1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,440 Speaker 1: Am I Ale for calling my drunk wife when she 2 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: complained about our segs life and called my friend's husband sexy. 3 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 1: I'll read that one more time, A Ale for calling 4 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:16,000 Speaker 1: my drunk wife when she complained about our sex life 5 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:20,119 Speaker 1: and called my friend's husband sexy. This comes from slicky D. 6 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:24,959 Speaker 1: So basically like called the drunk wife. Uh, And she 7 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 1: was like, man, we don't. We don't hook up often enough, 8 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:29,720 Speaker 1: but you know your friend is so cute, Like, hey, 9 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 1: just think about your friends. How dare are you there? 10 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 1: You go? Right? Great? Thanks method acting. I think, hello everyone. 11 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:41,479 Speaker 1: I may have overreacted, and I feel both hurt by 12 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: my wife and guilty for the swift reaction. My wife 13 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 1: and I have been together for twelve or for fourteen years, 14 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 1: and we have two kids. We went out for my 15 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 1: forty three male wife's forty three females birthday US and 16 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 1: ten friends, mostly comp couples. She got very drunk and 17 00:00:59,880 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 1: I had two drinksponsible maybe. We went back to a 18 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 1: friend's place to sing karaoke. 19 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 2: Uh. 20 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 1: Friend's husband had a great voice, and my wife called 21 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: it sexy repeatedly. Oh what a sexy voice. I love 22 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: hearing a sexy singing to me, it's so sexy. Oh 23 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: my god, do to the point where I dreaded him 24 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 1: singing next Oh. 25 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 2: No, oh god, please, you just had such a bad voice. 26 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 3: Don't sing in my wife, it's too much jo, You're 27 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 3: too powerful. 28 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 1: It's too powerful. Later in the night, during a during 29 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:45,119 Speaker 1: a compliment, she said something about him making girls wet 30 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 1: with his voice. 31 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, crazy, okay okay. 32 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 1: I assumed that's what was happening to her as she listened. 33 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 3: Oh oh no, I mean that is unfortunately a possibly 34 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 3: act accurate deduction. 35 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 1: Man. This was in front of everyone, though it seems 36 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 1: like I'm the only one who heard it. He was 37 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 1: getting compliments from everyone. He is a really good singer. 38 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:18,359 Speaker 1: Damn OPK even OPK Didi. 39 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:19,919 Speaker 2: It's like he's pretty freaking sex. 40 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 1: He's pretty freezing god, this sounds like an angel. Someone 41 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:30,800 Speaker 1: made a compliment about a sexy singer guy sleeping alone. 42 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 1: He snores and doesn't sleep in the same room as 43 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: as his wife, and of course a comment pops up 44 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 1: about my wife sneaking in whoa. So someone was like, oh, yeah, 45 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 1: you know he's he's sleeping alone. It's like, I don't 46 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: know Opie's wife looks like she's about to sneak in. 47 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 2: There's feeling a little little jelly. 48 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: I don't know. This was all jokes, but it still 49 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 1: made me feel like crap. I guess I can't take jokes. 50 00:02:58,960 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 2: I don't know. 51 00:02:59,360 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: I don't know. 52 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:00,920 Speaker 2: Those are kind of bad jo. 53 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: These are not good jokes. Those aren't They are not 54 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 1: good jokes. But you know what is good and is 55 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 1: not at all a joke, the fact that Strawberry read 56 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 1: donated I can't even talk twenty funny twenty gifted memberships. 57 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, welcome new members to the Little Sillies, 58 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 1: and huge shout out to Strawberry. Okay, straw Berry read all. 59 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:33,360 Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, Daniel Piper says, that's not jealousy, that's just disrespectful. 60 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 2: I think it's incredibly disrespectful. I do think he's still jealous, 61 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 2: but I mean, right, like rightfully. So she's making these 62 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 2: comments about being into other guys. 63 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 1: You're absolutely right. 64 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 2: I think it's warranted. 65 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 1: It is. 66 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 2: It is jealousy. 67 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 1: I mean, the jealousy is so warmed. 68 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:53,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, she's like making these comments about other guys. 69 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 1: It's weird. But I can't even lie, you know, what 70 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 1: else is warranted? 71 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 2: What else is warranted? 72 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 1: The biggest shout out in all of the history of 73 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 1: the universe, Man Man the Blond One just donated one 74 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 1: hundred forty four dollars. Wait for it on the donation link. 75 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: On the donation wow. 76 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 2: Even two thousand yo. 77 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 1: K the Blonde One says to us Chat has spoken 78 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: every minute you're late, we demand be added to the 79 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:26,159 Speaker 1: stream hereforward. Also, we need music. If we wait, we 80 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:33,599 Speaker 1: can absolutely add music. Sometimes, like bad things happen. 81 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 4: And the reason we relate today was because OBS crashed 82 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 4: three different times. Yes, I had everything prepped and I 83 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 4: had a restart, and the process takes like. 84 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 1: We love cursing and other things. But if something like 85 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: really bad happens to any one of us, I don't 86 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 1: know if we necessarily want to punish ourselves for that, 87 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 1: but maybe if you have an alternative, possibly like the 88 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:03,480 Speaker 1: swearing for every minute something something like that. 89 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:05,360 Speaker 2: Please will you take an alternative? 90 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 1: Please? Please please chat? 91 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 2: Please me a request Aaron Robinson, thanks to the Five Books. 92 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 2: It's my birthday. I'm so happy that I caught the 93 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 2: live today. Happy birthday, a very happy birthday. 94 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 1: Honestly on a stream day. Stream day is the best 95 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 1: day to have a birthday, and that's almost every day 96 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: Aaron chose the right day to have a birthday. 97 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, if your birthday's on a Saturday or a Sunday Wednesday. 98 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:31,839 Speaker 1: I also see it. Delete your your birth history. 99 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:34,360 Speaker 2: Then go back, or wait another year, you know. 100 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 1: Or wait another year until and then another buck tip 101 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 1: from the blonde one a disregard the comment with that 102 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 1: I forgot to delete it. Which which comments the one before? 103 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:49,119 Speaker 1: I don't know the comment from the tip, the comment 104 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:52,039 Speaker 1: from the tip you're good. Yeah, it's okay, it's all good. 105 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 4: It's most of the time it is John and Sam's 106 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 4: fault for not showing up. 107 00:05:56,360 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 1: But there are there are times where not good things happen. Yeah, 108 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:04,159 Speaker 1: but all the times that we should be here, Riley 109 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 1: will go back to you. Riley, he will take that 110 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 1: and he will spank our cheeks. 111 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 2: Absolutely, just desserts. 112 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 4: We can do it in front of the stream if 113 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 4: you want. 114 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: How does that sound. 115 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 2: Maybe while while you guys are late. I just start 116 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:19,279 Speaker 2: reading to everyone and. 117 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:20,799 Speaker 4: It's like and it's like in the back. 118 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:24,040 Speaker 1: I thought, I'm. 119 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:28,279 Speaker 2: Reading like I don't know what are some like like Shakespeare. 120 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 1: Once upon a Time, But I have to yeah that, yeah, 121 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 1: it would be exactly. But we love you the blonde one. 122 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 1: Shout out to you, Blonde one, You're you're the. 123 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 4: Streamers, spankings streams. 124 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:42,839 Speaker 1: Here we go, Here we go? Do we have another one? 125 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:48,039 Speaker 1: In addition to on the top, I saw one lobster 126 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:50,839 Speaker 1: lady with the one eleven making it on got odd 127 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:56,599 Speaker 1: gang has entered the freaking building. Okay, has entered the building. 128 00:06:56,800 --> 00:07:02,240 Speaker 4: Wow, what are you doing, Sophia? But whoa not even 129 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:03,200 Speaker 4: a gay? 130 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 2: I'm getting the story. 131 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 4: We're in the middle of a story. 132 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 1: How dare you? We are? It's okay. She was trying 133 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:16,239 Speaker 1: to be so ready. She was too ready, too early. 134 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 1: But guess what is not over? It's not over. Let's 135 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 1: get it back into it so quick. Deal. We are 136 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 1: for everybody. So basically h op was Alice of Friends 137 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 1: and they have this gorgeous man who is gorgeous, singing 138 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 1: like a god. 139 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 2: What do you think he's singing. 140 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 1: Sam's favorite all about my pigeons, boy, Frank Sinatra, Frank 141 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 1: Frank some way. 142 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 2: It's just on repeat. Sam does the thing that my 143 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 2: parents do where they he plays the same radio station 144 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 2: on repeat, and so I'm hearing the same songs every day. 145 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 1: It is true. We can are we down to uh 146 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 1: make a mutiny, make a what a mutiny? I was 147 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 1: gonna say, I was looking for a mutiny. Absolutely overtake 148 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: the music. Yeah, just come forward and just yeah is that? 149 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 2: I do like the vibe. I just I just need 150 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 2: like yeah, Sam loves Marvin Gay. I I just yeah, 151 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 2: I just need like a like an expanded genre. 152 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:35,120 Speaker 1: You know, Yes, what if we have days? What if 153 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:37,079 Speaker 1: we just each rotate a week day? 154 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, like we all get to control. 155 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: With Yeah, it would be kind of fun, right. I 156 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: like that we could expose new music. Yeah, that's true. 157 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:48,200 Speaker 4: Then I just need to changing back. 158 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 2: It's a war war war, yeah, but it has to 159 00:08:53,320 --> 00:09:00,200 Speaker 2: be something that's like good for yes, you know, or 160 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:04,520 Speaker 2: could we well no, we do. But like when I'm working, 161 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 2: I feel like you need like something. 162 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 1: That's I need my ears to bleed, Okay, okay, But anyways, guys, 163 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 1: we have a story and we're gonna get We're gonna 164 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 1: get back in right one of those that's right, that's 165 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 1: it's it's good, Rightley, I know, well it's it's good now, right, 166 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 1: you've taped it down. Plus, I don't want to like 167 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:25,840 Speaker 1: damage it by accident. It's okay, it's good. 168 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 2: It's from John. 169 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 1: There's no other way. It's heavens, I can't I can't 170 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 1: see him. Yes, it's good. Anyways, let's get back to 171 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 1: the story. Lads, gentlemen, quick deal of the r Yeah, Opie, gosh, 172 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:44,720 Speaker 1: we keep giving me distracted. Today Opie went to karaoke. 173 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 1: There's a sexy man singing, and then the wife is 174 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 1: making comments like, oh man, your voice must get all 175 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 1: the girls we like, basically like hitting on him a lot, 176 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 1: and opis like, h I hate this, and that's pretty accurate. 177 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:58,080 Speaker 1: So we're getting back into it. While my wife was 178 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 1: getting up to sing, my wife was winding up more jokes. 179 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 1: She said, with exasperation that my wiener is always there, 180 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 1: like it's a constant chore for her. 181 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 2: Oh my god, your wife is mean. 182 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 1: In front of everybody. 183 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 2: Your wife is me. 184 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:17,720 Speaker 1: First off, that's already like a terrible thing to say, 185 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 1: but in front of a whole party of friends, whole party, Yes, 186 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:24,080 Speaker 1: my libido is higher than hers. Yes, I would have 187 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 1: guessed she felt that way. We had never talked about it, 188 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 1: so it was startling to hear it in front of 189 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 1: our friends. She also molented. She also lamented she's only 190 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 1: seen one wiener in a very long time. 191 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 2: Yikes, yikes this. 192 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 1: Ma'am, ma'am stinky. 193 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 2: Woman alert stinky stek. 194 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:52,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, my god. Also something we'd never discussed, so I 195 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:58,200 Speaker 1: was again taken aback jokes. I guess no, no joke, God, 196 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:00,120 Speaker 1: jokes make them funny. 197 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 2: Jokes aren't funny, then they're not jokes. 198 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:04,439 Speaker 4: Or meant for the wrong audience. 199 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 1: True. Our friend then rushed me into starting my song 200 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 1: before she continued. I tried hiding my content the rest 201 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:17,440 Speaker 1: of the night. We went home at midnight, I confronted 202 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 1: her about it. Immediately. She didn't know what I was 203 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:23,559 Speaker 1: talking about. What I don't know? She passed out and 204 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:25,839 Speaker 1: I couldn't go to sleep. I only got three hours 205 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 1: of rest. I couldn't let it go before I fell asleep. 206 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 1: I texted her what she had said. It was, Ah, 207 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:35,720 Speaker 1: it was a crappy move. Caught myself. It was a 208 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 1: crappy move. I should have said it to her face, 209 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:41,080 Speaker 1: but I needed some Catharsis to settle down. I mean, 210 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 1: I do kind of get. He literally told her, and 211 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 1: she's like, oh, I forgot, and then she just falls asleep. Yeah, 212 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 1: so you gotta have some sort of backup, like being like, hey, 213 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 1: I told I marked this to make sure there was 214 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:57,120 Speaker 1: like proof of like I remember what you said this was. 215 00:11:57,679 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think that's necessary, That's right. 216 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:02,560 Speaker 1: The next morning, I went to help my parents with yardwork. 217 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:05,880 Speaker 1: While working, I decided I wasn't going to let it go. 218 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 1: I wanted to hold her accountable. She woke and saw 219 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:14,199 Speaker 1: my text and immediately messaged our group of friends to 220 00:12:14,360 --> 00:12:17,840 Speaker 1: dig in deeper. Now I'm just kidding to apologize. Yay. 221 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 1: They said she had nothing to apologize for. Nothing. She 222 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 1: did nothing wrong. What He's completely innocent. They said she 223 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:35,720 Speaker 1: had nothing to apologize for almost sheff Riley Sheffley, Jeff, 224 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 1: thank you, chef cook Yes, chef, yes, Jef. They said, 225 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:43,680 Speaker 1: you had nothing to apologize for. Then she text apologized 226 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 1: to me. I came home later and I told her 227 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 1: that I was distraught. I said I didn't know who 228 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 1: that I said, I didn't know who that person was 229 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 1: making those jokes, as in, like, I don't even recognize 230 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:57,640 Speaker 1: you those crazy things. I don't believe that they were 231 00:12:57,679 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 1: all jokes. She apologized again and then threw up her hands, 232 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 1: wondering what more. Could she do? What more? I texted you, Apaul, 233 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, what more? 234 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:09,120 Speaker 2: What else am I supposed to do? What else am 235 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 2: I supposed so high? 236 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 1: Am I supposed to be a good partner? 237 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:16,959 Speaker 2: No, I can't do that. You put me in a 238 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 2: room with a sexy singer man. 239 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 1: Maybe if you just let me bang him like thirty 240 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:25,839 Speaker 1: or forty times, I'd come back to you. I come 241 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:29,679 Speaker 1: back to you maybe maybe maybe maybe, she said, I'm overreacting. 242 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 1: No one else thought it was an issue. She said, 243 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:36,120 Speaker 1: it's normal to your husband, right she uh. She said, 244 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 1: it's normal to make these jokes about your sex life 245 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:41,440 Speaker 1: with your friends. She also said that of course she 246 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:45,199 Speaker 1: doesn't want other men. She barely has interest in sex 247 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:53,440 Speaker 1: with me. Oh oh, oh, oh, oh god, say that? 248 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:57,920 Speaker 1: Oh my thought? You're what that is? 249 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 2: Baby? Baby, don't worry. I don't think about other men. 250 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:02,560 Speaker 2: I barely think about you. 251 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:07,680 Speaker 1: I don't even think about you. Do gross? Worm? Oh 252 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 1: my god? Oh not worm slug. Yeah, I'm sorry, guys, 253 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 1: you know what, that was a bad joke, and I 254 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 1: take ownership and accountability for making a stupid joke. 255 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:22,640 Speaker 2: I appreciate that, Are you kidding? Appreciate that? 256 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 1: How could I how how dare I close to get canceled? 257 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? 258 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 1: Worms, I come to you with an orange of peace. 259 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:34,200 Speaker 1: I wish I had one be you feet. I should just, guys, 260 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 1: should I just take like forty oranges from the boxes 261 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 1: downstairs and just put them in my lap on the 262 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 1: next stream? Yeah? I feel like that would be a 263 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 1: good use. Yep. She also said that of course she 264 00:14:44,360 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 1: doesn't want I told her to leave the house and 265 00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:50,880 Speaker 1: I didn't want to be around her she left. I'm 266 00:14:50,920 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 1: sure I've ruined her birthday at this point, right, Who cares? 267 00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 1: I forgot about that? I'm sure I've ruined he birthday 268 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 1: at this point. I feel horrible. What do you guys think? 269 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 1: Did I overreact? And there is some updates, but first chat, 270 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 1: we have a question for you, which is going to 271 00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 1: be a poll, and you know what that poll is. 272 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 1: Sophia tell me that Pole is going to say divorce 273 00:15:21,080 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 1: or not. 274 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 2: I'm leaning towards divorce. 275 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:32,680 Speaker 1: Ooh, so let me ask you this first. Did Ope overreact? No? 276 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:33,800 Speaker 1: And why not? 277 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 2: Because that was really really harsh things to say to 278 00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 2: your partner, really rude things to say in front of 279 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 2: other people. If you have things that you want to 280 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 2: bring up to your partner, you bring it up solo 281 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:50,520 Speaker 2: in private, and you bring it up respectfully. Yes, you 282 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 2: don't embarrass them in front of a bunch of other people. 283 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 1: Like, honestly, I'm having trouble finding a more disrespectful way 284 00:15:57,760 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 1: to yeah, like bring something up other than like making 285 00:16:01,200 --> 00:16:05,040 Speaker 1: jokes very much at your expense in front of all 286 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 1: of your friends. 287 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I do think this is like, yeah, therapy to divorce, but. 288 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:15,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, they no guessing that will ultimately kind of reach 289 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 1: divorce even going down all the proper routes. 290 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:21,280 Speaker 2: And yeah, yeah, I think I think uh Opie's wife 291 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 2: has a lot of making up to do, and right 292 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 2: now she's like not even realizing what she did wrong. 293 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 2: They gotta go ditch therapy, true, Yeah, yeah, everyone's saying divorce, divorce, divorce. 294 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:38,960 Speaker 2: Yeah we got a couple nas. I think those people 295 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 2: are leaning towards therapy. 296 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:43,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, probably, like like, hey, go to therapy. If it 297 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:45,880 Speaker 1: still doesn't work out from there, then get a divorce 298 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:49,640 Speaker 1: because like the wife is like not really apologizing. No, 299 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 1: I feel like really not really not. But you know what, 300 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 1: there's more to the story. We have more ladies and 301 00:16:57,720 --> 00:17:04,320 Speaker 1: gentlemen just bewait. So update. I didn't kick her out 302 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:08,000 Speaker 1: of our marital home. I asked her to leave, and 303 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:11,080 Speaker 1: leave she did. She came back a few hours later. 304 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:13,399 Speaker 1: I packed a bag and I'm staying at my parents 305 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 1: for tonight. I'm not sure yet what I'm going to do. 306 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 1: I think couples counseling would be best. This is smart. 307 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:21,720 Speaker 1: I will likely make it a prerequisite for me returning home. 308 00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 1: I'm hesitant to do it. We've tried before and it 309 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 1: didn't go well. She's against therapy in general. It really 310 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:31,360 Speaker 1: feels like my choice is my pride or my family. 311 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 1: I am devastated. And that is literally the complete end 312 00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 1: of the story. There is no more. 313 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:41,640 Speaker 2: There is no I think it's about pride. I think 314 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:45,439 Speaker 2: it's about yeah, like do you want to beat what? 315 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 1: What does that even mean? 316 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 2: I think he's saying, oh ah, like maybe I'm just 317 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:54,040 Speaker 2: I'm just making this an issue because my pride got hurt. 318 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:56,440 Speaker 1: Like I go, yeah, my. 319 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,920 Speaker 2: Male ego, I'm jealous, blah blah blah. But I don't 320 00:17:58,920 --> 00:17:59,640 Speaker 2: think that's the issue. 321 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:02,359 Speaker 1: I think gas lighting gas lighting. 322 00:18:02,440 --> 00:18:07,119 Speaker 2: Gas Lamp likes to say, there you go, and I 323 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 2: think that you should be with a partner who is 324 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:16,760 Speaker 2: respectful and doesn't that like talk badly about you one 325 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:18,720 Speaker 2: in front of you, but also just around other people 326 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:19,280 Speaker 2: in general? 327 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 1: A million. 328 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:23,560 Speaker 2: I think you should be respectful about your partner. 329 00:18:23,680 --> 00:18:24,960 Speaker 1: You shouldn't even say those things. 330 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:27,920 Speaker 2: You should be gossiping about your partner in front of people. 331 00:18:28,840 --> 00:18:34,280 Speaker 1: Oh here's a question, yeah if okay, hypothetically, we love hypothetical. 332 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:37,480 Speaker 4: I do make a conspiracy theory. 333 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:40,880 Speaker 1: One may say, not a conspiracy theory. Okay, okay, yes, 334 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 1: but yeah, uh would you rather your partner say mean 335 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:53,160 Speaker 1: hurtful things? Oh crap? What was my hypothetical? Oh? No, 336 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:59,119 Speaker 1: in person? You got I've been you know I've infected too. 337 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:03,879 Speaker 1: We're all we've all been infected. We've all been infected 338 00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 1: with incomplete thoughts. I literally cannot remember the hypothetical that 339 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 1: I was just. 340 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:09,119 Speaker 4: About it, that was going to make fun of you 341 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 4: for it, and I forgot the words for it. 342 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:13,239 Speaker 1: Dude, how do you do this? What the heck? What 343 00:19:13,359 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 1: is this evil power that you have? What was it? Okay, 344 00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:19,280 Speaker 1: I was gonna say a hypothetical, where would you rather 345 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:23,200 Speaker 1: your partner say them? In person or or behind your back? 346 00:19:23,240 --> 00:19:23,639 Speaker 1: There we go. 347 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:25,760 Speaker 2: I knew that's what you were trying to say. 348 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 1: Okay, so first you in affect me with incomplete you 349 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:33,400 Speaker 1: infected me with incomplete thoughts, and then you literally don't 350 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:37,080 Speaker 1: help me complete the thought. Yes, wow, yeah, wow. 351 00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:40,679 Speaker 2: Because you deserve to know what it feels like. But 352 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:45,320 Speaker 2: anyway to answer your would you rather I would rather 353 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 2: them say it to my face so it can break 354 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:47,560 Speaker 2: up with them? 355 00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:53,560 Speaker 1: Wow? Right? Right, just so you know? Yeah, yeah, because 356 00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 1: like if someone's running around behind your back, like in theory, 357 00:19:57,920 --> 00:20:00,720 Speaker 1: maybe you don't hear it for a while. Yeah, but 358 00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:05,640 Speaker 1: it's kind of better your face because then then you then. 359 00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:07,480 Speaker 2: You know, yeah, then you can decide whether or not 360 00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:09,320 Speaker 2: you want to continue that relationship. 