Speaker 1: Hell I Suck At Dating with Denglert and Jared Haven
Speaker 1: and I heard radio podcast. Hey, welcome to an all
Speaker 1: new episode of Help I Suck at Dating. I am Jared,
Speaker 1: joined in studio by the one legged Dean Ungla Suck
Speaker 1: Suck Suck. We have Tori and Easton in studio joining us.
Speaker 1: We have a great episode coming up. How dare you,
Speaker 1: first of all, forget Pappy's here too? Pappy, So, Pappy
Speaker 1: is here. I just don't want you to leave. I
Speaker 1: don't want him to feel left out. We'll explain to
Speaker 1: everybody who Pappy is if they don't already know. Pappy
Speaker 1: is mine and Kitlin's little foster child. We picked him
Speaker 1: up four days ago and he just wanted to tour
Speaker 1: the office. I figured it was bringing your pappy to
Speaker 1: work day and uh, he's yeah. He's an eleven year
Speaker 1: old little mixed puppy with the cutest little teeth and
Speaker 1: he's got the cutest little face. He looks like a
Speaker 1: baby Yoda. Yeah, we keep getting that with the years.
Speaker 1: And now he was just chilling beneath me and Jared
Speaker 1: while we record the podcast. So how long have you
Speaker 1: had Pappy? Four days? So my question becomes because I
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of people who take foster dogs
Speaker 1: end up keeping the dog because how can you possibly
Speaker 1: give up what your wife is a foster failed twice over.
Speaker 1: Once you take in a dog, it's over. Yeah. We
Speaker 1: me and Caitlin when we first took in and were like,
Speaker 1: all right, we'll take him in. We won't give him
Speaker 1: back to the pound, but we'll give him up when
Speaker 1: a new family comes in to adopt him. How's kind
Speaker 1: of our our our mindset. But last night we were
Speaker 1: laying in bed with him and he's just like the
Speaker 1: perfect dog. I can't get over how perfect Pappy is.
Speaker 1: And we were like, we looked at each other and
Speaker 1: we're like, there's no way we can give this dog pack?
Speaker 1: Can me? Have you ever heard a small dog before? Um?
Speaker 1: Growing up, I had a little dogs and basically the
Speaker 1: same size as Pappia is now. But in college I
Speaker 1: rescued Nala, who's that big flatcoat retriever. She's obviously a
Speaker 1: bigger dogs eighty pounds, and Pappy is much much smaller,
Speaker 1: but he's a good what seventeen pounds. Yes, he's tiny,
Speaker 1: but he's good. Like I crutched, I crushed in today
Speaker 1: he like he can walk on a leash while I
Speaker 1: crutch around. For the most part, he gets like a
Speaker 1: little scared of elevators and stairs and stuff. I heard
Speaker 1: him bark for the first time today. He we got
Speaker 1: on a bicycle at road by and he just started
Speaker 1: losing his mind. Never heard and barked before. But yeah,
Speaker 1: we'll see what happens. Um. We do have an adopting
Speaker 1: family coming in to look at him from San Francisco
Speaker 1: next week. And honestly, with the way things are going,
Speaker 1: even Caylin was like, you need to take Pappy today
Speaker 1: because I can't continue to get as attached as I'm
Speaker 1: getting to him. So it's looking like we're gonna be
Speaker 1: foster fails, which on, Like, I don't hate the idea
Speaker 1: he's gotta I think we were just talking about this
Speaker 1: before we came in. He's got a level four heart murmurs,
Speaker 1: so I don't know like how much time he's got
Speaker 1: left and if Kaylin and I can give him a
Speaker 1: couple of good months before he goes, you know, um,
Speaker 1: But yeah, we'll see what happened. Who's more attached to
Speaker 1: Pappy right now? You're Klin. We're both absolutely obsessed to there,
Speaker 1: I'm sure, just like the level of obsession you have
Speaker 1: with Lowest, We're like I can't get I can't whenever
Speaker 1: he's not in the room with me, like, I freak out. Actually,
Speaker 1: and I always talk about if if our dogs only
Speaker 1: knew how much we talk about that literally every time
Speaker 1: I actually leave, actually, and I leave the house, it's
Speaker 1: like what's lowest? And we have the fur boat inside that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we constantly watched that thing. It's like, what's lowest up to? Oh,
Speaker 1: it looks she's laying down own, She's laying down so adorable.
Speaker 1: It's just a little stuff. Pappy is great too, because
Speaker 1: I'll be laying in bed obviously, like I'm recovering, so
Speaker 1: I don't really move around a lot. I've never really
Speaker 1: had a dog that was like good with coming like
Speaker 1: when I asked him to I'm sorry, what was that? Okay,
Speaker 1: I knew you were going to make some sort of
Speaker 1: sick joke out of that. You freak Anyways, laying on
Speaker 1: the bed, I'd be like, Pappy, come here, and all
Speaker 1: he does is like Perker's little ears up and jumps
Speaker 1: on the bed and comes up and snuggles right next
Speaker 1: to me. Oh. It melts my heart every single time.
Speaker 1: I do have a story about a dog, but let's
Speaker 1: save that for another time. It's so the listener discretion
Speaker 1: is advised. If you don't have any interest in hearing this,
Speaker 1: maybe skip forward to that gross. I mean, it's gross,
Speaker 1: but it's it's more funny. So we have Lois and
Speaker 1: then Ashley's sister Lauren has Gurgy, who's also a very small, white,
Speaker 1: little fluffy dog. And Gurgy is definitely a humper. So
Speaker 1: when we first got Lois, he was obsessed with her
Speaker 1: and constantly with Hopper humper. And one time it was
Speaker 1: an all day affair and Lauren is, you know, she's
Speaker 1: trying to pull Gegy off of him, and then so
Speaker 1: she does, she pulls Georgy off of Lois, and as
Speaker 1: she does that, even first of all, he's fixed, but
Speaker 1: this his semen shoots out all over her arm and
Speaker 1: she was scarred for a lot mid vinegar stroke. Oh
Speaker 1: I just yeah, he was. He was ready and and
Speaker 1: Lauren kind him at perfect time, right because they are
Speaker 1: hump right, so he like he got to the point
Speaker 1: and just air humping. I mean, he's obviously very attracted
Speaker 1: to the loan. She could do that to him. Good
Speaker 1: for him. Well, that's super exciting about Pappy. You guys
Speaker 1: are adorable with him. He's so cute. I'm glad I
Speaker 1: finally got to meet him because I've heard so many
Speaker 1: stories and I wanted you to meet him. But yeah,
Speaker 1: Peppy tell us about our episode that Jared. So our
Speaker 1: episode is just us. There's no guess. It's you me,
Speaker 1: Tori Easton in this room at I Heart Studios in Burbank.
Speaker 1: These are the moments I live for. I think I
Speaker 1: think so too. Yeah, but I do have some user questions.
Speaker 1: We have some people out there that needed vice. That's
Speaker 1: what we call her, our fans users. Yeah, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: being way too professional. We have questions from suck the
Speaker 1: people that make this podcast. Good. God, we just need
Speaker 1: to do a live podcast and really just feel the
Speaker 1: energy of Suck Army. I feel like we're underestimating them.
Speaker 1: Of the four attendees that would come to our live podcast,
Speaker 1: I told you that the almost famous live that we
Speaker 1: have no Well, here's the thing. So when I went
Speaker 1: out there and Channon Suck Army, we got like a
Speaker 1: good seven or eight people, and last year when we
Speaker 1: did it, we got four. So We've doubled our audience
Speaker 1: in a year. That's pretty good. That's not bad. That
Speaker 1: rate would go up exponentially too. So in ten years
Speaker 1: I'm talking, we're talking three millions, four millions, and we
Speaker 1: hit a milestone I think so we reached fifteen thousand
Speaker 1: followers on Instagram. Yeah, so thank you for everybody who
Speaker 1: follows us. It is at help I suck a dating
Speaker 1: if you want to give us a follow if you're
Speaker 1: not following us, we put some great content up there.
