1
00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:07,760
Speaker 1: Looking jubiles a second d D you know, Normally, going

2
00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:10,280
Speaker 1: into these phone calls, I have a little bit of information,

3
00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:13,960
Speaker 1: but today I don't know anything. What I know nothing

4
00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:16,639
Speaker 1: about the guy on the phone that wants to do

5
00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:18,840
Speaker 1: a second date update today? Then why are we talking

6
00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:20,840
Speaker 1: to him? He sent us an email that said, I

7
00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:23,240
Speaker 1: need to do a second date update really bad, please

8
00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:26,000
Speaker 1: call me. So I figured let's call him. All I

9
00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:28,120
Speaker 1: know is he wants to do a second date update.

10
00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:31,360
Speaker 1: He knows how to use an email account. His name

11
00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:34,879
Speaker 1: is Alex. Okay, and I'm assuming that the girl he

12
00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:37,879
Speaker 1: wants to call isn't calling him back. But who knows? Alex?

13
00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:43,320
Speaker 1: How are you hi? I'm doing okay, Alex? What's with

14
00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:47,040
Speaker 1: the vague email? Man? Uh? I don't know. I didn't

15
00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:49,040
Speaker 1: know it. Else to say is that I wanted to

16
00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:51,160
Speaker 1: do a second date update. Well you could have given

17
00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:54,560
Speaker 1: us a little background information on the date itself and

18
00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:58,600
Speaker 1: what happened and why you want to call it? This girl? Okay? Well,

19
00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:01,880
Speaker 1: am I back? Tell us her name? Her name's Tiffany.

20
00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:05,200
Speaker 1: Tiffany Okay, tell us how you met Tiffany? I met

21
00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:07,679
Speaker 1: her at the club, all right, did you approach her?

22
00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:11,440
Speaker 1: She approached you. How'd you guys approach I approached her? Yeah? Okay?

23
00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:14,840
Speaker 1: And is this a move you make often at the club? No? Actually,

24
00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:16,880
Speaker 1: usually when I see a girl the club, I can't

25
00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:19,000
Speaker 1: get up the nerve to talk to her, and I

26
00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:23,400
Speaker 1: go home lonely. Wow, that's a sad, truthful statement. So

27
00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:26,560
Speaker 1: love to be honesty, Alex. All right, not good? So

28
00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:29,080
Speaker 1: what made this time different? What made you finally go

29
00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:31,320
Speaker 1: you know what? For once in my life, I'm not

30
00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:35,200
Speaker 1: gonna go home lonely. I want to be happy. Well,

31
00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:38,840
Speaker 1: I saw her dancing across the dance floor with her friends,

32
00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:42,160
Speaker 1: and she was moving her hips in this great way

33
00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:45,959
Speaker 1: and smiling, and it was just so joyful and her

34
00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:48,760
Speaker 1: hips words like all over the place. Was like, I

35
00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:52,320
Speaker 1: gotta get in on some of that. All right, So Alex,

36
00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:56,200
Speaker 1: we know what you are motivated by. It's not like

37
00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:00,520
Speaker 1: I do. But it didn't hurt. I think she was

38
00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:02,720
Speaker 1: looking at me too, okay, So you felt like you

39
00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:05,080
Speaker 1: had some confidence like she had already given you maybe

40
00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:08,000
Speaker 1: the okay? Yeah, and her friends were looking over it

41
00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:10,600
Speaker 1: seemed like they were talking about me. I felt like

42
00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:12,600
Speaker 1: I was getting all the right signals. Nice. Maybe it's

43
00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:14,959
Speaker 1: because you were staring at her hips the whole time,

44
00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:17,240
Speaker 1: and she's like, dude, this guy want to stopped looking

45
00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:21,639
Speaker 1: at my hips? Well I wasn't the only one. Every like,

46
00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:24,360
Speaker 1: she was really drawing some attention. Okay, yeah, So you

47
00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:26,320
Speaker 1: went over and talked to her and he said, hey, lady,

48
00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:28,640
Speaker 1: I see your hips winking at me. I wink back.

49
00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:35,560
Speaker 1: What's up? I wasn't that smooth? Actually, but that smooth?

50
00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:38,960
Speaker 1: What did you say? Then I went over and uh

51
00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:42,440
Speaker 1: started dancing with her. I brought out all my goofiest moves,

52
00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:45,680
Speaker 1: like you know, the like the penguin and the cowboy,

53
00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:49,160
Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna lie. I think that that's awesome.

