1 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: Hey there, folks, it is Saturday, August ninth. Question for you, 2 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:10,120 Speaker 1: what did you do this week to give yourself a beats, 3 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 1: give yourself a break, give yourself just a little grace 4 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 1: this week, and maybe do a little something to recover. Well, 5 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:24,640 Speaker 1: you know what we did this week to recover. We 6 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 1: took a four hour drive, had a romantic hike through 7 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 1: a state park, went to a carnival, grilled steaks, kebabs 8 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 1: and broughts every night, introduced a new generation to the 9 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: Final Destination Movie franchise, and we watched one particular episode 10 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 1: of Seinfeld. And with that, everybody, welcome to this recovery 11 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:47,240 Speaker 1: run edition of Amy and TJ. Rose. We are getting 12 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 1: better at this. We were doing bad for a little 13 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:52,560 Speaker 1: while and recovering, but now we've gotten better in the 14 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:53,159 Speaker 1: past few weeks. 15 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:57,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're even recovering while we're working right now. Because 16 00:00:57,320 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 2: we are sitting on a beautiful deck at the tip 17 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 2: of Long Island with a beautiful breeze. You might be 18 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 2: able to hear it on the microphone a little bit, 19 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:11,400 Speaker 2: apologies if you can. With a gorgeous seventy three degree 20 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 2: sun beating down on us, not a cloud in the sky, 21 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:17,960 Speaker 2: so Yes, even though we're working, we're still kind of relaxing. 22 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:21,119 Speaker 1: Yes, not everybody gets to do that. We don't get 23 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: to do that often, but we're getting to do it 24 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:24,840 Speaker 1: this week, and that has been a part of us 25 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: probably being a little more up, being a little more joyful. 26 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 1: Maybe you've heard it in our tone this week during 27 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:32,959 Speaker 1: some of our episodes, But the recovery run, we always 28 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: remind folks this is a real thing, an actual thing 29 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 1: for us runners and marathoners. But yeah, you do all 30 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 1: that training and all that running, and sometimes you go 31 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 1: run to recover from running robot. 32 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's kind of like active recovery. I think anyone 33 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 2: who works out knows what that is. So a recovery 34 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 2: run is a short, easy paced run intended to help 35 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 2: your body recover from the harder workouts aka the rest 36 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 2: of your week. It's a form of active recovery that 37 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 2: promote it's blood flowed to tired muscles, aiding in the 38 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 2: removal of metabolic waste and reducing muscle soreness. You know, 39 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 2: I would say this recovery run that we're doing now 40 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:13,920 Speaker 2: each week, that we're talking about intentional moments of rest 41 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 2: and relaxation in an otherwise hectic work week. That's it's 42 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 2: almost like a mental recovery, so like your brain actually 43 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 2: gets to relax, like the muscles in your brain. It's 44 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 2: very much like the muscles in your legs or all 45 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 2: the other muscles you're using in a run, all the 46 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 2: muscles you use when you're stressed and anxious and overthinking, 47 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:35,519 Speaker 2: they need to relax too. 48 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 1: And it's weird that one of are the ways that 49 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 1: we found to relax this week came from probably one 50 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 1: of the most frustrating parts of our week, and I'm 51 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 1: talking about Robes. We went and we watched a particular 52 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 1: episode of Seinfeld. It's called Alternate Side. I think it 53 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: was season three, episode eleven, if I can remember that correct. 54 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: But it's the episode Robes that is so famous, has 55 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:04,799 Speaker 1: such a place in pop culture because of a particular 56 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 1: scene in which Jerry was trying to rent a car. 57 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:11,679 Speaker 2: Correct, And we actually had life imitate art this week, 58 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 2: so if you all need a little refresher on the scene. 59 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 2: Jerry goes up to get his car from the rental 60 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 2: company and he says, here's my reservation, and they said, oh, yeah, 61 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 2: we see your reservation. But unfortunately, mister Seinfeld we have 62 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 2: no cars, and he was like, then you actually didn't 63 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:31,519 Speaker 2: take the reservation, Like, oh, no, we did take the reservation, 64 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 2: and he's like, no. The whole point of a reservation 65 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 2: is to hold a car. And if so you can 66 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 2: take a reservation, you're good at taking reservations. You're not 67 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 2: good at actually following up or following through on the reservation, 68 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 2: which is the whole point and the most important part 69 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 2: of the reservation, which is to have the car available. 70 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 1: See we're laughing about it now, but it was the 71 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: most frustrating part of our week that caused us to 72 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 1: actually watch that episode because we have had a reservation. 73 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 1: We got of we're carless, which a lot of people 74 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 1: are in New York, but yours was the last we 75 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 1: were holding on to. Yep, your coop turned it in 76 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 1: a few months ago. So all we have was a motorcycle. 77 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 1: Can't go very far with our luggage on that thing. 