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Speaker 1: You are listening to the voice, Come on, dig me

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Speaker 1: nwe one and all. It's Steve Harvey. Got a radio show,

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Speaker 1: Man one more time. Steve Harvey got a radio show? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I do, man. I thank God for it every day.

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Speaker 1: You know. Um, my message this morning, man is real clear.

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Speaker 1: It's something that's been on me to share, and it's

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Speaker 1: it's amazing. You know, um, God can do some amazing

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Speaker 1: and I don't know that I mean to say, but

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Speaker 1: but the fact that God can do some amazing things

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Speaker 1: for you, that comes adversity along with it. Every single time.

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Speaker 1: It just goes without saying. And I've I was having

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Speaker 1: trick that the devil does. You know, when when God

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Speaker 1: and it is. Isn't it amazing how some negative thing

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Speaker 1: why I was happening. You gotta make phone calls? What

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Speaker 1: are on the beginning of the week, I was so grateful,

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Speaker 1: opportunity for this brief moment. The enemy slides this little

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Speaker 1: us to remember that when we are going through some things,

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Speaker 1: a gentleman, it is upon us. The Steve Harvey Morning

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Speaker 1: as usual, and for the remainder of the year, feel

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Speaker 1: like I owe it to this man for all that

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Speaker 1: he has done for the music industry. Roscoe Wallace, one

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Speaker 1: trillion dollar lawsuit of the entire music industry. Today we'll

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Speaker 1: find another hit that's involved in the lawsuit. That's further

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Speaker 1: proof that he is the greatest songwriter curator of music

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Speaker 1: of all time. Ladies and gentlemen, my dog the alleged

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Speaker 1: Scole Wallace, Well you're in Row. You know you're the

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Speaker 1: greatest bring out I ever see out, Bring out, bring

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Speaker 1: only thing I ain't suing somebody for because I would

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Speaker 1: they need to do what I'm telling here? What's going on? Roscoe?

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Speaker 1: Ain't baby Roscoe? He wrote you going the silly stow

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Speaker 1: What's happening? Ain't up missing? You know? I'm just hitting

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Speaker 1: also bringing in one of the great groups into this lawsuit.

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Speaker 1: I'm suing All nine or the Common Door All nine

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Speaker 1: or the Common Door? Why line on that big as

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Speaker 1: got to do with you, Monica, say six quent your

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get something. Three trier. You give me one trier.

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Speaker 1: You're not gonna sit up? All right? Thank you, Roscoe.

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Speaker 1: to go deep right now, Shirley, deep into the archives.

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Speaker 1: I'm at Kennedy folders, and I'm see deep in the players.

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Speaker 1: I'm even in a consent couple of them on eight track,

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Speaker 1: I'm back back him. Yeah yeah deep deep deep prank

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Speaker 1: Uh a, I love it. It's the same la that RCA. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: don't bring that up. Differ, that's a different, that's a different. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it is all right. Your daughter, bit my son, your daughter.

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Speaker 1: When you listen, if you're gonna, if you really want

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Speaker 1: B Well, Wilton down. You can't just call my house

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Speaker 1: dappas and I were quite built up for dappas. I

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Speaker 1: feel like one fifty out of look like us, a

422
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Speaker 1: little under near little a lot of look like a

423
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Speaker 1: Unit self commercial with a dipple. I didn't wear the dipple.

424
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 1: I just wore a regular outfit. The Lord Have mercy.

425
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 1: George Clinton, uh, one of the great members of Omega

426
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Speaker 1: sci Fi, will be performing Atomic Dog live, which is

427
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 1: still a song that I don't It's unexplainable, but when

428
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 1: it's played, there's a nation of men that it just

429
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 1: does something. They come out of the wooden look at you.

430
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Speaker 1: Wait a minute. Whenever they play this song, they come

431
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Speaker 1: from everywhere. Yeah, we know the yes. If you don't

432
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:08,240
Speaker 1: know this, they lose a man. We'll cut it off.

433
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Speaker 1: I can't through a whole minute coach because c Brosdon

434
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Speaker 1: changed hotting a great deal since I pledge hot now spranging, jumping, bouncing,

435
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 1: knees up by your chest the young boys. Now, I

436
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Speaker 1: got a whole nother set out. Oh it look good,

437
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Speaker 1: it's it's powerful. But how long can you do it?

438
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Speaker 1: Right to knee high hops? I was a ricky smiling

439
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 1: one time, rickey man. I'm gonna teach you the whole thing.

440
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:40,200
Speaker 1: I ain't got another the whole thing. I ain't gonna

441
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 1: get it right on back to what I've been doing.

442
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:49,440
Speaker 1: Already knew what this was back in seventy five. Yeah again.

443
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Speaker 1: Go to CEBRVFM dot com for all the info on

444
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Speaker 1: the George Clinton and Funkadelic comp search. All right, guys,

445
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:58,560
Speaker 1: time now for a quick round of ass the clo.

446
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 1: If you have question for the CLO, you can go

447
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Speaker 1: to Steve HARVEYFM dot com to submit your questions. Ready, clom,

448
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 1: let's go. This one's from Howard in Oakland. Howard says,

449
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 1: I'm a thirty three year old man engaged to be

450
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 1: married this fall. My fiance is threatening to call off

451
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 1: our wedding if I don't handle a situation with my

452
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 1: ex girlfriend. Years ago, I dated a girl that was

453
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 1: pregnant when we met. After she had the baby, I

454
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 1: was in the baby's life for three years. I have

455
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 1: an attachment to this little boy who's eight years old. Now.

456
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 1: My fiance has no problem with me dealing with a child.

457
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:41,280
Speaker 1: She just gets mad when the child's mother acts like

458
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 1: I'm required to do certain things with and for her son.

459
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:47,960
Speaker 1: How can I resolve this issue and keep my fiance

460
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 1: and this child happy? Wow? Oh yeah, I don't know

461
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 1: how to do that. Son. You're in a tough spot

462
00:32:57,280 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 1: because obviously she's jealous of the relationship and the baby.

463
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 1: Now it's not your biological baby, but I mean you've

464
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 1: you've entered into his life. You're what he knows his dad,

465
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 1: and you're attached to it. Man, I don't think you

466
00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 1: should take that from the child. I think you got

467
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 1: to sit your girl down and just work through it.

468
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 1: You know, now your ex putting things on you that's

469
00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 1: not really your responsibility. That's a whole nother thing. That's

470
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 1: her trying to stir the pot in your life now,

471
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 1: and you know that's being a little bit messy, and

472
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:35,720
Speaker 1: it's not necessary because by law, you won't have to

473
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 1: pay child support or none of that. So I think

474
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,200
Speaker 1: you should sit her down explain to her what it is.

475
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 1: But I think you have to sit your ex down

476
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 1: and go, hey, look this making me feel obligated. That

477
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 1: won't work. I'm in a situation now, I'm in a

478
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 1: relationship that's really good for me, and that's what it is.

479
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:57,239
Speaker 1: I can't have her set what you're calling over here

480
00:33:57,280 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 1: making demands, So that's your last demand. You know. I

481
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 1: want to see him, and I'm gonna help with him

482
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 1: because I'm ain't I'm damn the man. So this is

483
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 1: all volunteer. I love the dude, he loves me. Let's

484
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:15,439
Speaker 1: leave it at that. Yeah, all right, thank you, Steve.

485
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 1: Tanya and Rosemont, Illinois says I'm in the process of

486
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 1: having my grown, thirty year old son evicted. He will

487
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:25,760
Speaker 1: not pay me to live here, and I have asked

488
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:29,200
Speaker 1: him many times to leave on his own. I recently

489
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:32,440
Speaker 1: purchased a new home and I have some minor repairs

490
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:34,800
Speaker 1: home repairs that I need him to help me out with,

491
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:37,879
Speaker 1: and he refuses to help me. He won't keep a job,

492
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 1: and I feel like I'm enabling him, so I want

493
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 1: him out. He is upset with me, and he posted

494
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Speaker 1: a very nasty comment about me on social media, and

495
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:48,719
Speaker 1: several of our family members sided with him because they

496
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 1: know he has nowhere to go. Am I wrong to

497
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:56,319
Speaker 1: legally put him out? You out? You could legally change

498
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 1: them locks, and you could legally be everything he said

499
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 1: you will was in that damn post. If that's how

500
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:04,480
Speaker 1: if that's what you won't hear it is, and to

501
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,919
Speaker 1: hell with the family and those Hayton family members. Yeah,

502
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 1: let him come stay with you because we know he

503
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:13,760
Speaker 1: ain't got no where to go. He ain't got away

504
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 1: to go because he don't want to work. You ain't

505
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 1: gonna be talking to me crazy, and I'm taking care

506
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:18,719
Speaker 1: of you. You're a thirty year old man, get out

507
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 1: of here. But you're posting nasty things about your mom

508
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 1: on social Molia. Your mom? That's crazy. You know there

509
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:31,040
Speaker 1: is such a thing as dead beat son. Yeah, I

510
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:33,400
Speaker 1: guess we just got an example of that. Thank you,

511
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 1: c Hello, great advice as usual. You're listening show. All right,

512
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:41,719
Speaker 1: So here's the question, guys, what marks the beginning of

513
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 1: the holiday season for you? Is there a specific song

514
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 1: that puts you in the Christmas spirit? How about a

515
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 1: special movie? Carlaton The Temptations, that's Christmas Eve by Day

516
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 1: also um Imitation of Life. That's another good Christmas movie.

517
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 1: So what about you, Steve? I know you like this Christmas? Yeah, Misto,

518
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get to know your bed. Yeah, this Christmas

519
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 1: that's my soul. You Yeah, that's number one. And then

520
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 1: the Temptations I ain't crawlsby being Now anybody listening for that?

