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Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.

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Speaker 2: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all.

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Speaker 1: At all at all?

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Speaker 3: Given them.

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Speaker 4: Black the million bus Bush.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, listen to me to show.

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Speaker 5: I don't joy, Yeah, Joy, you.

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Speaker 3: Don't love you?

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Speaker 6: Got to turn the mouth.

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Speaker 5: Turn you probably got to turn the mouth, turn out a.

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Speaker 2: Wad of the money.

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Speaker 8: Come on, come on, you'll think, ah huh, I sure will.

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Speaker 8: Good morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, come

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Speaker 8: on dig me now. One and only Steve Harvey got

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Speaker 8: a radio show. Why because God, God is in the

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Speaker 8: blessing business. If you go get in line, he has

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Speaker 8: something for you. God is amazing. The plan he actually

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Speaker 8: has for you is so far greater than you can

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Speaker 8: possibly imagine. It's really mind blowing. And as I look

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Speaker 8: back on where He's brought me from and what he's

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Speaker 8: currently doing for me, all I can do is tell

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Speaker 8: you is God. That's all I can tell you, Because

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Speaker 8: I tell you right now, I didn't foresee it.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 8: It oftentimes amazes me when I listen to celebrities when

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Speaker 8: they interview, how they say, you know, I always always

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Speaker 8: thought that this would happen for me and I just

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Speaker 8: you know it could be true, but for me it

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Speaker 8: is not that way at all. I didn't imagine it

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Speaker 8: this way. I had a dream of becoming famous one day,

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Speaker 8: but I had no idea it would ever get to this.

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Speaker 8: It was a very very simple desire for fame. There

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Speaker 8: is no way I could have seen all this. There

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Speaker 8: is no way I am telling you this is. This

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Speaker 8: has been nothing for me but the grace of God,

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Speaker 8: and all the times I failed, every time I had fallen,

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Speaker 8: he picked me up, He dusted me off, and he

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Speaker 8: kept me moving. It has been an amazing thing to

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Speaker 8: watch God do what he do. As I look back

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Speaker 8: on my history and you sometimes look back on your history,

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Speaker 8: you've got to see, man, wow, what God has done

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Speaker 8: for you and what He's brought you through to enable

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Speaker 8: you to be you are. It is amazing because really,

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Speaker 8: I mean really real talk. Now, had he allowed all

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Speaker 8: of the decisions I had made to play all the

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Speaker 2: Assure you I wouldn't be here today.

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Speaker 8: But God, through this grace and mercy, who had a

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Speaker 8: plan for me, who was just waiting on me to

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Speaker 8: come get in line, and then he was gonna start

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Speaker 8: emptying Now he was gonna start shipping out all the boxes.

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Speaker 2: In heaven with my name on it. And man, what a.

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Speaker 8: Great god he is, What a great god he is.

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Speaker 8: And you have boxes of blessings with your name on

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Speaker 8: it that he is waiting to ship. But he needs

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Speaker 8: you to go down there and get in line. That's

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Speaker 8: what it is. It is not that he has more

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Speaker 8: shipped because you will not get in line to go

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Speaker 8: get them. You will not ask God for him, you

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Speaker 8: will not do the things necessary to attain them. We

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Speaker 8: stop our own blessings. Man, I have been the biggest

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Speaker 8: get mad at nobody. I got nobody to blame for

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Speaker 8: my existence but me. But then at the same time,

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Speaker 8: I can't take credit for this. I really really can't.

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Speaker 8: I kid you not, I cannot take credit for it.

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Speaker 8: And if you ever see me taking credit for it,

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Speaker 8: tap me on the shoulder, say Steve, pull up. Remember

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Speaker 8: you said this ain't about you. If you catch me

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Speaker 8: taking too much credit, you have my permission to stop me.

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Speaker 8: Now Here is the deal, though, And This is what

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Speaker 8: I want to get through to you today. Moving forward

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Speaker 8: while under attack, new level, new devil. You know, every

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Speaker 8: to have because it is the enemy's job to not

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Speaker 8: see you go forward, do better, want more, behave yourself.

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Speaker 8: There is a force that is operative out there that

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Speaker 8: You got a computer, Go read a blog. Just go

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Speaker 2: That's the job. Well, here's what happens. I you.

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Speaker 8: We have to always keep moving forward while we're under attack,

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Speaker 8: because the attack is going to always come. If you

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Speaker 7: You know.

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Speaker 8: My father used to say, be careful when you're trying

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Speaker 8: And so when people are taking their feet off the ladder,

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Speaker 8: your ladder. They ain't even they ain't even on your level.

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Speaker 8: Really tell you the truth, they really not. You have

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Speaker 8: moved on far beyond them, spiritually, physically, everything, but they

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Speaker 1: You.

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Speaker 8: Keep moving forward while under attack, because the attacks are

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Speaker 8: going to come. If you take the time to stop

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Speaker 2: This is very important to understand.

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Speaker 8: Go on bout your business and remember Steve Harvey, and

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Speaker 8: remember those of you out there. There is a Bible

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Speaker 8: verse that helps me out every time. And I don't

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Speaker 8: know why. I got it on six different plaques sitting

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Speaker 8: all around my offices. Everywhere I go, I can read

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Speaker 8: it Isaiah fifty five seventeen. No weapon formed against me

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Speaker 8: me under his wings of protection. And this is my

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Speaker 8: inheritance as a servant.

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Speaker 2: Of the Lord period.

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Speaker 8: I'm his boy, he my man, so so dig so

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Speaker 8: when you're coming for me, I have to just rest

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Speaker 8: on that Lord right there, that he got it that

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Speaker 8: no weapon formed against me shall prosper I'm just like you.

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Speaker 8: Sometimes you know, we know better, but sometimes we don't

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Speaker 8: do better. Man, let them say what they gonna say.

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Speaker 8: When they get through saying it, when they get through

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Speaker 8: writing it, when they get through talking about you, when

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Speaker 8: watch what God got for you, because nothing God got

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Speaker 8: for you. Can't nobody stop it. I don't care what

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Speaker 8: they do. Keep moving forward while under attack. Yo, something

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Speaker 8: I tell you something, man. Minister Lewis Fahkahn taught me

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Speaker 8: something very important one day, he says, Steve, remember this.

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Speaker 2: He said.

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Speaker 8: It is a common thing for a dog to bark

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Speaker 8: up at the moon. But if the moon barks back

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Speaker 8: at the dog, the dog becomes famous.

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Speaker 2: You feel me, the moon was talking to you. What

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Speaker 2: did you? How did the moon stop and talk to you?

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Speaker 8: Don't give them that. Let the dog bark up at

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Speaker 8: the moon. Don't you be up there? You go where

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Speaker 8: God got you going. Don't bark back at this dog

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Speaker 8: because the dog come famous because they ain't gonna be

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Speaker 8: Now they want to interview the dog. Now the dog,

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Speaker 8: guess what he gonna do? More barking? Guess what about you?

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Speaker 2: Man? Go on about your business, y'all. God is in

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Speaker 2: the blessing business all day long.

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Speaker 8: Man, Go get in line, get you some get them

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Speaker 8: packages and boxes shipped to you.

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Speaker 2: They got your name on it.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 8: Ladies and gentlemen, let me have it your undivided attention.

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Speaker 8: I know I say it every day, but man, it

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Speaker 8: just bears repeating. You all, I don't really want you

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Speaker 8: to overlook a very very basic and simple fact that

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Speaker 8: today was given to us. This is something we've never

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Speaker 8: had before. We've never had this day. We've never had

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Speaker 8: this moment. We've been given this incredible gift of life.

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Speaker 2: Again.

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Speaker 8: I know it comes with a lot of struggles. I

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Speaker 8: know it comes with some situations that you got to

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Speaker 2: That's called life.

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Speaker 8: The sun ain't gonna shine all the time, because if

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Speaker 8: but you're gonna have to have his rain, now, you understand.

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Speaker 8: So however it is, I'm just grateful that I'm here

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Speaker 8: for it. I want you to join it with me

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Speaker 8: and be grateful to y'all, be grateful that God gave

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Speaker 8: us this wonder for day today.

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Speaker 2: I love it, man, Thank you Lord. I appreciate you.

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Speaker 8: Hope you give me a whole lot more. I love

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Speaker 8: to live for one hundred and four years. But if

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Speaker 8: I'm not, but I just want to throw that out there.

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Speaker 8: I'm clearly out of my knock right now. It need

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Speaker 8: a couple more forgivenesses to make sure. Ladies and gentlemen,

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Speaker 8: this is the Steve Harvey Martin Show. Shelly Strawberry calling

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Speaker 8: for real Mississippi Monica Junior government named Killspras and the

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Speaker 8: legend of Nephew Tommy, Ladies and gentlemen, and wah sat

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Speaker 8: moy Saint war that for y'all that don't know French.

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Speaker 8: That means it's me, Yeah, junior. What's on your mind today?

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Speaker 7: Man?

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Speaker 11: You know what unclean? You know the these house projects up?

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Speaker 2: You know, you know this is the part that.

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Speaker 11: You know, man, I had to get the deck sealed up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I wasn't ready for that.

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Speaker 11: No, I just I just I feel what else is

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Speaker 2: What a man? Something? Had you ever said that before?

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Speaker 11: I ain't never said it had to get a deck here?

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Speaker 11: I ain't even know decks got sealed.

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Speaker 2: I had no idea.

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Speaker 11: I thought it was just wood out signed.

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Speaker 1: All you had to do is just go sit on it.

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Speaker 8: Now you got to see junior, see you see how

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Speaker 8: your life you changed? Yeah, now how you got a deck?

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Speaker 8: Used to have a little balcony. No, yeah, yeah that

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Speaker 8: was their balcony. Yeah, this is your deck. Mm hmah,

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Speaker 8: man ain't god good?

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Speaker 12: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: But suer who much is given, much is required? Now

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Speaker 8: how you do this garage?

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Speaker 11: You gotta put some down for the garage.

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Speaker 2: To that yourself. Well, you.

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Speaker 8: Got to go to d y d IY whatever they

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Speaker 8: call it. Do it yourself. I ain't done it in

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Speaker 8: a while, but I used to. You got to learn

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Speaker 8: how you need to stay in your garage floor. You

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Speaker 8: need to figure out what your garage gonna be first, Yeah,

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Speaker 8: is it gonna keep tools.

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Speaker 2: And guard and equipment in it? Then you got to

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Speaker 2: watch where you park your car, just calls.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, don't be hanging bikes in it, because you

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Speaker 1: All right, ladies and gentlemen, the nephew is here with

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Speaker 13: I got bump and grind, Shirley, bump and yeah, I'm

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Speaker 14: Hello.

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Speaker 7: Hello, I'm.

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Speaker 10: Mar Yeah, this is me.

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Speaker 15: Can you hear me?

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Speaker 10: Can you hear me? Pretty good? Yeah? I can't hear you,

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Speaker 10: manad Hey, hey listen, let me turn the video down

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Speaker 10: for gay. Hey listen, I live in and I live

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Speaker 3: Uh huh.

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Speaker 10: I actually got your number from the lease in office.

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Speaker 10: say welcome to the building. Man. I hope the union

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Speaker 7: This is that.

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Speaker 14: Thank you, brother, I appreciate it, But why would you

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Speaker 10: You could just came knocked on my door.

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Speaker 10: Well, yeah, yeah, we'll see whatever. The reason why, I

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Speaker 10: Man, But it seems like that you guys moved in. Man,

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Speaker 14: Hold on, hold on, hold hold You're hearing marriage is

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Speaker 10: The day, right, I mean, I'm here, I'm getting I'm here,

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Speaker 7: Man.

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Speaker 10: I mean no, man, Now you know what again, you

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Speaker 10: she's looking for a gig right now? Hellok it, okay, okay, okay,

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Speaker 10: wait a minute now, So you live in apartment twenty

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Speaker 10: two A. Right, yeah, see I live in twenty one A.

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Speaker 10: Your your bedroom is above my bedroom? Well yea, hola,

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Speaker 10: holda he.

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Speaker 14: Telling me that you here yous to.

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Speaker 16: Sound like somebody they can.

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Speaker 14: Run coming from my crib at this time of day,

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Speaker 10: Man, you know I did it. I'm not trying to be.

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Speaker 14: Rude every day. I appreciate you calling and and you know,

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Speaker 10: Tell me whatever you shake you in, right, uh yeah,

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Speaker 14: I mean you calling me, so.

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Speaker 10: Let's get to the bottom of this.

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Speaker 14: One time you saying you hearing this? What kind of

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Speaker 2: Exactly?

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Speaker 7: Tim?

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Speaker 10: Hey, hey, hey, hey, you know what, man, that's probably

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Speaker 10: just a big mistake. I mean, maybe she was hanging

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Speaker 15: You know pictures, man, ain't even pictition.

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Speaker 14: I mean you calling me like you hear the candle

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Speaker 10: Man, Hey, hey man, listen, Marcus I Apolgiz. I'm I'm

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Speaker 10: you know, no, my mind, he's telling me.

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Speaker 14: I'm here, I see what I'm saying. I don't know

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Speaker 17: I'm a mind.

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Speaker 14: No, I'm not gonna understand that money. You calling me,

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Speaker 14: telling me you hearing where you're coming from. I could

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Speaker 10: He Man, all I'm saying is maybe it's just a

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Speaker 14: Just man, I keep telling you that you know picture,

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Speaker 10: It shouldn't be no ds.

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Speaker 14: Coming from my child. Hey, man, I ain't trying to.

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Speaker 10: I ain't trying to start no trouble. Man, You're not

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Speaker 14: You tell you that all I was.

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Speaker 10: Falling about was trying to get a decent, decent rest.

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Speaker 7: Man.

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Speaker 10: I work at night brought us all I'm talking about. Man,

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Speaker 10: I'm not trying to.

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Speaker 7: You don't get it.

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Speaker 14: If you want the great guys ship, I don't care

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Speaker 14: it you call telling me about man that just want

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Speaker 2: I ain't e believe it.

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Speaker 10: You got the right address.

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Speaker 14: What do you love at man? You live today, yes.

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Speaker 10: Man, in an apartment twenty one A and your place

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Speaker 10: of about mine?

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Speaker 16: Man. Man, hold man, holdo we pulling suck over?

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Speaker 1: Man?

