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Speaker 1: What does that mean? Sounds like older people with great no. No, oh,

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Speaker 2: I think it is your sexuality. It's a bit like

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Speaker 1: Ooh, I think it's old people.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I think it's like it changes, like it's on,

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Speaker 2: it could. You could have a higher libido and you

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Speaker 2: So I love corn for twenty sixty nine, says and

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Speaker 2: then put all of mine. So my fiance and I

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Speaker 2: have been together for eight years. She is my best

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Speaker 1: Well awesome, okay, great, nothing will go wrong ever.

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Speaker 2: She makes me a better person and I make her

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Speaker 2: That is a big thought. To be fair, I feel

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, most any dinner wedding is going to be massive.

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Speaker 2: But there is a concern that as we get closer

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Speaker 2: When we began our relationship, she had zero sexual experiences, none,

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Speaker 1: I touched herself.

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Speaker 2: That's another way to say Iver even touched herself in

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Speaker 2: They have been together for eight seven years. Yeah, and

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Speaker 2: the relationship, they started sleeping together. Yeah, and yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: Tiny Ka said she never flicked her bean. I don't

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Speaker 2: My id my ideal is maybe two to four times

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Speaker 2: so whatever. At that point, then she goes on birth

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Speaker 2: Leaping together has always been consistently great the entire relationship,

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Speaker 2: Miss Jaber says, ooh, this situation is a big problem

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Speaker 2: that libidos don't line up.

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Speaker 2: This is yeah tough. I have, of course tried to

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Speaker 2: But I've gotten so tired of shucking chucking it for

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Speaker 2: You don't want to hurt both like you would hurt

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Speaker 1: It's a beautiful realization to have because it's like you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and regardless of like what I mean, like when

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for giving your perspective.

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Speaker 4: No worries. Talk to you guys later, Talk so later,

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Speaker 1: Leve me bye. It's cool. Like Aoki is like, oh,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and if like whatever you find out is not wrong.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's awesome. I love having calls with you. Guys.

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Speaker 1: Day i'm gonna grow up and make something of. Myself

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Speaker 3: Not like that's really what it boils down. To, God

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Speaker 3: Us we live with him until eighteen with no rent,

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Speaker 3: SCHOOL i finished in two. MONTHS i also work full,

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00:19:38,640 --> 00:19:40,159
Speaker 3: time SO i do welding school at.

440
00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:44,800
Speaker 1: Night tiffany goes to school. Sixteen he's. Sixteen, damn that's.

441
00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:48,040
Speaker 3: Crazy tiffany goes to school and works on the weekends At.

442
00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:52,680
Speaker 3: Wendy's the whole thing is a huge. Ordeal we literally

443
00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:55,640
Speaker 3: have no. Life my dad, helps but not that much

444
00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:59,359
Speaker 3: because he feels it's our, responsibility WHICH i, agree but

445
00:19:59,400 --> 00:19:59,760
Speaker 3: it still.

446
00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:01,800
Speaker 5: Sucks, YEAH i think that's.

447
00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:04,920
Speaker 3: ACCURATE i work six am to three pm at a

448
00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:07,600
Speaker 3: warehouse and go to school from six pm to ten.

449
00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:10,399
Speaker 3: Pm tiffany is home by two thirty and picks up

450
00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:13,600
Speaker 3: our daughter from. Daycare we help each other a, lot

451
00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:16,399
Speaker 3: and THEN i head off to school and she stays

452
00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:18,639
Speaker 3: with her at home UNTIL i get home and do

453
00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:19,720
Speaker 3: it all over, again.

454
00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:23,560
Speaker 5: Day after day after. Day, dang, Bro i'm just getting

455
00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:24,160
Speaker 5: tired reading.

456
00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:28,960
Speaker 1: This, YEAH i can't. IMAGINE i, mean a seond kid

457
00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:31,639
Speaker 1: at six what is they even? FUCKING i barely kissed

458
00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:35,800
Speaker 1: a girl at? Sixteen, SAME i mean. Insane this is

459
00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:39,040
Speaker 1: why you stay in. Virgins, yeah stay of virgin you,

460
00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:44,680
Speaker 1: know until you're. Thirty be a. Loser, Yeah, like, hey

461
00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:47,520
Speaker 1: the best safe sex is being a fucking.