521
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 1: About the Christmas song that can call? Oh that's how

522
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 1: that chest? Yeah, that's my jail. I love that's all. Yeah,

523
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:53,640
Speaker 1: someday at Christmas, Stevie wonder I love that christ What

524
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 1: is that? You know? Some day Christmas you don't know

525
00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 1: that one? You beat yourself? You say, ain't Donnie Donnie's

526
00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:09,280
Speaker 1: number one? Yeah, that's number one. And Christmas now Steve

527
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:14,080
Speaker 1: Stevie's music. Oh that's my dude. Yeah, old the albums, Oh,

528
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:20,320
Speaker 1: talking book, Ain't your baby? Don made something of the

529
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 1: plane keeping me? Well, hey is this other me again?

530
00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 1: That's the boy boy, that's that damn talking book. When

531
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 1: he was sitting on that rock, Yeah, that boy right there,

532
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 1: he didn't know they had him on the rock. Yeah,

533
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:46,040
Speaker 1: he thought he was throwing the photo shooting in the

534
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:50,719
Speaker 1: background into the mass on that desert. He didn't. He

535
00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 1: didn't know he was on yeah sor with his hand

536
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:00,399
Speaker 1: putting on his head, trying to feel his way around,

537
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:03,399
Speaker 1: see where it was. I tell me right here, listen

538
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:05,360
Speaker 1: to me. Let me tell y'all something I've been around Stevie.

539
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:09,879
Speaker 1: Steve ass ain't blind. I don't believe it. Always say

540
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 1: that I've told Stevie this is blind. That's a hoax.

541
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 1: He'd made a lot of money on it. It's a head.

542
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 1: Listen to me, Hi, Stevie blind. You ain't never seen

543
00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:26,760
Speaker 1: Stevie with a dog all the tim He ain't never fail.

544
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:35,360
Speaker 1: It just blind to me. Y'll never seem running up

545
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 1: into nothing. He ain't got no dog nowhere. He never

546
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 1: had to unfold his stick. Get to be showing up places.

547
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 1: We're moving on. I know his brother Milton be with him.

548
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 1: But you're listening, all right? Steve introduced him. He's here. Well,

549
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 1: that's wrong. I don't feel like being in the Christmas

550
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:05,880
Speaker 1: beard he is, No, I don't. I don't write happy

551
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:12,840
Speaker 1: Christmas songs because there's enough of those happy, happy Christmas

552
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:17,280
Speaker 1: songs get lost in the shuffle all deck the halls.

553
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 1: Who the hell want to hit that over and over, overstaturated,

554
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:30,279
Speaker 1: right for the sad and down, try grin all the

555
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:46,720
Speaker 1: way hit it. Hello, it's Christmas time again. I can't

556
00:39:46,760 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 1: believe it. Man soul time s Kenny from my aweender by.

557
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:12,959
Speaker 1: I have a ticket pipe o damn is Christmass? Over

558
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 1: friding friding people lisadifiding rather last week on a show,

559
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:34,240
Speaker 1: Oh lady, please nobody my father today. I can't even

560
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:40,200
Speaker 1: push them on with my wallet just says no way,

561
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:53,720
Speaker 1: our damn is Christmas? That shot Christmas lovefuls, Christmas, happy

562
00:40:53,920 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 1: pros Christmas? No hos hose home. You're a mean one,

563
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:12,120
Speaker 1: mister singing to somebody somebody refused if you're hearing some

564
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 1: notes to so many happy Christmas songs out there every year,

565
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 1: somebody got a Christmas album. Happy Happy that I'm in

566
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 1: I'm in the lane all by myself. You are I

567
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:32,879
Speaker 1: want to be got a tree of Jay? No? Did

568
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:42,480
Speaker 1: he insult you? Offend j I can't imagine my house

569
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 1: ain't no tree, especially grandchildren well that they want to

570
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 1: see tree. Go to the other granddaddy house because this

571
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 1: one ain't got one. Tell me, ain't buy them gifts? Jay?

572
00:41:56,640 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 1: Please tell me that, yeah, buy gifts. The gifts. Oh,

573
00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 1: it ain't well, you don't happy. You don't put it

574
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:05,880
Speaker 1: under the tree though. That's it's just sitting up on

575
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 1: the Coppee trail. It's just sitting up on the competition.

576
00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 1: It ain't wrap the number got on it. Hey, laptop

577
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 1: over there that yours? That's how japass again. It's killing

578
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 1: the bag, Jake, want to take it back? You never know?

579
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:29,400
Speaker 1: You know who won the iPhone? All right? Keep myself

580
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:34,719
Speaker 1: so sad? That bike over there that yoursn't man, you know,

581
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 1: guessing nothing. You have to do better. We're gonna we're

582
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:40,680
Speaker 1: gonna have to help you working on it. Yeah, celebrate Chris.

583
00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now, I have known him

584
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 1: way longer than all y'all. You can stop. It's deep ending.

585
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:52,959
Speaker 1: Have you Have you ever invited him over to your house, Steve?

586
00:42:53,040 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 1: For Christmas? Maybe that don't know his unhappy mess, My

587
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:06,360
Speaker 1: damn holiday. I'm trying to shoot his old he's by himself, Steven.

588
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:08,800
Speaker 1: Where is he gonna eating stuff Christmas? That's where it

589
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:14,360
Speaker 1: needs to be. Unhappy as the day house. He's gonna

590
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 1: eat Christmas dinner? Steve, you don't have a Christmas tree?

591
00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 1: Sad and he got diabetes. I'm nothing because you know

592
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 1: he can't eat them yams. You know that he over

593
00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:39,239
Speaker 1: here said we can't hand okake, it's too much, all right?

594
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 1: Coming up next is the nephew. He's got the prank

595
00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 1: phone call right after this you're listening. Coming up at

596
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 1: the top of the hour, right about four minutes after.

597
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:56,759
Speaker 1: It's my strawberry letter for today. The subject picked me

598
00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:04,160
Speaker 1: or your mama. Okay, pick me or your mama, my mama,

599
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 1: you got my mama. We'll get to that, but right

600
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:15,879
Speaker 1: now the nephew is here for today's prank phone call.

601
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:21,240
Speaker 1: What do you have for us today? Nef love, et cetera.

602
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 1: I don't use et cetera, lots of When I do you,

603
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 1: I try to expound on it love, exectly, etc. Period.

604
00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:32,440
Speaker 1: I don't know how to spell extected. Body, you know

605
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about, exectly. Let's go get Hello. Hello.

606
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach out Kaylin, Kaylin. Oh no, she's

607
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:42,520
Speaker 1: not here right now. Who's speaking? This is doctor Elbert. Listen.

608
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:44,040
Speaker 1: I was giving a call. Are you able to leave

609
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 1: a message for it for me? Yeah? Yeah, okay? Would

610
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:49,120
Speaker 1: you let her know her sessions will be on Wednesdays

611
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:53,359
Speaker 1: at seven third sessions. What session you're talking about? Session? Well,

612
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:56,160
Speaker 1: actually she signed up for class uh an eight week

613
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 1: class and it's every Wednesday night at seven thirty. Okay,

614
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 1: what a what classes are you talking about? What kind

615
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:04,160
Speaker 1: of class? This is? Love et cetera? Have you heard

616
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:07,319
Speaker 1: of us? No? Okay, well let me kind of give

617
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 1: you a little briefing here. Kaylin actually came in and

618
00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:13,760
Speaker 1: filled out to take some classes. And we love et cetera.

619
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:16,600
Speaker 1: So we teach different things. What is it like a

620
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:20,799
Speaker 1: seminar or something? Well, you we teach poor play, intimacy,

621
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 1: sensual massages and things like that. And she I was

622
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 1: actually here when she came and filled out the paperwork.

623
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:29,839
Speaker 1: She said she wanted to spruce up her love life

624
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:32,799
Speaker 1: with her husband. Are you her husband? Yeah? Yeah, I'm

625
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 1: I'm a husband. But what I'm saying is is this

626
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:36,880
Speaker 1: like a like a joint thing? Am I supposed to

627
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:38,520
Speaker 1: be there and something? No? No, no, no, no, this

628
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:42,359
Speaker 1: is actually her wanting to Actually I'm if you don't

629
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:44,400
Speaker 1: know about it, I'm assuming she wants to surprise you

630
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:47,480
Speaker 1: and show you some different things. When when she finishes

631
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 1: her sessions? So when did when when did she come in,

632
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 1: like she came in. Where are y'all located? First of all? Okay, well,

633
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:56,400
Speaker 1: she actually came in a couple of weeks ago and

634
00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:58,680
Speaker 1: she filled out the paperwork. We're in the downtown area.

635
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:01,240
Speaker 1: She filled it out. She said she was very excited.

636
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:03,360
Speaker 1: She wanted to do some different things for her husband.

637
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:05,920
Speaker 1: We just asked if she gets here a little earlier,

638
00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:08,359
Speaker 1: probably fifteen minutes earlier, so she can shower and put

639
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:10,280
Speaker 1: a robe on, and then we can we can start class.

640
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:14,640
Speaker 1: Who who whoa whoa whoa whoa shower, shower and rose?

