a little hot in here. So, bitch, I went

753
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:19,319
Speaker 1: to my closet, put on my pajamas, bitch like. And

754
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 1: when I say pajamas, I just put on some little

755
00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:26,560
Speaker 1: bitty shorts and a crop top. Body everywhere, titty everywhere,

756
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 1: ass everywhere, bitch plot And he was just like, damn,

757
00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:32,359
Speaker 1: nigga get drunk. He like damn. So I'm like, sitting

758
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:35,399
Speaker 1: next him, I'm like, you know, we just looking bitch.

759
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 1: We just start kissing and dry the best. See that's

760
00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 1: how you gotta seduce. I just had to get him

761
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:43,839
Speaker 1: drunk over here having flashbacks. I'm getting a little hot,

762
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:46,399
Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna lie. Sometimes I still do that.

763
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:49,440
Speaker 1: I still do that. I still do that too. I'm

764
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:51,640
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. Like when I went to Paris with

765
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 1: my with my ex boyfriend, Like Paris was our first

766
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 1: day and we hadn't yet at this point. We absolutely

767
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:00,880
Speaker 1: the queens and no. But what I'm saying is I

768
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:02,839
Speaker 1: absolutely got him drunk because he was not trying to fuck.

769
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:05,799
Speaker 1: I absolutely got him drunk. I was like, no, I

770
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:08,239
Speaker 1: just flew nine hours, You're about to give me that dick,

771
00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:11,600
Speaker 1: Like absolutely. I flew nine hours and you think we

772
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:15,480
Speaker 1: ain't much a fuck, and he was me, get your

773
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 1: ass up, les. So yeah, I feel like for me,

774
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 1: my method in initiating sex is just get him a

775
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 1: little lose, get him a little drunk, and you have

776
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 1: to let him know you want him as well. I'm

777
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 1: a very when I'm flirty, I'm very touchy. I use

778
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:35,080
Speaker 1: my hands a lot, so I'm very central with my hands,

779
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 1: so i'll grab Like when i'm laughing at you, I'm gone,

780
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:40,919
Speaker 1: I put my hand on your knee. I'm gonna grab

781
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 1: your arm a little bit, like you know what I'm saying,

782
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:45,280
Speaker 1: Like if you got a beard, I'll probably be rubbing

783
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,279
Speaker 1: my hands through your face. I knew all of that

784
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:49,359
Speaker 1: stuff too, but I guess I just never looked at

785
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:53,479
Speaker 1: that as a way of initiating stick. And well, maybe

786
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 1: I do initiate sex then, because I just feel like,

787
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 1: to me, I'm just kind of flirty and I use

788
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 1: body language and like when you touch a man, that

789
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 1: lets him know that the gate is open to be

790
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 1: touchy with each other. I'm not touching you unless I

791
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 1: want you to touch me. I never touched somebody who

792
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:14,080
Speaker 1: if I could put my hands on you, baby, you

793
00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:17,799
Speaker 1: can put your hand. So if I'm touching on you,

794
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 1: best believe I want you to touch me back. You

795
00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So I'm always get them drunk

796
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 1: and just get a little touch of feeling. I'm not

797
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:27,239
Speaker 1: saying grab his dick. You know what I'm saying, Don't

798
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:31,359
Speaker 1: fucking grab a nigga dick because sometimes you know, but no,

799
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 1: cause nigga, if he grab that's one thing I do. No.

800
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, I'm talking about if this is like

801
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:38,719
Speaker 1: the first time, because guess what, you don't want a

802
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 1: nigga just to grab your coochie because you don't know

803
00:39:42,080 --> 00:39:45,120
Speaker 1: the vibs yet. You can't just grab on the date

804
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:47,839
Speaker 1: the first night with a nigga. This is a long

805
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:50,280
Speaker 1: time ago. God forbid, I shouldn't be talking about these.

806
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:52,680
Speaker 1: We want to date and we hated up fucking and

807
00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 1: we was like he was fingering me in a fucking card.

808
00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 1: What does this time mean?

809
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:05,439
Speaker 2: On the day, y'all know I feel about It wasn't

810
00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 2: a limo I had on a limbo day, bitch I did.

811
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 1: I don't know why I said. We was definitely in

812
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 1: an escalator. Stopped playing his limp bo CUIs in the streets.

813
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 1: It was not a limbo. He had a diver and

814
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:23,640
Speaker 1: we was in an escalator. That nigga showed up with

815
00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:29,279
Speaker 1: a limo or raised limousines from sister sister Ray was

816
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:34,480
Speaker 1: driving a be shut up. It was not a limo.

817
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:36,719
Speaker 1: It was the car. It was a regular little car

818
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 1: like a it's a limousine. No, it was an issue.

819
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:44,160
Speaker 1: But she got that limousine, pussy, I know that's right. Bitch.

820
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:47,320
Speaker 1: You better not every bitch because say she was in

821
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 1: a limousine on the day. Bitch, you better talk to y'all.

822
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:54,719
Speaker 1: I raced pussy. Don't you better? Don't you know talk

823
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:59,120
Speaker 1: about that limousine. Bitch. I didn't funk no niggas when

824
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:02,000
Speaker 1: she got the limousine. Y'all, they had the rose, y'all

825
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:04,799
Speaker 1: know how they got the champagne glasses and they got

826
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 1: that in the race? Did they have the little the

827
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:12,720
Speaker 1: lights was on? They got lights in the rap To bitch,

828
00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:15,719
Speaker 1: you was an alembasin. You don't got a lie of bitch.

829
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:17,400
Speaker 1: I'm not lying to y'all, but I never fucked my

830
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 1: nigga in no limousine. And I don't know why I

831
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 1: said that a lot, but I definitely fucked in a race,

832
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 1: So okay, so I feel like to initiate sex for me,

833
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:31,759
Speaker 1: you don't stop playing with me. You definitely have to

834
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:35,760
Speaker 1: be touchy philly, but don't sexually harass them. A little

835
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 1: tap on the arm, a little rub of the face,

836
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:42,759
Speaker 1: definitely get some alcohol going. And to me, I just

837
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 1: always go in for the kill, Like I'll get real

838
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 1: close to your face and we're talking, so I'll kiss you.

839
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. But like I said, I've

840
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:52,640
Speaker 1: never been in a situation where I've initiated sex. And

841
00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 1: he was just like, na, I'm gonna get fucked. One

842
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:58,720
Speaker 1: thing about lex pussy. This pussy is always gonna get fucked.

843
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 1: I know you better fucking know that thing's gonna be

844
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:08,440
Speaker 1: run through. Why was I laughing about? I seen I

845
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 1: was going through my pictures the other day. This is

846
00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:13,759
Speaker 1: off topic, but it was that video that while at

847
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:15,880
Speaker 1: had posted on this page of us dancing a workout

848
00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 1: pole dancer, I mean, and you was like, people was

849
00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 1: like you was laughing so hard. You was like, bitch,

850
00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 1: everybody think that you got a pad on, but it's

851
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:29,319
Speaker 1: just your pussy. That thing fat Garfield. We got an

852
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 1: inside joke it all her friends call her pussy Garfield

853
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 1: because it's bad, like it's scary, fag don't say that.

854
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 1: It's not. I ain't gonna there. I would be scared

855
00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:42,319
Speaker 1: to eat it because I feel like it's gonna eat

856
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 1: me things. I ain't real niggas know what to do

857
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 1: with it. I be scared because I feel like that

858
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:51,400
Speaker 1: ain't gonna eat my fade. I'm fucking dad. It is

859
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 1: not bad, but it's fast, it's fast, it's fig I

860
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 1: got the thing. Juice is poking, you know what I'm

861
00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:01,040
Speaker 1: say like botho what Cardi said? She got something about

862
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:03,319
Speaker 1: a fat bitch pussy? I really who got a fat

863
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 1: bitch pussy? No? You do? You got a fat bitch pussy? Absolutely?

864
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:09,120
Speaker 1: And you know what. So let us know how y'all

865
00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:11,279
Speaker 1: initiate sex. So there are any tips that y'all can

866
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:13,560
Speaker 1: give us, because you know, we like to learn. If

867
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:15,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to learn, because I don't want to

868
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 1: initiate six if you want these pussy come nobody. Somebody

869
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 1: said this, and this is before I got my Twitter suspended.

870
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 1: I can't remember who said it. But sometimes men want

871
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:26,480
Speaker 1: to feel wanted you know, like I feel wanted, but

872
00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 1: you need to let me know that you want me first. No,

873
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:31,399
Speaker 1: but no, but niggas are gonna niggas. Let be cause

874
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:33,719
Speaker 1: we don't hit on men, men hit on us. And

875
00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:35,719
Speaker 1: now that I think about it, I remember who said

876
00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:45,480
Speaker 1: that men, since you're trying to be low men. Ill

877
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:49,000
Speaker 1: remember who said anything, because I remember saying it men,

878
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:55,680
Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm gonna beat y'all, motherfucker. So anyway,

879
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:58,879
Speaker 1: it's like I was saying, I feel like that's right.

880
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:01,759
Speaker 1: You know, it's just like you don't want to you

881
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:03,880
Speaker 1: don't want to give, give, give all the time. And

882
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:07,040
Speaker 1: in a relationship, like just like men take us out,

883
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 1: they do this, and they do that, which they're supposed

884
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 1: to do. But I feel like, if I'm in a relationship,

885
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:11,759
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take you out to dinner, I'm gonna buy

886
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:13,279
Speaker 1: you something every now and then, you know whatever. But

887
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 1: if we're in a relationship, then we probably already been fucking.

888
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:18,359
Speaker 1: It's not about to be the first time that we fucked.

889
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:22,239
Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying. No, if we're fucking with

890
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 1: each other, I don't have no issue initiating sex once

891
00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:27,359
Speaker 1: we're already to that, like, once we done got past

892
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:32,840
Speaker 1: the initial first sex situation, I don't have no problem

893
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:35,400
Speaker 1: saying I've never really initiated sex the first time with

894
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:36,960
Speaker 1: a nigga. No, because I need to know that you

895
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 1: want me, and I need to know that you want

896
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:40,400
Speaker 1: that and that I'm not trying to just put it

897
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 1: on you and put it in your fast And that's cool.

898
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:46,520
Speaker 1: But I'm also talking to the listeners. There's women out

899
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 1: there who have probably been a relationship for three years

900
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:52,799
Speaker 1: and they never initiate sex. I'm talking to those women, yeah,

901
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:55,719
Speaker 1: because some people don't do be in relationships and the

902
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:58,239
Speaker 1: women they do not initiate sex. They only fuck with

903
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:00,040
Speaker 1: their men. Want. Now, when I get drunk, I'm I

904
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 1: have to come put this flisty on.

905
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:02,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I feel like it's okay to be like,

906
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 3: let that nigga know you want his dick, especially like

907
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 3: I said, if I if you, if we haven't been

908
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:08,960
Speaker 3: on a couple of days and I like you and

909
00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 3: you ain't made the movie yet, I have absolutely no

910
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:13,440
Speaker 3: problem because, like I said, sometimes men want to be gentlemen,

911
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:15,439
Speaker 3: but sometimes I don't want to be respected every day.

912
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:20,879
Speaker 1: Call me beach, slap me. Yeah, like disrespect the funk

913
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:24,319
Speaker 1: out of me. Tell me I ain't ship who you

914
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:26,880
Speaker 1: know what? I'm getting hot flashes? So yeah, let us

915
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:29,440
Speaker 1: know how y'all feel about initiating sex and what tips

916
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 1: do y'all use. Oh so now we get to the

917
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:42,440
Speaker 1: good part of AROS. I started it for you. I

918
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 1: want to shoot a foenish the girls. Okay, So I

919
00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 1: want to talk about ain'tal sex and training your asshole. Now,

920
00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:56,759
Speaker 1: I've never I've never had aintal sex before me either,

921
00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 1: but I tried to prepare myself for it because I

922
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:01,799
Speaker 1: thought with the person and I thought I wanted to

923
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:04,160
Speaker 1: do it, but I backed off. So I want to

924
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:07,040
Speaker 1: talk because a lot of I've had sex with guys

925
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 1: before and he was like, hold, can I finish you?

926
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 1: Said I had I've had sex guy with guys before

927
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 1: and they were like, oh baby, I'm about to put

928
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 1: it in your ass or you know, get that get

929
00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 1: that ass ready for me, blah blah blah. But what

930
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 1: y'all have to realize you can't just have ain'tal sex.

931
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 1: You can't just awake. You can't just like be mid

932
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:30,840
Speaker 1: sex and be like, oh, I want to stick it

933
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 1: in your ass. It doesn't work. Like that, you gotta

934
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:36,920
Speaker 1: prepare that bunghole. So tell tell me how you prepared

935
00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 1: job bubile. So I never had a No six before either,

936
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:45,120
Speaker 1: But I definitely stay ready, so I ain't gotta get ready.

