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Speaker 1: will good Martyn. Everybody you're listening to the voice, come

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Speaker 1: on dig me now one and on it. Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: about effort today. Just about effort. You know, it's it's

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Speaker 1: it's it's a word that people use to describe sometimes trying.

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Speaker 1: But what I found out about trying is trying is

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Speaker 1: just a noble way of saying you didn't get it done.

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Speaker 1: I tried when and then everybody go, well, he tried,

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Speaker 1: that was the best. Well that's that's not exactly true though,

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Speaker 1: See trying, I mean, I gotta tell you to attempt something.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna have to first try, but I want you

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Speaker 1: to change your mindset from trying to getting it done.

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Speaker 1: See that's a big difference. I'm really more apt to

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Speaker 1: it done. It's very different than I'm gonna try. You know. Look, man,

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Speaker 1: stop feeding yourself these little old wise sayings that ain't

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Speaker 1: it was a valiant tribe. Hey man, you talk to

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Speaker 1: see how they feel about their valiant try. The only

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Speaker 1: way to gain God's real blessings is you have to

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Speaker 1: You must start to attempt, now insane getting it done.

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Speaker 1: And I'm gonna try that's a difference of two different

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Speaker 1: If I say I'm gonna get it done, I have

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Speaker 1: Now what you're saying to me, Steve, I'm saying to

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Speaker 1: bless me, Oh God, bless me. Bless you? What? Bless you? Where?

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Speaker 1: Bless you? How? Stop basing your results on what you're thinking.

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Speaker 1: You gotta think higher. You get God in your life, man,

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Speaker 1: He allows you to think higher, bigger, better more. I'm

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Speaker 1: up with. I said, God created heaven and earth, all

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Speaker 1: And he made heaven and Earth in six days? Due

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Speaker 1: the math, hill, Man, I ain't that big. You ain't

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Speaker 1: showing you some things, man, but it's gonna take some faith,

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Speaker 1: let us have a brief moment of gratitude, realizing that

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Speaker 1: is the Steve Harvey Martin Show, only cracking. Let's get

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Speaker 1: it on. Shirley Strawberry, Hey, good morning, very grateful this morning, Steve,

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Speaker 1: very great, Colin Pharrell, very grateful as well, Shirley and Steve.

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Speaker 1: Morning crew, Ladies and gentlemen. The new name I have

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Speaker 1: Tea ladian gentleman Joy, Anthony Brown, what up, mister Hive?

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Speaker 1: back to work. Fellas was tough. I know it was

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Speaker 1: Many energy to play golf? Okay, can't find the energy

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Speaker 1: So that out of Shirley. Shirley asked him how he did,

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Speaker 1: months of flirting. He's single and he's really crazy about me,

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Speaker 1: did it because I was pregnant. What if my boss

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Speaker 1: Now I'm just to tell to give you this is

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Speaker 1: What's your name again? Where you went? I'm I'm I'm John, Sir,

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Speaker 1: I'm Robber. Wouldn't name you other people? Robert, it's it's

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Speaker 1: I swear, y'all, y'all some boy it boy, y'all lit man,

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Speaker 1: I mean the hole that shoe shop head right? Man? Hey,

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Speaker 1: and nah nah now you have it. Brilliant Yeah, brilliant, bro,

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. After twenty three day hiatus, Chrissie Teagan

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Speaker 1: adding turns out it feels terrible to silence herself and

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Speaker 1: also no longer enjoy belly chuckles randomly throughout the day,

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Speaker 1: and also lose like two thousand friends at once, as

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Speaker 1: we told you. Chrissie, who of course is missus John Legend,

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Speaker 1: left the social media platform last month because she was

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Speaker 1: tired of the negativity. At the time, she says she

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Speaker 1: hadn't learned how to block out block it out, So

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Speaker 1: clearly she's getting better at it, and you know she's

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Speaker 1: back with it, so there you go. She her tweets

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Speaker 1: are fun, Her tweets are always fun hunt. Y'all know

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Speaker 1: she was missing. Yeah, we said it until we say,

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Speaker 1: oh you three days I heard. I'd like to help

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Speaker 1: her out a little bit. Ok, God, Steve, you don't

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Speaker 1: have two thousand friends followers? Yeah? Yeah, friends, she said. Friends. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's that's that's the problem. Stop thinking that your friend,

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Speaker 1: so they'll turn on you, turn on your like pop tarts.

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Speaker 1: All right, glad to have you back. Chrissy, Teagan and

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Speaker 1: Carla is here now with today's music news. What you got, Carla, Well,

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Speaker 1: let me tell you guys this the Country Music Awards.

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Speaker 1: They demonstrated change and being inclusive. Three African American artists

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Speaker 1: made history. First sub country singer. Did you see that?

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Speaker 1: Mickey Guiden? She co hosted the first black female woman

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Speaker 1: to co host the show Country Music Awards. Yes, Yes,

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Speaker 1: with Keith Urban. Also Jimmy Allen. He's a country artist,

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Speaker 1: African American man. He won Best New Artist and came

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Speaker 1: Brown One Video of the Year. He's here for his song. Yes.

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Speaker 1: He is huge, huge, worldwide, better than the Republicans. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Being more inclusive, right, Jay? I mean like black people

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Speaker 1: don't like country? What is right? Right? And you know

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Speaker 1: what I was reading? I do I love country music

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Speaker 1: because they're great storytellers. But I was reading an article

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Speaker 1: on CNN dot com and and it stated that African

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Speaker 1: Americans of culture is all over country music and that

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Speaker 1: the banjo, for example, is a descendant of an instrument

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Speaker 1: that was brought to America by enslaved West Africans. So

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Speaker 1: learned something new every day, right, every day, every single day,

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Speaker 1: for every single day. What you're singing, Steve, you like

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Speaker 1: country music? Do you know how big country music is

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Speaker 1: in Africa? No? I don't know. Is it? Listen to me, Carlin, Yes,

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Speaker 1: where you're from, Yes, country music is huge. Why they

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Speaker 1: love country. It's stunned me that all the radio stations

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Speaker 1: play country music like you're here soul cutting in here

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Speaker 1: come a country wow. Alright for real, I'm serious. I'm

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Speaker 1: explained it very big in a wow. I don't know that.

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Speaker 1: Coming up, niche come with Twitty, stay tuned for absolutely

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Speaker 1: the African DJ bone with Twitty. Well, thanks for that.

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Speaker 1: That was great. Coming up? Have you hired him? Yes? Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: he's looking crazy right now in the zoom brilliance stuff.

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Speaker 1: Just you don't expect it because he's not here, so

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Speaker 1: you just never know. Yeah, yeah, when it come out,

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Speaker 1: you go. Heyday, all right, Steve, time for our headline.

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Speaker 1: Let's go ladies and gentlemen. Miss Anne trip you very much, okay.

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Speaker 1: The Derek Chauvin George Floyd case goes to the jury today.

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Speaker 1: After some last minute instructions from the judge. The defense

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Speaker 1: and the prosecution made their closing remarks yesterday, with defense

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Speaker 1: lawyer Eric Nelson insisting that the now ex cop was

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Speaker 1: merely being a cop less May twenty five. The defendant

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Speaker 1: is not guilty of a crime if he used force

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Speaker 1: was authorized by law, and to prove guilt, the state

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Speaker 1: must further prove beyond a reasonable doubt that the defendant's

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Speaker 1: use of force was not authorized by law. But the

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Speaker 1: prosecutor says what Derek Chauvin did that day had very

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Speaker 1: little to do with the law. Pushing him, a knee

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Speaker 1: to the neck, a knee to the back, twisting his fingers,

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Speaker 1: holding his legs for nine minutes and twenty nine seconds,

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Speaker 1: the defendants wait on him. Wasn't a sudden cardiac event,

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Speaker 1: wasn't a heart attack, wasn't a drug overdose? He says,

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Speaker 1: what that was was murder. Derek Chauvin and faces three

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Speaker 1: criminal counts second degree murder, a third degree murder, and

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Speaker 1: second degree man slaughter. The jury consists of three black men,

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Speaker 1: one black woman, four white women, two white men, and

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Speaker 1: two women who identify as multiracial. The city Minneapolis, as

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Speaker 1: well as municipalities around the country, course now engaged in

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Speaker 1: a tense awaiting game. According to the Washington Post, prosecutors

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Speaker 1: have found evidence that a racist and corrupt Virginia cop

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Speaker 1: planted evidence to put black men away, So now as

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Speaker 1: many as four hundred convictions could now be overturned. The

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Speaker 1: now former Fairfax County officer, Jonathan free Tag or freight Tag,

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Speaker 1: is under investigation but not yet criminally charged, but they're

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Speaker 1: looking into him. Yesterday mark the anniversary of the worst

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Speaker 1: US terrorist attack pre nine eleven. That was the Oklahoma

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Speaker 1: City bombing that took place April nineteenth, nineteen ninety five.

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Speaker 1: The bombing of the Alpha Premare, a federal building in Oklahoma,

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Speaker 1: killed one hundred and sixty eight people, including children who

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Speaker 1: were in the building's basement that day because it was

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Speaker 1: a daycare center that day. There another six people were injured,

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Speaker 1: and the bomb blast was so strong get this, it

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Speaker 1: either damaged or destroyed over three hundred other buildings within

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Speaker 1: a sixteen block radius of the federal structure. Timothy McVeigh

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Speaker 1: was executed in two thousand and one for the bombing.

