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Speaker 1: My boyfriend's girl best friend bullied me, so I screamed

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Speaker 2: They had five times fast.

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Speaker 1: So this is all I answered the question, how do

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Speaker 1: you deal with bad friends and don't be a bad friend?

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Speaker 1: first story comes from Mindless, page six four to three,

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Speaker 1: and they say, my boyfriend Nick, male twenty five has

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Speaker 1: a girl best friend, Julie female, twenty four. Everything has

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Speaker 1: been great between me and Nick. I don't even care

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Speaker 1: that he has a girl best friend. Don't even care.

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Speaker 1: I hate it. I just don't care. A week ago,

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Speaker 1: I also feel that I don't even care as a

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Speaker 1: girl best friend is like an ICU.

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Speaker 2: Yep, oh, that is a big ic you.

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Speaker 1: A week ago, me and Nick went on a vacation

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Speaker 1: with our friend group, and that includes Julie. The first night,

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Speaker 1: we were all walking from our hotel to a restaurant.

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Speaker 1: When we got to our table, Nick sat down and

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Speaker 1: when I went to sit with him, Julie pushed me

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Speaker 1: pushed me. I laughed it off and sat on his

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Speaker 1: other side. But I'm sure. I was giving her some

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Speaker 1: nasty glances all dinner, she talked Nick's ear off. She

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Speaker 1: has never been like that, so she's trying to move in,

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Speaker 1: trying to move in on your man's like physically physically,

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Speaker 1: physically literally moving in, moving into your space, pushing you out,

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Speaker 1: moving in. The Next morning, we were going to go

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Speaker 1: to the pool, so I was getting ready and me

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Speaker 1: Nick's room. I go into the bathroom to do my hair.

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Speaker 1: I have three sea hair, so it takes me a while.

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Speaker 1: We've talked about hair.

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Speaker 2: That is a curl type that means very curly hair.

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Speaker 1: Is that the most curly?

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Speaker 2: Four C is the most curly like one ABC, two ABC,

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Speaker 2: like one A, one A, one D. Maybe at best.

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Speaker 1: Numbers suck it hairs takes you. I'm under event. I

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Speaker 1: heard talking in the room, so I went to check

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Speaker 1: in on what it was, and Julie and Nick were

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Speaker 1: having a conversation. Nick sitting on the bed and Julie

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Speaker 1: in her bikini and a cover up standing near the TV.

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Speaker 1: This is a classic Jim and h what's the girl

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Speaker 1: that moved in on Jim? Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that chick.

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Speaker 1: That chick. The not Pam situation in the hotel in

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Speaker 1: the hotel. Yeah, same kind of bugs. Bed bugs. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I came out and sat next to Nick on the

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Speaker 1: bed and they continued the conversation. When they were done talking,

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Speaker 1: Julie acknowledged me and said, you look different, assuming it

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Speaker 1: was a compliment, I said thank you to what she responded,

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Speaker 1: it's not a compliment. I can see your food, baby,

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Speaker 1: and poked my stomach.

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Speaker 2: Yo. You you know what you just did. Actually poke

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Speaker 2: the bear. The bear, dude. You know what happens bam

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Speaker 2: as come out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you say, oh I see your black eye.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's my girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: Wait what hold on?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: Oh does that not the guy?

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Speaker 1: Not the guy?

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Speaker 3: Oh? P does that not the guy?

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Speaker 2: That just was two very different scenarios.

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Speaker 1: You know what, it's a stand quality. Do not hit women. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I definitely messed up with that, But I grew up

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Speaker 1: in the modeling world. I am still a model to

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Speaker 1: this day. But growing up in such a toxic environment,

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Speaker 1: I had an eating disorder. I was anorexic and it

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Speaker 1: still affects me to this day. I awkwardly smiled and

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Speaker 1: went back to the bathroom to finish my hair. I

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Speaker 1: cried in the bathroom, and I guess After Julie went

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Speaker 1: a she was big a bro.

