1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than tell me about. 2 00:00:03,960 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show. 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 1: It's like for running in our diaries, except we say 4 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:11,799 Speaker 1: them aloud. We call him blogs Kiki. Yes you got one, 5 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:13,399 Speaker 1: go all right, dear blog. 6 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 3: So over the weekend, I got a chance to fulfill 7 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 3: one of my childhood dreams, which. 8 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 4: Well two of them actually. 9 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 3: One was I ended up in a hotel with a 10 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:24,480 Speaker 3: microwave and a refrigerator in my room. 11 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:25,120 Speaker 5: Yeah. 12 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: You didn't even have to ask for it. 13 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:27,639 Speaker 4: I did not. It was just there. 14 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: Now, how much refrigeration and microwaving did you do? 15 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 4: I didn't. 16 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:32,919 Speaker 1: I didn't, but you had the option, and that's what 17 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 1: made you feel good. 18 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 4: It made me feel so good. 19 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 1: Okay, I wasn't. 20 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 4: Even supposed to be there anyway, that's beside the story. 21 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:43,840 Speaker 3: But another childhood dream of mine was to always, whenever 22 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:46,599 Speaker 3: I got married, go to this wedding boutique in New 23 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:50,159 Speaker 3: York called Kleinfields. If you know you have watched the 24 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:52,599 Speaker 3: show Say Yes to the Dress? Are very own, Jason, 25 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 3: say yes. 26 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 4: To the dress. 27 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 2: I'm familiar with that story. 28 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 1: Yes, and you said yes to the dress? 29 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 3: Yes. It is a famous show that I think we 30 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 3: all watched on repeat for our entire lives in childhood, 31 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 3: and so it's like where all the eight girls go 32 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 3: to find their wedding dress. So I just happened to 33 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:12,680 Speaker 3: be in New York for some other stuff and I 34 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:14,279 Speaker 3: was like, hey, I'm going to go to Client fels 35 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:15,320 Speaker 3: By myself. 36 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 4: So low I made the little bridal appointment. They said, 37 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:19,040 Speaker 4: how many coming with you? 38 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 1: I'm like zero. 39 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:20,960 Speaker 4: I felt so pitiful. 40 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:24,679 Speaker 3: But when I pulled up, it is everything you see 41 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 3: on TV like it is it is. 42 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 4: It is a Disney World for brides. 43 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 3: So you walk in and everybody's rich, right, everybody in 44 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:33,119 Speaker 3: the store is rich. 45 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 4: So you walk in and there's me and I got 46 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 4: my little chine coat on. 47 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:40,680 Speaker 1: And I'll be honest with you, you may be rich, 48 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: but you look rich play the part. 49 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 3: So I rolled up and they walk you in and 50 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 3: they're like, okay, let me get you set up with 51 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 3: your bridal attendance or whatever. So they come out and 52 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 3: they come in shout out to my girls. They were amazing. 53 00:01:57,320 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 3: So they take me back in the room and you know, 54 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 3: I'm a plus bride, so I'm like, now, let me see. 55 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 4: What Client Field got for the plus sized girls. 56 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 3: Because sometimes they try to put us in like these 57 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 3: little gown like just you look a mess. 58 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 1: So I'm see what they're. 59 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:10,640 Speaker 4: Gonna bring in. 60 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:13,399 Speaker 3: What they put you in, Like you know those like smocks, 61 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 3: like you just always look terrible. 62 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: They put you in a smock. 63 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 3: Yes, so hey, they they come and I'm like, let 64 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 3: me see what they're giving. 65 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 4: I'm ready to drag them. 66 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:23,959 Speaker 2: Now. 67 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:26,519 Speaker 4: They come out and these dresses are beautiful. 