1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:05,760 --> 00:00:10,119 Speaker 2: We don't always have a video of our podcast, but 4 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 2: when we have very special guests, we videotape it, especially 5 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 2: guests that look this beautiful. 6 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:16,800 Speaker 3: Kathy and Susan are here. 7 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 2: We're gonna be talking about your new podcast, this big 8 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:21,319 Speaker 2: project called Golden Hour. 9 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:25,639 Speaker 4: We are thrilled we've done. Our first one came out 10 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 4: last week. 11 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 5: And the feedback has been fabulous. So one of the 12 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 5: things that we want to say is more about women 13 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 5: our age and fifty and up not thinking life is over. 14 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:44,519 Speaker 5: There's so much more life. And I always say it's 15 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:46,320 Speaker 5: the best chapter, right Kevy. 16 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 4: I think this is definitely gonna be the best chapter 17 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 4: of our lives. But I think what is gonna make 18 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 4: our podcast a little bit different is we are not 19 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 4: we may look at we're not twenty or thirty somethings. 20 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:04,559 Speaker 4: Definitely we try, we try, but the issues that people 21 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 4: our age face are very different. And I think the 22 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 4: goal is to give people hope and give them encouragement 23 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 4: to change their lives, to live life to the fullest. 24 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 4: And that's really what I think we want to do. 25 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 5: We're encouraging them to write into us so we can 26 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:23,560 Speaker 5: answer some of their questions. Yes, so we had a 27 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 5: few write in last week and Kathy and I on 28 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 5: some of them were on opposite shocker and some of 29 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:32,840 Speaker 5: them we completely totally agree. Absolutely. 30 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 4: But here's one of the things that we did last week. 31 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:41,479 Speaker 4: We had we invited people to send us dms if 32 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 4: they had guys, you know, their grandpap, their next door neighbor, whoever, 33 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 4: to frust updates with. So today we're going to screen 34 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 4: each other. We're going to scree each other states. So 35 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 4: today we're at the airport and I had this great idea. 36 00:01:56,960 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 4: Let's I mean it is April first I did. We 37 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 4: did this video of us saying that we were in La. 38 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 4: We both had they had done such a great job 39 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 4: of sending god. 40 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 5: Ivy with states waiting for us, so these people are 41 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 5: all excited. 42 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 4: So and then we went through the whole thing about 43 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 4: we were here for dates, it might be the marriage, right, 44 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:17,960 Speaker 4: and then we looked right in the camera. 45 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 2: And said, Aprils, am I the first guy you've seen 46 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:22,079 Speaker 2: since you got to LA. 47 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:26,399 Speaker 3: Then actually talked to Yeah, that's good, You're that's good. 48 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:29,359 Speaker 2: I was the one waiting, Okay, so I want to 49 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 2: break this down in some pieces. Here my first one, 50 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 2: and I'm very curious about gott to know the two 51 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 2: of you, big personalities, incredible people, have a lot of 52 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 2: wisdom to share. Here's the thing that happens because I've 53 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 2: done this for eight years now with my co host, right, 54 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:48,920 Speaker 2: school less please, you're both talkers, right, you both have opinions, 55 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 2: and you can have opinions and good opinions on every 56 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 2: topic that's out there. So as two co hosts, what 57 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 2: makes the two of you able to co host this together? 58 00:02:58,120 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 2: To learn that kind of dance? 59 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 3: Right, we're still learning. 60 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 4: We're learning, we're learning. You're absolutely right. 61 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 5: We're trying not to interrupt each other, no offense. I 62 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 5: love you, you're my sister. 63 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:12,240 Speaker 4: Interrupt me where there I go. 64 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 5: Kathy's long winded, and sometimes I have to jump in 65 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:19,119 Speaker 5: or I wish there was like a queue or something 66 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:21,519 Speaker 5: that we could do. But we're working on it, we are, 67 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 5: and then I find myself trying to overtalk to get 68 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 5: it all in sure, So. 69 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 3: We're going to work that out, right, it's a dance. 70 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:32,640 Speaker 2: It's a dance, and you figure it out, especially if 71 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:34,239 Speaker 2: you love each other, you care about each other, you 72 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 2: want the podcast to be successful. There are very many 73 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 2: moments when you have to bite your tongue and kind 74 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 2: of say, hey, I'm going to wait here. What ashould 75 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 2: end up doing is we have a sign where I 76 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 2: put my finger up or she puts her finger up. Hey, 77 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 2: I have a point. I have a point. This isn't offensive. 