WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: The Penguin’s Roommate

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<v Speaker 1>Looking jubiles a second d D you know, Normally, going

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<v Speaker 1>into these phone calls, I have a little bit of information,

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<v Speaker 1>but today I don't know anything. What I know nothing

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<v Speaker 1>about the guy on the phone that wants to do

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update today? Then why are we talking

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<v Speaker 1>to him? He sent us an email that said, I

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<v Speaker 1>need to do a second date update really bad, please

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<v Speaker 1>call me. So I figured let's call him. All I

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<v Speaker 1>know is he wants to do a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>He knows how to use an email account. His name

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<v Speaker 1>is Alex. Okay, and I'm assuming that the girl he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to call isn't calling him back. But who knows? Alex?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you hi? I'm doing okay, Alex? What's with

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<v Speaker 1>the vague email? Man? Uh? I don't know. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know it. Else to say is that I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>do a second date update. Well you could have given

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<v Speaker 1>us a little background information on the date itself and

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<v Speaker 1>what happened and why you want to call it? This girl? Okay? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>am I back? Tell us her name? Her name's Tiffany.

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<v Speaker 1>Tiffany Okay, tell us how you met Tiffany? I met

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<v Speaker 1>her at the club, all right, did you approach her?

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<v Speaker 1>She approached you. How'd you guys approach I approached her? Yeah? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And is this a move you make often at the club? No? Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>usually when I see a girl the club, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>get up the nerve to talk to her, and I

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<v Speaker 1>go home lonely. Wow, that's a sad, truthful statement. So

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<v Speaker 1>love to be honesty, Alex. All right, not good? So

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<v Speaker 1>what made this time different? What made you finally go

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<v Speaker 1>you know what? For once in my life, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go home lonely. I want to be happy. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I saw her dancing across the dance floor with her friends,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was moving her hips in this great way

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<v Speaker 1>and smiling, and it was just so joyful and her

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<v Speaker 1>hips words like all over the place. Was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta get in on some of that. All right, So Alex,

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<v Speaker 1>we know what you are motivated by. It's not like

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<v Speaker 1>I do. But it didn't hurt. I think she was

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<v Speaker 1>looking at me too, okay, So you felt like you

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<v Speaker 1>had some confidence like she had already given you maybe

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<v Speaker 1>the okay? Yeah, and her friends were looking over it

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<v Speaker 1>seemed like they were talking about me. I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>I was getting all the right signals. Nice. Maybe it's

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<v Speaker 1>because you were staring at her hips the whole time,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's like, dude, this guy want to stopped looking

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<v Speaker 1>at my hips? Well I wasn't the only one. Every like,

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<v Speaker 1>she was really drawing some attention. Okay, yeah, So you

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<v Speaker 1>went over and talked to her and he said, hey, lady,

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<v Speaker 1>I see your hips winking at me. I wink back.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? I wasn't that smooth? Actually, but that smooth?

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<v Speaker 1>What did you say? Then I went over and uh

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<v Speaker 1>started dancing with her. I brought out all my goofiest moves,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, the like the penguin and the cowboy,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not gonna lie. I think that that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>It is so much better than going up and trying

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<v Speaker 1>to grind on her hips. Okay, yeah, she laughed, so

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<v Speaker 1>you know, making go laugh that's it, right? Yeah? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So she thought it was funny that you were dancing

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<v Speaker 1>like that, and did your date end there at the

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<v Speaker 1>club or did you guys actually go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>real date. Well, towards the end of the night, things

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<v Speaker 1>were going well, so I just leaned in and whispered, dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to see the real penguin back at

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<v Speaker 1>my place? She gave me the nod. Wait she said,

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<v Speaker 1>she said, yes, she didn't pour a drink on you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she was laughing quite a bit, so I think she

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<v Speaker 1>said yes. Okay, Well, I mean I guess the ultimate

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<v Speaker 1>proof if she said yes, did she go back to

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<v Speaker 1>your place? She did? And how did the real penguin perform?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it started out pretty good. We'd get back.

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<v Speaker 1>My roommate was home, which was totally unexpected, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have the biggest place in the world, so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of in your face if somebody's around. But

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<v Speaker 1>I just, you know, offered her a drink and we're

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<v Speaker 1>sitting there hanging out talking and you know, she gets

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<v Speaker 1>like halfway through it and says, why don't we just

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<v Speaker 1>try this another time? It was that awkward. Wow, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>are you not friends with your roommate? No, we're close,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, I'm trying to progress things with a lady,

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<v Speaker 1>and the roommates in the way, if you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like physically in the way likes sitting between

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<v Speaker 1>you two, or just his mere presence was upsetting her.

