WEBVTT - Alberto: Our “Soltero Dorado” Saddles Up 0:00:05.120 --> 0:00:05.640 Ailita. 0:00:05.800 --> 0:00:07.680 I know that sometimes we joke on the show that 0:00:07.720 --> 0:00:11.560 we need to find you husband, Numeto says number six. 0:00:11.680 --> 0:00:14.320 I know, but today that. 0:00:14.440 --> 0:00:19.240 Actually might be possible because we have our very first 0:00:19.280 --> 0:00:20.960 episode featuring. 0:00:22.760 --> 0:00:25.799 Oh my god, I heard that he is quite the 0:00:25.840 --> 0:00:26.480 cats right. 0:00:26.680 --> 0:00:28.200 Oh yeah, absolutely, but. 0:00:28.240 --> 0:00:34.640 You know what, I know him, but I know him well. 0:00:34.720 --> 0:00:37.320 I think we'll be able to keep the focus on him, 0:00:37.360 --> 0:00:38.400 hopefully I have. 0:00:39.800 --> 0:00:41.080 So why don't we get started? 0:00:41.200 --> 0:00:45.720 Yes, absolutely, welcome listeners. This is Date my A Alita. First, 0:00:45.760 --> 0:00:50.520 we're our cy Cupid Alita. Liliana plays matchmaker for one 0:00:50.680 --> 0:00:55.600 hopeful main dater. She's gonna meet three lucky contestants before 0:00:55.600 --> 0:00:57.319 sending one of them off on a one on one 0:00:57.400 --> 0:01:00.360 date with her beautiful main dater. I am your host, 0:01:00.680 --> 0:01:06.479 Vico ortis joined by our ever glowing Auelita Lileana Montene. 0:01:07.520 --> 0:01:09.320 Ya ya ya Yola, Mivico. 0:01:09.760 --> 0:01:12.280 I'm so glad we're finally getting the chance to find 0:01:12.280 --> 0:01:14.240 love for someone right. 0:01:14.080 --> 0:01:15.160 Around my age. 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:16.360 I know, I'm so excited. 0:01:16.640 --> 0:01:18.840 You know, it is very important to have love at 0:01:18.880 --> 0:01:23.280 all ages, and getting older is absolutely no exception. So 0:01:23.560 --> 0:01:26.240 just talk a little bit more about our beautiful hands 0:01:26.280 --> 0:01:27.800 on Soltero Dorado today. 0:01:28.720 --> 0:01:34.280 Our Soltero Dorado this week is Alberto. Alberto is sixty 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:39.440 six years young and is quite the nostalgic man, especially 0:01:39.480 --> 0:01:40.280 for his family. 0:01:40.360 --> 0:01:41.560 Christmas is growing up. 0:01:42.440 --> 0:01:42.800 I know. 0:01:43.600 --> 0:01:46.920 Alberto describes himself as living in the present. 0:01:47.080 --> 0:01:49.720 I love that and likes to make people laugh. 0:01:49.960 --> 0:01:53.880 Yes, he likes sell some music and classic seventies music. 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:56.920 He is a working actor who also loves working with 0:01:57.000 --> 0:02:02.080 his hands around the house. I mean, what, but seriously, 0:02:02.440 --> 0:02:05.840 Alberta ones a partner with whom he has a mental connection, 0:02:06.440 --> 0:02:09.200 and he believes in the importance of accepting other people 0:02:09.280 --> 0:02:14.320 exactly as they are. Yes, Alberta was a self confessed 0:02:14.520 --> 0:02:18.400 playboy when he was younger and had a tool belt 0:02:18.520 --> 0:02:20.160 for bad pickup lines. 0:02:20.240 --> 0:02:22.480 I think we need to hear some of those. Yes, 0:02:22.560 --> 0:02:24.880 we will, we will. Alberto is ready. 0:02:24.600 --> 0:02:27.800 For our relationship after being married for twenty three years 0:02:27.840 --> 0:02:30.799 and dating for four years. So let's see if a 0:02:30.880 --> 0:02:33.320 Willita is gonna find a match. 