462
00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:51,080
Speaker 3: Nerd, hey come on, now that's the greatest condom of all.

463
00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:57,040
Speaker 1: Time wear are some crocs and uh AND i don't

464
00:20:57,080 --> 00:21:00,879
Speaker 1: know what WAS i, doing like crossing piano and MINECRAFT

465
00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:05,600
Speaker 1: t shirt on the? Internet, Fedoras, fedoras that's bro one

466
00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:06,280
Speaker 1: hundred percent.

467
00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:12,159
Speaker 3: Accuracy it's not going to. Happen whispy, mustache all of.

468
00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:15,520
Speaker 3: IT i didn't have a whispy. MUSTACHE i. Did at one,

469
00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:18,600
Speaker 3: POINT i was going into quick side. Story, uh SO

470
00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,359
Speaker 3: i was going into in. Drumline you had to try

471
00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:23,280
Speaker 3: out like in eighth grade to get in in like ninth.

472
00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:26,400
Speaker 3: Grade SO i was trying out in like the upperclassmen

473
00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:28,800
Speaker 3: kind of like coachy or. Whatever and THEN i REMEMBER

474
00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 3: i was like went over to his. House i'm, like,

475
00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:32,240
Speaker 3: oh this is the coolest thing. Ever i'm going into

476
00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:35,080
Speaker 3: like a to be junior's house as an eighth. Grader i'm,

477
00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:39,560
Speaker 3: like this is. Great and then, uh the guy was,

478
00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:41,720
Speaker 3: like are you like growing do you have some hair?

479
00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:43,520
Speaker 3: GRAINS i just had never shaved it, before so it

480
00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:45,920
Speaker 3: was just like all my hair up to my. Life

481
00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:47,640
Speaker 3: at that, point he's, like are you growing out a little?

482
00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:49,000
Speaker 3: Mustache i'm, like you're feeling.

483
00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:51,320
Speaker 5: Myself, OH i guess it's a little so and. Something he's,

484
00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:51,920
Speaker 5: like looks.

485
00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:56,640
Speaker 3: Terrible guess WHAT i did WHEN i got a shaved

486
00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:58,639
Speaker 3: that bitch off Brutal.

487
00:21:59,080 --> 00:21:59,600
Speaker 5: Bro they were.

488
00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:03,040
Speaker 3: Bad they were really. Bad they COULD i could have

489
00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:06,639
Speaker 3: a whole. Side if we Have sam's love, CHRONICLES i

490
00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:09,960
Speaker 3: could have us whole chronicles on crazy shit that drug plane. Is.

491
00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:15,240
Speaker 3: Bro i'm talking shitting in other people's, lockers driving one

492
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:18,359
Speaker 3: hundred and twenty five miles per hour while intoxicated with their.

493
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 3: FEET i, mean, bro the list goes, on the list

494
00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:23,400
Speaker 3: goes on and on and on and, on and kids are.

495
00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:26,320
Speaker 3: Crazy it Was. Drumline everyone else in band was, fine

496
00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 3: and when WHEN i was like an, UPPERCLASSMAN i like

497
00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:33,240
Speaker 3: calmed it. Down but they were some, wild wild.

498
00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:35,760
Speaker 5: Boys. Wow yeah it was. Bad it was.

499
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:41,040
Speaker 3: Bad but for More Drumline Chronicle yeah, yeah well we'll

500
00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:41,600
Speaker 3: have that as a new.

501
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:42,080
Speaker 5: Installment.

502
00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:44,520
Speaker 1: Yeah people that stick to the, End, yeah you have

503
00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:47,120
Speaker 1: to do. It, YEAH i want one, more one, more all? Right?

504
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:47,320
Speaker 5: Cool.

505
00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:49,280
Speaker 3: Cool when my daughter was, born my dad made us

506
00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:52,000
Speaker 3: go to. Court we split fifty to fifty AND i

507
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:54,879
Speaker 3: don't pay child support because she lives with. Us BECAUSE

508
00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:57,359
Speaker 3: i work full, TIME i can get healthcare for my.

509
00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:01,040
Speaker 3: Daughter that's good and. Myself, uh the only thing that

510
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,320
Speaker 3: sucks is it cost me three hundred dollars a month

511
00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 3: and daycare is four hundred dollars a.