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Speaker 10: Over what second?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 14: Because you're talking all dude.

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Speaker 10: Hey man, Look, I'm not I'm not trying to have

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Speaker 7: Man.

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Speaker 14: I'm not trying to handle trouble. You come to working there, Man,

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Speaker 14: I just think the hours a week while there like this. Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 14: I'm not. All I'm saying is man, I thought I thought.

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Speaker 10: You was making love to your your woman. Man, That's

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Speaker 10: what I thought. That's why I called you to ask

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Speaker 10: her to keep the noise.

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Speaker 12: Down of my wife my up here.

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Speaker 14: You got with it anyway, ain't from the rest of

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Speaker 14: hilltond I no, no, I don't know.

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Speaker 11: I don't know.

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Speaker 12: Hell up, dude, you're not coming to my apartment to

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Speaker 12: hear nothing. Man, I ain't got nothing to do with this.

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Speaker 7: I'm I ain't letting you in my house.

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Speaker 6: Man.

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Speaker 12: If I no minute you got going on up stands

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Speaker 12: you gotta control your woman. Man, I ain't got nothing

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Speaker 12: to do with me.

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Speaker 7: I'm telling me woman, I know, I know, I know.

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Speaker 12: The weighing it out for the last two weeks between

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Speaker 14: I know who got He's talking to James. Man, I'm

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Speaker 14: coming to your health.

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Speaker 10: You ain't coming to my apartment.

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Speaker 2: Man, I'm not.

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Speaker 10: Hey, man, listen, No, I ain't got nothing to do

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Speaker 10: with it. I'm telling you, Chris Many.

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Speaker 14: I got one more things I need to.

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Speaker 12: Say you man, as you listening from my Chris home,

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Speaker 12: I got one more thing I need to say. All right,

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Speaker 12: all right, you better let's say better be telling me

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm listen.

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Speaker 16: Listen, nephew, tire.

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Speaker 10: Me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got

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Speaker 10: pranked by your own boy. Wait a minute, what them

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Speaker 10: to a Please listen lephthew tire me from the Steve

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Speaker 10: Harvey Morning till your boy got me to break you? Man?

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Speaker 14: Oh?

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Speaker 10: Are you at twenty one eight? You know I'm right

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Speaker 14: Man, I read flow ahead.

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Speaker 10: Man, Just tell me man, how you doing? Brother?

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Speaker 7: Oh? Man?

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Speaker 10: Man?

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Speaker 14: Coming you? You had me going now I was coming up.

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Speaker 7: Man.

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Speaker 10: I'm serious, man, I got one more thing I gotta asked.

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Speaker 7: Fun.

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Speaker 10: Let you go, man, what is what is the manest

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Speaker 15: In the land.

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Speaker 10: Man, Man, It's the Steve Horvey Morning Show. Without a doubt,

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Speaker 10: Hey man, step away from twenty one eight.

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Speaker 2: I don't see nothing wrong? All right?

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Speaker 6: Hell?

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't.

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Speaker 8: But see this, you've just earned yourself a privilege. Now,

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Speaker 8: I wouldn't I let her come get them now? Next year?

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Speaker 8: Guess what, you ain't dropping them off no more? Yeah,

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Speaker 8: you're not going on summer vacation next year. Yeah, we're

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Speaker 8: Yeah, well we're gonna FaceTime. That's what I do with

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Speaker 8: be there, hugging and playing with them. I don't I

448
00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:53,040
Speaker 8: think face tied. Yes, that's good, you know, No, I

449
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 8: think it's a wonderful thing, you know. So, yeah, that

450
00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:00,080
Speaker 8: she trifling, she did that. I'm too tired, and it'

451
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,359
Speaker 8: one hundred and thirty seven miles. So she's too tired

452
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:04,920
Speaker 8: to try. And that's true because she wearing herself out.

453
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:08,919
Speaker 2: She cameo.

454
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:16,639
Speaker 1: On her black Fatima and Harlem says. I met my

455
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:19,959
Speaker 1: boyfriend at a restaurant for dinner, and I walked up.

456
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 1: As I walked up the block, a man ran up

457
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:25,480
Speaker 1: to me to compliment me on my dress. My boyfriend

458
00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 1: saw the guy walking alongside me and assumed I had

459
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:32,119
Speaker 1: another guy escort me to the restaurant. How can I

460
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 1: get him to believe that what he saw was totally innocent?

461
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:36,040
Speaker 10: What?

462
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:40,240
Speaker 8: Okay, I don't understand what you say. She was walking

463
00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:43,000
Speaker 8: boyfriend or just how she met the guy, I don't know.

464
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 1: No, she met her boyfriend at a restaurant. He was

465
00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:48,560
Speaker 1: waiting for her at a restaurant for dinner, and as

466
00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 1: she was walking up to meet him, a man ran

467
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 1: up to her to compliment her on her dress. You know,

468
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:56,959
Speaker 1: hey says I love your dress or whatever. So her

469
00:24:57,000 --> 00:25:00,360
Speaker 1: boyfriend saw the guy walking aside, you know, alongside her,

470
00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 1: and he assumed that she had someone else escort her

471
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 1: to the restaurant.

472
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:11,359
Speaker 8: You right there, Yeah, that's that's what That's what it

473
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 8: looked like. You know, But you if you're telling the truth.

474
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 8: You're telling the truth. See what makes it so hard

475
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 8: to convince your man is we are accustomed to line.

476
00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 2: So why would you know? I would? I would, That's

477
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 2: what I'd go with it. I don't know. I don't

478
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 2: see nothing wrong with that.

479
00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:40,160
Speaker 1: So she told him the truth and still got in trouble.

480
00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:45,639
Speaker 8: Yeah, you know, but see it was no lie. You

481
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 8: could have told he saw it with his own eyes,

482
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,479
Speaker 8: you know all. You could have just said, well, you

483
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 8: didn't walk me. You sat in there and waited.

484
00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 11: Like yeah, put him back on his heels.

485
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 8: You know, maybe you ought to start walking me to

486
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:05,119
Speaker 8: the restaurant instead of sitting in there waiting, watching.

487
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:10,639
Speaker 2: You're looking at the window watching. Yeah, I like that.

488
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:16,880
Speaker 1: I like fellow. Yeah, all right. Moving on to Trina

489
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 1: and Montgomery, Trina writes, my husband is so concerned about

490
00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 1: crime that he put a tracker on my car without

491
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 1: telling me. I was at an ex boyfriend's house getting

492
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:29,679
Speaker 1: a tune up when my husband texted me and asked

493
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 1: where I was. Trying to be funny, I said I

494
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:36,200
Speaker 1: was with my side. Dude, he texted back, I know,

495
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: am I gonna have to confess? Wow?

496
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 2: Would you make I see?

497
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 8: Why would you try to make a lie out the

498
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:55,520
Speaker 8: truth that ain't hurt?

499
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 1: What one more time?

500
00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:03,920
Speaker 2: Let me see, let me let me let me no, no, no,

501
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 2: But why.

502
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 8: Would you take a perfectly good lie use it acting

503
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 8: as though it's the truth when clearly the truth will

504
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:22,040
Speaker 8: never do come off?

505
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:23,680
Speaker 10: So?

506
00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 8: Now you at your ex dude's house getting the tune up?

507
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:30,879
Speaker 2: He said, where was you at? He said?

508
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 8: I was at my ex Guys? He said, I know,

509
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:36,400
Speaker 8: am I gonna have to confess you just.

510
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:40,880
Speaker 2: Cause you stupid?

511
00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:43,919
Speaker 1: What should she what should she have said?

512
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 2: Steve?

513
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 11: Stick with the tone up?

514
00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 2: Where I was?

515
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 8: I was getting the car tuned up? Tune up place?

516
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 8: And let me tell you something. Your husband ain't so

517
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:03,639
Speaker 8: concerned with crime that he had a tracker put on

518
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 8: your car. He concerned about you having a tracker on

519
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:12,119
Speaker 8: your car. Don't stop crying.

520
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:13,400
Speaker 1: That's what that means.

521
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:16,920
Speaker 2: Let's let's just go with the lie.

522
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 8: He told you he's so concerned with crime he put

523
00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 8: a track on your car?

524
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 2: What and.

525
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:25,880
Speaker 7: That?

526
00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 2: Don't stop? That ain't a tracker.

527
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:31,680
Speaker 8: That's called lo jack, that's been on cars for years now?

528
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 2: Is he the only mechanic dog in Montgomery?

529
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 3: Yeah?

530
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 8: See, but why you should have you should have never

531
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 8: just said I went to get the cartooned up.

532
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 2: Okay, then why the trackers say you was at.

533
00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 8: Your ex boyfriend house because he worked on cars. Would

534
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 8: have been all right, but oh no, you're gonna be

535
00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 8: I was over my ex stud his house getting tune up.

536
00:28:59,880 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 2: I know that she got tuned up. Now you got

537
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:03,800
Speaker 2: tuned up?

538
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 8: Am I gonna have to confess you're stupid? You already did.

539
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 8: But well, the key to Lion is it can't be

540
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 8: nowhere around the truth.

541
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 2: I like that you can't time together, y'all.

542
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 8: Man, y'all why he's so frustrating with this gentleman disappointing?

543
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 13: Can we do it big? Can we do it big

544
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 13: like the heart of lie? Maybe on a weekly basis

545
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 13: that just teach people how to.

546
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 2: How to lie. I can do it. I can't doing

547
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 2: any kind of anytime. Ready.

548
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 8: I already know how we got one minute. Anybody want

549
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 8: to ask me something?

550
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 2: Don't?

551
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 1: Okay?

552
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 8: Shureley asked me something where you think the truth of the

553
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 8: matter watch his hire instant.

554
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 1: Okay, So, Steve, how how did you start your mentoring camp?

555
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 7: Oh?

556
00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 2: I didn't. I didn't.

557
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 1: Even have to lie about this.

558
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 8: But I'm just telling you how effective it is the

559
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 8: minnering the minoring camp started me.

560
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you random line about the line.

561
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 8: Feel good at something. If you feel good at something,

562
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:22,080
Speaker 8: you're gonna have to practice practice for no reason at all.

563
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 1: What does your T shirt say?

564
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 2: I'm at my house in Atlanta.

565
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 1: That's the truth, all right. Thanks guys, you're listening Steve

566
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Steve's here with some depressing places Steve.

567
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 8: Oh, I was thinking of some depressing places you can be.

568
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 8: There's places that get depressing. Like it's depressing. If you're

569
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 8: in a car with somebody and they got the ready

570
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 8: on playing some music. You can't stand but you can't

571
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 8: say nothing because it ain't your car.

572
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 2: Man, you can be depressed.

573
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 8: You'll just be looking at the one w your face

574
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:12,720
Speaker 8: be up against the glass.

575
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 2: Stuff.

576
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:16,280
Speaker 1: You're gonna three years old?

577
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 6: Man?

578
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 2: Like this, I tell you something else.

579
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 8: You have to throw a house party don with three

580
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 8: people show up. Man, you're just in there, man, the

581
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 8: little sandwiches, just drying out.

582
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:36,719
Speaker 4: With the two picks and man, man, that's pretty bad.

583
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 8: I tell you something else depressing because I gotta go

584
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 8: tomorrow in Atlanta.

585
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:43,720
Speaker 2: If you go to the d m V.

586
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 8: And you number one, four, two six, and they only

587
00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 8: on number eight.

588
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 2: Seventy one gets six hundred more people.

589
00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 1: Yes, depressed, Yeah, I.

590
00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 2: Tell you something to depress.

591
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 8: And this was me at Winton one time, watching your

592
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:10,880
Speaker 8: child play sports.

593
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:11,800
Speaker 2: But they ain't working.

594
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 1: Really.

595
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 8: Winton was on the basketball team. I've never been so

596
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 8: embassed in my whole life.

597
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 2: You're not gonna say that I can take up piano something.

598
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 1: Did you leave up?

599
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 7: No?

600
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 13: I was.

601
00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 2: I took him off the team. You tell him I

602
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 2: took him off the team. We just say what you do.

603
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 8: I can tell right now you can't play basketball. I've

604
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 8: been working with you, and this is it.

605
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 2: It's a team thing.

606
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 8: You got to learn how to be out here just

607
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 8: having these little white kids shaking and baking you. I'm

608
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 8: watching you now. You're not gonna do that to me.

609
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 8: You're not gonna do that to me. He just out

610
00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:00,760
Speaker 8: here shaking and breaking you. He all between his leg

611
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 8: breaking your wrists. So boy, your hobby.

612
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:04,320
Speaker 10: Now.

613
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,400
Speaker 2: I took him right on off.

614
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 1: I was winter eight.

615
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 2: You didn't give him.

616
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 1: What you do, killing killing.

617
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 2: Three B twenty one. He still came step back and

618
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 2: knocked out. I took him up. He got other gifts.

619
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Speaker 8: Only I said, that's right here, and I'm sitting next

620
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:41,400
Speaker 8: to the white boy father. Hey, great move, Caleb. He

621
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 8: took my white boy named Klea right there. You know

622
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 8: you coming out of basketball. Ain't the white boy ever

623
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 8: been in the NBA named Katy. I'll tell you another place.

624
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 8: That's the press.

625
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:55,160
Speaker 2: What's that? What if you go to a.

626
00:33:55,200 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 8: Sandals couple resort by yourself, everybody booed up your eyes,

627
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 8: eating you over there, eating you on your night. Drenk everybody, woman, Fine,

628
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 8: I tell you another depressing plate.

629
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Speaker 2: Right church, If you.

630
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 8: Know you're going to hell, it's a hard place to

631
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:29,920
Speaker 8: sit here, Pastor, fire, and is this about me?

632
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 2: Hell fire? Ain't no way you're gonna make it. Are

633
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 2: you going to tell you another.

634
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 1: Depressing Is this about me?

635
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 6: Pastor?

636
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:49,920
Speaker 2: Here's another depressing place.

637
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 8: Tender if you ugly, If you don't tender, and you ugly,

638
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,320
Speaker 8: there's so many swipes.

639
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 2: You ain't never you've been on there three weeks.

640
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:15,440
Speaker 8: I ain't nobody swiped you and kept you. Wow, everybody

641
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 8: you swipe, don't swipe back.

642
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 1: That's depressing. That's pretty bad.

643
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:23,399
Speaker 2: You own tender and you just ugly.