0:02:33.680 --> 0:02:37.400 I am going to do my absolute best, Alberto, because 0:02:37.560 --> 0:02:39.160 you are the total package, my love. 0:02:39.240 --> 0:02:41.359 I was gonna say, what's up with you two? 0:02:41.680 --> 0:02:43.960 He's been a very good friend for many years. I've 0:02:44.000 --> 0:02:46.680 always called my Alberta good. 0:02:46.800 --> 0:02:47.640 Good, bring him in. 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:50.440 Sure, come on in, Alberta, join us. 0:02:50.800 --> 0:02:54.640 Comus, Dan, How are you moment? 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:58.480 Everything you said about their all lies good? I was 0:02:58.760 --> 0:03:00.480 to Little Saint when I was younger. 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:03.079 True, sure, su sure, it's all good. We've all been there, 0:03:03.120 --> 0:03:03.560 done that. 0:03:03.639 --> 0:03:05.480 I feel like when I'm in my sixties, I'm also 0:03:05.480 --> 0:03:07.240 going to be like listen, I went through I call 0:03:07.280 --> 0:03:08.240 it my fuck boy era. 0:03:08.520 --> 0:03:11.639 So we do know that word, don't we. 0:03:11.720 --> 0:03:12.200 Alberto? 0:03:12.520 --> 0:03:15.160 Oh yeah, I mean I was a youngster, That's all 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:15.799 I can say. 0:03:15.880 --> 0:03:17.080 You became a ladies man. 0:03:17.639 --> 0:03:18.720 Yeah, you can say that. 0:03:18.840 --> 0:03:21.440 So you remember back in the seventies they were and 0:03:21.480 --> 0:03:24.240 this is what I did. Also, we'd go to all 0:03:24.280 --> 0:03:26.920 the Latin clubs that Hollywood had at the time, and 0:03:26.960 --> 0:03:29.720 they were just about corner to corner, from the Peruvian 0:03:29.800 --> 0:03:32.320 Room to Yamadadas to Candy Lejas. 0:03:32.520 --> 0:03:34.560 You mentioned those nation I got chilled. 0:03:35.800 --> 0:03:36.760 Oh my gosh. 0:03:36.800 --> 0:03:39.240 As a matter of fact, you mentioned the room. I 0:03:39.360 --> 0:03:41.960 was a DJ at the Peruvian Oh my gosh. So 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:44.840 you can imagine what the girls would do with the DJ. 0:03:45.040 --> 0:03:46.520 I mean, the DJ was the. 0:03:46.600 --> 0:03:47.560 Man, Alberto. 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:51.720 I do remember many DJs, and I frequented the Peruvian 0:03:51.800 --> 0:03:52.880 Room a lot. 0:03:53.640 --> 0:03:56.960 I am truly surprised that both of you have not 0:03:57.160 --> 0:03:59.240 been together A truly. 0:04:00.400 --> 0:04:01.480 Looking for some nails. 0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:04.520 You know, maybe it was a one night standing with 0:04:04.560 --> 0:04:05.840 Eleana and we don't remember. 0:04:06.400 --> 0:04:09.440 Honestly, you know that, I sy I am that is 0:04:09.480 --> 0:04:10.400 a possibility. 0:04:10.600 --> 0:04:14.040 There were a lot of well furnished vans back in 0:04:14.080 --> 0:04:18.159 the time. Do you remember that, Yeah, customized customize vans. 0:04:18.240 --> 0:04:18.880 Yes they were. 0:04:18.960 --> 0:04:22.520 There was a bar, a bed, Oh my god. It 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:24.080 was like, yeah, we had fun. 0:04:24.680 --> 0:04:27.680 Wow, this truly is incredible, honestly, I mean, I know 0:04:27.720 --> 0:04:29.600 that we have three contestants for you though, but I'm 0:04:29.680 --> 0:04:32.440 kind of just like vuying for Aura at this point. Anyway, 0:04:32.720 --> 0:04:35.080 what should Alwalita and I know about you in this 0:04:35.120 --> 0:04:36.200 precise moment in your life? 0:04:36.240 --> 0:04:37.680 And what do you have capacity for? 0:04:37.839 --> 0:04:41.680 What do you want being an intellectual? Something I can click? Chemistry, 0:04:42.440 --> 0:04:43.360 good communicator? 