78 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 2: We both get it, and after we do it for 79 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 2: seven years now I can jump in and be like Ashley, 80 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:56,000 Speaker 2: where are you going with this? Or she can jump 81 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 2: in and say, Ben, what are you talking about? But 82 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 2: for a while it was just hey, give me some 83 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 2: space here. I have something I want to say, or 84 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 2: I have two questions in a row here that I 85 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 2: want to ask because I'm trying to get somewhere with this. 86 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 3: You don't overuse it, you don't abuse. 87 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 2: It, but it is helpful, thank you, instead of just 88 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 2: like getting frustrated, because frustration will be a thing, even 89 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:17,479 Speaker 2: when you really love your co host and you're like, 90 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 2: this is going to be great. 91 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 4: Well, I think you hit on it. Ben, Susan and 92 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 4: I think the same on many issues. But then we'll 93 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 4: something will come up and we are on opposite ends 94 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 4: of the table, and you know, I want to say 95 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:32,679 Speaker 4: what I think, and she wants to say what she thinks, 96 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,239 Speaker 4: and that's where it takes the learning the dance. 97 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 5: And my fear is I'm going to forget what I 98 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:39,799 Speaker 5: was going to say because I'm listening and paying attention 99 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 5: to what she's saying, and now my thoughts racing. But 100 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 5: it's something that we're new at. 101 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 3: And you'll see my notepad. 102 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 2: So when we record, I have a notepad next to 103 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 2: me and I jot down notes on questions I want 104 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 2: to ask, because you always will forget you. And the 105 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 2: worst thing when you're doing an interview and you have 106 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 2: thirty minutes is when you sit there and you're like, 107 00:04:58,080 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 2: I forgot what I was going to say, and you're 108 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 2: sitting there like lost in your thought. So I just 109 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 2: take little notes. Here's the thing that I had to 110 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 2: get used to. This is really hard for me. It 111 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 2: probably happened. I mean we've been doing it for eight 112 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:11,599 Speaker 2: years or seven and a half years, so probably only 113 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 2: three years ago I used to this. There are things 114 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 2: in my notepad that I never get to. I have 115 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 2: to be okay, just throwing it in the trash because 116 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:21,160 Speaker 2: the conversation's moved on past that point. Right, we're in 117 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:23,919 Speaker 2: a flow. This is kind of the medium that we 118 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 2: get to do. It moves forward, and if it's moved 119 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:26,480 Speaker 2: forward too. 120 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 4: Much, I'm like, I don't get and the only people 121 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:31,480 Speaker 4: who are gonna know it's you. 122 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 3: It's you. 123 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 4: It's like, you know, it's like writing when I've done 124 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 4: a lot of writing in my life and I think, oh, 125 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 4: that's a great sentence. But sometimes you have to take 126 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,039 Speaker 4: it out and the only one that knows it's missing 127 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 4: is me. Same thing. 128 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 2: And here's the other point of podcasting. I've never met 129 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:48,160 Speaker 2: anybody that listens to podcasts because they want to hear 130 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 2: the hosts, especially if you have a guest talk more 131 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 2: than their guests, because they're gonna hear your voice every week. Now, 132 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:55,920 Speaker 2: you just mentioned that you are getting people writing it. 133 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 2: That's something We just started the almost famous podcast about 134 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 2: four months ago. 135 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:02,679 Speaker 3: It's called Almost Good Advice. 136 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 2: I've listened and the reason that we do Almost Good 137 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:09,479 Speaker 2: Advice is because neither neither Ashley nor myself are experts, 138 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 2: but we always have different opinions. We see life on 139 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:17,479 Speaker 2: completely different spectrums for multiple reasons. Right one, you know, 140 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 2: she's a wife and she's a mother. She comes from 141 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 2: the East Coast, right. My faith is very important to me. 142 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:27,719 Speaker 2: I'm from the Midwest, I'm a husband, still newer to it, 143 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:32,279 Speaker 2: right compared to her, I have a dog's he's a handful. 144 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 2: But we never agree really, And that's the beauty of 145 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 2: what happens at some point is you can start to 146 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 2: argue in a way that's like, I don't know if 147 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:45,360 Speaker 2: I'm right or wrong here. So how are the two 148 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 2: of you going to argue passionately with being okay with 149 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:49,559 Speaker 2: being wrong? 