1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,520 Speaker 1: Buckle up, hold on tight. We got it for you. 2 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:07,760 Speaker 1: Here it is. It's the Strawberry Letter. Subject, I'm losing 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:12,119 Speaker 1: my fine and flirty wife. Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been 4 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: married for close to eight years, and over the weekend, 5 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: my wife told me that she is not in love 6 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 1: with me anymore. I'm a big guy and my wife 7 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:24,480 Speaker 1: used to be a big girl, but she recently had 8 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:28,640 Speaker 1: cosmetic surgery to fix a few issues she was having. 9 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 1: Now she thinks she's God's gift to the world. She's 10 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:36,279 Speaker 1: been posting all kinds of sexy pictures on Facebook, and 11 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:39,920 Speaker 1: when random men comment on her pictures, she writes back 12 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 1: to them. It's like she craves the attention. I went 13 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 1: through her private direct messages on Facebook and found out 14 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 1: that she has been having several intimate conversations with different guys. 15 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 1: She even met up with one of the guys, but 16 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: it looks like nothing happened between them. Like I said, 17 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 1: I'm a big guy, and I was a big guy 18 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:04,400 Speaker 1: when my wife when we got married. When I met 19 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:06,759 Speaker 1: my wife and when we got married, everything in our 20 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 1: marriage seemed to change. Once she had the weight loss surgery. 21 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 1: She's really feeling herself and forgetting about the marriage vows. Um, 22 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 1: I still love this woman, and I praise her and 23 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 1: tell her how great she looks, but it's not enough. 24 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 1: I love her, but I'm afraid of losing her to 25 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 1: a man that's in better physical shape than I am. 26 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 1: Please give me some advice so I won't lose my wife. Well, 27 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 1: it kind of looks like you've lost her to a 28 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 1: degree already. Um. You know, I'm really sorry that you're 29 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:43,680 Speaker 1: going through this. I really am. Your wife is wrong, 30 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:46,400 Speaker 1: she's out of line. Uh, and not to mention being 31 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 1: very disrespectful to you right now. Um for her to 32 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 1: say she's not in love with you anymore? Uh? Why 33 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 1: because you're still a big guy. And she's lost weight 34 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 1: or has this been you know, happening for a while. 35 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: Now she's she's stripping because she lost the weight she 36 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: had the surgery and now yeah, you're right, she is 37 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 1: feeling herself, uh and thinking she's God's give to the world. Um, 38 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 1: you know, what can you do? Please give me some 39 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 1: advice so that I won't lose my wife. You guys 40 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:18,080 Speaker 1: were both big when when you got together. I mean, 41 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:21,679 Speaker 1: how's your health? How's everything? She went and got surgery 42 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 1: and everything. Why don't you consider that You don't have to. 43 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: I'm not saying it, but why don't you consider that 44 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: on your own getting surgery and losing the weight and 45 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 1: going to the gym and you know, changing your eating 46 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:36,519 Speaker 1: habits and things like that. Maybe it's a good thing. 47 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 1: You know, she's not going about it the right way, 48 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 1: but but it could be a good thing for you 49 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 1: and your health and everything. And you'll feel better about yourself, 50 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 1: you know, because because a lot of times when you 51 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 1: start feeling good about yourself, especially if you haven't in 52 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:53,839 Speaker 1: a long long time, you know, you can react this way. 53 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: I think your your your wife is just you know, 54 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 1: so crazy with this. You're she's not in love with 55 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 1: you anymore, So what is she going to file for? 56 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 1: You know, she is she going to file for divorce 57 00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 1: now because she's not in love with you anymore? Uh, 58 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 1: you know, come on, this is just disrespectful. If it 59 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 1: were you who lost the weight and everything, she would 60 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 1: be feeling some kind of way as well. So you know, 61 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 1: all I can do is say, if she's gonna try 62 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 1: and and disrespect you and walk out on you and 63 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 1: divorce you, you're gonna have to you know, get yourself together, 64 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 1: get yourself together. If that doesn't keep her, then she 65 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:32,839 Speaker 1: wasn't meant for you anyway, you know. Um. We talked 66 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 1: about this a lot on the on the show money 67 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 1: makes you more of who you are, maybe, you know, 68 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 1: losing weight and getting to yourself this is who she 69 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: was anyway. Maybe she settled for you, you know, in 70 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 1: her mind, and now she feels she can do a 71 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: lot better. But I think you can do a lot 72 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 1: better getting someone to respect you and love you for 73 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: who you are, and then, you know, maybe together you 74 00:03:55,520 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 1: can lose. And if if that's what you want to do. Steve, uh, well, yeah, 75 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 1: I know you're going in your showed. No the helline am? 76 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 1: I don't even know who are we? And we really 77 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:18,599 Speaker 1: in't here? We