641
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:17,200
Speaker 1: What's that? What's that for? I mean, you're not You're

642
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:18,840
Speaker 1: not what I'm sat about this all right now? I mean,

643
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 1: I don't got no problem with you know us, we

644
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:22,480
Speaker 1: mean we know, I mean we married couple, you know

645
00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:24,440
Speaker 1: what I mean. So you know, anything the spices spice

646
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 1: up the marriage. But you know, as far as me

647
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:29,239
Speaker 1: not being involved in her going out to barse and

648
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 1: you're talking about taking the bath and robe and all

649
00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:33,080
Speaker 1: the other stuff. Man, she don't need to be there

650
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 1: for no, for no meth like that. Man. Well, no, no, sir,

651
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 1: it's nothing like that. I mean, it's it's it's basically

652
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:40,920
Speaker 1: a class where people get in touch with her with

653
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 1: their sensitive side and you get to actually, you know,

654
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:46,759
Speaker 1: you learn about for play, what takes about you're talking

655
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:51,120
Speaker 1: about eight weeks? Though eight weeks, sir? You must, you must,

656
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 1: how y'all even eight weeks it's only one night a week.

657
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 1: It's only on Wednesday, So really you only have eight

658
00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:01,560
Speaker 1: sessions eight sessions exactly. Okay, So why why did she

659
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 1: have to have a role though, I mean, why she not?

660
00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:05,920
Speaker 1: Why she just not showing up at the work or whatever. Well,

661
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:08,480
Speaker 1: you have to bring your rope, sir. Everyone showers and

662
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:10,840
Speaker 1: then they put their robe on and we we actually

663
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:14,400
Speaker 1: coached them through. Here's how fourth play goes. Here's the intimacy,

664
00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 1: here's sensual massaging. No no, no, no, fan you get

665
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,719
Speaker 1: you're getting it twisted. What I'm asking you is you

666
00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:23,920
Speaker 1: you you're really not explaining yourself enough, Like what do

667
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 1: y'all do? Like like a classroom said, if I'm in

668
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 1: the class, I'm taking a class. There's nobody touching me,

669
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:33,359
Speaker 1: ain't no, ain't no cold coming off, a nobody taking

670
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 1: no group showers, caning on what you got? What you saying? Like?

671
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 1: Having nothing nothing like that at all, but we do

672
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:44,359
Speaker 1: come in contact with our sensual side. Now she will

673
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:47,360
Speaker 1: have a partner in class, she'll deal with that one partner.

674
00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 1: It's not until the fourth session that we really get

675
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 1: into some strong physical contact. Man, what are you talking about?

676
00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:56,760
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? You're talking about a partner

677
00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:58,440
Speaker 1: or like you're talking about another woman like some of

678
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:00,799
Speaker 1: my teammates something. What you're talking about? Call another dude?

679
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 1: Everyone has the opposite sex partner. Yeah, you got to

680
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 1: be out your mind, sir. I don't even when you

681
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:07,280
Speaker 1: call Why are you even why are you even calling

682
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 1: me with this right here? And you have to understand,

683
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 1: I'm I wasn't calling you. I was trying to reach

684
00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 1: miss Klin. I don't care who are you trying to reach. Man,

685
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:18,440
Speaker 1: you calling my house talking about my wife or some

686
00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 1: girl that some partners and they don't get physical to

687
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:22,680
Speaker 1: the fourth session of Carien. I ain't gonna be no

688
00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:25,279
Speaker 1: physical at all, sir. Basically, your wife is trying to

689
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:27,320
Speaker 1: surprise you with a good thing. No, no, no, no,

690
00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 1: no hold on you just hold on, gonna get this

691
00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:31,600
Speaker 1: straighten down real quick. Hold on, wait wait, wait, wait,

692
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:33,359
Speaker 1: what are you what are you doing? I'm gonna call

693
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:35,839
Speaker 1: my wife. That's what I'm what you don't understand. She's

694
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:37,360
Speaker 1: trying to It's not good for you to call. She

695
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:39,879
Speaker 1: wants to surprise you my wife. You let me handle

696
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 1: my wife the way I want to handle it. You

697
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:45,440
Speaker 1: hold on, hold on this true. You called me back

698
00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:47,239
Speaker 1: when you get this message, called me back at the

699
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:50,960
Speaker 1: house as soon as you get to seir Yah. Yeah, sir,

700
00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:54,760
Speaker 1: she wants to surprise you know, well, we got surprised already,

701
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 1: y'all Right. The first of all, she ain't gonna be

702
00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:59,920
Speaker 1: coming down to y'all. Little sessions and what do y'all say,

703
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 1: little do located at again, we'll love et cetera is

704
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:04,920
Speaker 1: in the downtown area. How much this thing's supposed to

705
00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:07,560
Speaker 1: cost anyway, Well, like I said, she signed up for

706
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 1: eight sessions. It's it's uh one session per week. It's

707
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:12,719
Speaker 1: one hundred dollars ese sessions. She's already paid the eight

708
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 1: hundred dollars, sir. She already paid what she's paid him

709
00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:18,399
Speaker 1: full to do all eight sessions. Man, I know well,

710
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:20,960
Speaker 1: she ain't pay no eight hundred dollars to y'all. She's

711
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 1: starting this coming when she won't be there. I'm gonna

712
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:24,640
Speaker 1: tell you that right now. And I and if you

713
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:26,399
Speaker 1: if you got any of that money, you got any

714
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:28,560
Speaker 1: of my money down there, you better be coming back

715
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:32,760
Speaker 1: with it. I'm I'm sorry downtown, y'all downtown. I work downtown.

716
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:35,400
Speaker 1: So guess what I don't will be there tomorrow to

717
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:38,919
Speaker 1: get my money? You love, etcetera. Is nonrefundable when people

718
00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:41,120
Speaker 1: sign up with these classes. You can't change your mind

719
00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:43,840
Speaker 1: like that. Look, man, that's paperwork. Don't don't tell me

720
00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:47,520
Speaker 1: about what's not refundable. What's refundable was not refundable. It's

721
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:50,120
Speaker 1: might show up. I don't have my money back, I

722
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:52,399
Speaker 1: am mister. Would it make would you feel a little

723
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:54,720
Speaker 1: bit more comfortable if I was her partner doing the sessions?

724
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 1: Are you married? Sure? Yes? I am? You are? Okay,

725
00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:58,839
Speaker 1: So let me have a session with your wife. Dot

726
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:01,320
Speaker 1: I do a year with your about my wife. My

727
00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:04,799
Speaker 1: wife works with other men in the sessions. That that's fine.

728
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:06,800
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna knock your wife down for about a

729
00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:08,759
Speaker 1: good you know you or whatever, and then we're gonna

730
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:10,839
Speaker 1: see how you like about sir. Sir, I'm not gonna

731
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:12,840
Speaker 1: go back and forth. We didn't go at the fourth

732
00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come down there. I'm getting my love back,

733
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:17,320
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna go out forward with my business. And

734
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:19,919
Speaker 1: then don't call this house no more. Don't word about wife.

735
00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:22,080
Speaker 1: Take a name off the little Leger or whatever. Ain't

736
00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:26,160
Speaker 1: gonna being a classes player. We're none refundable. I keep

737
00:50:26,239 --> 00:50:28,400
Speaker 1: telling you that, man, Who do you think you're wishing

738
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 1: your voice here? So I'm talking to you. I keep

739
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:33,440
Speaker 1: telling you we're non refundable. Don't tell me it's not

740
00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 1: refundable if she goes to any sessions yet, No, she

741
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:38,080
Speaker 1: has not. You ain't using every share right, don't didn't

742
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 1: use the service here? Right, But we've already partnered her up.

743
00:50:40,520 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 1: We always have a partner for her. About that partner,

744
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:45,759
Speaker 1: that's a part of us. Your wife? How about dad? Hey, sir,

745
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:48,520
Speaker 1: quick bringing my wife into bringing my wife into what?

746
00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:50,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna bring your wife into what? Maybe the problem

747
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 1: is you, Maybe you're not doing what you need to

748
00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:55,920
Speaker 1: be doing at home. I didn't do some consumes. You're

749
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 1: coming down there tomorrow to come get money? Mean you

750
00:50:59,200 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 1: better have my mon, it's gonna be your please. What

751
00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:06,759
Speaker 1: am I supposed to tell? What part he gonna get

752
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:09,360
Speaker 1: it kicked through? Do you know who her partner is

753
00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:12,880
Speaker 1: part I'm the only partner she got. We partnered her

754
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:20,919
Speaker 1: up with nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Man, y'all, y'all,

755
00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:26,759
Speaker 1: y'all play some man. That's funny, man, Tommy? Tommy? Is

756
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:28,719
Speaker 1: this time? Is this? Timmy doesn't have your time to

757
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 1: time me? Look somebody up? Man, y'all play some y'all

758
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 1: playing Timy too much? Man? We got that's that's wrong. Man,

759
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:42,960
Speaker 1: I gotta ask you. Come on, Drew, talk to me.

760
00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:45,479
Speaker 1: What's the baddest radio show in the lane? Man? Steve

761
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:55,200
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning? So bad? Somebody dona blank you up? Man?

762
00:51:56,160 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 1: Uh huh uh huh? Do you know who our partners? Don't?

763
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 1: I'm coming down there. Hey, I'll tell you what, man, world,

764
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 1: why not partner with your wife bout a year? Knockhut

765
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:10,000
Speaker 1: down off a body? Ye see how you like that?

766
00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:13,680
Speaker 1: She's gonna had no male party, ain't gonna beat you,

767
00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 1: and then get your wife to be the party. She's

768
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 1: already looked up with a partner. Get your wife. He

769
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:28,399
Speaker 1: was bad and by that eight hundred eight hundred, I'll

770
00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:30,799
Speaker 1: be down that to mar You best believe you're gonna

771
00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:39,480
Speaker 1: give me mine. I promise that partner. Who you nephew, Yes, man,

772
00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:45,040
Speaker 1: keep going. Somebody got somebody has to call these people yo,

773
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 1: ka pranks. All right, well, thank you nephew. Coming up next,

774
00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:54,520
Speaker 1: it's my Strawberry Letter. The subject is take me or

775
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 1: your Mama. Okay, we're gonna get into it right after this.

