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Speaker 1: M. Darcy. I'm so happy you're here. I'm so happy

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Speaker 1: you have to read your intro newscaster. You know my

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Speaker 1: next guest from the Good Place, Barry, a league of

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Speaker 1: their own and the upcoming Sunny Nights on Hulu. It's

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Speaker 1: Darcy Cardon. By the way, that's short list. It's giving

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Speaker 1: short list because your resume, it just keeps going. It's yours. No, Darcy, Darcy,

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Speaker 1: mine don't go like yours.

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Speaker 2: Well, you had, you would practically a decade at one

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Speaker 2: place did work. You know that's gonna shorten it. But

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Speaker 2: it's no place.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's the it's the place, Darcy. I'm so happy

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Speaker 1: you're here here. Thank you for doing this in honor.

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Speaker 1: And I kind of like our kind of matching get ups.

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Speaker 1: I had sambas to put on my feet, but I

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Speaker 1: I I thought we shouldn't with black or black with white,

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Speaker 1: black with.

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Speaker 2: White almost were those?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 1: Are we the same cod they kind of are? Maybe

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Speaker 1: I feel connected to you already. What's happening?

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Speaker 2: I see how good your nails look are their little hearts.

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Speaker 1: Their little hearts me day for V Day. I'm usually

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Speaker 1: never this person. Should we do a close up? Don't

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Speaker 1: do it? Somebody told me that the way I show

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Speaker 1: my nails on FaceTime is wrong, because I go, do

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Speaker 1: you see my nail little claws? Do you see my

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Speaker 1: little shrimpies? I suppose to everyone does this, that's true.

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Speaker 1: I go, see see my nails.

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Speaker 2: I just got a manicure. And it was a manicure

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Speaker 2: that like, it was very tender and loving, if this

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Speaker 2: makes sense. Like the woman that gave it to me,

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Speaker 2: I was like I loved her and she was sweet

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Speaker 2: and it was like a good experience. And this was

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Speaker 2: on Saturday, and today is what Wednesday? Yes, like most

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Speaker 2: of the polishes has popped off exactly.

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Speaker 1: I will tell you when I was gonna say, gentle manicure. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I hear. That's how I feel about it, gentle manicure.

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Speaker 2: She put on the polish too gently, and then maybe

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Speaker 2: all of my little like what do you call these

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Speaker 2: cute cut holes are now they're kind of like for

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Speaker 1: Again as though you didn't go on side, but I

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Speaker 1: do love her. You went for the vibe. Yeah yeah, sweet,

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Speaker 1: lady's sweet? Who or what do you want to say

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Speaker 1: thanks to? Before we dive deep?

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Speaker 2: Okay, now here's the thing I had something okay, and

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Speaker 2: then something happened.

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Speaker 1: Just isn't that crazy.

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Speaker 2: I'm like this, I want to say thank you to

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Speaker 2: this person.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what is there a world in what you say

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Speaker 1: thanks to the person? And then I also want to

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Speaker 1: know what you were gonna say thanks because there's no

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Speaker 2: That's right, okay, because what if the rule was to

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Speaker 2: think two different situations, it could have been yes, okay.

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Speaker 2: So as I was parking, I had to do something.

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Speaker 2: I was in the valet downstairs, and the guy sort

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Speaker 2: of he was busy, right, so he kind of did

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Speaker 2: this thing where he did like a like a hand

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Speaker 2: I hope I get this right. So it was like

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Speaker 2: it was like a tight squeeze to kind of go

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Speaker 2: then I you know, that was that. That was the exchange.

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Speaker 2: And then I walked around the corner and a guy

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Speaker 2: I guess I've been thinking about parking earlier.

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Speaker 1: Do you get anxious about parking? Not anxious?

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Speaker 2: Okay, no, My thought is it's so cocky. My thought

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Speaker 1: I know that's right. I can park anywhere, any space,

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Speaker 1: but it is it's like a thankless, thankless to be

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Speaker 1: able to park. I do. I do pride myself in parking.

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Speaker 1: My ability to park too. I'm a good I reverse

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Speaker 1: into all spots. Yes, I love that because it's easy

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Speaker 1: go with it. It's so worthy. I love taking the

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Speaker 1: extra time I'm with you, and anytime I'm driving someone

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Speaker 1: like internally like watch this. I watch what I'm do something,

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Speaker 1: and I'm gonna say, nine times out of ten they comment,

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Speaker 1: You know, it's not fishing for it, but shout out

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm so with you and also like

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Speaker 2: giving you, giving you instruction unless you're really need it, Yes,

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Speaker 2: but I'm like, you're making it worse. Are you doing

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Speaker 1: You have an audience.

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Speaker 2: Literally don't need to look at you. You're the wrong person.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to look at the goddamn street.

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Speaker 1: Yes, in the curb, yeah, the curb and the person.

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, so sorry to be this person, but

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Speaker 2: it's always a man.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you're this person. You imagine. Have you ever

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Speaker 1: seen a woman just watching someone parallel? Part? Now, I

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Speaker 1: don't think I have not time.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't exist.

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Speaker 1: And the person who complimented you was a man, right,

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Speaker 1: that's true. So he has cleansed the all really totally.

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Speaker 1: He's cleared there, He's cleared their slate. And I feel like,

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Speaker 1: so long as neither of us go into the world

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Speaker 1: and encounter another man watching us far for the rest

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Speaker 1: of our lives are toned for of the men. Okay,

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Speaker 1: well done, I want to give it. Can we please

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Speaker 1: give it up? And even come on, Yeah, this is

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Speaker 1: an crowd, This is an active crowd. I beg them

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna be like this unless I drink.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm good because you don't want to hear the

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Speaker 1: slip slip stops in the in the podcast. People are

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Speaker 1: watching podcasts now, Darce, Well that's how do you feel

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Speaker 1: about an on camera podcast? Be real? The real?

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Speaker 2: I mean, okay, okay. It has changed so fast, the landscape,

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Speaker 2: two people who are on podcasts for years and who

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Speaker 2: it has changed so dramatically, so quickly. When I first

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Speaker 2: when we were like doing the I don't know, it

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Speaker 2: was like, I was like goodbye, like just swept out

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I wore a little bracelet.

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Speaker 1: I love the bracelet and those diamonds.

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Speaker 2: But can I tell me if you ever do this?

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Speaker 1: Okay, tell me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you know when you go to an Okay, it

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Speaker 2: is still here. This is this is strictly for basically actresses.

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Speaker 2: You know when you go to an event and your

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Speaker 2: stylist styles you, and she gives you all this jewelry

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, you're you're in the in between space fun.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yes, I know she's gonna probably pick it up

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Speaker 1: So I'm just kidding, don't wearing See, I'm too scared.

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Speaker 1: I'm scared. I'm like, someone's gonna rob me in this moment.

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Speaker 2: But then you can also be like, I I lost

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Speaker 2: it at the Emmys or wherever you yes, and then

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Speaker 2: they'll be like, well that happens.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because there is insurance, I discovered.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, better than being like I lost it on the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I lost it at the Emmys. I mean

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Speaker 1: winning podcasts. It's not, but we might. You never know.

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Speaker 2: Okay. So all that is to say, I'm I guess

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Speaker 2: I'm except Okay, here's the other truth about about watching podcasts.

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Speaker 2: I'm saying on a podcast that I've watched, please with

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Speaker 2: people that do podcasts that people can watch. And this

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Speaker 2: is sort of like admitting my maybe like like old ladiness,

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Speaker 2: but I listen. I consume so much less podcast now

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Speaker 2: I should like watch Okay.

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Speaker 2: I won't listen to it on my walk or on

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Speaker 2: like so rarely do yes.

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Speaker 2: I can totally do I do podcast driving or walking okay,

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Speaker 2: yeah okay. Or if I'm like again, actress talk. But

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Speaker 1: You start a podcast called actress? Actress? For sure?

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Speaker 2: Like you know how something as you're in a hotel

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Speaker 1: Okay, so this is important, this is huge. I am like, okay, technology,

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Speaker 1: it's changing the world. Blah blah blah blah blah, it's coming,

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Speaker 1: it's happening fast. The podcast to be your Friend is

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Speaker 1: so like I'll put on a podcast. It feels like

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Speaker 1: this is weird. Yeah, this is that thing. This is

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Speaker 1: like one step removed from the movie Her where I'm like,

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Speaker 2: What's the word when someone solicitor.

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Speaker 2: Anything that makes you feel safe, I like.

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Speaker 1: I think they got too many people like that it needed.

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Speaker 1: I don't know people sharing phone numbers. How do you

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Speaker 2: If it's like, oh my god, I can't believe we

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Speaker 1: I feel like, okay, can I tell you? Okay?

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Speaker 2: It makes me feel like I need a fort knock.

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Speaker 1: Yes, a fort Knox. I feel like, and I love

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Speaker 1: I'm already wanted a rant about this, but it's the

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Speaker 2: Totally right? Someone sharing your number, you have to ask.

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Speaker 1: It's not public, it's not public knowledge for a reason.

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Speaker 2: even if the person is like, hey, do you mind

433
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Speaker 2: giving me so and So's number, even before I would respond.

434
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Speaker 1: I would go to that person, that's what you got

435
00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:22,000
Speaker 1: to do. Yeah, that's what you got to Darcy. But

436
00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:24,879
Speaker 1: we're talking about all my high level life things right now,

437
00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:27,200
Speaker 1: and I'm here to talk about you girl. Six inches

438
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Speaker 1: six inches? Oh good. That's who taught you that you're

439
00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:30,840
Speaker 1: you're producer?

440
00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:33,640
Speaker 2: It's on some podcast. Is that even six inches?

441
00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:36,320
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's like that big hand six Oh

442
00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:37,920
Speaker 1: this this maybe it's this.

443
00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:41,480
Speaker 2: Remember this move when you're a little kid like I do.