78 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 1: So we don't have a car, so had we rent 79 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 1: when we travel. So we come to Montalk, rented a car. 80 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:21,599 Speaker 1: You rented that car? Is it literally months ago? 81 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:22,279 Speaker 2: Two months ago? 82 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: Two months ago, made a reservation. We show up to 83 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 1: pick up the car over the weekend and they tell you. 84 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:32,480 Speaker 2: What, we have no vehicles. And not only did I 85 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 2: rent any vehicle this because we knew we had a 86 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 2: bunch of kids coming. We actually specifically asked for an 87 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 2: suv and it was more expensive, the seven passenger suv 88 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 2: pre paid it. Get up there and they say, we 89 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 2: have no vehicles, and I follow up and ask when 90 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 2: will you be getting vehicles? The answer, I don't know, 91 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:53,839 Speaker 2: and I can't even guarantee you there'll be any for 92 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 2: the rest of the day. And so we're there with 93 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:58,479 Speaker 2: all of our luggage that we slept over on the 94 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:00,240 Speaker 2: other side of the west side of Highway to get 95 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 2: into our car, and we're being told there are no cars. 96 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 2: So then we go and I get on the phone 97 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:08,840 Speaker 2: with another car company and they assure me, if I 98 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 2: go to this other location in Manhattan, we will absolutely 99 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 2: be able to get a car. So I rented, I 100 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 2: reserved another SUV and okay, got on the phone with 101 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 2: customer service. Yes, ma'am, that car is at that location. Fantastic. 102 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 2: We get into another Uber. We go to the other 103 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 2: car company and what happens. TJ's no cars, we have 104 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 2: no cars available. 105 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:36,280 Speaker 1: There's one available, and the family ahead of you is 106 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 1: taking that. It's like, wow, okay, it's awesome. Say, oh, 107 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:42,280 Speaker 1: here's a beautiful electric vehicle if you want to take this. Yes, 108 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 1: it holds about three and a half people and two bags, 109 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 1: and good luck finding whatever place to plug it into. 110 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:52,279 Speaker 1: Those are our options. We ended up getting a third 111 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 1: option with a car with a leaky tire. The air 112 00:05:57,440 --> 00:06:00,720 Speaker 1: is leaking, he assured me. Odds brought probably. 113 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 2: Fine, just a sensor issue. Yeah, we checked it. We 114 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 2: did the tire gauge, the tire pressure gauge. The tires 115 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 2: are fine. So don't be alarmed because when you look 116 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:10,720 Speaker 2: when you go to turn the key, you're going to 117 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 2: see that the tire pressure's dropping. But don't worry. We 118 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 2: confirmed it's not dropping. Okay, just a malfunctioning sensor. 119 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 1: So ocd ME is keeping an eye on this sense 120 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 1: of the whole time pressure's dropping. We have to keep 121 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 1: putting air in a tire. We have put air in 122 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 1: this rental car tire all week because they let us 123 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 1: leave with a leaking. 124 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:38,359 Speaker 2: Tire, and we left with the leaking tire knowing that 125 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 2: it could be because it was our only option. It 126 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 2: seemed as though in all of Manhattan and we were 127 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 2: already an hour behind schedule, which added even a longer 128 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 2: drive time because traffic going out to Long Island is 129 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 2: so amazing on Saturdays. 130 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 1: I have to ask the line the kid gave you, 131 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:56,479 Speaker 1: it hurts. I wasn't there with you and analyse, but 132 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 1: it was a very much a similar line to the show. 133 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 1: And he was talking about so, yeah, we only take reservations, 134 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:02,480 Speaker 1: we don't rent car. 135 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:06,839 Speaker 2: Well he said, he said, we only hold reservations, not vehicles. 136 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 2: And when he said that to me, I did not laugh. 137 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 2: I said, did you just hear what you just said? 138 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 2: He's like yes, and I'll repeat it. And then when 139 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 2: you went up and talked to him, he had some 140 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 2: attitude with you because I had already questioned him, like, 141 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 2: did you actually just say that to me with a 142 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 2: straight face? 143 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 1: Okay, So we're not trying to no, this is an 144 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 1: actual experience, and we're not bad mouthing or trying to 145 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 1: bad mouth these companies. But if anybody in any executive 146 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 1: level of either of those two companies knew that their 147 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 1: employees behave that way that day, there would be hell 148 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: to pay. There is zero chance you ever want your 149 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 1: company to have anybody have the experience that we had 150 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 1: with your company. 151 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 2: It's so true. It's so true, so that you know, 152 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 2: of course, travel vacations. You know, this is why we've 153 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 2: even laughed when you see other families stressed out, because 154 00:07:57,000 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 2: there it never goes perfectly. Wheels always fall off the 155 00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 2: bus in some way, form or fashion, and ours just 156 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 2: happened right away. 157 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 1: What was the company, you know, not the company? The 158 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 1: family was from? Where was funny? 