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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with I R Radio. What a week is It's gonna

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Speaker 1: be friends Giving. Uh this week. We are so pumped

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Speaker 1: to see you all. Make sure you go and get

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Speaker 1: your tickets. We'll talk about it later on the podcast.

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Speaker 1: But Ashley how pumped their you to celebrate Thanksgiving with

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Speaker 1: everybody out there listening and also some of our friends

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Speaker 1: so excited. Uh, let's tell let's tell them what we're

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Speaker 1: doing so this Thursday, and you guys can still buy tickets.

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Speaker 1: It's for you guys to be part of our cooking experiment.

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Speaker 1: Cooking experience. Um Ben is going to be cooking at

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Speaker 1: Turkey Live on Zoom. I'm going to making my cream corn,

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Speaker 1: which reminds me that I have to tell my mom

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Speaker 1: Um We're gonna make it in the crack pot. And

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Speaker 1: then we also have our friends Crys Souls, Crystal Nielsen, Wells, Adams, Husband,

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Speaker 1: um Ben, Flannic and more coming on and they're gonna

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Speaker 1: be helping us cook, talking bachelorette, talking life with us,

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Speaker 1: and um, you know, just just doing what you would

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Speaker 1: do with any sort of friends. Giving. It's just gonna

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Speaker 1: be via zoom, and the only way that you can

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Speaker 1: interact with us and learn, you know, watch us cook

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Speaker 1: these recipes is if you get tickets to it, and

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Speaker 1: tickets are available at on location live dot com slash

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Speaker 1: almost Famous, on location live dot com slash almost Famous. Ashley,

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Speaker 1: Am I wronger right here? I don't think anybody's talked

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Speaker 1: so that's probably our hottest topic this week, and we

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Speaker 1: pretty pumped about this because I don't thin anybody talked

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Speaker 1: the timeline of how this all played out? Like, I'm

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Speaker 1: but like also to celebrate the fact that she is,

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Speaker 1: He posted on Instagram saying saying that he was truly broken. Uh.

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Speaker 1: another one that's a really hard one to talk about.

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Speaker 1: A viral fan theory spark rumors, in fact, on our

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Speaker 1: the world was going on for his name to pop up,

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Speaker 1: But I could see it happening. Yeah it feels weird,

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Speaker 1: this week, and I could be wrong. The Airbnb is

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Speaker 1: it's six thousand a night and that's a lot. But

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Speaker 1: They call the villa the mansion Villa de la Vina,

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Speaker 1: and it is better known, of course as the mansion

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Speaker 1: on The Bachelor. It's six thousand a night and it's

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Speaker 1: I don't think we have access to all the bedrooms right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: called for trespassing. Heck, yes they will. I need a

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Speaker 1: still worth it. What an experience. The Bachelor Mansion is

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Speaker 1: now available in Airbnb. People will be able to see

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Speaker 1: He just had to drop six gs for it. Uh.

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Speaker 1: Next headline, Ashley he Bear and JP Rosenbomb celebrate daughter

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Speaker 1: Essex is a beautiful name, but it's a mouthful to

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Speaker 1: How good a friend is this human? It's a good friend. Okay,

426
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:16,240
Speaker 1: Oh that's great. Yeah, Okay, Well, um, we're really glad

427
00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:19,359
Speaker 1: that you're smiling and happy. Um, did you watch this

428
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:23,159
Speaker 1: week of The Bachelorette? So I did not. I just

429
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 1: started catching up on tatious episode. I was actually trying

430
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:36,840
Speaker 1: to watch this prior and Um, I'm I'm into Spence Spencer, Spencer. Yeah, well,

431
00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:39,679
Speaker 1: because she looks so happy. I mean, I'm at the

432
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 1: I literally I just saw the part where she gaves

433
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 1: like gives him the first impression Rose though, I've kind

434
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 1: of felt bad for the other guys because I'm like,

435
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:51,840
Speaker 1: these people, they're the guys are probably having PTSD coming

436
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:57,359
Speaker 1: from Yeah. Well, I'm thinking that these these villains that

437
00:24:57,440 --> 00:25:00,199
Speaker 1: they're creating or going to be like a week to week, like,

438
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:03,440
Speaker 1: they're not true villains. They're just troublemakers for one week

439
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 1: and then we're supposed to totally forget that they ever

440
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:09,120
Speaker 1: stirred up anything. Because if you want, when you watch

441
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:12,239
Speaker 1: this week's episode, you'll see that Spencer has like he

442
00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 1: doesn't talk, and it seems like we're just supposed to

443
00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:19,160
Speaker 1: forget that he was any sort of annoyance last week. Um,

444
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:23,640
Speaker 1: and now this week's villain ish villain ish was Chasen,

445
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 1: so you'll see that when it unfolds. But since you

446
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:28,480
Speaker 1: haven't watched the episode. I do want to just kind

447
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:32,359
Speaker 1: of talk about your life. You recently came out about, um,

448
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:36,239
Speaker 1: just the depression that you went through after being on

449
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:40,200
Speaker 1: Bachelor in Paradise the last time. Yeah, I mean we've

450
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,399
Speaker 1: come a long way. I'm definitely doing much better. And

451
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:45,159
Speaker 1: then COVID kind of hit so I think it's just

452
00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:48,320
Speaker 1: taken me by storm, where I'm still trying to get acclimated,

453
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:51,639
Speaker 1: Like I'm finally getting back to the gym because in

454
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:55,120
Speaker 1: Miami they're really they're strict where you still have to

455
00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:58,159
Speaker 1: wear a face mask and it's very limited people. You

456
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:00,240
Speaker 1: have to make a reservation like days in a vas

457
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 1: to be able to attend yoga. So I'm doing good. Okay, good,

458
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:08,679
Speaker 1: Are you to Austin. I'm not moving to Austin. This

459
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 1: is like a temporary thing. I just came to visit

460
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 1: for the weekend. Well it turned into like I'm leaving

461
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:16,119
Speaker 1: onesday instead of I was supposed to leave yesterday and

462
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:20,919
Speaker 1: decided to stay a couple of days. Okay, Yeah, I

463
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:26,400
Speaker 1: mean there's a lot of comfort food, so and there's

464
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:29,120
Speaker 1: a lot of Mexican I love Mexican food and I

465
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 1: love comfort food, but when you're trying to just find

466
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:34,439
Speaker 1: something healthy, it gets a little difficult. It's like the

467
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 1: only problem that I've kind of ran into where it's

468
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:38,359
Speaker 1: just like what if I don't want to eat a

469
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:43,879
Speaker 1: tacolt today? Well, you could keep feeding the booty baby,

470
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 1: because like I will be on Instagram and I see

471
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 1: your pictures and I'll be like, look at her. But

472
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:54,840
Speaker 1: this is unbelievable. Seriously, you look fantastic. Nobody would ever

473
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:56,680
Speaker 1: think that you were having a hard time go into

474
00:26:56,680 --> 00:27:00,360
Speaker 1: the gym. Oh no, I love I'm having a good

475
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:02,639
Speaker 1: time right now. I mean it's the most that I

476
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,879
Speaker 1: can have with everything that's happening. How are you guys,

477
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 1: I'm pretty I'm pretty good. I'm kind of liking this

478
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 1: work from home lifestyle. We're getting a lot more family

479
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 1: time in So how's married life? Actually, I'm so curious

480
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:22,120
Speaker 1: all my friends that are like in really serious relationships

481
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 1: or married, I'm really curious to know, like, how did

482
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 1: you guys do through COVID And how's the transition with

483
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 1: like the honeymoon dating to Okay, now are in a

484
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 1: different stage. Well, I think that the honeymoon dating thing,

485
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 1: you know, that last like a good six months right,

486
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 1: and then Jared and I moved in around that time

487
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 1: when we were engaged, and then I think that our

488
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:50,639
Speaker 1: relationship because it's easier and easier with time, to be honest. Yeah,

489
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:54,880
Speaker 1: and and with COVID and quarantine, I will say that, like,

490
00:27:55,119 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 1: of all the months we've been together, probably late March

491
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:03,880
Speaker 1: to late April was maybe the most difficult. But like

492
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:08,679
Speaker 1: on a scale of like easy as heck, too diffic

493
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 1: really difficult, it's very low on the totem pole. But

494
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:15,560
Speaker 1: you know, Jared was really anxious about COVID, Like it

495
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 1: just really got his anxiety up. He was so worried

496
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 1: about our parents. We were at my parents, so he

497
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 1: had adjust to life at his in laws, so you

498
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 1: could just like he just wasn't himself and he was

499
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:31,480
Speaker 1: so quiet and like that kind of like what's going

500
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:33,400
Speaker 1: on in your brain? Like that just kind of is

501
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:37,959
Speaker 1: one of one of like that's probably when I find

502
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:41,800
Speaker 1: relationships hardest, right, when somebody's just like having all this

503
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 1: built up anxiety. So that was like the hardest month.