512
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:06,360
Speaker 5: Week fuck.

513
00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 1: Are you kidding? Me i'm bitching about paying like two

514
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty bucks for fucking car. Insurance?

515
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 5: Yeah mean By, meanwhile.

516
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 1: Sixteen four hundred dollars a. Week are you kidding on

517
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:31,920
Speaker 1: A wendy's? Job holy? Shit oh baby, dude they're so.

518
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:36,200
Speaker 1: Baby oh you can't have a kid in this. Country

519
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:38,920
Speaker 1: you really. Can't BUT i really can't moves The ecuador.

520
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:39,640
Speaker 5: BRO i don't know.

521
00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:44,440
Speaker 3: Any any cheap, place you know WHAT i, mean top

522
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:47,879
Speaker 3: top digital nomad like like But i'm talking like coast

523
00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:49,400
Speaker 3: or you know WHAT i, Mean.

524
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:53,960
Speaker 5: Jesus, Sorry ecuador anywhere that's dirt port Like.

525
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:59,080
Speaker 1: Ecuador shouting Out, ecuador Thank you're pretty. SICK i have

526
00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 1: there ONES i apologize to actually are like coming From. Ecuador,

527
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:06,160
Speaker 1: yo where My Ecuador holey's?

528
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 3: At i'm pretty sure our like goat, editor goated Editor

529
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:12,679
Speaker 3: jose is From. Ecuador So, jose if you're editing, this

530
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:14,040
Speaker 3: you get one slap in the.

531
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 1: Face, yeah he's a.

532
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:19,840
Speaker 3: Legend so, Literally tiffany works just so we can pay

533
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:22,359
Speaker 3: for our daycare AND i pay for everything. Else so

534
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:25,560
Speaker 3: literally all of her money goes to, daycare which at that,

535
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:26,200
Speaker 3: point it's.

536
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:28,159
Speaker 5: Like doesn't that cancel it? Out like why doesn't she

537
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 5: just stay?

538
00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 1: Home she used to go to. School, no, no stay home

539
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 1: From wendy's working At. Wendy's but she still has to

540
00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 1: pay for. Daycare, oh while she's at she's at, school got?

541
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:40,679
Speaker 1: You it sucks when we are short for.

542
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:44,240
Speaker 3: Cash my dad will help because he sees everything we're.

543
00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:47,240
Speaker 1: Trying, dude what are they? Fuck they can't even go

544
00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 1: to like a movie? Right that is? Crazy and LIKE

545
00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:52,680
Speaker 1: i can't order pizza hut one?

546
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:52,880
Speaker 6: Thing?

547
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 3: Okay if IF op sees it or sees, this or

548
00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:59,439
Speaker 3: if anyone is in their situation that's watching, THIS i

549
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 3: feel like it it would be very interesting to do

550
00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:05,640
Speaker 3: like a TikTok series where you're like my life as

551
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:09,280
Speaker 3: a sixteen year old father and walking through. IT i

552
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:11,639
Speaker 3: don't know if this will reach, anyone but if anyone's

553
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 3: in that, situation give it a. SHOT i feel LIKE

554
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:17,200
Speaker 3: i never look. UP i, mean, sixteen there was a show,

555
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 3: right sixteen and teen mom or something.

556
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:21,440
Speaker 1: Day in the life teen.

557
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:23,879
Speaker 3: Mom what's the? Engagement what do we? Got one hundred

558
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 3: fifty FOUR K that's What i'm. SAYING i feel like

559
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 3: you just take just take quick shots of your. Day

560
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 3: AND i don't, know.

561
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:32,720
Speaker 1: What's two thousand and, three two thousand and, four.

562
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 6: That's probably like close to. Eighteen that's twenty, twenty twenty,

563
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:41,360
Speaker 6: nineteen two thousand and, three and then eighteen for two

564
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:44,880
Speaker 6: thousand and. Four not too, bad that could be. Worried, no, no,

565
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 6: no sixteen that is a good, idea, Though i'll try it.