159 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 2: There was a family from Germany. And I felt so 160 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 2: bad for her because she had booked She said, she 161 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 2: had booked this car six months in advance. She asked 162 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 2: this sales associate about fifteen questions ahead of times. Okay, fine, whatever. 163 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:25,280 Speaker 2: The guy at the counter, who was rude as hell, 164 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 2: she asked him at least fifteen questions about tolls and 165 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 2: what it was going to be like, and they were 166 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 2: taking it to Canada, and what kind of insurance she 167 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 2: should have. You could tell she was so detailed. She 168 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 2: was German, so she had all her ducks in a row. 169 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 2: She was literally going through and she looked back at 170 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 2: me and said, I'm sorry, I just I need to 171 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 2: make sure I have everything straight. I said, it's fine, 172 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 2: it's fine, no worries. Because she knew she was like 173 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 2: holding up the line. And then and only then he said, oh, 174 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 2: your reservations for twelve. It was eleven forty five, and 175 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 2: he said you'll just have to wait and didn't tell 176 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 2: her that there weren't any cars then, and her poor 177 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 2: husband and her son there couldn't speak a lick of English, 178 00:08:57,280 --> 00:08:59,200 Speaker 2: so she was the only one communicating. Then the guy 179 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 2: next who came in line, he said, oh, your reservation 180 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 2: was for eleven. Sorry, your car's not here, So he 181 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 2: was making excuses. Then when he came up to me, 182 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 2: he had he ran out of them, so we had 183 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 2: to just say to me, point blank, we have no cars. 184 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 2: And I was like, what the two people before you 185 00:09:17,120 --> 00:09:19,880 Speaker 2: basically kind of blamed them, Oh you're here early, Oh 186 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 2: you're here late. And then he had no other excuse 187 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 2: to me other than to say we only hold reservations, 188 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 2: not vehicles. 189 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 1: This was egregious. And again this was I understand. Somebody 190 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 1: tell you go to a restaurant and say, oh my goodness, 191 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 1: these people stay late and your reservation is going to 192 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 1: be delayed. I feel we're not talking about mine. Earth 193 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 1: stuff happens, flight delays, all kinds of you. You're freaking 194 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 1: flight intendant has a bad attitude because something's going stuff 195 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 1: happens in business. This was other level and your company 196 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:53,080 Speaker 1: should not function. No, hey, I don't want to call 197 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:55,080 Speaker 1: him out, but I don't know. 198 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 2: And the rude person at the counter said to us, 199 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 2: this happens every weekend, kind of basically like it's not 200 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 2: a big deal. This is this is how we operate. 201 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 2: This one was great, get used to it. 202 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:07,920 Speaker 1: But the company, I know, people get you to know. 203 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:10,440 Speaker 1: We'll get We're not black. No, this is an actual 204 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 1: experience us. This isn't in any way libelous. No, this 205 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 1: was my experience the company. It starts with an H 206 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 1: and ends with earths. Okay with the company, Well, I 207 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:24,200 Speaker 1: don't know how we can ever work with the It 208 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:25,079 Speaker 1: was unbelievad. 209 00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 2: I gave customer service a piece of my mind when 210 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 2: I had to call and get my money back, and 211 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 2: I told them that I would never rent with them again. 212 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 2: I was a gold member that was ending. I just it. 213 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:37,839 Speaker 2: I will never ever that was rent from that company ever. 214 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:39,320 Speaker 1: But you know what they gave us. Think it was 215 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 1: a reason to watch a wonderful Seinfeld episode and we laugh. 216 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 2: Isn't it funny? Like whatever. That was probably in the 217 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 2: early nineties, so twenty something years ago, thirty something years ago, 218 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 2: and still still that's what rental companies are doing thirty 219 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 2: years later. 220 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 1: We got in the car so we could head out 221 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 1: and have a wonderful time and again, yes, spend some 222 00:10:57,200 --> 00:11:00,200 Speaker 1: good family time. But in part of that starts with 223 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 1: ay frustrating. Yes, man, we've been frustrated before. We've found joy. 224 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:07,720 Speaker 1: Yeah this week, but yeah, it's a even without traffic, 225 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 1: it's a two and a half hour drive. Put traffic 226 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 1: in there. It's two lane road getting out to where 227 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 1: we are, and it became. 228 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:15,679 Speaker 2: A doozy like a four hour drive basically, but it 229 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 2: was uneventful and at least our tire didn't go flat. 230 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:22,960 Speaker 2: There were other things to have perspective over. After we 231 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 2: had that experience, it was just like, let's just get 232 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:30,679 Speaker 2: there and be grateful that we're finally somewhere other than Manhattan. 