WEBVTT - Don’t Get Got

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<v Speaker 1>Once upon a time, there was a good old traditional housewife.

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<v Speaker 1>She cooked, she cleaned, cared for her children and the

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<v Speaker 1>man of the house, and of course, she didn't talk back.

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<v Speaker 1>She was both obedient and soft by nature. She was

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<v Speaker 1>a good woman who always made good choices.

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<v Speaker 2>Shut that shit up. We're good moms with bad choices.

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<v Speaker 3>Two single moms who said fuck the patriarchy, shared all

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<v Speaker 3>their bad choices, and found out they weren't so bad

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<v Speaker 3>after all.

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<v Speaker 2>We're experts, over-sharers, and your new bestie. Sit back and

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<v Speaker 2>enjoy the ride. Welcome back to Good Moms, Bad Choices.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Erica. And I'm Mila. Happy Hump Day, hoes.

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<v Speaker 3>Happy Hump Day, hoes. It is another fine Wednesday on

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<v Speaker 3>the yellow couch in the mom cave.

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<v Speaker 2>Be back in the studio. Oh, oh, oh. Okay. Not, not. Wait,

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<v Speaker 2>hold on. Do you get my pitch? Turn me up, baby.

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<v Speaker 2>What the hell's wrong with you? Wait, how's our intro song?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my God. Orlando makes fun of it all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>And I forget that it's our intro song.

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<v Speaker 2>How is it? All the good... Your titties out. All

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<v Speaker 2>the good moms making bad choices. We're going to have

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<v Speaker 2>to revisit that song.

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<v Speaker 3>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even know my own damn intro song. Hold on.

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<v Speaker 2>I got it. What the fuck?

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<v Speaker 3>Because we don't listen. This is the problem, not listening

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<v Speaker 3>to your own podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>It's custom. We paid for that shit. We produced it,

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<v Speaker 2>sort of. We didn't produce it. We paid for it.

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<v Speaker 2>But same, same. I like it. I got to find

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<v Speaker 2>this guy. I like it. You heard it when you

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<v Speaker 2>clicked on this episode. You know the vibes. Now you're

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<v Speaker 2>trying to find me.

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<v Speaker 3>On my own.

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<v Speaker 2>I could do better on my own.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the song that we bought.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep. How many of the other podcasts have got original music, baby? Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>We're in the stew for that. I think all of

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<v Speaker 2>them do, actually. Again, we wouldn't know because we're not

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<v Speaker 2>listening to shit. How are you? What's going on? I'm good.

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<v Speaker 2>I drank lean last night. Erica Erica stop fucking you

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<v Speaker 2>are pandering right now I drank lean last.

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<v Speaker 3>Night I drank some lean bitches never double cupped it

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<v Speaker 3>never sipped on some scissors yes I have for leisure

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<v Speaker 3>entertainment for leisure entertainment.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah my baby daddy used to drink lean and you

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<v Speaker 2>were trying to like be cool and do it too

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<v Speaker 2>well it was he was drinking it so often it

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<v Speaker 2>would piss me off cause he would just him and

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<v Speaker 2>his boys would be like knocked out on my couch

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<v Speaker 2>just like leaned the fuck out and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>why the fuck are these niggas drinking this shit all

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<v Speaker 2>the time? So one day I was like, let me

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<v Speaker 2>have some of that. And he was like, oh, you

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<v Speaker 2>want some now? I was like, yeah, I'm about to

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<v Speaker 2>go out. And he was like, okay. And so he

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<v Speaker 2>gave me that double cup with a little bit of

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<v Speaker 2>the fucking Sprite.

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<v Speaker 4>Right?

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<v Speaker 2>It's Sprite. And who was I with? I think I

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<v Speaker 2>was with Ashley and Sebastian. I don't know. I was

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<v Speaker 2>with one of them. And we went to, I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>let's just go keep it local. This is where I

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<v Speaker 2>live downtown. We went to this party across the street

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<v Speaker 2>at this loft. So I was like, if anything goes bad,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm close home, close to home. Bitch, I drank that lean,

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<v Speaker 2>which first of all was delicious. Tasted great. Very sweet

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<v Speaker 2>and delicious. So I was like, okay, I see. You

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<v Speaker 2>know I love a sweet treat. Drank that shit, bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>I went to that party. I could barely keep my

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<v Speaker 2>eyes open. I was falling asleep on the couch. They

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<v Speaker 2>had to basically drag me out of the fucking party

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<v Speaker 2>and And I just immediately went to the bed. So

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<v Speaker 2>the next morning, I was like, why the fuck do

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<v Speaker 2>you drink this? You got to get past that part.

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<v Speaker 2>And then on the other side of that part, that's

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<v Speaker 2>where the high is. I was like, well, I like

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<v Speaker 2>sleep too much.

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<v Speaker 3>Ladies and gentlemen, exhibit A of why you don't follow

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<v Speaker 3>behind niggas.

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<v Speaker 2>So anyway. Erica is sick, and that's why she had

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<v Speaker 2>some promethazine. Because I have. You're going to take your

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<v Speaker 2>prescription now. Because I have 35 days. Look at you.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you gave me this shit. I think this is

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<v Speaker 2>the new COVID. I think it is, too. It's going around.

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<v Speaker 2>I've had this cough for 35 days. So has Luna.

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<v Speaker 2>And now I'm on day seven. Thank you very much.

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<v Speaker 2>Now the whole goddamn family. And they gave me promethazine

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<v Speaker 2>because I was having such a hard time sleeping because

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<v Speaker 2>I was waking myself up every hour coughing. And so

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<v Speaker 2>last night I fell asleep on the couch and I

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<v Speaker 2>woke up gasping for air. And I went upstairs and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, maybe I need to drink some of

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<v Speaker 2>that promethazine. And I had taken it one other time

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<v Speaker 2>and I realized like you don't take a lot like

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<v Speaker 2>you literally take like I've never even taken a cough

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<v Speaker 2>syrup like this minimally. So I was like, let me

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<v Speaker 2>just I just chugged it. I got chugged it. I

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<v Speaker 2>just took a little thinking like that was enough, bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>I woke up this morning and even now I feel drugged.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my God, that reminds me.

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<v Speaker 3>I was coughing in the bed the other night and

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<v Speaker 3>Orlando wakes me up and is like, I can't sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, what?

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<v Speaker 3>He's like, get some water. I was like, it's not

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<v Speaker 3>about water. He's like, I can't sleep. I got to

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<v Speaker 3>go to work in the morning. I was so mad.

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<v Speaker 2>I got up. I was like, I'm sleeping on the couch.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want some promethazine, baby? Maybe. Yeah, sounds like

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<v Speaker 2>you need some. Yeah, I might need some.

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<v Speaker 3>Can you bring it tonight? Can you bring the promethazine

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<v Speaker 3>to the blue note? Because I might need to mix

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<v Speaker 3>it with a drink so I can not drink. I

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<v Speaker 3>went to a comedy show this week and I was

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<v Speaker 3>laughing and then I started coughing. I was like, this

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<v Speaker 3>is not sexy. People at the bar were looking at

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<v Speaker 3>me like, bitch, if you don't take your ass home.

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<v Speaker 2>And my cough, I can't even cough cute. It's not

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<v Speaker 2>like a, it's like I have to hack. Even when

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<v Speaker 2>I try, I'm like, maybe I can just get it

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<v Speaker 2>out real quick. No, it's really bad. Remember that year where.

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<v Speaker 3>You made fun of my cough that I had for

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<v Speaker 3>like three weeks? My household cough, remember?

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<v Speaker 2>Three weeks?

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<v Speaker 3>Or seven months? It was three weeks, bitch. No one

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<v Speaker 3>calls for seven months. It was not seven months. I've

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<v Speaker 3>only been sick like three times in ten years.

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<v Speaker 2>David, do you remember this cough? He doesn't because it's

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<v Speaker 2>only three weeks. It was not three weeks, bitch. It

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<v Speaker 2>was months. It was not months. Maybe a month. How

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<v Speaker 2>quickly do we forget?

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<v Speaker 3>And probably because I got it from you because you

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<v Speaker 3>always stay with the bronchitis. Because you stay with bronchitis

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<v Speaker 3>every year. You tell me that.

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<v Speaker 2>I get it every year. No, I get strep throat

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<v Speaker 2>a lot. I don't get bronchitis a lot. Anyway, whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>You want the promethazine or not?

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<v Speaker 3>I do. I do.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, I do.

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<v Speaker 3>I was going to go to the doctor, but maybe

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<v Speaker 3>just give me some.

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<v Speaker 2>You should go to the doctor. I'm going. I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to go back again. You have to. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway, enough about the COVID number two that we just announced.

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<v Speaker 3>What else is going on, dear? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to go to, we're going to go to

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<v Speaker 2>the Blue Note tonight. I'm excited. We're going to go

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<v Speaker 2>see our girl Zaya Bell perform. What time is that? Seven. Okay. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Seven o'clock. I've been wanting to go to the Blue

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<v Speaker 2>Note for a while. I've been to the Blue Note

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<v Speaker 2>in New York a few different times, which was amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, I think that's like the original one. I went,

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<v Speaker 2>the first time I ever went was when I worked

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<v Speaker 2>for Macy Gray and we went to see like some

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<v Speaker 2>legendary jazz singer who was literally like 99 years old. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>that's cool. but she was up there like, singing her song.

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<v Speaker 3>Isn't that crazy how you get old and your voice

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<v Speaker 3>still works the same?

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<v Speaker 2>It does, but it sounds different. Even our voices have changed,

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<v Speaker 2>I think, over time. I know, it's so weird. She

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<v Speaker 2>definitely had an old, creaky, old, ancient-ass, New Orleans-ass voice.

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<v Speaker 2>She sounded like she was from the bayou.

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<v Speaker 3>Us, between the blunts and the bronchitis, 10 years, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I guess we sound a little bit different.

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<v Speaker 2>And talking so much shit. And then I saw... That

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<v Speaker 2>time that, remember when I had that square nigga that

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<v Speaker 2>came to meet us in Brooklyn and we got that

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<v Speaker 2>really dope apartment? And he took me to the Blue

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<v Speaker 2>Note to see Robert Glasper because he had a residency there.

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<v Speaker 2>And that was epic. So I'm just hoping that the

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<v Speaker 2>Blue Note LA lives up to what I've experienced in

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<v Speaker 2>New York. Not that fucking old, that boring nigga.

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<v Speaker 3>If we could go back in our files of niggas,

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<v Speaker 3>my God, the files are extensive. But yeah, that boring

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<v Speaker 3>nigga was so boring. I forgot he was even there.

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<v Speaker 3>Remember you got mad at us for being ourselves? You're like,

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<v Speaker 3>you're going to scare him away. I'm like, I think

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<v Speaker 3>I could blow on him and scare him away. All

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<v Speaker 3>my friends jumped in the bed with us with their

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<v Speaker 3>titties out.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh my God. We're in an Airbnb.

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<v Speaker 2>We're besties. What do you think bitches do? You're like, stop.

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<v Speaker 3>He's going to judge me. I'm like, well, he probably

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<v Speaker 3>shouldn't be your nigga then. If my little titties are

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<v Speaker 3>going to scare him away, he's not going to make it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's our test. That's our... That's our nigga test. Can

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<v Speaker 2>he kick it?

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<v Speaker 3>Can he handle a bunch of bitches jumping in the

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<v Speaker 3>bed at 10 a.m. with their titties out? I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>this is some nigga's dream. He DM'd me recently. I

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<v Speaker 3>bet his boring ass did.