Speaker 1: I always say, there's so many pictures of Dean's face
Speaker 1: on their why would you not want to follow us?
Speaker 1: We could be doing more. I think we should make
Speaker 1: the year of upping our social media presidents followers two
Speaker 1: D followers. How about by the end of the year. Okay,
Speaker 1: we got that, we should be able to reach that
Speaker 1: by June. I agree, but I'm just saying we got
Speaker 1: to put make a more considered effort towards our Instagram
Speaker 1: I agree. Um, So, before we start getting into your
Speaker 1: wonderful questions for everybody here, Tory is in studio and
Speaker 1: I swear so many people want to know. They always comment,
Speaker 1: they always d M, they say we want an update
Speaker 1: from Tori. Where is Toriy? What is going on in
Speaker 1: tories life? So guess what we have Tori here to
Speaker 1: tell us everything that's going on in your life? How
Speaker 1: to give us the juicy gass? Well, what do you
Speaker 1: want to start with? Let's start that was a little
Speaker 1: bit more than Jared. So let's start with what everyone knows.
Speaker 1: The football player boy. Okay, yeah, football player boy. So
Speaker 1: I went to the game, So hold up because I
Speaker 1: need a little refresher. You're right, okay, and I think
Speaker 1: some people might need some too. So you're talking to
Speaker 1: this football player. He's a professional athlete. Yeah, it's badass,
Speaker 1: by don't I it's the one that we I that.
Speaker 1: It's not the one that didn't pay for me. It's
Speaker 1: the other one that I met through one of my
Speaker 1: good friends. Guy. We like, yes, yes, but he's a
Speaker 1: little unresponsive. Well he's like, oh yeah he was. He's
Speaker 1: hard to get ahold of. Sometimes I feel like, well, yeah,
Speaker 1: he gives you like the response in like five hours
Speaker 1: with like full conversation, but you're just like full disclosure.
Speaker 1: He was playing up until this weekend. Yeah, and there right,
Speaker 1: And there's the time change that also was like kind
Speaker 1: of hard Okay, so he's not from California, not San Francisco,
Speaker 1: forty niners, so it's narrows down, all right. I don't
Speaker 1: like it. Sounds like it was going well enough because
Speaker 1: you were at the NFC championship game. M hm, confirm
Speaker 1: or deny? You already kind of confirmed. You said you
Speaker 1: were at the football game this past weekend, and there's
Speaker 1: so you were at the championship game, which means things
Speaker 1: have been going at least they've been progressing to some degree. Well,
Speaker 1: he's still you guys, are still conversing enough to where
Speaker 1: he's going to invite you to the football game, Like
Speaker 1: he only got a set number of tickets for those
Speaker 1: types of things, right, right, So that's pretty good totally,
Speaker 1: and um so his whole So I've met his family
Speaker 1: before already, because that when they played the Chargers, his
Speaker 1: family was there and I met the sister, which I
Speaker 1: get it. I got along really well. Yeah, well actually
Speaker 1: almost because I guess his sister has like a secret boyfriend,
Speaker 1: and I almost outed that to the dad in a
Speaker 1: matter of like five minutes of knowing. You know, this
Speaker 1: is a very very publicly broadcasting podcast. No, so there's
Speaker 1: it comes full circle because then at this game, I
Speaker 1: saw the family again and she brought the boyfriend. So
Speaker 1: I got to meet the boyfriend. So now I don't
Speaker 1: know who the guy is. So we don't know the families.
Speaker 1: You didn't ask anyone, Well we okay, you're right, I
Speaker 1: don't know who it is. I guess I'm looking through
Speaker 1: it with my lens and I know who the guy is.
Speaker 1: That means I wouldn't be able to figure out who
Speaker 1: it wasn't I assume everyone don't say the name Dean.
Speaker 1: Okay anyways? Right, So um yeah, so I mean he
Speaker 1: I was really hesitant to go, given just I've been
Speaker 1: working like thirty hours these past two days and so
Speaker 1: leading I worked like thirty hours this week and I'm exhausted.
Speaker 1: Now that's Dean with his influence her life. Now, Dean
Speaker 1: works like it's very generous, thank you. Um No, Tory works.
Speaker 1: You work way harder than that. So we had podcast awards,
Speaker 1: We've had all these events, and so I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't really want to go. I honestly just want
Speaker 1: to sleep, but I also love football. So I bought
Speaker 1: a ticket last minute. Um he did offer to pay,
Speaker 1: but I just felt a little uncomfortable to accept that,
Speaker 1: given that he was paying for two tickets because he
Speaker 1: let me bring a plus one boy. Yeah, I feel
Speaker 1: think I'm actually talking to two. You know. I brought
Speaker 1: my sister in law and so her dad he's played
Speaker 1: for the forty niners. So then we just had like
Speaker 1: a blast all around, just like on the field. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we were on the field sweet hopping. I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm scarred life right there. But at the beginning he
Speaker 1: said that it didn't seem like it was. It's progressed
Speaker 1: at all. It hasn't though, because in this sense, well
Speaker 1: he's offered to like fly me out a lot of times,
Speaker 1: which I'm like a little hesitant to do um, just
Speaker 1: because I think it's hard when you do the long
Speaker 1: distance dating. You can't really date long distance, Like you
Speaker 1: can't be like, hey, I'm gonna come there and then
Speaker 1: like get me a hotel room and then like let's
Speaker 1: pick me up at eight for dinner and then drop
Speaker 1: me back off. Like you're very much submerge into somebody
Speaker 1: else's world. So I've been a little intimidated by that.
Speaker 1: In my personal opinion, I think it's almost best for
Speaker 1: you because you are so entrenched with work seven here,
Speaker 1: so a long distance relationship and almost be better for
Speaker 1: you that way you can kind of focus on that
Speaker 1: when you want to focus on that, but then also
Speaker 1: kind of like put push that by the wayside when
Speaker 1: you need to push it by the way side. Definitely,
Speaker 1: I think I do appreciate that he as his own
Speaker 1: world because I love to work, so I want to
Speaker 1: be able to feel good in that lane. But at
Speaker 1: the same time, it's easier when you know the person
Speaker 1: well and then you go long distance because you guys
Speaker 1: can still pick up and see each other and like
Speaker 1: pick up where you left off. For us, it's like
Speaker 1: we're still picking up where we left off, which is
Speaker 1: like way beginning stage, it's hard to build a relationship
Speaker 1: off of long distance. It's easier to build a relationship
Speaker 1: and have that foundation, and then you guys go long distance,
Speaker 1: but now you're you're still in the early stages of dating,
Speaker 1: while doing long distance makes it more difficult. But we've
Speaker 1: been like talking for like very loosely, like eight months,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, it's so brutal. You're saying, did you
Speaker 1: saw him over the weekend? Well, yeah, for like ten
Speaker 1: minutes with his family, and I was like, this is
Speaker 1: just not what I was all the time before that
Speaker 1: that you saw. When was the last time Chargers game
Speaker 1: so well, I think that was like September October. I mean,
Speaker 1: obviously our entire audience is following the Chargers and they
Speaker 1: know the care we all everyone knows he plays for
Speaker 1: the Pack, like everyone knows, and if you were trying
Speaker 1: to look him up, he doesn't have Instagram to time.
