1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,320 Speaker 1: First of all, you don't know me. 2 00:00:02,279 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 2: We all about that high school drama girl drama girl, 3 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 2: all about them. 4 00:00:06,400 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 3: High school queens. We'll take you for a ride, and 5 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 3: our comic girl sharing for the right teams, drama queens, 6 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:16,760 Speaker 3: my girl girl fashion, but your tough girl, you. 7 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 4: Could sit with us. 8 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 2: Girl drama, queens, drama, queise drama, queens drama, drama, queens, 9 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 2: drama queens. Hey, everybody, welcome back to doing twenty three 10 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 2: questions again again this time. 11 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:33,879 Speaker 5: But I love a friend, Danielle. 12 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:38,639 Speaker 6: Yeah, we're so glad you're here. 13 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:41,839 Speaker 1: Thank you. I'm nervous and I'm ready to go. 14 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 6: We're gonna learn everything about you outside of your popcorn 15 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:51,880 Speaker 6: fixation today. Okay, it goes dark sometimes, so just don't 16 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 6: be afraid to lean in. Okay, who wants to kick 17 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 6: us off? I'll go d. 18 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:04,639 Speaker 7: What is your idea of perfect happiness being with my kids? 19 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:09,039 Speaker 1: Mh probably that's it, being with my kids. That is 20 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 1: my perfect happiness. I'll get trouble for not saying Jensen, 21 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 1: though I mean, let me. Jensen can be allowed in 22 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: that he is part of the children. 23 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 6: He is one of the children. Do you feel like 24 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 6: your husband's one of your kids, I do, Yeah, for sure. Yeah. 25 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:28,840 Speaker 1: Whoever doesn't, it's lying, it's a lie. 26 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 5: You guys have that sprinter van, you're always going on 27 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 5: adventures together. 28 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Every woman I know who's married to 29 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:38,679 Speaker 4: a man says that she feels like he's one of 30 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 4: her children. 31 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 6: Which can be adorable. 32 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 1: They turn that way after you have kids. I think 33 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: if we would have never had kids, he would have 34 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 1: stayed somewhat capable of doing things on his own. But 35 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: now he's like, oh, well there, she's doing it for them, so. 36 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 6: She'll just Yeah, those chicken nuggets look delicious. Yeah, a lot. 37 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 6: What's your favorite trip that you've gone on with those kids, 38 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 6: because you guys scoot around. 39 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: My favorite trip of all time is we took them 40 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 1: to London for spring break last year and everyone said 41 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 1: we were crazy and it was really fun and we survived. 42 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:19,079 Speaker 6: Yeah, to take them to all those gnarly like dungeons and. 43 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 1: Well, I actually ended up getting COVID, so I was 44 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: in the hotel room, Jenson. But it was like the prior. 45 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:30,800 Speaker 1: We did some stuff outside of London and you know, 46 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: did some countryside roaming. 47 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 4: It's fun, it's so pretty. 48 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. 49 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 5: Well, Danielle, what's your greatest fear. 50 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 1: That would be being separated from my kids. And not 51 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 1: like top would be kids, Jensen, I could, I would 52 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 1: be sad, but it would be it would be my children, 53 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: you know. And we're watching heartbreaking videos right now that 54 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 1: happening in Israelso that made me think of it this morning, 55 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:07,400 Speaker 1: you know, like being your children being ripped from you. 56 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 1: Like I can't imagine anything more horrible than that for 57 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 1: me personally because that kids. 58 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, do you I know that, as like 59 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 6: a grown up, so much of our decision making, whether 60 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 6: it's like work or where we're going to live or 61 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 6: any of that is just informed by our kids, you know, 62 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 6: and so being able to show up for their stuff 63 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 6: is super important to you. You've always prioritized that. 64 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I mean I like, I'm not gonna lie. 65 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 1: I envy people Like I have friends and they're like, oh, 66 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go off to Europe and like they just 67 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 1: like their kids just stay with babysitters. I mean, I know, 68 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 1: it's like half of it is a problem for me 69 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 1: and the and the I just can't do it. It's 70 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 1: like it's like not inside of me. I can't separate. 71 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 1: There's some therapists out there right now, like, but yeah, 72 00:03:59,880 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 1: that work for me. I know I'm supposed to maybe 73 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 1: do that, but it doesn't feel right. 74 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 6: When I do it, so it doesn't. It doesn't. Jeffrey 75 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 6: and I never went on a honeymoon because I was 76 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 6: like and like leave them. 77 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 1: Right, like good, Okay, so I'm not the only one. 78 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 6: No, We'll go to therapy together. It'll be good for us, 79 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 6: all right. Question number three. If you could be the 80 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 6: best in the world at something anything, what would it be. 81 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:30,840 Speaker 1: I'll get selfish on this one. It would be like 82 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: free diving. 83 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 6: What yoh, yes, wait, what did you watch that movie? 84 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:39,719 Speaker 4: No? 85 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:42,480 Speaker 1: And I haven't seen it yet, but I I'm reading, Like, 86 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 1: do you know Susan Casey she writes all these like 87 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:51,559 Speaker 1: fantastic books on like the Wave, and she wrote Devil's Teeth. 88 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: Then she she wrote a book that I'm starting that's 89 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:58,039 Speaker 1: about free diving. But I just love the ocean and 90 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:00,839 Speaker 1: I love being quiet in the ocean, usually on the 91 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 1: surface because they don't know how to free dive. But 92 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: if I would, I would be really good at that. 93 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:11,159 Speaker 1: I think that. I mean, can you imagine being able 94 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:15,279 Speaker 1: to go down like fifty feet by yourself. 95 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 6: And just, oh, are you a good swimmer? 96 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 1: Not really, I mean not really. 97 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 6: I mean we've been friends a long time. I don't 98 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 6: think I've ever seen you swim. I don't swim, Daniel. 99 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 1: Well, I sur I surved. 100 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, okay, all right, now I remember in that 101 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 6: face I see. 102 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:34,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I'm not like a I'm not one 103 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:36,479 Speaker 1: of these swimmers in the pool. Like I'm more of it. 104 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:42,040 Speaker 5: The doggy paddle. 105 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, I've baffled that people can swim. It makes my 106 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:47,920 Speaker 6: brain explode. I'm like, that's something that you learned how 107 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 6: to do. This's critzy. 108 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 1: Wow. 109 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:52,119 Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, free diving. It's like going to outer space 110 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 6: to me. 111 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. No, It's like it's our outer space and it's 112 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:57,600 Speaker 1: so cool. I think I would like to be good 113 00:05:57,600 --> 00:05:57,840 Speaker 1: at that. 114 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:01,919 Speaker 6: Okay. I love that when the kids graduate and you 115 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:03,599 Speaker 6: have no choice but to go out and do things 116 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:04,040 Speaker 6: on your. 117 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:05,039 Speaker 5: Own, right. 118 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:10,120 Speaker 4: I honestly I can't wait for that phase. Okay. 119 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:13,159 Speaker 7: Question four, what is the weirdest item that you keep 120 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 7: by your bed Ooh, I'm. 121 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 1: Like, this is a weird thing. I've become addicted to 122 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 1: eating cough drops at night and some from candy, Like 123 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:31,279 Speaker 1: when I'm reading. I'm just like, I'll buy like lutens 124 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: like the worst, like it is candy. 125 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 6: It's candy, right, It's just candy. 126 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 5: You're just an old grandma sucking on hard candies. 127 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 1: I'm just sucking on a hardy and I keep my 128 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 1: whole bedside table is full of them. And that's what 129 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 1: I do at night, and I do like three of 130 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 1: them in a row, and then I have to get 131 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 1: up and brush my teeth again. 132 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 6: Oh no, I don't know why. 133 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: It's like my thing right now. I'm doing the flavor 134 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 1: because I used to drink cherry like while I would 135 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:59,600 Speaker 1: read at night, and then I'm like up going to 136 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 1: the back room all night long. And I love drinking 137 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 1: tea at night, but I just I can't do it anymore. 138 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 6: I had a boyfriend in high school that always had 139 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 6: those like honey menthol cough drops and it made like 140 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 6: kissing real cool. I was like, what your mouth is, crizy. 141 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 5: That's such an adventure. 