776
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 1: You're listening Dave Harvey Morning Show time now for today's

777
00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:09,920
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. If you need advice and relationships on dating, work, sex, parenting,

778
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:12,960
Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM

779
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:16,840
Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be

780
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:19,399
Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

781
00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:23,360
Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now. Okay, Margot

782
00:53:23,400 --> 00:53:25,320
Speaker 1: lappinhold on tight, We got it for you. Here he

783
00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:29,600
Speaker 1: is the Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew. Subject pick me

784
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:34,040
Speaker 1: or your Mama. Dear Stephen Shirley. I am a young

785
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:36,480
Speaker 1: woman in my early thirties, and I have been dating

786
00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:39,800
Speaker 1: a forty four year old man for ten years. We

787
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:43,520
Speaker 1: have had a great relationship until recently when his mother

788
00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:47,200
Speaker 1: moved to the city we live in. Since then, we've

789
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:50,960
Speaker 1: been fussing more and I'm really starting to dislike him.

790
00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:54,480
Speaker 1: His true colors are showing all because of his mother.

791
00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 1: We cannot move on with our lives. Because his mother

792
00:53:57,840 --> 00:54:01,360
Speaker 1: is stuck on her son not being with her whenever

793
00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 1: he has extra time in his schedule, she manipulates him

794
00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:08,040
Speaker 1: into thinking she's going to die alone one day because

795
00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:11,040
Speaker 1: he doesn't see her daily. I have made him realize

796
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:13,799
Speaker 1: that she wasn't complaining as much when she didn't live

797
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:16,440
Speaker 1: this close to us. He told his mother that we

798
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 1: are finally going to get married, and she told him

799
00:54:19,480 --> 00:54:22,320
Speaker 1: that if he marries me, she will not be around

800
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:26,080
Speaker 1: to watch it go down. I do not know when

801
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:29,200
Speaker 1: things change between his mother and I because we've always

802
00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:32,360
Speaker 1: been cordial and respectful to each other. It makes me

803
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:34,800
Speaker 1: wonder if my man has told her something about me.

804
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:38,320
Speaker 1: He says he would never tell her anything negative about

805
00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:41,560
Speaker 1: me because he knows how she is. This man loves

806
00:54:41,640 --> 00:54:44,560
Speaker 1: his mama and he loves me. So I'm stuck in

807
00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:47,879
Speaker 1: the middle, always the one trying to smooth things over

808
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:51,480
Speaker 1: with his mom while she dotes on her son and

809
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:54,799
Speaker 1: overlooks me. I'm not trying to come between a mom

810
00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:57,680
Speaker 1: and a son. But come on, we are grown people.

811
00:54:58,160 --> 00:55:01,719
Speaker 1: We aren't married. We aren't married, so I can leave

812
00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:04,960
Speaker 1: him at any time. And he knows I'm ready to

813
00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:07,000
Speaker 1: call it quits, and he's begged me to give him

814
00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:09,799
Speaker 1: one give him more time to talk to his mom.

815
00:55:10,200 --> 00:55:12,360
Speaker 1: Should I leave him alone now and move on with

816
00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:15,600
Speaker 1: my life or should I go through with the wedding

817
00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:21,800
Speaker 1: and just avoid his nasty acting mama? After ten years,

818
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:24,719
Speaker 1: I say it's time to blink or get off the

819
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:28,279
Speaker 1: pot anyway. I mean, I just say, don't let this

820
00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:31,680
Speaker 1: forty four year old mama's boy, because that's what it is,

821
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 1: have any more of your time. If he doesn't put

822
00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:37,279
Speaker 1: you first now before he marries you, what do you

823
00:55:37,400 --> 00:55:41,360
Speaker 1: think marriage is going to be like with him? Every

824
00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:44,719
Speaker 1: time Mama calls, he's gonna leave you and run right

825
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 1: over there to be with mama. You say this man

826
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:50,960
Speaker 1: loves you, well, I gotta say this. Love would put

827
00:55:51,040 --> 00:55:54,320
Speaker 1: you first. Love would stand up to his mama on

828
00:55:54,600 --> 00:55:58,440
Speaker 1: your behalf. Love would not let his mom manipulate him.

829
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:03,080
Speaker 1: Love would not have to have you stuck in the middle.

830
00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:05,839
Speaker 1: You would be upfront. You would be out front where

831
00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:09,840
Speaker 1: you belong. And no, I don't think you should go

832
00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:13,600
Speaker 1: through with the wedding and just avoid his nasty acting mama.

833
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:16,959
Speaker 1: You deserve way better, and it's time now for the boy,

834
00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 1: the son, the mama's boy, to let his mom know

835
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 1: exactly how he feels about you. And you know, respectfully

836
00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:26,520
Speaker 1: of course it's his mom, but he's got to let

837
00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:28,960
Speaker 1: her know that she can't do this. I mean, like

838
00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:31,440
Speaker 1: you say, she wasn't doing it when she didn't live

839
00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:34,720
Speaker 1: in the same city. Now she is being very manipulative.

840
00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:38,200
Speaker 1: It reminds me of the Jefferson's the TV show George's

841
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:41,840
Speaker 1: Mom and his mama and Wheezy that dynamic. So no,

842
00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:43,880
Speaker 1: don't let this go down. If you feel like you

843
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:46,000
Speaker 1: need to get out of there because he's treating you

844
00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:50,720
Speaker 1: not like the queen you are, then you guts to go. Steve,

845
00:56:51,640 --> 00:56:55,799
Speaker 1: really ridiculous letter kind of in a way, because there's

846
00:56:55,840 --> 00:56:58,440
Speaker 1: so many things. You forty four year old man, you

847
00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:02,040
Speaker 1: and your early thirties. You've been dating a man for

848
00:57:02,200 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 1: ten years. What is going got a great relationship until

849
00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:11,439
Speaker 1: his mama moved to the city we live in. Oh

850
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 1: Hell came to town. Now, y'all been fussing, huh, I said,

851
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:24,760
Speaker 1: Hell came to town. Oh Hell, here come Hell? Yea,

852
00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:31,080
Speaker 1: Hell came to town. Now here's his true colors are

853
00:57:31,120 --> 00:57:33,439
Speaker 1: showing all because of his mother. Here's what she says.

854
00:57:33,920 --> 00:57:36,320
Speaker 1: We cannot move on with our lives because his mother

855
00:57:36,440 --> 00:57:38,720
Speaker 1: is stuck on her son not being with her. Whenever

856
00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:44,120
Speaker 1: he has extra time in his schedule. Why does his

857
00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 1: mama know his schedule. Let's start there. So now every

858
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:53,439
Speaker 1: waning moment he got, he got to give to her.

859
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:57,280
Speaker 1: And then she always told about she gonna die alone

860
00:57:57,400 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 1: one day because he don't see her daily. I mean,

861
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:02,520
Speaker 1: it's cool if you could see your mama day. I

862
00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 1: wish I could see mine, But my mama was living.

863
00:58:05,280 --> 00:58:08,000
Speaker 1: I didn't see her every day, you know, which I

864
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:10,760
Speaker 1: had some more time, would I'll admit that, But every day,

865
00:58:12,320 --> 00:58:15,720
Speaker 1: you know, you know, if you was twelve, I saw

866
00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:17,920
Speaker 1: my mom married day I was twelve, I was at

867
00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:20,400
Speaker 1: the house. I saw every day that I was sixteen,

868
00:58:20,600 --> 00:58:23,240
Speaker 1: right up until I was seventeen and moved out. Once

869
00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:25,320
Speaker 1: I moved out, I never really could go back to

870
00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 1: my mom and daddy house. Now, you Shirley's absolutely correct.

871
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:32,240
Speaker 1: You got a mama's born on your head, and it

872
00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:35,840
Speaker 1: seemed like ain't nowhere around it. Now, he told his

873
00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:38,960
Speaker 1: mother that y'all was finally gonna get married. She told

874
00:58:39,080 --> 00:58:41,560
Speaker 1: him if he married me, she would not be around

875
00:58:41,600 --> 00:58:43,920
Speaker 1: to watch it go down. What do that mean? She

876
00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:47,360
Speaker 1: gonna die, she gonna move back out of town, She

877
00:58:47,520 --> 00:58:51,040
Speaker 1: ain't coming to the wedding, she gonna get sick. What

878
00:58:51,280 --> 00:58:54,560
Speaker 1: do it mean? I don't even know what that means.

879
00:58:54,560 --> 00:59:00,280
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna be around, lady. Why, yeah, she cain't

880
00:59:00,320 --> 00:59:11,720
Speaker 1: marry you. The boy can't marry you. Jesus all right, Steve,

881
00:59:11,880 --> 00:59:14,240
Speaker 1: hang on, we'll have part two of your response coming

882
00:59:14,320 --> 00:59:18,000
Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry

883
00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:22,680
Speaker 1: Letters subjects picked me or your mama. We'll get back

884
00:59:22,720 --> 00:59:28,320
Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve.

885
00:59:28,400 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 1: Come on, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters subject pick me

886
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:36,200
Speaker 1: or your mama? For it for you, old man, she's

887
00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:40,160
Speaker 1: been dating for ten years. That's tricky right there. And

888
00:59:40,240 --> 00:59:43,640
Speaker 1: then his true colors came out when his mother moved

889
00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:47,000
Speaker 1: into the city. And now she got the man thinking that,

890
00:59:47,480 --> 00:59:52,920
Speaker 1: you know, and because if you're not spending all your

891
00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:56,040
Speaker 1: extra time with your mama, it's a problem. Well it

892
00:59:56,200 --> 00:59:58,760
Speaker 1: is a problem because nobody want to do that. Not

893
00:59:58,960 --> 01:00:02,800
Speaker 1: every damn waking minute, you know, and then all we

894
01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:04,840
Speaker 1: got down to he told his mother that we was

895
01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:07,400
Speaker 1: gonna get married. She told him and she married me,

896
01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:10,760
Speaker 1: that she gonna not be around and watch it go down. Dad.