361 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:12,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, Katie Bear said. She said it in front of 362 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:16,160 Speaker 1: a crowd, though she literally got him in the microphone 363 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:18,240 Speaker 1: like hey, gush, She's. 364 00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:20,160 Speaker 2: Like, I'm not saying anything behind anybody's back. 365 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:23,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I say truth. This guy is this guy with 366 00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:25,880 Speaker 1: a tiny little wiener over there. I gotta do that 367 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:29,240 Speaker 1: all the time. I haven't seen another wiener in so long. 368 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:38,679 Speaker 2: Country Road, Take me away my husband, he's the worst. 369 00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:44,720 Speaker 1: Where's that singer? I'll be your mama? Take me home? 370 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:47,040 Speaker 1: Entry Roads? 371 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 2: Nice? 372 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:52,600 Speaker 1: We did it. We improve We improv Zi improv Oh 373 00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 1: my gosh, I'm gonna get a new how's your back doing, 374 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:58,000 Speaker 1: because my these pillows are I don't love me. 375 00:20:58,160 --> 00:20:59,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, my back is a little hard. 376 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 1: Could you read out the donations and then some chats 377 00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 1: and I'll be right backwards the billows. Yeah. 378 00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 2: Silver Clover says I constantly have incomplete thoughts because of 379 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:12,680 Speaker 2: ADHD due to the fact that my thoughts are rapidly 380 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:15,280 Speaker 2: coming and going, so unless I say it right away, 381 00:21:15,359 --> 00:21:16,000 Speaker 2: my brain moves on. 382 00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:18,520 Speaker 1: Last night was hilarious. 383 00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:21,880 Speaker 4: So my girlfriend came over and I'm pretty I'm pretty 384 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 4: sure she has ADHD, And having Sophia and her talk 385 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:28,560 Speaker 4: to one another was the craziest thing ever because. 386 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:30,680 Speaker 1: Like they were both super they were both. 387 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:32,960 Speaker 4: Talking one hundred miles an hour at each other and 388 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:36,399 Speaker 4: like yet no sentence was really completed whatsoever. 389 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 1: They were like. 390 00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:41,840 Speaker 4: And then the other and they were like so excited 391 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:43,720 Speaker 4: to be there and like the waveling was on the 392 00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:44,280 Speaker 4: same thing. 393 00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:47,720 Speaker 2: Is I love talking to other people who have ADHD, because, 394 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 2: like I I think that ADHD people tend to interrupt, 395 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:55,120 Speaker 2: but it's not like a conscious it's not like oh 396 00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:56,480 Speaker 2: my god, I don't want to hear you. It's just 397 00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:58,600 Speaker 2: like I need, like silver Clovis said, it's like I 398 00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:00,560 Speaker 2: need to get that thought out. But when you talk 399 00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:03,560 Speaker 2: with other ADHD thoughts, it's just constant interruptions and it 400 00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:04,240 Speaker 2: just keeps. 401 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,879 Speaker 1: Going, and it's like each person knows, like you know, 402 00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 1: you know, the drill, like yeah, please. 403 00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:10,159 Speaker 2: You don't have to be like sorry, it's just like 404 00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 2: and we'll get back to that. 405 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:12,199 Speaker 1: Man. 406 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:14,560 Speaker 4: There was a lot of oh sorry and very nice 407 00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:19,520 Speaker 4: but endless rabbit hole like yeah, yeah, it was crazy. 408 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:20,240 Speaker 1: Who is this? 409 00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:24,280 Speaker 4: Uh my girlfriend? Last night we got rumble cookie. 410 00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:25,120 Speaker 1: That's cute. 411 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:27,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, it was a good time. 412 00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 2: But I didn't read any of the donations forget oh wow, 413 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:37,119 Speaker 2: forgetful Sophie. It seems pretty apt of a username. H 414 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 2: thank you for the two bucks. Not remembering doesn't excuse 415 00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:42,880 Speaker 2: the behavior at big Time Big Time. As as someone 416 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:46,920 Speaker 2: in the common said, drunk so words are a sober thought. 417 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:52,680 Speaker 1: Drunk third sober third words for your brain hole, drunks thirds. 418 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:57,359 Speaker 2: Are super thoughts. Yo, Moonnight eighteen. Thank you for the 419 00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 2: one buck tip. If you guys are interested. I have 420 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:02,200 Speaker 2: a store worried about me and my family trying to 421 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:05,720 Speaker 2: get rid of my little brother's dog without of no that. 422 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 1: Sounds terrible, Moon Night eighteen. 423 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,440 Speaker 2: But worried, worried, reed. 424 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:16,760 Speaker 1: However, however, you can submit it to our slash Okop show. 425 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 1: We are reading a lot more stories from there. And 426 00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:22,440 Speaker 1: guess what, ladies and gentlemen, I'm going to see right now, 427 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 1: we've been shouting out and reading a lot more of 428 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:29,679 Speaker 1: your stories from our slash Okop show. And at this 429 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 1: point in time we did we were number seventeen in 430 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:36,280 Speaker 1: podcasts on all of Reddit. We're now twenty four. 431 00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:38,879 Speaker 2: Wait, been at twenty four, guys. 432 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:40,160 Speaker 1: We went down to twenty four where we're not. We're 433 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:43,440 Speaker 1: not back yet. However, we do have like another two 434 00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:47,000 Speaker 1: hundred and fifty members, so we get We're at sixty 435 00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:50,639 Speaker 1: almost sixty three hundred members. We're getting there, So guys, 436 00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:53,439 Speaker 1: send in your stories because it's awesome. 437 00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:56,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, and also, Kristen Fold, thank you for the fourteen 438 00:23:56,600 --> 00:24:01,119 Speaker 2: eighty nine dip the god damn make it even. Let's 439 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:04,600 Speaker 2: go so that I think there was one right below Moonnight. 440 00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:15,200 Speaker 5: Oh oh oh oh, you are really wanting to read something. 441 00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:16,200 Speaker 4: You can read this next story. 442 00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,399 Speaker 2: Oh I mean, aren't we still in this story? 443 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:25,200 Speaker 1: Oh wow, that was a complete thought, so you wowee wow, 444 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:27,480 Speaker 1: wow Wow, we get into the story because it's about 445 00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:37,080 Speaker 1: to blow your freaking mind. Whoa wow wow webs am. 446 00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:34,840 Speaker 2: You ever play that? 447 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:37,320 Speaker 1: He doesn't even know what that is? 448 00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:40,720 Speaker 2: You don't even know what that is? Shout out to 449 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 2: all the people who played wowowd Am I the a 450 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:48,920 Speaker 2: hole for robbing you? Are my wife's a fair partner 451 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 2: and causing his divorce? I'm gonna say that one more 452 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:55,160 Speaker 2: time because John looks like it doesn't know what happened. 453 00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:55,760 Speaker 1: I don't. 454 00:24:56,520 --> 00:25:00,400 Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for robbing my wife a 455 00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 2: fair partner and causing his divorce? 456 00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:08,399 Speaker 1: Why are you talking to me like? Okay, grand boss? 457 00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:11,080 Speaker 1: So we're you gonna take your Alzheimer's pills and then 458 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:14,600 Speaker 1: you're gonna drink your prune juice? Okay, okay Grandpa? 459 00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:17,960 Speaker 4: Why did why do old people drink prune juice because 460 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:19,000 Speaker 4: it helps with blood flow? 461 00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:24,000 Speaker 1: Really? I did not know that, total up. I don't know, dude, 462 00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:28,120 Speaker 1: you freaking liar. I think juice juice helps with blood flow? 463 00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:34,280 Speaker 2: Jos Well, anyway, research ay ai ya. 464 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:38,400 Speaker 1: Helps a poop? Thank you, cass. I was gonna say that. 465 00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:42,280 Speaker 2: Ninety six fifty vour says I thirty two have been 466 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,280 Speaker 2: married to my soon to be ex wife, thirty Madison 467 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:49,199 Speaker 2: for four years. We're currently in counseling, but it's not 468 00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 2: going to work. The attitude. 469 00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:56,240 Speaker 1: Give it to the old Cory going well. 470 00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:58,680 Speaker 2: About a year ago, I found out she was having 471 00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 2: an affair by coming home to their clothes in our 472 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:05,480 Speaker 2: living room and sounds coming from our bedroom. 473 00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,000 Speaker 1: Oh oh, no, better than see. 474 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:13,280 Speaker 2: I lost it. I was getting my cricket bat out 475 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:15,640 Speaker 2: of the front closet when I stopped to think about 476 00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:21,440 Speaker 2: the consequences. The cricket back it, backet, cricket back bat. 477 00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:23,440 Speaker 1: Got that back. 478 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 2: Hey yo, hey, yo, I didn't want to go to jail. Good, 479 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 2: so you stopped? 480 00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:30,679 Speaker 1: He stopped? 481 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 2: Oh and then he stopped. Oh sorry did I say 482 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:39,119 Speaker 2: when I stopped to think about consequences, I did not 483 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:42,160 Speaker 2: want to go to jail. Instead, I took all their 484 00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:45,560 Speaker 2: clothes and quite whitely left. 485 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:48,760 Speaker 1: I was that's funny. 486 00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:52,600 Speaker 2: Just that sucks as like like a high school movie 487 00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:54,639 Speaker 2: where they steal the clothes while the guys in the 488 00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:55,400 Speaker 2: shower or whatever. 489 00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:56,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh god. 490 00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 2: I went to a friend's house, but not before throwing 491 00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:06,240 Speaker 2: all the clothes in a McDonald's garbage can. I turned 492 00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:10,679 Speaker 2: off my phone and got poop faced with my buddy. 493 00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:14,280 Speaker 2: His wife host us off. In the morning, after I 494 00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:17,359 Speaker 2: turned my phone back on, I had dozens of calls 495 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:21,080 Speaker 2: and texts from Madison. First scared because she got my 496 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 2: update the flight information, so he was on a flight 497 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:28,440 Speaker 2: and he came over early. Then update, and then upset 498 00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:30,199 Speaker 2: that I hadn't called her to let her know I 499 00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:32,920 Speaker 2: was going to be coming home early. Then freaked out 500 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:36,040 Speaker 2: that the house had been broken into, then crazy because 501 00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:39,679 Speaker 2: she figured out it was me. They just got more deranged. 502 00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:42,879 Speaker 2: The guy she was with is five inches shorter than 503 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:46,440 Speaker 2: me and about sixty pounds lighter. Maybe he's a little 504 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:47,720 Speaker 2: little British Man. 505 00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:55,439 Speaker 5: English English, so if he has taken oh so, if 506 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 5: he had taken my clothes, it would be obvious because 507 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:00,560 Speaker 5: he's so much short. 508 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:03,040 Speaker 2: He ended up calling his friend to go get his 509 00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:07,280 Speaker 2: spare keys from his house. Unfortunately for him, his wife 510 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,600 Speaker 2: smelled herrat and followed his friend back to my house, 511 00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:16,280 Speaker 2: where she saw him leaving in oversized clothes. Long story short, 512 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:20,320 Speaker 2: she took pictures and she had evidence of his infidelity 513 00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:26,480 Speaker 2: ooh yo, which caused their prenup to be canceled, which 514 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:28,600 Speaker 2: cost him a lot of money. 515 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 1: Was this, So this wasn't ope scenario. He's saying, there's 516 00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:32,680 Speaker 1: a whole other scenario. 517 00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:37,520 Speaker 2: So so Op caught his wife cheating on him with 518 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:40,360 Speaker 2: the guy who was significantly shorter than him, and he 519 00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:43,280 Speaker 2: was like, cricket bat, I'm about to go psycho. And 520 00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:45,280 Speaker 2: then he was like whoa, whoa, whoa, and I want 521 00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:47,800 Speaker 2: to go to jail instead. I'm going to steal all 522 00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:51,160 Speaker 2: of their clothes throw them in the garbage. And the 523 00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:54,200 Speaker 2: wife figured out that he did it and was like, 524 00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,920 Speaker 2: oh my god, what are you doing. And so, because 525 00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,960 Speaker 2: the affair partner had no clothes, he had to borrow 526 00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:03,720 Speaker 2: some of Op's clothes, which were significantly bagg here and 527 00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:08,440 Speaker 2: a fair partner's wife saw this happen, like saw him 528 00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 2: come home with like baggy clothes and was like, you're 529 00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:12,240 Speaker 2: leadally cheating. 530 00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:15,480 Speaker 1: So so Op, the person being cheated on and the 531 00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:19,400 Speaker 1: other spouse being cheated on both caught their yes respective 532 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:19,840 Speaker 1: partners in. 533 00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:22,040 Speaker 2: And now there is a divorce happening. 534 00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:30,320 Speaker 1: Oh double divorce with divorce divorcevicevice. We did, we have 535 00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:31,240 Speaker 1: done a good one in a while. 536 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:33,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, so true. It took a couple of months, but 537 00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:38,000 Speaker 2: my wife convinced me to try and forgive her. We 538 00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 2: started going to counseling and we were working our way 539 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:44,800 Speaker 2: through it until recently, in a counseling session, she said 540 00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 2: that I was wrong to steal his wallet, phone, and 541 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,560 Speaker 2: car keys. She said that his a divorce is costing 542 00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:52,720 Speaker 2: him a lot of money and that I should have 543 00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:54,880 Speaker 2: dealt with it in a morbiture manner and that it 544 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:58,920 Speaker 2: was my fault. Why does she still care about him though? 545 00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:02,640 Speaker 2: About the a fair partner? If she's trying to make 546 00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,560 Speaker 2: it work with op, why is she still keeping up 547 00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:07,280 Speaker 2: to date with the fair partners? 548 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:08,600 Speaker 1: He's got to check in. 549 00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:11,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, She's like, I just had to just see you. 550 00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 1: I had to see how he was doing and how the. 551 00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:15,120 Speaker 2: Divorce proceedings were going. 552 00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:17,960 Speaker 1: Was here yet schedule is looking like? 553 00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:22,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. I have never admitted to taking his stuff to 554 00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 2: begin with. I was afraid he might call the cops. 555 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:27,440 Speaker 2: Then I didn't want to give her an ammunition in 556 00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:31,360 Speaker 2: case she was divorced, oh, in case she wanted a divorce. 557 00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:34,640 Speaker 2: Now I just don't care. I told her that her 558 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:38,200 Speaker 2: cheating was the reason her boyfriend is getting divorced, and 559 00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:42,120 Speaker 2: that I hope his ex takes everything ouch. I am 560 00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:44,800 Speaker 2: still not living at home. I have my own apartment 561 00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:47,960 Speaker 2: and I'm filing for divorce. Now that I know how 562 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:50,400 Speaker 2: she feels, it's kind of a slap of the face 563 00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:56,240 Speaker 2: that she's blaming me or his divorce. Yeah, pretty twisted. 564 00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:58,280 Speaker 1: Like here's the one that cheated. 565 00:30:58,520 --> 00:30:59,800 Speaker 2: You are the one who cheated. 566 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:03,840 Speaker 1: Oh if I if I punch Riley in the face, 567 00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:08,080 Speaker 1: and then Riley is like, I'm gonna sue you for assault, 568 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 1: And I'm like, guys, look how terrible Riley is suing 569 00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:16,240 Speaker 1: his best buddy. How how dare you I punched Riley 570 00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 1: in the face. I deserve the case. 571 00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 2: John really wants to punch Rilly. 572 00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:25,480 Speaker 1: No, that is completely false. This is really this is 573 00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:29,680 Speaker 1: this is a John's classic analogy slash. 574 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:33,200 Speaker 2: Medical analogies, right, and it is both. 575 00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:34,600 Speaker 1: An analogy and classic. 576 00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:37,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's classic because it's like kind of kind 577 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:38,800 Speaker 2: of not right, you know. 578 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:43,680 Speaker 1: Yes, exactly, yes, exactly, Like my analogies are like, this 579 00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 1: is wrong, but it is also right. 580 00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:51,320 Speaker 2: You're like, you're like eighty five percent there, it's. 581 00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 1: Right in a wrong way. 582 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:54,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm saying absolutely. 583 00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. 584 00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,400 Speaker 4: If there's one person on this team I would not 585 00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:00,720 Speaker 4: gnify with, it would be John of the Florida man 586 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:01,240 Speaker 4: inside of you. 587 00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:05,000 Speaker 1: I I do have a Florida man inside me as well. Honestly, bro, 588 00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:07,160 Speaker 1: it is me. I think you would go insane, like 589 00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:08,520 Speaker 1: like Sam. I could. 590 00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:11,080 Speaker 4: Maybe I'd probably lose to Sam, but I could have 591 00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:13,640 Speaker 4: a fair fight. You scared of death, I would not 592 00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:13,920 Speaker 4: want to. 593 00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:17,680 Speaker 1: Get I think you have a mutter much better shot 594 00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:21,120 Speaker 1: at me than Sam. I think I could be me. Yeah, 595 00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:23,960 Speaker 1: you always try to fight me. I don't kop event 596 00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:26,480 Speaker 1: coming to you. I think I. 597 00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:28,840 Speaker 2: Could be you in a fight, purely because you would 598 00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:32,200 Speaker 2: underestimate man. You'd be like I don't want to hit 599 00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:38,600 Speaker 2: a woman, and I'd be like, well, yeah, I bite you. 600 00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:42,000 Speaker 1: I'm like I'm like, I'm like I'm like a badger. 601 00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:46,000 Speaker 2: Go crazy and you're like, whoa dude? 602 00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:48,640 Speaker 4: Every time I'm in the kitchen, just existing shoes all 603 00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:49,120 Speaker 4: the time. 604 00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:51,840 Speaker 1: Like, I'm like, what about you do? 605 00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:55,760 Speaker 2: I haven't urge to fight me though, no one. 606 00:32:57,600 --> 00:32:59,840 Speaker 1: They can only be satisfied by carnage. 607 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:02,400 Speaker 4: In the second I throw a poach, I'm the bad guy. 608 00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:07,160 Speaker 1: Wow, the world do we live in? We live in 609 00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:14,240 Speaker 1: a society, Riley, Get used to it. Get used to it? Anyways? 610 00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:17,840 Speaker 1: What was that? Yeah? 611 00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:21,400 Speaker 4: No, Uh, that would be wrong if you punched me 612 00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:23,440 Speaker 4: and then try to say I was a bad guy 613 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,120 Speaker 4: whenever I went to sue you. 614 00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:31,440 Speaker 1: Correct full circle. Have you reached the end of the story? Yeah, 615 00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:36,560 Speaker 1: we have. What does that mean? What does that mean, 616 00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:40,200 Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, what does it mean? Are you double checking? Yeah, 617 00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:45,440 Speaker 1: that you've read the story? You read it? All? That means? 618 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:53,320 Speaker 1: What did you just did you just count down one, 619 00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:57,800 Speaker 1: two three and then start counting down again, Sophia, that 620 00:33:58,000 --> 00:33:59,800 Speaker 1: is not how that works. 621 00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,960 Speaker 2: I was telling you that we would count down three. 622 00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:06,440 Speaker 1: No, you said, you said, are you ready to tell 623 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:10,080 Speaker 1: them what's next? One two three? Read this next story? 624 00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,880 Speaker 1: But instead you said one, two three and then proceeded 625 00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:19,200 Speaker 1: to count again, which literally, nobody does two three read 626 00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:21,279 Speaker 1: this next story? I was like, are we going to 627 00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:23,399 Speaker 1: count one two three after the one two three? See 628 00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:26,280 Speaker 1: this time? See this time? She did say it after 629 00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:30,240 Speaker 1: the count. I am so confused. I am completely lost. 630 00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,080 Speaker 1: But guess what, ladies and gentlemen, We're just gonna read 631 00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:34,279 Speaker 1: this next story anyways, depends. I don't even know what 632 00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:36,000 Speaker 1: to do. Right, where are we at? What story? You're 633 00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:39,879 Speaker 1: a shot box? 634 00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:42,840 Speaker 2: Thanks for the two bucks, Karma, wasn't scared of whacking 635 00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:43,440 Speaker 2: the cheaters. 636 00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:46,479 Speaker 1: That's right, in a big spank on the boot. 637 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:49,040 Speaker 2: I don't need a cricket bat, I got two fishts. 638 00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:55,560 Speaker 1: Welcome to the guy show. Ye watch out the stream. 639 00:34:57,880 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 1: We're gonna get taken out thing. Okay, there we go there? 640 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:03,960 Speaker 1: All right? Am I ahole for telling my husband his 641 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:07,320 Speaker 1: affair child isn't welcome in our home? A? 642 00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:09,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think A ay whole? 643 00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:13,680 Speaker 1: So well, we don't know ice frame six six six 644 00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:16,800 Speaker 1: says my husband and I have been married for nine years. 645 00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:19,600 Speaker 1: In twenty twenty one, we found out that my husband 646 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:23,759 Speaker 1: was being sued for child support. Yikes. Turns out my 647 00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:26,839 Speaker 1: husband had an affair shortly after we were married. It 648 00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:30,200 Speaker 1: nearly ended our marriage, but we went to counseling together 649 00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:32,360 Speaker 1: and I agreed to stay in the marriage with the 650 00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:35,920 Speaker 1: following provisions. My husband was to get a second job 651 00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,680 Speaker 1: so that way his child support payments did not affect 652 00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:41,600 Speaker 1: our household budget, and that at no point in time 653 00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:45,200 Speaker 1: would I ever consider having a relationship with this child. 654 00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:47,719 Speaker 1: I've never even thought about the thing of like, if 655 00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:50,880 Speaker 1: he pays child support, it is taking away from the 656 00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:54,120 Speaker 1: finances that they have for like your family never Yeah, 657 00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:56,880 Speaker 1: that even crossed my mind before. If he wanted to 658 00:35:56,920 --> 00:36:00,280 Speaker 1: pursue one with them, a relationship with the kids, fine, 659 00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:04,160 Speaker 1: but I have absolutely zero interest in this kid. Is 660 00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:05,120 Speaker 1: that fair, Sophia. 661 00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:09,160 Speaker 2: I think it is fair for her to say, hey, 662 00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:11,200 Speaker 2: take another job to support your kid. 663 00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:11,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 664 00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:18,040 Speaker 2: I I think to stipulate that I don't want to 665 00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:21,160 Speaker 2: ever have any sort of relationship because a relationship is 666 00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:24,120 Speaker 2: kind of like it's a spectrum. It seems like she 667 00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:28,120 Speaker 2: doesn't even want to like see this kid. Yeah, and 668 00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:30,799 Speaker 2: that at that point, if that is your take on it, 669 00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:34,440 Speaker 2: I think you should just leave the relationship because that 670 00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:35,720 Speaker 2: child is his forever. 671 00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:39,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's like it's it's so intertwined. If he 672 00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:44,759 Speaker 1: is to be a good father to a child, which yeah, 673 00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:48,160 Speaker 1: which yeah I would hope, Uh yeah, then he does 674 00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:51,080 Speaker 1: have have to have a relationship with the child. 