142 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:21,320 Speaker 1: It's way better than cigarette. 143 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 6: Yeah cool, cool into it to Neil. 144 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 5: What living person do you most admire living? Yeah? 145 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 1: Oh geez. And I should have looked up cross questions because. 146 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 6: This was no. No, we want to all fly Man, that. 147 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 1: Instinct living person. Hmm. Maybe my mom. She's done a 148 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 1: lot of things. Yeah, you know, I'll just stay close 149 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 1: to the heart, I would say, my mom. She's been 150 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 1: in the past like six years. She goes on like 151 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 1: archaeological digs, she does powerlifting, she does what yeah, yeah, 152 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 1: like she won a powerlifting championship. 153 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 6: Are you that's so cool? 154 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 1: A real idea of it. I'll send it to you, guys. 155 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 6: It's fine. Wait why she. 156 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 1: Lived a lot of different lives and I think that's 157 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 1: really cool. 158 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:23,679 Speaker 5: Where is she now? 159 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 1: She Louisiana? 160 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 5: You, Oh okay. 161 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 4: Yeah. 162 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 7: I love people that are unafraid to choose their joy 163 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 7: over and over again. 164 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 4: And just be like I did that, now I'm going 165 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:37,559 Speaker 4: to do this. Yeah, it's really inspiring. 166 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 1: Totally reinvent and I try to reinvent myself like that too. 167 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 1: And I don't care if people are like, oh, wait, 168 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:46,679 Speaker 1: you're not you weren't about that five years ago. I'm like, 169 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:50,440 Speaker 1: well I am now. We have very short time on 170 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 1: earth to do all these things. And I don't know. 171 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:55,079 Speaker 1: She really doesn't mean. She wore like a sling, one 172 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 1: of those like almost like a wrestling sling, and was 173 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 1: like what pressing with the it's called deadlifting. You know 174 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 1: it's crazy, but anyway, Yeah, so I guess I'll say. 175 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:11,200 Speaker 6: My mom, so cool. That's where you get the free 176 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 6: diving thing from. That's where you're like, why wouldn't I? 177 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 1: Why not? 178 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:21,560 Speaker 6: I'm into that attitude. All right? Well, then let's get 179 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 6: down to Uh, this is fun. What is your greatest extravagance? 180 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:31,839 Speaker 6: Where does Danille get fancy? Yeah? 181 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 5: You easy? 182 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 1: I love a house. I love a house. 183 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 5: Is it because you love designing, like you want to 184 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 5: get in there and design the house? Or you just 185 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 5: like being able to have places different places? 186 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 1: I like every time you move or you you you know, 187 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 1: you just get to like recreate, restructure. I think I 188 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:59,520 Speaker 1: like the the restructuring and the reorganizing more than any 189 00:09:59,640 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 1: than decorating or the place, because every place you are 190 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 1: also changes the way you feel and your outlook on things. 191 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:10,559 Speaker 1: So I don't know, definitely real estate. 192 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 6: You also end up in haunted places a lot to me. Always. 193 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 6: Oh it's like a damn magnet, both of you. Well, 194 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 6: listen when the door's open. Yeah, I like it. 195 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 1: Once you've lived in the vail. 196 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:31,720 Speaker 6: Can you sleep though? Sometimes? Like I'm usually fine sleeping, 197 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 6: but then every once in a while, I'm like. 198 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, never, I'm not a good sleeper anyway. And my 199 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 1: dad is like somebody who only when he was working 200 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:45,640 Speaker 1: a lot, would sleep for like four hours and I 201 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 1: think four or five hours and be totally fine. And 202 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 1: I'm like that it's hard to get up, but once 203 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:51,439 Speaker 1: I'm up, I'm like wired all day. 204 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 6: Jeff's like that, just go go go all right, well, listen, 205 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:58,720 Speaker 6: I can't wait to see all the different houses that 206 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 6: you end up in and all the different ghosts that 207 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 6: we meet along the way. That's that's the book you 208 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 6: need to write, a good one. Yeah, my roommates, dida roommates. 209 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 1: Cute. 210 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 7: Oh man, Okay. Question seven, what is your current state 211 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:17,679 Speaker 7: of mind? 212 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 1: Truthfully anxiety ridden? Stress? You know, current state of the 213 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: world isn't perfect? 214 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:31,679 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, it's not exactly inspiring calm, confidence, is it? 215 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: It's not, And I wish I could. I also wish 216 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 1: I could be one of those people who just kind 217 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:38,560 Speaker 1: of tunes it out and goes on with their day. 218 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 1: And that's you know, a lot of people look at 219 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:45,080 Speaker 1: you like that person doesn't care, they don't have empathy there, 220 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:49,200 Speaker 1: but they're just able to keep going. And I'm just 221 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 1: not that way, you know, like I read something or 222 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:56,959 Speaker 1: hear something and then it's like gosh, you know, and 223 00:11:57,280 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 1: we're kind of programmed to keep going. We like, you know, 224 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 1: society programs us to keep going. And I don't know. 225 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 1: I had a group of people invite me to a 226 00:12:07,040 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 1: parade today. I'm like, no, can't do it today. 227 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, okay, Well what do you most value in 228 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:25,319 Speaker 5: your friends? What kind of characteristics do you most value? 229 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 1: Oh? Honesty, honest, Like I do not want someone to 230 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:37,080 Speaker 1: bullshit me about how great I am or how great, 231 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:40,720 Speaker 1: just none of that. I like honesty, Like, let's have 232 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 1: real conversations, let's talk about I mean, we can talk 233 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:45,840 Speaker 1: about great things about each other and that's fun, but 234 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 1: I also want to talk about the things that aren't 235 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:51,200 Speaker 1: great and and just be honest. 236 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:52,599 Speaker 5: Yeah. 237 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 6: Well, I mean, especially in all of our friendships, getting 238 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 6: honest with each other was paramount because it was like 239 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 6: we were gas lpt for so long trying to keep 240 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 6: us all apart that maybe in our developing years we 241 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 6: were like wait a tick, hold on a second, who's 242 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 6: going to cut through the red tape and actually just 243 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:13,680 Speaker 6: you know, tell the truth. 244 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:14,440 Speaker 5: Yeah. 245 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:17,080 Speaker 1: Well, and that gets easier as you get older. I 246 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:19,480 Speaker 1: mean it's really hard to do in your early twenties. 247 00:13:19,559 --> 00:13:22,719 Speaker 1: You know, you're like in high school and everything. You're 248 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:24,440 Speaker 1: just trying to fit in. You're trying to you know, 249 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:29,200 Speaker 1: not rock noally, but not saying that, like I need 250 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 1: my friends to rock the boat, but I just like 251 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 1: I would. I have a lot of I can't make 252 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: small talk and I don't I know a lot of people. 253 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:41,199 Speaker 1: I just really don't like it. I don't enjoy doing that. 254 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 1: I'd rather talk to you about something that matters. 255 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:46,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, well you're so good at that because anytime that 256 00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 6: we've had social situations where like I've introduced you to 257 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:54,720 Speaker 6: friends of mine, they always text me after the fact 258 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:57,079 Speaker 6: and they're like, I think I'm best friends with her. 259 00:13:57,120 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 6: Now we sit down and we talked about like like 260 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:04,440 Speaker 6: trauma and real stuff, like you always stat in the 261 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:05,320 Speaker 6: corner of the bar. 262 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I like to get in deep like me too, 263 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:10,320 Speaker 1: going on in there. 264 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:12,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, you're the You are the kind of person at 265 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:14,080 Speaker 5: a party that I feel like you can just stay 266 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 5: in one place the whole time. 267 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. 268 00:14:16,880 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 7: Yeah, maybe that's part of what has kept all of 269 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 7: us friends for so long. 270 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:22,760 Speaker 4: I was giggling. 271 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 7: I was at a party on Friday night for a 272 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:32,400 Speaker 7: friend's retirement and I had like three deep talks individually 273 00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 7: with three of my girlfriends in the kitchen. Everybody's dancing 274 00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:38,360 Speaker 7: and raging. We were like sweat and just yelling, having 275 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:40,040 Speaker 7: a good time. And then I don't know what happened. 