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<v Speaker 1>Just the mere presence. I do see him sitting next

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<v Speaker 1>to you, rubbing your leg. So she said let's try

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<v Speaker 1>this another time. Yeah, And have you tried to text

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<v Speaker 1>her and call her and see if maybe you could

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<v Speaker 1>make another time happen. Yeah, I have, and I you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I texted her like do you want to see the

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<v Speaker 1>penguin again? And like love it? Yeah. I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>I was being really cute and fine. And I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>heard anything, so I don't know. And you're sure it's

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<v Speaker 1>the roommate's fault that ruined your mojo. It wasn't something

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<v Speaker 1>that you said, because you sound adorable but maybe not

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<v Speaker 1>so smooth all the time. Yeah, everything was fine and

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation was good. The only thing that changed me

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<v Speaker 1>my roommate. And are you still living with this roommate? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because I would have moved out right after. Yeah, I've

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<v Speaker 1>thought about it's kind of a deal breaker. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, come back, call her and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. All right, all right, brooking jubil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. Second, I feel really bad for Alex,

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<v Speaker 1>the guy who's on the phone to do a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update today. I feel really bad for him because

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<v Speaker 1>he's never gonna be able to listen to this song

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<v Speaker 1>the same ever again, because he was lied to buy

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<v Speaker 1>some hips if you miss the first part of today's

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. We talked to Alex about the girl

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<v Speaker 1>that he wants to call. He said he was originally

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<v Speaker 1>attracted to her on the dance floor at the club

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<v Speaker 1>because her hips would not stop looking at him and

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<v Speaker 1>moving in his general direction, and he felt so compelled

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<v Speaker 1>by her hips that he had to talk to her.

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<v Speaker 1>They danced for a little while they went back to

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<v Speaker 1>his place. He said everything was going smoothly except his

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<v Speaker 1>roommate was home, and he feels like his roommate might

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<v Speaker 1>have ruined his chances with this girl because she had

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<v Speaker 1>to leave, and that's the last that he's heard from her.

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<v Speaker 1>So he got lied to buy some hips. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>talk to your roommate about that night? I did, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, nothing that came up. It just seemed normal,

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know, okay. So they didn't take blame

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<v Speaker 1>for it or apologize, no, because it seemed like there

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<v Speaker 1>was nothing to apologize for. Okay, So we'll get her

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and find out what we're wrong. Here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Hello, Hi, is Tiffany there? This is she?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Tiffany, how are you? This is Jebel from Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewel in the Morning. M'm okay, who is this

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<v Speaker 1>jew Bil from brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show. Oh okay, I don't. I don't know it.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought maybe you were familiar I was and who

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<v Speaker 1>we were, but I guess not. I'm sorry. Sorry. Is

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<v Speaker 1>this going to take long? No, it shouldn't. Actually, I

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of have a like one question to ask

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<v Speaker 1>you and then we can let you go about your business. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>looks quick, that's right. Okay. It's about a guy named

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<v Speaker 1>Alex that you recently went out on a date with.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would It's a guy named Alex that you met

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<v Speaker 1>at the club and then you went back to his

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<v Speaker 1>house the Penguin. Maybe that rings a bell? Yeah, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I know who? Yeah? Okay? What? Okay? So Alex emailed

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<v Speaker 1>us because he really liked you, but he says that

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<v Speaker 1>you're not answering any of his phone calls or text messages,

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<v Speaker 1>so he thought maybe we could get you on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and find out if something went wrong the night

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys met. Yeah, it was. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>really weird night. Yeah, why it sounded I mean his

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<v Speaker 1>description of it made it sound pretty normal. You mean

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<v Speaker 1>you actually like spoke with him. Yeah, he told us

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<v Speaker 1>all about your date. Well I guess it's not really

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<v Speaker 1>like a date date, but he told us all about

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<v Speaker 1>the night that you guys met. Okay, I mean everything

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<v Speaker 1>he said was nice. He said that you guys seemed

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<v Speaker 1>to have a good connection. You laughed a lot, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you went back to his place, and then you

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<v Speaker 1>left and that's the last that he's heard from you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so weird. Okay, I thought he was really sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>I just was. I don't know. After the club, I

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of shocked with everything else that happened, well,

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<v Speaker 1>everything else had happened. What he told us, it sounded

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<v Speaker 1>pretty tame. But he told you about his roommate, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he said that the roommate was there, and he feels

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<v Speaker 1>like that killed the vibe. Yeah, yeah, it ruined everything. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what is this? I mean, that shouldn't be that big

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<v Speaker 1>of a deal, right, Um. No, it was actually one

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<v Speaker 1>of the most uncomfortable things. I mean, the uncomfortable situation

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever been. And why why everything was fine? I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't Well, first of all, I didn't know he had

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<v Speaker 1>a roommate, but like whatever, like a lot of people do.