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Speaker 2: You How is he not like you should know her

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and and and how is he not defending his girlfriend? Crazy? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Crazy?

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Speaker 1: Like you don't have to throw hands, but throw some

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Speaker 1: words words, throw some words, throw them down. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Kansas Sam's golden rules. Don't hit women.

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Speaker 3: There's something I can get behind there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, don't hit women unless they have a knife

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Speaker 2: Of course, he has to find the loophole.

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Speaker 3: Hey, hold this, yea?

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Speaker 1: Can you cout his carots? Anyway, lady? I told him

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Speaker 1: go without me. He protested at first, but eventually went

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Speaker 1: also like, I feel like OP at this point should

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Speaker 1: say what the reason is. Yeah, it's not nothing.

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Speaker 2: In fairness, I could see it being a little bit

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Speaker 2: confusing for the boyfriend or the boy like, no, I

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Speaker 2: want to stay with you, and he's like, no, no,

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Speaker 2: go to the pool, like go have fun, And that's

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Speaker 2: kind of like, ah, I feel.

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Speaker 1: Like she's like, oh my god, it's nothing. Yeah, it's nothing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but there's obviously something. Yeah, yeah that's what I'm say.

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Speaker 1: I do that, yeah, something, that's where.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I was upset the other day and I was like,

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Speaker 5: it's nothing. It was just I just got homesick, and yeah,

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Speaker 5: I'm okay. Oh but it's just like I don't like

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Speaker 5: confrontation in any way, shape or form. So even confronting

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Speaker 2: You tell yourself you're feeling, but you're like, I'm the

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Speaker 2: chat for Riley, Yeah, and the chat kiss emojis.

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Speaker 3: Get creative wait time out.

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Speaker 1: Jack. Later that day, we were going to get some

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Speaker 1: dinner and then go to a club. I wore a

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Speaker 1: sort of tight black dress, no cleavage out. It was

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Speaker 1: about six inches above my knee, so not extremely revealing outfit.

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Speaker 1: Me and Nick ran a little late to dinner, so

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Speaker 1: we got there when everyone else is already down. We

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Speaker 1: walked to two empty seats and Julie blurts out, probably

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Speaker 1: loud enough for the whole island to hear. Wow, Nikki,

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Speaker 1: I didn't know you were okay with your girlfriend being

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Speaker 1: such a salute. This time. I said something and asked

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Speaker 1: her what she meant, and she said, I just don't

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Speaker 1: see why you always get the flaunt your body, like

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Speaker 1: no one cares that you got a BBL so you

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Speaker 1: could do you could be a better prostitute. Like mother,

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Speaker 2: It's go time, go time, it's on site, let's go time.

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Speaker 1: What are you doing, John? What are you doing? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What are you doing?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Someone says that to your beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Someone says that to your your beautiful girl, dude with

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Speaker 1: your bleach bond built butch body, get the f out

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Speaker 1: of my face, get on my face with that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was quick with that. No was not.

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Speaker 2: Someone already said that. Okay, they said that in Congress.

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Speaker 1: But really yeah, wild But wait, so you would you

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Speaker 1: would just say get out of my face?

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Speaker 2: No? I would be like, dude, I'm like literally not

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Speaker 2: thinking of anything in the moment. If you get out,

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Speaker 2: you're disgusting. Yeah, this is terrible. I'm doing a terrible job.

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Speaker 1: Dude.

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Speaker 2: You know what I feel like? I might, I fact,

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Speaker 2: I might throw there might be a salute, so on back.

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Speaker 2: If I'm if I'm being honest.

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Speaker 1: In her direction and waft it to her nose, That's

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Speaker 1: what I think about you. Unless she's into that, then

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Speaker 1: I would take it back.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, be careful.

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Speaker 3: Yea, these girls you've been talking to.

