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Speaker 1: on Apple Podcasts. On this Red Table Talk, Part two
Speaker 1: of our conversation with t I and Tiny. We've been
Speaker 1: together for almost twenty years. Ain't nothing but love right here,
Speaker 1: and they've seen their share of controversy. Knowing that you
Speaker 1: guys went through something like that, that's excruciating. Yes, and
Speaker 1: that's actually what brought us back together from prison. When
Speaker 1: I got back, everything the world was upside down to
Speaker 1: their very public marriage problems. I never ever ever had
Speaker 1: sex with anyone while we've been married. I have never
Speaker 1: ever ever lied about this. You came back. I want
Speaker 1: to know why we're talking surviving the ups and downs
Speaker 1: of marriage. This conversation, this problem is the exact same
Speaker 1: thing Will and I had to work through. Y'all have
Speaker 1: been together for what it's been a black Tell me
Speaker 1: about it. T I Harris is a three time Grammy
Speaker 1: winning rapper, actor, and TV star. He and his wife
Speaker 1: Tiny Harris a singer with a popular group Escape Tied
Speaker 1: the Knot in a secret ceremony in two thousand and
Speaker 1: ten and have been together for close to two decades.
Speaker 1: They have three children plus four from previous relationships. The
Speaker 1: couple has faced their share of problems, including TIS time
Speaker 1: in prison, public feuds, and infidelity. Things came to a
Speaker 1: head in seventeen when Tiny filed for divorce a second time.
Speaker 1: But today t I and Tiny have reconciled and they're
Speaker 1: here to share their journey towards forever. The reason why
Speaker 1: I love you guys, it's because you've been through it
Speaker 1: and you've survived. So you were together for ten years
Speaker 1: and then decided to get married. What was the decision
Speaker 1: where we had some thoughts and stops? You know, Well,
Speaker 1: actually we're supposed to get married in two thousand seven.
Speaker 1: Originally I don't remember that. Oh we were playing the
Speaker 1: whole wedding. Don't remember. Oh you don't remember. I don't
Speaker 1: remember playing in the wind, and I don't remember that,
Speaker 1: but to pretend everybody I don't remember. Well, anyway, that
Speaker 1: didn't work out. You know, we had my fault, probably
Speaker 1: probably quite that is, you see, that is the assumption
Speaker 1: when we learned in counselor it takes two people. Well
Speaker 1: they say that, but I really feel like sometimes it
Speaker 1: takes one, because one person could be like they're dealing
Speaker 1: Winn and Dealer Winn and Dela Winn and still trying
Speaker 1: to make things work, and the other person can be
Speaker 1: just doing that it. I tend to listen to the experts.
Speaker 1: So two thousand and seven, yes, it didn't work out,
Speaker 1: and we also lost a baby. And around that time,
Speaker 1: to hear that, I didn't know that, Yeah, yeah, that
Speaker 1: actually makes me really sad in the in the idea
Speaker 1: of knowing that you guys actually went through something like that,
Speaker 1: and that's actually what brought us back together. It seemed
Speaker 1: like every time we tried to break up, somebody dad.
Speaker 1: That's true. We had a very tumultual year. That year
Speaker 1: we lost the baby, and I believe not too long
Speaker 1: after that I caught my case. Yeah, it was a
Speaker 1: roller coaster. It was a rocky year. After your first
Speaker 1: case is when it was like, Okay, you're gonna marry
Speaker 1: me A not right. I've been a good woman, been
Speaker 1: in the house waiting on you to get out with
Speaker 1: out of jail man. You hear this kill I got
Speaker 1: to be honest with you, I mean, but just speaking
Speaker 1: honestly and truthfully, since this is a safe place. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I really did feel that at that point in my life,
Speaker 1: if I didn't get married in I was never gonna
Speaker 1: get married. And my daddy died without being married. And
Speaker 1: the thing he told me before he died was find
Speaker 1: somebody to share your life with. Now, you just said
Speaker 1: something very important right there. Having somebody to share your
Speaker 1: life with. That's what it's all about, you know, because
Speaker 1: she can go out and and find fun anywhere, you know,
Speaker 1: and so could I. But I don't want to start them.
Speaker 1: I ain't got time. I'm impatient now, stuck in my ways.
