1 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: Hey, I do part two. 2 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:20,239 Speaker 2: It's your celebrity mentor, Cheryl Burke, and I'm joined by 3 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 2: our resident favorite real life single. 4 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 1: Gal, Louise. Hey, Louise, nice to meet you. 5 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 3: Hi, nice to meet you. Still single, Cheryl, so happy 6 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 3: to still have that. 7 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 2: Title single unhappy? Hey, even though it's the beginning of 8 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 2: the year. There is a lot happening, obviously in the 9 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 2: celebrity divorce space, So let's dive into this. Tell me 10 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 2: about yourself first, because I feel we are doing like 11 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:47,560 Speaker 2: headlines without really knowing you well. 12 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 3: I think the point here is is nobody's immune from divorce, right, so. 13 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 4: I too have divorced you too, you said nine years. 14 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 4: It's kind of like a really popular. 15 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 3: Club, and you know, even celebrities you know, experience it. 16 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 3: And I think that's one of the things I always 17 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:09,480 Speaker 3: pay attention to, is no matter how beautiful, how amazing 18 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 3: their life is, whether it's the trips that this that like, 19 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:16,400 Speaker 3: they are normal people who go home and deal with 20 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 3: things that don't make them happy, or people do bad 21 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 3: things to them. And I just think it's a universal theme. 22 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:24,840 Speaker 3: Relationships are challenging. 23 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 2: Especially in the public eye, I think, because not only 24 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 2: are you having to deal with the person you're involved with, 25 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:34,399 Speaker 2: but then you're dealing with everything else, the noise around you. 26 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:37,399 Speaker 1: So it is it is challenging. 27 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 2: Though I'm not Nicole Kidman or anything like that, but 28 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 2: I was kind of in a public. 29 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: Divorce and that was very That was hard for me. 30 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 1: It's hard for me. I'm sure. 31 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 2: I Ca'm not going to speak for my ex husband, 32 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 2: but I'm sure it wasn't easy for him either. And 33 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 2: you know, people are still talking about it and it's 34 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 2: been over three years, and it's like it's so it 35 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 2: just people like to focus I think, more on drama 36 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 2: than the actual good parts. 37 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 5: You know. 38 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 3: I think it's salacious stuff, and I think it's interesting 39 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 3: for people, and it's, you know, no different than somebody 40 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 3: in your group of friends that gets caught, you know, 41 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 3: sleeping with a pickle ball coach and all the book 42 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 3: clubs and everyone talked about it. 43 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 4: It's just people like to see people fall apart. 44 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 2: All apart, Yeah, and then when they finally come out 45 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 2: of it, they just like to tear them apart still, 46 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:25,520 Speaker 2: like it doesn't it just but that says more about 47 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 2: the person tearing that person apart than it does. 48 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 3: About I always have taught my children that the person 49 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 3: who talks badly about somebody looks bad, not the one 50 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 3: who's being talked about. 51 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 1: Well, it's because they're triggered. 52 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 2: And obviously whatever it is that's triggering them has nothing 53 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 2: to do with you, And it's really none of our 54 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 2: business what these people say about us, you know. I mean, 55 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 2: it's easier said than done, but it really is obviously 56 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 2: a trigger for that person, whatever it may be, whether 57 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 2: they are wanting to be like you or there's they 58 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:56,519 Speaker 2: don't understand how you were able to come out of 59 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 2: such darkness, you know, to where you are today, and 60 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:00,679 Speaker 2: maybe that's where they still are. 61 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 1: You just never know. 62 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 3: People a lot of times don't root for people, sadly. 63 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 1: Especially women. 64 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 2: Speaking of divorce, let's talk about Amy Schumer files for 65 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 2: divorce from her husband, Chris Fisher after over seven years 66 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 2: of marriage. 67 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:18,520 Speaker 1: Wow, have did you hear about this? 68 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 4: I did? 69 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 3: And they have a little one, which is you know, 70 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 3: just tough. Yeah, so that makes it hard when there's children. 71 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 2: I guess she just filed for divorce on Tuesday, January sixth, 72 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 2: and basically it was I guess a shock to some people, 73 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 2: but within their inner circle, not so much. But it 74 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 2: seems like it's amicable for the most part. She said 75 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 2: that Chris and I have made the difficult decision to 76 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 2: end our marriage after seven years. We love each other 77 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 2: very much and will continue to focus on raising our son. 78 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 2: We would appreciate people respecting our privacy at this time. 79 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 2: I feel like everyone just says the same line every 80 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 2: time they announced the divorce. But it is true, and 81 00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 2: no one's going to respect your privacy unfortunately. But I 82 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 2: guess the source says it's close, it's a cohesive split, 83 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 2: and they've just been finalizing a few things. 84 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 3: Remember that phrase, the Gwyneth and the Chris. What is 85 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 3: that conscious uncoupling? Yeah, of all the ones that we're 86 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:18,919 Speaker 3: going to talk about, this one actually does feel tonally 87 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 3: like the one that might be the most benign and friendly. 88 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 2: Maybe, well, what does that mean? Like, does that mean 89 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 2: that they just both lost interest? Or like, what does 90 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:30,719 Speaker 2: that mean? 91 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 4: I mean? 92 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:35,719 Speaker 3: I think sometimes people just over time they're just not 93 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:40,040 Speaker 3: aligned anymore, or they become more like friends, and maybe 94 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 3: the passion goes away or one grows in a different 95 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 3: direction than the other. 96 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:44,720 Speaker 4: But it's not like. 97 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 3: Something bad happened, like there was infidelity or a massive 98 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 3: drag addiction. 99 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 4: It's just like our time, our chapter is done. We 100 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:56,279 Speaker 4: share this child. We're always going to be a part 101 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 4: of each other's lives. 102 00:04:57,160 --> 00:04:59,359 Speaker 3: But I feel like this is the most vanilla of 103 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:01,480 Speaker 3: the ones that we're going to talk about. 104 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 1: I hope, So I hope that's right. 