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<v Speaker 2>I know. And what'd he say? I don't know. All

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<v Speaker 2>my old niggas are starting to float around. Oh, my God.

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<v Speaker 2>It reminded me. I forgot. I went out randomly the

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<v Speaker 2>other night with my homeboy.

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<v Speaker 3>To a comedy show. There's this new comedy club at

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<v Speaker 3>the Vinyl Room. I don't know if it's just comedy.

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<v Speaker 2>It's really cute. And then we went to Dot.

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<v Speaker 3>And I ran into this nigga that I went on

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<v Speaker 3>maybe three dates with fucking six years ago. And he

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<v Speaker 3>was a fucking square finance nigga. You know when you

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<v Speaker 3>run into someone from your past and you really have

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<v Speaker 3>to ask yourself what the fuck was going on? There's

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<v Speaker 3>no better proof that a bitch has grown and evolved

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<v Speaker 3>more than running into a nigga... whose dick he sucked

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<v Speaker 3>six years ago. Cause I was like, Oh Lord, I

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<v Speaker 3>wanted to throw up.

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<v Speaker 2>In my mouth. So I was walking by and he said, hi.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, Hey.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I was going to the bathroom with Rachel,

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<v Speaker 3>shout out to Rachel from higher learning.

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<v Speaker 2>And I said, hi.

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<v Speaker 3>But then I realized immediately, like he was in my

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<v Speaker 3>DMS and he had like disrespected Orlando saying like basically

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<v Speaker 3>insinuating that Orlando was gay. And I told him, isn't

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<v Speaker 3>it really gay to be talking about a nigga you

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<v Speaker 3>never met?

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<v Speaker 2>And I left it at that. So I said, hi.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I was like, damn, I shouldn't have said hi.

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<v Speaker 3>I forgot the last interaction we had. So on my

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<v Speaker 3>way back from the bathroom, this nigga goes.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, I just wanted to apologize.

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<v Speaker 3>I've been wanting to see you out because I've been

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<v Speaker 3>wanting to apologize for what I said.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, that was whack. You didn't, like, deserve that. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know him. I was like, it was whack. Thank

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<v Speaker 2>you for apologizing.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm like, it's so crazy to see niggas like,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, A, I appreciate a nigga being honest about

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<v Speaker 3>where they, you know, one thing about a real nigga

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<v Speaker 3>is you're going to apologize when you fuck up. And

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<v Speaker 3>I realized that because even when I fuck up, I'll

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<v Speaker 3>be like, sorry, that time we talked shit about you

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<v Speaker 3>on the podcast. That wasn't nice. But some people won't

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<v Speaker 3>do it. But he said it. And I was just like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>because you still single. And that hairline is receding. It's

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<v Speaker 3>not getting it doesn't look like it's getting brighter for you,

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<v Speaker 3>my nigga, the finances and your finance job and your

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<v Speaker 3>singledom outside at fucking 50 isn't looking too hot. But

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<v Speaker 3>I was just like, yeah, I had like a little

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<v Speaker 3>peek back into my life and i thought about it

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<v Speaker 3>and i think he was like going through some parental

0:10:52.059 --> 0:10:53.800
<v Speaker 3>struggles with his daughter who just moved in with him

0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:55.580
<v Speaker 3>he was a single dad and i remember sucking his

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<v Speaker 3>dick and just feeling bad for him like you know

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<v Speaker 3>let me.

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<v Speaker 2>Just cheer you up and then i was like what

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<v Speaker 2>the fuck is wrong with me not sucking single dad

0:11:03.270 --> 0:11:05.689
<v Speaker 2>dick out of sympathy.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank god for thank god for for curing my people

0:11:08.530 --> 0:11:11.950
<v Speaker 3>pleasingness because a single people pleasing bitch is a threat

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<v Speaker 3>like it was treacherous it was terrible And he was

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<v Speaker 3>so unattractive. I was like, how lucky are you to

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<v Speaker 3>fucking even hang out with me, my fucking whimsical bright ass.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was just like, yeah, and you're still single

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<v Speaker 3>and you don't look so great. And you over here,

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<v Speaker 3>my DM's talking shit about a married bitch and her

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<v Speaker 3>happy life.

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<v Speaker 2>What a fucking loser.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was just like, you know, going out sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>you can just like tip your toe back into the

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<v Speaker 3>dating pool and see that there's still shit in it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was just like, yeah. That actually brings me

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<v Speaker 2>to a bad choice.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Which is, I feel like, aligned with going out and,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, trying new shit. So, I was at SoHouse,

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<v Speaker 2>and this is like SoHouse downtown, and I was by

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<v Speaker 2>the pool. Oh, I think I... I was by the

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<v Speaker 2>pool and I was just like enjoying myself. I was

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<v Speaker 2>by like, I think like my, I think Neerlyn, a

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<v Speaker 2>few friends had, it was Neerlyn. She and her and

0:12:21.650 --> 0:12:22.969
<v Speaker 2>her sister had come and hung out with me. We

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<v Speaker 2>were like drinking margaritas. Earlier in the day, I had

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<v Speaker 2>worked out downstairs and I saw this guy and he was,

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<v Speaker 2>we didn't even, he wasn't really looking at me. I

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<v Speaker 2>just saw him. And we went upstairs. I saw him

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<v Speaker 2>upstairs and Neerlyn ended up leaving. And so I was

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<v Speaker 2>just chilling. And then the waitress was like, oh, the

0:12:38.720 --> 0:12:40.440
<v Speaker 2>guy over there, he wants to buy you a shot.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, okay, cool. So he buys me a shot.

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<v Speaker 2>um i go over there i started talking to him

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<v Speaker 2>just like on not flirting just regular degular ass shit

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<v Speaker 2>we're sitting there now we're now we've had a few

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<v Speaker 2>more still not attracted to this nigga.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay three shots later still ugly he's short and just

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<v Speaker 3>when i say short i mean like shorter than me

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<v Speaker 3>you have to be careful of the short niggas they

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<v Speaker 3>beat women yeah we'll.

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<v Speaker 2>Talk about that later but He's short and he got

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<v Speaker 2>locks and he's in the music industry, but by accident, low-key,

0:13:17.850 --> 0:13:21.730
<v Speaker 2>accidentally got an artist that's successful type shit. Not accidentally.

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<v Speaker 2>So anyway, he's like, want to play a game of

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<v Speaker 2>truth or dare? I don't know what he said. Some

0:13:31.440 --> 0:13:34.120
<v Speaker 2>shit like that. I was like, hey, he's like, how

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<v Speaker 2>about if I open my phone and we have... Because

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<v Speaker 2>we were talking about all the people that we kind

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<v Speaker 2>of knew sort of around each other. He's like, I

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<v Speaker 2>open my phone and we look at our DMs and

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<v Speaker 2>we're not following each other. We don't have any mutual

0:13:48.540 --> 0:13:50.600
<v Speaker 2>friends that we're following. You have to kiss me. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, the chances of this is extremely low. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know how I am. I'm very popular. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>but nigga, I know a lot of people. I know

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<v Speaker 2>that there's definitely going to be a chance that we

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<v Speaker 2>have someone following. So he opens up his Instagram and

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<v Speaker 2>we're not following him. I'm not, we have no mutuals.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, fuck.

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<v Speaker 3>So I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like, all right, fuck it. I'm like, whatever, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I kiss him. With a tongue?

0:14:20.560 --> 0:14:20.920
<v Speaker 3>Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>We kiss. It was a fine kiss. What are my 12?

0:14:25.240 --> 0:14:31.030
<v Speaker 2>With tongue. With tongue. And, you know, we stop kissing.

0:14:31.070 --> 0:14:33.530
<v Speaker 2>We kind of like giggle, laugh, whatever. Because we're having

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<v Speaker 2>a good time. Like, I'm not attracted to this nigga,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm just like, whatever. It's just like something spontaneous.

0:14:38.190 --> 0:14:44.430
<v Speaker 2>This little fucking short fuck says to me, that's my Finsta.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not following anybody really. And I was like, he

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<v Speaker 2>had like, there were, there were followers. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>what the fuck? And I was at this point, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>like tipsy. So I'm like, you're a fucking bitch. So

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<v Speaker 2>I pick up all my shit. He starts like following

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<v Speaker 2>me out of the fucking Soho house. He's like literally

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<v Speaker 2>chasing me into the elevator. I get in the elevator.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in there with a couple. They're like canoodling. And

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<v Speaker 2>he's like, come on, man. Come on, man. And they're like,

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<v Speaker 2>what's going on? I was like, this nigga's a fucking

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<v Speaker 2>bitch is what's going on. And he was like, damn.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, you're a whack as fuck. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>you're a little pussy. You get no fucking pussy, don't you?

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<v Speaker 2>And he's like, damn. So then I walk out. You

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely don't. I get in my car. This nigga is

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<v Speaker 2>like following me to my car, like trying to get,

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<v Speaker 2>like trying to block me from walking away. I was

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<v Speaker 2>so angry. I was so mad at myself. at him,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was just like, you guys are so lame. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>this is how you have to get a bitch, a

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<v Speaker 2>bad bitch to kiss you?

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<v Speaker 3>You should've known as soon as he said that there

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<v Speaker 3>was a problem, because why are we even, why would

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<v Speaker 3>we be, truth or daring, for you to get a kiss,

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<v Speaker 3>because you probably know that would not happen otherwise.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. We might need to write a book.

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<v Speaker 2>It might be like. But I just, that just showed you,

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<v Speaker 2>that just showed me how green I am to being single.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, damn, bitch, it's been a minute. You

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<v Speaker 2>need to get your single education back up. Not your

0:16:00.370 --> 0:16:01.030
<v Speaker 2>single education.

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<v Speaker 3>Because what the fuck are you doing?

0:16:05.120 --> 0:16:08.440
<v Speaker 2>Hooked on phonics for singles. Literally, I'm like, singleness for dummies?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I wish I could read the book. Oh my God,

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<v Speaker 3>is that our book? Dating for Single Moms for Dummies?

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<v Speaker 3>Single Mom Dating for Dummies. I might need to read

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<v Speaker 3>it first. Step one, if a nigga truth or dares

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<v Speaker 3>you to kiss him, it's all bad. Two, if he's

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<v Speaker 3>under 5'5, it's 5'7, it's also probably not going to

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<v Speaker 3>go great. And I'm not generalizing, but a lot of

0:16:26.810 --> 0:16:30.710
<v Speaker 3>short niggas are not. And then step three, don't people

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<v Speaker 3>please while dating. it's not going to be in your

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<v Speaker 3>best interest, but I'm sorry that happened.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you wash your mouth out? I feel like the

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<v Speaker 2>tequila may be like, yeah, but yeah, that was really,

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<v Speaker 2>that was lame.

0:16:44.940 --> 0:16:46.520
<v Speaker 3>Remember the days back in the day, you could just

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<v Speaker 3>go to the club and make out with niggas. Cause

0:16:48.160 --> 0:16:50.560
<v Speaker 3>it was just like whimsical and fun. Those days are

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<v Speaker 3>over the days when people used.

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<v Speaker 2>To like freak dance. Like, do like, does anybody like

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<v Speaker 2>under 30 even know what freak dancing is? Like, I

0:16:59.990 --> 0:17:03.570
<v Speaker 2>feel like I don't know. Like, Also, because we're in

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<v Speaker 2>such a sensitive time where if you touch a bitch,

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<v Speaker 2>consent is super important. Could we even have those times

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<v Speaker 2>back anymore? I freak dance. I still bend over in

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<v Speaker 2>the club. Do people know? People would be helping the niggas.