54
00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,360
Speaker 1: It is so much better than going up and trying

55
00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:55,760
Speaker 1: to grind on her hips. Okay, yeah, she laughed, so

56
00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:58,959
Speaker 1: you know, making go laugh that's it, right? Yeah? Okay,

57
00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:00,680
Speaker 1: So she thought it was funny that you were dancing

58
00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:03,680
Speaker 1: like that, and did your date end there at the

59
00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:05,840
Speaker 1: club or did you guys actually go out on a

60
00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:08,799
Speaker 1: real date. Well, towards the end of the night, things

61
00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,120
Speaker 1: were going well, so I just leaned in and whispered, dinner,

62
00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:13,000
Speaker 1: do you want to see the real penguin back at

63
00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:18,960
Speaker 1: my place? She gave me the nod. Wait she said,

64
00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:22,160
Speaker 1: she said, yes, she didn't pour a drink on you. Yeah,

65
00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:23,720
Speaker 1: she was laughing quite a bit, so I think she

66
00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:26,240
Speaker 1: said yes. Okay, Well, I mean I guess the ultimate

67
00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:27,800
Speaker 1: proof if she said yes, did she go back to

68
00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:31,960
Speaker 1: your place? She did? And how did the real penguin perform?

69
00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:37,160
Speaker 1: You know, it started out pretty good. We'd get back.

70
00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:41,840
Speaker 1: My roommate was home, which was totally unexpected, and I

71
00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:45,520
Speaker 1: don't have the biggest place in the world, so you know,

72
00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:48,440
Speaker 1: it's kind of in your face if somebody's around. But

73
00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:51,880
Speaker 1: I just, you know, offered her a drink and we're

74
00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:54,880
Speaker 1: sitting there hanging out talking and you know, she gets

75
00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:58,240
Speaker 1: like halfway through it and says, why don't we just

76
00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:02,680
Speaker 1: try this another time? It was that awkward. Wow, Yeah,

77
00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:06,240
Speaker 1: are you not friends with your roommate? No, we're close,

78
00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:08,920
Speaker 1: but you know, I'm trying to progress things with a lady,

79
00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:10,920
Speaker 1: and the roommates in the way, if you know what

80
00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:14,800
Speaker 1: I mean, like physically in the way likes sitting between

81
00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:18,280
Speaker 1: you two, or just his mere presence was upsetting her.

82
00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:22,479
Speaker 1: Just the mere presence. I do see him sitting next

83
00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:27,480
Speaker 1: to you, rubbing your leg. So she said let's try

84
00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:31,719
Speaker 1: this another time. Yeah, And have you tried to text

85
00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:33,840
Speaker 1: her and call her and see if maybe you could

86
00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,560
Speaker 1: make another time happen. Yeah, I have, and I you know,

87
00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:38,120
Speaker 1: I texted her like do you want to see the

88
00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:43,200
Speaker 1: penguin again? And like love it? Yeah. I felt like

89
00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:46,039
Speaker 1: I was being really cute and fine. And I haven't

90
00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:48,640
Speaker 1: heard anything, so I don't know. And you're sure it's

91
00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:51,559
Speaker 1: the roommate's fault that ruined your mojo. It wasn't something

92
00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,280
Speaker 1: that you said, because you sound adorable but maybe not

93
00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:57,120
Speaker 1: so smooth all the time. Yeah, everything was fine and

94
00:04:57,160 --> 00:04:59,720
Speaker 1: the conversation was good. The only thing that changed me

95
00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:04,200
Speaker 1: my roommate. And are you still living with this roommate? Yeah,

96
00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:07,760
Speaker 1: because I would have moved out right after. Yeah, I've

97
00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:10,920
Speaker 1: thought about it's kind of a deal breaker. All right, Well,

98
00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:13,240
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call her and get

99
00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:20,760
Speaker 1: your second date update. All right, all right, brooking jubil

100
00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:25,200
Speaker 1: in the morning. Second, I feel really bad for Alex,

101
00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:27,239
Speaker 1: the guy who's on the phone to do a second

102
00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:30,840
Speaker 1: date update today. I feel really bad for him because

103
00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:33,320
Speaker 1: he's never gonna be able to listen to this song

104
00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:43,039
Speaker 1: the same ever again, because he was lied to buy

105
00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:47,080
Speaker 1: some hips if you miss the first part of today's

106
00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:49,800
Speaker 1: second date update. We talked to Alex about the girl

107
00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:51,360
Speaker 1: that he wants to call. He said he was originally

108
00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:53,360
Speaker 1: attracted to her on the dance floor at the club

109
00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:57,479
Speaker 1: because her hips would not stop looking at him and

110
00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:00,800
Speaker 1: moving in his general direction, and he felt so compelled

111
00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:02,520
Speaker 1: by her hips that he had to talk to her.