276 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:42,440 Speaker 7: It just became like therapy time. 277 00:14:42,920 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, somebody rang the bell. 278 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, and Kenny was with me. 279 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 7: And Kenny comes around the corner and he goes, are 280 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 7: you doing therapy with people in the kitchen? Come back 281 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 7: to the party. I was like, I don't know what's 282 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 7: happening where we are. We're just we're talking about our. 283 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:57,960 Speaker 6: Ship, and yeah, I love it. 284 00:14:58,040 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 4: I love when that happens in the party. 285 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:00,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. 286 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 6: God bless Kenny for knowing you well enough to be like, 287 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:04,440 Speaker 6: I need to break this spell right now. 288 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:07,360 Speaker 7: He was like, all right, office hours are over, let's 289 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:09,120 Speaker 7: go and pull me back onto the dance floor. 290 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:10,280 Speaker 4: I was like, I love you. 291 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 7: But it was perfect, and yeah, maybe that is something 292 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 7: as we age, like we see people a little bit better. 293 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 4: We know we know what to ask past, like. 294 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 6: What you've been up to? 295 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 4: I like that. 296 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:29,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, big feelings, Okay, well maybe this ties into this, 297 00:15:30,520 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 6: On what occasion do you lie honestly? Yeah? 298 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 5: Every day unless you're lying right now. 299 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:40,560 Speaker 6: I mean. 300 00:15:42,240 --> 00:15:44,800 Speaker 5: Every day, but on what occasion, Like I. 301 00:15:44,840 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 1: Don't know, I've read that somewhere like if you everybody 302 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 1: tells a lie every day, little lie, or you're either 303 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 1: lying yourself about something or you've only white lie. But 304 00:15:58,960 --> 00:16:02,360 Speaker 1: if we're we're being honest, I probably lie every day. 305 00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:04,240 Speaker 6: You lie to your kids too, don't you use all 306 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:11,720 Speaker 6: the time. Yeah, it's good for them though, helps them 307 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 6: learn how to sift through the bullshit. 308 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 1: I lie to them about. Right now, I was like, 309 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:21,440 Speaker 1: I am going to do some very very serious stuff upstairs. Room. 310 00:16:21,680 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 1: It's going to ruin the whole thing, and it will 311 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 1: be all your fault. 312 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 6: And yeah, yeah, don't let them hear you laugh though, 313 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:31,000 Speaker 6: because then that gets confusing. 314 00:16:31,200 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 1: They close both doors so and I have the dog 315 00:16:35,640 --> 00:16:38,160 Speaker 1: in between, so in case they open that door, the dog, 316 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:41,000 Speaker 1: it's like my alarm. 317 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:43,360 Speaker 6: They don't need to know kids. You know what kids 318 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 6: like is discovering that about you twenty years later, right, So, like, 319 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:50,240 Speaker 6: definitely lie to them right now, and then later they'll 320 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 6: be like WHOA, that's crazy. 321 00:16:54,280 --> 00:16:56,520 Speaker 5: They'll be like everything I thought I ever knew is 322 00:16:56,560 --> 00:16:58,360 Speaker 5: a lie. Who am I? 323 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 1: I'm waiting for that thing where I can like wipe 324 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:04,199 Speaker 1: the internet. There's gonna be a button where I can 325 00:17:04,320 --> 00:17:10,040 Speaker 1: just like wipe of I don't know all the sexy times. 326 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:13,480 Speaker 6: No, listen, when we're old ladies, you need to own 327 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:17,840 Speaker 6: that sexy time. You Definitely. I'm glad we cataloged that we'll. 328 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 1: Be awkward for a minute. Though it's gonna be maybe. 329 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:25,919 Speaker 6: I don't think so. Kids now, they're different. They just 330 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:28,280 Speaker 6: view us as like dorky moms. It doesn't matter what 331 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 6: we've done, it doesn't. 332 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:30,879 Speaker 1: Matter, no matter if your shirt's on or off. 333 00:17:31,359 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 6: No, they don't care. They're like, you're a nerd. Make 334 00:17:34,359 --> 00:17:36,200 Speaker 6: me a sandwich, you're my mom. 335 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 1: Okay, thank you? 336 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 6: Yeah yeah. Pam Anderson raised too boys right too. Yeah, 337 00:17:44,520 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 6: and they think she's great. 338 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:49,679 Speaker 1: So it's great. She went to fashion Week with no makeup. 339 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:51,480 Speaker 6: On, so that was pretty God, she's so cool. 340 00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 5: Cool, she is cool. 341 00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 4: Okay. Question ten, what is one thing you will never 342 00:17:58,200 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 4: do again? 343 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:03,600 Speaker 1: Well, we've already said I will never again go on 344 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:10,679 Speaker 1: a trip without my kids. But one specific thing I 345 00:18:10,720 --> 00:18:14,399 Speaker 1: don't know, but like I will not I used to 346 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 1: be very reckless. I will call it reckless because I 347 00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:19,920 Speaker 1: know where it came from, but some people will call 348 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 1: it like like very free spirited. I will probably not 349 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 1: be that way again. It was fun, I. 350 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:33,400 Speaker 6: Don't you always took calculated risks? Yeah, wave one though, 351 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:39,520 Speaker 6: like what would you get into strangers cars? 352 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:44,120 Speaker 5: Yes, yes, yes, just. 353 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:47,320 Speaker 1: Fun wild behavior. But I think also that kind of 354 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:50,640 Speaker 1: behavior we could get away with ten years ago, fifteen, 355 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 1: twenty years ago. 356 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah so now. 357 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:58,240 Speaker 6: Yeah there's iPhones now we don't want them to catching 358 00:18:58,320 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 6: us iPhones. 359 00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:02,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, just different kind of people out there. 360 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:05,399 Speaker 4: So yeah, well it's kind of taken all the fun away. 361 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:08,879 Speaker 6: It has really you poor kids, You have no idea 362 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:11,760 Speaker 6: that we used to do. It was crazy. I want 363 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:14,719 Speaker 6: them to envision the nineties like it was the wild West, 364 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 6: like that we. 365 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:19,320 Speaker 1: Were just me like a video the other day on it. 366 00:19:19,359 --> 00:19:22,439 Speaker 1: Like there's been all these videos circulating, like on social 367 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 1: media about like how crazy it was to grow up 368 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:28,959 Speaker 1: when we grew up like you know, as latchkey kids 369 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 1: and like just zero rules and like the threatening way 370 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 1: parents parented. 371 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, like. 372 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:39,160 Speaker 1: I'm going to kill you phrase constantly. 373 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:43,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, constantly, I mean clueless. I got a forty five 374 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 7: and a shovel. No one would miss. 375 00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:47,920 Speaker 1: You exactly, exactly. 376 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:49,679 Speaker 4: They don't talk to people like that. 377 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:52,919 Speaker 6: Wait, yeah, no, Now it's like, baby, I love you 378 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:54,959 Speaker 6: so much. If you want drugs, I'll get them for 379 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:58,359 Speaker 6: you so they're safe. Come on, right, Mammy will sit 380 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:01,680 Speaker 6: in the room with you and be your guide. Oh boy, 381 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:03,280 Speaker 6: that's kind of the parent that I am. 382 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:04,399 Speaker 5: That's what I'm No. 383 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 6: I don't think you were ever terribly reckless. Maybe a 384 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:10,840 Speaker 6: little impulsive, but that's fun. 385 00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:13,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, it is fun. But I probably won't ever get. 386 00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:16,920 Speaker 6: To do that again, mark my words, you will. You'll 387 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:18,680 Speaker 6: be free diving in your sixties. 388 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:21,360 Speaker 5: That's what I want to see. I want to see 389 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 5: when your kids go off to college and you're like, 390 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:24,920 Speaker 5: what am I doing with my life now? 391 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:27,119 Speaker 1: Like, wait a minute, and said she wasn't going to 392 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:28,280 Speaker 1: put her boobs on the internet? 393 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:32,880 Speaker 6: Do it? 394 00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:33,399 Speaker 5: Dude? 395 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:35,200 Speaker 1: Going on? 396 00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, all right. 397 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 5: What's the strangest purchase you've made or almost made? 398 00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 1: I bought like a dental fandom once. 399 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:49,200 Speaker 5: That's a weird thing to put dental? What what it 400 00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 5: was like? 401 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:51,200 Speaker 4: Teeth? 402 00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:55,240 Speaker 1: It's what Dennis used to practice. 403 00:20:58,440 --> 00:20:59,280 Speaker 6: Why did you buy this? 404 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:02,720 Speaker 1: Like the molds yeah, it's the mold, but it's actual people. 405 00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 1: Well I don't know what they use now, but they 406 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:07,960 Speaker 1: used to use actual teeth that they would put into 407 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 1: a like a gum like. Yeah, it was open and 408 00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 1: it was on this like wooden stand and I don't 409 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 1: know why I thought it was pretty, but I did. 410 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 5: And I bought this vintage Yeah. 411 00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's very very. 412 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:22,200 Speaker 6: Old, the old teeth guys. 413 00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:24,920 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I don't think they, like I said, I 414 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:28,399 Speaker 1: don't really think they do that anymore. But and and 415 00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:30,639 Speaker 1: if they do, then it would probably you know, like 416 00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:33,320 Speaker 1: when you donate your body to science or you know, 417 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:36,399 Speaker 1: for medicals, like it probably wasn't supposed to be then 418 00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 1: mounted onto like a mahogany stand and sol door, but 419 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 1: it wasn't. I bought it was. 420 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:45,119 Speaker 6: This that evolution or what's that store that was on 421 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:46,840 Speaker 6: Santa Monica. 