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Speaker 1: His accomplished Terry Nichols, given life in prison without the

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Speaker 1: possibility of parole. Sad news. Former Vice President Walter Mondale

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Speaker 1: has died. Mondale, a Democrat, was the first presidential candidate

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Speaker 1: of one of the major parties to select a female

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Speaker 1: running mate, Jerline Ferraro ult Mondale ninety three. And we

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Speaker 1: also have lost a spectaculum, Missus hester Ford of Charlotte,

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Speaker 1: North Carolina, oldest living Americans, starting life picking cotton, ending

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Speaker 1: up with at age one hundred and sixteen, with some

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Speaker 1: three hundred great and great great grandchildren. They said, what

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Speaker 1: did you like? She said, Oh, I love pancakes, I

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Speaker 1: love gritson, I love bacon. I canna smell it. Now

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Speaker 1: back to Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening Steve Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve introduced them. You hire a

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Speaker 1: gentleman who's here without a mistakable doubt the BLA all right,

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Speaker 1: Today we celebrate a glorious day. Salute to all my

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Speaker 1: four twenty soldiers out there. Celebrate enjoy the day, have

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Speaker 1: a good day, remember what you have to remember, Forget

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Speaker 1: what you want to forget. Honor of four twenty. In

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Speaker 1: honor of four twenty, we play this song. I can

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Speaker 1: take my mind to paradise upon or to I'm free,

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Speaker 1: yelling the strong enough by the father, please for nothing

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Speaker 1: bothers me. Oh bat one can do miracles and makes

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Speaker 1: you want to eat because you get the more jee

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Speaker 1: blast arm tune and neverland at least. I can't pretend

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Speaker 1: all of my kids I'm grown, but they're killing me.

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Speaker 1: My girl kids are the ring. Oh I can. He'll

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Speaker 1: sit for me. This nosits you'll see because I'm no jocky.

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Speaker 1: Hey in a heye, take me away from back in

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Speaker 1: friends and family man, some happy leaves. I will be

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Speaker 1: breathing free in a hand in a healing in a

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Speaker 1: healing takes me away. It's amazing to be that talented

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Speaker 1: comberation is scared just ignorant. I'm starting my own line

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Speaker 1: of thank you for just the purposes. It's going to

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Speaker 1: be called go somewhere and set your ass down and

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Speaker 1: to be hitting the market soon. So that's when I'm

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Speaker 1: starting my own Oh wow, all right, coming up with

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Speaker 1: thirty four minutes after more of the Team Market Morning show.

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Speaker 1: Right after this You're listening show, the prosecution and the

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Speaker 1: defense in the Derek Chauvin trial delivered closing remarks. Yesterday

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Speaker 1: was a very long day. The prosecutor told the jury

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Speaker 1: on Monday that Derek Chauvin had no compassion and pressing

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Speaker 1: his knee on George Floyd's neck for nine minutes in

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Speaker 1: twenty nine seconds was not an accident. Prosecutor went on

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Speaker 1: to say that Chauvin had to know that he killed

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Speaker 1: George Floyd. Prosecutor also said that this case is exactly

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Speaker 1: what you saw in your eyes and know in your heart.

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Speaker 1: The defense meanwhile said that if George Floyd could talk,

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Speaker 1: then he could breathe. Wow, he could breathe just enough

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Speaker 1: to tell you he couldn't breathe longs. Yeah, to eke

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Speaker 1: out a craft for help. But if you don't adhere

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Speaker 1: to the crowd to help that it turns into desperation.

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Speaker 1: And then after wow, you just keep your knee on

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Speaker 1: this man's name. Look, man, you had your knee on

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Speaker 1: his net for nine minutes. Well, everybody trying to hear

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Speaker 1: this mess right here, and if you don't convict this

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Speaker 1: man right here. I'm just telling you right now. I'm

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Speaker 1: telling you right now, and it's nothing I can do

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Speaker 1: about it. It's gonna be a problem. It's going to

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Speaker 1: be a problem. Is it's gonna be a problem from

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Speaker 1: black people. It's gonna be a problem for non black people.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be a problem. Yeah, it's going to be

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Speaker 1: a problem. And you can't you can't dump this on

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Speaker 1: You have to blame yourself. And look at all the

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Speaker 1: nationalities you had marching for Black Lives Matter. You're gonna

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Speaker 1: have a lot of people up to said somebody. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: and still uh, multicultural, multi racial outside of the courtroom,

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Speaker 1: outside of this country. Yeah yeah, and I mean just

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Speaker 1: to hear you know what's going on. Uh, they're out

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Speaker 1: there now, you know the truth. Jurors will be sequestered.

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Speaker 1: They will decide if Chauvin is guilty of second degree murder,

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Speaker 1: of third degree murder or uh and second degree manslaughter.

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Speaker 1: Chauvin could face up to forty years in prison. So

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Speaker 1: even the police chief for Minneapolis he when he testified,

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Speaker 1: he said Chauvin did not learn this at the police academy.

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Speaker 1: To kia his knee on somebody's neck for nine minutes,

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Speaker 1: over nine minutes, can I ask, I think, what is

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Speaker 1: what is right? What is he writing when he over

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Speaker 1: there city? He's writing on fighting look busy. That's how

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Speaker 1: it reminded me of that. But I think I think

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Speaker 1: he's gonna walk. And let me tell you why, because

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Speaker 1: you only need one person out the jury. Just I

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Speaker 1: don't care, people, I don't care. I think we have

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Speaker 1: so much peer pressure this time on them who saw it.

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Speaker 1: They've all seen this, they've seen it too, and and

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Speaker 1: like and like to prosecutor, say, make your judgment on

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Speaker 1: what you saw. Yes, this video don't lie. Come on man, y'all, y'all,

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Speaker 1: come on, come on. Well, I don't mean it's not

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Speaker 1: that you're getting up. You're just you're you're basing how

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Speaker 1: this country is, basically saying, yeah, I know exactly how

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Speaker 1: this country is. Every day, I'm just I just keep waiting.

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Speaker 1: And you know, every now and then they get it right.

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Speaker 1: Every now and again they get it right very rarely

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Speaker 1: for us, oh yeah, but every now and then they

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Speaker 1: get it right. You know, now this right here, they

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Speaker 1: watched this. Look, they gave out all the police officers

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Speaker 1: some time for killing uh, John, both of them. Once

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Speaker 1: John was John, both John, and they gave her time

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Speaker 1: and there was no video. This video was worldwide and

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you, in Africa, they they have. All they've

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Speaker 1: been talking about is how can this be? But how

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Speaker 1: can this be? Really? Back to Rodney King, I know

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Speaker 1: he didn't die, but there was video there too. And

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Speaker 1: I was living in LA during that time, and uh,

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Speaker 1: the jury saw what we all saw. I know. I'm

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Speaker 1: just thinking that because they saw a murder and they

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Speaker 1: watched it for themselves a murder, and there were enough

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Speaker 1: non African Americans of Paul, I think that that's is

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Speaker 1: going to produce a different outcome. All right, with more

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Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Sure, hope you're right

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Steve harp Morning Show. Coming

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Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, right about four

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Speaker 1: minutes after. It's my Strawberry letter for today. The subject

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Speaker 1: he wants women on the side. We'll get into that

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Speaker 1: in a little bit, but uh, right now, the nephew

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Speaker 1: is here with today's prank phone call. What is going on?

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Speaker 1: Me and your baby getting married? Oh huh, me and

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Speaker 1: your baby getting married? Let's go Hello, Hello, I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to read. I'm trying to reach mister. Yes, mister, how

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Speaker 1: you doing, I'm trying let me let me make you

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Speaker 1: I'm calling the right person. Your daughter is Crystal? Yes, okay, cool, Yeah,

630
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 1: I got the right ps. Hey listen, Well, I wanted

631
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:49,960
Speaker 1: to do mister ridgard is called and introduce myself to

632
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:52,879
Speaker 1: you and let you know who I was. My name

633
00:44:53,040 --> 00:45:00,320
Speaker 1: is Jeff, Jeff, and I've been uh seeing Crystal, you know,

634
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 1: pretty much like the last five or six months, and

635
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:06,640
Speaker 1: I wanted to, um, let you know that I'm very

636
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 1: very interested in you. And I know this kind of

637
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:11,800
Speaker 1: crazy for you to get a phone call for me

638
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:15,120
Speaker 1: when I'm very interested in Crystal right now, and I

639
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:17,759
Speaker 1: wanted to you know, I just wanted to do the

640
00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 1: man thing and just reach out to your man and

641
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:23,839
Speaker 1: say I'm really interested in and uh in marrying your

642
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:28,239
Speaker 1: daughter and marrying my daughter. Well, hold on, man, what

643
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 1: my name is Jeff Jeff? Okay, Jeff, Jeff, listen. I'm

644
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:39,359
Speaker 1: very close with my daughter, and my daughter has never

645
00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:43,480
Speaker 1: ever mentioned you. I talk to my daughter every day. Wow.

646
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:46,120
Speaker 1: I don't know what that's about. But it's been like

647
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:49,440
Speaker 1: about five close to six months that me and Crystal

648
00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:51,840
Speaker 1: being you know, going out, you know, up here at

649
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 1: the school. But what I wanted to do is tell

650
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:58,680
Speaker 1: you that I really, really really like Crystal man, uh

651
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 1: And I wanted to all and tell you that, you know,

652
00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:05,279
Speaker 1: I'm really really interested in man and Crystal. You know,

653
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:09,719
Speaker 1: I want, I really do want Christa to be my wife. Well,

654
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:13,840
Speaker 1: I again, I've never heard of you before, and my

655
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:17,919
Speaker 1: daughter has never ever mentioned you. My daughter isn't dating

656
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: anybody right now. My daughter is in grad school. I

657
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 1: understand that. And you know, we you know, it's been

658
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:24,840
Speaker 1: you know, we've been you know, a little back and

659
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 1: forth or whatever. But you know, the main thing is

660
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:29,839
Speaker 1: me and Christal really, you know, we really, we really

661
00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 1: do love each other. Mister, I want to But if

662
00:46:33,120 --> 00:46:35,960
Speaker 1: you love my daughter, she would have told me that

663
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:38,279
Speaker 1: she was in love with someone. Well, you know what

664
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:41,480
Speaker 1: you know. And maybe it's a situation where Christa's like

665
00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 1: a little maybe a little uneasy about talking to you

666
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:45,759
Speaker 1: about it. You know what I'm saying. My daughter can

667
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:48,839
Speaker 1: talk to me about anything. We talk every day, right right,

668
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:51,879
Speaker 1: you like you, I talked to my daughter every day,

669
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:55,480
Speaker 1: your daughter? And how old is your daughter? My daughter? Fifteen?