444
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Speaker 1: Those are stupid. They are dumb as hell. I was one.

445
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Speaker 1: It's great. One beIN one. Okay. You were in the

446
00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:49,879
Speaker 1: Bay Area. You moved to LA Did you have you

447
00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:50,879
Speaker 1: done any other city?

448
00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:53,840
Speaker 2: I from yeah, half, here's what it was mean, Bay Area.

449
00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:57,800
Speaker 2: Went to school in Ashland, Oregon. Okay, so that's four years.

450
00:20:58,160 --> 00:21:02,080
Speaker 2: Moved directly to New York City, lived there for eleven

451
00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:05,359
Speaker 2: years my whole twenties, and then moved here.

452
00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:08,840
Speaker 1: When you moved from Oregon to New York were the

453
00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:11,080
Speaker 1: people you went to college with? Like?

454
00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:15,560
Speaker 2: Whoa Darcy is taking a leap somewhere? A couple gals

455
00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:18,320
Speaker 2: moved with, like to all move together? Well, one of

456
00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:19,920
Speaker 2: them did. Summer Day Ross.

457
00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:25,439
Speaker 1: Summer Day Ross, Okay, the same day. Beautiful name, beautiful name.

458
00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:26,919
Speaker 2: Beautiful girl, beautiful dancer.

459
00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:27,960
Speaker 1: Beautiful girl, beautiful friend.

460
00:21:28,680 --> 00:21:30,840
Speaker 2: So we moved out to New York together, but there

461
00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:33,360
Speaker 2: were a couple other people from our school that lived there.

462
00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:35,520
Speaker 2: But yeah, I think Oregon to New York was a

463
00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:39,000
Speaker 2: big move. But I sort of I in high school,

464
00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:41,800
Speaker 2: I was like dead set on going to college in

465
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Speaker 2: New York, like, no question, That's where I was going

466
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Speaker 2: to go. And then when it became time to like

467
00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:49,919
Speaker 2: when do you submit for college senior year?

468
00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:53,360
Speaker 1: Right, I think no, like you have to apply God

469
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Speaker 1: your hour. Yes.

470
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Speaker 2: But around that time, all of a sudden, it was

471
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Speaker 2: like something switch and I got so like preemptively homesick.

472
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:08,480
Speaker 2: I was like, it's too far, It's wow. And so

473
00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:10,919
Speaker 2: I don't know what that was. It was like I

474
00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:12,439
Speaker 2: was braver the younger I was.

475
00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:13,240
Speaker 1: Yeah.

476
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Speaker 2: So then I my organ Ashland, Oregon Southern Oregon University.

477
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Speaker 2: University has like a great acting program in Shakespeare. It's

478
00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 2: like it's like a Shakespeare town, okay, And we had

479
00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:26,119
Speaker 2: gone there a few times in high school and it

480
00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:29,560
Speaker 2: was just like it was it was the like you

481
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Speaker 2: know when you kind of go Was that the right choice?

482
00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:32,560
Speaker 2: I don't know moving to New York? What did I

483
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Speaker 2: miss out on?

484
00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:33,280
Speaker 1: Blah?

485
00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:35,639
Speaker 2: Blah blah. I'm like it was great. It was the

486
00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:38,000
Speaker 2: right choice. I didn't want to stay there longer than

487
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Speaker 2: I did, but it was like perfect and a great education.

488
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Speaker 1: Okay, see I love that. I mean, you're like, was

489
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Speaker 1: that good? Did you buy it? Do I do? I

490
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Speaker 1: believe that that sounds well. I wonder do you have

491
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Speaker 1: siblings A bunch many one older, too younger? Okay, then

492
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Speaker 1: I have a bunch as well, Yes, exactly, but I'm

493
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Speaker 1: the baby.

494
00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:03,680
Speaker 2: Gotta love me, good job.

495
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:06,520
Speaker 1: Do you know that? You know?

496
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:10,280
Speaker 2: And the I'm the second.

497
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Speaker 1: Okay, only one in entertainment, are you well?

498
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Speaker 2: No, my brother is an editor, so that that's like

499
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:22,720
Speaker 2: he's not on stage. Yeah, okay, my brother edits animated

500
00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:24,040
Speaker 2: movies and TV shows.

501
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,160
Speaker 1: Oh cool, I think that is very cool.

502
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:32,280
Speaker 2: Wow, I know yeah. I And then like my dad

503
00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 2: is a music guy, so he was like always playing

504
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:37,679
Speaker 2: in bands and stuff and would would dabble in in acting.

505
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:40,200
Speaker 2: Was it would dabble in like plays like community theaters?

506
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Speaker 1: So fun? Were you excited about that as a youth friend?

507
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:46,480
Speaker 2: Okay, totally, I think it inspired. I was like, dad

508
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:50,280
Speaker 2: can do it, I can do it, you know, like, like, uh,

509
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Speaker 2: I remember seeing him in a play and like a

510
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:58,159
Speaker 2: church play and going I want to say backstage, but

511
00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:02,600
Speaker 2: that just means behind the church, I guess, and like right,

512
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:04,920
Speaker 2: and like watching them all kind of like like put

513
00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 2: on their little makeup and like you know, say like

514
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 2: got your back or whatever. And I was like I

515
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:12,639
Speaker 2: was in awe. I was just like I would go.

516
00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:14,159
Speaker 2: I don't think my other siblings would come to the

517
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:15,440
Speaker 2: play every night. I would like go to the play

518
00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:19,439
Speaker 2: every night and watch it, and I would I have

519
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:23,439
Speaker 2: the kind of brain or like imagination where I'm like

520
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:27,240
Speaker 2: all consumed with it, you know. So it's I'm like

521
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Speaker 2: going to a play. It still is like this.

522
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Speaker 1: Or a movie.

523
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 2: I like can't think of anything else but what I'm watching.

524
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Speaker 2: I'm like a little kid, like my brain over overactive

525
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:40,119
Speaker 2: or I don't know what it is. I don't know

526
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Speaker 2: what it is. But it was definitely like that where

527
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Speaker 2: I was like sitting on the edge of my pew,

528
00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:48,400
Speaker 2: you know. And and then anyway, so that was a

529
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Speaker 2: little taste of like I want to do this.

530
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Speaker 1: So then when you were like I want to then

531
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Speaker 1: presumably study theater in college. Your parents were supportive.

532
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Speaker 2: They were supportive, they were It's so funny, like my

533
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 2: dad not at all like a rewriting of history, but

534
00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 2: his memo, you know, you only know what they presented

535
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:12,159
Speaker 2: you with. So my dad is like, now, he's like,

536
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:13,920
Speaker 2: there were times where I tried to kind of get

537
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 2: you away from it, but I'm so glad you didn't.

538
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 2: But and I was like, oh, I never felt that oblivious,

539
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,919
Speaker 2: So I think so I think I was like I was,

540
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 2: so I know you you wanted to study medicine, right.

541
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Speaker 1: I did study biology. I did. I didn't want you did,

542
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:32,920
Speaker 1: but I did study biology.

543
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:35,440
Speaker 2: So I never had that. I never had like another

544
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Speaker 2: like if this doesn't work, or even like oh maybe

545
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Speaker 2: I'm better at this. It was just like, once I

546
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 2: realized you could do this as a job, I did.

547
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:47,359
Speaker 2: I just couldn't think of anything else. So I was

548
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:51,200
Speaker 2: They were supportive and nervous, but supportive.

549
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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, that's very cool. And then to go to

550
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Speaker 1: Southern Oregon University from there to New York, and you

551
00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 1: said this thing about not sure if maybe you should

552
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:02,439
Speaker 1: have gone straight to New York, but that might have

553
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 1: afforded you. I interestedly have that sometimes about I went

554
00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:08,919
Speaker 1: to USC because I wanted to be an actor. But

555
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,159
Speaker 1: I was studying biology. Whole family thing. I've said it

556
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,119
Speaker 1: a billion times. I shan't bore you. Well, what if

557
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,200
Speaker 1: sounds listening for the first time.

558
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 2: Google Google one interview.

559
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:20,879
Speaker 1: You just get tired of talking about yourself and like

560
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 1: you want to hear this fun, interesting thing about me.

561
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 2: That's especially for the listeners.

562
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 1: Million times I'm like, guys, I'm sorry, but if you

563
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 1: don't know, google it, which is cocky way you'll find it.

564
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,160
Speaker 1: I've just said it so much. But I did study biology.

565
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 1: But I went to college here in LA and I

566
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:41,400
Speaker 1: after all is said and done, I mean, I'm still

567
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 1: alive after college at the end of my day. But

568
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know if I needed to

569
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:51,040
Speaker 1: go to LA for college. Maybe my college could have

570
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:53,120
Speaker 1: been somewhere else. I just thought I need to get

571
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Speaker 1: to where the acting happens. Even though I did none

572
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:55,720
Speaker 1: of it.

573
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 2: I felt the same way. I feel like. I think

574
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Speaker 2: it was that I didn't but I am I. While

575
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 2: I was in Oregon, I was sort of like they're

576
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 2: passing me by, you know, or like like I always

577
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 2: have had do you have this or did you have this?

578
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 2: Or do you still have this? Like do you I

579
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,119
Speaker 2: would as a kid, knowing that I wanted to be

580
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:21,560
Speaker 2: an actor. I would like compare my life to kids

581
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 2: on TV and I'd be like, wow, they're already on TV.

582
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:26,359
Speaker 1: Well, yes, yes, I've had I had had that. Yes,

583
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: I'm like the Disney dreams are right, so I guess

584
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:32,879
Speaker 1: that's not happen. I'm auditioning for us and because I'm

585
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:35,119
Speaker 1: not going to be a Disney kid totally.