Speaker 1: Got a great first name though, So okay, now that
Speaker 1: his season is over, though, what lays on the horizon?
Speaker 1: So I don't know. It's it's so hard for me
Speaker 1: because I don't really like struggle with loneliness, and I
Speaker 1: think that's part of me also as I allow myself
Speaker 1: to be really fine being single and like I have
Speaker 1: fun and I have friends, So it's really hard for
Speaker 1: me to to invite something that is kind of like
Speaker 1: codependency into my life. And I realized I'm really struggling
Speaker 1: with that and I'm not the most vulnerable person, Like
Speaker 1: there's there's probably like a handful of people who have
Speaker 1: seen me like truly, truly cry. So the Green Bay
Speaker 1: Chargers game was early November, so this was the first
Speaker 1: time you saw him in almost three months. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: he's not giving me anything to be like I need
Speaker 1: to shut this down. It's like he's being he's so kind,
Speaker 1: like the fact that he even gave me a plus one,
Speaker 1: like those tickets are easy, Like he dropped over a
Speaker 1: grand on just and everybody and his mother was asking
Speaker 1: for tickets. Second and he chose to give two to you,
Speaker 1: which was like he did not have to at all.
Speaker 1: And then he offered to pay for my flight, but
Speaker 1: I just didn't feel comfortable with that. Although I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm a broke homeb homegirl like I would have. So
Speaker 1: you kind of dodged the question a little bit. That's awesome. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. His sister when I
Speaker 1: saw him after the game, was like I wanted to
Speaker 1: train in California and she's like getting to train out here,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I want no part of this conversation.
Speaker 1: He's only been to l A, I think twice, but California,
Speaker 1: like I mean outside of a game, like probably like
Speaker 1: three times too, So is there a chance he'll come
Speaker 1: out here instead of He's like really wanting to train
Speaker 1: in San Diego, but I'm like, I don't really want
Speaker 1: that to be a part of our situation. And I
Speaker 1: know he's never really trained out He's trained out here
Speaker 1: for like a couple of weeks before, but like never
Speaker 1: being like, Hey, I'm gonna come out here and train.
Speaker 1: And we have great training facilities in l A. I mean,
Speaker 1: and I know there's good ones in San Diego. So
Speaker 1: I get why people come out here and train. But
Speaker 1: at the same time, I'm like, I just don't want
Speaker 1: you to come out here because you have like hopes
Speaker 1: for us, because I don't know how I feel that.
Speaker 1: I don't put that much pressure on it or don't
Speaker 1: overthink it. He wants to come out here and training.
Speaker 1: You guys can hang out. Girl over thinks everything, but
Speaker 1: not Tori. Tori doesn't. Tori stays grounded, not to pivot
Speaker 1: off of this incredible topics. I do think it's interesting
Speaker 1: and I do want you to continue to keep us
Speaker 1: updated on what's going on with this guy. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: you guys need to meet him. Where's it leave off? Like,
Speaker 1: that's what I want to know. Where So he texted
Speaker 1: me after the game and was like, Hey, just let
Speaker 1: you know he texted you, Tory. He's put a lot
Speaker 1: of effort in He said, uh, seeing you after the
Speaker 1: game really like brighten my day, And I was like,
Speaker 1: to the super Bowl. I'm so weird. I got that
Speaker 1: text and I was like, I literally do not know
Speaker 1: how to respond to this. It made me so uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: Was it the day of Uh No, I think it's
Speaker 1: the next day, Okay. Still regardless, he lost out an
Speaker 1: opportunity to go to the Super Bowl every athlete's dream
Speaker 1: in the next day and you saying you brightened his day.
Speaker 1: That's really sweet, But like, what do you respond to that? Well,
Speaker 1: as a guy, what would you want to hear and
Speaker 1: respond to that? I love you? But no, I'm actually
Speaker 1: being honest. I mean I would have said it was
Speaker 1: great seeing you too, you had a great season. No no, no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: you gotta go more like feeling emotional left That dude
Speaker 1: literally just said seeing you brighten my day. And I'm
Speaker 1: just saying it was great seeing you two. You had
Speaker 1: a great season. I'm really proud of that you and
Speaker 1: you accomplished many things, et cetera, et cetera, so on
Speaker 1: and so forth. You don't need to get all mushy
Speaker 1: right away. The dude just lost He's reaching out to her.
Speaker 1: What did you say anything back? I'm like really scared
Speaker 1: to check what I sent back. Can you read it? Forest, please?
Speaker 1: As the listeners while you're finding it. The oally reason
Speaker 1: I said no to that was because it sounds very
Speaker 1: off pudding, like, well, hey, you had a good season
Speaker 1: and you should be proud. And how's that off putting? Well,
Speaker 1: because he made it about her. This is so awkward
Speaker 1: what I sent back. I feel like, can I read it? Yeah? Okay,
Speaker 1: it making me like a little less awkward for you
Speaker 1: if I read it. I just like, I know you
Speaker 1: guys are gonna have I know I've you because I
Speaker 1: don't like to feel emotions. It's so bad. I don't
Speaker 1: want to be hurt. And I think that's the reason
Speaker 1: why I never know how to respond to people, because
Speaker 1: I'm like, that's vulnerable. It's funny seeing the name, just
Speaker 1: seeing the name is hilarious. I'm reading Tori's phone right now.
Speaker 1: He texts her thanks for coming and staying after to
Speaker 1: see us, seeing you brighten me up after the game,
Speaker 1: and she responded four hours later, mind you, I guess
Speaker 1: you were working. I guess you're also though, like I'm
Speaker 1: exhausted but it's probably about four hours later, Tori responds, Oh,
Speaker 1: that's so nice of you to say, smiley face. I
Speaker 1: felt bad cutting into your family time. Hopefully you'll get
Speaker 1: to hang with them soon now that season is done.
Speaker 1: I just I think that's a deflection. You deflected. It's sorry.
Speaker 1: If I got that, I would be bummed. Right, It's
Speaker 1: kind of like, I'm glad you got your family because
Speaker 1: I'm not really going to be hanging with you, So
Speaker 1: hanging out with them now that that's offseason, it was
Speaker 1: very That's the only reason. Yeah, I gotta say. I
Speaker 1: gotta say though, it's probably working in Tori's favor, because
Speaker 1: guys always loved the chase, right, and she was kind
Speaker 1: of like deflecting and like not making it about them,
Speaker 1: kind of making about him and other things. Hopefully he
Speaker 1: doesn't listen to his podcast. I bet you would driving
Speaker 1: him bonkers, like a like a good way, though he's
Speaker 1: very even keeled. Yeah, judging by the very little I
Speaker 1: know about this person, I would agree with you, Tori.
Speaker 1: I think that, but now every girl knows how to
Speaker 1: sure like it would drive someone like Dean crazy and
Speaker 1: probably me too, and I would we'd like to sleep
Speaker 1: over it all night, and I would It would just
Speaker 1: make me like so much more invigorated. We want to conquer, right,
Speaker 1: I feel like this guy I don't know, but from
Speaker 1: my gut feeling says that it made him more sad
Speaker 1: than intrigued. I don't know, I don't know. Maybe yeah,
Speaker 1: I listen, I've been wrong a million times. But what
Speaker 1: did he respond back with? I saw I read the
Speaker 1: whole text conversation. Well, here's the bad guys. Because they
Speaker 1: got a response. I didn't want to scroll too far.
Speaker 1: I didn't want Well, the thing is, it's like, literally,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, because then he responded back to never.
Speaker 1: This guy is confiding in you. His family struggles to.
Speaker 1: The follow up message to Toris that she did not
Speaker 1: respond to was no, that's okay. My sister tends to
Speaker 1: talk a lot, and my dad asked too many questions.