105 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:06,040 Speaker 2: I mean, you just never know, right like, because something 106 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 2: could trigger somebody, like if what if someone starts dating 107 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 2: before that person, Like, it can get real ugly really fast. 108 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 2: When you say, when you say that, maybe the passion 109 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 2: dies down. See for me, it's kind of like what 110 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 2: is like, what do you mean by the passion? Because 111 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 2: it's like the honeymoon phase. Is the honeymoon phase we 112 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:23,600 Speaker 2: all go through. We all love that, right Like it's 113 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:26,480 Speaker 2: always the fun and we all do relationship and it 114 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 2: does no, but it does, but it does. And it's 115 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 2: then then that's when the dirty work comes in. And 116 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:34,839 Speaker 2: it's like, are you willing to put the dirty work in? 117 00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:38,479 Speaker 2: Because if you're not, there is no uh for sure, 118 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:40,279 Speaker 2: your passion is never going to come back because you 119 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 2: have to like reintroduce yourself to each other. Look, you guys, 120 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 2: all we all as individuals, we evolve as humans, and 121 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 2: it just has to it takes work. 122 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:52,599 Speaker 4: I almost think it's more than that because I. 123 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 3: Think it's so important that the two people and the 124 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 3: couple are actually best friends, right because at the end 125 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 3: of the day, you know, the butterflies go away, things 126 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 3: change in the relationship. But if you're still friends and 127 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 3: you still can laugh, then you have the you could 128 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 3: potentially go the long haul. 129 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 4: I think for me, my ex husband and I were 130 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:16,920 Speaker 4: just not best friends. 131 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 2: Do you mean that there was no communication, because like, 132 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 2: what is best friends? Like what does that entail? Right? 133 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 1: In entail's honesty, transparency. 134 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 4: It's your vault. 135 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 3: I think it's the person that you're comfortable, you know, 136 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:32,479 Speaker 3: being next to on a park bench looking at the 137 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 3: birds quietly. But it's also the person that you're laughing 138 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 3: hysterically with and excited to see when you come home. 139 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:42,279 Speaker 3: But what when two people basically are living under the 140 00:06:42,279 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 3: same roof and there's zero communication, connectivity, interest, and you're 141 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:51,160 Speaker 3: just coexisting like roommates like roommates, and then it's done. 142 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 3: But the interesting thing is when you just meet somebody 143 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 3: and it's kind of like the falling in love. 144 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:02,240 Speaker 4: Which is the lush, right, But. 145 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 3: Then loving somebody is totally different, right, And you know, 146 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 3: I don't know about you. I'm in my mid fifties, 147 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 3: and I find that I'm trying really hard when I 148 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 3: go on a date to basically stick it out, to 149 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:21,560 Speaker 3: go out a few more times if I don't have 150 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 3: the butterflies. Because the truth is I used to sit 151 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 3: on a date and be like at point A and. 152 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 4: Be like, oh, is this my person? Could I see 153 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 4: my life for them? 154 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 3: Now what I do is I sit there and say 155 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 3: is this person interesting enough to talk to? Does he 156 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:40,680 Speaker 3: have right good moral compass that I opened going on 157 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 3: a second time and then a third time? 158 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's smart. 159 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 4: Yeah. So the whole butterfly thing, yeah. 160 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 2: I think that's very high school maybe in a way. 161 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 2: But it's almost like those those movies that we see 162 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 2: are so toxic, those love stories, those rom coms, freaking 163 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 2: what's it called the Notebook? Like, first of all, there's 164 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 2: nothing romantic about a guy stalking you, Like does he 165 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:07,239 Speaker 2: straight up stock? Ryan Gosling is stalking her? And we're like, oh, 166 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 2: we want someone to do that with us. 167 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 1: It's like, what this is like the wrong message? 168 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 4: I know. 169 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 3: But sometimes though you say to yourself like, well, am 170 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 3: I just fitting a square peg into a round hole. 171 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:21,119 Speaker 4: Like it's so confusing. 172 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 1: Now, is it confusing? I don't know. 173 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 4: I'm all confused on it. 174 00:08:24,240 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 2: I think we think, I think socially right, there's so 175 00:08:27,480 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 2: many so societal expectations when it comes to Like, for me, 176 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 2: I'm forty one, and you know, people are like, aren't 177 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 2: you so lonely? I'm like, no, I'm actually loving my 178 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:42,560 Speaker 2: life living alone, and I enjoy it almost too much. 179 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 1: I don't have drama, you know. 180 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:48,280 Speaker 2: I have had an interesting past of relationships where it 181 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 2: just followed the same toxic pattern that. 182 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 1: I was just not a great picker. 183 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:58,559 Speaker 2: I think that people expect someone like any woman in 184 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:01,200 Speaker 2: their forties to have already have had children that have 185 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 2: been married, and like, then if not, then oh my god, 186 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 2: she's not well there's something wrong with her, you know. 187 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:08,480 Speaker 2: And I think that's why it's so confusing. 188 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, But at the same time, also it's it's kind 189 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 3: of like, I don't know about you, but I would 190 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:16,680 Speaker 3: say eighty percent of my closest friends are all divorced 191 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:19,439 Speaker 3: or never been married, and we're in our mid fifties. 192 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 4: So I think that the difference. 193 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 2: Now, are you happy being single or do you feel 194 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 2: like you need to have somebody in your life it's interesting. 195 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 3: So I don't need to have somebody in my life 196 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:34,840 Speaker 3: because I have, you know, a lot of friends. I 197 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 3: have a big career, I have a lot in my 198 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 3: in my day that's fulfilling. I'm also very happy to 199 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 3: be home reading a book or going on a walk. 200 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:46,319 Speaker 4: So unless it speaks to me, I don't. 201 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:47,439 Speaker 3: Need my bills paid, you know what I'm saying. So 202 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:49,680 Speaker 3: unless it like speaks to me in my heart, so 203 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:52,319 Speaker 3: I don't need it. Would I like somebody. 204 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 1: That you a companion? 205 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:56,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, but that I really like, right, because I go 206 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 3: out with a lot of people that's just not totally right. 207 00:10:00,520 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 3: And then you throw on a person's attachment wounds and 208 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:05,680 Speaker 3: then the it comes and then there it's you get 209 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 3: it right. It's kind of like anxious attachment avoidant attachment. 210 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 2: Actually, if I was into girls, then I would totally 211 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:13,959 Speaker 2: be attracted to. 212 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:16,520 Speaker 3: Well, anxious people love me, you know what I'm saying. 