504
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 1: But ever since, it's been so easy bruzy, like we're

505
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 1: really enjoying each other's gonna we have like separation anxiety,

506
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 1: you know when we're a part that's so cute. See

507
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 1: I know, actually you just mentioned this. This is something

508
00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 1: that's really curious to me. Um As you get more

509
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 1: and more comfortable in your relationship, obviously you do show

510
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 1: Jared pictures of how beautiful did he is and you say,

511
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 1: look at this, Jared, how beautiful is this girl? What's

512
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 1: his response now that there's like a comfort there, how

513
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 1: does he is it awkward for him? Is he just

514
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 1: like like what does he say? Not? Really? He's like, yeah,

515
00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 1: she's got a great ass. And it's like with like Tasha,

516
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 1: this is you know, I'll be like, holy crap, she

517
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 1: looks amazing. She looks like specifically amazing at the Rosaria

518
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:39,959
Speaker 1: the Rosarymoty cocktail party in this episode, and he was like, yeah, wow,

519
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 1: this is the best she's ever looked. Yeah. So he

520
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 1: does good with it. Yeah, he doesn't do it as

521
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 1: well with me, though, like because he knows that I

522
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 1: don't know, like he does not He does not handle

523
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:56,520
Speaker 1: it well when I talk about sleb guys being hot,

524
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 1: and I would actually think that it's the opposite. Normally,

525
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 1: you hear that the girl is more affected by it

526
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 1: than the guy. So it's kind of comforting to know

527
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 1: that guys can also feel this too. Yeah, I think

528
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 1: there's just like more openness for girls talking about how

529
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 1: other girls are right, it is true. And then if

530
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 1: a guy talked about that because he like, I don't

531
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 1: like we've been watching Secrets and Lies like that was

532
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 1: a show at air in two thousand fifteen. Um, I

533
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 1: loved it and I was like, Jared, I think you

534
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:30,560
Speaker 1: should watch it. And Ryan Philippi is in it, and like,

535
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 1: he's just one of my top celebrity crushes. But like,

536
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 1: I know that I can't tell him. I can't be like, babe,

537
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 1: he looks so freaking hot now, because that's what he'll get.

538
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 1: He'll get really jealous and he's not going to be like,

539
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 1: you know what, You're right, he does look really hot now.

540
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:52,760
Speaker 1: It's different act such a good it's such a good relation.

541
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:55,479
Speaker 1: It is fun to hear this stuff. And maybe I

542
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 1: know that you have. You know, it's been a little

543
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 1: bit since anybody's inn in Paradise, but last time we

544
00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 1: saw you was in paradise. How has your dating life

545
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 1: been since then? That's obviously always an important topic in

546
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 1: the bachelor world. What what's going on and how can

547
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 1: you update us? So I took a big break. I

548
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 1: was like, I'm in no position to date anyone right now. Um,

549
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 1: I didn't really want to see anyone. I kind of

550
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 1: just felt like I'm too much in a funk, you

551
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 1: know you want to I really thought that if I

552
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:27,080
Speaker 1: want to attract someone into my life, I want to

553
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 1: make sure that I'm I feel good about myself before

554
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:36,360
Speaker 1: I tried to find anyone else. And then I just

555
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 1: like I met someone at the beginning of this year

556
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 1: and it was just like through a friend, super casual.

557
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 1: I didn't put a lot of thought into it, and

558
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 1: it's ended up. It's it's worked out. It's kind of

559
00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 1: just like build itself up gradually, and um, I've been

560
00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 1: I told it's funny. I went to the dermatologist the

561
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:00,480
Speaker 1: other day and she was like asking, I know why

562
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 1: I divulge so much information when I go to the

563
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 1: doctor's office. She's like my best friends with skincare. So yeah,

564
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:15,120
Speaker 1: he's like every few months I'm seeing her. She's like,

565
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 1: what's new, And I'm like, I have a quarantine lover, like,

566
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 1: which is you know, more of a relationship, But um, yeah,

567
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 1: I've I'm glad that I took the break that I

568
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 1: did that I kind of just let my body and

569
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:30,320
Speaker 1: my nerves do its thing. And this year has been

570
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 1: very nerve wracking for me. Um. So it's been good

571
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 1: to have a partner and a friend that understands my anxiety,

572
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 1: because I think that that's one of my biggest insecurities.

573
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys have ever like when

574
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 1: you're experiencing anxiety, I I tend to like not want

575
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 1: to be around anyone because I can't understand my feelings.

576
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:55,280
Speaker 1: I want to process it, and like it's really vulnerable

577
00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 1: to be around somebody else as you're kind of having

578
00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 1: these mini padic attacks. Um. But I find it's like

579
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 1: the first time that I've actually been able to be

580
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 1: around someone go through those things and have someone's support

581
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 1: along with it, like right by my side. So it's

582
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:16,880
Speaker 1: been it's been. I think it's been like a kind

583
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 1: of a gift from above to have someone throughout this year,

584
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:24,080
Speaker 1: um when I would at least have expected, Like I

585
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 1: feel like I'm not the girl to like actually find

586
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:30,520
Speaker 1: someone right before COVID, And you know, I'm not the

587
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:34,120
Speaker 1: girl to find someone to actually understand my anxieties. And

588
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 1: I've been fortunate enough that this year I have and

589
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, fingers crossed because it's been um,

590
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:45,840
Speaker 1: it's been good. Um, but I'm learning a lot about

591
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 1: myself a lot. Well, baby, how did um, how do

592
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 1: you meet this this person so super casual? I had

593
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 1: he we have one neutual friend and they were catching out.

594
00:33:57,680 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 1: They went to launch and she faced times me. I

595
00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 1: happened to be right down the street from where they

596
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 1: were having lunch, and She's like, come on over, I

597
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 1: have someone you know for you to meet. And I

598
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 1: have so many friends that are so good at connecting people.

599
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:14,759
Speaker 1: I didn't really think much of it. Um and I

600
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:17,279
Speaker 1: went and we met, and she had to go off

601
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 1: to like another meeting, and him and I just ended

602
00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 1: up hanging out. He doesn't live in Miami, so we

603
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 1: spent the day together kind of just walking around like

604
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 1: division area called Design District. We went to get some

605
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 1: ice cream, and then he ended up coming back to

606
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 1: visit Miami like a few weeks weeks later, UM to

607
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 1: hang out, and then ended up being in Miami a

608
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 1: little bit longer because of work and the kind of

609
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 1: the relationship just kind of like flourished from there and

610
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:51,520
Speaker 1: then the pandemic hit. So we ended up quarantining together

611
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:54,319
Speaker 1: through the pandemic because he came to visit, and so

612
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 1: it was like, well, do you get on a plane

613
00:34:56,160 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 1: now that everything's like shut down a little? Yeah, it is.

614
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:05,759
Speaker 1: It's a quarantine lover in the best of ways. Now,

615
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:07,799
Speaker 1: before let you go, I do want to dive into

616
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 1: one thing you mentioned. You've you've touched on the fact

617
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 1: that this year has been hard, that you have struggled,

618
00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 1: um with feeling anxious, but it's been incredible to have

619
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 1: somebody there beside you. Have you identified yet what it

620
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:23,200
Speaker 1: is that was making you feel anxious? Um? I think

621
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:27,359
Speaker 1: listeners are always interested in kind of relating with with

622
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 1: those feelings. I think a lot of this experience it um. I.

623
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:34,799
Speaker 1: It's funny the other day, UM, We're driving back from

624
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:38,280
Speaker 1: lunch and I thought, why do I feel so much

625
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 1: like fear stirrup and my gut over the most minute things? UM,

626
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 1: And I near it. I was able to kind of

627
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:46,360
Speaker 1: dig deep in near it down. I think it comes

628
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 1: from fear of like a little bit of social anxiety,

629
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:57,399
Speaker 1: but linked to performance, so not being able to do

630
00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 1: well in so didn't like even with this podcast, like

631
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 1: I was super nervous. I kept kind of going through

632
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:05,920
Speaker 1: my head, like what am I going to talk to about?

633
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:09,360
Speaker 1: On the What a Girl Wants Podcast, I review the

634
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 1: questions a thousand times, Like I was so nervous, I

635
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:14,479
Speaker 1: didn't even do the work of like watching the rest

636
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 1: of the episode. So, um, I think it's a it's

637
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 1: a fear of performance. Really, it comes down to just

638
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 1: not being able to like tap into my like my

639
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: ideal self, like the potential, like you know, what you

640
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 1: could be doing. And I think that that's what limits

641
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 1: me the most, like comparing myself to my own expectations.

642
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:37,799
Speaker 1: So that's where my anxiety really stems from. You speak

643
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 1: for a lot of people when you say that. Absolutely

644
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:44,560
Speaker 1: well you, guys. You can hear more from Baby about

645
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:48,759
Speaker 1: all her feelings and about dating on a special episode

646
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: of What a Girl Wants. It's a it's a new

647
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 1: I Heart podcast is a spinoff of Help by Second

648
00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 1: Dating What a Girl Wants. Your episode is going to

649
00:36:56,239 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 1: air on Thursday. By guys, Bye, thank you, Baby, Thank

650
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:04,839
Speaker 1: you so good to see your beautiful face. Fine, good

651
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:23,560
Speaker 1: luck with your Austin friend. All right, Well, since Baby

652
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:26,840
Speaker 1: didn't watch the episode, we'll recap the entire thing with Kendall.