Speaker 1: Hopefully you're able to get some rest now back in
Speaker 1: l A. He's wanting you to get rest after he
Speaker 1: just finished an eighteen game football season. This man, and
Speaker 1: he's confiding in you. My sister tends to talk a lot,
Speaker 1: and my dad asked too many questions. I don't really
Speaker 1: want to hang out with him. Do you want to
Speaker 1: hang out with me? How how long did it take
Speaker 1: for him to respond to the tour's message? Two hours
Speaker 1: roughly so half the time, just just under two hours,
Speaker 1: and she's don't responded. Do you take my phone in response?
Speaker 1: I've been eighteen hours since Tory hasn't responded to this guy.
Speaker 1: I feel bad for him, not bad. I know that
Speaker 1: he like I'm sure he kind of like likes it
Speaker 1: a little bit, But Tori, you need to give this
Speaker 1: guy maybe a little bit more attention. Yeah, throw him
Speaker 1: at all branch, you know. But like, I'm really analyzing
Speaker 1: my life where I just I think that I don't
Speaker 1: overthink it. I'm so okay being like I actually have
Speaker 1: so much fun in my life being single. I love
Speaker 1: I can do whatever I want. I don't have to
Speaker 1: tend anybody's needs. I don't need to be next somebody
Speaker 1: being like, oh with this person, hate that I'm right
Speaker 1: next to. Like, I really like to just live my
Speaker 1: life so selfishly. I think I get like a little
Speaker 1: bit anxious where I'm like, whoa, I'm not ready to
Speaker 1: tie down. But at the same time, I know it's
Speaker 1: so nothing. Well, I mean, the question becomes do you
Speaker 1: want to continue seeing this person or not. I don't know.
Speaker 1: That's okay, you're not you don't have personality because it's
Speaker 1: like such a personality person So if I don't know,
Speaker 1: like if you don't make me laugh, I don't even
Speaker 1: care if you're like if I may not be like
Speaker 1: totally attracted you in the first minute, Like if you
Speaker 1: don't make me laugh? Him out? Does he make you laugh?
Speaker 1: I don't know him? Hold on, eight months of talking,
Speaker 1: you still like feel like you don't know football. It's like, oh,
Speaker 1: it's this. It's that you guys really hung out in person,
Speaker 1: like I hang out three times. Maybe I think you
Speaker 1: guys are gonna get married. I'm calling it now. I
Speaker 1: like it, mark my words. I actually honestly almost just
Speaker 1: threw up, Like commitment terrifies me. And I'm really learning
Speaker 1: a lot in this conversation. Oh my gosh, I was
Speaker 1: twenty five. I'm so old. Oh my gosh. I think
Speaker 1: this guy's perfect for you. He's like he's given you
Speaker 1: your space. He's not too clingy, not too needy. What
Speaker 1: you hate, right, He's like he's comfortable with allowing you
Speaker 1: to take twenty hours to respond to a text message.
Speaker 1: He's comfortable with you around his family. He's not like overbearing.
Speaker 1: In my personal opinion, it sounds like you hit the
Speaker 1: lottery with this guy, and you should maybe consider like
Speaker 1: entertaining a little bit more than you are. Can you
Speaker 1: guys get both Give me like a challenge on how
Speaker 1: I can be better at dating in this situation. Right now,
Speaker 1: I want you to FaceTime this once a week for
Speaker 1: as long as you can responsive FaceTime once a week,
Speaker 1: one FaceTime per week. Continue your text conversation as as
Speaker 1: you will, but FaceTime this guy once a week. It does,
Speaker 1: and then and figure out if there's a connection. Maybe
Speaker 1: he's got a sense of humor. If he doesn't, then
Speaker 1: he's not your guy. But given I'm gonna need to
Speaker 1: know how to break up with someone, this guy's patience
Speaker 1: is next. Let's not get ahead of ourselves just yet,
Speaker 1: all right, This guy's patience is the next level. I
Speaker 1: want to pivot because there's something else that we need
Speaker 1: to talk about with Tori. This is that before we
Speaker 1: do that, we can talk about it. I think it's
Speaker 1: really funny, it's hilarious, and I'm going to tease it
Speaker 1: a little bit, so Tori, I don't know how to
Speaker 1: really tease this very well. Tori and a former Bachelor
Speaker 1: at contestant have sent some flirtatious vibes one way or
Speaker 1: the other. I'm calling it flirtatious. It's definitely not flirtatious.
Speaker 1: And we're going to get to the bottom of it.
Speaker 1: I don't know the full story. I just know like
Speaker 1: the very thin crust layer on top, and we're gonna
Speaker 1: dive in a very very popular Bachelor at contestant and
Speaker 1: Tori might be having a bit of a romantic fling.
Speaker 1: But that's all coming up after this break. All right,
Speaker 1: welcome back. Thank you for sitting through that break, because,
Speaker 1: like I said, we got a big bombshell to drop
Speaker 1: about Tori's love life. I also want to say, I
Speaker 1: don't know who this person is yet. They refused to
Speaker 1: tell me off air. They wanted me to find out
Speaker 1: on air. Towards you with all of stuck Army, do
Speaker 1: you want to tell or do you want me to do?
Speaker 1: I start from the beginning, Start from the beginning. Don't
Speaker 1: give away the name, don't don't give away the name.
Speaker 1: Tell us a story and a little bit, and then
Speaker 1: you can you can pick up on the second half. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're going to Tarantino this thing. I want to know
Speaker 1: the whole story before I know who the killer is
Speaker 1: at the end. So it was ladies night at catch
Speaker 1: l A. Of course, as every good I ran into
Speaker 1: your friend Jenny. Oh you're right. She's like when you
Speaker 1: like one of your yourd friends now, isn't she? Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're actually gotting dinner this Friday. All right, let's go.
Speaker 1: Um okay, sorry, um and okay. So we walk in
Speaker 1: and there's a lot happening there because it's just like
Speaker 1: a lot of celebrities all around and all that stuff.
Speaker 1: When we're just sitting down and we're like laughing whatever. Um.
Speaker 1: And then I walk up to use the restroom. Wait,
Speaker 1: is this where it should I say his name? Not yet? Bachelor? No,
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm so I walking to the restroom and
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh, that's what's his face? Um?
Speaker 1: And he's been on the Almost Famous podcast before. How
Speaker 1: does the look in person compared to television as attractive question? Um,
Speaker 1: I feel like saying, I'm not totally like he's so gorgeous,
Speaker 1: unlike me who is very much like he's very gorgeous. Also,
Speaker 1: nobody can see the dangling earring and Dean's you're right now,
Speaker 1: it's just really upp in your gorgeousness. What this guy
Speaker 1: rocket dangly earring or no, I could see him doing it?
Speaker 1: No shirtless anyway, con hates us. I'm listening thing about
Speaker 1: who it is in my head and I have somebody
Speaker 1: in my name in my head and if it's this person,
Speaker 1: I'm going to be disappointed, but continue, Okay. So then
Speaker 1: I walked back from the bathroom and I ended up
Speaker 1: running into another one of my friends were walking in,
Speaker 1: and so I group text Ben Ashley and um me
Speaker 1: and I I don't know. And so then I texted
Speaker 1: them and I go, you guys, this is happening. What
Speaker 1: do I do? And Ben's like, you've got to go
Speaker 1: say hi? Um tell him he looks really good without
Speaker 1: his shirt on, and UM, so this is someone that
Speaker 1: you've had a crush on that Ashley. No, in fairness,
Speaker 1: everyone's had a crush on this guy, okay, And UM,
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh, I just like I'm not
Speaker 1: I'm never like, I'm not like a starstruck person at all.