937
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:48,000
Speaker 1: So I got butt plugs mm hmm. And I be

938
00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 1: wearing the house to the grocery store. Yeah, I got

939
00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 1: one in right now. Yeah. So so I always just

940
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 1: stay ready, so I ain't got took for me at

941
00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 1: this point, I've I also just like the way it

942
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:02,200
Speaker 1: feels like and it's kind of like, I don't know,

943
00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:04,279
Speaker 1: I'm weird, Like I'm kind of one of those people

944
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:06,960
Speaker 1: where it'd be like it's exciting to me to go

945
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 1: places and to do she and it's like I know

946
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:10,880
Speaker 1: something you don't know, Like I kind of got like

947
00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 1: this she in my ass. For me, I'll say this,

948
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 1: I definitely don't walk wrong with but plucks. I they nude.

949
00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:24,920
Speaker 1: But I'll say for me, I at this point in

950
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:28,520
Speaker 1: my life, I've had dick in every hole possible. I've

951
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:31,960
Speaker 1: had dick. I rubbed dick, and y'all know, you know

952
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:34,520
Speaker 1: when you rubbing that dick around your mouth, it kind

953
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 1: of goes in your nose. With sister, you know what

954
00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:41,400
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like I have. You know, I'm not being funny.

955
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 1: It's true story my ex boyfriend. It used to be

956
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 1: funny when his dick was soft. So I used to

957
00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:50,480
Speaker 1: like when it was soft. I used to play with

958
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 1: and I was singing to it like a mic, and

959
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:54,600
Speaker 1: I would be like, I can't hear you, and I

960
00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:57,319
Speaker 1: don't put this dick up to my e And it

961
00:47:57,480 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 1: was so at all you have to be it was funny.

962
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:06,320
Speaker 1: I actually his dick didn't actually go on my airbody.

963
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 1: I used to definitely hold his dick up to my

964
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 1: ear like I've literally had dick on every inch of

965
00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 1: my body. There's not one dick every inch of my body.

966
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:17,520
Speaker 1: I've had dick everywhere. So I remember I told you

967
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 1: that story about that man. I don't know if he

968
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:21,319
Speaker 1: ever put his dick there. I think he probably beat

969
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:22,799
Speaker 1: it off. Yeah, remember I told you about that guy

970
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:24,160
Speaker 1: that he used to like to make out my armpit.

971
00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:28,600
Speaker 1: He used to like to make out one armpit. He

972
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:31,759
Speaker 1: was a little different, but he at the time that

973
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 1: was my boo, you know what I'm saying. But anyways,

974
00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:38,279
Speaker 1: so for me, I feel like my asshole. That's just

975
00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:40,439
Speaker 1: one thing I guess I'll have to say for either

976
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 1: somebody i'm super super fucking with or maybe my husband.

977
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:45,880
Speaker 1: So for me, I was in a situation where I

978
00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:49,160
Speaker 1: thought I was gonna be having angle sex, so I did.

979
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 1: The first thing is you have to do with enema.

980
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:56,640
Speaker 1: You have to clean that booty hole, because you cannot

981
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:58,480
Speaker 1: just stick something in your booty hole, especially if you

982
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:00,960
Speaker 1: took a shit that day, cause there might be some

983
00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 1: left left back in some part. There might be some particles,

984
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:09,680
Speaker 1: some some kids left in the pool that need to

985
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: be taken out. So you have to do an anima.

986
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 1: You cannot just have let me tell you something because

987
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:19,040
Speaker 1: when it's a muscle, okay, so it spans that booty hoole,

988
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:21,400
Speaker 1: So everything that's in there is gonna fall out, bitch,

989
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 1: So you have to make sure that whole anal canal

990
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:29,000
Speaker 1: is fucking clean. Okay. Step one, we're giving y'all. We're

991
00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:31,480
Speaker 1: teaching y'all how to train that bootyhole, getting ready for it,

992
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 1: even were still trying to let y'all, we're trying to

993
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:36,359
Speaker 1: give y'all the game. Yeah, because I feel like I

994
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 1: was definitely ready to have anal se. I definitely have

995
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 1: done the enema before because I thought I was about

996
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:42,960
Speaker 1: to And I'll tell you why I didn't have the

997
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:44,839
Speaker 1: anal sex. I was about to get anal. I mean,

998
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:46,680
Speaker 1: I thought I was about to get fucked in the ass.

999
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 1: I was about to get fucked like he put the

1000
00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:50,319
Speaker 1: tip in. But I just feel like I wasn't. I

1001
00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 1: didn't stretch that booty hole out enough because it was

1002
00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 1: so No. Well, I was using the anal beads. So

1003
00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 1: the beads, don't you gotta use the plum Well no,

1004
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:00,600
Speaker 1: but what I'm saying is I was using the antal

1005
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:02,920
Speaker 1: bees at first because my friend she loves antal sex

1006
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:08,279
Speaker 1: shout out to Candy. So she was telling me do

1007
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:10,040
Speaker 1: anal bees first, and then she was telling me then

1008
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:13,160
Speaker 1: graduate to the butt plugs or whatever. I did so first,

1009
00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:15,319
Speaker 1: maybe I'm just the free Well no, I mean I

1010
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:17,040
Speaker 1: feel like you can do the plugs at first, but

1011
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:19,920
Speaker 1: like I said, yeah, you got a small start with

1012
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:21,400
Speaker 1: a small one. But I just decided to do the

1013
00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:23,399
Speaker 1: beads or whatever. So I did the bees or whatever.

1014
00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:25,080
Speaker 1: They were fine. You know. She was like, you know,

1015
00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:27,520
Speaker 1: just put pull them in and pull them out. Keep

1016
00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:29,520
Speaker 1: pulling them in and pulling out, you know, and we

1017
00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 1: actually used to do the banal anal beats together, like

1018
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:33,239
Speaker 1: we were playing with the anle bees together and it

1019
00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:35,479
Speaker 1: was fun because it would turn me on. I was like, bitch,

1020
00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 1: I'm ready for that dig. Like I was like, put

1021
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:40,759
Speaker 1: that motherfucking in cause this shit feel good. But that's

1022
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 1: how I feel about anal plugs. That's why it's crazy

1023
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:44,879
Speaker 1: to me that you never did an anal plug, because

1024
00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:46,840
Speaker 1: it's like that'd be having a cute ones that be

1025
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:52,120
Speaker 1: having like the little Ryanstone. Yeah yeah, and he liked

1026
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:54,160
Speaker 1: to look at it while he heating me. I know that.

1027
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:56,440
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is I was supposed to do

1028
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 1: the butt plugs, but I never got to it because

1029
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:00,759
Speaker 1: I was just so ready, like yeah, because I was

1030
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:03,360
Speaker 1: using the bees for probably like three or four days,

1031
00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:05,239
Speaker 1: and then when we finally started having sex, we were

1032
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:07,520
Speaker 1: playing with anal bees and I'm just like, we're not

1033
00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:10,440
Speaker 1: gonna do it tonight, but the bees were feeling so good.

1034
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, fuck it, let's do it. Yeah, babad he

1035
00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 1: stuck that tipping. I must have scream blooded mount bitch.

1036
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 1: I didn't know what to do. I said, no, ma'am.

1037
00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:24,160
Speaker 1: So if you ever try anal please make sure that

1038
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:28,840
Speaker 1: booty hole is good and up. I just said it

1039
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:30,400
Speaker 1: needs to be good and juicy and it needs to

1040
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:32,680
Speaker 1: be stretched out a bit, bitch now. But even when

1041
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:34,920
Speaker 1: I had had a butt plug in and I thought

1042
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 1: I was ready to get anal, I still wasn't ready.

1043
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:39,960
Speaker 1: But like, honestly, ladies, and here's a little tip, you know,

1044
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:42,080
Speaker 1: spice things up in your bedroom even if you're not

1045
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:44,919
Speaker 1: really ready for anal. You could just wear the butt

1046
00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:47,000
Speaker 1: plugs like they cute and it's like a good little

1047
00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 1: aesthetic situation. Yeah, they just love to see that sheet

1048
00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:54,120
Speaker 1: in your booty hole from in front of you riding

1049
00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 1: in front of bed. You know, it would be lit

1050
00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:57,680
Speaker 1: as fucked. Lady, if you just had a butt plug in,

1051
00:51:57,760 --> 00:51:59,399
Speaker 1: you don't even know it, bitch, so you just turn

1052
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:02,040
Speaker 1: over a bust, That's what I mean. But that's what

1053
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:04,120
Speaker 1: I mean, you know what I'm saying. I mean sometimes

1054
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 1: women probably like put it in, you know, and they're

1055
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:08,600
Speaker 1: playing with it because a lot of times a couple

1056
00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:11,000
Speaker 1: of use toys. Oh yeah, yeah, you could play with

1057
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:13,879
Speaker 1: it and stuff too. But it's sometimes it's just like dope,

1058
00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:16,040
Speaker 1: it's fucked. For Like if y'all about to fuck and

1059
00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:17,759
Speaker 1: even know you got that ship in and you just

1060
00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:21,120
Speaker 1: being over. He about to hit that ship in the

1061
00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 1: back and he'd be like, damn, whatever riding star came.

1062
00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 1: And I think it'll be if you get something to

1063
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:29,160
Speaker 1: have little messages on it and they'll say hey boo,

1064
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 1: or you can get one with his name, Oh bitch,

1065
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:34,759
Speaker 1: that would be I'm about I'm gonna do that, and

1066
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 1: then you gotta get the vibrating one soon. Now I

1067
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:39,800
Speaker 1: don't have a vibrating one. Yeah, but I heard the

1068
00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 1: vibrating ones are good too, because it's good stimulation for

1069
00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 1: the men because it's inside your budd and if it's vibrating,

1070
00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 1: you could feel it and he could feel it when

1071
00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:53,399
Speaker 1: he's stroking. I'm gonna give me one. Bit. He needs

1072
00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:56,160
Speaker 1: to get you a vibrating one, but still try one

1073
00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:58,239
Speaker 1: for my birthday. But still I'm a matter of fact,

1074
00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:00,399
Speaker 1: that's gonna be my birthday. Gives to you. You gotta

1075
00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:02,960
Speaker 1: get it before my birthday because my birthday I want

1076
00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:05,680
Speaker 1: the vibrate one. Okay, I'm about vibrant. You don't want

1077
00:53:05,719 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 1: a cute little middle one too, just so you can

1078
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:09,719
Speaker 1: wear it. You can get me both, bitch, because I'm

1079
00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:11,800
Speaker 1: telling you you ain't never did it, but you're gonna

1080
00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:14,440
Speaker 1: like to wear that she just like I would imagine

1081
00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:17,400
Speaker 1: wearing ant plugs to the grocery store. I'll be getting it,

1082
00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 1: getting my corny she not the corn bitch. Well, I

1083
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:23,080
Speaker 1: would imagine that it would feel good because, like I said,

1084
00:53:23,600 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 1: the antle beads felt good while we were talking to me.

1085
00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 1: I'd be like, the antle beats felt good while we

1086
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:30,880
Speaker 1: were fucking so and then of course everybody likes the

1087
00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:32,920
Speaker 1: thumb and their butt while, so I would imagine that

1088
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:36,319
Speaker 1: the butt plug it feels so good and it just

1089
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 1: be like funny because it's like you be walking around

1090
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 1: with it and people just be holding conversations with you.

1091
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:42,759
Speaker 1: You just be like, I have a butt plug in sir,

1092
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:48,439
Speaker 1: excuse me, ma'am, this is funny. It's fuck it really

1093
00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 1: low and like y'all pussy be with the whole time,

1094
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:55,000
Speaker 1: because it's like, I'm not gonna want to walk around

1095
00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 1: the grocery store wet pussy, but I probably won't. But

1096
00:53:58,800 --> 00:54:02,839
Speaker 1: I also have of my couchie peers so clearly, and

1097
00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:06,279
Speaker 1: I like ship like that when I I didn't like

1098
00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:09,080
Speaker 1: mine because when I braid my pussy peers. Now now

1099
00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:11,480
Speaker 1: that my I think, now that my vagina is used

1100
00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:14,600
Speaker 1: to it and it's immune to it, it doesn't happen

1101
00:54:14,640 --> 00:54:16,279
Speaker 1: to me anymore. But when I first got it, my

1102
00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:18,680
Speaker 1: pussy definitely used to be with all the time. And

1103
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:22,040
Speaker 1: I'm telling you all right, if I'm walking around with

1104
00:54:22,040 --> 00:54:24,239
Speaker 1: a butt plug, I'm definitely getting some dick that night.