670
00:46:56,520 --> 00:47:02,360
Speaker 1: Hold Momentute. Man, you say your daughter was fifteen, right right? Right? Okay,

671
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:06,960
Speaker 1: Well how old are you? I'm forty six, forty six?

672
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:09,840
Speaker 1: You forty six years old? He want to marn my

673
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:15,719
Speaker 1: twenty five year old daughter? He let me say this

674
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:19,400
Speaker 1: right here. Love ain't got no limit, man, And I understand,

675
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:22,240
Speaker 1: you know, I was a little shocked at first about

676
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:25,399
Speaker 1: the age difference between us, but you get you know what, man,

677
00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 1: I'm me okay, and I understand that. But what I'm

678
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:31,160
Speaker 1: trying to explain to you, man, is that it comes

679
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:32,960
Speaker 1: a time man when you just you just don't know

680
00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 1: what's gonna happen. Man. Love just love is love, man,

681
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 1: And you've been locked up on parole at the university

682
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:45,160
Speaker 1: on work releasing that my daughter. Yeah, man, I'm I'm

683
00:47:45,160 --> 00:47:48,759
Speaker 1: gonna say this, man, Christal is just a beautiful person. Man,

684
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 1: hold on, man, you calling me at the Blue Daughter. Look, Man,

685
00:47:53,040 --> 00:47:54,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna work. I got a lot of work on

686
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 1: my damn death. And you calling me telling me form

687
00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:00,719
Speaker 1: a gentle bird wants to marry my daughter, my twenty

688
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 1: five year old daughter. And you damn that fifteen, You

689
00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 1: damn that at my age you want to marry my daughter? Man,

690
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:08,359
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to talk to you, but I didn't

691
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:09,759
Speaker 1: even do is I need to talk to Crystal and

692
00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:11,560
Speaker 1: get to the bottom of this. That's what the hell

693
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:14,239
Speaker 1: I need to do. Hey, And I understand that, Miss,

694
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,320
Speaker 1: she was probably gonna I want to talk to and

695
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna problem with it. What I'm trying to

696
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 1: explain to you is that man, live ain't got no limit. Man,

697
00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 1: It's just something that album Crystal Love Me, I love huh,

698
00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:27,640
Speaker 1: and it is what it is. I just wanted to

699
00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 1: try to get your blessings on this. You can't get

700
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:36,600
Speaker 1: my Crystal Love still gonna marry my daughter now? My

701
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:38,960
Speaker 1: daughter been a private school. I love damn life. She

702
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 1: was on the do this all four years of college

703
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 1: and she's going to grad school and you're gonna marry

704
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:47,800
Speaker 1: my daughter. You man, you're working me. Miss. I understand that.

705
00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 1: What I'm what I'm trying to explain to you that

706
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:52,240
Speaker 1: you know what, man, Sometimes love is right the second

707
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,640
Speaker 1: time around. You understand what I'm saying. What the hell

708
00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 1: you mean a second time? I got kids already. What

709
00:48:58,040 --> 00:49:00,160
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say is it didn't work out me

710
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:02,359
Speaker 1: on the first time. What I wanted to do. Man

711
00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 1: is just called you. It's solidified, the culinary experienced got

712
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:13,319
Speaker 1: to doing food. But the hell is you talking about it? Look? Look, look, look, look,

713
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:15,239
Speaker 1: I got to talk to my daughter. I'm gonna call

714
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 1: Crystal and I'm gonna find out what the hell is

715
00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:19,680
Speaker 1: going on, because, yeah, man, I'm not even trying to

716
00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:23,320
Speaker 1: have this conversation with you and I comparis. I understand

717
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:25,759
Speaker 1: all that. I understand what you're saying. What I want

718
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:28,360
Speaker 1: to say to you is just right here. Crystal is

719
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 1: twenty five. Even if you don't agree with this, here,

720
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:33,680
Speaker 1: we're gonna eat Lowe and make sure that we do.

721
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:38,360
Speaker 1: Look at him. You ain't doing my thing with my

722
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:43,000
Speaker 1: daughter unless it's mine. Look here, man, you ain't doing

723
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:47,719
Speaker 1: I don't even know your jail bird. You ain't doing.

724
00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:51,959
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call my daughter final. You really are rst

725
00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:56,080
Speaker 1: your mind. You think your old jail bird is gonna

726
00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:58,320
Speaker 1: be Larry and my daughter my daughter. It's not a

727
00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:02,759
Speaker 1: future you ain't got. That is wrong with you. I'm

728
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:04,360
Speaker 1: not gonna sit it and go back and forth with you.

729
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 1: Miss me and Crystal getting married. That will not happen

730
00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:12,359
Speaker 1: under any circumstances, not what you think the circumstances are

731
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:15,399
Speaker 1: me and Crystal getting married. That's it not to love.

732
00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:18,200
Speaker 1: I don't know who you think you are, as long

733
00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:21,880
Speaker 1: as you that's gotta be. I got one more thing

734
00:50:21,960 --> 00:50:23,400
Speaker 1: I need to say, and then me and Crystal just

735
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:26,359
Speaker 1: gonna come over there and dry down there and tell

736
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:28,839
Speaker 1: you exactly what's going on in our life right now.

737
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:33,000
Speaker 1: You got to say to me, are you listening to me? Yes?

738
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 1: What the hell you got to say to me? I

739
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:38,680
Speaker 1: got to say this. This is nephew Tommy from the

740
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 1: Steve Harby Morning Show. You just got pranked by your daughter,

741
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 1: Crystal and her boyfriend. Ain't this I'm outside my job

742
00:50:55,560 --> 00:50:59,160
Speaker 1: and let people look at me that I'm crazy. Damn,

743
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:04,279
Speaker 1: John Man, your baby girl just wanted to put a

744
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:06,680
Speaker 1: smile on your face. Man, I gotta ask you what

745
00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:10,239
Speaker 1: is what is the baddest and I mean the baddest

746
00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:15,720
Speaker 1: radio show in the land, the Steaming Harvey Morning Shuff.

747
00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:26,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask that one. He to win outside, step

748
00:51:26,480 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 1: outside to cut you out. Yeah, yeah, because here a

749
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:35,080
Speaker 1: good dude. But you think you fitn't it? Do what? Man?

750
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:43,000
Speaker 1: Second test? It's your second marriage, your second you got

751
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:48,840
Speaker 1: you gotta do. I'm forty six. Man, I talked to

752
00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:51,839
Speaker 1: my daughter every day just like you do. What. Oh

753
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:57,319
Speaker 1: my goodness, man, he was so mad you played too

754
00:51:57,440 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 1: much Timmy teams on a roll all the years. She

755
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:07,880
Speaker 1: got a future you ain't got blank. Oh he was

756
00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 1: done with He was letting him know, Na, pardon, this

757
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:14,239
Speaker 1: ain't gonna happen. Wait to I talk to him? Oh?

758
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:18,919
Speaker 1: Oh man? What can I say? Ready to Love? Ready

759
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 1: to Love? It's coming up Friday, don't you don't? Ladies,

760
00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:24,080
Speaker 1: did y'all watch Ready to Love this pass Friday? We

761
00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:29,880
Speaker 1: did all I want to hear? Okay, all right, all right,

762
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:33,160
Speaker 1: we got rid of a couple more people. Yeah, that's

763
00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:36,759
Speaker 1: getting to you. Did you see Joel breakdown? Did you see? Yes? Yeah,

764
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:39,400
Speaker 1: you know what you had favorite? Yeah, you had a

765
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:42,200
Speaker 1: good man moment, you know when you had all the

766
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:44,560
Speaker 1: men there. I love that moment with all the men.

767
00:52:44,680 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 1: You guys had the bonding everything. That was really a

768
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:51,840
Speaker 1: nice great show. Yeah, Ready to Love Friday night on

769
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:54,680
Speaker 1: own A. That's nine eighth Central. You don't want to

770
00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:58,200
Speaker 1: miss it. He's hosted by yours truly. Yeah, tune in,

771
00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:03,120
Speaker 1: all right, thank you, nephew, coming up Strawberry letter subject

772
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:06,360
Speaker 1: he wants women on the side. We'll get into that

773
00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:10,640
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

774
00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:14,400
Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

775
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:18,359
Speaker 1: advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. Please

776
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:21,359
Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com click

777
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:25,840
Speaker 1: Submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live

778
00:53:26,080 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 1: on the air. It's like we're gonna read this one

779
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:30,719
Speaker 1: right here, right now. That's for you, Jay, when you're here,

780
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:33,520
Speaker 1: buggle up and hold on tight. We got it for

781
00:53:33,640 --> 00:53:37,080
Speaker 1: you here. It is the Strawberry Letter, all right. Subject

782
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:40,719
Speaker 1: he wants women on the side. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm

783
00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:43,759
Speaker 1: a twenty eight year old professional woman living with my

784
00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:47,320
Speaker 1: thirty three year old boyfriend. We've been dating for almost

785
00:53:47,520 --> 00:53:49,880
Speaker 1: two years and we've had a lot of ups and

786
00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:52,360
Speaker 1: downs because he doesn't have a lot of respect for women.

787
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:55,920
Speaker 1: He thinks women are loyal. They aren't loyal, and women

788
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:59,080
Speaker 1: only date men with money and trade up if a

789
00:53:59,200 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 1: flashyere guy comes along. We've broken up a few times

790
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:06,120
Speaker 1: over his insecurity and each time he begs me back.

