Speaker 1: Looking jubiles a second d D you know, Normally, going
Speaker 1: into these phone calls, I have a little bit of information,
Speaker 1: but today I don't know anything. What I know nothing
Speaker 1: about the guy on the phone that wants to do
Speaker 1: a second date update today? Then why are we talking
Speaker 1: to him? He sent us an email that said, I
Speaker 1: need to do a second date update really bad, please
Speaker 1: call me. So I figured let's call him. All I
Speaker 1: know is he wants to do a second date update.
Speaker 1: He knows how to use an email account. His name
Speaker 1: is Alex. Okay, and I'm assuming that the girl he
Speaker 1: wants to call isn't calling him back. But who knows? Alex?
Speaker 1: How are you hi? I'm doing okay, Alex? What's with
Speaker 1: the vague email? Man? Uh? I don't know. I didn't
Speaker 1: know it. Else to say is that I wanted to
Speaker 1: do a second date update. Well you could have given
Speaker 1: us a little background information on the date itself and
Speaker 1: what happened and why you want to call it? This girl? Okay? Well,
Speaker 1: am I back? Tell us her name? Her name's Tiffany.
Speaker 1: Tiffany Okay, tell us how you met Tiffany? I met
Speaker 1: her at the club, all right, did you approach her?
Speaker 1: She approached you. How'd you guys approach I approached her? Yeah? Okay?
Speaker 1: And is this a move you make often at the club? No? Actually,
Speaker 1: usually when I see a girl the club, I can't
Speaker 1: get up the nerve to talk to her, and I
Speaker 1: go home lonely. Wow, that's a sad, truthful statement. So
Speaker 1: love to be honesty, Alex. All right, not good? So
Speaker 1: what made this time different? What made you finally go
Speaker 1: you know what? For once in my life, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna go home lonely. I want to be happy. Well,
Speaker 1: I saw her dancing across the dance floor with her friends,
Speaker 1: and she was moving her hips in this great way
Speaker 1: and smiling, and it was just so joyful and her
Speaker 1: hips words like all over the place. Was like, I
Speaker 1: gotta get in on some of that. All right, So Alex,
Speaker 1: we know what you are motivated by. It's not like
Speaker 1: I do. But it didn't hurt. I think she was
Speaker 1: looking at me too, okay, So you felt like you
Speaker 1: had some confidence like she had already given you maybe
Speaker 1: the okay? Yeah, and her friends were looking over it
Speaker 1: seemed like they were talking about me. I felt like
Speaker 1: I was getting all the right signals. Nice. Maybe it's
Speaker 1: because you were staring at her hips the whole time,
Speaker 1: and she's like, dude, this guy want to stopped looking
Speaker 1: at my hips? Well I wasn't the only one. Every like,
Speaker 1: she was really drawing some attention. Okay, yeah, So you
Speaker 1: went over and talked to her and he said, hey, lady,
Speaker 1: I see your hips winking at me. I wink back.
Speaker 1: What's up? I wasn't that smooth? Actually, but that smooth?
Speaker 1: What did you say? Then I went over and uh
Speaker 1: started dancing with her. I brought out all my goofiest moves,
Speaker 1: like you know, the like the penguin and the cowboy,
Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna lie. I think that that's awesome.
Speaker 1: It is so much better than going up and trying
Speaker 1: to grind on her hips. Okay, yeah, she laughed, so
Speaker 1: you know, making go laugh that's it, right? Yeah? Okay,
Speaker 1: So she thought it was funny that you were dancing
Speaker 1: like that, and did your date end there at the
Speaker 1: club or did you guys actually go out on a
Speaker 1: real date. Well, towards the end of the night, things
Speaker 1: were going well, so I just leaned in and whispered, dinner,
Speaker 1: do you want to see the real penguin back at
Speaker 1: my place? She gave me the nod. Wait she said,
Speaker 1: she said, yes, she didn't pour a drink on you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she was laughing quite a bit, so I think she
Speaker 1: said yes. Okay, Well, I mean I guess the ultimate
Speaker 1: proof if she said yes, did she go back to
Speaker 1: your place? She did? And how did the real penguin perform?
Speaker 1: You know, it started out pretty good. We'd get back.
Speaker 1: My roommate was home, which was totally unexpected, and I
Speaker 1: don't have the biggest place in the world, so you know,
Speaker 1: it's kind of in your face if somebody's around. But
Speaker 1: I just, you know, offered her a drink and we're
Speaker 1: sitting there hanging out talking and you know, she gets
Speaker 1: like halfway through it and says, why don't we just
Speaker 1: try this another time? It was that awkward. Wow, Yeah,
Speaker 1: are you not friends with your roommate? No, we're close,
Speaker 1: but you know, I'm trying to progress things with a lady,
Speaker 1: and the roommates in the way, if you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, like physically in the way likes sitting between
Speaker 1: you two, or just his mere presence was upsetting her.