675 00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:54,000 Speaker 2: I think she needs to leave if she can't handle him. 676 00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:59,239 Speaker 2: If this child makes her think about the affair, then 677 00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:03,320 Speaker 2: she's already thinking about Like, if she's thinking about the affair, 678 00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:09,440 Speaker 2: then like the relationship is at like a an impasse. Yes, 679 00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:11,920 Speaker 2: that was a full thought. It just took me a second. 680 00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:13,680 Speaker 1: That was a full thot. That was a full thought. 681 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:16,600 Speaker 1: We have to give Sophia creditly Jaen. But let's let's 682 00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:19,200 Speaker 1: put a pull up divorce or not as of right now, 683 00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:20,520 Speaker 1: I think divorce. 684 00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:24,040 Speaker 2: I think divorce. I'm not saying that she's in the wrong, 685 00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:28,600 Speaker 2: like I'm not saying that she necessarily has to get 686 00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:31,960 Speaker 2: over him having an affair and having an affair child. 687 00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:34,279 Speaker 2: But I think if she cannot handle it, she needs 688 00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:37,000 Speaker 2: to leave, because this is her not handling it. 689 00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:37,799 Speaker 1: Yeah. 690 00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:46,120 Speaker 6: On three one two three, one two three, there was 691 00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:48,359 Speaker 6: another silent three seconds. 692 00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:53,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, we love it, We love to see it. Yeah, 693 00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:54,560 Speaker 1: you guys can count. 694 00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:57,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, there will be cats, says she can wait, can 695 00:37:58,000 --> 00:37:58,839 Speaker 2: you go up a little bit? 696 00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:03,080 Speaker 1: No? So many votes, so many votes. 697 00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:05,560 Speaker 2: She can have boundaries, but she should just leave. I agree. Yeah, 698 00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:07,440 Speaker 2: she does not have to be okay with it, but 699 00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:09,359 Speaker 2: she should leave if she's not. 700 00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:14,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, yeah, that kid's his, Yeah it is. It 701 00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:18,279 Speaker 1: is a kind of tough thing to stipulate. Never. I mean, 702 00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:21,319 Speaker 1: she just said she didn't want a relationship and had 703 00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:22,120 Speaker 1: zero interest. 704 00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:26,400 Speaker 2: She has to have or somewhat of a relationship a child. Yeah, 705 00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:28,520 Speaker 2: if she wants to stay in the relationship, she has 706 00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:29,240 Speaker 2: to have someone. 707 00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:33,640 Speaker 1: Because like what happens, like, you know, someone emergency happened, 708 00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:36,120 Speaker 1: someone needs to watch the kids, yeah whatever, And she's just. 709 00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:39,200 Speaker 2: Like, no, I won't. It is totally different for this 710 00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:41,120 Speaker 2: kid to be like in their twenties, and she's like, 711 00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:44,200 Speaker 2: you know, I'm not gonna have a relationship with your kid, right, 712 00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:48,319 Speaker 2: but like for it to be an actual baby, right, 713 00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:53,160 Speaker 2: a baby, a child that needs to be raised. Yeah 714 00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:53,640 Speaker 2: you can. 715 00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:55,960 Speaker 1: You look at this baby and you're like, listen up, baby, 716 00:38:56,600 --> 00:39:00,480 Speaker 1: listen up. You want a relationship with my husband? Yeah, 717 00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:03,600 Speaker 1: freaking right. You put your little diapers on and you 718 00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:07,680 Speaker 1: go out there and you get a job today, today, yesterday, 719 00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:12,320 Speaker 1: yes ago, you should have had a job as a fetus. Okay, 720 00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:15,560 Speaker 1: get prepared and get out there to live life. Because 721 00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:18,120 Speaker 1: guess what, sweetheart, I'm not your mommy. 722 00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:19,440 Speaker 2: Guess what, cupcake? 723 00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:24,960 Speaker 1: Guess what? What? What? What? 724 00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:25,600 Speaker 2: What? 725 00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:37,520 Speaker 1: What? What? What? What? You said? Guess what what am 726 00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:39,640 Speaker 1: I guessing? What? Am I guessing that? 727 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:46,560 Speaker 2: Rah? 728 00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:47,800 Speaker 1: Rah? Okay. 729 00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:52,279 Speaker 2: Some people are saying therapy, they want a therapy option. 730 00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,000 Speaker 1: No peer destruction or nothing. 731 00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:57,640 Speaker 2: I think a therapy. But it seems like she's like 732 00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:03,040 Speaker 2: really making a you know, divorce is just shorthand we're 733 00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:06,840 Speaker 2: just using divorces shorthand we go extremes like yeah, I 734 00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:08,200 Speaker 2: don't have time for the in between. 735 00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:10,000 Speaker 1: Also, we're gonna get back to the story, but Kimberly 736 00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:19,000 Speaker 1: Fine says, is this the intro for thrift shops? Right? Anyways, 737 00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:22,760 Speaker 1: back to the story. So, my husband has been getting 738 00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:25,560 Speaker 1: to know his kid over the past couple of years. Recently, 739 00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:28,160 Speaker 1: my husband came to me and informed me that there 740 00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:32,360 Speaker 1: was some sort of baby mama drama, Babba baba drama. 741 00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:33,920 Speaker 1: I don't know why I don't take my glasses off 742 00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:34,880 Speaker 1: more for dramatic effect. 743 00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:38,640 Speaker 2: I think, is there a rhyme for baby mama lama 744 00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:41,480 Speaker 2: mama drama that doesn't have anything to do with babies? 745 00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:50,360 Speaker 1: But it does. Apparently she apparently she has sir. Apparently 746 00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:56,000 Speaker 1: I'm reading a story. Apparently Apparently she has to self 747 00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:58,879 Speaker 1: surrender in May and is going to be incarcerated for 748 00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:04,520 Speaker 1: eight months. Wait whoa yep, Oh, that baby's gonna have 749 00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:06,960 Speaker 1: no mama. Yeah, hence the drama. 750 00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:07,799 Speaker 2: Man. 751 00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:11,040 Speaker 1: My husband told me that he needed to take custody 752 00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:14,400 Speaker 1: while his affair partner is locked up. Absolutely otherwise the 753 00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:17,880 Speaker 1: baby's on the streets. Yeah, otherwise the kid would have 754 00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:20,120 Speaker 1: to go to their grandparents who basically live on the 755 00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:23,880 Speaker 1: opposite coast from us. Uh, their kid doesn't want to 756 00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:26,680 Speaker 1: have to change schools. Oh way, is this much further down? 757 00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:29,200 Speaker 1: Their kid doesn't want to have to change schools or 758 00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:32,319 Speaker 1: be so far away from their friends, dad, mom. She 759 00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:36,920 Speaker 1: will be doing her time fairly local to us, so 760 00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:39,960 Speaker 1: my husband. So, after my husband told me that, I 761 00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:42,920 Speaker 1: got up and left the house. I went. I went 762 00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:44,880 Speaker 1: to the grocery store on the corner and grabbed a 763 00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:48,080 Speaker 1: copy of our area's apartment guide and went back home 764 00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:50,920 Speaker 1: and handed it to him. He asked if I was serious. 765 00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:54,160 Speaker 1: I told him I still. I still felt the same 766 00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:57,600 Speaker 1: way I did three years ago. He said he didn't 767 00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:02,879 Speaker 1: think it was fair, considering the sensuating circumstances. I told him, 768 00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:05,239 Speaker 1: I don't care about the circumstances. His kid is not 769 00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:08,400 Speaker 1: welcome in my home if he wanted, if he wanted 770 00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:11,719 Speaker 1: to take custody, I will grant him an amiaable divorce. 771 00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:14,520 Speaker 1: But I am not changing my mind. I am not 772 00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:18,319 Speaker 1: taking care of some other chicks kid. And there is 773 00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:21,919 Speaker 1: an edit. But Sophia, yeah, we got a chat real quick, 774 00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:26,080 Speaker 1: and we got a chat with chat real quick. I 775 00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:29,120 Speaker 1: think so Anya says her feelings are valid, but they're 776 00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:33,239 Speaker 1: incompatible with a second chance right to Sophia's point of life. 777 00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:35,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, she can feel that way, but she needs to leave. 778 00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:42,839 Speaker 1: Yes, so I think so she she basically was like, hey, 779 00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:47,920 Speaker 1: you're going to have to go raise this kid elsewhere. Yeah, 780 00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:49,239 Speaker 1: I mean that's really the bottom line. 781 00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:51,439 Speaker 2: I honestly don't know if therapy would work here. 782 00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:54,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, because she is, Yeah, I think she's so over, 783 00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:56,080 Speaker 1: she's so. 784 00:42:56,200 --> 00:43:00,719 Speaker 2: Staunchly like, I will not raise this child. Yeah, And 785 00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:02,520 Speaker 2: I don't know if it would. I don't know if 786 00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:03,760 Speaker 2: she would even accept therapy. 787 00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:08,680 Speaker 1: And to be fair, like having to basically because if 788 00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:10,640 Speaker 1: the kid is in your house, you are by default 789 00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:13,480 Speaker 1: helping raise the child. If this kid is in your 790 00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:17,480 Speaker 1: house and you're helping raise it for this person who 791 00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:20,120 Speaker 1: just got like thrown in jail for eight months, Yeah 792 00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:23,840 Speaker 1: that for for like this girl that she'd done your husband, 793 00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:28,000 Speaker 1: that sucks. It sucks that she should leap. She should leave. 794 00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:33,319 Speaker 2: I think her asking her husband to not raise his 795 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:36,080 Speaker 2: child is in a whole move and I think she 796 00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:38,680 Speaker 2: should just leave. It is totally fair for her not 797 00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:40,880 Speaker 2: to be able to raise this child. She should not 798 00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:43,280 Speaker 2: ask her husband to abandon the child though. 799 00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:46,239 Speaker 1: Yes, I agree, I think she Yeah, she's trying to 800 00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:49,480 Speaker 1: have her cake and idiots you here and just needs to. 801 00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:53,160 Speaker 2: She's trying to like ignore everything that that was like 802 00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:54,920 Speaker 2: created from the affair. 803 00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:58,960 Speaker 1: Also, like, do you I feel like she doesn't even 804 00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:00,000 Speaker 1: want her husband at this point? 805 00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:03,360 Speaker 2: No, Like I just don't understand why she's staying with 806 00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:03,759 Speaker 2: this guy. 807 00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:05,480 Speaker 1: I feel like if she was like, hey, you know 808 00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:07,920 Speaker 1: what I you know, this is an innocent bit, and 809 00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:10,600 Speaker 1: this is an innocent baby too, Like, yeah, it is 810 00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:13,480 Speaker 1: always unfortunate. And we've read like several stories where like 811 00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:15,719 Speaker 1: people take it out on the affair baby and it's 812 00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:19,160 Speaker 1: like the affair baby is innocent. Yeah, like that doesn't 813 00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:22,040 Speaker 1: that's a babe. That doesn't mean you have to raise 814 00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:24,839 Speaker 1: the child or anything like that, but that means that 815 00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:29,879 Speaker 1: you can't like it is ultimately an innocent person that 816 00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:34,319 Speaker 1: did nothing wrong. Yeah, and that's that's that. 817 00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:37,120 Speaker 2: And also, yeah, everyone's saying like the husband's a hill. 818 00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:42,000 Speaker 2: That's again, that's a disable. He cheating on her. Ale. 819 00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:45,319 Speaker 2: I'm saying from like whether or not op is agle. 820 00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:47,680 Speaker 2: I think a little bit. I think a little bit. 821 00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:48,560 Speaker 1: I would say a little bit too. 822 00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:50,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think she's valid for these feelings, but she 823 00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:50,879 Speaker 2: needs to leave. 824 00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:55,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, just just misdirecting the choices around it. 825 00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:57,560 Speaker 2: I would say, who's Takeda says I've got a different take. 826 00:44:57,719 --> 00:45:03,000 Speaker 2: Dad not my father? Not my father? Oh, okay had 827 00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:06,200 Speaker 2: two children outside of him and mother's marriage when they 828 00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:09,239 Speaker 2: separated due to him and addiction issues. But oh, that's 829 00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:10,640 Speaker 2: for an old one, I think, right. 830 00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:14,120 Speaker 1: Oh, I don't think that's okay. Maybe I have been 831 00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:16,000 Speaker 1: seeing a few comments from like old Maybe people are 832 00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:20,040 Speaker 1: catching up in the Yeah the chat word made Naoki says, 833 00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:22,920 Speaker 1: if my husband got another chick pregnant, I'd get custody 834 00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:26,839 Speaker 1: and raise it because odds are I was also there 835 00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:28,440 Speaker 1: at conception. 836 00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:29,680 Speaker 2: Sharing scar. 837 00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:35,200 Speaker 1: Here, I am thinking word made Naoki is like about 838 00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:37,640 Speaker 1: to drop like a real scenario for some like serious 839 00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:41,160 Speaker 1: engaged discussion when it's hilarious. 840 00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:45,200 Speaker 2: H wait, can you scroll up a little bit? 841 00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:46,160 Speaker 1: Roll up? 842 00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:49,000 Speaker 2: There was one a little bit more. There we go, 843 00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:52,120 Speaker 2: missus Filer says, quite frankly, the husband should divorce, like 844 00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:55,480 Speaker 2: you said, like he should take some accountability. I think 845 00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:58,640 Speaker 2: that's like, I think that's obvious to me. Obviously, he 846 00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:02,200 Speaker 2: should divorce and prioritize child but again, I'm just focusing 847 00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:02,960 Speaker 2: on OP right now. 848 00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:07,640 Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, He's like, so the a holes go 849 00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:11,360 Speaker 1: to the corner, You're You're It's clear you're there. Although like, 850 00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:18,880 Speaker 1: is it mmmm? I get it's not like as practically useful, 851 00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:21,560 Speaker 1: but is him being like, hey, I want to like 852 00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:24,480 Speaker 1: try and right my wrong by like staying in this 853 00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:27,080 Speaker 1: marriage and like doing what I can for you, but 854 00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:33,320 Speaker 1: also obviously raising this child. Is that a commendable move? 855 00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:37,520 Speaker 1: I I am not practical. I don't think. 856 00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:41,280 Speaker 2: I think it's just when someone asks you to choose 857 00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:48,799 Speaker 2: them over your child. I think that is I don't 858 00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:52,120 Speaker 2: I don't know if it should be a question about. 859 00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:53,640 Speaker 1: That over an innocent baby, Over. 860 00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:56,799 Speaker 2: An innocent baby that you brought into the world and 861 00:46:56,840 --> 00:47:00,200 Speaker 2: you need to take responsibility for. That's like, that's my thing. 862 00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:03,160 Speaker 2: Sam Hyatt says she's not asking him to neglect the child. 863 00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:06,719 Speaker 2: She's saying, if hubby is taking custody rather than grandparents, 864 00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:08,480 Speaker 2: he can do so, but she will divorce. I feel 865 00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:12,520 Speaker 2: like OP is getting unfairly demonized. No, but like that's 866 00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:16,760 Speaker 2: my I guess my point is again, like she should divorce. 867 00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:19,120 Speaker 2: She shouldn't ask him to do this. 868 00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:23,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, like she's she's she's well within her very much 869 00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:26,160 Speaker 1: within her right to divorce and then not have to 870 00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:31,480 Speaker 1: deal with the responsibilities of this other child's And like 871 00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:33,600 Speaker 1: when we say, there's so many times where it's like 872 00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:35,200 Speaker 1: it's an a whole move and we're having fun and 873 00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:37,560 Speaker 1: we pick things on poles. Yeah, but like it's like 874 00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:43,440 Speaker 1: compared to what the husband did. Yeah, like different story 875 00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:49,279 Speaker 1: nowhere near. And also like when people are hurt, like 876 00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:53,680 Speaker 1: we have, you know, yeah, reactions to that. It happens. 877 00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:56,839 Speaker 2: But AnyWho, kati Eli says, also, why would you want 878 00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,600 Speaker 2: a partner that could easily abandon their child? That's my thought, Ras, 879 00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:03,480 Speaker 2: I'm like, why would you ask your partner to do that? Yeah, Like, 880 00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:05,640 Speaker 2: if they could just so easily abandon your child, why 881 00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:08,800 Speaker 2: would you want to continue having a life with them? Well, 882 00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:10,120 Speaker 2: but let's keep going. 883 00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:13,080 Speaker 1: We have we might get some information, yeah, to answer 884 00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:16,279 Speaker 1: that question. Yeah, so for you the warm queen edit 885 00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:21,200 Speaker 1: for all the people concerned, what a whipcracker I am 886 00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:25,360 Speaker 1: make in making my poor husband work two jobs. He 887 00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:29,000 Speaker 1: has never had a full time job since we've been together. Uh, oh, 888 00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:32,560 Speaker 1: that's context. He works two part time retail jobs that 889 00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:35,080 Speaker 1: now add up to forty to fifty hours a week 890 00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:40,239 Speaker 1: currently only has super supervised visitation with his kid. I'm 891 00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:42,560 Speaker 1: assuming the affair baby. They see each other once or 892 00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:44,520 Speaker 1: twice a month for a couple of hours with a 893 00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:48,480 Speaker 1: social worker present. That is just the saddest scenario of 894 00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:51,799 Speaker 1: all time. It's just like just imagining a scenario. This 895 00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:55,600 Speaker 1: guy is just like sitting there for like a few 896 00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:58,800 Speaker 1: hours a month, yeah, with his with his kid. My goodness. 897 00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:02,320 Speaker 1: And for those who seem to think that I need 898 00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:05,960 Speaker 1: to be the one to file for divorce, no, I 899 00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,760 Speaker 1: will not. I am not the one who created the situation. 900 00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:12,280 Speaker 1: If my husband wanted to pursue custody, I have told 901 00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:14,799 Speaker 1: him I will not fight it. I will grant him 902 00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:17,840 Speaker 1: an amical and amiaicable divorce and let him be on 903 00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:20,440 Speaker 1: his way. However, I am not going to waste my 904 00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:23,239 Speaker 1: own time, energy and money to do so. He is 905 00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:25,400 Speaker 1: responsible for getting his own ducks in a row for 906 00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:29,200 Speaker 1: the situation he created. This includes being the one to 907 00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:33,839 Speaker 1: go through the headache of filing. And that is the 908 00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:38,160 Speaker 1: end of the story, ladies and gentlemen. But it is 909 00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:43,200 Speaker 1: very far from the end of the stream. Because we 910 00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:47,520 Speaker 1: have someone in our midst I don't know Sophia. Maybe 911 00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:57,160 Speaker 1: his name's rhymes with damn sonor damn son is it? 912 00:49:57,480 --> 00:49:59,840 Speaker 1: Oh my god? Okay, so you came into a perfect 913 00:49:59,840 --> 00:50:01,759 Speaker 1: time because we just ended a story and can give 914 00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:04,040 Speaker 1: you a teal dar so we can discuss sick. So 915 00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:10,920 Speaker 1: Opie's has been cheated and had a kid, right, Opie 916 00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:14,680 Speaker 1: said the wife is? Opis the wife? Yep is the 917 00:50:14,920 --> 00:50:17,680 Speaker 1: Opie is the wife? Opie. The wife says, I want 918 00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:21,160 Speaker 1: literally nothing to do with your child. I want to 919 00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,920 Speaker 1: have zero relationship by zero interest. Basically, I don't want 920 00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:26,160 Speaker 1: to see this baby. I want to see this baby 921 00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:33,280 Speaker 1: at all. Then, uh, the the baby mama, the affair 922 00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:37,719 Speaker 1: partner gets thrown in jail for eight months. I know. 923 00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:42,680 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, yes, wait is she's she's sticking by the cheater. 924 00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:48,360 Speaker 1: They stayed together. The wife has stayed with the cheating. 925 00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:50,759 Speaker 2: Haulation that I will not have anything to do with 926 00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:51,160 Speaker 2: your child. 927 00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:55,520 Speaker 7: Yes, oh yeah, but but now the child will either 928 00:50:55,560 --> 00:50:57,160 Speaker 7: be put up for adoption. 929 00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:59,000 Speaker 2: Well go to the grandparents on the other side of 930 00:50:59,040 --> 00:50:59,440 Speaker 2: the country. 931 00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:01,680 Speaker 1: So oh yeah. So I mean not the worst thing 932 00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:04,959 Speaker 1: in the world. But basically the dad, the dad was like, hey, 933 00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:08,000 Speaker 1: he already has a three year old kid. He has 934 00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:10,760 Speaker 1: a life here, like I want a parent in school, 935 00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:14,400 Speaker 1: let me, let me take care of him, And. 936 00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:16,759 Speaker 2: What'd you take? 937 00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:21,759 Speaker 1: Go ahead? Well, I mean, first of all, very tough situation. 938 00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:24,319 Speaker 7: Not a lot like there's not there's there's probably a 939 00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:25,480 Speaker 7: myriad of right answers and. 940 00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:30,919 Speaker 1: A myriad of wrong answers. But but when you say 941 00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:35,759 Speaker 1: a three year old has a life here that that 942 00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:40,400 Speaker 1: kid can doesn't it's there, there are no memories. 943 00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:42,560 Speaker 7: That kid is not forming memories. That kid at the 944 00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:45,040 Speaker 7: toab Lassa, the kid said he wanted to stay school. 945 00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:50,920 Speaker 2: What three year old is in school? Did I miss here? 946 00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:53,760 Speaker 1: Thought? He asked? He asked if he was pre school? 947 00:51:54,560 --> 00:51:56,960 Speaker 1: He asked if I was serious? I told him I 948 00:51:57,000 --> 00:52:01,239 Speaker 1: still if he was serious, the three year old? Are 949 00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:05,879 Speaker 1: you serious? I don't think. 950 00:52:06,080 --> 00:52:07,840 Speaker 2: I don't think it really matters whether or not he 951 00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:09,160 Speaker 2: is a life here. I think it's. 952 00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:15,000 Speaker 1: About who gives a ship. No, but I think it's about. 953 00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:16,960 Speaker 2: It's about that. I don't think that's the point. I 954 00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:19,720 Speaker 2: think it's the I think the father should be taking 955 00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:20,839 Speaker 2: responsibility for his kid. 956 00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:25,960 Speaker 1: Sure, but I want to focus. People are like, this 957 00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:28,640 Speaker 1: kid has a life here. It's a great it's a 958 00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:29,120 Speaker 1: great point. 959 00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:31,960 Speaker 7: It's a great but that is not that is not 960 00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:36,040 Speaker 7: a valid art, like, like that is a non points 961 00:52:36,400 --> 00:52:36,680 Speaker 7: with him. 962 00:52:36,960 --> 00:52:39,360 Speaker 1: Let's put that point aside for a second. So the 963 00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:44,879 Speaker 1: kind of conclusion of the story was, uh, Op goes 964 00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:48,000 Speaker 1: to the husband. She's like, here's some apartments. Go find 965 00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:51,120 Speaker 1: an apartment if you want to raise your kid. And 966 00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:53,040 Speaker 1: then a bunch of people were saying like, hey, why 967 00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:54,920 Speaker 1: don't you just divorce him? It sounds like you don't 968 00:52:54,920 --> 00:52:56,759 Speaker 1: want to want to be with him, and she was like, 969 00:52:57,200 --> 00:53:01,440 Speaker 1: I am not going to go through the like the painful, 970 00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:04,920 Speaker 1: frustrating process of filing for divorce because of his actions. 971 00:53:04,920 --> 00:53:06,520 Speaker 1: If he wants a divorce so bad, he can go 972 00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:10,440 Speaker 1: get it himself. Huh. End of story. That's an interesting take, which. 973 00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:14,400 Speaker 2: My take is that obviously the husband is day hole. 974 00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:18,200 Speaker 2: That's easy. Yeah, yeah, But I think that she should 975 00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:21,920 Speaker 2: have from the beginning, if this was her take on it, uh, 976 00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:25,640 Speaker 2: gotten a divorce because I don't think that she should 977 00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:29,479 Speaker 2: ask this guy to abandon his kid. That's my take. 978 00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:32,560 Speaker 1: What's not clear here is does he. 979 00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:34,879 Speaker 2: Want a relationship with. 980 00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:39,600 Speaker 1: He wants a relationship, and basically she's coming in between 981 00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:43,600 Speaker 1: the relationship. But of Ope's. 982 00:53:43,360 --> 00:53:45,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, and what I was saying, she is totally valid 983 00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:48,200 Speaker 2: to feel those feelings and not want a relationship with 984 00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:48,520 Speaker 2: his kid. 985 00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:50,800 Speaker 1: He never had a stable job. 986 00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:54,400 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, yeah, No, I think she's totally valid to 987 00:53:54,400 --> 00:53:55,880 Speaker 2: not want to have a relationship with a kid. 988 00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:58,600 Speaker 1: Why does she want to be with it? Exact idea? 989 00:53:58,640 --> 00:54:00,480 Speaker 2: I don't know why she wants She literally she doesn't 990 00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:02,880 Speaker 2: want a relationship with the kid. She is angry that 991 00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:05,640 Speaker 2: he cheated on her, rightfully, so why is she staying 992 00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:06,120 Speaker 2: with this man? 993 00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:10,960 Speaker 1: Looking at right now? What you got? What do you got? Buddy? 