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<v Speaker 1>So he when we started together, he told me his

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<v Speaker 1>roommate shouldn't be home. But then she was okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>it was a female, yeah, female, but it was his

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't Oh my god, I can't believe even tell

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<v Speaker 1>you this. Okay, it was his ex. Why wait, what

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<v Speaker 1>his roommate is his ex wife? Is that what you've

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<v Speaker 1>just said to us? Yeah, he lives with his ex.

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<v Speaker 1>Why he didn't tell us that at all? He just said,

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<v Speaker 1>my roommate. Yeah, that's exactly what he said to me too.

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<v Speaker 1>It was his roommate. And then she came into the room,

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<v Speaker 1>was like talking or whatever. He goes to get us

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<v Speaker 1>a beer, and she was like looking at me. Weird,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. And that's when I asked her, like,

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<v Speaker 1>how long have you guys been moroommates? How you know them?

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<v Speaker 1>And that's when she was just like, yeah, we were

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<v Speaker 1>married for two years now for three months. They've only

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<v Speaker 1>been divorced for three months. Three months. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of get it, like, you're you're living with somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>you get divorced, it's hard to move out, But why

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<v Speaker 1>the hell are you bringing women back to your place

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<v Speaker 1>that you're still living with your ex wife? Exactly it's

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<v Speaker 1>because she says she wasn't going to be there, and

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<v Speaker 1>then she was, hey, Tiffany, I should let you know

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<v Speaker 1>that Alex is on the phone. Are you kidding you

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<v Speaker 1>right now? No, Tiffany, I'm so sorry that this happened.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a total misunderstanding. I don't think so. How

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<v Speaker 1>is it a misunderstanding that it's your ex wife? That's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty easy to understand. Dry. Yeah, we have an agreement.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's not a big deal, like she's really

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<v Speaker 1>she's totally more of a roommate than an ex at

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<v Speaker 1>this point. You know, it's been a while three months

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<v Speaker 1>three months. Well, yeah, we got divorced just three months ago,

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<v Speaker 1>but the marriage was offered way before that. Well, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you should have told us that your roommate was your

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<v Speaker 1>ex wife. We might have known what the problem was.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's the fact that it was a female.

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<v Speaker 1>It's what the major problem. No, No, that is not

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<v Speaker 1>that is actually is not the issue. The issue is

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<v Speaker 1>that you are living with your ex wife and you're

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<v Speaker 1>inviting other females to come over, and that is not okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand where you're coming from, But her and I

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<v Speaker 1>have an agreement and we'll text each other when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>coming home and we'll clear out. And that's just the

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<v Speaker 1>way it's supposed to be. A way, yeah, sort of.

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<v Speaker 1>It obviously didn't work very well. If she hung around

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<v Speaker 1>and then told your lady friend that you brought over

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys were married, she never soon have said

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<v Speaker 1>that in the first place. It's against the rules of

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<v Speaker 1>our agreement. She broke the rules, and that's why you

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<v Speaker 1>got screwed out of this day. Can I think one

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<v Speaker 1>other thing? Sure? When he was going to get the

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<v Speaker 1>beer and I was like left in the room with her,

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<v Speaker 1>I heard him whispered her. Now that like, now that

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<v Speaker 1>I understand the circumstances, he whispered her, Hey, you have

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<v Speaker 1>to sleep on the couch tonight. And I cannot understand

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<v Speaker 1>what that meant. Well, obviously now I do. Are you kidding?

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<v Speaker 1>And you guys are still sharing a bed, the one

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<v Speaker 1>bedroom we bought the place a long time ago, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're just, you know, we're kind of stuck with it

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<v Speaker 1>for a little while. It's not a big deal. It

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<v Speaker 1>is a big deal. It's a huge deal. We do

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<v Speaker 1>sleep in the same bed, but we have a body

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<v Speaker 1>pillow that we put between us. Oh, all right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's all good exactly. I've never done anything with anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been in a bed with it. There's a body

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<v Speaker 1>pillow between us. It does work. It works. Oh, there

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<v Speaker 1>you go, Tiffany, What are you worried about? He's got

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<v Speaker 1>a body pillow between his ex wife who is his roommate. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go on a second date with him?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it. No, I don't think so. No.