Speaker 1: You guys, I love you, but you're not like my
Speaker 1: idols or anything. If it was like Kobe Bryant, I
Speaker 1: would actually like cry um. But so I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I really want to do it.
Speaker 1: I don't really care. I don't really care. I don't
Speaker 1: really care. Um. Then we were all at the bar
Speaker 1: getting a drink and Jenny was like, hey, let's go
Speaker 1: to the bathrooms. We literally like to the bathroom. The
Speaker 1: person walks walks my way again. Second time. Second time,
Speaker 1: but he was sitting for the first time. This time.
Speaker 1: We were both like crossing paths and we're like right
Speaker 1: in front of the kitchen door. And I'm like, hey,
Speaker 1: you you've been I heeart before and we've connected over
Speaker 1: u c l A because he he originally went on
Speaker 1: like a recruiting trip to c l A. We talked
Speaker 1: about like all this stuff and um, and we we're
Speaker 1: talking and then this guy comes running up behind it.
Speaker 1: It's like, can you guys move? Can you guys move?
Speaker 1: Because we like we're right front of the kitchen our way,
Speaker 1: So I turn and then all these waiters just crash
Speaker 1: plates all like drop all the plates around us, cause
Speaker 1: a whole scene, and I'm like, oh lord, UM. So
Speaker 1: we're like inch away. I'm like, oh gosh. But and
Speaker 1: he's like, oh yeah, like I remember now, like all
Speaker 1: that stuff. So he was like, oh my gosh, well
Speaker 1: I'm out here in l A for a bit. Um
Speaker 1: like I'm just trying to get get more friends and
Speaker 1: more people, Like, let me get your number. So we're like,
Speaker 1: he got my number. Never heard from him, never heard
Speaker 1: from him, which I was like, that's fine. You weren't
Speaker 1: expecting to hear from him. No. No, And I honestly
Speaker 1: just want to genuinely be good friends with him because
Speaker 1: I think he's fine. Okay, so fast forward, fast forward. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she just wants to be friends with him, that's all.
Speaker 1: Should we have a guest, No, I think we should
Speaker 1: have him guests after we have someone in mind obviously
Speaker 1: to one. So then I'm a little drunk the Super Bowl. Gosh,
Speaker 1: I wish at the championship game. Um, and I get
Speaker 1: a selfie sent to me of him and one of
Speaker 1: my friends that was at Catchell that night, and so
Speaker 1: she went up to him and was like, oh my gosh, hey,
Speaker 1: like you connected with my friend. Um. He was like,
Speaker 1: let's send her a selfie. So he sends a selfie
Speaker 1: and I'm like, what is happening here? Who is this
Speaker 1: and he responds He's like, hey, it's and I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, it's my future beach volleyball buddy or whatever,
Speaker 1: because we talked about like how we want to play
Speaker 1: beach um and he's like, I know, where have you?
Speaker 1: And I was like, where have you been? He's like,
Speaker 1: where have you been? And then I kind of threw
Speaker 1: like a sassy comment out, but I got a little
Speaker 1: twisted because I was drunk, and then he didn't respond,
Speaker 1: and then I felt and then I woke up the
Speaker 1: next morning and I was like did I send I
Speaker 1: don't really remember. I wasn't like blacked out, but he's
Speaker 1: just like, you know, those things happen where like in passing,
Speaker 1: like don't really care. Yeah, and so going up and
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, oh my gosh, Like
Speaker 1: that was so sassy. Nope, like you guys know my
Speaker 1: personalities where I'm like sarcastic, but like that sounds kind
Speaker 1: of like a dick comics. I basically was like sometimes
Speaker 1: it comes across totally totally. And so then I called
Speaker 1: my friend who was with him, and I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, like dying. I was like, what happened?
Speaker 1: I was. I was a little tipsy, like what happened?
Speaker 1: She was like, oh, like, don't worry about it. He
Speaker 1: blacked out that night, so I doubt he even really
Speaker 1: remembers sending it. I was like perfect, and she was
Speaker 1: just like yeah, like he was there. They were at
Speaker 1: Saddle Ranch, like where you like ride the mechanical bowl.
Speaker 1: So there's been no fallow up conversations, no fall up
Speaker 1: conversation because which I'm thankful for, because again, it kind
Speaker 1: of sounded like a dick comment that I sent. I
Speaker 1: kind of we kind of kind of well, I basically
Speaker 1: was he was like, where have you been? I was like,
Speaker 1: I've been out here, like like training getting ready for
Speaker 1: a volleyball tournament. While you're out there modeling building like content.
Speaker 1: It like sarcastic, like quote unquote. But then I'm also like,
Speaker 1: you make ten times more money than I do because
Speaker 1: of that. But I was like, like I was like
Speaker 1: being an influencer in building content. And then he's like,
Speaker 1: oh he sent out it sounds like you're killing it.
Speaker 1: And then I was like, wait, what did I send
Speaker 1: to you the next morning? Because I was like, why
Speaker 1: am I killing it? But then I think he misread it.
Speaker 1: As like, I'm out here modeling and building content. How
Speaker 1: did he misread it if you said while you're out here?
Speaker 1: Because I think that we were both d like I
Speaker 1: still read that text ten million times. You want it? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I want it because I can. We can we have
Speaker 1: Jared and Eastern guests this potential. I was on that
Speaker 1: original group text, so I know who it is. Can
Speaker 1: we have I'm gonna we're gonna have Jared. Guess is
Speaker 1: that okay? I mean there's an obvious name, Tyler C. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's that. I said. I'd be a little appointed because
Speaker 1: I was hoping. I think Tyler right now is just
Speaker 1: you know, he's out there, he's doing his thing, he's
Speaker 1: dating g G, he's dating all these girls. He's spotted
Speaker 1: with somebody else every other week. And I think when
Speaker 1: I first came across the name, I was like, I
Speaker 1: wonder if this could be not say it can't be something,
Speaker 1: but I think Tyler was the one name I was
Speaker 1: thinking of of, like I just hope it's somebody who's like,
Speaker 1: oh my. I think I was hoping it was somebody
Speaker 1: that I could be like, yes, like talk to him
Speaker 1: like you're you're going to marry this guy and then
Speaker 1: I just don't tell. I mean, I don't know, but
Speaker 1: of course what's been happening in you know, the press,
Speaker 1: and I've just like, I mean, we've all been reading it.
Speaker 1: It just seems like, you know, he's having fun and
Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong that he should like, do you think, bro, Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I think that it doesn't mean that he can't settle
Speaker 1: down and maybe, well, here's the thing, I'm actually not
Speaker 1: honestly genuinely just want to be his friend. I think
Speaker 1: that he's a little too dirty at this point for me,
Speaker 1: do you know. I don't know, but I would love
Speaker 1: for you to elaborate on that. You do know, too dirty?
Speaker 1: Like he's just kind of like got his hands in
Speaker 1: a couple of cookie jars, just like, uh, maybe a
Speaker 1: high count. Yeah, maybe just throwing it up. There's nothing
Speaker 1: wrong with the high count. Okay, there is a little
Speaker 1: bit something wrong with the high count. So Dean, what's
Speaker 1: your count? Okay? Yeah, that's whole another episode over under.
Speaker 1: We're not playing this game. I think you just said
Speaker 1: there's no big deal with it, so you should just
Speaker 1: have no shame in it. That. Okay, let's all go
Speaker 1: around the room and share our number. Then it's a
Speaker 1: big deal. So I'm out, is that because you're a lady. Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm saying that it's personal to me, but since it's not,
Speaker 1: so you're saying it's not personal to you. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: go ahead and plead the fifth on that one, and
Speaker 1: just I think we're all going to um it definitely is.