0:17:22.340 --> 0:17:24.379
<v Speaker 2>They would be helping him to stay up because bitches'

0:17:24.560 --> 0:17:28.820
<v Speaker 2>asses were pushing him backwards. It would be like a train.

0:17:29.480 --> 0:17:32.480
<v Speaker 2>People were moving through the crowd getting freaked.

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<v Speaker 3>That was a time in history that no longer exists.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sad for people that never get to experience that.

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<v Speaker 3>You think our kids will never be able to go

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<v Speaker 3>to a house party and freak dance on the wall?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think there's no freak dance. Remember when bitches

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<v Speaker 2>used to put two legs on the wall? Upside down. Handstand.

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<v Speaker 2>I did a, yes, just like that. Yeah. Yep. Yep. Yep. Yep.

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<v Speaker 3>GP, put the parental advisory sign over my titties and

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<v Speaker 3>maybe my ass crack. I just had to show the people.

0:18:04.119 --> 0:18:07.540
<v Speaker 3>For those youngins, that was freak dancing, standing up, sitting down.

0:18:07.560 --> 0:18:09.790
<v Speaker 2>That was advanced freak dancing. That's like level three. But,

0:18:12.940 --> 0:18:15.699
<v Speaker 2>But level two was like movement, movement through the party.

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<v Speaker 2>Like we're traveling with the freak dance. I don't remember

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<v Speaker 2>traveling with the freak dance. Oh no, like the ass

0:18:19.410 --> 0:18:21.500
<v Speaker 2>would be so, like we'd be aggressively backing it up.

0:18:21.970 --> 0:18:24.250
<v Speaker 2>Like the niggas can't catch it. They're backing up and

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<v Speaker 2>they're trying to catch their, like their friends are holding

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<v Speaker 2>them from behind.

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<v Speaker 3>I remember the holding, but yeah.

0:18:29.230 --> 0:18:31.010
<v Speaker 2>I mean, you know what? There's still freak dance in

0:18:31.030 --> 0:18:32.570
<v Speaker 2>the Caribbean. That's the thing. Like you go to the

0:18:32.609 --> 0:18:36.970
<v Speaker 2>Caribbean party, everybody's freak dancing. Here, LA is weird. I

0:18:37.010 --> 0:18:38.429
<v Speaker 2>went out the other night and there was no one.

0:18:38.450 --> 0:18:40.560
<v Speaker 2>It's not even LA. It's the United States as a whole.

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<v Speaker 2>I have traveled throughout the United States in clubs between

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<v Speaker 2>the years of 2000 and 13 till now. When did

0:18:50.900 --> 0:18:54.790
<v Speaker 2>freak dancing end? Probably like around 2010. Maybe it ended

0:18:54.810 --> 0:18:57.689
<v Speaker 2>with COVID. No, no, no. It was way before COVID.

0:18:57.869 --> 0:18:59.410
<v Speaker 2>It was before I met you. Freak dancing was dead

0:18:59.430 --> 0:19:01.830
<v Speaker 2>before I met you. We never went anywhere and freak danced.

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<v Speaker 2>We danced. We would dance. Yeah. But no one else

0:19:04.090 --> 0:19:06.050
<v Speaker 2>was dancing. We would start the party. But like no

0:19:06.070 --> 0:19:08.310
<v Speaker 2>one was freak dancing. I think freak dancing ended in

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<v Speaker 2>like 2009 to 10. was it when it was over

0:19:14.100 --> 0:19:14.909
<v Speaker 2>and I'm sad about it.

0:19:15.680 --> 0:19:16.340
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it is.

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<v Speaker 2>It is. It was a time. It was an era

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<v Speaker 2>that is pretty sad. I agree.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a good time. And you know what I

0:19:21.800 --> 0:19:24.400
<v Speaker 3>realized there's just like less space. There's so much like,

0:19:24.420 --> 0:19:25.860
<v Speaker 3>I don't know if it's like gender wars, but there's

0:19:25.900 --> 0:19:29.840
<v Speaker 3>so much discourse around like male and female friendships and

0:19:29.859 --> 0:19:31.850
<v Speaker 3>what's allowed and what's not allowed. And if you're, you

0:19:31.880 --> 0:19:35.350
<v Speaker 3>can't go lunch with your, with somebody. Cause there's just

0:19:35.390 --> 0:19:37.330
<v Speaker 3>so many rules that I think maybe we were too

0:19:37.350 --> 0:19:41.119
<v Speaker 3>young and single to care about before, but. Even the

0:19:41.160 --> 0:19:43.679
<v Speaker 3>other night, I went out with my homie, my homeboy,

0:19:43.700 --> 0:19:47.550
<v Speaker 3>who's like, and we went out all day, and I

0:19:47.609 --> 0:19:48.909
<v Speaker 3>was like, this is great. I got home at two

0:19:48.930 --> 0:19:50.490
<v Speaker 3>o'clock in the morning, and I was like, where were you?

0:19:50.510 --> 0:19:51.430
<v Speaker 2>I was like outside.

0:19:51.450 --> 0:19:54.660
<v Speaker 3>And, and I was just thinking like, thank God for

0:19:54.680 --> 0:19:59.060
<v Speaker 3>having a relationship where there's like trust and like transparency,

0:19:59.140 --> 0:20:01.100
<v Speaker 3>because I don't have to lie about shit, you know,

0:20:01.140 --> 0:20:02.540
<v Speaker 3>but there was a time in my life where I

0:20:02.560 --> 0:20:04.639
<v Speaker 3>would be like, I would not, I would get my

0:20:04.760 --> 0:20:06.800
<v Speaker 3>ass beat. You know, that was like, it was just like,

0:20:06.840 --> 0:20:09.730
<v Speaker 3>I would have someone call me 75 times, but Literally,

0:20:09.790 --> 0:20:13.650
<v Speaker 3>I'm just outside with my nigga. We dancing. We're hanging

0:20:13.670 --> 0:20:15.750
<v Speaker 3>out with people. I'm, like, feeling popular. People are recognizing

0:20:15.770 --> 0:20:17.379
<v Speaker 3>me from the podcast. I'm, like, these people are like,

0:20:17.390 --> 0:20:17.859
<v Speaker 3>you look familiar.

0:20:17.880 --> 0:20:20.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm, like, I have a podcast. They're like, oh! I was, like, yeah, me.

0:20:21.920 --> 0:20:23.260
<v Speaker 2>But I was just, like, thank.

0:20:23.100 --> 0:20:26.900
<v Speaker 3>God to be able to have platonic male friendships where

0:20:26.960 --> 0:20:29.370
<v Speaker 3>I can, like, just go have a time and not

0:20:29.400 --> 0:20:31.869
<v Speaker 3>have to worry about, like, having an argument when I

0:20:31.910 --> 0:20:34.330
<v Speaker 3>come home, you know? So I was just, like, I

0:20:34.350 --> 0:20:37.820
<v Speaker 3>was pretty, I was thinking about that, like, I don't

0:20:37.859 --> 0:20:40.600
<v Speaker 3>think people get to experience that that often, like in

0:20:40.640 --> 0:20:43.020
<v Speaker 3>their relationships or let alone their marriages. And I'm like

0:20:43.100 --> 0:20:45.320
<v Speaker 3>grateful because that bitch likes to go outside and this

0:20:45.359 --> 0:20:46.200
<v Speaker 3>nigga goes to sleep early.

0:20:46.280 --> 0:20:48.520
<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, so I'm going on a date with

0:20:48.580 --> 0:20:49.680
<v Speaker 2>our friend. I'll see you later.

0:20:49.720 --> 0:20:50.000
<v Speaker 1>Bye.

0:20:50.020 --> 0:20:53.680
<v Speaker 3>So it was, it's, you know, I just, I think

0:20:53.770 --> 0:20:57.190
<v Speaker 3>that we need to bring back platonic opposite sex friendships

0:20:57.470 --> 0:20:58.189
<v Speaker 3>and freak dancing.

0:21:01.220 --> 0:21:03.359
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if like opposite platonic, I don't know

0:21:03.380 --> 0:21:05.240
<v Speaker 2>if it's a bring back. I don't know if there's ever,

0:21:05.359 --> 0:21:09.399
<v Speaker 2>I think even, I think even then that was challenging.

0:21:09.660 --> 0:21:11.240
<v Speaker 2>I think that there's just a space where now people

0:21:11.280 --> 0:21:14.020
<v Speaker 2>are sharing their opinions about it more. I don't know

0:21:14.060 --> 0:21:16.920
<v Speaker 2>if like there was more platonic male friendships happening then

0:21:16.960 --> 0:21:17.640
<v Speaker 2>than there are now.

0:21:17.960 --> 0:21:18.120
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:21:18.140 --> 0:21:20.550
<v Speaker 2>I don't know either. Cause I mean, I've, I've always

0:21:20.590 --> 0:21:24.790
<v Speaker 2>had platonic male friendships, but I've also always heard before podcasting,

0:21:24.830 --> 0:21:28.350
<v Speaker 2>before social media, the discourse around what that means to

0:21:28.390 --> 0:21:31.400
<v Speaker 2>people and why it can't exist. I think his men

0:21:31.540 --> 0:21:36.140
<v Speaker 2>have no dick-cipline. I will say, though, that generally, like,

0:21:36.220 --> 0:21:40.159
<v Speaker 2>I would say, like, the percentage of platonic friendships where

0:21:41.500 --> 0:21:44.120
<v Speaker 2>that friend you've never crossed the line with is low.

0:21:45.950 --> 0:21:49.149
<v Speaker 2>I think it's possible. I think it exists, but I

0:21:49.230 --> 0:21:51.930
<v Speaker 2>say it's low. I think that generally you have either

0:21:52.030 --> 0:21:54.370
<v Speaker 2>made out with that person, fucked that person, explored something

0:21:54.390 --> 0:21:55.970
<v Speaker 2>about that person, and then decided that's your friend.

0:21:57.060 --> 0:21:59.180
<v Speaker 3>Even then, there's such thing as like, yeah, we fucked

0:21:59.260 --> 0:22:01.800
<v Speaker 3>one drunk at night and then we're friends because that

0:22:01.820 --> 0:22:03.820
<v Speaker 3>didn't work out. And like people have a hard time

0:22:03.980 --> 0:22:04.479
<v Speaker 3>trusting that.

0:22:04.580 --> 0:22:06.199
<v Speaker 2>Even me. I'm like, okay, bitch still wants to fuck.

0:22:06.220 --> 0:22:08.100
<v Speaker 2>But I'm just saying like it doesn't generally start there.

0:22:08.119 --> 0:22:12.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't think there's a lot of friendships that don't cross,

0:22:12.040 --> 0:22:15.820
<v Speaker 2>that haven't crossed the line and then head into platonic-ness. Well,

0:22:15.840 --> 0:22:23.200
<v Speaker 2>the friend I'm talking about, there's never been any line crossing. So, yeah, no. But, yeah,

0:22:23.650 --> 0:22:27.510
<v Speaker 2>I guess because people be fucking. Because generally, if you're

0:22:27.650 --> 0:22:31.030
<v Speaker 2>attracted to someone, whether that's in friendship, there's an attraction

0:22:31.070 --> 0:22:34.379
<v Speaker 2>that's happening. Whether that's a platonic attraction, whether that's a

0:22:34.840 --> 0:22:37.940
<v Speaker 2>sexual attraction that then turns platonic, there's some sort of

0:22:37.980 --> 0:22:40.719
<v Speaker 2>attraction that's existing between one another that's drawing you to

0:22:40.760 --> 0:22:41.260
<v Speaker 2>that person.