566
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:52,919
Speaker 3: Out please someone the. Situation try it out and then

567
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 3: hit us up and let us know how it. Works my,

568
00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:57,639
Speaker 3: oh my dad has been our rock when you're when

569
00:25:57,680 --> 00:25:59,639
Speaker 3: we are tired and, exhausted he will step in and

570
00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 3: give us break here or, there but he makes sure

571
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:02,919
Speaker 3: we have everything.

572
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:03,719
Speaker 5: We need and keeps us.

573
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:06,480
Speaker 3: Motivated tiffany wants to apply to a college, soon And

574
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 3: i'm worried BECAUSE i don't want to keep living with,

575
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 3: her AND i don't THINK i can keep our daughter

576
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:16,199
Speaker 3: full time as a welder working twelve hour. Shifts but

577
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 3: she says she will start at a community college and.

578
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 3: Work but she wants to stay with us living, together

579
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 3: since it's easier SINCE i will be, working and it

580
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 3: will be best to stay with my. Dad but my

581
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 3: dad said at, eighteen we have to pay. Rent she doesn't,

582
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 3: mind BUT i don't want to keep living with her

583
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 3: because we aren't. Together i'm unsure how to tell her.

584
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 3: This my dad thinks that she should stay with us

585
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 3: as long as she is a full time student to

586
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 3: finish her degree BECAUSE i already am getting into my.

587
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 3: CAREER i just feel that all of this is unfair

588
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 3: because the burden is on.

589
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:52,359
Speaker 1: Me, wait so just a way just to clarify. Something

590
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:55,720
Speaker 1: so she's going to, college right whence she goes to,

591
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,640
Speaker 1: college she'll be staying living. There, yeah when she hits,

592
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 1: eighteen she's going to have to pay. Rent, yes when

593
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 1: he hits, eighteen he's gonna have to pay. Rent. Yep

594
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 1: he wants to live somewhere. Else he's gonna have to

595
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:11,159
Speaker 1: pay rent somewhere. Else so why why couldn't He just

596
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 1: that's a great. Question but maybe it has to do

597
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:14,240
Speaker 1: with like, custody if a kid or.

598
00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:17,320
Speaker 3: Something, yeah maybe maybe the custody is through the dad or.

599
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 3: Something SO i, mean, YEAH i don't, know there's probably

600
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 3: something like, that but it is a good. Question it's

601
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,360
Speaker 3: like why, not like why not get LIKE i imagine

602
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 3: there's probably an apartment five to fifteen minute drive. Away,

603
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:31,200
Speaker 3: yeah but then you want to get a car within

604
00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 3: your probably has a car, Though, yeah he might have a,

605
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 3: car let's. IMAGINE i Guess i'm just ranting Because i'm

606
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,120
Speaker 3: scared and unsure of what this all, means but there's

607
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:41,440
Speaker 3: AN i guess my thing about her living with us

608
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 3: is that we are a lot more like siblings. Now

609
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 3: we get along and joke and. Stuff but since she

610
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,920
Speaker 3: is my, EX i feel weirded out by. It MAYBE

611
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:51,640
Speaker 3: i need to take a breather sense everyone is saying

612
00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 3: it's a good. Thing, ALSO i needed to hear it

613
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:56,680
Speaker 3: from other people and not just my. Dad and he's

614
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 3: pretty solid AND i should thank him and maybe take

615
00:27:59,320 --> 00:27:59,959
Speaker 3: him to dinner.

616
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:00,479
Speaker 5: Something.

617
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 3: Second, edit my dad isn't kicking us out at, eighteen

618
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 3: but he wants us to be realistic to the world

619
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 3: and pay. Bills the money he gets From tiffany's parents

620
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:13,120
Speaker 3: he just gives to. Her she is saving up money

621
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,600
Speaker 3: for a car and uses other money for her.

622
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 5: Specific foods and.

623
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 3: Clothes BEFORE i became a, dad my dad always wanted

624
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 3: me to live with him at eighteen and figure it

625
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 3: out and stay with him and save money TILL i

626
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:28,439
Speaker 3: can buy a. House when he found out THAT i

627
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:31,639
Speaker 3: was going to be a, dad he wasn't, mad but

628
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:34,679
Speaker 3: disappointed and said everything has to.

629
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 1: Change that everything has to. Change, yeah that's that's a

630
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 1: rough thing to.