791
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:09,520
Speaker 1: I am doing age appropriate stuff on social media, like

792
00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:12,480
Speaker 1: posting a selfie when my makeup is perfect, or when

793
00:54:12,480 --> 00:54:14,759
Speaker 1: I'm dressed up to go out with him, or a

794
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 1: pick from brunch if I go out with my girlfriends.

795
00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:19,720
Speaker 1: He doesn't like it when men comment on my beauty

796
00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:24,080
Speaker 1: or my booty. I have curves and I can't hide

797
00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:26,840
Speaker 1: them in my clothes, and I'm not trying to. Whenever

798
00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:28,879
Speaker 1: he gets upset with me, he goes out with other

799
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:32,880
Speaker 1: females and he tells me about it afterwards by saying

800
00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 1: they're just nice women he's met on social media and

801
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:39,080
Speaker 1: it's harmless. At first, I thought it was a joke

802
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:41,520
Speaker 1: and he was just trying to make me jealous. But

803
00:54:41,640 --> 00:54:44,960
Speaker 1: I read his DMS and the comments weren't tell We're

804
00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:47,839
Speaker 1: telling him thanks for a great date, and they were

805
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:50,960
Speaker 1: looking forward to seeing him again. I asked him if

806
00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 1: he was crazy, and I demanded that he stopped entertaining

807
00:54:54,080 --> 00:54:58,200
Speaker 1: other women. He said, it's insurance in case one of

808
00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 1: the handsome men on instagram am gets my attention and

809
00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:05,880
Speaker 1: takes me from him. This is all very childish to me,

810
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 1: and I've put too much sweat and tears into this

811
00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:12,600
Speaker 1: relationship to have it end over something so stupid. I

812
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:15,600
Speaker 1: would never flirt with or go out with another male

813
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:19,640
Speaker 1: that I met on social media, especially while I'm dating him.

814
00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:24,600
Speaker 1: How can I get him to stop disrespecting our relationship? Well,

815
00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:28,080
Speaker 1: it doesn't look like you can. And him dating other

816
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:31,560
Speaker 1: women and telling you it's insurance in case a handsome

817
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:36,320
Speaker 1: man on Instagram takes you from him is not stupid, Okay,

818
00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:40,200
Speaker 1: it's cheating. It's just cheating. That's what it is. I mean,

819
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:43,920
Speaker 1: plain and simple. It's total disrespect for you. And it

820
00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:46,960
Speaker 1: begs the question why are you with this fool? Why

821
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:52,719
Speaker 1: we don't care that he thinks women are disloyal or

822
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:55,359
Speaker 1: that they only date men with money and blah blah blah,

823
00:55:55,520 --> 00:55:59,879
Speaker 1: So what we don't care anything about that. That's his stupid, insecure,

824
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:04,560
Speaker 1: controlling opinion, and please don't buy into it any longer.

825
00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 1: Stop it. You got to stop it now. He's using it.

826
00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:10,279
Speaker 1: He's playing you to get what he wants, and that's

827
00:56:10,400 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 1: women on the side. Like you titled your letter, you know,

828
00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:17,440
Speaker 1: tell him the jig is up. You know what's up.

829
00:56:17,520 --> 00:56:19,600
Speaker 1: You know what he's trying to do. He can't trick

830
00:56:19,680 --> 00:56:22,160
Speaker 1: you anymore. You're tired of it. You've been with him

831
00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:25,399
Speaker 1: for two years. This has got to stop. And you're

832
00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:28,320
Speaker 1: moving on if he doesn't change his ways, and it

833
00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:30,480
Speaker 1: doesn't look like he is. I mean, this is the

834
00:56:30,640 --> 00:56:35,640
Speaker 1: dumbest thing ever insurance that's a new one and really

835
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:42,480
Speaker 1: really stupid Steve. This this letter right here, it's ridiculous. Yeah, now,

836
00:56:42,600 --> 00:56:45,279
Speaker 1: young lady, you're twenty eight years old, So uncle Steve,

837
00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:47,640
Speaker 1: you're gonna help you out here. So here's a deal.

838
00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:50,719
Speaker 1: This is the deal. I'm not gonna play with you.

839
00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:53,640
Speaker 1: This ain't funny. I'm gonna show you how this game

840
00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:57,120
Speaker 1: working that he got going right here. You've been dating

841
00:56:57,160 --> 00:57:00,160
Speaker 1: his dude. He thirty three, you're twenty eight, and you

842
00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:04,600
Speaker 1: live with him. Yeah, they ain't. It ain't like y'all said,

843
00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:09,359
Speaker 1: y'all live together, and this is what he's doing. Y'all

844
00:57:09,440 --> 00:57:12,400
Speaker 1: had some ups and downs, and he doesn't have a

845
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:16,680
Speaker 1: lot of respect for women. Red flag. If he don't

846
00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:19,840
Speaker 1: have respect from women, does that not include you? I

847
00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:22,720
Speaker 1: think it does. Let me show you why he thinks

848
00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:25,320
Speaker 1: women are loyal and women only date men with money

849
00:57:25,520 --> 00:57:28,280
Speaker 1: and trade up. If a flash here richer guy comes along.

850
00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:31,120
Speaker 1: Let me explain something to your sister. This is game.

851
00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:35,320
Speaker 1: What he's done is he has prepared, he has prepared

852
00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:41,640
Speaker 1: a position statement. This is a prepared, positioned statement to

853
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 1: justify his own actions. This is a prepared statement. He said,

854
00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 1: this is just designed for you. All right, y'all, and

855
00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 1: broke up. You get back, You do social media stuff,

856
00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:58,720
Speaker 1: You post selfies, your makeup is perfect, You get dressed

857
00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:01,160
Speaker 1: up to go out with him. All a picture, you

858
00:58:01,280 --> 00:58:06,080
Speaker 1: going to girlfriend brunch? All that's cool. He doesn't like

859
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:08,680
Speaker 1: him when men comment on your beauty or your booty.

860
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:11,120
Speaker 1: You got courage. You can't hire to me your clothes.

861
00:58:11,120 --> 00:58:12,720
Speaker 1: You ain't trying to do now here with him. When

862
00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:14,920
Speaker 1: he get upset, he go out with other females and

863
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:17,680
Speaker 1: tells me about it afterward by saying he's just nice

864
00:58:17,720 --> 00:58:23,600
Speaker 1: women he met on social media and harmless. What he

865
00:58:24,400 --> 00:58:28,800
Speaker 1: that's the trade off. You post a picture, I'm gonna

866
00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:33,000
Speaker 1: go out with another girl. Who wa You go to

867
00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:35,720
Speaker 1: brunch with your girlfriends and somebody comment on your picture.

868
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:40,560
Speaker 1: I'm taking another girl out. That's the trade off. That

869
00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:43,840
Speaker 1: don't seem a bit extreme to you? Are you kidding me?

870
00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:48,600
Speaker 1: Little girl? Listen to me. Don't be stupid. Don't be stupid.

871
00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:51,760
Speaker 1: You getting played and he's telling you. Why does he

872
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:54,760
Speaker 1: tell you he does this. He's telling you this so

873
00:58:54,920 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 1: he can see how much he can get away with,

874
00:58:57,480 --> 00:59:01,959
Speaker 1: and so far he's getting away with it, all, all

875
00:59:02,120 --> 00:59:05,720
Speaker 1: of it. Then you said, at first, I thought it

876
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:07,800
Speaker 1: was a joking. He was just trying to make me

877
00:59:07,960 --> 00:59:11,760
Speaker 1: jealous a joke. Let me ask you something. Was this

878
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:20,800
Speaker 1: funny to you? Huh? This joke that you thought was

879
00:59:20,840 --> 00:59:23,960
Speaker 1: a joke, was just trying to make you jealous? What

880
00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:28,160
Speaker 1: That's what you came with. You're giving him way too

881
00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:31,040
Speaker 1: much rope. And you know what he's doing with this rope.

882
00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:35,080
Speaker 1: He hanging you with him. He ain't hanging his self, sister.

883
00:59:35,520 --> 00:59:37,840
Speaker 1: He hanging you with it. Now, when I come back,

884
00:59:37,960 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you the rest of it. I ain't

885
00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 1: got no jokes for you. I'm gonna help you out

886
00:59:41,160 --> 00:59:43,160
Speaker 1: because if it's another woman out there in this position

887
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 1: right here, don't be stupid. Now you're professional. You got

888
00:59:47,800 --> 00:59:50,640
Speaker 1: it going on. Don't be stupid, Steve gonna standing out

889
00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:53,600
Speaker 1: when we come back. All right, hold that thought, Steve.

890
00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:56,480
Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at

891
00:59:56,520 --> 00:59:59,320
Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour's subject. He wants women

892
00:59:59,440 --> 01:00:01,919
Speaker 1: on the side. We'll get back into it right after

893
01:00:02,040 --> 01:00:07,040
Speaker 1: this you're listening to show, all right, come on, Steve,

894
01:00:07,160 --> 01:00:10,240
Speaker 1: Let's recap today Strawberry letter, the subject he wants women

895
01:00:10,960 --> 01:00:14,000
Speaker 1: on the side. Why this twenty eight year old professional

896
01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:18,040
Speaker 1: woman living with his thirty three year old food This

897
01:00:18,320 --> 01:00:22,320
Speaker 1: old ignorant ass dude, y'all has some ups and down.

898
01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:25,600
Speaker 1: He don't have a lot of respectful women, which means

899
01:00:25,680 --> 01:00:28,480
Speaker 1: he don't have respect for you because you are old woman.