0:22:41.760 --> 0:22:45.620
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think it also comes with age. Because remember,

0:22:45.640 --> 0:22:48.990
<v Speaker 3>there's always men. My baby daddy used to tell me,

0:22:49.730 --> 0:22:51.609
<v Speaker 3>men don't want to just be your friends. Nobody wants

0:22:51.630 --> 0:22:53.429
<v Speaker 3>to just be your friend. And I'm like, damn, so

0:22:53.450 --> 0:22:59.410
<v Speaker 3>much for my loving personality. Um, but I think that like, yeah,

0:22:59.450 --> 0:23:01.570
<v Speaker 3>when you're an attractive woman, people are going to want

0:23:01.590 --> 0:23:03.530
<v Speaker 3>to fuck. And if I was butt ass naked and

0:23:03.570 --> 0:23:05.090
<v Speaker 3>I was like, Hey, can you give me some dick?

0:23:05.570 --> 0:23:06.210
<v Speaker 2>They're going to do it.

0:23:06.310 --> 0:23:08.990
<v Speaker 3>You know, like I'm not doubting that. They're like, sure,

0:23:10.280 --> 0:23:12.500
<v Speaker 3>no problem. But I think that there's a level of

0:23:12.540 --> 0:23:15.540
<v Speaker 3>just like respect and like, I'm not going to over

0:23:15.580 --> 0:23:18.639
<v Speaker 3>cross this boundary or make you feel obligated or unsafe.

0:23:19.080 --> 0:23:21.869
<v Speaker 3>Even if of course I'm a male or female and like,

0:23:21.890 --> 0:23:23.940
<v Speaker 3>there's niggas I'm friends with who are attractive. And I

0:23:23.980 --> 0:23:26.109
<v Speaker 3>don't want to like, I'm not going to overstep that boundary,

0:23:26.119 --> 0:23:28.710
<v Speaker 3>but I think there's like a level of discipline that

0:23:28.910 --> 0:23:29.869
<v Speaker 3>age comes with too.

0:23:29.910 --> 0:23:31.810
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, for sure. Yeah, of course I think you're attractive.

0:23:31.830 --> 0:23:33.950
<v Speaker 3>I have attractive friends, but also I'm not going to

0:23:34.830 --> 0:23:37.230
<v Speaker 3>push up on you in a way that's fucking uncomfortable.

0:23:37.250 --> 0:23:41.080
<v Speaker 2>I have a friend who was not, he was a

0:23:41.200 --> 0:23:43.220
<v Speaker 2>guy that I was dating. You know him that like

0:23:43.280 --> 0:23:44.960
<v Speaker 2>we were, I was celibate during the time that I

0:23:45.000 --> 0:23:47.620
<v Speaker 2>was dating him and I was actually dating his friend too.

0:23:48.220 --> 0:23:51.200
<v Speaker 2>And like we were an acquaintance and I was celibate

0:23:51.240 --> 0:23:53.869
<v Speaker 2>while dating both of them. And then one went a

0:23:53.890 --> 0:23:55.690
<v Speaker 2>little crazy. And then the other one I went to

0:23:55.730 --> 0:23:59.370
<v Speaker 2>Endigo on that secret trip to Tulum with. Remember? So

0:23:59.570 --> 0:24:01.470
<v Speaker 2>he came. One went a little crazy. He did. He

0:24:01.490 --> 0:24:05.390
<v Speaker 2>went a little nuts. We're still friends to this day.

0:24:05.450 --> 0:24:07.650
<v Speaker 2>And he's always been there for me. And he came

0:24:07.710 --> 0:24:09.990
<v Speaker 2>over the other day. And he was like, yo, what

0:24:10.020 --> 0:24:11.899
<v Speaker 2>are you doing? He's like, I'm in your neighborhood. Can

0:24:11.940 --> 0:24:14.720
<v Speaker 2>I use your sauna? I was like, okay. And so

0:24:14.840 --> 0:24:17.360
<v Speaker 2>he came. And he, like, I was working. He went

0:24:17.380 --> 0:24:19.119
<v Speaker 2>and used the sauna. And then I was like, you

0:24:19.140 --> 0:24:20.419
<v Speaker 2>need to take a shower? He's like, yeah. So he

0:24:20.460 --> 0:24:21.180
<v Speaker 2>went into my shower.

0:24:22.180 --> 0:24:22.320
<v Speaker 4>And.

0:24:24.540 --> 0:24:26.920
<v Speaker 2>Actually, when he was caught out of the sauna, I

0:24:26.960 --> 0:24:28.700
<v Speaker 2>was through the window. I could see him. He had

0:24:28.720 --> 0:24:31.160
<v Speaker 2>on this tiny little towel. And he's really fine.

0:24:31.359 --> 0:24:36.960
<v Speaker 3>He's got a nice body. Did your nigga come in?

0:24:37.520 --> 0:24:38.440
<v Speaker 3>Did your nigga?

0:24:39.119 --> 0:24:40.959
<v Speaker 2>I was kind of trying to secretly film him. Because

0:24:40.980 --> 0:24:42.940
<v Speaker 2>I was going to send it to the tribe, my friends.

0:24:45.290 --> 0:24:46.949
<v Speaker 2>And then I was like, let me put this phone down.

0:24:46.970 --> 0:24:49.350
<v Speaker 2>Let me not. This is weird. Be a creep. But

0:24:49.450 --> 0:24:51.590
<v Speaker 2>I was peeking through the window. And I was like, God,

0:24:51.609 --> 0:24:54.649
<v Speaker 2>he is fine. it's been a long time. And I

0:24:54.650 --> 0:24:56.490
<v Speaker 2>was like, we already tried it. It didn't work. Like,

0:24:56.510 --> 0:24:58.520
<v Speaker 2>it's just not. You had to reason with yourself. I

0:24:58.520 --> 0:25:00.760
<v Speaker 2>was like, the vibe's just like, it's just every time

0:25:00.800 --> 0:25:03.560
<v Speaker 2>I've tried, it just, it wasn't right. Like, this is

0:25:03.600 --> 0:25:07.139
<v Speaker 2>my friend. So, Erica, get your shit together. So he

0:25:07.200 --> 0:25:09.699
<v Speaker 2>came in in this tiny little towel and he's like,

0:25:10.119 --> 0:25:12.370
<v Speaker 2>in my house. Meanwhile, Irie's there too. And I'm like,

0:25:13.090 --> 0:25:14.590
<v Speaker 2>is this confusing for her? I'm like, no, because she

0:25:14.630 --> 0:25:16.209
<v Speaker 2>knows this is my friend. Like, she's known he's my

0:25:16.230 --> 0:25:17.230
<v Speaker 2>friend forever.

0:25:17.590 --> 0:25:20.230
<v Speaker 3>I think our girls need to see us have safe

0:25:20.310 --> 0:25:22.650
<v Speaker 3>platonic friendships. I think it's, I like it for Luna

0:25:22.670 --> 0:25:24.540
<v Speaker 3>too because I want you to know if a nigga

0:25:24.760 --> 0:25:27.000
<v Speaker 3>tries to tell you this theory that you can't have

0:25:27.040 --> 0:25:29.340
<v Speaker 3>male friends, you've seen how it works and you've seen

0:25:29.380 --> 0:25:30.250
<v Speaker 3>when men can trust it.

0:25:30.400 --> 0:25:32.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. And I had one, I had like a quick

0:25:32.840 --> 0:25:35.180
<v Speaker 2>thought of it. Only because he was in this tiny

0:25:35.240 --> 0:25:37.060
<v Speaker 2>ass towel in my house. Because you're human and you

0:25:37.100 --> 0:25:37.510
<v Speaker 2>have vagina.

0:25:37.530 --> 0:25:38.810
<v Speaker 3>And I was like, nigga, you don't have a bigger

0:25:38.869 --> 0:25:40.050
<v Speaker 3>towel than this, my nigga?

0:25:40.090 --> 0:25:42.910
<v Speaker 2>Like, why are you using this fucking washcloth to cover yourself?

0:25:42.930 --> 0:25:44.290
<v Speaker 2>Because he was trying to tempt you. Like, hey baby,

0:25:44.369 --> 0:25:46.410
<v Speaker 2>I know you ain't got some in a while. I mean,

0:25:46.450 --> 0:25:46.910
<v Speaker 2>that's the thing.

0:25:47.210 --> 0:25:50.629
<v Speaker 3>People like try to make it men. Humans, bitches also

0:25:50.690 --> 0:25:55.900
<v Speaker 3>have It could go in between. It could go in between.

0:25:56.140 --> 0:25:59.520
<v Speaker 2>We're friends, are we? We're friends. I could fuck. Women

0:25:59.560 --> 0:26:01.679
<v Speaker 2>be mannish too. So then he was walking up my

0:26:01.720 --> 0:26:04.879
<v Speaker 2>stairs into my bathroom. He was going to take a

0:26:04.900 --> 0:26:07.180
<v Speaker 2>shower in my room. He took a shower and he

0:26:07.220 --> 0:26:09.300
<v Speaker 2>came down. Whatever. It was fine. He was clothed. Then

0:26:09.320 --> 0:26:11.420
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I sat down and talked and we

0:26:11.440 --> 0:26:14.159
<v Speaker 2>were totally fine. And that was that. But I was

0:26:14.200 --> 0:26:18.800
<v Speaker 2>just thinking about just the edge of platonicness and how

0:26:18.859 --> 0:26:23.270
<v Speaker 2>it can get Like I can see why people, I

0:26:23.850 --> 0:26:27.510
<v Speaker 2>can understand why people battle with like that idea of

0:26:27.570 --> 0:26:30.310
<v Speaker 2>you having a platonic friend because when you become single,

0:26:30.470 --> 0:26:32.470
<v Speaker 2>is that still a platonic friend or is that a potentially,

0:26:32.750 --> 0:26:35.109
<v Speaker 2>like are you willing to cross the line? And in

0:26:35.150 --> 0:26:37.170
<v Speaker 2>that moment, I realized like I'm not really willing to

0:26:37.190 --> 0:26:39.490
<v Speaker 2>cross the line and I'm single. Like we're not going to,

0:26:39.690 --> 0:26:41.990
<v Speaker 2>even you're in my house, I could have like dragged

0:26:42.020 --> 0:26:43.689
<v Speaker 2>you in the bathroom and whatever, hooked up with you.

0:26:43.700 --> 0:26:44.800
<v Speaker 2>And you could have done it, yeah. And I didn't,

0:26:44.920 --> 0:26:45.200
<v Speaker 2>you know.

0:26:46.380 --> 0:26:49.410
<v Speaker 3>Well, I think it's about like honesty and friendship. Speaking

0:26:49.690 --> 0:26:51.929
<v Speaker 3>of niggas and dicks.

0:26:55.010 --> 0:26:56.210
<v Speaker 2>This is how you know me. Tell me more. This

0:26:56.270 --> 0:26:58.470
<v Speaker 2>is how you know me and Orlando are like besties.

0:26:58.609 --> 0:26:59.290
<v Speaker 2>And this is a problem.

0:26:59.310 --> 0:27:01.570
<v Speaker 3>This is probably, no, the problem and also the solution

0:27:01.950 --> 0:27:05.250
<v Speaker 3>to not having like, to having transparency. Because there's literally

0:27:05.290 --> 0:27:08.840
<v Speaker 3>nothing I can't tell this nigga. Anyway, the stripper from

0:27:08.859 --> 0:27:12.020
<v Speaker 3>my bachelor party, our resident stripper, sent me a Snapchat.