644
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:25,320
Speaker 6: That's depressing.

645
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:27,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's depressing. That's bad.

646
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 2: It's depressing.

647
00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 8: When the male man show up, you think he got

648
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:34,800
Speaker 8: your income tax return?

649
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 2: He had you some motive.

650
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:43,360
Speaker 8: Hell, you think I'm gonna pay these talk?

651
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:46,399
Speaker 2: You ain't see nothing in your bad check your bang.

652
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:52,359
Speaker 1: Feeling depressed right now? Depressed?

653
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:55,440
Speaker 8: You gotta tell you another something that can be pretty depressing.

654
00:35:55,960 --> 00:36:00,719
Speaker 8: You get that pregnancy test kit from the drugstore and

655
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:02,880
Speaker 8: pee on it and it ain't the color you want.

656
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, brother, that's pretty bad.

657
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:11,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, lord, your whole day.

658
00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 8: You go right down there and get another one, don't you.

659
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:17,719
Speaker 1: You bought three of them, so I'm paying fum no wordy.

660
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 8: I had them lined up one time. About at them.

661
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:23,520
Speaker 8: All of them was the same color.

662
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 1: Try it again, Try it now? Try wow? Se will

663
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 1: you really manage to bring the show down?

664
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:33,799
Speaker 10: Yeah?

665
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:41,600
Speaker 8: Just remember if you've been on tender two weeks, it ain't.

666
00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:44,480
Speaker 2: Nobody swiped you yet. You need to check yourself.

667
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 8: Take that photo off, put a new one. It's time

668
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 8: to catfish somebody. At this point, you need to get

669
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:55,760
Speaker 8: into cats.

670
00:36:56,360 --> 00:37:00,760
Speaker 2: Two weeks on Tender, ain't nobody's.

671
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:01,880
Speaker 1: Not a one?

672
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:06,440
Speaker 8: Yeah, you keep checking?

673
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 1: How busted are you really? This is a depressid Now

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Speaker 1: you believe you taught of this, Steve. All right, well

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Speaker 1: we'll try to bring the mood up a little bit.

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Speaker 2: The only way your mood is messed up as you

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Speaker 2: want to eat.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Time now for would you rather? Would you rather be

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Speaker 1: completely invisible for a day or would you rather be

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Speaker 1: able to fly for one day? Completely invisible for a

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Speaker 1: day or be able to fly for a day?

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Speaker 8: Ah No, I'm gonna be invisible and fly away ever,

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Speaker 8: just your body fly.

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Speaker 2: Then it started raining and canon.

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Speaker 1: Under lord.

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Speaker 2: Again.

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Speaker 6: No, we are going.

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Speaker 2: To be invisible. No, ain't no, ain't no plane.

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Speaker 13: It's just me and I'm talking about invisible at y'all's house.

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Speaker 13: I'm gonna go shoot y'all talking about over there.

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Speaker 1: Would you rather a spouse that is not opinionated or

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Speaker 1: would you rather a spouse that is controlling?

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Speaker 2: Controlling?

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Speaker 8: I don't want controlling, yeah, but gee, I'm a rebel

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Speaker 8: on that controlling.

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Speaker 2: But I don't want to hear your opinion. All I

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Speaker 2: really know that is.

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Speaker 1: Not opinionated like a like like a drug.

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Speaker 2: That's that they don't even make that type of woman too.

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Speaker 1: Whatever.

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Speaker 2: That's an impossible yea, that's an impossible statement. That was

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Speaker 2: a movie. That was a movie. Yeah, America, all right?

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Speaker 1: Would you rather be voted class clown or would you

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Speaker 1: rather be voted most likely to succeed?

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Speaker 2: That was both of them? I know good and hell

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Speaker 2: well I wasn't gonna beat.

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Speaker 1: Be Oh you didn't think so?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 1: What dreams?

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Speaker 2: Back then?

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Speaker 8: Who the hell was going to vote for me? It

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Speaker 8: is most likely to succeed? I was voted most difficult.

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Speaker 1: That that was so accurate. Yeah, why do you have

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Speaker 1: to carry that on too your adult life? Leave that

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Speaker 1: where it belongs the voting.

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Speaker 2: This is how I am.

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Speaker 1: Don't they voted you that?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: All right, well, I really like being how I am.

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Speaker 8: I don't really see the problem. I really, I swear

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Speaker 8: to you, I do not see the problem.

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Speaker 2: You see it.

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Speaker 1: I tell you about it every day.

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Speaker 2: What is the problem? But but see, look at the

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Speaker 2: source of who's telling me this.

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Speaker 8: Y'all telling me this because I don't want to do

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Speaker 8: what y'all want me to do.

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Speaker 1: That's no, that's it all that, it's whats to be done.

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Speaker 1: It's no we want you to do.

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Speaker 2: Y'all don't tell me what I need to do. Who

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Speaker 2: is not it?

746
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Speaker 4: Well, sometimes we need impretation from Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You give us that.

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Speaker 1: A lot of business being difficult right now? That's your

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Speaker 1: angil round.

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Speaker 8: This is because y'all look at my schedule and y'all

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Speaker 8: try to fill it with what y'all to do.

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Speaker 1: Now we don't. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys,

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Speaker 1: so listen to this. If someone throws a party, are

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Speaker 1: all guests obligated to stay and clean. That's the question

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Speaker 1: on the table.

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Speaker 6: Uh.

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Speaker 1: This is from Tony and Steve Harvey FM. Tony says,

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Speaker 1: I was at a friend's barbecue the other day and

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Speaker 1: I felt bad when it was over because everyone was

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Speaker 1: cleaning up. But I really had to go. I had

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Speaker 1: to pick my son up and get the other kids

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Speaker 1: home to go go to sleep. Staying to clean was

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Speaker 1: not an option for me. I've had parties where no one,

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Speaker 1: no one stays and cleans. So here's my question. This

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Speaker 1: is the question from Tony. How obligated are party guests

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Speaker 1: to stay at the end and help the host clean?

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Speaker 13: If I throw a barbecue, then yes, I'm not really

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Speaker 13: expecting nobody to stay around and help me clean up.

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Speaker 13: I just don't If it was my choice, I decided

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Speaker 13: to invite you over, so I'm not expecting you to

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Speaker 13: do any I'm not expecting you to bring nothing.

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Speaker 18: I'm not.

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Speaker 2: I'm laying it all the way out.

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Speaker 13: But now let's get to that Thanksgiving though, that's the

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Speaker 13: one that Thanksgiving that that pot look where everybody bringing something?

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Speaker 2: That one?

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Speaker 13: Well, the dishes are just everywhere because think about it, y'all,

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Speaker 13: when we're doing a barbecue, it's really.

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Speaker 2: It's paper plates. You know what I mean.

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Speaker 13: You know you're making it easy and simple. But when

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Speaker 13: you pull out all that that that that that good flatwell,

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Speaker 13: all that good good everything.

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Speaker 2: Now okay, all right.

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Speaker 13: If you're gonna sit here and take four plates home, yes, yes,

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Speaker 13: we go clean up together for.

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Speaker 9: Oil al oil.

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Speaker 4: Tommy, you're saying it depends on the occasion.

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Speaker 1: If you sho I think.

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Speaker 13: It depends on the occasion when it's Thanksgiving, because this

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Speaker 13: is a mess. We everybody need to clean up. Let's

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Speaker 13: get together, that's all. And that's what I've seen. You

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Speaker 13: know our family members do they all get together clean up,

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Speaker 13: and we.

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Speaker 1: Could a family member.

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Speaker 13: You know what I don't if you hate at Thanksgiving

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Speaker 13: binging at the house you got four or five paper

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Speaker 13: plates wrapped in foil, yes, I don't who you got

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Speaker 13: to pick up. You're gonna be late picking them up. Okay,

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Speaker 13: but you're clean up round here.

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Speaker 1: If you're guess, go ahead, Junior, I'm gonna let you

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Speaker 1: speak ahead.

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Speaker 11: I'm totally against what Tommy's talking about.

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Speaker 1: I'm not on the clean up crew.

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Speaker 2: I'm the guest.

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Speaker 18: You called me and asked me to be that.

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Speaker 2: That's why you over here.

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Speaker 18: Okay, I am telling you right now, if you look

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Speaker 18: for me to have a trash bag at your house,

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Speaker 18: I will not.

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Speaker 1: I have gone so far as to ask do you

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Speaker 1: need any help? Meaning that at me, I didn't.

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Speaker 18: Need everybody's meaning. Don't even bring up do you need anything?

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Speaker 18: I Am here to eat.

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Speaker 1: And be merry.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm being for. So I appreciate what timmey

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Speaker 2: throw a barbecue.

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Speaker 18: I love going to look at the lake, have a

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Speaker 18: wonderful time, and then I'm leaving.

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Speaker 13: Get out when you shirty called it. When y'all say

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Speaker 13: do you need any help? If they say yes, then what.

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Speaker 1: Oh look at the time, girl, I'm sorry. They're not

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Speaker 1: going to say yes. You already know they're not gonna

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Speaker 1: say yes.

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Speaker 11: No, oh my way out, I point out stuff. Did

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Speaker 11: you see that plate by the door?

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Speaker 1: Did you see that?

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Speaker 2: I did?

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Speaker 1: Yes, they're not okay.

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Speaker 4: So it depends on who is throwing the party. If

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Speaker 4: it's somebody I'm very very close to, I will say

831
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Speaker 4: you need some help, and I look in their kitchen

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Speaker 4: and I look that they're overwhelmed.

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Speaker 1: Then I will help. I will help. It just depends

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Speaker 1: on who it is. Different but right, but.

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Speaker 4: But I'm like Junior, I'm probably gonna bounce before.

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Speaker 1: The end, before the clean up comes out. Yes, if

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Speaker 1: it looked.

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Speaker 13: Like the kitchen, if it looked like the kitchen and boomerange, Yeah,

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Speaker 13: come on, man, don't leave me like this.

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Speaker 2: Man, don't do that.

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Speaker 1: When parents left.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, bank bank bank, bank, Hey, man, give me some

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Speaker 13: help over here.

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Speaker 18: If I had to kill an insect while I was

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Speaker 18: at your house, I've done my job.

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Speaker 1: I feel if you had to kill an insect.

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Speaker 2: I had to care an advice.

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Speaker 11: I'm going.

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Speaker 6: All right.

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Speaker 1: Happy holidays, All right, coming up now, girl, if you

851
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 1: tell me frank phone call right after this, you mean

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Speaker 1: happy fourth This is on the fourth holiday. You're listening

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Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, coming up at

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00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 1: about four minutes after the hour. It's my strawberry letter

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Speaker 1: for today, and the subject is he doesn't realize he

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00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:39,960
Speaker 1: married a black woman. We'll get into that, find out

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Speaker 1: what that's all, and just a few exactly, but right

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00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:50,080
Speaker 1: now it's time. Right now, it's time for the nephew

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00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 1: in today's prank phone call, what you got for his nap?

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00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 2: Sairly it is psc ps C.

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Speaker 13: That is prost Checker Cross State checker. Okay, you going

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00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:10,719
Speaker 13: in huh yeah, I'm going in PSCY.

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Speaker 6: All right, all right.

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Speaker 2: Let's go get PSC Pross State.

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Speaker 10: Hello.

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Speaker 7: Hello, I'm trying to reach a Roger.

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Speaker 15: This is Roger.

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Speaker 7: My name is Greg. I'm a PSC. I got you

869
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Speaker 7: on my schedule. I'm supposed to come buy your house

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Speaker 7: tomorrow morning at about seven fifteen. I just want to give

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00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:30,400
Speaker 7: you a call and give your heads up and let

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Speaker 7: you know we will be there about seven fifteen. From

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00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:35,719
Speaker 7: my understanding, you go to work, yeah.

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Speaker 15: Uh oh, you say you who?

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Speaker 7: I'm a PSC, sir. I'll be there. I'll be there tomorrow.

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00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:42,160
Speaker 7: I got you on my schedule for Monday morning, and

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Speaker 7: I'll be there at least about seven to fifteen. From

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00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 7: my understanding, you go to work at seven point thirty

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00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:48,759
Speaker 7: and uh, my proceed is only gonna take a couple

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00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 7: of minutes. But I wanted to to give you a

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00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 7: friendly call and let you know that I will be

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Speaker 7: by there tomorrow morning.

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Speaker 10: What's the PSC?

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Speaker 15: PFC wich is a PSC?

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00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:59,880
Speaker 7: PSC sir? PSC? I will be there tomorrow. I've been

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00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:03,720
Speaker 7: business probably for the last I guess about thirteen fourteen

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Speaker 7: years now.

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00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:06,200
Speaker 15: What is PSC especialist?

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Speaker 16: What you do.

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Speaker 7: Oh you're not. I'm sorry you're not familiar.

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00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:11,080
Speaker 15: How you got me on the schedule? Why ain't trying

892
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:11,640
Speaker 15: us for nothing?

893
00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:13,520
Speaker 7: Oh? I got you on my list here. I don't

894
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:15,440
Speaker 7: know who puts you on here, but you've it's been

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00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:18,480
Speaker 7: paid for in everything for me to come by and

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Speaker 7: do my job. And like I said, only take me

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Speaker 7: a couple of minutes and I'll have you on your way.

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Speaker 7: How do you get my number? Take again?

899
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 15: How did you get my phone number?

900
00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 2: Sir?

901
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:30,400
Speaker 7: Everything I have I got, I got twenty stops tomorrow

902
00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 7: and I got you schedule as my as my first

903
00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:36,560
Speaker 7: stop tomorrow morning. I don't know I got your phone number.

904
00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:40,760
Speaker 7: I do have your address. Are you at drive?

905
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:43,920
Speaker 15: Yeah, that's my address. But I'm not schedule for nobody

906
00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:45,560
Speaker 15: to come to my house in the morning. I gotta

907
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:46,439
Speaker 15: go to work in the morning.

908
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:48,320
Speaker 17: I'm not gonna be you right.

909
00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:50,640
Speaker 7: Right, my understanding, well you from understanding. You pull out

910
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 7: about seven thirty, and I'm gonna get that seven fifteen.

911
00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:55,280
Speaker 7: Like I said, you know, the procedure only takes about

912
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 7: two three minutes.

913
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:58,880
Speaker 15: And we don't tell me about everybody my information? You know,

914
00:48:58,920 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 15: when I leave home?