653
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 1: Let's get her in it to the zoom right now. Hey,

654
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 1: Kendall Hullig doing, Hey good, how are you guys? So good? Kendall.

655
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 1: We're really pumped to have you here for a couple

656
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:39,560
Speaker 1: of reasons. One is because, uh, we're gonna break down

657
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 1: this whole episode with you, and it's gonna be something

658
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:46,400
Speaker 1: amazing because it is amazing. Um it was. I know

659
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 1: you just watched it this morning, so it's fresh in

660
00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:51,879
Speaker 1: your mind. Uh, you have really strong opinions, and so

661
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 1: that's gonna be something that's very helpful to us in

662
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 1: this podcast. But before we dive into that, I do

663
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:00,400
Speaker 1: want to spend some time on what you're up to.

664
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 1: You have some really exciting things that are happening, and

665
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:06,400
Speaker 1: it would be, um, it would be fair of me

666
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:10,719
Speaker 1: not to mention them. You just came out with Just Curious,

667
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:14,319
Speaker 1: a notebook of questions, which seems very on brand for you,

668
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:17,919
Speaker 1: which makes me very excited for Uh, what is this

669
00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 1: new project? So so yeah, it's coming out November eight.

670
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 1: But basically it's a collection of questions that I've accumulated

671
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 1: over time, and they're aimed to enhance connection and It's

672
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:32,799
Speaker 1: just a notebook that I've had since forever that I've

673
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:35,040
Speaker 1: just always collected questions. It was a really personal thing

674
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:38,319
Speaker 1: that I would use on first dates or when I

675
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:41,799
Speaker 1: met new people are at like parties and social gatherings

676
00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 1: and um. Ever, since I brought it on the show

677
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,240
Speaker 1: and people heard about it and I was talking about

678
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 1: eating human meat, I think it really picked up from there,

679
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 1: and so I thought, why not, why not publish it

680
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 1: and share with everyone? So then, can you give us

681
00:38:56,320 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 1: some like examples of what these questions are? Oh? Yeah,

682
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 1: I mean there's a hundred and fifty of them in there,

683
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 1: and they range from really silly to some really serious

684
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:08,840
Speaker 1: hitting ones. Um. Some of my favorites. The one that

685
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 1: I always love to ask people when I first meet

686
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 1: them is at what age do you learn the most

687
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:14,880
Speaker 1: about yourself? Because I feel like that really tells a

688
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 1: lot about where someone is or what a significant moment

689
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:21,839
Speaker 1: in their life made them who they are now. So yeah,

690
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 1: this feels like an exercise that if somebody picked it up,

691
00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 1: not only would be great for them to ask others,

692
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:29,399
Speaker 1: but probably really cool to sit down, read and ask

693
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:33,400
Speaker 1: yourself these questions. Definitely, I mean I even will I

694
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: even ask my twin sister these questions all the time,

695
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:39,360
Speaker 1: and I learned new things about her every day. Um.

696
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 1: And she helps me come up with different questions too. Um.

697
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 1: And then it's funny because when people ask me the

698
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,879
Speaker 1: questions back to myself, I almost don't expect it. Yeah,

699
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 1: I forgot that. Now I have to answer these questions too. Um.

700
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 1: But it definitely tells a lot about and I think

701
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:59,439
Speaker 1: throughout my life I answer these questions differently every year

702
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:02,360
Speaker 1: that I kind of revisit questions, there's always a different answer.

703
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:06,440
Speaker 1: It's a really cool project and one that uh, you know,

704
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:09,360
Speaker 1: we've been able to be around each other, um a

705
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:12,279
Speaker 1: couple of times. And you are very curious human, which

706
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:14,280
Speaker 1: is something that is one of my favorite traits in anybody.

707
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:17,239
Speaker 1: You're a curious human who wants to get to know others. Uh.

708
00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 1: If where can people find this? If this is sparking

709
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 1: their interests, So I have on my website kinda long

710
00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:25,680
Speaker 1: dot com. But um, also it's going to be on

711
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 1: Amazon as well, so and also some local bookstores. Really

712
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 1: awesome project, Kendle, This is super cool, Dan, this is

713
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 1: just curious A notebook of questions. I think it sounds awesome. Kendle,

714
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 1: congrats on the book. This is such a cool deal.

715
00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:46,560
Speaker 1: But we did bring you here not just to talk

716
00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 1: about this really cool project, but to also make you

717
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 1: suffer through it and also sit with your opinions on

718
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:56,640
Speaker 1: this week's episode. So, Ashley, you were the star of

719
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:59,719
Speaker 1: this episode. You and Jared actually take it away. Oh,

720
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:05,239
Speaker 1: we're not a star of the episode. That's Tasha. But yeah,

721
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:09,399
Speaker 1: we were there and it was really fun. It was cool. Um.

722
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 1: We we loved our date. The breakfast part was absolutely

723
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:16,880
Speaker 1: the best to see how these guys were, you know,

724
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 1: trying to incorporate Tassia's taste her fair breakfast foods um

725
00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:26,120
Speaker 1: and just like all the moves that they would make. Uh.

726
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,360
Speaker 1: And I think I have to kind of defend ourselves

727
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:33,160
Speaker 1: when it comes to us picking Bennett. Yeah, Bennett did

728
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 1: get apparently four of the math questions wrong. There was

729
00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 1: a lot more questions asked, of course than aired. Um,

730
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:43,320
Speaker 1: but we apparently didn't keep very very good track. Kendall,

731
00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:46,360
Speaker 1: would you think about us selecting Bennett as the winner

732
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:50,919
Speaker 1: of the Grown ass Man competition? Um? Ben, it's really

733
00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 1: growing on me. He was someone that I was really

734
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:54,319
Speaker 1: excited to kind of get to know a little bit

735
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 1: more because I felt like on Clear Season, um, a

736
00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:00,759
Speaker 1: lot of the personalities of the guys didn't really have

737
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 1: a lot of time to shine. So I'm excited to

738
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 1: see that a lot of guys. Um. I mean, my

739
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 1: worst nightmare is a math challenge, so I feel like

740
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 1: I can relate to him not being good at math. Um.

741
00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:16,319
Speaker 1: But I mean I feel like in a situation like that,

742
00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 1: he does seem to be a man and not a child.

743
00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:24,240
Speaker 1: So he's a man. He's very manly, he's very ely,

744
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:27,120
Speaker 1: even if he does wear his robe to the cocktail party.

745
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:30,000
Speaker 1: Oh especially, I thought that was a cool move. I mean,

746
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:33,440
Speaker 1: it's funny not taking it. I mean, he's taking it seriously,

747
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 1: but he can also, you know, have fun with the

748
00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 1: situation and poke fun of himself. Um. And so I

749
00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:41,360
Speaker 1: think that's something that I would have thought was really cool.

750
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:43,600
Speaker 1: I thought it was hilarious. Now I will say this,

751
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:47,960
Speaker 1: he really screwed up with kissing her in the moment

752
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:50,560
Speaker 1: that he did. That was their first kiss, and it

753
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:53,480
Speaker 1: was right after we gave him the Grown Ass Man

754
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:58,440
Speaker 1: Award plaque. And I could see during his sit down

755
00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 1: on the bed when he was serving her breakfast in

756
00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:02,400
Speaker 1: bed that he was trying to go in for the

757
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 1: kiss like multiple times, and I think she wasn't giving

758
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 1: the vibe back and uh, and that's fine because the

759
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 1: vibe she wasn't giving back, I believe because she didn't

760
00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 1: want to do that in front of the other guys.

761
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 1: Why don't know. I was there first kiss, and I'm

762
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 1: almost surprised that was her first guests in front of everybody,

763
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 1: you know, I feel like that's a internate moment and

764
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 1: I'm surprised that he did that, But hey, you know

765
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 1: what he was. He was excited. Maybe he was like

766
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 1: pumped up after winning and he wanted to celebrate. And

767
00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:37,840
Speaker 1: I don't know, you don't blame him. She's active. We'll see.

768
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:40,359
Speaker 1: There was another guy who kissed her during that day

769
00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:43,880
Speaker 1: to during the rope, but it didn't air, so I

770
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:45,839
Speaker 1: think that he thought maybe he had an open door

771
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 1: to do to kiss uh. And I think she was

772
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 1: also a little thrown off still by his kiss um

773
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:55,680
Speaker 1: when he was there at the cocktail party portion of

774
00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 1: the day in the rope, and then before she could

775
00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:00,440
Speaker 1: even say her hellos, he was like, would you like

776
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:02,839
Speaker 1: to go and continue what we were? What we were doing,

777
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 1: you mean make out some more. Maybe. Actually, this is

778
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 1: an important note though, before we move on to the

779
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:12,359
Speaker 1: rest of the episode. I watched this thing and I

780
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:16,319
Speaker 1: was like, this guy from Harvard, Uh, you can't do math,

781
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:20,560
Speaker 1: which I get. Hey, I would give anxiety finance too,

782
00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 1: I think. Now, I mean, there's obviously they can't show everything.