994 00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:13,799 Speaker 1: I go? What am I going to say? You got 995 00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:21,400 Speaker 1: that SLNG? I mean potentially, it is the possibility. It 996 00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:24,000 Speaker 1: is possible to tell you something. Let me tell you. Yeah, uh, 997 00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:26,719 Speaker 1: that is that is the possibility. You're right. 998 00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:28,960 Speaker 4: How many women do you think stay with you because. 999 00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:29,440 Speaker 1: Of your slong? 1000 00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:33,920 Speaker 5: Oh? 1001 00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:37,840 Speaker 4: Sorry sorry, sorry, sorry your personality? 1002 00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:41,759 Speaker 2: Tell us your thoughts about the story, Sam, those are 1003 00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:45,080 Speaker 2: my thoughts. But the crowd, the chot seems like it's 1004 00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:46,560 Speaker 2: a little bit split. 1005 00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:49,160 Speaker 1: Oh, let's do a pole. Yeah, oh wait, the chat 1006 00:54:49,239 --> 00:54:52,799 Speaker 1: is split? Wait should uh? Let me let me phrase 1007 00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:56,840 Speaker 1: it specifically, should she divorce? The pole has already spoken? 1008 00:54:57,560 --> 00:54:58,040 Speaker 1: What are my. 1009 00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:00,960 Speaker 2: I agree. 1010 00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:04,160 Speaker 1: I agree, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 1011 00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:07,279 Speaker 7: I I feel like definitely divorced, like he's dead being 1012 00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:12,280 Speaker 7: he cheated. Uh it sounds, you know, but I feel 1013 00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:15,319 Speaker 7: like the whole the whole idea of like I'm saying, 1014 00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:19,560 Speaker 7: like too much. I I feel the whole idea of, oh, 1015 00:55:19,719 --> 00:55:22,000 Speaker 7: I want you to get a divorce because I don't 1016 00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:26,200 Speaker 7: want to deal with it. I don't think that is true. 1017 00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:27,839 Speaker 1: I think I. 1018 00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:29,480 Speaker 2: Think they're both gonna have to deal with it no 1019 00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:30,359 Speaker 2: matter who starts it. 1020 00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:32,120 Speaker 7: I think we're dealing with a little bit of fear, 1021 00:55:32,840 --> 00:55:35,839 Speaker 7: fear of the unknown, fear of what it's like to 1022 00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:41,160 Speaker 7: be on your own without a partner. I think there's fear. 1023 00:55:41,760 --> 00:55:44,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I think. OP does seem to have 1024 00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:48,080 Speaker 1: like some like reservations that's like kind of clouded in 1025 00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:51,839 Speaker 1: the stubborn kind of like wall. I think that fear 1026 00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:53,799 Speaker 1: is being masked by stubborness. 1027 00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:56,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I said. I think she's stubborn. 1028 00:55:56,760 --> 00:55:59,400 Speaker 7: Well, but I think I think I don't think she's 1029 00:55:59,680 --> 00:56:02,520 Speaker 7: just I think she is pretending to be sick or 1030 00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:08,399 Speaker 7: she is is protaining stubbornness to hide the fear. 1031 00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:11,279 Speaker 1: Let me ask you this though, so let's say I 1032 00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:13,279 Speaker 1: think this is not what she's saying, but this I 1033 00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:16,680 Speaker 1: think would be way more reasonable. She's like, I am 1034 00:56:16,719 --> 00:56:20,720 Speaker 1: separating you, separating with you. However, the divorce and everything 1035 00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:24,440 Speaker 1: is such a long, painful process. Like I want you 1036 00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:26,440 Speaker 1: to bear the brunt of this because you were the 1037 00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:29,920 Speaker 1: one that destroyed this relationship. So like, make this process 1038 00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:32,239 Speaker 1: easy on me. I will, as she said, I will 1039 00:56:32,280 --> 00:56:36,000 Speaker 1: give you amicable terms. Oh, she doesn't want to have 1040 00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:39,360 Speaker 1: to pay him alimony because she has the huge cord said, 1041 00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:42,960 Speaker 1: because she makes more money than him, she could just separate. 1042 00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:46,600 Speaker 8: But but but but he cheated. 1043 00:56:47,520 --> 00:56:51,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, good point, she would. Yeah, it would be open 1044 00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:53,920 Speaker 1: it would be an open shutcase. Yeah. 1045 00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:56,680 Speaker 7: Yeah, the affair was towards the beginning of the relationship, 1046 00:56:56,719 --> 00:56:59,319 Speaker 7: but they only found it recently. If he admitted to 1047 00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:05,120 Speaker 7: it in right, yeah, I think that probably it's pretty easy. 1048 00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:07,960 Speaker 1: Like he cheated, that's why this he should not be 1049 00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:11,880 Speaker 1: He should not be given alimony or any other payments. 1050 00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:16,040 Speaker 2: Sorry, go ahead, I was gonna say, says, why is 1051 00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:18,040 Speaker 2: it on her to leave? She gave him apartment listening, 1052 00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:20,200 Speaker 2: she should he should leave, probably. 1053 00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:21,680 Speaker 1: But it sounds like he's refused. He's like, I can 1054 00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:22,800 Speaker 1: just leave the relationship. 1055 00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:26,120 Speaker 2: I don't think it like if she wants to keep 1056 00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:28,480 Speaker 2: the place, Yeah, that's fine. I'm just saying like she 1057 00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:29,840 Speaker 2: should leave the relationship. 1058 00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:33,080 Speaker 1: I agree, but it seems like she's not even doing That's. 1059 00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:32,800 Speaker 2: What I'm saying. 1060 00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:35,600 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, but maybe she didn't. So Bunny 1061 00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:37,360 Speaker 7: Cakes is a great point five dollars super chat. 1062 00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:39,720 Speaker 1: Thank you. The person who files for divorce has to 1063 00:57:39,720 --> 00:57:41,320 Speaker 1: pay for it. That's why she doesn't want to start 1064 00:57:41,440 --> 00:57:44,320 Speaker 1: the process. She's not stubborn. Okay, but I raised you 1065 00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:47,439 Speaker 1: this what Sofia just said it? John that you just said, 1066 00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:49,600 Speaker 1: why does she just leave the relationship? She doesn't have 1067 00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:52,760 Speaker 1: to divorce to be separated, So separate and get get 1068 00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:55,280 Speaker 1: this out of your life. Yea. 1069 00:57:55,760 --> 00:58:01,440 Speaker 7: And yeah, maybe you don't divorce fully, but you separate. Yeah, 1070 00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:04,760 Speaker 7: and it feels like she's not even willing to separate, 1071 00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:06,400 Speaker 7: which fear. 1072 00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:11,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I do think that there is legitimate, like 1073 00:58:11,960 --> 00:58:14,320 Speaker 1: stubborn pettiness masking something else. 1074 00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:16,760 Speaker 2: Who's the key that says Op is not the a 1075 00:58:16,840 --> 00:58:18,600 Speaker 2: hole but should have walked away a long time ago? 1076 00:58:18,600 --> 00:58:20,960 Speaker 2: If her feelings were and are so deep that that's 1077 00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:22,920 Speaker 2: the thing. I just think, like I don't think she's 1078 00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:24,200 Speaker 2: an a hole for feeling that way. 1079 00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:38,560 Speaker 1: White what he's an a hole? Wh Yeah, yeah, he 1080 00:58:38,680 --> 00:58:39,400 Speaker 1: just blew my mind. 1081 00:58:40,520 --> 00:58:42,320 Speaker 2: I don't know why. My first thought was you were 1082 00:58:42,360 --> 00:58:47,200 Speaker 2: about to give Sam like a Paul Hollywood handshake. That's 1083 00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:50,000 Speaker 2: for all my great British bake offf fans. Paul Hollywood 1084 00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:52,440 Speaker 2: is one of the judges and whenever he like tastes 1085 00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:55,680 Speaker 2: something and he really likes, he'll give a hand he'll 1086 00:58:55,720 --> 00:59:00,240 Speaker 2: go and it's like a huge thing because he like doesn't. 1087 00:59:00,320 --> 00:59:03,200 Speaker 1: He doesn't give a handshake out no words, but it's like, 1088 00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:04,640 Speaker 1: you know, it's it means something. 1089 00:59:04,920 --> 00:59:06,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought that's what you're gonna do. 1090 00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:08,520 Speaker 1: That It's true. 1091 00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:12,480 Speaker 7: M maryan Stone Cowgirl says, I agree with Bunny. Queen 1092 00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:19,160 Speaker 7: isis not one says she wants to hurt him. Daniel 1093 00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:20,680 Speaker 7: Fiver says, yes, so my favorite show. 1094 00:59:21,000 --> 00:59:21,640 Speaker 2: It could be. 1095 00:59:23,200 --> 00:59:27,520 Speaker 1: The God True good point. Riley, what do you say 1096 00:59:27,640 --> 00:59:30,760 Speaker 1: is this is also a god? Isis is also God? 1097 00:59:31,040 --> 00:59:31,960 Speaker 2: A god? 1098 00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:35,520 Speaker 1: A god? Yea? And also Ice? Spice's real name really. 1099 00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:39,360 Speaker 2: Gets It's like a like a people were named Adolf. 1100 00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:45,439 Speaker 1: Ugh Rat sucks to suck Love says he might lose 1101 00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:50,320 Speaker 1: custody if he left, though, he might lose custody of their. 1102 00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:52,360 Speaker 7: Actually, via Count says bro got no money. That's why 1103 00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:53,600 Speaker 7: he says, Yeah, he's not going to leave. 1104 00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:54,600 Speaker 1: Why would he leave? 1105 00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:57,800 Speaker 2: I think it's like so obviously he's evil. I just 1106 00:59:57,840 --> 01:00:00,360 Speaker 2: think like she needs to go, Like this is not 1107 01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:03,160 Speaker 2: a good situation for Yeah. 1108 01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:06,720 Speaker 1: So I think we are seemingly all in agreement. 1109 01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:09,080 Speaker 2: Everyone thinks divorce, but everyone's. 1110 01:00:08,840 --> 01:00:13,400 Speaker 7: Everyone believes divorce. Yeah, divorce, divorce, Yeah, divorce, divorce. 1111 01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:15,439 Speaker 2: I think the split is a whole or not there. 1112 01:00:15,520 --> 01:00:19,480 Speaker 7: Or at least okay, maybe maybe not divorce because money, 1113 01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:20,800 Speaker 7: but at least separation. 1114 01:00:21,760 --> 01:00:23,240 Speaker 2: Get out of the can't. 1115 01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:23,880 Speaker 1: Get out of there. 1116 01:00:24,040 --> 01:00:26,600 Speaker 7: She needs to go, says Sophia Callen. I agree, but 1117 01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:27,560 Speaker 7: you know what we need to go? 1118 01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:29,320 Speaker 1: Do what? Well? I mean a couple of things. I 1119 01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:31,720 Speaker 1: don't know if we've read donations I just got we haven't. 1120 01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:35,480 Speaker 7: Well, we should read donations, but we should also. 1121 01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:42,320 Speaker 1: Spend that where because we got to one thousand read 1122 01:00:42,400 --> 01:00:43,280 Speaker 1: the donations? 1123 01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:47,080 Speaker 4: Yes, and then I'll. 1124 01:00:45,760 --> 01:00:48,160 Speaker 1: We'll right back again. Let's where were we? Is it 1125 01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:52,200 Speaker 1: Stanley or is it one below? Did shallow Fox we 1126 01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:54,400 Speaker 1: read that? I believe so shout a Fox. Shout to 1127 01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:56,520 Speaker 1: you again, I read that, Stanley. Thanks for the two 1128 01:00:56,520 --> 01:00:58,960 Speaker 1: buck tip on the donal link. Can I just have 1129 01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:00,840 Speaker 1: you guys hype me up, like, tell me you've got 1130 01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:02,600 Speaker 1: this or you can do this. Just hype me up 1131 01:01:02,600 --> 01:01:05,080 Speaker 1: so I can feel more capable instead of just wanting 1132 01:01:05,120 --> 01:01:09,240 Speaker 1: to cry. Stanley. Oh yeah, look look at in his eyes. 1133 01:01:09,560 --> 01:01:12,840 Speaker 1: You know Austin More. Yes, Stanley, do you know how 1134 01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:15,280 Speaker 1: incredible you are? Do you know that you got this? 1135 01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:17,840 Speaker 1: You got this so much? And by the way, you 1136 01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:20,040 Speaker 1: can do this. You can do this. Yeah, not only 1137 01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:23,360 Speaker 1: do you have this, but you also have that. Whoa 1138 01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:25,920 Speaker 1: And not only do you have that, but you also 1139 01:01:26,000 --> 01:01:29,840 Speaker 1: got that. Yeah, that's correct, and you have a thout? 1140 01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:32,080 Speaker 1: How many? How many? How much fam do you have 1141 01:01:32,120 --> 01:01:38,360 Speaker 1: here right now? Fifty three fans rocking with you? Guys? 1142 01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:41,080 Speaker 1: Can we get a S in the chat for stan Lee? 1143 01:01:41,280 --> 01:01:47,000 Speaker 1: Stan Lee and chat we stan Stanley, go out there 1144 01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:48,040 Speaker 1: and live your best life. 1145 01:01:48,200 --> 01:01:49,160 Speaker 2: We love you. 1146 01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:53,240 Speaker 1: You're rock And also shout out to the Lord Lord 1147 01:01:53,280 --> 01:01:58,720 Speaker 1: Lord Milker Giants. Milk the Milkman has delivered five gifted 1148 01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:02,280 Speaker 1: memberships to our amazing commu unity. Shout out to you, mister, 1149 01:02:02,800 --> 01:02:05,800 Speaker 1: your mom's hide your moms. Guys. He's got the milkers 1150 01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:09,720 Speaker 1: and they're not from mom, and they're not from mommy. 1151 01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:13,600 Speaker 1: Gabriella Smith, my daughter says, Hi, Sam, can you give 1152 01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:16,760 Speaker 1: my daughter a shout out? Her name is Aria? Aria? 1153 01:02:18,280 --> 01:02:24,840 Speaker 1: Are you listening? Who's the old one? Got day? 1154 01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:27,000 Speaker 2: Hi? 1155 01:02:27,120 --> 01:02:31,760 Speaker 7: John, Sophia and Riley Linda. 1156 01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:35,080 Speaker 1: Thanks for the two bucks, child not three. Affair happened 1157 01:02:35,120 --> 01:02:36,680 Speaker 1: early in marriage, so the child. 1158 01:02:36,600 --> 01:02:38,840 Speaker 2: Is like the child is school age. 1159 01:02:38,960 --> 01:02:42,840 Speaker 1: I read that you read age something about three years. 1160 01:02:42,880 --> 01:02:46,880 Speaker 1: But that's okay, Buddy Gigs. Thanks for the five bucks. 1161 01:02:47,040 --> 01:02:49,280 Speaker 1: The person who files wars has to pay. That's why 1162 01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:51,040 Speaker 1: she doesn't want to start the process. She is stubborn. 1163 01:02:51,200 --> 01:02:53,280 Speaker 2: Absolutely, she is not stubborn. 1164 01:02:53,680 --> 01:02:57,560 Speaker 1: I don't agree with that. Wait, we didn't. 1165 01:02:57,600 --> 01:03:00,520 Speaker 7: That's what I didn't agree with, Bunny Gigs, funny cakes. 1166 01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:03,280 Speaker 7: But it offered a valid counterpoint. Yeah, it did, it 1167 01:03:03,320 --> 01:03:04,360 Speaker 7: did we discussed it. 1168 01:03:04,480 --> 01:03:08,920 Speaker 1: Indeed we did. Indeed, thanks for the tip on the 1169 01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:10,680 Speaker 1: not of link. Glad I get to watch some of 1170 01:03:10,680 --> 01:03:13,200 Speaker 1: the Live Tonight missed yesterday. Fourteen hour drive from North 1171 01:03:13,240 --> 01:03:17,959 Speaker 1: Carolina to Connecticut. Whoa, I'm exhausted trying to stay awake 1172 01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:20,600 Speaker 1: to finish, but we'll see. Also like the stream I 1173 01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:23,640 Speaker 1: want to see will spin before I crash and stay 1174 01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:29,240 Speaker 1: safe out there, Okay, do not crash for us. Drip Drop, 1175 01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:34,200 Speaker 1: pretty drop, guys, another dript drop has made it rain 1176 01:03:34,320 --> 01:03:37,280 Speaker 1: like a hurricane, Rain like a hurricane. Yet again with 1177 01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:40,160 Speaker 1: a one drops a storm, it is truly it is. 1178 01:03:40,240 --> 01:03:46,280 Speaker 1: Keep saying, but you're you're you're not splitsch splash splunk 1179 01:03:46,440 --> 01:04:00,880 Speaker 1: over here. Okay. With that great dog album, thank you 1180 01:04:00,920 --> 01:04:05,440 Speaker 1: for Darn. I love that alp. Name the album. 1181 01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:08,040 Speaker 4: I know like a lot of songs on it. 1182 01:04:08,160 --> 01:04:09,360 Speaker 1: Name it. Name the album. 1183 01:04:09,440 --> 01:04:11,040 Speaker 4: I don't want to name it because I don't like 1184 01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:13,120 Speaker 4: it anymore because of past things. 1185 01:04:13,480 --> 01:04:18,640 Speaker 1: But oh yeah. 1186 01:04:15,640 --> 01:04:20,360 Speaker 4: Yeah anyways, uh, thank you Drop for the naked hundred 1187 01:04:20,400 --> 01:04:23,880 Speaker 4: bucks with big, big, big, big big shout and b 1188 01:04:24,280 --> 01:04:26,240 Speaker 4: she's celebrating a one month anniversary of membership. 1189 01:04:26,400 --> 01:04:29,640 Speaker 1: Let's go that's big, Chris Tinfoil. How with the forty 1190 01:04:29,840 --> 01:04:33,360 Speaker 1: nine dollars tip donation? Can you give me some good 1191 01:04:33,440 --> 01:04:37,240 Speaker 1: luck on my nursing competence on third competencies on Thursday morning? 1192 01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:39,800 Speaker 1: Need all the good vibes set my way, my friends 1193 01:04:40,320 --> 01:04:44,240 Speaker 1: christ for hot take them take my vibes. They are 1194 01:04:44,320 --> 01:04:49,360 Speaker 1: good vibe vibes on you. But they are good and 1195 01:04:49,480 --> 01:04:52,840 Speaker 1: they are just for you. There you are, You'll crush it. 1196 01:04:52,840 --> 01:04:54,280 Speaker 1: You're gonna You're gonna get it. I know you will. 1197 01:04:55,080 --> 01:04:58,040 Speaker 1: And JP Dreamer twenty four also celebrating a month of membership, 1198 01:04:58,320 --> 01:05:01,800 Speaker 1: seeing the people sell lebrating their milestones on how long 1199 01:05:01,840 --> 01:05:02,520 Speaker 1: they've been members. 1200 01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:07,160 Speaker 7: We love it nothing better and we have special things 1201 01:05:07,200 --> 01:05:09,600 Speaker 7: coming for two months members. 1202 01:05:09,760 --> 01:05:12,200 Speaker 1: That's right. At some point, if you've got a membership, 1203 01:05:12,280 --> 01:05:12,880 Speaker 1: hold on to that. 1204 01:05:12,960 --> 01:05:16,360 Speaker 7: So hold on to that, sucker, because some's coming for 1205 01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:17,600 Speaker 7: the two months and beyond. 1206 01:05:17,640 --> 01:05:20,480 Speaker 1: We got we got something coming. We got coming. You'll 1207 01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:30,360 Speaker 1: see anyone else is coming. What do you think? Here 1208 01:05:30,400 --> 01:05:41,760 Speaker 1: we go, baby, baby, baby? What are we doing? 1209 01:05:41,880 --> 01:05:44,600 Speaker 2: Okay, So look up some jeopardy questions that should come 1210 01:05:44,680 --> 01:05:46,960 Speaker 2: up pretty quick and then we're going to answer them. 1211 01:05:47,240 --> 01:05:49,400 Speaker 1: Oh that's a good one. 1212 01:05:50,400 --> 01:05:57,840 Speaker 2: That's anywhere loses the most has to do ten pushups. Shoot, 1213 01:05:57,920 --> 01:06:00,080 Speaker 2: actually max. 1214 01:06:00,960 --> 01:06:10,280 Speaker 1: Their pushup capacity. That's a lot. Sorry, okay. Question number one? 1215 01:06:11,040 --> 01:06:12,200 Speaker 1: Wait is this free for all? 1216 01:06:12,320 --> 01:06:12,760 Speaker 2: Or we? 1217 01:06:13,840 --> 01:06:14,919 Speaker 1: Buzz? Yeah? Buzz? 1218 01:06:15,200 --> 01:06:22,880 Speaker 4: What is all right? Question number one? This Asian country 1219 01:06:23,000 --> 01:06:27,160 Speaker 4: is the largest by land, covering over seventeen million square. 1220 01:06:28,960 --> 01:06:35,880 Speaker 1: China wrong, Buzz, Indian wrong, Buz Buzz John, go ahead, 1221 01:06:38,560 --> 01:06:39,800 Speaker 1: Malaysia wrong? 1222 01:06:40,120 --> 01:06:43,320 Speaker 4: It is what Russia corrects? 1223 01:06:45,720 --> 01:06:48,960 Speaker 1: Sneaky sneaky? Question? Uh? 1224 01:06:49,040 --> 01:06:53,920 Speaker 4: In this film directed by Steven Spielberg and Terrestrial Buz, 1225 01:06:55,320 --> 01:06:56,480 Speaker 4: Actually you were all wrong. 1226 01:06:57,920 --> 01:06:58,960 Speaker 1: Keep reading it, Buzz. 1227 01:07:01,320 --> 01:07:03,880 Speaker 4: It's not no no, no, you said it, but you did 1228 01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:04,200 Speaker 4: it wrong. 1229 01:07:07,400 --> 01:07:08,200 Speaker 1: Thank you? Sam? 1230 01:07:10,120 --> 01:07:14,200 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, all right. Question the dystopian 1231 01:07:14,240 --> 01:07:16,960 Speaker 4: novel by George Buzz. 1232 01:07:18,320 --> 01:07:19,480 Speaker 1: Brave New World Buzz. 1233 01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:22,000 Speaker 2: What is nineteen day? 1234 01:07:22,120 --> 01:07:25,160 Speaker 1: Right? Sophia dang? Get in there? Get in there? 1235 01:07:25,480 --> 01:07:25,720 Speaker 2: All right? 1236 01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:28,040 Speaker 1: All right? Boy too? For Sam? 1237 01:07:28,520 --> 01:07:30,680 Speaker 4: One for Sophia ZERI a fire time? 1238 01:07:31,600 --> 01:07:33,840 Speaker 1: Okay? Question? These are good? 1239 01:07:34,000 --> 01:07:34,040 Speaker 4: What? 1240 01:07:34,920 --> 01:07:37,480 Speaker 1: Oh? Never? Oh? I can still say it? Uh? 1241 01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:43,600 Speaker 4: This ancient Wonder of the World is located in egyptamids. 1242 01:07:46,320 --> 01:07:47,360 Speaker 1: What is Pyramid of Geeze? 1243 01:07:47,360 --> 01:07:47,600 Speaker 8: Alright? 1244 01:07:47,680 --> 01:07:53,080 Speaker 1: Sam? Good job? All right, all right? A right question? Also, 1245 01:07:53,200 --> 01:07:55,160 Speaker 1: do we buzz and then you call on us? Yeah? 1246 01:07:55,200 --> 01:07:55,919 Speaker 1: That's what I want. 1247 01:07:58,920 --> 01:08:01,240 Speaker 4: Penalty taking a point away from anyone that says it 1248 01:08:01,440 --> 01:08:04,360 Speaker 4: without all right anyways? 1249 01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:05,960 Speaker 2: Uh? Uh? 1250 01:08:06,520 --> 01:08:10,120 Speaker 4: Developed by Tim brigs Lee in the late What is 1251 01:08:10,160 --> 01:08:10,560 Speaker 4: the Internet? 1252 01:08:11,880 --> 01:08:15,320 Speaker 1: Whoah? Correct this man, silk. 1253 01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:16,880 Speaker 2: Man? 1254 01:08:19,600 --> 01:08:27,200 Speaker 1: Sorry for not waiting, but yes, I'm competitive. All right, another, 1255 01:08:27,439 --> 01:08:27,760 Speaker 1: there we go. 1256 01:08:28,240 --> 01:08:28,360 Speaker 2: Uh. 1257 01:08:28,640 --> 01:08:34,040 Speaker 4: This theoretical physicist famous for his theory of relativity, Sam Einstein? 1258 01:08:34,080 --> 01:08:39,240 Speaker 1: What is Einstein? What is Einstein? Why does Albert Einstein? 1259 01:08:39,360 --> 01:08:43,040 Speaker 1: Who was Albertson? Who is Albert Einstein? Okay? Who is Albert? 1260 01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:45,920 Speaker 1: Good job? Three for Sam? One one? 1261 01:08:46,760 --> 01:08:49,400 Speaker 4: All right, here we go. There we go one last 1262 01:08:49,439 --> 01:08:58,280 Speaker 4: one because because this uh, alright, we go this streaming 1263 01:08:58,320 --> 01:09:01,080 Speaker 4: platform is known for the series is like the Stranger 1264 01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:02,960 Speaker 4: Things I heard? 1265 01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:09,280 Speaker 1: John? Netflix? What is Netflix? I don't really? All right? 1266 01:09:09,360 --> 01:09:15,720 Speaker 1: All right, all right, she's quitting. You said ten push ups? 1267 01:09:17,439 --> 01:09:20,160 Speaker 1: She did? She did change it to maxing it out? 1268 01:09:20,240 --> 01:09:21,680 Speaker 1: All right, already push up there. 1269 01:09:21,720 --> 01:09:25,240 Speaker 4: Wait wait, wait, we're not you gotta get get behind John. 1270 01:09:25,200 --> 01:09:32,240 Speaker 1: John, there we do see it. Oh the chat is 1271 01:09:32,240 --> 01:09:38,599 Speaker 1: got visible enough? One ten? Dude? That was fun. That's 1272 01:09:38,640 --> 01:09:43,960 Speaker 1: a great wheel. Amazing. Can we get like actual buzzers? 1273 01:09:44,080 --> 01:09:49,120 Speaker 1: That was all the way down? That was three? You 1274 01:09:49,200 --> 01:09:50,920 Speaker 1: got seven more left? She max it? 1275 01:09:52,880 --> 01:09:56,559 Speaker 4: Alright, you guys, what's the next streme light goal? 1276 01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:02,800 Speaker 1: You want to do? Like a crazy chat goal? Yeah? 1277 01:10:02,920 --> 01:10:04,800 Speaker 4: The only thing with chats is like whenever people have 1278 01:10:05,240 --> 01:10:07,080 Speaker 4: very insightful things, it bumps it up. 1279 01:10:07,360 --> 01:10:12,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you has been wronged by twelve twelve hundred likes. 1280 01:10:12,400 --> 01:10:16,479 Speaker 7: Twelve hundred likes, like we know, there are at least 1281 01:10:16,560 --> 01:10:20,000 Speaker 7: like two hundred new people. Guys, absolutely around here, there's 1282 01:10:20,040 --> 01:10:20,880 Speaker 7: two hundred new people. 1283 01:10:21,040 --> 01:10:23,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, and lead a couple in. Oh, you guys are 1284 01:10:23,960 --> 01:10:27,439 Speaker 1: still alive? Yeah, of course, of course we are. Are 1285 01:10:27,479 --> 01:10:29,400 Speaker 1: you kidding me? We got an hour and have to go. Yeah. 1286 01:10:29,479 --> 01:10:32,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, any questions that you found, Riley, those are great. 1287 01:10:32,720 --> 01:10:35,200 Speaker 1: Those were so fun. Yeah, I really, I really like 1288 01:10:35,560 --> 01:10:36,439 Speaker 1: we should do more. 1289 01:10:36,960 --> 01:10:39,960 Speaker 2: I have another one. I have another one that you'll see. 1290 01:10:40,320 --> 01:10:44,840 Speaker 1: Oh, I would love like a phone a friend. You 1291 01:10:44,920 --> 01:10:47,240 Speaker 1: always want to call people. I do. I'm a caller. 1292 01:10:47,400 --> 01:10:49,519 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you can't because it has to be quick. 1293 01:10:50,479 --> 01:10:54,240 Speaker 1: Maybe phone a friend is its own friend, own your thing, 1294 01:10:54,360 --> 01:10:54,720 Speaker 1: other thing. 1295 01:10:55,680 --> 01:10:58,439 Speaker 2: I have my phone, please, I don't know where you're 1296 01:10:58,439 --> 01:10:58,960 Speaker 2: sitting on it. 1297 01:10:59,080 --> 01:11:01,360 Speaker 1: You may not have it. It belongs to that gang. 1298 01:11:02,240 --> 01:11:05,559 Speaker 1: Four fifty six six, Oh my god, And who's reading? 1299 01:11:06,080 --> 01:11:11,280 Speaker 4: We'll see sam Sammy. That's right, Kimberly five. Thank you 1300 01:11:11,360 --> 01:11:12,280 Speaker 4: for the five dollar tip. 1301 01:11:12,320 --> 01:11:13,880 Speaker 1: Do we already to do this? We did it. 1302 01:11:14,000 --> 01:11:17,479 Speaker 4: Kiddos had their first music program tonight, oh man, and 1303 01:11:17,720 --> 01:11:21,760 Speaker 4: they love YouTube a shout out for the ginger and 1304 01:11:21,960 --> 01:11:26,759 Speaker 4: Squeaks would make their night. Nickname for privacy g Squeaks, 1305 01:11:27,520 --> 01:11:29,479 Speaker 4: good job with the music you also love that. 1306 01:11:29,600 --> 01:11:41,559 Speaker 1: Also adorable nicknames? Yeah? Also, what what are we on? Six? Quick? 1307 01:11:42,280 --> 01:11:46,000 Speaker 4: Well we reach Sunshine QUI memby check to see if 1308 01:11:46,040 --> 01:11:46,680 Speaker 4: I already liked it? 1309 01:11:47,120 --> 01:11:47,200 Speaker 1: Uh? 1310 01:11:47,280 --> 01:11:48,760 Speaker 4: If you have another account, which I know you have 1311 01:11:48,880 --> 01:11:51,360 Speaker 4: more than one email, go on those and like to 1312 01:11:51,400 --> 01:11:52,000 Speaker 4: stream from those. 1313 01:11:52,080 --> 01:11:55,160 Speaker 1: How many family members do you have? How many people 1314 01:11:55,200 --> 01:11:57,160 Speaker 1: are on the street you're walking your dog, if you 1315 01:11:57,280 --> 01:11:59,040 Speaker 1: go outside of your door, how many people are there? 1316 01:11:59,320 --> 01:12:02,120 Speaker 1: How many have have liked the stream? Also? How many 1317 01:12:02,160 --> 01:12:05,200 Speaker 1: people do you have in your contacts right now? Whoa whoa? 1318 01:12:05,560 --> 01:12:07,160 Speaker 1: You brought you just brought up the greatest point ever, 1319 01:12:07,280 --> 01:12:11,839 Speaker 1: how many people are you connected to on Facebook? Watching Facebook? 1320 01:12:11,960 --> 01:12:12,120 Speaker 1: You know? 1321 01:12:12,240 --> 01:12:14,679 Speaker 2: We should bring back what you know? Those email chains? 1322 01:12:14,880 --> 01:12:16,599 Speaker 2: I mean like I did them as a kid, where 1323 01:12:16,720 --> 01:12:19,880 Speaker 2: like one friend would be like send this to ten 1324 01:12:20,000 --> 01:12:21,639 Speaker 2: different people, or you're cursed? 1325 01:12:21,920 --> 01:12:24,280 Speaker 1: Do you not? Have you not gotten? Can I read 1326 01:12:24,360 --> 01:12:27,960 Speaker 1: you the last one? I got the bridge? Yeah? I 1327 01:12:28,080 --> 01:12:30,960 Speaker 1: get them? Still get yeah, bro do that. 1328 01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:35,240 Speaker 2: But it's like if you don't watch this video, your 1329 01:12:35,320 --> 01:12:38,040 Speaker 2: curse or if you don't send this video to ten 1330 01:12:38,120 --> 01:12:38,639 Speaker 2: different people. 1331 01:12:39,320 --> 01:12:44,040 Speaker 1: Did you just do another five? Oh my gosh, loan milk. 1332 01:12:45,960 --> 01:12:48,760 Speaker 1: The milk could bust through the dam and flooded to 1333 01:12:48,880 --> 01:12:54,240 Speaker 1: the people there. So I get I get these all 1334 01:12:54,320 --> 01:12:56,760 Speaker 1: the time getting there. How do you get those? So 1335 01:12:57,120 --> 01:12:59,920 Speaker 1: so I get them in like some random group chat, 1336 01:13:00,280 --> 01:13:05,200 Speaker 1: But they're like they're really, they're really you know, you 1337 01:13:05,240 --> 01:13:08,479 Speaker 1: know I'm talking. That's not. Here we go example, here 1338 01:13:08,560 --> 01:13:10,599 Speaker 1: we go breaking news. 1339 01:13:12,040 --> 01:13:17,559 Speaker 7: Everyone's everyone's favorite gay Republican George Santo's a Ka katar 1340 01:13:17,680 --> 01:13:20,719 Speaker 7: Ranchi has been expelled from Comngris. She's tried to stop 1341 01:13:20,800 --> 01:13:24,960 Speaker 7: those Furro Gammas sneakers down Capitol Hill, but the Ethics 1342 01:13:25,120 --> 01:13:28,479 Speaker 7: Committee said, no, I don't think so. They think Kierta 1343 01:13:28,640 --> 01:13:32,120 Speaker 7: is just a Latin boy in address. It looks like this, okay, 1344 01:13:32,160 --> 01:13:32,519 Speaker 7: but those. 1345 01:13:32,439 --> 01:13:35,160 Speaker 2: Are so much more fun than any that's forgotten. 1346 01:13:35,320 --> 01:13:38,599 Speaker 1: That's not the true. The those ones are like ironic, 1347 01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:41,880 Speaker 1: the ones that are being sent, they're actually like you 1348 01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:43,639 Speaker 1: will die. 1349 01:13:43,720 --> 01:13:46,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's like you will never find love. 1350 01:13:46,640 --> 01:13:49,960 Speaker 1: Olivia Claire says, I've gotten the one that's happy Coctober. 1351 01:13:51,400 --> 01:13:52,879 Speaker 2: I would love to get one of those. 1352 01:13:55,040 --> 01:14:04,320 Speaker 1: Whoa whoa? So no, my goodness, explain yourself. 1353 01:14:04,640 --> 01:14:07,000 Speaker 2: Genre like like Sam's down, no. 1354 01:14:09,280 --> 01:14:11,439 Speaker 1: No any suitors out there in the. 1355 01:14:13,000 --> 01:14:18,479 Speaker 2: No no no, I meant I would love to get 1356 01:14:18,560 --> 01:14:22,120 Speaker 2: one of those. Genre like what Sam got about George Santos. 1357 01:14:23,040 --> 01:14:25,000 Speaker 2: That's I would love to get one of those, because 1358 01:14:25,000 --> 01:14:29,720 Speaker 2: those are fun sure that I are like sure and 1359 01:14:30,160 --> 01:14:31,040 Speaker 2: slightly scary. 