0:27:12.320 --> 0:27:12.700
<v Speaker 2>Did he?

0:27:12.820 --> 0:27:14.399
<v Speaker 3>And I wasn't really soliciting for it, but I was

0:27:14.420 --> 0:27:15.859
<v Speaker 3>like giving hard eyes and other stuff.

0:27:16.060 --> 0:27:18.400
<v Speaker 2>And then- He sent me a video. You want to see?

0:27:18.560 --> 0:27:19.000
<v Speaker 2>I do.

0:27:20.100 --> 0:27:21.720
<v Speaker 3>And I was like, I thought I was going to disappear.

0:27:21.770 --> 0:27:23.470
<v Speaker 3>I was like, I need to use your phone so

0:27:24.350 --> 0:27:26.770
<v Speaker 3>I can record it. He was like, what the fuck

0:27:26.790 --> 0:27:27.530
<v Speaker 3>are you doing on Snapchat?

0:27:27.550 --> 0:27:29.470
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, nothing. Just don't hate the player.

0:27:29.510 --> 0:27:33.290
<v Speaker 3>Hate the game. I got to show my friends. He

0:27:34.070 --> 0:27:35.869
<v Speaker 3>plays me no mind because I think he knows that

0:27:35.890 --> 0:27:37.830
<v Speaker 3>I'm a human. And also I could probably get away

0:27:37.850 --> 0:27:39.369
<v Speaker 3>with way more things than he can get away with

0:27:39.410 --> 0:27:40.149
<v Speaker 3>because I'm crazy.

0:27:40.210 --> 0:27:43.060
<v Speaker 2>But baby. Oh, yeah.

0:27:43.420 --> 0:27:43.740
<v Speaker 3>Oh, yeah.

0:27:43.800 --> 0:27:44.540
<v Speaker 2>Baby, look at this shit.

0:27:51.220 --> 0:27:54.200
<v Speaker 3>Oh, I like that tip. I've never seen a tip

0:27:54.220 --> 0:27:57.520
<v Speaker 3>like that. It's like holding on for dear life. It

0:27:57.560 --> 0:28:00.590
<v Speaker 3>looks like a design. I've never seen that. Like a

0:28:00.700 --> 0:28:02.929
<v Speaker 3>Louis Vuitton.

0:28:03.010 --> 0:28:05.410
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I like it. Okay, anyway.

0:28:07.490 --> 0:28:08.570
<v Speaker 3>I meant to send that to the group chat, but

0:28:08.590 --> 0:28:10.850
<v Speaker 3>I didn't know if I was violating. But he also

0:28:10.970 --> 0:28:12.629
<v Speaker 3>sent it so it doesn't disappear, and I was like.

0:28:12.650 --> 0:28:16.410
<v Speaker 2>Oh, baby. He wants you to see that. Bang, bang, bang, bang, bang.

0:28:17.640 --> 0:28:20.940
<v Speaker 2>I sent some stuff back. Did you talk to whoever

0:28:20.980 --> 0:28:21.620
<v Speaker 2>you were in Orlando?

0:28:21.640 --> 0:28:21.720
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:28:21.740 --> 0:28:23.550
<v Speaker 2>Orlando said, you can send it back in five minutes.

0:28:23.570 --> 0:28:24.420
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, sure, no problem.

0:28:27.470 --> 0:28:32.510
<v Speaker 3>We have an insane friendship, relationship, marriage that I'm grateful for.

0:28:32.530 --> 0:28:34.469
<v Speaker 3>Because then I can still get my little, I can

0:28:34.490 --> 0:28:35.950
<v Speaker 3>still feel like I have attention and get my little

0:28:35.990 --> 0:28:36.909
<v Speaker 3>rocks off-ish.

0:28:37.609 --> 0:28:37.990
<v Speaker 2>Anyway, I.

0:28:39.490 --> 0:28:43.480
<v Speaker 3>Also showed Nisha at her thing. I'm showing all of

0:28:43.560 --> 0:28:45.480
<v Speaker 3>our friends because that is impressive, okay?

0:28:45.980 --> 0:28:50.020
<v Speaker 2>That is. The whole package. Impressive. Face, body, bow, bow, bow.

0:28:51.700 --> 0:28:53.440
<v Speaker 2>Does anyone have another party coming up? I think we

0:28:53.460 --> 0:28:54.380
<v Speaker 2>need to hire some.

0:28:54.620 --> 0:28:54.780
<v Speaker 1>Yep.

0:28:55.100 --> 0:28:57.200
<v Speaker 2>Oh, okay. We need to hire some male entertainment. I'll

0:28:57.220 --> 0:28:58.180
<v Speaker 2>schedule it. Okay, perfect.

0:29:00.370 --> 0:29:04.030
<v Speaker 3>Does anybody else in their tribe have a resident stripper?

0:29:04.330 --> 0:29:05.670
<v Speaker 3>Because I highly recommend.

0:29:05.950 --> 0:29:09.350
<v Speaker 2>If you need a stripper from Los Angeles to Las Vegas,

0:29:09.450 --> 0:29:12.350
<v Speaker 2>we got you. We have one in mind. Just DM

0:29:12.370 --> 0:29:13.970
<v Speaker 2>the good moms. And I'll hook you up.

0:29:13.970 --> 0:29:15.890
<v Speaker 3>And we will hook you up with our resident stripper.

0:29:16.180 --> 0:29:17.580
<v Speaker 3>He doesn't know it yet, but we're going to be

0:29:17.620 --> 0:29:24.530
<v Speaker 3>his manager. Just hit up Good Moms, they manage me.

0:29:25.230 --> 0:29:29.150
<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, we have issues. Anyway, today we wanted to,

0:29:29.170 --> 0:29:31.650
<v Speaker 2>I guess, talk about some current events, yeah?

0:29:32.330 --> 0:29:35.590
<v Speaker 3>Current events, some red flags in dating, because I know

0:29:35.630 --> 0:29:38.610
<v Speaker 3>everyone has probably heard this week in the news of

0:29:38.690 --> 0:29:41.390
<v Speaker 3>the Instagrams, not real news. the news of the Instagrams

0:29:41.410 --> 0:29:44.410
<v Speaker 3>because obviously that's the only news that there is. There's

0:29:44.450 --> 0:29:49.030
<v Speaker 3>been some pretty fuck nigga shit in the news, including.

0:29:49.050 --> 0:29:51.300
<v Speaker 2>Where do you want to start? Maybe we should just

0:29:51.320 --> 0:29:52.800
<v Speaker 2>start with good old Dajon Love.

0:29:53.130 --> 0:29:57.280
<v Speaker 3>Good old Dajon Love, the scammer of all scammers who

0:29:57.300 --> 0:30:03.360
<v Speaker 3>is a loser. And, you know, when this first story

0:30:03.420 --> 0:30:04.800
<v Speaker 3>first came out, I don't know if you guys have heard.

0:30:04.820 --> 0:30:07.120
<v Speaker 3>Of course, you've heard if you're anywhere not living under

0:30:07.160 --> 0:30:08.920
<v Speaker 3>a rock. There is a guy who's been lying to

0:30:08.940 --> 0:30:11.940
<v Speaker 3>bitches about being drafted to the playing for the 49ers.

0:30:12.050 --> 0:30:14.570
<v Speaker 3>But he has not a single muscle definition. He is

0:30:14.790 --> 0:30:17.550
<v Speaker 3>not on the 49ers and he's embezzled one point two

0:30:17.590 --> 0:30:18.850
<v Speaker 3>million dollars from bitches.

0:30:19.030 --> 0:30:22.710
<v Speaker 2>Traveling everywhere with that helmet, showing up everywhere with that

0:30:22.850 --> 0:30:26.090
<v Speaker 2>fucking helmet. Like what? What are we talking about? You

0:30:26.150 --> 0:30:28.790
<v Speaker 2>have never seen a football player ever have their helmet handy.

0:30:29.270 --> 0:30:30.980
<v Speaker 2>Like the way this nigga has his helmet handy.

0:30:31.120 --> 0:30:33.850
<v Speaker 3>I've never seen so many niggas, I've never seen a

0:30:33.890 --> 0:30:35.510
<v Speaker 3>nigga talk so much in a video.

0:30:36.190 --> 0:30:38.350
<v Speaker 2>If a nigga sent me a video of him talking.

0:30:38.370 --> 0:30:39.810
<v Speaker 2>He's like, yeah, yeah, so listen, this is what we're

0:30:39.830 --> 0:30:41.570
<v Speaker 2>going to do. You're going to get that money. You're

0:30:41.590 --> 0:30:43.750
<v Speaker 2>going to get that $ 11, 000 from your friend or whatever

0:30:43.770 --> 0:30:44.770
<v Speaker 2>you're going to do. And then we're going to invest

0:30:44.790 --> 0:30:47.470
<v Speaker 2>it and we're going to expedite it expeditiously. Then he

0:30:47.490 --> 0:30:49.330
<v Speaker 2>was like, this is my keys to my Ferrari. This

0:30:49.370 --> 0:30:51.410
<v Speaker 2>is also my keys to my Audi. This is the

0:30:51.430 --> 0:30:54.410
<v Speaker 2>keys to the Hummer H2 600 400. These are the keys.

0:30:54.430 --> 0:30:56.210
<v Speaker 2>I was like, does this nigga work at valet? Like,

0:30:56.410 --> 0:30:57.650
<v Speaker 2>why are we looking at the keys?

0:30:58.860 --> 0:31:04.060
<v Speaker 3>I think my two biggest concerns of this situation.

0:31:03.500 --> 0:31:08.050
<v Speaker 2>Were A, the bitches. Well, apparently he was only targeting

0:31:08.490 --> 0:31:11.330
<v Speaker 2>whites and Asians and maybe a Latina or two.

0:31:12.050 --> 0:31:13.830
<v Speaker 3>So, I mean, I was going to say, you know,

0:31:14.290 --> 0:31:17.690
<v Speaker 3>mind my black business since he wasn't targeting us. But

0:31:17.830 --> 0:31:20.460
<v Speaker 3>just in general, you know, this is for all women.

0:31:21.360 --> 0:31:24.459
<v Speaker 3>Don't let your desperation for having a rich nigga or

0:31:24.480 --> 0:31:29.650
<v Speaker 3>a companion override your intelligence. Anytime a nigga is saying

0:31:29.790 --> 0:31:32.150
<v Speaker 3>anything about his bank account, what he has, if there's

0:31:32.190 --> 0:31:34.310
<v Speaker 3>a video involved, he's lying.

0:31:35.350 --> 0:31:38.270
<v Speaker 2>Anytime he's trying to show you proof, he is reaching.

0:31:39.020 --> 0:31:41.000
<v Speaker 3>Anytime a nigga ever mentions any kind of account I

0:31:41.020 --> 0:31:44.219
<v Speaker 3>didn't ask for, I don't give a fuck, nigga. That

0:31:44.280 --> 0:31:45.320
<v Speaker 3>means you're a lying ass nigga.

0:31:45.340 --> 0:31:46.580
<v Speaker 2>Remember that time? Remember that time you were trying to

0:31:46.600 --> 0:31:49.800
<v Speaker 2>get in my bank account? One time, once upon a time, okay?

0:31:49.840 --> 0:31:52.340
<v Speaker 2>And you know what? I'm your big scamming, unscamming sis.

0:31:52.400 --> 0:31:53.820
<v Speaker 3>If you think you might be getting scammed, you can

0:31:53.840 --> 0:31:56.020
<v Speaker 3>also come into my DMs, and I will tell you, bitch,

0:31:56.080 --> 0:31:58.120
<v Speaker 3>are you dumb? I will be the big sis and

0:31:58.140 --> 0:31:59.060
<v Speaker 3>the friend to you to.

