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Speaker 1: been left waiting by the phone? It's the Fread Show. Jennay,

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the program. How are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm doing good? How are you guys?

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Speaker 1: Okay? What's going on with this guy? Craig on waiting

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Speaker 1: by the phone? Here? We need to know everything. How

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Speaker 1: did you guys meet? Tell us about any dates you've

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Speaker 1: been on and then what's happening right now? Great?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. I met Craig on Bumble and I went

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Speaker 2: on one date with him and after we matched very

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Speaker 2: very quickly, he reached out and was like, do you

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Speaker 2: want to grab drinks? And you know, he was really cute,

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Speaker 2: so I was like, yes, the day was so much fun.

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Speaker 2: It really was. We had a really great time. We

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Speaker 2: talked the whole time, the conversation was flowing, and he

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Speaker 2: invited me.

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Speaker 3: Back to his place.

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Speaker 1: Okay, really good.

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Speaker 2: Signed right, Yes, this guy.

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Speaker 1: Gets to it man. Like you know, a lot of

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Speaker 1: times these dating app situations, they just become these long conversations.

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Speaker 1: I'm guilty of that. But no, this dude was assertive.

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Speaker 1: He's like, let's go out, and then he went out

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Speaker 1: and then he was like come over to the house,

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Speaker 1: and you were like, let's do it. I mean he

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Speaker 1: was really controlling the date in a good way. Assertiveness, right, yes.

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Speaker 2: Very assertive. Like I loved it and I was feeling

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Speaker 2: it too, So it was nice to have it.

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Speaker 1: Really, we like it feeling like it. We like it

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Speaker 1: when everyone feeling it. Yeah, I heard, Yeah, that's what

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Speaker 1: we're all going for.

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Speaker 4: So then what happened, Well, you know, I thought it

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Speaker 4: was a great night, and I left and then now

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Speaker 4: he's ghosting me, like, I actually don't know why. I

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Speaker 4: really thought it went well, and I thought me going

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Speaker 4: over to his place, I thought that went well too.

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Speaker 2: I'm not really sure, and that's why I need your help.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you have not heard from Craig since you

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Speaker 2: Right, No? I haven't.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, And have you reached out at all?

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Speaker 1: Or you've just expected him to contact you, which I

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Speaker 1: guess I would expect too, since he was sort of,

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Speaker 1: you know, very very assertive. That was the word, you know,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I haven't reached out. I kind of feel how

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Speaker 2: like what you're saying.

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Speaker 4: I I feel like it's kind of up to him.

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Speaker 2: So I haven't reached out. Yeah, I'm a little confused.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, let's call Craig and in just a second, well,

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Speaker 1: place on, we'll come back. We'll do it, and we'll

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Speaker 1: see if we can get an on the phone and

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Speaker 1: ask these questions on your behalf try and figure out

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Speaker 1: what's going on. And our hope is always and it

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Speaker 1: doesn't happen a lot, but it does happen sometimes. Our

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Speaker 1: hope is that we can set you up on another

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Speaker 1: date and pay for it.

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Speaker 2: Sound good, Yeah, that sounds great.

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Speaker 1: Let's find out what's going on in part two of

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Speaker 1: Waiting by the phone. Hey, Jane, let's call Craig. You

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Speaker 1: guys met at one of the dating apps. I believe

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Speaker 1: you said it was bumble. You went on a date.

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Speaker 1: I mean, the things kind of move fast. He was assertive.

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Speaker 1: I keep saying the word assertive. He was really on

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's exactly right.

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Speaker 1: Let's call him right now. Good luck. Hi is this Craig.

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Speaker 1: It is Craig. Hi, good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred Show, the Morning radio show,

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Speaker 1: and the whole crew is here, and I need to

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Speaker 1: and I would need your permission to continue with the

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Speaker 1: You can hang up anytime?

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Speaker 5: Sure?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Well, thank you, We're calling on behalf of a

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Speaker 1: woman who said she met you online on one of

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Speaker 1: the dating apps. Her name is Janey. Do you remember

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Speaker 1: meeting Janey and going out with her? I do, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: so we just talked to her. She reached out to

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Speaker 1: to know why. So would you mind telling us what's

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Speaker 5: Are you sure? Do you want to hear about this?

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Speaker 1: I feel after that, I'm absolutely sure. I don't know

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Speaker 1: that I never want to hear anything more, So if

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Speaker 6: Okay, So you know the date, I thought it was

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Speaker 6: going pretty good. I thought she was cute and you know, funny.

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Speaker 6: So I invited her back to my place and we

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Speaker 6: started it hanging out and we were, you know, talking

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Speaker 6: she could rub my feet.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, that's okay. Some people like, you know,

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Speaker 1: foot touching, some people don't. I can't say I've ever

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Speaker 1: asked for that before. But okay, so of all the things,

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Speaker 1: She's like, can I rub your feet? Great? And when?