68 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 3: And before they even pull the dress, they asked you, 69 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:30,800 Speaker 3: and they should do this on the show too, what 70 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 3: is your budget? 71 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 4: Now? 72 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 3: As a kid, when I watch and the girls, they 73 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 3: would say what's your budget? If you said anything less 74 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:39,519 Speaker 3: than ten grand? I was like, oh, you broke girl, 75 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 3: you have. 76 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 4: No business there. I knew when I walked in. 77 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 3: I was like, when they asked that question, I'm just 78 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:46,640 Speaker 3: gonna say there is no budget. 79 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 4: That's really, there is no budget, Like the budget does 80 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 4: not exist. 81 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: I was going to ask you if they're like they 82 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 1: have to be like real estate agents where you're like, 83 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:58,839 Speaker 1: what's your budget, You're like two hundred and fifty grand. 84 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 1: They're showing you houses that like a million bucks, so 85 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:03,080 Speaker 1: you can see what you can't afford, you know, and 86 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 1: you're like, well maybe I could make this work. No, 87 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: I was just I was wondering if they bring out like, 88 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 1: you know, diamond study stuff that was a million bucks. 89 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:09,679 Speaker 2: Yeah. 90 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 3: So I went in there and I said no budget, 91 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 3: but I was meaning like like, there really is no 92 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 3: budget for this. 93 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 4: But I'm here like here, there's actually no budgets, no money. 94 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 1: They interpreted that as money is no object. What you 95 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:24,399 Speaker 1: were really saying to them is I don't have any money. 96 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:25,800 Speaker 1: So you weren't lying. 97 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 4: No, I was trying to be honest though. 98 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 3: I also wanted to see the best of what they have, 99 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 3: you know, and they really pulled it out, and it 100 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 3: was just so when you walk in there, it's total 101 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 3: sales many you know, because everybody's like, oh my god, 102 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 3: you're like a princess. People you don't know come out 103 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 3: of Random's spire that is so beautiful, like you're breathtaking, 104 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 3: you know, it. 105 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 4: Wouldn't know what they're doing. 106 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 1: Yes, what was the most expensive dress they brought out? 107 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 3: I think it was a dress for like ten thousand dollars, 108 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 3: which was made by the star of the show. 109 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 4: His name is Randy. 110 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 3: Randy there he was not there, but yes, he has 111 00:03:57,800 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 3: his own dress line. 112 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 1: He's had a lot for a wedding dress. I don't know. 113 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 4: Oh my good, Oh yeah, yeah, that's a lot. 114 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 1: No, I know that sounds stupid, but like weddings are expensive, 115 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 1: so I don't I don't know what a lot for what? 116 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:09,800 Speaker 1: So ten grand would be a high very? Is that 117 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 1: very high end? 118 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 2: Or yeah? 119 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:13,480 Speaker 1: Is it like anything else where? You can go nuts 120 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 1: if you want to. 121 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 4: I mean you can if you want to, but I 122 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 4: think most people can't. 123 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:18,479 Speaker 1: What do you think what? I'm gonna look it up 124 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 1: because I'm just curious. I have no perspective. 125 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 4: I would say like two or under is like a bridge. 