900
01:00:29,640 --> 01:00:32,600
Speaker 1: He thinks that women aren't loyal and women only date

901
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:34,840
Speaker 1: men with money and trade up if a flash of

902
01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:37,320
Speaker 1: richer guy comes along. Once again, I'm gonna tell you

903
01:00:37,360 --> 01:00:39,600
Speaker 1: what this is. This is game. This is a prepared,

904
01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:44,480
Speaker 1: positioned statement that he has created just for you to

905
01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:47,360
Speaker 1: justify his actions because he's not been to stop doing

906
01:00:47,440 --> 01:00:50,760
Speaker 1: nothing he's doing. So when you post stuff on social media,

907
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:54,480
Speaker 1: age appropriate selfish should make up his right. You're dressed

908
01:00:54,560 --> 01:00:56,720
Speaker 1: up to go out with him, or a picture from

909
01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 1: brunch when you go out with your girlfriend, he don't

910
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:03,120
Speaker 1: like and when men comment on the pictures. So now,

911
01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:06,200
Speaker 1: whenever he gets upset with you, he go out with

912
01:01:06,400 --> 01:01:10,280
Speaker 1: other females and he tell you about it afterwards, saying

913
01:01:10,320 --> 01:01:12,240
Speaker 1: they're just nice women he met on social media. So

914
01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:15,160
Speaker 1: wait a minute. So when you post a picture of

915
01:01:15,360 --> 01:01:19,440
Speaker 1: yourself on social media and he see the men commenting,

916
01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:24,440
Speaker 1: his comeback to that. His rebuttal is, I'm taking a

917
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:28,360
Speaker 1: woman out with me. That don't seem extreme to you,

918
01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:35,560
Speaker 1: that don't seem like a real that's not a that's

919
01:01:35,640 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 1: not an exchange. So now you are living with a

920
01:01:43,080 --> 01:01:47,640
Speaker 1: man who goes out with other women while living in

921
01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:53,439
Speaker 1: y'all shared space, and he tells you he just made

922
01:01:53,560 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 1: nice women in social media, so he's just trying to

923
01:01:56,280 --> 01:02:00,720
Speaker 1: find out how much you can take. Okay, I thought

924
01:02:00,760 --> 01:02:02,160
Speaker 1: it was a joke and he was just trying to

925
01:02:02,200 --> 01:02:05,040
Speaker 1: make me jealous. Once again, Was this joke funny, because

926
01:02:05,080 --> 01:02:09,480
Speaker 1: it's not funny. Are you laughing? Because we now so.

927
01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:12,360
Speaker 1: Then you read his DMS and the comments were telling

928
01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:14,680
Speaker 1: him thanks for a great date and they were looking

929
01:02:14,680 --> 01:02:18,120
Speaker 1: forward to seeing him again. I asked him if he

930
01:02:18,280 --> 01:02:22,360
Speaker 1: was crazy, and I demanded that he stopped entertaining other women.

931
01:02:23,040 --> 01:02:27,920
Speaker 1: You twenty eight, why are you dealing with this? Why

932
01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:31,959
Speaker 1: are you dealing with a man so disrespectful that while

933
01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:35,760
Speaker 1: you are living together in the house, he's dating other women.

934
01:02:37,480 --> 01:02:41,240
Speaker 1: What he said this insurance in case one of the

935
01:02:41,320 --> 01:02:43,640
Speaker 1: handsome men on Instagram getting my attention to take me

936
01:02:43,760 --> 01:02:47,840
Speaker 1: from it. This is all childish to me, and I

937
01:02:48,000 --> 01:02:50,000
Speaker 1: put Now here's the product, won't you pay attention to

938
01:02:50,480 --> 01:02:53,440
Speaker 1: I put too much sweat and tears into this relationship

939
01:02:53,680 --> 01:02:57,040
Speaker 1: to have it end over something so stupid. No, listen

940
01:02:57,120 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 1: to me, sister. You put too much into this relationship

941
01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:04,920
Speaker 1: to have it in. What relationship are you saving? This

942
01:03:05,120 --> 01:03:08,120
Speaker 1: is a bad relationship. You live with a guy that

943
01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:10,000
Speaker 1: do what he wants to and he ain't trying to

944
01:03:10,040 --> 01:03:13,600
Speaker 1: apologize for it. So you know what you've done. You've

945
01:03:13,680 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 1: just made a bad investment, that's all. It's just been

946
01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:20,280
Speaker 1: two years, that's all it is. Don't worry about the blood,

947
01:03:20,320 --> 01:03:22,840
Speaker 1: sweat and tears, because if you continue, you're gonna get

948
01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:25,720
Speaker 1: two more years of this right here, because there's no

949
01:03:25,920 --> 01:03:28,400
Speaker 1: sign of remorse in this letter. For him. This is

950
01:03:28,440 --> 01:03:30,480
Speaker 1: how he is. This what he gonna do, and then

951
01:03:30,560 --> 01:03:32,720
Speaker 1: you can do about it. He has enough prepared statements

952
01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:35,320
Speaker 1: to make you feel like you are the gold money. Now.

953
01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:38,080
Speaker 1: You said I would never flutter go out with another

954
01:03:38,160 --> 01:03:41,240
Speaker 1: male I met on social media, especially while I'm dating him. Well,

955
01:03:41,280 --> 01:03:44,600
Speaker 1: he don't feel that way. He don't feel that way

956
01:03:44,680 --> 01:03:47,560
Speaker 1: at all because he dating you, and he going out

957
01:03:47,600 --> 01:03:49,720
Speaker 1: with whoever he want to and they're all in his DM.

958
01:03:50,720 --> 01:03:53,520
Speaker 1: How can I get him to stop disrespecting our relationship?

959
01:03:58,760 --> 01:04:03,440
Speaker 1: You're wasting your damn time. The question is how can

960
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:06,720
Speaker 1: I get him to stop disrespecting our relationship? The question

961
01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:12,840
Speaker 1: is why are you in a disrespectful relationship? You ain't

962
01:04:12,880 --> 01:04:16,080
Speaker 1: got to get him to stop disrespecting relationship. You need

963
01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:19,760
Speaker 1: to get out of the relationship. He's not disrespecting relationship.

964
01:04:19,920 --> 01:04:23,760
Speaker 1: He disrespecting you. You told him about the top of

965
01:04:23,800 --> 01:04:27,800
Speaker 1: the letter. He doesn't respect women. You are a woman.

966
01:04:28,080 --> 01:04:33,040
Speaker 1: He don't respect you. If he's not disrespecting relationship, he's

967
01:04:33,120 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 1: disrespecting you. He's not a good guy. He's not for you.

968
01:04:40,320 --> 01:04:45,040
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna help you save a disrespectful relationship. Young lady,

969
01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:50,920
Speaker 1: you're twenty eight. You obviously got it going on. You're intelligent,

970
01:04:51,040 --> 01:04:56,280
Speaker 1: you're working, you do age appropriate stuff. And he's thirty

971
01:04:56,360 --> 01:05:01,680
Speaker 1: three and here, jiggolo, you live with a man who

972
01:05:01,840 --> 01:05:06,240
Speaker 1: dates other women while y'all live together and in a relationship.

973
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:11,160
Speaker 1: And he's not said he's stopping because you know what

974
01:05:12,080 --> 01:05:18,840
Speaker 1: those women are insurance and insurance dumb How do you

975
01:05:19,080 --> 01:05:22,080
Speaker 1: let a man tell you that that these other women

976
01:05:22,160 --> 01:05:25,240
Speaker 1: are insurance? Right? Well, you know what you need to do.

977
01:05:25,320 --> 01:05:28,720
Speaker 1: You need cash you in the policy. You need to

978
01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:31,439
Speaker 1: get all the cash out of this policy because I'm

979
01:05:31,520 --> 01:05:35,280
Speaker 1: gonna get your stuff. Because you can do this by yourself,

980
01:05:35,360 --> 01:05:36,960
Speaker 1: you can start, you can get somebody even to do

981
01:05:37,080 --> 01:05:42,120
Speaker 1: this here. That's deep. Go out with a woman and

982
01:05:42,200 --> 01:05:48,200
Speaker 1: then tell you he go out with a witness. Its bravest. Yeah,

983
01:05:49,200 --> 01:05:55,480
Speaker 1: he ain't got a noough sense to lie. All right, Steve,

984
01:05:55,640 --> 01:06:01,080
Speaker 1: thank you, post your comments, Untidy aid. Strawberry Letter. It's

985
01:06:01,080 --> 01:06:04,560
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook, and don't forget

986
01:06:04,600 --> 01:06:07,920
Speaker 1: to check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Now

987
01:06:08,040 --> 01:06:10,480
Speaker 1: coming up at forty six minutes after the hour, it's

988
01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:15,040
Speaker 1: Sports Talk with Junior. Right after this. You're listening Steve

989
01:06:15,200 --> 01:06:18,760
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, Junior is here with

990
01:06:18,920 --> 01:06:23,480
Speaker 1: Sports Talk. What you got Junior? Okay? Poetry no no?

991
01:06:25,400 --> 01:06:31,720
Speaker 1: I Yeah, Well listen, y'all. We got a new black

992
01:06:31,800 --> 01:06:36,600
Speaker 1: owner alert, new black owner alert legend. Duwayne Wade is

993
01:06:36,680 --> 01:06:42,880
Speaker 1: now part owner of the Utah Jazz. Yeah. Yeah. It

994
01:06:43,000 --> 01:06:44,800
Speaker 1: seems to be like a shift man and in the

995
01:06:44,880 --> 01:06:47,400
Speaker 1: cultural basketball right now. I mean this is this is

996
01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:49,160
Speaker 1: big because you know grand Hill is an owner of

997
01:06:49,160 --> 01:06:51,800
Speaker 1: the Atlanta Hawks. He's in a group. And then you

998
01:06:51,960 --> 01:06:54,760
Speaker 1: have miss Renee Montgomery who is a part owner of

999
01:06:54,840 --> 01:06:58,120
Speaker 1: the Atlanta Dream. And now you have Dwayne Wade who

1000
01:06:58,200 --> 01:07:00,520
Speaker 1: was an owner of the Utah Jazz. And you already

1001
01:07:00,560 --> 01:07:03,840
Speaker 1: know Michael Jordan owned the Charlotte Hornets. So you start

1002
01:07:03,920 --> 01:07:05,960
Speaker 1: to see a lot more players starting to own and

1003
01:07:06,080 --> 01:07:08,400
Speaker 1: that's important because of the effect that they can have

1004
01:07:08,560 --> 01:07:11,480
Speaker 1: in the communities that the Dwayne Waye said he's going

1005
01:07:11,560 --> 01:07:13,920
Speaker 1: to be a part of that community, not just with

1006
01:07:14,040 --> 01:07:16,560
Speaker 1: the team, but make a difference in that community as well,

1007
01:07:16,560 --> 01:07:18,680
Speaker 1: where I think it's big. Man, that is a really

1008
01:07:18,800 --> 01:07:25,720
Speaker 1: big move for Dwayne way Do not leave Salt Lake City.