631
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 3: HEAR i mean, again like the parent yelling versus like the,

632
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 3: parent like like truly disappointment where you can feel it

633
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 3: and everything did have to.

634
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 1: Change, wait so they get to stay with the. Family he, Is,

635
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 1: yeah he's.

636
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 3: Dad he's saying that that they can, stay but they're

637
00:28:56,840 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 3: basically maybe it's the rent and the bills and pay, bills,

638
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 3: okay like basically what he was saying, before like they

639
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 3: are going to have to contribute to the rent if

640
00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 3: they want to say, fine which also probably Like i'm

641
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 3: guessing this is a house that the dad. Owns mortgages

642
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 3: are already cheaper than, rent and they're splitting it three,

643
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 3: ways SO i imagine their rent is like this is

644
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 3: probably going to be the best. Sucks, yeah a couple

645
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 3: hundred bucks, probably imagine the dad just like lives in a.

646
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 5: MANSION i need three thousand a, month like absolutely. NOT

647
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 5: i work Fucking.

648
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 1: Wendy he's probably a mansion in the middle of the

649
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 1: country or an apartment In Santa monica.

650
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 3: Exactly, also my dad is paying for my welding, school

651
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 3: which is twenty thousand, dollars and he bought me a.

652
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 3: Car all, Right, Daddy daddy big bucks over. Here BUT

653
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:50,680
Speaker 3: i do have to pay my own insurance charance fucking.

654
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:52,320
Speaker 3: SUCKS i hate.

655
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 1: It.

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Speaker 3: day care every morning and Helped tiffany with a routine

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Speaker 3: to get her school work.

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Speaker 5: DONE i forget to class.

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Speaker 3: Now tiffany wants to be a nurse or A, pa

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Speaker 3: but the college told her nursing school is hard to

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Speaker 3: get into and it's best to have a high school,

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Speaker 3: diploma which is why she's still in high school and

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Speaker 3: working on the. Weekends but someone mentioned a dual thing

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Speaker 3: can't open a checking account for myself BECAUSE i am a,

675
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:47,520
Speaker 3: miner but the bank allowed me to open a children's

676
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 3: account for my daughter BECAUSE i am our.

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Speaker 5: Parent. Oll the irony that, is you can't even open

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Speaker 5: your own damn bank. Account.

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Speaker 3: Bro, GOD i read every single comment and it's given

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Speaker 3: me a DIFFERENT. Pov AND i guess college seems so

681
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:06,080
Speaker 3: far AND i was counting, years but it's really not that,

682
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 3: bad as she's like a little sister now and those who,

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00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 3: ASKED i doubt we will get back. Together, HONESTLY i

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00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 3: am not thinking about anything like that right. NOW i

685
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:16,840
Speaker 3: am just too tired to be in a relationship or

686
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 3: think of anything like that for the. FUTURE i don't

687
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 3: know WHY i feel they need to update, this but

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00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 3: here it, Goes tiffany and my dad are.

689
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 5: Together, No i'm just kidding as.

690
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 3: Alarm tiffany and my dad went to the school and

691
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 3: were able to get her enrolled in college classes because

692
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:34,440
Speaker 3: of her, grades so now she can do high school

693
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 3: and community college at the same, time.

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00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 1: Which, yeah boy.

695
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,719
Speaker 3: Did she won't graduate high school super, fast but she

696
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 3: will have enough to finish high school hours by Next,

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00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 3: december so six months. Early she reapplied for assistance and

698
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 3: we got a voucher for, daycare which is now fifty

699
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 3: dollars a week at. Something she quit her job so

700
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 3: she can focus on, school but she but she doesn't

701
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 3: start college until, spring so that's, cool and it gives

702
00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:58,760
Speaker 3: her some time and she wants to still be a,

703
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:00,760
Speaker 3: nurse so that's. GREAT i want to say thanks for

704
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:03,240
Speaker 3: Thinking i'm a great, dad BUT i don't believe it just.

705
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 3: YET i depend on my dad a lot to help.

706
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 3: Me tiff AND i are trying to take parenting classes

707
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 3: and they offer a lot of advice and we've made friends,

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00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 3: there which is, nice BUT i don't think we would

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00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 3: be this prepared without my. Dad, Also tiff is on

710
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 3: wic which helps women get money for, food and we

711
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 3: take parenting classes and co parenting classes because it's my dad's.