586
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 2: So there were there were enough like things like I

587
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 2: really held onto that where I was like, I guess

588
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:49,080
Speaker 2: I'll never be Rudy Huxtable. But but the that the

589
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:52,159
Speaker 2: college thing was that came hardcore where I was like

590
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,159
Speaker 2: I fucked myself, Like I I that would have been

591
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 2: four years that I would have been that much further

592
00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 2: in New York. And it's like no, in reality, like

593
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:01,640
Speaker 2: you're just I don't know, let college be college.

594
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:03,639
Speaker 1: I think. So I think that's good advice, and I

595
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 1: think I wish I had I did let it be,

596
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:08,400
Speaker 1: but I would have maybe done it differently. It might

597
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:12,399
Speaker 1: not have gone to school in LA maybe if I

598
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 1: was sort of like, yeah, just take your time and

599
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 1: let college be college. If I had that mindset, it

600
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:18,159
Speaker 1: all works out. It's worked out for you if I

601
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 1: may say, pretty sure, we're doing all right, yea, but

602
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 1: it is an interesting thing where you're like negotiating and

603
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 1: doing the math and like, oh, that's four years. I

604
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:30,120
Speaker 1: felt that way even then again about UCB, not realizing

605
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 1: UCB was here during my whole college.

606
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:35,160
Speaker 2: Experience, and then you're like, I could have been taking class.

607
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 1: I could have been taking class. This is the whole time,

608
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 1: and I would have further along. I would.

609
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 2: I did the exact same thing with UCB, where it

610
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 2: was like a lot of people would take class one

611
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:46,479
Speaker 2: after another and I would like take class and love it,

612
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 2: and then I would like go do a play and

613
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 2: then come back and everybody else was in like two

614
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 2: levels ahead of me, and you know, but I would

615
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 2: go do another play or whatever, and I would I

616
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 2: would yeah kind of what does self flagellation mean?

617
00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 1: Does that mean you're like, oh, like that feels that

618
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 1: sounds right? Yeah, I like it. I would like, I

619
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 1: like naughty, yes, yeah, you're doing this wrong. Yeah, but yeah.

620
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:10,680
Speaker 2: And then now we can say, now that we're eighty

621
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 2: years old, we can be like and it all worked

622
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 2: out at the time, you just don't know. And also

623
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 2: it's fun to play like sliding doors.

624
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 1: It is. But then I'm like, is there a way?

625
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 1: So I took a class in college called the Science

626
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 1: of Happiness, and spoiler, the whole thing is that the

627
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 1: people who are able to be present are the happiest. Okay,

628
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 1: let me not focused on the past.

629
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 2: Who were able to be present? Cool?

630
00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 1: Cool? Yes, cool, so not over not thinking about the past,

631
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 1: not thinking about the future, who are just like I'm here,

632
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 1: it's now it as well you know, yes, did a

633
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 1: whole semester, paid a lot of money for that, whether

634
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 1: it's what those couldn't put it put it in a pamphlet.

635
00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 1: So I I just think that it's so easy to

636
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 1: do the sliding doors thing for all of your life.

637
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 1: You're like, no, why, I just maybe if and and

638
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 1: there's something to be said for being like it's all

639
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 1: working out how it's meant.

640
00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 2: To And I, yeah, I abscribe to this. Yeah, one

641
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:06,000
Speaker 2: one hundred billion percent. Yeah, Like I don't really, I don't.

642
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 2: I want to. I don't want to say I don't

643
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 2: believe in regrets, but I think I don't.

644
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:13,480
Speaker 1: I love this as you say it was a villainous laugh.

645
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, yeah, I think do you have a regret.

646
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 2: Like if someone is like, what's your biggest regret, I

647
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 2: try to be like fuck.

648
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:21,840
Speaker 1: You and beat them up.

649
00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 2: But I mean, I'm sure you have like I wish

650
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 2: I didn't say that thing to that person or whatever.

651
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,600
Speaker 2: But I think as far as like big old choices,

652
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 2: you just gotta like I think you gotta think, you

653
00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 2: gotta like own it, love it. I don't know, I

654
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:36,880
Speaker 2: don't know. I really like this.

655
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 1: I it's good. No, it's good because I feel like

656
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 1: if you're able to be present, you have truly unlocked

657
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 1: the thing. That's what the whole entire course was. Yeah,

658
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 1: I feel like it's what meditation is asking us to do.

659
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 1: So much of like self healthy things is it's like

660
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 1: just it's be here.

661
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 2: Also, one of the reasons why you're such a good

662
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 2: improviser and performer, oh think right, don't.

663
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:00,520
Speaker 1: Take you well, it's it's true. I think. I think

664
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 1: it's a big it's a big part of it. I

665
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 1: was a better I say I was a better person

666
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 1: when I was doing improv regularly because I was just like,

667
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 1: it's all good and it's gonna be fine. Because I'm

668
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:13,720
Speaker 1: in the practice of yes, and all the time on

669
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 1: stage I'm like bring that to life problem and I

670
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 1: don't do it as much anymore.

671
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 2: We did it for the listeners at home watchers. We

672
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:26,600
Speaker 2: did a fun little week in Washington, DC a couple

673
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 2: of years ago.

674
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:36,440
Speaker 1: Yes, dependent Kennedy and my dog, chief Cake. I knew

675
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 1: dog I was, he was brand new, he was brand

676
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 1: new to my life. Chief It was just like a

677
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:44,160
Speaker 1: special little a few days week. I don't remember. Yes,

678
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 1: it was like almost I did. I did half a week.

679
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 1: I know that with touring, I'm a little like enough

680
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 1: after and then I think that about like three nights anywhere, yok,

681
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 1: even on vacation. Are you a good vacationer?

682
00:31:56,560 --> 00:32:01,960
Speaker 2: I think, let's see good vacation. I think I am.

683
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 2: As long as it's like the way I want it

684
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 2: to be.

685
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 1: Oh my god, And when you hear yourself, you hear it.

686
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 1: But the thing about it is that I agree, you

687
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 1: know what I mean.

688
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:16,120
Speaker 2: And I'm not even saying like, uh no, maybe I

689
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,240
Speaker 2: was about to say, like, it's not even like a

690
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 2: like a luxury snobby thing. It's but maybe that is

691
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 2: also I'm sure part of it. But it's like the

692
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 2: way I want it to be. So like Jason husband

693
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 2: and I went on vacation to Hawaii a couple of

694
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,400
Speaker 2: years ago, and we realized after the first night of

695
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 2: like eating out at the fancy restaurant, that we were like,

696
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 2: we don't want to we don't want to do that

697
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 2: again this entire time. We want to order room service

698
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 2: and play cards in our room every single night.

699
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 1: Oh so great.

700
00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 2: We would open the like the the you know, like

701
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 2: we were staying on the on the ocean, on the beach,

702
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 2: so we just opened the doors and we'd put our

703
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 2: little card table out on the porch and we would

704
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 2: like eat a burger or whatever and play cards and

705
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:58,040
Speaker 2: go to bed at like nine o'clock. That's what I mean.

706
00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:01,240
Speaker 2: Like that you may the vacation what you want it

707
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:01,479
Speaker 2: to be.

708
00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 1: And yes, I understand, there's just no pressure to be

709
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 1: following an itinerary. You can just fully listen to yourself

710
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 1: and like, this is what I'm feeling right now. We're

711
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 1: going to do that. That's really nice. I gotta get

712
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:17,239
Speaker 1: back to Hawaii me too. I am doing. What are

713
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:19,959
Speaker 1: we doing here? Let's what an we gotta get? You know. Well,

714
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 1: here's the thing. The first time I went to Hawaii,

715
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 1: which is the only time I've been to Hawaii. I

716
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 1: was shocked by how far the flight was from here,

717
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 1: because in my mind I had decided it was like

718
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:32,479
Speaker 1: a three hour flight. It's not from Las, it is

719
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 1: New York exactly.

720
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 2: How dare it?

721
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 1: Why would you be that far? Girl? Get over here

722
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 1: in America? Away from us? You are a part of it.

723
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 1: What are self? Confidence over here? Would be here? God? Damn,

724
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:51,480
Speaker 1: we get it. We get it. You're pretty or whatever

725
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 1: it should be with us. I like that place. We

726
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:57,720
Speaker 1: got to get back. We should go at some point. Okay,

727
00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 1: let's go shoot something over there. Let's make were shooting

728
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 1: something somewhere beautiful, a Dominican Republican. You were in the

729
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:10,319
Speaker 1: Dominican Republic doing something shotgun, shotgun, wedding. I know these

730
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:13,320
Speaker 1: things because I auditioned. Okay, not for your old on

731
00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:16,360
Speaker 1: the door. Well, if I brought you here to confront

732
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 1: I talk. Actually one time you really wanted that role.

733
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:23,840
Speaker 2: There was in May that would do a very funny podcast.

734
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:25,840
Speaker 1: May twenty twenty three. I actually read for that. I

735
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:26,360
Speaker 1: read for that.

736
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 2: Did I get a call back?

737
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:31,759
Speaker 1: No? No, And that was one of many. Yeah, they

738
00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:35,360
Speaker 1: said they were going in a different direction, and hello,

739
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 1: yes you did that. That was really that looked beautiful

740
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 1: from a distance watching it.

741
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:42,799
Speaker 2: You know what was like so great about that? It

742
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 2: was okay, twenty one or I feel like it was like,

743
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 2: oh yeah, it was pre vaccine. So it was a

744
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 2: year into COVID. We went to the Dominican. I hadn't

745
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 2: like had a meal with a new person in a year,

746
00:34:58,080 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 2: you know what I mean.

747
00:34:58,600 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 1: It was like that.

748
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:01,840
Speaker 2: It was like I hadn't gone it was that fresh still.

749
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:04,239
Speaker 2: It was yeah, just one year, so I hadn't like

750
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 2: been to a restaurant. I hadn't made a new friend,

751
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:11,360
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. So it wasn't just beautiful fun.