126 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 4: Probably yeah, but did they jack you up? Which means 127 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 4: they add the veil? No, so they didn't jack me up. 128 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: Because twenty one hundred bucks is the average twenty The 129 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:35,039 Speaker 1: average wedding dress cost in twenty twenty five is approximately 130 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 1: twenty one hundred dollars. That's pretty good, which sounds like 131 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 1: that sounds like what you should be I don't know, 132 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 1: but ten sounds like a lot for a dress that 133 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:46,359 Speaker 1: you are more than likely only going to work one time. 134 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 3: Right direct, but they get you with Okay, the dress 135 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:53,159 Speaker 3: will be five thousand, but the alterations are another five thousand, 136 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 3: and you know, they kept telling me, girl, you can customize, 137 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 3: because I was like, I love the. 138 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:58,040 Speaker 4: Time this dress. I like the bottom of it. 139 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 1: I'm buying a dress for five thousand dollar dollars and 140 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 1: it cost me five thousand to make it look good. 141 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 4: Oh that's how they get Why don't. 142 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 1: You just make me address? Then? Why don't we skip 143 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:09,279 Speaker 1: the initial five grand and then you make me address 144 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 1: for five grands? 145 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 2: Exactly? 146 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 4: Don't get a tailor there either, like we can find you, 147 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 4: like you know, I got a little lady. 148 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:20,360 Speaker 1: Who will to his name is Harmando's great. 149 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 4: Yes, just anybody, but then please yes, But this was a. 150 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 3: This was a big milestone on my little bridle checklist 151 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 3: because client fails is just it's iconic. 152 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 1: Did you go for the experience or will you buy 153 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 1: a dress from them? Oh? 154 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 4: Absolutely not. 155 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 3: I went for the experience and with the with the crew, 156 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:39,239 Speaker 3: you know, because they want you to bring your family 157 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:41,599 Speaker 3: in and you know it's it's a whole deal. 158 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:44,040 Speaker 1: But because they need all of those people to pay 159 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:46,840 Speaker 1: for the dress, they need a full on go fund 160 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: to get the money out of here. 161 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 4: You know what you want? 162 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 3: Yes, now I have an idea of what I actually 163 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:53,039 Speaker 3: like in a wedding dress. 164 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:55,920 Speaker 4: So now it really begins. And why didn't you want 165 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:57,159 Speaker 4: to put the veil? And you wanted to wait for 166 00:05:57,160 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 4: that moment? Damn yeah, I wanted to wait for that moment. 167 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:03,159 Speaker 1: So is it like a lot of shopping experiences where 168 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 1: I should say, like poor shopping experiences where they bring 169 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 1: stuff out You're like, you think I would wear that? 170 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 1: Or do they do? They do they get it right? 171 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:12,600 Speaker 1: Because you know, like sometimes you'll go to a department 172 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 1: store or something, and I know they're just doing their jobs, 173 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 1: but you'll be like, hey, you know, I'm trying this 174 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 1: and that, and then they'll like bring you like a 175 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:24,160 Speaker 1: to two. What what made you think I'm shopping for 176 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 1: your jeans? Like? What made you think that I wanted this? 177 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 1: And then that? Honestly, that always backfires with me because 178 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 1: then I'm like, you know, you're not really paying any attention. 179 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:36,120 Speaker 1: First of all, I wear an excel and too too 180 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:39,679 Speaker 1: not a medium. So that's the first thing, right, exactly 181 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 1: like that, I can't even get this around this too 182 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: two around my leg. Okay, so that's I'm offended now. 183 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:46,720 Speaker 1: But I was just curious, like if they so they 184 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 1: listened to you? And they brought you options that you 185 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 1: would actually like, because I've watched the show before and 186 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:52,600 Speaker 1: I don't know if they do it on purpose or 187 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 1: what you were on the showcase, But do they bring 188 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 1: out ugly ones like. 189 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:59,159 Speaker 6: Justice or try to establish like a baseline like and 190 00:06:59,200 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 6: sometimes I think they I remember our Diane Ladies saying like, well, 191 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:04,719 Speaker 6: you don't know you don't like something until you see 192 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 6: it on, so let's go like