915
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:02,320
Speaker 7: And who is it like I said, my name is Greg,

916
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:03,719
Speaker 7: I'm a PSC, and.

917
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:04,239
Speaker 10: I'll be there.

918
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:07,280
Speaker 7: Okay, you said that I ready, you'll see me tomorrow.

919
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 7: I'm sorry. I just wanted to give your friendly call

920
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:11,160
Speaker 7: here on Sunday. I'll let you know that I'll be there.

921
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 7: I'll be there about seven fifteen and we'll get you

922
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 7: taken care of and then i'll let you get on

923
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 7: the way to work.

924
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:17,040
Speaker 15: You still ain't telling me what I was supposed to

925
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 15: what you're supposed to be doing, sir.

926
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 7: A PSC is PSC. I'm a pro state checker, and

927
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:23,880
Speaker 7: what I'll be doing is coming in and checking your

928
00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:24,800
Speaker 7: pro state tomorrow.

929
00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:26,920
Speaker 15: Oh well, now you ain't coming here and check my

930
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:29,280
Speaker 15: price state. I get my proce state checked by my doctor.

931
00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 15: Who was you talking about coming to check my prive state?

932
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:32,439
Speaker 4: Not at my house?

933
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:34,880
Speaker 16: You ain't coming to check my And you know what,

934
00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:35,479
Speaker 16: I get this.

935
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:36,920
Speaker 7: All the time. I get a lot of people that

936
00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:41,400
Speaker 7: are in denial, a lot of men that claim that they.

937
00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:44,160
Speaker 15: Stay is signed in my proce state check. Just at

938
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 15: the beginning of this year, man, you don't need to

939
00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:47,640
Speaker 15: come to my eye checking my price state.

940
00:49:47,760 --> 00:49:48,000
Speaker 16: Sir.

941
00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:49,840
Speaker 7: A lot of people, a lot of men are in denial.

942
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:51,520
Speaker 7: Saying that they got it checked and they got it.

943
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:53,440
Speaker 7: A lot of times we find out they haven't, and

944
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:55,640
Speaker 7: there has to be a reason. If I got you

945
00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:58,759
Speaker 7: on my list and it's paid, somebody is paid one

946
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:00,680
Speaker 7: hundred and twenty five dollars for me to come out

947
00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:01,439
Speaker 7: there and check it.

948
00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:03,239
Speaker 15: Well, you should be happy you paid us on a

949
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:03,759
Speaker 15: five dollars.

950
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:04,600
Speaker 16: This is a lesson job.

951
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 15: You have to do that because you're not come and

952
00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 15: check my price state, sir.

953
00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 7: I'm gonna check it now. I'm gonna be by there

954
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:11,320
Speaker 7: tomorrow and I'm seven bg pen. I'm putting my rubber

955
00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:13,279
Speaker 7: glove on with a little bit of jail on it,

956
00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:14,960
Speaker 7: and I am gonna check your price state, and then

957
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:16,040
Speaker 7: I'll let you get on the work.

958
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:18,279
Speaker 15: Well, I tell you what, that rubber glove ain't going

959
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:20,160
Speaker 15: nowhere near me, home boy. I tell you what. You

960
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:22,400
Speaker 15: may on over my eyes if.

961
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 10: You want to.

962
00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:24,680
Speaker 15: It's ain't gonna be pretty, and it ain't gonna be

963
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:26,280
Speaker 15: nice with you and your rubber glove.

964
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:27,880
Speaker 10: Sir might have had to stick a.

965
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:29,759
Speaker 15: Reubel glove up yo. When I'm done with you, and

966
00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:31,600
Speaker 15: I'll be coming about my high talking about tacking my

967
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:32,480
Speaker 15: price state.

968
00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:34,800
Speaker 7: Sir, Sir, do you realize that this is the leading

969
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 7: calls to black men? Do you realize that I understand that,

970
00:50:38,320 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 7: all right?

971
00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:41,640
Speaker 15: Ain't black men?

972
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:44,520
Speaker 7: Three out of five black men are lost every year,

973
00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:48,520
Speaker 7: So you ought to be very grateful that someone is

974
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 7: sending me by there to check it and make sure

975
00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:52,279
Speaker 7: you're okay. I'm grateful that I can pay for a

976
00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:55,000
Speaker 7: doctor that I go to every at once a year. Man,

977
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:56,440
Speaker 7: you're gonna have to come to my high time by

978
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:56,880
Speaker 7: sticking no.

979
00:50:56,960 --> 00:50:59,480
Speaker 15: Rubber glove but me. Man, I'm funing with you, Sir.

980
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:01,320
Speaker 7: I'm not gonna sit here and go back and forth

981
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 7: with you. My job is to give you a friendly

982
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 7: call and let you know that I'm coming all right

983
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 7: now tomorrow morning, listen. I don't want to hear anymore

984
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:11,440
Speaker 7: of it. Tomorrow morning. I'm there at seven fifteen, and

985
00:51:11,520 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 7: you're gonna get your prostate check. Whether you like it

986
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:15,120
Speaker 7: or not, well you may it.

987
00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:17,000
Speaker 16: Don't buy here dead, I sold me here.

988
00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:17,759
Speaker 17: You bay your back?

989
00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:20,040
Speaker 15: Thank you bad enough to come over here check my price?

990
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:20,879
Speaker 14: Say you bay it.

991
00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:23,640
Speaker 7: I'm gonna make it so you just be ready at

992
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 7: seven fifteen that you're gonna get your prostate checks.

993
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:26,799
Speaker 10: I'll be here.

994
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:29,440
Speaker 16: I want to let you go on the work case comes.

995
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 15: You come on over here if you want. You you know

996
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:33,040
Speaker 15: my address and all my wi time I go to

997
00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:35,160
Speaker 15: work and everything. You you bang your back, don't know

998
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:36,000
Speaker 15: if you want to.

999
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:38,439
Speaker 7: I don't care if I gotta come over there, sir

1000
00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 7: and hold you down and check your prostate. I'm coming

1001
00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:44,640
Speaker 7: to check your prostate at seven fifteen tomorrow morning.

1002
00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:45,440
Speaker 10: I'll tell you what.

1003
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:48,239
Speaker 15: You bring your mask John over here. You you think

1004
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:50,040
Speaker 15: you know who I am, what I need over here?

1005
00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:51,000
Speaker 16: You come on over here, and.

1006
00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:51,960
Speaker 15: You do what you gotta do.

1007
00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:53,680
Speaker 17: I you wing over there tomorrow more.

1008
00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:55,440
Speaker 16: Wherever they're wrong, you're gonna be checking some.

1009
00:51:55,600 --> 00:51:56,320
Speaker 15: Mess besides me.

1010
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:59,439
Speaker 16: You're gonna be checking you on. You may it don't

1011
00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:00,600
Speaker 16: over if you on to it here.

1012
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:02,480
Speaker 15: If I don't get your out of here and be coming

1013
00:52:02,480 --> 00:52:06,279
Speaker 15: to my house today. But you you tell somebody talking

1014
00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:08,320
Speaker 15: about I needed proce state check or something.

1015
00:52:09,280 --> 00:52:10,320
Speaker 7: Somebody on the phone.

1016
00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:11,760
Speaker 15: Talking about I need a pro state or something.

1017
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 16: You bring your I'll tell you what I'll be here

1018
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:17,080
Speaker 16: when you get here. You bring it over you will

1019
00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:21,719
Speaker 16: tomorrow right in the mall going wrong.

1020
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:22,759
Speaker 15: You may't watch it.

1021
00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:24,560
Speaker 16: If you may be wheeled away from this.

1022
00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 7: You rain up where if you want to, I'm gonna

1023
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:29,960
Speaker 7: have my glove on the marrow and I'm gonna be

1024
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:31,120
Speaker 7: checking your prop stays.

1025
00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 10: Gotta tell you what you ain't in the.

1026
00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:34,440
Speaker 15: Mall and where you want to talk about checking the

1027
00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 15: price state, You're gonna be checking your own pride state.

1028
00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 15: Because I'm telling you what I got something for you.

1029
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:39,600
Speaker 16: You come over here, you.

1030
00:52:39,640 --> 00:52:41,879
Speaker 15: Bring your bad You think you're bad enough to come

1031
00:52:41,880 --> 00:52:43,720
Speaker 15: off here and check if I'm over here, you come.

1032
00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:43,960
Speaker 10: On with it.

1033
00:52:44,120 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 16: I got one more with you.

1034
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:46,440
Speaker 7: I need to say to you all you're.

1035
00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 15: Listening and what day you got to say to me?

1036
00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:48,279
Speaker 7: Now?

1037
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:49,320
Speaker 16: You told me it's nothing.

1038
00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:50,719
Speaker 15: It was just you got to tell me.

1039
00:52:50,800 --> 00:52:52,200
Speaker 7: Now, are you listening to me?

1040
00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:54,319
Speaker 16: Just down over here, you're gonna be here.

1041
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:56,319
Speaker 7: I'm gonna be over there. But I got one more

1042
00:52:56,360 --> 00:52:57,239
Speaker 7: thing I want to say.

1043
00:52:57,400 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 15: Are you list what you got to say to me?

1044
00:52:59,680 --> 00:52:59,839
Speaker 2: Man?

1045
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:03,680
Speaker 7: Nephew tim Me from the Steve Harby Morning Show. You

1046
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:05,600
Speaker 7: just got pranked by your homeboy.

1047
00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:11,320
Speaker 16: H who you say you was?

1048
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 10: Again?

1049
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:16,280
Speaker 7: Hey man, this is Nephew tire Me from the Steve

1050
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:20,160
Speaker 7: Harvey Morning Show. Man, your homeboy got me to prank

1051
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:21,359
Speaker 7: phone call you.

1052
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 17: Good jump Harby, tell me by man. All right, Roger boy,

1053
00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 17: y'all about to make me go out. I'm wondering who

1054
00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 17: the hell don'na come out on somebody?

1055
00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:43,720
Speaker 15: How to do a po State Chicks on regular basis

1056
00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 15: like that?

1057
00:53:44,160 --> 00:53:44,319
Speaker 2: Man?

1058
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:49,640
Speaker 15: Yeah, yeah, I got me, man, I'm gonna get him back. Boy,

1059
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 15: I can't believe.

1060
00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:51,040
Speaker 7: You do me like that.

1061
00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:53,399
Speaker 15: I'm gonna go over there and check his pride state.

1062
00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:55,439
Speaker 16: You know, I don't even think you get here checked

1063
00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:56,080
Speaker 16: on the regular.

1064
00:53:56,160 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 15: I want to have somebody to come check mine.

1065
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:02,160
Speaker 7: Hey, man, I got one more thing, ask you, man,

1066
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:05,480
Speaker 7: what is what is the baddest I'm talking about the

1067
00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:07,520
Speaker 7: baddest radio show in the land.

1068
00:54:08,239 --> 00:54:12,359
Speaker 15: Steve Harvey Morning Show Man, Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1069
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 9: All right, come on, Oh my god, he's not about that.

1070
00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:25,919
Speaker 9: He didn't didn't want to get up when you get it. Yeah,

1071
00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:27,400
Speaker 9: he's gonna tinch up when you get that.

1072
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:34,920
Speaker 1: I'm tense right now. I don't even have one cringing.

1073
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:37,359
Speaker 2: It saves lives. Get out there and get yourself checked.

1074
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:38,080
Speaker 2: I'm just telling you.

1075
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:43,040
Speaker 9: That's what you don't get that, Tony, don't you're.

1076
00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 1: Doing awareness with the prank?

1077
00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:46,560
Speaker 2: Why not? Why not?

1078
00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:47,560
Speaker 4: You it all.

1079
00:54:47,600 --> 00:54:50,040
Speaker 2: See see I do stupid. Then I turn around and

1080
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:51,359
Speaker 2: make some sense. I do all that.

1081
00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:53,640
Speaker 1: I don't know. What I did was stupid.

1082
00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:57,080
Speaker 2: His finger on the he put his finger on the funny.

1083
00:54:57,120 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 2: Go ahead, tyder, you did that, you.

1084
00:54:59,080 --> 00:55:01,160
Speaker 1: Did, Carl.

1085
00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:02,719
Speaker 2: I'm getting me a shirt made with that on.

1086
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:03,719
Speaker 1: Its stupid.

1087
00:55:06,840 --> 00:55:08,680
Speaker 2: And he got a walk and everything.

1088
00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:14,839
Speaker 13: Stupid with a purpose. All right, get ready, Haddisburg, Mississippi,

1089
00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:17,400
Speaker 13: July eleven. Tickets on sale right now. Y'all already know

1090
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 13: singer theater.

1091
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:20,200
Speaker 2: I don't know. Are we already talked about it? Y'all

1092
00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:21,080
Speaker 2: know you buying tickets.

1093
00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 13: I appreciate that you're coming to see the food and

1094
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:25,279
Speaker 13: then laying in the cut July twenty fourth through the

1095
00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:29,520
Speaker 13: twenty six Chicago City Winery. The nephew was coming to

1096
00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:33,320
Speaker 13: shy Town. Yes, Lord, I hope I get inside that library.

1097
00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:34,920
Speaker 13: I want to go through that while i'm there. But

1098
00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:39,040
Speaker 13: I am coming to the ship. All right, all right,

1099
00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 13: thank you, thank you, sir, All right, thank you.

1100
00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:45,400
Speaker 1: Coming up next Strawberry letter subject he doesn't realize he

1101
00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:48,680
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1112
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1114
00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:41,279
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1115
00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:43,440
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1116
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:45,400
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1117
00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:47,480
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1118
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1119
00:56:50,400 --> 00:56:54,399
Speaker 1: Subject he doesn't realize he married a black woman. Dear

1120
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:57,759
Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I've been married ten months and we might

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00:56:57,800 --> 00:57:00,480
Speaker 1: not make it to a full year. It for a

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00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 1: year before we got married, and we didn't live together

1123
00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:06,319
Speaker 1: until a week after our wedding. I switch up my

1124
00:57:06,400 --> 00:57:09,319
Speaker 1: hairstyle often, but I never let my man see me

1125
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:12,160
Speaker 1: when my wigs were off, and he'd never seen me

1126
00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:16,080
Speaker 1: without foundation on. I kept a cute and foxy for him.