1105
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 1: Like I just don't get me wrong. I do like

1106
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 1: to masturbate, but like I'm masturbated last night and I'm like,

1107
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:31,600
Speaker 1: after I got done, I'm like, fuck, I need some

1108
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 1: dick like I need a man. That's why I don't

1109
00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:36,400
Speaker 1: really be master. That's why we had that conversation or

1110
00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:39,319
Speaker 1: that episode where we talked about masturbating. I don't really

1111
00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:42,360
Speaker 1: masturbate like that because it's point I'll be rubbing the

1112
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:47,120
Speaker 1: fuck up be like it's you'd be like, why are

1113
00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:51,480
Speaker 1: you here? Hello? It's me. I'm like, hey, girl, no,

1114
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 1: I can't because it's like I be horny as fucked.

1115
00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:56,759
Speaker 1: Only time I'll really play with my pussy, I'm not

1116
00:54:56,800 --> 00:55:01,200
Speaker 1: gonna lie it be bedtime when Black Panther. Come on, y'all,

1117
00:55:01,239 --> 00:55:04,319
Speaker 1: y'all know I'm about my kuchie. Y'all know what I'll

1118
00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:07,359
Speaker 1: be putting and now I'm never now the next time,

1119
00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 1: I swear to God, the next time you put that

1120
00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:13,640
Speaker 1: shit on the Oh, y'all story, I'm gonna block you.

1121
00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:16,120
Speaker 1: You block with a black panther. Come on, y'all, know

1122
00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:19,080
Speaker 1: what time it is, me and going to party. I

1123
00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:22,319
Speaker 1: feel opended. I did not want to know that. I

1124
00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:26,279
Speaker 1: thought you been thoroughly enjoyed watching black cinema. This was

1125
00:55:26,520 --> 00:55:29,839
Speaker 1: you know what'challa does something to my couchie, bitch. God

1126
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:33,400
Speaker 1: damn you fucking judge. He named our brator to Challa,

1127
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:35,640
Speaker 1: little bitch. Oh, I was fucking ship out of o'challa,

1128
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 1: not Chadwick because he seemed a little corny, but I

1129
00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:40,680
Speaker 1: need him to come at it actually, and said, you

1130
00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:43,719
Speaker 1: like chadweek. I do what I'm saying, but T'Challa is

1131
00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:46,640
Speaker 1: so much better with that accent. He can definitely get

1132
00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:49,239
Speaker 1: these likeness. I don't like this she I love me

1133
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:54,600
Speaker 1: a thick note accent. I like me a thick and Algeria. Indeed,

1134
00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:58,880
Speaker 1: I don't know about that. Okay, So back to what

1135
00:55:58,920 --> 00:56:04,000
Speaker 1: we were saying. So the steps are one, MU clean

1136
00:56:04,040 --> 00:56:06,560
Speaker 1: the booty hole. Two start with the angle beads or

1137
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:10,440
Speaker 1: something small. And then three do the plugs yeah, and

1138
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:15,399
Speaker 1: then number four get the dig but go go slow, bans,

1139
00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:18,560
Speaker 1: don't don't ram it in there. Don't ram there because

1140
00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:27,040
Speaker 1: she can. She are y'all, she can get ugly, she can. Okay,

1141
00:56:27,080 --> 00:56:29,279
Speaker 1: So now I've been waiting for this. Let's go to

1142
00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:37,319
Speaker 1: it up by a wh wh wh a box a remix?

1143
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:41,440
Speaker 1: Oh why ye why why bop? Oh why oh why what?

1144
00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:45,799
Speaker 1: Box holes bot box phties hole by I came down street. Well,

1145
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:48,880
Speaker 1: now box on these hole what I don't hit the

1146
00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:52,160
Speaker 1: wop on these holly box phonies. Holl you are bot

1147
00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:56,960
Speaker 1: on these stop stop phonies holes, knock on these drop phonies,

1148
00:56:57,640 --> 00:57:02,239
Speaker 1: top on these holly Okay, We're done. Okay, So what's

1149
00:57:02,280 --> 00:57:04,160
Speaker 1: your bob for the week. My bob of the week

1150
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:09,000
Speaker 1: is out the mud, Okay for my little baby bitch.

1151
00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:11,440
Speaker 1: First of all, first of all, beat you guys in

1152
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 1: the words of my Nigga baby, and shout out to

1153
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:17,240
Speaker 1: baby because he won his bet his first award this week,

1154
00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:20,360
Speaker 1: beats He Award for Best New Artist. Shout out to

1155
00:57:20,400 --> 00:57:22,480
Speaker 1: a little baby bitch. First of all, you got me

1156
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:26,439
Speaker 1: fucked up. I'll be having the vibs out the mud

1157
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:29,680
Speaker 1: is my box this week. It's my Little Baby in future.

1158
00:57:30,280 --> 00:57:32,080
Speaker 1: If you haven't heard it, bach, you gonna listen to

1159
00:57:32,240 --> 00:57:35,000
Speaker 1: it because you're missing the fuck out. It's a heat.

1160
00:57:35,240 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 1: But whatever little baby on at this point whatever QC

1161
00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:41,200
Speaker 1: knowing that this point is about okay, so shout out

1162
00:57:41,200 --> 00:57:43,000
Speaker 1: to a little baby. He definitely did get that award,

1163
00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:46,280
Speaker 1: so that that's huge. So yeah, shout out to a

1164
00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:50,160
Speaker 1: little baby. So I actually had somebody had hit me

1165
00:57:50,320 --> 00:57:54,040
Speaker 1: up and asked me because I love afrobeats, I love

1166
00:57:54,240 --> 00:57:57,200
Speaker 1: Nazeriaan music. I love all that shit. Because every time

1167
00:57:57,320 --> 00:57:58,880
Speaker 1: I'm like in the mirror I'm cooking, you know, you

1168
00:57:58,960 --> 00:58:01,360
Speaker 1: play the music in the background, I tend to play. Yeah.

1169
00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:03,640
Speaker 1: So somebody was like, man, can you put me on

1170
00:58:03,800 --> 00:58:06,120
Speaker 1: your little music because I know you be bopping and shit.

1171
00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:09,640
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna start giving y'all some little afro beat

1172
00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:12,720
Speaker 1: type music. So my bop of the week I actually

1173
00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:16,080
Speaker 1: have two. My first one is called Flashy by Malik Berry.

1174
00:58:16,520 --> 00:58:18,520
Speaker 1: When I tell you, Malik Berry is one of my

1175
00:58:18,680 --> 00:58:22,640
Speaker 1: favorite artists, Like he is so dope. He makes really

1176
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:27,120
Speaker 1: good music. So if you liked If and Fall by Davido,

1177
00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:29,960
Speaker 1: you will love Malik Berry because he has really, really

1178
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:32,040
Speaker 1: good music. So my first bop of the week is

1179
00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:35,520
Speaker 1: called Flashy by Malik Berry, so shout out to him.

1180
00:58:35,800 --> 00:58:39,960
Speaker 1: He makes a bunch of feel good music. Ooh damn,

1181
00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 1: I actually got three bops of the week. I'm sorry, y'all,

1182
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:44,440
Speaker 1: it's been three. It's been a lot of good songs

1183
00:58:44,480 --> 00:58:48,120
Speaker 1: that's dropping this week. Okay, so this song didn't drop

1184
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:50,720
Speaker 1: this week, but I was ygi y'all know. I just

1185
00:58:50,760 --> 00:58:53,600
Speaker 1: got back from La. They was playing in the Dark

1186
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 1: by YG like crazy. This is a super cali record

1187
00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:00,400
Speaker 1: and that motherfucker just hard. I'm in the dark, in

1188
00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:02,640
Speaker 1: the dark, and the Dark and the Dark, So shout

1189
00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:04,840
Speaker 1: out to YG. He said in the song that he

1190
00:59:05,000 --> 00:59:06,640
Speaker 1: liked dark bitches, but we all know that's a lie.

1191
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:12,640
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be shot up so exactly, but there's

1192
00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:14,919
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with you like skiing Hose, it ain't nothing

1193
00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:18,280
Speaker 1: wrong with and he has his preference, but quitlineg anyways,

1194
00:59:18,360 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 1: but in the Dark as a fucking bob, I love

1195
00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:26,560
Speaker 1: the record. So I'm excited about this because I love

1196
00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:29,320
Speaker 1: this kid and I feel like he's dope, and I

1197
00:59:29,400 --> 00:59:31,360
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of people just be counting people

1198
00:59:31,400 --> 00:59:33,080
Speaker 1: out when they have their first song be such a

1199
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:36,320
Speaker 1: major hit. So y'all know Lil nas X had Old

1200
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:39,200
Speaker 1: Town Road. Of course we all know the fucking record now.

1201
00:59:39,400 --> 00:59:42,440
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. When I first heard this record,

1202
00:59:42,800 --> 00:59:45,280
Speaker 1: it was way back in like December for the first time,

1203
00:59:45,800 --> 00:59:47,880
Speaker 1: and then like nobody was paying attention to it, and

1204
00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:49,520
Speaker 1: I said something to Dre about it. I said, oh,

1205
00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:50,760
Speaker 1: I want to make this in my Bob of the Week,

1206
00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:53,080
Speaker 1: but people gonna think I'm weird. And then I wanted

1207
00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:54,480
Speaker 1: us to make a video to it, and I just

1208
00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:56,360
Speaker 1: never did it because I was just like, damn, people

1209
00:59:56,400 --> 00:59:58,840
Speaker 1: don't think we're like lame. But the song ended up

1210
00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:04,800
Speaker 1: blowing up. So Little Na's X dropped his EP this week,

1211
01:00:05,040 --> 01:00:08,600
Speaker 1: and it's actually fire. I heard I hadn't least fire.

1212
01:00:08,840 --> 01:00:11,800
Speaker 1: So he has two records on there that are bananas,

1213
01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:17,320
Speaker 1: like Panini is Fire, Panini a Panini? Don't you even

1214
01:00:17,360 --> 01:00:19,440
Speaker 1: want a Meani nos a? It's a good song? Is

1215
01:00:19,520 --> 01:00:23,920
Speaker 1: it a like a country song? No, it's not a

1216
01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:27,080
Speaker 1: country song. So he has a record called Panini Panini

1217
01:00:27,200 --> 01:00:29,520
Speaker 1: is fucking Flames. This is actually my favorite song on

1218
01:00:29,560 --> 01:00:31,760
Speaker 1: the EP. And then he has another song with Cardi

1219
01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:36,160
Speaker 1: B called Rodeo and that whole is fucking fire. Like

1220
01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:39,040
Speaker 1: both of the records are really good. Cardi B of

1221
01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:42,360
Speaker 1: course killed or Verse, and I just feel like I'm

1222
01:00:42,440 --> 01:00:46,120
Speaker 1: rooting for Little Nas. He's young, new in the game,

1223
01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:48,680
Speaker 1: and I feel like it's refreshing to see an artist

1224
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:50,880
Speaker 1: just do whatever the fuck they wanna do. He has

1225
01:00:50,920 --> 01:00:53,280
Speaker 1: a rock record on the EP, another country song on

1226
01:00:53,320 --> 01:00:55,919
Speaker 1: the EP. It's just dope. So shout out to Little

1227
01:00:56,000 --> 01:00:57,800
Speaker 1: Nas X. Those are my three bops of the week

1228
01:00:57,880 --> 01:01:03,160
Speaker 1: or four or whatever. Alright, so what you got? What

1229
01:01:03,320 --> 01:01:05,240
Speaker 1: you mean when I got? I just told you no,

1230
01:01:05,240 --> 01:01:09,160
Speaker 1: I'm talking about for the questions to go first? Oh,

1231
01:01:09,240 --> 01:01:11,000
Speaker 1: I mean I can go to I'll go first. I'll

1232
01:01:11,080 --> 01:01:20,720
Speaker 1: go first. So hm, my question for this week. So

1233
01:01:21,360 --> 01:01:23,840
Speaker 1: it's well, this is for anybody that's tuning in for

1234
01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:27,720
Speaker 1: the first time. Okay, this is a Ask Poor Minds segment,

1235
01:01:27,960 --> 01:01:31,120
Speaker 1: So y'all can email us questions, uh, topics, whatever, but

1236
01:01:31,680 --> 01:01:33,720
Speaker 1: this is our segment where you can ask us advice

1237
01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:36,080
Speaker 1: and we answered on the podcast. So you can email

1238
01:01:36,160 --> 01:01:38,760
Speaker 1: us at ask poor Minds at gmail dot com. So

1239
01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:43,240
Speaker 1: go ahead, Okay, So my first question is called do

1240
01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:46,920
Speaker 1: I or do I not deal, and she said, please

1241
01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:49,120
Speaker 1: don't say my good old name, so I won't say

1242
01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:51,520
Speaker 1: you'll know you got you our goods, just gonna call

1243
01:01:51,600 --> 01:01:55,760
Speaker 1: you ta. So she said, hey, boos, I have been

1244
01:01:55,800 --> 01:02:01,640
Speaker 1: in the predicament of all predicaments. That damn she not

1245
01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:04,560
Speaker 1: asking you, bitch, she asking us. Y'all heard her little

1246
01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:06,880
Speaker 1: siy thing in the background, And y'all I got a

1247
01:02:06,920 --> 01:02:10,200
Speaker 1: Google Fiber and they how will be tricky. But anyways,

1248
01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:14,080
Speaker 1: so she said, hey boos, I've been in a predicament

1249
01:02:14,120 --> 01:02:17,160
Speaker 1: of all predicaments. My best friend introduced me to her ex.