0:31:59.000 --> 0:32:01.860
<v Speaker 2>Say, bitch, are you dumb? Because apparently bitches are dumb.

0:32:02.300 --> 0:32:04.620
<v Speaker 3>One time, Erica was dating a scammer, and she goes,

0:32:04.680 --> 0:32:06.300
<v Speaker 3>he got a new job, and he showed me the

0:32:06.320 --> 0:32:09.980
<v Speaker 3>job offer. I said, Erica, did he pull up the

0:32:10.080 --> 0:32:10.860
<v Speaker 3>email and show you?

0:32:10.940 --> 0:32:14.690
<v Speaker 2>She said, yeah. I said, niggas don't do that. She's like,

0:32:14.700 --> 0:32:15.830
<v Speaker 2>what do you mean? I said, did it say how

0:32:15.870 --> 0:32:18.100
<v Speaker 2>much he was making, what the offer was for? She said, Yeah,

0:32:18.160 --> 0:32:20.980
<v Speaker 2>I said, he's lying. Do you remember this? I said,

0:32:21.070 --> 0:32:22.750
<v Speaker 2>when in the world has anyone ever had to show

0:32:22.830 --> 0:32:25.030
<v Speaker 2>proof of email to show I got a job?

0:32:26.310 --> 0:32:29.030
<v Speaker 3>If someone is showing you proof that they're going beyond

0:32:29.050 --> 0:32:31.090
<v Speaker 3>and above to tell you what they have, they are

0:32:31.170 --> 0:32:31.969
<v Speaker 3>fucking lying.

0:32:32.330 --> 0:32:34.810
<v Speaker 2>Well, he was definitely a scammer. There are people that

0:32:34.830 --> 0:32:37.120
<v Speaker 2>get job offer emails, and they do.

0:32:37.460 --> 0:32:39.340
<v Speaker 3>Of course, but do they show the bitch they're dating?

0:32:39.380 --> 0:32:41.340
<v Speaker 3>I mean, only if the bitch they're dating is like,

0:32:41.440 --> 0:32:42.900
<v Speaker 3>why don't you have a job, which I was.

0:32:42.920 --> 0:32:44.480
<v Speaker 2>I was like, when are you going to work? No, no.

0:32:44.580 --> 0:32:47.050
<v Speaker 3>That's actually if you've been pressing him about work, and

0:32:47.070 --> 0:32:47.850
<v Speaker 3>then he shows you the offer.

0:32:47.870 --> 0:32:49.370
<v Speaker 2>Remember he told me that I made him go broke

0:32:49.450 --> 0:32:52.500
<v Speaker 2>because he was paying for my personal trainer that I bought? No,

0:32:52.900 --> 0:32:54.580
<v Speaker 2>he was paying for your app that you guys are

0:32:54.600 --> 0:32:56.120
<v Speaker 2>going to open. No, no.

0:32:56.660 --> 0:32:57.980
<v Speaker 3>It was that, but it was more so because... And

0:32:58.000 --> 0:33:00.060
<v Speaker 3>I was like, well, what did he invest in? What

0:33:00.080 --> 0:33:02.900
<v Speaker 3>was the investment of the app? I thought he was

0:33:02.960 --> 0:33:03.540
<v Speaker 3>making the app.

0:33:04.200 --> 0:33:05.280
<v Speaker 2>Bitch, please, you guys.

0:33:05.460 --> 0:33:07.959
<v Speaker 3>I am a scam reader, and if you think you

0:33:08.010 --> 0:33:11.110
<v Speaker 3>might be getting scammed, I will take it upon myself

0:33:11.130 --> 0:33:13.530
<v Speaker 3>to do some pro bono work and let you know immediately.

0:33:13.570 --> 0:33:15.270
<v Speaker 3>Just send me over his page, and I will be

0:33:15.290 --> 0:33:16.710
<v Speaker 3>the first to tell you, fuck no, bitch.

0:33:16.830 --> 0:33:20.290
<v Speaker 2>If you have to send Mila anything, then you are

0:33:20.330 --> 0:33:23.610
<v Speaker 2>getting scammed. How about that? That's the litmus test. If

0:33:23.690 --> 0:33:26.590
<v Speaker 2>you are concerned, you're scamming.

0:33:26.630 --> 0:33:30.850
<v Speaker 3>I'm taking 10 pro bono cases right now for potential

0:33:30.890 --> 0:33:33.350
<v Speaker 3>scammer niggas. And if you think you might potentially be

0:33:33.370 --> 0:33:35.450
<v Speaker 3>getting scammed, just come up to my DMs and put

0:33:35.490 --> 0:33:37.160
<v Speaker 3>it in my files, and I'll get back to you

0:33:37.200 --> 0:33:40.020
<v Speaker 3>in two to four business days, probably two hours, because

0:33:40.100 --> 0:33:41.240
<v Speaker 3>I'll know immediately, okay?

0:33:41.280 --> 0:33:44.680
<v Speaker 2>Well, his last victim, she said that they had been

0:33:44.720 --> 0:33:47.000
<v Speaker 2>staying in an Airbnb, and she went to go run

0:33:47.020 --> 0:33:49.219
<v Speaker 2>some errands, and within that time frame, that's when the

0:33:49.280 --> 0:33:52.810
<v Speaker 2>FBI came and arrested him. And that she had given

0:33:52.830 --> 0:33:56.600
<v Speaker 2>him up to $ 11, 000, but that before she had given

0:33:56.640 --> 0:34:00.260
<v Speaker 2>him that money, she had witnessed him spending hundreds and

0:34:00.320 --> 0:34:04.100
<v Speaker 2>thousands of dollars. I don't care. Got her a Corvette

0:34:04.120 --> 0:34:08.080
<v Speaker 2>to be driving around, was spending like it was nothing. So,

0:34:08.969 --> 0:34:11.270
<v Speaker 2>you know, I could see how if you see a

0:34:11.290 --> 0:34:14.690
<v Speaker 2>nigga's actually spending money, how you could be like, oh,

0:34:14.730 --> 0:34:17.650
<v Speaker 2>he has money. Like, I'm safe.

0:34:17.770 --> 0:34:17.890
<v Speaker 3>No.

0:34:17.910 --> 0:34:20.109
<v Speaker 2>A rich nigga will never ask you for money.

0:34:20.750 --> 0:34:20.890
<v Speaker 3>Ever.

0:34:21.690 --> 0:34:24.770
<v Speaker 2>A rich nigga will never ask your ass for some money.

0:34:25.130 --> 0:34:27.029
<v Speaker 2>And if he does, you're going to be like, I

0:34:27.070 --> 0:34:29.259
<v Speaker 2>thought you were rich. Well, he was the way he was.

0:34:29.280 --> 0:34:33.700
<v Speaker 2>He wasn't asking them for money. He was basically propositioning

0:34:33.739 --> 0:34:37.319
<v Speaker 2>them and letting them know that if they gave him money,

0:34:37.380 --> 0:34:39.420
<v Speaker 2>he could reinvest it for them so that they could

0:34:39.460 --> 0:34:41.420
<v Speaker 2>have money. He was basically trying to say he was

0:34:41.440 --> 0:34:43.080
<v Speaker 2>going to take care of them and make sure that

0:34:43.140 --> 0:34:44.070
<v Speaker 2>they could get money like him.

0:34:44.080 --> 0:34:46.589
<v Speaker 3>This is why he wasn't targeting black women. Because black

0:34:46.620 --> 0:34:48.430
<v Speaker 3>girls are not about to co-sign.

0:34:48.850 --> 0:34:49.530
<v Speaker 2>I hope not anyway.

0:34:49.570 --> 0:34:53.400
<v Speaker 3>Not in 2026. Nobody's doing that. Actually, fuck no.

0:34:53.440 --> 0:34:55.719
<v Speaker 2>I've had plenty. I lived in Atlanta, okay? Niggas have

0:34:55.739 --> 0:34:57.780
<v Speaker 2>tried to scam me. No, nigga.

0:34:57.880 --> 0:35:00.280
<v Speaker 3>Even at 19, I was like, no. You cannot have

0:35:00.340 --> 0:35:02.549
<v Speaker 3>my social so I can get you.

0:35:02.570 --> 0:35:06.610
<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, no. Fuck no. My scammer at Bay

0:35:06.710 --> 0:35:09.049
<v Speaker 2>wanted me to get, remember he was like, because I

0:35:09.070 --> 0:35:11.069
<v Speaker 2>was complaining to him about money, and he was like,

0:35:11.110 --> 0:35:12.569
<v Speaker 2>if you just give me access to your bank accounts

0:35:12.610 --> 0:35:15.399
<v Speaker 2>and I can see how you're spending... I can help

0:35:15.469 --> 0:35:17.870
<v Speaker 2>you with your spending. That's when I intervened and I

0:35:17.910 --> 0:35:19.649
<v Speaker 2>said Erica. No, you didn't have to intervene. I said no.

0:35:19.969 --> 0:35:22.750
<v Speaker 2>I said Erica. Don't act like I'm a dumb bitch, bitch.

0:35:22.969 --> 0:35:24.750
<v Speaker 2>I did not. Oh, you think I'm a dumb bitch?

0:35:24.910 --> 0:35:26.549
<v Speaker 3>I'm not saying you're a dumb bitch. I said that

0:35:26.570 --> 0:35:29.390
<v Speaker 3>was a dumb bitch chapter. And we've all had dumb

0:35:29.410 --> 0:35:32.280
<v Speaker 3>bitch chapters. In that case.

0:35:32.800 --> 0:35:35.799
<v Speaker 2>But in that particular case, I didn't need you to

0:35:35.840 --> 0:35:37.700
<v Speaker 2>tell me not to let this man in my bank account.

0:35:37.960 --> 0:35:39.510
<v Speaker 2>I was like, you didn't show him, did you? You're like, no.

0:35:39.520 --> 0:35:40.419
<v Speaker 2>I was like, okay, thank God.

0:35:40.540 --> 0:35:41.799
<v Speaker 3>But I had to tell you that he was lying

0:35:41.820 --> 0:35:47.480
<v Speaker 3>about that job offer. Anyway, my biggest concern when that

0:35:47.560 --> 0:35:50.620
<v Speaker 3>story came out, I was like, where is he at?

0:35:50.800 --> 0:35:51.890
<v Speaker 3>Because I feel like.

0:35:52.469 --> 0:35:54.090
<v Speaker 2>In jail. I mean, thankfully.

0:35:54.590 --> 0:35:56.730
<v Speaker 3>But had he not been in jail, people who go

0:35:56.770 --> 0:35:59.430
<v Speaker 3>to that extent to lie, people who go to that

0:35:59.489 --> 0:36:01.190
<v Speaker 3>extent to lie, I feel like they could be a

0:36:01.210 --> 0:36:03.190
<v Speaker 3>harm to themselves once they get found out.

0:36:04.010 --> 0:36:05.390
<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean? Like once someone's like he's

0:36:05.410 --> 0:36:06.610
<v Speaker 2>going to hurt himself. Yeah.

0:36:06.670 --> 0:36:08.819
<v Speaker 3>Like when you when you I think like a pathological

0:36:08.880 --> 0:36:11.560
<v Speaker 3>liar and that like to that degree, you start to

0:36:11.600 --> 0:36:12.739
<v Speaker 3>believe your own fucking lie.