897
01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:13,840
Speaker 1: I didn't understand. Are you gonna die? Are you gonna

898
01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:16,760
Speaker 1: lead town? Are you sick about it? You just ain't

899
01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:20,919
Speaker 1: coming to the wedding whatever? And then the lady can't

900
01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:23,200
Speaker 1: figure out when things changed between him and the mother

901
01:00:23,200 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 1: because they always been cordial and respectful. Then it makes

902
01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 1: me wonder if he just said something to the mamma.

903
01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 1: He say, he not, He just know how his mama is.

904
01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:36,040
Speaker 1: So now you stuck in the middle, always trying to

905
01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:39,280
Speaker 1: smooth things over with his mom while she doats on

906
01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:43,920
Speaker 1: her son and overlooks me, Okay, this is atypical mama

907
01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:46,840
Speaker 1: boy red behavior. I'm not trying to come between a

908
01:00:46,920 --> 01:00:52,880
Speaker 1: mom and her son. That's not that you should have to.

909
01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:55,960
Speaker 1: If you're in a relationship with a man, you shouldn't

910
01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:58,680
Speaker 1: want to come between. You shouldn't have to feel as

911
01:00:58,760 --> 01:01:01,280
Speaker 1: though I'm saying that you coming between a man and

912
01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:03,720
Speaker 1: his mother. You shouldn't be made to feel that way.

913
01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:07,320
Speaker 1: Something's wrong. Come on, we grown people now, she says,

914
01:01:07,360 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 1: we're not married, so I can leave him at any time. Now, Okay,

915
01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:15,440
Speaker 1: we're in the hold. A punch of breaks. All of

916
01:01:15,520 --> 01:01:20,800
Speaker 1: a sudden, the truth came out. I can leave him

917
01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:24,720
Speaker 1: any time. He knows. I'm ready to call it quiz

918
01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:26,960
Speaker 1: and he has begged me to give him more time

919
01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:29,520
Speaker 1: to talk to his mom. So you're ready to roll out?

920
01:01:30,720 --> 01:01:33,520
Speaker 1: Sounds like yeah, damn the ten years that ain't got

921
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:35,600
Speaker 1: I ain't mad at you about that. Damned the ten years.

922
01:01:35,640 --> 01:01:37,240
Speaker 1: They don't need to put in ten more in just

923
01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:41,400
Speaker 1: like it. So damn the ten years, Damn the love,

924
01:01:41,760 --> 01:01:45,960
Speaker 1: Damn the wedding vials to hair with his mama. I

925
01:01:46,240 --> 01:01:54,120
Speaker 1: roll out, I'll pull up, pull up, duces perso. Whoo

926
01:01:54,400 --> 01:01:59,160
Speaker 1: I'm about now? Should I leave him alone now and

927
01:01:59,360 --> 01:02:01,160
Speaker 1: move on with my life? Or should I go through

928
01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:04,120
Speaker 1: the wed and just avoid his nasty ada Mamma, that's

929
01:02:04,160 --> 01:02:09,240
Speaker 1: gonna be impossible. Shirley's right. And I was talking to

930
01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:14,680
Speaker 1: somebody today, a contractor at my house, and he said

931
01:02:14,720 --> 01:02:17,880
Speaker 1: a counselor told him he went to counseling for his relationship.

932
01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:23,800
Speaker 1: When a person shows you who they are, believed them.

933
01:02:25,760 --> 01:02:27,760
Speaker 1: That's why the guy said to counselor. I've heard that,

934
01:02:28,600 --> 01:02:32,240
Speaker 1: but he said a counselor told him today, when a

935
01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:37,240
Speaker 1: person shows you who they really are, believe them. Okay,

936
01:02:37,560 --> 01:02:42,120
Speaker 1: you should believe him. He showed you who he really is,

937
01:02:42,840 --> 01:02:45,960
Speaker 1: who he really gonna be loyal to, and who who's

938
01:02:46,000 --> 01:02:49,640
Speaker 1: really gonna he's gonna place first. Shirley said, you should

939
01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:53,120
Speaker 1: be first. Now he's shown you you're not going to

940
01:02:53,200 --> 01:02:56,040
Speaker 1: be first. I need some time to talk to her.

941
01:02:56,360 --> 01:03:00,880
Speaker 1: The conversation is real simple, Mama, Mama, you're tripping now.

942
01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:03,760
Speaker 1: You need to quit talking to her like that. This

943
01:03:03,960 --> 01:03:07,840
Speaker 1: my girl. Then you talking to a crazy gotta feeling

944
01:03:07,920 --> 01:03:09,440
Speaker 1: some kind of way, and that ain't right. And if

945
01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:11,760
Speaker 1: you keep doing that, I ain't bringing her around, and

946
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:14,440
Speaker 1: I ain't coming around. Then you respect who I am

947
01:03:14,560 --> 01:03:19,080
Speaker 1: and what I want to do. That's That's a simple conversation. Now,

948
01:03:19,200 --> 01:03:22,840
Speaker 1: Mama's boys is hard to have that conversation because they

949
01:03:22,960 --> 01:03:24,960
Speaker 1: Mama's boy, you don't talk to me that way, Shut

950
01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:27,360
Speaker 1: your stupid ass up. And then he going and an

951
01:03:27,400 --> 01:03:32,919
Speaker 1: sit down somewhere. That's mama talking. Yeah, number Mama ain't

952
01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:34,959
Speaker 1: never done me like that, because number one, I ain't

953
01:03:34,960 --> 01:03:38,160
Speaker 1: never talked back to mine I couldn't wasn't lowed, but

954
01:03:39,680 --> 01:03:44,000
Speaker 1: it was my mother. But my mother never interfered. So

955
01:03:44,960 --> 01:03:47,560
Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell you, lady. I was

956
01:03:47,640 --> 01:03:50,280
Speaker 1: going about you seem like you said rather casual. We

957
01:03:50,360 --> 01:03:52,400
Speaker 1: ain't married, so I could leave him at any time.

958
01:03:52,880 --> 01:03:54,960
Speaker 1: He know I'm ready to call it quits. He'd begged

959
01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:56,680
Speaker 1: me to give him more time to talk to his mama.

960
01:03:56,880 --> 01:03:59,080
Speaker 1: Should I leave him alone now and move on with

961
01:03:59,200 --> 01:04:01,240
Speaker 1: my life? Should I go through the wedding and just

962
01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:04,400
Speaker 1: avoid his nasty act? Month just go through with the wedding?

963
01:04:05,480 --> 01:04:08,520
Speaker 1: Right there? Yeah? Should I just leave him now? Or

964
01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:11,160
Speaker 1: should I just go through it? Go through with the wedding?

965
01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:15,720
Speaker 1: That don't even sound right. Listen, listen to me, and

966
01:04:15,840 --> 01:04:21,760
Speaker 1: don't be half from me. Tommy, Carla and Shelly. Don't

967
01:04:21,800 --> 01:04:24,040
Speaker 1: just sign up talking about you're gonna just go through

968
01:04:24,080 --> 01:04:31,360
Speaker 1: with the wed not what this is. I got this

969
01:04:31,760 --> 01:04:34,600
Speaker 1: way too many. You can't just go through it moments

970
01:04:34,640 --> 01:04:39,840
Speaker 1: in marriage. His advice I give to everybody we were

971
01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:43,000
Speaker 1: talking about this off the air. Three things you got

972
01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:46,880
Speaker 1: to have. You have to be in love with the person.

973
01:04:48,200 --> 01:04:51,440
Speaker 1: You have to like a person, and you have to

974
01:04:51,920 --> 01:04:55,240
Speaker 1: love the person. In love is different from loving them.

975
01:04:55,600 --> 01:04:59,480
Speaker 1: So you need to be in love. You need to

976
01:04:59,560 --> 01:05:03,000
Speaker 1: be you need to like them, and you need to

977
01:05:03,080 --> 01:05:07,320
Speaker 1: love them because on any given day, one of them

978
01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:11,600
Speaker 1: can be missing and other two guys to take take

979
01:05:11,680 --> 01:05:15,720
Speaker 1: care of you. Any on any date, one of them

980
01:05:15,800 --> 01:05:18,400
Speaker 1: could just turn up missing. I don't like his ass today.

981
01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:27,840
Speaker 1: So that's it, all right, I'm well, surely run all right,

982
01:05:28,000 --> 01:05:31,560
Speaker 1: listen up, post your comments, thank you, Steve. Post your

983
01:05:31,600 --> 01:05:34,280
Speaker 1: comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on

984
01:05:34,400 --> 01:05:37,320
Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook, and please check out the Strawberry Letter

985
01:05:37,440 --> 01:05:44,960
Speaker 1: podcast on demand. You're listening, all right, guys. It is

986
01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:48,520
Speaker 1: time to look into the crazy mind of Jay Anthony Brown.

987
01:05:48,800 --> 01:05:51,760
Speaker 1: Oh lord, I'm glad you did that. I'm glad you're

988
01:05:51,800 --> 01:05:53,840
Speaker 1: doing that. You are and a lot of time I

989
01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 1: have foolishness and craziness a lot of time. What you

990
01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:03,160
Speaker 1: got today, knowledge with what's in there to day? Something

991
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Speaker 1: I have that's very well put. I put together a

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Speaker 1: for a side piece, you won't be able to get

994
01:06:12,520 --> 01:06:14,480
Speaker 1: in touch with who you want to get in touch with.