0:04:43.720 --> 0:04:46.159 How do you communicate if there's something that bothers you? 0:04:46.200 --> 0:04:48.320 How do you communicate so that your needs get met? 0:04:48.680 --> 0:04:50.800 Just to the point, you know what, I don't like this, 0:04:50.920 --> 0:04:53.120 So I don't like that. What can we do to 0:04:53.200 --> 0:04:55.839 change it? Or can we improve on whatever we did 0:04:56.440 --> 0:04:56.800 with that? 0:04:56.920 --> 0:04:59.839 What's your perspective around conflict? You know when sometimes like 0:04:59.839 --> 0:05:01.640 you have a need and your other person has a 0:05:01.680 --> 0:05:03.400 need and you're kind of having a little bit of friction, 0:05:03.520 --> 0:05:06.440 how do you normally maneuver or how do you handle conflict? 0:05:06.680 --> 0:05:08.800 You have to compromise. Either we do this or we 0:05:08.920 --> 0:05:12.400 do that. Okay, now what's more important this or that? 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:15.479 And then you have to balance it out. Either maybe 0:05:15.520 --> 0:05:17.800 you can do both or you can do one. One 0:05:17.839 --> 0:05:18.840 thing has to be done. 0:05:19.040 --> 0:05:21.000 You've been eating for four years and you're married for 0:05:21.080 --> 0:05:21.760 twenty three. 0:05:22.080 --> 0:05:23.560 What are some things that you're like, I don't want 0:05:23.560 --> 0:05:25.280 to do that again, and what are some things that like, Oh, 0:05:25.320 --> 0:05:26.920 I really love that I want to keep that. 0:05:27.480 --> 0:05:31.799 When I got married, my theme song was called honesty 0:05:32.279 --> 0:05:36.320 by Billy Joel. That was the primary thing that I 0:05:36.440 --> 0:05:40.480 was looking in my relationship through my marriage, and that 0:05:40.520 --> 0:05:44.760 got lost eventually, so you know, and that song still 0:05:44.800 --> 0:05:48.279 reminded me that whoever comes along, that has to be 0:05:48.320 --> 0:05:50.000 the primary thing, honesty. 0:05:50.360 --> 0:05:52.560 Let me ask you one thing. Let's say that the 0:05:52.800 --> 0:05:55.200 lady you're going to meet is sitting right next to me, 0:05:55.440 --> 0:05:57.839 tell her what is the biggest quality you bring into 0:05:57.880 --> 0:05:58.800 your relationship. 0:05:59.320 --> 0:06:02.520 I'm ver, very respectful, I'm well mannered, I'm a guy 0:06:02.560 --> 0:06:04.640 that opens the door and the car door for the lady. 0:06:04.720 --> 0:06:07.280 I'm a guy that pulls the seed so she can 0:06:07.279 --> 0:06:09.360 sit at the table. I was taught by my dad, 0:06:09.720 --> 0:06:12.200 you always very respectful to women. One of the things 0:06:12.200 --> 0:06:14.479 that he told me once she goes, you never touch 0:06:14.520 --> 0:06:20.760 a woman, not even with a roast. So you know, 0:06:20.839 --> 0:06:22.160 those are the things that he taught me. 0:06:22.360 --> 0:06:24.760 You're so adorable a little bit though, pardon me if 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:28.160 I'm like overstepping with this question, because you mentioned honesty 0:06:28.279 --> 0:06:29.080 quite a few times. 0:06:29.360 --> 0:06:31.080 Have you been cheated on? Is that something that has 0:06:31.120 --> 0:06:32.760 happened where your trust was broken? 