422 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:50,359 Speaker 1: No, do you know what I got it is? Do 423 00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:53,440 Speaker 1: you remember that show Oddities You had to? 424 00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:55,880 Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, I used to go there when I worked 425 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:59,639 Speaker 6: at MTV. I bought it horse but I I like, 426 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:02,240 Speaker 6: I'm now, like, where is that thing? 427 00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:06,200 Speaker 7: Yeah, it's got to be in a box somewhere. 428 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:09,080 Speaker 6: Maybe that's why your house is always haunted. It's not 429 00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:11,280 Speaker 6: the house you're walking around with somebody's teeth. 430 00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:13,960 Speaker 1: Well, so one time I had this lockett that I had. 431 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:17,639 Speaker 1: I got it a venture store in I got it 432 00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:20,680 Speaker 1: in Scotland and it was like a beautiful locket and 433 00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:23,560 Speaker 1: on the front it had like tennis rackets and then 434 00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:25,240 Speaker 1: when you opened it, it had like a picture of 435 00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:27,840 Speaker 1: a little girl and then it had like a little 436 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:31,520 Speaker 1: tiny piece of hair. And this is before I had kids, 437 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 1: so I just thought it was really cool, and like, 438 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:38,399 Speaker 1: I love antique jewelry, and I just always kept it 439 00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:41,479 Speaker 1: in my jewelry bag. And then during COVID, I was like, 440 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:43,240 Speaker 1: I'm going to clean out all this stuff because I 441 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:45,000 Speaker 1: have a bunch of costume jewelry and I was going 442 00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:47,080 Speaker 1: to organize it, you know, we were all finding things 443 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:51,439 Speaker 1: to do. And that came out and Jensen was like 444 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 1: are you kidding with that? And I was like, what's 445 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:57,840 Speaker 1: wrong with it? And he's like, well, it's that child's 446 00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:02,399 Speaker 1: obviously no longer with us, because is it's the locket 447 00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 1: was one hundred years old or something. Yeah, and then 448 00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 1: it had the hair. And being an expert on the paranormal. 449 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:12,119 Speaker 6: Oh right, he did a whole show about that, didn't 450 00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 6: he Oh yeah, he was. 451 00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:19,959 Speaker 1: Like, you can't keep hair from a deceased person. Like 452 00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 1: He's like, that's a way that they can come back. 453 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:26,400 Speaker 1: It's like, oh and so then, because again it was COVID, 454 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:31,320 Speaker 1: we like took out the mortar, the mortar and pestle 455 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:34,159 Speaker 1: and the hair in there, let it on fire and 456 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,000 Speaker 1: did like some ceremony to get rid. 457 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:37,480 Speaker 6: Of, to set her free. 458 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:39,080 Speaker 1: We read it on the internet. 459 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:42,480 Speaker 6: I love that he is in the thish. 460 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:44,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's so great. 461 00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:46,399 Speaker 1: Not really buying things like that anymore. But that was 462 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:47,040 Speaker 1: an odd person. 463 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:52,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, I bet. Okay, all right, your weirdo. Who are 464 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:54,000 Speaker 6: your favorite writers? 465 00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 1: Well? I love Susan Casey and that was and that 466 00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:01,040 Speaker 1: was big for me because I normally love to read 467 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:05,480 Speaker 1: a novel. I don't. I'm like, oh, a self help 468 00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 1: book every now and then, but it's really hard for 469 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:13,280 Speaker 1: me to actually finish those. Yeah, but she and I 470 00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:16,880 Speaker 1: guess I should have said Hillary Hillary Burton on that one. 471 00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:25,000 Speaker 1: But they're for different purposes. They're for different purposes. But 472 00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:28,720 Speaker 1: I love I think right now because I'm into her, 473 00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:31,560 Speaker 1: and I would say Susan Casey because she's a person 474 00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 1: that's alive, that is doing these crazy things that usually 475 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:39,240 Speaker 1: only men do, and she's just kind of a fearless, 476 00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 1: awesome person. 477 00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:44,040 Speaker 6: I remember you were like really into Tom Robbins when 478 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:47,119 Speaker 6: we were doing One Till Yeah and being super reckless, 479 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:48,080 Speaker 6: so that tracks. 480 00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:54,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Tom Robbins. I used to love 481 00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:59,720 Speaker 1: historical fiction and just Edward Rutherford, remember like all those 482 00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 1: like London Rome. I think that's who wrote this, anyway. 483 00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:09,480 Speaker 6: I don't know him. Yeah, well, all right, now you're 484 00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:11,360 Speaker 6: going to free dive. God, I'm not gonna be able 485 00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:15,200 Speaker 6: to get over this. Like, as someone who's terrified of water, 486 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:17,080 Speaker 6: this is like you telling me that you're going to 487 00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:18,159 Speaker 6: get shot out of a cannon. 488 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 1: I am too, Like I am also like scared of it, 489 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:25,639 Speaker 1: but in this like fascinated way, you know what's going 490 00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 1: on down there. Kind. 491 00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:29,359 Speaker 6: I'm going to send you Jaws. That's a book about water. 492 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:31,680 Speaker 1: I read that. 493 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,320 Speaker 6: Actually, Jeff just read it again this summer. 494 00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:36,879 Speaker 1: He said, oh good, I forgot about that book. It's 495 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:37,520 Speaker 1: really good. 496 00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:40,639 Speaker 5: Yeah, I would love to read Jaws. That's a good 497 00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:41,200 Speaker 5: summer read. 498 00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 1: There's also movie books. There's a really good book on 499 00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 1: Thelma and Louise that I read, like maybe, like I 500 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:51,920 Speaker 1: found you know those like if people have libraries set 501 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:53,399 Speaker 1: up outside. 502 00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:54,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, a little free library. 503 00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:57,960 Speaker 1: You're walking somewhere, and I just took that and it 504 00:25:58,040 --> 00:25:59,880 Speaker 1: was a book on Thelma. But it was a book 505 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:03,600 Speaker 1: on the maker of Thelma and Louise the writer and 506 00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:08,280 Speaker 1: how she got the movie made and how like amazing, cool, cool, 507 00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:12,960 Speaker 1: Google it, Google it people, that's fun. I still have 508 00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:15,680 Speaker 1: it somewhere downstairs. But because I didn't put it back, 509 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:17,960 Speaker 1: which I should have, because I think or put something 510 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:19,800 Speaker 1: else in is the idea of that. 511 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:21,280 Speaker 6: So it's with the teeth. 512 00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:23,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, you do swap that. 513 00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:25,959 Speaker 1: Little library and rustic Canyon that I should have put them. 514 00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:36,879 Speaker 5: After two and a half years, he was cheating while 515 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:38,080 Speaker 5: you were pregnant. 516 00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:38,679 Speaker 6: We're pregnant. 517 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, about thirteen women. 518 00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:42,200 Speaker 5: More like if I would have stayed married to Max, 519 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 5: I think he would. 520 00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:44,160 Speaker 1: Have achieved forever it was. 521 00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:47,840 Speaker 5: It was just toxic relationship. Michael Coffin returns to wind 522 00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,160 Speaker 5: Down with Janet Kramer. 523 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:53,480 Speaker 3: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and Michael Coffin. 524 00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:58,200 Speaker 5: You don't want to miss this three parts reunions. 525 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:02,600 Speaker 1: On iHeart Radio or wherever you get your podcasts. 526 00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:07,480 Speaker 7: All right, we've got a pivot coming at you. What 527 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:09,920 Speaker 7: is your greatest regret? 528 00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 6: I know, bum out. 529 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:21,159 Speaker 1: I think it's I mean, and maybe because I'm with 530 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:28,000 Speaker 1: you all, but probably not being more present in my 531 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 1: years when I was working m I just feel like 532 00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:37,040 Speaker 1: I wasn't that present. I wasn't. I mean, it's hard 533 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:41,320 Speaker 1: when you're young again, but you know, like I wasn't 534 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:46,359 Speaker 1: actively trying to remember everything that I did and the 535 00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:50,320 Speaker 1: experiences that we had and I had on other shows. 