1360 01:14:31,760 --> 01:14:41,879 Speaker 1: Sure anywhere all of them jokes that Kansas says worms 1361 01:14:42,000 --> 01:14:49,400 Speaker 1: be wiggling. No, no, anyway, I'm going to read this 1362 01:14:49,640 --> 01:14:54,720 Speaker 1: next story. So am by the ale for accusing my 1363 01:14:54,880 --> 01:14:59,160 Speaker 1: husband of fothering my best friend's baby and asking for 1364 01:14:59,400 --> 01:15:03,080 Speaker 1: a DNA test. And this comes from the wiki's seventy 1365 01:15:03,120 --> 01:15:06,400 Speaker 1: six and ahole to ask my friend single mother to 1366 01:15:06,520 --> 01:15:08,800 Speaker 1: do a paternity test on her son because I had 1367 01:15:08,880 --> 01:15:12,479 Speaker 1: suspicions my husband is the father. 1368 01:15:13,800 --> 01:15:16,280 Speaker 2: If you ask that that your relationship is over. 1369 01:15:16,520 --> 01:15:20,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, like that that assumes you darn sure? Yeah, come on, 1370 01:15:20,439 --> 01:15:22,280 Speaker 1: what are we talking about? Messy? 1371 01:15:22,840 --> 01:15:26,000 Speaker 7: But I'll make this as short as possible. So one 1372 01:15:26,040 --> 01:15:27,800 Speaker 7: of my best friends had a kid three years ago. 1373 01:15:28,080 --> 01:15:30,599 Speaker 7: She said it was a one night stand and later 1374 01:15:30,800 --> 01:15:32,800 Speaker 7: the guy expressed no interest in being a dad, so 1375 01:15:32,920 --> 01:15:37,120 Speaker 7: she raised her son herself. No one has ever seen 1376 01:15:37,200 --> 01:15:42,280 Speaker 7: this guy not even me. The issue is this kid 1377 01:15:43,000 --> 01:15:47,759 Speaker 7: looks extremely like my husband, like to an insane degree. 1378 01:15:48,280 --> 01:15:54,240 Speaker 7: The hair, color, eyes, face, everything, I mean, Or it 1379 01:15:54,280 --> 01:15:56,280 Speaker 7: could just be your husband looks like a fat baby, 1380 01:15:57,080 --> 01:15:57,840 Speaker 7: fat ball baby. 1381 01:15:58,680 --> 01:16:00,280 Speaker 2: I've seen babies that I look like. 1382 01:16:01,160 --> 01:16:04,720 Speaker 7: I've seen men that look like babies. Whoa have you 1383 01:16:04,760 --> 01:16:07,799 Speaker 7: ever seen a bald man that's a little rope hund. 1384 01:16:08,360 --> 01:16:10,400 Speaker 4: Give yourself like twenty five years. 1385 01:16:11,800 --> 01:16:16,080 Speaker 1: Damn, dude, that was crazy a freak out. I wo 1386 01:16:17,040 --> 01:16:20,760 Speaker 1: I exercise. My doctor was flirting with me today. Dude, 1387 01:16:20,960 --> 01:16:25,080 Speaker 1: Sam is going to be the fittest sack of crazy 1388 01:16:25,200 --> 01:16:27,080 Speaker 1: flesh you've ever seen in Yeah, I'm gonna be a 1389 01:16:28,200 --> 01:16:30,040 Speaker 1: He's going to be one hundred and fifty years old 1390 01:16:30,520 --> 01:16:34,600 Speaker 1: and look two thousand and and just like insane but 1391 01:16:34,840 --> 01:16:37,160 Speaker 1: looking great for hunt hundred and fifty not a day 1392 01:16:37,200 --> 01:16:40,360 Speaker 1: over forty dang straight straight up. 1393 01:16:40,520 --> 01:16:43,600 Speaker 2: When I was younger, I had American girl dolls, but 1394 01:16:43,680 --> 01:16:45,600 Speaker 2: I didn't have any boy dolls, and so when I 1395 01:16:45,720 --> 01:16:48,720 Speaker 2: played with my friends, we would use the baby dolls. 1396 01:16:49,479 --> 01:16:53,799 Speaker 1: What sexist? Sexist? What Texas Texas? 1397 01:16:54,000 --> 01:16:57,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry, I didn't have any. Because I didn't have any, 1398 01:16:58,320 --> 01:17:01,680 Speaker 2: we would use the baby dolls I had some pretty big, 1399 01:17:02,000 --> 01:17:04,280 Speaker 2: beefy baby dolls. So I would use the baby dolls 1400 01:17:04,320 --> 01:17:05,800 Speaker 2: and then we would dress them up and give them 1401 01:17:05,840 --> 01:17:09,200 Speaker 2: like little hats, and they would be the boys. But 1402 01:17:09,320 --> 01:17:11,679 Speaker 2: they were also pretty like ugly because they were babies, 1403 01:17:11,720 --> 01:17:12,840 Speaker 2: and so they would always be like. 1404 01:17:14,360 --> 01:17:18,599 Speaker 1: That, look like babies, well like the rock, Yeah, exactly, 1405 01:17:18,720 --> 01:17:21,280 Speaker 1: I think you're you're it's possible that your husband just 1406 01:17:21,360 --> 01:17:26,360 Speaker 1: looks like a baby. What it's possible that he just 1407 01:17:26,400 --> 01:17:28,720 Speaker 1: looks like the baby Quinn. But we're gonna get back 1408 01:17:28,760 --> 01:17:33,640 Speaker 1: into the story. Donate a boy American girl dolls. It's 1409 01:17:33,680 --> 01:17:38,800 Speaker 1: just his collection. Sofia is trying to say that she 1410 01:17:38,880 --> 01:17:42,920 Speaker 1: doesn't want one, but she desperately wants a boy American girl. 1411 01:17:43,000 --> 01:17:46,920 Speaker 1: She's begging. You can see it in her eyes as 1412 01:17:47,040 --> 01:17:48,960 Speaker 1: much as she wants. And I don't even want to snap. 1413 01:17:49,200 --> 01:17:52,200 Speaker 1: I'm making that joke, all right, So why do my 1414 01:17:52,360 --> 01:17:58,720 Speaker 1: best friends three? She said? 1415 01:17:58,760 --> 01:18:01,680 Speaker 7: It was an uninstand as heres, this kid looks extremely 1416 01:18:01,800 --> 01:18:05,040 Speaker 7: like my husband, like to it insane degree, the hair, color, 1417 01:18:05,320 --> 01:18:08,880 Speaker 7: the eyes, face, everything. He's even been out with my 1418 01:18:09,040 --> 01:18:11,400 Speaker 7: friend and her son, and people have mistaken him to 1419 01:18:11,479 --> 01:18:15,800 Speaker 7: be the dad before. Needless to say, for three years now, 1420 01:18:16,200 --> 01:18:19,560 Speaker 7: I've had my suspicions, but I haven't said anything. My 1421 01:18:19,720 --> 01:18:22,639 Speaker 7: husband is also close to my friend, and the time 1422 01:18:22,720 --> 01:18:25,439 Speaker 7: I works out we were all living almost in the 1423 01:18:25,520 --> 01:18:29,720 Speaker 7: same neighborhood around the time she got pregnant. Over the 1424 01:18:29,840 --> 01:18:33,920 Speaker 7: last year, it's really eaten at me, probably like your 1425 01:18:34,040 --> 01:18:38,000 Speaker 7: husband know her. I see the resimblens growing more and more. 1426 01:18:38,560 --> 01:18:41,760 Speaker 7: It doesn't help that my friend refuses to show me 1427 01:18:41,800 --> 01:18:45,040 Speaker 7: a picture of her son's biological father, no matter how 1428 01:18:45,280 --> 01:18:48,320 Speaker 7: much I ask. Maybe she just doesn't want to share it. 1429 01:18:49,040 --> 01:18:51,799 Speaker 7: It kept spiraling until I had a meltdown and confronted 1430 01:18:51,840 --> 01:18:54,240 Speaker 7: both of them, saying that I will pack up and 1431 01:18:54,479 --> 01:18:58,880 Speaker 7: leave if I don't see a paternity test. Long story short, 1432 01:18:59,640 --> 01:19:03,200 Speaker 7: my friend end got a paternity test. 1433 01:19:03,360 --> 01:19:05,320 Speaker 1: Oh no, I feel like this is not gonna work 1434 01:19:05,320 --> 01:19:06,040 Speaker 1: in OPS favor. 1435 01:19:06,680 --> 01:19:09,880 Speaker 7: Question, Yes, is OP the ahole for demanding it a 1436 01:19:09,960 --> 01:19:13,439 Speaker 7: praternity test really quickly? But just quick a whole or 1437 01:19:13,479 --> 01:19:14,280 Speaker 7: not evil at this point? 1438 01:19:14,360 --> 01:19:17,439 Speaker 1: Well? Second it in a second, quick, go go a whole. 1439 01:19:18,439 --> 01:19:22,519 Speaker 7: Yeah, Okay, long story short, my friend got a paternity test, 1440 01:19:22,560 --> 01:19:25,840 Speaker 7: but said our friendship is over. 1441 01:19:26,200 --> 01:19:33,320 Speaker 1: Yep, yeah, the test says my husband is not the fuss. Oh, 1442 01:19:34,840 --> 01:19:36,960 Speaker 1: I feel so ashamed to lose my friend. But I 1443 01:19:37,160 --> 01:19:41,639 Speaker 1: thought my husband would slightly understand since even he sees 1444 01:19:41,720 --> 01:19:44,599 Speaker 1: the obvious resemboleance between him and this kid. 1445 01:19:46,360 --> 01:19:50,320 Speaker 7: What do you mean you're implicating him in cheating? Why 1446 01:19:50,360 --> 01:19:54,040 Speaker 7: would he understand? Yeah, but he has moved out for 1447 01:19:54,120 --> 01:19:57,479 Speaker 7: the time being, and I'm worried this is the end 1448 01:19:57,760 --> 01:20:00,479 Speaker 7: of our marriage. So am I the a whole? Insisting 1449 01:20:00,560 --> 01:20:03,400 Speaker 7: on the test. Honestly felt like I had no other choice. 1450 01:20:03,439 --> 01:20:06,200 Speaker 7: The resemblance was unavoidable, and it was eating at me 1451 01:20:06,320 --> 01:20:08,280 Speaker 7: so much that no amount of therapy could help. I 1452 01:20:08,439 --> 01:20:11,360 Speaker 7: thought my husband would understand my fears, most of all, 1453 01:20:11,560 --> 01:20:14,599 Speaker 7: given my history with past cheating. X's did I f up? 1454 01:20:14,920 --> 01:20:18,160 Speaker 7: And how badly? So let's answer we already answered. I 1455 01:20:18,240 --> 01:20:23,280 Speaker 7: feel like we all agree one, two, three, A three? 1456 01:20:23,720 --> 01:20:27,000 Speaker 1: Nice? But uh? 1457 01:20:27,360 --> 01:20:34,960 Speaker 7: And holes with the chat. Well, it looks like most 1458 01:20:35,000 --> 01:20:38,920 Speaker 7: people are saying a most people are saying ahole. But uh, 1459 01:20:39,280 --> 01:20:44,040 Speaker 7: let's go to the second question. Talk to me, did 1460 01:20:44,120 --> 01:20:46,759 Speaker 7: I f up? And how badly? 1461 01:20:48,360 --> 01:20:50,360 Speaker 2: Your marriage is probably over? 1462 01:20:51,640 --> 01:20:51,840 Speaker 1: Why? 1463 01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:55,960 Speaker 2: Because she accused both of both her friend and her 1464 01:20:56,360 --> 01:21:00,800 Speaker 2: husband of cheating and destroyed and that she didn't have 1465 01:21:00,840 --> 01:21:03,000 Speaker 2: any trust in either relationship. 1466 01:21:04,120 --> 01:21:06,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, like she could have gone to the Probably the 1467 01:21:06,920 --> 01:21:09,960 Speaker 1: first person to go to is the husband and say like, 1468 01:21:10,520 --> 01:21:17,040 Speaker 1: I know this sounds absolutely crazy, but the baby looks 1469 01:21:17,160 --> 01:21:20,960 Speaker 1: a lot like you. People mistake it for your child 1470 01:21:21,080 --> 01:21:24,920 Speaker 1: on the street, and so I can't help but think, 1471 01:21:25,000 --> 01:21:27,800 Speaker 1: in the back of my mind, is there something that happen? 1472 01:21:27,960 --> 01:21:31,760 Speaker 1: Can you assuage my worries? I know I might be 1473 01:21:31,840 --> 01:21:33,360 Speaker 1: being insane, like I don't know. I felt there's a 1474 01:21:33,400 --> 01:21:35,240 Speaker 1: way you can bring it up, maybe to the husband first, 1475 01:21:35,280 --> 01:21:40,120 Speaker 1: that's like, way better if it is truly, if you're 1476 01:21:40,200 --> 01:21:45,320 Speaker 1: truly so certain, I don't know. Yeah, it's but it's 1477 01:21:45,400 --> 01:21:47,920 Speaker 1: just a hard thing to it is bring up such 1478 01:21:48,080 --> 01:21:50,240 Speaker 1: a huge body. And you know, this is very interesting 1479 01:21:50,600 --> 01:21:55,719 Speaker 1: because all always we hear this from the guy's perspective 1480 01:21:55,760 --> 01:21:57,840 Speaker 1: because its usually two people married, and the guys like, 1481 01:21:57,920 --> 01:22:00,560 Speaker 1: I think my wife she did. Now, it's very we 1482 01:22:00,640 --> 01:22:02,960 Speaker 1: don't see this often. We this is super rare. A 1483 01:22:03,080 --> 01:22:05,920 Speaker 1: woman is like, hey, I think my husband cheated but 1484 01:22:06,439 --> 01:22:09,120 Speaker 1: with my friend. So I am asking the two of 1485 01:22:09,240 --> 01:22:11,080 Speaker 1: them for the paternity test. 1486 01:22:11,439 --> 01:22:13,439 Speaker 7: Queen Isis number one says her marriage is over, she's 1487 01:22:13,479 --> 01:22:17,000 Speaker 7: deeply insecure and needs help, Like I also, I have 1488 01:22:17,280 --> 01:22:20,880 Speaker 7: a Heidi Browning says her marriage is totally over. I 1489 01:22:20,960 --> 01:22:25,879 Speaker 7: actually have a question that may complicate your answers potentially, 1490 01:22:26,000 --> 01:22:29,320 Speaker 7: and I'm curious. I'm curious if it does, but I 1491 01:22:29,360 --> 01:22:32,800 Speaker 7: would agree that it does, like it breaks the trust 1492 01:22:32,840 --> 01:22:40,639 Speaker 7: in the marriage. But question, let's say op is pregnant, 1493 01:22:42,520 --> 01:22:52,240 Speaker 7: pregnancy hormones raging. Does that change our answer? I think 1494 01:22:52,400 --> 01:22:55,680 Speaker 7: I would give more leniency. 1495 01:22:56,320 --> 01:22:59,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe more leniency, but like ultimately. 1496 01:22:59,439 --> 01:23:02,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, but if if that, if that was the case, no, 1497 01:23:02,560 --> 01:23:08,680 Speaker 1: yes or no more leniency, but probably still ultimately like 1498 01:23:09,240 --> 01:23:10,920 Speaker 1: like you would, you would weigh that as a as 1499 01:23:10,920 --> 01:23:13,120 Speaker 1: a factor, but I don't know if that weight is 1500 01:23:13,200 --> 01:23:15,240 Speaker 1: strong enough to like get her off the hook. I 1501 01:23:15,360 --> 01:23:16,160 Speaker 1: agree sssarily. 1502 01:23:16,880 --> 01:23:20,200 Speaker 7: Yeah, I think I would also agree. Yeah, yeah, I 1503 01:23:20,680 --> 01:23:23,240 Speaker 7: feel like I feel like it it breaks the trust, 1504 01:23:23,439 --> 01:23:26,400 Speaker 7: probably over. I don't know what you can do at 1505 01:23:26,439 --> 01:23:29,439 Speaker 7: this point. I also think it's like you need to 1506 01:23:29,479 --> 01:23:33,120 Speaker 7: be more self aware about if you need to be 1507 01:23:33,200 --> 01:23:36,760 Speaker 7: more self aware about your insecurities, you know, like you have. 1508 01:23:36,880 --> 01:23:39,040 Speaker 2: To handle them yourself, don't put them on others. 1509 01:23:39,120 --> 01:23:42,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fine to be insecure. Everyone like people, everyone's insecure, right, 1510 01:23:42,600 --> 01:23:47,200 Speaker 1: but like, like I think, uh, what the most mature 1511 01:23:47,240 --> 01:23:53,679 Speaker 1: people do is know when it's the problem is you, Yeah, 1512 01:23:53,800 --> 01:23:55,479 Speaker 1: you know, it's how you it's how you tackle it 1513 01:23:55,800 --> 01:23:57,479 Speaker 1: and how you like respond to the insecurity. 1514 01:23:57,520 --> 01:23:58,760 Speaker 2: Like I think about this in the way of like 1515 01:23:59,040 --> 01:24:02,600 Speaker 2: when people are like, if you're in a relationship and 1516 01:24:03,320 --> 01:24:07,200 Speaker 2: you're jealous of another, you know, outside person, you can 1517 01:24:07,280 --> 01:24:10,360 Speaker 2: have those jealousies, but don't don't make it your partner's problem. 1518 01:24:10,520 --> 01:24:14,680 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, and jealousy, jealousy comes up, jealousy nor is 1519 01:24:14,720 --> 01:24:19,439 Speaker 7: a natural thing. It happens, and like, all all you 1520 01:24:19,520 --> 01:24:22,080 Speaker 7: need to do is just recognize, Oh, like, am I 1521 01:24:22,200 --> 01:24:25,280 Speaker 7: being jealous because this is something my partner is doing wrong? 1522 01:24:25,600 --> 01:24:28,320 Speaker 7: Or am I being jealous because I'm being a little insecure, 1523 01:24:28,320 --> 01:24:29,080 Speaker 7: whiny little baby. 1524 01:24:29,160 --> 01:24:31,960 Speaker 1: And I think there's totally a mature and fair way 1525 01:24:31,960 --> 01:24:33,760 Speaker 1: to go to your partner and being like I'm being 1526 01:24:33,760 --> 01:24:36,120 Speaker 1: a little irrational right now and I'm feeling this stuff 1527 01:24:36,160 --> 01:24:38,920 Speaker 1: and I totally shouldn't be, and You're amazing, and I 1528 01:24:39,040 --> 01:24:41,280 Speaker 1: need to but I just wanted to like share my 1529 01:24:41,360 --> 01:24:42,800 Speaker 1: feelings and my thoughts and like. 1530 01:24:43,280 --> 01:24:46,360 Speaker 7: All right, question question to you, All right, answer, OHP 1531 01:24:46,520 --> 01:24:49,240 Speaker 7: is insecure? Right, we know that we've established that, we know, 1532 01:24:49,560 --> 01:24:52,720 Speaker 7: we know that we know it if and she she's 1533 01:24:52,760 --> 01:24:55,599 Speaker 7: feeling like this baby looks way too similar to her husband? 1534 01:24:56,160 --> 01:24:59,320 Speaker 7: What if she what what changes if she goes to 1535 01:24:59,400 --> 01:25:03,160 Speaker 7: the husband and it's like basically says what you said. Hey, 1536 01:25:04,080 --> 01:25:06,920 Speaker 7: I know I'm being insecure and I know this is 1537 01:25:07,000 --> 01:25:10,120 Speaker 7: not true, but right now I'm feeling really insecure, like 1538 01:25:10,200 --> 01:25:12,400 Speaker 7: this baby of my friend is. 1539 01:25:14,120 --> 01:25:19,040 Speaker 1: Not is yours. I know that's crazy, but I feel 1540 01:25:19,120 --> 01:25:22,960 Speaker 1: like I can't shake that feeling and I feel like 1541 01:25:23,040 --> 01:25:26,760 Speaker 1: I need help to get over this insecurity, Like can 1542 01:25:26,840 --> 01:25:27,280 Speaker 1: you help me? 1543 01:25:27,960 --> 01:25:29,080 Speaker 2: I feel like that would have been good? 1544 01:25:29,479 --> 01:25:34,479 Speaker 1: Yeah? Does that? Does Does that have a similar effect 1545 01:25:35,000 --> 01:25:36,200 Speaker 1: to the husband hearing it? 1546 01:25:38,240 --> 01:25:40,120 Speaker 2: I feel like that wouldn't have the relationship? 1547 01:25:40,400 --> 01:25:42,760 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, what would be Yeah? Like what would happen? 1548 01:25:42,800 --> 01:25:45,519 Speaker 1: You think that? And that I think like because because 1549 01:25:45,600 --> 01:25:49,519 Speaker 1: the person is kind of already admitting that, like I am, 1550 01:25:49,760 --> 01:25:51,439 Speaker 1: like I don't know if in the wrong is the 1551 01:25:51,520 --> 01:25:54,360 Speaker 1: right way to phrase it, but like I'm not in 1552 01:25:54,479 --> 01:25:57,720 Speaker 1: the right here and I know it, and I want 1553 01:25:57,920 --> 01:26:02,920 Speaker 1: want your help to to get there. Aram says, still 1554 01:26:02,960 --> 01:26:04,840 Speaker 1: relationship ending. I think it could be. 1555 01:26:05,880 --> 01:26:08,000 Speaker 2: People totally get mad and stuff, but I think there's 1556 01:26:08,040 --> 01:26:10,560 Speaker 2: a greater chance that he'd be like, thank you for 1557 01:26:10,640 --> 01:26:12,679 Speaker 2: going forward. Let's figure this out. 1558 01:26:12,800 --> 01:26:15,479 Speaker 1: And if they can't, then maybe this is it. I 1559 01:26:15,560 --> 01:26:22,639 Speaker 1: think if both people are self aware, empathetic, rational, mature people, 1560 01:26:23,080 --> 01:26:26,160 Speaker 1: they can both see where each other is coming from 1561 01:26:26,400 --> 01:26:31,320 Speaker 1: and be able to help each other get past it. Yeah, 1562 01:26:31,360 --> 01:26:34,439 Speaker 1: because I think as a mature, empathetic, self aware person 1563 01:26:34,800 --> 01:26:37,719 Speaker 1: receiving that, you're like, you know what, maybe this person 1564 01:26:37,840 --> 01:26:40,280 Speaker 1: is being like driven to the ledge by the insecurity 1565 01:26:40,479 --> 01:26:44,360 Speaker 1: and they really do just need my help, yeah, and 1566 01:26:44,720 --> 01:26:47,639 Speaker 1: like need some support in working through this and getting 1567 01:26:48,200 --> 01:26:49,000 Speaker 1: to the other side. 1568 01:26:49,400 --> 01:26:53,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, And like if you admit that, what, like like 1569 01:26:54,600 --> 01:26:57,640 Speaker 7: this this thought is crazy. I know it's crazy. Like 1570 01:26:57,760 --> 01:27:02,960 Speaker 7: people people have like anxious responses to things all the time. 1571 01:27:03,000 --> 01:27:06,880 Speaker 7: I think things that are are happening. 1572 01:27:06,600 --> 01:27:09,240 Speaker 1: Aren't actually happening right where it's like, oh, like everyone 1573 01:27:09,280 --> 01:27:12,479 Speaker 1: hates me, you know, like that is an anxious response 1574 01:27:12,560 --> 01:27:16,240 Speaker 1: that's not based in reality. So like, you know, maybe 1575 01:27:16,280 --> 01:27:18,760 Speaker 1: there's like an anxiety issue here that if she was 1576 01:27:19,439 --> 01:27:23,120 Speaker 1: forthright with in this way and was more self aware, 1577 01:27:23,680 --> 01:27:26,840 Speaker 1: would have been navigated better. Yeah, maybe she like ends 1578 01:27:26,920 --> 01:27:30,160 Speaker 1: up her her partner helps helps her get to see 1579 01:27:30,200 --> 01:27:32,439 Speaker 1: a good therapist, and then the therapists, like, hey, here's 1580 01:27:32,479 --> 01:27:34,160 Speaker 1: how to like works through your anxiety. Here's how it 1581 01:27:34,200 --> 01:27:36,200 Speaker 1: pops up and what triggers it and how it manifests, 1582 01:27:36,240 --> 01:27:38,000 Speaker 1: and like how you can deal with it and she's 1583 01:27:38,080 --> 01:27:40,640 Speaker 1: able to like transform her life with the help of 1584 01:27:40,720 --> 01:27:44,439 Speaker 1: a professional. Would you so, would you say, don't tell 1585 01:27:44,479 --> 01:27:47,160 Speaker 1: the partner, go to the professional first, or tell the 1586 01:27:47,240 --> 01:27:51,519 Speaker 1: partner and also to go to the professional first and 1587 01:27:52,040 --> 01:27:54,880 Speaker 1: work through it with the professional to see if it 1588 01:27:55,040 --> 01:27:58,240 Speaker 1: is the right idea to bring it up in that way, 1589 01:27:58,520 --> 01:28:02,000 Speaker 1: because also possibly the ideal scenario is you go to 1590 01:28:02,120 --> 01:28:06,479 Speaker 1: a professional. She said she did go to therapy. She said, 1591 01:28:06,560 --> 01:28:08,000 Speaker 1: no amount of therapy has helped. 1592 01:28:08,840 --> 01:28:10,680 Speaker 2: I don't know. I think it's just about getting the 1593 01:28:10,760 --> 01:28:11,760 Speaker 2: right therapist. 1594 01:28:13,120 --> 01:28:18,519 Speaker 1: Maybe, yeah, yeah, I yeah, I think said she sat 1595 01:28:18,560 --> 01:28:22,599 Speaker 1: on that crap for three years. And there's also something 1596 01:28:22,640 --> 01:28:28,120 Speaker 1: to be said on like, I mean, therapy works via 1597 01:28:28,200 --> 01:28:31,200 Speaker 1: the work you put in. Yeah. So, like if op 1598 01:28:31,439 --> 01:28:33,360 Speaker 1: just goes and isn't hearing what she wants to hear 1599 01:28:33,400 --> 01:28:35,599 Speaker 1: and then leaves, that's not going to do anything. 1600 01:28:37,080 --> 01:28:37,280 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1601 01:28:37,720 --> 01:28:40,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a tough situation. 1602 01:28:41,040 --> 01:28:45,679 Speaker 7: It is tough, good, good nuanced discussion though, Yeah, yeah, 1603 01:28:46,280 --> 01:28:49,680 Speaker 7: I think, But like when you have a thought like 1604 01:28:49,760 --> 01:28:53,120 Speaker 7: that and you can't shake it. Just know, if you 1605 01:28:53,640 --> 01:28:56,160 Speaker 7: bring it up and you you have had trouble shaking it, 1606 01:28:56,280 --> 01:28:59,200 Speaker 7: you're expecting your partner to take. 1607 01:28:59,120 --> 01:29:02,160 Speaker 1: That load from you. You It could be a load 1608 01:29:02,200 --> 01:29:04,360 Speaker 1: that's unbearable. It could be too heavy, could be too 1609 01:29:04,439 --> 01:29:06,320 Speaker 1: heavy because yeah. 1610 01:29:06,520 --> 01:29:07,240 Speaker 2: It's too heavy for you. 1611 01:29:07,360 --> 01:29:09,640 Speaker 1: It might not be Yeah, you know, it might be 1612 01:29:09,720 --> 01:29:11,640 Speaker 1: too That's a great point. If it's too heavy for you, 1613 01:29:11,800 --> 01:29:14,720 Speaker 1: might be too heavy for your partner. Don't pass it 1614 01:29:14,800 --> 01:29:16,840 Speaker 1: on nice. 1615 01:29:17,520 --> 01:29:22,879 Speaker 7: But I just think where the episode not an episode, 1616 01:29:22,920 --> 01:29:27,240 Speaker 7: but this story ends. The story indeed done, so some donations. 1617 01:29:27,600 --> 01:29:30,400 Speaker 7: We do have some donations and donations. Where are we 1618 01:29:30,840 --> 01:29:34,880 Speaker 7: starting off with? How much can we curvey? Girl all 1619 01:29:34,960 --> 01:29:40,160 Speaker 7: flamps conspiracy theory, Best female Friend BFF, best friend forever 1620 01:29:41,160 --> 01:29:46,200 Speaker 7: was essay did hit it? Which is why she want to, Yeah, 1621 01:29:46,560 --> 01:29:48,960 Speaker 7: say like who the who? They like the guy was 1622 01:29:49,040 --> 01:29:49,920 Speaker 7: a picture or whatever. 1623 01:29:50,080 --> 01:29:53,160 Speaker 1: Basically worried that like the guy could do more No no, 1624 01:29:53,360 --> 01:29:57,080 Speaker 1: no no, like she got from an essay. Oh that 1625 01:29:57,320 --> 01:29:59,919 Speaker 1: wasn't OPI's husband, yes, person. 1626 01:30:00,080 --> 01:30:03,040 Speaker 2: A person and wouldn't want to talk about him at all? 1627 01:30:03,160 --> 01:30:05,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, because it will Obviously it had been dramatic too. 1628 01:30:05,880 --> 01:30:07,960 Speaker 7: Yes, yeah, and it's like I'm not going to show 1629 01:30:08,080 --> 01:30:09,760 Speaker 7: a picture of a guy that should be in a 1630 01:30:09,800 --> 01:30:13,240 Speaker 7: mug shot, you know, yes, yeah, dark. I think someone 1631 01:30:13,280 --> 01:30:15,560 Speaker 7: said that earlier, but like dark but probably. 1632 01:30:15,360 --> 01:30:19,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, there is a possibility for unfortunately, gabrielis and thanks 1633 01:30:19,120 --> 01:30:19,840 Speaker 1: for the four back tip. 1634 01:30:19,920 --> 01:30:21,880 Speaker 7: Thank you for the shout out. My daughter jumped up 1635 01:30:22,080 --> 01:30:25,600 Speaker 7: excitedly to her shout outs. God, we could do that 1636 01:30:25,760 --> 01:30:29,720 Speaker 7: in Shadow Fox five one, one, seven, even gang and 1637 01:30:29,960 --> 01:30:35,519 Speaker 7: a newly minted worm worm army silly. 1638 01:30:35,840 --> 01:30:39,040 Speaker 4: That's a five dollars and one cent tip, making it 1639 01:30:39,479 --> 01:30:40,679 Speaker 4: also smelling worm. 1640 01:30:41,000 --> 01:30:44,600 Speaker 2: Also secret person, I don't know if I have to 1641 01:30:44,720 --> 01:30:46,439 Speaker 2: keep all of your things secret, but your secret person. 1642 01:30:46,600 --> 01:30:52,200 Speaker 2: Sam and John are on Tuesday and Thursday streams, Yes, 1643 01:30:52,520 --> 01:30:54,320 Speaker 2: and then Riley and I are Monday and Friday. 1644 01:30:54,560 --> 01:30:59,280 Speaker 1: Yep, yep. This stream schedule might may change, apparently change 1645 01:30:59,320 --> 01:31:03,200 Speaker 1: get ready possibly cool. We'll let you know. We will 1646 01:31:03,280 --> 01:31:06,240 Speaker 1: keep you up to date, constantly improving, constantly shifting. Oh, 1647 01:31:06,280 --> 01:31:11,680 Speaker 1: I can't wait for the the big big news, big news. 1648 01:31:11,720 --> 01:31:16,120 Speaker 1: I wanna I want to fly flash them. Riley's phone 1649 01:31:16,160 --> 01:31:18,799 Speaker 1: back round so bad but so cute. 1650 01:31:19,920 --> 01:31:24,599 Speaker 7: No, our headshots is there's there's like I can no, don't, 1651 01:31:24,640 --> 01:31:27,400 Speaker 7: don't don't show them because I feel like it would 1652 01:31:27,400 --> 01:31:28,760 Speaker 7: be cool, Like, uh yeah, I. 1653 01:31:29,320 --> 01:31:30,960 Speaker 1: Feel like I do have a video that I want 1654 01:31:31,000 --> 01:31:32,600 Speaker 1: to run it by you. I think it's safe to 1655 01:31:33,320 --> 01:31:37,720 Speaker 1: to share more in the video from the shoot. Yes, 1656 01:31:38,680 --> 01:31:42,760 Speaker 1: nothing revealing of yeah, we can show that. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah. 1657 01:31:44,320 --> 01:31:46,840 Speaker 1: I have a cute little video from from the shoot yesterday. 1658 01:31:46,920 --> 01:31:51,040 Speaker 1: That or just a video, yeah yeah? AnyWho do we 1659 01:31:51,160 --> 01:31:54,719 Speaker 1: have another story, another story? Oh yeah we do? Oh yeah. 1660 01:31:56,520 --> 01:31:59,599 Speaker 2: One also says I don't know. Riley and Sophia together 1661 01:31:59,640 --> 01:32:03,000 Speaker 2: have some wild takes lo l wilder than Sam and 1662 01:32:03,200 --> 01:32:04,160 Speaker 2: John's takes. 1663 01:32:04,600 --> 01:32:11,640 Speaker 1: Come on, come on the oh geez, oh geez, all right, 1664 01:32:12,439 --> 01:32:16,280 Speaker 1: my god, I kind of laugh. Hei guys. Hello, Samantha Burrows, 1665 01:32:16,520 --> 01:32:19,679 Speaker 1: what's up? Samantha Burrows Burrow Live? 1666 01:32:19,840 --> 01:32:25,600 Speaker 2: Wait take my worm? We wet? Oh yeah, this was 1667 01:32:25,640 --> 01:32:27,160 Speaker 2: from I'm blanked. 1668 01:32:28,160 --> 01:32:32,479 Speaker 1: It's on the note actually, yo, beat me to it. 1669 01:32:34,400 --> 01:32:35,439 Speaker 2: Hello forty two. 1670 01:32:35,880 --> 01:32:38,000 Speaker 1: That is so sick. 1671 01:32:38,200 --> 01:32:40,880 Speaker 2: And I think our current names for it, We've got 1672 01:32:40,920 --> 01:32:46,320 Speaker 2: We've got Winifred, we have Phil King Phil to my 1673 01:32:46,640 --> 01:32:53,880 Speaker 2: my Yeah, we had what was the other one, yeah, yeah, 1674 01:32:55,720 --> 01:33:00,800 Speaker 2: dirt dirt. Yeah, so we're making those names. 1675 01:33:01,400 --> 01:33:04,519 Speaker 1: I think Phil Phil, Yeah, it feels pretty good. That's 1676 01:33:04,520 --> 01:33:12,439 Speaker 1: pretty good. I don't put it on like scum. Come scum, Damn, 1677 01:33:12,800 --> 01:33:13,639 Speaker 1: I like, come. 1678 01:33:15,200 --> 01:33:15,400 Speaker 4: You do? 1679 01:33:15,600 --> 01:33:15,800 Speaker 1: Huh? 1680 01:33:17,479 --> 01:33:17,800 Speaker 2: That right? 1681 01:33:18,800 --> 01:33:19,920 Speaker 4: Wilson, that's a good name. 1682 01:33:21,160 --> 01:33:30,719 Speaker 1: Wilson, gob Wilson, Jess in a way, Jesus fucking Christ. 1683 01:33:30,760 --> 01:33:33,800 Speaker 1: All right, I deserve that that minute was worth it. 1684 01:33:34,280 --> 01:33:36,280 Speaker 1: That minute was worth it because Sam is just so 1685 01:33:36,479 --> 01:33:40,760 Speaker 1: out of vogga there, Oh my god, added another minute 1686 01:33:40,800 --> 01:33:42,439 Speaker 1: to the stream. But you know what else, We're gonna 1687 01:33:42,720 --> 01:33:46,360 Speaker 1: add five because I miss like a lot. So I'm 1688 01:33:46,400 --> 01:33:50,799 Speaker 1: just wow insurance. All right, are you ready, ladies and gentlemen. 1689 01:33:51,760 --> 01:33:57,160 Speaker 1: Captain I can't hear you. Captain. Am I the a hor? 1690 01:33:57,760 --> 01:33:59,960 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? For spoiling my friend's bachelor 1691 01:34:00,040 --> 01:34:04,320 Speaker 1: arette party? You could be? This comes from Ta Bridesmaid 1692 01:34:04,680 --> 01:34:07,920 Speaker 1: thirty two for twenty three, who says, I, thirty females 1693 01:34:07,920 --> 01:34:10,719 Speaker 1: spoiled my friend's bachelorette party, and I'm now being kicked 1694 01:34:10,720 --> 01:34:12,680 Speaker 1: out of the wedding party. She is one of my 1695 01:34:12,760 --> 01:34:16,320 Speaker 1: close friends, and I have been feeling devastated and guilty 1696 01:34:16,479 --> 01:34:19,559 Speaker 1: by the turn of events since last weekend. I'm using 1697 01:34:19,600 --> 01:34:22,400 Speaker 1: fake names since I want to keep it anonymous. My 1698 01:34:22,560 --> 01:34:25,160 Speaker 1: friend Joanna, twenty nine female, is getting married and I 1699 01:34:25,240 --> 01:34:28,400 Speaker 1: am incredibly happy for her. Joanna is my coworker and 1700 01:34:28,479 --> 01:34:30,759 Speaker 1: we have been working together for the last seven years. 1701 01:34:33,120 --> 01:34:36,720 Speaker 1: What would you like? I just left it, you say, Jesushie. 1702 01:34:38,680 --> 01:34:41,200 Speaker 1: I love your delayed reactions. She is one of my 1703 01:34:41,320 --> 01:34:43,800 Speaker 1: closest friends and I was so honored when she asked 1704 01:34:43,840 --> 01:34:45,880 Speaker 1: me to be a bridesmaid for her wedding. I also 1705 01:34:46,000 --> 01:34:48,000 Speaker 1: know her fiance, as he also works with us and 1706 01:34:48,160 --> 01:34:51,320 Speaker 1: is a friend of mine. Most of the bridesmaids, including 1707 01:34:51,439 --> 01:34:54,120 Speaker 1: the maid of honor, are Joanna's college friends, and they 1708 01:34:54,160 --> 01:34:55,880 Speaker 1: have all been nice to me. They have planned a 1709 01:34:55,960 --> 01:34:59,679 Speaker 1: nice weekend bachelorette party for her last weekend. We rented 1710 01:34:59,720 --> 01:35:01,120 Speaker 1: an air B and B and the plane was to 1711 01:35:01,200 --> 01:35:04,360 Speaker 1: hang out, drink, play games all night. They're around ten 1712 01:35:04,439 --> 01:35:06,240 Speaker 1: girls and all of them were around the same age 1713 01:35:06,280 --> 01:35:08,360 Speaker 1: as me. We reached them in the morning and spent 1714 01:35:08,439 --> 01:35:10,519 Speaker 1: the day by the pool and in the evening. The 1715 01:35:10,640 --> 01:35:14,840 Speaker 1: plan was to dress classy in cocktail dresses and hang 1716 01:35:14,920 --> 01:35:20,600 Speaker 1: out all classy. I like classy dresses, you do, I do? 1717 01:35:20,880 --> 01:35:26,360 Speaker 1: I love a woman in a sun dress, well sundresses sundresses. 1718 01:35:26,760 --> 01:35:31,439 Speaker 1: She shirts name a better dress, skirts, a tennis skirt? 1719 01:35:31,520 --> 01:35:35,280 Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? Skirt? Honestly? 1720 01:35:35,720 --> 01:35:35,880 Speaker 4: Oh? 1721 01:35:36,360 --> 01:35:44,400 Speaker 1: Facts, all right. Overalls Overalls are cool. Overalls are cool. 1722 01:35:46,240 --> 01:35:56,960 Speaker 1: Southern thing. Anyways, things are going well. And we were 1723 01:35:57,120 --> 01:36:00,040 Speaker 1: playing and we were playing the normal bachelor, and we 1724 01:36:00,120 --> 01:36:02,840 Speaker 1: were playing the normal bachelorette, play games, party games and 1725 01:36:02,920 --> 01:36:06,040 Speaker 1: having fun. Around ten pm, there was a knock on 1726 01:36:06,160 --> 01:36:10,560 Speaker 1: the door. Wow, I love what John does. Fully, I 1727 01:36:11,240 --> 01:36:14,360 Speaker 1: immerse you into the story. And Maya is not here, 1728 01:36:14,479 --> 01:36:18,120 Speaker 1: by the way, all these saying poor Sophia, where is she? Where? 1729 01:36:18,680 --> 01:36:25,040 Speaker 1: No where? God, that's right? Who exactly? But and the 1730 01:36:25,120 --> 01:36:28,960 Speaker 1: maid of honor made us all quiet for suppresse. She 1731 01:36:29,160 --> 01:36:32,679 Speaker 1: hired two male strippers for the bachelorette party. 1732 01:36:33,960 --> 01:36:37,880 Speaker 4: Baby you guys, ma strippers hashm you. 1733 01:36:39,479 --> 01:36:44,439 Speaker 1: We honestly we would, we would wuld go crazy. I can't, 1734 01:36:45,080 --> 01:36:49,040 Speaker 1: but if if we could, I can, we would? Sam can't? 1735 01:36:49,160 --> 01:36:51,439 Speaker 1: I could? Sam can? I'm great with scheduling. 1736 01:36:51,760 --> 01:36:58,920 Speaker 7: I have stripped before. Well, I'll do okay, story time on. 1737 01:36:59,360 --> 01:37:01,559 Speaker 7: I am going whipped by Dominatrix soon. 1738 01:37:02,479 --> 01:37:05,080 Speaker 1: Oh yes, I practiced with him. I can't wait. Yeah, 1739 01:37:05,080 --> 01:37:08,760 Speaker 1: and I'll okay storytelling and he took it like a champion. Now, 1740 01:37:08,920 --> 01:37:11,960 Speaker 1: but back to the story, I am married and I 1741 01:37:12,120 --> 01:37:14,439 Speaker 1: was shocked as no one mentioned that this was the plan. 1742 01:37:14,840 --> 01:37:17,160 Speaker 1: I was uncomfortable but decided not to cause the scene 1743 01:37:17,200 --> 01:37:19,920 Speaker 1: as others were screaming and happy. Oh my god, I 1744 01:37:20,120 --> 01:37:23,560 Speaker 1: live it. However, as soon as they started dancing, the 1745 01:37:23,600 --> 01:37:26,960 Speaker 1: strippers started calling out some girls and the girls were 1746 01:37:27,000 --> 01:37:30,400 Speaker 1: getting pretty handsy with them. Oo. At this point, I 1747 01:37:30,520 --> 01:37:32,920 Speaker 1: excused myself that I needed some water and I went 1748 01:37:32,960 --> 01:37:35,320 Speaker 1: to the pool area. I was uncomfortable at this point, 1749 01:37:35,360 --> 01:37:37,280 Speaker 1: and I called my husband. I told him what was 1750 01:37:37,320 --> 01:37:39,160 Speaker 1: going on, and he told me that he trusts me 1751 01:37:39,320 --> 01:37:41,799 Speaker 1: not to do something I am uncomfortable with. Just because 1752 01:37:41,840 --> 01:37:47,080 Speaker 1: of pure pressure, I grabbed that stripper by the nuts. No, 1753 01:37:47,479 --> 01:37:53,559 Speaker 1: this is false, this is this is fake. I commit Okay, 1754 01:37:54,320 --> 01:37:56,920 Speaker 1: oh my I told him to stay on the phone 1755 01:37:56,960 --> 01:37:59,680 Speaker 1: and talk to me. After around fifteen minutes, three more 1756 01:37:59,800 --> 01:38:04,080 Speaker 1: girls also came out where I was sitting and then 1757 01:38:04,120 --> 01:38:08,640 Speaker 1: sat next to me. They were also uncomfortable with the 1758 01:38:08,720 --> 01:38:10,640 Speaker 1: turn of events, and I told them that I was 1759 01:38:10,680 --> 01:38:13,360 Speaker 1: talking to my husband, and they took this opportunity to 1760 01:38:13,439 --> 01:38:16,120 Speaker 1: call their partners or text them. They told me that 1761 01:38:16,240 --> 01:38:18,519 Speaker 1: they were also not told about the strippers in the 1762 01:38:18,560 --> 01:38:21,360 Speaker 1: Maid of Honor took the liberty to arrange that as 1763 01:38:21,400 --> 01:38:25,160 Speaker 1: a surprise for everybody. After a while, the noise from 1764 01:38:25,200 --> 01:38:28,200 Speaker 1: inside started going down and we thought the strippers had left. 1765 01:38:28,320 --> 01:38:30,400 Speaker 1: We went inside a check and there was a bunch 1766 01:38:30,520 --> 01:38:35,519 Speaker 1: of NSFW stuff going on, Like what hmm, I mean 1767 01:38:37,000 --> 01:38:41,200 Speaker 1: probably yeah, a bunch everywhere. I imagining every bunch of 1768 01:38:41,320 --> 01:38:42,639 Speaker 1: that party is just dick themed. 