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It is Strawberry Letter. 11 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 2: All right, if you thank you. 12 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 1: Subject, We didn't know the kids were up, Dear Stephen Shirley. 13 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 1: My fiancee and I are blending our families, and all 14 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:37,879 Speaker 1: four of our children are under age twelve. It's a 15 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: hassle to get a little time for ourselves. So my 16 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 1: fiance turned his man cave into a kid's cave and 17 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:47,320 Speaker 1: they have movie nights all the time. His kids beg 18 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 1: to stay at our house more than with their mom. 19 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:52,519 Speaker 1: But after what we did on Friday, they may not 20 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 1: ever be allowed to come back to our house. I 21 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: had been to dinner and I had had a few margaritas, 22 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 1: and my fiance was out with his car club buddies. 23 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 1: We both were tipsy, so I told him, let's have 24 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 1: sex right quick before the kids got home. Just then 25 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 1: the doorbell rang. It was his kids coming for the weekend. 26 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: I went to the door with half a boob hanging out, 27 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:17,559 Speaker 1: and his youngest son poked it with his little finger 28 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: so i'd know that he could see it. My fiance's 29 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:24,840 Speaker 1: ex wife rolled her eyes so hard at me. My 30 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:28,040 Speaker 1: kids got home right after that. I gave them chicken 31 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 1: nuggets and I sat up movie night for them. My 32 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 1: fiance waited until I got until he got quiet downstairs, 33 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 1: and we figured they were asleep. We started getting wild 34 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:41,680 Speaker 1: and nasty and do what and doing what grown people do. 35 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 1: When we were almost done, his eight year old son 36 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:50,279 Speaker 1: started screaming at our bedroom door. He had a bloody nose. 37 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 1: Then his brother was at the door, and so were 38 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:57,279 Speaker 1: my two daughters. I don't know why my fiance didn't 39 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: lock the door. All of our kids will scarred for 40 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 1: life because we were both naked. My fiance could not 41 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 1: stop laughing and still thinks it's funny. 42 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:08,959 Speaker 2: The kids wouldn't look us in the eye. 43 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:13,639 Speaker 1: My daughter said, I'm disgusting, and I can't be mad 44 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 1: at her because I feel disgusting his boys told their 45 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 1: mom what happened, so now I have to deal with 46 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 1: her judging me. How can my fiance think it's funny? 47 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 1: How do we fix this fiasco? 48 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 2: M I don't know. 49 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 1: It's not like you guys were really doing anything wrong. 50 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:36,360 Speaker 1: Like you said, you were doing what grown people do. 51 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:40,639 Speaker 1: But when you have kids, See, here's the issue. Kids 52 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:43,920 Speaker 1: do what kids do. They might burst into the room, 53 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 1: or they might be outside your bedroom door unannounced, crying. 54 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 1: You were careless and didn't check on them before you 55 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: started doing your grown people's stuff. And most importantly, you 56 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 1: did not lock that bedroom door. You knew you were 57 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 1: a little tough, tipsy, and he was a little tipsy, 58 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: and you guys wanted to get wild and nasty, like 59 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: you say, so in that regard, you were irresponsible with 60 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:07,959 Speaker 1: the kids. 61 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 2: That's not good. I mean, are you. 62 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 1: Guys the first and last parents that have been walked 63 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:16,760 Speaker 1: in on, you know, caught in the act by their kids. 64 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:21,800 Speaker 1: Absolutely not. But this situation could have been avoided easily. 65 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 1: How do you fix it? I don't know how you 66 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 1: fix this one, I really don't. I mean, maybe you 67 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:30,079 Speaker 1: should try to talk to all the kids, ask them, 68 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 1: you know, what they saw. And you know, I don't 69 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 1: know what you do in this situation what they saw? 70 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 1: Ask them, you know, are they traumatized by what they thought? Well, 71 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: we thought, No, I don't. But I don't honestly know 72 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 1: what to do in this regard. But you got to 73 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 1: tell your boyfriend to grow up and stop laughing so much. 74 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 1: This is not funny if it affected the kids in 75 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 1: a negative way. 76 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 3: Steve, let me saw it. 77 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 4: Just let it at the bottom, because this letter has 78 00:03:57,600 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 4: nowhere to go. No, I know, you can't fix this. 79 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 4: How do we fix this fiasco? 80 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: You not. 81 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 4: All the damage is done. This will show up years 82 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 4: later when these children are adults. This is what's called 83 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 4: in psychology. I don't know what it's called, but I'm 84 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 4: assuming this is called traumatized trauma. This is one of 85 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:27,360 Speaker 4: them incidents that happened in families that don't send their 86 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:31,720 Speaker 4: kids to the therapy. You cannot fix this. You cannot 87 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:33,840 Speaker 4: undo what was done. 88 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 1: Now. 89 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 4: The first thing that started just off, though, was you 90 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 4: went out with your girlfriends, had some margarita's. He went 91 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:44,039 Speaker 4: with his car club buddy, y'all came home homely, wanted 92 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 4: to do something pot the kids came over. Well, y'all 93 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 4: in the middle of doing something. The door bell rang 94 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 4: and it's his ex bringing the kids home. Here where 95 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:56,360 Speaker 4: it all popped off. You go to the door with 96 00:04:56,520 --> 00:05:00,360 Speaker 4: half your boot hanging out one of them, I'm. 97 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:04,839 Speaker 3: Just over on the wrong side of the road. Get 98 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:06,040 Speaker 3: over now. 99 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 4: I don't have them, so I can't speak on it, 100 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 4: but I do have a question. If one of them 101 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 4: is out, you don't feel no draft. 