536 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:57,159 Speaker 1: I mean, I was just so I guess, ambitious in 537 00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 1: a way and like looking at the next thing and 538 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:00,800 Speaker 1: looking at the next thing, and like where's this going 539 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,160 Speaker 1: to go? And where's this going to go? And never 540 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,439 Speaker 1: really enjoying the moment. I feel like I. 541 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:07,639 Speaker 5: Think that's everybody when they're young, though, isn't it. I mean, 542 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:08,520 Speaker 5: don't we all do that? 543 00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,600 Speaker 1: Like Hillary, when I was reading your book, it was 544 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:17,280 Speaker 1: amazing to me and like I cried several parts of it. 545 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:20,960 Speaker 1: But one of the things was because I just don't 546 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:24,200 Speaker 1: remember anything like you remember things, and it was I 547 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 1: was like, gosh, I wish I would have paid attention 548 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:30,240 Speaker 1: more in high school and remembered all of those experiences 549 00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:33,480 Speaker 1: and conversations with those people. So now I guess that's 550 00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:36,200 Speaker 1: my biggest regret, and I'm trying now to really be 551 00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:39,240 Speaker 1: better at it. I'm still a terrible text message person. 552 00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:41,720 Speaker 1: So if anybody has texted me in the past. 553 00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:44,160 Speaker 6: Life, we're going to make a horder out of you. 554 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:47,520 Speaker 6: It's so much easier to remember when you've got trinkets. 555 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:50,160 Speaker 1: I know, see, And that's the thing. I'm really bad. 556 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:53,120 Speaker 1: So I have one hundred and eighty seven unanswered texts 557 00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:58,240 Speaker 1: and reason right, I should just clear it. 558 00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:00,640 Speaker 6: Off and started, No, you'll need it one day, you'll 559 00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:03,440 Speaker 6: need it. Just No, we're going to make a horder 560 00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:07,080 Speaker 6: out of you. Jensen has that popcorn machine and all 561 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,480 Speaker 6: of his supernatural do dads in your. 562 00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:15,600 Speaker 1: House an entire room justifies that by like pulling up ahead, 563 00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:18,760 Speaker 1: I was like John Travolta's airplane wing full of stuff 564 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:23,720 Speaker 1: or somebody else that had like warsh I'm like, yeah. 565 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:26,600 Speaker 7: Okay, you're like I don't need to know that. Other 566 00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:27,680 Speaker 7: people are even worse. 567 00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:30,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I like, just get rid of it. 568 00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:33,760 Speaker 6: No, but I bet Jensen can remember everything. 569 00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:38,520 Speaker 5: Yeah he doesn't actually, but you know you have like 570 00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:42,440 Speaker 5: memorabilian things to go along with it. That helps for sure. Yeah, 571 00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:44,880 Speaker 5: is that your pet? Peeve, what's what's your Our next 572 00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 5: question is what is something that you really dislike. 573 00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:53,800 Speaker 1: That like but in all all ways, and this is 574 00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:56,120 Speaker 1: like something I got for my mom because she's just 575 00:29:56,240 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 1: like this and she's worse and you will never hear 576 00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:03,640 Speaker 1: this because she doesn't on my internet so I can 577 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:07,320 Speaker 1: see it, you know, like like my mom doesn't even 578 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:10,640 Speaker 1: like everything's so ordered that there's never any food in 579 00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:15,480 Speaker 1: the refrigerator because that would look messy. Oh yeah. Also 580 00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:18,640 Speaker 1: we don't have like you can't have a trash can 581 00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:20,840 Speaker 1: in the bathroom because then the trash would be in it. 582 00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:21,800 Speaker 6: Where do you take it? 583 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I have trash cans in my bathroom now. 584 00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:27,160 Speaker 1: It's like an out of defiance for my up bring. Yeah, 585 00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,120 Speaker 1: but I'm still like that, like if I see it, 586 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:35,720 Speaker 1: like I have to actively think and this has been 587 00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:41,480 Speaker 1: accomplished with some help guys works. I have to look 588 00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:44,120 Speaker 1: at it and just be like, Okay, there's trash in 589 00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:46,080 Speaker 1: the trash can and I can see it, and I'm 590 00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:48,840 Speaker 1: not going to empty it because it's only like two 591 00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:51,480 Speaker 1: or three things. Like I've got a little bit of 592 00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:56,160 Speaker 1: that obsessive compulsive like but it's it's all about like 593 00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:59,040 Speaker 1: order cleanliness, Like all of my forks and knives face 594 00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:01,880 Speaker 1: the same way and drawer. Like as you start to 595 00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:05,320 Speaker 1: like go through my house, you'll start to see signs 596 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:08,000 Speaker 1: of that. But it's like a pet peep. But I 597 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 1: always think and it's not good for me either, because 598 00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:14,440 Speaker 1: it doesn't like people like that, like you can't really relax. 599 00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:17,960 Speaker 1: Like when I walk into a space, I'm instantly gonna notice, 600 00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:20,320 Speaker 1: like I'm the person that's looking behind your toilet. 601 00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:25,640 Speaker 6: Oh don't just don't, boy, yeah, don't come here. 602 00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:28,680 Speaker 1: And then I will probably clean it for you while 603 00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:29,400 Speaker 1: I'm in there. 604 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:33,800 Speaker 6: I mean, then yes, come over because I'm judging you. 605 00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,400 Speaker 1: I'm not judging you because I know it's my own sickness. 606 00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:38,240 Speaker 5: Do your kids take part in this too? Like are 607 00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:40,120 Speaker 5: they in charge? Are they responsible for making sure all 608 00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:41,960 Speaker 5: the silver wars space in their direction and the bathroom 609 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:44,400 Speaker 5: toilets clean behind the commode? 610 00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:47,280 Speaker 1: I wish I try to, Like I'm just at the 611 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:49,640 Speaker 1: point where like I'm trying to like, Okay, you have 612 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:51,520 Speaker 1: a basket in your room, just put your dirty clothes 613 00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:52,160 Speaker 1: in that. 614 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:53,040 Speaker 6: That's a big step. 615 00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:54,040 Speaker 4: I'm there too. 616 00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:57,520 Speaker 1: They did not pick up any of that. They're gmping 617 00:31:57,600 --> 00:31:58,280 Speaker 1: all the way. 618 00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:03,920 Speaker 6: You're breaking generational versus. Look at you go, Okay, you're 619 00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:11,880 Speaker 6: doing it. Okay, Well what or who is the greatest 620 00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:12,800 Speaker 6: love of your life? 621 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:13,320 Speaker 5: Now? 622 00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:15,400 Speaker 6: You know, there's a whole army on the internet right 623 00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:21,720 Speaker 6: now that's like, no, it has. 624 00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:22,280 Speaker 1: To be Jensen. 625 00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:27,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, you too were so cute in the beginning. 626 00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:29,400 Speaker 6: I'm glad we got a front row seat to that. 627 00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:32,320 Speaker 1: I know. And actually I was thinking about this the 628 00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:34,800 Speaker 1: other day, Sophia. I tried to hook you up with 629 00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:38,080 Speaker 1: Jensen and I don't remember why you said that, but 630 00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:39,440 Speaker 1: thank you for saying. 631 00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:43,560 Speaker 4: No, Oh my god, I'm hilarious you remember that. I 632 00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:44,640 Speaker 4: do remember that. 633 00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:46,920 Speaker 1: I was like, you should go on a date with him. 634 00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:48,160 Speaker 1: He's really nice. 635 00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:53,360 Speaker 7: Yeah, And then I was I remember being staunchly in 636 00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:55,320 Speaker 7: a like I'm never going to date an actor again. 637 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:59,040 Speaker 4: Loll I learned lessons the hard way. But I was 638 00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:00,480 Speaker 4: just like, no, I'm going. 639 00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:05,080 Speaker 7: To be more responsible with myself. And you know, he's 640 00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:05,960 Speaker 7: you're a perfect person. 641 00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:06,800 Speaker 4: So we did good. 642 00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:08,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, so thank you for not accepting that. 643 00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 6: I loved that. Yeah, when did you know? You knew 644 00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:16,480 Speaker 6: really early on that like he was it? 645 00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:20,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, there was like I'd get a lot of trouble 646 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,720 Speaker 1: for that, and you know, sometimes being reckless pays off, 647 00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:24,520 Speaker 1: you know. 648 00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:29,080 Speaker 7: I feel like though, when you guys like clicked in 649 00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:33,720 Speaker 7: like you clicked, like things went into place and everyone went, 650 00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:36,320 Speaker 7: oh oh. 651 00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:40,120 Speaker 4: Like you you knew, he knew. Everybody around you could tell. 652 00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:42,120 Speaker 4: That was cool to see. 653 00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,880 Speaker 1: Which was unfortunate for the people that we were dating. 654 00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:48,720 Speaker 6: But wah, wah, I don't feel bad. 655 00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:51,600 Speaker 4: Listen, you know. 656 00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:55,120 Speaker 1: So they're all in different relationships and super happy, and like, 657 00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:59,440 Speaker 1: I don't I I still don't get I've never been 658 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:04,040 Speaker 1: a jealous person in a relationship, and I I just 659 00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:06,920 Speaker 1: I still don't get that way now. I'm like, if 660 00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 1: it's working, it's working. If it's not, it's not, you know. 661 00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:14,040 Speaker 1: And we were both not in working relationships at the time, 662 00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,680 Speaker 1: you know, and we weren't. It's not like we were 663 00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:20,880 Speaker 1: married and had kids. And you know, no, it's fine. 664 00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:23,239 Speaker 6: No, you're supposed to go around in the beginning when 665 00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:26,080 Speaker 6: you're figuring it out. We wouldn't have any rock and 666 00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:28,760 Speaker 6: roll songs if it was around in the beginning. 