why anybody said the key words? And 78 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 1: it's not anybody. I don't Okay, Shirley, I appreciate your 79 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 1: answer and everything, but let me try to help big 80 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 1: fella out, big fella steal in love with this girl 81 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 1: she did wouldn't got herself together. Now she thinks she 82 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:38,600 Speaker 1: all that in a bag of chips. I don't know 83 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 1: what to tell you, man. The best thing I can 84 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: tell you is I think you ought to get in 85 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 1: shape and leave. Huh hm, that's my best advice to you. 86 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: I can see that. M hm. You know, she obviously 87 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 1: does not know any scriptures do unto others as you 88 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 1: would have them do unto you. She must not know 89 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: that pride cometh before a fall. She must not know 90 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: that this one probably ain't in that gluttony is a sin, 91 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:17,839 Speaker 1: that's not and he's just sitting up there, Okay, careful. 92 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:24,919 Speaker 1: That's why I'm m there is no real answer for 93 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 1: this letter. I feel sorry for the guy. It's a 94 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: dog on a shame that the woman to win in 95 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:32,479 Speaker 1: and told him she don't love him though, because she 96 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 1: thinks she's gonna go out and have a spectaclar life, 97 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 1: but she finn to go out here and find out 98 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 1: what's really out here. It's a lot of tricking going 99 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:44,279 Speaker 1: on out here, and she's gonna run into it. So 100 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: even though I feel sorry for your brother, and you 101 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 1: don't want to lose your wife and now she fine, 102 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 1: the best thing I could do for him, if you 103 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 1: can't beat them, join them. I suggest you go get fined, 104 00:05:56,680 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 1: and you don't have to use surgery. You can your 105 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 1: size and start eating the right foods and you could 106 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 1: get your in in six months. Let her go and 107 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:09,159 Speaker 1: you get somebody else too. I don't take a little 108 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 1: longer than that. Yeah, probably take a little bit long 109 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 1: in the six months. You got the rest of your life. 110 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 1: And there's a lot of women out here looking for 111 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 1: good men like you. So you you just keep being 112 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 1: a good man and get yourself together. Get So how 113 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 1: much do you wait? How much you think you wait? Tom? Oh, 114 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:29,840 Speaker 1: he about three fathers? He didn't put that in the letter. Well, 115 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 1: we're talking, Shirley. We don't know. We think we've got 116 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 1: to be started. Yeah, you got to be a three 117 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:43,040 Speaker 1: to be writing you over three? Yeah, yeah, he writing 118 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 1: at two sixty. Can I ask him to do something though? 119 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:51,279 Speaker 1: Mm hmm, send me a picture of your wife. Don 120 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:57,479 Speaker 1: let me see how right here? Man? Huh, but for real, 121 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 1: don't talk. I mean that stupid Termits tips two thousand 122 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 1: three of y'allhoo, dot car. Just send it so we 123 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 1: can see what what she did, what we're working with. Alright, Steve, 124 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 1: we'll be back with part two of your response to 125 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letters subject I'm losing my fine and flirting wife. 126 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 1: Part two of the Strawberry Letter for today's subject, I'm 127 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 1: losing my fine and flirty wife. You want to recap 128 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 1: Steve Well, just do met his wife. They were both big, large, 129 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 1: full figured people. They got married. When she married him, 130 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 1: he was full figured. She didn't messed around and got 131 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 1: the little surgery and now she didn't lost a bunch 132 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: of weight. Nw she fine. She flirts with people all 133 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 1: the time, people talking to him and uh, you know, 134 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: now she online having sexy conversations with me, and that's 135 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 1: commenting on a pitch and every thing. And she talking 136 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 1: back to him. And dude been finding this And she 137 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 1: even went out with one guy somewhere he discovered and 138 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:11,239 Speaker 1: you know, they didn't have sex and nothing. He don't 139 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 1: think then she didn't came in the house and told 140 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 1: him she don't love him no more. And one of 141 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 1: the big things I didn't say in the first half. 142 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 1: She ain't used to this new attention she got so 143 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 1: now here she is. She brand new with it. But 144 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 1: she feels to find out a lot about attention though. 145 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 1: All in all, attention don't come with good intentions. All 146 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:42,679 Speaker 1: attention don't come with good intentions. So what you gotta 147 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 1: do when a person is paying your attention. What you 148 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 1: really need to do is locate and find out the intention. 