1 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: So I'm a little behind the eight ball on the debate. 2 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 1: And I talked recently about how people can't have a 3 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:25,960 Speaker 1: different opinion in twenty twenty four. Someone voting for Kamala 4 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 1: can't be at the same tables. Some are voting for 5 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 1: Trump in twenty twenty four. And when I was a kid, 6 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 1: it wasn't like that, And so people theoretically now can't 7 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 1: be married who are voting for different candidates. And I 8 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: was talking to my friend Sarah, who told me she 9 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 1: was voting with her body, and another friend said they're 10 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 1: voting with their wallet. And I've talked about how it's 11 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 1: a luxury to be able to have different issues on 12 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 1: someone's platform that are the reason you're voting for them, 13 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 1: meaning like if you donate to authritis because you know 14 00:00:57,760 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 1: someone who is athritis, or someone in your family does, 15 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 1: or cancer or things like that, it's something that is 16 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 1: near and dear to you. It's important to you, it's 17 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: close to your heart, and people vote in that way. Also, 18 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:12,119 Speaker 1: like people vote because of their wallet, because of their body, 19 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 1: because they want to be married, and they're gay, because 20 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:17,959 Speaker 1: of their families in the military, whatever their reason is. 21 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: There are many people who don't really have the luxury 22 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 1: of picking issues. They are just they are starving. They're 23 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: literally starving, and they just want to vote to be 24 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 1: able to possibly survive, or to pay their rent, or 25 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 1: to eat. And that I gave this advice that I 26 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 1: think that people should really do two things at the 27 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 1: same time. You're kind of playing chess and checkers at 28 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 1: the same time. You're deciding what you want to do 29 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:44,559 Speaker 1: based on your issues and your life because you're one 30 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 1: person with the power of one vote, but also the 31 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: chest of it is and also what's best for the 32 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: whole country, because if your body's in check but you're 33 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 1: going to be bombed and go to war, then what 34 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 1: does that mean You don't have a body necessarily. So 35 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: it's very confusing, and we're fed so much information from 36 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 1: different news outlets. If you're on CNN, people are rolling 37 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 1: their eyes at Trump. If you're on Fox, people are 38 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:15,799 Speaker 1: laughing at Kamala. And it wasn't this, it wasn't this 39 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: glaring when we were kids, where it was like, I mean, 40 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: I you know, I remember watching Chris Cuomo and Don 41 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: Lemon like like laughing at you know, and then on 42 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:29,919 Speaker 1: the other side, you know, people on Fox laughing at Kamala, 43 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 1: Like it's just it's just different than it used to be. 44 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 1: So it's harder for the average person to make their 45 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 1: own decisions because we also are a product of what 46 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 1: we're being fed by the machine. So who has the 47 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 1: better machine, meaning they're in beauty, for example, I talk 48 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 1: about beauty all the time, and it's all the same thing, 49 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 1: Like it's all pigment, all the powders or pigments in 50 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: eyeshadow and blush. You can use blush's eyeshadow. You can 51 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 1: use eyeshadow as blush. You can use eyeshadow as highlighter 52 00:02:56,880 --> 00:03:00,800 Speaker 1: as bronze, or you can use lip gloss as blush 53 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 1: and blush as lip glass and eyeshadow. And who's marketing 54 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 1: these lines the best? Not that there aren't some things 55 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 1: that are better, not that there aren't candidates that are better, 56 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: not that there aren't products that are better overall in 57 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 1: the world. But to have a massive marketing budget gives 58 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 1: you a leg up or to be a better marketer. 59 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: You know, to be a better marketer gives you a 60 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:26,359 Speaker 1: leg up to be more charismatic, gives you a leg 61 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 1: up to be thought of as trusted and honest, gives 62 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: you a leg up, because when you're selling something, then 63 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 1: people will believe you, you know, and some people are 64 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 1: better salespeople than others. You know. I've seen Obama speak, 65 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 1: I've seen Trump speak, I've seen Hillary speak. I had 66 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 1: Hillary on the podcast. I once saw her speak at ironically, 67 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 1: Harvey Weinstein's house. There were like fifty people there and 68 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: I saw her speak. Most of the people were celebrities, 69 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: and it was very boring, you know. And I'm not 70 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 1: saying that I don't like Hillary, and I'm not saying 71 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 1: she hasn't done amazing things. It wasn't great on my podcast, 72 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 1: and is you know, so accomplished. It felt a little 73 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 1: bit like a science teacher. And I thought to myself, Wow, 74 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 1: charisma is so important, Like look at Bill Clinton, the 75 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 1: charisma that he had. Look at JFK, you know, the charisma. 