712
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 1: Rules the dad seems like, it like he's like he's

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00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:31,600
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00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 1: parents screw, you, Dad are.

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00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 3: You doing really like stepping it up a notch be

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00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 3: cause like like if you think about, it imagine if

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00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 3: all the parents chipped in and we're, like, hey, look

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00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 3: we're not going to provide financial support for like you

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00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:46,120
Speaker 3: guys for like living or, whatever but we'll give some

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00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 3: child support to the baby like, that like just setting

721
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 3: up the, daycare like so when you could get to,

722
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 3: school like so many, things.

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00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 1: But make sure to not get. Pregnant when you're, young

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Speaker 1: wrap your.

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Speaker 5: Waner.

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00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 3: Yep, Okayopie AM i the a hole for not accepting

727
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 3: my sister's relationship with my ex despite her having cancer

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00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 3: as a. Teenager there's so much going. On there's a

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Speaker 3: lot to unpack. Here one sentence contained so.

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Speaker 1: Much oh my.

731
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:21,280
Speaker 3: God so my twenty five female father married my stepsisters

732
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:24,040
Speaker 3: twenty four female mother WHEN i was four years old

733
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:25,720
Speaker 3: and when she was. Three we lived together most of

734
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 3: our lives as a, family and she AND i were extremely.

735
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 3: Closed she developed cancer when she was about fourteen and

736
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Speaker 3: was sick for two. Years she since made a full,

737
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 3: recovery but during that, time my parents became understandably Overprotect

738
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 3: they also asked a lot of. ME i quit all

739
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 3: my extracurriculars SO i could get a. Job the money

740
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 3: went towards her medical, bills and SO i could drive

741
00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 3: her to her. APPOINTMENT i didn't go to dances or

742
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 3: any of the fun. Activities ANYTHING i did needed to include.

743
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 3: HER i did almost all of this, willingly so you,

744
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 3: Know opie wasn't complaining about, this but the exception being

745
00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 3: having to quit my high school. VOLLEYBALLS i did quite

746
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 3: a bit of a change from about that but that

747
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:05,960
Speaker 3: was swiftly, punnished AND i think having one emotional breakdown

748
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 3: was pretty chill given the.

749
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:11,359
Speaker 1: Circumstances, honestly Fair, like that's a really tough. Situation you're

750
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:13,759
Speaker 1: trying to support your, family but literally your life is

751
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:16,719
Speaker 1: on hold because your sister's going through a tough. Time

752
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:20,600
Speaker 1: like it's the right thing to, do but still, hard incredibly.

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00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 3: Hard he's a, Teenager, like you, know you only get

754
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 3: to play in your high school vlleyball team, once you,

755
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 3: Know SO.

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00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 1: I know it sounds it sounds, no but, honestly you're,

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00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,799
Speaker 1: right you know WHAT i. Mean it sounds, trite but

758
00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:37,360
Speaker 1: like those experiences in high school are. Formative, yeah for,

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00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 1: sure the social circles you, have and you learned so

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00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:43,600
Speaker 1: much about yourself in the period. Too it's, TOUGH i

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00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 1: feel for.

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00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 3: Op, ANYHOW i go to college AND i meet my

763
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:49,920
Speaker 3: ex we'll call Him ben When i'm a. Junior we

764
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 3: fall in love blah blah, blah AND i move in

765
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 3: together when we. Graduate so we've been living together for three. Years,

766
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,359
Speaker 3: yeah it's it was a whole, thing, Right, yeah we

767
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 3: were serious Until july AND i walked into my bedroom

768
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 3: and saw him doing the nasty with my, sister the same, no,

769
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:12,920
Speaker 3: yeah the same sister she cared for while she had.

770
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:14,920
Speaker 1: Cancer ungrateful.

771
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:20,120
Speaker 3: Bitch she was cheating on her with her boyfriend of many.

772
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 1: Years, DUDE i can't, imagine like you sacrificed those volleyball.

773
00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 1: Games you only could do those volleyball games, once and

774
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:34,359
Speaker 1: here your ungrateful beach sister goes and dicks down your.