233 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 1: We get to where we're a look, this is a 234 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 1: blessing and you and I have I guess we probably 235 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:37,440 Speaker 1: do this once or twice a year. We make our 236 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 1: way up to upstate New York, somewhere along island to 237 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 1: just send a weekend on the lake and just get 238 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:45,959 Speaker 1: some sun to get out of the city. It's always good. 239 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:48,000 Speaker 1: A lot of people from the city do that. But 240 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:50,719 Speaker 1: this has been a week long venture and it's been 241 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:54,360 Speaker 1: cool to have family but also friends in and out 242 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 1: because your daughters have had like a revolving door of 243 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 1: friends coming in. Yes, that's been really cool actually this week. 244 00:12:02,320 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 2: Yes. And the cool thing is they actually, I think 245 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 2: are probably appreciative of the fact that we have to 246 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:08,439 Speaker 2: go to bed around nine pm each night because we 247 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 2: have to get up so early to do morning run. 248 00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 2: So they've kind of had the house to themselves to 249 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:15,960 Speaker 2: enjoy watch movies, kind of feel like, you know, they're 250 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:18,440 Speaker 2: renting their own mon talk home, you know, the twenty 251 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:20,880 Speaker 2: somethings that they are, hahaha. But yes, it's been fun 252 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 2: because we've had to have We've had some fun time 253 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 2: with them, but they've also gotten some alone time i think, 254 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 2: without us, which I'm sure they're appreciative of. 255 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 1: But a big part of what we do, and look, 256 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:32,680 Speaker 1: this is what parents do. We want to feed kids 257 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:35,679 Speaker 1: as my parents do. I know what your parents do 258 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:38,440 Speaker 1: when we go home. But it's weird to be in 259 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:42,240 Speaker 1: that position now, to have people of that age expecting 260 00:12:42,320 --> 00:12:46,679 Speaker 1: food from you, and you always oblige you. 261 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:49,720 Speaker 2: Yes, and we have every every time, like you've been 262 00:12:49,720 --> 00:12:52,320 Speaker 2: the girl master as you usually are, and the chef 263 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 2: as well. But every time you put down a plate 264 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 2: of anything, it's hilarious. It's like a feeding friends. You know, 265 00:12:57,559 --> 00:12:59,320 Speaker 2: when you go to feed your fish in the fish 266 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:00,839 Speaker 2: tank and you put the fish food and they all 267 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 2: just come up and got That's exactly what happens with 268 00:13:04,240 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 2: these kids, you know, now that they've got off to 269 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 2: college or you know, actually Ava and Ry are about 270 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 2: to go off on their own, they're so aware of 271 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:14,240 Speaker 2: how expensive food is and how difficult and time consuming 272 00:13:14,280 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 2: it is to prepare it that they're extra quick to 273 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 2: just be like whoo food free food. So yes, it's 274 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:23,439 Speaker 2: been fun to watch them be appreciative. 275 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:25,840 Speaker 1: It's a compliment when people eat your food. Of course, 276 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 1: my issue I always take with the girls, Oh yes. 277 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:32,199 Speaker 2: Just give me a heads up that you want food 278 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 2: that you're starving. 279 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 1: I ask them ahead of time, is anybody else eating 280 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 1: this is what I'm making. I don't get a response, 281 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:42,080 Speaker 1: and then I make enough for two and then I 282 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 1: end up not eating that. 283 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 2: It happens multiple times my food, but. 284 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 1: No it's a joy and it's fun, and this has 285 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:52,440 Speaker 1: been good and we just I don't know. The friends 286 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:56,640 Speaker 1: that your daughters have at this point are family. They've 287 00:13:56,640 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 1: been around so long and even for me at this 288 00:13:59,840 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 1: point have known them throughout their lives. It's really really 289 00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:04,400 Speaker 1: cool to be able to hang with them like this. 290 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 1: And there, I always say to the man hopes to 291 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 1: being at some point has friends like Annals in particular, 292 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:12,320 Speaker 1: has because they just good kids. Like all of them 293 00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:15,560 Speaker 1: that show up here, bring a bottle of something or 294 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 1: bring some kind of gift to say thank you. Yes, 295 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:18,439 Speaker 1: they're grateful. 296 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:21,360 Speaker 2: It's a good they were raised well. And the other 297 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 2: the other perk of having I've always let the girls usually, 298 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:27,600 Speaker 2: if we have the space to do it, you can 299 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:30,040 Speaker 2: bring one friend. And part of it is selfish on 300 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 2: my end, because I know when they each bring one friend, 301 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 2: it changes the dynamic a lot of times. If you 302 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 2: all have siblings and multiple kids, you know that the 303 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 2: fighting sometimes it goes on. I feel like it doesn't 304 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 2: even matter how old they are. They go and fall 305 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 2: back into their same dynamics. When they have friends with them, 306 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 2: they're on their best behavior. They're not fighting with each other, 307 00:14:49,560 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 2: and that to me was always like my secret sauce 308 00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 2: in a nice congenial vacation where there isn't arguing or yelling. 309 00:14:57,960 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 2: When they have friends, every buddy seems to be happier 310 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:04,200 Speaker 2: and more peaceful. It changes the dynamic. 311 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:07,000 Speaker 1: It's strategic, but I do I love the kids and 312 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:10,200 Speaker 1: I love having the kids around, and it's analyse is 313 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 1: the only other one here driving? You haven't been doing 314 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 1: a lot of driving, and this is entirely too much parenting. 