Speaker 1: Just the mere presence. I do see him sitting next
Speaker 1: to you, rubbing your leg. So she said let's try
Speaker 1: this another time. Yeah, And have you tried to text
Speaker 1: her and call her and see if maybe you could
Speaker 1: make another time happen. Yeah, I have, and I you know,
Speaker 1: I texted her like do you want to see the
Speaker 1: penguin again? And like love it? Yeah. I felt like
Speaker 1: I was being really cute and fine. And I haven't
Speaker 1: heard anything, so I don't know. And you're sure it's
Speaker 1: the roommate's fault that ruined your mojo. It wasn't something
Speaker 1: that you said, because you sound adorable but maybe not
Speaker 1: so smooth all the time. Yeah, everything was fine and
Speaker 1: the conversation was good. The only thing that changed me
Speaker 1: my roommate. And are you still living with this roommate? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I would have moved out right after. Yeah, I've
Speaker 1: thought about it's kind of a deal breaker. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call her and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. All right, all right, brooking jubil
Speaker 1: in the morning. Second, I feel really bad for Alex,
Speaker 1: the guy who's on the phone to do a second
Speaker 1: date update today. I feel really bad for him because
Speaker 1: he's never gonna be able to listen to this song
Speaker 1: the same ever again, because he was lied to buy
Speaker 1: some hips if you miss the first part of today's
Speaker 1: second date update. We talked to Alex about the girl
Speaker 1: that he wants to call. He said he was originally
Speaker 1: attracted to her on the dance floor at the club
Speaker 1: because her hips would not stop looking at him and
Speaker 1: moving in his general direction, and he felt so compelled
Speaker 1: by her hips that he had to talk to her.
Speaker 1: They danced for a little while they went back to
Speaker 1: his place. He said everything was going smoothly except his
Speaker 1: roommate was home, and he feels like his roommate might
Speaker 1: have ruined his chances with this girl because she had
Speaker 1: to leave, and that's the last that he's heard from her.
Speaker 1: So he got lied to buy some hips. Did you
Speaker 1: talk to your roommate about that night? I did, and
Speaker 1: you know, nothing that came up. It just seemed normal,
Speaker 1: So I don't know, okay. So they didn't take blame
Speaker 1: for it or apologize, no, because it seemed like there
Speaker 1: was nothing to apologize for. Okay, So we'll get her
Speaker 1: on the phone and find out what we're wrong. Here
Speaker 1: we go. Hello, Hi, is Tiffany there? This is she?
Speaker 1: Hey Tiffany, how are you? This is Jebel from Brooke
Speaker 1: and Jewel in the Morning. M'm okay, who is this
Speaker 1: jew Bil from brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's
Speaker 1: a radio show. Oh okay, I don't. I don't know it.
Speaker 1: I thought maybe you were familiar I was and who
Speaker 1: we were, but I guess not. I'm sorry. Sorry. Is
Speaker 1: this going to take long? No, it shouldn't. Actually, I
Speaker 1: just kind of have a like one question to ask
Speaker 1: you and then we can let you go about your business. Okay,
Speaker 1: looks quick, that's right. Okay. It's about a guy named
Speaker 1: Alex that you recently went out on a date with.
Speaker 1: Why would It's a guy named Alex that you met
Speaker 1: at the club and then you went back to his
Speaker 1: house the Penguin. Maybe that rings a bell? Yeah, I know,
Speaker 1: I know who? Yeah? Okay? What? Okay? So Alex emailed
Speaker 1: us because he really liked you, but he says that
Speaker 1: you're not answering any of his phone calls or text messages,
Speaker 1: so he thought maybe we could get you on the
Speaker 1: phone and find out if something went wrong the night
Speaker 1: that you guys met. Yeah, it was. It was a
Speaker 1: really weird night. Yeah, why it sounded I mean his
Speaker 1: description of it made it sound pretty normal. You mean
Speaker 1: you actually like spoke with him. Yeah, he told us
Speaker 1: all about your date. Well I guess it's not really
Speaker 1: like a date date, but he told us all about
Speaker 1: the night that you guys met. Okay, I mean everything
Speaker 1: he said was nice. He said that you guys seemed
Speaker 1: to have a good connection. You laughed a lot, and
Speaker 1: then you went back to his place, and then you
Speaker 1: left and that's the last that he's heard from you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's so weird. Okay, I thought he was really sweet.