213 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 3: I mean, it's like, and here's what happens. The more 214 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 3: they come at me, the more I feel like this, 215 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:22,440 Speaker 3: and the more I feel like this, the more they 216 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 3: come at me, and it's having me, you know, it's. 217 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 2: Almost inevitable that anxious and anxious and what are you 218 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 2: avoidant always marry each other always. It's just unless you're 219 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:38,200 Speaker 2: secure attachment, which is very rare, especially in the Los 220 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:38,960 Speaker 2: Angeles area. 221 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 3: I would assume I don't know many people secure attachment 222 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:45,679 Speaker 3: because I think we all have stuff in our cuff 223 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 3: or in our cup as life goes on, and I 224 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 3: think ultimately people just trigger each other differently, and it's 225 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:55,319 Speaker 3: really that do our wounds line up and exactly? 226 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 2: And also you can still change your attachment if you 227 00:10:57,760 --> 00:11:00,120 Speaker 2: want to, just saying we're not like stuck to this 228 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 2: one attachment to the rest of our lives, Okay. Nicole 229 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:07,200 Speaker 2: Kidman and Keith Urban finalized divorce. Settlement details revealed so 230 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:10,080 Speaker 2: three months after Nicole filed for divorce from Keith, the 231 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 2: former couple of finalized the breakup in documents obtained by 232 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:16,280 Speaker 2: a News January sixth, Come what may, Nicole and Keith 233 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 2: will always be there for each other till the end 234 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 2: of time. Three months after the mullin Ridge actress filed 235 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 2: to legally end her nineteen year marriage to the Somebody 236 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:27,560 Speaker 2: Like You singer, the former couples officially finalized their divorce 237 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 2: according to legal documents, so basically all in all, I mean, 238 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 2: I don't think this is as amical as it may sound, 239 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 2: or I would think he's definitely moved on, right, I 240 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:41,600 Speaker 2: mean from what I saw. Again, I don't don't believe 241 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 2: everything you read. I don't you know, I am, I 242 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:47,640 Speaker 2: know that, but there, I think it's it happened quickly 243 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:50,640 Speaker 2: for us, not necessarily. We don't know what happened in 244 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 2: their world. She seemed very much in love with him. 245 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 4: It feels like either side. 246 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:58,600 Speaker 1: I don't think it was her decision put it that way. 247 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:01,880 Speaker 3: And her daughters were they mad too about something I 248 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:02,720 Speaker 3: had read. 249 00:12:03,440 --> 00:12:05,000 Speaker 1: I don't know. They're also grown enough. 250 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 2: They're seventeen and fourteen, Sunday Rose and Faith Margaret Right, 251 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:10,679 Speaker 2: they're old enough to know what the hell's going on. 252 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 2: And I come from a divorce family. My parents got 253 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:15,439 Speaker 2: divorce when I was too. I think it's so much 254 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 2: easier when you're not as you know, you're not able 255 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 2: to really put two and two together at that moment 256 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 2: than to be teenagers going through and seeing your parents. 257 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 1: I would only. 258 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 4: Assume it was eighteen. It was awful. I remember all 259 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 4: of it. 260 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 2: Oh, it's very very Yeah. I mean, my first memory 261 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:34,600 Speaker 2: I remember was my dad with another woman at two 262 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 2: years old. But again I wouldn't I don't know if 263 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:39,840 Speaker 2: it would have affected me. I think it would have 264 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 2: affected me more if I was older. Maybe I don't 265 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 2: know either way. 266 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:46,319 Speaker 3: And it's also hard when you worry about a parent 267 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 3: and not the other one. And so what I've read 268 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 3: with this and again not everything is true. But whether 269 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:53,600 Speaker 3: it's smoke, maybe there's fire in this case, I don't 270 00:12:53,640 --> 00:12:56,960 Speaker 3: know in this one because that girl and the band 271 00:12:57,160 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 3: or the singer, and then you see this thing with 272 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 3: the daughters Matt, I don't know, seems something there. I 273 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 3: don't think this is as calm and friendly as the 274 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:05,640 Speaker 3: first one. 275 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 1: As Amy Schumer, yeah, I know. 276 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:10,000 Speaker 4: This one's a little more chocolate than vanilla. 277 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 2: And I don't know if they're going to be like 278 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 2: the next headline with Kyle and you know, Maricio spending 279 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:17,439 Speaker 2: Christmases together and Holidays together. You know, I'm not sure 280 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 2: they're ever going to get there as far as I'm concerned. 281 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 2: But you know, I think I don't know from what 282 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:26,600 Speaker 2: I saw outsider Big Time. Don't know them personally, but 283 00:13:26,679 --> 00:13:28,880 Speaker 2: like it seemed to me that Nicole was head over 284 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:32,440 Speaker 2: heels even was willing to deal with his alcoholism, you know, 285 00:13:33,040 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 2: and I get I'm an addict and that if you 286 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 2: let it take over, and if you don't, you know, 287 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 2: want to do the steps to be sober and get better, 288 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:45,480 Speaker 2: it will take you there. 289 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 1: Unfortunately, it's dark, but. 290 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:54,920 Speaker 3: Sounds like he was there supporting him and and very devoted. 291 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 2: And it's hard, very sad. It's really sad, and it's 292 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 2: sad for the K's. What do you think of this 293 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:13,640 Speaker 2: settlement though? In particular, I. 294 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:17,360 Speaker 3: Guess well, I feel like we all found out about 295 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:19,640 Speaker 3: it later. I think it had probably been going on 296 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 3: for a while, because it just seems like it's not 297 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 3: stamp pretty quickly. I mean, I think mine took six 298 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 3: months right before that stamp came. I don't know, what 299 00:14:28,120 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 3: do you mean, stamp like the divorce settlement stamp like. 300 00:14:31,800 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, mine took six months at least. 301 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 4: Right, But this one I feel like was quicker. 302 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 1: For some reason. 303 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 2: So the document states each party indicates that he or 304 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 2: she does not want to proceed with formal discovery, including 305 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 2: completing interrogations, in requests for production of documents or discovery 306 00:14:48,160 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 2: depositions that are designed to discover assets and debts. 307 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 1: So they are going to split everything. I guess is 308 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 1: that what it is. 309 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 4: I think that they just don't want to go through 310 00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 4: the whole thing with it. 311 00:14:58,200 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, with having all their books open and all the 312 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 3: skeletons taken out of the closet. 313 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 1: They didn't have a prenapp obviously because. 