1769 01:38:43,080 --> 01:38:46,040 Speaker 7: Yes, true, and I feel like there's some blowy's going on. 1770 01:38:46,560 --> 01:38:50,320 Speaker 7: It could be right, or like at least to otphds. 1771 01:38:50,439 --> 01:38:52,479 Speaker 1: So yeah, you love dropping that acronym. 1772 01:38:52,760 --> 01:38:52,960 Speaker 4: I do. 1773 01:38:53,160 --> 01:38:54,920 Speaker 7: I learned about it like a couple of years ago 1774 01:38:55,640 --> 01:39:00,080 Speaker 7: and like ever since, ever since, yeah, something like yeah, anyway. 1775 01:39:00,560 --> 01:39:03,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, sorry, what were you saying, John, I was saying. 1776 01:39:04,200 --> 01:39:08,080 Speaker 1: I was shocked to see to see that Joanna was 1777 01:39:08,160 --> 01:39:10,679 Speaker 1: with one of the guys the girl, the girl getting married, 1778 01:39:10,880 --> 01:39:13,880 Speaker 1: My goodness, I screamed in disbelief, and that startled her 1779 01:39:14,240 --> 01:39:17,600 Speaker 1: with like I did. I was shocked to see that 1780 01:39:17,680 --> 01:39:21,160 Speaker 1: Joanna was with one of the guys, like doing what Well, 1781 01:39:21,200 --> 01:39:24,120 Speaker 1: we got to read in between the lines to see 1782 01:39:24,160 --> 01:39:32,920 Speaker 1: that he's in between her lines. Oh oh, because good child, yep, 1783 01:39:34,000 --> 01:39:36,320 Speaker 1: I screamed in disbelief, and that startled her. I just 1784 01:39:36,400 --> 01:39:41,200 Speaker 1: got out of the room and uh, they told and 1785 01:39:41,360 --> 01:39:43,639 Speaker 1: then me and the other girls went out for a drive. 1786 01:39:44,040 --> 01:39:47,559 Speaker 1: We returned an hour around where we returned after an 1787 01:39:47,600 --> 01:39:50,240 Speaker 1: hour around midnight, the guys had left and all the girls. 1788 01:39:50,520 --> 01:39:52,160 Speaker 1: The girls were sitting around as if they had seen 1789 01:39:52,200 --> 01:39:54,200 Speaker 1: a ghost after we left. 1790 01:39:54,560 --> 01:40:01,599 Speaker 4: He was just the redhead. What my friend is a redhead? 1791 01:40:01,640 --> 01:40:03,639 Speaker 4: And everyone's like, oh, I just saw a ghost because 1792 01:40:03,680 --> 01:40:04,679 Speaker 4: like you're super pale. 1793 01:40:05,880 --> 01:40:08,280 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry that I thought it was all 1794 01:40:08,400 --> 01:40:10,360 Speaker 1: like the ghost babies that were left on the floor. 1795 01:40:10,960 --> 01:40:15,519 Speaker 1: Oh wow, all right, pizza my fallen soldiers, Yeah, bake care. 1796 01:40:16,360 --> 01:40:22,080 Speaker 1: We would have way to gouled. This is what happened 1797 01:40:22,080 --> 01:40:24,320 Speaker 1: when Sophia leaves the stream. Ladies and gentlemen, we just 1798 01:40:24,720 --> 01:40:29,040 Speaker 1: we just so spiral towards degeneracy at alarming grace. This 1799 01:40:29,320 --> 01:40:32,360 Speaker 1: was pretty pretty bad alarmed. I mean, like this is 1800 01:40:32,720 --> 01:40:35,240 Speaker 1: it's also crazy every type of Fea leaves, we read 1801 01:40:35,320 --> 01:40:38,720 Speaker 1: the most sexual story. It is true. That's why I 1802 01:40:38,800 --> 01:40:40,920 Speaker 1: feel like it always happened. I mean, she she's the 1803 01:40:40,960 --> 01:40:42,719 Speaker 1: one that finds these stories, so this could be completely 1804 01:40:42,720 --> 01:40:52,360 Speaker 1: she know she plans when she leaves conspiracy. We should, guys, 1805 01:40:52,439 --> 01:40:54,800 Speaker 1: we should like, how should we confront Sophia about this? 1806 01:40:55,760 --> 01:40:56,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. 1807 01:40:56,240 --> 01:40:58,760 Speaker 7: I think she just knows we should catch the like, oh, 1808 01:40:58,800 --> 01:41:01,600 Speaker 7: it's so crazy. You always leave every time there's a 1809 01:41:01,640 --> 01:41:05,720 Speaker 7: sexual Honestly, I don't believe her. She knows we need one, yeah, 1810 01:41:05,760 --> 01:41:07,680 Speaker 7: and I'm glad for it. I would rather not. 1811 01:41:07,880 --> 01:41:11,439 Speaker 1: I don't know we need one. We do. That's that 1812 01:41:11,680 --> 01:41:14,000 Speaker 1: we're great at sex jokes. We are, you know that 1813 01:41:14,120 --> 01:41:14,439 Speaker 1: is true. 1814 01:41:14,920 --> 01:41:17,040 Speaker 4: We're so great that Sofia doesn't even know she's making them. 1815 01:41:17,160 --> 01:41:21,640 Speaker 1: Dude, she's afraid of our greatness. He's afraid of our greatness. Well, 1816 01:41:21,680 --> 01:41:25,000 Speaker 1: then back to reality, all right, let's see what's going 1817 01:41:25,040 --> 01:41:28,639 Speaker 1: on here. After we left, it seemed like Joanna suddenly 1818 01:41:28,760 --> 01:41:34,040 Speaker 1: had an anxiety attack. She started crying. She started crying, 1819 01:41:34,080 --> 01:41:37,000 Speaker 1: and they kicked out all the trippers. She wanted to 1820 01:41:37,040 --> 01:41:41,040 Speaker 1: still there apparently, Yeah, that's sounded crazy. What were they 1821 01:41:41,240 --> 01:41:44,880 Speaker 1: They're just sitting around? I don't know. She wanted to. 1822 01:41:45,080 --> 01:41:47,120 Speaker 1: She wanted to talk to her fiance, but the girls 1823 01:41:47,200 --> 01:41:49,720 Speaker 1: calmed her down and kept her from calling him and 1824 01:41:49,880 --> 01:41:53,719 Speaker 1: telling him what happened. What happened. I wanted what happened? 1825 01:41:54,280 --> 01:41:57,799 Speaker 1: I mean, was it just a handy? Was it a blowy? 1826 01:41:58,640 --> 01:42:01,120 Speaker 1: I think? I mean she is with one of them. 1827 01:42:01,439 --> 01:42:05,200 Speaker 1: Was she's at a minimum maybe like from making out 1828 01:42:05,520 --> 01:42:10,760 Speaker 1: to something worse, from dealing up to something worse. When 1829 01:42:10,800 --> 01:42:14,000 Speaker 1: I was in Australia, I tried out to be a 1830 01:42:14,160 --> 01:42:19,360 Speaker 1: cheerleader and also then for like a strip group, and 1831 01:42:19,800 --> 01:42:22,639 Speaker 1: one of my friends was already a stripper in that group. 1832 01:42:22,760 --> 01:42:25,559 Speaker 1: And he said, like the amount of bachel atte probably 1833 01:42:25,640 --> 01:42:28,880 Speaker 1: like parties. He's not like actually a close friend, He's 1834 01:42:29,040 --> 01:42:32,679 Speaker 1: more of like a coquaintance. But the amount of times 1835 01:42:32,760 --> 01:42:38,040 Speaker 1: that he had hooked up with like the bride to 1836 01:42:38,240 --> 01:42:42,200 Speaker 1: be and different bachelotte parties was an ungodly amount. And 1837 01:42:42,240 --> 01:42:45,120 Speaker 1: he said he would never do a bachelotte party like 1838 01:42:45,240 --> 01:42:48,840 Speaker 1: ever before that reason. Wow. Yeah, dang, like like he 1839 01:42:49,120 --> 01:42:51,280 Speaker 1: doesn't want his wife to have a bachelorette party. Yeah, 1840 01:42:51,640 --> 01:42:57,160 Speaker 1: because of that. That's tough. Yeah, that's tough. So her 1841 01:42:57,240 --> 01:42:59,720 Speaker 1: friends then took Joanna to the bedroom and the maid 1842 01:42:59,760 --> 01:43:01,519 Speaker 1: of all honor told us that it was rude for 1843 01:43:01,640 --> 01:43:03,439 Speaker 1: us to leave in the middle of the party. She 1844 01:43:03,560 --> 01:43:06,200 Speaker 1: looked at me and said, you had to be at 1845 01:43:06,240 --> 01:43:08,920 Speaker 1: the center of everything. This was Joanna's night and you 1846 01:43:09,360 --> 01:43:14,800 Speaker 1: ruined it. Hmmm. Uh. I was too shocked to say 1847 01:43:14,880 --> 01:43:17,280 Speaker 1: anything and just decided to call it a night and 1848 01:43:17,400 --> 01:43:24,280 Speaker 1: went to sleep. John, do we need to or we Gucci? Yeah? 1849 01:43:24,479 --> 01:43:27,720 Speaker 1: We Gucci. The drive back was awkward, to say the least. 1850 01:43:28,000 --> 01:43:30,920 Speaker 1: The three girls who followed me outside started to decided 1851 01:43:30,960 --> 01:43:33,479 Speaker 1: to carpool with me, and I didn't have to talk 1852 01:43:33,560 --> 01:43:35,479 Speaker 1: to the maid of honor or Joanna. The next day, 1853 01:43:36,040 --> 01:43:38,759 Speaker 1: on Monday, Joanna skipped work and called me in the evening. 1854 01:43:39,280 --> 01:43:41,959 Speaker 1: She said that the other bridesmaids did not feel comfortable 1855 01:43:42,040 --> 01:43:44,400 Speaker 1: with me being in the wedding party and if it 1856 01:43:44,560 --> 01:43:48,760 Speaker 1: is okay with me, so she is getting kicked out 1857 01:43:49,479 --> 01:43:53,800 Speaker 1: of the bridal party for basically being uncomfortable, for being 1858 01:43:54,000 --> 01:43:58,040 Speaker 1: uncomfortable being the center of attention. And yeah, she kind 1859 01:43:58,080 --> 01:44:01,240 Speaker 1: of caused I think this whole Yeah, I feel like 1860 01:44:01,920 --> 01:44:05,320 Speaker 1: I just think strippers at a bachelotte party is a 1861 01:44:05,400 --> 01:44:09,960 Speaker 1: bad idea. Yeah, yeah, it's a lot like strippers at 1862 01:44:10,000 --> 01:44:14,519 Speaker 1: any You know what, are you ready for this, ladies 1863 01:44:14,560 --> 01:44:16,960 Speaker 1: and gentlemen, I'm about to lay down a golden rule. 1864 01:44:17,040 --> 01:44:21,560 Speaker 1: Go oh, John's golden rules. Get ready for it. You 1865 01:44:21,640 --> 01:44:26,560 Speaker 1: should only go to strippers if your significant other is 1866 01:44:26,640 --> 01:44:29,600 Speaker 1: with you and like in on it. That is the 1867 01:44:29,720 --> 01:44:32,400 Speaker 1: only scenario agreed that you should agrade. 1868 01:44:32,720 --> 01:44:37,720 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, we read that one story about couples that 1869 01:44:37,800 --> 01:44:38,679 Speaker 4: go to strip clubs. 1870 01:44:39,240 --> 01:44:42,240 Speaker 1: That's right. Yeah, people do it, although in that story 1871 01:44:42,320 --> 01:44:46,960 Speaker 1: did not work well. No, no, I mean stop going, 1872 01:44:47,200 --> 01:44:50,240 Speaker 1: stopped going that it was it ended up being a problem. 1873 01:44:53,840 --> 01:44:56,120 Speaker 1: What do we think about my golden rule? Guys? Are 1874 01:44:56,160 --> 01:44:59,040 Speaker 1: we in favor of us? Me? I'm in favor. I'm 1875 01:44:59,080 --> 01:45:01,040 Speaker 1: in favor. I appreciate your support. 1876 01:45:01,080 --> 01:45:03,120 Speaker 4: Gus Lebron James with his wife through strip club? 1877 01:45:03,560 --> 01:45:06,439 Speaker 1: What happens? Many people do it? Many people do it. 1878 01:45:06,600 --> 01:45:10,360 Speaker 1: Would you have ever been to a strip CLUBA? We suck, 1879 01:45:11,080 --> 01:45:15,479 Speaker 1: We're lame. She also told me that she hopes I 1880 01:45:15,640 --> 01:45:18,439 Speaker 1: follow the girl code and not talk about what happened 1881 01:45:18,439 --> 01:45:22,200 Speaker 1: over the weekend. I have a question for the chat 1882 01:45:23,560 --> 01:45:29,720 Speaker 1: tell or not? Should Ope tell or not? Should OPI 1883 01:45:29,840 --> 01:45:35,880 Speaker 1: tell or not? I mean it should come from the wife. Yeah, 1884 01:45:36,720 --> 01:45:44,719 Speaker 1: I think it's like Yeah. She said that she was drunk, 1885 01:45:44,920 --> 01:45:47,320 Speaker 1: had no idea what was played, and just went with 1886 01:45:47,400 --> 01:45:50,080 Speaker 1: the flow that evening. The Maiden, the Maid of Honor 1887 01:45:50,320 --> 01:45:53,040 Speaker 1: sent me a threatening message that I ruined a perfect 1888 01:45:53,080 --> 01:45:55,920 Speaker 1: weekend for Joanna and should not talk about what happened 1889 01:45:55,960 --> 01:45:58,479 Speaker 1: to anyone. I have already told my husband and he 1890 01:45:58,640 --> 01:46:01,160 Speaker 1: said that I should step away from the drama. He 1891 01:46:01,320 --> 01:46:04,799 Speaker 1: also offered to go on vacation during the wedding weekend 1892 01:46:04,920 --> 01:46:07,680 Speaker 1: and skip the wedding as Joanna may not even want 1893 01:46:07,760 --> 01:46:10,320 Speaker 1: me to be there, which honestly, if you're kicked out 1894 01:46:10,360 --> 01:46:14,640 Speaker 1: of the bridal party, they probably don't want you there 1895 01:46:14,680 --> 01:46:16,479 Speaker 1: and they're just trying to be nice. But I'm like, hey, 1896 01:46:16,520 --> 01:46:19,400 Speaker 1: you're still welcome to Colm, but like they kind of don't. Yeah, 1897 01:46:19,439 --> 01:46:21,880 Speaker 1: I mean you're kicked out of the bridal party. Like 1898 01:46:22,000 --> 01:46:24,360 Speaker 1: that is a sign, Yes, one hundred percent a sign. 1899 01:46:24,640 --> 01:46:26,960 Speaker 1: I feel so bad for what happened over the weekend. 1900 01:46:27,120 --> 01:46:30,479 Speaker 1: Joanna has been actively avoiding me since Monday. I was 1901 01:46:30,520 --> 01:46:33,400 Speaker 1: so happy for but I just cannot unsee what I 1902 01:46:33,520 --> 01:46:36,240 Speaker 1: saw over the weekend. I also know how much Joanna 1903 01:46:36,320 --> 01:46:39,439 Speaker 1: adores her fiance and it must just be a lapse 1904 01:46:39,479 --> 01:46:41,720 Speaker 1: of judgment for her in that moment. I did not 1905 01:46:41,920 --> 01:46:44,479 Speaker 1: know how I should have acted, but the mail strippers 1906 01:46:44,600 --> 01:46:46,519 Speaker 1: just crossed my line. Am I the a hole to 1907 01:46:46,640 --> 01:46:49,800 Speaker 1: ruin Joanna's bachelorette party and was there any other way 1908 01:46:49,880 --> 01:46:52,640 Speaker 1: I would have acted in this scenario? This guilt is 1909 01:46:52,720 --> 01:46:56,559 Speaker 1: killing me and I don't know what I should do now. 1910 01:46:56,680 --> 01:47:00,679 Speaker 1: Now there are some relevant comments, There is an update. 1911 01:47:00,800 --> 01:47:03,599 Speaker 1: There is more to the story than we've even read 1912 01:47:03,640 --> 01:47:06,960 Speaker 1: so far. We do have some new people in the chat, 1913 01:47:07,040 --> 01:47:09,960 Speaker 1: so maybe a quick TLDR before we keep going. Absolutely, 1914 01:47:10,080 --> 01:47:13,439 Speaker 1: I love that idea. Uh, Opie was in the bridal 1915 01:47:13,520 --> 01:47:17,439 Speaker 1: party for a wedding. The maid of honor got some 1916 01:47:17,520 --> 01:47:21,200 Speaker 1: male strippers at the bachelorette party. Opie wasn't comfortable. She's married. 1917 01:47:21,240 --> 01:47:23,840 Speaker 1: A bunch of other women weren't comfortable, so they kind 1918 01:47:23,840 --> 01:47:26,040 Speaker 1: of just like stayed stayed out of it and stayed away. 1919 01:47:27,360 --> 01:47:31,840 Speaker 1: And then later that night, the I think the bride 1920 01:47:31,920 --> 01:47:35,080 Speaker 1: to be was you know, other people of the other 1921 01:47:35,120 --> 01:47:36,960 Speaker 1: women came in, saw her doing stuff with the with 1922 01:47:37,080 --> 01:47:40,040 Speaker 1: one of the strippers. She was kind of getting very 1923 01:47:40,120 --> 01:47:45,040 Speaker 1: distraught and they're basically like, hey, don't say anything, respect 1924 01:47:45,080 --> 01:47:46,960 Speaker 1: the girl code, and you're not in the wedding. You're 1925 01:47:47,000 --> 01:47:50,920 Speaker 1: not in the bridal party anymore. So now Opie wants 1926 01:47:50,960 --> 01:47:56,000 Speaker 1: to know if she uh wasn't the wrong enough she 1927 01:47:56,040 --> 01:47:57,120 Speaker 1: could have done anything different. 1928 01:47:57,600 --> 01:48:02,680 Speaker 7: I mean, like, you have morals, Yeah, yeah, so you like, 1929 01:48:03,680 --> 01:48:08,479 Speaker 7: obviously I feel like Op is being punished for having 1930 01:48:08,600 --> 01:48:12,639 Speaker 7: like strong moral standing totally, But like, do you even 1931 01:48:12,680 --> 01:48:16,240 Speaker 7: want to be around these people that are acting like this? 1932 01:48:16,439 --> 01:48:18,639 Speaker 1: You know, A great question. So a bit of context. 1933 01:48:18,920 --> 01:48:22,080 Speaker 1: All of the other people, so Op is friends with 1934 01:48:22,760 --> 01:48:27,040 Speaker 1: the bride from work, and everyone else in the bridal 1935 01:48:27,120 --> 01:48:28,559 Speaker 1: party is her college friends. 1936 01:48:29,040 --> 01:48:31,000 Speaker 7: Yeah, so it's it's it sounds like Ope is not 1937 01:48:31,120 --> 01:48:33,680 Speaker 7: really like a super close friend maybe or maybe is 1938 01:48:33,680 --> 01:48:36,439 Speaker 7: a close friend from work, but maybe it's like, oh, 1939 01:48:36,600 --> 01:48:38,160 Speaker 7: all of my college friends bring this. 1940 01:48:39,640 --> 01:48:42,200 Speaker 1: Part of me out that you don't see in the 1941 01:48:42,240 --> 01:48:45,280 Speaker 1: corporate world exactly, like like oh, you're my work bestie, 1942 01:48:45,479 --> 01:48:47,559 Speaker 1: like we're we're and they could be really good friends. 1943 01:48:47,640 --> 01:48:49,640 Speaker 1: But then it's like she's now surrounded by all of 1944 01:48:49,680 --> 01:48:52,160 Speaker 1: her college friends that are just like going wild yeah 1945 01:48:52,280 --> 01:48:55,200 Speaker 1: with her, which doesn't sound like a good environment. Doesn't 1946 01:48:55,200 --> 01:48:57,800 Speaker 1: sound like an environment that Ope wants to be around. Yeah, 1947 01:48:57,840 --> 01:49:00,800 Speaker 1: and I think that, like OPI she went outside to 1948 01:49:00,880 --> 01:49:04,760 Speaker 1: the pool. She called her husband. She didn't go like hey, hey, hey, 1949 01:49:05,040 --> 01:49:07,799 Speaker 1: you know stop this a da da da. She removed 1950 01:49:07,840 --> 01:49:10,960 Speaker 1: herself from the situation and kind of like let everyone 1951 01:49:11,320 --> 01:49:15,360 Speaker 1: make whatever decision they wanted, and then other women decided 1952 01:49:15,400 --> 01:49:17,040 Speaker 1: to come out like saw her and come out too, 1953 01:49:17,120 --> 01:49:19,400 Speaker 1: because they also said that they were uncomfortable. 1954 01:49:19,520 --> 01:49:22,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, which is like I mean to have a uh, 1955 01:49:23,439 --> 01:49:26,599 Speaker 7: to have a whole bachelotte party go off the rail 1956 01:49:26,680 --> 01:49:29,000 Speaker 7: like that is pretty terrible. 1957 01:49:28,800 --> 01:49:31,599 Speaker 1: Totally, So I I think I actually Opie did everything 1958 01:49:32,320 --> 01:49:35,439 Speaker 1: like very well. But we are still left with a question, 1959 01:49:36,720 --> 01:49:41,920 Speaker 1: is uh or should Opie say anything or like help 1960 01:49:42,000 --> 01:49:47,800 Speaker 1: the in any way push the truth to the groom? Tough? Right, 1961 01:49:50,520 --> 01:49:52,160 Speaker 1: I don't know if she's like she doesn't have her 1962 01:49:52,200 --> 01:49:55,479 Speaker 1: own relationship with the groom, so I don't know if 1963 01:49:55,520 --> 01:49:59,080 Speaker 1: it does she have if she has her own relationship 1964 01:49:59,120 --> 01:50:01,640 Speaker 1: with the groom, potentially if she doesn't, I don't think 1965 01:50:01,720 --> 01:50:05,560 Speaker 1: so yeah, I don't. I don't. I don't know that 1966 01:50:05,640 --> 01:50:08,560 Speaker 1: she does, so I'm assuming she does not. Maybe what 1967 01:50:08,680 --> 01:50:10,639 Speaker 1: if she said what if she like sent her friend 1968 01:50:10,680 --> 01:50:12,400 Speaker 1: a message? Also, this is like a really tough because 1969 01:50:12,400 --> 01:50:15,720 Speaker 1: they like still work together. Yeah, but maybe she says like, hey, 1970 01:50:18,000 --> 01:50:23,280 Speaker 1: like I like I'm getting the feeling that like it's 1971 01:50:23,360 --> 01:50:24,960 Speaker 1: maybe not the best thing for me at the for 1972 01:50:25,160 --> 01:50:26,360 Speaker 1: me to be at the wedding. I don't want to 1973 01:50:26,400 --> 01:50:28,920 Speaker 1: cause you any stress on your big day, like I might. 1974 01:50:29,040 --> 01:50:31,720 Speaker 1: I might set it out if that you know, I'm 1975 01:50:31,720 --> 01:50:37,080 Speaker 1: guessing that would make you more comfortable. I do you 1976 01:50:37,160 --> 01:50:39,920 Speaker 1: think it would be good to tell your husband? And 1977 01:50:40,360 --> 01:50:45,560 Speaker 1: just wanted to piece, but like you know, you're you 1978 01:50:45,720 --> 01:50:49,320 Speaker 1: are in titled to do what you want and like 1979 01:50:49,360 --> 01:50:51,880 Speaker 1: you're your own person. This is you guys relationship. But 1980 01:50:52,000 --> 01:50:54,920 Speaker 1: I just wanted to speak my piece. Is that I 1981 01:50:55,040 --> 01:50:57,719 Speaker 1: think that's probably that's what probably what I would do. Yeah, 1982 01:50:58,040 --> 01:50:59,559 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think I would tell the husband 1983 01:51:00,240 --> 01:51:03,840 Speaker 1: because I'm I'm assuming based on kind of like what 1984 01:51:04,000 --> 01:51:10,519 Speaker 1: I'm reading that the OP knows that this is something 1985 01:51:10,560 --> 01:51:14,080 Speaker 1: the groom would not be happy about. Well yeah yeah, 1986 01:51:14,960 --> 01:51:22,560 Speaker 1: but OP is also like not completely I think like 1987 01:51:22,760 --> 01:51:27,280 Speaker 1: because OP doesn't have a specific relationship with the groom, 1988 01:51:27,520 --> 01:51:32,639 Speaker 1: I don't think it is on OP to get into 1989 01:51:32,720 --> 01:51:35,080 Speaker 1: the mix of this because think about this too. Uh, 1990 01:51:35,840 --> 01:51:40,120 Speaker 1: there was other women there that like we're with OP 1991 01:51:40,280 --> 01:51:42,240 Speaker 1: where we're like, hey, we don't want to get like 1992 01:51:42,360 --> 01:51:44,519 Speaker 1: we're not trying to get involved with these with these trippers, 1993 01:51:44,600 --> 01:51:47,000 Speaker 1: like we have partners and we don't like that's personally 1994 01:51:47,080 --> 01:51:49,920 Speaker 1: not what we want to do, so you can it's 1995 01:51:50,000 --> 01:51:53,400 Speaker 1: it's it's as much on them as it is ope, 1996 01:51:53,840 --> 01:51:57,000 Speaker 1: if it is on anyone, Yeah, if that makes sense. Yeah, 1997 01:51:57,160 --> 01:52:01,320 Speaker 1: like like so so basically it's like, you know, everyone 1998 01:52:01,439 --> 01:52:03,519 Speaker 1: was there, everyone saw it. Like, I don't know that 1999 01:52:03,680 --> 01:52:07,400 Speaker 1: makes any one person responsible to you know, come and 2000 01:52:07,520 --> 01:52:13,160 Speaker 1: bring I think it makes people responsible who have a 2001 01:52:13,200 --> 01:52:15,719 Speaker 1: relationship if they have a relationship with it, Like anyone 2002 01:52:15,760 --> 01:52:18,439 Speaker 1: who has a relationship with the groom is responsible for 2003 01:52:18,520 --> 01:52:20,639 Speaker 1: telling her. Yeah, like if anything, the maid of honor 2004 01:52:20,800 --> 01:52:24,160 Speaker 1: is obviously the closest one to the like, but of 2005 01:52:24,280 --> 01:52:27,040 Speaker 1: course the maid of honor wouldn't because she's the one 2006 01:52:27,080 --> 01:52:30,000 Speaker 1: that orchestrated this whole thing. Is like basically threatening op 2007 01:52:30,479 --> 01:52:34,960 Speaker 1: to like keep her mouth shut. So wild, Yeah, pretty crazy, 2008 01:52:34,960 --> 01:52:37,400 Speaker 1: so so wild, pretty crazy. What Monny Cake says. 2009 01:52:37,400 --> 01:52:39,880 Speaker 7: The way I decide is would I want someone with 2010 01:52:39,960 --> 01:52:43,120 Speaker 7: this information to tell me? If I was in the 2011 01:52:43,200 --> 01:52:45,439 Speaker 7: fiance's position, if I would want to know? 2012 01:52:45,600 --> 01:52:48,920 Speaker 1: I tell That is a that is a good point, 2013 01:52:49,320 --> 01:52:54,920 Speaker 1: like framework to think about these things. That's pretty tough, Yeah, Mike, 2014 01:52:55,000 --> 01:52:58,800 Speaker 1: If I if someone random knew, would I want to know? Yeah? 2015 01:53:00,400 --> 01:53:04,640 Speaker 1: From that person? Problem if your bride like hooks up 2016 01:53:04,760 --> 01:53:07,280 Speaker 1: before probably, I guess in that way, in that case, 2017 01:53:07,320 --> 01:53:10,680 Speaker 1: I probably would want to know. Yeah, probably would want 2018 01:53:10,720 --> 01:53:14,519 Speaker 1: to know. That is a really good barometer. Fuck yeah, 2019 01:53:15,040 --> 01:53:20,839 Speaker 1: bunny cakes just coming in far out o hot, my goodness, gracious. 2020 01:53:21,080 --> 01:53:23,759 Speaker 7: But then it's like, do you I mean yes, maybe 2021 01:53:24,400 --> 01:53:27,000 Speaker 7: you like maybe it would be the best for the person, 2022 01:53:27,120 --> 01:53:30,160 Speaker 7: but also I don't know if you necessarily have a 2023 01:53:30,640 --> 01:53:34,559 Speaker 7: duty too, Like, yeah, it would be the best thing 2024 01:53:34,680 --> 01:53:39,840 Speaker 7: to do I think for the husband, but do you 2025 01:53:40,040 --> 01:53:42,960 Speaker 7: have that duty because you have no relationship, Like I 2026 01:53:43,640 --> 01:53:47,680 Speaker 7: don't think so, and it potentially creates a lot of 2027 01:53:47,760 --> 01:53:51,200 Speaker 7: difficulty for you. So yes, is it the best thing 2028 01:53:51,280 --> 01:53:51,479 Speaker 7: to do? 2029 01:53:52,680 --> 01:53:54,880 Speaker 1: Yes? But like, are you an a hole if you 2030 01:53:55,000 --> 01:53:58,880 Speaker 1: don't know? Bad kitty just brought something up that I 2031 01:53:59,080 --> 01:54:03,000 Speaker 1: totally forgot that my change your answer, uh OPI also 2032 01:54:03,600 --> 01:54:06,840 Speaker 1: works with the husband. They all three of them work 2033 01:54:07,040 --> 01:54:10,920 Speaker 1: at the same company together, and they work together, all 2034 01:54:11,000 --> 01:54:14,960 Speaker 1: three of them. Right, thank you for that, bad Kittie, 2035 01:54:14,960 --> 01:54:20,920 Speaker 1: I totally forgot that. Right. Someone said, Sam learning empathy 2036 01:54:20,960 --> 01:54:21,719 Speaker 1: in real time. 2037 01:54:21,680 --> 01:54:27,160 Speaker 4: Whole uh more, and you can learn it faster according to. 2038 01:54:32,720 --> 01:54:36,720 Speaker 7: Yeah, if they well, I think it all sounds like 2039 01:54:37,040 --> 01:54:40,400 Speaker 7: if it all sounds it is if OPI has. 2040 01:54:40,360 --> 01:54:44,000 Speaker 1: A personal relationship with husband, Yeah, what if? What if? So? 2041 01:54:44,360 --> 01:54:48,080 Speaker 1: The first kind of like a mock message we said 2042 01:54:48,160 --> 01:54:50,040 Speaker 1: was kind of light where it was like, hey, I 2043 01:54:50,160 --> 01:54:54,360 Speaker 1: believe you should like tell him. What if? The message 2044 01:54:54,440 --> 01:55:00,600 Speaker 1: is like you know, but basically like you just a 2045 01:55:00,640 --> 01:55:03,560 Speaker 1: little bit more strong like he he deserves to know 2046 01:55:03,720 --> 01:55:07,520 Speaker 1: and you should. Yeah, mm hmm. 2047 01:55:11,120 --> 01:55:14,760 Speaker 7: Yeah, it's it's it's true, but it is. Yeah, really 2048 01:55:14,880 --> 01:55:17,680 Speaker 7: like you see it, you saw it, you saw it happen, 2049 01:55:17,840 --> 01:55:20,360 Speaker 7: you work with them. I mean then but then all 2050 01:55:20,440 --> 01:55:24,880 Speaker 7: of the other women at the bachelorette party are like. 2051 01:55:25,240 --> 01:55:28,120 Speaker 1: They're complicit to they're a holes, They're like they're they're 2052 01:55:28,320 --> 01:55:31,360 Speaker 1: but also liable to be the one to tell the truth. Yeah. 2053 01:55:32,400 --> 01:55:35,280 Speaker 7: Right, I feel like I'm now like moving over towards 2054 01:55:35,360 --> 01:55:38,600 Speaker 7: saying but just knowing that you will. 2055 01:55:40,000 --> 01:55:43,480 Speaker 1: You will, just like if if so? Here here here's 2056 01:55:43,480 --> 01:55:45,720 Speaker 1: the thing. Also, could we pull up a pole real quick, 2057 01:55:45,760 --> 01:55:47,760 Speaker 1: teil groom or not? Yeah, tell groom or not? Yeah? 2058 01:55:49,760 --> 01:55:54,480 Speaker 7: All right, as op, Yes, Uh, if you go directly 2059 01:55:54,480 --> 01:55:59,480 Speaker 7: to husband, the relationship with the bride is done done. 2060 01:55:59,680 --> 01:55:59,800 Speaker 1: Yes. 2061 01:56:00,640 --> 01:56:03,840 Speaker 7: If you go to the bride and say you need 2062 01:56:03,920 --> 01:56:07,040 Speaker 7: to tell the husband. You potentially are preserving the relationship 2063 01:56:07,200 --> 01:56:10,480 Speaker 7: with the bride. It's assuming that you want to, and 2064 01:56:11,000 --> 01:56:14,200 Speaker 7: also the husband if he goes straight to the husband. 2065 01:56:14,240 --> 01:56:15,720 Speaker 7: I mean, I don't think there is a relationship with 2066 01:56:15,800 --> 01:56:19,560 Speaker 7: the husband, but you're preserving that. Yeah, I think I 2067 01:56:19,680 --> 01:56:21,200 Speaker 7: think the best thing to do, the best thing to 2068 01:56:21,280 --> 01:56:25,360 Speaker 7: do is go to the bride and say the classic Hey, 2069 01:56:25,440 --> 01:56:30,160 Speaker 7: I really think that you should tell your husband. I 2070 01:56:30,280 --> 01:56:33,560 Speaker 7: feel like I have a moral obligation to do so. 2071 01:56:34,080 --> 01:56:41,400 Speaker 7: If you don't, yeah, the classic maybe ultimatum. Could you 2072 01:56:41,480 --> 01:56:44,080 Speaker 7: get the other hit up the other women. 2073 01:56:44,480 --> 01:56:49,000 Speaker 1: To everyone's saying tell ten votes for tell, everyone's saying tell, 2074 01:56:51,320 --> 01:56:54,920 Speaker 1: tell the groom. We had similar stories, remember like this 2075 01:56:55,120 --> 01:56:58,640 Speaker 1: where people are saying like yeah, like basically, you know 2076 01:56:58,680 --> 01:57:00,960 Speaker 1: what we could do? What you know what you could do? 2077 01:57:01,160 --> 01:57:03,440 Speaker 1: All right, here we go cook, let him cook? Okay, 2078 01:57:03,760 --> 01:57:06,200 Speaker 1: let okay, here we go, Here we go, Here we go, 2079 01:57:06,640 --> 01:57:12,000 Speaker 1: Here we go, Here we go. You have his email 2080 01:57:12,520 --> 01:57:18,840 Speaker 1: new Google account, yep email saying hey, I don't want 2081 01:57:20,040 --> 01:57:22,400 Speaker 1: to get in the mix of this or anything, but 2082 01:57:25,880 --> 01:57:29,360 Speaker 1: I saw your wife cheat with one of the strippers 2083 01:57:29,800 --> 01:57:32,200 Speaker 1: at the Bachelor atte party. I thought you should know 2084 01:57:32,800 --> 01:57:36,480 Speaker 1: if you need more information, you can tell anonymous with proof. Yeah, 2085 01:57:36,520 --> 01:57:39,880 Speaker 1: a dash to startists anonymous with proof, Anonymous, that's how 2086 01:57:39,920 --> 01:57:42,120 Speaker 1: you do it, Anonymous. Then you don't have to deal 2087 01:57:42,200 --> 01:57:48,240 Speaker 1: with all the circus. That's true. Let's freaking go anonymous. However, however, 2088 01:57:48,520 --> 01:57:52,280 Speaker 1: ANONYMOUM about to poke some holes about the poke some holesa. 2089 01:57:55,160 --> 01:57:59,080 Speaker 1: The maid of honor already has like her targets done 2090 01:57:59,080 --> 01:58:01,440 Speaker 1: on op because she's like, yeah, you're the ring leader 2091 01:58:01,520 --> 01:58:06,280 Speaker 1: of like anti stripperness. But but well, because the husband's 2092 01:58:06,280 --> 01:58:10,120 Speaker 1: definitely got a show his wife. And if you show proof, 2093 01:58:10,520 --> 01:58:12,600 Speaker 1: then that that means that you were, at a bare 2094 01:58:12,720 --> 01:58:16,080 Speaker 1: minimum one of the bride'smaids at the bachelorette party, because 2095 01:58:16,120 --> 01:58:18,400 Speaker 1: otherwise how would you have gotten the Like the photos 2096 01:58:18,400 --> 01:58:21,280 Speaker 1: are probably like a photo they would know, they would know. 2097 01:58:21,560 --> 01:58:24,720 Speaker 1: But you know, I I think I think you could 2098 01:58:24,760 --> 01:58:27,400 Speaker 1: do that. Yeah, oh here we go. Harley Kritzell, act 2099 01:58:27,520 --> 01:58:36,720 Speaker 1: like one of the strippers. Damn one of the strippers. Whoa, hey, 2100 01:58:37,600 --> 01:58:41,400 Speaker 1: I just want to say this, I got my DS 2101 01:58:41,640 --> 01:58:44,360 Speaker 1: by your wife last night. Hire the s you should know, 2102 01:58:44,920 --> 01:58:47,840 Speaker 1: Hire the stripper to tell to come to his place 2103 01:58:47,880 --> 01:58:50,960 Speaker 1: of work and be like, hey boss, look he's like 2104 01:58:51,040 --> 01:58:53,360 Speaker 1: in his like you know, his little speedo and just 2105 01:58:53,440 --> 01:58:57,360 Speaker 1: like oiled gymp a graph telling the stripper around to 2106 01:58:57,600 --> 01:59:00,320 Speaker 1: tell him like, listen up, pal, I'm so sorry to 2107 01:59:00,360 --> 01:59:03,480 Speaker 1: tell you this, but that's actually great. You're that is 2108 01:59:03,640 --> 01:59:06,360 Speaker 1: so great. Yeah, yeah, that's that's it. You hire the 2109 01:59:06,400 --> 01:59:10,000 Speaker 1: stripper to tell the husband you have n't like get 2110 01:59:10,080 --> 01:59:12,440 Speaker 1: some coffee with him. Yeah, and he's just like sitting 2111 01:59:12,520 --> 01:59:15,120 Speaker 1: there like bulk oiled up and just like, yeah, you're 2112 01:59:15,160 --> 01:59:19,640 Speaker 1: completely dude, Hey buddy, look look for you all right. 2113 01:59:19,880 --> 01:59:23,400 Speaker 1: I know this is a like a crazy solution. I 2114 01:59:24,080 --> 01:59:28,400 Speaker 1: legitimately think this is the best solution. Yeah, an anonymous 2115 01:59:28,400 --> 01:59:31,120 Speaker 1: stripper Graham. Yeah, or maybe not even like, if we're 2116 01:59:31,160 --> 01:59:34,120 Speaker 1: being super serious, not a stripper Graham, but like having 2117 01:59:34,760 --> 01:59:37,440 Speaker 1: the stripper like call the guy or something, yeah, or 2118 01:59:37,520 --> 01:59:39,920 Speaker 1: like send him an email and just being like, hey, 2119 01:59:40,080 --> 01:59:42,200 Speaker 1: I work for this company. Here's just you know, here's 2120 01:59:42,320 --> 01:59:45,480 Speaker 1: my easiest money that the stripper has ever made. Right, 2121 01:59:45,800 --> 01:59:47,840 Speaker 1: you just send an email and you're just like, hey, 2122 01:59:47,880 --> 01:59:52,920 Speaker 1: I'll pay you. What Seana Morris says, haven't sent to 2123 01:59:53,000 --> 02:00:06,640 Speaker 1: the wedding. Oh yeah, dude, that coptering it. That is 2124 02:00:06,880 --> 02:00:09,360 Speaker 1: one of the most hilarious things I've ever heard on 2125 02:00:09,440 --> 02:00:13,920 Speaker 1: the show ever. Oh my god, sending the striperer to 2126 02:00:14,080 --> 02:00:20,200 Speaker 1: the wedding bro Bro's. He's in the tux, you know, 2127 02:00:20,680 --> 02:00:23,800 Speaker 1: he stands up, rists it off and it's in the 2128 02:00:23,880 --> 02:00:26,640 Speaker 1: little Wait wait, you know what this spo says. He 2129 02:00:26,800 --> 02:00:31,400 Speaker 1: goes like this, I object, and it says I object 2130 02:00:31,520 --> 02:00:34,640 Speaker 1: on the ass. Dude, you can put a dollar for that. 2131 02:00:35,040 --> 02:00:38,320 Speaker 1: Oh my god. I'm also imagining there's a little like 2132 02:00:38,440 --> 02:00:42,480 Speaker 1: the speedo is also a tux. Yeah, super classy, super 2133 02:00:42,560 --> 02:00:45,800 Speaker 1: class Wow, dude, we we we figured it out. That 2134 02:00:46,000 --> 02:00:50,600 Speaker 1: is the best thing that together as a community. Oh 2135 02:00:50,760 --> 02:00:51,360 Speaker 1: my god. 2136 02:00:51,520 --> 02:00:53,960 Speaker 7: But then how would the stripper know how to contact him? 2137 02:00:54,080 --> 02:00:56,200 Speaker 7: Is still not anonymous? What do you mean you would 2138 02:00:56,200 --> 02:00:56,960 Speaker 7: give all the information? 2139 02:00:58,440 --> 02:00:59,920 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, what is the what are they saying how 2140 02:01:00,120 --> 02:01:03,160 Speaker 1: the stripper note of content? Yeah, you just share get 2141 02:01:03,200 --> 02:01:06,800 Speaker 1: in touch with the groom? Yeah, come on, all right, 2142 02:01:06,800 --> 02:01:09,200 Speaker 1: but guys, guys, we solve that. We solve that, We 2143 02:01:09,320 --> 02:01:11,720 Speaker 1: solve that. But there is still we don't know if 2144 02:01:11,760 --> 02:01:14,840 Speaker 1: they're going to take our advice. There's literally more a 2145 02:01:15,000 --> 02:01:18,240 Speaker 1: lot more. Yeah, all right, so there's still is the 2146 02:01:18,320 --> 02:01:20,920 Speaker 1: potential for OP to book the stripper. 2147 02:01:21,200 --> 02:01:25,560 Speaker 7: Yes, love Bubbles who booked it. No the strip no no, no, 2148 02:01:25,600 --> 02:01:30,080 Speaker 7: no no no no no no. The stripper grew a conscience, Yes, 2149 02:01:30,440 --> 02:01:30,840 Speaker 7: it can't. 2150 02:01:31,600 --> 02:01:31,640 Speaker 1: You. 2151 02:01:31,960 --> 02:01:34,960 Speaker 7: The stripper doesn't say anyone hired him. It's just like, hey, 2152 02:01:35,200 --> 02:01:36,360 Speaker 7: I needed to get something. 2153 02:01:36,160 --> 02:01:41,520 Speaker 1: Off my chest. Yeah, my sexy oil, chexy chest. And 2154 02:01:41,680 --> 02:01:47,200 Speaker 1: actually it's she's really cling. Wow, I love it. Anyways, 2155 02:01:47,240 --> 02:01:52,000 Speaker 1: let's get into these romant comments, guys, groundbreaking too to 2156 02:01:52,320 --> 02:01:55,720 Speaker 1: one says you need to make her tell fiance or 2157 02:01:55,840 --> 02:01:58,800 Speaker 1: do it yourself if she want. All of you are 2158 02:01:58,880 --> 02:02:01,320 Speaker 1: getting manipulated by the maid of honor right now. Please 2159 02:02:01,360 --> 02:02:03,600 Speaker 1: demonstrate some decency in character and do the right thing, 2160 02:02:03,960 --> 02:02:06,640 Speaker 1: Opie said. As I said before, I am so torn 2161 02:02:06,720 --> 02:02:08,720 Speaker 1: on what to do. Some of the girls who stayed 2162 02:02:08,800 --> 02:02:11,320 Speaker 1: back in the room are married and have kids. My 2163 02:02:11,560 --> 02:02:15,080 Speaker 1: one confession could destroy a lot of lives. Okay, So 2164 02:02:15,240 --> 02:02:18,480 Speaker 1: she's saying there's other women there that also are married 2165 02:02:18,480 --> 02:02:21,520 Speaker 1: with kids that would be affected as well because they 2166 02:02:21,600 --> 02:02:26,200 Speaker 1: were all given blowies to the stripper. Yes, they're implicated. Dude, 2167 02:02:27,200 --> 02:02:30,600 Speaker 1: whose dad bring them down? Let it burn them fall. 2168 02:02:31,840 --> 02:02:34,760 Speaker 1: I know what's the right thing to do on paper, 2169 02:02:34,920 --> 02:02:36,880 Speaker 1: but I don't want to do something I would regret later. 