783
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:28,759
Speaker 1: But did he get some questions right? At least? Can

784
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:32,000
Speaker 1: we confirm that he didn't get all the questions wrong? Yeah,

785
00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:35,799
Speaker 1: I mean, of course, I think he probably equalled out

786
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:41,239
Speaker 1: to um be to have just as many as Yeah,

787
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:46,720
Speaker 1: I think that he answer just as many questions wrong

788
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:49,719
Speaker 1: as the average amount, you know what I mean, Like,

789
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:55,480
Speaker 1: I think every guy got about four questions wrong. So yeah,

790
00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:59,759
Speaker 1: he didn't stand out to us as having a hard time. Okay,

791
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:04,160
Speaker 1: But he also didn't do the second challenge, the running

792
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 1: for the bouque. Yes, and he truly did have a

793
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:09,719
Speaker 1: knee injury, like they came and told us, or like

794
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 1: he can participated. He has a knee injury. And I

795
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 1: don't know if I'm really allowed to say this, But

796
00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:19,000
Speaker 1: there was one other objective, Like, there was one other

797
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 1: class that we taught and they they didn't air it,

798
00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:27,399
Speaker 1: so there was actually for activities as part of that date.

799
00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:31,799
Speaker 1: So yeah, he yeah, I had a little bit. I

800
00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 1: was personally little offended by that part though, because I'm

801
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:37,280
Speaker 1: sure he has a knee injury. But I came onto

802
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 1: The Bachelor at like three months after having an a

803
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:42,880
Speaker 1: cr replacement. In fact, I went to my audition tape

804
00:45:42,920 --> 00:45:46,640
Speaker 1: and crutches still like a week after surgery. So and

805
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:49,319
Speaker 1: they were very protective of money. I want to say

806
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 1: that the show was very good about saying hey, like

807
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:54,880
Speaker 1: if this pushed the limits, it's okay. But I still

808
00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:57,200
Speaker 1: had to do the boxing date, like I still got

809
00:45:57,239 --> 00:46:00,319
Speaker 1: my my stuff kicked in by Jared, Like you still

810
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:02,479
Speaker 1: have to step up to the moment, like you only

811
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:04,440
Speaker 1: get one shot at this girl. If you want it,

812
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:07,719
Speaker 1: you're going to sacrifice the thing or two. So I

813
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:09,880
Speaker 1: watched it and I was obviously I was. I was

814
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 1: watching it with Jessica's family, and I was like, I

815
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:16,680
Speaker 1: was telling my you know, Golden Narrow Stores. It's like, no,

816
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:19,759
Speaker 1: when I was on the show, I had to do this.

817
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:22,279
Speaker 1: He's got to step up to But I don't really

818
00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:27,200
Speaker 1: matter at this point, you're done with one leg hobbled. Yeah,

819
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:31,880
Speaker 1: that's right. We also see Ed has a his chronic

820
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 1: dislocation of his shoulders and he so huge. He had

821
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:41,480
Speaker 1: to bail out of that one too. So it's a trend.

822
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:44,359
Speaker 1: They're trying to keep these guys safe, all right. So

823
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:49,759
Speaker 1: then the other like standout moments of the challenges was

824
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:53,240
Speaker 1: when Jason took off his shirt and he called himself

825
00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 1: the main course. I think this was the moment that

826
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 1: Ed was like, oh, I'm going to start ship with

827
00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:04,440
Speaker 1: this guy now. I think that, like Ed's issue with

828
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:10,760
Speaker 1: Chason comes from jealousy. However, Chason ends up looking worse

829
00:47:11,080 --> 00:47:14,080
Speaker 1: I'd say more villainous in this situation, just because how

830
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 1: freaking seriously he took it and how he was most like,

831
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:20,440
Speaker 1: come at me, come at me, Wolverine. He's obviously not

832
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 1: really good with confrontation. I feel like it could have

833
00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:26,479
Speaker 1: been handled in so many different ways, but it's hard

834
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:29,200
Speaker 1: once the seat of doubt is planted to be able

835
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:32,440
Speaker 1: to look past that or not to. I think we've

836
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:34,120
Speaker 1: seen on the show before that once there is that

837
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 1: seat of doubt, it could be like the demise of

838
00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:40,279
Speaker 1: that person. He ended up really freaking out. He's like,

839
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:42,880
Speaker 1: this can't be the end. I need to prove myself,

840
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 1: and he did it. I mean, whenever you try to

841
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:48,040
Speaker 1: approach anything with violence or intimidation and it's not a

842
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:54,040
Speaker 1: good look. And then, of course, like he chasing, I

843
00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 1: understand him getting annoyed when Ed decides not to just

844
00:47:57,680 --> 00:48:01,919
Speaker 1: leave it at confronting him, but goes and just casually, oh,

845
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:05,799
Speaker 1: nonchalantly being like oh yeah, Tasia. By the way, he

846
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 1: used the same adjective to describe you as he did Claire,

847
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:13,719
Speaker 1: so I think he's just here for Instagram followers. And

848
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:15,799
Speaker 1: at that point I'm like, all right, Jason, you have

849
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:18,839
Speaker 1: the right to be annoyed at this, but again, it's

850
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:21,239
Speaker 1: just the way you handle it. I mean, I'll come

851
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 1: out and say it. I've used the same adjective to

852
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:26,960
Speaker 1: describe guys before, and of course, only the same adjectives.

853
00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:28,719
Speaker 1: I don't know how many adjectives. I mean, of course

854
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:31,319
Speaker 1: I would use. But when you're first meeting someone, you're

855
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 1: beginning your relationship, you're going to use the same additives

856
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:39,480
Speaker 1: like cute, handsome, smoke show. I don't know, but no, kindle,

857
00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:42,279
Speaker 1: don't go there. We can't go to smoke show was

858
00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:45,160
Speaker 1: a totally fine adjective. If a guy called me a

859
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:48,359
Speaker 1: smoke show. I would be very flattered. I don't think

860
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:50,600
Speaker 1: that's something you have to reserve for only one woman

861
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:54,279
Speaker 1: as well. No, he said, I'm changing the adjective to

862
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 1: smoke show. About it. He's like, I've changed my adjective.

863
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:00,399
Speaker 1: It is now smoke show and that's it now, which

864
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 1: you know, that's what he said. He said, I'm now

865
00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:07,439
Speaker 1: changing my adjective to smoke show. Okay, that's a little

866
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:10,920
Speaker 1: the English that the English person he was like, uh no,

867
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 1: don't say that. Yeah, yeah, okay, now I get it.

868
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:19,600
Speaker 1: That's awkward. So the episode sets up like this, right,

869
00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:22,200
Speaker 1: like they have this group date. There's this confrontation between

870
00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:24,360
Speaker 1: Ed and Chase, and it's really like the storyline of

871
00:49:24,440 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 1: that first group date. Um, it gets a little bit heated,

872
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:30,759
Speaker 1: it gets really awkward, really hard to watch, and I'm

873
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:33,279
Speaker 1: sure it was even harder to be a part of.

874
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:35,240
Speaker 1: Like if you were a guy on the sidelines watching

875
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 1: that go down, You're like, this is ridiculous, This isn't okay,

876
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:41,239
Speaker 1: this isn't gonna end anywhere good. I do want to

877
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:44,280
Speaker 1: go before we move on the next day to say,

878
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 1: I was incredibly impressed. I have been impressed with how

879
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:51,400
Speaker 1: Tastia handles these moments, given the fact that she steps

880
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:54,120
Speaker 1: in without any kind of like I don't want to

881
00:49:54,120 --> 00:49:55,960
Speaker 1: say practice, it's not like practice, but you kind of

882
00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 1: get your mindset in the place of the Bachelor or

883
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:01,600
Speaker 1: the Bachelor. You watch past seasons and see how how

884
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:04,440
Speaker 1: people handle it. You get really prepared. She just steps

885
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 1: in and she has her first confrontation, and her reaction

886
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:12,920
Speaker 1: and her ability to navigate it is incredible. It is

887
00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:17,720
Speaker 1: and and just really well done. It doesn't demean either human,

888
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:22,879
Speaker 1: but it also brings light to how just irresponsible and

889
00:50:23,280 --> 00:50:27,239
Speaker 1: in mature this moment is. I'm you know, after this

890
00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:29,279
Speaker 1: first day, I was even a bigger fantation than I

891
00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:32,959
Speaker 1: was before because of how she navigated the process. Yeah.

892
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 1: I like how she ended it, and she was saying

893
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:38,719
Speaker 1: that she's just she trusts her intuition and that's what

894
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:41,400
Speaker 1: she's going with. And I like the amount of confidence

895
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:44,400
Speaker 1: she has in her opinion as supposed to taking everyone

896
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 1: else's opinion. Um, because as we've seen probably in past episodes,

897
00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:52,759
Speaker 1: jealousy can people try to pick at each other, right,

898
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 1: And so if you don't trust your own opinion, then

899
00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:57,759
Speaker 1: you trust other people's opinions. You end up regretting it,

900
00:50:57,800 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 1: and there could be a lot of like that resent

901
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:03,239
Speaker 1: or maybe regret as not when you don't explore relationship

902
00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 1: that deserves to be explored. Um. So I like that

903
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 1: she trusted her own gut as opposed to following the drama.