667 00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:31,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's no steating it for sure. 668 00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 5: Oh god, we want to live in that world. 669 00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:37,640 Speaker 6: I loved it. 670 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:40,000 Speaker 4: It was I love that for y'all. 671 00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:45,680 Speaker 7: Okay, when and where were you happiest right now? 672 00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:49,319 Speaker 1: I am at that's a great answer I've ever been 673 00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:49,919 Speaker 1: right now. 674 00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:54,360 Speaker 6: I feel like a lot of the you know, I 675 00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:56,719 Speaker 6: would say ninety nine percent of the people that we've 676 00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,359 Speaker 6: done this questionnaire with are all saying that. And I'm 677 00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:02,680 Speaker 6: wondering and if it's like a post COVID attitude, if 678 00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:05,560 Speaker 6: it's like we all had everything just ripped out from 679 00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:10,440 Speaker 6: under us and the level of like awareness and appreciation 680 00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:13,160 Speaker 6: now is just higher, yeah, because we're all still dealing 681 00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:16,520 Speaker 6: with the same stress and the same like you know bush. 682 00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:20,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I like, I have a really good friend 683 00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:24,359 Speaker 1: who just always reminds me that people are good, that 684 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:27,839 Speaker 1: most people are good, because it's like so scary and 685 00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:31,279 Speaker 1: so depressing everything all the time that we listen to 686 00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:35,960 Speaker 1: and read and yeah, but most people are good. You know. 687 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:40,319 Speaker 1: Once you see that, you can just not unsee it. 688 00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:42,560 Speaker 1: And I'm like that that's why I'm just like, I'm 689 00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:46,520 Speaker 1: super happy right now because I'm in a place that 690 00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:50,120 Speaker 1: I love with my whole family and it's it's good 691 00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:54,839 Speaker 1: and we're all healthy. Yeah, we should be. If you're 692 00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:57,080 Speaker 1: not happy and you have those things going for you 693 00:35:57,200 --> 00:35:58,560 Speaker 1: right now, damn you know. 694 00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:04,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, so what talent would you most like to have. 695 00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:06,279 Speaker 5: It's different than the free diving thing because that's like 696 00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:09,600 Speaker 5: the best in the world because then you're just you know, 697 00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:11,840 Speaker 5: doing whatever you need singer. 698 00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:16,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, I tattooed it on my arm. You what, well, 699 00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:21,520 Speaker 1: you know this tattoo is. When people ask what it is, 700 00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:22,880 Speaker 1: I'm just like, oh, it's just a lady. 701 00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:26,120 Speaker 4: But she's singing again. 702 00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:29,239 Speaker 1: Not that we're I'm still on Hillary's book tour right now, 703 00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:34,839 Speaker 1: but in the chapter where you talk about your make 704 00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:39,040 Speaker 1: yourself your own muse, that's what this is. And I 705 00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:43,640 Speaker 1: love music so much like it's my you know, enjoy. 706 00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:45,799 Speaker 1: You'll get this. I mean, it's just like I can't 707 00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:49,120 Speaker 1: imagine a world without music. I am constantly walking around 708 00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:53,040 Speaker 1: with like earbuds on or listening, like I want I 709 00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:56,880 Speaker 1: had speakers in the bathroom is an extravagance I should 710 00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:59,880 Speaker 1: put that should be on the list. I'm like, I 711 00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:04,719 Speaker 1: want speakers everywhere, and I want your music because that 712 00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:07,239 Speaker 1: makes me so happy. And I wish I could sing. 713 00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:11,239 Speaker 1: My kid JJ can sing beautifully and I'm so oh 714 00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:15,759 Speaker 1: my gosh to watch myself. I'll be trying to make 715 00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:16,920 Speaker 1: her into the next. 716 00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:20,720 Speaker 5: We talked about this on a rooftop once while eating 717 00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:27,759 Speaker 5: tacos and drinking some alcohol that was available. I'm remembering 718 00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:32,680 Speaker 5: this now. We were talking about a YouTube video like 719 00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:35,040 Speaker 5: a singing lesson class you could kind of take on 720 00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:36,600 Speaker 5: your own with it. Did you ever do that? 721 00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:41,799 Speaker 1: I didn't. I'm too scared because you'll be by yourself. Yeah, 722 00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:45,440 Speaker 1: I know, but and I mean I can carry a tune. 723 00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:49,480 Speaker 6: But you know, we've done karaoke with you, Daniel, we know. 724 00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:56,080 Speaker 1: I could sing candle walks. I don't know. I just 725 00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:59,280 Speaker 1: like that to me, like what a gift. I always 726 00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:01,600 Speaker 1: look at people well that can sing and you know, 727 00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:05,600 Speaker 1: enjoy like you just can stand up and just it 728 00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:07,680 Speaker 1: just comes out and it's just so beautiful. And I 729 00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:13,080 Speaker 1: love that. And I'm always just also like amazed by 730 00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:14,759 Speaker 1: people like that. Hill Or you can sing too. 731 00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:16,480 Speaker 5: No, she can't. 732 00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:21,200 Speaker 6: I can talk sing. It's a different theater thing you're under. 733 00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:25,720 Speaker 1: Selling, Loretta Len. I've heard you sing well. 734 00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:28,279 Speaker 6: I wonder if part of the reason you're such a 735 00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:32,000 Speaker 6: good producer is that you've always been able to cultivate 736 00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:36,839 Speaker 6: talent in that way, like you've not everybody seeks out musicians. 737 00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:40,000 Speaker 6: Not everybody seeks out talent, and you seem to be 738 00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:46,839 Speaker 6: constantly curating like your perfect mixtape, you know, and like 739 00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:48,279 Speaker 6: you were the first person I knew that was going 740 00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:51,319 Speaker 6: to a hotel cafe to hear people play and just 741 00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:53,719 Speaker 6: get into that La guitar scene, you know. 742 00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:57,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I love that, and like most of my friends, 743 00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:01,080 Speaker 1: that's what we did every week was young. That's all 744 00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:03,359 Speaker 1: we did is I would listen to people sing, and 745 00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:09,040 Speaker 1: I just love it. I'm I'm always amazed by people 746 00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:11,680 Speaker 1: that can sing. It just it's so interesting to me. 747 00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:15,440 Speaker 1: I can sit through a concert. I could probably sit 748 00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:19,440 Speaker 1: in a concert listening to people sing for like fourteen hours. 749 00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:23,000 Speaker 6: Maybe Jesus, do you and Jensen sing together. I just 750 00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:25,560 Speaker 6: remember in that little house you guys are in La, 751 00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:28,880 Speaker 6: he had that whole room full of bongos, and yeah. 752 00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:31,879 Speaker 1: We will. I will like listen to him and you know, 753 00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:37,960 Speaker 1: the kids Zeppelin was like playing, we have a ukulele, 754 00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:41,000 Speaker 1: and so he was holding that Jensen the other day. 755 00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:43,799 Speaker 1: It was so cute. But yeah, I just like that 756 00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:45,320 Speaker 1: to me is the best talent. 757 00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:49,440 Speaker 6: How fun you guys can be, Like Devon Traps given to. 758 00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:53,799 Speaker 1: Me, I would have been like buck naked, like look 759 00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:56,160 Speaker 1: at me. I mean like, there's there's a reason why 760 00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:57,399 Speaker 1: you aren't given certain things. 761 00:39:57,400 --> 00:40:01,920 Speaker 6: And I'm like, OK, no way, I love this, but 762 00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:04,080 Speaker 6: I want to see a family band. 763 00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:06,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. 764 00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:14,520 Speaker 6: Hillary Burton Morgan here, and I am excited to share 765 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:18,120 Speaker 6: with you a new series. I'm launching a companion podcast 766 00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:23,000 Speaker 6: to my passion project, Sundance TV's True Crime Story It 767 00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:27,000 Speaker 6: Couldn't Happen Here Now. On the show, we focus on 768 00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:30,120 Speaker 6: small towns and the crimes that can rip them apart. 769 00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:33,719 Speaker 6: The cases we've covered have confused me and they have 770 00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:37,480 Speaker 6: made me deeply question our judicial system. What got me 771 00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:40,440 Speaker 6: so excited about doing this podcast is that we have 772 00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:43,680 Speaker 6: more time to really dig in. So you're going to 773 00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:46,399 Speaker 6: hear more information on these cases, as well as never 774 00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:49,239 Speaker 6: before heard interviews, and you'll get to go behind the 775 00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:52,080 Speaker 6: scenes with me and the team and learn what it's 776 00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:55,200 Speaker 6: like to make a show like this. Come join us 777 00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:59,399 Speaker 6: as we get curious and get involved. Listen to True 778 00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:02,800 Speaker 6: Crime Story It Couldn't Happen Here on the iHeartRadio app, 779 00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:11,760 Speaker 6: Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This question 780 00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:14,160 Speaker 6: is kind of weird. If you could change one thing 781 00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:18,800 Speaker 6: about yourself. What would it be Not the singing thing. 782 00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:24,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, not the singing thing, and not the obsessive need 783 00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:25,880 Speaker 1: to clean everything. 784 00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:28,640 Speaker 5: I mean that could be it too. 785 00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:32,080 Speaker 1: I would probably have way more patience. I would ask 786 00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:32,960 Speaker 1: for more patients. 787 00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:35,640 Speaker 6: Are you impatient? 