752
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 2: It would have been great no matter what, but it

753
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:15,960
Speaker 2: was it was like very we were we bond this

754
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 2: corsponded so hard because of it. And this is the

755
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 2: crazy thing. We lived in a house together. Maybe that

756
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 2: was also a COVID thing. Wow, a nice the nicest

757
00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 2: house you can possibly. It was like a hotel house.

758
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 2: But it was we ate every meal together, roommates, roommates.

759
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:33,080
Speaker 1: Oh that's fun.

760
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 2: So it was really special, special special.

761
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 1: That's so fun, Darcy. I wish I could have been

762
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:42,279
Speaker 1: at the house. I know what fucking bitch got, I

763
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 1: know I do want to know. I'm like, I don't

764
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 1: know how. It was so funny. My manager the other

765
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:48,560
Speaker 1: day was like, yeah, you aren't. You took a meeting

766
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 1: for this movie that did very well some some other thing,

767
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 1: and I was like, no, I didn't. This is yesterday.

768
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 1: I was like, no, I didn't. I was like, I

769
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:58,799
Speaker 1: never met anyone about that movie, and he's like, yes,

770
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 1: you did, and I was like, no, I did it.

771
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:02,840
Speaker 1: And I'm looking in my emails, like I see no

772
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:05,120
Speaker 1: such thing. It had a different title than what it

773
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:06,799
Speaker 1: was when it came out. And then he's like, no,

774
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:08,800
Speaker 1: I know that this happened. And he's like, it happened

775
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 1: March whatever of whatever year. And I was like, it's crazy,

776
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:16,439
Speaker 1: how I have I truly have no recollection of said meeting.

777
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:18,200
Speaker 2: Am I crazy that you kind of have to? I

778
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 2: think I think you do?

779
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:19,439
Speaker 1: Yeah?

780
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:21,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, neither of us finished that sentence, but we know

781
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 2: what we mean. You like, you have to, like again.

782
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:30,080
Speaker 1: Actress talk listen, think about it, but it is like

783
00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 1: you kind of have to, with these meetings and auditions

784
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 1: and reading for things, like you kind of have to

785
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:36,399
Speaker 1: flush it down the toilet of your mind.

786
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, otherwise it's like painful.

787
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:41,440
Speaker 1: It is awful. What did you do for yourself after auditions,

788
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:44,360
Speaker 1: like or when you were not in the working phase,

789
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:48,440
Speaker 1: especially then like post audition and in roadway sides? Are

790
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 1: you like hopeful and holding on? I'm such a I'm such.

791
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 2: A hopeful, I'm such a holder onto. Okay, even to

792
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:58,480
Speaker 2: this day, in fact, I got you know, like news

793
00:36:58,480 --> 00:36:59,880
Speaker 2: back on a ship, on a on a movie. Yes

794
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 2: today that I that They're like going, wait, do you

795
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 2: want to hear the line? Yes, we think Darcy is

796
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 2: a queen, but it's we think Darcy is a queen,

797
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 2: but this isn't It wasn't. This isn't the right thing.

798
00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:16,360
Speaker 2: But I don't think this is the one.

799
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:21,360
Speaker 1: And so huh okay what And I was like, I

800
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:24,440
Speaker 1: but I also at least make it connect because I

801
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 1: want to start. We think Darcy is a queen, but

802
00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:29,279
Speaker 1: this isn't her kingdom? Right?

803
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, you're going to use the metaphor I'm like.

804
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:36,840
Speaker 1: Go all the way? Why'd you drop off? Okay?

805
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 2: You know there's like the zoom audition Absolutely not not

806
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:41,719
Speaker 2: for you.

807
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 1: I can't do would you prefer a self tape to

808
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 1: a zoom? I don't want to do either I like,

809
00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:50,840
Speaker 1: is that why I'm not working?

810
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:55,319
Speaker 2: I'm with you, like in person. Again, For watchers and

811
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:58,279
Speaker 2: listeners at home, the options are basically like, you send

812
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 2: in a tape of yourself that you made yourself, you

813
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 2: zoom with a casting person and you do the scene,

814
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:07,880
Speaker 2: or you go into the room. And since COVID it

815
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:10,839
Speaker 2: has been it's become mostly not in the room. But

816
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 2: I mean I can count how many self tapes I've done.

817
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 2: I hate them, like the devil, and so zoom has

818
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 2: become like, I'm actually really into.

819
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:21,440
Speaker 1: You figured out, so I need to talk to you

820
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:23,840
Speaker 1: about your zoom technique. I will actually because I just

821
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:27,360
Speaker 1: don't understand. I'm like, so where am I supposed to

822
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:30,400
Speaker 1: be looking and to the lens into you and the screen.

823
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 1: I'm making eye contact with the lens. I don't understand.

824
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:33,920
Speaker 1: So I'm looking when.

825
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:35,799
Speaker 2: Person told me the lens. So I did that and

826
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:36,560
Speaker 2: I was like, this.

827
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:38,440
Speaker 1: Is someone told me the lens as well, and I

828
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:41,600
Speaker 1: was like, person, you're doing it with okay, So then

829
00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:43,399
Speaker 1: you like that's no.

830
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:44,879
Speaker 2: I mean, this is the whole thing, Oh my god,

831
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 2: actress talk. This is the whole thing that I hate

832
00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:51,319
Speaker 2: about self tapes is that you're acting with like no one.

833
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:54,480
Speaker 2: You're acting with like your friend's voice that you're like,

834
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 2: be quiet.

835
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:59,560
Speaker 1: Yes, I've acted with friends who are on face time zoom.

836
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 2: Yes with me, it's stud not Actually you're acting in

837
00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:05,720
Speaker 2: like such a bubble. And if I feel like with zoom,

838
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:08,879
Speaker 2: if you're looking down the barrel, you're doing the same thing.

839
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:11,400
Speaker 2: If you're looking at your reader, you're a person. You're

840
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 2: doing the scene with. You can at least like use

841
00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:15,720
Speaker 2: our skills, which is listening and reacting.

842
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:18,359
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, my internet's not strong enough for zoom.

843
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:19,200
Speaker 2: It's scary.

844
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 1: I just want to say, bring us into the God,

845
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 1: just get me in the room. Offer who offer only?

846
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:28,400
Speaker 1: So what are we talking about? I'm sorry, A good place,

847
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:31,799
Speaker 1: a league of their own and Sunday nights and and

848
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:35,239
Speaker 1: shotgun wedding. The resume is resume, give my girl a job.

849
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 1: I need to be your agent. Offer only. Do you

850
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 1: know who the she is? All of a sudden, you

851
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:46,440
Speaker 1: stop getting jobs because your agent is awful and aggressive,

852
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:52,279
Speaker 1: and then I get them. And also I want us

853
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:54,840
Speaker 1: to do something together because you did. We're going to

854
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:56,960
Speaker 1: make it happen. It's gonna happen. You just worked with

855
00:39:57,000 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 1: Sherry Cola and so you yes, yeah, and I mean,

856
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:03,320
Speaker 1: but I feel like everyone just works with chr. I'm

857
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 1: Sherry posted something else again today and I was like, girl,

858
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:09,399
Speaker 1: is she never not working? Take a day at home,

859
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:11,480
Speaker 1: take a day of rest and the Sabbath.

860
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 2: Okay, so today is March third, yes, yes, and yesterday okay,

861
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:22,960
Speaker 2: a show that Cherry and I did together called Wild

862
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:26,239
Speaker 2: Vacation Rentals on HGTV came out.

863
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:30,000
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, was this did you know this? I did

864
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:32,279
Speaker 1: not know this? Why didn't anybody? No?

865
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:35,240
Speaker 2: I didn't even say I didn't even I'm I'm dropping

866
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 2: it now.

867
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 1: Okay, Wild Vacation because I saw you guys we were

868
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:42,439
Speaker 1: bopping around, and I was like, they live together now,

869
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 1: I know you and Sherry, though, I was like, I

870
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 1: want to be where they are. I wish you were.

871
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 2: Oh my god, wait, I wonder I'm like already I

872
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:51,720
Speaker 2: am already seeing a season two where we have guests.

873
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:52,480
Speaker 1: Fun.

874
00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:56,520
Speaker 2: Believe it was really fun. It was we go We

875
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:59,359
Speaker 2: went to so many different states and we stay in

876
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:03,239
Speaker 2: rent well places, rental properties that are like I would

877
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 2: say crazy is not quite the right word, like unique,

878
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 2: Like we stayed in a cave it was gorgeous, a

879
00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:15,360
Speaker 2: gorgeous like luxury cave. We stayed in like a little

880
00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:18,799
Speaker 2: potato house. That's right, it's called a potato We stayed

881
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 2: in like a missile silo. These are all like they're

882
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:25,400
Speaker 2: all well done, like beautiful, you know rentals, but there

883
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 2: there's not one single normal house. Everything is like wild.

884
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:32,799
Speaker 1: Did you have did you have a favorite house? Yeah?

885
00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 2: Not to say, well, actually, I guess I'm not allowed

886
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:38,399
Speaker 2: to say, because the show does we do like pick

887
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:42,919
Speaker 2: our favorites. Oh okay, there's like there's you know there.

888
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:44,799
Speaker 2: We stayed at a place with like a like an

889
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:48,480
Speaker 2: animal sanctuary where like animals would come up to you know,

890
00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 2: like an ostrich or a goat or whatever. We stayed

891
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 2: in in a couple of missile silos. Truly, the potato

892
00:41:57,320 --> 00:42:00,759
Speaker 2: was amazing. Like a tree house, a couple of treehouses.