1127
00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 1: I kept it cute and sexy for him until I

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00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 1: got the ring. I showed him my representative and I

1129
00:57:22,720 --> 00:57:25,720
Speaker 1: was always well put together for him. We got a

1130
00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:28,640
Speaker 1: home together, and I put my wigs in the dining

1131
00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:32,240
Speaker 1: room temporarily. He had a fit about them being in there,

1132
00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:34,160
Speaker 1: and one day I came home from work and he

1133
00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:37,080
Speaker 1: had already put them in the guest room on the floor.

1134
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:39,880
Speaker 1: I had a good conversation with him about handling my

1135
00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:43,800
Speaker 1: stuff without consulting me. First. He has four sisters, and

1136
00:57:43,880 --> 00:57:47,160
Speaker 1: I know they're Caucasian, but they wear wigs and hair

1137
00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:50,080
Speaker 1: pieces too. We all got our hair done together for

1138
00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:53,400
Speaker 1: the wedding, so I saw it. This weekend. He walked

1139
00:57:53,440 --> 00:57:55,280
Speaker 1: in on me in the bathroom and he saw me

1140
00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:58,120
Speaker 1: with all of my makeup completely off, and I was

1141
00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:01,800
Speaker 1: plucking a hair from my chin. He was totally turned off.

1142
00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:05,040
Speaker 1: He didn't have to say it because it showed in

1143
00:58:05,080 --> 00:58:08,240
Speaker 1: his face. At that moment, I decided to give him

1144
00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:11,360
Speaker 1: the full black girl experience. When he got home from

1145
00:58:11,400 --> 00:58:14,360
Speaker 1: work the next day, I had the wig off with

1146
00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:18,480
Speaker 1: my corn rows showing. I took off the lashes, and

1147
00:58:18,560 --> 00:58:22,720
Speaker 1: I was walking around without a brath. He tried to

1148
00:58:22,760 --> 00:58:25,040
Speaker 1: play off his surprised look, and he told me I

1149
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:28,920
Speaker 1: was beautiful anyway I chose to look. Then he asked

1150
00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:32,040
Speaker 1: if the corn rows were my new hairstyle. I reminded

1151
00:58:32,120 --> 00:58:34,800
Speaker 1: him that he's married to a real black woman. I

1152
00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:37,240
Speaker 1: don't think it registered when we were dating. Should I

1153
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:41,520
Speaker 1: discuss this or should I let it slide? No, you

1154
00:58:41,600 --> 00:58:44,520
Speaker 1: don't have to discuss it. I mean, it's pretty clear

1155
00:58:44,600 --> 00:58:47,760
Speaker 1: that this letter is about you and your wigs. That's

1156
00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:51,920
Speaker 1: basically what it is. And although it seems like you

1157
00:58:51,960 --> 00:58:54,200
Speaker 1: went to great Lanes not to say it, you are

1158
00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:56,280
Speaker 1: married to a white man. I mean, we know this

1159
00:58:56,440 --> 00:59:00,400
Speaker 1: because you said his sisters are Caucasian. I don't occasion.

1160
00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:02,520
Speaker 1: I don't see what the big deal is because I

1161
00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:05,720
Speaker 1: know black men that would probably be just as confused

1162
00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:08,160
Speaker 1: with you. The problem in your mind is that you're

1163
00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:11,760
Speaker 1: a black woman and you wear wigs, but his white

1164
00:59:11,840 --> 00:59:14,840
Speaker 1: sisters wear wigs too, So I don't think that's it.

1165
00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 1: You put your wigs in the dining room. That's the issue.

1166
00:59:18,600 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 1: He came in there and saw these wigs in the

1167
00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 1: dining room probably, you know, freaked him out a little bit,

1168
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:26,840
Speaker 1: startled him. But didn't he tell you you're beautiful in

1169
00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:29,320
Speaker 1: any way you want to look? Well, why didn't you

1170
00:59:29,360 --> 00:59:32,200
Speaker 1: believe him? I just don't think even a brother would

1171
00:59:32,240 --> 00:59:34,520
Speaker 1: want to walk into the dining room and see wigs

1172
00:59:34,560 --> 00:59:38,040
Speaker 1: all over the place. I just don't I wouldn't, you know.

1173
00:59:39,560 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 1: I just think they would think they were better suited

1174
00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:45,440
Speaker 1: for the guest room as well. So let's just be clear.

1175
00:59:45,800 --> 00:59:48,400
Speaker 1: You knew what you were doing all along. You didn't

1176
00:59:48,480 --> 00:59:51,960
Speaker 1: let him know you wore wigs until you got married.

1177
00:59:52,400 --> 00:59:56,520
Speaker 1: You said you sent your representative early on in the relationship.

1178
00:59:56,800 --> 00:59:59,000
Speaker 1: You said you kept it cute and didn't let him

1179
00:59:59,040 --> 01:00:01,440
Speaker 1: see you without hair and make up until you got

1180
01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:04,720
Speaker 1: the ring. Now it's gotten harder to keep it all together,

1181
01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:07,680
Speaker 1: and you're mad at him because he's white. This just

1182
01:00:07,720 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 1: doesn't make sense to me. It's not that you're a

1183
01:00:10,320 --> 01:00:12,880
Speaker 1: black woman. He knew that when he married you and

1184
01:00:13,000 --> 01:00:15,840
Speaker 1: dated you. That was pretty clear, right. It's just that

1185
01:00:15,920 --> 01:00:17,680
Speaker 1: you need to keep your wigs and stuff in the

1186
01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:20,880
Speaker 1: designated area. I know plenty of people who wear makeup

1187
01:00:20,960 --> 01:00:23,880
Speaker 1: and wigs and weaves and pieces and all that. It's

1188
01:00:23,920 --> 01:00:25,920
Speaker 1: just the sneaky way you went about all of this.

1189
01:00:26,440 --> 01:00:28,360
Speaker 1: That's what it is to me. Steve.

1190
01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:30,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, Shirley glad you were first.

1191
01:00:30,920 --> 01:00:33,720
Speaker 8: Thank you for your attempt to make this letter palatable

1192
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:36,160
Speaker 8: for the listening audience. But I'm not here for that.

1193
01:00:36,480 --> 01:00:38,800
Speaker 8: That's just going to cut down to it. Say, got

1194
01:00:38,800 --> 01:00:41,520
Speaker 8: nothing to do with them wig sitting in that dining room.

1195
01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:43,960
Speaker 8: I'ma tell you that right now. It's about the fact

1196
01:00:43,960 --> 01:00:46,640
Speaker 8: that the white boyd then finally found out who he

1197
01:00:46,720 --> 01:00:51,560
Speaker 8: was really married to, and the representative that you showed

1198
01:00:51,640 --> 01:00:54,360
Speaker 8: him did not tell the whole story.

1199
01:00:54,800 --> 01:00:58,520
Speaker 2: That's what that about. I don't give it if you put.

1200
01:00:58,360 --> 01:01:01,040
Speaker 8: The wigs outside in the garage with the lawn mo

1201
01:01:01,600 --> 01:01:02,320
Speaker 8: that ain't it.

1202
01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:03,960
Speaker 6: Here.

1203
01:01:04,200 --> 01:01:07,320
Speaker 2: The whole problem with this letter right here.

1204
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:11,400
Speaker 8: Home girl that married the white dude, and the white

1205
01:01:11,520 --> 01:01:14,680
Speaker 8: dude didn't know all that came with the black girl.

1206
01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:21,360
Speaker 8: That's what this whole letter about. All women, A lot

1207
01:01:21,400 --> 01:01:24,720
Speaker 8: of women wear pieces and they call it hot hair.

1208
01:01:25,480 --> 01:01:29,040
Speaker 8: White girls got this stuff called hot hair. It come

1209
01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:32,240
Speaker 8: on a strain, and they raised their regular hair up

1210
01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:34,480
Speaker 8: and they put it around their head like a band,

1211
01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:38,120
Speaker 8: and then they dropped their hair over it to cover

1212
01:01:38,200 --> 01:01:41,160
Speaker 8: the little strain, and it adds left to their hair.

1213
01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:45,160
Speaker 2: Ain't nothing wrong with that. It looked full. Almost every

1214
01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:47,840
Speaker 2: last one of them on ESPN got it on. Just

1215
01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:48,520
Speaker 2: watch it.

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01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:52,560
Speaker 8: Ain't nothing wrong with that some sisters wear we ain't

1217
01:01:52,600 --> 01:01:57,160
Speaker 8: nothing wrong with that. Your representative didn't tell the white

1218
01:01:57,240 --> 01:02:01,160
Speaker 8: dude the whole story, y'all for a year. You don't

1219
01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:03,480
Speaker 8: think if you gonna make it? Where are you surprising him?

1220
01:02:03,520 --> 01:02:03,720
Speaker 6: Now?

1221
01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:06,160
Speaker 2: And some of the stuff that you're shocking him wick

1222
01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:08,439
Speaker 2: is with big muddy. Now.

1223
01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:11,720
Speaker 8: You switch up your hairstyle often, but you never in

1224
01:02:11,760 --> 01:02:14,920
Speaker 8: a whole year. You ain't let your man see you

1225
01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:18,000
Speaker 8: with your wigs off. And he never seen you without

1226
01:02:18,080 --> 01:02:22,400
Speaker 8: foundation on. Now, let me tell you some see seeing

1227
01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:26,920
Speaker 8: you without makeup at one thing. But when he when

1228
01:02:26,960 --> 01:02:32,640
Speaker 8: you remove the foundation, that's the that's called that the

1229
01:02:32,800 --> 01:02:36,400
Speaker 8: that's the base coat. For all you men out there

1230
01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:39,040
Speaker 8: that don't understand that if you fit the paint or white,

1231
01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:41,920
Speaker 8: if you fit the paint over a dark color with

1232
01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:45,160
Speaker 8: a lighter color, you got to prime that wall.

1233
01:02:45,320 --> 01:02:45,640
Speaker 2: First.

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01:02:46,600 --> 01:02:48,800
Speaker 8: You just can't go in that painting on that new

1235
01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:50,959
Speaker 8: color on top of that other color, because it's gonna

1236
01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:55,080
Speaker 8: bleed through foundation based coat.

1237
01:02:57,440 --> 01:02:59,160
Speaker 2: You took that off.

1238
01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:04,200
Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, hang on, okay too, everythings. We'll have

1239
01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:06,560
Speaker 1: part two of your response coming up at twenty three

1240
01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:11,200
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subject is he

1241
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:14,640
Speaker 1: doesn't realize he married a black woman. We'll get back

1242
01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:21,800
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1243
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1251
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Speaker 1: come on, Steve, let's recap today Strawberry letter. The subject

1252
01:03:54,880 --> 01:03:57,440
Speaker 1: he doesn't realize he married a black woman.

1253
01:03:58,360 --> 01:04:02,080
Speaker 8: Yeah, well, made the statements about where you put your

1254
01:04:02,080 --> 01:04:06,280
Speaker 8: wigs this letter is clearly, clearly this letters.

1255
01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:06,840
Speaker 1: Part of my answer.

1256
01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:12,080
Speaker 8: Well, that's nothing to do with this. Hire nothing, nothing

1257
01:04:13,320 --> 01:04:15,720
Speaker 8: from such wigs. I don't care if you set it

1258
01:04:15,760 --> 01:04:18,840
Speaker 8: in a bowl of cereal while you eating your eggs.

1259
01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:21,480
Speaker 2: I don't care. That ain't got nothing to do with this.

1260
01:04:21,720 --> 01:04:26,760
Speaker 8: Just what this problem is is you never your representative,

1261
01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:29,040
Speaker 8: did not allow him to meet the real person you

1262
01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:31,800
Speaker 8: dated for a year. You say you switch up your

1263
01:04:31,800 --> 01:04:34,200
Speaker 8: hairstyles often, but you ain't never let him see you

1264
01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:35,400
Speaker 8: with your wigs off.

1265
01:04:35,800 --> 01:04:38,320
Speaker 2: And he never seen me without foundation on.

1266
01:04:38,880 --> 01:04:41,560
Speaker 8: That's the base coat, fellas in case y'all don't know,

1267
01:04:41,960 --> 01:04:44,280
Speaker 8: it's if you prime in the wall, you got to

1268
01:04:44,280 --> 01:04:46,560
Speaker 8: put on the base coat or some primal.

1269
01:04:47,600 --> 01:04:52,400
Speaker 2: The foundation is primal. Now I showed him.

1270
01:04:52,240 --> 01:04:55,760
Speaker 8: My representative, and I was always well put together for him.

1271
01:04:56,240 --> 01:04:59,600
Speaker 2: We got a home. Let me see where's this line?

1272
01:04:59,600 --> 01:05:00,840
Speaker 2: Exactly what she said.

1273
01:05:01,720 --> 01:05:03,320
Speaker 8: You didn't let him see all that you put in.

1274
01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:06,640
Speaker 8: And one day he came home from work and I

1275
01:05:06,200 --> 01:05:10,160
Speaker 8: had He had a fit about them being Now you

1276
01:05:10,240 --> 01:05:13,080
Speaker 8: put them in the dining room temporarily, he had a

1277
01:05:13,120 --> 01:05:15,280
Speaker 8: fit about him being there. One day I came home

1278
01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:16,920
Speaker 8: from work and he had already put him in the

1279
01:05:16,960 --> 01:05:20,040
Speaker 8: guest room on the floor. I had a good conversation

1280
01:05:20,160 --> 01:05:23,080
Speaker 8: with him about handling my stuff without consulting me first,

1281
01:05:23,120 --> 01:05:26,400
Speaker 8: as you should. He has four sisters, and I know

1282
01:05:26,480 --> 01:05:30,040
Speaker 8: their Caucasian, but they wear wedgs and hair pieces too,

1283
01:05:30,080 --> 01:05:32,080
Speaker 8: because we all got our hair gun done together for

1284
01:05:32,120 --> 01:05:35,520
Speaker 8: the wedding. So I saw it this weekend. He walked

1285
01:05:35,560 --> 01:05:37,440
Speaker 8: in on me in the bathroom. Now here we go,

1286
01:05:39,000 --> 01:05:42,040
Speaker 8: here where the problem at and he saw me with

1287
01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:44,280
Speaker 8: all of my makeup completely off.

1288
01:05:45,440 --> 01:05:48,480
Speaker 2: That threw him a little bit. That threw it.