76 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 1: And so then you're dealing with like who's more charismatic, 77 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 1: who's more teleigenic. There are so many things to think about, 78 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:18,559 Speaker 1: and it's hard for us to know why we're buying 79 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 1: a product, and it's hard for us to know why 80 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 1: we're voting for someone. You know, my daughter has opinions 81 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:37,039 Speaker 1: about candidates based on where she goes to school, who 82 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 1: she's talking to, what she's read in the news, the 83 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 1: bigger headline. It's very confusing, you know. I mean when 84 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 1: Trump was running the first time, I was on a 85 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 1: panel as I think a New York Times panel for 86 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: like like ad week or something, and there was somebody 87 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 1: there from the New York Times. And this is when 88 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 1: no one thought that Trump was going to win, and 89 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 1: I said, I think he's got a shot because he's 90 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 1: producing the greatest reality show, free reality show. People could 91 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 1: not look away and the media had to keep reporting 92 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 1: on it, and I said it. I remember saying this. 93 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:09,280 Speaker 1: It was during a time when you know, I go 94 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 1: through all the channels and I end up watching SpongeBob 95 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 1: because it's so confusing and there's so much information. So 96 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:17,040 Speaker 1: whoever's the most disruptive is what you're going to watch. 97 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 1: You know, people watch train wreck television, people watch actual 98 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 1: train wrecks, People watch car Rex why because they can't 99 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:27,279 Speaker 1: stop looking. So if you don't know much about another 100 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:30,799 Speaker 1: candidate and one is getting your attention more for certain reasons, 101 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:33,040 Speaker 1: then you're gonna do that. And it may be Kamala 102 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 1: because she's a woman, and maybe because she's a black woman. 103 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: It may because it's an amazing story. It maybe because 104 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 1: she's the best candidate. Maybe because Trump is more you know, disruptive, 105 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:45,040 Speaker 1: and seems like that is means he's more you know, 106 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: telling the truth because he's not playing by like the 107 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 1: polished perfect rules. Or maybe you just you think he's 108 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: better for your wallet, or she's better for your body, 109 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 1: or she's better for gay rights. It's a very confusing time, 110 00:05:57,040 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 1: and I would say you have to try to clear 111 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 1: the clutter. Try to clear the clutter too, when you're 112 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 1: buying products and when you're consuming media. It is a 113 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 1: scary time. The reason that bars now hire bartenders who 114 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:15,280 Speaker 1: have big social media followings is because they have influence. 115 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 1: They have influence. People are going to come into the 116 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 1: bar to buy drinks from the one who has more followers. 117 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 1: That's also scary. It's not so scary in a bar, 118 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:28,480 Speaker 1: but it's scary because like people who have influence move markets. 119 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 1: I sell product. Thank god, I'm honest about it. Thank God, 120 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 1: I'm honest to buy my chicken salad and the lip cluss, 121 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:35,719 Speaker 1: and so much so that the other day I raved 122 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 1: about the best lip gluss I ever tried, and it 123 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 1: was actually a blush. I didn't even know it. The 124 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 1: people knew. The people in the comments told it to me. 125 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 1: I mean, if I were working with Lorel on that post, 126 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 1: they wouldn't have let me post a product as something else. 127 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:49,479 Speaker 1: But I just experienced it as a lip product. So 128 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 1: that's what I said. Point being, I move a lot 129 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 1: of product, millions of dollars of product, just be myself 130 00:06:57,400 --> 00:07:00,159 Speaker 1: and just trying something and not caring whether I'm saying 131 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 1: Chanel sucks or doors this or whatever. I don't give 132 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 1: a shit because no one's paying my rent and no 133 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 1: one has anything I want. But it's scary if even 134 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 1: charity people