995
01:06:15,080 --> 01:06:17,560
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996
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Speaker 1: you call a friend. They're gonna judge you. What I

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1001
01:06:35,000 --> 01:06:39,320
Speaker 1: They're listening, they're fly it. They got good advice. Tommy

1002
01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:41,520
Speaker 1: knows about it. I mean you we talked about putting

1003
01:06:41,520 --> 01:06:44,400
Speaker 1: them together, and so Timmy, what what you got now? Well,

1004
01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:47,080
Speaker 1: I mean, you know they help us and we all

1005
01:06:47,200 --> 01:06:48,880
Speaker 1: help us. You know what I mean. We're gonna try

1006
01:06:48,920 --> 01:06:51,480
Speaker 1: to do what we can to get the message to

1007
01:06:51,640 --> 01:06:54,560
Speaker 1: your love. Warr Okay, So what you have to do

1008
01:06:54,760 --> 01:06:57,000
Speaker 1: is if you watch the movie Harriet, go on your

1009
01:06:57,040 --> 01:07:00,640
Speaker 1: backyard and start saying it, and then the people next

1010
01:07:00,720 --> 01:07:03,000
Speaker 1: to start singing, and sooner or later the message we

1011
01:07:03,160 --> 01:07:05,439
Speaker 1: get wade on the way to the person that wanted

1012
01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:08,479
Speaker 1: to get away. You get a message to the one

1013
01:07:08,640 --> 01:07:12,560
Speaker 1: you love with. Let know, because I know these are

1014
01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:20,360
Speaker 1: with everything in us, you know, you guys. One thing

1015
01:07:20,400 --> 01:07:28,560
Speaker 1: about this show, we're always helping people that nobody out

1016
01:07:28,680 --> 01:07:32,000
Speaker 1: now we kept we helped get them to the polls

1017
01:07:32,160 --> 01:07:35,440
Speaker 1: and now this, Wow, we helped. Wow, this is this

1018
01:07:35,680 --> 01:07:38,040
Speaker 1: is this is ball up in a knot time. This

1019
01:07:38,240 --> 01:07:40,919
Speaker 1: is time you ball up in the night. You didn't

1020
01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:44,240
Speaker 1: You didn't tell j about the side piece helper mobile app.

1021
01:07:44,360 --> 01:07:48,760
Speaker 1: You didn't tell them, Yes, go to the Yeah, like

1022
01:07:49,120 --> 01:07:51,840
Speaker 1: you need like a side piece on Christmas. You can't

1023
01:07:51,880 --> 01:07:53,520
Speaker 1: get it to it. We will take a plate to

1024
01:07:53,640 --> 01:07:56,919
Speaker 1: her from your house. Yes, And we take the plate

1025
01:07:57,040 --> 01:07:59,320
Speaker 1: to her and we put the you know her gift.

1026
01:07:59,440 --> 01:08:03,760
Speaker 1: We transport dad, you know whatever it is. And know

1027
01:08:03,800 --> 01:08:05,920
Speaker 1: what we got. You know what else we got? We

1028
01:08:06,080 --> 01:08:11,520
Speaker 1: got side piece Hamburger helps the dinner for them, you see,

1029
01:08:11,560 --> 01:08:14,240
Speaker 1: that's the dinner for them to have, you know, because

1030
01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:16,160
Speaker 1: they can't have with everybody else got you see what

1031
01:08:16,160 --> 01:08:20,600
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Now you thinking, don't load the app and

1032
01:08:21,040 --> 01:08:27,080
Speaker 1: get out of that harmony. We told her how good

1033
01:08:27,160 --> 01:08:29,120
Speaker 1: your wife cooking is. Well, now she can taste it.

1034
01:08:29,280 --> 01:08:37,120
Speaker 1: That's it. I hate the app all right? Coming out

1035
01:08:37,240 --> 01:08:39,600
Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

1036
01:08:40,320 --> 01:08:46,400
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Show. Here we go, guys with the

1037
01:08:46,479 --> 01:08:50,479
Speaker 1: round up. Would you rather would you rather live in

1038
01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:54,400
Speaker 1: a mansion by a volcano or Would you rather live

1039
01:08:54,439 --> 01:08:57,519
Speaker 1: in a tiny house have a nice, beautiful view of

1040
01:08:57,640 --> 01:09:00,800
Speaker 1: the ocean, be able to go? I'm I'm gonna deal

1041
01:09:00,840 --> 01:09:05,800
Speaker 1: with that. Whatnot live in a mansion by a volcano

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01:09:06,479 --> 01:09:09,160
Speaker 1: or live in a tiny house by the ocean with

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01:09:09,560 --> 01:09:13,960
Speaker 1: gorgeous views. I'm gonna deal with that volcano. If it erupted,

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01:09:14,000 --> 01:09:15,960
Speaker 1: I'm out, but I'm gonna ride it out. That's better

1045
01:09:15,960 --> 01:09:17,880
Speaker 1: than a damn tight ass house. I'm not living in

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01:09:18,040 --> 01:09:21,240
Speaker 1: the tiny house. You're in the tiny house, Jay, not

1047
01:09:21,439 --> 01:09:25,320
Speaker 1: doing when I walked out the bathroom, I'm in the kitchen. No, No,

1048
01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:27,760
Speaker 1: you're gonna be in the bathroom, any kitchen in the

1049
01:09:27,840 --> 01:09:34,080
Speaker 1: same damn time. You ain't walking nowhere. You're gonna be

1050
01:09:34,160 --> 01:09:40,840
Speaker 1: in that turning Junior. I'm gonna go with the mansion

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01:09:40,920 --> 01:09:46,000
Speaker 1: by the volcano. That's what I'm all right. Would you

1052
01:09:46,960 --> 01:09:52,519
Speaker 1: rather fight Mike Tyson b B ride a bull in

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01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:56,640
Speaker 1: the Texas Rodeo. I'm gonna ride that bull out that

1054
01:09:56,760 --> 01:10:00,200
Speaker 1: bull and gonna go eight seconds to watch me. I'm

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01:10:00,240 --> 01:10:03,240
Speaker 1: not gonna make a second. I'm gonna make that I'm scared.

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01:10:03,320 --> 01:10:05,360
Speaker 1: So do they open the gate, They're gonna flip my

1057
01:10:05,479 --> 01:10:10,799
Speaker 1: ass back into shoot I'm anna fall on that cowboy

1058
01:10:10,880 --> 01:10:15,160
Speaker 1: that opened the gate. You never know when Mike's gonna

1059
01:10:15,160 --> 01:10:17,760
Speaker 1: go back in the biting mode. You never know, you know,

1060
01:10:21,080 --> 01:10:24,479
Speaker 1: even even if you don't. Yeah, and that's it. Yeah,

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01:10:24,560 --> 01:10:29,280
Speaker 1: it lights out. Even Mike Tyson today still got it

1062
01:10:29,400 --> 01:10:35,080
Speaker 1: like that. Okay, would you rather spend a week in Vegas? Or? Hey,

1063
01:10:35,160 --> 01:10:39,240
Speaker 1: would you rather spend a week in Brazil during carnival?

1064
01:10:39,640 --> 01:10:43,720
Speaker 1: He would you rather spend a week in Vegas? Or

1065
01:10:43,800 --> 01:10:46,919
Speaker 1: would you rather spend a week in Brazil during Carnival?

1066
01:10:47,400 --> 01:10:51,439
Speaker 1: We've got to go to bet. You got to do it, man,

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01:10:53,360 --> 01:10:56,559
Speaker 1: you want to be in Vegas, I'm going to isn't

1068
01:10:56,600 --> 01:10:59,600
Speaker 1: the way I'm going to Hell? That's that's why I

1069
01:11:00,080 --> 01:11:02,519
Speaker 1: you old for this conversation. I'm on the backside of

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01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:06,200
Speaker 1: miss out on Brazil. Hey man, I'm trying to get in.

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01:11:06,760 --> 01:11:08,559
Speaker 1: I'm going to get in. I'm trying to get myself.

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01:11:08,760 --> 01:11:10,920
Speaker 1: Is that? What is that way? The Jesus is spread

1073
01:11:10,960 --> 01:11:13,920
Speaker 1: out on the mountain in Brazil? Okay, I'm going to

1074
01:11:14,680 --> 01:11:16,600
Speaker 1: have to look at that. You look at that and

1075
01:11:16,680 --> 01:11:18,679
Speaker 1: then look up at the Jesus and all sins after

1076
01:11:18,800 --> 01:11:30,519
Speaker 1: giving all? Right, would you would you rather skip a

1077
01:11:30,600 --> 01:11:35,600
Speaker 1: haircut for three months? Or would you rather see I

1078
01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:38,000
Speaker 1: don't know why that question is in there? Why is

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01:11:38,040 --> 01:11:42,680
Speaker 1: that one in there? Got no hair? When you got

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01:11:42,760 --> 01:11:46,040
Speaker 1: to grow yourself, you do shave your head. Hair still

1081
01:11:46,120 --> 01:11:50,519
Speaker 1: grows on your head. II the cut, I'm not missing

1082
01:11:50,600 --> 01:11:53,760
Speaker 1: them showers. You already know that. Three months, three months,

1083
01:11:53,840 --> 01:11:57,400
Speaker 1: three months? What is your head gonna look like in

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01:11:57,520 --> 01:12:03,880
Speaker 1: three months without? I'm gonna have that old I'm gonna

1085
01:12:03,880 --> 01:12:06,120
Speaker 1: have that ring around that old man. Look, that's what

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01:12:06,200 --> 01:12:08,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have. But I'm gonna be smelling good and

1087
01:12:08,200 --> 01:12:13,760
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep my cap on. Yea, what does that take?