full right, and then 193 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:10,360 Speaker 6: you might like it, or it might spark something else 194 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 6: or another idea or something like that. And now would 195 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 6: the bride I was with decide to go with the 196 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 6: red dress? Probably not, but like you try it on 197 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 6: just to see, you know. 198 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 1: Like House Cunters, where they've already chosen the dress before 199 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: they go in. No, No, I'm sorry if I ruined 200 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 1: House Shunters for you. House house Hunters, they've already bought 201 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 1: the house before they which is funny because then you 202 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 1: got to go on House Hunters. You got to go 203 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 1: into the house you bought, yeah, and then you got 204 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 1: to you gotta trash it. That kind of house is ugly, 205 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: you know, because you got to find positives and negatives 206 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 1: about all three houses that would be weird to go 207 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 1: into the house I just bought and be like, man, 208 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 1: we should tear this thing down. 209 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 4: Try to make you like the sassy a or something 210 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 4: like this is it's. 211 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 6: More of like the TV side of something they want, 212 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 6: Like I would never wear to put a tier on, 213 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 6: but like it was me and a Tierra, you know, like. 214 00:07:57,440 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 2: The mean gay But yeah, that was more for like 215 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 2: it for TV. You know, the. 216 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 4: Show was still filming, but they barely are. 217 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 3: And when I walked out, there were camera crews outside 218 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 3: and they kept trying to get me into the big 219 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 3: area where everyone is filming or whatever. They kept saying like, 220 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 3: if you want to go out there, we can go 221 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 3: out there, we can go out there. I'm like, girl, no, 222 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 3: You're like. 223 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 1: What do you know? What do you get like for 224 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 1: being on the show. Do you get a discount on 225 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 1: the dress? I don't believe. 226 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 4: So, so you just you just get bragging, right, Okay, you. 227 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 6: Get to be on the show and then they pick 228 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 6: one bride out of every episode. I guess where they 229 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 6: film your wedding. So that's a pretty cool, like momento. 230 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 6: You get this like you know, professionally filmed, you know, 231 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 6: thing on TV of your wedding. But yeah, no, I 232 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 6: was in there for I think twelve fourteen hours. That 233 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:45,680 Speaker 6: some Lacroix of starving, there's no catering. 234 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 2: I was like, no sub sandwich. Give me like a 235 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 2: Panera box. 236 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 1: It kill me like a Jimmy something. 237 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 4: Oh wow, I'm not doing it. 238 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:56,720 Speaker 1: Bring a lunch when I go on, say yes to 239 00:08:56,800 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: the dress. I'm negotiating a catering budget. 240 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 2: Was starving. Wow, it was a cool experience. 241 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 1: I'm happy for you. So you got to do it. Yeah, 242 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:10,319 Speaker 1: so you're gonna go back with family even though you're 243 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:16,440 Speaker 1: not gonna buy the dress there? Yeah, okay, Hi, why not? 244 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:24,079 Speaker 1: Why not order? It's a fresh show. It's all rise out. 245 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 1: The honorable Kiki in a wedding dress is presiding. Oh yes, 246 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 1: all right, but she stole from the place in New 247 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:31,959 Speaker 1: York from say yes to the dress? 248 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I have it on right now, so tune in. Okay, 249 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:37,559 Speaker 3: that's at the gabble. We are in the courtroom and says, hey, 250 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:42,200 Speaker 3: Ki key, am I wrong for inviting my brother's ex 251 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 3: wife to my wedding and not letting him bring his 252 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 3: new girlfriend. I'm getting married soon, so I invited my 253 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:50,480 Speaker 3: brother's ex her name is Lauren. 254 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 4: They were married for fifteen years. 