Speaker 1: I just was. I don't know. After the club, I
Speaker 1: was kind of shocked with everything else that happened, well,
Speaker 1: everything else had happened. What he told us, it sounded
Speaker 1: pretty tame. But he told you about his roommate, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: he said that the roommate was there, and he feels
Speaker 1: like that killed the vibe. Yeah, yeah, it ruined everything. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what is this? I mean, that shouldn't be that big
Speaker 1: of a deal, right, Um. No, it was actually one
Speaker 1: of the most uncomfortable things. I mean, the uncomfortable situation
Speaker 1: I've ever been. And why why everything was fine? I
Speaker 1: didn't Well, first of all, I didn't know he had
Speaker 1: a roommate, but like whatever, like a lot of people do.
Speaker 1: So he when we started together, he told me his
Speaker 1: roommate shouldn't be home. But then she was okay, so
Speaker 1: it was a female, yeah, female, but it was his
Speaker 1: It wasn't Oh my god, I can't believe even tell
Speaker 1: you this. Okay, it was his ex. Why wait, what
Speaker 1: his roommate is his ex wife? Is that what you've
Speaker 1: just said to us? Yeah, he lives with his ex.
Speaker 1: Why he didn't tell us that at all? He just said,
Speaker 1: my roommate. Yeah, that's exactly what he said to me too.
Speaker 1: It was his roommate. And then she came into the room,
Speaker 1: was like talking or whatever. He goes to get us
Speaker 1: a beer, and she was like looking at me. Weird,
Speaker 1: I don't know. And that's when I asked her, like,
Speaker 1: how long have you guys been moroommates? How you know them?
Speaker 1: And that's when she was just like, yeah, we were
Speaker 1: married for two years now for three months. They've only
Speaker 1: been divorced for three months. Three months. I mean, I
Speaker 1: kind of get it, like, you're you're living with somebody,
Speaker 1: you get divorced, it's hard to move out, But why
Speaker 1: the hell are you bringing women back to your place
Speaker 1: that you're still living with your ex wife? Exactly it's
Speaker 1: because she says she wasn't going to be there, and
Speaker 1: then she was, hey, Tiffany, I should let you know
Speaker 1: that Alex is on the phone. Are you kidding you
Speaker 1: right now? No, Tiffany, I'm so sorry that this happened.
Speaker 1: It's like a total misunderstanding. I don't think so. How
Speaker 1: is it a misunderstanding that it's your ex wife? That's
Speaker 1: pretty easy to understand. Dry. Yeah, we have an agreement.
Speaker 1: You know, it's not a big deal, like she's really
Speaker 1: she's totally more of a roommate than an ex at
Speaker 1: this point. You know, it's been a while three months
Speaker 1: three months. Well, yeah, we got divorced just three months ago,
Speaker 1: but the marriage was offered way before that. Well, maybe
Speaker 1: you should have told us that your roommate was your
Speaker 1: ex wife. We might have known what the problem was.
Speaker 1: I think it's the fact that it was a female.
Speaker 1: It's what the major problem. No, No, that is not
Speaker 1: that is actually is not the issue. The issue is
Speaker 1: that you are living with your ex wife and you're
Speaker 1: inviting other females to come over, and that is not okay.
Speaker 1: I understand where you're coming from, But her and I
Speaker 1: have an agreement and we'll text each other when I'm
Speaker 1: coming home and we'll clear out. And that's just the
Speaker 1: way it's supposed to be. A way, yeah, sort of.
Speaker 1: It obviously didn't work very well. If she hung around
Speaker 1: and then told your lady friend that you brought over
Speaker 1: that you guys were married, she never soon have said
Speaker 1: that in the first place. It's against the rules of
Speaker 1: our agreement. She broke the rules, and that's why you
Speaker 1: got screwed out of this day. Can I think one
Speaker 1: other thing? Sure? When he was going to get the
Speaker 1: beer and I was like left in the room with her,
Speaker 1: I heard him whispered her. Now that like, now that
Speaker 1: I understand the circumstances, he whispered her, Hey, you have
Speaker 1: to sleep on the couch tonight. And I cannot understand
Speaker 1: what that meant. Well, obviously now I do. Are you kidding?
Speaker 1: And you guys are still sharing a bed, the one
Speaker 1: bedroom we bought the place a long time ago, and
Speaker 1: we're just, you know, we're kind of stuck with it
Speaker 1: for a little while. It's not a big deal. It
Speaker 1: is a big deal. It's a huge deal. We do
Speaker 1: sleep in the same bed, but we have a body
Speaker 1: pillow that we put between us. Oh, all right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's all good exactly. I've never done anything with anybody.
Speaker 1: I've been in a bed with it. There's a body
Speaker 1: pillow between us. It does work. It works. Oh, there
Speaker 1: you go, Tiffany, What are you worried about? He's got
Speaker 1: a body pillow between his ex wife who is his roommate. Now,
Speaker 1: would you like to go on a second date with him?