150 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 5: Can I answer that? 151 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 4: Knock you? 152 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:55,160 Speaker 5: We agree to disagree one of the things. When we 153 00:06:55,160 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 5: were looking over those things prior to going on air, 154 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:02,480 Speaker 5: and you had an your reaction was a certain way. 155 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:05,159 Speaker 5: Then when we thought about it and you started easing 156 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 5: up a little, I said, no, stay with your original reaction. 157 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 5: Stay true to yourself. 158 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 4: Oh it's not no matter of me staying true to myself. 159 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 4: When when you start thinking about something, you think, well. 160 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 3: Maybe this may be that you talk yourself out of it. 161 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:20,880 Speaker 4: Well, it's just you. 162 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 3: Something's made sense. 163 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 4: Some things makes sense. But I think sometimes a knee 164 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 4: jerk reaction is not necessarily you know, the best advice, right, 165 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 4: So you have to you have to think about it. 166 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 5: But as you said, we're not professionals. We're giving you 167 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 5: from our life what we've learned in life. 168 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 4: Wait, can I just tell you the best question that 169 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 4: we had so far? 170 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 3: Let's hear your. 171 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 4: So Ben sixty nine year old guy, thirty year old woman, divorced, 172 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 4: living next door with two children. The sixty nine year 173 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 4: old has been invited over for dinner several times. He 174 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 4: kind of wants to lean in and kiss her. He 175 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 4: thinks he's got feelings for her. I'm like, Susan, can 176 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 4: you count from thirty to seventy and do it slowly 177 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 4: because that's how many years apart they are. 178 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 5: Now I'm going to say the story okay, because she's 179 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 5: exactly right. She's divorced with two small kids. He lives 180 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 5: next door. They're very good friends. The children know him. 181 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 5: He goes three times a week for dinner. Okay, but 182 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:22,679 Speaker 5: he is having a feeling that he wants to kiss her. Sure, 183 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 5: she got stuck on the age right pop pop six, 184 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 5: I said, when you lean in to hug her every time, 185 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 5: you'll know you look her in the eyes or communicate. 186 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:38,440 Speaker 3: With so Is. The question was should I kiss her? 187 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 5: But I don't want to ruin the Fhow so it. 188 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 3: Was written from him saying should I kiss her? 189 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 5: Yes? 190 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 2: And let's just give a little tease to your show. 191 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:47,959 Speaker 2: Then your differing opinions were. 192 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:50,959 Speaker 4: Can you count from thirty? 193 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 3: Age differends matters. 194 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:56,480 Speaker 4: You're saying age different matters, And I said, we don't 195 00:08:56,480 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 4: have all the information. But she's thirty and he's sixty nine, 196 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 4: and she's probably inviting him over because her grandfather is 197 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 4: probably dead, and she feels sorry for him because he's 198 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 4: living like him. She likes his company, his wife. It's 199 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 4: a sympathy dinner, Susan, Your advice three times a week 200 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 4: is not a sympathy dinner. 201 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 5: I said, you can usually tell if you look them 202 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:21,960 Speaker 5: in the eye if they want to reciprocate if not. 203 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:22,839 Speaker 4: When you go to. 204 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 5: Huggard to say, I really want to kiss you, but 205 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 5: if it's going to ruin our friendship, I won't thirty communicate. 206 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 5: I don't care. I'm not telling you they're getting married. 207 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 5: Maybe they want to just have a little affair. 208 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 2: So let me dig into this a little bit here. 209 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 2: So age is an issue to you, Kathy, You you think. 210 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:47,559 Speaker 4: That, like, listen, my son just married a woman. Susan 211 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:51,720 Speaker 4: actually married two weeks ago, and she is ten years 212 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 4: older than my son. She's fabulous. I'll do ten years, 213 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 4: But I think forty years is different generations, it's different culture, 214 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:01,240 Speaker 4: it's different. 215 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 3: Every there's a lot of differences. 216 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:06,160 Speaker 2: Now, Susan, your opinion is if you were thirty, let's 217 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 2: throw back to when you were thirty years old. Oh, 218 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:12,719 Speaker 2: and this happens, right, How would you have wanted this 219 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 2: to be handled same way? 220 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 3: For him to ask you? 221 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 2: Because I feel like as a thirty five year old 222 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 2: that even asking I want to kiss you would you're 223 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 2: already kind of messing up. If it's not right, if 224 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 2: she's not into it, you're already messing up to three 225 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:28,400 Speaker 2: times a week dinner. 