Speaker 1: Love me and leave me alone. I know that you
Speaker 1: guys went through a really tough time. You put divorce
Speaker 1: papers twice. Yeah, the first time we can get him
Speaker 1: to get the papers. To listen, they got a job
Speaker 1: to do. They got a job, dude, I got a job.
Speaker 1: You couldn't catch it. People, people, I'm not gonna do
Speaker 1: your job. She kept calling me, saying, when you please,
Speaker 1: let these people get you the paper for what? Let
Speaker 1: them do their job. They got addresses, they know what.
Speaker 1: I'm your job, all right. So they finally got his
Speaker 1: papers and y'all were living separate lives. There was a
Speaker 1: whole lot of stuff in the press, a lot of
Speaker 1: back and forth on Twitter. Was it you had your quotes.
Speaker 1: You was quoting to see about how marriage steals a
Speaker 1: man's masculinity, and he says that it wasn't about I
Speaker 1: would never believe that. I have no reason to lie.
Speaker 1: I'm in a safe place. Yeah, I have no reason
Speaker 1: to Like, you don't want it. You won't own up
Speaker 1: to it. But you know what I owned up to.
Speaker 1: It was insensitive for you to put out such a
Speaker 1: thing when you know the world it's watching. Sensitivity is
Speaker 1: left in the eye of the beholder because what I
Speaker 1: feel is sensitive may not be the same as what
Speaker 1: she feels sensitive. Right, So everybody has their own levels
Speaker 1: of Sif that's right. That's true. You know that is
Speaker 1: very true. Specifically an intimate relationships, that's true. After some
Speaker 1: so much time together, I would think that you would
Speaker 1: be a little bit more aware of her triggers. At
Speaker 1: let me tell you something. Can I just explain to
Speaker 1: you haven't been with somebody for twenty five years? No,
Speaker 1: I know, but I don't hear about it. That's what
Speaker 1: I'm telling you. Whatever that business is. I don't hear
Speaker 1: him speaking on it so much. Hear him saying the things, Okay,
Speaker 1: you want the truth, you want to understand, or no,
Speaker 1: because it's better to know how someone feels. You could
Speaker 1: tell me, call me, call me, tell everybody public stuff.
Speaker 1: I feel somewhat of a philosopher of sorts. So if
Speaker 1: there is a perspective that I feel is interesting that
Speaker 1: I would like to share are with people for the
Speaker 1: purpose of advancement of the generation, then I don't think
Speaker 1: that that is something that even if it goes against
Speaker 1: how would make your wife feel. You care about how
Speaker 1: they feel, your wife? No, not how they feel. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: this is about advantage. Want to teach them teaching. But
Speaker 1: at the same time, I believe at the very time
Speaker 1: that that came out, my calls were blocked. I had
Speaker 1: no access to get to you, and I had been
Speaker 1: relieved of duty as the person who were responsible to
Speaker 1: be on site attending to her needs. And I've been
Speaker 1: relieved of duty. You see what I'm saying, So I
Speaker 1: can't play both positions. Well, of course you have. You
Speaker 1: been out with women all on the ground, so of
Speaker 1: course you think we both join ourselves what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: It's come from one thing. We both have been out there, okay,
Speaker 1: but not as suctensis as yours. Who knows it's okay.
Speaker 1: Let would depend on that once because I actually think,
Speaker 1: I actually think that's an important piece. It actually is
Speaker 1: because you came from We don't come back to that,
Speaker 1: because I think this right here is an important piece.
Speaker 1: And I'm explained to you why I think it's important.
Speaker 1: I want to know what was the last straw for
Speaker 1: you that made you decide, because that's a big deal.
Speaker 1: Tiny When I could not get him to respond, nothing
Speaker 1: was working, and he was just like, you know, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna move how I want to move. This is something
Speaker 1: that we always go back and forth about it all
Speaker 1: the time. But the second time I came home from prison.