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Speaker 1: Dude, crazy is find me. I don't know why all

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Speaker 2: Yeah, man, you're gravitating some interesting.

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Speaker 1: I swear, I swear of not doing anything crazy.

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Speaker 3: You're entertaining it low key.

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Speaker 1: Well yeah, I'm not gonna not entertain it anyway. She

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Speaker 1: tried to play it off as a joke. My mother

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Speaker 1: older brother to support us. Yes she did. She did

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Speaker 1: do spicy sleepwork and put me into modeling my brother

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Speaker 1: into acting. He is not ashamed, and neither am I.

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Speaker 1: I have never had any plastic surgery or have been

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Speaker 1: She apologized and her boyfriend Caleb said that she must

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Speaker 1: and the night was great. The next morning, we were

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Speaker 1: I feel like she deserved it. Am I the A hole?

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Speaker 1: There is a thick, juicy update, But yeah, I I

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Speaker 1: don't know why this is the girl best friend too, and.

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Speaker 3: She has a boyfriend?

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Speaker 1: Uh, who's this cale?

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Speaker 2: Actually?

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Speaker 2: Her boyfriend said she was drunk or something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Caleb said she was. She must have been. She apologized,

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Speaker 2: Have been drunkofriend? In what planet is it possible for

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Speaker 2: them to be mad at OPI for being the A hole?

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Speaker 1: Well? What well? I mean? I I think it's doesn't

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Speaker 1: make sense. But they're saying, uh, Opie's asking the Agle

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Speaker 1: but it's like you lose them. I feel like at

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Speaker 2: Oh so deserve it. When when uh, you say something

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Speaker 2: like what she said to op all all bets are off.

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Speaker 1: Yeah it's Britney Beach says, how dare you call me

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Speaker 1: out for being toxic? Yeah? Yeah, literally yes, Sophy account

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Speaker 1: says ninety nine pounds and five. Oh, she's got a

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Speaker 1: healthy BMI exactly.

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Speaker 2: This is it's oh gross, right to the chopping block.

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Speaker 1: But shall we read this next update? Update though, which

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Speaker 1: there's an update. So first and foremost, thank you all

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Speaker 1: for the feedback. I'm going to answer some questions and

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Speaker 1: then give you all an update about what happened today. One,

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Speaker 1: Why didn't you beat her up? I am in law

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Speaker 1: school with aspirations to become a judge slash politician. I

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Speaker 1: don't need an assault charge on my record. Keep reading

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Speaker 1: w Two? Why didn't Nick defend you from the start?

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Speaker 1: Like I said, Julie has never been like this. I

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Speaker 1: to make this choice. Three, she must want him. If

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Speaker 1: must have lied to your friends. Correct you guys guess

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Speaker 1: this one too, So now he's updates. I took everyone's

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Speaker 1: But yeah, dude, terrible friend. You need to run away.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes you get what's coming to you.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you get what's coming to you.

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Speaker 1: Getting up around the world is maybe what is needed.

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Speaker 1: You're like getting You're getting like in her face and

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Speaker 2: What all the stuff that she said talking about her

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Speaker 1: There was no place low enough that she would she

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Speaker 2: Yes, and she'll just keep going. Yeah, how low can

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Speaker 1: She's limbo limbo every freaking Bartan. The bar was so low.

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Speaker 5: Oh, I do have a question, Sam, I know that

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Speaker 3: How did that person react to that? Were you there

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Speaker 2: I didn't even think about that. I'm not even gonna

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Speaker 1: Do what make the joke? What was the joke?

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Speaker 2: It wasn't that deep, wasn't that deep? I thought that's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, AnyWho, AnyWho, that's where that story ends.

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Speaker 2: Well, we got more. My best friend made my husband

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Speaker 1: Well, it sounds like a bad friend. Why is making

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Speaker 2: This is the answer how you deal with bad friends

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Speaker 2: and don't be a bad friend because you should join

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Speaker 1: Guys, do it? Do it? Come on?