0:36:12.760 --> 0:36:14.960
<v Speaker 2>No, I think that he is probably really enjoying all

0:36:14.980 --> 0:36:17.700
<v Speaker 2>the press he's getting. Yeah, probably that. Like he's like

0:36:17.739 --> 0:36:21.170
<v Speaker 2>he has celebrities talking about him. This is like he

0:36:21.190 --> 0:36:23.990
<v Speaker 2>couldn't have imagined. This is his wildest dreams come true.

0:36:24.030 --> 0:36:25.750
<v Speaker 2>Are you kidding? Even if it's bad press. And you

0:36:25.790 --> 0:36:27.989
<v Speaker 2>know what? You know what the fucking weird ass fucked

0:36:28.030 --> 0:36:29.790
<v Speaker 2>up part of all of the social media and all

0:36:29.830 --> 0:36:32.190
<v Speaker 2>of this is, is that he is probably going to

0:36:32.250 --> 0:36:34.250
<v Speaker 2>make money now. When he gets out of jail, people

0:36:34.270 --> 0:36:36.009
<v Speaker 2>are going to have him on his show. When he

0:36:36.030 --> 0:36:37.390
<v Speaker 2>gets out of jail, people are going to let him

0:36:37.430 --> 0:36:40.549
<v Speaker 2>write a book. Celebrities are going to prop him up

0:36:40.610 --> 0:36:43.130
<v Speaker 2>in some weird, funny, stupid way where he's actually going

0:36:43.150 --> 0:36:45.490
<v Speaker 2>to make some money. Guaranteed.

0:36:46.190 --> 0:36:50.140
<v Speaker 3>You know, if the bitches let up on 1.2, shit,

0:36:50.180 --> 0:36:51.020
<v Speaker 3>I can't even be mad at it.

0:36:51.060 --> 0:36:52.560
<v Speaker 2>The Nick is nuts. But you know what?

0:36:53.420 --> 0:36:58.339
<v Speaker 3>I believe that social media has caused a whole other

0:36:58.460 --> 0:37:01.720
<v Speaker 3>set of mental illnesses and like this need for attention.

0:37:01.760 --> 0:37:04.000
<v Speaker 2>Cause there's another bitch who lied about like a Duke degree.

0:37:04.040 --> 0:37:06.620
<v Speaker 2>There's another nigga. That was, that was weird and crazy.

0:37:06.700 --> 0:37:08.040
<v Speaker 2>And like a photo shoot.

0:37:08.080 --> 0:37:10.000
<v Speaker 3>There's another nigga who also is pretending to be on

0:37:10.040 --> 0:37:13.589
<v Speaker 3>a football team, making, going to charity events. And my

0:37:13.610 --> 0:37:16.350
<v Speaker 3>whole thing is this is, I blame social media and

0:37:16.390 --> 0:37:19.890
<v Speaker 3>I blame reality TV because they, and then, yeah, it's just,

0:37:19.950 --> 0:37:24.020
<v Speaker 3>it's caused social media psychosis and I'm genuinely concerned for

0:37:24.200 --> 0:37:24.820
<v Speaker 3>the population.

0:37:26.030 --> 0:37:28.730
<v Speaker 2>Because people are thriving off of attention.

0:37:28.850 --> 0:37:31.190
<v Speaker 3>Even the fucking doctor that's not a doctor that refuses

0:37:31.530 --> 0:37:33.350
<v Speaker 3>to say, I'm just not a doctor. And then instead

0:37:33.390 --> 0:37:35.650
<v Speaker 3>she wears a chain that says doc has a car.

0:37:36.090 --> 0:37:40.260
<v Speaker 3>The seats headboards say doc. Like, bitch, that's a little insane. Again,

0:37:40.400 --> 0:37:42.580
<v Speaker 3>when you have to prove by putting it on your

0:37:42.620 --> 0:37:44.940
<v Speaker 3>chain and on your car and on your fucking license

0:37:44.980 --> 0:37:47.020
<v Speaker 3>plate that you are a doctor, but in fact you

0:37:47.040 --> 0:37:49.720
<v Speaker 3>do not hold a law degree, something is deeply wrong.

0:37:50.580 --> 0:37:52.520
<v Speaker 3>You are going beyond and above to prove something that

0:37:52.560 --> 0:37:55.450
<v Speaker 3>does not exist. You are insane and might need medicine.

0:37:57.200 --> 0:37:57.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:37:58.320 --> 0:37:59.920
<v Speaker 3>And I wasn't going to talk about her because she's

0:37:59.940 --> 0:38:02.779
<v Speaker 3>a black woman, so bless her heart, but this is

0:38:02.820 --> 0:38:03.820
<v Speaker 3>an urgent emergency.

0:38:03.840 --> 0:38:05.239
<v Speaker 2>And we also asked her to come on our show,

0:38:05.260 --> 0:38:07.980
<v Speaker 2>so before you come try to prove, show the receipts

0:38:08.800 --> 0:38:10.520
<v Speaker 2>that we try to ask you to come on our show, bitch.

0:38:10.640 --> 0:38:12.360
<v Speaker 3>We ask everybody to come on our show because we

0:38:12.380 --> 0:38:14.800
<v Speaker 3>like to talk. And also, I thought you were a doctor, bitch.

0:38:15.050 --> 0:38:17.370
<v Speaker 2>The fuck? I thought the bitch was a doctor. I

0:38:17.450 --> 0:38:20.049
<v Speaker 2>still have her because I want to talk about how

0:38:20.070 --> 0:38:20.649
<v Speaker 2>we got here.

0:38:21.910 --> 0:38:25.730
<v Speaker 3>But, you know, everybody, you know, just for a PSA announcement,

0:38:26.480 --> 0:38:30.000
<v Speaker 3>Because you played Pop Warner football, you are not drafted.

0:38:30.400 --> 0:38:33.080
<v Speaker 3>Because you went to the School of Phoenix and you

0:38:33.100 --> 0:38:37.450
<v Speaker 3>got a certificate or an honorary degree from fucking Herbalife,

0:38:37.710 --> 0:38:41.170
<v Speaker 3>you are not a fucking master's holder or a fucking doctor.

0:38:41.290 --> 0:38:50.200
<v Speaker 2>It does not count, bitch. Period. Anyway. Next in the news.

0:38:50.930 --> 0:38:54.930
<v Speaker 2>Next in the news. Of niggas. No, this is not niggas. Oh, okay.

0:38:54.950 --> 0:38:56.450
<v Speaker 2>So we're going to skip over that one. Well, we

0:38:56.469 --> 0:38:57.410
<v Speaker 2>can go to that one. You want to go to

0:38:57.430 --> 0:38:58.910
<v Speaker 2>that one and end on? Okay.

0:38:59.250 --> 0:39:03.430
<v Speaker 3>Next, the news of niggas and red flags is yada-da-da-da awakening.

0:39:03.850 --> 0:39:09.779
<v Speaker 2>Is it just yada awakening? Yada-da-da-da-da. Yada-da-da-da. Yada-da-da-da. Yada-da-da-da. You're

0:39:09.800 --> 0:39:12.049
<v Speaker 2>doing a lot of talking. And short niggas be doing

0:39:12.070 --> 0:39:13.820
<v Speaker 2>a lot of talking. You got to talk them way

0:39:13.930 --> 0:39:16.820
<v Speaker 2>to height. They do. Oh, my God. I saw a

0:39:16.840 --> 0:39:19.040
<v Speaker 2>video of him actually like before he posted it. It

0:39:19.060 --> 0:39:20.660
<v Speaker 2>was like before he became a doctor and he was

0:39:20.680 --> 0:39:23.860
<v Speaker 2>like at the club. Is he a doctor? Or not

0:39:23.880 --> 0:39:26.460
<v Speaker 2>a doctor, whatever. Doesn't he call himself a doctor? I

0:39:26.780 --> 0:39:28.070
<v Speaker 2>don't know. I feel like all these niggas call themselves

0:39:28.110 --> 0:39:31.280
<v Speaker 2>doctors at this point. Before he became the awakening yada

0:39:31.940 --> 0:39:34.540
<v Speaker 2>he posted a photo or video of him like out

0:39:34.560 --> 0:39:36.090
<v Speaker 2>with his boys with the club and he was like

0:39:36.640 --> 0:39:38.489
<v Speaker 2>his friends were like crowding over him he was like

0:39:38.510 --> 0:39:41.070
<v Speaker 2>just a little tiny little baby and he had his

0:39:41.110 --> 0:39:42.790
<v Speaker 2>little watch and he was like showing it to the

0:39:42.830 --> 0:39:46.920
<v Speaker 2>camera and i was like this is a lame ass

0:39:47.880 --> 0:39:49.320
<v Speaker 2>if you couldn't look.

0:39:49.160 --> 0:39:53.290
<v Speaker 4>At this nigga right here and see that this nigga

0:39:53.450 --> 0:39:56.230
<v Speaker 4>is a lame and that he had to put on

0:39:56.270 --> 0:40:00.150
<v Speaker 4>this fucking whatever the fuck outfit and fucking put these

0:40:00.190 --> 0:40:03.890
<v Speaker 4>little stupid ass glasses on and start talking fake smart

0:40:04.390 --> 0:40:07.220
<v Speaker 4>to know that this is he was scamming then he's

0:40:07.239 --> 0:40:09.880
<v Speaker 4>scamming now so if.

0:40:09.840 --> 0:40:12.540
<v Speaker 2>You are not privy to who Yada Awakening is he

0:40:12.820 --> 0:40:19.580
<v Speaker 2>is um I guess a holistic man who panders to women,

0:40:20.480 --> 0:40:24.339
<v Speaker 2>specifically around how men need to have a certain amount

0:40:24.380 --> 0:40:27.360
<v Speaker 2>of money before they even consider dating you. How if

0:40:27.460 --> 0:40:30.700
<v Speaker 2>you are having a child with a woman, how you

0:40:30.719 --> 0:40:31.800
<v Speaker 2>need to be paying her.

0:40:31.800 --> 0:40:34.810
<v Speaker 3>$ 150, 000 per pregnancy per child. You need to be paying

0:40:34.850 --> 0:40:36.670
<v Speaker 3>her a salary for your children.

0:40:36.690 --> 0:40:40.230
<v Speaker 2>How you should treat women. And he has a product.

0:40:40.250 --> 0:40:42.430
<v Speaker 2>I don't know what it's called. The Adam and Eve

0:40:42.489 --> 0:40:44.390
<v Speaker 2>or some shit like that. What the fuck is in it?

0:40:45.880 --> 0:40:50.049
<v Speaker 2>Sea moss and apple cider vinegar, bitch. I don't know. Um,

0:40:50.700 --> 0:40:53.230
<v Speaker 2>but he's just all, he's like been about like holistic

0:40:53.270 --> 0:40:57.480
<v Speaker 2>health and veganism and what you, he's like a, like a,

0:40:57.530 --> 0:41:00.390
<v Speaker 2>like a luxury vegan. He's birthed all his babies in

0:41:00.410 --> 0:41:05.069
<v Speaker 2>the water. And you know, he, he's, he's very much, um,

0:41:05.150 --> 0:41:09.030
<v Speaker 2>a proponent for, um, women and being in their soft

0:41:09.050 --> 0:41:12.910
<v Speaker 2>and their feminine and being goddesses and that like, They

0:41:13.070 --> 0:41:15.610
<v Speaker 2>are meant to be treated with the utmost respect and

0:41:15.630 --> 0:41:18.910
<v Speaker 2>utmost high, which obviously, yes. So because of that, most

0:41:18.930 --> 0:41:23.390
<v Speaker 2>of his audience are women and men, men either hate him.