226 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:31,560 Speaker 3: Right, So there's maybe another way. 227 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 5: So if I have to think about it and sleep 228 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 5: on it and listen to your opinion and her opinion, yes, 229 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 5: it does make sense. Wait, in my head, it might 230 00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:41,439 Speaker 5: have been a little affair or something that they were 231 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 5: going to keep as adults. There's nothing wrong with that 232 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 5: to each his. Oh that's how I felt, and I 233 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:48,559 Speaker 5: don't want to judge. 234 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:51,840 Speaker 2: I know we could probably find some people out there 235 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 2: who have a big age gap. I don't even put 236 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:58,080 Speaker 2: a number to it. They have real love. Yeah, but 237 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:01,719 Speaker 2: they have real love. They have found of companionship, partnership, 238 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:04,319 Speaker 2: and they're making it work together and it's made their 239 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 2: lives better for whatever romantic relationship, you know, whatever the. 240 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 3: Benefits are of that. Never say never, never say never. 241 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 2: So but this is the beauty of this. You guys 242 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:14,560 Speaker 2: are gonna come at it from two different opinions. Now, 243 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 2: one of my final questions for the two of you 244 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 2: when it comes to Golden Hour, you two are sitting down. 245 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 2: You're best known because of your time on The Golden Bachelor. 246 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 2: Can fans of that? Are people that are not fans 247 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 2: of the Golden Bachelor, I've never seen the show? Would 248 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 2: they get anything out of your show? 249 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:35,720 Speaker 4: Absolutely? Absolutely? 250 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 5: Okay, We're more about reaching women of America and sharing 251 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:44,200 Speaker 5: that it's not over. Like we just said, your best 252 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 5: chapter is yet to happen, whether it's a friendship, a 253 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:51,080 Speaker 5: relationship with a man, Ahabby, no matter what it is. 254 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 5: People get stuck sitting on the sofa. I think, and 255 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 5: they're too old. Life is over. 256 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 4: You know. 257 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:58,360 Speaker 5: I'm just gonna sit here and. 258 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:01,960 Speaker 4: I think, I think, I think, Yeah, I think. This 259 00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 4: podcast is a jumping off point from the Golden bachelor 260 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 4: and our experiences. But it's not that we have all 261 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 4: the answers. We've lived a lot of years. But that's 262 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 4: our both of our hope that we can talk about 263 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:18,160 Speaker 4: things from our point of view, from where we are 264 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:22,359 Speaker 4: in life, having had children and spouses, dy and divorces, 265 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 4: that will maybe give some insight and help other people 266 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 4: find more meaning and purpose and enjoyment in their lives 267 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:31,480 Speaker 4: at this stage. 268 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 5: Also, many, many people from California to Saint Martin come 269 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 5: up to us and share their stories. We've brought something 270 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:44,959 Speaker 5: out of them and they're teering up with us. We're 271 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 5: cheering with them, sharing how we made them feel, how 272 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 5: we made them think more positive. That's what it's about. 273 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 4: And we're not I think you know, I think people 274 00:12:55,679 --> 00:13:00,440 Speaker 4: our age have felt invisible, and that's our goal. Is 275 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:03,200 Speaker 4: one of our goals to not make people our age, 276 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 4: you know, let's call it over sixty, not feel invisible anymore. 277 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 4: We have a lot to say, We have a lot 278 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 4: of life to live, and a lot of love to give. 279 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 5: And a lot of fun. 280 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:26,440 Speaker 6: Misspelling is a new podcast from Tory Spelling, who is 281 00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 6: the real woman behind the notorious Tory Spelling Headlines is 282 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 6: the mother of five living in a Beverly Hills manor 283 00:13:32,920 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 6: or in an RV. Is she Donna Martin or is 284 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:38,800 Speaker 6: she a down and out divorcee for someone who grew 285 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 6: up with Hollywood, mogul, air and spelling. Was she Daddy's 286 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:44,920 Speaker 6: little girl or is she her father's daughter? In a 287 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 6: town where the lines are blurred, It's finally time to 288 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:50,239 Speaker 6: clear the air with the misunderstood Misspelling. 289 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 3: Follow tory. 290 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 6: If she confronts the missteps, the mistakes, and the misconceptions, 291 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:58,640 Speaker 6: Misspelling is ready to reveal what's real and what's fake 292 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:01,840 Speaker 6: as she strips down her Hollywood persona. If you think 293 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:04,680 Speaker 6: the rumors are shocking, just wait until you hear the truth. 