255 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 3: She's the mother of my nephews and she's always been 256 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 3: like a big sister to me. For context, my brother cheated, 257 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 3: which why the marriage ended. Now he's dating a new 258 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 3: woman for about four months and he asks to bring 259 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 3: her as his plus one. I told him no because 260 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:11,240 Speaker 3: I didn't want things to be awkward for Lauren at 261 00:10:11,280 --> 00:10:14,439 Speaker 3: the wedding. He's furious and now saying that he will 262 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 3: not attend my wedding if his new girlfriend can't come. 263 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 3: My mom says he should deal with it since this 264 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:23,199 Speaker 3: is the situation he created, But my dad thinks I'm 265 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 3: wrong for inviting someone's ex while excluding their new partner. 266 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:27,960 Speaker 4: Am I wrong? 267 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:30,240 Speaker 1: That's a complicated one. Yeah. 268 00:10:30,280 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 3: I pondered about it for a while, but then I'm 269 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 3: kind of like when it comes to your wedding day, 270 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 3: I just feel like everyone has to be adults. Like 271 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 3: it's up to the bride in the groom who is 272 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:43,720 Speaker 3: in attendance. If you don't like someone, just stay away 273 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:46,200 Speaker 3: from them. But like you put those feelings in your 274 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 3: pocket and you show up for your people to threaten 275 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:51,600 Speaker 3: to not attend your sister's wedding because your ex wife 276 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 3: and the mother of your children for fifteen years is 277 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:56,640 Speaker 3: going to be in the same room and you're the 278 00:10:56,640 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 3: one that cheated. To me, sounds a little bit like 279 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 3: selfish and extreme. 280 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 4: I don't know. 281 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:05,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you guys with the jury eight five, five, five, 282 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:07,480 Speaker 1: nine to one and one oh three five, I tend 283 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:08,080 Speaker 1: to agree with you. 284 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:12,840 Speaker 3: I mean, like, she's not letting him bring his new girlfriend, 285 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:14,959 Speaker 3: so I could see him feeling a way about that. 286 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 4: But it's her day, bro. 287 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 1: I mean these okay, so there's children, so that's those 288 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:24,679 Speaker 1: are the brides, nieces and nephews. Yes, the mother in 289 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 1: this case didn't do anything. I mean we're just assuming, 290 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:31,440 Speaker 1: at least as it retains to the marriage. Yeah, it 291 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 1: wasn't a cheater. She's a mother of the nieces and nephews, 292 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 1: so she's part of the family, arguably not in the wrong. 293 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 1: I mean, there's always you know, I shouldn't say that, 294 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:45,160 Speaker 1: there's always who knows what happened with there's no excuse 295 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 1: for cheating, but so who knows. But but yeah, I 296 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:51,000 Speaker 1: think all that the girlfriend is going to do is 297 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 1: be a trigger. And it's by the way, it's a girlfriend, 298 00:11:53,679 --> 00:11:57,080 Speaker 1: it's not a fiance. It's not a wife, it's a girlfriend. 299 00:11:57,120 --> 00:11:58,719 Speaker 4: I know people like to, you know, argue about that. 300 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 7: Sorry, but but that is a girlfriend. Like if that 301 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:04,640 Speaker 7: was his wife, Unfortunately, that's a little different. 302 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 4: She'd have to come. But that's crazy. A girlfriend. That's 303 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:09,439 Speaker 4: like a date. It's like a tender date. 304 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:12,360 Speaker 3: And you're threatening not to attend your sister's a wedding 305 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:14,480 Speaker 3: because you can't bring your new girlfriend. 