Speaker 1: So the first time I came over from prison, we
Speaker 1: got married. I didn't do a honeymoon because I was
Speaker 1: on my way back to prison again. And that time,
Speaker 1: I believe, see, I have relationship from nineteen years ago
Speaker 1: was kind of built on I guess the principles of
Speaker 1: practice of us being together all the time. We were
Speaker 1: a huge part of each other's lives. When I went
Speaker 1: to prison, I guess she felt like, well, now I
Speaker 1: have to figure out what I'm gonna do because I
Speaker 1: don't have you here to continue the protocols and the
Speaker 1: practices that we have established in the fundamental stages of
Speaker 1: this relationship. So when I got back, the world was
Speaker 1: upside down. She kind of had an air like my time,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I thought we were just
Speaker 1: gonna hit the ground ready and to to get back to
Speaker 1: things being the way they were, And there was a
Speaker 1: ah an acclamation period that I had to make it through,
Speaker 1: and me just coming back and not being in the
Speaker 1: position that I was in, it left me feeling lesser
Speaker 1: than so I had to go and figure out ways
Speaker 1: to make myself feel proper and adequate again, and that
Speaker 1: led to things that led to things that led to
Speaker 1: things You had your say. I'm what he's trying to
Speaker 1: say is I went and I found my own voice.
Speaker 1: He was used to saying Okay, no, we're doing this,
Speaker 1: We're moving this way, and I were like okay. But
Speaker 1: when he came home he said we're moving this way
Speaker 1: and I'm like, well, no, I got used to do
Speaker 1: and he's like, that's not the way. You know it
Speaker 1: wasn't what he was used to. He was used to
Speaker 1: controlling things and well having things his way at all times.
Speaker 1: But once I got on my own two feet, I
Speaker 1: felt like I should have a voice too, and that voice,
Speaker 1: it was a little different from what he was used to.
Speaker 1: So that, to me, is what caused the issue. Wasn't
Speaker 1: because I'm just being outlandishly disrespectful, because if it recalls,
Speaker 1: excuse me, If you recalled, you cannot move, you cannot
Speaker 1: go anywhere. I was still in the house like I
Speaker 1: was on probation, doing all the things, but because I
Speaker 1: had a voice that was not so timid, like, to me,
Speaker 1: this is my this is my perspect this is my
Speaker 1: outlook on it. I feel like she felt like it's
Speaker 1: not the woman I left, and this is not what
Speaker 1: I want. I want somebody that if I tell her this,
Speaker 1: she's gonna listen and she's gonna do this the way
Speaker 1: I want her to do it. And that's where he went.
Speaker 1: He want to find him somebody that he can be like, hey,
Speaker 1: don't move, let's do that, and then excuse me. I
Speaker 1: was not you know what I'm saying. I understand, I understand. Okay,
Speaker 1: this is the thing it's not about your voice. Okay,
Speaker 1: go out there and you get the voice and wanted
Speaker 1: to be loud as you wanted to be. However, you
Speaker 1: must know how to use that voice. Now, the fact
Speaker 1: that you may have muted yourself you no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no. You could have always said whatever it is
Speaker 1: you wanted to say. Even if that led to me saying, well,
Speaker 1: you know what, this ain't for me, then that is
Speaker 1: a decision that you Wait a minute. That is a
Speaker 1: decision and a sacrifice that a woman must be willing
Speaker 1: to make for that voice. Wait a minute, let me finish.
Speaker 1: I didn't interrupt you, okay. I never told you you
Speaker 1: couldn't say. I told you I had my list of
Speaker 1: how I wanted things to go, and you said, okay,
Speaker 1: wait a minute. Okay. So when you were not okay
Speaker 1: with it anymore, which is understandable, you changed your mind
Speaker 1: or whatever happened, I went to prison. That calls you to,
Speaker 1: you know, explore different parts of your voice. You can't
Speaker 1: use that voice to try to go against me. We're
Speaker 1: supposed to be together, and that, to me, I felt
Speaker 1: like it was Maybe it was because it was so
Speaker 1: new to you. Maybe you had learned how to control
Speaker 1: it Actually wasn't new to me. It was just that
Speaker 1: I gave it up because you know, you have to
Speaker 1: excuse me, when you have a man that says, don't work,
Speaker 1: don't this. I wanted to do this. I want to
Speaker 1: take care of your thing. There's something hidden behind that
Speaker 1: to me. To me, I feel like when a man
Speaker 1: wants to they want to be your all, your end
Speaker 1: and all you know, to be all. Then that means
Speaker 1: you have a less of a chance to say I'm
Speaker 1: moving this way or I'm going this way. You see
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. When a man completely takes control, takes
Speaker 1: care of you, you don't have a lot of sake
Speaker 1: because you are dependent on this made so for a
Speaker 1: long time because you didn't want me to work, I
Speaker 1: pretty much gave up, you know, not trying to sing anymore,
Speaker 1: not trying to do a new I never stopped an
Speaker 1: escape album. No excuse me, there was no escape. But