0:06:33.920 --> 0:06:37.880 Yes. I dated several women when I was young, and 0:06:38.360 --> 0:06:42.600 actually one which I was very fond of, her brother 0:06:43.040 --> 0:06:44.839 through under the bus. 0:06:44.920 --> 0:06:45.440 Oh wow. 0:06:45.680 --> 0:06:47.800 We were going to a party and I called her 0:06:47.839 --> 0:06:50.719 and she goes, oh, I can't, Oh, I'm so sick. 0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:53.000 So I went to actually pick up her brother. I 0:06:53.040 --> 0:06:55.839 picked up her brother and we're at the party and 0:06:55.880 --> 0:06:59.400 then he goes, I gotta tell you this, but my 0:06:59.520 --> 0:07:01.880 sister she wished she was because she was going out 0:07:01.880 --> 0:07:02.440 with someone else. 0:07:02.480 --> 0:07:02.960 No dang. 0:07:03.560 --> 0:07:07.040 So that's one of the most memorable ones. Now in 0:07:07.080 --> 0:07:10.960 my marriage throughout the years, I ended up being cheated. 0:07:11.040 --> 0:07:15.040 Ut So going back to when I was dating, to 0:07:15.120 --> 0:07:17.560 when I got married, and still the same word ups up. 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:23.200 Honestly, Listen, as a culture, we carry this honesty trust 0:07:23.600 --> 0:07:27.320 baggage already. You know the way that we were raised, 0:07:27.360 --> 0:07:31.000 what we saw with our families. So today we're going 0:07:31.080 --> 0:07:33.280 to kind of just leave all that in the little 0:07:33.320 --> 0:07:36.640 box behind us, and we're going to open up our 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:37.880 hearts and open up. 0:07:37.800 --> 0:07:41.400 Our minds and give love a chance. 0:07:42.080 --> 0:07:44.560 You love song just like so let's give this the 0:07:44.600 --> 0:07:49.160 opportunity to bring someone wonderful in your life, even if. 0:07:49.040 --> 0:07:50.720 From the beginning sometimes we have to. 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:53.600 Compromise a little bit to find happiness at the end. 0:07:54.240 --> 0:07:58.360 Okay, sounds good, I agree, Okay. 0:07:58.200 --> 0:08:00.600 Better I think with that, Lenna and I are ready 0:08:00.600 --> 0:08:03.200 to find a few for you. 0:08:04.000 --> 0:08:07.720 So let's meet our contestants, shall we. We'll be back 0:08:07.840 --> 0:08:08.600 after the break. 0:08:11.840 --> 0:08:14.720 Welcome back today, Mayawani the first. 0:08:16.720 --> 0:08:23.480 Hello, Hello, Hello, welcome contest Tom. Thank you all for 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:27.240 joining us today. We have a lovely group of people, 0:08:27.720 --> 0:08:28.720 so let's. 0:08:28.520 --> 0:08:30.160 Start with Lily. 0:08:31.120 --> 0:08:36.240 Lily is a Bay Area based writer and researcher who 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:38.559 focuses on sustainable architecture. 0:08:38.679 --> 0:08:41.640 Oh my gosh, that's hot. She has a young soul 0:08:41.760 --> 0:08:44.880 and is happiest spending time with her twelve year old son. 0:08:45.040 --> 0:08:47.760 I love that Lily is looking for a man who 0:08:47.760 --> 0:08:50.960 can add to her very full life. Yes, she wants 0:08:51.000 --> 0:08:54.640 a relationship that is both flexible and committed. Oh, I 0:08:54.720 --> 0:08:58.079 love Lily is looking for someone who is curious and funny, 0:08:58.160 --> 0:08:59.880 who doesn't take themselves. 0:08:59.400 --> 0:09:02.680 To see you. We are so happy to have you, Lily. 0:09:02.840 --> 0:09:06.200 Hello, that sounded so good. Thank you for having me. 0:09:06.880 --> 0:09:07.200 Hello. 0:09:08.320 --> 0:09:12.080 Yes, another Lily, Well, so happy to have you here. 0:09:12.280 --> 0:09:15.480 Welcome Lily. Now, who's our next special some will all right? 