904
00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 1: I agree with that. Uh, and let's talk about how

905
00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:17,280
Speaker 1: Ed wants to carry on the drama into the cocktail

906
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:21,799
Speaker 1: party and the fact that Chason goes up and tries

907
00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:25,879
Speaker 1: to apologize. You could sense that, like the apology, people

908
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:30,279
Speaker 1: didn't really want to take, but it was seemingly accepted

909
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:33,960
Speaker 1: and everybody moved on. I said earlier in this episode

910
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:36,040
Speaker 1: that it looks like these guys are going to have

911
00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:38,359
Speaker 1: like a fight. They're gonna look bad for a second,

912
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:39,920
Speaker 1: and then everybody's going to forget about it at the

913
00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:44,480
Speaker 1: next moment. You agree, I was hoping. I was hoping

914
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:47,000
Speaker 1: so because when he came up to Ed, he did

915
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:49,319
Speaker 1: try to say sorry, But I don't feel like Ed

916
00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:52,239
Speaker 1: wanted it to end if he didn't, because Ed is

917
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:55,440
Speaker 1: a man child, and as much as Chason looked ridiculous

918
00:51:55,440 --> 00:51:57,680
Speaker 1: in all this, there was a reason that Jared and

919
00:51:57,719 --> 00:52:00,600
Speaker 1: I gave him the man Child Award because he's thirty

920
00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:05,360
Speaker 1: six and wants to just get on somebody for something. Yeah,

921
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:09,560
Speaker 1: and I think he won't be satisfied until um case

922
00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:12,759
Speaker 1: is gone. You know. I think his his goal was

923
00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:15,560
Speaker 1: to get him out of there, potentially maybe for jealousy issues.

924
00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:18,319
Speaker 1: It's hard to knowing it in the house, but it's

925
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:21,240
Speaker 1: not an attractive look when someone takes jealousy and turns

926
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:25,600
Speaker 1: it into like something malicious. Um. So yeah, man, child,

927
00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:28,880
Speaker 1: I'm glad you've be stowed that upon him. Thinks like

928
00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 1: he's funny and ways for sure, but like you know,

929
00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:36,399
Speaker 1: he's not sticking around. He's not tatious person. I feel

930
00:52:36,400 --> 00:52:38,719
Speaker 1: like he's threatened by Jason, and I just wish that

931
00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:44,640
Speaker 1: Chason would it just realized, like, don't even don't even

932
00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:46,319
Speaker 1: bother getting a druma with this guy because he's not

933
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:50,319
Speaker 1: getting anywhere. Yeah, I know, I know, but it's hard

934
00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:52,919
Speaker 1: because I feel like he sees it. He saw snowballing

935
00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:55,640
Speaker 1: and then freaked out in a situation like that when

936
00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:57,719
Speaker 1: you're when you're in a house, like I could leave

937
00:52:57,760 --> 00:53:00,919
Speaker 1: at the drop of a hat for any sort of thing. Um.

938
00:53:01,000 --> 00:53:03,839
Speaker 1: I think he he got like in fight or flight

939
00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:07,480
Speaker 1: and he ended up trying to fight it, and so yeah,

940
00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:12,440
Speaker 1: it's a really hard deal. Now. Typically in these moments, uh,

941
00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:15,600
Speaker 1: I like to watch the house's reaction, like what side

942
00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:19,399
Speaker 1: is the house on, because the when the numbers kind

943
00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:21,879
Speaker 1: of speak and everybody's against somebody, you know something else

944
00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:25,240
Speaker 1: is going on the two of you, I couldn't tell

945
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:27,920
Speaker 1: which side the house was on where. I don't think

946
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:30,239
Speaker 1: they liked the situation. I don't think they were thought

947
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:35,319
Speaker 1: this was appropriate. But was most people against Chasen or

948
00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:38,239
Speaker 1: most people against Ed or just indifferent. I just think

949
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:42,200
Speaker 1: most of the guys were against Chasing, probably because when

950
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:46,319
Speaker 1: he comes to a point of conflict, he isn't I

951
00:53:46,320 --> 00:53:50,040
Speaker 1: don't think he went about the confrontation that well. He

952
00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 1: ended up just saying things like chicken legs or just

953
00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:56,799
Speaker 1: poking fun at Ed, which then you end up being

954
00:53:56,800 --> 00:54:00,799
Speaker 1: the bully. So in in the face of confrontation, he

955
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:03,440
Speaker 1: kind of showed an ugly side of himself. And I

956
00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:06,839
Speaker 1: think it's a natural defense for other guys to want

957
00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:11,759
Speaker 1: to protect the person who isn't taking cheap jobs. M Yeah,

958
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 1: I agree. I mean it was obvious Bennett was on

959
00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:19,239
Speaker 1: Ed's side. Uh. Another let's just moving on. But in

960
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 1: sort of related way. Zach was one of the guys

961
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:24,520
Speaker 1: that went up and said like, Okay, guys, let's just

962
00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 1: put the nail on the coffin on this argument, and

963
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:29,520
Speaker 1: then he moved over into his one on one time

964
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:33,239
Speaker 1: with Tasha. He seems stellar. He did a great job

965
00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:36,719
Speaker 1: in his one on one time with Tasia. Yeah, he's

966
00:54:36,719 --> 00:54:40,319
Speaker 1: really good at taking all the drama away and just

967
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:43,920
Speaker 1: focusing on the relationship, and I think it shows his maturity.

968
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:47,320
Speaker 1: She did say that he was really mature, and um,

969
00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:49,440
Speaker 1: I think she likes that in him, because I'm sure

970
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:51,880
Speaker 1: Tasha doesn't waste her time with the drama she she

971
00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:55,800
Speaker 1: I also feel like Tasha actually really likes Jason. Um,

972
00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:59,440
Speaker 1: but this is like putting a damper on her relationship

973
00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 1: with him, and she's kind of like, man like, get

974
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:04,879
Speaker 1: over it. And it's refreshing to see other guys not

975
00:55:05,280 --> 00:55:08,400
Speaker 1: drag that into their time with her. Ben is a

976
00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:14,000
Speaker 1: guy that we see in each third of this episode. Uh.

977
00:55:14,080 --> 00:55:16,319
Speaker 1: She obviously hits it off off of him during the

978
00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:20,360
Speaker 1: group date, during the cocktail party, then during the Rosehammury

979
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 1: cocktail party again, they have like a pretty strong connection.

980
00:55:23,440 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 1: I have to say he's a little he's a little

981
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:29,600
Speaker 1: phony for me. I feel like he's a little extra.

982
00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:32,799
Speaker 1: Am I the only one picking up on this? There

983
00:55:32,840 --> 00:55:36,520
Speaker 1: were some things that he said that seemed too Yes,

984
00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:39,759
Speaker 1: I mean romantic. You know. He was kind of like

985
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:42,160
Speaker 1: when I see you walking, I just want to pull

986
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:45,120
Speaker 1: you close to me, or yeah, it was a little much.

987
00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:50,160
Speaker 1: Is somebody is going to get for flowery language as

988
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:54,400
Speaker 1: Chason did, it should be Ben. I feel like he's

989
00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:56,759
Speaker 1: the one that is just like la la la la,

990
00:55:56,880 --> 00:56:00,440
Speaker 1: like in Shock a Lot mood mode. I think he

991
00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:04,279
Speaker 1: was super pumped that Tasia was saying said that she

992
00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:06,319
Speaker 1: was attracted to him, and he just took that and

993
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 1: ran with it and was like, I'm going to be

994
00:56:08,120 --> 00:56:13,200
Speaker 1: that romantic guy. I am in it. Tasha was like like,

995
00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:15,319
Speaker 1: I like to keep it real, and He's like that

996
00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:18,040
Speaker 1: really resonates with me. He's like, oh really, is that

997
00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:21,960
Speaker 1: this deep profound thing ever? And there's so much of

998
00:56:21,960 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 1: that this episode of I'm the most honest you know me,

999
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:27,600
Speaker 1: I'm the truthful guy, or I just like to keep

1000
00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:30,480
Speaker 1: it real, Like what's the what does that even mean?