775
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 3: BOYFRIEND i know it's really, bad so he, SAYS i

776
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:42,000
Speaker 3: broke it. Off tears were, shed he moved, out et,

777
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:45,280
Speaker 3: cetera et. Cetera my sister apologized at, first but then backed.

778
00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 3: Off what, yes are you kidding?

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00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:49,200
Speaker 1: Me at?

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00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:49,879
Speaker 5: First at?

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00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:52,800
Speaker 1: First at, first how would you even talk To? OH

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00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 1: i hate. THIS i Hate i'm tilted and severely. Tilted

783
00:35:57,719 --> 00:35:59,719
Speaker 1: you're gonna get even angrier to keep.

784
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:02,280
Speaker 3: GOING i thought she was going to give me, space

785
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 3: but last week she called and asked me if we

786
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:06,600
Speaker 3: could meet. Up she told me that she And ben

787
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:09,799
Speaker 3: were in love and were just telling me as a

788
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 3: courtesy before they started posting videos.

789
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:15,520
Speaker 1: ONLINE i actually hit myself with THE. Bg Oh god.

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00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:19,760
Speaker 1: Hurt that's how MAD i. LIKE i hurt myself because

791
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 1: this is how this is. FURIATING i am so pissed right.

792
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 1: Now i'm so. PISSED i am Unreasonably i'm Actually i'm actually.

793
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 1: Pissed i'm Not i'm not. Joking this Is i'm actually.

794
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:37,480
Speaker 1: True this is. Emotion, Yeah i'm fucking. Pissed, Bro what the?

795
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:40,759
Speaker 3: Fuck it's insane and it does get, worse it does

796
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 3: Get is it bad That i'm getting enjoyment out of Your.

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00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:49,480
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00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:52,040
Speaker 1: Worst this is the this is the. Worst keep, Going,

799
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 1: YEAH i still want to hear. IT i just hate.

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00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:57,640
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801
00:36:57,680 --> 00:36:59,880
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00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:05,040
Speaker 3: you're gonna hate, this she later venmoed, me requesting for

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00:37:05,160 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 3: the money for my.

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00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 1: Meal you take the volleyball games, away you take the,

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00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:18,439
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00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:19,840
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00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:20,080
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00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:26,040
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00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:29,359
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00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:32,359
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00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:53,239
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870
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:36,480
Speaker 5: Brain, cancer, right we Have we have no idea what the.

871
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:39,919
Speaker 1: Cancers well maybe you know if it's brain, Cancer, yeah

872
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 1: specifically affected the part of your brain that made you

873
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 1: a good person and just ate that part. Away so

874
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:49,400
Speaker 1: you're just the shell of a human and you're basically

875
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:53,920
Speaker 1: a devil, child and you just like tap into your

876
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:56,880
Speaker 1: primal animal instincts and you're not even you're barely. Human

877
00:40:57,080 --> 00:41:01,400
Speaker 1: you're just you're just a, freaking, wild fair, animal freakin'

878
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 1: frackin everything that you, see no matter who it. Hurts

879
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:08,680
Speaker 1: that's just. OKAY i guess that it's. Okay then it's

880
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:10,399
Speaker 1: okay with my.

881
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:14,359
Speaker 3: Cheeks hurt from last. Week Sorry ophie for laughing at your,

882
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:15,240
Speaker 3: immense immense.

883
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 1: Bain, honestly one of the. Worst this is the worst.

884
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:19,279
Speaker 1: Things so this is the worst that we've read so.

885
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:22,760
Speaker 1: Far this is the. Worst it's, hilarious the. Worst so

886
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:23,040
Speaker 1: so my.

887
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:25,279
Speaker 3: Parents they brought up the fact that because she had

888
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:28,240
Speaker 3: cancer as a, teenager she never learned proper social etiquette

889
00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:29,120
Speaker 3: and has a hard time meeting.

890
00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 1: People BUT i don't buy. Them, yeah now that DO

891
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:32,400
Speaker 1: i Bro now they?

892
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:35,560
Speaker 3: DO? I, yeah exactly LIKE i don't, Either so in

893
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 3: part Because i've seen her socialize just, fine and since

894
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:41,920
Speaker 3: we spent a good chunk of the time when she

895
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 3: was sick, together that would also mean THAT i have

896
00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:46,480
Speaker 3: pretty bad.