788 00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:40,360 Speaker 1: Very very And I'm like starting to see it in 789 00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:45,600 Speaker 1: my kids too. I'm like, oh oh yeah, yeah, yeah, 790 00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:49,000 Speaker 1: I'm like such an instant gratification person. I'm really working 791 00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:51,840 Speaker 1: on that, but I'm like, very man. 792 00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:55,280 Speaker 5: I would not have spotted that in you that you see, 793 00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:57,840 Speaker 5: Like you really seem like a patient person to me 794 00:41:58,040 --> 00:41:59,400 Speaker 5: all the times that I've been around you. 795 00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:05,400 Speaker 6: There's a lot of acting going. 796 00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:08,520 Speaker 1: On because I like to I like to like work 797 00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:10,880 Speaker 1: at a level and all things in my life that 798 00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:14,719 Speaker 1: I don't think other people should work at or want 799 00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:16,600 Speaker 1: to work at that level. And I'm just like, why 800 00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:19,000 Speaker 1: is this not happening? Like I'm just like, I get 801 00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:22,960 Speaker 1: so frustrated with that in all areas of life. So 802 00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:26,160 Speaker 1: I would I would take that away if I could. 803 00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:28,239 Speaker 6: I don't know. I think you get a lot done. 804 00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:29,880 Speaker 6: Sometimes the curse is a blessing. 805 00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:33,040 Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, yeah, I like it. 806 00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:37,600 Speaker 4: Okay, Well, what do you consider your greatest achievement my children. 807 00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:44,840 Speaker 6: I just love the way you answer that because she knows. 808 00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:46,040 Speaker 5: She knows. 809 00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:52,280 Speaker 6: That's true. Though, true that one I gotta say. 810 00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:57,040 Speaker 1: They're so yeah and just who did not want to 811 00:42:57,080 --> 00:43:00,600 Speaker 1: have kids? And like I love Chelsea Handler, so I 812 00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:03,040 Speaker 1: love all the stuff she does about like you don't 813 00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:08,080 Speaker 1: it's because you don't. I definitely believe that, like you, 814 00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:13,640 Speaker 1: I my life could be really fun if I didn't 815 00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:16,120 Speaker 1: have kids. I mean like it would be amazing. So 816 00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:19,359 Speaker 1: I can see both sides of it. But like you know, now, 817 00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:22,239 Speaker 1: once you have it, then you're like, that's that's what 818 00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:25,680 Speaker 1: it is. Yeah, for all the people out there that don't, 819 00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:29,799 Speaker 1: it's not I can imagine it both ways and being 820 00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:31,560 Speaker 1: fantastic both ways. You know. 821 00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:35,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, Well you and JJ are so like locked in, 822 00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:39,120 Speaker 6: like she is your buddy and that's funny, right. 823 00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:42,600 Speaker 1: She's an interesting kid though, I mean like she's she's 824 00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:44,520 Speaker 1: actually like I've never had a fuss at her and 825 00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:49,080 Speaker 1: she's ten, Like she just doesn't. She just I'm like, 826 00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:51,520 Speaker 1: you're such a good person. I often tell it to 827 00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:54,920 Speaker 1: her just like that. I'm like confused by it. I'm like, yeah, 828 00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:59,319 Speaker 1: how did you come out like like your desire is 829 00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:04,040 Speaker 1: to like be happy and please people do the right thing. Wow. Cool? 830 00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:05,600 Speaker 6: What is that like that? 831 00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:06,200 Speaker 1: Jensen? 832 00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:11,239 Speaker 6: Oh Jensen, He's so feminine deep down and I love 833 00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:15,799 Speaker 6: that about him. Yeah no, yeah, soft and sweet man. 834 00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:18,960 Speaker 6: I'll admit that good. More boys should. 835 00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:22,000 Speaker 5: If you were going to die and come back as 836 00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:24,680 Speaker 5: a person or thing? Oh what would it be? 837 00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:26,880 Speaker 1: A thing? Hmmm? 838 00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:30,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, take your pick anything. 839 00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:33,840 Speaker 1: Well. I just finished watching The Gilded Age first season. 840 00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:37,799 Speaker 1: I know I'm behind, but I really love that. Like, 841 00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:41,200 Speaker 1: I think it would be fun to be in that era. 842 00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:45,480 Speaker 1: Like there's a scene where they're watching like electricity starting 843 00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:48,080 Speaker 1: and like the railroads were stuck. Like there were so 844 00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:52,239 Speaker 1: many amazing adventures and like not adventures inventions that were 845 00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:54,759 Speaker 1: happening in that time. How cool would it be to 846 00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:57,719 Speaker 1: like live through that. But then there was also like 847 00:44:57,760 --> 00:45:02,520 Speaker 1: the really bad shit that was going on, and also 848 00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:04,520 Speaker 1: those outfits. You know, you have to have a fainting 849 00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:05,239 Speaker 1: couch and all that. 850 00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:09,759 Speaker 6: I wonder how long it would be before we get 851 00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:12,840 Speaker 6: sick of those outfits because they do look fun. 852 00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:16,040 Speaker 1: Oh gosh, the costumes on that, Like. 853 00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:18,280 Speaker 6: You didn't have to do a target run in those costumes. 854 00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:26,600 Speaker 1: I want to be Nikola Tesla gool Okay, Yeah, well, 855 00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:28,840 Speaker 1: first I'd want to be a guy, because I'm not, 856 00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:31,040 Speaker 1: and I would like to see how that is. 857 00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:33,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, just peeking. 858 00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:36,600 Speaker 4: Anywhere you want. 859 00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:43,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, just be in charge of everything. But Nikola Tesla 860 00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:48,719 Speaker 1: because also, you know, he he said that he was 861 00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:52,640 Speaker 1: getting all these visions from like angels, like half angel 862 00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:56,040 Speaker 1: half alien, things like if you do a deep dive 863 00:45:56,120 --> 00:46:00,200 Speaker 1: on him, it's so crazy, and maybe I had to 864 00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:02,120 Speaker 1: be him, like see what's really going on in there? 865 00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:05,520 Speaker 6: Edison Tesla rivalry. I was fixated on. 866 00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:09,200 Speaker 1: That, correctly in a film. 867 00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:14,440 Speaker 6: I think personally, well, yeah, can you imagine inventing the 868 00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:17,200 Speaker 6: coolish ever at the same exact time someone else is 869 00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:22,040 Speaker 6: inventing the coolish ever and you're just like, yeah, dude. 870 00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:27,520 Speaker 5: It's like Steve Jobs and yeah, exactly exactly. I just 871 00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:31,600 Speaker 5: sang on a musical for Tesla. Somebody created a musical 872 00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:36,000 Speaker 5: and they have a cast album coming out soon. Oh 873 00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:38,320 Speaker 5: it's really interesting. It's such an interesting story. 874 00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:42,080 Speaker 1: Where's that going to be? Are we gonna be able to. 875 00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:45,799 Speaker 5: I don't know. They started putting the whole thing up 876 00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:50,960 Speaker 5: in London about a year ago, and then it started 877 00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:52,520 Speaker 5: going through some more rewrites and. 878 00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:54,800 Speaker 1: Maybe I need to come out of retirement. 879 00:46:55,600 --> 00:47:05,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, you could play testa. He was hot. I'm going 880 00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:06,560 Speaker 6: to say it. 881 00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:09,520 Speaker 1: I like Jensen and I looked into stuff and I 882 00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:12,680 Speaker 1: was like, there were two movies coming out, you know, 883 00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:15,920 Speaker 1: like right when you start thinking about something, then yeah, 884 00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:19,520 Speaker 1: they're making two everywhere, and so they're making two films, 885 00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:21,759 Speaker 1: and I'm like, Oh, we should do a series and like, 886 00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:28,560 Speaker 1: like a series more based in the visions he was 887 00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:29,719 Speaker 1: having and bring more of that. 888 00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:34,759 Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, that would be so cool. 889 00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:36,080 Speaker 1: And have Jensen play him. 890 00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:40,640 Speaker 6: But I don't know, maybe maybe Jay would like to 891 00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:41,120 Speaker 6: nerd out. 892 00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:43,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, can you write that script for us? 893 00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:49,839 Speaker 6: Hillary, I'm on it. It'll be all visions, all right. 894 00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:52,880 Speaker 6: What's my question here? Do you have something in your 895 00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:56,839 Speaker 6: life that just comes so easily that you know it's 896 00:47:56,920 --> 00:47:58,120 Speaker 6: exactly where you belong? 897 00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:06,000 Speaker 1: Yes? Mine, But it is that it is that question, like, 898 00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:08,759 Speaker 1: I have very strong intuitions about what I'm supposed to 899 00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:10,880 Speaker 1: be doing and where I'm supposed to be all the time, 900 00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:15,000 Speaker 1: and that can be and I've always had that, and 901 00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:18,680 Speaker 1: that can be it's time to get away from this 902 00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:23,000 Speaker 1: situation or this place, or to go somewhere. And I 903 00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:26,200 Speaker 1: just always feel like whatever that push or pull is 904 00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:27,640 Speaker 1: like my guess. 905 00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:31,160 Speaker 6: Have you ever second guessed it? Have you ever been 906 00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:32,640 Speaker 6: like I'm just being a psycho? 907 00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:33,279 Speaker 1: No? 908 00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:40,120 Speaker 5: Wow, so good. 909 00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:41,440 Speaker 1: Because it's it's been so right that I just don't 910 00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:46,520 Speaker 1: second guess it and I go for it fully, Like wow. 911 00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:50,600 Speaker 6: It's like the lesson that Paw taught us. Commit right, 912 00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:55,400 Speaker 6: like commit to the bit and you have always committed. 