102 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 3: You don't feel a. 103 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 4: Cool breeze in the area that don't normally get breezes 104 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 4: on it. This is an area that's covered most of 105 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 4: the time. It makes very few public appearances. So I'm 106 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 4: wondering when yours made that public appearance in front of 107 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 4: the kids and the fiance, when you was going through 108 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 4: the to the. 109 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 3: Door, you didn't feel no draft. 110 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 2: You ain't gonna what is that? 111 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 3: See? I feel the draft. 112 00:05:56,880 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 4: On any one of my body parts that don't be 113 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:00,839 Speaker 4: out making public opinions. 114 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:02,280 Speaker 3: I can feel the drift. 115 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:07,479 Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I know, like if my T shirt ain't 116 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,160 Speaker 4: took down in the back, because that part at the 117 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 4: top of my butt don't ever make public. 118 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:16,039 Speaker 3: I know, I know when my T shirt ain't in 119 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:16,679 Speaker 3: the back. 120 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 4: I'm very uncomfortable nothing, and that's just my butt. 121 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:24,719 Speaker 3: How your breastsouden? You don't know it. 122 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:28,480 Speaker 4: How many Margarinas you say you have because you need 123 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 4: you need to get that number and never do that again. 124 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 1: She was tipsy. 125 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 3: All right, I come back. 126 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 4: I have more useless information on the hang on, it's crazy, man. 127 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: We'll have part two Seem's response coming up in twenty 128 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour of today's Strawberry Letters. Subject 129 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: we didn't know the kids were up. We'll get back 130 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening hardy. 131 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:54,480 Speaker 2: Morning show. 132 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:02,719 Speaker 3: Folks. There are a lot of reasons to like Hyundai. 133 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 4: Hyundai's done a lot to support American consumers. I mean, 134 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 4: they announced their investment of twenty one billion dollars in 135 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 4: the United States over the next three years that will 136 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 4: expand manufacturing and create more jobs for Americans. 137 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 1: And they just announced that they will not be raising 138 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 1: MSRP through June second, no matter what. 139 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 3: Called five six' two three one. 140 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 1: Four forty six zero three for more, details all, Right, 141 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:31,680 Speaker 1: steve come, on let's recap Today's strawberry. Letter the subject 142 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 1: is we didn't know the kids were? 143 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 4: Up, well after all this, happened the lady want to 144 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 4: know how they fixed, this And i've just said that 145 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 4: early on in this, letter you can't fix. This here 146 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 4: the problem it. Started they have a blended family that 147 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 4: his two kids stay with their. 148 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 3: Mama she had been out drinking. 149 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 4: Margarite as he was at the car club with but 150 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 4: they both came home drunk and they were supposed to 151 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 4: chiep the kids that, weekend so they decided to get 152 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 4: freaking before the kids come. Over in the middle of, 153 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 4: it the doughbell ring and his fiance, say with the, 154 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 4: kids you throw a robe one and go to the, 155 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 4: door and you throw the robe on in one of 156 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 4: your breasts is just. Out the whole breast just. Out, 157 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 4: now this has nothing to do with size or none of. 158 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 4: That it's just. Out you know when it's. Out, now 159 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 4: how you didn't feel no breeze is bothered? 160 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 2: Me is that the point of the? 161 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 4: Letter? 162 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 2: Though NOW i just. 163 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 4: Don't understand how you have a body part that don't 164 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 4: make public appearances and when it, does it don't know 165 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:33,720 Speaker 4: it's in. Public, see you've got to explain to me 166 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 4: how your whole breast is. Out and you, know just 167 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 4: based on this, letter probably had a little weight on it, 168 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 4: Too so you got a breast out and it's kind 169 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 4: of heavy because you didn't know it until his little 170 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:47,840 Speaker 4: boy reached out with his finger and touched, it which 171 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:50,679 Speaker 4: is what i'd have, done you, not my. MAMA i 172 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:52,559 Speaker 4: need to know what that. IS i Ate i'm gonna 173 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:55,400 Speaker 4: touch it BECAUSE i have been wondering about. 174 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 3: It, anyway. 