294 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:07,600 Speaker 6: Because when a woman has nothing to lose, she has 295 00:14:07,679 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 6: everything to gain. Listen to Misspellings starting April first on 296 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 6: the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your. 297 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:21,800 Speaker 2: Podcasts in a similar vein here. When somebody starts a 298 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 2: new project, the question I always end our conversations with is, 299 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 2: if you have one person and you're gonna have a 300 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 2: group of people, many people that listen, what do you 301 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 2: just hope they take from it? Like, when they're done 302 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 2: listening to you, if there's just like one clear sentence, 303 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:42,960 Speaker 2: one couple words here, what do you hope they feel? 304 00:14:43,920 --> 00:14:47,040 Speaker 4: I hope they feel that their day is better and 305 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:50,880 Speaker 4: they got some kernel of encouragement and happiness out of 306 00:14:50,920 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 4: listening to. 307 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:56,200 Speaker 5: Us, feel better about themselves. Yeah, and realize they're not invisible. 308 00:14:56,760 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 2: So you can listen to the Golden Hour podcast with 309 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:02,320 Speaker 2: Kathy and Susan. Uh, We're anywhere you can listen to podcast. 310 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 2: I'm assuming you do. 311 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 5: Have to go on Bachelor Happy Hour to find us. 312 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 2: So you're in Bachelor Happy Hour thread. So you go 313 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:12,160 Speaker 2: to Bachelor hop air, you can find the Golden Hour podcast. 314 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:14,800 Speaker 4: It's your Bachelor Happy Hour perfect and it's weekly. 315 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:20,560 Speaker 5: Yes, and if you want to write in, it's Bachelorhappy 316 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:25,360 Speaker 5: Hour dot com forward slash Golden Hour and you can 317 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 5: submit your questions and. 318 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 3: You want questions from all everyone everything. 319 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 4: Also, can I just can I just plug unmercifully? 320 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 3: Yeah? Anything? 321 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 4: If you have that special grandfather, father, guy next door, 322 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 4: next door, please send them our away. We'll fight over them. 323 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:46,320 Speaker 2: Well, my final question for the two of you is 324 00:15:46,360 --> 00:15:50,880 Speaker 2: going to be have you dated since the show we're shaking? 325 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 6: I did? 326 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 5: I did have one? Yeah? 327 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 4: Okay, you win yeah, good. 328 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 5: I met him and now he's a nice man. 329 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:01,760 Speaker 4: Can I try? It's like for Susan. Yeah, when Susan 330 00:16:01,800 --> 00:16:06,160 Speaker 4: says he's a man, he might be listening. You're a 331 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:06,760 Speaker 4: nice man. 332 00:16:07,440 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 5: He is a nice man, and I still talk to him. 333 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 3: That's great. We met Marshall's hey. I mean, that's your 334 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:16,760 Speaker 3: modern day love story. Shop for aprons and he was 335 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 3: looking for socks. 336 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:21,120 Speaker 2: The two of you are great. I can't wait to 337 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:23,440 Speaker 2: listen fan of the two of you. You're gonna be 338 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 2: great together. This is going to be an amazing dance. 339 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 2: I can't wait to see the evolution of the show 340 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 2: and the two of you as hosts. It's gonna be fantastic. 341 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:34,840 Speaker 2: Can we have you on anytime? I would love to 342 00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 2: be there. 343 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:36,760 Speaker 4: You're one of the ones we want. 344 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 3: To come here. Never. I would never say no you. 345 00:16:39,200 --> 00:16:41,920 Speaker 4: I just want to say I'm plugging your podcast. I 346 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 4: listen to you, and I think you are an amazing 347 00:16:46,200 --> 00:16:49,480 Speaker 4: man for your age, for any age, you give incredibly 348 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:50,680 Speaker 4: good advice. I love it. 349 00:16:50,760 --> 00:16:53,040 Speaker 2: Thank you. You've always been very nice to me. It 350 00:16:53,120 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 2: means so much. I'm honest, it really well. 351 00:16:55,480 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 3: Thank you. I know you are. We love you. 352 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:02,960 Speaker 2: Hey again, Our Kathy and Susan under the Bachelor Happy 353 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:06,440 Speaker 2: Hour podcast thread. Tune in, check it out. 354 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 4: We want to hear from congratulations and we'll see you there. 355 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 2: This has been the Almost Famous podcast and I've been Ben. 356 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 2: We'll be back well next week. It's off season here 357 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:19,240 Speaker 2: at the podcast. Bachelor is over and so now we're 358 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 2: transitioning into really great interviews, really good content, some more 359 00:17:24,119 --> 00:17:27,199 Speaker 2: almost good advice. And also we're gonna start teasing the 360 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 2: next season of the Bachelorette, which obviously has started filming. 361 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:31,879 Speaker 3: We have some big news on that we're going to. 362 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 2: Talk about why they're not the Bachelor Mansion this year, 363 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:35,920 Speaker 2: absolutely shocking. 364 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:38,120 Speaker 4: We want to know, we want to inquire in mind. 365 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:40,240 Speaker 3: So we'll be back till next time. Until then, I've 366 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:40,640 Speaker 3: been Ben. 367 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:44,240 Speaker 1: Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast on 368 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.