913 00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:58,640 Speaker 6: And I think that that just makes everyone else trust 914 00:48:58,840 --> 00:48:59,759 Speaker 6: your direction too. 915 00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:03,240 Speaker 1: Or I'm just like a complete psychotic person who doesn't 916 00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:05,360 Speaker 1: ever want to admit they were wrong. I'm like, no, 917 00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:09,200 Speaker 1: until it works. 918 00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:10,640 Speaker 6: It's just wrong thing? 919 00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:12,080 Speaker 5: What is wrong? 920 00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:13,480 Speaker 1: No? 921 00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:14,920 Speaker 6: No, we need more of that. 922 00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:18,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a great quality, honestly, because there's just so 923 00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:22,840 Speaker 5: much that living in fear will keep you. Oh I 924 00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:25,240 Speaker 5: can only speak for myself, but can keep me stuck 925 00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:27,480 Speaker 5: in a place of like instead of just moving, if 926 00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:31,040 Speaker 5: you just move, just keep moving, then like things can change, 927 00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:33,839 Speaker 5: you can shift and grow. And I will often get 928 00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:36,480 Speaker 5: paralyzed in like decision making and trying to figure out 929 00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:38,920 Speaker 5: what the right thing is, and it's just better to 930 00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:41,520 Speaker 5: keep moving and trust that things will work its way out. 931 00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:44,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. Well that part because you can waste a lot 932 00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:48,160 Speaker 1: of time, just like on the Hamster Wheel, you know, like, 933 00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:50,640 Speaker 1: oh it should it be this way? Should it be this? 934 00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,880 Speaker 1: You know, and I'm just like what I feel this, 935 00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:56,480 Speaker 1: and I'm going to go with that, you know. Yeah, yeah, 936 00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:59,000 Speaker 1: and if it's wrong, it's wrong and I'll learn something then. 937 00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:01,920 Speaker 1: But if it's not and it works and great, you know. 938 00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:02,920 Speaker 4: Yeah. 939 00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:05,480 Speaker 7: I think that's so cool that you've always felt like that. 940 00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:08,600 Speaker 7: That's that's something that I certainly feel like I'm growing 941 00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:12,360 Speaker 7: into is being like, no, I know how I feel. 942 00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:16,200 Speaker 7: I don't particularly I'm not gonna make my decisions based 943 00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:18,600 Speaker 7: on anybody else. And that's like that feels like a 944 00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:22,880 Speaker 7: new kind of ownership of self, and it is like 945 00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:26,319 Speaker 7: I'm like, wow, it's it is crazy to know that 946 00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:28,520 Speaker 7: you've always been so tapped into that. 947 00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:31,560 Speaker 4: It's like real old soul energy. 948 00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:35,600 Speaker 1: Oh well, I haven't really thought about it, like old 949 00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:39,440 Speaker 1: soul stuff, but yeah, I love like the idea that 950 00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:41,640 Speaker 1: our souls were here and they know things and like 951 00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:42,160 Speaker 1: a lot. 952 00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:43,480 Speaker 8: You know. 953 00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:45,800 Speaker 4: Have you read that book Journey of Souls. 954 00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:51,279 Speaker 6: Yeah, she's writing it down. She's gonna be sucking on 955 00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:52,239 Speaker 6: cough drops later. 956 00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:58,399 Speaker 7: It's it is so wild and so good. Okay, Oh, 957 00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:00,319 Speaker 7: I can't wait to talk to you about it when. 958 00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:02,000 Speaker 6: You read it on Have you had a medium tell 959 00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:04,400 Speaker 6: you that you're reincarnated someone else before? 960 00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:07,160 Speaker 1: No, I had someone to And I don't know a 961 00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:09,600 Speaker 1: lot about this, but I did have someone really really 962 00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:13,279 Speaker 1: great tell me that this was my last time? 963 00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:15,480 Speaker 6: What whoa? 964 00:51:15,880 --> 00:51:17,239 Speaker 1: And I didn't know what that meant and I had 965 00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:19,279 Speaker 1: to go. And I'm also one of those people like 966 00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:21,480 Speaker 1: in the moment, like it was such a great moment 967 00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:26,000 Speaker 1: that I was having with her, and she said, you know, 968 00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:30,399 Speaker 1: this is your last time here, so you know you're 969 00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:32,719 Speaker 1: doing it all and you're figuring out and you're really thinking, 970 00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:35,000 Speaker 1: and I was like, my last time here? And then 971 00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:38,480 Speaker 1: I went and looked it up. And you know, your 972 00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:41,160 Speaker 1: soul takes a lot of journeys and supposedly this is 973 00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:44,280 Speaker 1: my last one. So who let's get crazy. 974 00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:46,959 Speaker 6: Yeah, but you've leveled up. 975 00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:47,520 Speaker 5: You know. 976 00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:52,560 Speaker 6: That's like when you have absolutely leveled up. Maybe, yeah, 977 00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:54,879 Speaker 6: you're not a cat. It's not a nine lives thing. 978 00:51:57,320 --> 00:51:57,480 Speaker 1: Oh. 979 00:51:57,560 --> 00:52:00,439 Speaker 7: I think it also what a cool idea that someone 980 00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:02,000 Speaker 7: could tell you that and you could be like, well, 981 00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:02,520 Speaker 7: if it's. 982 00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:04,600 Speaker 4: My last time, I want to do it all. 983 00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:08,399 Speaker 7: Yeah, which kind of relates to our next question, where 984 00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:09,640 Speaker 7: would you most like to live? 985 00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:12,040 Speaker 4: Like if you want to do it all and see 986 00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:14,319 Speaker 4: it all, where would you most like to live? This 987 00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:15,040 Speaker 4: last time. 988 00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:21,640 Speaker 8: Around where I am right now, but but well like 989 00:52:21,920 --> 00:52:25,880 Speaker 8: a fantasy place is like I won because see this 990 00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:28,839 Speaker 8: is the thing and Chelsea Handler would tell you this. 991 00:52:29,520 --> 00:52:33,080 Speaker 1: Where like the damn kids come in because you. 992 00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:35,960 Speaker 6: Got got to look at the school districts. 993 00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:41,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, got to stay in your school district. Gosh. I 994 00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:45,799 Speaker 1: would love to live in Scotland. I've gone there a 995 00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:49,080 Speaker 1: lot as a kid, and my parents have a place 996 00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:53,640 Speaker 1: there and one magical castle land that's real and. 997 00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:56,439 Speaker 5: I want to go there so bad. I still haven't been. 998 00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:57,960 Speaker 4: Yeah there, I want to. 999 00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:00,799 Speaker 1: I haven't been up to the org Me Islands, but 1000 00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:05,040 Speaker 1: they're these like old prehistoric islands in Scotland, and like 1001 00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:09,680 Speaker 1: that would be amazing, just somewhere sort of wild and 1002 00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:15,440 Speaker 1: free and definitely in nature, you know. And I'm growing 1003 00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:18,520 Speaker 1: in my older age. I like the cold. I like 1004 00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:23,080 Speaker 1: colder places. This is not like anything hot, but I 1005 00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:26,480 Speaker 1: am or anything cold, but I'm I like a sweater. 1006 00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:32,719 Speaker 6: We were like lizards when we were kids. Now I 1007 00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:36,600 Speaker 6: want cold, maybe some rain, like give me some overcast. 1008 00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:40,600 Speaker 1: Give me the wood burning fire. Yes, yeah, that's what 1009 00:53:40,640 --> 00:53:41,000 Speaker 1: I want. 1010 00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:43,640 Speaker 6: What would be there with you? 1011 00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:45,440 Speaker 5: What is your most treasured possession? 1012 00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:56,400 Speaker 1: My family and Franklin our dog, oh yeah, who was 1013 00:53:56,400 --> 00:53:57,560 Speaker 1: also a family. 1014 00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:02,640 Speaker 6: The greatest. I love that you've built this family, you know, 1015 00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:05,040 Speaker 6: and it's been really fun to be your friend through 1016 00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:07,799 Speaker 6: it and all get to watch it, you know, to 1017 00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:11,400 Speaker 6: go from like you date in other dudes to meeting 1018 00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:13,600 Speaker 6: the man of your dreams and you guys like building 1019 00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:17,359 Speaker 6: all these homes together and having these kids, and it's 1020 00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:20,520 Speaker 6: cool to watch that trajectory. And that only happens when 1021 00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:28,759 Speaker 6: you're friends for decades, some decades, decades, So it's good 1022 00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:32,279 Speaker 6: to celebrate that, you know. Yeah, and then when all 1023 00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:34,440 Speaker 6: our kids hate us at the same time for lying 1024 00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:37,320 Speaker 6: to them, I'm going to hold each other's hands. 1025 00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:41,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's perfect, perfect, Danil. 1026 00:54:41,840 --> 00:54:43,840 Speaker 6: It is always a treasure seeing you. What are you 1027 00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:45,080 Speaker 6: going to do now? You're going to come out of 1028 00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:46,759 Speaker 6: that room and tell your kids that you did some 1029 00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:47,600 Speaker 6: serious business. 1030 00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:50,759 Speaker 1: I'm going to stay in here for a while, take 1031 00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:51,600 Speaker 1: a nap under this. 1032 00:54:51,680 --> 00:54:54,319 Speaker 4: Desk, use the quiet time while you have it. 1033 00:54:55,719 --> 00:54:57,920 Speaker 1: You're just actually having a play date with a friend. 1034 00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:03,120 Speaker 1: So wait, I don't know, like, go find a pumpkin 1035 00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:04,439 Speaker 1: patch or something. 1036 00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:12,439 Speaker 6: Cute, corn maize, apple, cider donuts. Yeah, the whole thing, 1037 00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:15,520 Speaker 6: all right, baby, Well, we love you. 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