Speaker 1: We will pay for it. No, I don't think so. No.
Speaker 1: So shocking that you don't want to go out with
Speaker 1: somebody that sleeps with their ex wife every night. Right,
Speaker 1: It's weird, isn't it. Yeah, you have too high of standards, Tiffany.
Speaker 1: What's your loss? Because I mean, nowadays life is complicated
Speaker 1: and people are starting different homes like after It's just
Speaker 1: the way it is. Yeah, that's the way it is, Tiffany. Tiffany,
Speaker 1: if you want to be successful in the dating world,
Speaker 1: you're gonna learn that you're going to have to date
Speaker 1: men who are living with their wives. Her or broken
Speaker 1: jubil in the morning when he was going to get
Speaker 1: the beer and I was like left in the room
Speaker 1: with her. I heard him whispered her, Hey, you have
Speaker 1: to sleep on the couch tonight, are you kidding, and
Speaker 1: you guys are still sharing a bed. It's a one bedroom.
Speaker 1: We do sleep in the same bed, but we have
Speaker 1: a body pill that we put between us. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, Yeah, it's all good. Got a text in
Speaker 1: at seven eighty five nine two that says this situation
Speaker 1: is more common than you guys think. I have a
Speaker 1: bunch of friends who are doing this right now. The
Speaker 1: situation is from today's second date update. This guy, Alex,
Speaker 1: wanted to call a girl named Tiffany. They met one night,
Speaker 1: went back to his place and his roommate was there,
Speaker 1: and that's what turned her off because his roommate was
Speaker 1: not just his roommate, his roommate is actually his ex wife.
Speaker 1: And she found out that, yeah, they actually sleep in
Speaker 1: the same bed at night because they have a one
Speaker 1: bedroom apartment. So it kind of killed the mood a
Speaker 1: little bit. Yeah, thank And he was like, it's been
Speaker 1: over for a while, our marriage wasn't even that long.
Speaker 1: We're more friends than anything. But still it doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: You can see how she was a little apprehensive. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the date him, let me jump in your marital bed
Speaker 1: or ex marital bed and sleep on her side. Oh
Speaker 1: it smells just like her, Yeah, knowing that the ex
Speaker 1: wife is out on the couch while they're messing around.
Speaker 1: Too soon for this guy to go out in fully date,
Speaker 1: I think. I think he needs to get it stuff
Speaker 1: together a little bit before, you know, or date, but
Speaker 1: not necessarily bring the dates back to you and your
Speaker 1: ex wife's apartment or suggest hey, why don't we go
Speaker 1: back to your place? Like, why would you bring him
Speaker 1: back to your place? Well, I have roommates. Oh that's
Speaker 1: I have roommates. You know what, Well, back to my place.
Speaker 1: I got a roommate. Yeah, wait, that's your ex wife
Speaker 1: and you sleep in the same beds. But stop being
Speaker 1: so judging. So they decided not to go out again.
Speaker 1: I'm wondering how many people are actually in this situation though,
Speaker 1: because I bet you what happens more than you think.
Speaker 1: I'm wondering how many girls and how many guys the
Speaker 1: ex wife have brought back to the place that had
Speaker 1: no idea they were living together. They said, yeah, they said,
Speaker 1: they coordinate with each other, like, hey, I have a
Speaker 1: date tonight, so please don't be home, And for whatever reason,
Speaker 1: she was actually at the apartment that night. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think the last time probably went wrong and she's getting
Speaker 1: a little payback, that's my guess. And it just shows
Speaker 1: the difference between men and women here because all the
Speaker 1: dudes texting and are like, I would have still done it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: of course it would have mattered to me, And all
Speaker 1: the women are like, no, that's disturbing. I don't want
Speaker 1: to mess around with some dude while his ex wife
Speaker 1: is there. Yeah, even if she don't, you don't even
Speaker 1: want to see pictures of an X in a picture frame.
Speaker 1: And we're talking about like an ex girlfriend. Let alone
Speaker 1: have the actual woman in the other room just hanging
Speaker 1: out on the couch while you guys do your thing,
Speaker 1: you come out and compare notes after she's just catching
Speaker 1: up on her real housewives. Sorry about that, Hope we
Speaker 1: weren't too loud in the other room and the cheese
Speaker 1: platter you want? What do you want for breakfast? So
Speaker 1: he texted in why didn't the wife leave because it's
Speaker 1: her house. I don't think she has I think he
Speaker 1: needs to change the way he's dating more than being
Speaker 1: like get out. I know you live here, but you're
Speaker 1: gonna have to sleep outside tonight because I got a date.
Speaker 1: Remember if you want to do a second eight update
Speaker 1: All you have to do is email the show, and
Speaker 1: we will call the person who didn't call you back