Speaker 1: you know, there was other things that I want to
Speaker 1: do in music, and you asked me to that work,
Speaker 1: and you was gonna take care. I said, well, I
Speaker 1: got my mama do this and take care of all
Speaker 1: of it. And he did, he did, and so you
Speaker 1: agree that. But sometimes once when you agree to something,
Speaker 1: then you realize that it doesn't really work for you.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you have to experience something because you think you
Speaker 1: want to do it because you want to be an
Speaker 1: agreement with people. She loves you. Let me just say this,
Speaker 1: this conversation, this problem is the exact same thing Will
Speaker 1: and I had to work through, just exact it is
Speaker 1: exact same thing. She felt like she lost herself right
Speaker 1: in supporting Will and his dreams and his career and
Speaker 1: the idea that he had of what their relationship was
Speaker 1: going to be. I'm listening to both of you, and
Speaker 1: you both have a point, yes, So I'm saying this
Speaker 1: to say that I completely understand where you're at, Tip,
Speaker 1: and I hear you completely understanding right, because you're coming
Speaker 1: from two different perspectives, and that's always going to be
Speaker 1: the case. It's just about getting the understanding. And she
Speaker 1: was trying to get her power back. And yes, I
Speaker 1: could see how for you it could have seemed very
Speaker 1: offensive because it is new for her. She is trying
Speaker 1: to figure it out because it's it wasn't something that
Speaker 1: she had practiced with for a while. So in her
Speaker 1: putting her practice in you have some bumps in the road, right,
Speaker 1: But it didn't mean that she didn't love you. And
Speaker 1: I completely understand how you felt just getting out of
Speaker 1: jail and you needing a certain kind of like, I
Speaker 1: get it. It just so happened that in your journeys
Speaker 1: you were in two different places. This is the irony
Speaker 1: with that. When a man cannot provide for his family,
Speaker 1: he's the less of a man. But if a man
Speaker 1: provides everything, he's being controlling. Let me just say this,
Speaker 1: and tiny you correct me if I'm wrong, but I
Speaker 1: want you to just let me know if we're on it,
Speaker 1: if we're on the same page. Yes, we do relinquish
Speaker 1: a lot of our power. Two and then that we've
Speaker 1: given our lives too. And at first I gave it
Speaker 1: all over, and then I realized, oh, that's working. And
Speaker 1: you get just a little disappointed because you feel like
Speaker 1: I gave it all to you and you took it
Speaker 1: and you misused it. You stop listening to me. You're
Speaker 1: talking to Will right now. Where are you? So that's
Speaker 1: your first thought, that's correct. Then as you start coming
Speaker 1: into the understanding of yourself and your own power, you go, oh, man, Jada,
Speaker 1: it's your choice. Though, and he did the best he could. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he did the best he could. And honor the fact
Speaker 1: that he wanted to m h. Honor the fact that
Speaker 1: he tried. But it takes it takes him whether to
Speaker 1: get there though, tip, And all I'm saying is, there's
Speaker 1: no reason to defend yourself. And there's no reason for
Speaker 1: you to defend in yourself. Because here's the thing. When
Speaker 1: I see the two of y'all, ain't nothing but love
Speaker 1: right here, this right here, and I can see that
Speaker 1: you guys, you're working through and I just want you
Speaker 1: to know, just from the experiences that I've had, like
Speaker 1: there's no right or wrong here. This is true. Then
Speaker 1: let me tell you you didn't do nothing wrong. You
Speaker 1: didn't do nothing wrong. And you know what else we
Speaker 1: have to release in our relationships, that power struggle, that ego.
Speaker 1: Yeah she got, she got more than there. No, no, no, no, okay,
Speaker 1: let's just say changing of one's mind. I understand that
Speaker 1: in life all things would change. However, it is way
Speaker 1: more possible for women to change their mind in the
Speaker 1: midst of permanent decisions than it is for men. Men
Speaker 1: can't change win sign no prenup. But I ain't had
Speaker 1: no manity and I change my mind? How about we
Speaker 1: get a prenup. I'm saying you can't do that, can't
Speaker 1: you know? Because he's already been built, you see, So
Speaker 1: life has been built. The expectations of this thing don't
Speaker 1: work out. Fifty in the middle of those are expectations,
Speaker 1: expectations of This is what I can expect from this relationship,
Speaker 1: in this marriage. So if one thing changes, why can't
Speaker 1: other things change too? Why is it just women can
Speaker 1: change their mind? But me, me and a star always
Speaker 1: that aspect of your life is no longer just yours
Speaker 1: that you're trying to put a pre nup on? What
Speaker 1: about because yours? Gonna roll? Said said that? But I'm
Speaker 1: just saying if we change in minds, when we change man, well,
Speaker 1: what can the man change his mind about about? That
Speaker 1: is a better way to ask that question. What can
Speaker 1: the man change his mind about? To wear the same way?