893
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 2: Most most of them were amazing, Like the couple a

894
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:08,440
Speaker 2: couple you were kind of like, I'm good. But everything

895
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 2: was at least like very unique and cool. And as

896
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:15,280
Speaker 2: you know, Sherry is just like such a fun person

897
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 2: and it was with her and very small crew and

898
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:19,719
Speaker 2: we just it was one of those ones where when

899
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:21,359
Speaker 2: we all like the first couple of days as we

900
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:23,480
Speaker 2: were starting out, we were kind of like, what is this.

901
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 1: I'm not sure what exactly?

902
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 2: Driving for four hours okay, and then like very quickly

903
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:32,319
Speaker 2: it was just like, oh, this is a really nice

904
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:34,640
Speaker 2: moment in my life. Like to be traveling with these people.

905
00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 1: You get the sad like post camp, like the end

906
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:39,360
Speaker 1: of camp feeling with every production, even.

907
00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:41,279
Speaker 2: Even when I want to go home, or even when

908
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:43,440
Speaker 2: I'm like, I think my brain has trained itself to

909
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:45,840
Speaker 2: be like you're done now, So I do have the

910
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:49,279
Speaker 2: feeling of like it's time to go home. But I

911
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:53,839
Speaker 2: do get a little blue and also a little untethered

912
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:55,799
Speaker 2: where you're kind of like where am I?

913
00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:58,359
Speaker 1: Who am I? Where do I live? What is my life?

914
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 1: What a strange thing? Yeah? So good place though was

915
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:06,239
Speaker 1: the first big, big one, right you. I feel like

916
00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 1: told me a little bit about your test. Yeah, once

917
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:14,040
Speaker 1: you messed up in your test. I have a sick

918
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 1: my memory. It's I don't mean to gas myself sick

919
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:22,880
Speaker 1: when I mean it like sick. How these people say sick.

920
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 1: I meant it like it's twisted sick. That's such a

921
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 1: it's weird.

922
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 2: Never lose that.

923
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:35,560
Speaker 1: Thank you, hold my hand yes, yeah, there was.

924
00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 2: Okay, so the there was you know, a bunch of

925
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 2: auditions to play Janet, and then the test is like

926
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 2: a different thing. Yes where you where a test is

927
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 2: like there's other people in the room and it's just

928
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:50,560
Speaker 2: more serious. You're like, you see who you're up against.

929
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 2: There's a couple you know, other actresses that are up

930
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 2: for the same role. You've all signed a contract. It's

931
00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 2: very it's a mind fuck. It's actually like messed up.

932
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 1: It's messed up. It's really evil what they do to

933
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:04,720
Speaker 1: us to try to get chops.

934
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:09,120
Speaker 2: It's like some old fashioned it's like old Hollywood like work.

935
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 1: Do we make you feel possible? Then do so?

936
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 2: I So anyway, we did the scene and there was

937
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:23,920
Speaker 2: like a pretty long monologue and it was just it

938
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:27,760
Speaker 2: was like going well, and then I like I was anyway,

939
00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:30,120
Speaker 2: I was, I was feeling good and then I batched

940
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:34,359
Speaker 2: the lines up and had that second where you're like

941
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:36,719
Speaker 2: do I do I start over, like what do you

942
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 2: do in this moment? And instead thank you to UCB Gods,

943
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 2: I was able to like this is a weird little brag,

944
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:46,359
Speaker 2: able to just use it right, to comment on it

945
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:51,320
Speaker 2: in character, and which you know, I'm like it worked

946
00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 2: in the moment, I'm like, I don't know if that's

947
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 2: the advice i'd give anyone, But it was like, you know,

948
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:57,960
Speaker 2: in character talking about how I messed up and getting

949
00:44:58,000 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 2: back into it and it made them laugh and I

950
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:02,479
Speaker 2: and afterwards I was like, I do think that helped

951
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:03,439
Speaker 2: me get the job?

952
00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:04,279
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah?

953
00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:06,200
Speaker 2: I think did you in real time?

954
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:09,600
Speaker 1: So you leave the room where you like, Okay, I

955
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 1: messed up, but that went I think that went well.

956
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 1: You so felt that? Okay? Cool?

957
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 2: But I also was like I didn't get it, you

958
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 2: know what I mean? Yeah, but like I felt that

959
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 2: every time that I auditioned for Janet, where was like,

960
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:20,799
Speaker 2: I know I didn't get it, but that felt really good,

961
00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:23,440
Speaker 2: you know, like I absolutely didn't get it, couldn't get it,

962
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 2: We'll never get it.

963
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:28,080
Speaker 1: Okay, protection yes, okay, but that felt good.

964
00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:30,359
Speaker 2: Like that couldn't have felt better. Yeah, which is kind

965
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:31,960
Speaker 2: of cool looking back on it, because it was like, oh,

966
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 2: it did work.

967
00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I mean I think that you we are

968
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 1: doing actor talk. It's fine, and we've submitted to it.

969
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:44,600
Speaker 1: We'll stop commenting, okay, except for no, we won't do you.

970
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:48,440
Speaker 1: The feeling of like I don't know that the like

971
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 1: I don't really care. Maybe I don't care and this

972
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:53,840
Speaker 1: isn't gonna go my way, and like I just screwed up,

973
00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:55,319
Speaker 1: and now I'm going to use it in character and

974
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 1: this is not in the script and we're all here

975
00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:59,719
Speaker 1: to say the lines in the script. Do you think

976
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:02,480
Speaker 1: like having that energy though, and that vibe of like

977
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 1: I don't care is helpful to you and booking? Like

978
00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:09,320
Speaker 1: when people say bring yourself to the role, do you

979
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:11,719
Speaker 1: think they're trying to see improve Do they think, like

980
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:13,520
Speaker 1: what do you? How do you take any of that?

981
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:16,560
Speaker 1: I do think I think what a nothing? No?

982
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 2: No, but there's something, there's something. It's not nothing, okay,

983
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:21,720
Speaker 2: And you answer it too because I'm like, I think

984
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:25,759
Speaker 2: it does maybe like a full on I don't care

985
00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 2: is probably not so helpful, but sort of. I think

986
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 2: that the taking too serious, taking yourself too seriously and

987
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:36,880
Speaker 2: too desperately is a turn off, whether people know it

988
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 2: or not, like whether the person you're auditioning for or

989
00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:42,800
Speaker 2: whatever it is, interviewing with whatever it is, like, whether

990
00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 2: you know it, whether they know it. There is something

991
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:48,080
Speaker 2: I think that is like like repulsive.

992
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:50,920
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, I think that's accurate. Maybe I've been on

993
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:52,680
Speaker 1: the other side of having to like say, yeah, you're

994
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 1: the person for this job, and and and anytime someone

995
00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 1: is too eager beaver and like, what is the energy?

996
00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 1: It's actually kind of almost offensive, right, I was like,

997
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:05,399
Speaker 1: it's so disingenuous and it's weird, and it's.

998
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:07,680
Speaker 2: Making me uncomfortable, and it makes you uncomfortable. Yeah, and

999
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 2: then you're kind of like, well, no, I'm thinking about

1000
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:11,839
Speaker 2: do I want to like do this project with this

1001
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 2: person that's going to bring this energy which they probably

1002
00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 2: wouldn't even do. It's because they're in the craziest situation,

1003
00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:18,799
Speaker 2: which is that they have to like sing for their

1004
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:19,520
Speaker 2: supper or whatever.

1005
00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:19,839
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1006
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:20,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, it isn't right.

1007
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:24,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's messed up. It's not good. It's really bad.

1008
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:26,799
Speaker 1: It's messed up. Yeah. But then do you like that

1009
00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 1: moment because you did the improv because you messed up

1010
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:32,480
Speaker 1: when I'll just testing for Janet, do you then try

1011
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:35,000
Speaker 1: to take that energy that thing? Has any part of

1012
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 1: you been like, that's the thing that helps me get

1013
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:38,160
Speaker 1: the job, and so now I want to take it

1014
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 1: into my other audition.

1015
00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:41,640
Speaker 2: I think so, Yeah, I think so. But it is

1016
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 2: also so funny to think like if I like purposely

1017
00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:47,759
Speaker 2: messed up now going forward, you know what I mean?

1018
00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:49,880
Speaker 2: If I was like purposely like okay, fuck up and

1019
00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:50,719
Speaker 2: then you fix it.

1020
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:53,560
Speaker 1: And then yeah, and that becomes your Hollywood reputation. So

1021
00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 1: she's going to come in here mess up a line

1022
00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:57,879
Speaker 1: in the middle. Watch And I have.

1023
00:47:57,920 --> 00:47:59,959
Speaker 2: Heard a couple of stories about two actors and potas

1024
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 2: okay too, that did that type of thing, like like

1025
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:09,360
Speaker 2: like did something that that in the moment was like

1026
00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:13,399
Speaker 2: a off off track and it worked. And so they

1027
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:16,280
Speaker 2: did it every time and both of them got caught.

1028
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:20,360
Speaker 1: I want I want to tell you tell me off camera.

1029
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:22,799
Speaker 1: Maybe you say it on camera for the substack. There

1030
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:26,040
Speaker 1: is no substack. I actually I'll.

1031
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:28,960
Speaker 2: Even like I'll even like one to one it, I'll

1032
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 2: change what the story is.

1033
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:30,239
Speaker 1: Okay.

1034
00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:35,800
Speaker 2: So one person would come into auditions, I'm just gonna

1035
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:37,360
Speaker 2: I'm gonna make this up on the fly.

1036
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:37,919
Speaker 1: Okay, okay.

1037
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 2: And and and I was gonna say, Burt, but that's

1038
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:44,319
Speaker 2: not quite right. Take your time, like.

1039
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:47,719
Speaker 1: Take your time time.