don't realize. People think that because it seems 135 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 1: like someone's doing good during a time of crisis, that 136 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 1: they just go and donate money. And I have specific 137 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 1: examples in my mind off celebrities it posted links went up, 138 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 1: started talking because they wanted to be part of the solution, 139 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 1: and they're sending money to the wrong place. They get 140 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 1: jammed up. It's almost illegal. They don't know where the 141 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: money's going. There's a third party involved between them and 142 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 1: the actual charity. And I find out for my partners 143 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 1: that the person that is actually in the charity doesn't 144 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 1: even specialize in doing what they're saying that it's going 145 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 1: to do. Because when it's a time of crisis, a 146 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 1: time of relief, a time where people are in panic, 147 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 1: people aren't paying attention. When I had to bring thirteen 148 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 1: million dollars of hazmat suits to Cuomo in Albany, I 149 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 1: did it in days. You have to be a certain 150 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 1: type of fucking animal to do that. And we had 151 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 1: to vet AID and inspect it. There's a lot of counterfeit. 152 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 1: AID almost at our ass handed to it. I almost 153 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:04,120 Speaker 1: lost the thirteen million dollars. I mean, it is scary 154 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 1: shit because people were trying to scam us, and people 155 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 1: in different states at different governments were getting scammed because 156 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 1: it's too fast. It's moving too fast. And it's the 157 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:17,120 Speaker 1: same thing with politics. People are just saying whatever they 158 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 1: need to say, doing whatever they need to do. How 159 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:21,480 Speaker 1: are you going to be educated to decide and realize 160 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 1: what you want and do? You only just vote party 161 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 1: because that's what your whole family's done, that's what you're 162 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 1: supposed to do. You just blindly walk in and just 163 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 1: you know, check a box because of is it red 164 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:33,440 Speaker 1: or blue? And so I just think that it's a 165 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:37,080 Speaker 1: time to try to clear the noise, get educated, don't 166 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 1: believe the hype, don't believe marketing, think about what you 167 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 1: truly need and want for yourself and for others. You know, 168 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:45,959 Speaker 1: it's a time to think about yourself and for others. 169 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 1: I think it's very confusing. I think it's very complicated. 170 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:51,439 Speaker 1: And I also don't think I've ever heard of any 171 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 1: politician that hasn't lied, that hasn't switched, hasn't flip flopped, 172 00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 1: that hasn't had to say something different because they didn't 173 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:00,960 Speaker 1: realize what it meant the first time, or now they're 174 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 1: on another side, or now they have another platform and 175 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 1: now it's not popular. I mean, who would want the job? 176 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 1: Who would want the goddamn job? Because it's so toxic. 177 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 1: Who would want the job? I've spoken to more Cuban 178 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:17,720 Speaker 1: about it, you know what I mean, Like he would 179 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 1: be actually excellent at the job, but what would his 180 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 1: family want? That? Do you want to put your family 181 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 1: through that? There's no upside. So the debate, the reason 182 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 1: I want to talk about the debate is because people 183 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 1: didn't think Kamala could stick the landing. They didn't think 184 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 1: she could stick the landing because they call it her 185 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 1: word salad and her laugh and she can be a 186 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 1: little hokey and like, you know, a little cringe sometimes, 187 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:53,200 Speaker 1: and so people didn't think she'd stick the landing, and 188 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 1: she surprised people. And people can say whatever they want, 189 00:09:56,800 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 1: and it doesn't matter who you're voting for as it 190 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 1: pertains to the debate, But Kamala did a better job 191 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 1: because he took the bait the ego, and the man 192 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:07,680 Speaker 1: took the bait from you know, of the woman, and 193 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 1: you saw it happen. You saw it with the truth 194 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 1: about cats and dogs. You saw it a couple of times. 195 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:17,199 Speaker 1: And it's not about who you're voting for. But if 196 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:20,440 Speaker 1: you are someone who publicly speaks or debates or goes 197 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:22,959 Speaker 1: in to try to get a job or a promotion 198 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:24,720 Speaker 1: or something, I just want you to know that the 199 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 1: game moves quickly. So the debate reminds me of reality television, 200 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:31,760 Speaker 1: because on reality television, the game is moving quickly, and 201 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 1: once you've said something, you're still in your head about 202 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 1: what you've already said, but you're onto the next thing. 