315 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:19,320 Speaker 1: But every time she walked out the door and then 316 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 1: walked in the door, the first thing I say to her. 317 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 2: What's the tire pressure pressure? We're concerned. I mean, there's 318 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 2: not a lot of real estate. You don't have to 319 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:28,680 Speaker 2: go too many miles to get anywhere here. It's usually 320 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:31,200 Speaker 2: between a five and a ten minute drive. But still, yes, 321 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:32,880 Speaker 2: the tire pressure continues to haunt us. 322 00:15:32,920 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 1: This is this rental car is driving me. The problem 323 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 1: was caused by one company, but we actually are renting 324 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 1: from another company that starts with an A and ends 325 00:15:41,280 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 1: with a VIS. 326 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:47,360 Speaker 2: So they have, by the way, because I called them 327 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 2: and gave them a mirorful and so at least they 328 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 2: have given us a discount in two days off. So 329 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:53,080 Speaker 2: we got something, but what. 330 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:56,200 Speaker 1: Was it we wanted to what was the limit on 331 00:15:56,240 --> 00:15:57,960 Speaker 1: how much to want to replace the tire? 332 00:15:58,080 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 2: They would only give two hundred dollars to replace its 333 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 2: h and it was going to cost three hundred and 334 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 2: thirty dollars to do it here. 335 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:04,600 Speaker 1: So yeah, we're in my talk. 336 00:16:04,680 --> 00:16:06,880 Speaker 2: The place ain't cheap, right exactly, So I'm not eating 337 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:08,920 Speaker 2: one hundred and thirty dollars to give them a brand 338 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 2: new tire. So yes, we're just gonna keep filling it 339 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 2: back up every day, and. 340 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:15,960 Speaker 1: We pray we get back to Manhattan all right when 341 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 1: we have to drive. But folks, yeah, all that stuff 342 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:22,040 Speaker 1: was fun and fine and dandy. But a couple of 343 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 1: the highlights of the week unexpectedly. First, if anybody has 344 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 1: listened to us for any period of time, you know 345 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 1: Robot loves hiking. You know that I'm black. We ended 346 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 1: up on a hike this week and I rather enjoyed it. 347 00:16:42,160 --> 00:16:44,640 Speaker 1: Can't wait to tell you about that. 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Welcome back everyone to 366 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:58,560 Speaker 2: your recovery run on this Saturday. We come to you 367 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:03,159 Speaker 2: from a beautiful, breezy, sunny mom talk along Island. We 368 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:07,399 Speaker 2: are in active recovery mode while we're working, so I 369 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:09,199 Speaker 2: mean you can do both. Sometimes you can relax and 370 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:10,840 Speaker 2: work at the same time, So we're attempting to do 371 00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:15,119 Speaker 2: that while we record this recovery run. But yes, tech 372 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:20,240 Speaker 2: sometimes if you're in the right setting, with the right person, 373 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:25,400 Speaker 2: with the perfect temperature and the perfect distance, hiking can 374 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:26,400 Speaker 2: be fun for everyone. 375 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 1: Hiking can be fun for everyone. Hiking. I know you 376 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 1: love hiking. Will you define hiking for me again? 377 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 2: So? 378 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 1: Is it just walking through trees and shit? 379 00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:48,080 Speaker 2: It's walking through beautiful topography that makes you feel connected 380 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:51,440 Speaker 2: to mother Earth and nature and to one another. Because 381 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:54,880 Speaker 2: you usually end up talking, you're in the moment, you're present, but. 382 00:18:54,880 --> 00:18:56,600 Speaker 1: You're walking, essentially walking through the woods. 383 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:58,679 Speaker 2: You're walking through the woods you can walk through. But 384 00:18:58,720 --> 00:19:01,440 Speaker 2: also you could be walking through the desert. That's gonna 385 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:02,320 Speaker 2: be hiking as well. 386 00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:05,200 Speaker 1: But generally speaking in this country when we're talking about hiking, 387 00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:06,639 Speaker 1: it's usually in the world I'm talking about. But it 388 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:08,480 Speaker 1: does it need to be at elevation? 389 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:12,520 Speaker 2: No? I usually like that, but sometimes no, you could 390 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:15,679 Speaker 2: just it could be fairly flat. You could be hiking 391 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:18,800 Speaker 2: on a shoreline, you know, on a cliff. You could 392 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:21,520 Speaker 2: be walking. It doesn't have to always be uphill, Okay, 393 00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:21,920 Speaker 2: And you. 394 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:23,720 Speaker 1: And I talk about this all the time. I'm just 395 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:26,639 Speaker 1: it's something I've never I'm from Arkansas. I've lived in 396 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 1: places where that's very popular. Hell, even the Bay Area, Yeah, 397 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:33,080 Speaker 1: Little Rock, Arkansas, the place, even Atlanta, the. 398 00:19:33,080 --> 00:19:35,280 Speaker 2: Place is well, oh yeah, North Georgia mountains where the. 399 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:37,479 Speaker 1: Hiking is a thing. I'm just not a hiker. I 400 00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:40,080 Speaker 1: know black people hike, but I always joke with you 401 00:19:40,119 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 1: about things. 402 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:43,480 Speaker 2: Like that, and I say it, and I say, white people, shit, Yeah, 403 00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:44,080 Speaker 2: I'm going. 404 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:46,679 Speaker 1: Out in the woods just just to walk and what Okay, 405 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:48,560 Speaker 1: it's just not my thing. It's okay, but I respect 406 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:50,600 Speaker 1: that you do it to the point that I also 407 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:53,399 Speaker 1: want to be able to compromise, and I want to 408 00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:55,440 Speaker 1: this is something she loves to do. I don't want 409 00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:57,639 Speaker 1: you to be denied something you want to do, and 410 00:19:57,680 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 1: it needs to be separate from a relationship that you 411 00:19:59,800 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 1: love being. 