314 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:09,120 Speaker 3: They settled or they settled quietly something just to have 315 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 3: stuff not come out in the public. 316 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 2: I don't know, because when you have a prenup, I 317 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 2: mean I had a prenup. Everything was quite simple. There 318 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 2: was really there was no I mean there was nothing. 319 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:22,640 Speaker 2: It was written prior to our marriage, right like what 320 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 2: you know, whatever it was, It's like, it was quite 321 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:28,280 Speaker 2: None of this was like I didn't even. 322 00:15:28,280 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 3: Feel like maybe there was an understanding like what's hers 323 00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:33,680 Speaker 3: is hers, what's his is his? And so therefore it 324 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 3: was easy to buifurkid or whatever the word is on 325 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:38,120 Speaker 3: that front. But they had to have some sort of 326 00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 3: agreement because they were both uber successful when they met. 327 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and I don't think yeah exactly, and they're 328 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:45,520 Speaker 2: both going to be fine without each other. They both 329 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 2: can support their own lives and the children's lives. 330 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:53,440 Speaker 1: I would assume comfortably. We would think, now you never know, 331 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 1: you never know. We don't know. 332 00:15:55,320 --> 00:15:56,520 Speaker 4: That one was a surprise. 333 00:15:57,400 --> 00:15:59,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was big time. 334 00:15:59,400 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, I was definitely surprised. 335 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 1: I didn't even know he was an alcoholic. I had 336 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:06,440 Speaker 1: no idea that was kept quiet. I know. That's a 337 00:16:06,560 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 1: scary part. That's scary. 338 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 2: And I have to say, when I was drinking, no 339 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:12,760 Speaker 2: one knew either because I was functioning. 340 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 1: So it is scary. 341 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:16,680 Speaker 4: And she probably kept it really quiet too. 342 00:16:16,720 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 3: And so I just like a family, a family secret 343 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 3: or just in our circle. 344 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:23,480 Speaker 2: And imagine like just the feelings of shame and guilt 345 00:16:23,560 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 2: and god, it's like dark, it's dark. 346 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 1: I agree. 347 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 3: But sad for those girls because at fourteen and seventeen, 348 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:34,040 Speaker 3: they're still in the house, but yet they want to 349 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 3: live their life, meaning they're starting probably with you know, 350 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 3: all the teen girls stuff, and also to worry about 351 00:16:39,520 --> 00:16:43,520 Speaker 3: their whole family foundation, fowing magazines, worrying about. 352 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 4: Their mom or dad maybe fall I don't. 353 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:47,840 Speaker 1: Know, it's a lot for girl. I mean, to deal 354 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 1: with a stepmom. 355 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:52,160 Speaker 4: Oh, sounds like you had a few of those. 356 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:55,560 Speaker 2: No, I had not mom, No, I mean technic my 357 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:59,240 Speaker 2: dad was This is a long, long story. Short, he 358 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 2: followed his past pussy and went to Thailand open strip clubs. 359 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:04,359 Speaker 2: He was a very successful lawyer in the bar area, 360 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:06,879 Speaker 2: and so I had a bunch of stepmoms probably, but 361 00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:07,880 Speaker 2: we won't go there. 362 00:17:08,640 --> 00:17:12,000 Speaker 1: Rest and pacey. Then okay, got it. 363 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 4: You turned out. That's all good. 364 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:17,960 Speaker 2: So thanks therapy though for the rest of my life, 365 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:22,320 Speaker 2: and I'm proud of it. Kyle Richards and estranged husband 366 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 2: Mauricio Umansky or Umanski stand after spending holidays together. So 367 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:31,560 Speaker 2: basically they spent it sounds like Christmas and New Year's together. 368 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:35,359 Speaker 2: They seemed very lovey dovey when they went to what's 369 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:41,160 Speaker 2: her name's Uh there some party in Aspen. Hey, Hudson, 370 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:43,640 Speaker 2: the Hudson's Party. Yes, and Aspen. They were all over 371 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:47,640 Speaker 2: each other supposedly, but supposedly the people in there inner 372 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:51,080 Speaker 2: circles say, there's no chance that they're going to reconcile. 373 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:53,320 Speaker 1: What are your thoughts with this? 374 00:17:53,600 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 4: Oh? 375 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 3: No, Like I always kind of liked them together, Like, yeah, 376 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:01,399 Speaker 3: I kind of. 377 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:02,640 Speaker 2: Losing the passion. I'm pretty sure that's what happened with them. 378 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:04,879 Speaker 4: I don't know, Like I kind of don't think so 379 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:07,399 Speaker 4: I'll still feel an energy sometimes when I look at 380 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 4: them together, and they I kind of feel. 381 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:12,880 Speaker 3: Like if any of the couples were talking about could 382 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 3: have a potential reconciliation, it would be them, because I 383 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 3: think they were happy for a long time or so 384 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:22,520 Speaker 3: it looked, and they were married a long time. 385 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 4: I don't know, like I do. 386 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 3: I have seen couples get divorced and then I have 387 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 3: friends that literally got divorced and are dating again, like. 388 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:37,960 Speaker 1: They're dating their ex husband. Yes, I was, Oh my god, 389 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:38,880 Speaker 1: that's so crazy. 390 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:42,680 Speaker 3: So I actually think that's I don't know, like, I 391 00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 3: don't know if that's a function of like, Okay, we've 392 00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:46,760 Speaker 3: been out there, we've seen what else is out there? 393 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:48,400 Speaker 4: Like the devil I. 394 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:50,680 Speaker 3: Know was better than the devil I didn't know, and 395 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 3: we still the good things that were in a relationship 396 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:56,920 Speaker 3: still exist, right, and we have this life together. 397 00:18:56,960 --> 00:18:58,119 Speaker 4: So then why not do it again? 398 00:18:58,240 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 3: Or maybe they've been alone for so long that like 399 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:01,920 Speaker 3: they do want a companion or something. 400 00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:03,080 Speaker 1: He has not been alone. 401 00:19:03,520 --> 00:19:04,400 Speaker 4: No, I know him. 402 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 3: I'm just saying in general, the people that I've seen, oh, 403 00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 3: you know that get back together. I don't know, No, 404 00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:10,720 Speaker 3: he I mean. 405 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:12,480 Speaker 2: I think I think, honestly, you're right, though, when it 406 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:14,840 Speaker 2: comes to when you you know, you never know what 407 00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:18,119 Speaker 2: you have until you actually lose that person. And sometimes 408 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 2: you just need a little space to bring the heat back. 409 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:22,840 Speaker 2: It's just the way it is, you know, some space 410 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:26,800 Speaker 2: and grace and maybe dating again is what makes them, 411 00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:29,960 Speaker 2: you know, have that spark. But let's just commend them 412 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:34,120 Speaker 2: for this is talk about like an actual divorce in 413 00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:36,920 Speaker 2: front of their kids, where everything's amicable. They never talked 414 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:39,960 Speaker 2: bad about each other, especially you know, for him when 415 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 2: he kind of rose to fame when he did. 416 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:44,200 Speaker 4: Especially divorced. Yet I think they're just separated. 