149 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 1: Because attention is flattering, intention usually has a dark side 150 00:08:57,600 --> 00:09:01,080 Speaker 1: to it. That's what I found in my life. So 151 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:05,440 Speaker 1: whenever somebody starts pouring on attention, ladies, let me give 152 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 1: you a piece of advice. Why are you sitting there 153 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 1: smiling and being flattered with the attention? What you need 154 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 1: to get to doing this focus on what his intention 155 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 1: is because the intention could get you in a lot 156 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 1: of trouble. That's right. Didn't you just do a close 157 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 1: and remark the other day about the grass looking greener 158 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 1: always on the other side, it looks like it's man, 159 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:35,960 Speaker 1: it looks Yeah, but when you get over that man dog, 160 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 1: you know what, many fine people out of men as 161 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:47,120 Speaker 1: something really wrong with him? Have you? Have you ever 162 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:50,400 Speaker 1: had a conversation with somebody who, outward appearances you thought 163 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 1: was cool and then they started talking and you your 164 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 1: eyes started doing that rapid eye movement, hey like silence 165 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 1: that you damn this scanning in the room trying to 166 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:05,719 Speaker 1: figure out hold of man? Is anybody watching me over? 167 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:11,720 Speaker 1: And yeah? It's sad man. So I always do that. 168 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:15,200 Speaker 1: I always think about attention that I'm getting and right 169 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:19,319 Speaker 1: behind the attention, what is the intention? Yeah, she's disrespectful. 170 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:25,600 Speaker 1: I think this happens a lot. Women get these surgeries. 171 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:28,199 Speaker 1: I'm just saying that women get these surgeries. Think it 172 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 1: happens a lot, and then the husband is insecure after that. Yeah, 173 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 1: I think so. I think it happens a lot, especially 174 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 1: if they were both you know, heavy to begin with. 175 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 1: That's all right, you know, And so now she's changed 176 00:10:42,040 --> 00:10:45,560 Speaker 1: right and lost all this weight. Now she doesn't want 177 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 1: her husband anymore, so she's you know, seeking out other men. Yeah, 178 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:54,199 Speaker 1: that's terrible. You're gonna feel pretty insecure once she tell 179 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 1: you she don't love you know more, and she online 180 00:10:57,679 --> 00:11:06,439 Speaker 1: talking to other people, You're gonna feel that's hurtful. That's hurtful, man. Yeah, 181 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 1: she's terribly wrong. Yeah, help pay for the surgery. Yeah, 182 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 1: oh yeah, I believe that hard working man because it 183 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:22,559 Speaker 1: would make her happy, because he wanted to make her happy. 184 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 1: He can, you know, to do something to make himself 185 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:30,040 Speaker 1: feel better and get better, get healthy, you know, lose 186 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:32,839 Speaker 1: some weight. If he he doesn't seem like he didn't 187 00:11:32,880 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 1: mention that in the letter, but I mean that could 188 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 1: help him have more confidence in himself. I mean, this 189 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 1: could be the motivating factor that a person needs. Yeah, absolutely, absolutely, 190 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 1: he's hurt right now. Yeah, but you know what I mean. 191 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:50,679 Speaker 1: What you don't want to do is compound the problem 192 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:53,320 Speaker 1: with another problem. So what you don't want to do 193 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:55,320 Speaker 1: is now you depressed. Now you're sitting at the house 194 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:59,680 Speaker 1: eating because she out, and now you're eating and you 195 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 1: pounding your problem. Now she come home. You got ice 196 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 1: cream around your mouth, got milk commercial, and then you 197 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 1: know where you're being baby? You know. So he could 198 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:19,679 Speaker 1: get in shape. Oh he could just stop barbecue and 199 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 1: every weekend get her back fat. Yeah that sound You 200 00:12:29,440 --> 00:12:32,440 Speaker 1: can get yourself in shire here on your option. You 201 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 1: can go plant basic, gonna get yourself down, get self control. 202 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 1: You could do that. You can go and get yourself 203 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:47,199 Speaker 1: in shape. You could do that. Oh you could just 204 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 1: go on and start making pies and stuff and just 205 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:56,839 Speaker 1: get your girl back fat, work the fat fat. Like. 206 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 1: But I feel for him. No one wants to be 207 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 1: in a marriage for eight years and then all of 208 00:13:04,679 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 1: a sudden somebody says I don't love you anymore. That's 209 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 1: that's so crushing, that's crushing to a person. Yeah, well 210 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:16,439 Speaker 1: I've been crushed twice. So here we go. Yeah, right, 211 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 1: and you survive. Come on, let's go and get through this. 212 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 1: What you're gonna do. Chalking up to the game, I 213 00:13:28,840 --> 00:13:31,080 Speaker 1: had two people tell me a little no more. Yeah, 214 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 1: I mean it happens for sure. Yeah, but get out. 215 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 1: I've heard it with that too. You never he least 216 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:42,839 Speaker 1: ain't heard that. I didn't heard. I don't love you. 217 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:45,000 Speaker 1: I don't hear this right here? How about this right here? 218 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 1: I can't stand you. Oh yeah, that hurts. All of 219 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 1: it hurts. Yeah, it's hurtful, especially with someone you still 220 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 1: love and he clearly still loves his wife. You know. 221 00:13:57,679 --> 00:14:01,040 Speaker 1: Oh that wasn't the case with me though. Well, this 222 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:03,559 Speaker 1: letter is not about you. I just want you to 223 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 1: know once you come in and you make the announcement 224 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 1: that you don't love me no more as soon as 225 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 1: you get through. But so before you take your next breath, 226 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:16,800 Speaker 1: I can't stand your Yeah, well I ain't gonna be. 227 00:14:16,800 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 1: You don't want to stand here, Phillip, thank you for sharing. Steve, 228 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:24,000 Speaker 1: we got welcome. 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