1250
01:02:17,960 --> 01:02:20,760
Speaker 1: We'll get into why I put quotations in a cute sinking.

1251
01:02:21,360 --> 01:02:24,200
Speaker 1: About four years ago, him and I got extremely cool

1252
01:02:24,280 --> 01:02:26,640
Speaker 1: and us three with group texts and hang out together

1253
01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:28,920
Speaker 1: when my best friend was in town. She lives two

1254
01:02:29,000 --> 01:02:32,120
Speaker 1: hours away. About two years ago, he began to flirt

1255
01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:34,200
Speaker 1: with me and takes me outside of the group text.

1256
01:02:34,560 --> 01:02:36,680
Speaker 1: I was carving him strong until he asked me why

1257
01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:39,200
Speaker 1: I was treating him that way. I explained to him

1258
01:02:39,320 --> 01:02:41,680
Speaker 1: that she told me he was her ex, and I

1259
01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:45,120
Speaker 1: just can't fuck with it. His response was, when did

1260
01:02:45,200 --> 01:02:48,080
Speaker 1: I date her? Let me call her? Now? This is

1261
01:02:48,160 --> 01:02:51,000
Speaker 1: where it gets missy. He called her own group FaceTime

1262
01:02:51,080 --> 01:02:53,560
Speaker 1: with me, and she strongly claimed that she had no

1263
01:02:53,720 --> 01:02:58,800
Speaker 1: idea where I got that from strongly after. Shortly after

1264
01:02:58,880 --> 01:03:01,360
Speaker 1: this conversation, she decided to go off on both of

1265
01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:05,240
Speaker 1: us via text, claiming that we were fake and saying

1266
01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:08,880
Speaker 1: she isn't stressing for any friends. I dismissed her outburst,

1267
01:03:09,280 --> 01:03:12,560
Speaker 1: while he completely ignored her and cut all ties. About

1268
01:03:12,560 --> 01:03:14,640
Speaker 1: a year ago, he asked me if I wanted to

1269
01:03:14,720 --> 01:03:18,840
Speaker 1: go to the circus with him in parentheses, our daughters

1270
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:21,400
Speaker 1: went his will and we begin into text more. I

1271
01:03:21,520 --> 01:03:24,880
Speaker 1: really like this man, and we're quote unquote dating now,

1272
01:03:25,920 --> 01:03:28,600
Speaker 1: but I'm still trying to decide if this is really

1273
01:03:28,680 --> 01:03:30,880
Speaker 1: what I want to do. Is my best friend just

1274
01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:33,120
Speaker 1: hating because he friends owned her? Should I leave him

1275
01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:36,040
Speaker 1: the fuck alone? Confuse his fud? She I hate her

1276
01:03:36,640 --> 01:03:39,760
Speaker 1: Shita hat and you hate to see a bitch now

1277
01:03:39,960 --> 01:03:41,520
Speaker 1: see now, let me let me let me, let me

1278
01:03:41,720 --> 01:03:43,520
Speaker 1: let me tell you how this can get real messy.

1279
01:03:44,120 --> 01:03:46,760
Speaker 1: Though you hate now, I will say this, you did

1280
01:03:46,960 --> 01:03:50,000
Speaker 1: everything you were supposed to do. You did absolutely nothing

1281
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:54,040
Speaker 1: wrong except be a bad bitch, sweetie, So you have nothing. Seriously,

1282
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:57,040
Speaker 1: because honestly, as soon as he says something to you,

1283
01:03:57,640 --> 01:03:59,880
Speaker 1: you called her, You let her know what the deal was.

1284
01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:02,720
Speaker 1: She played herself by trying to make it seem like

1285
01:04:03,320 --> 01:04:05,120
Speaker 1: they were more than what they were. What the fuck

1286
01:04:05,160 --> 01:04:07,840
Speaker 1: I looked like telling Drea on me and this nigga

1287
01:04:07,920 --> 01:04:09,720
Speaker 1: kicking it, And then he tried to holler at Drea.

1288
01:04:09,840 --> 01:04:11,600
Speaker 1: She'd be like, oh, well, he try to fuck with me.

1289
01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:14,760
Speaker 1: I that's her fault. She should have never lied to you.

1290
01:04:15,400 --> 01:04:16,919
Speaker 1: So at the end of the day, if you really

1291
01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:19,640
Speaker 1: like him and he like, look, stop letting people block

1292
01:04:19,720 --> 01:04:22,800
Speaker 1: your blessings. Now this is still your friend, So y'all

1293
01:04:22,800 --> 01:04:25,480
Speaker 1: should sit down and have a conversation about it. But

1294
01:04:25,640 --> 01:04:27,480
Speaker 1: just let her know we don't have to talk about him.

1295
01:04:27,640 --> 01:04:29,480
Speaker 1: He doesn't have to be around us, you know what

1296
01:04:29,520 --> 01:04:30,840
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But I'm just letting you know this is

1297
01:04:30,880 --> 01:04:33,200
Speaker 1: who I'm dating and that needs to be what it is.

1298
01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:35,360
Speaker 1: I hundred percent agree with you because I feel like,

1299
01:04:35,360 --> 01:04:36,680
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you don't have no

1300
01:04:36,800 --> 01:04:39,040
Speaker 1: control over who a nigga like like, if a nigga

1301
01:04:39,240 --> 01:04:45,000
Speaker 1: like if a nigga like a bee. Sorry, y'all, y'all

1302
01:04:45,080 --> 01:04:50,720
Speaker 1: know we be arguing, y'all. If a nigga like a beach.

1303
01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:52,880
Speaker 1: He don't like a beach. If he don't like her,

1304
01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:55,280
Speaker 1: he don't like her, that's not your problem. And if

1305
01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:57,680
Speaker 1: they never had nothing going on, like they never fucked,

1306
01:04:57,680 --> 01:05:00,320
Speaker 1: they never went on a date, nothing, You're not wrong

1307
01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:03,040
Speaker 1: for dating somebody because your friend like him, or be

1308
01:05:03,160 --> 01:05:07,320
Speaker 1: she liking somebody. Okay, she liked them and honestly wants

1309
01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:09,760
Speaker 1: something reasons. But if you and the person really have

1310
01:05:10,040 --> 01:05:13,720
Speaker 1: like a connection in a bond, your friend, if she's

1311
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:16,440
Speaker 1: a good friend, she would step outside of her ego

1312
01:05:16,800 --> 01:05:20,640
Speaker 1: and outside and outside of herself and her pride and

1313
01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:22,640
Speaker 1: just be like, Okay, damn, they really got a bun.

1314
01:05:22,720 --> 01:05:25,320
Speaker 1: They really fuck with each other. Yah diy like that nigga,

1315
01:05:25,320 --> 01:05:27,600
Speaker 1: But he didn't want me, and it's like he And

1316
01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:30,080
Speaker 1: even if he's not with your best friend, I mean,

1317
01:05:30,160 --> 01:05:32,200
Speaker 1: even if he's not with you, he's still not gonna

1318
01:05:32,240 --> 01:05:34,840
Speaker 1: be with her. So you're not doing anything wrong. What's

1319
01:05:34,920 --> 01:05:38,120
Speaker 1: that saying? Even if it wasn't me, it still wouldn't

1320
01:05:38,120 --> 01:05:41,200
Speaker 1: be you. And I'll say this now, I feel like

1321
01:05:41,320 --> 01:05:44,040
Speaker 1: every set of friends, we all have that one nigga

1322
01:05:44,120 --> 01:05:46,520
Speaker 1: or those two or three niggas that are off limits. Yeah,

1323
01:05:46,520 --> 01:05:48,680
Speaker 1: but niggas is on my off limits if I fuck

1324
01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:50,720
Speaker 1: right right, and I agree, But what I'm saying is,

1325
01:05:50,760 --> 01:05:54,400
Speaker 1: and honestly, if you did fuck with that nigga, if

1326
01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:56,880
Speaker 1: he's not on the off limits list after five, four

1327
01:05:57,000 --> 01:06:01,040
Speaker 1: or five years, bitch, just free. Y'all know how we

1328
01:06:01,160 --> 01:06:04,200
Speaker 1: feel about it. Draft fucking with a nigga four or

1329
01:06:04,240 --> 01:06:06,360
Speaker 1: five years ago and he's not on that list, I

1330
01:06:06,360 --> 01:06:08,320
Speaker 1: would say, oh, bitch, why oh, what's the name trying

1331
01:06:08,360 --> 01:06:10,400
Speaker 1: to holler at me? And if I fuck with a

1332
01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:13,000
Speaker 1: big dress, not gonna block me from fucking somebody that

1333
01:06:13,120 --> 01:06:15,000
Speaker 1: she used to fuck with five years ago. Now, I

1334
01:06:15,120 --> 01:06:17,800
Speaker 1: make certain niggas right now who we be talking about it,

1335
01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:19,480
Speaker 1: lasting about it, and I'd be like me, shall wouldn't

1336
01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:21,880
Speaker 1: give a fuck if you fuck exactly like you know,

1337
01:06:22,960 --> 01:06:25,520
Speaker 1: but it's certain niggas then no, no matter if he'd

1338
01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:27,840
Speaker 1: been thirty years bitch, we could be damn near one

1339
01:06:27,880 --> 01:06:30,880
Speaker 1: foot in the grave, bitch. So she bet not fucked it. Yes,

1340
01:06:31,080 --> 01:06:33,960
Speaker 1: we have our list of like, but I feel like

1341
01:06:33,960 --> 01:06:36,160
Speaker 1: everybody on each other's list, like I would never fuck

1342
01:06:36,200 --> 01:06:38,720
Speaker 1: nobody on your list, and you would never fuck nobody

1343
01:06:38,760 --> 01:06:42,560
Speaker 1: on But I feel like everybody has their list of like, okay, girl,

1344
01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:44,400
Speaker 1: this is a no go. But like I said, she

1345
01:06:44,560 --> 01:06:47,080
Speaker 1: never fuck with him, and for him to call her

1346
01:06:47,560 --> 01:06:49,840
Speaker 1: on three way, bitch, you should be embarrassed. You should

1347
01:06:50,080 --> 01:06:52,640
Speaker 1: be shoving she should be shoving that nigga in your

1348
01:06:52,680 --> 01:06:55,520
Speaker 1: direction at this point because he called you on three

1349
01:06:55,560 --> 01:06:58,160
Speaker 1: way and was like, baby, that pussy ain't mine. I'm

1350
01:06:58,200 --> 01:06:59,640
Speaker 1: on this pussy. So at the end of the day,

1351
01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:03,080
Speaker 1: you're not in the wrong, sister, get your man, enjoy it.

1352
01:07:03,200 --> 01:07:05,080
Speaker 1: But I feel like you should have a conversation with

1353
01:07:05,200 --> 01:07:10,040
Speaker 1: your friend. And you should have a conversation with your friend.

1354
01:07:10,440 --> 01:07:12,800
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, do what makes

1355
01:07:12,840 --> 01:07:14,880
Speaker 1: you happy. You only give one life, You only get

1356
01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 1: one life. Live it for yourself. You can't live your

1357
01:07:17,280 --> 01:07:19,120
Speaker 1: life for other people. So do what makes you happy.

1358
01:07:19,280 --> 01:07:24,120
Speaker 1: I agree with it. I do it. So man, I'm

1359
01:07:24,120 --> 01:07:25,480
Speaker 1: gonna let you read the next one cause I want

1360
01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:26,680
Speaker 1: to read the last one. You want me to read

1361
01:07:26,720 --> 01:07:28,360
Speaker 1: the next one, So yeah, I'm sorry, y'all were gonna

1362
01:07:28,360 --> 01:07:31,040
Speaker 1: do three questions today because this last one is crazy

1363
01:07:31,320 --> 01:07:34,720
Speaker 1: to me. So okay, So this next one is from

1364
01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:37,680
Speaker 1: King Rebellion. He didn't say, don't say his name, so

1365
01:07:38,320 --> 01:07:42,800
Speaker 1: he said girl or her name. Okay, so she's he

1366
01:07:43,000 --> 01:07:45,120
Speaker 1: or she said? Should I play my role or should

1367
01:07:45,120 --> 01:07:48,240
Speaker 1: I just let it go? I've been dealing with a

1368
01:07:48,320 --> 01:07:50,480
Speaker 1: younger man for the last year and some change. We

1369
01:07:50,600 --> 01:07:53,240
Speaker 1: started out as fuck buddies and moved to being in

1370
01:07:53,280 --> 01:07:56,720
Speaker 1: a relationship, and once we moved in together, it went downhill.