412 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 2: It right right, Yeah, Well, it's something I love to 413 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:04,439 Speaker 2: do and I want I would prefer to have the 414 00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:08,359 Speaker 2: person I love, yes, be along for the walks or 415 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 2: the ride or that. 416 00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:14,720 Speaker 1: I expect that, and I think I whine pre hike, 417 00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:17,840 Speaker 1: but once we actually take them, I'm I'm not an 418 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 1: issue and I enjoy myself. Just fine. I'll talk to 419 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:21,199 Speaker 1: you all day and say I don't want to ever 420 00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:22,280 Speaker 1: go to hike. I don't want to hike. I don't 421 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 1: want hike. Then we would get there. 422 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:27,120 Speaker 2: We're good, yes, and look and we'll baby steps this one. 423 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:30,080 Speaker 2: The funny thing is we've done short hikes like I've 424 00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 2: never asked you to do, like a a an arduous hike, 425 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:35,960 Speaker 2: one that goes, you know, for fifteen hours and fifteen miles. 426 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:37,840 Speaker 2: I've done those, and those are really, really tough. I 427 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:39,879 Speaker 2: actually think you might like that because there's a challenge, 428 00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:41,399 Speaker 2: a physical challenge. 429 00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 1: Ten hours of walking. 430 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,040 Speaker 2: Huh, well that was a that was yeah. 431 00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:46,440 Speaker 1: Is that one way or around trip? 432 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:50,800 Speaker 2: Well that's round trip? Okay, yes, if you're not camping 433 00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:52,520 Speaker 2: where you're hiking too, which I know I would never 434 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:54,239 Speaker 2: I would never ask you to do that. We're not 435 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:56,240 Speaker 2: there yet anyway. The funny thing is we got on 436 00:20:56,240 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 2: this hike and I got a little nervous because I 437 00:20:57,800 --> 00:20:59,320 Speaker 2: don't want to put you in a position where I 438 00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:00,760 Speaker 2: ask you to go on hike and then it ends 439 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:03,000 Speaker 2: up being an awful hike. So I want to make 440 00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:06,520 Speaker 2: sure if you were saying yes, yes exactly. I don't 441 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:08,960 Speaker 2: want to repeat the first hike I took you on, 442 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:12,880 Speaker 2: which was a mosquito ridden boring, awful hike. This one 443 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:14,480 Speaker 2: I knew was going to have a beautiful view in 444 00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:16,840 Speaker 2: the end, but I wasn't exactly sure how long it was, 445 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:19,119 Speaker 2: and so I got nervous because it looked like it 446 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:21,920 Speaker 2: was going to be a long distance. And you went 447 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:24,640 Speaker 2: and looked up on the on the satellite and you said, 448 00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:26,879 Speaker 2: it's a seven minute hike. I'm like, cool, and I 449 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:29,520 Speaker 2: knew that we were gonna have a great time, which 450 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:29,880 Speaker 2: we did. 451 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 1: You all should have seen the really really wash over 452 00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:34,240 Speaker 1: her when I said it's only seven minutes to get 453 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 1: to where we needed to be. And it was fine, 454 00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:38,520 Speaker 1: and it was fine, and we laughed and we talked 455 00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 1: and we joked, and you couldn't be looking down at 456 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:42,560 Speaker 1: your phone and you had to focus and pay attention 457 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:44,240 Speaker 1: to what you were doing and where you were stepping, 458 00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:48,200 Speaker 1: and so yeah, you're present. Yeah I did enjoy it. 459 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 1: And it wasn't It wasn't an elevator. We weren't climbing 460 00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:52,920 Speaker 1: or anything like that. It was simply were just in plane. 461 00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:54,840 Speaker 2: It's sneakers, yeah, sneakers, so we didn't have to have 462 00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:57,680 Speaker 2: hiking boots or anything like that. So and your foot 463 00:21:57,680 --> 00:21:59,240 Speaker 2: even was hurting a little bit from the run we 464 00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:00,840 Speaker 2: did earlier, and you one on the hike, so I 465 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 2: appreciated it. But yeah, I just always feel centered and 466 00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:08,480 Speaker 2: connected and in the moment when I'm hiking, and that's 467 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:10,440 Speaker 2: why I love doing it so much. 468 00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:16,000 Speaker 1: Okay, So the lo we have did, we've struggled with 469 00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:19,520 Speaker 1: the kids this week here right here in man talking 470 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:23,080 Speaker 1: that we we have continued to work, so we're still 471 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:25,919 Speaker 1: getting up at three, yeah, three point thirty four in 472 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:29,680 Speaker 1: the morning and working and by the time the kids 473 00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 1: see us when they wake up at ten am, we've 474 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:37,840 Speaker 1: recorded two three podcast episodes, have had a big breakfast, 475 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 1: just ran five miles and we're in. 476 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:43,359 Speaker 2: A different place, been to town, gotten coffee, everything. Like we are. 477 00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:46,399 Speaker 2: We are more than ready to be in the middle 478 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:46,880 Speaker 2: of our day. 479 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:49,320 Speaker 1: So this is kind of cool that the kids have 480 00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:54,200 Speaker 1: asked us constantly and repeatedly to do things with them 481 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:57,680 Speaker 1: and hang out with them. And some of it has 482 00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:59,080 Speaker 1: to do if they just want us to pay for 483 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 1: some stuff, but other things they wanted to stay up 484 00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:03,959 Speaker 1: late watch a movie or they wants to play cards. 