1009
01:07:26,280 --> 01:07:33,200
Speaker 1: Don't move his house down or you understanding you're gonna

1010
01:07:33,240 --> 01:07:43,960
Speaker 1: leave in Salt Lake City. You got that, they didn't say,

1011
01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:46,640
Speaker 1: you know. Also, Lebron James is part of owner the

1012
01:07:46,720 --> 01:07:48,680
Speaker 1: Red Sox too, So a lot of these players, man

1013
01:07:48,720 --> 01:07:51,720
Speaker 1: are making some in baseball. They're taking the money man

1014
01:07:51,800 --> 01:07:55,080
Speaker 1: and buying into these franchises, which I think it's great.

1015
01:07:55,520 --> 01:07:59,600
Speaker 1: Now we just get it done in the NFL, you

1016
01:07:59,640 --> 01:08:01,880
Speaker 1: get that same good old boy world. You think you're

1017
01:08:01,920 --> 01:08:04,720
Speaker 1: gonna do that and take one team at the time, Junior,

1018
01:08:05,400 --> 01:08:07,040
Speaker 1: just getting you just get what we get, though, but

1019
01:08:07,160 --> 01:08:10,000
Speaker 1: this is big. We give what we get, you know,

1020
01:08:10,200 --> 01:08:13,680
Speaker 1: So I think that's amazing. I'm proud of Dwayne Wade. Man,

1021
01:08:13,760 --> 01:08:18,439
Speaker 1: he's a great guy. Man. What's up? Not that Lebron?

1022
01:08:18,560 --> 01:08:21,240
Speaker 1: Since Lebron out? Man, who think gonna win the NBA

1023
01:08:21,520 --> 01:08:24,479
Speaker 1: this season? Have you seen in Utah? Then first in

1024
01:08:24,520 --> 01:08:27,040
Speaker 1: the West? But you know, you know New Jersey they

1025
01:08:27,080 --> 01:08:30,000
Speaker 1: got they gotta get kd Carry and James Harden all

1026
01:08:30,040 --> 01:08:35,639
Speaker 1: on the court at the same time, if that's possible. Yeah, yeah,

1027
01:08:35,840 --> 01:08:38,240
Speaker 1: if they could get them. No Older State has to

1028
01:08:38,360 --> 01:08:43,240
Speaker 1: get Thompson back. How about the halt? I just wanted

1029
01:08:43,280 --> 01:08:52,200
Speaker 1: to say something of the conversation a lot better, but not.

1030
01:08:52,600 --> 01:08:54,600
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna tell you right now, if A d

1031
01:08:54,800 --> 01:08:58,280
Speaker 1: and Lebron don't hear help them get that? Yeah, the

1032
01:08:58,600 --> 01:09:03,880
Speaker 1: NBA championship would be the Knicks is balled. Man, shout

1033
01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:07,680
Speaker 1: out to the Knicks being competitive this season. Man, all right,

1034
01:09:07,800 --> 01:09:11,120
Speaker 1: Junior coming up at the top of the hour, have

1035
01:09:11,280 --> 01:09:13,920
Speaker 1: you ever broken up with someone? But then they told

1036
01:09:13,960 --> 01:09:18,760
Speaker 1: everyone they initiated the breakup. We'll talk about that right

1037
01:09:18,800 --> 01:09:23,240
Speaker 1: after this three times, yes, yes, get a bitter man

1038
01:09:25,479 --> 01:09:31,760
Speaker 1: you're listening to all right, guys, here's the question for you.

1039
01:09:32,200 --> 01:09:34,760
Speaker 1: Have you ever broken up with someone but they told

1040
01:09:34,800 --> 01:09:39,920
Speaker 1: everybody that they initiated the breakup? The New York Post

1041
01:09:40,040 --> 01:09:44,280
Speaker 1: is reporting that Kanye is, uh, he's a little upset.

1042
01:09:44,400 --> 01:09:48,400
Speaker 1: He's annoyed that everyone is saying that Kim Kardashian initiated

1043
01:09:48,439 --> 01:09:51,040
Speaker 1: their breakup and divorce, but that it was actually him

1044
01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:54,160
Speaker 1: who initiated the split, saying they had nothing in common

1045
01:09:54,640 --> 01:10:02,240
Speaker 1: but the kids for over a year. O believe Yeah, okay, ego,

1046
01:10:03,479 --> 01:10:06,760
Speaker 1: come on. Uh so, guys, can you relate to how

1047
01:10:06,840 --> 01:10:10,599
Speaker 1: Kanye feels about not getting credit for initiating the break

1048
01:10:10,680 --> 01:10:15,560
Speaker 1: up with no? Has that ever happened to you? Not

1049
01:10:15,920 --> 01:10:21,920
Speaker 1: like that? Don't nobody, don't don't nobody, I know quit

1050
01:10:22,080 --> 01:10:26,120
Speaker 1: nobody That fine, that's just me. I don't know nobody never,

1051
01:10:26,560 --> 01:10:29,720
Speaker 1: I don't know. You ain't in there when somebody that

1052
01:10:30,040 --> 01:10:39,519
Speaker 1: damn fane, I don't damn thing beautiful. I think I

1053
01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:44,599
Speaker 1: think Kanye needs to be quiet right now because all

1054
01:10:44,680 --> 01:10:46,920
Speaker 1: of this stuff. Doing the divorce, brother, it is not

1055
01:10:47,240 --> 01:10:51,120
Speaker 1: good to be saved. Quiet, you're gonna you're gonna anger

1056
01:10:51,200 --> 01:10:54,040
Speaker 1: this woman because what you can't do. Man, it started

1057
01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:57,400
Speaker 1: throwing shade on a woman. You know, you started saying

1058
01:10:57,439 --> 01:11:00,160
Speaker 1: stuffing that we had nothing in common except to kids. Up.

1059
01:11:00,760 --> 01:11:03,479
Speaker 1: That ain't what you were singing about. You know, your

1060
01:11:03,479 --> 01:11:09,240
Speaker 1: little rap songs wasn't about that. And then tell him, Steve,

1061
01:11:09,400 --> 01:11:12,240
Speaker 1: this is California where you're about to get the voice

1062
01:11:12,280 --> 01:11:16,320
Speaker 1: what you need to get. Shut up because California and

1063
01:11:16,400 --> 01:11:22,559
Speaker 1: then kids, California boy, half of everything he got it's

1064
01:11:22,760 --> 01:11:29,479
Speaker 1: for me. You got no let me kids. Boy. The

1065
01:11:29,680 --> 01:11:32,400
Speaker 1: guy that sees slavery was an option. You think he

1066
01:11:32,520 --> 01:11:36,680
Speaker 1: felt to be quick, that's who you think the right there.

1067
01:11:36,960 --> 01:11:38,880
Speaker 1: He needs to be pushing he need I wish you would.

1068
01:11:38,960 --> 01:11:41,920
Speaker 1: I wish he would just not talk about the deforce public.

1069
01:11:42,240 --> 01:11:46,160
Speaker 1: It's Stephen, I'm smart and you don't need to make

1070
01:11:46,200 --> 01:11:49,160
Speaker 1: the woman look bad. You're breaking up, Just just going

1071
01:11:49,240 --> 01:11:53,479
Speaker 1: to get out. Man. Ever half calling, you know you

1072
01:11:53,520 --> 01:11:55,960
Speaker 1: ever half in calling the day, but they don't get

1073
01:11:56,080 --> 01:12:01,679
Speaker 1: half Okay, they're going to a new billionaire too well,

1074
01:12:01,800 --> 01:12:06,240
Speaker 1: she fit to be another billion there because Jay's right,

1075
01:12:06,400 --> 01:12:09,680
Speaker 1: it's California. You just gotta look man, at the end

1076
01:12:09,720 --> 01:12:14,320
Speaker 1: of the day, these are your children's mother yes, right,

1077
01:12:14,560 --> 01:12:17,040
Speaker 1: and you have to be mindful. I don't care what

1078
01:12:17,200 --> 01:12:19,800
Speaker 1: they say about you. I don't care what they do.

1079
01:12:20,560 --> 01:12:27,400
Speaker 1: You cannot slam your children's mothers. And what difference does it?

1080
01:12:27,520 --> 01:12:30,840
Speaker 1: Man called it quit? Who called it off? What does

1081
01:12:30,920 --> 01:12:33,760
Speaker 1: that mean? You're still trying to say face. He's trying

1082
01:12:33,800 --> 01:12:36,120
Speaker 1: to make himself look good. That's all I mean, that's it.

1083
01:12:36,240 --> 01:12:40,360
Speaker 1: But that's not it's not gonna work. And listen, well,

1084
01:12:40,640 --> 01:12:43,600
Speaker 1: in my case, every time I broke up, and in

1085
01:12:43,680 --> 01:12:45,960
Speaker 1: my case, any time I broke up, they wanted out.