1289
01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:50,600
Speaker 8: That just threw him a little bit because you said

1290
01:05:51,280 --> 01:05:55,120
Speaker 8: you always kept it cute and sexy for him until

1291
01:05:55,520 --> 01:06:00,960
Speaker 8: I got the ring. See nah, y'all marriage. And now

1292
01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:03,320
Speaker 8: he been seen. He looking at this right here. He

1293
01:06:03,400 --> 01:06:05,200
Speaker 8: walked in there on me in the bathroom. He saw

1294
01:06:05,240 --> 01:06:07,680
Speaker 8: me with all my makeup completely off, and I was

1295
01:06:07,840 --> 01:06:14,280
Speaker 8: plucking a hair from my chin. That's the one right there.

1296
01:06:17,480 --> 01:06:17,840
Speaker 2: See that.

1297
01:06:19,280 --> 01:06:21,880
Speaker 8: Now all this man stuff going on. Listen, you gotta

1298
01:06:21,960 --> 01:06:26,640
Speaker 8: bid see that ain't what I had. Foundation, that's what

1299
01:06:26,800 --> 01:06:33,080
Speaker 8: that foundation for. Half follow course, you know. Uh, pluck marks,

1300
01:06:34,080 --> 01:06:41,240
Speaker 8: that's what that's what foundation do. Foundation hide cuts, scars, wounds.

1301
01:06:41,840 --> 01:06:48,440
Speaker 8: Bid Uh stubble foundation, hide stubble. Now what messed him

1302
01:06:48,520 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 8: up was you was in that picking hair out that

1303
01:06:51,040 --> 01:06:55,000
Speaker 8: bearded area on you. DA's what messed him up, really,

1304
01:06:55,680 --> 01:06:58,240
Speaker 8: because now he got to really go through you know

1305
01:06:58,280 --> 01:07:00,240
Speaker 8: how things go now you don't never know. Oh so

1306
01:07:00,320 --> 01:07:02,960
Speaker 8: you know now he and that he and that picking

1307
01:07:03,120 --> 01:07:06,840
Speaker 8: pronouns now and he looking in the mirror with pronoun

1308
01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:09,000
Speaker 8: anxiety going on property.

1309
01:07:09,040 --> 01:07:10,880
Speaker 2: He probably not trying to figure out, well, that.

1310
01:07:10,920 --> 01:07:12,520
Speaker 1: Is not what this letter is about.

1311
01:07:12,560 --> 01:07:12,600
Speaker 10: It.

1312
01:07:12,720 --> 01:07:16,400
Speaker 8: Well, I'm just telling you for a brief moment, for

1313
01:07:16,560 --> 01:07:21,400
Speaker 8: a brief moment, he was looking upside your head trying

1314
01:07:21,400 --> 01:07:26,600
Speaker 8: to figure out if he needed to pick a new pronoun.

1315
01:07:26,720 --> 01:07:27,760
Speaker 2: I know y'all want.

1316
01:07:27,640 --> 01:07:31,000
Speaker 1: To because that's not what the letter is about. You know,

1317
01:07:31,120 --> 01:07:32,240
Speaker 1: you don't know what is about.

1318
01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:35,240
Speaker 2: Let Hirley, you're talking about it about way she putting him.

1319
01:07:35,160 --> 01:07:38,479
Speaker 8: With it said a lot of stuff. Ain't got nothing

1320
01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:41,520
Speaker 8: to do with this. He was totally turned off. He

1321
01:07:41,600 --> 01:07:44,240
Speaker 8: didn't say it because it showed on his face at

1322
01:07:44,240 --> 01:07:46,120
Speaker 8: that moment. I decided him to give him a full

1323
01:07:46,160 --> 01:07:48,520
Speaker 8: black girl experience when he got home from work the

1324
01:07:48,560 --> 01:07:48,960
Speaker 8: next day.

1325
01:07:48,960 --> 01:07:50,440
Speaker 2: Oh, you're gonna double up and do it again.

1326
01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:54,520
Speaker 8: See right here. So you're showing out now, so you

1327
01:07:54,520 --> 01:07:56,600
Speaker 8: should have switched back up. But no, no, you're gonna

1328
01:07:56,640 --> 01:07:58,840
Speaker 8: double down on it. I decided to give him the

1329
01:07:58,840 --> 01:08:00,960
Speaker 8: full black girl experience. When he got home next day,

1330
01:08:01,200 --> 01:08:04,440
Speaker 8: I had to wig off my corn rolls, showing I

1331
01:08:04,480 --> 01:08:07,760
Speaker 8: took off the lashes. I was walking around without a brawl.

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Speaker 8: He tried to play off his surprise looking. He told

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Speaker 8: me I was beautiful anyway. I chose to look nice.

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Speaker 8: Move that was too much for him, though. Then he

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Speaker 8: asked if the corn rolls was my new hairstyle. Just

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01:08:23,040 --> 01:08:26,479
Speaker 8: curious now because you know we're finished over Mom's nim houses.

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Speaker 8: I reminded him that he's married to a real black woman.

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Speaker 8: I don't think it registered when we were dating. Well,

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01:08:35,920 --> 01:08:39,200
Speaker 8: you didn't want it to register, remember, because you said

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Speaker 8: you kept it all together while we're dating until you.

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Speaker 2: Got the ring.

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Speaker 8: See, so now should I discuss this or let it ride?

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Speaker 8: Now you have to discuss it.

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Speaker 2: And stop.

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01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:56,040
Speaker 8: Look, don't be so brutal, because you did the job

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01:08:56,160 --> 01:08:59,400
Speaker 8: you wanted to do. You put your representative out there

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01:08:59,760 --> 01:09:02,720
Speaker 8: and held up until you got a ring. Now the

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01:09:02,800 --> 01:09:06,479
Speaker 8: representative didn't tell the entire story, so now you want

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01:09:06,479 --> 01:09:08,600
Speaker 8: to tell the story to the man. So now you

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01:09:08,680 --> 01:09:10,719
Speaker 8: got to be courteous to the man at the same

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01:09:10,800 --> 01:09:15,479
Speaker 8: time too. See you didn't show him the real black woman,

1352
01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:18,360
Speaker 8: as you say. But all this stuff you talking about

1353
01:09:18,400 --> 01:09:21,599
Speaker 8: happens to all women. So don't don't. Don't dump this

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01:09:21,680 --> 01:09:26,320
Speaker 8: as a negative on black women, because it's not. It's women.

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01:09:26,640 --> 01:09:30,799
Speaker 8: All women do this. All women wear foundation. All women

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01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:36,360
Speaker 8: got some skin problems sometimes all people do. All women

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01:09:36,439 --> 01:09:40,760
Speaker 8: wear foundation. Most people do, So this ain't don't don't

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01:09:40,840 --> 01:09:45,800
Speaker 8: don't dump this on black women. Now you just happy

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Speaker 8: to be Ain't nobody else on the show picking our hair?

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Speaker 2: They fail?

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Speaker 1: All right, leave your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on

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01:09:55,400 --> 01:09:57,800
Speaker 1: Instagram and Steve Harvey at them and check us out

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01:09:58,120 --> 01:10:00,559
Speaker 1: on the Strawberry Letter podcast on the and on the

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Speaker 1: free iHeartRadio apps. Hey, y'all, this is Monica, This is

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Speaker 1: Spike Lee. Hey, this is Mary J.

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Speaker 2: Blood.

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Speaker 7: Yo.

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Speaker 2: This is Steven A. Smith.

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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Sacha Khan.

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Speaker 2: You have no idea what it is. This is Carlos Miller.

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Speaker 1: And this may or may not be the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, listeners,

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Speaker 1: A leave has a question for you. Do you remember

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Speaker 1: what it felt like when back pain didn't take over

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01:10:28,960 --> 01:10:33,519
Speaker 1: your day? You bend, twist, sit, stand without even thinking

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Speaker 1: about it. Well, that feeling didn't go anywhere thanks to

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Speaker 1: a leave. With just one dose, A leave gives you

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Speaker 1: long lasting back pain relief for up to twelve hours,

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Speaker 1: so you can get back to moving the way you

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Speaker 1: used to feel. A leave use as directed for minor

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Speaker 1: aches and pains. Here's an email from Steve Harvey FN.

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Speaker 1: It says, mister, is this just one question again? Yeah,

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01:10:59,120 --> 01:11:02,240
Speaker 1: it's what happens the questions. We'll ask you more. We'll

1384
01:11:02,240 --> 01:11:03,639
Speaker 1: ask you more depending on time.

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Speaker 2: We got some question.

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01:11:06,360 --> 01:11:09,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, question. This one's from a listener and we can

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01:11:09,920 --> 01:11:13,000
Speaker 1: chime in, and you want to hear from our listeners. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and this one's a good one, mister Harvey. I need

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Speaker 1: your advice. I'm twenty three years old and so is

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Speaker 1: my best friend. We've been best friends since we were

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Speaker 1: two years old, and we talk almost every day. Her

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01:11:24,080 --> 01:11:26,559
Speaker 1: birthday was a week ago, and I posted a picture

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Speaker 1: of the two of us and included a nice long

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Speaker 1: caption about how much I love her and value our friendship.

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Speaker 1: She liked the post but didn't comment on it. We

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Speaker 1: don't live in the same city, so I called her

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Speaker 1: the next day to see how her birthday was. She

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Speaker 1: didn't answer. She texted me instead and said that her

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Speaker 1: real friends called her and didn't just post happy birthday

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Speaker 1: on Instagram. I thought I was doing a great thing

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Speaker 1: by showing everyone how special our friendship is. She won't

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01:11:55,920 --> 01:11:58,880
Speaker 1: talk to me. Now, was I wrong? Is this bad

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01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:00,720
Speaker 1: social media etiquette?

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01:12:01,040 --> 01:12:01,679
Speaker 2: Well, I don't.

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Speaker 8: I don't know such social media etiquette myself, per se.

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01:12:06,040 --> 01:12:09,639
Speaker 8: Obviously she would have preferred a phone call versus posting.

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Speaker 2: She said, she's twenty three years old. That's how they do.

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01:12:14,400 --> 01:12:19,040
Speaker 8: Yeah, they post everything, yep, but a phone call would

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01:12:19,040 --> 01:12:19,679
Speaker 8: have been nice.

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Speaker 2: She's not talking to you.

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Speaker 8: I think that we've gotten so accustomed to this social

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01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:29,840
Speaker 8: media thing that that we think it replaces conversation and

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Speaker 8: it doesn't.

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Speaker 1: It just doesn't, and it's destroying social skills with these

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01:12:34,840 --> 01:12:38,200
Speaker 1: young people. They don't talk to each other anymore. They

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01:12:38,240 --> 01:12:41,040
Speaker 1: don't interact. Yeah, they don't act.

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Speaker 2: It's just you know.

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Speaker 8: I just think that it's you know, that's why it's

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Speaker 8: such a The divorce rate is what it is. I think,

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Speaker 8: because so I mean, people are not divorce rate. But

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01:12:52,000 --> 01:12:55,960
Speaker 8: people are not in sustainable relationships anymore because they don't

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Speaker 8: do sustainable.

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Speaker 2: Things to maintain a relationship. They just don't, you know.

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Speaker 8: I mean, you text, you tender, you swipe right, you

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01:13:06,400 --> 01:13:09,880
Speaker 8: swipe left, easy, come, easy go. If you get it easy,

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01:13:10,240 --> 01:13:12,840
Speaker 8: you'll let it go easy. If it's hard to get,

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01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:14,120
Speaker 8: it's harder to let go.

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Speaker 1: And then when they're together, they're texting. When they're together,

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Speaker 1: they're texting and on their phones, they're not talking, they're

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Speaker 1: not communicating.

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Speaker 2: How you going to sit right next to somebody and texting?

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Speaker 1: They do it all the time. They do it all

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01:13:25,960 --> 01:13:27,599
Speaker 1: the time, all the time.

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Speaker 4: Tasha's generation, these young kids, they do playdates and then

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01:13:34,000 --> 01:13:36,200
Speaker 4: they sit next to each other. Yeah, and they on

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01:13:36,240 --> 01:13:38,280
Speaker 4: the phone and that's their playdates. But they want to

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01:13:38,280 --> 01:13:42,160
Speaker 4: be talk to each others.

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Speaker 1: Too, Millennials too. That's all they do. They text. They

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01:13:45,360 --> 01:13:48,800
Speaker 1: have no social skills. They don't know how to interact

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01:13:48,840 --> 01:13:51,960
Speaker 1: with one another unless it's on their phone or their

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01:13:52,000 --> 01:13:57,040
Speaker 1: computer or something. Any other question anybody, Well, Steve, you're done.

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Speaker 6: Well.

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01:13:58,240 --> 01:14:00,479
Speaker 1: I think her heart was in the right place as

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01:14:00,520 --> 01:14:03,439
Speaker 1: a best friend. But anyway, we'll come right back with

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Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,

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01:14:13,840 --> 01:14:17,280
Speaker 1: So Carl in slide L says, my wife invited a

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01:14:17,280 --> 01:14:20,160
Speaker 1: neighbor over for drinks and the neighbors started talking about

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01:14:20,479 --> 01:14:22,880
Speaker 1: how good she is at doing this thing that I love.

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01:14:23,240 --> 01:14:25,680
Speaker 1: She asked my wife that if it was okay to

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01:14:25,760 --> 01:14:27,800
Speaker 1: show me, and my wife allowed her to do it.

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01:14:28,080 --> 01:14:31,240
Speaker 1: She gave me an out of body experience that day.

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01:14:31,920 --> 01:14:35,040
Speaker 1: Now it's so weird whenever I see her husband. As

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01:14:35,080 --> 01:14:37,439
Speaker 1: a man, I want to know if my wife had

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01:14:37,479 --> 01:14:39,559
Speaker 1: hooked up with one of our neighbors in that way.

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01:14:39,680 --> 01:14:42,120
Speaker 1: So should I have a heart to heart with this guy?

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01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:47,839
Speaker 1: What crazy?

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01:14:48,160 --> 01:14:50,800
Speaker 2: Should agree it? Again? Miss All?

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Speaker 1: His name is Carl Lee. He's out of slide L.