Speaker 1: So the text said where have you been? Tyler sent that,
Speaker 1: and then you said train and getting ready for volleyball. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's so the whole back and forth. And then that's
Speaker 1: when you said my future beach volleyball teammate, and that's
Speaker 1: when he said where have you been? And then you
Speaker 1: said training and getting ready for volleyball while Live been
Speaker 1: modeling in quotations and gaining followers in quotations and building
Speaker 1: in quotations content ha ha ha crying emoji phace, so
Speaker 1: so many quotations. I realized that now, Yeah, because literally
Speaker 1: says training and getting ready for volleyball while Live been
Speaker 1: modeling in gaining followers and building you're meant to be
Speaker 1: You've been, But it sounds if I read it like, oh,
Speaker 1: she meant to say I've been modeling followers. I totally
Speaker 1: love I've been gaining followers, creating content, and then to
Speaker 1: be sarcastic and be like, well, you've been doing the
Speaker 1: whole thing, but I was dropped. I get it now.
Speaker 1: And then he said you have been killing it Moji
Speaker 1: faces in like I forgot that there was more after this,
Speaker 1: and then do you want me to read it? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I don't care. And then I may have also been
Speaker 1: stuffing my face and drinks and French fries. As green
Speaker 1: Ball terribly loses Green Ball Green Ball, someone adds this
Speaker 1: list of the goals for dating, do not drunk texts. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's definitely a good thing to add in there no
Speaker 1: drunk text I think that's incredible. It sounds like you
Speaker 1: guys are off to a pretty good start in terms
Speaker 1: of a friendship already have a lot of inside jokes.
Speaker 1: Right good, that is good. Oh you're a hockamonity you
Speaker 1: got yeah, you got a Green Bay packer coming after
Speaker 1: Tyler like the Bachelor at contestant. But I will say
Speaker 1: you were like you were hoping it would be somebody
Speaker 1: in the Bachelor nation that you'd be like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: but is there anybody you would ever set me up
Speaker 1: with that you'd be like for sure. Um, I mean
Speaker 1: a lot of them are taken. The guys that I
Speaker 1: would like one is sitting right next to me. I
Speaker 1: would never. I don't think I would ever want someone
Speaker 1: to set me up with someone because I just would not. Also,
Speaker 1: bless your heart, but now, hey, you know, of course.
Speaker 1: But also Dean is the most one of the most endearing,
Speaker 1: sweetest people you ever met. You can all agree to that.
Speaker 1: I mean, sure you have commitment issues, yes, but you're
Speaker 1: I mean, come on, you wouldn't want him that I
Speaker 1: was like broke my leg getting out of the other day.
Speaker 1: Like Dean is the see the question always has asked,
Speaker 1: like would you let your sister date him? You let
Speaker 1: your sister date me? Yes, because I have faith that
Speaker 1: you would not do her wrong, which I think this
Speaker 1: is the most important thing. You say you guys would
Speaker 1: last forever. I don't know, but like I know that
Speaker 1: you wouldn't be treat her wrong. Thanks man, I appreciate
Speaker 1: that I wouldn't. I don't know. I think he would.
Speaker 1: I would make you would do something. You would take
Speaker 1: it a little too far from one of a point
Speaker 1: where she'd be like, I think this is a thing,
Speaker 1: and then you'd rip the rug underneath her, and then
Speaker 1: you'd be like, it just didn't work out. But I
Speaker 1: don't think do you know that spot on? No, at
Speaker 1: that point we would already be in a committed relationship. Yeah,
Speaker 1: my sarcasm sometimes goes to, like a pretty high level,
Speaker 1: what is a committed relationship to you? Monogamous? And yeah,
Speaker 1: that's that's basically the pinnacle of it for me. You
Speaker 1: don't have to answer this, but have you ever cheated
Speaker 1: on anybody? Yeah? But it was when I was back
Speaker 1: when I was younger and drinking heavily, And I think
Speaker 1: it's I see, I like that he was so honest
Speaker 1: with it so quickly, because I think that sure, when
Speaker 1: Dean was twenty two, maybe he would have done it.
Speaker 1: But Dean now, And that's my thing too, is as
Speaker 1: I've gotten older, I don't really drink anymore. But whenever
Speaker 1: I cheated twice in my life, and both times I
Speaker 1: was a blackout drunk, once when I was nineteen, once
Speaker 1: again when I was twenty three, And so it's like,
Speaker 1: once I elimited alcohol out of my life. You know,
Speaker 1: I would never say I had an alcohol problem. I
Speaker 1: think that, but once that was gone, Like, I don't
Speaker 1: really party anymore. Anything that's that's basically like a non
Speaker 1: factor at that point, you know, Tory. Let me also
Speaker 1: say not say I don't think Dean's gonna screw up
Speaker 1: many times. But I think at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: what you want most importantly is for them to treat
Speaker 1: each other well, right and to be honest, and I
Speaker 1: think Dean gives those qualities. I want to get back
Speaker 1: to the main point, though, who in vatulation you would
Speaker 1: set Tory up with? Um, I'm at single, he doesn't
Speaker 1: have anyone because I have two people. I think the
Speaker 1: pool is not that great. I think both Alex b
Speaker 1: from my season, the Russian who's Alex? Oh he's coming before.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying he's a great guy. You're just like,
Speaker 1: he's great looking, he's incredibly handsome, and he's an athlete,
Speaker 1: not a professional athlete, but he's like a crossfita. It's
Speaker 1: like when a CrossFit guy says he's an athlete, would
Speaker 1: go home. Peter Krauss also an athlete, he's an iron man.
Speaker 1: Two incredible guys. Those are my two. Those are my two,
Speaker 1: I would say. I mean, granted, the thing is it's
Speaker 1: hard to tell because some of them, like obviously Ben,
Speaker 1: but he's in a very committed, happy relationship he was
Speaker 1: if he was single, I would obviously I'd say I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't say in touch with them as much anymore.
Speaker 1: I'd say Sean Booth. I think that's a great pick.
Speaker 1: He's a very handsome man. I'd say Chris Stranberg, who's
Speaker 1: that dentist? Oh he has great teeth, great teeth. Uh,
Speaker 1: he's got his quirks, but he's a good man. Uh.
Speaker 1: Who else I'm trying to think of, Yeah, you see
Speaker 1: you guys? Can I just say though that if I
Speaker 1: were in my head, if I was like next to
Speaker 1: a guy the dating pool from the Bachelorette contestants or
Speaker 1: the female contestants from the show, you could set everyone
Speaker 1: up with. When you get to the guys, you're like,
Speaker 1: I have three for you. And this season, I mean,
Speaker 1: this has been on for like twenty years less than that,
Speaker 1: but it's like, what are Why are all the guys
Speaker 1: kind of crappy? And then the girls are all gems.
Speaker 1: I don't know if the girls are all gems. I
Speaker 1: don't know if that's necessarily the case. There is a
Speaker 1: I agree with you, there's a discrepancy between the quality
Speaker 1: of man and woman that go on the show. That
Speaker 1: and the women are typically a bit of a higher
Speaker 1: caliber um but that comes with its caveats, obviously. I
Speaker 1: agree with you. I think it all goes back to
Speaker 1: the type of people that would go on the show.