1040
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 2: Or like like sit sit on the floor. Yeah, that's

1041
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 2: what they would do. They'd come in and they'd sit

1042
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:54,880
Speaker 2: on the floor, okay, and really kind of put people

1043
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:57,759
Speaker 2: like like, oh, what's happening and uh and they'd be like,

1044
00:48:57,880 --> 00:48:59,400
Speaker 2: you guys, come sit on the floor too, Okay, so

1045
00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:01,359
Speaker 2: let's say that's what it was. And then they did

1046
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 2: that every time, and then someone was like I like

1047
00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:06,160
Speaker 2: that that person sits on the floor and they were like, oh,

1048
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 2: they sat on the floor with me.

1049
00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:09,319
Speaker 1: Too, okay, Oh yeah, yeah okay.

1050
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:13,359
Speaker 2: And then another person and into an audition and was

1051
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:16,359
Speaker 2: like I'm gonna go hard on this one and was like,

1052
00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry, I'm late. My mom just died. Okay again,

1053
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:20,920
Speaker 2: I'm making this up.

1054
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:24,279
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, and then it worked, the person got

1055
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:27,440
Speaker 1: the role, and then this person did that again numerous

1056
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:30,480
Speaker 1: times until their agent was like, you have to stop

1057
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:30,920
Speaker 1: saying that.

1058
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:32,239
Speaker 2: It's like gotten around.

1059
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 1: Anyway. That's pretty funny. Okay, that is funny.

1060
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 2: You wish I was telling you the real stories and

1061
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:40,239
Speaker 2: the name I do.

1062
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 1: But we're gonna sub I don't really know what substract means.

1063
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 1: A journal. It's like you're gonna want one. Just know

1064
00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:50,239
Speaker 1: that you're gonna want one, like a like a tumbler.

1065
00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:52,800
Speaker 1: It's like it's like yes, it's like it could be

1066
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 1: a newsletter. It's like a tumbler. It's giving.

1067
00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 2: I respect anyone that has a substack. But whenever they're like,

1068
00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:58,440
Speaker 2: check out my substeck, I'm.

1069
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:00,799
Speaker 1: Like, I'm blind.

1070
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:05,879
Speaker 2: I I can't so sorry that I'm just flying literally

1071
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:09,319
Speaker 2: can't read, literally don't have right now for.

1072
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:15,640
Speaker 1: This for substance some fair enough? I read that funny, Darcy.

1073
00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 1: I do wish you were telling me. I like to

1074
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:22,560
Speaker 1: tease things that well, we won't say on air because

1075
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:24,960
Speaker 1: I want people to feel part of our conversation.

1076
00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:25,239
Speaker 2: I know.

1077
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:26,799
Speaker 1: I would like to tease them and say they're going

1078
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:27,799
Speaker 1: to go on to substack one.

1079
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 2: Day, some day, some day. Substack could be your book. Yes,

1080
00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:32,240
Speaker 2: it could be called my substance.

1081
00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:37,040
Speaker 1: Have you written a book? God? No, thank you rite book?

1082
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:40,720
Speaker 1: Which do that?

1083
00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:44,360
Speaker 2: But I do read a lot of this is so

1084
00:50:45,239 --> 00:50:48,520
Speaker 2: like demon not even pathetic, but it's like, why do

1085
00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:53,319
Speaker 2: I refuse to enrich my brain with something worthwhile? I

1086
00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:55,800
Speaker 2: read so many actor memoirs.

1087
00:50:56,000 --> 00:50:58,160
Speaker 1: Oh, but you like what you like? I know, but

1088
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 1: read a war on you know what I mean? Here's

1089
00:51:03,760 --> 00:51:05,960
Speaker 1: my thing about the Wars. I believe you, I believe

1090
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 1: it happened. I don't need to know. I don't want

1091
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:09,239
Speaker 1: to know what they were eating. I don't want to

1092
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:12,440
Speaker 1: know what they were eating. Happened. I'm so sorry, and

1093
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:16,319
Speaker 1: I'm sorry and I'm glad we've moved forward to here.

1094
00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:19,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I like when it comes to podcasts, I'm

1095
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:22,520
Speaker 2: listening to my dumb, funny friends make jokes. And when

1096
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:24,360
Speaker 2: it comes to books, I'm reading about actors.

1097
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:26,839
Speaker 1: Do you read listen to any self help? Ever?

1098
00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:31,359
Speaker 2: I really don't, Okay, And I know that like like

1099
00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:35,120
Speaker 2: I've been sort of I've realized that it's like it

1100
00:51:35,160 --> 00:51:37,319
Speaker 2: either works for you it doesn't. It either speaks to

1101
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:38,520
Speaker 2: you or it doesn't. Because I have a couple of

1102
00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:41,040
Speaker 2: friends that are so into self help and I've sort

1103
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:43,360
Speaker 2: of like perused and I'm like, this isn't speaking to me.

1104
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 1: It's not you're not vibing with it.

1105
00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:48,400
Speaker 2: But then I'm like, think of the help that I'm

1106
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:51,560
Speaker 2: not getting, And then you're like, oh, yeah, I should

1107
00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:52,879
Speaker 2: get it. I should get.

1108
00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:56,799
Speaker 1: Something you're doing. Okay, by my metric, Okay, what do

1109
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:57,239
Speaker 1: I know?

1110
00:51:57,520 --> 00:51:58,759
Speaker 2: Do you read a lot of self help?

1111
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,800
Speaker 1: Yeah? One of my favorite books is The Four Agreements.

1112
00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:04,160
Speaker 2: Okay, See, this is what I was about to ask you.

1113
00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:06,799
Speaker 2: If I were to read anything, could it be this?

1114
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:09,760
Speaker 1: I would say read that knowing that when you open

1115
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:12,560
Speaker 1: it the first time, I don't know what I was expecting,

1116
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:15,120
Speaker 1: but it's like toll tech wisdom, and I was like,

1117
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:16,880
Speaker 1: it's going to be I mean, it's going to be

1118
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 1: so deep and profound, but it's actually very accessible and

1119
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 1: I think it's a really I enjoy how simple and

1120
00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:27,280
Speaker 1: in some sense rudimentary it is. I think that's actually

1121
00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:30,239
Speaker 1: like that. That took me aback initially, and I was

1122
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:32,719
Speaker 1: kind of like, oh, whatever, but it's good. It's one

1123
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:33,200
Speaker 1: of my favorites.

1124
00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:35,560
Speaker 2: It's like the best ad yeah for this book.

1125
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:39,880
Speaker 1: Oh, I don't understand. I guess I think I'm a

1126
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:43,799
Speaker 1: fan of it. The four Agreements. There's four agreements. My

1127
00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:45,880
Speaker 1: favorite of the agreements, not that one is supposed to

1128
00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:47,440
Speaker 1: have a favorite. Agreements. You're supposed to kind of do

1129
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:50,400
Speaker 1: all the right but don't take anything personally okay, cool,

1130
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:53,320
Speaker 1: which is it's going to unlock something for you.

1131
00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 2: If you want to tell me the four agreements or

1132
00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:57,240
Speaker 2: do you want okay I or is it like a spoiler?

1133
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:03,960
Speaker 1: No, I'll tell you. The first agreement is be impeccable

1134
00:53:03,960 --> 00:53:05,919
Speaker 1: with your word, which is not what you think it means,

1135
00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:11,040
Speaker 1: but be impeccable with your word. Don't take anything personally,

1136
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:14,719
Speaker 1: never make assumptions, and always try your best incredible, never

1137
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:16,920
Speaker 1: try more than your best. Again, you read it, Okay,

1138
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:18,920
Speaker 1: you don't have to try more than your hundred percent.

1139
00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:20,960
Speaker 1: Don't say you gave it one hundred and ten. Don't

1140
00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 1: never give it one hundred and ten. Okay, give a

1141
00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:27,680
Speaker 1: hundred be cute, cute see Q hundred. Yeah, you don't

1142
00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:29,040
Speaker 1: have to do too much? Is great and your best

1143
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:31,080
Speaker 1: is different other day. But whatever you're going to read it,

1144
00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:33,359
Speaker 1: I love this, or you can listen to it. Yeah,

1145
00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:34,799
Speaker 1: I like that. If you want to do that. Do

1146
00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:36,720
Speaker 1: you do audiobooks do? Yeah?

1147
00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:40,160
Speaker 2: And I and I I had like guilt about it

1148
00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:43,560
Speaker 2: until one smart person was like, don't have guilt about it?

1149
00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:45,960
Speaker 1: Yes? Like okay, okay, great, easy, that's all that takes

1150
00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:48,440
Speaker 1: one person. Okay, Darcy, this is time for a segment

1151
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:53,760
Speaker 1: called that's nice. But what about me? Okay, Darcy, here's

1152
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:56,240
Speaker 1: what I want to know from you, because I feel

1153
00:53:56,280 --> 00:54:00,279
Speaker 1: like your expertise. Here the vacation thing you said, right,

1154
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:05,440
Speaker 1: how do you decide when, where and how long? I

1155
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:08,600
Speaker 1: struggle with vacations, okay, and I'm so particular so it's

1156
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:09,840
Speaker 1: like I need to have a method.

1157
00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 2: Okay. So I think you have to like ask yourself

1158
00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:18,800
Speaker 2: some questions, and one of them is what do you what?

1159
00:54:18,800 --> 00:54:23,520
Speaker 2: What is your perfect like companion on a vacation. Is

1160
00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:26,360
Speaker 2: it a sibling? Is it a best friend? Is it

1161
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:27,680
Speaker 2: a group? Is it a lover?

1162
00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 1: Like? What?

1163
00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:31,960
Speaker 2: What? And it can be as real like there's no

1164
00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:34,880
Speaker 2: right answer. What do you want to see the world with?

1165
00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 2: Like what makes the most sense to you?

1166
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:36,680
Speaker 1: Okay?