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01:12:13,840 --> 01:12:17,040
Speaker 1: This cap bout? With that ring around the whole? Mood love, mood,

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01:12:17,160 --> 01:12:22,080
Speaker 1: don't change, it's just complete. You're gonna look like a

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01:12:22,200 --> 01:12:31,000
Speaker 1: Tibet monk. Oh my god. I don't want to picture

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01:12:31,040 --> 01:12:33,640
Speaker 1: of us looking like this though. That's what I don't want. No,

1092
01:12:33,800 --> 01:12:37,920
Speaker 1: we don't need that look. Don't come to work, all right?

1093
01:12:37,960 --> 01:12:42,559
Speaker 1: Would you would you rather have your own golf stream

1094
01:12:43,080 --> 01:12:48,599
Speaker 1: G five fifty jet or a four hundred foot yacht.

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01:12:49,360 --> 01:12:53,160
Speaker 1: Give me that yacht? Ye, give me that yacht? Yeah? Hey,

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01:12:53,439 --> 01:12:57,800
Speaker 1: First of all, let me tell you all have no

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01:12:58,160 --> 01:13:08,800
Speaker 1: idea what you just asked, fall the cost, the maintenance cost, y'all, no,

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01:13:09,040 --> 01:13:12,280
Speaker 1: give me that. Come with you because the freak the

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01:13:12,360 --> 01:13:15,439
Speaker 1: freakiness you can do on their yacht does not compare.

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01:13:16,760 --> 01:13:23,680
Speaker 1: We're not even you can thank. Coming up, we'll have

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Speaker 1: more of the Sea Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour. Right after this, you're listening to the

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01:13:29,640 --> 01:13:34,880
Speaker 1: Stave Harvey Morning Show. A Florida woman was arrested after

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01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:37,320
Speaker 1: she and her date broke a sink off the wall

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01:13:37,640 --> 01:13:41,120
Speaker 1: while fooling around in the ladies bathroom of an Irish pub.

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01:13:41,800 --> 01:13:44,559
Speaker 1: Her date went into the ladies room after knocking back

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01:13:44,600 --> 01:13:47,799
Speaker 1: a few drinks, and they had sex. When they finished,

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01:13:47,840 --> 01:13:50,640
Speaker 1: they returned to their seats at the bar, and an

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01:13:50,720 --> 01:13:53,479
Speaker 1: employee went into the bathroom a few minutes later and

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01:13:53,680 --> 01:13:57,840
Speaker 1: noticed a major damage to the sink. Trammel tried to

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Speaker 1: play it cool and act like nothing happened, but the

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01:14:00,320 --> 01:14:03,400
Speaker 1: pub manager called the cops. Travel had to confess to

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01:14:03,479 --> 01:14:06,799
Speaker 1: getting busy in the bathroom and she was taking a jail. However,

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01:14:06,880 --> 01:14:11,080
Speaker 1: her accomplice was not arrested. Yeah, because they were in

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01:14:11,120 --> 01:14:14,120
Speaker 1: the ladies room. But yes, the best sex is at restaurant.

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01:14:14,200 --> 01:14:16,519
Speaker 1: They got the best. They got the best bathroom, they

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01:14:16,600 --> 01:14:23,200
Speaker 1: really do. What where what you so you've got them,

1118
01:14:23,280 --> 01:14:25,680
Speaker 1: y'all ain't been in them. The unit sex bathroom, y'all

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01:14:25,680 --> 01:14:30,479
Speaker 1: ain't been in there. No, I'm the only one in there,

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01:14:30,720 --> 01:14:32,800
Speaker 1: or you could be the only one living in the house.

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01:14:32,840 --> 01:14:41,679
Speaker 1: You're not comfortable with it in the bathroom with dinner. Yeah,

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01:14:41,760 --> 01:14:43,280
Speaker 1: we got to go all the way down to the

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Speaker 1: day restaurant. We got to go to Applebeach. But we

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01:14:46,280 --> 01:14:52,519
Speaker 1: have sex. That that's different kind of bathroom. You need

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01:14:52,600 --> 01:14:55,439
Speaker 1: to go like a mastro that that's a bathroom right there.

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01:14:56,080 --> 01:14:58,040
Speaker 1: You got a man work in the bathroom and anything.

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01:14:58,080 --> 01:15:04,439
Speaker 1: You get your towels. It's so you're ready. Yeah, all right, Okay,

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Speaker 1: we're moving on. We'll have more of the Steve Harvey

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01:15:07,439 --> 01:15:13,040
Speaker 1: Morning Show coming up right after this. You're listening to show,

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01:15:13,439 --> 01:15:15,720
Speaker 1: all right. So here's the question, guys, what marks the

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01:15:15,840 --> 01:15:18,640
Speaker 1: beginning of the holiday season for you? Is there a

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01:15:18,720 --> 01:15:21,840
Speaker 1: specific song that puts you in a Christmas spirit? How

1133
01:15:21,840 --> 01:15:32,479
Speaker 1: about a special movie? Carlaton The Temptations, that's Christmas Eve only, David. Yeah.

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01:15:35,600 --> 01:15:39,040
Speaker 1: Also um Imitation of Life that's another good Christmas movie.

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01:15:39,120 --> 01:15:45,120
Speaker 1: So what about you, Steve? I know you like this Christmas. Yeah,

1136
01:15:48,280 --> 01:15:57,519
Speaker 1: so I'm gonna get to know you bed. Yeah, this Chrismas,

1137
01:15:58,160 --> 01:16:02,479
Speaker 1: that's my soul. I'm christ Yeah, that's number one. And

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01:16:02,560 --> 01:16:10,679
Speaker 1: the Temptations. I ain't no billing crawlsby being now. Ain't

1139
01:16:10,680 --> 01:16:16,840
Speaker 1: nobody listening for that? No King call? Oh that's how

1140
01:16:16,920 --> 01:16:23,040
Speaker 1: that chest? Yeah that's my jam too. I love that's all. Yeah,

1141
01:16:24,040 --> 01:16:27,600
Speaker 1: someday at Christmas Stevie wonder, I love that christ What

1142
01:16:27,840 --> 01:16:32,080
Speaker 1: is that? You know some day Christmas? You don't know

1143
01:16:32,200 --> 01:16:38,400
Speaker 1: that one. It ain't beat yourself. You ain't Donny No,

1144
01:16:38,600 --> 01:16:43,120
Speaker 1: Donnie's number one. Yeah, that's number one. And Christmas Steve

1145
01:16:43,520 --> 01:16:46,880
Speaker 1: Stevie's music. Oh that's my dude, Yeah for sure. Oh

1146
01:16:47,000 --> 01:16:52,200
Speaker 1: the album, Oh talking book, Baby, your baby don Man

1147
01:16:52,640 --> 01:17:00,200
Speaker 1: something the plan keeping me where he is? This other

1148
01:17:00,360 --> 01:17:06,080
Speaker 1: me again? That's the boy boy, that's that damn talking book.

1149
01:17:06,120 --> 01:17:10,599
Speaker 1: When he was sitting on that rock, Yeah, that boy

1150
01:17:10,760 --> 01:17:17,080
Speaker 1: right there, he didn't know they had him on the rock. Yeah,

1151
01:17:17,960 --> 01:17:19,560
Speaker 1: he thought he was drew the photo shoot in the

1152
01:17:19,640 --> 01:17:30,000
Speaker 1: background to his ass out of that desert. Yeah, you

1153
01:17:30,080 --> 01:17:32,840
Speaker 1: saw a little hand Searon putting on his head, trying

1154
01:17:32,880 --> 01:17:35,040
Speaker 1: to feel his way around. See where it was I

1155
01:17:35,200 --> 01:17:37,360
Speaker 1: tell you right here, listen to me. Let me tell

1156
01:17:37,400 --> 01:17:39,800
Speaker 1: y'all something I've been around Steven. Steven ass ain't blind.

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01:17:39,800 --> 01:17:44,960
Speaker 1: I don't believe it. Always say that I told Steven

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01:17:45,000 --> 01:17:47,240
Speaker 1: this blind. That's a hoax. He had made a lot

1159
01:17:47,320 --> 01:17:50,720
Speaker 1: of money on it. It's a head Listen to me, Hi,

1160
01:17:51,120 --> 01:17:55,240
Speaker 1: stevee blind. You ain't never seen Stevie with a dog

1161
01:17:55,680 --> 01:18:07,280
Speaker 1: all the He ain't never fair on it. Just to me. Yeah,

1162
01:18:07,280 --> 01:18:09,439
Speaker 1: we'll never see him running up into nothing. He ain't

1163
01:18:09,439 --> 01:18:12,960
Speaker 1: got no wheyer. He never had to unfold his stick

1164
01:18:14,560 --> 01:18:18,680
Speaker 1: showing up places. We're moving on all right, coming up,

1165
01:18:18,760 --> 01:18:21,599
Speaker 1: it's Steve Harvey and his closing remarks. You don't want

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Speaker 1: to miss it. At forty nine after the hour you're listening. Steve,

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Speaker 1: what do you have for us closing remarks? Wise today? Yeah,

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01:18:33,479 --> 01:18:36,200
Speaker 1: here's something that I think is very helpful to people,

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01:18:37,240 --> 01:18:41,200
Speaker 1: and it would have helped you open yourself up to

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01:18:41,400 --> 01:18:45,479
Speaker 1: really what God truly can have for you. And the

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01:18:45,560 --> 01:18:49,640
Speaker 1: reason I'm saying that is because oftentimes we limit what

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01:18:49,920 --> 01:18:53,320
Speaker 1: God can do in our lives simply by the way

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01:18:53,360 --> 01:19:00,400
Speaker 1: we think and simply by our expectations. God has no

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01:19:00,640 --> 01:19:04,920
Speaker 1: He's limitless You can't put him in a box. You

1175
01:19:05,080 --> 01:19:08,320
Speaker 1: can't put what God can do for you in the

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01:19:08,520 --> 01:19:12,200
Speaker 1: parameters of your thinking. What you've got to do is

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01:19:12,240 --> 01:19:15,160
Speaker 1: you've got to open up your mind so you can

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01:19:15,200 --> 01:19:18,120
Speaker 1: be open to all of his goodness and what He

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01:19:18,240 --> 01:19:21,360
Speaker 1: can do for you. And I'm saying that to say

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01:19:21,439 --> 01:19:27,760
Speaker 1: this because a lot of times people ask God and

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01:19:28,000 --> 01:19:31,920
Speaker 1: only think about stuff that they can see themselves attaining.