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01:14:54,880 --> 01:14:58,080
Speaker 1: He says his wife invited a neighbor over for drinks

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Speaker 1: and the neighbors started talking about how good she is

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01:15:01,600 --> 01:15:05,120
Speaker 1: at doing this thing that he loves. She asked my

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01:15:05,240 --> 01:15:08,240
Speaker 1: wife if it was okay to show me, and my

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01:15:08,400 --> 01:15:11,519
Speaker 1: wife allowed her to do it. She gave me an

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01:15:11,600 --> 01:15:15,160
Speaker 1: out of body experience that day. Now it's so weird

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01:15:15,240 --> 01:15:18,240
Speaker 1: whenever I see her husband, because as a man, I

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01:15:18,280 --> 01:15:20,640
Speaker 1: would want to know if my wife had hooked up

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01:15:20,640 --> 01:15:23,640
Speaker 1: with one of our neighbors in that way. Should I

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01:15:23,680 --> 01:15:25,160
Speaker 1: have a heart to heart with this guy?

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Speaker 13: So you will be shot, so you will be shared

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01:15:30,640 --> 01:15:31,400
Speaker 13: in the backyard.

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01:15:33,160 --> 01:15:36,479
Speaker 2: Why why are you running your mouth? You your wife

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01:15:36,600 --> 01:15:38,160
Speaker 2: let this woman do this to you.

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01:15:38,640 --> 01:15:44,800
Speaker 8: Yeah, and now you wants to tell the husband your stupid.

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01:15:45,520 --> 01:15:47,719
Speaker 2: You don't You don't want to get it done again.

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01:15:49,920 --> 01:15:52,759
Speaker 4: That's why, my uncle, you don't want to shut it down.

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01:15:54,120 --> 01:15:57,600
Speaker 8: You don't see this as a as a gift. You

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01:15:59,600 --> 01:16:07,000
Speaker 8: don't recognize this. Talk about the neighborhood Watch program. You

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01:16:07,080 --> 01:16:10,240
Speaker 8: talk about the homeowners Association. I can't believe what.

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01:16:10,760 --> 01:16:14,080
Speaker 2: Brother. Let me ask you something, brother, why would you

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01:16:14,200 --> 01:16:15,639
Speaker 2: tell her husband?

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01:16:16,439 --> 01:16:20,400
Speaker 1: Because he wants He says he would want to know

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01:16:20,520 --> 01:16:23,280
Speaker 1: if his wife hooked up with one of the neighbors.

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01:16:23,280 --> 01:16:25,760
Speaker 1: So he is, you know, I guess in his mind

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01:16:25,800 --> 01:16:26,280
Speaker 1: trying to do it.

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01:16:26,680 --> 01:16:26,840
Speaker 10: Bru.

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01:16:27,080 --> 01:16:28,120
Speaker 2: You need to find out.

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01:16:28,240 --> 01:16:28,439
Speaker 1: Bru.

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01:16:28,600 --> 01:16:31,519
Speaker 8: You're gonna mess around. You're gonna mess around, and this

1490
01:16:31,520 --> 01:16:33,680
Speaker 8: this is gonna go way different.

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01:16:33,360 --> 01:16:36,920
Speaker 2: Than you think. Yeah, I'm gonna give me a house

1492
01:16:36,960 --> 01:16:38,519
Speaker 2: and slid. Hell, that's what I'm gonna do.

1493
01:16:43,160 --> 01:16:45,760
Speaker 8: So let me see how this conversation gonna go. So

1494
01:16:45,840 --> 01:16:48,280
Speaker 8: you're gonna go ding dong, you're gonna ready to do do?

1495
01:16:49,760 --> 01:16:51,960
Speaker 8: Hey neighbor, Hey man, how you doing?

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01:16:53,080 --> 01:16:53,280
Speaker 2: Andy?

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01:16:53,280 --> 01:16:53,360
Speaker 18: What?

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01:16:53,560 --> 01:16:56,360
Speaker 2: Yeah? What can I do for? I need to talk

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01:16:56,400 --> 01:16:58,880
Speaker 2: to you, man, I need to talk to you. Yeah,

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01:16:58,920 --> 01:16:59,479
Speaker 2: what's going on?

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01:16:59,720 --> 01:17:03,679
Speaker 8: You bought my lawnmore you he weedy?

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01:17:04,360 --> 01:17:04,840
Speaker 2: What do you need?

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01:17:05,080 --> 01:17:10,000
Speaker 8: That ain't what I want? No that ain't want to

1504
01:17:10,040 --> 01:17:15,240
Speaker 8: talk to you about your wife. Pardon me, I don't

1505
01:17:15,400 --> 01:17:18,280
Speaker 8: talk to you about your wife. Wait a guy, he

1506
01:17:18,320 --> 01:17:21,599
Speaker 8: don't talk to me about my wife? What about my wife? Yeah,

1507
01:17:21,880 --> 01:17:27,080
Speaker 8: well she came over the other day and we was drinking,

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01:17:28,160 --> 01:17:33,960
Speaker 8: and man, I got to tell you. I just want

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01:17:34,000 --> 01:17:37,160
Speaker 8: you to know what I don't say. He had my

1510
01:17:37,360 --> 01:17:40,759
Speaker 8: eyes rolled in the back of my head.

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01:17:41,479 --> 01:17:46,680
Speaker 2: So did you get something in your eyes? No, it

1512
01:17:46,760 --> 01:17:51,280
Speaker 2: wasn't in my eye? Yeah, this ain't.

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01:17:53,000 --> 01:17:58,280
Speaker 8: It's no. It is no way, no way to address

1514
01:17:58,360 --> 01:18:04,839
Speaker 8: this subject, because before you get to the how it happened,

1515
01:18:04,880 --> 01:18:09,080
Speaker 8: it's too much can happen Before that, you won't even

1516
01:18:09,120 --> 01:18:11,680
Speaker 8: get to the end of this conversation life because it

1517
01:18:12,280 --> 01:18:14,920
Speaker 8: just bruhs. The stupidest thing you could do. Just bring

1518
01:18:14,920 --> 01:18:19,280
Speaker 8: this up. Listen, man, you got a free one. You

1519
01:18:19,360 --> 01:18:22,519
Speaker 8: got it over. It's a secret. These are those things

1520
01:18:22,560 --> 01:18:27,639
Speaker 8: you take to the grave. You know, y'all need to quit,

1521
01:18:27,760 --> 01:18:31,280
Speaker 8: quit watching football together and all this huge all each

1522
01:18:31,360 --> 01:18:33,639
Speaker 8: other's tools and all that.

1523
01:18:35,120 --> 01:18:37,320
Speaker 2: You know, just distance yourself.

1524
01:18:39,000 --> 01:18:41,240
Speaker 8: But I know the next time she over there drinking

1525
01:18:41,280 --> 01:18:43,800
Speaker 8: with the wife, I'm gonna be sitting there quiet as hell.

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01:18:48,560 --> 01:18:53,320
Speaker 1: All right, coming up in twenty minutes after we'll have

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01:18:53,400 --> 01:18:56,080
Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this,

1528
01:18:56,479 --> 01:19:03,559
Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,

1529
01:19:03,600 --> 01:19:07,400
Speaker 1: So guys, here's a question for you. Could one million

1530
01:19:07,560 --> 01:19:11,439
Speaker 1: dollars make you walk away from your marriage? How much?

1531
01:19:11,439 --> 01:19:16,360
Speaker 1: That's the question? One million dollars? Hey, oh no, okay,

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01:19:16,560 --> 01:19:20,040
Speaker 1: all right now. According to a new survey, forty three

1533
01:19:20,080 --> 01:19:23,320
Speaker 1: percent of the respondent says yes, they would leave the

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01:19:23,520 --> 01:19:28,080
Speaker 1: romantic partner for one million dollars. So you guys are

1535
01:19:28,080 --> 01:19:35,559
Speaker 1: in the minority yet again forty three percent. Well, they're saying,

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01:19:35,600 --> 01:19:38,360
Speaker 1: if not for one million dollars, what's your number?

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01:19:38,560 --> 01:19:38,920
Speaker 2: All right?

1538
01:19:38,960 --> 01:19:42,360
Speaker 1: What is your number? How many millions, if any, would

1539
01:19:42,400 --> 01:19:42,840
Speaker 1: it take.

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Speaker 8: For that's a good question for Tommy. No, listen, how

1541
01:19:49,439 --> 01:19:49,840
Speaker 8: are we up?

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01:19:49,840 --> 01:19:50,880
Speaker 2: We don't have a lot of time.

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01:19:51,000 --> 01:19:52,439
Speaker 1: Please come on, I'm just saying.

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01:19:52,720 --> 01:19:57,160
Speaker 13: And I love her, dealer, I do well that you

1545
01:19:57,200 --> 01:19:59,920
Speaker 13: flask that ten million in front of them? Oh wow

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01:20:00,080 --> 01:20:02,720
Speaker 13: yeah wow? He what what?

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Speaker 1: Let me ask you this?

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01:20:04,120 --> 01:20:05,240
Speaker 2: I don't know how like that?

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01:20:07,720 --> 01:20:11,400
Speaker 1: Yes, you do know her, you love her dearly.

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01:20:12,040 --> 01:20:15,519
Speaker 13: Love her dearly through that million and one or two

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01:20:15,640 --> 01:20:19,960
Speaker 13: me but that team one a little different life though.

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01:20:21,120 --> 01:20:24,320
Speaker 1: Forty one percent of people are willing to stop having

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01:20:24,360 --> 01:20:28,800
Speaker 1: sex completely for a million dollars. No more sex. No,

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01:20:29,160 --> 01:20:31,639
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it for a million dollars.

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01:20:31,960 --> 01:20:36,240
Speaker 8: Okay, all right, I probably got it nomal, but it

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01:20:36,280 --> 01:20:36,960
Speaker 8: ain't a million.

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01:20:36,960 --> 01:20:38,000
Speaker 2: I can tell you that right.

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01:20:40,880 --> 01:20:41,240
Speaker 7: Turn it.

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01:20:41,280 --> 01:20:43,720
Speaker 1: We're out of time. All right, we'll play around it.

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01:20:43,760 --> 01:20:46,719
Speaker 1: Would you rather coming up right after this? You're listening

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01:20:46,840 --> 01:20:54,479
Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. An education is a

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01:20:54,520 --> 01:20:59,000
Speaker 1: transformation every day. The third Good Marshall College Fund transforms

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Speaker 1: lives through scholar ships and career advancement opportunities. Over a

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Speaker 1: half of billion dollars has already gone back to students

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01:21:06,360 --> 01:21:10,920
Speaker 1: who needed most. We also connect companies with exceptional HBCU

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01:21:11,040 --> 01:21:15,600
Speaker 1: talent through workforce development initiatives. I am a proud HBCU

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01:21:15,720 --> 01:21:19,520
Speaker 1: graduate and my education help me reach my fullest potential.

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01:21:19,720 --> 01:21:22,800
Speaker 1: I'm continuing that tradition with my daughter, who will be

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01:21:22,880 --> 01:21:29,280
Speaker 1: attending in HBCU this fall. Generational excellence continues. TMCF is

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01:21:29,360 --> 01:21:35,639
Speaker 1: America's largest organization that exclusively represents the HBCU community. Join

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Speaker 1: us in being part of the transformation applied, donate or

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Speaker 1: partner with us today at TMCF dot org. Time now

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Speaker 1: for would would you rather be completely invisible for a

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01:21:48,280 --> 01:21:51,920
Speaker 1: day or would you rather be able to fly for

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01:21:52,000 --> 01:21:54,920
Speaker 1: one day? Completely invisible for a day or be able

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01:21:54,920 --> 01:21:55,840
Speaker 1: to fly for a day.

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01:21:56,160 --> 01:22:02,880
Speaker 13: Ah, I'm finish this fly away you talk about ever?

1578
01:22:04,320 --> 01:22:07,120
Speaker 13: Just just your body flying death.

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01:22:09,040 --> 01:22:11,160
Speaker 2: Then it started raining and can on I come.

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01:22:11,080 --> 01:22:13,360
Speaker 1: Up thunder Lord.

1581
01:22:16,120 --> 01:22:19,760
Speaker 2: Again. We are all gonna be invisible. Just ain't no

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01:22:19,880 --> 01:22:20,599
Speaker 2: ain't no plane.

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01:22:20,640 --> 01:22:24,080
Speaker 13: It's just me and I'm talking about invisible at child's house.

1584
01:22:24,160 --> 01:22:26,080
Speaker 13: I'm gonna go see what y'all talking about.

1585
01:22:25,840 --> 01:22:26,080
Speaker 2: Over the.

1586
01:22:28,360 --> 01:22:32,720
Speaker 1: Would you rather a spouse that is not opinionated or

1587
01:22:32,720 --> 01:22:34,880
Speaker 1: would you rather a spouse that is controlling?

1588
01:22:35,880 --> 01:22:40,599
Speaker 2: Controlling? I don't controlling. Yeah, I'm a rebeled on that

1589
01:22:41,080 --> 01:22:43,480
Speaker 2: I'm controlling, But I don't want to hear your opinion.

1590
01:22:43,520 --> 01:22:45,559
Speaker 2: All the really know that is.

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01:22:45,560 --> 01:22:49,439
Speaker 1: Not opinionated, like like, don't.

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01:22:49,280 --> 01:22:52,040
Speaker 2: Make it like that. That's that they don't even make

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01:22:52,080 --> 01:22:56,800
Speaker 2: that type of woman. Whatever. That's an impossible that's an

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01:22:56,840 --> 01:22:59,920
Speaker 2: impossible statement. That was a movie. That was a movie.

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01:23:00,360 --> 01:23:04,759
Speaker 1: Yeah to America, all right, would you rather be voted

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01:23:04,800 --> 01:23:08,599
Speaker 1: class clown or would you rather be voted most likely

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Speaker 1: to succeed?

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01:23:10,640 --> 01:23:14,120
Speaker 2: I was vote for them, I know good and hell,

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01:23:14,160 --> 01:23:15,360
Speaker 2: well I wasn't gonna be be.

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Speaker 1: Oh you didn't think so dreams back then?

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01:23:20,479 --> 01:23:22,560
Speaker 2: Who the hell was gonna vote for me? It is

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01:23:22,640 --> 01:23:27,520
Speaker 2: most likely to succeed? I was voted most difficult.

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01:23:28,120 --> 01:23:31,720
Speaker 1: That that was so accurate. Yeah, why do you have

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01:23:31,800 --> 01:23:34,680
Speaker 1: to carry that on too your adult life? Leave that

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01:23:34,760 --> 01:23:35,840
Speaker 1: where it belongs.