306 00:12:14,920 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 1: H Hey, I do. And people might disagree with this, 307 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 1: but to your point, Kiki, it is your wedding. I 308 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 1: do think you have a right to exclude people. Yes, 309 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 1: because some would argue, well, if you invite someone to 310 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:28,960 Speaker 1: give them a plus one, why do you get to 311 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:30,720 Speaker 1: tell them who they can bring. It's like, well, if 312 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 1: it's going to ruin my day, or if it's going 313 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:36,320 Speaker 1: to cause any unnecessary drama or strife for my day, 314 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 1: then I say you don't get to do it. Yes, 315 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 1: I think this is it's about me. 316 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:42,720 Speaker 3: You know, across the board, I've seen parents get upset, 317 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:45,000 Speaker 3: like you're inviting your aunt Linda, you know, I don't 318 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 3: like Linda, you know, and then they'll try to withhold 319 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:49,640 Speaker 3: their money from the wedding, like it is up to 320 00:12:49,720 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 3: the bride and the groom. Let them pick whoever they 321 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:55,320 Speaker 3: want in the room and everybody else you shut up 322 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:56,520 Speaker 3: in my opinion. 323 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, Millie, how you doing Millie? Good morning, good morning, 324 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 1: How are you doing great? You heard Kiki's case? What 325 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 1: do you think I did? 326 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 8: I definitely think the ex should be invited, she's practically family, 327 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 8: and the girlfriend should not be invited. 328 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 9: You never know where they're going to break up in 329 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 9: about two or three months from now, so now. 330 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:24,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd love to hear an argument in favor of 331 00:13:24,520 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 1: the X of the girlfriend of the brother coming like 332 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:30,679 Speaker 1: I'd love to hear why if anyone believes that that 333 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:32,840 Speaker 1: should happen and why, because I just can't see a 334 00:13:32,840 --> 00:13:37,160 Speaker 1: reason why that's okay. It's just going to cause problems, absolutely, 335 00:13:37,200 --> 00:13:41,959 Speaker 1: I don't think so either, and make people feel uncomfortable. Yeah, 336 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:44,280 Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, Millie. I'm glad you called. Thanks 337 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:48,559 Speaker 1: for listening to all right. I have a good day. Ronda, 338 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 1: good morning, Good morning, Hi Ronda. What do you think 339 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 1: Kiki's cord? What say you? 340 00:13:56,640 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 5: I think that the brother is wrong and he shouldn't 341 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:02,320 Speaker 5: really and be there, especially not with his plus one 342 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:06,439 Speaker 5: when he cheated. I think it sounds like the bride 343 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 5: and his ex wife are closer, so she deserves to 344 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:09,960 Speaker 5: be there more than him. 345 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:12,600 Speaker 4: Ope, so you say kick the brother out of it again? 346 00:14:13,720 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I would say that. I say, hey, 347 00:14:15,600 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 1: you either come and support me without her or don't 348 00:14:18,800 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 1: come at all. But there's no compromise here, like I'm 349 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 1: not she's not coming, the girlfriend's not coming. 350 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, it sounded like he wanted to use that as 351 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 5: a threat, like if my girlfriend can't come, then I 352 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:30,360 Speaker 5: won't come. But it sounds like you wouldn't be missing 353 00:14:30,360 --> 00:14:31,360 Speaker 5: anything anyways. 354 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:34,320 Speaker 1: So you're taking this girlfriend. By doing that, you're picking 355 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:39,200 Speaker 1: the girlfriend over your sister exactly, exactly. 356 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 5: And yeah, he I mean he has no loyalty to 357 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 5: his ex wife. It sounds like he has no loyalty 358 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:46,680 Speaker 5: boods sister. He really doesn't need to be there. 359 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, I agree, Ron. Thank you, have a 360 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 1: good day, Thank you, and thank you for listening. Hi, Michelle, 361 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:54,520 Speaker 1: good morning. 362 00:14:55,240 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 8: Good morning much shallow. 363 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 1: Kiky's Court love you. So if you're just tuning in, 364 00:14:59,600 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 1: I want to try I get this right, Kiki. So 365 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 1: a woman is getting married, her brother has there's some 366 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 1: kids with a woman that he cheated on. Yes, the 367 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 1: bride wants to invite the woman and the kids, the 368 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 1: ex wife and the kids, and the brother is saying, 369 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 1: I'm bringing the woman I cheated with, and the sister's saying, 370 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:21,640 Speaker 1: either it's you alone or not at all, because we're not. 371 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 1: That woman is not invited, and that's what's causing all 372 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:25,480 Speaker 1: this problem. What do you think. 