112
00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:04,919
Speaker 1: They danced for a little while they went back to

113
00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:07,600
Speaker 1: his place. He said everything was going smoothly except his

114
00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:10,120
Speaker 1: roommate was home, and he feels like his roommate might

115
00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:12,040
Speaker 1: have ruined his chances with this girl because she had

116
00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:14,280
Speaker 1: to leave, and that's the last that he's heard from her.

117
00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:17,320
Speaker 1: So he got lied to buy some hips. Did you

118
00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:20,279
Speaker 1: talk to your roommate about that night? I did, and

119
00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:23,240
Speaker 1: you know, nothing that came up. It just seemed normal,

120
00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:26,119
Speaker 1: So I don't know, okay. So they didn't take blame

121
00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:29,120
Speaker 1: for it or apologize, no, because it seemed like there

122
00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:31,880
Speaker 1: was nothing to apologize for. Okay, So we'll get her

123
00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:33,480
Speaker 1: on the phone and find out what we're wrong. Here

124
00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:43,920
Speaker 1: we go. Hello, Hi, is Tiffany there? This is she?

125
00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:47,000
Speaker 1: Hey Tiffany, how are you? This is Jebel from Brooke

126
00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:52,400
Speaker 1: and Jewel in the Morning. M'm okay, who is this

127
00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:55,120
Speaker 1: jew Bil from brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's

128
00:06:55,160 --> 00:06:59,800
Speaker 1: a radio show. Oh okay, I don't. I don't know it.

129
00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:04,320
Speaker 1: I thought maybe you were familiar I was and who

130
00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:06,880
Speaker 1: we were, but I guess not. I'm sorry. Sorry. Is

131
00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:10,320
Speaker 1: this going to take long? No, it shouldn't. Actually, I

132
00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:12,600
Speaker 1: just kind of have a like one question to ask

133
00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:17,000
Speaker 1: you and then we can let you go about your business. Okay,

134
00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:19,360
Speaker 1: looks quick, that's right. Okay. It's about a guy named

135
00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:21,920
Speaker 1: Alex that you recently went out on a date with.

136
00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:26,600
Speaker 1: Why would It's a guy named Alex that you met

137
00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:28,120
Speaker 1: at the club and then you went back to his

138
00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:31,400
Speaker 1: house the Penguin. Maybe that rings a bell? Yeah, I know,

139
00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:36,840
Speaker 1: I know who? Yeah? Okay? What? Okay? So Alex emailed

140
00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:39,800
Speaker 1: us because he really liked you, but he says that

141
00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:43,000
Speaker 1: you're not answering any of his phone calls or text messages,

142
00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:44,680
Speaker 1: so he thought maybe we could get you on the

143
00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:46,960
Speaker 1: phone and find out if something went wrong the night

144
00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:52,720
Speaker 1: that you guys met. Yeah, it was. It was a

145
00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:58,280
Speaker 1: really weird night. Yeah, why it sounded I mean his

146
00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:01,760
Speaker 1: description of it made it sound pretty normal. You mean

147
00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:04,400
Speaker 1: you actually like spoke with him. Yeah, he told us

148
00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:06,520
Speaker 1: all about your date. Well I guess it's not really

149
00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:08,280
Speaker 1: like a date date, but he told us all about

150
00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:12,600
Speaker 1: the night that you guys met. Okay, I mean everything

151
00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:14,600
Speaker 1: he said was nice. He said that you guys seemed

152
00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:17,000
Speaker 1: to have a good connection. You laughed a lot, and

153
00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,040
Speaker 1: then you went back to his place, and then you

154
00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:24,480
Speaker 1: left and that's the last that he's heard from you. Yeah,

155
00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:28,120
Speaker 1: it's so weird. Okay, I thought he was really sweet.