1001
00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:32,160
Speaker 1: What's the opposite of that? Are you gonna go up

1002
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:33,560
Speaker 1: there and be like, you know what I'm actually the

1003
00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:35,239
Speaker 1: type of guy's gonna be really fake. I'm gonna say

1004
00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:37,239
Speaker 1: the right things, You're gonna really like it, and then

1005
00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:39,200
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna ever believe it. Here's my take on

1006
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:43,799
Speaker 1: been though. I think Ben really likes Tasha, and I

1007
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:46,279
Speaker 1: think he's seeing that, and I think he's feeling things

1008
00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:48,880
Speaker 1: and he's still attracted to her, and he doesn't know

1009
00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:51,959
Speaker 1: how to respond, Like the only thing he can say

1010
00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:55,040
Speaker 1: are the things that he thinks he should say, like

1011
00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:59,040
Speaker 1: because he doesn't have he's right now, not in the headspace,

1012
00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:01,920
Speaker 1: nor does he have maybe that like the game or

1013
00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:06,719
Speaker 1: whatever to just like maturely, slowly walked through this. Because

1014
00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:09,480
Speaker 1: I think he's thinking, I am give the guy who

1015
00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:11,800
Speaker 1: benefit of doubt. He just was a part of something

1016
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:14,799
Speaker 1: where one guy steps and meets the bachelorette and she's

1017
00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:17,120
Speaker 1: head over heels and they leave together a week later,

1018
00:57:17,280 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 1: two weeks later, he sees it. Yeah, if I can

1019
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:23,560
Speaker 1: get if I if I'm feeling this way, I would

1020
00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:26,120
Speaker 1: leave in a second with Tasia. She's beautiful, she's awesome,

1021
00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:30,320
Speaker 1: she's incredible. If I could get her convinced that I

1022
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:34,600
Speaker 1: feel this way without you know, losing her, that I'm

1023
00:57:34,640 --> 00:57:36,760
Speaker 1: going to be the happiest man ever. Instead he but

1024
00:57:36,800 --> 00:57:39,160
Speaker 1: he is. He's coming off like he's trying really hard

1025
00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:42,240
Speaker 1: and it's a little awkward to watch, but he's trying

1026
00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:43,880
Speaker 1: really hard because I think he really likes her. Then

1027
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:45,760
Speaker 1: you you hit the nail on the head there. I

1028
00:57:45,800 --> 00:57:48,400
Speaker 1: agree with you. It's like he's reading from like a

1029
00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:51,160
Speaker 1: how to woo a girl handbook and just saying all

1030
00:57:51,240 --> 00:57:54,640
Speaker 1: these things which sound isn't genuine, But you're right. I

1031
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:57,840
Speaker 1: think they are probably genuine. They're just coming out a

1032
00:57:57,840 --> 00:58:03,160
Speaker 1: little awkward too much to Yeah. Yeah. Well, then we

1033
00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:06,479
Speaker 1: see at the last part of the episode, during date

1034
00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:09,960
Speaker 1: number you know, group date number two, he kind of

1035
00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:13,280
Speaker 1: screws it up for himself because during the cocktail party,

1036
00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:16,439
Speaker 1: he decides he's just gonna wait to the very end

1037
00:58:16,520 --> 00:58:19,479
Speaker 1: so he has extra time with her. He's just gonna

1038
00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:23,680
Speaker 1: sit back and enjoy himself, and well, we'll see what happens.

1039
00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:26,040
Speaker 1: But we all know that that's the worst move and

1040
00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:29,000
Speaker 1: it never looks good to the bachelorette because it signals

1041
00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:32,160
Speaker 1: to her he's not fighting for time with her. M

1042
00:58:32,760 --> 00:58:35,959
Speaker 1: and she did reward Noah for fighting for that time.

1043
00:58:36,440 --> 00:58:38,240
Speaker 1: I feel like that's obviously something that's high in her

1044
00:58:38,240 --> 00:58:42,440
Speaker 1: priority list is someone who puts themselves out there for her. Um.

1045
00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:44,240
Speaker 1: And I think if Ben saw that, he probably he

1046
00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:48,560
Speaker 1: could have gotten the rose because because Noah jumped over

1047
00:58:48,680 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 1: the fence, she rewarded that by having him go on

1048
00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:52,760
Speaker 1: the cocktail date and them knowing that, being like, I

1049
00:58:52,800 --> 00:58:56,000
Speaker 1: have to put myself out there too. Um. So I

1050
00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:58,080
Speaker 1: think she didn't feel like she was as desired after

1051
00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 1: they had such a strong connection, so I can understand

1052
00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:05,520
Speaker 1: why she was upset. I also took it, I think

1053
00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:08,680
Speaker 1: being got a little bit. I'm I'm assuming everything here,

1054
00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:10,880
Speaker 1: but it looked like to me that he got in

1055
00:59:10,880 --> 00:59:12,400
Speaker 1: his own head a little bit, and he because he

1056
00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:15,040
Speaker 1: made a comment he said, I'm gonna save it to

1057
00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:18,080
Speaker 1: the end. Then she's gonna be able to relax, have

1058
00:59:18,160 --> 00:59:20,720
Speaker 1: a cocktail with me, just kind of take a breath

1059
00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:22,440
Speaker 1: before she has to go back and give the rose.

1060
00:59:22,480 --> 00:59:24,919
Speaker 1: Like if I were to if I were to say

1061
00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:27,040
Speaker 1: that or think that when I was in a dating scenario,

1062
00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:29,240
Speaker 1: what I'd be actually thinking is I'm actually a gift

1063
00:59:29,360 --> 00:59:31,960
Speaker 1: to her, that my time with her as a gift

1064
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:34,880
Speaker 1: to her, that she's gonna be more relaxed, she's gonna

1065
00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:37,080
Speaker 1: feel better about herself when she's with me, and so

1066
00:59:37,480 --> 00:59:39,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let her do her thing. But I know

1067
00:59:39,880 --> 00:59:42,040
Speaker 1: that we have such a great thing that if I

1068
00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:43,960
Speaker 1: wait to the very end, she'll be able to just

1069
00:59:44,000 --> 00:59:46,919
Speaker 1: like be herself for the first time all day. Which

1070
00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:50,080
Speaker 1: I think he's miss reading the situation. Again. I think

1071
00:59:50,120 --> 00:59:52,200
Speaker 1: he's getting in his own head. I think he's way

1072
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:54,280
Speaker 1: he thinks he's way farther along than this thing than

1073
00:59:54,320 --> 00:59:58,880
Speaker 1: he is, and it's gonna backfire. It's gonna backfire so bad. Yeah,

1074
00:59:58,920 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 1: I like the humbling man for him, though at least

1075
01:00:01,040 --> 01:00:02,920
Speaker 1: she called him out on it, and now I think

1076
01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:07,640
Speaker 1: maybe that awkwardness will subside a bit next episode, Oh

1077
01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:10,760
Speaker 1: I think so. Yeah, kind of like defining himself as

1078
01:00:10,800 --> 01:00:13,680
Speaker 1: like the cherry on top of the whole date, which

1079
01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 1: is it's not as humble and as I think, who

1080
01:00:17,320 --> 01:00:19,280
Speaker 1: was it that had said that a true man is

1081
01:00:19,360 --> 01:00:23,160
Speaker 1: humble or the in the episode, someone's like a true

1082
01:00:23,160 --> 01:00:27,960
Speaker 1: man's like humble and kind. Maybe even Benson. Yeah, well,

1083
01:00:28,640 --> 01:00:30,720
Speaker 1: it really it really got to him and it was

1084
01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:33,280
Speaker 1: a very awkward moment to watch, but a very good moment.

1085
01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:36,200
Speaker 1: I think we saw a very real moment for ben

1086
01:00:36,280 --> 01:00:41,200
Speaker 1: where she goes, no, like I ain't Like, Okay, I've

1087
01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:43,320
Speaker 1: been in that seat before. So here's a little because

1088
01:00:43,440 --> 01:00:46,040
Speaker 1: the family was asking me about this as we watched it, Like,

1089
01:00:46,080 --> 01:00:48,320
Speaker 1: I've been in tatiency and you have some incredible people

1090
01:00:48,360 --> 01:00:50,080
Speaker 1: that you talked to, especially at this point in the show.

1091
01:00:50,880 --> 01:00:54,120
Speaker 1: But these days are long, Like they're really long, and

1092
01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:56,360
Speaker 1: I don't care if you're with your loved one, like

1093
01:00:56,400 --> 01:00:59,360
Speaker 1: if you're married and you're in so much love, like

1094
01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:02,440
Speaker 1: after all on day, it's hard sometimes to have a

1095
01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:05,280
Speaker 1: conversation to like be back on with him. You just

1096
01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:06,919
Speaker 1: want to sit there and be done with it because

1097
01:01:06,960 --> 01:01:09,000
Speaker 1: it's been a long day. These days are long tations.

1098
01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:11,640
Speaker 1: Sitting there, she's probably thinking, I've made it to the date.

1099
01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:14,200
Speaker 1: I've gotten this out of this date what I've wanted.

1100
01:01:14,560 --> 01:01:16,440
Speaker 1: I've gotten to know a lot about some of these guys.

1101
01:01:16,480 --> 01:01:18,960
Speaker 1: It's been really good for me. But I'm tired, and

1102
01:01:19,000 --> 01:01:20,479
Speaker 1: I want to go home and I want to sleep

1103
01:01:20,520 --> 01:01:23,120
Speaker 1: because I do have another long day tomorrow. And so

1104
01:01:23,160 --> 01:01:25,280
Speaker 1: when somebody looks at you in that moment at the

1105
01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:26,960
Speaker 1: end of it all and goes, hey, can I just

1106
01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:30,040
Speaker 1: can we just take some more time together? No matter

1107
01:01:30,040 --> 01:01:34,280
Speaker 1: who it is. In your head, you're thinking absolutely not,

1108
01:01:34,680 --> 01:01:38,320
Speaker 1: no chance, I don't want to and and he did it,

1109
01:01:38,440 --> 01:01:40,080
Speaker 1: and you saw that moment for her, and I think

1110
01:01:40,120 --> 01:01:41,480
Speaker 1: it was I think it was another great moment for

1111
01:01:41,480 --> 01:01:44,320
Speaker 1: Taste where she goes no, like I'm tired and I'm

1112
01:01:44,320 --> 01:01:48,760
Speaker 1: going home because I can't. Yeah. I love the way

1113
01:01:48,760 --> 01:01:50,880
Speaker 1: she didn't get let him get away with it. Uh

1114
01:01:51,160 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 1: So this this group date kind of like one of

1115
01:01:53,640 --> 01:01:55,640
Speaker 1: those group dates that I don't think like proves much

1116
01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:59,080
Speaker 1: about like what your conduction is going to be, you know, wrestling.