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Speaker 2: So this comes from Pesh twenty four says, I twenty

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Speaker 2: that's what you and you and Christian type.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Christian and I have actually been friends for twenty years.

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Speaker 1: That's true. Two decades, two decades deep, five deep.

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Speaker 2: Our parents are best friends, so naturally we were two

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Speaker 1: You guys are so.

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Speaker 1: She wantsome, he wants some.

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Speaker 2: You know, when you go to a one year old's

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Speaker 1: You do gotta sell you. I mean, I feel it's

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Speaker 2: Wow, man, truer words have never been spoken.

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Speaker 1: So I wear booty shorts to every baptism I go to.

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Speaker 2: Exactly right, these cheeks are for Jesus, ay man.

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Speaker 1: Lord, So God asked for Jesus for me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there we go. I love that. I don't normally

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Speaker 1: What kind of toys?

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Speaker 3: You said it, but I thought it was Sam's favorite vibrator?

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Speaker 1: What did they say last year collection? What's the equivalent

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Speaker 2: When we got home, me Michael and Kathy all sit

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Speaker 2: Michael politely told her that I could help her. She

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Speaker 2: I was annoyed, but this was my best friend, and

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Speaker 2: Why is Kathy still here? The party is over, everyone's left.

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Speaker 1: Dude.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I guess it is your friend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's your friend staying late, staying late, you know, yeah,

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Speaker 1: she is. Katie Patria says, Kathy is wreaking pick me

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Speaker 2: Decided to order in. Kathy was a vegan, so we

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Speaker 2: We all sat on my bed together and waited for

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Speaker 1: I feel like she's given the impregnanty eyes.

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Speaker 2: Honestly.

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Speaker 1: Are those are their eyes for that? Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah that's your thing.

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Speaker 1: How do you come.

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Speaker 2: On, bro? Talking about But what did it look like?

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Speaker 3: This is you golly golly.

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Speaker 2: The rise of when one stairs, when your soul is

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, there was a pre and they are up.

439
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 1: Well, I guess I know there's one that like thereof

440
00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:11,679
Speaker 1: like true?

441
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:18,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, do it Riley can't go cam on zoom inzu.

442
00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 3: Look like a lost deer.

443
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:26,920
Speaker 2: Things got really awkward. I can relate until she laughed

444
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 2: it off and said, just kidding.

445
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:33,399
Speaker 1: Oh my god, we just moved less less.

446
00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:35,919
Speaker 2: We just moved on and our food got there and

447
00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:38,679
Speaker 2: we all started eating. Michael had a spicy pepper on

448
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:41,000
Speaker 2: his dish and he ate it and immediately turned red

449
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:44,000
Speaker 2: and started sweating. Me and Kathy were laughing and Michael

450
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:49,720
Speaker 2: spit out the pepper Tua dude, quitter right and told

451
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 2: me and told me to try it. I don't mind

452
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:55,199
Speaker 2: trying something my husband already partially ate since we've been

453
00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 2: together ten years. I don't find it gross at this point.

454
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:02,439
Speaker 2: But much to my surprise, Kathy immediately grabbed it and

455
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 2: ate the whole thing with eye contact. Dude, I think

456
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,159
Speaker 2: she was given the eyes. I think she gave me

457
00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:12,679
Speaker 2: that one. Dude, you give me anyway.

458
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:13,680
Speaker 1: What what was the food?

459
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:14,600
Speaker 3: Peper?

460
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 2: A pepper which is also dude, like phallic is phallic

461
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:20,240
Speaker 2: and pain?

462
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:24,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, it's just like it's like, this is my.

463
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 3: God, dude, that's an iPhone fourteen xl.

464
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 2: Fro Oh my god, dude, Mama in handles that garth.