897
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:48,840
Speaker 1: Social skills as, well by that, Logic so, Yeah and

898
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:56,160
Speaker 1: also she's social enough to steal her. Boyfriend oh there's

899
00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 1: some good social skills right.

900
00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 3: There, man usually one other person other THAN op who

901
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:03,680
Speaker 3: understands how fed up the situation. Is but literally there's

902
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 3: just a gaggle of people that don't get.

903
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 1: It, yeah it doesn't make any. Sense obvious favoritism, Here

904
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:15,359
Speaker 1: and just like also because just because one bad thing

905
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:17,840
Speaker 1: happened in your, life or even if multiple bad things

906
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 1: happen in your, life it doesn't justify you to be

907
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 1: a complete a hole exactly the rest of your, life

908
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 1: like your good kids are one, time then oh everyone

909
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:35,879
Speaker 1: get over. It you rang that. Bell ring the bell

910
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 1: means get the prick over. It, bro kids are. Free

911
00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:45,000
Speaker 1: well that also care, free not not asshole, free not asshole.

912
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:46,680
Speaker 1: Free you do not get the ass passed.

913
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 3: Asshole so then my parents told me that IF i

914
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 3: don't accept my sister And ben's, relationship they might have

915
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 3: to go no. CONTACT i reminded them THAT i am

916
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:58,400
Speaker 3: also their daughter and they should understand my point of

917
00:42:58,480 --> 00:42:58,759
Speaker 3: view as.

918
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 1: Well but they are adamant that.

919
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:04,480
Speaker 3: This is just because of me being jealous of, Her

920
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:08,120
Speaker 3: and THIS i think is really interesting and if this is,

921
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 3: true like honestly commendable To opie for the, Record i'm

922
00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 3: not jealous of, her so like she doesn't actually she

923
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 3: isn't actually jealous that her boyfriend of three years who

924
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 3: they moved in, together had all these serious. Things she's

925
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:24,720
Speaker 3: not jealous of, That So opie, says for the, Record

926
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 3: i'm not jealous of. Her i'm not upset that she

927
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 3: Picked ben over. Me i'm sad about the end of

928
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 3: the relationship and do feel, betrayed But lord, KNOWS i

929
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:33,440
Speaker 3: do not want to be with a.

930
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 1: Cheater, true. True and ALSO i, mean she's just being

931
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:38,839
Speaker 1: such a good person right. Now, yeah so. Good there's

932
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:42,200
Speaker 1: my heart breaks for how nice she. Is that's.

933
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 5: True that's so.

934
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 3: True like she's being such a good person here and

935
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:48,960
Speaker 3: having like the worst possible scenario happened to her and

936
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:51,800
Speaker 3: just enduring. It What i'm upset about is the fact

937
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:54,800
Speaker 3: that my sister Chose ben over, me that she slept

938
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 3: With ben knowing he AND i were in a long,

939
00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:00,840
Speaker 3: term committed relationship and continue and used to be with,

940
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:04,120
Speaker 3: him knowing how much it hurts. Me, now no one

941
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 3: in my immediate family is talking to, me And i'm

942
00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 3: getting messages from aunts and uncles and cousins all telling

943
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 3: ME i am an a hole and a selfish.

944
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 1: Bish that's so, rough. Dude she does not deserve that at, all,

945
00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:18,840
Speaker 1: right Like i'd, like she does not deserve that at.

946
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:23,440
Speaker 1: All AND i think HOPEFULLY i can speak on behalf

947
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:24,279
Speaker 1: of both of us at this.

948
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 3: Point but not the a, hole, oh oh good, Lord,

949
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 3: no not the a hole at. All the antithesis of an,

950
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 3: ale WHICH i think is like a nipple.

951
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 1: That was genuinely. Hilarious don't let yourself fall into that,

952
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 1: situation Op he has done everything right, truly but, wow

953
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:52,160
Speaker 1: what a, crap crap. Situation best of luck To. Opie,

954
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:56,920
Speaker 1: yeah but you know we'll make everything. Better, subscribe, subscribe

955
00:44:57,239 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 1: subscribe right, now, Baby smash that button and we'll see

956
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:12,319
Speaker 1: you next. Time see you Next, timehm