1117
01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:02,880
Speaker 1: They're all get oily and kind of dazed out a bit, right.

1118
01:02:02,880 --> 01:02:05,080
Speaker 1: It just like doesn't mean that much to me. It

1119
01:02:05,080 --> 01:02:08,520
Speaker 1: doesn't say anything about like how they're going to evolve

1120
01:02:08,600 --> 01:02:14,640
Speaker 1: into a couple. Right. Is there anything besides Noah injecting

1121
01:02:14,720 --> 01:02:19,320
Speaker 1: himself as has tribute for ed that you think we

1122
01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:24,600
Speaker 1: need to discuss about the actual ring? Um? I didn't

1123
01:02:24,640 --> 01:02:27,000
Speaker 1: actually think it showed a lot of good character and

1124
01:02:27,040 --> 01:02:29,720
Speaker 1: a few of the guys um with Joe and he

1125
01:02:29,920 --> 01:02:33,080
Speaker 1: was joking around about the smack talk or didn't really

1126
01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:35,480
Speaker 1: want to fight. I liked that element because it showed

1127
01:02:35,480 --> 01:02:37,560
Speaker 1: that he's like, I'm a lover, not a fighter, and

1128
01:02:37,720 --> 01:02:43,120
Speaker 1: I like that in a man, someone who doesn't enjoy

1129
01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:45,680
Speaker 1: I don't know, like that whole like mask and I'm

1130
01:02:45,680 --> 01:02:48,120
Speaker 1: gonna beat you up, Like that's not really my vibe.

1131
01:02:48,440 --> 01:02:52,040
Speaker 1: And then Um Brendan was also someone that was more

1132
01:02:52,840 --> 01:02:56,400
Speaker 1: kind in that situation. He Um when someone's like, oh,

1133
01:02:56,400 --> 01:02:58,240
Speaker 1: I'm gonna beat you up, He's like, you probably will.

1134
01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:01,760
Speaker 1: Like I thought it was, you know, like yourself, but

1135
01:03:01,840 --> 01:03:05,440
Speaker 1: not man. Some guys like uping up their chest. I

1136
01:03:05,480 --> 01:03:07,800
Speaker 1: was like, dude, like, chill it out a little bit.

1137
01:03:08,720 --> 01:03:10,720
Speaker 1: I'm like you kid. I thought that was maybe one

1138
01:03:10,760 --> 01:03:13,160
Speaker 1: of the most revealing parts of the episode, was this

1139
01:03:13,480 --> 01:03:15,560
Speaker 1: interaction these guys are having. I mean, if you told

1140
01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:17,640
Speaker 1: me that I was gonna get in a ring with

1141
01:03:17,680 --> 01:03:19,760
Speaker 1: a bunch of those dudes and fight, I would be

1142
01:03:20,000 --> 01:03:23,560
Speaker 1: so scared, Like I would be frightened. I would want

1143
01:03:23,560 --> 01:03:27,040
Speaker 1: to know nothing to do with it unless it's survival

1144
01:03:27,160 --> 01:03:29,960
Speaker 1: and I have to protect somebody I love. I don't

1145
01:03:29,960 --> 01:03:32,240
Speaker 1: want to have anything to do with fighting. It just

1146
01:03:32,440 --> 01:03:34,600
Speaker 1: doesn't feel it's not fun for me. I gave that

1147
01:03:34,680 --> 01:03:38,160
Speaker 1: up in high school. So it was a really good moment,

1148
01:03:38,160 --> 01:03:40,560
Speaker 1: I thought, especially for Joe, like that made me laugh.

1149
01:03:40,600 --> 01:03:42,680
Speaker 1: It made me a like him a lot, Like he

1150
01:03:42,760 --> 01:03:45,400
Speaker 1: was very endearing, he was funny. He's like, yeah, you're

1151
01:03:45,400 --> 01:03:47,200
Speaker 1: gonna beat you know, all of you, You're gonna beat

1152
01:03:47,200 --> 01:03:48,680
Speaker 1: me up, but like I'm gonna still get out there

1153
01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:50,440
Speaker 1: and try. And I thought that was I thought it

1154
01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:52,560
Speaker 1: was a really good show of character because they could

1155
01:03:52,600 --> 01:03:55,400
Speaker 1: have in that moment stuck their chest out and tried

1156
01:03:55,440 --> 01:03:58,440
Speaker 1: to act tougher and cooler and bigger, and that just

1157
01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:01,440
Speaker 1: never it never comes And I don't I don't. I

1158
01:04:01,440 --> 01:04:05,560
Speaker 1: don't know many women who find out attractive. No. Yeah,

1159
01:04:05,680 --> 01:04:07,160
Speaker 1: when Chase did the same kind of thing where he

1160
01:04:07,200 --> 01:04:09,040
Speaker 1: was trying to pop up his chest and be tough

1161
01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:11,760
Speaker 1: when he was talking with Ed, it kind of figgered

1162
01:04:11,960 --> 01:04:14,720
Speaker 1: me as well. And I was like, we're just living

1163
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:17,000
Speaker 1: a different world where you don't have to be, you know,

1164
01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:21,000
Speaker 1: the person that wants to people beat someone up, Like,

1165
01:04:21,080 --> 01:04:23,600
Speaker 1: there's so many other ways to go about confrontations. So

1166
01:04:24,240 --> 01:04:27,360
Speaker 1: for me, I I always look for a man who

1167
01:04:27,480 --> 01:04:29,720
Speaker 1: I think a true man to me is not being

1168
01:04:30,160 --> 01:04:33,640
Speaker 1: the person that intimidates and that's buff and manly. It's

1169
01:04:33,720 --> 01:04:36,200
Speaker 1: someone who can actually talk their way out of situations

1170
01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:39,880
Speaker 1: and also show empathy and kindness. Yeah, I Jared and

1171
01:04:39,920 --> 01:04:43,120
Speaker 1: I opened a whole can of worms with that grown

1172
01:04:43,160 --> 01:04:46,919
Speaker 1: ass man theme. It really carried on. You know, this

1173
01:04:47,000 --> 01:04:49,360
Speaker 1: is how a man is, how a man is. But yeah,

1174
01:04:49,400 --> 01:04:52,800
Speaker 1: I don't think Jason's wolverine version is like the kind

1175
01:04:52,840 --> 01:04:56,640
Speaker 1: of quality that is top on a woman's list of

1176
01:04:56,800 --> 01:04:59,960
Speaker 1: male qualities these days. Do we know why that's a nick?

1177
01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:02,360
Speaker 1: Do we have we have? Do we have any background

1178
01:05:02,360 --> 01:05:04,440
Speaker 1: to that? Like how this wol like he referred to

1179
01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:05,880
Speaker 1: a couple of times, like all of a sudden, he's

1180
01:05:05,880 --> 01:05:08,560
Speaker 1: called himself the wolverine and he's doing some arm hard,

1181
01:05:09,280 --> 01:05:12,480
Speaker 1: very very It could be costume that really just took off,

1182
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:14,640
Speaker 1: or maybe he even it was like a self stowed name.

1183
01:05:14,760 --> 01:05:18,240
Speaker 1: You know, he's gonna be really cool thing going. Jason

1184
01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:20,120
Speaker 1: just didn't seem to have like any sense of humor

1185
01:05:20,120 --> 01:05:23,520
Speaker 1: about himself, Like there he just took himself so seriously

1186
01:05:23,520 --> 01:05:27,680
Speaker 1: in this episode. Alright, But yeah, one of my highlights

1187
01:05:27,840 --> 01:05:31,280
Speaker 1: of this part is definitely Noah getting into the ring.