2170 02:02:37,760 --> 02:02:41,200 Speaker 1: My husband has been constantly talking to me and trying 2171 02:02:41,240 --> 02:02:44,919 Speaker 1: to help and trying to help me with my anxiety. 2172 02:02:45,200 --> 02:02:47,680 Speaker 1: Bella Roe says, did you decide what to do? I 2173 02:02:47,680 --> 02:02:50,680 Speaker 1: would feel uncomfortable working with Joanna and her fiance after 2174 02:02:50,760 --> 02:02:53,400 Speaker 1: what's transpired. I hope you're doing okay, Opie. I have 2175 02:02:53,560 --> 02:02:56,280 Speaker 1: not told the fiance yet. However, I talked to him 2176 02:02:56,280 --> 02:02:58,680 Speaker 1: today and he was asking me why I stepped down 2177 02:02:58,760 --> 02:03:01,400 Speaker 1: from being a bridesmaid. I told him he should ask 2178 02:03:01,520 --> 02:03:03,720 Speaker 1: Joanna about it, as I don't want to talk about it. 2179 02:03:04,360 --> 02:03:09,800 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. That's a terrible, terrible way, not a terrible move. 2180 02:03:09,800 --> 02:03:14,280 Speaker 7: But again, stripper gram so people are like, oh, how 2181 02:03:14,320 --> 02:03:16,360 Speaker 7: would they get the contact information? Do you know how 2182 02:03:16,480 --> 02:03:21,160 Speaker 7: easy it is to like find and message people? Everyone 2183 02:03:21,240 --> 02:03:24,400 Speaker 7: has an Instagram, everybody, everyone has a LinkedIn. Everyone you 2184 02:03:24,520 --> 02:03:26,880 Speaker 7: send it, you send a linked in. I would love 2185 02:03:26,960 --> 02:03:30,440 Speaker 7: to get a un message from a mail stripper on lin. 2186 02:03:30,560 --> 02:03:35,720 Speaker 1: This I would be like experience of big dongs. Llc 2187 02:03:37,360 --> 02:03:41,520 Speaker 1: oh boy. Ope, continue saying. I feel so bad too, 2188 02:03:41,640 --> 02:03:43,720 Speaker 1: and I see him every day at work. It's such 2189 02:03:43,760 --> 02:03:46,600 Speaker 1: a fed up situation. Tidy Cactus says, take the stripper 2190 02:03:46,720 --> 02:03:50,040 Speaker 1: to the wedding as a date, dude, There's so many 2191 02:03:50,160 --> 02:03:54,520 Speaker 1: good ways. There's literally so many. I object ripping off 2192 02:03:54,640 --> 02:03:59,320 Speaker 1: the talk. That's banger all time, great moment. It's such 2193 02:03:59,320 --> 02:04:01,360 Speaker 1: a f upsitu and my husband is trying to call 2194 02:04:01,440 --> 02:04:05,320 Speaker 1: me down and think about the cons and think about 2195 02:04:05,360 --> 02:04:08,280 Speaker 1: the consequences before I take any steps. Jeff forty two 2196 02:04:08,280 --> 02:04:11,520 Speaker 1: thousand says, you see this dude every day. What the 2197 02:04:11,800 --> 02:04:14,160 Speaker 1: f Why did you tell? Why wouldn't you tell him 2198 02:04:14,440 --> 02:04:19,160 Speaker 1: at it? Why doesn't anyone care about the fiance? But 2199 02:04:19,280 --> 02:04:24,400 Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, there is there is another update. Yeah, 2200 02:04:25,280 --> 02:04:27,360 Speaker 1: so let's dive into it. I wrote. I wrote a 2201 02:04:27,360 --> 02:04:30,280 Speaker 1: post last week regarding my friend Joanna's bachelororette party going 2202 02:04:30,360 --> 02:04:33,240 Speaker 1: south after her maid of honor decided to surprise everyone 2203 02:04:33,640 --> 02:04:36,560 Speaker 1: by inviting mail strippers and the bride decided to have 2204 02:04:36,760 --> 02:04:39,240 Speaker 1: some fun. I had left the room immediately with a 2205 02:04:39,280 --> 02:04:42,320 Speaker 1: few girls and was uncomfortable with this. I had asked 2206 02:04:42,320 --> 02:04:44,120 Speaker 1: for advice on how to proceed with the guilt of 2207 02:04:44,200 --> 02:04:47,120 Speaker 1: witnessing events and not telling the fiance of the groom 2208 02:04:47,640 --> 02:04:50,120 Speaker 1: was killing me. I wanted to give you an update 2209 02:04:50,200 --> 02:04:52,160 Speaker 1: since a lot of people are messaging me to tell 2210 02:04:52,200 --> 02:04:56,720 Speaker 1: the fiance the Bachelor. The Bachelororette party happened two weekends ago. 2211 02:04:57,720 --> 02:05:01,040 Speaker 1: Last week was super awkward. Joanna asked me on Monday 2212 02:05:01,120 --> 02:05:03,120 Speaker 1: if it's okay if I stepped down of being a 2213 02:05:03,160 --> 02:05:06,440 Speaker 1: bride's maid. I agreed, and my husband also suggested we 2214 02:05:06,480 --> 02:05:09,040 Speaker 1: skip the wedding altogether and was very supportive of me. 2215 02:05:09,600 --> 02:05:12,160 Speaker 1: I did not tell the groom, Jason, but he came 2216 02:05:12,240 --> 02:05:14,200 Speaker 1: down on Thursday and he asked me why I step 2217 02:05:14,360 --> 02:05:16,880 Speaker 1: down for being a bride's maid, reminder if they work together. 2218 02:05:17,320 --> 02:05:19,480 Speaker 1: I told him I didn't. I do not want to 2219 02:05:19,520 --> 02:05:22,120 Speaker 1: discuss the issue, and Joanna knew the reason. I did 2220 02:05:22,200 --> 02:05:24,240 Speaker 1: not want to lie to him, but also did not 2221 02:05:24,360 --> 02:05:27,280 Speaker 1: have the courage to tell the truth. On Sunday morning, 2222 02:05:27,760 --> 02:05:31,320 Speaker 1: Joanna called me, who asked me if she and Jason 2223 02:05:31,920 --> 02:05:34,960 Speaker 1: can come to our house as Jason wanted to talk 2224 02:05:35,000 --> 02:05:37,960 Speaker 1: to me. She sounded like she was crying on the 2225 02:05:38,000 --> 02:05:41,440 Speaker 1: other side. I said okay, and I told her to 2226 02:05:41,560 --> 02:05:43,840 Speaker 1: come in some time. Since my husband and I were 2227 02:05:43,880 --> 02:05:47,960 Speaker 1: at the gym, Jason and Joanna both came together and 2228 02:05:48,080 --> 02:05:51,160 Speaker 1: we invited them to come in. I have no idea 2229 02:05:51,280 --> 02:05:53,920 Speaker 1: what's going to happen this I have I am this 2230 02:05:54,120 --> 02:05:55,800 Speaker 1: is this is a good one, right, this is a 2231 02:05:55,840 --> 02:05:57,880 Speaker 1: good one. Like, we don't know what he knows and 2232 02:05:58,560 --> 02:06:00,080 Speaker 1: what he's about to do. Why would you do you 2233 02:06:00,160 --> 02:06:03,160 Speaker 1: want to come to them? I've been so confused. Jason 2234 02:06:03,320 --> 02:06:05,680 Speaker 1: was stone faced, and it took a few minutes before 2235 02:06:05,760 --> 02:06:09,160 Speaker 1: anyone said a word. Jason looked at me and told 2236 02:06:09,240 --> 02:06:12,080 Speaker 1: me that he considered me his friend and wanted to 2237 02:06:12,200 --> 02:06:18,040 Speaker 1: know exactly what happened that night day. I'm considered if 2238 02:06:18,400 --> 02:06:21,880 Speaker 1: he considers you a friend, come on, you gotta tell me. 2239 02:06:21,920 --> 02:06:25,160 Speaker 1: And also Joanne is sitting right right next to their 2240 02:06:25,440 --> 02:06:29,600 Speaker 1: so so Joanna couldn't nut up and say anything exactly. 2241 02:06:29,720 --> 02:06:31,720 Speaker 1: So it's I feel like at that point, it's like, 2242 02:06:32,240 --> 02:06:34,360 Speaker 1: would you would you say it? At that point he 2243 02:06:34,440 --> 02:06:37,360 Speaker 1: comes over, He's literally like I think I would do yeah, 2244 02:06:37,400 --> 02:06:39,640 Speaker 1: of course, especially with Joanna right there, for this is 2245 02:06:39,720 --> 02:06:42,720 Speaker 1: the cats out of the back. I told him the 2246 02:06:42,720 --> 02:06:44,640 Speaker 1: whole story about Anna. What's great? Really quick? 2247 02:06:44,840 --> 02:06:48,760 Speaker 7: What's great is op gave Joanna the chance to come 2248 02:06:48,880 --> 02:06:51,520 Speaker 7: clean and say something yes, and she chanced to get 2249 02:06:51,520 --> 02:06:52,560 Speaker 7: the right thing and she didn't. 2250 02:06:53,600 --> 02:06:55,520 Speaker 1: I told him the whole story about how we had 2251 02:06:55,560 --> 02:06:58,440 Speaker 1: a nice weekend until the strippers came. I told him 2252 02:06:58,520 --> 02:07:00,640 Speaker 1: that I left the room after some girl started dancing 2253 02:07:00,680 --> 02:07:03,040 Speaker 1: with them as I did not feel comfortable. My husband 2254 02:07:03,120 --> 02:07:05,200 Speaker 1: was also backing up my story as I was on 2255 02:07:05,280 --> 02:07:07,160 Speaker 1: a call with him the whole time after that, which, 2256 02:07:07,200 --> 02:07:09,120 Speaker 1: of course is true. Which is the good thing to do. 2257 02:07:09,200 --> 02:07:13,160 Speaker 1: If you're yes, yeah, that's honestly brilliant myth like call 2258 02:07:13,240 --> 02:07:14,560 Speaker 1: them and be like, hey, could you kind of keep 2259 02:07:14,560 --> 02:07:15,320 Speaker 1: you company while I'm here. 2260 02:07:15,560 --> 02:07:18,080 Speaker 2: We all lived in harmony until the strippers a. 2261 02:07:18,120 --> 02:07:24,040 Speaker 1: Time, Sophia, this is a serious issue. There are real 2262 02:07:24,400 --> 02:07:29,560 Speaker 1: hot oiled men that are on the line. That's right, 2263 02:07:29,800 --> 02:07:33,800 Speaker 1: that's right. You've heard about the fire nation, but what 2264 02:07:33,920 --> 02:07:36,640 Speaker 1: about the baby oil nation? All right, that is a 2265 02:07:36,760 --> 02:07:38,960 Speaker 1: nation we need to protect. One of the hot steamy nation. 2266 02:07:39,200 --> 02:07:42,000 Speaker 1: They have the hot steamy Nation. Yeah, they've been steam, 2267 02:07:42,240 --> 02:07:46,040 Speaker 1: they've been steam and other things. I told him how. 2268 02:07:46,560 --> 02:07:48,600 Speaker 1: I told him how, me and the other girls went 2269 02:07:48,680 --> 02:07:53,320 Speaker 1: in after thirty minutes and saw one of Joanna's married 2270 02:07:53,360 --> 02:07:58,320 Speaker 1: friends was giving one of the strippers a bj no 2271 02:07:59,080 --> 02:08:05,520 Speaker 1: blowey blowy yep. But to be clear, Oh, and then 2272 02:08:06,000 --> 02:08:08,760 Speaker 1: Joanna was also dancing with one of the strippers. He 2273 02:08:08,960 --> 02:08:11,480 Speaker 1: was completely naked at this point, and I was very 2274 02:08:11,600 --> 02:08:15,680 Speaker 1: shocked and screamed Joanna's name. So she was dancing with 2275 02:08:15,800 --> 02:08:21,839 Speaker 1: a naked stripper, not the one giving a BJ for clarity, 2276 02:08:21,960 --> 02:08:26,600 Speaker 1: for clarity, okay, I mean, hey, not great. 2277 02:08:27,000 --> 02:08:32,040 Speaker 7: I don't I don't really like Okay, if it's just 2278 02:08:32,160 --> 02:08:36,040 Speaker 7: but if it's just dancing like that is like way 2279 02:08:36,160 --> 02:08:39,160 Speaker 7: less bad, like just from a way, yeah, it's way 2280 02:08:39,240 --> 02:08:39,760 Speaker 7: less bad. 2281 02:08:40,960 --> 02:08:45,320 Speaker 1: All right. If wait, really really quick, really quick, if 2282 02:08:45,400 --> 02:08:48,400 Speaker 1: my wife, if if if I was cool with this, 2283 02:08:48,960 --> 02:08:52,000 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm getting some strippers, I would assume 2284 02:08:52,880 --> 02:08:55,840 Speaker 1: the strippers, they would dance with the strippers. That's that. 2285 02:08:56,080 --> 02:08:58,680 Speaker 1: That is the assumption, like kind of like in a 2286 02:08:59,360 --> 02:09:02,360 Speaker 1: party way like nothing nothing going too crazy, but yeah, 2287 02:09:02,440 --> 02:09:04,120 Speaker 1: well what like a lot like a lap dance, like 2288 02:09:04,160 --> 02:09:06,880 Speaker 1: a little lap dance or something. Yeah, what is it 2289 02:09:06,960 --> 02:09:10,280 Speaker 1: like you can you can no penetration, but like yeah 2290 02:09:10,560 --> 02:09:13,920 Speaker 1: yeah no touching else. But yeah there's like yeah, I 2291 02:09:13,920 --> 02:09:15,880 Speaker 1: could see a little lap I would assume that would happen. 2292 02:09:15,880 --> 02:09:18,440 Speaker 1: I would assume. I would assume. The only thing is 2293 02:09:18,640 --> 02:09:22,839 Speaker 1: did opie, did the husband even know about the stripper? 2294 02:09:24,320 --> 02:09:27,680 Speaker 1: I doubt it. Well I want to see a little yeah, 2295 02:09:27,680 --> 02:09:30,720 Speaker 1: a little additional context on that. So I lied slightly. 2296 02:09:31,640 --> 02:09:35,000 Speaker 1: I lied slightly because from my point of view, I 2297 02:09:35,160 --> 02:09:39,000 Speaker 1: could see the strippers back and Joanna was sitting sitting 2298 02:09:39,160 --> 02:09:42,600 Speaker 1: in front of him, and something might have been going on. 2299 02:09:43,920 --> 02:09:46,360 Speaker 1: Oh so, oh so it could have been like a 2300 02:09:46,440 --> 02:09:50,960 Speaker 1: little bit of like you see Yeah, no, one of 2301 02:09:51,040 --> 02:10:01,360 Speaker 1: those back to reality, Sophia says, I could see the 2302 02:10:01,360 --> 02:10:04,960 Speaker 1: strippers back, sipping from uh so. However, I was not 2303 02:10:05,120 --> 02:10:08,280 Speaker 1: sure and did not tell Jason about it. I told him, 2304 02:10:08,760 --> 02:10:11,200 Speaker 1: I told him. I left after that and came back 2305 02:10:11,240 --> 02:10:16,000 Speaker 1: to Joanna crying and wanting to see Jason. Joanna started 2306 02:10:16,040 --> 02:10:18,160 Speaker 1: talking at this point and told Jason that she was 2307 02:10:18,280 --> 02:10:20,440 Speaker 1: also surprised to see the strippers and did not want 2308 02:10:20,480 --> 02:10:23,560 Speaker 1: to spoil the party. It was the native honors idea, 2309 02:10:23,840 --> 02:10:26,640 Speaker 1: and the other three friends, all married, had paid for them. 2310 02:10:28,720 --> 02:10:31,160 Speaker 1: That was the reason none of the others knew about it, 2311 02:10:31,360 --> 02:10:33,960 Speaker 1: as it never showed up in the expenses we were tracking. 2312 02:10:34,440 --> 02:10:38,000 Speaker 1: Joanna thought that they were just strippers and not sex workers, 2313 02:10:38,160 --> 02:10:41,400 Speaker 1: and got carried away and did not stop them. Okay, 2314 02:10:41,560 --> 02:10:47,560 Speaker 1: so maybe they sex workers, Yeah, not just strippers. Whoa, whoa. 2315 02:10:48,200 --> 02:10:51,920 Speaker 1: When I screamed, Joanna suddenly realized how wrong everything was. 2316 02:10:52,560 --> 02:10:55,640 Speaker 1: I left and Joanna realized how bad the satuation. I 2317 02:10:55,840 --> 02:10:59,320 Speaker 1: left and and I left, and Joanna realized how bad 2318 02:10:59,360 --> 02:11:03,080 Speaker 1: the situation looked. She wanted to call Jason immediately to 2319 02:11:03,160 --> 02:11:05,200 Speaker 1: let him know what happened, but her friends stopped her 2320 02:11:05,280 --> 02:11:08,120 Speaker 1: from doing that because they were worried their husbands would 2321 02:11:08,200 --> 02:11:10,360 Speaker 1: find out. So Joanna. 2322 02:11:11,480 --> 02:11:19,560 Speaker 8: Is saying saying is allegedly, allegedly allegedly never inserted any 2323 02:11:19,720 --> 02:11:25,640 Speaker 8: stripper penie into her body and again from an each hand, 2324 02:11:26,000 --> 02:11:27,960 Speaker 8: not in her mouth, nothing. 2325 02:11:28,480 --> 02:11:32,080 Speaker 1: And from Op's POV it looked like it could have 2326 02:11:32,160 --> 02:11:34,760 Speaker 1: been dancing or something. Yeah, you're not getting the cam 2327 02:11:34,840 --> 02:11:42,720 Speaker 1: right now, Boom Sophia, because that's how Sophia becomes like 2328 02:11:42,800 --> 02:11:45,240 Speaker 1: a great producer. Is just like cutting away from Samony 2329 02:11:45,280 --> 02:11:54,200 Speaker 1: time he does anything crazy, gotcha? Okay? So he's like, 2330 02:11:54,200 --> 02:11:56,800 Speaker 1: I'm done, I'm done. Okay, we're serious, mode serious. But 2331 02:11:57,640 --> 02:12:00,440 Speaker 1: Joanna was begging Jason to trust her, and she did 2332 02:12:00,520 --> 02:12:03,680 Speaker 1: not kiss or do anything inappropriate with the strippers. 2333 02:12:06,640 --> 02:12:08,560 Speaker 2: She dance naked with them. 2334 02:12:09,120 --> 02:12:10,520 Speaker 1: It wasn't inappropriate. Is it naked? 2335 02:12:10,600 --> 02:12:14,880 Speaker 7: The stripper was naked? Okay, someone was naked, supposed to 2336 02:12:14,920 --> 02:12:15,600 Speaker 7: be naked. 2337 02:12:15,440 --> 02:12:20,920 Speaker 2: That's inherently inappropriate to the relationship unless they established not inappropriate. 2338 02:12:21,640 --> 02:12:27,480 Speaker 1: That's it. That's it, Jason was Jason was really upset, 2339 02:12:27,760 --> 02:12:30,960 Speaker 1: but he asked if Joanna was really crying and tried 2340 02:12:31,000 --> 02:12:33,720 Speaker 1: to call him. I confirmed it as the other girls 2341 02:12:33,760 --> 02:12:38,080 Speaker 1: had told that to me. Okay, so all right, that's that. 2342 02:12:38,200 --> 02:12:42,000 Speaker 1: Seems to be a there's at least some evidence backing up. 2343 02:12:43,360 --> 02:12:48,080 Speaker 1: Calam says dancing leads to sex foot loose, but loose, 2344 02:12:50,360 --> 02:12:53,520 Speaker 1: that's right. Jason hugged Joanna and told her that he 2345 02:12:53,600 --> 02:12:57,400 Speaker 1: trusts her and loves her. However, she must cut the 2346 02:12:57,480 --> 02:12:59,800 Speaker 1: maid of honor and the other three friends as they 2347 02:12:59,840 --> 02:13:03,240 Speaker 1: invited sex as they invited sex workers for the bachelorette party. 2348 02:13:03,800 --> 02:13:07,080 Speaker 1: He was also adamant that Joanna told her friend's husbands 2349 02:13:07,240 --> 02:13:10,960 Speaker 1: regarding the incident, but Joanna was very reluctant to do that. 2350 02:13:12,280 --> 02:13:14,720 Speaker 7: Dude, I don't trust Joanna. I'm gonna say it. I'm 2351 02:13:14,720 --> 02:13:17,240 Speaker 7: gonna say I think she was doing some stinky stuff. 2352 02:13:18,440 --> 02:13:23,240 Speaker 1: It could it could. I feel like what's likely is 2353 02:13:23,320 --> 02:13:25,960 Speaker 1: that maybe she did more than she saying and she 2354 02:13:26,400 --> 02:13:29,960 Speaker 1: but she's also truthful about the regret and remorse that 2355 02:13:30,080 --> 02:13:30,520 Speaker 1: she feels. 2356 02:13:30,560 --> 02:13:33,720 Speaker 7: I think she's definitely regretful and I think I think 2357 02:13:33,760 --> 02:13:37,400 Speaker 7: she's definitely she. I think we're getting a classic case. 2358 02:13:37,760 --> 02:13:41,440 Speaker 1: Of trickle truth. Ooh t trick or truth trick no, 2359 02:13:41,560 --> 02:13:44,640 Speaker 1: trickle truth, trickle truth, trickle truth. I see you know, 2360 02:13:44,720 --> 02:13:49,320 Speaker 1: trickle truth. It slowly electrical poletrical, electrical on out trick truth, 2361 02:13:49,440 --> 02:13:50,000 Speaker 1: trickle truth. 2362 02:13:50,280 --> 02:13:53,400 Speaker 2: I think regardless of whether or not she like went 2363 02:13:53,600 --> 02:13:56,720 Speaker 2: further than naked dancing, if she did not get the 2364 02:13:56,960 --> 02:14:03,280 Speaker 2: full oh, she did not get full permission, like bullet 2365 02:14:03,360 --> 02:14:07,880 Speaker 2: pointless from her husband saying you are I'm totally okay 2366 02:14:07,960 --> 02:14:11,120 Speaker 2: with you getting naked dances from snippers, then she is 2367 02:14:11,160 --> 02:14:11,360 Speaker 2: in the. 2368 02:14:11,360 --> 02:14:15,280 Speaker 1: Wrong, absolutely agreed without it with agreed without out. But 2369 02:14:16,080 --> 02:14:21,280 Speaker 1: like the degree to which it is relationship ending from 2370 02:14:21,440 --> 02:14:24,840 Speaker 1: like sixty percent, chance of it being ended to like 2371 02:14:25,400 --> 02:14:28,880 Speaker 1: ninety nine percent, I think is dependent on whether there 2372 02:14:29,120 --> 02:14:33,240 Speaker 1: was more than just dancing? Do I do? I hear 2373 02:14:33,480 --> 02:14:38,560 Speaker 1: a golden rule battling up? No? No, we have we are? 2374 02:14:38,800 --> 02:14:41,280 Speaker 1: Is this the end of new golden rules? I got 2375 02:14:41,320 --> 02:14:44,040 Speaker 1: some more golden rules, okay, but not this one. Okay, 2376 02:14:44,120 --> 02:14:49,240 Speaker 1: Well did you do? Joanna said that she would stop 2377 02:14:49,320 --> 02:14:52,600 Speaker 1: hanging out with those girls and came and hugged me. 2378 02:14:53,280 --> 02:14:55,480 Speaker 1: She was very apologetic, and I could see from her 2379 02:14:55,560 --> 02:14:58,840 Speaker 1: eyes how relieved she was. She apologized for me, She 2380 02:14:58,920 --> 02:15:01,919 Speaker 1: apologized to me for putting me in that situation. Overall, 2381 02:15:02,080 --> 02:15:04,960 Speaker 1: she dodged a huge bullet. I really hope I did 2382 02:15:05,000 --> 02:15:07,960 Speaker 1: the right thing and Joanna will never do something stupid 2383 02:15:08,080 --> 02:15:10,440 Speaker 1: like this in the future. From what I understand, one 2384 02:15:10,480 --> 02:15:13,000 Speaker 1: of the other girls who came out with me told 2385 02:15:13,080 --> 02:15:17,240 Speaker 1: Jason about the incident after he got suspicious and he 2386 02:15:17,400 --> 02:15:22,320 Speaker 1: confronted Joanna. I again and probably wanted to collaborate Joanna's 2387 02:15:22,320 --> 02:15:25,960 Speaker 1: story with what OP said. I again wanted to thank 2388 02:15:26,040 --> 02:15:28,880 Speaker 1: everyone for their suggestions and they helped me think through 2389 02:15:29,040 --> 02:15:32,280 Speaker 1: the whole. So we need to get on that notion 2390 02:15:35,560 --> 02:15:44,120 Speaker 1: and story SEVERER and audios. But the real question is 2391 02:15:46,040 --> 02:15:48,000 Speaker 1: did Ope do do enough? 2392 02:15:48,480 --> 02:15:52,080 Speaker 7: I think there would not have been more done, but 2393 02:15:52,240 --> 02:15:58,160 Speaker 7: it ended with Honestly, I am unsatisfied. I feel like 2394 02:15:58,960 --> 02:16:02,680 Speaker 7: I feel like Joanna is not telling the full truth. 2395 02:16:05,000 --> 02:16:05,760 Speaker 7: I think there was some. 2396 02:16:07,480 --> 02:16:11,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like there's some. Theah, if the back 2397 02:16:11,880 --> 02:16:16,680 Speaker 1: view of which Joanna saw her and the fully naked 2398 02:16:16,680 --> 02:16:21,440 Speaker 1: stripper is more than just dancing, and Joanna leaves that 2399 02:16:21,760 --> 02:16:26,640 Speaker 1: one pot crucial detail, there's no way there wasn't a 2400 02:16:26,680 --> 02:16:32,200 Speaker 1: peepy touch. No way you were talking. There's no way, 2401 02:16:32,400 --> 02:16:34,720 Speaker 1: there's no way there wasn't a peep Is it possible 2402 02:16:34,920 --> 02:16:39,080 Speaker 1: that it was like it's touching? Wow? That Yeah, there's 2403 02:16:39,120 --> 02:16:41,480 Speaker 1: really no good angle. There's no way, there's not there's 2404 02:16:41,560 --> 02:16:43,640 Speaker 1: no good angle. Like I feel like if he still 2405 02:16:43,720 --> 02:16:46,720 Speaker 1: had the little, the tight little speedo on, there's some 2406 02:16:47,120 --> 02:16:50,160 Speaker 1: maybe there's some gray area. I don't know. Yeah, yeah, 2407 02:16:50,160 --> 02:16:52,080 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. 2408 02:16:52,920 --> 02:16:57,360 Speaker 7: I think, uh, Opie not the A hole, I think 2409 02:16:57,640 --> 02:17:01,000 Speaker 7: the Joanna ahole. And I just bad for the husband. 2410 02:17:02,200 --> 02:17:06,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel bad for op too, because op put 2411 02:17:07,000 --> 02:17:08,840 Speaker 1: in that situation. Ye put in the situation because not 2412 02:17:09,080 --> 02:17:13,520 Speaker 1: only just Sopheu's point, Not only was it that she 2413 02:17:13,680 --> 02:17:17,880 Speaker 1: you know, didn't quadruple quintuple a thousand x check with 2414 02:17:18,080 --> 02:17:20,960 Speaker 1: the husbands and husbands to make sure it was good, 2415 02:17:21,240 --> 02:17:23,680 Speaker 1: but they didn't check with the other women in the 2416 02:17:23,760 --> 02:17:27,320 Speaker 1: bridal party, who like they had to know maybe like 2417 02:17:27,480 --> 02:17:28,920 Speaker 1: one or two of them. They weren't sure if they 2418 02:17:28,920 --> 02:17:30,879 Speaker 1: had a partner or kids or whatever, but they had 2419 02:17:30,920 --> 02:17:35,560 Speaker 1: to know at least one and didn't tell any of them. 2420 02:17:35,720 --> 02:17:44,360 Speaker 7: Conspiras, yeah, conspiracy theory, yeah, climate if everyone thinks that 2421 02:17:44,560 --> 02:17:47,440 Speaker 7: this was okay, and all of the brides, like or 2422 02:17:47,560 --> 02:17:51,000 Speaker 7: all the the the bridal party was like, oh yeah, 2423 02:17:51,040 --> 02:17:53,320 Speaker 7: this is a good idea and was on board, and 2424 02:17:53,560 --> 02:17:57,920 Speaker 7: like all the college friends were very quick to fondle some. 2425 02:17:58,080 --> 02:18:03,320 Speaker 1: Dong like I have to believe that all of their. 2426 02:18:05,320 --> 02:18:08,400 Speaker 7: Values are pretty similar from the friends from college, and 2427 02:18:09,879 --> 02:18:14,160 Speaker 7: they would think, oh, she would want something like this. Yeah, 2428 02:18:14,280 --> 02:18:17,200 Speaker 7: I have to believe there's a little bit of mind 2429 02:18:17,280 --> 02:18:20,600 Speaker 7: share there. Yeah, but maybe that isn't fair. Maybe that 2430 02:18:20,680 --> 02:18:24,600 Speaker 7: isn't fair to judge ops or the to judge Johanna's 2431 02:18:25,040 --> 02:18:26,160 Speaker 7: Joanna by her friends. 2432 02:18:26,280 --> 02:18:28,440 Speaker 1: You know what I think it could be this is 2433 02:18:28,480 --> 02:18:31,360 Speaker 1: your college friends group. You probably did all like I 2434 02:18:31,440 --> 02:18:33,119 Speaker 1: remember back in the day, we were so crazy, We're 2435 02:18:33,120 --> 02:18:34,960 Speaker 1: so well doing all these things. We're going to give 2436 02:18:35,040 --> 02:18:39,119 Speaker 1: our girl, our homegirl, one last hurrah, Yeah, one last 2437 02:18:39,160 --> 02:18:42,400 Speaker 1: time to relive our crazy glory days. 2438 02:18:42,240 --> 02:18:46,000 Speaker 7: Which is like what that is what a lot of 2439 02:18:46,200 --> 02:18:49,160 Speaker 7: a lot of people, which I hate, I hate this idea, 2440 02:18:49,240 --> 02:18:52,119 Speaker 7: but a lot of people see your bachelor and bachelorette 2441 02:18:52,160 --> 02:18:55,520 Speaker 7: party as like your last moments of freedom before you 2442 02:18:55,600 --> 02:18:58,800 Speaker 7: get locked down, and so it's like anything goes in 2443 02:18:58,879 --> 02:19:03,080 Speaker 7: the bachelor and bachelor atte party, including cheating, which I 2444 02:19:03,120 --> 02:19:04,480 Speaker 7: think is done. 2445 02:19:04,320 --> 02:19:06,480 Speaker 1: So wrong, so wrong, Like why not have it be this, 2446 02:19:06,720 --> 02:19:09,720 Speaker 1: Like it could be such a great chance to celebrate 2447 02:19:09,920 --> 02:19:13,840 Speaker 1: with like cause it's your your your groomsmen, and your 2448 02:19:14,000 --> 02:19:16,720 Speaker 1: old bachelorette party. It's a great chance to just like 2449 02:19:17,000 --> 02:19:21,480 Speaker 1: celebrate privately with the people you care about. 2450 02:19:21,640 --> 02:19:25,280 Speaker 7: Yeah, I feel like it's celebrating the next chapter or life, 2451 02:19:25,360 --> 02:19:31,640 Speaker 7: celebrating love, celebrating your independence, but also your like your 2452 02:19:31,760 --> 02:19:32,400 Speaker 7: like a union. 2453 02:19:32,600 --> 02:19:35,080 Speaker 1: It's actually a dope tradition because like, also, when do 2454 02:19:35,120 --> 02:19:37,280 Speaker 1: you have an excuse to like kind of like go 2455 02:19:37,400 --> 02:19:40,440 Speaker 1: on a vacation with your best friends and have everyone 2456 02:19:40,560 --> 02:19:45,040 Speaker 1: support and uphold your friend for this like amazing accomplishment 2457 02:19:45,200 --> 02:19:47,320 Speaker 1: the next chapter in their life. Like, it's actually a 2458 02:19:47,400 --> 02:19:52,120 Speaker 1: dope tradition that is just yeah, turned into nursiness. Yeah, 2459 02:19:53,000 --> 02:19:56,320 Speaker 1: I am not confident in the success of this marriage. 2460 02:19:57,280 --> 02:19:59,640 Speaker 1: Give me a percentage ten. 2461 02:20:00,440 --> 02:20:03,400 Speaker 7: Nice, But let's get back to reality because I think 2462 02:20:04,000 --> 02:20:04,800 Speaker 7: we're doing the story. 2463 02:20:05,200 --> 02:20:08,080 Speaker 1: We are done, and we do have some donos. 2464 02:20:09,720 --> 02:20:11,039 Speaker 2: I don't know where you left till. 2465 02:20:11,640 --> 02:20:18,440 Speaker 1: Just scroll down, go down, scroll down, down, down down. Jess, 2466 02:20:18,520 --> 02:20:20,280 Speaker 1: thank you for the three buck tip. On the donor link. 2467 02:20:20,680 --> 02:20:23,440 Speaker 1: About to start building my niece's crib. All hope to 2468 02:20:23,480 --> 02:20:25,240 Speaker 1: stream lasts long enough for me to finish it with 2469 02:20:25,320 --> 02:20:27,600 Speaker 1: you guys in the background. That is an adorable way. 2470 02:20:27,760 --> 02:20:33,320 Speaker 1: Tick it for you, kick it ding nickageting. Cosmic has 2471 02:20:33,400 --> 02:20:36,200 Speaker 1: become a little silly for a month. Congrats. Can we 2472 02:20:36,360 --> 02:20:41,240 Speaker 1: request John in a ponytail slash man bun wheelspin. That's 2473 02:20:41,280 --> 02:20:43,720 Speaker 1: a good one. I also want to I want to 2474 02:20:43,920 --> 02:20:46,680 Speaker 1: learn I had a brain in my hair. Yeah, thank you, 2475 02:20:47,040 --> 02:20:50,320 Speaker 1: we will get there. Great suggestion, Cosmic. Stan Lee Costa 2476 02:20:50,400 --> 02:20:52,000 Speaker 1: for the five bucks tap on the donor link. Thank 2477 02:20:52,040 --> 02:20:53,800 Speaker 1: you all for having me up. I wrote the first 2478 02:20:53,840 --> 02:20:56,560 Speaker 1: half of my ideas for my paper with y'all's help. 2479 02:20:56,640 --> 02:20:58,760 Speaker 1: Let's freaking go. You did that. That was that was 2480 02:20:58,959 --> 02:21:01,840 Speaker 1: That was awesome again. I don't know how you do it. 2481 02:21:02,520 --> 02:21:04,480 Speaker 1: We don't know. I don't know. Don't I don't know. 2482 02:21:04,600 --> 02:21:08,040 Speaker 1: I can only listen to like classical music when I write. Yeah, yeah, 2483 02:21:08,040 --> 02:21:11,360 Speaker 1: I need some like chilled non verbal dude yo yo, 2484 02:21:11,520 --> 02:21:14,640 Speaker 1: ma damn enough said. 2485 02:21:15,320 --> 02:21:16,040 Speaker 5: This is uh. 2486 02:21:16,280 --> 02:21:18,120 Speaker 1: This is also for all who feel that need to 2487 02:21:18,160 --> 02:21:20,200 Speaker 1: be hyped up. You can do it even when you 2488 02:21:20,280 --> 02:21:22,600 Speaker 1: think you can't. You can keep fighting for your dreams 2489 02:21:22,840 --> 02:21:25,560 Speaker 1: and never give up. Stanley Coaster was amazing. Oh yeah, 2490 02:21:26,400 --> 02:21:29,560 Speaker 1: Adeline Gutierrez, thanks for to two buck tip. Conspiracy theory 2491 02:21:29,680 --> 02:21:33,200 Speaker 1: on the worm queen, lad have mercy? What was that? 2492 02:21:33,520 --> 02:21:35,080 Speaker 1: What was the worm queen? 2493 02:21:35,400 --> 02:21:36,760 Speaker 2: What was the conspiracy theory? 2494 02:21:37,400 --> 02:21:39,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know either. What was it? 2495 02:21:39,440 --> 02:21:43,040 Speaker 1: I guess we'll ever find out. Tom Let celebrating the 2496 02:21:43,080 --> 02:21:47,440 Speaker 1: one month membership, hanging out while dealing with a bad time. 2497 02:21:47,680 --> 02:21:50,280 Speaker 1: Thanks for the upper gents. You got it, tom Let 2498 02:21:50,480 --> 02:21:52,480 Speaker 1: starts show up. Thanks for a two buck tip. Riley, 2499 02:21:52,600 --> 02:21:55,080 Speaker 1: I want to send you a message about working a 2500 02:21:55,200 --> 02:21:58,400 Speaker 1: bachelor party on Discord. I messaged you. Thank you for 2501 02:21:58,520 --> 02:22:01,120 Speaker 1: sending in your story. We would be very interested. We 2502 02:22:01,200 --> 02:22:03,640 Speaker 1: are doing Collins and discords. You probably do one soon, 2503 02:22:03,879 --> 02:22:06,960 Speaker 1: maybe with stars. Followup message Riley on Discord right for 2504 02:22:07,160 --> 02:22:09,720 Speaker 1: the for the Collins. Yep, that's the new method, So 2505 02:22:10,040 --> 02:22:12,840 Speaker 1: join our Discord link is in a description and message 2506 02:22:12,920 --> 02:22:19,400 Speaker 1: Riley for actually message Riley and Sophia. Yeah, I on 2507 02:22:19,560 --> 02:22:22,520 Speaker 1: the computer, that's right, it is on the computer. But 2508 02:22:22,640 --> 02:22:27,120 Speaker 1: when she's finding her stories, maybe maybe, maybe maybe we 2509 02:22:27,160 --> 02:22:29,800 Speaker 1: should have a call in channel where people like to 2510 02:22:29,840 --> 02:22:33,240 Speaker 1: get West to join channel and then submit there's any 2511 02:22:33,360 --> 02:22:36,680 Speaker 1: mods in the chat, maybe make a jail us out there. 2512 02:22:36,680 --> 02:22:38,560 Speaker 1: Boom boom. We're getting there, but we're doing. We're doing 2513 02:22:38,600 --> 02:22:40,800 Speaker 1: on Discord because the quality is so good. And if 2514 02:22:40,840 --> 02:22:43,040 Speaker 1: you want your story written, then go do our slash 2515 02:22:43,560 --> 02:22:45,400 Speaker 1: show and send it in there. On Reddit, it's been 2516 02:22:45,400 --> 02:22:49,480 Speaker 1: blowing up lately, Madison Marcie's thanks on a five buck 2517 02:22:49,520 --> 02:22:52,520 Speaker 1: tip here again after roller Derby practice. It's a nice 2518 02:22:52,560 --> 02:22:54,720 Speaker 1: way to unwind with some good laughter and story times 2519 02:22:54,800 --> 02:22:57,280 Speaker 1: after getting bounced off of other people's wheels. Love you guys, 2520 02:22:57,320 --> 02:22:59,920 Speaker 1: have been listening for over a year. Shout out to you, Madison. 2521 02:23:00,080 --> 02:23:02,560 Speaker 1: Freaking awesome. Sam, you want to take it away from 2522 02:23:02,560 --> 02:23:04,560 Speaker 1: these last ones stars fall up, Riley. 2523 02:23:04,560 --> 02:23:05,920 Speaker 7: I want to send you a message about working a 2524 02:23:05,959 --> 02:23:09,879 Speaker 7: bachelor party a message you we read that suggests Jimenez 2525 02:23:10,400 --> 02:23:10,680 Speaker 7: but tip. 2526 02:23:10,680 --> 02:23:12,480 Speaker 1: I love you guys. I binge while I'm at work. 2527 02:23:12,680 --> 02:23:14,959 Speaker 1: Heart hek God, we can help you work and Spiffy 2528 02:23:15,000 --> 02:23:18,640 Speaker 1: tiffyifeish checking donut link for chat. I love y'all. Ten 2529 02:23:18,720 --> 02:23:21,560 Speaker 1: twenty nine tip The donot link works thanks to Jennifer 2530 02:23:21,640 --> 02:23:25,279 Speaker 1: Jeans one month a membership. John's yawns are my favorite. 2531 02:23:25,480 --> 02:23:27,760 Speaker 1: I am not tired. I feel like I have energy 2532 02:23:27,840 --> 02:23:30,640 Speaker 1: right now. Yeah, I feel pretty engaged. My brain just 2533 02:23:30,760 --> 02:23:34,160 Speaker 1: needs extra oxygen and I want to slap my brain 2534 02:23:34,280 --> 02:23:39,160 Speaker 1: in its brain face for that. I'm glad that you yawn. 2535 02:23:39,720 --> 02:23:41,680 Speaker 1: Thank you. I'm glad that you yeng. I appreciate that. 2536 02:23:42,240 --> 02:23:49,040 Speaker 1: But I have a quick okay, story time? Oh hey, 2537 02:23:50,520 --> 02:23:51,959 Speaker 1: what do you got for me? All right? 2538 02:23:52,280 --> 02:23:56,720 Speaker 7: So what I was and I'm sorry, Sophie. Well, I've 2539 02:23:56,720 --> 02:24:00,440 Speaker 7: already told the f about this, so uh as so 2540 02:24:00,640 --> 02:24:04,320 Speaker 7: you may know. I also do some interviews time to time, 2541 02:24:04,920 --> 02:24:10,040 Speaker 7: and we were talking about all this swanky, smexy stuff. Yeah, 2542 02:24:10,240 --> 02:24:15,000 Speaker 7: And in a couple weeks, I am going to a 2543 02:24:15,480 --> 02:24:20,800 Speaker 7: sex dungeon to interview a dominatrix that's right, who has 2544 02:24:21,000 --> 02:24:25,480 Speaker 7: apparently a stable of subs that she calls her stable 2545 02:24:25,520 --> 02:24:28,800 Speaker 7: of slaves that will do whatever she wants, including hold 2546 02:24:28,879 --> 02:24:32,000 Speaker 7: microphones and such, and she is going to whip me 2547 02:24:33,360 --> 02:24:34,240 Speaker 7: as part of the interview. 2548 02:24:34,360 --> 02:24:38,359 Speaker 1: In your interview, will there be people that are pretending 2549 02:24:38,400 --> 02:24:41,880 Speaker 1: to be microphone stands? If I wanted that? I think so? 2550 02:24:42,240 --> 02:24:44,520 Speaker 1: That would be kind of crazy. Yeah, she has like 2551 02:24:44,680 --> 02:24:49,480 Speaker 1: twenty wow. Yeah insane. Wow. So I'm very excited for that. 2552 02:24:49,600 --> 02:24:53,440 Speaker 1: I've never experienced anything like that before and I don't 2553 02:24:53,440 --> 02:24:54,760 Speaker 1: know what it will be like. And you're gonna get 2554 02:24:54,760 --> 02:24:58,080 Speaker 1: at a little spanking. I'm gonna get a possibly a 2555 02:24:58,120 --> 02:25:01,520 Speaker 1: big spanking, possibly a big fat possibly a big spanking, 2556 02:25:01,640 --> 02:25:03,960 Speaker 1: and report back to us with an okay story? Now, Yes, 2557 02:25:04,600 --> 02:25:07,320 Speaker 1: let's go. I love having multiple podcasts where it's like 2558 02:25:07,360 --> 02:25:09,120 Speaker 1: something can happen on one and then it's like talking 2559 02:25:09,160 --> 02:25:13,440 Speaker 1: about on the other verse. That's always fun. Okay, Universe 2560 02:25:13,520 --> 02:25:17,600 Speaker 1: Baby writer says, are you serious? Yes? 2561 02:25:18,360 --> 02:25:22,279 Speaker 7: But you know what awesome? Serious about this next story? 2562 02:25:23,360 --> 02:25:25,560 Speaker 7: Except should we do a Colin? 2563 02:25:25,640 --> 02:25:26,240 Speaker 1: Can we do Collin? 2564 02:25:28,240 --> 02:25:28,400 Speaker 4: Oh? 2565 02:25:28,920 --> 02:25:35,520 Speaker 1: Oh oh? Maybe? While Sophia is figuring out how to 2566 02:25:35,600 --> 02:25:39,200 Speaker 1: do that call in, I could do one more story. 2567 02:25:42,080 --> 02:25:43,320 Speaker 1: You had to do a call in? You did one 2568 02:25:43,400 --> 02:25:46,200 Speaker 1: last time? Yeah, we had to do it. 2569 02:25:46,480 --> 02:25:47,960 Speaker 2: You have to find the person. 2570 02:25:48,800 --> 02:25:51,880 Speaker 1: Okay, I'll read. How about I read a story? Like? 2571 02:25:53,120 --> 02:25:55,880 Speaker 7: How about I read a story? And you can try multitasking. 2572 02:25:55,920 --> 02:25:59,040 Speaker 7: Seanna Morris says, you got this Sofia message? 