Speaker 1: I think a lot of girls go on The Bachelor
Speaker 1: because sure there's Instagram followers in fame, but they also
Speaker 1: probably want to believe in this fairy tale romantic ending
Speaker 1: for them where they can get that. I think guys
Speaker 1: maybe don't have that in mind when they go on
Speaker 1: the show. They're not thinking of this grand romantic experience
Speaker 1: that they get to have with this woman, where I
Speaker 1: think a lot of women going on the show, I
Speaker 1: think that interesting like the romance, the romance aspect of it,
Speaker 1: I don't think. And a lot of guys I think,
Speaker 1: are you know, they're they're in shape and good king yeah,
Speaker 1: and they're like whatever, whatever happens happens, and like, I
Speaker 1: hope I got on Paradise. I think that's more the
Speaker 1: mindset of a lot more not to not to put
Speaker 1: a blanket on everybody, but I say the majority of
Speaker 1: guys don't think about the romance where majority of the
Speaker 1: girls do interesting. I gotta say last night on the
Speaker 1: On the Bachelor to my early season faves went home
Speaker 1: Jasmine Sarah See. I think they were two of the
Speaker 1: prettiest girls there and they went home Jasmine. Okay, what
Speaker 1: I don't know? Okay, I wish I could help. Did
Speaker 1: you not watch? Yeah, I've been slacking this season. I
Speaker 1: will say I'm not a huge fan of the of
Speaker 1: the women. These seas seem a little caddy. No, it's
Speaker 1: just like, no one really stands out to me. And
Speaker 1: then I liked Madison and then she had her own
Speaker 1: fan account by her That's right, and uh, I like,
Speaker 1: and then Hannah and just kind of bothers me. I'm
Speaker 1: not saying that it's like I'm attacking other women. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying from what I'm i'm picturing with, like being
Speaker 1: with Peter, I can't really find a person that I
Speaker 1: can feel like hits that slot with it. It's interesting
Speaker 1: to see what happens. I'm ready for an older bachelor.
Speaker 1: I'm ready for an older bachelor again. Yeah, I'm ready
Speaker 1: for another like thirty five year old. Okay, I'm ready
Speaker 1: for it, and I want like thirty one two year
Speaker 1: old contestants Bachelor, whether it be bachelorette or a bachelor.
Speaker 1: You heard it here first, Jared's pulling for the geriatric bachelor. Yeah,
Speaker 1: something different. You know, if you could pick a bachelor
Speaker 1: to be back on again for like a redemption thousand percent, Nick,
Speaker 1: he's he's evolved so much. I would pay to watch
Speaker 1: that season. And now he's like, he's like one of
Speaker 1: my good friends. I would love to watch like one
Speaker 1: of my good friends to be the Bachelor. I can't
Speaker 1: tell you, guys are being sarcastic one of us. What
Speaker 1: do you think he would do differently this time? Do
Speaker 1: you think he genuinely was looking for someone? Yes, when
Speaker 1: he was on the Bachelor. Because he's going to hate
Speaker 1: me for saying this, Nick is thirty nine, he is
Speaker 1: he is ready? No, I mean that's first time he
Speaker 1: was one. I think he was as the Bachelor. You
Speaker 1: think he was saying. Here's the reason why I keep clarifying.
Speaker 1: He's been on a total of two bachelorettes, Bachelor in Paradise,
Speaker 1: became the Bachelor, and you're saying, now he's ready. He's
Speaker 1: very picky. I think he was ready before. I think
Speaker 1: he was too knowing Vanessa and Nick now, could you
Speaker 1: see that relationship because I can't. They're very headstrong people. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and so I think now Nick, I think also Nick
Speaker 1: is in a better place. I think when just like
Speaker 1: all of us, your ego gets inflated, and I think
Speaker 1: Nick now going through the entire experience, is a little
Speaker 1: bit more jaded, a little bit more self deprecating, a
Speaker 1: little bit more accepting, and I think self aware. I
Speaker 1: think he would be the most fascinating, engaging, interesting bachelor
Speaker 1: because he's already done it so many times. We're so
Speaker 1: invested in his story. He's still single. It's I and
Speaker 1: I like eve in uh um. Even his little appearance
Speaker 1: on hand of season in the Batchelor. If you remember
Speaker 1: he had that little one on one dinner scene with fans. Okay, yeah, sorry, sorry,
Speaker 1: Dean just made a bad face. Sorry, no, I was
Speaker 1: stretching in I overstretched my like sorry continued. Do you
Speaker 1: remember that one little scene he had where he had
Speaker 1: like interactions with fans. He was so good though, and
Speaker 1: he was so self deprecating and funny, and even Harrison
Speaker 1: walked in and was like, what happened to you? Man?
Speaker 1: And he's like a lot a lot Chris that you're
Speaker 1: talking about. When they were doing like The Bachelor Live right,
Speaker 1: it was like for hand of season they brought some
Speaker 1: former condesses back and one of the things was Nick
Speaker 1: came back. Yeah, he was being funny for like a
Speaker 1: five minute segment. Anyway, The point is I think it
Speaker 1: should be Nick. Uh. And I know people are gonna
Speaker 1: be like, you're ridiculous. I'm tired of Nick. No, you're not,
Speaker 1: just like people say they're tired of the Patriots. No
Speaker 1: that I would want to hear everybody's pitches on who
Speaker 1: if there could be a redemption story if they can't
Speaker 1: find a girl for this season. Well, redemption is different
Speaker 1: than pitting someone I think would be the best for
Speaker 1: the job. But no matter what you get in quote
Speaker 1: unquote men, So it's a redemption story being like, hey
Speaker 1: I didn't get chosen, this is my time. See I
Speaker 1: wouldn't say Nick's a redemption story. But whatever, we're parting words. Uh,
Speaker 1: so you want a girl? No? So I think it'd
Speaker 1: be interesting for our listeners to email us and saying
Speaker 1: who would they pick to be the next bachelorette that
Speaker 1: have been in the all past seasons, that they would
Speaker 1: want to see come back again and find love and
Speaker 1: as a bachelor, and that's single only or I guess
Speaker 1: if they're in relationships, why would we want them to
Speaker 1: find They've already found it. Right, So, if you're listening
Speaker 1: to this email us I second Dating at iHeart media
Speaker 1: dot com, we want to hear which of the single
Speaker 1: former Bachelor bachelorettes you think would make a good comeback
Speaker 1: and of the contestants, who you want to see most
Speaker 1: as bachelor? Right? Yeah, I think that would be interesting.
Speaker 1: I think it'd be really interesting before we go to
Speaker 1: break what are your answers? I mean, you said Nick
Speaker 1: for bachelor, what about you for bachelorette or Bachelor. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna hate myself for saying this, but I would kind
Speaker 1: of be intrigued with Derek Path. Hey, hey, thank because
Speaker 1: I actually had a lot of fun with him at
Speaker 1: the Almost Famous Live. Like you actually would be pretty good. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think Dark would be a great bachelor. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: like Derek. What about a girl bachelor? Right? Quickly? And
Speaker 1: Alice Oh coming from left field? Ah, you got any
Speaker 1: win tour? Easton, Easton? You're smiling over there, bachelor bachelor? Right.
Speaker 1: Chris Evans is bachelor. Oh, Chris Evans, he's single. If
Speaker 1: we're going into the realm up, if we're going in
Speaker 1: the realm of anyone possible Jelly from the Circle? Have
Speaker 1: you guys seen that show? He should be the bachelor.
Speaker 1: I want Chris Evans to be the bachelor so I
Speaker 1: can be best friends with him. Now. Uh so before
Speaker 1: so we're gonna go on a break. She's that you
Speaker 1: think you just become best friends with over the next
Speaker 1: bachelor's going to be Uh, well, you're you're not best
Speaker 1: friends with Peter. No. But again, I at least have
Speaker 1: the opportunity. I know people that know people. I know
Speaker 1: nobody that knows that Chris Evans right now, I understand
Speaker 1: he gives me a shot, gives me a shot, I
Speaker 1: understands a separation. Now we're gonna answer some of suck
Speaker 1: armies questions emails. But before we do that, we're gonna
Speaker 1: take a quick break. All right, So we got an
Speaker 1: email from anonymous. They emailed, I suck at dating at
Speaker 1: I heeart media this question, how can I kindly tell
Speaker 1: my significant other that they may want to start being healthier.