373 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:28,680 Speaker 8: I think the bride is not wrong. I think her 374 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 8: brother is just being a petty betty and he's just 375 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 8: being ridiculous. He can kick rocks for all I care. Like, 376 00:15:34,960 --> 00:15:37,480 Speaker 8: if he doesn't show up at my own wedding over 377 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 8: a girlfriend, then you know, whatever, whatever, no no loss 378 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:42,440 Speaker 8: to me, no drama. 379 00:15:43,040 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and like you know again, there's never an 380 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:49,360 Speaker 1: excuse for cheating. I don't know what happened in the marriage, 381 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 1: but the kids are going to be kids there. It's 382 00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 1: just like, I don't know, let's keep the peace for 383 00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:58,040 Speaker 1: one day. Let's just not bring your extracurricular activities into 384 00:15:58,120 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 1: my day one time. 385 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 8: Right, Yes, he just kept in his pants to begin with. 386 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 8: None of this would be a problem if we just. 387 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 1: Kept it in his past. 388 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:07,960 Speaker 4: And they never do, girl, they never do. 389 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 1: It's hard for somebody's hard for us to keep it 390 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 1: in our pasts. Yeah, it's a shame. It's we're born 391 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 1: this way and it's it's it's ridiculous. Thank you, Michelle, 392 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 1: have a good day, always having a heart, Jason, So 393 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:21,120 Speaker 1: I haven't always had a hard time with it. 394 00:16:21,240 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 6: I really am, I I am Okay, I can I 395 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:25,680 Speaker 6: offer like a different point of view? 396 00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:27,200 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, here we go. 397 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 6: The only thing I can think of is wrong that 398 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 6: everyone has to be mature to get to the day whatever. Yeah, 399 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 6: wouldn't you want your brother to have a plus one 400 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 6: so he can also enjoy his night if you're the bride, 401 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 6: like so he feels comfortable. There's probably an awkward situation. 402 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:49,920 Speaker 7: Right, can't you go hang with as grandma in this 403 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:51,280 Speaker 7: point where somebody grandma? 404 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 1: Still? 405 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:53,400 Speaker 6: I feel like, if you're invited of your brother, he 406 00:16:53,440 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 6: should have a plus one, but like he's I've been 407 00:16:56,160 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 6: invited to a weather. 408 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:58,480 Speaker 2: You didn't have a plus one and like I was 409 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 2: offriend dead well that ye. 410 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:05,400 Speaker 1: Plus one would have been essentially your husband. Yeah right, 411 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 1: so like I think that's a little different. You're you're 412 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:10,040 Speaker 1: essentially married. You've been with the same man for fifteen years, 413 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:12,800 Speaker 1: Like you're essentially married. Yeah, this is we're talking about it, 414 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:16,720 Speaker 1: and again, I I don't know someone. I don't know 415 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:18,439 Speaker 1: who this other woman is, and I don't know what 416 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:20,240 Speaker 1: she did or how they got there. I have no idea, 417 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 1: but like she's clearly involved in something that in the 418 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:27,199 Speaker 1: family has caused drama, and so they're trying to avoid that. 419 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, but if everyone's just gonna chalk it up and 420 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:33,280 Speaker 6: be adults for the day and we're all in agreeans, 421 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:34,840 Speaker 6: then why. 422 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 1: Not try it? 423 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:37,200 Speaker 7: But if I'm paying one hundred and fifty dollars per play, 424 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 7: and it's my wedding, and maybe she was really close 425 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:42,199 Speaker 7: to the sister in law, right, yeah, yeah, and like 426 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 7: that's that's her day. 427 00:17:43,359 --> 00:17:43,639 Speaker 3: Let her have. 428 00:17:43,880 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 2: Let her come too. 429 00:17:44,680 --> 00:17:46,360 Speaker 3: But my kids are going to be there and they 430 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:48,440 Speaker 3: probably know how the situation ended. 