2573 02:25:59,360 --> 02:26:04,200 Speaker 2: Wait, am I period message Riley on Discord and I'll 2574 02:26:05,080 --> 02:26:05,640 Speaker 2: I'll find you. 2575 02:26:05,920 --> 02:26:09,039 Speaker 1: That's right, She'll find you. What episode am I reading? 2576 02:26:09,360 --> 02:26:09,480 Speaker 3: Uh? 2577 02:26:11,600 --> 02:26:11,720 Speaker 1: Eight? 2578 02:26:12,120 --> 02:26:14,520 Speaker 2: Probably four fifty seven s two. 2579 02:26:15,120 --> 02:26:18,960 Speaker 1: Uh not what you were on? Four? Wait? What is it? 2580 02:26:19,280 --> 02:26:20,560 Speaker 2: You just on four to fifty seven? 2581 02:26:20,760 --> 02:26:23,680 Speaker 1: Four fifty seven s two? I believe So is that 2582 02:26:23,840 --> 02:26:28,000 Speaker 1: the story? Yeah? Alright, so we will do a collin 2583 02:26:28,240 --> 02:26:31,160 Speaker 1: very soon, but we are going to do one more 2584 02:26:31,200 --> 02:26:36,080 Speaker 1: story before they call in. So am I the a hole? 2585 02:26:36,240 --> 02:26:39,440 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? For photoshopping my boyfriend's X 2586 02:26:40,160 --> 02:26:44,600 Speaker 1: out of pictures? But he was at work? But possibly 2587 02:26:45,000 --> 02:26:49,560 Speaker 1: that's funny. This comes from solely yours forever, my twenty 2588 02:26:49,640 --> 02:26:52,320 Speaker 1: seven female boyfriend thirty six male of a year was 2589 02:26:52,440 --> 02:26:55,959 Speaker 1: married in his early twenties and has one or two 2590 02:26:56,120 --> 02:26:59,160 Speaker 1: kids with his X. Has won two kids? Is that three? 2591 02:26:59,320 --> 02:27:02,200 Speaker 1: Or is that one or two with his X? How 2592 02:27:02,240 --> 02:27:05,200 Speaker 1: do you not know? It should be no idea? Yeah, anyway, 2593 02:27:05,240 --> 02:27:07,920 Speaker 1: he has three family pictures in his house that have 2594 02:27:08,240 --> 02:27:10,680 Speaker 1: her in the pictures, and one it's her with the 2595 02:27:10,800 --> 02:27:14,040 Speaker 1: kids in the middle of the two of them, and 2596 02:27:14,160 --> 02:27:16,840 Speaker 1: another it's him with the kids and her off to 2597 02:27:16,920 --> 02:27:19,120 Speaker 1: the right sort of in the background. And the third 2598 02:27:19,520 --> 02:27:22,280 Speaker 1: it was him and her together and two kids and 2599 02:27:22,440 --> 02:27:26,440 Speaker 1: Mickey Mouse Disney. She has been awful to me and 2600 02:27:26,600 --> 02:27:30,199 Speaker 1: I hate seeing her narn scullywagged face. 2601 02:27:31,080 --> 02:27:32,960 Speaker 7: I've asked him to take the pictures down several times, 2602 02:27:33,000 --> 02:27:35,280 Speaker 7: but he says they are special memories with the kids. 2603 02:27:35,840 --> 02:27:38,840 Speaker 1: Well, yesterday I had enough. Oh. 2604 02:27:40,400 --> 02:27:42,560 Speaker 7: I used the scanning app on my phone to scan 2605 02:27:42,640 --> 02:27:44,800 Speaker 7: the photos and it's paid someone on fiver her to 2606 02:27:44,920 --> 02:27:47,560 Speaker 7: remove her from the photos. All three of the photos 2607 02:27:47,640 --> 02:27:51,400 Speaker 7: look professionally done. It's the same photo, just without her. 2608 02:27:51,600 --> 02:27:54,840 Speaker 1: Oh oh god. I then went to wal Mart and 2609 02:27:54,920 --> 02:27:57,000 Speaker 1: had them print new pictures on the same size. I 2610 02:27:57,040 --> 02:27:59,080 Speaker 1: put them in the frames. I put the originals in 2611 02:27:59,160 --> 02:28:04,280 Speaker 1: a desk drawer. OPI, you're crazy, You're you're freaking crit 2612 02:28:05,200 --> 02:28:07,280 Speaker 1: This is bananasa, this bananas. 2613 02:28:07,520 --> 02:28:10,080 Speaker 7: Well, my boyfriend came home. I asked him if he 2614 02:28:10,200 --> 02:28:13,679 Speaker 7: noticed anything different. He didn't, which is what I suspected. 2615 02:28:14,040 --> 02:28:16,840 Speaker 7: The photos look great now and still have him and 2616 02:28:16,959 --> 02:28:20,119 Speaker 7: his kids. I pointed at one of the pictures. Why 2617 02:28:20,160 --> 02:28:23,560 Speaker 7: are you outing yourself do a crazy thing? Do it 2618 02:28:23,680 --> 02:28:27,720 Speaker 7: in secret, geez, I pointed at one of the pictures. 2619 02:28:28,920 --> 02:28:31,959 Speaker 7: He got livid, telling me I was being a jealous Nancy. 2620 02:28:33,280 --> 02:28:37,000 Speaker 7: That doesn't even rhyme. Say jealous Janet or nosy Nancy 2621 02:28:37,560 --> 02:28:42,600 Speaker 7: or naughty Nancy. You can't jealous Janet. Oh, god, jeez, 2622 02:28:42,920 --> 02:28:46,280 Speaker 7: everyone in the story sucks. I admit that I laughed, 2623 02:28:46,360 --> 02:28:48,200 Speaker 7: because what is a jealous Nancy? 2624 02:28:49,959 --> 02:28:54,800 Speaker 1: What? Which was me? Uh? Well, the laughing really set 2625 02:28:54,879 --> 02:28:55,160 Speaker 1: him off. 2626 02:28:55,360 --> 02:28:57,080 Speaker 7: He asked for the originals back and said he was 2627 02:28:57,120 --> 02:28:58,600 Speaker 7: going to put them back up and gave me an 2628 02:28:58,720 --> 02:29:04,960 Speaker 7: ultimatum to eat, either accept his past relationship or move on, 2629 02:29:06,920 --> 02:29:09,560 Speaker 7: which I agree with. Cassie Rene says, tell me you're 2630 02:29:09,600 --> 02:29:12,080 Speaker 7: insecure without telling me your insecure. 2631 02:29:12,720 --> 02:29:14,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, come on, you know over it. 2632 02:29:14,480 --> 02:29:17,120 Speaker 7: I'm sorry, I said, I guess I don't want to 2633 02:29:17,160 --> 02:29:19,840 Speaker 7: be I guess I don't want to be with a Oh. 2634 02:29:20,480 --> 02:29:22,160 Speaker 7: I said, I guess you don't want to be with 2635 02:29:22,200 --> 02:29:26,720 Speaker 7: a jealous Nancy And he said no. I laughed again, 2636 02:29:27,040 --> 02:29:29,760 Speaker 7: and he asked me to leave. I have not heard 2637 02:29:29,760 --> 02:29:31,680 Speaker 7: from him since, but expect him to get over it. 2638 02:29:32,240 --> 02:29:35,320 Speaker 7: You're really pushing the boundaries of your relationship, lady. Really, 2639 02:29:36,480 --> 02:29:38,600 Speaker 7: this woman has been terrible to me. 2640 02:29:38,760 --> 02:29:40,600 Speaker 1: What are you doing to me? What? No? 2641 02:29:40,800 --> 02:29:44,240 Speaker 2: I just thought you saying, you're really pushing the boundaries, lady. 2642 02:29:45,560 --> 02:29:48,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just love Okay. I wasn't sure if she's 2643 02:29:48,560 --> 02:29:52,959 Speaker 1: messing with me the story. I'm trying to multituzz you're 2644 02:29:53,000 --> 02:29:56,400 Speaker 1: doing a great job crushing it. Anyway. I'm not going 2645 02:29:56,440 --> 02:29:58,160 Speaker 1: to get started up it. I'm not going to get 2646 02:29:58,200 --> 02:30:00,280 Speaker 1: started on it. But she has been cruel to me 2647 02:30:00,560 --> 02:30:03,240 Speaker 1: to the point of him breaking contact with her except 2648 02:30:03,320 --> 02:30:05,039 Speaker 1: by text to talk about the kids. 2649 02:30:05,560 --> 02:30:08,400 Speaker 7: I think I have every right to see her face. 2650 02:30:08,879 --> 02:30:11,200 Speaker 7: What are the pictures? Is in his bedroom even I 2651 02:30:11,360 --> 02:30:14,200 Speaker 7: have to look at it every time we make love. Okay, 2652 02:30:14,720 --> 02:30:19,400 Speaker 7: maybe maybe I should just get over it. I felt 2653 02:30:19,440 --> 02:30:21,080 Speaker 7: like I was doing him a favor because at least 2654 02:30:21,160 --> 02:30:23,760 Speaker 7: I didn't just cut her out, which was my original plan. 2655 02:30:24,320 --> 02:30:25,160 Speaker 7: At least I didn't do that. 2656 02:30:26,080 --> 02:30:27,560 Speaker 1: Am I the A hole? 2657 02:30:27,720 --> 02:30:30,880 Speaker 7: And there is an edit in some relevant comments, but 2658 02:30:31,000 --> 02:30:32,960 Speaker 7: I want to know from chat. I want to know 2659 02:30:33,000 --> 02:30:36,240 Speaker 7: from John is op The A hole a. 2660 02:30:36,320 --> 02:30:41,080 Speaker 1: Rare one where it's like, yeah, you are definitely well, dude, 2661 02:30:41,160 --> 02:30:44,440 Speaker 1: this is the this is the mother of his children, 2662 02:30:45,160 --> 02:30:52,880 Speaker 1: and like you are trying to ideally you're not a 2663 02:30:53,200 --> 02:30:55,800 Speaker 1: real place, not a step mom. But she just you 2664 02:30:55,879 --> 02:30:57,880 Speaker 1: know what you should do? Just replace your face in 2665 02:30:57,959 --> 02:31:01,520 Speaker 1: the picture. Oh yeah, get get to Michael Scott. There 2666 02:31:01,640 --> 02:31:04,240 Speaker 1: we go. That's literally happened to the office. Oh my god, Yeah, 2667 02:31:04,280 --> 02:31:07,480 Speaker 1: that's that's hilarious. Yeah, like you're so insecure and just 2668 02:31:07,600 --> 02:31:14,400 Speaker 1: like you have to accept now now, if it was 2669 02:31:15,160 --> 02:31:17,360 Speaker 1: if someone had a bunch of pictures of their extras 2670 02:31:17,360 --> 02:31:19,320 Speaker 1: hanging up on the wall and there's no kids involved, 2671 02:31:19,760 --> 02:31:24,120 Speaker 1: that's that's weird, right. If you have a bunch of 2672 02:31:24,240 --> 02:31:27,280 Speaker 1: pictures of you and your ex hanging in your house, okay, 2673 02:31:27,280 --> 02:31:29,160 Speaker 1: if you don't have kids together, yes that's weird. 2674 02:31:29,440 --> 02:31:33,120 Speaker 7: But they have kids together, Okay, really quick, Yeah, really quick, 2675 02:31:33,160 --> 02:31:38,200 Speaker 7: go ahead. I am of a different generation than you, 2676 02:31:38,360 --> 02:31:39,240 Speaker 7: so this might be different. 2677 02:31:39,560 --> 02:31:43,520 Speaker 1: Wow. Wow, that's where we're going. Huh. That's that's where 2678 02:31:43,520 --> 02:31:45,800 Speaker 1: we're at. Huh. That's what we're doing today. 2679 02:31:46,120 --> 02:31:50,720 Speaker 3: That's what we're doing tonight, on February, on April twenty third, twenty. 2680 02:31:50,240 --> 02:31:57,360 Speaker 1: Four, on this day, and on christ Yes, okay, it so. 2681 02:31:59,560 --> 02:32:04,880 Speaker 7: I don't have experience with likes as a miskilled it says, 2682 02:32:04,920 --> 02:32:07,320 Speaker 7: with like a photo album, I don't really have like 2683 02:32:07,560 --> 02:32:12,760 Speaker 7: pictures on the wall of anyone I know, like around 2684 02:32:12,800 --> 02:32:13,119 Speaker 7: the house. 2685 02:32:13,959 --> 02:32:17,520 Speaker 1: But I do have an Instagram, and I do have 2686 02:32:17,720 --> 02:32:18,440 Speaker 1: pictures of. 2687 02:32:18,680 --> 02:32:22,200 Speaker 7: All of my ex girlfriends on that Instagram. And what 2688 02:32:22,560 --> 02:32:25,200 Speaker 7: is Instagram but a photo wall? 2689 02:32:26,040 --> 02:32:28,640 Speaker 1: Is it? Is it the same? Is it it's kind 2690 02:32:28,680 --> 02:32:31,200 Speaker 1: of the same because because here's here's why it's kind 2691 02:32:31,240 --> 02:32:34,760 Speaker 1: of the same. No, I disagree, okay, question the moments 2692 02:32:34,760 --> 02:32:37,720 Speaker 1: of the past captured that are still is a picture 2693 02:32:37,800 --> 02:32:40,119 Speaker 1: on a wall, but a moment of the past picture 2694 02:32:40,200 --> 02:32:43,320 Speaker 1: on a wall that is a more like dedicated like 2695 02:32:43,520 --> 02:32:46,519 Speaker 1: putting something in your home versus like they definitely. 2696 02:32:46,240 --> 02:32:51,160 Speaker 7: Have virtual home, your social virtual home every time someone 2697 02:32:51,480 --> 02:32:55,440 Speaker 7: and in fact, it is more public facing than your home. 2698 02:32:55,840 --> 02:32:57,440 Speaker 7: Your home private it is. 2699 02:32:58,000 --> 02:33:04,199 Speaker 1: But that's like, I I think if you okay, you're 2700 02:33:04,320 --> 02:33:06,920 Speaker 1: you're talking to a girl, yeah, and you see like 2701 02:33:07,160 --> 02:33:10,560 Speaker 1: in her down in her Instagram feed at the time 2702 02:33:10,600 --> 02:33:12,920 Speaker 1: that she was dating another person has a picture of 2703 02:33:13,400 --> 02:33:15,039 Speaker 1: that her and that other person at the time they 2704 02:33:15,080 --> 02:33:17,800 Speaker 1: were dating. You're like, okay, yeah, that's just a moment 2705 02:33:17,840 --> 02:33:20,879 Speaker 1: of the mast. You go to her house and then 2706 02:33:21,040 --> 02:33:24,200 Speaker 1: you see pictures of the two of them hanging on 2707 02:33:24,360 --> 02:33:27,200 Speaker 1: the walls. Currently you are telling me that you don't 2708 02:33:27,480 --> 02:33:30,760 Speaker 1: have a problem with that, if you are also okay. 2709 02:33:30,600 --> 02:33:35,560 Speaker 7: With okay with Instagram, I don't, okay, here we go, 2710 02:33:35,680 --> 02:33:38,000 Speaker 7: here we go, here we go. I don't know, first 2711 02:33:38,040 --> 02:33:40,240 Speaker 7: of all, I don't know anyone that like just puts 2712 02:33:40,320 --> 02:33:41,080 Speaker 7: pictures on the wall. 2713 02:33:41,520 --> 02:33:42,360 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying that. 2714 02:33:42,520 --> 02:33:48,240 Speaker 7: But but what Okay, I there are pictures on the 2715 02:33:48,320 --> 02:33:52,960 Speaker 7: wall currently, yes, of my ex girl. Correct, you're saying 2716 02:33:52,959 --> 02:33:53,760 Speaker 7: I should take that down? 2717 02:33:53,760 --> 02:33:55,200 Speaker 1: No, no, no, I'm not saying should take that on 2718 02:33:56,520 --> 02:33:57,560 Speaker 1: the context. 2719 02:33:57,240 --> 02:33:59,560 Speaker 7: Context, we have a photo wall where everyone in the like, 2720 02:33:59,600 --> 02:34:02,120 Speaker 7: everyone comes to the house, we take a picture of yes, 2721 02:34:02,320 --> 02:34:02,879 Speaker 7: and we put them. 2722 02:34:02,840 --> 02:34:06,640 Speaker 1: On the wall. It was like a hundred of those photos. Okay, yeah, 2723 02:34:07,680 --> 02:34:10,280 Speaker 1: my ex girlfriend is on that wall. That's correct, that's 2724 02:34:10,320 --> 02:34:12,680 Speaker 1: and that's fine because of the context. This is we're 2725 02:34:12,760 --> 02:34:16,280 Speaker 1: talking dedicated like that is a dedicate That is a 2726 02:34:16,400 --> 02:34:21,000 Speaker 1: dedicated photo. There's I'm dedicated. I'm talking that's one hundred 2727 02:34:21,440 --> 02:34:25,039 Speaker 1: plus photos. Oka saying if there's a that's the equivalent 2728 02:34:25,080 --> 02:34:25,840 Speaker 1: of an Instagram peece. 2729 02:34:25,840 --> 02:34:29,560 Speaker 7: Okay, so downstairs, how many photos do you have to 2730 02:34:29,680 --> 02:34:31,120 Speaker 7: have on the wall before you can put your ex 2731 02:34:31,160 --> 02:34:31,680 Speaker 7: girlfriend out? 2732 02:34:33,360 --> 02:34:37,200 Speaker 1: It's not necessarily photos you said one hundred photos. It's 2733 02:34:37,280 --> 02:34:39,280 Speaker 1: not necessarily the number of photos. 2734 02:34:39,720 --> 02:34:42,840 Speaker 2: It is the the so like for instancize and how 2735 02:34:43,000 --> 02:34:43,760 Speaker 2: clustered they are. 2736 02:34:43,840 --> 02:34:46,040 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah. So like let's say, let's say on 2737 02:34:46,160 --> 02:34:49,600 Speaker 1: a wall, Okay, you can have a polar so a polaroid. 2738 02:34:49,879 --> 02:34:52,119 Speaker 1: You can hang a polaroid of your ex girlfriend, let's say, 2739 02:34:52,160 --> 02:34:54,800 Speaker 1: on a wall in like a living room, a common space, 2740 02:34:54,879 --> 02:34:59,120 Speaker 1: whatever you have room for. Let's say ten photos, ten photos, right, 2741 02:35:00,120 --> 02:35:05,080 Speaker 1: of those ten photos, like honestly even like one or 2742 02:35:05,160 --> 02:35:10,920 Speaker 1: two of them still being with your ex dedicated in 2743 02:35:11,040 --> 02:35:15,840 Speaker 1: their own frame as a like specific memoriam, not of like, oh, 2744 02:35:15,920 --> 02:35:18,800 Speaker 1: this is a friend wall. This is the like family 2745 02:35:18,920 --> 02:35:23,600 Speaker 1: and closest people in my life wall. Right. The context 2746 02:35:23,640 --> 02:35:25,440 Speaker 1: of what we have downstairs is like, hey, if you 2747 02:35:25,560 --> 02:35:27,200 Speaker 1: come here and we meet and we're hey, we went 2748 02:35:27,240 --> 02:35:29,720 Speaker 1: from strangers to friends, boom, you're on the wall. Yeah right, 2749 02:35:29,879 --> 02:35:33,640 Speaker 1: we might not even some people like some of those 2750 02:35:33,680 --> 02:35:38,119 Speaker 1: people I've never seen in my life exactly. So if 2751 02:35:38,200 --> 02:35:41,080 Speaker 1: you have like a dedicated wall that's reserved for friends, families, 2752 02:35:41,080 --> 02:35:43,720 Speaker 1: your closest people, and you put you an X there 2753 02:35:43,760 --> 02:35:45,600 Speaker 1: and you don't take it down. 2754 02:35:46,120 --> 02:35:49,880 Speaker 7: After relationship is over, what you're telling me, yeah, is 2755 02:35:49,959 --> 02:35:52,200 Speaker 7: you can put your X on the wall if you 2756 02:35:52,360 --> 02:35:54,200 Speaker 7: also put a stranger on the wall. 2757 02:35:55,720 --> 02:35:59,800 Speaker 1: Uh, in the context of what we have downstairs, absolutely okay. Yeah, 2758 02:36:00,480 --> 02:36:03,760 Speaker 1: And there's one hundred little polaroids of people that range 2759 02:36:03,800 --> 02:36:06,400 Speaker 1: from strangers to our close friends. It's just a myriad 2760 02:36:06,440 --> 02:36:09,000 Speaker 1: of everyone who is like, come in and we've enjoyed 2761 02:36:09,000 --> 02:36:13,760 Speaker 1: an experience with such an incredible concept. That was fine. 2762 02:36:14,360 --> 02:36:21,200 Speaker 1: That's totally fine in that context. Okay, so okay color 2763 02:36:21,280 --> 02:36:28,280 Speaker 1: me this. Yep, I'll color you all right. So you 2764 02:36:28,720 --> 02:36:33,440 Speaker 1: just climbed Mount Everest, crowning achievement of your life? Yes, right? 2765 02:36:33,879 --> 02:36:37,000 Speaker 1: Who did you climb it with your ex girlfriend? Yep? 2766 02:36:37,640 --> 02:36:40,160 Speaker 1: You are on top of the mountain with your ex 2767 02:36:40,240 --> 02:36:46,480 Speaker 1: girlfriend sharing a smooch, even a smooch even right, you 2768 02:36:46,680 --> 02:36:50,480 Speaker 1: are a mountaineer. This is the crowning achievement of your 2769 02:36:50,560 --> 02:36:54,840 Speaker 1: mountaineer life. Can you put that on the wall? A 2770 02:36:55,000 --> 02:36:58,080 Speaker 1: smooth ex girlfriend, but on top of Mount Everest. 2771 02:36:58,200 --> 02:37:01,320 Speaker 2: Presumably if you had reached Mountain Everest, you would have 2772 02:37:01,440 --> 02:37:03,880 Speaker 2: taken a ton of pictures and you would have gotten 2773 02:37:03,920 --> 02:37:04,800 Speaker 2: a solo picture. 2774 02:37:05,080 --> 02:37:08,160 Speaker 1: This is from a bygone era where you can only 2775 02:37:08,240 --> 02:37:11,680 Speaker 1: take like one pic. All right, here we go, you're 2776 02:37:11,720 --> 02:37:14,800 Speaker 1: going you're on Mountain Etver risk, you're going off? Ready, 2777 02:37:14,800 --> 02:37:18,320 Speaker 1: you only have a polaroid? Oh man, one more picture, 2778 02:37:18,600 --> 02:37:23,320 Speaker 1: the last picture. That's a good that's a good hypothetical. 2779 02:37:23,800 --> 02:37:24,920 Speaker 1: Do you put it on the wall? 2780 02:37:25,280 --> 02:37:29,080 Speaker 2: Creates weird hypotheticals that are so specific and it's like 2781 02:37:29,200 --> 02:37:29,920 Speaker 2: doesn't even apply. 2782 02:37:30,160 --> 02:37:37,520 Speaker 1: You know, you put it on the wall. Hmmm, Amazon, 2783 02:37:37,560 --> 02:37:41,880 Speaker 1: what if you're a mountaineer. You're a mountaineer. Crowding is 2784 02:37:41,879 --> 02:37:47,080 Speaker 1: your crowning achievement. It's the only photo you have that moment, 2785 02:37:47,280 --> 02:37:49,720 Speaker 1: and you hang it on the wall, hanging on the 2786 02:37:49,760 --> 02:37:51,800 Speaker 1: whe Here we go, Here we go, I got you. 2787 02:37:52,040 --> 02:37:55,720 Speaker 1: Are you ready? Yeah? Get ready for this? So you 2788 02:37:55,920 --> 02:38:01,760 Speaker 1: create a wall of your mountain ventures. Yep? Right, So 2789 02:38:01,879 --> 02:38:03,560 Speaker 1: you have over here you have you as a kid 2790 02:38:03,640 --> 02:38:06,000 Speaker 1: and your dad, like the first big mountain you climbed, 2791 02:38:06,000 --> 02:38:07,800 Speaker 1: you're like freaking seven years old, Like, yeah, me and 2792 02:38:07,840 --> 02:38:09,880 Speaker 1: my dad. You have a picture over here of like 2793 02:38:10,120 --> 02:38:12,920 Speaker 1: when you're eighteen and like you flew to Kilimanjaro and 2794 02:38:13,000 --> 02:38:14,400 Speaker 1: like you did that by yourself, and like what a 2795 02:38:14,440 --> 02:38:16,280 Speaker 1: cool moment that was and you like became an adult. 2796 02:38:17,240 --> 02:38:21,760 Speaker 1: You have a mountain wall. That diffuses the That diffuses 2797 02:38:21,840 --> 02:38:26,640 Speaker 1: it because within the context now it's still a little dicey. 2798 02:38:26,720 --> 02:38:28,680 Speaker 1: It's on the line, for sure. It's on the line 2799 02:38:28,720 --> 02:38:32,240 Speaker 1: for sure. And I definitely, I definitely think you at 2800 02:38:32,320 --> 02:38:36,240 Speaker 1: least keep the photo in like storage or whatever. Of like, Okay, 2801 02:38:36,280 --> 02:38:39,600 Speaker 1: all these moments, you're like addic memories. Worst case scenario, 2802 02:38:40,040 --> 02:38:44,200 Speaker 1: but I think in that it could be all right. 2803 02:38:44,280 --> 02:38:46,800 Speaker 1: So you can put your ex on the wall and 2804 02:38:46,800 --> 02:38:51,120 Speaker 1: if you climbed on there you go. How do we 2805 02:38:51,200 --> 02:38:51,840 Speaker 1: even get here? 2806 02:38:52,120 --> 02:38:56,840 Speaker 2: Also, guys, no, I have something to say? 2807 02:38:59,480 --> 02:39:04,000 Speaker 1: What what if we got back to the story? Is 2808 02:39:04,040 --> 02:39:07,400 Speaker 1: there more? Yeah? Who was reading it? I know I'm 2809 02:39:07,440 --> 02:39:07,960 Speaker 1: getting to it. 2810 02:39:08,080 --> 02:39:10,680 Speaker 7: Let's say, Beth and Blots, We're going to miss out 2811 02:39:10,720 --> 02:39:13,080 Speaker 7: on your greatness with future relationship if you keep hanging 2812 02:39:13,160 --> 02:39:14,000 Speaker 7: on to the past. 2813 02:39:14,840 --> 02:39:21,840 Speaker 1: I climbed Mount Everest. We have to hang on. Hang on. Yes, waits, 2814 02:39:22,360 --> 02:39:25,640 Speaker 1: I don't know Sam would have been this. I have 2815 02:39:25,840 --> 02:39:31,240 Speaker 1: the Sam Stall the Bachelorette story story, right, I forgot you? Edit. 2816 02:39:32,680 --> 02:39:35,040 Speaker 7: Also, I haven't read any of the comments. Apparently I 2817 02:39:35,120 --> 02:39:37,440 Speaker 7: was being chewed out. But I would love to read it. 2818 02:39:37,600 --> 02:39:39,199 Speaker 7: So we'll send it a little bit. 2819 02:39:39,120 --> 02:39:40,000 Speaker 2: After two minutes. 2820 02:39:40,320 --> 02:39:43,560 Speaker 7: Okay, Edit, I have a great relationship with children. Much 2821 02:39:43,680 --> 02:39:45,920 Speaker 7: to the Exi's chagrin, several of you have assumed that 2822 02:39:46,000 --> 02:39:47,680 Speaker 7: I was the other woman in the relationship. 2823 02:39:47,720 --> 02:39:48,000 Speaker 4: I was not. 2824 02:39:48,520 --> 02:39:50,840 Speaker 7: They were divorced for a long time before I met him. 2825 02:39:51,200 --> 02:39:54,160 Speaker 7: You are right that there was infidelity in their relationship, 2826 02:39:54,320 --> 02:39:56,400 Speaker 7: but she cheated with two men that we know of. 2827 02:39:56,720 --> 02:39:59,040 Speaker 7: That's why they're divorced. Also for the people calling this fake, 2828 02:39:59,080 --> 02:40:00,960 Speaker 7: I'm not sure what to tell you. I'm starting to 2829 02:40:01,000 --> 02:40:03,200 Speaker 7: wish that it was, because that would be easier than 2830 02:40:03,240 --> 02:40:05,760 Speaker 7: all of you calling me names, beside jealous Nancy, which 2831 02:40:05,800 --> 02:40:09,520 Speaker 7: is still funny. Top comments tech support victim says, you're 2832 02:40:09,560 --> 02:40:12,880 Speaker 7: the asshole. Sorry, but it's not your call to mess 2833 02:40:12,920 --> 02:40:14,840 Speaker 7: with the photos of him, his kids and their mother, 2834 02:40:14,959 --> 02:40:16,920 Speaker 7: and he has every right to have them up. 2835 02:40:17,000 --> 02:40:18,120 Speaker 1: The solution was you. 2836 02:40:18,240 --> 02:40:21,240 Speaker 7: Dump him, not you screw with his stuff, and you 2837 02:40:21,360 --> 02:40:23,200 Speaker 7: were stupid for pointing out what you did. 2838 02:40:23,520 --> 02:40:23,880 Speaker 1: Agreed. 2839 02:40:24,480 --> 02:40:26,840 Speaker 7: Celtic muse Book says that was so over the top 2840 02:40:26,920 --> 02:40:29,160 Speaker 7: and childish, and I think this whole post is rage bait. 2841 02:40:29,560 --> 02:40:33,279 Speaker 7: Banjo's Bo says, OPI legit sounds unhinged. I cannot believe 2842 02:40:33,920 --> 02:40:35,680 Speaker 7: it though, because she sounds just like one of my 2843 02:40:35,760 --> 02:40:36,560 Speaker 7: friends who is similar. 2844 02:40:36,640 --> 02:40:36,800 Speaker 1: Oh. 2845 02:40:36,840 --> 02:40:38,800 Speaker 7: I can believe it though, because it sounds like one 2846 02:40:38,800 --> 02:40:40,800 Speaker 7: of my friends are similar. Unhinged and Titus for seven 2847 02:40:40,840 --> 02:40:43,400 Speaker 7: one three says some people are. 2848 02:40:43,480 --> 02:40:45,879 Speaker 1: Just a holes tough nuts. 2849 02:40:47,160 --> 02:40:49,480 Speaker 7: Little Dakaru says as missed honor once said this is 2850 02:40:49,520 --> 02:40:51,040 Speaker 7: why Sam doesn't have second botes. 2851 02:40:51,320 --> 02:40:59,680 Speaker 1: Fuck so funny? Oh god, Um, is it bad that 2852 02:40:59,760 --> 02:41:02,320 Speaker 1: I have? I don't. I don't want to take down 2853 02:41:02,560 --> 02:41:03,600 Speaker 1: my ex girlfriend photos. 2854 02:41:03,640 --> 02:41:06,000 Speaker 2: I don't think it's I don't think it's necessarily bad. 2855 02:41:06,160 --> 02:41:09,800 Speaker 2: I think the only reason why I like people would 2856 02:41:09,840 --> 02:41:12,640 Speaker 2: take down photos is if, like you had a really 2857 02:41:12,840 --> 02:41:13,640 Speaker 2: bad breakup. 2858 02:41:14,040 --> 02:41:17,680 Speaker 1: I have a bad breakup. It's fine. So would you, Sophia, 2859 02:41:18,280 --> 02:41:20,680 Speaker 1: would you keep up a if you had like a 2860 02:41:20,720 --> 02:41:22,160 Speaker 1: little you know, like a little photo wall in your 2861 02:41:22,200 --> 02:41:25,640 Speaker 1: room or whatever. Would you keep up a photo of. 2862 02:41:25,840 --> 02:41:28,560 Speaker 2: You and your ex after the relationship if it made 2863 02:41:28,640 --> 02:41:33,240 Speaker 2: me sad? No, you mean yes, if it made it 2864 02:41:33,360 --> 02:41:35,560 Speaker 2: made me sad, I wouldn't keep it up. You wouldn't 2865 02:41:35,600 --> 02:41:38,160 Speaker 2: keep it up if it made yeah, okay. 2866 02:41:38,040 --> 02:41:43,600 Speaker 1: It brought joyce, which which chances are chances you'd probably 2867 02:41:43,600 --> 02:41:44,080 Speaker 1: take it down, right? 2868 02:41:44,120 --> 02:41:46,440 Speaker 7: That just Casanda says, I think it's fine, Sam, as 2869 02:41:46,480 --> 02:41:48,440 Speaker 7: long as you don't keep a pick in your room. 2870 02:41:50,680 --> 02:41:53,960 Speaker 7: Asian persuasion says Sam's relationships don't last long enough to 2871 02:41:54,000 --> 02:41:54,680 Speaker 7: put it on a wall. 2872 02:41:55,080 --> 02:41:55,320 Speaker 6: Girl. 2873 02:41:56,840 --> 02:42:01,040 Speaker 2: Sam's relationships have all been very long until recently. 2874 02:42:01,680 --> 02:42:04,920 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, get off my cats. Yeah, back to back 2875 02:42:04,959 --> 02:42:07,720 Speaker 7: two year relationships since I was sixteen. I respect of 2876 02:42:07,800 --> 02:42:11,040 Speaker 7: my name, that's right, But you know what else we 2877 02:42:11,200 --> 02:42:14,920 Speaker 7: have to respect. Adelan Guti Eira is for the two 2878 02:42:15,000 --> 02:42:18,240 Speaker 7: buck tips. She leaves you guys unsupervised with spicy stories. 2879 02:42:18,320 --> 02:42:20,360 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we were getting spicy. Yeah, we're getting so 2880 02:42:20,400 --> 02:42:23,080 Speaker 1: spicy with that. Sofia centsoring us. 2881 02:42:24,280 --> 02:42:27,920 Speaker 7: Slyly Tova is celebrating a one month of membership the 2882 02:42:27,959 --> 02:42:34,359 Speaker 7: worm Queen conspiracy disappears, disappears during the spiciest story somehow. 2883 02:42:34,200 --> 02:42:38,400 Speaker 1: That's right, worm Queen, where were you at the spiciest 2884 02:42:38,440 --> 02:42:39,720 Speaker 1: story of the stream when you. 2885 02:42:39,760 --> 02:42:44,160 Speaker 7: Were anyway, slyly Tova is thanks with five bucks. The 2886 02:42:44,200 --> 02:42:46,680 Speaker 7: issue isn't that she's jealous, but the fact that she's 2887 02:42:46,800 --> 02:42:50,600 Speaker 7: treating her poorly. That's weird that he cut contact but 2888 02:42:50,800 --> 02:42:54,000 Speaker 7: is keeping her memory up. I don't think it's that weird. 2889 02:42:54,120 --> 02:42:55,600 Speaker 1: It's his kids. He's keeping it up for a SKA. 2890 02:42:55,720 --> 02:42:56,840 Speaker 1: That is totally fine. 2891 02:42:56,920 --> 02:42:59,480 Speaker 7: I think that's totally fine, totally fine. But that's just 2892 02:42:59,680 --> 02:43:02,160 Speaker 7: my thought. Buddy cakes, thanks for five But tip opie 2893 02:43:02,200 --> 02:43:04,240 Speaker 7: is a picture of the X. Next to is a bed. 2894 02:43:04,879 --> 02:43:05,560 Speaker 7: That's the problem. 2895 02:43:05,680 --> 02:43:08,680 Speaker 2: Ah, But it's his X and the kids is correct? 2896 02:43:09,320 --> 02:43:15,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, only is it the only kids that doesn't 2897 02:43:15,200 --> 02:43:17,880 Speaker 1: take pictures? I would say, I would say move that 2898 02:43:18,080 --> 02:43:20,279 Speaker 1: to like the living room and then have a picture 2899 02:43:20,280 --> 02:43:22,720 Speaker 1: of maybe justice. There's got to be a picture too 2900 02:43:22,800 --> 02:43:24,000 Speaker 1: of justice just as kids. 2901 02:43:24,120 --> 02:43:26,720 Speaker 7: Yeah, shout up, I'm gonna inst the two bucks they 2902 02:43:26,800 --> 02:43:29,160 Speaker 7: make those electronic picture frames that cycle through tons of 2903 02:43:29,200 --> 02:43:32,880 Speaker 7: pictures could be a solution. Fair enough and fay weill 2904 02:43:33,280 --> 02:43:37,199 Speaker 7: seven to one three coming in with a five gifted memberships, 2905 02:43:37,280 --> 02:43:38,640 Speaker 7: growing our little sillies. 2906 02:43:38,760 --> 02:43:41,040 Speaker 1: That's right. We love to see. We love to keep 2907 02:43:41,080 --> 02:43:45,160 Speaker 1: it chug chug chugging. And that brings us to the 2908 02:43:45,240 --> 02:43:47,640 Speaker 1: end of this here we are. That brings us to the. 2909 02:43:49,800 --> 02:43:51,800 Speaker 7: Also, I kind of want to ask you guys a 2910 02:43:51,840 --> 02:43:56,640 Speaker 7: little quick question before we end. We have this idea 2911 02:43:57,480 --> 02:44:00,920 Speaker 7: of basically, should I share the idea for the one streams? 2912 02:44:01,240 --> 02:44:03,640 Speaker 1: Oh? Yes, absolutely, absolutely so. 2913 02:44:03,720 --> 02:44:07,279 Speaker 7: We have this idea of basically like Wednesday Streams, only 2914 02:44:07,480 --> 02:44:12,520 Speaker 7: doing it for members, so it's like private for members 2915 02:44:12,800 --> 02:44:15,720 Speaker 7: and like no one else outside can see it and 2916 02:44:16,200 --> 02:44:20,400 Speaker 7: essentially like you guys are our co hosts, yes, and 2917 02:44:21,080 --> 02:44:24,640 Speaker 7: it and you get early access to episodes essentially, but 2918 02:44:25,959 --> 02:44:29,800 Speaker 7: those episodes will be edited with people in the chat 2919 02:44:29,879 --> 02:44:32,520 Speaker 7: and with member like call ins from our members and 2920 02:44:32,720 --> 02:44:40,080 Speaker 7: essentially like gets immortalized on the channel as we're we 2921 02:44:40,280 --> 02:44:43,560 Speaker 7: are reading the stories. Do you guys like that? Do 2922 02:44:43,560 --> 02:44:49,720 Speaker 7: you guys like that idea? Jenny Gray says sounds fun. Yes, 2923 02:44:49,879 --> 02:44:54,000 Speaker 7: members only, Amber Gabrielle member, became a member of Really Silly, 2924 02:44:54,080 --> 02:44:59,760 Speaker 7: Seana Morris yes, Cosmic Yeah, Pink Slayer yes, Ciba Browning. 2925 02:45:00,000 --> 02:45:02,280 Speaker 7: So the the cool thing about that is when you 2926 02:45:02,320 --> 02:45:05,880 Speaker 7: guys watch the episodes that come out daily, it would 2927 02:45:06,000 --> 02:45:09,520 Speaker 7: be like you would see like you would see your 2928 02:45:09,600 --> 02:45:11,840 Speaker 7: names pop up and like you would kind of But 2929 02:45:12,240 --> 02:45:16,000 Speaker 7: the the other thing it it is maybe but potentially 2930 02:45:16,040 --> 02:45:18,480 Speaker 7: a little bit more work. But I feel like for 2931 02:45:18,720 --> 02:45:22,720 Speaker 7: the community would be cool to like have everyone be 2932 02:45:23,720 --> 02:45:27,200 Speaker 7: in there. We'll still have we'll still have public streams, yes, 2933 02:45:28,280 --> 02:45:30,520 Speaker 7: but this would just be like basically a way way 2934 02:45:30,600 --> 02:45:31,520 Speaker 7: to just have like the. 2935 02:45:31,720 --> 02:45:35,120 Speaker 1: Die hard OKOP fans integrated. 2936 02:45:35,480 --> 02:45:37,320 Speaker 2: I feel like a better way. Another way to say 2937 02:45:37,320 --> 02:45:41,120 Speaker 2: it is also we nothing right now would change for 2938 02:45:41,320 --> 02:45:45,560 Speaker 2: everyone except we're adding a stream. Yeah, to be clear, 2939 02:45:45,760 --> 02:45:46,640 Speaker 2: not losing anything. 2940 02:45:46,760 --> 02:45:49,600 Speaker 1: We don't stream on Wednesdays as of now, so that 2941 02:45:49,840 --> 02:45:52,760 Speaker 1: that right now is our recording days that we don't stream, 2942 02:45:52,840 --> 02:45:55,600 Speaker 1: so we would be adding a stream for members only, 2943 02:45:55,920 --> 02:45:58,240 Speaker 1: and you can obviously if you're a member, you can 2944 02:45:58,480 --> 02:46:01,880 Speaker 1: choose not to see them and then see the episodes 2945 02:46:01,879 --> 02:46:04,720 Speaker 1: as they come out as well to literally you now 2946 02:46:04,800 --> 02:46:05,360 Speaker 1: have the option. 2947 02:46:05,560 --> 02:46:07,199 Speaker 7: And also I feel like a lot of people don't 2948 02:46:07,240 --> 02:46:13,680 Speaker 7: stay for the whole stream, and so it would be Yeah, 2949 02:46:13,920 --> 02:46:16,560 Speaker 7: so it like like a lot of the episodes would 2950 02:46:16,560 --> 02:46:18,440 Speaker 7: be completely new. But I feel like it would be 2951 02:46:18,480 --> 02:46:20,800 Speaker 7: cool if like have the members show up. 2952 02:46:21,320 --> 02:46:22,640 Speaker 1: In the streams. 2953 02:46:23,040 --> 02:46:27,760 Speaker 7: Yeah cool, Okay, Well it seems like the sentiment's pretty good. Yeah, 2954 02:46:28,680 --> 02:46:31,879 Speaker 7: Like I haven't seen really any negative comments single imagination. 2955 02:46:31,879 --> 02:46:34,160 Speaker 7: You should probably make a que with at least ten 2956 02:46:34,240 --> 02:46:36,080 Speaker 7: names listed so they can be prepared to be on 2957 02:46:36,120 --> 02:46:38,280 Speaker 7: the show. Yeah, I mean we're gonna show the chat, 2958 02:46:38,480 --> 02:46:41,160 Speaker 7: will like have like people like bring people up. 2959 02:46:42,480 --> 02:46:45,600 Speaker 1: Ideally put like I think even like pop pulling, like 2960 02:46:45,840 --> 02:46:49,080 Speaker 1: blowing up their comment like in the edits and stuff. Right. 2961 02:46:49,320 --> 02:46:51,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, also for the people who sing like you can't 2962 02:46:51,840 --> 02:46:54,160 Speaker 2: you know, afford a membership, not like a lot. I 2963 02:46:54,240 --> 02:46:57,040 Speaker 2: think you can interact a bunch if you interact and 2964 02:46:57,200 --> 02:46:58,160 Speaker 2: sometimes you get gifted. 2965 02:46:58,280 --> 02:47:00,800 Speaker 7: Yeah, if you interact, you'll be gifted and we'll probably 2966 02:47:00,959 --> 02:47:06,080 Speaker 7: be like shifting how donations work. So it's more membership focused, 2967 02:47:06,720 --> 02:47:09,759 Speaker 7: so we can bring as many people in as possible. 2968 02:47:09,480 --> 02:47:12,160 Speaker 2: And you're not losing anything. Members are just. 2969 02:47:12,200 --> 02:47:16,480 Speaker 1: Getting exactly we're adding something to the membership that doesn't 2970 02:47:16,520 --> 02:47:19,240 Speaker 1: exist today. Yeah, so we're. 2971 02:47:19,160 --> 02:47:22,080 Speaker 7: Gonna, we're gonna, we're gonna try it out. But Baby Godzilla, 2972 02:47:22,400 --> 02:47:26,000 Speaker 7: thank you for the five dollars tip. On YouTube, anyone 2973 02:47:26,040 --> 02:47:28,080 Speaker 7: can watch your live stream, but members only can write 2974 02:47:28,080 --> 02:47:29,400 Speaker 7: in the chat and see it afterwards. 2975 02:47:30,480 --> 02:47:32,240 Speaker 1: That could be cool. That could be cool. I do 2976 02:47:32,400 --> 02:47:34,320 Speaker 1: like the idea of like keeping it like like special 2977 02:47:34,360 --> 02:47:35,800 Speaker 1: for me. Yeah, I think it is kind of cool 2978 02:47:35,800 --> 02:47:37,959 Speaker 1: to have it. But good point. And then one more 2979 02:47:38,480 --> 02:47:39,840 Speaker 1: uh Sophia's funey. 2980 02:47:39,840 --> 02:47:40,800 Speaker 2: You didn't read that, did you? 2981 02:47:40,959 --> 02:47:41,080 Speaker 6: Oh? 2982 02:47:41,480 --> 02:47:41,720 Speaker 1: I did? 2983 02:47:41,959 --> 02:47:45,600 Speaker 7: Okay, Sorry, and then uh e Bizaro, thanks for the 2984 02:47:45,600 --> 02:47:47,600 Speaker 7: four twenty three. It's just a temptation to become addicted 2985 02:47:47,640 --> 02:47:50,520 Speaker 7: to this channel and I'm here for it. Well, we 2986 02:47:50,680 --> 02:47:52,440 Speaker 7: love you, We love this community. 2987 02:47:52,560 --> 02:47:57,120 Speaker 1: That's right. If you love us, make sure to subscribe. 2988 02:47:57,320 --> 02:47:58,240 Speaker 1: We love you.