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01:23:37,240 --> 01:23:39,320
Speaker 2: This was the voting this how I am?

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01:23:41,439 --> 01:23:42,160
Speaker 1: They voted you that?

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01:23:42,600 --> 01:23:45,000
Speaker 8: Yeah, all right, well I really like being high am.

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01:23:45,080 --> 01:23:47,840
Speaker 8: I don't really see the problem. I really, I swear

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01:23:47,880 --> 01:23:49,480
Speaker 8: to you. I do not see the problem.

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01:23:49,920 --> 01:23:53,439
Speaker 1: You see it knows we tell you about it every day.

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01:23:53,760 --> 01:23:54,439
Speaker 2: What is the problem?

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01:23:54,520 --> 01:23:56,840
Speaker 8: But but see, look at the source of who's telling

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01:23:56,840 --> 01:23:59,479
Speaker 8: me this. Y'all telling me this because I don't want

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01:23:59,520 --> 01:24:01,000
Speaker 8: to do what you y'all want me to do.

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01:24:01,840 --> 01:24:03,880
Speaker 1: I'm true, that's not true.

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01:24:04,520 --> 01:24:06,040
Speaker 2: No, No, that's it all that.

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01:24:06,400 --> 01:24:09,080
Speaker 1: It's what needs to be done. It's none that we

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01:24:09,160 --> 01:24:10,080
Speaker 1: wanted you to do.

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01:24:10,160 --> 01:24:13,240
Speaker 2: Y'all. Don't tell me what I need to do. Who

1621
01:24:13,320 --> 01:24:14,280
Speaker 2: is it's not it?

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01:24:14,320 --> 01:24:17,560
Speaker 4: Well, sometimes we need impredication from you.

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01:24:17,560 --> 01:24:25,080
Speaker 19: You only give us that a lot of business. You've

1624
01:24:25,080 --> 01:24:32,240
Speaker 19: been difficult right now, but we're lost. That's your actual

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01:24:32,840 --> 01:24:34,799
Speaker 19: round and business.

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01:24:34,800 --> 01:24:36,920
Speaker 8: Because y'all look at my scheduleing and y'all try to

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01:24:36,960 --> 01:24:38,760
Speaker 8: fill it with what y'all, No.

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01:24:38,880 --> 01:24:42,040
Speaker 1: We don't coming up last break of the day and

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01:24:42,120 --> 01:24:45,080
Speaker 1: some closing from the one and only mister difficult himself,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve

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01:24:48,280 --> 01:24:49,280
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.

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01:24:54,000 --> 01:24:57,080
Speaker 8: This is Steve Harbin Martin show Man. I confessed, I

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01:24:57,120 --> 01:24:58,600
Speaker 8: don't like watching my grandkids.

1634
01:24:59,120 --> 01:25:01,599
Speaker 1: You have beautiful hand children, all the beautiful.

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01:25:01,640 --> 01:25:05,160
Speaker 2: They cracked me up. I don't like watching them. You

1636
01:25:05,360 --> 01:25:06,160
Speaker 2: watch shop.

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01:25:06,200 --> 01:25:08,679
Speaker 8: Put that down where you're going. We'll get out off

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01:25:08,680 --> 01:25:11,200
Speaker 8: of that. No, I don't know how to find Papa.

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01:25:11,320 --> 01:25:15,400
Speaker 8: Don't like the understand Papa like watching Sports Center and

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01:25:15,560 --> 01:25:17,920
Speaker 8: seeing it and neck flick and that's what I'm.

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01:25:17,800 --> 01:25:20,000
Speaker 2: Gonna watch, Papaul. I want to drink of that. You

1642
01:25:20,080 --> 01:25:24,200
Speaker 2: can't drink mccalpit, coming up, right.

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01:25:24,080 --> 01:25:24,360
Speaker 10: Up to.

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01:25:26,720 --> 01:25:31,360
Speaker 4: And education is a transformation every day. The Third Marshall

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01:25:31,400 --> 01:25:36,080
Speaker 4: College Fund transformed lives through scholarships, professional development, and career

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01:25:36,120 --> 01:25:41,120
Speaker 4: advancement opportunities. We also connect forward thinking companies with exceptional

1647
01:25:41,479 --> 01:25:47,000
Speaker 4: HBCU talent through workforce development programs. I'm a proud HBCU graduate,

1648
01:25:47,080 --> 01:25:50,400
Speaker 4: and my experience shape me into the person I am today.

1649
01:25:50,560 --> 01:25:54,960
Speaker 4: The education, culture, community, and lifelong connections help me reach

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01:25:55,040 --> 01:25:56,280
Speaker 4: my fullest potential.

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Speaker 1: The Third Good.

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Speaker 4: Marshall College Fund is America's largest organism that exclusively represents

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Speaker 4: the HBCU community. If you believe in education, opportunity, in

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01:26:06,520 --> 01:26:09,200
Speaker 4: building future leaders, this is where it starts.

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01:26:09,400 --> 01:26:11,600
Speaker 1: Join us and be a part of the transformation.

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01:26:11,920 --> 01:26:16,360
Speaker 4: Apply, donate, or partner with us today at TMCF dot org.

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01:26:17,000 --> 01:26:19,120
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, here we are our last break of

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01:26:19,160 --> 01:26:23,599
Speaker 1: the day. It's been a good day. Huh. It's time

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01:26:23,720 --> 01:26:24,759
Speaker 1: Steve for your clothing.

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01:26:25,200 --> 01:26:27,640
Speaker 8: You're right, let's go. I got something I want to

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01:26:27,680 --> 01:26:32,840
Speaker 8: share with you. Now, listen to me. When I share

1662
01:26:32,880 --> 01:26:37,719
Speaker 8: this with you, You're.

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01:26:34,880 --> 01:26:37,240
Speaker 2: Going to have to have an open mind to receive it.

1664
01:26:40,120 --> 01:26:43,920
Speaker 8: But it's tough for when I try to share information

1665
01:26:44,080 --> 01:26:53,480
Speaker 8: like this because I understand negative people. Negative people always

1666
01:26:54,080 --> 01:27:03,000
Speaker 8: find a problem with your solution. It's amazing you can

1667
01:27:03,200 --> 01:27:07,120
Speaker 8: have a real solution. You can find a way to

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01:27:07,280 --> 01:27:11,400
Speaker 8: solve the problem. Do you know that a negative person

1669
01:27:12,960 --> 01:27:17,880
Speaker 8: will find a problem with the solution. It's just people

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01:27:18,000 --> 01:27:20,559
Speaker 8: like that. So I'm saying that before I say this,

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01:27:20,680 --> 01:27:24,280
Speaker 8: because the old woe is me central is alive and

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01:27:24,320 --> 01:27:27,280
Speaker 8: well in some people. I wish it wasn't, but it is.

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01:27:27,400 --> 01:27:32,200
Speaker 8: But here I go. Anyway, So listen to this. Don't

1674
01:27:32,200 --> 01:27:37,519
Speaker 8: get discouraged when it goes bad for you. Now, listen

1675
01:27:37,560 --> 01:27:42,240
Speaker 8: to me carefully. Now I'm saying, don't get discouraged when

1676
01:27:42,280 --> 01:27:45,920
Speaker 8: it's going bad for you. Now, it's not to say

1677
01:27:46,200 --> 01:27:49,559
Speaker 8: that when bad things happen, you're not gonna feel badly

1678
01:27:49,640 --> 01:27:54,080
Speaker 8: about it. It's not to say that you won't have

1679
01:27:54,160 --> 01:27:58,120
Speaker 8: the natural human feelings when bad things happen to you,

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01:27:58,680 --> 01:28:05,000
Speaker 8: because you will. I'm talking about discouraged. I'm talking about

1681
01:28:05,479 --> 01:28:10,240
Speaker 8: because something has happened to you, you're now contemplating giving up.

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01:28:11,000 --> 01:28:14,160
Speaker 8: You're discouraged to the point where you're thinking about it's

1683
01:28:14,280 --> 01:28:16,760
Speaker 8: I guess, well, I guess it's not gonna happen or

1684
01:28:16,800 --> 01:28:19,240
Speaker 8: you get discouraged to the point where you start thinking

1685
01:28:19,280 --> 01:28:20,479
Speaker 8: about turning around.

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01:28:21,479 --> 01:28:23,360
Speaker 2: That's what I mean by discourage.

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01:28:23,560 --> 01:28:26,519
Speaker 8: I'm not saying that you won't feel bad when bad

1688
01:28:26,560 --> 01:28:30,439
Speaker 8: things happen. That's human nature. But I'm talking about don't

1689
01:28:30,520 --> 01:28:33,559
Speaker 8: let it discourage you. And the reason I say that

1690
01:28:34,160 --> 01:28:37,320
Speaker 8: is because you've gone through some bad times before.

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01:28:37,840 --> 01:28:40,559
Speaker 2: I just need to remind you of how strong you

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01:28:40,640 --> 01:28:41,160
Speaker 2: really are.

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01:28:41,800 --> 01:28:44,800
Speaker 8: See, you've gone through some bad times before, and I

1694
01:28:44,880 --> 01:28:48,880
Speaker 8: have to remind you of this. You've survived them all.

1695
01:28:50,439 --> 01:28:55,840
Speaker 8: Every bad moment you've ever gone through, you have actually

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01:28:56,200 --> 01:29:07,400
Speaker 8: survived them all, all of them. So the only thing

1697
01:29:07,479 --> 01:29:10,800
Speaker 8: you have to remember is that you've gotten.

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01:29:10,600 --> 01:29:12,920
Speaker 2: Past things in your past.

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01:29:13,720 --> 01:29:18,080
Speaker 8: Now, if you haven't gotten past the things that's in

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01:29:18,120 --> 01:29:21,720
Speaker 8: your past, or you can't get past the things that

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01:29:21,920 --> 01:29:28,439
Speaker 8: happened to you, it's simply because you keep dwelling on it. See,

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01:29:28,800 --> 01:29:33,360
Speaker 8: the devil has an amazing trick that he plays. Because

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01:29:33,360 --> 01:29:36,240
Speaker 8: I think I said this yesterday, The devil really don't

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01:29:36,280 --> 01:29:38,280
Speaker 8: care that you get a new card, new house, or

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01:29:38,360 --> 01:29:39,759
Speaker 8: job promotion or raise.

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01:29:40,560 --> 01:29:44,480
Speaker 2: The devil don't care that you find love somewhere.

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01:29:44,920 --> 01:29:45,519
Speaker 1: He don't care.

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01:29:46,960 --> 01:29:49,479
Speaker 8: Matter of fact, he can almost be okay with any

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01:29:49,520 --> 01:29:52,599
Speaker 8: of that. His only job is to rob you of

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01:29:52,640 --> 01:29:55,600
Speaker 8: your destiny. And one of the great tools that he

1711
01:29:55,800 --> 01:29:59,639
Speaker 8: uses to rob you of your destiny is to make.

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01:29:59,479 --> 01:30:04,280
Speaker 2: You hold to your past. Man, he's so slick with that.

1713
01:30:04,840 --> 01:30:08,320
Speaker 8: He gets in your head and he doesn't even allow

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01:30:08,439 --> 01:30:11,400
Speaker 8: you to move past what you've gotten over because he

1715
01:30:11,560 --> 01:30:15,680
Speaker 8: causes you to dwell on it, and you keep rehashing

1716
01:30:15,760 --> 01:30:19,679
Speaker 8: it and bringing it up and going over and discussing it.

1717
01:30:20,080 --> 01:30:24,360
Speaker 8: And then he uses another trick. He makes you think

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01:30:24,439 --> 01:30:27,479
Speaker 8: because of something in your past is causing you not

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01:30:27,640 --> 01:30:31,160
Speaker 8: to have a bright future. So now what you've done,

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01:30:31,640 --> 01:30:34,400
Speaker 8: this thing that God has clearly gotten us all past

1721
01:30:34,520 --> 01:30:38,519
Speaker 8: whatever it is. If you're still standing, you got past it.

1722
01:30:39,240 --> 01:30:41,920
Speaker 8: But his trick is to make you think, since you

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01:30:42,080 --> 01:30:47,519
Speaker 8: still remember it, it's still there. That doesn't have to

1724
01:30:47,600 --> 01:30:52,479
Speaker 8: be the case. You can let it go. Your old

1725
01:30:52,479 --> 01:30:54,599
Speaker 8: people say, turn it over to God. Have you ever

1726
01:30:54,760 --> 01:31:00,320
Speaker 8: tried that? Have just your past? Just try this something

1727
01:31:00,400 --> 01:31:03,960
Speaker 8: that's currently bothering you, just the things of your past.

1728
01:31:04,640 --> 01:31:08,760
Speaker 8: Just turn it over to God. Let it go, just

1729
01:31:09,040 --> 01:31:13,000
Speaker 8: release it to him. It will help you so much

1730
01:31:13,400 --> 01:31:19,160
Speaker 8: in your advancement towards your future. Man, stop getting discouraged

1731
01:31:19,200 --> 01:31:22,599
Speaker 8: every time things go bad. Things capping badly all the time,

1732
01:31:22,840 --> 01:31:24,960
Speaker 8: and you're going to feel bad about it, but don't

1733
01:31:25,040 --> 01:31:26,840
Speaker 8: let it discourage you to the point where you want

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01:31:26,880 --> 01:31:30,920
Speaker 8: to give up and turn around. And if you haven't

1735
01:31:30,960 --> 01:31:34,080
Speaker 8: gotten past your past, it's simply because you keep dwelling

1736
01:31:34,160 --> 01:31:39,120
Speaker 8: on it. If God woke you up again today, it

1737
01:31:39,240 --> 01:31:41,840
Speaker 8: is a sign from him that he wants you to

1738
01:31:41,920 --> 01:31:44,679
Speaker 8: move forward. If he didn't want you to move forward,

1739
01:31:44,720 --> 01:31:49,639
Speaker 8: you wouldn't wake up today. Come on, y'all, take your

1740
01:31:49,720 --> 01:31:52,639
Speaker 8: past and let God have it so you can get to.

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01:31:52,560 --> 01:31:57,719
Speaker 2: Your y'all have a great weekare I show?

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Speaker 10: Am?

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