1167
00:54:36,880 --> 00:54:41,839
Speaker 2: And then I think you know yourself and you've said

1168
00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:45,759
Speaker 2: this today that about three days and you're good and

1169
00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:48,120
Speaker 2: not that a vacation can't be longer that but than that,

1170
00:54:48,239 --> 00:54:51,120
Speaker 2: but you probably know I don't need to do two

1171
00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:56,439
Speaker 2: weeks or whatever. Yeah, correct, I think it's it's like okay,

1172
00:54:56,480 --> 00:54:59,040
Speaker 2: But the other thing is, I don't think we're taking

1173
00:54:59,160 --> 00:55:04,200
Speaker 2: enough vacation. I think we're like it's so hard to

1174
00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:07,880
Speaker 2: let yourself do it, and it's it's such a luxury

1175
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:11,040
Speaker 2: and it's so not necessary that it's like I'll do

1176
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:13,400
Speaker 2: it later. Yeah, like there's this perfect week. No, actually

1177
00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:15,359
Speaker 2: something came up. I'll just do it later. But I

1178
00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:18,359
Speaker 2: think I always say, like I always say in.

1179
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:20,240
Speaker 1: This moment to say, right, now to me and then.

1180
00:55:21,680 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 2: Say, like, when I think back on my life, the

1181
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:27,280
Speaker 2: best memories of my entire life are from a vacation,

1182
00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:30,600
Speaker 2: like family vacation, or or with Jason or with friends

1183
00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:35,879
Speaker 2: or whatever. Like the it really uh demarkets wait wait wait.

1184
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:38,040
Speaker 1: Wait wait oh yes, that.

1185
00:55:39,040 --> 00:55:41,640
Speaker 2: It like breaks it breaks up your life in a

1186
00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:44,000
Speaker 2: way where you're like, it's such a memory. It like

1187
00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:47,279
Speaker 2: breaks up the maybe like monotony or or it just

1188
00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:50,080
Speaker 2: it like I feel like it expands us, you know,

1189
00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:52,680
Speaker 2: seeing new things and like being out of your comfort

1190
00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:55,879
Speaker 2: zone and and okay, so is this helping at all?

1191
00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:58,319
Speaker 1: It is helping because I'm thinking, like what I'm here here,

1192
00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:00,080
Speaker 1: like I'm making.

1193
00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:01,960
Speaker 2: What I.

1194
00:56:03,680 --> 00:56:07,720
Speaker 1: Always say, girl, No, I it does because I again

1195
00:56:07,800 --> 00:56:11,560
Speaker 1: actra talk. We life just keeps lifing. And then it's like, oh,

1196
00:56:11,560 --> 00:56:12,920
Speaker 1: this thing is going to shoot here and this is

1197
00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:14,680
Speaker 1: going to do this, and I'm so grateful for all

1198
00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:16,840
Speaker 1: of it. But if you don't go, oh my goodness,

1199
00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:20,560
Speaker 1: I booked a trip to insert location well in advance,

1200
00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:22,799
Speaker 1: it just doesn't happen. And you look back at the

1201
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 1: year and you're like, why am I so burnt out?

1202
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:28,919
Speaker 1: And why am I so tired? I'm exhausted, I've lost

1203
00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:30,640
Speaker 1: the light in my eyes, and I'm like, I haven't

1204
00:56:30,640 --> 00:56:31,640
Speaker 1: taken any time off.

1205
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:34,279
Speaker 2: And so I think also acter talk, we tend to

1206
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:38,200
Speaker 2: we tend to look at these little jobs in foreign

1207
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:40,440
Speaker 2: lands as like, well, I did get to go to

1208
00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:44,040
Speaker 2: the Dominican or Australia or Pittsburgh or whatever.

1209
00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 1: Shut out out, you.

1210
00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:47,720
Speaker 2: Know, like I did get to go to that place

1211
00:56:47,800 --> 00:56:50,200
Speaker 2: this year's or this whatever, like you kind of can

1212
00:56:50,400 --> 00:56:52,959
Speaker 2: can I did get to travel or we travel so much?

1213
00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:55,520
Speaker 1: But that ain't that's.

1214
00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:02,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly okay, And now you know what you said

1215
00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:05,239
Speaker 2: about like planning it a year in advance. Yes, I

1216
00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:10,200
Speaker 2: feel like that is important. And also the idea of

1217
00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:12,560
Speaker 2: being flexible in a way where you're like, holy shit,

1218
00:57:12,719 --> 00:57:15,560
Speaker 2: this month is actually pretty clear. What if I take

1219
00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:17,200
Speaker 2: those three days in the middle of the month, you know,

1220
00:57:17,280 --> 00:57:20,080
Speaker 2: like like earlier, Yes, and exactly, I mean I know

1221
00:57:20,160 --> 00:57:21,440
Speaker 2: I that it's that easy.

1222
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:24,360
Speaker 1: You know, I struck while the iron is hot? Is

1223
00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:24,960
Speaker 1: that that's the.

1224
00:57:24,920 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 2: Expression depends on where you're going after.

1225
00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 1: I struck while the iron was hot. Yeah, and I.

1226
00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:36,000
Speaker 2: Booked a trip somewhere. Struck You struck while the iron struck? What? What?

1227
00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:37,200
Speaker 1: What are we talking about.

1228
00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:39,520
Speaker 2: It's like I took advantage the.

1229
00:57:39,560 --> 00:57:43,040
Speaker 1: Iron is yeah, I understand that. But strike while the

1230
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:43,800
Speaker 1: iron is hot.

1231
00:57:43,840 --> 00:57:45,480
Speaker 2: Okay, so let's see like like.

1232
00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:47,320
Speaker 1: Iron's only cooling down if you unplug it.

1233
00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:52,440
Speaker 2: Wait, I don't think it's that kind of iron, is it. No,

1234
00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:55,280
Speaker 2: it's like I think it's like iron, the metal, the

1235
00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:56,720
Speaker 2: metal iron like an Then.

1236
00:57:56,600 --> 00:57:57,440
Speaker 1: What are we striking?

1237
00:57:57,600 --> 00:58:00,880
Speaker 2: Maybe it's like fire, you know where they're like, well, oh, yes,

1238
00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:03,000
Speaker 2: that's what it is. Imagine imagine.

1239
00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:05,720
Speaker 1: No, I will not imagine, and I'm not I will

1240
00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:08,720
Speaker 1: not be imagining a single thing. I don't know what

1241
00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:13,160
Speaker 1: you're talking about. I don't do handy wer imagine.

1242
00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:16,520
Speaker 2: Okay, it's like that rod of iron that needs to

1243
00:58:16,520 --> 00:58:19,200
Speaker 2: be like shaped into a let's say, a crowbar.

1244
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:22,320
Speaker 1: That's just a crime and you.

1245
00:58:22,320 --> 00:58:24,320
Speaker 2: Have to strike it while it's hot to shape it

1246
00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:24,680
Speaker 2: into that.

1247
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:26,760
Speaker 1: Oh.

1248
00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:31,120
Speaker 2: But also I think we can make yours work, which

1249
00:58:31,160 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 2: is like strike the shirt while the iron is hot.

1250
00:58:35,440 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 1: I think that's also right.

1251
00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:39,160
Speaker 2: Thank you, That is right, because if you're you're not

1252
00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:42,640
Speaker 2: gonna unwrinkle a shirt with a damn cold iron.

1253
00:58:43,320 --> 00:58:46,919
Speaker 1: No, okay, everybody knows. Thank you Darcy for having my back.

1254
00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:52,680
Speaker 1: I'm also like, wow, a lot of iron iron analogies, metaphors,

1255
00:58:52,800 --> 00:58:58,000
Speaker 1: terms of expressions, a phrase, yeah, whatever, one iron sharpens iron,

1256
00:58:58,080 --> 00:58:59,760
Speaker 1: which makes sense to me. Oh my god, I don't

1257
00:58:59,760 --> 00:59:01,440
Speaker 1: even know that one, although it makes sense to me

1258
00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:02,920
Speaker 1: to iron sharpened eyes?

1259
00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:04,680
Speaker 2: Is it? You kind of be like, well, iron sharp

1260
00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:07,240
Speaker 2: and iron, well, when would you use it?

1261
00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:10,280
Speaker 1: It's to be like that person's really smart and good

1262
00:59:10,280 --> 00:59:12,200
Speaker 1: at their job or something, and it made me thus

1263
00:59:12,240 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 1: then smart and good at my job. I spent a

1264
00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:16,800
Speaker 1: lot of time with Darcy, and you know, iron sharp

1265
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:20,160
Speaker 1: and I love it. Yeah, but I like that one

1266
00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:22,520
Speaker 1: makes more sense to me. But we've all learned today,

1267
00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:23,960
Speaker 1: and that's the purpose of the pod.

1268
00:59:24,040 --> 00:59:29,040
Speaker 2: So there's iron, there's iron, and there's iron iron tablets.

1269
00:59:29,720 --> 00:59:33,000
Speaker 1: Because a lot of women. I was one. It's cool.

1270
00:59:33,200 --> 00:59:34,800
Speaker 1: It's so cool all the time because I was.

1271
00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:36,240
Speaker 2: I was a tale.

1272
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:39,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my god, pills. Yes, and we have gray

1273
00:59:39,640 --> 00:59:45,880
Speaker 1: sweaters on and we almost wore the same outfit. Oh, Darcy,

1274
00:59:45,920 --> 00:59:47,800
Speaker 1: what a treat. But we have to help someone else

1275
00:59:48,320 --> 00:59:48,880
Speaker 1: a listener.

1276
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:50,080
Speaker 2: We're ready.

1277
00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:50,640
Speaker 1: Hey, I go.

1278
00:59:51,200 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 3: My name is Kate and I have a question for

1279
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:56,960
Speaker 3: you and your guest. I have a dog that I

1280
00:59:57,040 --> 01:00:01,000
Speaker 3: bring to my local dog park every day, and when

1281
01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:04,160
Speaker 3: my husband comes, he's very social. He talks to everyone there.