1371
01:07:57,240 --> 01:08:00,919
Speaker 1: The relationship became very toxic and violent. Eventually we broke

1372
01:08:01,040 --> 01:08:04,440
Speaker 1: up but remained in contact and it's still a toxic situation.

1373
01:08:04,960 --> 01:08:07,280
Speaker 1: But I love him and doing all that I can

1374
01:08:07,400 --> 01:08:09,800
Speaker 1: to hold on to him. Now we're at a point

1375
01:08:09,800 --> 01:08:13,560
Speaker 1: where he's dating someone new along with other girls, and

1376
01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:16,040
Speaker 1: I can't lie. It hurts that we can't get it

1377
01:08:16,120 --> 01:08:19,120
Speaker 1: together and just be a couple. He recently just agreed

1378
01:08:19,160 --> 01:08:22,040
Speaker 1: to have a baby with me, but also through hints

1379
01:08:22,960 --> 01:08:25,320
Speaker 1: that he's not going to stop messing with other girls.

1380
01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:27,599
Speaker 1: And I'm kind of at the point where I'm thinking

1381
01:08:27,840 --> 01:08:30,000
Speaker 1: I should just play my role and take what part

1382
01:08:30,040 --> 01:08:33,960
Speaker 1: of him that I can. So my question is I

1383
01:08:34,000 --> 01:08:36,800
Speaker 1: should leave? Should I leave him or should I stick

1384
01:08:36,840 --> 01:08:38,559
Speaker 1: it out and have his baby and see what happens

1385
01:08:38,600 --> 01:08:41,439
Speaker 1: and eggs. Mind you, there's an age difference, and I'm

1386
01:08:41,479 --> 01:08:43,800
Speaker 1: thinking I should just let him have his fun for

1387
01:08:43,920 --> 01:08:45,960
Speaker 1: now until he gets it out of his system. The

1388
01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:49,040
Speaker 1: most beautiful makeup of a woman is passion, because medics

1389
01:08:49,080 --> 01:08:52,800
Speaker 1: are easier about it. Oh sorry, okay, So why did

1390
01:08:52,840 --> 01:08:56,639
Speaker 1: you say? Oh my god, Because sister, you just said

1391
01:08:56,720 --> 01:08:59,960
Speaker 1: you were in a violent and toxic relationship with this person,

1392
01:09:00,240 --> 01:09:02,840
Speaker 1: why you want to would you bring a baby into this? Now?

1393
01:09:02,920 --> 01:09:05,360
Speaker 1: I'm not judging you, but I'm just telling you because

1394
01:09:05,360 --> 01:09:08,160
Speaker 1: I've been in toxic Really, I've been in abusive relationships

1395
01:09:08,320 --> 01:09:12,080
Speaker 1: and that's nothing. It's not gonna make it better. So

1396
01:09:12,280 --> 01:09:15,160
Speaker 1: having a baby that should be the last. You just

1397
01:09:15,240 --> 01:09:17,240
Speaker 1: need to let this situation go because once you said

1398
01:09:17,280 --> 01:09:20,479
Speaker 1: that the situation got violent. You shouldn't even be wanting

1399
01:09:20,479 --> 01:09:22,760
Speaker 1: to be in contact with this person, whether it was

1400
01:09:22,840 --> 01:09:25,680
Speaker 1: you hit him or he hit you. Violent. You don't

1401
01:09:25,680 --> 01:09:27,559
Speaker 1: want to be with somebody that brings out a side

1402
01:09:27,600 --> 01:09:29,519
Speaker 1: of you that you don't like, or a side of

1403
01:09:29,600 --> 01:09:33,200
Speaker 1: that person that they don't like. I can agree because

1404
01:09:33,479 --> 01:09:36,120
Speaker 1: I've been in crazy situations with dudes. I've been in

1405
01:09:36,280 --> 01:09:40,439
Speaker 1: like toxic situations, but I can honestly say I've been

1406
01:09:40,560 --> 01:09:42,720
Speaker 1: fortunate than us to never be in a situation where

1407
01:09:42,760 --> 01:09:44,920
Speaker 1: a guy has put his hands on me. But I

1408
01:09:44,960 --> 01:09:47,320
Speaker 1: feel like if a nigga ever put his hands on me,

1409
01:09:48,280 --> 01:09:49,920
Speaker 1: I'm damn sure. I'm not about to think about having

1410
01:09:50,000 --> 01:09:52,639
Speaker 1: your baby. Well, I mean, I'll say this. You can't

1411
01:09:52,760 --> 01:09:55,200
Speaker 1: judge people. No, no, no, no, no, not not judge.

1412
01:09:55,240 --> 01:09:58,240
Speaker 1: No no. Well, I'm saying I'm just speaking from my

1413
01:09:58,760 --> 01:10:01,840
Speaker 1: perspective and my and I just feel like, if somebody

1414
01:10:01,920 --> 01:10:06,120
Speaker 1: put their hands on you already, why would you not

1415
01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:08,240
Speaker 1: think that if you bring a child into this world

1416
01:10:08,280 --> 01:10:10,280
Speaker 1: with him, if you need their child along with them,

1417
01:10:10,600 --> 01:10:12,479
Speaker 1: why would you not think they wouldn't put their hands

1418
01:10:12,520 --> 01:10:15,719
Speaker 1: on your child. And I'll say this, it sounds so cliche,

1419
01:10:15,880 --> 01:10:18,080
Speaker 1: but love does make you do crazy things. But I'll

1420
01:10:18,080 --> 01:10:21,840
Speaker 1: stay there. I know. I'll tell you this, sister. Do

1421
01:10:22,160 --> 01:10:25,920
Speaker 1: not ever in your Motherfuck. Yeah, I'm cursing at you

1422
01:10:26,120 --> 01:10:28,040
Speaker 1: because if you are poor, if you a poor girl,

1423
01:10:28,160 --> 01:10:30,479
Speaker 1: you a bad bitch. So you know better than that.

1424
01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:35,280
Speaker 1: Do not ever settle for part of somebody. Okay, the

1425
01:10:35,400 --> 01:10:38,680
Speaker 1: fact that you even said, should I just take what

1426
01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:41,760
Speaker 1: part of him? That I can know? You never take

1427
01:10:41,800 --> 01:10:44,400
Speaker 1: a piece of somebody. You get one hundred percent of

1428
01:10:44,479 --> 01:10:47,599
Speaker 1: somebody or nothing, because that's what you deserve as a woman.

1429
01:10:48,080 --> 01:10:50,680
Speaker 1: You don't deserve no less than one hundred percent. So

1430
01:10:50,800 --> 01:10:53,320
Speaker 1: if you can't get one hundred percent of a person,

1431
01:10:53,560 --> 01:10:56,880
Speaker 1: don't take nothing at all. Right, And then the fact

1432
01:10:56,920 --> 01:11:00,160
Speaker 1: that y'all have a toxic and violet relationship, that that's

1433
01:11:00,280 --> 01:11:03,800
Speaker 1: no situation to bring a child into. Yeah, So I

1434
01:11:04,000 --> 01:11:06,200
Speaker 1: just feel like this is a situation that you need

1435
01:11:06,280 --> 01:11:09,360
Speaker 1: to completely let go and it's not healthy. And the

1436
01:11:09,479 --> 01:11:11,840
Speaker 1: fact of the matter is you're not gonna get one

1437
01:11:11,920 --> 01:11:13,760
Speaker 1: hundred percent of him. This baby is not gonna bring

1438
01:11:13,840 --> 01:11:16,519
Speaker 1: y'all together. From the beginning of time, we have seen

1439
01:11:16,640 --> 01:11:20,479
Speaker 1: women and men try to have babies with people to

1440
01:11:20,640 --> 01:11:23,640
Speaker 1: keep them and it doesn't work. A man is a

1441
01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:26,200
Speaker 1: baby is not gonna save a relation, and a man

1442
01:11:26,360 --> 01:11:28,240
Speaker 1: is gonna do what a man is gonna It's only

1443
01:11:28,320 --> 01:11:32,679
Speaker 1: gonna make it more complicated, exactly, Honny. So for my advice,

1444
01:11:33,320 --> 01:11:36,080
Speaker 1: please let this ship go. Do not play your role,

1445
01:11:36,120 --> 01:11:38,040
Speaker 1: because that's not a role that you want to play. Sister,

1446
01:11:38,439 --> 01:11:41,400
Speaker 1: it's y'all, ain't I agree? See, you can do better.

1447
01:11:42,040 --> 01:11:45,320
Speaker 1: And bet you a poor girl, you know what I'm saying.

1448
01:11:45,600 --> 01:11:47,920
Speaker 1: The poor girls and the poor boys. Y'all know better.

1449
01:11:48,040 --> 01:11:49,880
Speaker 1: Y'all know better because we some bad bitches and we

1450
01:11:50,000 --> 01:11:53,360
Speaker 1: some fly niggas, y'all know that. I just feel like

1451
01:11:53,520 --> 01:11:59,160
Speaker 1: I'm fly niggas. Yeah, I'm praying for you, sister. I'm

1452
01:11:59,200 --> 01:12:01,040
Speaker 1: praying for you, sister, and I really hope that you

1453
01:12:01,120 --> 01:12:03,400
Speaker 1: get through this situation. But like I said, so, yeah,

1454
01:12:03,400 --> 01:12:05,000
Speaker 1: I'm sorry since I was trying to make light of

1455
01:12:05,080 --> 01:12:09,120
Speaker 1: the oudation because I don't like talking about like deep sheit.

1456
01:12:09,720 --> 01:12:12,479
Speaker 1: I just feel like it's a situation that you should Definitely,

1457
01:12:12,760 --> 01:12:15,800
Speaker 1: it's gonna take time, it's gonna be hard, But don't

1458
01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:20,439
Speaker 1: ever accept part of anybody period. Like when you type

1459
01:12:20,479 --> 01:12:24,680
Speaker 1: that out, I hope you felt something when you type that, like,

1460
01:12:24,960 --> 01:12:27,240
Speaker 1: cause sometimes you have to say things to yourself like

1461
01:12:27,320 --> 01:12:28,880
Speaker 1: that don't even sound right for me to be like,

1462
01:12:29,240 --> 01:12:30,960
Speaker 1: should I take part of the part of him that

1463
01:12:31,040 --> 01:12:33,639
Speaker 1: I can? No, you know, you should never take part

1464
01:12:33,720 --> 01:12:36,280
Speaker 1: of nobody. I mean, now, if that's what you not

1465
01:12:36,439 --> 01:12:38,800
Speaker 1: if you get to a point in your life where

1466
01:12:38,840 --> 01:12:40,800
Speaker 1: it's like it's certain sheep that you just want and

1467
01:12:40,880 --> 01:12:43,200
Speaker 1: that's what you want, and you're able to cut emotional

1468
01:12:43,360 --> 01:12:46,200
Speaker 1: ties from a situation that's not this though, that's but

1469
01:12:46,320 --> 01:12:50,240
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. That's different. Yeah, but it sounds

1470
01:12:50,280 --> 01:12:53,200
Speaker 1: like you're very much emotionally involved with this situation, and

1471
01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:55,799
Speaker 1: then you're thinking that bringing a baby into the situation

1472
01:12:55,960 --> 01:12:58,360
Speaker 1: is going to save the relationship, and it's not. If

1473
01:12:58,400 --> 01:13:00,880
Speaker 1: this person is already being toxic and violunce towards you,

1474
01:13:01,479 --> 01:13:05,800
Speaker 1: Like I said previously, who's to say that he won't

1475
01:13:05,840 --> 01:13:09,200
Speaker 1: be toxic and violence towards your kid when you're not around.