485 00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:07,359 Speaker 1: That has nothing to do with but they do genuinely 486 00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,359 Speaker 1: like hang out with us, and that's we're fun. Proud 487 00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:14,960 Speaker 1: of that. Yes, So we had one big big thing 488 00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:17,400 Speaker 1: they wanted to do this week and one big big 489 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 1: thing we wanted to do with them this week and 490 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:22,520 Speaker 1: the one and we ended up doing it both the 491 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 1: same night. So we planned all this out road. We said, 492 00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:28,400 Speaker 1: we're gonna get up a certain time, We're gonna get 493 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:31,200 Speaker 1: so much work done, We're gonna maybe take a nap, 494 00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:33,359 Speaker 1: We'll do a five hour energy here we do the 495 00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:36,320 Speaker 1: espresso martini at this time. But we had a carnival 496 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:38,280 Speaker 1: to go to and then we were gonna go to 497 00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:40,400 Speaker 1: a movie afterwards. So you take the carnival. 498 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 2: Yes, So we actually got a big uber XL which 499 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:47,040 Speaker 2: was nice so that we could all have some fun 500 00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:51,399 Speaker 2: go down to the carnival. And Yeah, some of the 501 00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:54,240 Speaker 2: ride choices I made I regret, but it was still fun. 502 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:56,359 Speaker 2: It always feels like a kid. It actually felt like 503 00:23:56,400 --> 00:24:00,800 Speaker 2: a movie set going to this carnival. It was, but 504 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:04,359 Speaker 2: they had some very fun rides that spinned a lot 505 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:08,560 Speaker 2: that TJ was wise to stay off of that. I 506 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:10,960 Speaker 2: was thinking that I would be just fine if I 507 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:11,280 Speaker 2: went on. 508 00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:15,320 Speaker 1: And yeah, because after a number of Morgarita's I thought 509 00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:17,840 Speaker 1: it was a bad idea. To get on a ride 510 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:23,320 Speaker 1: called alien abduction, which solely is trying to get you 511 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:26,640 Speaker 1: to feel like it might feel if you were in space. 512 00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:30,400 Speaker 1: And the way they accomplished that is by putting you 513 00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:34,240 Speaker 1: in this capsule and closing it off through the outside 514 00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 1: world and spinning that sucker as fast as you can 515 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:43,880 Speaker 1: while you are attached to the wall of that saucer. 516 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:45,800 Speaker 1: Do I have the ride right? Yeah? 517 00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 2: So you actually end up feeling weightless, like your body 518 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 2: flies up in its g force truly. So it was fun. 519 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:55,200 Speaker 2: I mean, as soon as I got strapped to the wall, 520 00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:57,800 Speaker 2: I was regretting my decision. I just thought that maybe 521 00:24:57,800 --> 00:24:59,920 Speaker 2: this wasn't a good idea. As soon as I got 522 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:00,920 Speaker 2: wrapped to the wall. 523 00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:04,560 Speaker 1: Had context and if somebody uses that as the headline. 524 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:06,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, as soon as I got strapped to the wall, 525 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:08,280 Speaker 2: you'd think I knew I'd made a bad decision. 526 00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:10,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. 527 00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:12,640 Speaker 2: So that happened. But the girls were like, you'll be fine, mom, 528 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:14,600 Speaker 2: you'll be fine. They're on either side of me, and 529 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,280 Speaker 2: I obviously I was fine. And it was definitely worse 530 00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:20,320 Speaker 2: and scarier and more upsetting than I thought it was 531 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:20,840 Speaker 2: going to be. 532 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:24,880 Speaker 1: In part because you had just as much Marguerite as 533 00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:25,440 Speaker 1: I had. 534 00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:28,400 Speaker 2: That day, right, So I got out. I was fine initially, 535 00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:32,880 Speaker 2: but about ten minutes later, I got this massive wave 536 00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:35,200 Speaker 2: of nausea and I actually had to leave the park. 537 00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:36,720 Speaker 2: You came with me, and I thought I might have 538 00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:39,120 Speaker 2: to vomit. I was fine, but I needed I needed 539 00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:42,280 Speaker 2: about ten ten minutes to have my whole body just 540 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:45,600 Speaker 2: kind of reacclimate. I got sweaty. Oh, it was bad, 541 00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 2: and I just yeah, And then you were kind of 542 00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:49,760 Speaker 2: you looked at me like I told you so. 543 00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:51,720 Speaker 1: I didn't do it, And I told you so because 544 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:52,440 Speaker 1: you weren't doing well. 545 00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:53,280 Speaker 2: I wasn't doing well. 546 00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 1: You would give me hell about not being on this rise. 547 00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:59,320 Speaker 1: I'm saying, I know my stomach and I don't know 548 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:01,440 Speaker 1: why I would do that to it right now put 549 00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:02,240 Speaker 1: it in a blender. 550 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 2: Yes, but okay, so that sounds horrible, but it was 551 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:09,199 Speaker 2: still fun. Like, honestly, you have to take out the 552 00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:11,399 Speaker 2: fifteen minutes where I thought I was gonna puke. But 553 00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,959 Speaker 2: we had fun walking around and it was a blast. 554 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:18,360 Speaker 2: We had a like it was just pcorn. Yeah. When 555 00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 2: my stomach recovered, I was definitely into that popcorn. It 556 00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:26,480 Speaker 2: tasted amazing for carnival games. Yes, who doesn't want to do. 557 00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:28,000 Speaker 1: That dupid stuffed animal? 558 00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? I think all the kids ended up with the 559 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:31,200 Speaker 2: stuffed animal, didn't they? 560 00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:33,360 Speaker 1: I think? And there's one on the stairs back here. 561 00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:34,280 Speaker 1: I don't understand. 