417 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:46,840 Speaker 2: No, they're just I think they still live together right 418 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 2: under the same roof. I believe that's what I read. 419 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:51,040 Speaker 2: I don't know if that's true. There's no way that's true. 420 00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 3: Maybe they do that nesting thing. I think, is there 421 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:55,480 Speaker 3: one or two kids at home? 422 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 2: I mean, I think there's a reason why they're not divorced. 423 00:19:58,080 --> 00:20:00,239 Speaker 2: I wonder if it's just ugly. It would get kind 424 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:01,080 Speaker 2: of complicated. 425 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:04,000 Speaker 3: I think some people at this point they figure over 426 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:07,040 Speaker 3: with the money situation and the kind of unraveling of 427 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 3: the estate, like why not still legally stay married? But 428 00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 3: you know, I need separate lives I have seen it 429 00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:16,880 Speaker 3: before with tons of my friends that they just don't 430 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:19,760 Speaker 3: break up the estate. They still have one shared account, 431 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:24,280 Speaker 3: they file joint tax return and they just live separate lives. 432 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 4: But they're more and it works. 433 00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:30,160 Speaker 2: My mother kept my father's last name still and she remarried, 434 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 2: you know, and it's like, I don't know why. 435 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:33,440 Speaker 1: I mean, you think she created a business. 436 00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 2: But when it comes to the Ratio and Kyle, they 437 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:39,280 Speaker 2: had no money when they started, when they were together, 438 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:40,040 Speaker 2: and now. 439 00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 4: They don't have They probably don't have a prenap because 440 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:42,840 Speaker 4: at that. 441 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:45,280 Speaker 1: Age, yeah, what are they protecting? 442 00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 4: But you know what's really. 443 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:49,639 Speaker 3: Interesting what I'm hearing now is that a lot of 444 00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:54,320 Speaker 3: parents are having their children now sign prenaps even when 445 00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:55,800 Speaker 3: there's no money and no careers. 446 00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:58,280 Speaker 1: Just a lot of their parents say that again. 447 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:01,439 Speaker 3: So the theme right now now and so I have 448 00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:04,680 Speaker 3: children that are in their mid mid upper twenties, and 449 00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:08,480 Speaker 3: the theme now for all of these kids is when 450 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:11,960 Speaker 3: they're getting married, they're signing prenups even though there's no 451 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:13,120 Speaker 3: money yet. 452 00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 4: It's an anticipation of it. 453 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 3: So god forbid the marriage goes south, they already have 454 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:20,280 Speaker 3: a deal in place. 455 00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:21,120 Speaker 4: Isn't that smart? 456 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 1: So smart. I thought that for sure. 457 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:25,879 Speaker 2: This next generation too, they just didn't believe in marriage 458 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:28,440 Speaker 2: for the most part. So I was like, God, you guys, Yeah, 459 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:31,760 Speaker 2: I'm a millennial, so like I think, you know, we 460 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:35,879 Speaker 2: got kind of stuck in the trauma of our generational 461 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:36,960 Speaker 2: job of our parents. 462 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:40,320 Speaker 3: The marriage thing is interesting though for my general I 463 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:42,040 Speaker 3: don't know. Am I I think maybe? Am I a 464 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:42,719 Speaker 3: different generation? 465 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 1: Can you? 466 00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:43,359 Speaker 2: No? 467 00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 1: I don't think so. 468 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 4: I mean, what hell do you mid fifties? I think 469 00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:47,840 Speaker 4: I'm a different. 470 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:51,200 Speaker 2: Generation maybe, And if you're not, then yeah, oh I'm jenax, 471 00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:52,040 Speaker 2: Oh you're. 472 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:52,720 Speaker 4: I just look up. 473 00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:55,600 Speaker 3: But it's interesting because I get asked this question a 474 00:21:55,640 --> 00:22:00,360 Speaker 3: lot is would you ever get remarried again? And when 475 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:03,160 Speaker 3: I first got divorced, I was like, no, why would. 476 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:04,800 Speaker 4: I'm not going to share money at kids. I'm just 477 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:05,640 Speaker 4: going to do my thing. 478 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 3: But we could date, have a companionac to wear it 479 00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:13,320 Speaker 3: ring like a But totally I've gotten older and as 480 00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 3: I think I would get remarried now more for the 481 00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:20,280 Speaker 3: concept of somebody being able to pull the plug on me. 482 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:21,840 Speaker 4: God forbid, you know what I'm saying. 483 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:25,359 Speaker 1: Can't you have your parents do that? Or your kids? Sorry, 484 00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:26,440 Speaker 1: your kids. 485 00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:28,199 Speaker 4: That's a hard thing for a kid to do. I 486 00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:29,360 Speaker 4: don't know totally. 487 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:33,440 Speaker 3: No, I'm just saying my black and white, it's just. 488 00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 1: A contract, right, like it's a contract. 489 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:38,760 Speaker 2: I mean you can also do your estate plan as well, 490 00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:40,720 Speaker 2: and you can make those decisions that way. 491 00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:45,240 Speaker 3: But they it's interesting because the second marriages, and there's 492 00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:48,760 Speaker 3: a higher percentage chance of a second marriage entering in 493 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:52,159 Speaker 3: divorce in a first because oh really yeah, once a 494 00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:56,360 Speaker 3: person has gotten divorced once and survived it, they say, oh, 495 00:22:57,080 --> 00:22:59,359 Speaker 3: it's not that hard, so it's just easier throw in 496 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:01,879 Speaker 3: the towels second time if you've already thrown in the towel. 497 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:04,680 Speaker 4: So you see that a lot more. 498 00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:07,240 Speaker 3: I just one of my very best friends whose second 499 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:08,960 Speaker 3: marriage was seventeen years. 500 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:09,720 Speaker 4: She just got divorced. 501 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:13,000 Speaker 3: Oh wow, so it's I mean, you look at most 502 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:14,480 Speaker 3: first marriages are fifty percent. 503 00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 4: I think second marriages are like seventy percent. It's not sad. 504 00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:19,760 Speaker 1: Well I thought would be the other way around. 505 00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:21,840 Speaker 2: I mean, as far as I'm concerned, I don't pair 506 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:25,240 Speaker 2: either way really, but I'm not as it. Like before, 507 00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:27,119 Speaker 2: when I first got married, I was like, yes, I 508 00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:29,119 Speaker 2: need to get married. It was more, it was more 509 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,560 Speaker 2: about me getting married than kids. Ever, like my whole 510 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 2: life it was like that, Like I never really dreamed 511 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:35,160 Speaker 2: of having kids as much as my marriage. 512 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:37,240 Speaker 1: Now that I got that out of the way, we're good. 513 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:38,879 Speaker 3: But one last thing and then we can move on 514 00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:41,240 Speaker 3: to the next thing. Every time I tell my children 515 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:43,879 Speaker 3: somebody we know is getting divorced or friends of ours, 516 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:46,399 Speaker 3: they look at me and they go, so, doesn't everybody 517 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 3: get divorced. It's like, no, they're so sad, so jaded 518 00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:53,800 Speaker 3: because they look around at like I'm divorced, my brother's divorced, 519 00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 3: my parents are divorced, my ex husband's they are divorce. 