1476
01:13:09,960 --> 01:13:12,160
Speaker 1: And if we see shit in the media every day

1477
01:13:12,240 --> 01:13:15,280
Speaker 1: where women leaving, women get killed, and women be leaving

1478
01:13:15,360 --> 01:13:18,800
Speaker 1: eight kids around men who are unfit fathers and they

1479
01:13:18,880 --> 01:13:21,679
Speaker 1: be killing kids. So it's like, how would you feel

1480
01:13:21,680 --> 01:13:23,920
Speaker 1: if you brought a child into this world and you

1481
01:13:24,120 --> 01:13:27,519
Speaker 1: leave him around, leave him or hurt around this man

1482
01:13:27,680 --> 01:13:30,360
Speaker 1: because they're their father. But this man is a toxic

1483
01:13:30,439 --> 01:13:32,200
Speaker 1: and violent person and then he do some shit to

1484
01:13:32,240 --> 01:13:33,800
Speaker 1: your child, and you ain't gonna never be able to

1485
01:13:34,200 --> 01:13:38,880
Speaker 1: forgive yourself. We just got to make smarter decisions. I

1486
01:13:38,920 --> 01:13:40,280
Speaker 1: feel like you know what you need to do with

1487
01:13:40,360 --> 01:13:43,080
Speaker 1: that situation. Like if you needed me in lex validation,

1488
01:13:43,600 --> 01:13:46,080
Speaker 1: well now you got it. But I feel like you

1489
01:13:46,200 --> 01:13:49,120
Speaker 1: always knew, you know now for sure what you need

1490
01:13:49,240 --> 01:13:51,800
Speaker 1: to do with this situation. Let's let it go. Well,

1491
01:13:51,840 --> 01:13:56,519
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna read this person's name. This is actually

1492
01:13:56,560 --> 01:13:58,680
Speaker 1: a really long letter and the reason we're doing three

1493
01:13:58,760 --> 01:14:00,800
Speaker 1: today because when I first read it, I was like,

1494
01:14:01,200 --> 01:14:04,080
Speaker 1: I have to read this on the show. This is

1495
01:14:04,160 --> 01:14:08,400
Speaker 1: probably probably for me, the craziest letter that we've got

1496
01:14:08,479 --> 01:14:12,200
Speaker 1: to date, just because it's for just for personal reasons. Okay, So,

1497
01:14:12,680 --> 01:14:14,120
Speaker 1: like I said, this is a long one, so just

1498
01:14:14,200 --> 01:14:15,800
Speaker 1: bear with me, y'all. And he kind of smart, he

1499
01:14:15,880 --> 01:14:17,640
Speaker 1: used big words, and y'all know I can't read, and

1500
01:14:17,840 --> 01:14:21,479
Speaker 1: she's drunk, so it says first. Let me say I

1501
01:14:21,680 --> 01:14:26,320
Speaker 1: was extremely hesitant and with extreme reservations writing this because

1502
01:14:26,360 --> 01:14:29,639
Speaker 1: of who you know and six degrees of separations all

1503
01:14:29,760 --> 01:14:34,640
Speaker 1: people have also just the fear of being exposed. Consequently,

1504
01:14:34,840 --> 01:14:37,400
Speaker 1: I felt compelled because I'm a fan of the podcast

1505
01:14:37,520 --> 01:14:40,600
Speaker 1: from way back when it was Wine Down Wednesdays. This

1506
01:14:40,800 --> 01:14:44,120
Speaker 1: past weekend, lex P, you were out clubbing with a

1507
01:14:44,200 --> 01:14:46,559
Speaker 1: woman that I truly believe in my heart I will

1508
01:14:46,640 --> 01:14:49,640
Speaker 1: always love. I remember you said in one of your

1509
01:14:49,720 --> 01:14:53,320
Speaker 1: episodes that a guy friend of yours got mad as

1510
01:14:53,360 --> 01:14:56,799
Speaker 1: you were expressing your honesty about going on dates with lames.

1511
01:14:57,200 --> 01:14:59,880
Speaker 1: But it always, but it always seemed to come back

1512
01:15:00,080 --> 01:15:03,160
Speaker 1: to you and him that he's your soulmate. I do

1513
01:15:03,320 --> 01:15:06,040
Speaker 1: agree with you on many levels on that there are

1514
01:15:06,160 --> 01:15:08,840
Speaker 1: people in your life that you will always love, you

1515
01:15:08,880 --> 01:15:11,400
Speaker 1: will always chase, and in spite of the people they

1516
01:15:11,439 --> 01:15:14,760
Speaker 1: may be talking to, dealing with, or even married to,

1517
01:15:15,400 --> 01:15:18,160
Speaker 1: you will always have a place for that person. I

1518
01:15:18,360 --> 01:15:21,479
Speaker 1: found that soulmate. That girl still haunts my dream to

1519
01:15:21,600 --> 01:15:26,080
Speaker 1: this day. Should I say her name? Sure? At Nita Jones.

1520
01:15:26,240 --> 01:15:28,360
Speaker 1: Now wait, let me pause. In the middle letter Nita,

1521
01:15:28,640 --> 01:15:30,960
Speaker 1: I was with Nita in La this weekend. Nita is

1522
01:15:31,040 --> 01:15:33,120
Speaker 1: my friend. We've been friends for about ten years now,

1523
01:15:33,479 --> 01:15:35,040
Speaker 1: so that's why this is so crazy to me. This

1524
01:15:35,160 --> 01:15:39,360
Speaker 1: is my friend from when I was eighteen nineteen years old. Okay,

1525
01:15:39,560 --> 01:15:42,320
Speaker 1: back to the letter. This is a woman I have

1526
01:15:42,479 --> 01:15:47,040
Speaker 1: known since I was sixteen. She is perfection, my inspired space,

1527
01:15:47,520 --> 01:15:50,640
Speaker 1: the air. What is so weird about this relationship is

1528
01:15:50,680 --> 01:15:54,080
Speaker 1: that our connection has always been something that I cannot define.

1529
01:15:54,840 --> 01:16:00,240
Speaker 1: Years of missed opportunities and cross paths, we never got

1530
01:16:00,280 --> 01:16:04,000
Speaker 1: the chance to be official. Consequently, every woman I have

1531
01:16:04,160 --> 01:16:08,120
Speaker 1: chosen after her has been a comparison to her. As

1532
01:16:08,200 --> 01:16:11,760
Speaker 1: our lives branched in different directions, we always seem to

1533
01:16:11,880 --> 01:16:15,200
Speaker 1: cross paths down the line. She has been the inspiration

1534
01:16:15,360 --> 01:16:19,160
Speaker 1: behind many of pieces of art I now create. The

1535
01:16:19,240 --> 01:16:24,160
Speaker 1: feelings I have for her have only grown compounded and rose,

1536
01:16:24,840 --> 01:16:31,120
Speaker 1: then compartmentalized, compacted, confined to a portion of my soul. Yes,

1537
01:16:32,160 --> 01:16:35,799
Speaker 1: I keep her close. Her well being is a constant

1538
01:16:35,880 --> 01:16:40,360
Speaker 1: part of my thought process. Consequently, we speak once every

1539
01:16:40,479 --> 01:16:44,000
Speaker 1: few years. Every word I speak. Now she knows this

1540
01:16:44,160 --> 01:16:46,479
Speaker 1: is me, and she will always have a piece of

1541
01:16:46,600 --> 01:16:49,840
Speaker 1: my heart. So I wonder if having a connection with

1542
01:16:50,000 --> 01:16:53,240
Speaker 1: someone that never seems to dissipate the same as them

1543
01:16:53,320 --> 01:16:56,719
Speaker 1: being your soulmate. As I have said before, our lives

1544
01:16:56,760 --> 01:16:59,720
Speaker 1: have grown in different directions. Now this word gets juicy, y'all.

1545
01:17:01,200 --> 01:17:04,000
Speaker 1: At this point, I have been married for almost ten years.

1546
01:17:04,120 --> 01:17:07,360
Speaker 1: M I love my wife, three daughters. I also do

1547
01:17:07,479 --> 01:17:10,360
Speaker 1: agree with your weekly saying on poor minds. Yes, all men,

1548
01:17:10,520 --> 01:17:14,840
Speaker 1: she even me keep a real brother I have I

1549
01:17:14,960 --> 01:17:17,639
Speaker 1: have before, Yes, But I always have been a believer

1550
01:17:18,000 --> 01:17:21,080
Speaker 1: on one thing. A man who can't control his dick

1551
01:17:21,640 --> 01:17:26,040
Speaker 1: is a master of nothing in his life. Whoo, that's

1552
01:17:26,080 --> 01:17:31,280
Speaker 1: some deep shit I feel. I feel no arrogance and

1553
01:17:31,400 --> 01:17:33,479
Speaker 1: saying I have been with my fair share of women

1554
01:17:33,640 --> 01:17:37,519
Speaker 1: from hood chicks to creeping with NFL player wives. Yes,

1555
01:17:37,680 --> 01:17:40,840
Speaker 1: I know, scandalous shit, all the bullshit you do when

1556
01:17:40,840 --> 01:17:44,439
Speaker 1: you're young. Moreover, not every woman is worth giving dick to,

1557
01:17:44,640 --> 01:17:48,320
Speaker 1: no matter how fine they are going down a short

1558
01:17:48,400 --> 01:17:51,400
Speaker 1: life of whole years one night stands, fine chicks all had,

1559
01:17:51,600 --> 01:17:54,080
Speaker 1: all of it has come down to comparison to one woman.

1560
01:17:54,560 --> 01:17:56,920
Speaker 1: There has only been one woman even equal or close

1561
01:17:57,000 --> 01:18:00,080
Speaker 1: to her, and I married her, so he's saying, and

1562
01:18:00,840 --> 01:18:03,120
Speaker 1: the woman that was the closest to hoo he hm, bro,

1563
01:18:03,280 --> 01:18:05,639
Speaker 1: this is making me sad. It ain't making me sad.

1564
01:18:05,640 --> 01:18:10,600
Speaker 1: I just wish I wait, wait, wait, finally, if I

1565
01:18:10,640 --> 01:18:13,360
Speaker 1: can say if anyone was my soulmate, anyone that can

1566
01:18:13,479 --> 01:18:17,600
Speaker 1: satisfy the safetyo sexual person, I am it's herd I

1567
01:18:17,800 --> 01:18:21,160
Speaker 1: love him. So my question to poor minds is it

1568
01:18:21,320 --> 01:18:23,719
Speaker 1: possible to be in love with one woman but also

1569
01:18:23,800 --> 01:18:26,280
Speaker 1: have a part of your heart still resting another. Or

1570
01:18:26,360 --> 01:18:28,880
Speaker 1: I'm just a dog ass nigga who needs to shut

1571
01:18:28,920 --> 01:18:32,519
Speaker 1: the fuck up and quit holding on for nothing. Thanks. PS.

1572
01:18:32,800 --> 01:18:35,040
Speaker 1: I love y'all, show, I love y'all. Y'all are so

1573
01:18:35,240 --> 01:18:39,080
Speaker 1: fucking dope. Keep putting out good content. Also, one more thing,

1574
01:18:39,240 --> 01:18:42,880
Speaker 1: lex the reason I referenced six degrees of separation. You

1575
01:18:43,000 --> 01:18:45,880
Speaker 1: mentioned the name of Billy Currell's on your timeline, shout

1576
01:18:45,880 --> 01:18:48,880
Speaker 1: out to Billy. Oh shit, I don't know if I

1577
01:18:48,960 --> 01:18:53,360
Speaker 1: want to read this. I can't read this part. I'm

1578
01:18:53,360 --> 01:18:55,439
Speaker 1: gonna read it because it's messy. I'm not about to

1579
01:18:55,439 --> 01:18:56,960
Speaker 1: say that because I fuck with Billy, So we're not

1580
01:18:56,960 --> 01:19:00,560
Speaker 1: gonna read that part. So basically, it's the question is

1581
01:19:00,680 --> 01:19:03,840
Speaker 1: can you love somebody and or does he just a

1582
01:19:03,920 --> 01:19:07,400
Speaker 1: dog ass niggas? So what do you think? I feel

1583
01:19:07,439 --> 01:19:13,240
Speaker 1: like it's absolutely one hundred percent possible to be in

1584
01:19:13,400 --> 01:19:15,960
Speaker 1: love with more than one person at one time. It's

1585
01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:21,120
Speaker 1: a hundred percent okay to love a person who did

1586
01:19:21,200 --> 01:19:23,200
Speaker 1: you wrong and you still have feelings for them. It's

1587
01:19:23,200 --> 01:19:26,640
Speaker 1: a hundred percent okay to supposedly have moved on to

1588
01:19:26,760 --> 01:19:28,800
Speaker 1: a new relationship and you still love a person that

1589
01:19:28,880 --> 01:19:32,360
Speaker 1: you were in a previous relationship with. Like, to me,

1590
01:19:32,479 --> 01:19:35,800
Speaker 1: that's life. Sometimes you can't control your emotions. Sometimes I

1591
01:19:35,880 --> 01:19:39,400
Speaker 1: feel like as humans, we do what we feel like

1592
01:19:39,479 --> 01:19:41,599
Speaker 1: we need to do for our healing, for like our

1593
01:19:41,680 --> 01:19:45,479
Speaker 1: personal healing. So sometimes you be feeling like, oh, this

1594
01:19:45,640 --> 01:19:47,720
Speaker 1: person dogs me out or these person did me wrong.