562 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:38,160 Speaker 2: Yes, but it was just old school family fun that 563 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,680 Speaker 2: we weren't even anticipating. And Anial has had to really 564 00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:43,360 Speaker 2: beg us to go to this carnival because it wasn't 565 00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:45,960 Speaker 2: something we wanted necessarily to do, but ended up having 566 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:46,320 Speaker 2: a blast. 567 00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 1: I'm very glad she did, so we The other thing 568 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:51,399 Speaker 1: we you and I really wanted to do was watch 569 00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:56,080 Speaker 1: Final Destination Bloodlines, a movie the most recent in the 570 00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,359 Speaker 1: Final Destination franchise, but you and I saw it at 571 00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:02,560 Speaker 1: the theaters and it is up there, certainly the best 572 00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:06,000 Speaker 1: in the Final Destination, absolutely, but it is up there 573 00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:08,560 Speaker 1: for us in the terms of ranks of one of 574 00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:11,080 Speaker 1: the best horror movies we have seen. 575 00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:14,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's amazing to us because our kids like 576 00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:16,280 Speaker 2: horror movies that they had never seen any of the 577 00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:20,120 Speaker 2: Final Destination franchise movies. However. Look, the beginning ones are 578 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,560 Speaker 2: campy and maybe not the highest production value, but they're 579 00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:26,960 Speaker 2: so good, Like they're so good obviously they've upped the 580 00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 2: game significantly in this final, this latest edition, but we 581 00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:34,720 Speaker 2: had them watch it and they were into it. They 582 00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:36,760 Speaker 2: were and it was fun to see them enjoying it 583 00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:40,280 Speaker 2: because they're like, what is this movie? Huh? And they 584 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 2: really got into it and loved it. 585 00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:45,200 Speaker 1: Ten minutes they were screaming at the screen and it's like, 586 00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:47,399 Speaker 1: oh my god, don't do that. Oh why was you? 587 00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:50,879 Speaker 1: They were so I was so happy to see that 588 00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:53,399 Speaker 1: we passed on and introduce something to them and we 589 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,520 Speaker 1: saw them enjoy it genuinely. 590 00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:59,080 Speaker 2: That much Is it concerning that we should be proud 591 00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:03,920 Speaker 2: that we are continuing to introduce our children to horror movies. 592 00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:07,320 Speaker 2: But you know, I feel like it just makes for 593 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,199 Speaker 2: a better family movie night, because then everybody wins if 594 00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:11,240 Speaker 2: everybody enjoys them. 595 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:14,880 Speaker 1: Speaking of family movie night, we're about to rent out 596 00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 1: a theater so we can watch Weapons. 597 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:17,520 Speaker 2: They cannot wait. 598 00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:20,399 Speaker 1: Everybody's excited about this and the whole crew is going 599 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:23,680 Speaker 1: to be together for friends, family. Everybody can come. 600 00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:26,040 Speaker 2: To this one Weapons, and it's highly reviewed and one 601 00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:29,920 Speaker 2: of my favorite actresses who I loved in Ozark, she's 602 00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:31,520 Speaker 2: in it. So this is going to be so good. Yes, 603 00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:35,840 Speaker 2: so yeah, I started having my having, I started introducing 604 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:38,480 Speaker 2: my daughters to Harry Potter films and then kind of 605 00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:41,160 Speaker 2: went up to the conjuring. And they've just always loved 606 00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:43,600 Speaker 2: horror movies. It's just made choices so much easier. 607 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:46,719 Speaker 1: My daughter's twelve, and she's into it. 608 00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:51,239 Speaker 2: She loves horror movies. Her first movie was The Pope's Exorcism, right, 609 00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 2: or the Pope's Exorcist. 610 00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:56,040 Speaker 1: Movie was The Pope's Exorcists Exorcist. 611 00:28:56,160 --> 00:29:00,600 Speaker 2: Okay, Russell different. 612 00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:03,600 Speaker 1: Different, Sorry that I want to make that clear, Russell 613 00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:08,720 Speaker 1: Crow Crow, don't come after us, Okay, but yeah, that 614 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 1: was She started it because she would reject that she 615 00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:13,760 Speaker 1: didn't want to watch horror movies. She watched one and 616 00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:15,440 Speaker 1: I think we had fallen asleep on the. 617 00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,240 Speaker 2: Couch that she kept watching, and she. 618 00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:20,680 Speaker 1: Watched damn near that whole thing by herself. After that, 619 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:22,160 Speaker 1: been hooked on horror movies. 620 00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:26,280 Speaker 2: Now we have three girls. God, we all love horror movies. 621 00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:28,200 Speaker 2: Yay us, yay parenting. 622 00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:31,640 Speaker 1: All right, folks, Well, whatever you did this week, I 623 00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:35,720 Speaker 1: certainly hope you got a little recovery. And it's always important. Look, 624 00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:38,280 Speaker 1: we have fun and we passed as along. But we're 625 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 1: working on it, just like many of you are, trying 626 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,360 Speaker 1: to make sure we find some time to smell the 627 00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:46,640 Speaker 1: roads sometime, if you will, but also appreciate what we 628 00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:49,000 Speaker 1: have and who's right next to us sometimes. Well. 629 00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:51,520 Speaker 2: Thank you, We appreciate you for listening, and we hope 630 00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:53,920 Speaker 2: you all have a wonderful rest of your weekend. I'm 631 00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:57,240 Speaker 2: Amy Roboch along with TJ. Holmes. We will talk to 632 00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:01,440 Speaker 2: you soon. The T