520 00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:59,720 Speaker 6: I mean, it's just everywhere they turned sad. I know, 521 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:14,240 Speaker 6: so moving on to another divorce, moving on to another divorce. 522 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 2: But I really like, I don't know her, but she 523 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:19,480 Speaker 2: seems really genuine. Jennifer Gardner makes rare comments about her 524 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:20,920 Speaker 2: hard divorce from Ben Affleck. 525 00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:24,520 Speaker 1: Am I seeing things? Maybe maybe you can. 526 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:27,280 Speaker 2: Confirm or not, But did Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck 527 00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:32,040 Speaker 2: just like get seen out together like canoodling versus old footage? 528 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:34,000 Speaker 3: I read that also. I was kind of hoping he 529 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:35,520 Speaker 3: and Jennifer Garner would get I. 530 00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:36,360 Speaker 1: Mean they were. 531 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 2: There's no way Jennifer Gardner would never do that to herself. 532 00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:44,000 Speaker 2: She's like, she's very I say, as brounded as you 533 00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:46,720 Speaker 2: can be, as you can be in this business. Right, 534 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:49,399 Speaker 2: she seems to be. She seems to be very genuine 535 00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:52,280 Speaker 2: and authentic. Don't know her, don't know, but she does 536 00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:54,400 Speaker 2: seem a little too good for him. 537 00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:58,040 Speaker 4: The son, I don't know, Well, good girls like good 538 00:24:58,040 --> 00:24:58,720 Speaker 4: girls like that, I. 539 00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:00,199 Speaker 1: Don't think, but I don't think she's like that. 540 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:03,000 Speaker 3: I don't think she got She's not going to go 541 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:05,160 Speaker 3: back to it now. If he and Jennifer go back 542 00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:06,880 Speaker 3: to the rodeo for a third time. 543 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:09,440 Speaker 1: They are they just they were just seen together. It's crazy. 544 00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:11,560 Speaker 4: That's just toxic. And they both have to know that 545 00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:12,280 Speaker 4: going into it. 546 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 1: I don't think they. 547 00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:17,160 Speaker 2: Do, and that's why they keep going back to it. 548 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,959 Speaker 2: It's like, you, guys, you're an ex for a reason. 549 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:22,800 Speaker 1: Period. I married an ex. 550 00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:25,920 Speaker 3: It's like once something already has had this seal broken, 551 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:27,760 Speaker 3: it's it's still kind of existing. 552 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:29,359 Speaker 1: Okay, right, it's the same person. 553 00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:32,479 Speaker 2: Like we evolved, but we don't really we don't really change. 554 00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 4: No, people do not change. 555 00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:36,840 Speaker 1: Not true, Not true. 556 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:40,119 Speaker 2: Only if you're aware, if you're very much aware and 557 00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:43,200 Speaker 2: like present as much as possible, and you take accountability. 558 00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 1: You can change. I change. I'm anarcoholic. 559 00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:48,400 Speaker 3: Okay, I think people can act, but I think sometimes 560 00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:50,919 Speaker 3: that default behavior will rear its head again in the 561 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:54,440 Speaker 3: heat of a yes, but in a conscious moment where 562 00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:58,040 Speaker 3: you can stop and pause and react differently. 563 00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, I've made tense evolved. 564 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,920 Speaker 2: If you are willing to like like take the whole thing, 565 00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:05,520 Speaker 2: it has to be the whole thing. It's a whole package. 566 00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:07,520 Speaker 2: You have to know that you're not perfect and you're 567 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:10,320 Speaker 2: not a narcissist. If that, if you can do that. 568 00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:14,280 Speaker 3: And you're actively doing work on yourself all the time, 569 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:17,160 Speaker 3: and so you're it's really about pausing and not reacting 570 00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:20,080 Speaker 3: and trying to look at somebody else landing instead of 571 00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:24,359 Speaker 3: and looking at somebody else's lens and just yeah, and. 572 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:26,760 Speaker 2: Always know that your work in progress. Everybody is. I 573 00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:27,880 Speaker 2: don't give who you are. 574 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:29,760 Speaker 1: Nobody's in the language. 575 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:33,800 Speaker 2: Jennifer Gardner, so if she's giving rare insight into her separation. 576 00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 2: She spoke to Mary Claire UK about life now in 577 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:40,280 Speaker 2: the upcoming second season of her TV show on Apple TV. 578 00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:42,239 Speaker 2: She says, you have to be smart about what you 579 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:45,320 Speaker 2: can and can't handle. And I could not handle what 580 00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:49,160 Speaker 2: was out there. But what was out there, she said, 581 00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:52,280 Speaker 2: was not what was hard. The fact of it is 582 00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:54,879 Speaker 2: what was hard, she says. It's the actual breaking up 583 00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:57,080 Speaker 2: of a family is what was hard. Losing a true 584 00:26:57,119 --> 00:27:01,720 Speaker 2: partnership and friendship is what was hard, she said. And 585 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:05,320 Speaker 2: she says, I make a big, consorted effort to see 586 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:08,240 Speaker 2: my people as much as I can. She was basically asked, 587 00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:11,240 Speaker 2: you know how she was able to handle all of this, 588 00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:16,000 Speaker 2: and she saw community and she thinks that that's where 589 00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 2: your resilience is. It's in your relationships and in the 590 00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:22,399 Speaker 2: people who carry you through. Can you relate to what 591 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:24,160 Speaker 2: Jen said about divorce. 592 00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 4: One hundred percent? 593 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:27,840 Speaker 3: So it's really easy to be there for people in 594 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:29,360 Speaker 3: the good times, right when. 595 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:31,560 Speaker 4: It's parties and cocktails and trips and this. 596 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:34,439 Speaker 3: That you learn who your people are when your chips 597 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 3: are down and yep, and you really do. 598 00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,800 Speaker 4: And as much as it's hard to. 599 00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:46,120 Speaker 3: Whittle it down, quality not quantity matter so much more 600 00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:49,160 Speaker 3: when you get to that place, right And so when you. 601 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:52,840 Speaker 4: Go through a divorce, you learn who. 602 00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:56,560 Speaker 3: Your friends are and right, and I'm super grateful for 603 00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:58,200 Speaker 3: my tribe. 604 00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:01,160 Speaker 4: But getting divorce is hard. My kids were young. 605 00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:05,200 Speaker 3: Nothing salacious happened in our divorce. 606 00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:08,280 Speaker 4: We just were not a good fit. But our kids 607 00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:08,840 Speaker 4: were young. 608 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:12,840 Speaker 1: Helen, Were you married for fourteen years? Wow? 609 00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:14,800 Speaker 4: And we are best friends? 610 00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:15,199 Speaker 2: Oh? 611 00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:16,840 Speaker 1: Oh, now you are. That's great. 612 00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:20,520 Speaker 4: No, we we had when we first got divorced. 613 00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:23,840 Speaker 3: Our child had some medical stuff, so we had to 614 00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:26,639 Speaker 3: stay united on that front. And what I learned in 615 00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:30,359 Speaker 3: our divorce is the best things of him still exist 616 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 3: and the best things of me still exist, and we 617 00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:37,920 Speaker 3: really appreciate that. And as co parents, we were locked 618 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 3: and loaded on that and it was just great, right. 