465
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:53,000
Speaker 2: Oh my, this is what happens when you have an

466
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 2: all boys stream for like too many hours, Like this

467
00:24:56,040 --> 00:25:00,439
Speaker 2: is what happened, first all all boys and then the

468
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:03,720
Speaker 2: chat with boys, Sophia.

469
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:06,400
Speaker 3: Getting us that was that was how big that phone?

470
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 2: Oh my god, dude, that fat phone. Bro. My man

471
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 2: said hawk to U.

472
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:15,159
Speaker 3: How the heck did we just gain thirty people?

473
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:15,879
Speaker 2: What the heck?

474
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:18,439
Speaker 1: How many people are here right now?

475
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:19,119
Speaker 3: Three hundred?

476
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 1: Oh wow, that's a big, dude stream.

477
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:24,720
Speaker 2: You guys are going off right now. They're probably the

478
00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:28,720
Speaker 2: discards all Like, God, you won't believe what's happening right now,

479
00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 2: joined him. Oh god, to enjoyed the member. What sam

480
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 2: will Samuel?

481
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:44,639
Speaker 1: I can like like my banana deep nating scales are crazy, dude.

482
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 1: Oh swimming, we used to have.

483
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:50,720
Speaker 5: Stop stop, just stop, bro, don't you dare say locker

484
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:52,920
Speaker 5: room next and banana.

485
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:55,480
Speaker 1: I'll leave that up to the imagine.

486
00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:00,880
Speaker 2: So here we And also this story does not help

487
00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:03,359
Speaker 2: in the slightest. This is like the worst story for this.

488
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:07,160
Speaker 2: Right now, She started sweating and taking off her jacket

489
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:11,359
Speaker 2: and commented on how hot she was while looking straight

490
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:12,200
Speaker 2: at Michael.

491
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:16,119
Speaker 1: Wait she was, but it wasn't She wearing like nothing already, and.

492
00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 2: Maybe she had a jacket. Now I don't know, it's

493
00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 2: I don't know who knows. It was weird, but again,

494
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 2: we just moved on. At the end of the night,

495
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 2: she asked to stay the night because she was CouchSurfing

496
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 2: slash sleeping in her car at the time.

497
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:32,879
Speaker 1: Ah, girl, your life.

498
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:38,120
Speaker 2: Is a mess. Trying to steal your best friend's mans CouchSurfing.

499
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:40,200
Speaker 2: I don't know what's going on. Maybe she's just lying

500
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:44,399
Speaker 2: to say that she was still my best friend and

501
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:45,800
Speaker 2: I didn't want her with nowhere to.

502
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 1: Go, so I agreed. God damn it, guys.

503
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 2: Before we all went to bed, she made the joke

504
00:26:58,520 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 2: really quick.

505
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:02,400
Speaker 1: The girl who is taking off all her clothes and

506
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 1: seductively eating a pepper with the blowje eyes is being

507
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:11,199
Speaker 1: invited into their home because she has no car or

508
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 1: she has no home to stay in on a car allegedly.

509
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 1: I feel like it's inviting the line into your den.

510
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 1: That's exactly now, and it's gonna eat that sausage, and

511
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 1: you're sleeping in a bed of meat. You're sleeping in

512
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 1: a bed of meat. Before we all went.

513
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 2: To the bed, she made the joke about latting in

514
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:27,919
Speaker 2: the middle of me and Michael and we can all cuddle.

515
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 2: That I made both of those uncomfortable, and she played

516
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 2: it off as a joke. We all went to bed,

517
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 2: and she left early in the morning for work. So

518
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:37,920
Speaker 2: after the whole encounter, I decided to text her about

519
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 2: my issues. That night, I texted her letting her know,

520
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:44,479
Speaker 2: letting her know that she was being very inappropriate and

521
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:47,880
Speaker 2: that me and that made me and Michael uncomfortable, and

522
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 2: that her outfits' order my son's birthday was inappropriate as well.

523
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:55,120
Speaker 2: She immediately got offensive and replied, it was hot that day.