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<v Speaker 1>So shocking that you don't want to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that sleeps with their ex wife every night. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>It's weird, isn't it. Yeah, you have too high of standards, Tiffany.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your loss? Because I mean, nowadays life is complicated

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<v Speaker 1>and people are starting different homes like after It's just

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<v Speaker 1>the way it is. Yeah, that's the way it is, Tiffany. Tiffany,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to be successful in the dating world,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna learn that you're going to have to date

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<v Speaker 1>men who are living with their wives. Her or broken

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<v Speaker 1>jubil in the morning when he was going to get

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<v Speaker 1>the beer and I was like left in the room

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<v Speaker 1>with her. I heard him whispered her, Hey, you have

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<v Speaker 1>to sleep on the couch tonight, are you kidding, and

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are still sharing a bed. It's a one bedroom.

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<v Speaker 1>We do sleep in the same bed, but we have

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<v Speaker 1>a body pill that we put between us. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Yeah, it's all good. Got a text in

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<v Speaker 1>at seven eighty five nine two that says this situation

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<v Speaker 1>is more common than you guys think. I have a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of friends who are doing this right now. The

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<v Speaker 1>situation is from today's second date update. This guy, Alex,

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to call a girl named Tiffany. They met one night,

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<v Speaker 1>went back to his place and his roommate was there,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what turned her off because his roommate was

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<v Speaker 1>not just his roommate, his roommate is actually his ex wife.

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<v Speaker 1>And she found out that, yeah, they actually sleep in

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<v Speaker 1>the same bed at night because they have a one

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<v Speaker 1>bedroom apartment. So it kind of killed the mood a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. Yeah, thank And he was like, it's been

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<v Speaker 1>over for a while, our marriage wasn't even that long.

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<v Speaker 1>We're more friends than anything. But still it doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>You can see how she was a little apprehensive. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the date him, let me jump in your marital bed

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<v Speaker 1>or ex marital bed and sleep on her side. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>it smells just like her, Yeah, knowing that the ex

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<v Speaker 1>wife is out on the couch while they're messing around.

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<v Speaker 1>Too soon for this guy to go out in fully date,

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<v Speaker 1>I think. I think he needs to get it stuff

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<v Speaker 1>together a little bit before, you know, or date, but

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<v Speaker 1>not necessarily bring the dates back to you and your

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<v Speaker 1>ex wife's apartment or suggest hey, why don't we go

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<v Speaker 1>back to your place? Like, why would you bring him

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<v Speaker 1>back to your place? Well, I have roommates. Oh that's

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<v Speaker 1>I have roommates. You know what, Well, back to my place.

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<v Speaker 1>I got a roommate. Yeah, wait, that's your ex wife

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<v Speaker 1>and you sleep in the same beds. But stop being

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<v Speaker 1>so judging. So they decided not to go out again.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm wondering how many people are actually in this situation though,

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<v Speaker 1>because I bet you what happens more than you think.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm wondering how many girls and how many guys the

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<v Speaker 1>ex wife have brought back to the place that had

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<v Speaker 1>no idea they were living together. They said, yeah, they said,

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<v Speaker 1>they coordinate with each other, like, hey, I have a

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<v Speaker 1>date tonight, so please don't be home, And for whatever reason,

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<v Speaker 1>she was actually at the apartment that night. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>think the last time probably went wrong and she's getting

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<v Speaker 1>a little payback, that's my guess. And it just shows

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<v Speaker 1>the difference between men and women here because all the

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<v Speaker 1>dudes texting and are like, I would have still done it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>of course it would have mattered to me, And all

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<v Speaker 1>the women are like, no, that's disturbing. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to mess around with some dude while his ex wife

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<v Speaker 1>is there. Yeah, even if she don't, you don't even

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<v Speaker 1>want to see pictures of an X in a picture frame.

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<v Speaker 1>And we're talking about like an ex girlfriend. Let alone

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<v Speaker 1>have the actual woman in the other room just hanging

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<v Speaker 1>out on the couch while you guys do your thing,

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<v Speaker 1>you come out and compare notes after she's just catching

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<v Speaker 1>up on her real housewives. Sorry about that, Hope we

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<v Speaker 1>weren't too loud in the other room and the cheese

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<v Speaker 1>platter you want? What do you want for breakfast? So

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<v Speaker 1>he texted in why didn't the wife leave because it's

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<v Speaker 1>her house. I don't think she has I think he

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<v Speaker 1>needs to change the way he's dating more than being

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<v Speaker 1>like get out. I know you live here, but you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have to sleep outside tonight because I got a date.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember if you want to do a second eight update

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<v Speaker 1>All you have to do is email the show, and

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<v Speaker 1>we will call the person who didn't call you back