1086
01:12:46,320 --> 01:12:49,040
Speaker 1: They wanted out all and wanted out. It's best. What

1087
01:12:49,200 --> 01:12:54,120
Speaker 1: did you do? Crazy? What is that? Just pretty much

1088
01:12:54,160 --> 01:12:56,160
Speaker 1: the same stuff you see here, Timmy, This can get

1089
01:12:56,240 --> 01:13:00,160
Speaker 1: on your nerves. Oh you didn't show up, you were

1090
01:13:00,240 --> 01:13:13,000
Speaker 1: never there. They got the same shot when you were there.

1091
01:13:13,120 --> 01:13:16,080
Speaker 1: Is it's a bunch of foolishness going this is not

1092
01:13:16,280 --> 01:13:19,840
Speaker 1: new behavior. Oh yeah, you've known him for you've been

1093
01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:24,320
Speaker 1: knowing him for. No. Man, it's me, it's me, it's me,

1094
01:13:24,840 --> 01:13:29,439
Speaker 1: It is me because I really never knew why Jay, Well,

1095
01:13:29,800 --> 01:13:31,720
Speaker 1: surely let me tell you this and how much I

1096
01:13:31,760 --> 01:13:34,519
Speaker 1: could say this. Honestly, I can speak for my old friend.

1097
01:13:35,760 --> 01:13:44,320
Speaker 1: Jay is really not marriage material. He's just a good friend,

1098
01:13:46,080 --> 01:13:49,920
Speaker 1: hell of a nice guy, hell of a provider. He

1099
01:13:50,080 --> 01:13:53,559
Speaker 1: got the means, the wherewithal the talent, he got all

1100
01:13:53,600 --> 01:13:57,000
Speaker 1: that what makes him not marriage material. Though I know

1101
01:13:57,080 --> 01:14:00,360
Speaker 1: he doesn't like me. He just gonna be one one day,

1102
01:14:00,400 --> 01:14:02,240
Speaker 1: he just gonna sit in the drive way and decide

1103
01:14:02,240 --> 01:14:08,200
Speaker 1: I don't go all right, we'll have more of the

1104
01:14:10,479 --> 01:14:13,760
Speaker 1: coming up to twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're

1105
01:14:13,800 --> 01:14:19,880
Speaker 1: listening to show. All right, guys, well we were talking

1106
01:14:19,920 --> 01:14:22,080
Speaker 1: about this. I'll put it like that. The question I

1107
01:14:22,240 --> 01:14:24,360
Speaker 1: put to you, guys with have you ever broken up

1108
01:14:24,360 --> 01:14:27,360
Speaker 1: with someone? But they told everybody with them that broke

1109
01:14:27,479 --> 01:14:34,000
Speaker 1: up with you, that initiated everything everybody wanted out on him. Yeah,

1110
01:14:34,040 --> 01:14:38,360
Speaker 1: he admitted it was him and disbehavior. And we see

1111
01:14:39,400 --> 01:14:42,920
Speaker 1: they got the full shot of that, right all I said,

1112
01:14:44,360 --> 01:14:48,160
Speaker 1: I've known Jail a long time. Wonderful guy, grates sense

1113
01:14:48,240 --> 01:14:53,720
Speaker 1: of humanney, fun to be around, loving, caring, very attentive.

1114
01:14:54,920 --> 01:15:00,040
Speaker 1: But he's not the married He's not married. The story no,

1115
01:15:00,680 --> 01:15:03,360
Speaker 1: because it's gonna come a day when he's sitting in

1116
01:15:03,439 --> 01:15:06,080
Speaker 1: the driveway and he gonna look up in that door

1117
01:15:06,200 --> 01:15:10,479
Speaker 1: and decide I ain't going in there no more. You

1118
01:15:10,560 --> 01:15:14,360
Speaker 1: got you say what JA be out? I change? Steve

1119
01:15:14,600 --> 01:15:18,400
Speaker 1: is absolutely right, And when we break up, I don't

1120
01:15:18,479 --> 01:15:23,639
Speaker 1: care who gets the credit for the break up. All

1121
01:15:23,760 --> 01:15:28,479
Speaker 1: I want to do is break up. That's if you

1122
01:15:28,600 --> 01:15:32,680
Speaker 1: want the credit you got, it is yours. But we're

1123
01:15:32,720 --> 01:15:37,439
Speaker 1: breaking up, right, because that's all I'm not a fact.

1124
01:15:37,479 --> 01:15:41,400
Speaker 1: I'll give you the credit in the house, Yes, I

1125
01:15:41,520 --> 01:15:47,200
Speaker 1: just want out. Who Well, Jay, I know you don't

1126
01:15:47,280 --> 01:15:50,439
Speaker 1: like company, so so consider this. If you ever got

1127
01:15:50,560 --> 01:15:56,120
Speaker 1: married again, we gotta go. Sorry. We'll look more. A

1128
01:15:56,200 --> 01:16:00,240
Speaker 1: little Harvey Morning Show coming up in thirty three minutes after.

1129
01:16:00,400 --> 01:16:06,160
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the prosecution and the

1130
01:16:06,280 --> 01:16:10,000
Speaker 1: defense and the Derek Chauvin trial delivered closing remarks. Yesterday

1131
01:16:10,200 --> 01:16:13,920
Speaker 1: was a very long day. The prosecutor told the jury

1132
01:16:13,960 --> 01:16:17,559
Speaker 1: on Monday that Derek Chauvin had no compassion and pressing

1133
01:16:17,680 --> 01:16:20,600
Speaker 1: his knee on George Floyd's neck for nine minutes in

1134
01:16:20,680 --> 01:16:24,519
Speaker 1: twenty nine seconds was not an accident. Prosecutor went on

1135
01:16:24,640 --> 01:16:27,360
Speaker 1: to say that Chauvin had to know that he killed

1136
01:16:27,560 --> 01:16:31,360
Speaker 1: George Floyd. Prosecutor also said that this case is exactly

1137
01:16:31,520 --> 01:16:34,960
Speaker 1: what you saw in your eyes and know in your heart.

1138
01:16:35,320 --> 01:16:38,439
Speaker 1: The defense meanwhile said that if George Floyd could talk,

1139
01:16:39,000 --> 01:16:43,280
Speaker 1: then he could breathe. Wow, he could breathe just enough

1140
01:16:43,360 --> 01:16:50,760
Speaker 1: to tell you he couldn't breathe longs. Yeah, to eke

1141
01:16:50,800 --> 01:16:54,519
Speaker 1: out a craft for help. But if you don't adhere

1142
01:16:54,520 --> 01:16:57,200
Speaker 1: to the crowd to help that it turns into desperation.

1143
01:16:58,160 --> 01:17:00,960
Speaker 1: And then after a while you just keep your knee

1144
01:17:01,000 --> 01:17:03,200
Speaker 1: on this man's name. Look, man, you had your knee

1145
01:17:03,240 --> 01:17:06,080
Speaker 1: on his net for nine minutes. Well, everybody trying to

1146
01:17:06,120 --> 01:17:08,360
Speaker 1: hear this mess right here, and if you don't convict

1147
01:17:08,439 --> 01:17:10,760
Speaker 1: this man right here, I'm just telling you right now.

1148
01:17:11,200 --> 01:17:13,519
Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, and it's nothing I could

1149
01:17:13,560 --> 01:17:16,760
Speaker 1: do about it. It's gonna be a problem. It's going

1150
01:17:16,920 --> 01:17:23,439
Speaker 1: to be a problem. And it's gonna be a problem

1151
01:17:23,600 --> 01:17:27,000
Speaker 1: from black people. It's gonna be a problem from non

1152
01:17:27,240 --> 01:17:30,720
Speaker 1: black people. It's gonna be a problem. Yeah, it's going

1153
01:17:30,840 --> 01:17:34,479
Speaker 1: to be a problem. And you can't you can't dump

1154
01:17:34,600 --> 01:17:38,479
Speaker 1: this on You have to blame yourself. And look at

1155
01:17:38,479 --> 01:17:41,320
Speaker 1: all the nationalities you had marching for Black Lives Matter.

1156
01:17:41,400 --> 01:17:43,320
Speaker 1: You're gonna have a lot of people up said somebody.

1157
01:17:43,600 --> 01:17:48,760
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and still uh multicultural, multi racial outside of

1158
01:17:48,840 --> 01:17:53,240
Speaker 1: the courtroom, outside of this country. Yeah yeah, and I

1159
01:17:53,320 --> 01:17:55,920
Speaker 1: mean just to hear you know what's going on. Uh,

1160
01:17:56,160 --> 01:17:59,720
Speaker 1: they're out there now, you know. The twelve jurors will

1161
01:17:59,720 --> 01:18:03,000
Speaker 1: be the questioned. They will decide if Chauvin is guilty

1162
01:18:03,560 --> 01:18:06,680
Speaker 1: of second degree murder, of third degree murder or uh

1163
01:18:07,000 --> 01:18:10,960
Speaker 1: and second degree manslaughter. Chauvin could face up to forty

1164
01:18:11,040 --> 01:18:15,680
Speaker 1: years in prison. So we even the police chief for

1165
01:18:15,800 --> 01:18:19,720
Speaker 1: Minneapolis he when he testified, he said, Chauvin did not

1166
01:18:19,960 --> 01:18:23,040
Speaker 1: learn this at the police academy. To keep his knee

1167
01:18:23,160 --> 01:18:26,880
Speaker 1: on somebody's neck for nine minutes, over nine minutes, can

1168
01:18:26,960 --> 01:18:31,920
Speaker 1: I ask, I think, what is what is right? What

1169
01:18:32,120 --> 01:18:34,920
Speaker 1: is he writing? When he over there the city he's writing,

1170
01:18:39,640 --> 01:18:44,080
Speaker 1: he looked busy. That's it reminded me of that. But

1171
01:18:44,120 --> 01:18:48,880
Speaker 1: I think I think he's gonna walk. And let me