Speaker 1: I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year now,
Speaker 1: I love him so much. But since we've graduated college,
Speaker 1: he's gained a good bit of weight and doesn't exercise
Speaker 1: when we eat out a lot. Health and fitness have
Speaker 1: always been very important to me. I live in a
Speaker 1: very healthy world and environment. How can I get him
Speaker 1: to start getting back on track? This is from anonymous
Speaker 1: and the email us at I Suck at Dating at
Speaker 1: i heeart media dot com. Jared, what do you think
Speaker 1: I would encourage them to start working out? By you
Speaker 1: start working out? So she says she's already or they
Speaker 1: say that they already, So maybe be like, Hey, I'm
Speaker 1: going to the gym, make me like I want to go,
Speaker 1: like I want you to come with me. It's tricky
Speaker 1: to navigate that because by saying but if you make
Speaker 1: it too obvious, you make it sound like you don't
Speaker 1: appreciate them for what, for who they are in terms
Speaker 1: of like their body or whatever, they're healthy or unhealthy decisions,
Speaker 1: And that could be a slippery slope. It's such a
Speaker 1: fine line though, because I don't know. It's just like
Speaker 1: physical attraction is a thing, yea. And so if you're
Speaker 1: significant other who you love more than anything and you're
Speaker 1: gonna be with is putting on weight and they're becoming unhealthy,
Speaker 1: and you want them to lose weight for both their
Speaker 1: health and appearance. Like how do you balance that? I
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know whither. This situation is almost
Speaker 1: the foot PLoP for me and my relationship with Kalen.
Speaker 1: I have been living in a healthy lifestyle and not
Speaker 1: working out and been getting a little soft around the
Speaker 1: center area and the arms, all that kind of stuff.
Speaker 1: He's a broken life, and I keep looking well, even yeah,
Speaker 1: you're right, but even before this, I like wasn't really
Speaker 1: happy with my physical appearance, and I kept like looking
Speaker 1: at myself in the mirror, like with her in the
Speaker 1: him and looking at myself and be like, I'm so
Speaker 1: out of shape. I don't I'm not proud of like
Speaker 1: what what I look like now. And she would be like, oh, baby,
Speaker 1: you're perfect, you look great. You like I'm I've never
Speaker 1: been more attracted to you in my life. And so
Speaker 1: she's not like motivating me to go to the gym
Speaker 1: because she's I'm like, okay, cool, Like she still thinks
Speaker 1: I'm hot even though I' getting a little puggy, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. So it's kind of had like
Speaker 1: a reverse effect or I'm like, God, I can get
Speaker 1: away with a little bit longer, get away with a
Speaker 1: little bit longer. But I agree with what you said.
Speaker 1: I think if you want him to work out more,
Speaker 1: you should bring him and invite him with you to
Speaker 1: the gym. It sounds like eating out might be an
Speaker 1: issue as well, so maybe like prepare some healthy meals.
Speaker 1: Maybe you guys could do that together too. That'd be
Speaker 1: a good like a couple's building exercise, and then you
Speaker 1: guys could just eat healthier via that root as well.
Speaker 1: It's but like I said, it's a slippery slope. I
Speaker 1: think that you should be careful um and don't make
Speaker 1: it too obvious that you think he's getting a little fat.
Speaker 1: Can I just say though? The double standard it like
Speaker 1: as a woman, if a guy were to kind of come,
Speaker 1: I get the whole health issue thing, but like, you
Speaker 1: can't interpret that any other way besides being defensive right
Speaker 1: off the bat. So I think expecting it to just
Speaker 1: be not great in the beginning and then just really
Speaker 1: coming along, maybe challenge and be like I bet you
Speaker 1: could do more push ups than you and you'd be like, no,
Speaker 1: you can't, and then they both do fifty push ups. Boom,
Speaker 1: He's already on this track again every day after the
Speaker 1: next year. I feel like you just have to be
Speaker 1: really honest in the situation of how you're feeling, rather
Speaker 1: than trying to be like scheming about it. I think
Speaker 1: you need to be like, hey, I would really love
Speaker 1: for us to step up os and like become like
Speaker 1: become paleo. Um, let's do a whole thirty let's do
Speaker 1: something like I really want that, and I'm feeling I'm
Speaker 1: not meeting my expectations. Will you come alongside me and
Speaker 1: help me. I don't think it's it's scheming to do
Speaker 1: any of those things. And what you just said kind
Speaker 1: of was scheming because she she does live on my style,
Speaker 1: so she wants to be continue that and you can't
Speaker 1: continue that on your own. If you were a nutritionist
Speaker 1: and you were married to um, maybe like or dating
Speaker 1: somebody who was worked in fast food, like that would
Speaker 1: just naturally just be a little bit harder for you.
Speaker 1: You'd be like, oh, it's here, it's convenient, it's whatever,
Speaker 1: it's sent home like you kind of you'd have to
Speaker 1: really hold each other accountable to be like, hey, it's
Speaker 1: me to succeed. I need you to kind of meet me.
Speaker 1: Are we kind of saying the same thing though, Yes,
Speaker 1: you want to include him, push up conversation like competition,
Speaker 1: but it's like, I know, but you just have to
Speaker 1: like be really honest. But like making about you mean
Speaker 1: like I need to be better and I need you
Speaker 1: to come alongside me and hold me account. That's basically
Speaker 1: exactly what share it said. I just feel like it
Speaker 1: it wasn't and I don't know why I heard it
Speaker 1: differently than I think. That's I think I brought a
Speaker 1: little bit more sensitivity to it. I'm not saying that's right, okay,
Speaker 1: but we all have a lack of sensitivity. And I
Speaker 1: brought a little bit of humor to it, which also
Speaker 1: you lack. So that's okay. So there you go. I
Speaker 1: think you have your answer. Don't forget to email us,
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Speaker 1: also on the help I Suck at Dating Instagram. Jared
Speaker 1: put up some questions that we want to answer as well. Yes,
Speaker 1: I put up some questions. If anybody had us uh oh, oh,
Speaker 1: never mind, we are not doing one quick question. Come on, alright,
Speaker 1: one cool question. Okay, here we go. How do you
Speaker 1: know when a guy likes you? And what is the
Speaker 1: best way to flirt? That's a kind of a long answer.
Speaker 1: I don't know if we have time for that. Sorry,
Speaker 1: it was the first one I saw that was funny.
Speaker 1: Uh oh, you know when you know, not when you know.
Speaker 1: I just think you should just always be yourself and
Speaker 1: if if he likes you for that, that's all you
Speaker 1: need to listen to your gut. You shouldn't really like
Speaker 1: have someone flirt for you, because then they're not liking
Speaker 1: you for you. That'll do it for this week's episode.
Speaker 1: I wish we could answer more Instagram questions. Next week
Speaker 1: we'll do more questions more emails because we didn't get
Speaker 1: around to it this week. I was a little late
Speaker 1: to the studio today. I take responsibility for that. I'm
Speaker 1: on crutches, I've got a broken leg, and I'm taking
Speaker 1: around an eleven year old foster dog with me, So
Speaker 1: I think I deserve a little bit of slack for that. No,
Speaker 1: I blame you anyways. Big thank you to you guys
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