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Speaker 1: What's and what? Say you?

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Speaker 5: Sure?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I wasn't that weird that?

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Speaker 6: I mean usually I started with a kiss, but you know,

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Speaker 6: men don't usually get spoiled in this way, So I said, sure, okay.

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Speaker 1: So you hadn't even kissed yet. No, right for the feet, okay, all.

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Speaker 6: Right, okay, And I thought it was a little od

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Speaker 6: all right, okay, but you know, to your point, at

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Speaker 6: first it felt really nice.

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Speaker 5: She started sucking on my big toe.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, you know I saw this, saw this coming,

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Speaker 1: I did. I saw it? Well, yeah, I just I

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Speaker 5: I was a bit shocked.

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Speaker 6: And then I became more shocked when she put my

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Speaker 1: Wow, I mean that's yeah, that's I don't have tiny feet?

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Speaker 1: H yeah, which one is twelve? Boy? Oh boy? I

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Speaker 1: mean kudos kudos something? Wow? Okay, So then what are

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Speaker 1: you doing? And during all I mean, are you just

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Speaker 1: sort of like amazed? Are you missedifud? He stunned? I mean,

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Speaker 6: It's hard to even know because it felt like I

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Speaker 1: Okay, wow, and so so you just sort of go

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Speaker 1: with it, and then it was insane. Did things continue

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Speaker 5: I don't really know if it's try to go into

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Speaker 1: Okay, so it didn't stop you then, so we did

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Speaker 1: move on, So maybe maybe we liked it a little bit. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: maybe let me bring Jane in though. Janey, uh, Craig,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm so forgetful. I just get caught up

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Speaker 1: in the story. I forget the other person's here the

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Speaker 1: whole time. Wow. So you he was appalled, I guess

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Speaker 1: continuing on with the evening and the activities that you

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Speaker 1: know that that's the activities and then that, but that's

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Speaker 1: why he's not calling you. It's the foot stuff.

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Speaker 3: That's that's like wild to me. I was just we

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Speaker 3: I was just setting the mood, like I just wanted

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Speaker 3: to treat you like a king.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you were so upset about it, Craig that you

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Speaker 5: It's hard to go back once you're in that situation.

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Speaker 1: But no, it's it's it's you just say no and

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Speaker 1: move on to a different I mean, I think that's

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Speaker 1: because of the thing that you didn't vocalize you didn't want, right, no, right, absolutely,

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Speaker 1: Yeah you're shaming her for this thing, but you didn't

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Speaker 5: Liked it, I liked the foot rubbed.

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Speaker 6: I didn't like anything that came after that.

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Speaker 3: I just don't know.

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Speaker 6: I don't know how many guys she's done this too.

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Speaker 6: I don't know if she's ever gotten an infection in

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Speaker 1: What I mean, but the other stuff, but you hit

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Speaker 6: I was walking around in bare feet the entire time

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Speaker 6: we were back at my apartment.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so Janny, this is something that you like

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Speaker 1: or or something you thought he would like her both.

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Speaker 3: A little bit of both. I definitely like it, and like,

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Speaker 3: you know, I was getting the vibe with the foot

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Speaker 3: rub and I was like, maybe I'll just try and see,

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Speaker 3: like why not? And then we ended up hooking up.

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Speaker 3: So I thought it was great. I thought he was like, great,

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I might have thought the same thing, because look,

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Speaker 1: when we're first meeting someone, we try different things. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's kind of a process of getting to know what

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Speaker 1: everyone likes, and we got to be communicative. But I

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Speaker 1: feel like you're shaming Craig. You're shaming Janey for something

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Speaker 1: that you didn't actually dislike. It's like you're almost ashamed

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Speaker 5: I don't I don't know what to say.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Well, feel like I'm just gonna put my foot

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Speaker 1: Why did I not see that coming, Janny? I mean,

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Speaker 1: normal norma would ask him if he wants to go

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Speaker 1: him because I don't like I don't like this. I

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Speaker 1: don't I don't think this is cool. You got to

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Speaker 3: For something, right, I absolutely and like this tells me

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Speaker 3: so much about him, Like will he speak up when

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Speaker 3: there's an actual problem? So no, no second date for me?

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Speaker 1: Well, yes, there you go. So she doesn't want to

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Speaker 1: go out with you anymore, Craig, I don't doesn't telling

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Speaker 1: you want to go out with her. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you're missing out. Maybe secretly you do, but nonetheless

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Speaker 1: it's it's not going to work out here, Craig. Thank

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Speaker 1: you for your time. Jenay, good luck to you as well,