1172
01:18:49,000 --> 01:18:51,280
Speaker 1: tell you why, because you only need one person out

1173
01:18:51,320 --> 01:18:55,200
Speaker 1: the jury, just one. Don't care people coming up. It

1174
01:18:55,360 --> 01:18:59,080
Speaker 1: is our last break of the day. It is the

1175
01:18:59,320 --> 01:19:02,840
Speaker 1: last break of the day. And this is throwing me

1176
01:19:02,920 --> 01:19:08,200
Speaker 1: off being here today. That's always say hey, Jay, it's

1177
01:19:08,240 --> 01:19:12,519
Speaker 1: throwing us too. I'm combobulated. I'm really combabulated, just so

1178
01:19:12,760 --> 01:19:16,800
Speaker 1: you know it's throwing us off too. And we'll have

1179
01:19:16,920 --> 01:19:20,240
Speaker 1: some closing remarks from our fearless leader, the one and

1180
01:19:20,400 --> 01:19:25,040
Speaker 1: only Straight from the Motherland, Steve Harvey at forty nine

1181
01:19:25,080 --> 01:19:30,599
Speaker 1: minutes after. Right after this you're listening to. All right, guys,

1182
01:19:30,640 --> 01:19:32,680
Speaker 1: here we are our last break of the day on

1183
01:19:32,880 --> 01:19:39,240
Speaker 1: this Tuesday. Wow, what a day. Thank you for coming,

1184
01:19:39,880 --> 01:19:42,760
Speaker 1: Jay and of course Tommy. It's always nice to see you.

1185
01:19:43,479 --> 01:19:51,600
Speaker 1: Yus in their schedule, Yes, yes, between golf, don't do it,

1186
01:19:57,600 --> 01:20:01,439
Speaker 1: just two things out of time. All perform and come

1187
01:20:01,479 --> 01:20:06,560
Speaker 1: and work to play golf and work. But then he

1188
01:20:06,560 --> 01:20:11,320
Speaker 1: ain't gonna be able to perform. What you say, girl, well,

1189
01:20:11,520 --> 01:20:13,680
Speaker 1: I understand how I can throw you off to me,

1190
01:20:13,880 --> 01:20:18,320
Speaker 1: I understand it. I understand it. Thank you. Let's play

1191
01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:20,360
Speaker 1: when you get back from ever. Let's do that. Let's

1192
01:20:20,400 --> 01:20:25,000
Speaker 1: get that thing here. Oh I want to play. I

1193
01:20:25,080 --> 01:20:27,560
Speaker 1: want to play. All fall us need to play. We

1194
01:20:27,760 --> 01:20:30,960
Speaker 1: all four need to play. See who can really play well?

1195
01:20:31,040 --> 01:20:33,200
Speaker 1: Me and him. I gotta say this, Jay and him

1196
01:20:33,640 --> 01:20:36,240
Speaker 1: laughing at you and Junior, that's gonna be. I don't

1197
01:20:36,240 --> 01:20:38,040
Speaker 1: think you will. I don't think ain't gonna be that

1198
01:20:38,160 --> 01:20:42,800
Speaker 1: much laughing. No course he was a candidate. I know,

1199
01:20:45,479 --> 01:20:53,639
Speaker 1: yeah said year when the last time play? Oh large,

1200
01:20:53,920 --> 01:21:00,800
Speaker 1: d come on, do that blow your You got club?

1201
01:21:01,120 --> 01:21:05,960
Speaker 1: You got clubs, Jake? Probably I got a club in

1202
01:21:06,200 --> 01:21:12,840
Speaker 1: LA that's the only club. Like, yeah, I got the spot.

1203
01:21:14,280 --> 01:21:16,519
Speaker 1: But I think I can hold my own with both

1204
01:21:16,640 --> 01:21:18,640
Speaker 1: y'all because y'all talk a lot. I think me and

1205
01:21:18,760 --> 01:21:22,200
Speaker 1: Junior got this playing well, but we'll do it. You'd

1206
01:21:22,240 --> 01:21:28,080
Speaker 1: be so disappointed me. Well, you're not gonna play. Yeah,

1207
01:21:28,120 --> 01:21:30,160
Speaker 1: we're gonna be together, ja, but you canna be disappointed.

1208
01:21:33,320 --> 01:21:35,080
Speaker 1: So you get out the But you're looking for your

1209
01:21:35,120 --> 01:21:41,200
Speaker 1: ball again. I think that would be fun. I think

1210
01:21:41,240 --> 01:21:45,200
Speaker 1: that my ball in Georgia one time, playing with playing

1211
01:21:45,200 --> 01:21:48,320
Speaker 1: with State, my ball was right at the lake, right

1212
01:21:48,439 --> 01:21:51,760
Speaker 1: by alligator. I had no idea what you don't get

1213
01:21:54,680 --> 01:21:59,040
Speaker 1: what ball? My ball right there? You see that gator.

1214
01:22:02,840 --> 01:22:14,679
Speaker 1: That's not your ball? No more that. Hey, y'all listen, um, yeah,

1215
01:22:14,920 --> 01:22:16,880
Speaker 1: I just want to talk about something, you know, with

1216
01:22:17,040 --> 01:22:23,200
Speaker 1: this trial, my closing remarks here, with this trial and

1217
01:22:23,320 --> 01:22:29,360
Speaker 1: the upcoming verdict, I fully expect a guilty confection on

1218
01:22:29,680 --> 01:22:35,479
Speaker 1: some levels. I fully do expect it simply because of

1219
01:22:35,560 --> 01:22:40,760
Speaker 1: the climate that we live in today and because of

1220
01:22:42,640 --> 01:22:46,680
Speaker 1: the sheer, open brutality of it, and the number of

1221
01:22:46,800 --> 01:22:53,200
Speaker 1: people who saw it. And this time the movement was

1222
01:22:53,400 --> 01:22:56,800
Speaker 1: joined in by a lot of other people, not just black.

1223
01:22:56,960 --> 01:23:00,000
Speaker 1: The first Black Lives Matter movement was all black people.

1224
01:23:00,560 --> 01:23:04,040
Speaker 1: This next time it was a rainbow coalition of people.

1225
01:23:04,960 --> 01:23:06,560
Speaker 1: So I have faith that they're going to come to

1226
01:23:06,680 --> 01:23:10,080
Speaker 1: a conviction. If they don't, I can assure you that's

1227
01:23:10,120 --> 01:23:19,200
Speaker 1: going to be a problem, because, oh, I've learned that

1228
01:23:19,400 --> 01:23:26,800
Speaker 1: oppressed people's voice is protest. When you are oppressed and

1229
01:23:27,040 --> 01:23:33,599
Speaker 1: you're not listening to them, their voice becomes protest. Now

1230
01:23:34,720 --> 01:23:38,439
Speaker 1: it's sad to say that, because you would think this

1231
01:23:38,760 --> 01:23:42,560
Speaker 1: country would try to get it right. It's sad that

1232
01:23:42,680 --> 01:23:45,880
Speaker 1: they don't, and it's sad that they have enough people

1233
01:23:45,960 --> 01:23:48,360
Speaker 1: in it who won't. That are some people who are

1234
01:23:48,439 --> 01:23:51,200
Speaker 1: never going to stop being RACI to stop being racist.

1235
01:23:51,400 --> 01:23:54,120
Speaker 1: They're just not there not. There's some people in here

1236
01:23:54,200 --> 01:23:57,240
Speaker 1: is committed to the fact that they actually think they're

1237
01:23:57,280 --> 01:23:59,479
Speaker 1: better than somebody based on the color of their skin.

1238
01:24:00,400 --> 01:24:03,240
Speaker 1: I travel around the world. I'm not a world traveled

1239
01:24:03,240 --> 01:24:06,040
Speaker 1: as many people, but I've been to a quite quite

1240
01:24:06,080 --> 01:24:12,400
Speaker 1: a few number of places, and people of color everywhere

1241
01:24:13,560 --> 01:24:19,280
Speaker 1: have to feel the act of racist I've seen it everywhere.

1242
01:24:19,360 --> 01:24:24,519
Speaker 1: I'm in South Africa right now. Apartheide just ended in

1243
01:24:24,600 --> 01:24:30,280
Speaker 1: the mid nineties. Ninety six was when apartheid ended. That

1244
01:24:30,479 --> 01:24:35,840
Speaker 1: was that's not long ago, man. And so I look

1245
01:24:37,280 --> 01:24:41,200
Speaker 1: at the black people here, the Africans who are trying

1246
01:24:41,280 --> 01:24:45,320
Speaker 1: to regain what is rightfully theirs, and the struggle that

1247
01:24:45,439 --> 01:24:48,280
Speaker 1: they are in and the racism that they face, trying

1248
01:24:48,360 --> 01:24:53,360
Speaker 1: to just be treated as the owners of this continent.

1249
01:24:54,520 --> 01:25:01,519
Speaker 1: Africans own this continent. This is ours, This belongs to us.

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Speaker 1: It was stolen and taken. Kind of reminds me of America.

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Speaker 1: So I've seen black people and people of color everywhere

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Speaker 1: have to suffer for racism. So tell me what is

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Speaker 1: the problem? I mean, I can only surmise this thing

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Speaker 1: one way. It seems everywhere I go that if you

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Speaker 1: are black and a person of color, some group of people,

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Speaker 1: within the group of people who are considered white or European,

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Speaker 1: seem to have a problem because of the color of

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Speaker 1: your skin. That that's just seems to be everywhere. It's

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Speaker 1: in Italy, it's in Croatia, it's everywhere. It's everywhere. That's

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Speaker 1: a problem. How is it that you think because of

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Speaker 1: the color of your skin that it makes you better

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Speaker 1: than us, or you have more rights, and that we

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Speaker 1: should be forever patient until y'all come to terms with

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Speaker 1: who we are. We're gonna start showing you who we are,

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Speaker 1: and the time is now. That's all I have to

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