156
00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:32,480
Speaker 1: I just was. I don't know. After the club, I

157
00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:35,520
Speaker 1: was kind of shocked with everything else that happened, well,

158
00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:37,680
Speaker 1: everything else had happened. What he told us, it sounded

159
00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:41,760
Speaker 1: pretty tame. But he told you about his roommate, right, Yeah,

160
00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:43,600
Speaker 1: he said that the roommate was there, and he feels

161
00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:51,880
Speaker 1: like that killed the vibe. Yeah, yeah, it ruined everything. Yeah,

162
00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:54,480
Speaker 1: what is this? I mean, that shouldn't be that big

163
00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:57,240
Speaker 1: of a deal, right, Um. No, it was actually one

164
00:08:57,240 --> 00:09:01,120
Speaker 1: of the most uncomfortable things. I mean, the uncomfortable situation

165
00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:04,760
Speaker 1: I've ever been. And why why everything was fine? I

166
00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:06,480
Speaker 1: didn't Well, first of all, I didn't know he had

167
00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:09,679
Speaker 1: a roommate, but like whatever, like a lot of people do.

168
00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:13,240
Speaker 1: So he when we started together, he told me his

169
00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:17,640
Speaker 1: roommate shouldn't be home. But then she was okay, so

170
00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:21,880
Speaker 1: it was a female, yeah, female, but it was his

171
00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:24,920
Speaker 1: It wasn't Oh my god, I can't believe even tell

172
00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:29,560
Speaker 1: you this. Okay, it was his ex. Why wait, what

173
00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:32,200
Speaker 1: his roommate is his ex wife? Is that what you've

174
00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:36,400
Speaker 1: just said to us? Yeah, he lives with his ex.

175
00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:38,400
Speaker 1: Why he didn't tell us that at all? He just said,

176
00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:41,600
Speaker 1: my roommate. Yeah, that's exactly what he said to me too.

177
00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:43,880
Speaker 1: It was his roommate. And then she came into the room,

178
00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:47,120
Speaker 1: was like talking or whatever. He goes to get us

179
00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:49,600
Speaker 1: a beer, and she was like looking at me. Weird,

180
00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:52,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. And that's when I asked her, like,

181
00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:54,679
Speaker 1: how long have you guys been moroommates? How you know them?

182
00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:58,960
Speaker 1: And that's when she was just like, yeah, we were

183
00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:03,360
Speaker 1: married for two years now for three months. They've only

184
00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:06,439
Speaker 1: been divorced for three months. Three months. I mean, I

185
00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:09,520
Speaker 1: kind of get it, like, you're you're living with somebody,

186
00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:11,560
Speaker 1: you get divorced, it's hard to move out, But why

187
00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:13,880
Speaker 1: the hell are you bringing women back to your place

188
00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:17,839
Speaker 1: that you're still living with your ex wife? Exactly it's

189
00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:19,480
Speaker 1: because she says she wasn't going to be there, and

190
00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:23,560
Speaker 1: then she was, hey, Tiffany, I should let you know

191
00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:27,480
Speaker 1: that Alex is on the phone. Are you kidding you

192
00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:31,280
Speaker 1: right now? No, Tiffany, I'm so sorry that this happened.

193
00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:37,120
Speaker 1: It's like a total misunderstanding. I don't think so. How

194
00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:40,439
Speaker 1: is it a misunderstanding that it's your ex wife? That's

195
00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:44,800
Speaker 1: pretty easy to understand. Dry. Yeah, we have an agreement.

196
00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:47,480
Speaker 1: You know, it's not a big deal, like she's really

197
00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:49,679
Speaker 1: she's totally more of a roommate than an ex at

198
00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:52,320
Speaker 1: this point. You know, it's been a while three months

199
00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:57,720
Speaker 1: three months. Well, yeah, we got divorced just three months ago,

200
00:10:57,760 --> 00:11:01,959
Speaker 1: but the marriage was offered way before that. Well, maybe

201
00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:04,280
Speaker 1: you should have told us that your roommate was your

202
00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:08,160
Speaker 1: ex wife. We might have known what the problem was.

203
00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:10,800
Speaker 1: I think it's the fact that it was a female.

204
00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:15,640
Speaker 1: It's what the major problem. No, No, that is not

205
00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:18,640
Speaker 1: that is actually is not the issue. The issue is

206
00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:20,800
Speaker 1: that you are living with your ex wife and you're

207
00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:25,440
Speaker 1: inviting other females to come over, and that is not okay.

208
00:11:25,679 --> 00:11:27,800
Speaker 1: I understand where you're coming from, But her and I

209
00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:30,240
Speaker 1: have an agreement and we'll text each other when I'm

210
00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:32,120
Speaker 1: coming home and we'll clear out. And that's just the

211
00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:36,199
Speaker 1: way it's supposed to be. A way, yeah, sort of.

