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Speaker 1: Okay, so Steve, listen to this will on Facebook rights.

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Speaker 1: My girlfriend is now my fiance. That's apparently not good

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Speaker 1: enough for her parents though. We're planning to visit them

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Speaker 1: for Thanksgiving, but it's been made clear that we will

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Speaker 1: still need to have separate bedrooms because we're still not married.

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Speaker 1: This has been a thing with them ever since we

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Speaker 1: got together three years ago.

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Speaker 2: I'm over it.

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Speaker 1: I know this will be the last time for this,

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Speaker 1: but I've suggested to her that we act like grown

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Speaker 1: ups and get a hotel so we don't have to

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Speaker 1: play along with rules we both think are stupid. She

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Speaker 1: thinks that her parents will be insulted if we don't stay.

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Speaker 1: I think they'll get over it if they're insulted. What

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Speaker 1: do you think, uncle, Steve, Well, I.

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Speaker 2: Think you got to respect the rules of a houseman.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and all it is is just one weekend, and

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Speaker 3: just play it like that man, just honored.

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Speaker 2: It's just a system. Man, they old school.

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Speaker 3: You got to respect this man in this woman's house

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Speaker 3: and they rules in they house. And if you're the fiance,

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Speaker 3: cool man, y'all still gonna be fiance. You can miss

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Speaker 3: fro when you can miss one weekend, just three days.

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Speaker 3: It's a whole lot of times after you getting married.

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Speaker 3: You ain't gonna have sex though, whole lots.

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Speaker 2: Sure, get ready, it's a whole lot. Ask all you want.

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Speaker 2: It ain't happening to night, so that practicing. You heard

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Speaker 2: what says it's a whole lot of weekends. I just

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Speaker 2: got in here and didn't miss seven. It's gonna be

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Speaker 2: more than weekends. It's gonna be week week.

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Speaker 3: Stay with me week gotta say nothing with you.

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Speaker 1: I'm surprised you could say it, y'all.

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Speaker 2: We put it on whole for weeks, like y'all tired,

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Speaker 2: got all this pressure. I'll be going, Okay, did you

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Speaker 2: touch the stomach and then he roll over the other way?

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Speaker 3: Hey y'all, Hey, hey, y'all hate the same place for that,

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Speaker 3: you you rubber stomach. If you want to get your

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Speaker 3: damn hands.

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Speaker 2: Off of me cold all right? Uh.

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Speaker 1: This one's from Raquel on Facebook. Raquel says, I've been

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Speaker 1: at my job for over five years, and the last

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Speaker 1: couple of years there have been a lot of changes,

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Speaker 1: and I feel like all the pressure for my department

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Speaker 1: to perform falls on me. The stress has really been

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Speaker 1: getting to me lately.

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Speaker 2: I now have go ahead.

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Speaker 1: I now have an opportunity to switch jobs to a

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Speaker 1: field that I've always thought I would enjoy. But I'd

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Speaker 1: be taking a significant pay cut. I've done the math,

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Speaker 1: and I'll still be able to pay my bills, but

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Speaker 1: I'll be saving a lot less. How do I decide

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Speaker 1: what would be the best decision.

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Speaker 3: I'm not taking a pay cut. That's not what else

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Speaker 3: you never do. We're witnesses of that. Yeah, give me

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Speaker 3: the pressure. I'm not taking pay cut.

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Speaker 1: Okay, But she said she'd enjoy this job, she'd enjoy

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Speaker 1: this job a lot gone.

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Speaker 3: And enjoy Yeah, well you can stop enjoying some of

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Speaker 3: those stuff too.

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Speaker 2: You know she's gonna be able to Well, you ain't.

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Speaker 3: Gonna be able to go go shopping moment as much,

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Speaker 3: and you ain't gonna eat his groceries and cut back

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Speaker 3: on groceries. Get you an efficient She you had to

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Speaker 3: get out that two bedroom you got. You ain't got

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Speaker 3: no more space, You ain't all.

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Speaker 2: That m So what's up?

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Speaker 1: So how does she make a decision on what's the

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Speaker 1: best thing that she should do? Because she sounds like

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Speaker 1: she wants to go to this new position, and she

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Speaker 1: says she can pay all her bills, but she just

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Speaker 1: won't have enough to save. She'll be saving all right,

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Speaker 1: Well you.

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Speaker 2: Ain't gonna have the more saving. Go take the new job.

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Speaker 1: Well save, don't say it with an apisude. Yeah she

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Speaker 1: really needs I just.

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Speaker 3: Told you what I would do. I would stay with

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Speaker 3: the job that paid the most and deal with this pressure.

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Speaker 3: You want to go where you like to work. They

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Speaker 3: an't going to go where you like to work, and

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Speaker 3: you're gonna be able to save less. If you want

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Speaker 3: to be really successful in life, you gotta get comfortable

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Speaker 3: being uncomfortable.

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Speaker 2: It's uncomfortable. It's more pressure. It's all on you. That's

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Speaker 2: what it is.

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Speaker 3: When you want more, get more it take more. Now

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Speaker 3: what you want me to say? So now you don't

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Speaker 3: want all that, go get the easy ass job. You

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Speaker 3: gonna mess around and beat the fry cook in a minute.

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Speaker 3: Ain't no pressure back there. All you gotta do is listen,

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Speaker 3: money needs, take the fries right about that all and

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Speaker 3: hanging on that hook. Let him drain often and put

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Speaker 3: him in the band. Throw some song in that basket.

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Speaker 1: So you're telling her to stay where she is. I mean,

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Speaker 1: she could.

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Speaker 3: Say and said, my answer, ship, and I am not

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Speaker 3: going to be clear?

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Speaker 2: I am clear as hell. All right? Come here are

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Speaker 2: going back and forth.

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