Speaker 1: The woman said, I want you to do this, and
Speaker 1: I agreed to this, but now I've changed my mand
Speaker 1: what can the man do? So let me ask you this,
Speaker 1: what changed that you decided not to take her up
Speaker 1: on that divorce? You change something in your mind? Okay,
Speaker 1: you did? Yeah, all right, so we're gonna talk about
Speaker 1: what changed in your mind. Okay, y'all both run off
Speaker 1: and found y'all could have made lives. Everybody went out
Speaker 1: has some fun. Okay, well, let's talk about that. You
Speaker 1: could have gone out in the world and found yet
Speaker 1: another woman who could have come into your life and
Speaker 1: been like, oh, Tip, I'm just here for you what
Speaker 1: you want. You're lying, you're lying, your lying your life,
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna enjoy it. One Okay, okay, that's fine.
Speaker 1: So but but here's but I didn't stick it through
Speaker 1: with not one. But you came back. I want to
Speaker 1: know why, because you discover no no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no, what did you discover out there? Tip? Because yes,
Speaker 1: she's the love of your life. But you went and
Speaker 1: you I discovered absolutely nothing. Did you discover like, all right,
Speaker 1: this is fun, but this ain't my life. I discovered
Speaker 1: this woman don't have my kids. This is the woman
Speaker 1: I want. This is where I have had the best
Speaker 1: times of my life. There are jokes and memories and
Speaker 1: things that we share that no one else are a
Speaker 1: part of or are involved with, and nobody could would
Speaker 1: ever be able to even if within my thirty nine. Now,
Speaker 1: if I were to start to date, I'd have to
Speaker 1: be fifty nine sixty years old before. I don't want
Speaker 1: to wait that long to have this level of a connection.
Speaker 1: And I think that you know, it's very rare where
Speaker 1: you are able to be married to the best friends
Speaker 1: you have and the best sex you've ever had. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So when you have those things
Speaker 1: two components, will you see what I'm saying that you don't?
Speaker 1: You just you don't just toss that away in the
Speaker 1: negotiation and any deal, business or otherwise, never get what
Speaker 1: you deserve until you show you willing to walk away.
Speaker 1: So is that what it took for both of us?
Speaker 1: She showed she was willing to walk away. I think
Speaker 1: I got HRD you know, see things from a different
Speaker 1: perspective because she saw that I was willing to walk away. Tiny,
Speaker 1: What made you decide to take the divorce papers off
Speaker 1: the table? That's a big step. You can think about
Speaker 1: wanting to get a divorce, but actually going to a
Speaker 1: lawyer's office, get some papers drawn and hear her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and what did make you decide that you didn't want
Speaker 1: to be divorced? It was you what changed? He changed?
Speaker 1: He came back and you changed. You changed, You came
Speaker 1: back as if you really wanted to work things out,
Speaker 1: you really wanted the relationship. Like before, it was kind
Speaker 1: of like, oh, the grass is green over here, so
Speaker 1: that's what I'm doing until I guess you figured out
Speaker 1: it wasn't right. Well, it happing to do with the
Speaker 1: green grass. A lot of it has to do with it,
Speaker 1: you recall. I don't want to, I don't want to say,
Speaker 1: but obviously what brought you back because you were out
Speaker 1: having fun. And let's take on record, I never ever, ever, ever,
Speaker 1: on record, had sex with anyone other than you while
Speaker 1: we've been married. Okay, well, I have never ever ever
Speaker 1: lied about this table talking. I'm not gonna do it.
Speaker 1: So that's that's the real you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Like I've been out, You've seen me out with people.