212
00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:39,240
Speaker 1: It obviously didn't work very well. If she hung around

213
00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:42,080
Speaker 1: and then told your lady friend that you brought over

214
00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:46,200
Speaker 1: that you guys were married, she never soon have said

215
00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:47,760
Speaker 1: that in the first place. It's against the rules of

216
00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:51,280
Speaker 1: our agreement. She broke the rules, and that's why you

217
00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:54,000
Speaker 1: got screwed out of this day. Can I think one

218
00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:57,240
Speaker 1: other thing? Sure? When he was going to get the

219
00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:59,120
Speaker 1: beer and I was like left in the room with her,

220
00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:02,680
Speaker 1: I heard him whispered her. Now that like, now that

221
00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:05,560
Speaker 1: I understand the circumstances, he whispered her, Hey, you have

222
00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:09,680
Speaker 1: to sleep on the couch tonight. And I cannot understand

223
00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:13,760
Speaker 1: what that meant. Well, obviously now I do. Are you kidding?

224
00:12:13,800 --> 00:12:16,920
Speaker 1: And you guys are still sharing a bed, the one

225
00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:21,679
Speaker 1: bedroom we bought the place a long time ago, and

226
00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:24,240
Speaker 1: we're just, you know, we're kind of stuck with it

227
00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:26,240
Speaker 1: for a little while. It's not a big deal. It

228
00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:30,520
Speaker 1: is a big deal. It's a huge deal. We do

229
00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:32,160
Speaker 1: sleep in the same bed, but we have a body

230
00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:35,520
Speaker 1: pillow that we put between us. Oh, all right, Yeah,

231
00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:40,800
Speaker 1: it's all good exactly. I've never done anything with anybody.

232
00:12:40,840 --> 00:12:42,120
Speaker 1: I've been in a bed with it. There's a body

233
00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:46,640
Speaker 1: pillow between us. It does work. It works. Oh, there

234
00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:49,200
Speaker 1: you go, Tiffany, What are you worried about? He's got

235
00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:52,200
Speaker 1: a body pillow between his ex wife who is his roommate. Now,

236
00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:53,920
Speaker 1: would you like to go on a second date with him?

237
00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:58,960
Speaker 1: We will pay for it. No, I don't think so. No.

238
00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:02,000
Speaker 1: So shocking that you don't want to go out with

239
00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:04,520
Speaker 1: somebody that sleeps with their ex wife every night. Right,

240
00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:08,559
Speaker 1: It's weird, isn't it. Yeah, you have too high of standards, Tiffany.

241
00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:12,120
Speaker 1: What's your loss? Because I mean, nowadays life is complicated

242
00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:15,160
Speaker 1: and people are starting different homes like after It's just

243
00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:19,640
Speaker 1: the way it is. Yeah, that's the way it is, Tiffany. Tiffany,

244
00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:21,440
Speaker 1: if you want to be successful in the dating world,

245
00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:23,840
Speaker 1: you're gonna learn that you're going to have to date

246
00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:29,040
Speaker 1: men who are living with their wives. Her or broken

247
00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:31,800
Speaker 1: jubil in the morning when he was going to get

248
00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:33,520
Speaker 1: the beer and I was like left in the room

249
00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:36,680
Speaker 1: with her. I heard him whispered her, Hey, you have

250
00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:40,719
Speaker 1: to sleep on the couch tonight, are you kidding, and

251
00:13:40,800 --> 00:13:44,280
Speaker 1: you guys are still sharing a bed. It's a one bedroom.

252
00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:46,960
Speaker 1: We do sleep in the same bed, but we have

253
00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:49,760
Speaker 1: a body pill that we put between us. Oh yeah,

254
00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:52,560
Speaker 1: all right, Yeah, it's all good. Got a text in

255
00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:55,040
Speaker 1: at seven eighty five nine two that says this situation

256
00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:57,400
Speaker 1: is more common than you guys think. I have a

257
00:13:57,440 --> 00:13:59,240
Speaker 1: bunch of friends who are doing this right now. The

258
00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:02,839
Speaker 1: situation is from today's second date update. This guy, Alex,

259
00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:05,360
Speaker 1: wanted to call a girl named Tiffany. They met one night,

260
00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:08,400
Speaker 1: went back to his place and his roommate was there,

261
00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:11,280
Speaker 1: and that's what turned her off because his roommate was

262
00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:15,280
Speaker 1: not just his roommate, his roommate is actually his ex wife.