175 00:08:57,600 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 4: The fiance, say the ex roll her eyes at you. 176 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 4: Hard so now you started this whole. Thing Now i've told, 177 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 4: you AND i will reiterate this right. HERE i have 178 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 4: body parts that don't make public, appearances But i'm sensitive to. 179 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 4: Breeze if my shirt, tailed MY t shirt in the 180 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 4: back comes up out of my, PANTS. 181 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 3: I feel that. 182 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:29,959 Speaker 4: If i'm in the gym lifting waiting MY t shirt come, 183 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:35,320 Speaker 4: UP i stopped lifting and poor mine back down BECAUSE 184 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 4: i just don't like that, feeling AND i don't like the. 185 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 4: Look you didn't because you were. Struck fast forward there in, 186 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 4: there you decide he turned your, hood your fiance's man 187 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 4: cave into a kid. Cave so you sitting all four 188 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 4: of them downstairs to watch a. 189 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 3: Movie you waited till they was good and sleep. 190 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 4: And then y'all just went up in there and got 191 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:57,960 Speaker 4: buck wile because you thought the kids would. 192 00:09:58,000 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 3: Sleep little did you know they. 193 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:02,200 Speaker 4: Wasn't all of a, sudden his son at the, door 194 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 4: holling at the top of his lung with a bloody. 195 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 4: Note y'all in that nicked all of a, sudden all the, 196 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 4: kids all four of, them busting the, dough and you 197 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:15,200 Speaker 4: and that nicked. 198 00:10:16,840 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 3: Your. 199 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 4: Fiance think it's, funny he. Laughing now your concern is 200 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:29,559 Speaker 4: your daughter has told, you, mommy you're. Disgusting all four 201 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 4: of the kids is under, twelve so daughter know enough to, Go, 202 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 4: mommy you. Disgusted the lady that wrote the letter, said, 203 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 4: YES i feel. Disgusted the, fiance her husband is just. 204 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 4: Laughing and now you know that the kid he went 205 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 4: back home and told his mama what. Happened now you 206 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 4: got to deal with. Her so the question in this 207 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:55,960 Speaker 4: letter all comes down to how DO i fix? 208 00:10:56,080 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 1: This. 209 00:10:56,240 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 3: Fiasca my answer to you is you. Can't your kids is. 210 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 3: Traumatized this will show up later in something in. 211 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 4: Life give me a, Job, sureley And i'll show you 212 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:14,319 Speaker 4: how this could show. 213 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 3: Up let's give me a, job any JOB i don't. 214 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 1: Know, okay you're an executive assistant to A, ceo. 215 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 3: Executive assistant to a. 216 00:11:21,880 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 4: Ceo he calls you into his office because of this 217 00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 4: traumatic experience as a, baby and you saw. It every 218 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:33,720 Speaker 4: time you get to your CEO's, though you look down 219 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 4: at your breast because you got to make sure that 220 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:41,319 Speaker 4: it ain't popped out because of this traumatic. 221 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:43,200 Speaker 3: Experience you had her. Child give me another. 222 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 2: Job you're A tv news, ANCHOR tv news. 223 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 4: Anche you're coming ON Asp they count you in, five 224 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 4: four three. Two the word two makes you look down 225 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:01,680 Speaker 4: so you can make sure THAT yo two ain't gonna 226 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 4: be ON tv. Today traumatized all because you was a. 227 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:10,640 Speaker 4: Baby next, Job, sureley you're a, teacher school. Teacher you're 228 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 4: a teacher. Professor you up and there you're going through 229 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 4: lesson number. One it's all going, down but then you 230 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 4: get to what's, next lesson number. Two all of a, 231 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:26,640 Speaker 4: sudden your chin is on your chest because you're looking 232 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 4: down to make sure that lesson number two is comforting 233 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 4: because you're. 234 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:36,120 Speaker 3: Traumatized you can work out a drive through window At. 235 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 4: Wendy's people come around you scared to lean over and 236 00:12:39,800 --> 00:12:42,240 Speaker 4: take the change because the last time you leaned over 237 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 4: it fell. 238 00:12:42,800 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 3: Out you're a. 239 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:48,200 Speaker 2: Nurse you a. 240 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 3: Nurse uh, Huh. 241 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:53,080 Speaker 4: Somebody come in time for him to get a shot OR. 242 00:12:53,120 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 4: Iv they stick their arm, out you push it back 243 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 4: because you can't have that on touching your, breast because 244 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:08,120 Speaker 4: if you're, scared it gonna pop. 245 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 1: Out what. 246 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 2: You sing lead in the, choir in the church, choir. 247 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:17,719 Speaker 3: You sing loud or. Choiet you can only sway to your. 248 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:20,560 Speaker 4: Right you don't sway to your left because that's the 249 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 4: breast that was. Out and you're scared, off you stump 250 00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 4: and sway that that thing gonna come about that. Road, 251 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 4: see that's what's gonna happen with D key is. Traumatized 252 00:13:28,840 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 4: how do you fix this? Fiasco you cannot fix. 253 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:34,000 Speaker 3: This it's a. Wrap your babies is. 254 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:37,520 Speaker 2: Due leave your comments on today's. 255 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:39,679 Speaker 3: They can't be in the police department. 256 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 1: Or, nothing And facebook At STEVE barbfm and check us 257 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 1: out on The Strawberry letter. 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