524
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:58,440
Speaker 2: Please stop projecting your insecurities onto me and Michael did

525
00:27:58,480 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 2: not seem uncomfortable.

526
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 1: Dude, she's leaning in, She's leaning in my goodness.

527
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 2: At this point, I was pissed off and I told her, uh,

528
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:13,040
Speaker 2: And I told her that the way she was acting

529
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 2: with my husband, it is weird. I know some other

530
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 2: people that acting weird today. Uh. We got into a

531
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 2: pretty big fight, and I told her that I did

532
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:23,720
Speaker 2: not want to continue talking to her. And it's been

533
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 2: about a year since its occurrence, and I have blocked

534
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:28,399
Speaker 2: her now on everything and haven't talked since. My family

535
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 2: said I was being dramatic. But my friends agreed with

536
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:33,199
Speaker 2: my decision because she did not respect my boundaries. So

537
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 2: am I by hole?

538
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean she was being super whack. She's being

539
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: super whack, really moving on in on the husband. I

540
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 1: feel like it was extremely intentional. Wait, what did she

541
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:46,680
Speaker 1: do when they were all in the house again? Uh?

542
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 1: She Uh so she deeps herout of the Yeah. Yeah,

543
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,400
Speaker 1: but no, but when they were all in in, like

544
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:57,480
Speaker 1: when she was in the apartment, that was in the

545
00:28:57,520 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 1: apartment was it after that? When? But when she was

546
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 1: staying there something else?

547
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 3: She suggested doing crazy stuff.

548
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:07,400
Speaker 2: Well, she suggested, like, oh, I can lay in the

549
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 2: middle of you guys, Oh right as you go to sleep.

550
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 2: That off as a joke.

551
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 1: And then that's so she's really trying to like work

552
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:17,920
Speaker 1: in a three way.

553
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:21,200
Speaker 2: And she said, and she said, uh we uh you guys,

554
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 2: what would make pretty babies?

555
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 1: I want to write, I remember that one that was crazy.

556
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:28,120
Speaker 1: I think the craziest one is let me sleep in

557
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:28,600
Speaker 1: between you.

558
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 2: Dude, let me make babies with you?

559
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 1: Is I think that's like less creepy because it's like

560
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 1: almost more of a joke. But let me sleep in

561
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 1: between you is not like I feel like that feels less.

562
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:45,520
Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I think it's like there's times where something

563
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 2: like is a joke, and then there's times where things

564
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 2: are like like, clearly she's like trying to like get

565
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 2: away with it, and this is just like obviously trying

566
00:29:55,760 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 2: to get away like as as uh Katie Patrice says

567
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 2: a joke.

568
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, a jew. Yeah, I feel like she's trying to

569
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 1: slip in a little little manage and she's not getting

570
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:15,440
Speaker 1: the massage, not at all. By massage, I mean a message.

571
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 2: Yeah.

572
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:20,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like this is a part probably someone

573
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 1: you cut out because she's like a cross your boundaries.

574
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 1: Continuously go no contact. I think so, and I think

575
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 1: go no contact.

576
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 2: And to also answer the question of how do you

577
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 2: deal with bad friends, I believe if a friend goes

578
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:34,880
Speaker 2: this far to like they're not your friend, constantly go

579
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 2: through your boundaries and and like, I mean, she did

580
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 2: all this initially, which already would be enough. But then

581
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,880
Speaker 2: when she like messaged her about it and was like, hey,

582
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 2: here's the things that make me uncomfortable and here's why,

583
00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 2: laid it out pretty communicated it pretty well. She was

584
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 2: like being complete defensive, being like, no, you're just not

585
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 2: being jealous about being insureball MO, It's like, okay.

586
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I get out of here, no contact.

587
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 2: Also, we're a live right now, so tap our profile

588
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 2: like the way that this chick wants to tap Opie's husband.

589
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 3: Gotcha,