263
00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:19,080
Speaker 1: And she found out that, yeah, they actually sleep in

264
00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:20,920
Speaker 1: the same bed at night because they have a one

265
00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:23,880
Speaker 1: bedroom apartment. So it kind of killed the mood a

266
00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:26,360
Speaker 1: little bit. Yeah, thank And he was like, it's been

267
00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:28,800
Speaker 1: over for a while, our marriage wasn't even that long.

268
00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:31,800
Speaker 1: We're more friends than anything. But still it doesn't matter.

269
00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:34,400
Speaker 1: You can see how she was a little apprehensive. Yeah,

270
00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:37,000
Speaker 1: the date him, let me jump in your marital bed

271
00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:40,280
Speaker 1: or ex marital bed and sleep on her side. Oh

272
00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:43,040
Speaker 1: it smells just like her, Yeah, knowing that the ex

273
00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:45,840
Speaker 1: wife is out on the couch while they're messing around.

274
00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:48,680
Speaker 1: Too soon for this guy to go out in fully date,

275
00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:50,480
Speaker 1: I think. I think he needs to get it stuff

276
00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:52,600
Speaker 1: together a little bit before, you know, or date, but

277
00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:56,280
Speaker 1: not necessarily bring the dates back to you and your

278
00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:59,440
Speaker 1: ex wife's apartment or suggest hey, why don't we go

279
00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:03,560
Speaker 1: back to your place? Like, why would you bring him

280
00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:06,520
Speaker 1: back to your place? Well, I have roommates. Oh that's

281
00:15:06,720 --> 00:15:08,320
Speaker 1: I have roommates. You know what, Well, back to my place.

282
00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:11,880
Speaker 1: I got a roommate. Yeah, wait, that's your ex wife

283
00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:15,160
Speaker 1: and you sleep in the same beds. But stop being

284
00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:20,400
Speaker 1: so judging. So they decided not to go out again.

285
00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:23,040
Speaker 1: I'm wondering how many people are actually in this situation though,

286
00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:24,720
Speaker 1: because I bet you what happens more than you think.

287
00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:27,160
Speaker 1: I'm wondering how many girls and how many guys the

288
00:15:27,240 --> 00:15:29,040
Speaker 1: ex wife have brought back to the place that had

289
00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:34,880
Speaker 1: no idea they were living together. They said, yeah, they said,

290
00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:36,360
Speaker 1: they coordinate with each other, like, hey, I have a

291
00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:38,920
Speaker 1: date tonight, so please don't be home, And for whatever reason,

292
00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:42,400
Speaker 1: she was actually at the apartment that night. Yeah, I

293
00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:44,720
Speaker 1: think the last time probably went wrong and she's getting

294
00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:47,920
Speaker 1: a little payback, that's my guess. And it just shows

295
00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:50,440
Speaker 1: the difference between men and women here because all the

296
00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:52,800
Speaker 1: dudes texting and are like, I would have still done it. Yeah,

297
00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:54,640
Speaker 1: of course it would have mattered to me, And all

298
00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:56,760
Speaker 1: the women are like, no, that's disturbing. I don't want

299
00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:58,560
Speaker 1: to mess around with some dude while his ex wife

300
00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:02,360
Speaker 1: is there. Yeah, even if she don't, you don't even

301
00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:05,280
Speaker 1: want to see pictures of an X in a picture frame.

302
00:16:05,320 --> 00:16:07,520
Speaker 1: And we're talking about like an ex girlfriend. Let alone

303
00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:11,080
Speaker 1: have the actual woman in the other room just hanging

304
00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:13,160
Speaker 1: out on the couch while you guys do your thing,

305
00:16:14,320 --> 00:16:17,400
Speaker 1: you come out and compare notes after she's just catching

306
00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:21,360
Speaker 1: up on her real housewives. Sorry about that, Hope we

307
00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:25,920
Speaker 1: weren't too loud in the other room and the cheese

308
00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:27,800
Speaker 1: platter you want? What do you want for breakfast? So

309
00:16:27,960 --> 00:16:30,200
Speaker 1: he texted in why didn't the wife leave because it's

310
00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:32,800
Speaker 1: her house. I don't think she has I think he

311
00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:35,680
Speaker 1: needs to change the way he's dating more than being

312
00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:37,880
Speaker 1: like get out. I know you live here, but you're

313
00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:40,560
Speaker 1: gonna have to sleep outside tonight because I got a date.

314
00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:42,280
Speaker 1: Remember if you want to do a second eight update

315
00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:43,440
Speaker 1: All you have to do is email the show, and

316
00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:45,960
Speaker 1: we will call the person who didn't call you back