431 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 4: Like I think that's not fair. She was the victim 432 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:52,200 Speaker 4: in that, Like the brother, the dad can have a 433 00:17:52,240 --> 00:17:53,440 Speaker 4: good time with grandmother kids. 434 00:17:53,480 --> 00:17:55,480 Speaker 7: Like it's a family thing, you guys aren't going off 435 00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 7: to some random persons of like this is a family thing, 436 00:17:58,040 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 7: Like let's. 437 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 2: Just let's just this night, this one, right, But a 438 00:18:01,320 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 2: girlfriend might be a new family we'll. 439 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:04,800 Speaker 4: See in a year my wedding. 440 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 1: Maybe if they were married, you know, and it was 441 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:09,600 Speaker 1: proven that it's going to stand the test of time, 442 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:11,120 Speaker 1: or at least recent time. 443 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 3: Like that's as a girl with brothers. That's where I 444 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 3: met with my oldest brother right now, my family. I 445 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 3: love his exes, So it's going to be a fiesta 446 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 3: of his exes at my wedding because I love him. 447 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:22,639 Speaker 3: You brought them around, right So now we're at the 448 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:24,520 Speaker 3: point in our family where we're not We told him 449 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:27,080 Speaker 3: we don't want to meet another chick until you are 450 00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:28,240 Speaker 3: married and settled down. 451 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:29,600 Speaker 4: Don't bring her, you know. 452 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, because we. 453 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 3: Fall in love with these women and then you want 454 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:35,240 Speaker 3: us to stop being friends with them because you stop. 455 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 4: No, that's not work. 456 00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:38,199 Speaker 6: He has to be okay with that. But I do 457 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 6: think there is a world where the girlfriend could come. 458 00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:47,120 Speaker 1: Are you crazy for this one? Yeah? 459 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:47,359 Speaker 5: No? 460 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 1: Is it? Shana? Hey? Good morning? What do you think? Keys? 461 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 10: Coord I truly am a strong believer. Even though I 462 00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:59,479 Speaker 10: understand what you guys are saying. I always just feel 463 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:02,919 Speaker 10: the bride sends out an invitation to anyone. 464 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:06,760 Speaker 9: If she puts a plus one on that invitation, that 465 00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:11,679 Speaker 9: is that person's progative and no longer the bride's you know, 466 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:13,919 Speaker 9: authority to say if that person can come or not 467 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 9: plus one? 468 00:19:14,840 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 1: That did do we know that she gave him a 469 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:19,400 Speaker 1: plus one? Or is he just demanding the plus one? 470 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:22,479 Speaker 4: He's demanding one. He's saying that if she's not welcome, 471 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:23,280 Speaker 4: I'm not coming. 472 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 1: So it wasn't as though the invitation said brother and 473 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:32,159 Speaker 1: you cheated with you know at whatever your address is. 474 00:19:32,280 --> 00:19:34,280 Speaker 1: That it didn't say that. It said, hey, you're my brother, 475 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:36,720 Speaker 1: You're coming. But it wasn't as though it was you 476 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:38,960 Speaker 1: can bring someone of my choosing. It was you can't 477 00:19:38,960 --> 00:19:40,080 Speaker 1: bring anyone. 478 00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:44,000 Speaker 10: Right then I'd have to take your guys aside on that. 479 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 10: Then they definitely the brothers should value the sister's relationship 480 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:50,920 Speaker 10: over all else. 481 00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:53,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so. I think so. Thank you Shana, 482 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:53,920 Speaker 1: have a good day. 483 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:55,120 Speaker 4: Especially. 484 00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:59,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I do think you get to call the shots, 485 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:02,120 Speaker 1: you know, and I'm telling that it's about you, Yeah, 486 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 1: that you're paying for it. 487 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:04,960 Speaker 3: They'll hold it against me and don't make me feel 488 00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:08,119 Speaker 3: bad because I invite someone you may not like, Like, 489 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:09,080 Speaker 3: it's not about. 490 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 1: You, bro. Another reason why I'm not doing this. 491 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:12,760 Speaker 4: I'm not doing a wedding. 492 00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 1: It's like who gets invited? Who doesn't get invited, ind 493 00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 1: who gets a plus one who doesn't get applied. Let's 494 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:20,160 Speaker 1: just bring me a big gift.