619 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:43,760 Speaker 3: And actually we enjoy each other. I mean we talk 620 00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 3: all the time. 621 00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:45,480 Speaker 1: Is there any like? 622 00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:48,640 Speaker 3: No, I love his fiance, I love her kids. Like 623 00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:52,120 Speaker 3: we are like one big, modern, happy family. And I'm 624 00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 3: very grateful that I married him and that he's the. 625 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:55,840 Speaker 1: Father of my children. 626 00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 2: Oh, that's nice of you to say, genuinely, that's so great. 627 00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:02,160 Speaker 2: How long How long did that take to get there? 628 00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:03,160 Speaker 2: From your divorce? 629 00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 3: Look, when you're first getting divorced and you're just kind 630 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:12,600 Speaker 3: of unraveling everything, it's it takes a minute to recalibrate. 631 00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:15,840 Speaker 3: Years was pretty easy, Like within like a year or two. 632 00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:20,720 Speaker 3: But I would say we really became friends, like in 633 00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:23,760 Speaker 3: the last couple of years, like really friends. Like I 634 00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:25,960 Speaker 3: was going to get a mammogram and was like, do you. 635 00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 4: Need a ride? I was like, oh no, no, ma, 636 00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 4: like genuinely friends. 637 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,640 Speaker 3: And he had had some surgery and his fiance wasn't 638 00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:34,640 Speaker 3: in town and so. 639 00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:39,160 Speaker 4: I picked him up. I mean, it's more like we're 640 00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:39,920 Speaker 4: brother and sister. 641 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,520 Speaker 1: How's the fiance handling that, Oh, we love each other? 642 00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:44,360 Speaker 4: Because let me chage that. 643 00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:44,800 Speaker 1: That's great. 644 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:49,720 Speaker 4: He hasn't he didn't change, I mean he makes change. Similar. No, 645 00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 4: we just sit there. 646 00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:53,240 Speaker 3: I look at her and I'm like, like, it's so funny. 647 00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:54,480 Speaker 1: But she's so great. 648 00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:55,200 Speaker 4: She's rad. 649 00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:59,720 Speaker 3: But guess what age appropriate has an amazing job, which 650 00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:02,040 Speaker 3: means she has her own money, has her own children. 651 00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:05,640 Speaker 3: She's like a best case scenario. It's not like the 652 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:06,760 Speaker 3: guy who dates. 653 00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:10,040 Speaker 1: It's not like underage. Yeah, it's the young girl or 654 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:11,640 Speaker 1: your daughter's best friend. 655 00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:13,640 Speaker 3: Right, or is like a total gold digger or whatever 656 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,400 Speaker 3: it is. So it's kind of like winning, right. 657 00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:19,200 Speaker 1: Right, you respect her, ultimately respect her. 658 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:20,320 Speaker 4: I want to be her best friend. 659 00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, And how are your kids? Handling it. 660 00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:25,640 Speaker 4: Oh, they they haven't pay They love it. They think 661 00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:26,120 Speaker 4: it's great. 662 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 3: Initially when you guys divorced it, they were now I 663 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:32,560 Speaker 3: mean they were, they were, they were young. 664 00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:36,360 Speaker 4: I think for them it was yeah. 665 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:38,120 Speaker 3: I mean I think they were, you know, second and 666 00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:41,040 Speaker 3: fourth grade. So it's hard. Yeah, it's hard. 667 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:41,440 Speaker 1: It's hard. 668 00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:45,320 Speaker 2: Thanks for sharing. Let's move on to Tom Brady, shall we. 669 00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,720 Speaker 2: Tom Brady shares cryptic posts. I think people need to 670 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:52,520 Speaker 2: literally start looking into their lives and not Tom Brady's. 671 00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:55,600 Speaker 2: After spending time with Alex Earl on New Year's Eve, Okay. 672 00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 4: I want to be Alex Earl. 673 00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,959 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, first of all, who can. They're 674 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 1: both of age one two, they can do whatever the 675 00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:04,640 Speaker 1: hell they want. 676 00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:08,080 Speaker 2: I think the single, single and thought and if they 677 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 2: want to have a one night stand or ten night stan, 678 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:10,880 Speaker 2: so be it. 679 00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:13,360 Speaker 4: And we all I want to read about. 680 00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:16,080 Speaker 3: I mean, I watched her on TikTok in college, like 681 00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:17,360 Speaker 3: he's obviously do. 682 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:18,719 Speaker 1: You watch her on Dancing with the Stars. 683 00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:23,120 Speaker 4: I actually did not watch it on her on Dancing House. 684 00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:27,720 Speaker 1: But one I like her and I do too. 685 00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:32,160 Speaker 4: She's she's relatable for me. I don't know, I just yeah, 686 00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,120 Speaker 4: she's cool, and I think the two of them together 687 00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:36,200 Speaker 4: is cute and fun. And whether I don't think I'll 688 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:37,600 Speaker 4: go at the distance, maybe it will. 689 00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:40,720 Speaker 1: But it kind of I mean, yeah, even if she 690 00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:41,680 Speaker 1: how old is she? 691 00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:46,360 Speaker 2: She's watched two twenty four and and he is, it 692 00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:48,680 Speaker 2: doesn't matter. But at the end of the day, it's 693 00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:52,040 Speaker 2: not like they are having a quiet affair, Like, yes, 694 00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:54,880 Speaker 2: there was flirting happening, but like, oh well now. The 695 00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 2: only weird thing though, is that, uh, I can see 696 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,600 Speaker 2: why the other party meeting her ex, who's also a 697 00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:04,120 Speaker 2: football player they had just broken up. 698 00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:07,120 Speaker 4: It was a little close. It was a little it. 699 00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:08,920 Speaker 2: Was a little close, but it was also like in 700 00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:13,160 Speaker 2: the same in the same field, you know, I can 701 00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:16,640 Speaker 2: see how that kind of irks people, right. 702 00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:19,480 Speaker 3: I mean it's also because he also has an eighteen 703 00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 3: year old child, so it's kind of like. 704 00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:23,280 Speaker 4: Oh, how old is how old is he? 705 00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:25,200 Speaker 1: How old is he? 706 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:29,360 Speaker 2: He is, Like he's got to be in his late forties, right, yeah, 707 00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:30,640 Speaker 2: So but I. 708 00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:32,960 Speaker 3: Don't know, maybe maybe his eighteen year old son thought 709 00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:34,880 Speaker 3: it was like do a dad, go for it. 710 00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:39,240 Speaker 1: He's probably a fan of Alex Yeah he's forty then. 711 00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:43,080 Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, it was like a twenty three year 712 00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:44,600 Speaker 3: different what's big ague? 713 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:45,400 Speaker 1: Who was downing? 714 00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:46,720 Speaker 4: You know what? Hey? 715 00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:49,040 Speaker 3: I mean she's dating one of the biggest, most important 716 00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:50,040 Speaker 3: football I don't think. 