1595
01:19:47,880 --> 01:19:50,760
Speaker 1: So it's in my best interest or what I'm expected

1596
01:19:50,840 --> 01:19:53,160
Speaker 1: to do is to move on from me situation, Like

1597
01:19:53,200 --> 01:19:54,880
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to move on. I'm supposed to give me

1598
01:19:54,920 --> 01:19:56,799
Speaker 1: a new person. I'm hopposed to date a new person.

1599
01:19:57,520 --> 01:20:00,400
Speaker 1: But and not saying that n that me that ever

1600
01:20:00,479 --> 01:20:02,559
Speaker 1: dogged you out or whatever the situation is, but I'm

1601
01:20:02,600 --> 01:20:05,360
Speaker 1: just saying sometimes I feel like in life it's expected

1602
01:20:05,400 --> 01:20:08,160
Speaker 1: of us to We're supposed to move on, like we're

1603
01:20:08,160 --> 01:20:11,200
Speaker 1: supposed to make other people, but people don't be understanding.

1604
01:20:11,560 --> 01:20:17,040
Speaker 1: Soultizes are real very where you have when you have

1605
01:20:17,280 --> 01:20:21,600
Speaker 1: soulties with people, that is some real shit and it's inescapable.

1606
01:20:22,280 --> 01:20:24,280
Speaker 1: I've had sulties with people. I kind of got a

1607
01:20:24,360 --> 01:20:26,439
Speaker 1: sultie with somebody right now and it's I be wanting

1608
01:20:26,439 --> 01:20:28,640
Speaker 1: to get the fuck rid of their nigga because he

1609
01:20:28,680 --> 01:20:30,559
Speaker 1: done need some whole ass shit to me. But it's

1610
01:20:30,640 --> 01:20:34,120
Speaker 1: like sometimes when you just be having those type of connections,

1611
01:20:34,560 --> 01:20:36,840
Speaker 1: connections and bonds of people, and it's like people in

1612
01:20:36,960 --> 01:20:39,479
Speaker 1: my life who don't understand it, licks don't be understanding me.

1613
01:20:40,040 --> 01:20:42,800
Speaker 1: But I also don't understand soultize that she got with

1614
01:20:42,920 --> 01:20:46,640
Speaker 1: people in her life. So it's like I sometimes just

1615
01:20:46,800 --> 01:20:50,320
Speaker 1: necessarily aren't romantic. Sometimes they're friendship. Sometimes it's just friendships.

1616
01:20:50,360 --> 01:20:53,760
Speaker 1: But I'm speaking on romantic shep right now, and I

1617
01:20:53,960 --> 01:20:57,639
Speaker 1: just feel like it's definitely possible. You're not wrong, You're

1618
01:20:57,680 --> 01:21:00,000
Speaker 1: not no dog ass nigga, because I feel like maybe

1619
01:21:00,160 --> 01:21:01,720
Speaker 1: you were so in love with this person and you

1620
01:21:01,840 --> 01:21:04,120
Speaker 1: feel like that she wasn't in love with you in

1621
01:21:04,200 --> 01:21:06,240
Speaker 1: that way, so you feel like you need to move on,

1622
01:21:06,400 --> 01:21:10,439
Speaker 1: and you met somebody who you thought compared, but they're

1623
01:21:10,520 --> 01:21:13,640
Speaker 1: not that person, and now you kind of regret your

1624
01:21:13,720 --> 01:21:15,960
Speaker 1: decision made. So this is my advice to you. Did

1625
01:21:16,040 --> 01:21:18,760
Speaker 1: you Yeah? I don't want to read his name good.

1626
01:21:19,320 --> 01:21:22,200
Speaker 1: So my first thing, I just want to commend you

1627
01:21:22,280 --> 01:21:24,840
Speaker 1: for your honesty because a lot of times niggas will

1628
01:21:24,880 --> 01:21:27,639
Speaker 1: be this, be in a situation like this, and they'll

1629
01:21:27,720 --> 01:21:30,560
Speaker 1: just act on their feelings and people get hurt. So

1630
01:21:30,680 --> 01:21:33,800
Speaker 1: I commend you for even recognizing your feelings in that. So,

1631
01:21:34,160 --> 01:21:38,400
Speaker 1: with that being said, in this situation, because I know

1632
01:21:38,600 --> 01:21:41,439
Speaker 1: Nita and she is an amazing person, like everything that

1633
01:21:41,560 --> 01:21:43,479
Speaker 1: you said about her, I'm not surprised that you feel

1634
01:21:43,520 --> 01:21:45,519
Speaker 1: this way about her, because, like I said, really, yes,

1635
01:21:45,600 --> 01:21:48,160
Speaker 1: I've known her for ten years like she's an amazing person.

1636
01:21:48,880 --> 01:21:51,360
Speaker 1: Somebody feeling this way about her is not a fucking

1637
01:21:51,439 --> 01:21:54,920
Speaker 1: surprise to me at all. Like that's just who she is.

1638
01:21:55,000 --> 01:21:59,439
Speaker 1: She's a beautiful person. So it's a little complicated because

1639
01:21:59,439 --> 01:22:02,080
Speaker 1: you've been married for ten years, you know, you have kids.

1640
01:22:02,200 --> 01:22:07,479
Speaker 1: So I'll say me just being honest, I feel like

1641
01:22:07,680 --> 01:22:12,919
Speaker 1: this is probably something that if the feeling isn't mutual,

1642
01:22:14,200 --> 01:22:16,640
Speaker 1: like you, because I wouldn't say, ever, just leave your

1643
01:22:16,720 --> 01:22:18,680
Speaker 1: wife and try to get with need. I'm not saying that,

1644
01:22:18,800 --> 01:22:21,719
Speaker 1: but I feel like at this point, if there's nothing

1645
01:22:21,960 --> 01:22:25,080
Speaker 1: like you and Needa don't talk that much, and I

1646
01:22:25,120 --> 01:22:27,400
Speaker 1: feel like it may be something fun, but I feel

1647
01:22:27,400 --> 01:22:30,000
Speaker 1: like this probably needs to be for the better of everybody,

1648
01:22:30,120 --> 01:22:33,000
Speaker 1: kind of just let go, you know what I mean,

1649
01:22:33,560 --> 01:22:38,639
Speaker 1: Because like I said, there's some soul ties that your

1650
01:22:38,760 --> 01:22:41,200
Speaker 1: soul is tied to this person, but it doesn't need

1651
01:22:41,320 --> 01:22:43,560
Speaker 1: to be. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, because I

1652
01:22:43,640 --> 01:22:45,960
Speaker 1: know my soul, like my soul is tied to a

1653
01:22:46,040 --> 01:22:49,280
Speaker 1: person and I love him, but I know that I

1654
01:22:49,400 --> 01:22:50,320
Speaker 1: need to break that shit.

1655
01:22:50,720 --> 01:22:51,280
Speaker 3: I know, I do.

1656
01:22:51,640 --> 01:22:53,760
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, And I've come to peace

1657
01:22:53,840 --> 01:22:56,800
Speaker 1: with that. It's hard, but that's what I'm kind of

1658
01:22:56,880 --> 01:22:59,120
Speaker 1: going through right now, you know, is breaking that soul

1659
01:22:59,200 --> 01:23:02,720
Speaker 1: tie with this person attempting to trying to So I

1660
01:23:02,800 --> 01:23:05,479
Speaker 1: feel like I think that that's something that you probably

1661
01:23:05,520 --> 01:23:07,200
Speaker 1: should do. I don't think you're a dog. I don't

1662
01:23:07,200 --> 01:23:09,360
Speaker 1: think you're a bad person. I think you're honest with

1663
01:23:09,439 --> 01:23:11,760
Speaker 1: your feelings and that's real. But I feel like this

1664
01:23:11,920 --> 01:23:14,560
Speaker 1: is probably something that should be broken so you're not

1665
01:23:14,760 --> 01:23:17,920
Speaker 1: hurting yourself and you're not longing for somebody. That's probably

1666
01:23:18,040 --> 01:23:20,479
Speaker 1: that something that's never gonna happen. And I don't want

1667
01:23:20,520 --> 01:23:22,160
Speaker 1: to say that because I don't know y'all situation. I

1668
01:23:22,200 --> 01:23:24,479
Speaker 1: don't know y'all's friendship at all. She didn't tell me

1669
01:23:24,560 --> 01:23:27,680
Speaker 1: nothing like about you or anything, so I don't know.

1670
01:23:28,000 --> 01:23:30,519
Speaker 1: Maybe she does have feelings for you, Maybe y'all can

1671
01:23:30,640 --> 01:23:34,320
Speaker 1: work it out, But I'm just saying if she doesn't

1672
01:23:34,320 --> 01:23:36,479
Speaker 1: feel the same way about you and there's nothing to

1673
01:23:36,560 --> 01:23:40,400
Speaker 1: be worked out, I would kind of I would stick

1674
01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:45,080
Speaker 1: to your wife. If you're married, that could definitely become missy.

1675
01:23:45,200 --> 01:23:47,920
Speaker 1: So if you're married, you need to think a little

1676
01:23:47,960 --> 01:23:50,280
Speaker 1: deeper about your decisions and which you right because I

1677
01:23:50,320 --> 01:23:52,439
Speaker 1: feel like there's another woman that you do love and

1678
01:23:52,479 --> 01:23:54,960
Speaker 1: that you do care about, care about that you don't

1679
01:23:54,960 --> 01:23:57,360
Speaker 1: want to hurt her, and you know there's children involved

1680
01:23:57,400 --> 01:23:59,880
Speaker 1: at this point. So I would just say tread lightly

1681
01:24:00,400 --> 01:24:02,400
Speaker 1: with the whole situation. But I do feel like that

1682
01:24:02,520 --> 01:24:05,599
Speaker 1: may be a sul tie that probably needs to be broken.

1683
01:24:05,880 --> 01:24:07,519
Speaker 1: But like I said, I can't. How do you break

1684
01:24:07,560 --> 01:24:11,519
Speaker 1: a sult time? It's different practice. I actually looked this up, y'all.

1685
01:24:11,600 --> 01:24:13,080
Speaker 1: This is crazy that we're talking about this because I

1686
01:24:13,160 --> 01:24:17,240
Speaker 1: was actually googling all this stuff. So the first thing

1687
01:24:17,439 --> 01:24:20,760
Speaker 1: and breaking a sult tie is it's gonna be kind

1688
01:24:20,760 --> 01:24:23,960
Speaker 1: of hard for him because he's married. So for me

1689
01:24:24,360 --> 01:24:26,439
Speaker 1: it has to be I have to disconnect myself with

1690
01:24:26,640 --> 01:24:33,519
Speaker 1: like sex, so because every time I haven't had sex

1691
01:24:33,560 --> 01:24:36,840
Speaker 1: with anybody except for this person, But if I was

1692
01:24:36,920 --> 01:24:39,839
Speaker 1: to have sex, it would probably be like me comparing

1693
01:24:39,920 --> 01:24:42,160
Speaker 1: myself to him or trying to feel a void. You

1694
01:24:42,240 --> 01:24:45,360
Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. Okay, So you have to disconnect

1695
01:24:45,400 --> 01:24:47,680
Speaker 1: yourself from things that remind you of that person or

1696
01:24:47,720 --> 01:24:49,240
Speaker 1: things you're trying to do to fell a void of

1697
01:24:49,320 --> 01:24:53,320
Speaker 1: that person. Some people say saging your house or saging

1698
01:24:53,520 --> 01:24:56,280
Speaker 1: you know, items and things that remind you of that person.

1699
01:24:57,000 --> 01:25:00,800
Speaker 1: It's just whatever anything personal to you that reminds you

1700
01:25:00,880 --> 01:25:02,920
Speaker 1: of that person, that's what you have to break free from.

1701
01:25:03,280 --> 01:25:07,479
Speaker 1: Right So it's like certain things, like certain songs, certain music,

1702
01:25:07,560 --> 01:25:09,840
Speaker 1: like I don't listen to them because it's just like

1703
01:25:10,360 --> 01:25:12,760
Speaker 1: I'll start going down memory lane and be like, oh man,

1704
01:25:12,880 --> 01:25:14,960
Speaker 1: this reminds me of this, This reminds me of that,

1705
01:25:15,479 --> 01:25:17,400
Speaker 1: you know. So it's like you have to break yourself

1706
01:25:17,439 --> 01:25:22,080
Speaker 1: from everything of that person. So until I'm ready to

1707
01:25:22,160 --> 01:25:24,800
Speaker 1: be physical with somebody and I'm not thinking about him

1708
01:25:24,840 --> 01:25:26,720
Speaker 1: and I'm not trying to feel avoid I'm not being

1709
01:25:26,760 --> 01:25:31,519
Speaker 1: physical until I'm like, Okay, I'm good on him, and

1710
01:25:31,600 --> 01:25:34,600
Speaker 1: this is your celibate right now, Mom, I wouldn't say that.