1282
01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:07,360
Speaker 3: But when I go by myself, some of these people

1283
01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:09,120
Speaker 3: think I also want to have.

1284
01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:13,520
Speaker 2: A fifteen minute conversation. I think I just say I don't.

1285
01:00:13,880 --> 01:00:16,400
Speaker 3: So do you have any tips for how to respectfully

1286
01:00:16,440 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 3: get out of the conversation that you are not interested

1287
01:00:19,080 --> 01:00:19,520
Speaker 3: in having?

1288
01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:25,760
Speaker 2: Yes? Thank you, Kate, Kate, Kate. Just wear earphones. Just

1289
01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:28,480
Speaker 2: wear you're listening to something or not. Just put on

1290
01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:31,120
Speaker 2: the big ones, big, not a little white, not the

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Speaker 2: little tiny boys.

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Speaker 1: Big overhead, big ones, big over it. You know. I

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Speaker 1: was doing that for a week this summer, Okay, to

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Speaker 1: try to not talk because I'm like, my walks sometimes

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Speaker 1: are though it's New York City, are because I need

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Speaker 1: to feel air on my face and decompress and kind

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Speaker 1: of go off into a far distant land. And I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna tell you what about them big headphones. All it

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Speaker 1: did was make people be like hey, more more. That's

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Speaker 1: why I did it for one week.

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Speaker 2: More than right, drue attention.

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Speaker 1: Yes, the attention was drawn, and I was like, no, wrong.

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Speaker 2: The idea of making someone go excuse me, I'm like

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Speaker 2: I would be mortified.

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Speaker 1: I would too, but you'd be surprised people or not.

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Speaker 1: But I do think the big headphones are a good fix.

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Speaker 1: I'm hopeful for Kate at the dog park. I also

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Speaker 1: think it's funny to be like that person never had

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Speaker 1: headphones on at the dog park before, and then they

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Speaker 1: could all of a sudden. Was it me? Was it

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Speaker 1: me trying to talk to Kate about.

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Speaker 2: So funny that like that her just the idea that

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Speaker 2: her husband's such a social butterfly, and she I mean

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Speaker 2: that does I think opposites attracted so cute to think that,

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Speaker 2: like he does that work? But when she's there alone,

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Speaker 2: she's like, oh.

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Speaker 1: No, I mean I'm t I think the headphones are

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Speaker 1: awesome fixed.

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Speaker 2: And then what else?

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Speaker 1: Like a book? A book?

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Speaker 2: For sure? God, people are dumb.

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Speaker 1: I know people will be like reading reading.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, I mean you could pretend this is psychotic,

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Speaker 2: but I'm like, you could pretend to be on a phone.

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Speaker 1: The entire time. Why does she have to do all

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Speaker 1: that work?

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Speaker 2: That's not fair to get be like I'm every like

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Speaker 2: thirty seconds to goo uh huh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what's the mean with the little ones? If?

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Speaker 2: Ok, we're even holding a No, that's scary because I

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Speaker 2: ne'll see the background, okay, and then I guess the

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Speaker 2: other thing is to be honest. But I don't recommend.

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Speaker 1: I can't. I don't think I could dare and be

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Speaker 1: like I really don't want to talk.

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Speaker 2: That's crazy.

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Speaker 1: That's what been saying.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry I'm not as social. I'm sorry I'm an introvert.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's no. People don't. Extroverts don't know how to

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Speaker 1: take that kind of feedback. By the way, O extroverts

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Speaker 1: can be violent. Yeah, I have to say, are you

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Speaker 1: an extrovert? Yeah, you are?

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Speaker 2: But I love alone reason yes, within reasons.

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Speaker 1: I think it might be an ambivert girl. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: don't know about that one. It's a little mix of both.

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Speaker 1: I love being an extra extra. Yes, I'm bye. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I really think that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because I really like alone time.

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Speaker 1: I got me good.

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Speaker 2: I really like to sort of. But you know what

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Speaker 2: I love. I love saying I love like this is

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Speaker 2: it's almost humiliating. I love striking up a conversation with

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Speaker 2: somebody in line. Really, my husband hates it. He's an introvert.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: My dad and I are both like, if you're about

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Speaker 2: to get I just I don't mean like where are

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Speaker 2: you from at all? I just mean like just saying

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Speaker 2: something to your neighbor in line.

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 2: It feels so good.

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Speaker 1: Wow, is that inside sane? It's not insane? And we

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Speaker 1: love you Ford and support you at this podcast.

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Speaker 2: Crazy because I can see it from the outside, it's good.

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Speaker 1: I think those people know I think those people. I

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Speaker 1: think those people are good. They're important, they're necessary to society.

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Speaker 1: I value them from time to time. I have become

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Speaker 1: so introverted post COVID, yeah, post SNL, where I like

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Speaker 1: exerted so much energy being all the time. I'm so

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Speaker 1: I'm so like I live in Fortnite, remember, and so

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Speaker 1: I I used to be a talk to every stranger

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Speaker 1: all the time, energize. But like with age and the

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Speaker 1: COVID and all the other things I've said, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I've gotten like we don't have to be talking totally totally.

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Speaker 1: But I like that.

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Speaker 2: I guess when it comes to my amni am neverse

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Speaker 2: ambi amiver I it's so on my own terms because

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Speaker 2: as you're saying that, I'm like, half the time I

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Speaker 2: don't want to talk to anyone and I don't want

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Speaker 2: anyone I respect.

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Speaker 1: See I that's I resonate because I'm like sometimes I'm like,

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Speaker 1: let's all talk, And when I shut down, I'm like

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Speaker 1: everyone read the room exactly.

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Speaker 2: I shut down Like the idea of I would I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I would never talk to someone next to me on

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Speaker 2: a plane.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like the quick little like in line the

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Speaker 1: line the line thing. If I were victim, I know,

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Speaker 1: d no, if I was on the receiving end of

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Speaker 1: the line thing. It would genuinely just depend on the

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Speaker 1: mood I'm in because I actually could think it's like nice.

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Speaker 1: And when I can see that someone has struck up

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Speaker 1: a conversation that like absolutely didn't need to happen, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: you know, that's really cool that that's how you are, right,

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Speaker 1: I actually think it's cool.

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Speaker 2: Can I just be one step clearer? Yes, I would never.

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Speaker 2: I mean this it's not a conversation. I don't know

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Speaker 2: what the what the need is. It's like it's almost

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Speaker 2: like I want to like compliment your nails, yes, and

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Speaker 2: maybe we have like one more sentence and then but

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Speaker 2: I'm not asking your name, sex.

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Speaker 1: Location, Okay, I don't want to or it's.

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Speaker 2: Like I want to tell I want to be like, oops,

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Speaker 2: you dropped your hat.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like have a good day, Okay, that's it. You

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Speaker 1: just want your friendly spirit.

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Speaker 2: I just want friends and yeah, I just want to

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Speaker 2: kind of like connect with a person for a second, okay.

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Speaker 1: And I'm okay with that and I support it and

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Speaker 1: I think it's good. People like that do make the

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Speaker 1: world go around. It's when it's like aggressive and demanding

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Speaker 1: of someone's full energy and that they'd be on and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I just wanted to say, your hair

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Speaker 1: is beautiful and.

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Speaker 4: I like you. Yeah you're actually evil. Amby Yeah, Amby, Amby. Okay,

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Speaker 4: Oh my goodness, Darcy, thank you so much. I really

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Speaker 4: appreciate you.

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Speaker 2: I love your girl. I love I am, I am.

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01:05:53,880 --> 01:05:55,560
Speaker 2: I like, am so proud of you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: I have to say I was. I was in the

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Speaker 2: room for Lisa. Uh oh that first time you did it.

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Speaker 2: Oh and it you know, I'm like such, I mean,

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Speaker 2: I love you so dearly, but I'm also such a

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Speaker 2: huge fan of you and that was like I had

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Speaker 2: like tears in my eyes so much pride, thank you

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01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:17,920
Speaker 2: and just watching you like the second I saw you

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Speaker 2: at UCB, I was like star and then getting to

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Speaker 2: like watch the world. See that has been like so

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Speaker 2: rewarding as your friend.

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Speaker 1: Thank you Darcy so much. And before we go, because

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Speaker 1: we're saying sweet thing is, we did a show at

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Speaker 1: the Inner Sanctum Rest in Peace, UCB Sunset. It's my

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Speaker 1: first time I met you that show and it was

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Speaker 1: like some kind of straight if it was an Inner Sanctum,

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01:06:39,400 --> 01:06:44,320
Speaker 1: it was a strange show. You we were performing together

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01:06:44,400 --> 01:06:47,400
Speaker 1: and you were like get out there. And that that

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01:06:47,600 --> 01:06:49,480
Speaker 1: sticks with me all the time, like, not in a

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Speaker 1: mean way, the most supportive because I didn't know everyone else.

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Speaker 1: It was like more senior and it was so loving

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01:06:55,760 --> 01:06:57,640
Speaker 1: and kind, and I think, and that's when I think

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01:06:57,640 --> 01:07:00,640
Speaker 1: about you, I think about the support and in that

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Speaker 1: moment's sincerely. So's a sweet memory. It's very sweet memory.

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Speaker 2: Well, great, okay, we love each other.

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Speaker 1: We love each other. That's it. That's the end of

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Speaker 1: actors Talk. Thanks Darcy, bye bye. Oh my goodness. That

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Speaker 1: was my conversation with Darcy card and we're gonna call

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Speaker 1: it actress Talk. Actors talk. You didn't sign up to

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Speaker 1: hear actress talk, but you heard actress Talk. I found

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Speaker 1: it very fun and enjoyable. If you want advice for me,

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Speaker 1: Brain short circuited right there. Oh, it's because I wanted

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Speaker 1: to say THHX dads. Anyway, you get the picture, call us,

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