717 00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:52,520 Speaker 2: I don't see it getting so serious. I don't know, 718 00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:54,440 Speaker 2: I mean, like who but who care? 719 00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:55,760 Speaker 1: People are still talking about it. 720 00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:57,800 Speaker 2: They may not even be talking to each other anymore 721 00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:00,360 Speaker 2: at this point, you know what I mean, And there. 722 00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:02,200 Speaker 4: Will be a new headline that comes out, right. 723 00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:04,840 Speaker 2: But if they're still talking to people are still talking 724 00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 2: about it. 725 00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 3: Well, there's some cryptic posts, right, I mean, we're toxic. 726 00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:09,920 Speaker 4: So I don't know. 727 00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:12,640 Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, like, okay, so what are the 728 00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:13,840 Speaker 2: something you want to read them are? 729 00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:14,880 Speaker 1: What? What's one of them? 730 00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:18,720 Speaker 3: Didn't his ex wife just get remarried, she's get she's 731 00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:20,920 Speaker 3: about to I think No, she got remarried, has a 732 00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 3: she's pregnant, or she had a baby Zell Gazelle. 733 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 2: So one of the posts said people are not beautiful 734 00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:30,680 Speaker 2: from So this is from Tom Brady. People are not beautiful. 735 00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:33,360 Speaker 2: This is on January first, for how they look or speak. 736 00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:37,160 Speaker 2: They're beautiful for how they love, care and treat others. Okay, great, 737 00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:41,360 Speaker 2: I mean that's not cryptic. Okay, Okay, thanks for your message. 738 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:43,360 Speaker 3: Right, But he's reposting it. But where is it directed to? 739 00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:44,880 Speaker 3: Who's it directed at? 740 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:47,200 Speaker 1: But what type of cryptic? What are they? People are 741 00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:48,480 Speaker 1: reading way too into this. 742 00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:50,520 Speaker 5: Sorry, guys, I gotta jump in here. I just don't 743 00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:54,080 Speaker 5: want you getting flamed in the comments. Posting this on 744 00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:58,120 Speaker 5: January first, which is when they are going viral for 745 00:33:58,200 --> 00:33:59,800 Speaker 5: being together on New Year's Eve. 746 00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:02,400 Speaker 1: They were not they were it was a sling. It 747 00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:03,920 Speaker 1: wouldn't mean together totally. 748 00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:07,520 Speaker 5: But I'm saying she's rubbing his back. They're holding hands 749 00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:11,520 Speaker 5: like it's not Yeah, I did. 750 00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:14,480 Speaker 3: That's right. She wants that attention. I'd be rubbing his 751 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:15,960 Speaker 3: back too if I were her. 752 00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:19,920 Speaker 5: Heca X got married a month ago. All I'm saying is, 753 00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:24,640 Speaker 5: it's not like, why are people drawing attention, It's because 754 00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:27,640 Speaker 5: he's literally posting this the day after he's going viral. 755 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:29,360 Speaker 1: Doesn't he always post stuff like this? 756 00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:30,560 Speaker 4: I don't know. 757 00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:31,720 Speaker 5: I don't follow the dude. 758 00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:34,440 Speaker 3: It sounds like he's probably trying to like be in 759 00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:36,960 Speaker 3: a situation like this because he's priced a little stung 760 00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:40,360 Speaker 3: that his ex wife is remarried with the baby. 761 00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:44,040 Speaker 1: You guys, this is he's a motivational speaker. 762 00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:47,080 Speaker 2: Now like this is what he So Tom Brady is 763 00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:49,800 Speaker 2: very much well respected right as an athlete, and he 764 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 2: still is to this day, and he is definitely out 765 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:55,439 Speaker 2: there doing motivational speeches and he's trying to get into 766 00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:58,279 Speaker 2: that whole world. This guy posts stuff like this all 767 00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:01,439 Speaker 2: the time. There's like if there's no cryptic, it's also 768 00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:03,640 Speaker 2: January first. You need to be if you're going to 769 00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:07,240 Speaker 2: get into this world of like, you know, being somebody 770 00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:10,680 Speaker 2: that people look up to. That is absolutely normal to repost. 771 00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:13,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, like a like Tony Robbins makes a comment like 772 00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:16,600 Speaker 3: that has some depth and texture and gets people talking 773 00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:20,360 Speaker 3: and thinking. So you are right, he's trying to reimagine 774 00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,320 Speaker 3: a new career for himself and he's going to go 775 00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:25,080 Speaker 3: this route. So therefore start talking about like, you know, 776 00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:26,160 Speaker 3: the different things like. 777 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:29,000 Speaker 2: Yes, we all have millions of people look rejection as 778 00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:30,200 Speaker 2: redirection or. 779 00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:34,239 Speaker 3: You know, saying there's all these things like you know, butterflies, 780 00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:34,680 Speaker 3: they just. 781 00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:37,360 Speaker 1: Come out of nowhere, Like come on, right, you know 782 00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:37,879 Speaker 1: what I mean? 783 00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:41,400 Speaker 2: This is not like some random rapper all of a sudden, 784 00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:44,000 Speaker 2: you know, wanting to be about talking about mental health. 785 00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:46,440 Speaker 2: Like no, this guy is it fits put it that 786 00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:48,000 Speaker 2: way if the shoot because. 787 00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:51,080 Speaker 3: He's a leader and people will respect and listen him. 788 00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:54,160 Speaker 3: So he is somebody who could take a platform like 789 00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:56,120 Speaker 3: that and make an impact with people. 790 00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:58,759 Speaker 1: And then here's another one and says a winner is 791 00:35:58,760 --> 00:35:59,200 Speaker 1: a loser. 792 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,560 Speaker 2: A quote was followed by another repost of a graphics 793 00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:06,200 Speaker 2: featuring ninety nine x's, followed by one check mark that 794 00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:09,680 Speaker 2: proclaimed that a winner is a loser who tried one 795 00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:10,680 Speaker 2: more time again. 796 00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:13,480 Speaker 1: It's the same thing. It's just a motivational thing. 797 00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:15,799 Speaker 3: You can go onto my Instagram folders. I have so 798 00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:19,480 Speaker 3: many quotations and meditations that I manifestation things that I 799 00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:20,759 Speaker 3: save all the time. 800 00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:22,000 Speaker 1: Especially on threads. 801 00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:25,479 Speaker 2: I do it all the time, like come on now, boo. 802 00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:27,600 Speaker 2: People need to like literally chill. 803 00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:29,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, they're bored. 804 00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:32,160 Speaker 1: Anyway, it was nice to meet you. 805 00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:35,120 Speaker 4: It was really nice to chat with you, and. 806 00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:36,279 Speaker 1: Thanks for opening up. 807 00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:38,680 Speaker 3: Happy Oh no you too, of course, Happy New Year 808 00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:40,680 Speaker 3: to you, and I hope you need to see you 809 00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:41,560 Speaker 3: soon or talk. 810 00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:41,719 Speaker 4: To you soon. 811 00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:43,359 Speaker 1: Visit I would a visit. 812 00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:46,520 Speaker 2: One things for sure, there is never going to be 813 00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:50,560 Speaker 2: a shortage of divorce headlines in the news unfortunately. 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