1188
01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:34,280
Speaker 1: He was just like he was just fun, like he

1189
01:05:34,360 --> 01:05:37,680
Speaker 1: was having fun about it. And then after I think

1190
01:05:37,680 --> 01:05:43,160
Speaker 1: he shined at the cocktail party when she said what's

1191
01:05:43,240 --> 01:05:45,640
Speaker 1: up with the mustache? Right, and she's like, I'd like

1192
01:05:45,680 --> 01:05:48,680
Speaker 1: to kiss you without a mustache. He leaves, he comes

1193
01:05:48,720 --> 01:05:51,680
Speaker 1: back with the electric razor, has her do it. It

1194
01:05:51,760 --> 01:05:55,000
Speaker 1: was playful. Um, it was just lighthearted. It was kind

1195
01:05:55,000 --> 01:05:56,440
Speaker 1: of like a nice change of pace from like all

1196
01:05:56,480 --> 01:06:00,880
Speaker 1: the serious, like heartfelt deep conversation sans and then he

1197
01:06:00,960 --> 01:06:05,200
Speaker 1: looked so cute afterward she has he moved to the

1198
01:06:06,000 --> 01:06:09,720
Speaker 1: He moved many spaces up on her list after he

1199
01:06:09,800 --> 01:06:11,920
Speaker 1: shaved that mustache and then said like, hey, isn't the

1200
01:06:11,920 --> 01:06:14,600
Speaker 1: whole point of this for you for us to have

1201
01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:16,240
Speaker 1: a kiss without the mustache? And it's just like a

1202
01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:19,800
Speaker 1: very cute moment. And I liked it. Yeah, I will

1203
01:06:19,840 --> 01:06:23,439
Speaker 1: say I'm a mustache fan, Like I love mustaches on

1204
01:06:23,440 --> 01:06:26,320
Speaker 1: on guys. So I was bummed. I was like, dang it,

1205
01:06:26,400 --> 01:06:28,560
Speaker 1: that must I would have been like keep the mustache

1206
01:06:28,600 --> 01:06:34,680
Speaker 1: everyone shaved to, you know. But the cool part about

1207
01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:37,160
Speaker 1: Noah here too, though, is it felt like, and I

1208
01:06:37,200 --> 01:06:39,600
Speaker 1: could be wrong, it felt like the very first moment

1209
01:06:39,600 --> 01:06:42,000
Speaker 1: that we've seen with Tatia. Now, this isn't tatious fault

1210
01:06:42,280 --> 01:06:44,800
Speaker 1: where a guy was really just being himself, like he

1211
01:06:45,080 --> 01:06:48,320
Speaker 1: wasn't trying too hard. It was it looked very much

1212
01:06:48,320 --> 01:06:50,600
Speaker 1: like a date that you would have outside of the show.

1213
01:06:51,040 --> 01:06:53,080
Speaker 1: It wasn't pressured. He sat down. He's like, hey, I'm

1214
01:06:53,120 --> 01:06:56,680
Speaker 1: gonna be myself. If you like it, that's awesome. If not, like,

1215
01:06:56,760 --> 01:07:00,480
Speaker 1: that's okay too, But like until you tell me you don't,

1216
01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:03,840
Speaker 1: then like we're gonna like He was just very calm

1217
01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:06,480
Speaker 1: and collected, and it was the opposite of some of

1218
01:07:06,480 --> 01:07:08,800
Speaker 1: the other guys where it felt forced. He's never did

1219
01:07:09,640 --> 01:07:12,200
Speaker 1: and I actually didn't expect to like him as much

1220
01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:17,840
Speaker 1: as he's one of my favorites. Now, yeah, it's really impressed.

1221
01:07:17,920 --> 01:07:21,480
Speaker 1: He did. He did a great thing. He's fun to watch. Uh,

1222
01:07:21,520 --> 01:07:24,120
Speaker 1: And I think that I have a theory about what's

1223
01:07:24,120 --> 01:07:25,680
Speaker 1: going to happen with him next week. If you see

1224
01:07:25,720 --> 01:07:28,200
Speaker 1: the scenes in the next episode, the guys are all,

1225
01:07:28,600 --> 01:07:31,280
Speaker 1: you know, riled up because of something that Noah did. Well,

1226
01:07:31,280 --> 01:07:34,120
Speaker 1: I don't know that it's really Noah. This is my theory.

1227
01:07:34,480 --> 01:07:37,200
Speaker 1: He wasn't supposed to be on the date, right he

1228
01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:40,439
Speaker 1: joined this date. Does that mean that he's disqualified from

1229
01:07:40,480 --> 01:07:43,200
Speaker 1: being on the date card, whether it's a one one

1230
01:07:43,320 --> 01:07:46,480
Speaker 1: or a group date for the next thing that arrives

1231
01:07:46,520 --> 01:07:50,400
Speaker 1: at the house. Because remember if we're thinking like week wise,

1232
01:07:51,200 --> 01:07:53,720
Speaker 1: this was the first date of the week, which means

1233
01:07:53,720 --> 01:07:57,160
Speaker 1: that we should suppost we're supposed to have um one

1234
01:07:57,200 --> 01:08:01,520
Speaker 1: one on one and another group date or maybe where

1235
01:08:01,520 --> 01:08:03,160
Speaker 1: this is the week where we switch over to have

1236
01:08:03,280 --> 01:08:09,400
Speaker 1: to to one on ones. What if, um, what if

1237
01:08:09,440 --> 01:08:14,440
Speaker 1: Noah ends up getting another date this week? It wasn't technically,

1238
01:08:14,720 --> 01:08:16,200
Speaker 1: I guess he jumped into the ring, but it wasn't

1239
01:08:16,240 --> 01:08:19,400
Speaker 1: his choice to go on the cocktail party. I don't

1240
01:08:19,400 --> 01:08:22,799
Speaker 1: see him saying I don't know him being like sorry.

1241
01:08:23,000 --> 01:08:25,040
Speaker 1: Like we also saw in the past that other guys

1242
01:08:25,120 --> 01:08:27,120
Speaker 1: kind of snuck into other dates too, So I don't

1243
01:08:27,160 --> 01:08:29,280
Speaker 1: know if it would be sure if he wasn't able

1244
01:08:29,280 --> 01:08:31,439
Speaker 1: to go on a date. What was he supposed to say? Sorry,

1245
01:08:31,479 --> 01:08:33,280
Speaker 1: I respect for the guys in the house. I can't

1246
01:08:33,280 --> 01:08:36,400
Speaker 1: go spend more time with you. What him like? How

1247
01:08:36,479 --> 01:08:39,320
Speaker 1: dare he like she invited him and how dared he

1248
01:08:39,439 --> 01:08:42,360
Speaker 1: come and get a rope? Was? It's like, no, he's

1249
01:08:43,120 --> 01:08:45,600
Speaker 1: It just means like him and that's cool. Yeah. I

1250
01:08:45,640 --> 01:08:47,720
Speaker 1: guess because he got the rose, he couldn't he's not

1251
01:08:47,760 --> 01:08:51,519
Speaker 1: going to get another date, right? No, I don't know. Actually,

1252
01:08:51,560 --> 01:08:53,439
Speaker 1: this show has done a wild thing this year could

1253
01:08:53,439 --> 01:08:56,679
Speaker 1: do wilder. That's true. There are no rules. There are

1254
01:08:56,760 --> 01:08:59,479
Speaker 1: no rules. This would be a good spin. All right,

1255
01:08:59,560 --> 01:09:01,559
Speaker 1: Is there any thing that you guys think we haven't

1256
01:09:01,560 --> 01:09:04,280
Speaker 1: covered that's important to talk about during this episode. I

1257
01:09:04,720 --> 01:09:06,680
Speaker 1: didn't want to mention one thing because I need to

1258
01:09:06,720 --> 01:09:08,599
Speaker 1: make sure I'm at the end of the episode didn't

1259
01:09:08,800 --> 01:09:15,080
Speaker 1: get mad at somebody knew it's probably Noah. Yeah, he

1260
01:09:15,120 --> 01:09:17,840
Speaker 1: blew up. He was really piste off and know about

1261
01:09:17,840 --> 01:09:20,920
Speaker 1: the rose. Yeah he's gonna calm that down. Or that's

1262
01:09:20,960 --> 01:09:23,360
Speaker 1: not gonna end well for for Ed. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: close it out, it's ends fault that Noah's even there,

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Speaker 1: Like now if he has chronic dislocation, things like I

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Speaker 1: don't blame him, Like wrestling isn't your thing, Like, don't

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Speaker 1: do it, don't put yourself in harm's way. I'm not

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Speaker 1: mad at you for that that that whatever you have

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Speaker 1: to do there, But because you didn't wrestle, Noah stepped

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Speaker 1: in and did it. You can't be mad at Noah

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Speaker 1: fulfilling the spot like you can you can't you you know,

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Speaker 1: if anybody cannot be angry about this. Yeah, he could

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Speaker 1: have gone in the ring and been like punch punch,

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Speaker 1: all right, forfeit? Sorry man? Yeah yeah, all right, well

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Speaker 1: you guys, that's a rap. On this episode of the Bachelorette.

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Speaker 1: Kendall has her book coming out on November. That's tomorrow,

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Speaker 1: Yeah tomorrow. Um. It's called in case you didn't write

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Speaker 1: it down before, Just Curious, a Notebook of Questions. It's

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Speaker 1: gonna be on Amazon bookstores. Check it out. It's great

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Speaker 1: for I think, in early stage of a relationship to

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Speaker 1: get to know each other better. Definitely, thank you. I'm

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Speaker 1: sorry the words, um kind of congratulations. What a cool deal,

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Speaker 1: what a cool project. Make sure you get check out

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Speaker 1: things are coming on now. We do in uh the

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Speaker 1: episodes now since my story times over the same way

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Speaker 1: every time, so just follow along with Ashley night. As

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Speaker 1: Ashley said, this has been another episode of the Almost

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Speaker 1: Famous podcast I've Been Been, I've Been Kendall. Bye, guys.

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