0:09:15.520 --> 0:09:17.760 Our next special someone is Rula. 0:09:18.280 --> 0:09:23.560 Rulo is a visual artiste who communicates her love through 0:09:23.640 --> 0:09:26.720 acts of service, like a home cooked meal. She loves 0:09:26.760 --> 0:09:29.760 her alone time and takes a long bats and walks 0:09:29.760 --> 0:09:31.000 around her apartment naked. 0:09:31.040 --> 0:09:31.920 Oh my gosh, me too. 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:32.480 Three. 0:09:32.760 --> 0:09:35.640 Rula worries that folks are getting too cynical about love, 0:09:35.800 --> 0:09:38.760 but she believes it's the only thing that actually saves us. 0:09:38.800 --> 0:09:42.480 So yeah, you're definitely in the right podcast. Thank you, Rula, Hello. 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:45.080 Thank you hello, Thanks for having me. 0:09:45.480 --> 0:09:49.000 Oh, welcome, welcome, And finally we have oh, and finally 0:09:49.040 --> 0:09:51.000 we have Brenda. 0:09:51.200 --> 0:09:57.079 Brenda teaches various movement classes at UCLA and is passionate 0:09:57.120 --> 0:10:00.800 about having a holistic approach to wellness and side and out. 0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:03.120 Yes, Queen Brenda is. 0:10:03.120 --> 0:10:06.439 A long term relationship person and since her last relationship, 0:10:06.480 --> 0:10:08.800 has been taking time to work on herself and get 0:10:08.800 --> 0:10:10.120 comfortable with being alone. 0:10:10.520 --> 0:10:11.199 If I get that. 0:10:11.280 --> 0:10:15.559 Deeplyase, she is taking the task of being with herself seriously. 0:10:15.920 --> 0:10:19.160 She's ad a residency in the Dominican Republic teaching yoga 0:10:19.200 --> 0:10:23.240 and spent Christmas and New Year's with complete strangers exploring 0:10:23.760 --> 0:10:24.240 maybe we. 0:10:24.200 --> 0:10:27.280 Can find Brenda. That's special companion today. Welcome Brenda. 0:10:28.480 --> 0:10:31.080 I am ready for our companion. I'm ready for life. 0:10:31.240 --> 0:10:32.960 Yes, incredible. 0:10:34.679 --> 0:10:35.880 Why don't we play some games? 0:10:37.040 --> 0:10:38.319 So we are going to. 0:10:38.240 --> 0:10:41.280 Get to know you a little bit better with the 0:10:41.320 --> 0:10:45.000 first game of never Have I Ever? 0:10:46.080 --> 0:10:46.440 Listen. 0:10:46.520 --> 0:10:51.280 It's a classic for a reason. So here's how we're 0:10:51.280 --> 0:10:54.679 gonna play. We're gonna list out something like this, never 0:10:54.720 --> 0:10:57.760 have I ever been on a blind date? And if 0:10:57.800 --> 0:11:00.520 you have been on a blind date, you're going to 0:11:00.600 --> 0:11:03.200 respond by telling us the story of what happened. 0:11:03.600 --> 0:11:06.720 Make them juicy, ladies, make them real juicy. 0:11:07.000 --> 0:11:12.000 The first example is never have I ever ditched a 0:11:12.120 --> 0:11:14.360 date in the middle of the date. 0:11:14.880 --> 0:11:18.200 Oh, my gosh, Lily jumping in Lily, what's your story? 0:11:18.240 --> 0:11:19.760 What happened? What did you have to leave in the 0:11:19.760 --> 0:11:20.440 middle of the date. 0:11:21.559 --> 0:11:22.920 This was a while ago. 0:11:23.200 --> 0:11:26.480 I was at a restaurant with the most obnoxious guy 0:11:26.880 --> 0:11:29.160 who was saying things to me that were making me 0:11:29.200 --> 0:11:32.720 so angry that I excuse myself to go to the bathroom. 0:11:33.080 --> 0:11:34.920 Called my friend who lived up to the street, just 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:36.760 to make sure she was home. I said, I'm coming over, 0:11:37.360 --> 0:11:39.520 and I walked right past him and out of the restaurant. 0:11:39.679 --> 0:11:42.320 What was he saying to you? Can you share? 