Speaker 1: We've never had any sexual encounter any ever. So this
Speaker 1: is another thing that I feel right. So sex is
Speaker 1: one thing you did. What I'm saying. You can go
Speaker 1: at and you can create moments with people physically, but
Speaker 1: the combination of energies and the aura of this is
Speaker 1: exclusive to Tip and to me. I don't care who
Speaker 1: she goes and be with. I don't care who I
Speaker 1: going be with. You can have a different energy, but
Speaker 1: it ain't gonna be this baby. That's true, and this
Speaker 1: is what I wanted though. I wanted the energy that
Speaker 1: I was used to. So let me ask you this
Speaker 1: tiny what is the thing that keeps you fighting for
Speaker 1: working at your relationship with Tip? For him, he's like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to start over. This is where it's
Speaker 1: at for me. I get to have my best friend.
Speaker 1: I get to have the best sex I've ever had
Speaker 1: with my best friend. I get to have my family. Like,
Speaker 1: what is the thing for you? In regards to Tip?
Speaker 1: I think it's got to be a two way street.
Speaker 1: If he's definitely in tune and trying to work with me,
Speaker 1: didn't that keeps me motivated to fight? I see the
Speaker 1: emotion in your eyes. Oh know what that is? I mean,
Speaker 1: it's just a lot of love, you know. Yeah? I
Speaker 1: really do feel that between you two, all the different
Speaker 1: machinations of everything that has transpired between you two, it's
Speaker 1: hard stuff to come back from, and you guys are
Speaker 1: doing it. I mean, I think that anything is possible
Speaker 1: as long as you have two people who really want
Speaker 1: to want you want to do both willing to fight,
Speaker 1: you know, and overcome the adversities. I think anything is possible.
Speaker 1: Did you guys go to counseling as well? Was that helpful?
Speaker 1: Or we definitely went to canceling. I think canceling is amazing, right,
Speaker 1: I'm right? No, I I was right. He keeps saying it,
Speaker 1: just like did you find that you right from that?
Speaker 1: Like she was really on my team. Did you guys
Speaker 1: do counseling together? Yes, counselor she was amazing, she said,
Speaker 1: and listened to us, and she was like, oh, my lord,
Speaker 1: and I think we should go out. You know, even
Speaker 1: when things are going well, I love it. I love
Speaker 1: to go. What would be the advice that she would
Speaker 1: have for couples that are going through it or considering
Speaker 1: divorce or just trying to stay together. What would be
Speaker 1: your words of wisdom? Both of you guys got to
Speaker 1: be willing to fight. I think counseling is also a
Speaker 1: great way to bridge things because you know, we can
Speaker 1: always see at at and where I'm gonna deal with him.
Speaker 1: He may we'll never see that. And she teld us
Speaker 1: different ways to deal with each other and talk to
Speaker 1: each other. Communication skill skill trust, trust and letting old stuff. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, and that's a good thing.
Speaker 1: Let the whole stuff go. Another thing that will help
Speaker 1: you is who do you think about when you have
Speaker 1: good news? And who do you think about when you're
Speaker 1: going through the toughest of time. That first person that
Speaker 1: you rather discuss and rather discuss it we shared with
Speaker 1: and talk to about. That's probably the person who whose
Speaker 1: energy is most present in your life. Because I'd have
Speaker 1: been around people and got good news and didn't care
Speaker 1: to show any of it, right, you know, don't keep
Speaker 1: it to myself? Right, those are the things that you
Speaker 1: know that means something to me. I love you guys,
Speaker 1: this is my pleasure. I can't well. I'm glad I
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Speaker 1: holiday season with you guys. We have a game called
Speaker 1: We're Not Really Strangers that will introduce to us that
Speaker 1: we all fell in love with and we're excited to
Speaker 1: tell you more about it. So We're Not Really Strangers
Speaker 1: is a purpose driven card game and it's all about
Speaker 1: creating meaningful connections with people. For Red Table Talk specifically,
Speaker 1: there's so much synergy here because you guys are all
Speaker 1: about empowering meaningful connections. We have an extended pack that's
Speaker 1: inside the game now that is really geared more towards
Speaker 1: those kind of deeper, deeper questions, you know, And you
Speaker 1: can actually do it as a family. I did it
Speaker 1: with Willow and my mom, just on a deeper level
Speaker 1: of topics we had already talked about. And so how
Speaker 1: do you win? There are two ways to play the game.
Speaker 1: One is to play safe and the second is to
Speaker 1: play to grow. And that's how you win. That's how
Speaker 1: you win. To join the Red Table Talk family and
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