1711
01:25:35,439 --> 01:25:38,080
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say that because I feel like I think

1712
01:25:38,120 --> 01:25:41,880
Speaker 1: I'm not being physical right now, just because I'm not

1713
01:25:41,920 --> 01:25:44,240
Speaker 1: one hundred percent there. But I feel like I'm almost there,

1714
01:25:44,760 --> 01:25:46,840
Speaker 1: because I feel like I am talking to somebody that

1715
01:25:46,920 --> 01:25:52,000
Speaker 1: I really really do like and there for him. Bench

1716
01:25:52,320 --> 01:25:53,920
Speaker 1: I don't even know if I'm having sex with this

1717
01:25:54,000 --> 01:25:56,679
Speaker 1: guy on my birthday anyway, I know, But what I'm

1718
01:25:56,720 --> 01:25:59,880
Speaker 1: saying is, but what I'm saying is for me is

1719
01:26:00,520 --> 01:26:02,880
Speaker 1: even with me talking to this person. This is the

1720
01:26:02,960 --> 01:26:04,960
Speaker 1: first person I've talked to in a while where I'm

1721
01:26:05,000 --> 01:26:07,800
Speaker 1: not using him as a replacement like everybody else I

1722
01:26:07,840 --> 01:26:09,760
Speaker 1: felt I've dealt with, it was just like somebody to

1723
01:26:09,880 --> 01:26:11,800
Speaker 1: replace him. This is the first guy I kind of

1724
01:26:11,800 --> 01:26:13,479
Speaker 1: been talking to where it's just like, oh, we go

1725
01:26:13,479 --> 01:26:15,479
Speaker 1: on some cool shit getting to know each other, and

1726
01:26:15,600 --> 01:26:17,720
Speaker 1: it has nothing to do with me trying to get

1727
01:26:17,800 --> 01:26:19,400
Speaker 1: back at him or get over him, you know what

1728
01:26:19,439 --> 01:26:22,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So for back to you, the guy that

1729
01:26:22,080 --> 01:26:23,720
Speaker 1: wrote the letter, thank you so much. I had to

1730
01:26:23,760 --> 01:26:26,360
Speaker 1: read it. We never read three letters. So my personal

1731
01:26:26,479 --> 01:26:29,240
Speaker 1: advice is, I don't like to gamble. I don't like

1732
01:26:29,320 --> 01:26:31,320
Speaker 1: to shake the table too much if you have a

1733
01:26:31,400 --> 01:26:33,439
Speaker 1: happy home and you're with a woman that you love,

1734
01:26:33,520 --> 01:26:36,559
Speaker 1: because Nita asks is crazy and she's hide and cold.

1735
01:26:37,120 --> 01:26:40,560
Speaker 1: So I don't know how y'all's situation is, but I

1736
01:26:41,040 --> 01:26:44,720
Speaker 1: wouldn't gamble. Like I said, there's kids involved and things

1737
01:26:44,760 --> 01:26:47,200
Speaker 1: could get ugly. I don't know what Dre's advice is.

1738
01:26:47,880 --> 01:26:50,440
Speaker 1: I agree y'all feel like just because you have salties

1739
01:26:50,520 --> 01:26:52,760
Speaker 1: with people, I mean, this is my thing. If you

1740
01:26:52,920 --> 01:26:55,120
Speaker 1: have salties with a person and you neither one of

1741
01:26:55,240 --> 01:26:58,320
Speaker 1: y'all are in a marriage or kind of like a

1742
01:26:58,640 --> 01:27:00,640
Speaker 1: cause not to say marriage is a per is a

1743
01:27:00,720 --> 01:27:04,840
Speaker 1: permanent situation, because marriage isn't necessarily permanent, but it's like

1744
01:27:04,920 --> 01:27:08,240
Speaker 1: you made vow to somebody. You promise somebody to be

1745
01:27:08,360 --> 01:27:11,639
Speaker 1: faithful to them and to only love them and honor

1746
01:27:11,680 --> 01:27:13,600
Speaker 1: them for the rest of your life. So I just

1747
01:27:13,640 --> 01:27:15,960
Speaker 1: feel like, to me, marriage is serious. It's why I

1748
01:27:16,000 --> 01:27:18,520
Speaker 1: don't take marriage like you. But I feel like, I'm

1749
01:27:18,520 --> 01:27:21,280
Speaker 1: sorry to interrupt you, but if you do leave your wife,

1750
01:27:21,920 --> 01:27:23,639
Speaker 1: let it be nothing that has to do with Nita.

1751
01:27:24,000 --> 01:27:25,679
Speaker 1: Like if you decide, like if M and his wife

1752
01:27:25,680 --> 01:27:27,360
Speaker 1: get a divorce, it needs to be nothing that has

1753
01:27:27,400 --> 01:27:30,920
Speaker 1: to do with that situation. So I'm not saying that

1754
01:27:30,960 --> 01:27:32,720
Speaker 1: you're stuck with your wife, but if you if you

1755
01:27:32,760 --> 01:27:35,840
Speaker 1: and your wife do get a divorce, don't let Nita

1756
01:27:35,960 --> 01:27:38,639
Speaker 1: be a deciding factor in that. So continue I'm sorry

1757
01:27:38,680 --> 01:27:40,759
Speaker 1: to try to say that. Yeah, I mean, she shouldn't

1758
01:27:40,760 --> 01:27:43,120
Speaker 1: be a deciding factor. But then also, if you are

1759
01:27:43,200 --> 01:27:45,320
Speaker 1: gonna leave your wife, and that's the reason why you're

1760
01:27:45,400 --> 01:27:48,200
Speaker 1: leaving her because you're trying to pursue their situation, you

1761
01:27:48,320 --> 01:27:51,240
Speaker 1: definitely need, definitely need to make sure that the feelings

1762
01:27:51,280 --> 01:27:54,519
Speaker 1: are mutual, right facts. So thank you so much for

1763
01:27:54,560 --> 01:27:56,360
Speaker 1: that letter. I feel like that was a really good letter,

1764
01:27:56,479 --> 01:27:59,280
Speaker 1: likehit got real. All of our letters were good today,

1765
01:28:00,760 --> 01:28:04,120
Speaker 1: so as always, thank y'all. If you have any questions

1766
01:28:04,240 --> 01:28:07,360
Speaker 1: or needed any advice, send it to our email ask

1767
01:28:07,560 --> 01:28:10,360
Speaker 1: poor Minds. That's a s K P o U R

1768
01:28:10,920 --> 01:28:14,680
Speaker 1: in my n d s at gmail dot com. Wait

1769
01:28:14,760 --> 01:28:16,120
Speaker 1: till I read you the rest of that letter. I

1770
01:28:16,160 --> 01:28:19,000
Speaker 1: can't read it on the show, y'all. Bitch, it's some

1771
01:28:19,200 --> 01:28:21,120
Speaker 1: hot fucking tea. I wasn't gonna do you like that,

1772
01:28:21,280 --> 01:28:24,120
Speaker 1: my brother, because Billy is my friend and that's my nigga,

1773
01:28:24,160 --> 01:28:25,800
Speaker 1: so I'm not gonna read it. But bitch, wait till

1774
01:28:27,200 --> 01:28:34,560
Speaker 1: and might get to who nigga. So shout out to

1775
01:28:34,920 --> 01:28:37,960
Speaker 1: European Wax Center. Make sure y'all go get wax. Go

1776
01:28:38,120 --> 01:28:40,880
Speaker 1: to the Howld Mill or the Edgewood location and mention

1777
01:28:41,000 --> 01:28:43,080
Speaker 1: poor Minds or dre and Lex and you'll get waxed

1778
01:28:43,160 --> 01:28:46,880
Speaker 1: with a discount. And my blog is back up and

1779
01:28:47,000 --> 01:28:51,280
Speaker 1: running www dot lovelexp dot com. I just posted about

1780
01:28:51,320 --> 01:28:55,200
Speaker 1: my BT experience. I posted a bunch of pictures. The

1781
01:28:55,360 --> 01:28:59,479
Speaker 1: footage will be coming out soon, So stay tuned. Love

1782
01:28:59,520 --> 01:29:02,519
Speaker 1: Lexp's back up and were back getting it go get

1783
01:29:02,640 --> 01:29:05,800
Speaker 1: the merch copy. Yeah, and we're working on the Poor

1784
01:29:05,920 --> 01:29:08,800
Speaker 1: Mine's merch and the website coming soon. All that good shit,

1785
01:29:09,320 --> 01:29:12,000
Speaker 1: live tour, et cetera, et cetera. Y'all been asking for

1786
01:29:12,040 --> 01:29:13,599
Speaker 1: a live show. So this is what I want y'all

1787
01:29:13,600 --> 01:29:16,559
Speaker 1: to do. If you want us to do a live show,

1788
01:29:16,720 --> 01:29:17,240
Speaker 1: can y'all.

1789
01:29:17,160 --> 01:29:20,120
Speaker 4: Send us like DMS or email let us know what

1790
01:29:20,240 --> 01:29:22,400
Speaker 4: city y'all are in so we can kind of decide

1791
01:29:22,560 --> 01:29:25,559
Speaker 4: what the city because I'm not gonna lie for our

1792
01:29:25,600 --> 01:29:28,879
Speaker 4: first show, it's either gonna be in Houston or Atlanta.

1793
01:29:29,240 --> 01:29:30,960
Speaker 1: So right now we're trying to decide if we want

1794
01:29:31,000 --> 01:29:32,880
Speaker 1: to do our first show in Houston or Atlanta, right

1795
01:29:33,000 --> 01:29:36,439
Speaker 1: and the first three will probably be Houston, Atlanta, dely, Yeah,

1796
01:29:36,600 --> 01:29:40,559
Speaker 1: so let us know what should we do our first

1797
01:29:40,600 --> 01:29:43,040
Speaker 1: show in Houston or Atlanta? So let us know you

1798
01:29:43,080 --> 01:29:44,200
Speaker 1: got anything you gotta add?

1799
01:29:45,520 --> 01:29:53,080
Speaker 5: Oh, oh fucking brother. I'll be working on shit. But

1800
01:29:53,160 --> 01:29:55,000
Speaker 5: I just I don't be liking to talk about stuff

1801
01:29:55,080 --> 01:29:56,320
Speaker 5: until I like actually.

1802
01:29:56,120 --> 01:29:59,439
Speaker 1: Be ready to like, yeah, you know what I mean,

1803
01:29:59,560 --> 01:30:02,680
Speaker 1: But yes, just keep sending us questions every week to

1804
01:30:02,800 --> 01:30:07,880
Speaker 1: ask for minds and you know, keep If you want

1805
01:30:07,920 --> 01:30:10,760
Speaker 1: to work with us, send your sheep to Drea and

1806
01:30:10,920 --> 01:30:14,760
Speaker 1: leg Show at gmail dot com. Send us products, send

1807
01:30:14,840 --> 01:30:16,880
Speaker 1: us sheep that you might want to might want us

1808
01:30:16,920 --> 01:30:18,960
Speaker 1: to shout out on the show. Make sure you got

1809
01:30:19,000 --> 01:30:23,360
Speaker 1: the payment as well. Weeks at PayPal. I'm cash up.

1810
01:30:25,240 --> 01:30:27,000
Speaker 1: So yes, if y'all have any products that y'all want

1811
01:30:27,040 --> 01:30:29,680
Speaker 1: to promote, just let us know and we'll definitely work

1812
01:30:29,760 --> 01:30:33,840
Speaker 1: something out. Like I said, that's pretty much, and make

1813
01:30:34,080 --> 01:30:40,640
Speaker 1: y'all tune in to us every Tuesday. Download the iHeartRadio

1814
01:30:40,760 --> 01:30:42,559
Speaker 1: app and make sure you listen to us on there.

1815
01:30:42,560 --> 01:30:49,160
Speaker 1: And yes it's Radio Bay all right, y'all, And we'll

1816
01:30:49,160 --> 01:30:52,519
Speaker 1: see y'all next week. Oh oh oh, and look what

1817
01:30:53,000 --> 01:30:55,120
Speaker 1: I got. We got a bonus episode coming for y'all.

1818
01:30:55,120 --> 01:30:57,439
Speaker 1: For somebody to ask for a bonus, y'all gonna be

1819
01:30:57,680 --> 01:30:59,760
Speaker 1: y'all gonna be so per excited, and y'all see who

1820
01:30:59,800 --> 01:31:02,439
Speaker 1: we are have on this bonus episode. Just just know that. Okay,

1821
01:31:03,000 --> 01:31:06,720
Speaker 1: So that's gonna be dropping next week next week, So

1822
01:31:07,439 --> 01:31:10,280
Speaker 1: stay tune, y'all, See y'all next week. By y'all,