0:11:42.720 --> 0:11:45.640 I used to work at Nashville Geographic, a pretty well 0:11:45.679 --> 0:11:47.120 known magazine. 0:11:46.679 --> 0:11:47.960 Absolutely super well known. 0:11:48.000 --> 0:11:50.160 My gosh, I was sharing my expertise. 0:11:50.640 --> 0:11:52.320 I hadn't worked there in a few years, and he 0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:55.080 was working at a different magazine and he said something like, 0:11:55.480 --> 0:11:57.880 I think it's really interesting how you're talking about something 0:11:57.880 --> 0:12:01.080 when you really don't know what you're talking about. And 0:12:01.120 --> 0:12:04.679 I just looked at him like, huh, excuse. 0:12:04.280 --> 0:12:06.600 Me, Oh no, I love you. 0:12:06.640 --> 0:12:10.480 Walked right past him, was like, bye, Brenda, what's your story. 0:12:11.120 --> 0:12:13.640 Recently, I went on a first date. It was a 0:12:13.679 --> 0:12:16.400 Mexican restaurant. It was at five o'clock. So I was like, okay, 0:12:16.559 --> 0:12:18.800 he wants to do happy hours. So we meet and 0:12:19.040 --> 0:12:22.520 I get there and he's already got like four drinks 0:12:22.520 --> 0:12:25.880 in a bar and he's waiting for me, and he's 0:12:25.960 --> 0:12:28.880 like off his rock or off the chair, already didn't 0:12:29.080 --> 0:12:32.040 offer to order any food. And the bartender comes up 0:12:32.040 --> 0:12:34.600 and it's like it's two for one for another hour. 0:12:34.640 --> 0:12:36.880 And I'm like, well, I'm not that big of a drinker. 0:12:36.960 --> 0:12:38.880 I said, I won't drink too and he's like, well, 0:12:38.920 --> 0:12:40.400 I'll get two and you get two and. 0:12:40.360 --> 0:12:42.560 I'll have your other one. And I was like, this 0:12:42.600 --> 0:12:44.400 is too much for me. This is the first time 0:12:44.440 --> 0:12:47.240 I met him within ten minutes, and so I was like, oh, 0:12:47.280 --> 0:12:49.839 it was really nice to meet you. I don't think 0:12:49.840 --> 0:12:51.880 this is going to work out. And I booked out other. 0:12:53.200 --> 0:12:55.959 I mean, at least wait till i'm there before you indulge. 0:12:56.160 --> 0:12:58.040 Like, yeah, how disrespectful. 0:12:58.200 --> 0:12:59.880 I have another one. It's a little ball. 0:13:00.320 --> 0:13:01.439 Go for it. We're very vulgar. 0:13:01.480 --> 0:13:02.120 Here, go for it. 0:13:02.480 --> 0:13:02.720 Okay. 0:13:02.760 --> 0:13:05.200 So I went on another date and we met her 0:13:05.360 --> 0:13:08.280 drink and the guy walked to the place and it 0:13:08.360 --> 0:13:10.280 was freezing and so I offered to give him a 0:13:10.360 --> 0:13:12.719 ride home because he lived pretty close, and he's like, oh, 0:13:12.720 --> 0:13:13.640 do you want to come up? 0:13:13.880 --> 0:13:15.640 We don't met an hour ago. 0:13:15.840 --> 0:13:17.920 And I'm like, yeah, but I'm just going to be clear, 0:13:18.000 --> 0:13:20.160 like I'll be happy to come up and you know, 0:13:20.240 --> 0:13:22.520 have a drink with you. But this is strictly platonic 0:13:22.679 --> 0:13:25.120 on the first date. And so I go up into 0:13:25.160 --> 0:13:27.120 his apartment, I say, can I use your bathroom? And 0:13:27.160 --> 0:13:29.679 I come out and he's like on the couch and 0:13:29.720 --> 0:13:31.239 he's masturbating. 0:13:31.320 --> 0:13:32.120 Oh my god. 0:13:32.760 --> 0:13:34.080 He's like you could just watch. 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:39.240 And I was like, good luck for your new apartment. 0:13:39.400 --> 0:13:40.520 I'm out of here. 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:42.520 This is around. 