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01:19:33,120 --> 01:19:36,960
Speaker 1: Basically with your check. There's a scripture that says you

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01:19:37,080 --> 01:19:40,720
Speaker 1: have not because you ask not. Well, then most people go, Lord,

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01:19:40,800 --> 01:19:42,880
Speaker 1: help me make my rent. And then I have to

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01:19:43,000 --> 01:19:46,160
Speaker 1: ask you, well, don't he always Why would you not

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01:19:46,320 --> 01:19:50,760
Speaker 1: ask God for a mortgage? Well, become a homeowner. Then

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01:19:50,880 --> 01:19:54,439
Speaker 1: here comes the thinking of man when you start putting

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01:19:54,479 --> 01:19:58,680
Speaker 1: in stuff like well, I don't make enough money, my

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01:19:58,920 --> 01:20:03,040
Speaker 1: credit score, I haven't been on my job long enough,

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Speaker 1: I can't afford that. Therefore, why would I sit up

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01:20:08,680 --> 01:20:13,320
Speaker 1: and ask for that? See, you, you're knocking yourself out

1192
01:20:13,360 --> 01:20:16,600
Speaker 1: of so many blessings that God can have for you

1193
01:20:17,320 --> 01:20:22,120
Speaker 1: by your limited thinking. Because God has no limits. So

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01:20:22,320 --> 01:20:25,000
Speaker 1: you have to open up your mind, so you have

1195
01:20:25,120 --> 01:20:28,320
Speaker 1: to start thinking of things that is in your imagination.

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01:20:29,320 --> 01:20:31,759
Speaker 1: Why would you not ask God for a big house.

1197
01:20:33,360 --> 01:20:36,800
Speaker 1: You don't think that God got enough sense based on

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01:20:36,920 --> 01:20:39,720
Speaker 1: this scripture you have not called. You ask not Most

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01:20:39,760 --> 01:20:41,400
Speaker 1: people don't ask because they don't see no way they

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01:20:41,400 --> 01:20:44,000
Speaker 1: can get it. You don't think that if you ask

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01:20:44,120 --> 01:20:46,200
Speaker 1: God for a big house, you don't think he got

1202
01:20:46,360 --> 01:20:47,880
Speaker 1: enough sense to make a way for you to get

1203
01:20:47,920 --> 01:20:51,800
Speaker 1: the house. You don't think that he knows that you

1204
01:20:51,960 --> 01:20:54,160
Speaker 1: need more money and that he know how to make

1205
01:20:54,200 --> 01:20:55,920
Speaker 1: a way for you to make more money. You don't

1206
01:20:55,920 --> 01:20:57,920
Speaker 1: think he got that part figured out. You think he

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01:20:58,040 --> 01:21:00,640
Speaker 1: needs your help figuring that out. You don't think that

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01:21:00,840 --> 01:21:03,040
Speaker 1: he know that if you got X amount of dollars,

1209
01:21:03,080 --> 01:21:05,280
Speaker 1: your credit score really don't matter. You don't think he

1210
01:21:05,400 --> 01:21:09,400
Speaker 1: know that He know all of that. But you've limited

1211
01:21:09,479 --> 01:21:11,160
Speaker 1: to see what he can do and how you can

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01:21:11,240 --> 01:21:14,200
Speaker 1: move in your life because you won't think big enough.

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01:21:15,000 --> 01:21:18,800
Speaker 1: That is a book that changed my life. The name

1214
01:21:18,840 --> 01:21:21,240
Speaker 1: of the book is called The Magic of Thinking Big,

1215
01:21:22,160 --> 01:21:25,920
Speaker 1: and it's by David Schwartz. It's the Magic of Thinking

1216
01:21:26,080 --> 01:21:29,560
Speaker 1: Big and I didn't understand this until I was selling Amway.

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01:21:30,240 --> 01:21:33,320
Speaker 1: Am Way was one of the greatest periods of my

1218
01:21:33,439 --> 01:21:38,600
Speaker 1: life because it introduced me to a positive books It

1219
01:21:38,800 --> 01:21:42,640
Speaker 1: introduced me to self motivation and self help books, and

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01:21:42,760 --> 01:21:45,439
Speaker 1: those are really the only books I read outside of

1221
01:21:45,479 --> 01:21:47,799
Speaker 1: the Bible. I don't read anything. I don't read novels,

1222
01:21:47,880 --> 01:21:50,240
Speaker 1: love stories. I ain't got no time for that. But

1223
01:21:50,439 --> 01:21:53,439
Speaker 1: the power of positive thinking bout Norman Vincent Peale, Thinking

1224
01:21:53,520 --> 01:21:56,639
Speaker 1: Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. The Magic of Thinking Big

1225
01:21:56,760 --> 01:22:00,200
Speaker 1: by David Schwartz. I have time to read that because

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01:22:00,240 --> 01:22:03,639
Speaker 1: the Magic of Thinking Big taught me something. It taught

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01:22:03,760 --> 01:22:07,759
Speaker 1: me that it does not require any more brain power

1228
01:22:08,000 --> 01:22:11,120
Speaker 1: to think big than it does to think small. It

1229
01:22:11,320 --> 01:22:16,680
Speaker 1: doesn't require anymore. You ain't got the grunt look. You

1230
01:22:16,800 --> 01:22:20,919
Speaker 1: can say Voteswagon, or you can say Rose Royce. It doesn't.

1231
01:22:21,680 --> 01:22:26,160
Speaker 1: Your brain don't have to shift and burn most sales,

1232
01:22:26,280 --> 01:22:29,679
Speaker 1: and you gotta throw yourself into something to say Rose

1233
01:22:29,800 --> 01:22:35,360
Speaker 1: Royce versus Votswagon. It doesn't hurt more to say rent

1234
01:22:35,640 --> 01:22:39,920
Speaker 1: or mortgage. It doesn't hurt no more to say new

1235
01:22:40,080 --> 01:22:44,599
Speaker 1: card than use card. It doesn't hurt more to say

1236
01:22:45,720 --> 01:22:48,880
Speaker 1: hand me down. Then it costs such than it cost

1237
01:22:48,960 --> 01:22:52,200
Speaker 1: you to say brand new. If you buy this book,

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01:22:52,240 --> 01:22:54,760
Speaker 1: The Magic of Thinking Big by David Schwartz, it's an

1239
01:22:54,800 --> 01:22:58,400
Speaker 1: amazing way. It changed my thinking in my twenties, and

1240
01:22:58,520 --> 01:23:01,840
Speaker 1: so I started thinking big. Once I started thinking big,

1241
01:23:02,280 --> 01:23:05,760
Speaker 1: I started opening up to the possibilities of God. Because

1242
01:23:05,800 --> 01:23:08,559
Speaker 1: God is big? Am I not right? God is big?

1243
01:23:08,920 --> 01:23:11,080
Speaker 1: So why would you get in the way of his

1244
01:23:11,280 --> 01:23:14,960
Speaker 1: bigness with your small mindedness. See, you're getting in the

1245
01:23:15,040 --> 01:23:17,640
Speaker 1: way of your blessings by the way you think. You

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Speaker 1: keep thinking in terms of your paycheck. Get God ain't

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Speaker 1: in your paycheck. Get out of your paycheck, man, Get

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Speaker 1: out of your current situations. Where you are is just temporary.

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Speaker 1: God has another place for you. God got a great

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Speaker 1: life for you, but you got to invite him in

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Speaker 1: and let him show it to you. Quit wasting his

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Speaker 1: time with this little bit of man. Get out of

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Speaker 1: your own way. You are in your way with your

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Speaker 1: limited thinking. People ask me all the time, man, why

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Speaker 1: are you always at the meetings? Why are you? Why

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Speaker 1: don't you just sit out and take your day off?

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Speaker 1: Because I can't get where I'm going sitting down taking

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Speaker 1: my days off. I'm about the business of becoming success,

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Speaker 1: fun and happy. Now Am I successful? Yeah? Am I happy? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Happier than I ever been? But and I have everything

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Speaker 1: I need. Can I tell y'all that I don't need

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Speaker 1: nothing else, but I'm in the wrong side of life.

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Speaker 1: I just won't. I'm not greedy. I'm not asking you

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Speaker 1: to give me nothing. I'm willing to work for other things.

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Speaker 1: I want. I want to see how the other class

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Speaker 1: of people live. I want to see what that's like.

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Speaker 1: I want to see what it's like when my grandchildren's

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Speaker 1: children will remember my name because I left them something,

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Speaker 1: because I created a legacy that I put money away

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Speaker 1: from my grandchildren and my children's children. That's what I'm

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Speaker 1: working on. You can do that. God is capable. Get

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