203 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: You're on to the next point, the next conversation. The 204 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:39,920 Speaker 1: cameras are still rolling you can't say stop, I want 205 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:41,720 Speaker 1: to do over. You can't get in your head and 206 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 1: stay stuck in the last thing, because otherwise you'll get 207 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 1: you'll get stumped on the next thing. And like I said, 208 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 1: the game is moving very quickly, and you got to 209 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 1: get out of your head and you have to not 210 00:10:53,400 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 1: take the bait. It's so tempting because people in court 211 00:10:56,679 --> 00:11:00,559 Speaker 1: rooms and people in debates drop bread crumb so you'll 212 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:03,560 Speaker 1: pick them up, so you'll follow them. And I've seen it, 213 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:06,200 Speaker 1: and it's not always in a very obvious way. It's 214 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 1: not always in a very obvious way. And I call 215 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 1: them side shows. My lawyers said that I was the 216 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 1: best person they've ever had on the stand that wasn't 217 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 1: a paid professional, that didn't do this for a living. 218 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 1: And it might be because, I mean, in high school 219 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:24,199 Speaker 1: I was good at debate. I've always been a good 220 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 1: public speaker. I was good at it on the Housewives, 221 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:30,160 Speaker 1: and maybe it's a honed skill. I never ever ask 222 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:32,439 Speaker 1: for anything in advance when I do any type of 223 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 1: talk show. I've never asked for the questions once. I 224 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 1: don't want to know them. I want it to be natural, 225 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 1: I want it to be fresh. If I do a 226 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 1: speaking engagement. I want to just like listen to the 227 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:43,200 Speaker 1: person's you know, and answer the question. Presumably why I 228 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 1: did well in the Lifetime movie because I learned to 229 00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 1: memorize lines, but in the moment, you memorize them with 230 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: no punctuation, with no preconceived notion, without the way you 231 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,199 Speaker 1: think the lines are supposed to be delivered, so when 232 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:57,439 Speaker 1: the person opposite you delivers them, you can honestly answer. 233 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 1: So I think that in court people go off on 234 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 1: these side shows, and the debate is the same thing. 235 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 1: Someone asks you something and now you're off to the 236 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:09,960 Speaker 1: races because you want to catch every little thing. You 237 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 1: want to plug every little hole, instead of staying the course, 238 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 1: not trying to get rogue, not trying to hit a 239 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 1: home run, just trying to be thorough. So she did 240 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 1: a great job. But you can learn a lot from 241 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:26,320 Speaker 1: a debate, and I would say taking debate, even in 242 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 1: normal like just arguments, what happens is often it's not 243 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:33,839 Speaker 1: the message, it's the messenger, and it's the messaging. So 244 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:35,760 Speaker 1: let's say you're in a fight with someone, even your husband. 245 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 1: You're in a fight with your husband, a girlfriend, someone 246 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 1: at school. You know, the principal, the teacher that did 247 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 1: something that you didn't like with your kid, the coach. 248 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:44,400 Speaker 1: I just had to talk with my daughter's coach, like, 249 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:48,560 Speaker 1: you know, it's the delivery. How are you going to 250 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 1: deliver this? And if you go low, and if you 251 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:53,640 Speaker 1: start taking bait, and if you start going off on 252 00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:56,839 Speaker 1: the side, your message may never be received. You may 253 00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 1: have the best message, but if you go off on 254 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 1: a side show and on a tangent and on a 255 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 1: bait take, then your message won't be heard. So you 256 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 1: gotta you know, cooler minds prevail. It's not that easy. 257 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 1: And the thing about things like talk shows and debates 258 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 1: and courtrooms is television makes them look easy, and even 259 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 1: reality TV. It's not easy when you're in the moment 260 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:20,679 Speaker 1: and the game is moving quickly. It's not easy when 261 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 1: you're telling a speech and you're dying on the vine. 262 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 1: It's not easy when you're doing stand up and you're 263 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:26,559 Speaker 1: shitting the bed and you still have to keep going. 264 00:13:26,679 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 1: You can't get in your head. You got to be calm, cool, collected, 265 00:13:29,280 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 1: Take a deep breath, keep calm, and carry on.