0:13:42.200 --> 0:13:46.679 No, I never have my ever I am scandalized, Well, 0:13:46.720 --> 0:13:47.680 we have another one here? 0:13:47.880 --> 0:13:53.160 Yes, yes, yes, So never have I ever accidentally excitedly 0:13:53.880 --> 0:13:58.160 greeted as stranger who I thought was someone I knew. 0:13:58.360 --> 0:13:59.719 Oh yeah, Lily is ready for it. 0:14:00.320 --> 0:14:01.760 It just happened to me the other night. 0:14:01.800 --> 0:14:03.840 I mean, this is not like sexy story, but I 0:14:03.880 --> 0:14:06.560 went to a fundraiser for my high school and I 0:14:06.640 --> 0:14:08.679 just assumed the woman greeting me was a woman I'd 0:14:08.720 --> 0:14:11.560 been talking to on the phone, and at first she acted. 0:14:11.400 --> 0:14:13.000 Like she knew me. Too, and then she said have 0:14:13.120 --> 0:14:16.240 we met? And like, I don't know, how we do 0:14:16.320 --> 0:14:20.440 you think I'm Hannah? I was like maybe, oh notheless. 0:14:21.080 --> 0:14:23.480 What about to Brenda? You said you also have done this? 0:14:24.000 --> 0:14:24.320 Yeah. 0:14:24.440 --> 0:14:26.720 I mean when you said this, the first thing that 0:14:26.800 --> 0:14:29.120 popped around mind. I'll never forget it. I was a 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:32.600 younger kid and I was coming out of the store 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:34.120 and I actually jumped. 0:14:33.760 --> 0:14:39.080 In a car thinking it was my father, and. 0:14:39.160 --> 0:14:41.280 I jumped in the vac seed I had groceries and 0:14:41.320 --> 0:14:43.640 I was like, okay, let's go, and then they turned around. 0:14:43.640 --> 0:14:45.760 I was like, oh, wrong car. 0:14:46.240 --> 0:14:47.000 Oh my god. 0:14:47.680 --> 0:14:50.520 That was probably the biggest reminder of thinking you know 0:14:50.600 --> 0:14:53.320 somebody and you don't and it was my dad. 0:14:53.600 --> 0:14:56.320 Oh my god, what about you? Roula. 0:14:56.480 --> 0:14:58.680 I haven't done that, but it's been done to me 0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:02.520 a couple I'm like, oh hey, and. 0:15:02.480 --> 0:15:05.320 I'm like uh, and usually you know, I'll go with it, 0:15:05.520 --> 0:15:05.680 you know. 0:15:05.760 --> 0:15:07.840 Both times I like hugged them and I was like, 0:15:07.880 --> 0:15:08.600 I'm sorry, I'm not. 0:15:10.520 --> 0:15:14.600 I am obsessed with these stories. Oh my gosh, do 0:15:14.680 --> 0:15:15.360 we have anymore? 0:15:15.440 --> 0:15:16.880 Yes, we have one final one. 0:15:17.280 --> 0:15:20.840 Never have I ever had a crush on someone I 0:15:20.880 --> 0:15:24.920 shouldn't have had a crush on, Lily shut us off 0:15:24.920 --> 0:15:27.040 because you're like yeah immediately, like, nah, who hasn't. 0:15:27.440 --> 0:15:31.840 In high school my sister's boyfriend breaking up and I 0:15:31.880 --> 0:15:36.160 ended up dating them, but not you know. 0:15:34.800 --> 0:15:36.320 How did your sister feel about it? 0:15:36.680 --> 0:15:43.600 She didn't necessarily know so much spicy go to college. 0:15:44.080 --> 0:15:47.440 So good, Lily, this is spicy. I love it so much. 0:15:47.560 --> 0:15:48.640 Did you find out? 0:15:49.560 --> 0:15:50.160 I don't think so. 0:15:50.560 --> 0:15:51.880 No, she's gonna find out now. 0:15:54.680 --> 0:15:56.640 It's too good. Rula, what about you? 0:15:57.240 --> 0:15:58.920 It was a priest. 0:16:00.160 --> 0:16:03.560 Married, but I had such a I know, there's so fun. 0:16:03.720 --> 0:16:06.800 Like I think I've attracted to the people that are 0:16:06.960 --> 0:16:08.280 like the least. 0:16:08.240 --> 0:16:10.080 Sexual in a way, do you know what I mean? 0:16:10.160 --> 0:16:15.200 Like monks, priest you know, Buddhist bodies like all a bit. 0:16:15.680 --> 0:16:17.360 You're just like, oh, yeah, you're amazing. 0:16:17.400 --> 0:16:18.720 Say you know, I don't know what it is. 0:16:18.760 --> 0:16:20.360 It's like this thing that you're just. 0:16:20.280 --> 0:16:24.280 Like, there's discipline, there's discipline and that ripping up. 0:16:23.400 --> 0:16:25.360 The self containment. 0:16:25.840 --> 0:16:28.040 Yes, self contained? Yummy. 0:16:28.160 --> 0:16:32.760 Anyway, Brenda, talk to me, what's your story? 0:16:33.240 --> 0:16:34.880 I don't know if I should say this in case 0:16:34.920 --> 0:16:37.800 they listen to this. But a very good friend, like 0:16:37.920 --> 0:16:39.080 my best friend. 0:16:38.800 --> 0:16:43.040 Growing up, her husband, but they weren't married, they were separated, 0:16:43.520 --> 0:16:47.680 and she had cheated on him, and so I knew 0:16:47.680 --> 0:16:50.720 that the thing was over between them, but I still 0:16:50.760 --> 0:16:52.920 probably shouldn't have here here. 0:16:53.280 --> 0:16:55.560 Wait wait, wait, wait wait, you acted on it. 0:16:56.400 --> 0:17:06.720 We dated a little bit. That's why I wasn't sure 0:17:06.720 --> 0:17:10.439 I should say any going to know which one it is? 0:17:12.080 --> 0:17:14.520 This is incredible. I think we should play never haveever 0:17:14.640 --> 0:17:15.119 more often. 0:17:16.119 --> 0:17:18.600 Thank you for getting silly with us and just really 0:17:18.680 --> 0:17:21.960 pouring your hearts out, and your stories were just like amazing, magnificently. 0:17:22.160 --> 0:17:24.880 I know, and I know that these are silly games 0:17:24.960 --> 0:17:27.480 and silly little stories that you're telling us, and we're 0:17:27.520 --> 0:17:30.080 all laughing about it, but remember that each and every 0:17:30.160 --> 0:17:33.159 one of you is expressing who you truly are, and 0:17:33.200 --> 0:17:35.720 that's what we're looking for. This is how we are 0:17:35.800 --> 0:17:39.160 learning who you are and who is going to be 0:17:39.240 --> 0:17:40.960 the best partner for our main dater. 0:17:41.359 --> 0:17:43.840 So it's time to play another game before our EA 0:17:44.160 --> 0:17:48.160 sends one of our lovely contestants home. Our main dater 0:17:48.600 --> 0:17:52.639 has admitted that in his past he was kind of 0:17:52.680 --> 0:17:56.800 a playboy who had a whole tool belt full of 0:17:56.920 --> 0:18:00.120 pickup lines. So for this next game, we're going to 0:18:00.200 --> 0:18:02.560 give you all a couple of minutes to write up 0:18:02.680 --> 0:18:07.600 your best and worst pickup lines and perform them for Ailita. 0:18:07.920 --> 0:18:11.720 So in this game, best means the pickup line that 0:18:11.840 --> 0:18:16.400 might actually score a date, and worst means the pickup 0:18:16.400 --> 0:18:20.400 line that in no world would land you a date. So, 0:18:20.640 --> 0:18:23.959 for example, a good pickup line for me would be 0:18:24.920 --> 0:18:27.320 maybe you are a full course meal and I'd love 0:18:27.400 --> 0:18:28.639 to take you home for some dessert. 0:18:28.760 --> 0:18:33.000 Ah yeah, yeah, yay, yay, I gotta hang out with 0:18:33.040 --> 0:18:33.840 you more often. 0:18:34.119 --> 0:18:36.040 Wait, that was a good one or a bad one? 0:18:37.000 --> 0:18:44.040 I know, yeah, being dragged to veilve A good one 0:18:44.040 --> 0:18:44.800 could also. 0:18:44.560 --> 0:18:48.280 Be I'll always have capacity for you. Oh yeah I 0:18:48.320 --> 0:18:50.239