0:41:23.910 --> 0:41:25.870
<v Speaker 2>I think most men hate him. I think men like

0:41:25.890 --> 0:41:27.610
<v Speaker 2>when all this shit happened, they were like, couldn't have

0:41:27.640 --> 0:41:29.859
<v Speaker 2>been happier. Kind of like, I can't wait for this

0:41:29.900 --> 0:41:34.700
<v Speaker 2>other bitch to fall from fame. But because I think

0:41:34.739 --> 0:41:37.080
<v Speaker 2>a lot of men don't treat their women like how

0:41:37.140 --> 0:41:39.339
<v Speaker 2>he says, like they're very triggered by all the things

0:41:39.360 --> 0:41:44.260
<v Speaker 2>that he says. Anyway, come to find out, his wife, Aja,

0:41:44.460 --> 0:41:50.020
<v Speaker 2>Asia Awakening, who we've seen prance through the gardens with

0:41:50.060 --> 0:41:53.029
<v Speaker 2>her babies, not really saying many words. Yeah, I don't

0:41:53.050 --> 0:41:54.589
<v Speaker 2>think I really started really hearing her talk until recently.

0:41:54.610 --> 0:41:56.410
<v Speaker 2>I didn't even know what she sounded like until recently.

0:41:56.790 --> 0:42:01.250
<v Speaker 2>Not really saying many words, like full-on vegetable fruit spreads

0:42:01.290 --> 0:42:05.910
<v Speaker 2>in their kitchen, taking bubble baths. Just being served and

0:42:05.950 --> 0:42:08.600
<v Speaker 2>doted on by her. Super soft life. By him. If

0:42:08.640 --> 0:42:12.560
<v Speaker 2>there was a representative for black soft life, it's this bitch.

0:42:13.580 --> 0:42:17.310
<v Speaker 2>And come to find out, he's been beating her ass

0:42:17.330 --> 0:42:22.310
<v Speaker 2>for eight years. Trigger warning. He's been beating her ass

0:42:22.350 --> 0:42:24.650
<v Speaker 2>for eight years. Usually it goes first. I know.

0:42:26.760 --> 0:42:31.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, again, anytime someone is going hard about what they do,

0:42:31.880 --> 0:42:35.070
<v Speaker 3>it's probably a lie. If you have to like sugar,

0:42:35.090 --> 0:42:37.840
<v Speaker 3>like add on three layers of the same, who I,

0:42:38.190 --> 0:42:40.850
<v Speaker 3>I pay this, I got this money, especially short niggas.

0:42:41.230 --> 0:42:43.090
<v Speaker 3>And this is not like a generalization.

0:42:43.110 --> 0:42:44.330
<v Speaker 2>It is, but like.

0:42:44.290 --> 0:42:46.750
<v Speaker 3>They be having to compensate. They'd be like feeling like

0:42:46.770 --> 0:42:49.219
<v Speaker 3>they have to compensate. And short niggas also don't feel

0:42:49.239 --> 0:42:52.160
<v Speaker 3>like they have the power because just socially the society

0:42:52.200 --> 0:42:53.040
<v Speaker 3>shits on short niggas.

0:42:53.360 --> 0:42:55.520
<v Speaker 2>So they'd be like pushing their power around with punches.

0:42:55.560 --> 0:42:58.160
<v Speaker 3>In my era of dumb bitchness, I found a little

0:42:58.180 --> 0:43:01.130
<v Speaker 3>short nigga who was trying to, punch around his power

0:43:01.310 --> 0:43:03.509
<v Speaker 3>but also what also made me like I didn't really

0:43:03.550 --> 0:43:06.229
<v Speaker 3>fuck with him even before the punch in the face

0:43:06.950 --> 0:43:15.500
<v Speaker 3>was the Muslimness short plus Muslim because there is a

0:43:15.580 --> 0:43:19.560
<v Speaker 3>level of patriarchy like the new school Muslims like lead

0:43:19.620 --> 0:43:22.060
<v Speaker 3>with and I could just tell he was pandering and

0:43:22.140 --> 0:43:24.140
<v Speaker 3>I when she came out with that punched in the

0:43:24.239 --> 0:43:28.960
<v Speaker 3>eye face I wasn't surprised at all unfortunately And bless

0:43:28.980 --> 0:43:32.239
<v Speaker 3>her heart, I don't fuck with domestic violence or any

0:43:32.300 --> 0:43:36.940
<v Speaker 3>nigga hitting a woman, period. But then, she had a

0:43:38.100 --> 0:43:46.009
<v Speaker 3>super beautifully produced suspense novella fucking reel that she has

0:43:46.110 --> 0:43:50.319
<v Speaker 3>so beautifully put together after to announce the breakup, which

0:43:50.380 --> 0:43:54.680
<v Speaker 3>makes me think, I understand having an internet problem. persona

0:43:54.840 --> 0:43:57.000
<v Speaker 3>and trying to like put your ducks in a row

0:43:57.120 --> 0:43:59.480
<v Speaker 3>after leaving a nigga and your whole persona was this

0:43:59.540 --> 0:44:05.750
<v Speaker 3>nigga it's just like I don't relate to inauthenticity I

0:44:05.850 --> 0:44:10.149
<v Speaker 3>don't relate to like like how do you say like

0:44:11.170 --> 0:44:15.339
<v Speaker 3>performative behavior my soul doesn't fuck with it so like

0:44:15.460 --> 0:44:17.860
<v Speaker 3>if you've been punched in the face and you're you

0:44:17.900 --> 0:44:20.980
<v Speaker 3>know now telling women I fucked up I was lying

0:44:21.080 --> 0:44:23.299
<v Speaker 3>I was covering for him That happens. Bitches tend to

0:44:23.340 --> 0:44:26.799
<v Speaker 3>do that because we're bitches. And we give grace and

0:44:26.820 --> 0:44:31.200
<v Speaker 3>we're forgiving. But when you then highly produce your pain

0:44:31.300 --> 0:44:33.560
<v Speaker 3>and put it in real form, it makes me question,

0:44:34.300 --> 0:44:35.060
<v Speaker 3>what are we doing here?

0:44:35.219 --> 0:44:37.980
<v Speaker 2>Well, the thing about, okay, yes, I agree with all

0:44:38.000 --> 0:44:42.640
<v Speaker 2>of it. But also, I don't feel like she knows

0:44:42.680 --> 0:44:44.860
<v Speaker 2>any better. I feel like this is all she knows.

0:44:45.160 --> 0:44:47.160
<v Speaker 2>Do you know what I mean? She's not eight. She's

0:44:47.200 --> 0:44:49.350
<v Speaker 2>not eight, but she's been in this relationship since she

0:44:49.390 --> 0:44:49.570
<v Speaker 2>was 23.

0:44:49.550 --> 0:44:49.620
<v Speaker 4>Wow.

0:44:51.050 --> 0:44:53.430
<v Speaker 2>Like she's abused. And I think she stole him from

0:44:53.469 --> 0:44:55.080
<v Speaker 2>his other wife. This is all she knows. All she

0:44:55.120 --> 0:44:57.299
<v Speaker 2>knows is a production. All she knows is like, how

0:44:57.340 --> 0:44:59.900
<v Speaker 2>do I monetize this next chapter now? I don't even know.

0:44:59.940 --> 0:45:02.280
<v Speaker 2>Like I, it's, I don't know the bitch I'm looking

0:45:02.300 --> 0:45:04.580
<v Speaker 2>at her, you know, stuff in her trying to heal

0:45:04.620 --> 0:45:07.200
<v Speaker 2>her inner child and all these things. But you're just

0:45:07.300 --> 0:45:10.950
<v Speaker 2>seeing a woman who's still traumatized, who doesn't know any better.

0:45:11.300 --> 0:45:12.640
<v Speaker 2>And it's, this is how she, this is the only

0:45:12.690 --> 0:45:14.290
<v Speaker 2>way she knows how to make money, make a real,

0:45:14.450 --> 0:45:15.430
<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean? It's the only way she

0:45:15.450 --> 0:45:18.089
<v Speaker 2>knows how to make money is, is probably through also manipulation.

0:45:18.110 --> 0:45:20.300
<v Speaker 2>Do you know what I mean? Like, she has learned

0:45:20.320 --> 0:45:23.140
<v Speaker 2>how to manipulate through this process as well, you know?

0:45:23.219 --> 0:45:26.510
<v Speaker 2>And so I'm sure we're going to see, she's a mother.

0:45:26.630 --> 0:45:28.450
<v Speaker 2>So I always say like, I really think that moms,

0:45:28.489 --> 0:45:31.730
<v Speaker 2>like we have this ability to kind of transcend these,

0:45:31.969 --> 0:45:36.779
<v Speaker 2>these relationships and, and grow and evolve. But like, it's

0:45:36.820 --> 0:45:39.279
<v Speaker 2>going to take time because she's not only dealing with

0:45:39.700 --> 0:45:42.000
<v Speaker 2>the abuse that she's taken on for all these years,

0:45:42.460 --> 0:45:45.580
<v Speaker 2>the public scrutiny that we like, I can only imagine.

0:45:45.620 --> 0:45:48.660
<v Speaker 2>I mean, shit, we get attacked for like, twice.

0:45:48.400 --> 0:45:50.719
<v Speaker 3>A year and we're like oh my god you know

0:45:50.780 --> 0:45:53.120
<v Speaker 3>like nervous system's all fucked up you know there's a

0:45:53.140 --> 0:45:55.380
<v Speaker 3>level of public scrutiny that like i'm sure she's in

0:45:55.620 --> 0:45:58.970
<v Speaker 3>she's endured previous to this and is now also enduring

0:45:59.469 --> 0:46:01.430
<v Speaker 3>i mean look at us right now there's like there's

0:46:01.469 --> 0:46:03.850
<v Speaker 3>a survival element where like how is she going to

0:46:03.870 --> 0:46:06.790
<v Speaker 3>survive because apparently the bitch probably really wasn't getting that

0:46:06.790 --> 0:46:09.810
<v Speaker 3>100 250 per baby because like where is the money

0:46:09.870 --> 0:46:12.130
<v Speaker 3>now because now she's starting go funding to try to

0:46:12.410 --> 0:46:15.450
<v Speaker 3>you know take care of herself So there's a lot of,

0:46:15.469 --> 0:46:19.720
<v Speaker 3>it's nuanced. So I want to extend her grace.

0:46:20.200 --> 0:46:24.510
<v Speaker 2>And I hope that through this process, she's able to

0:46:25.250 --> 0:46:28.680
<v Speaker 2>go within and just kind of like, Maybe take a break.

0:46:28.719 --> 0:46:30.110
<v Speaker 2>Give me a little break from the socials.

0:46:30.120 --> 0:46:34.009
<v Speaker 3>Based on that beautiful high production novella with the, like,

0:46:34.150 --> 0:46:36.969
<v Speaker 3>the violins and the babies crying and the, like, the

0:46:37.010 --> 0:46:39.210
<v Speaker 3>police in the back. Like, it's, I don't know if

0:46:39.250 --> 0:46:40.469
<v Speaker 3>she's taking a moment to take a beat.

0:46:40.489 --> 0:46:42.370
<v Speaker 2>I mean, we'll see. We'll see how consistent she's able

0:46:42.410 --> 0:46:44.529
<v Speaker 2>to keep up when you're trying to raise, I don't

0:46:44.550 --> 0:46:45.860
<v Speaker 2>know how many kids she has, three, I think she

0:46:45.890 --> 0:46:47.319
<v Speaker 2>has three kids with him? Three or four, I don't

0:46:47.340 --> 0:46:48.440
<v Speaker 2>know how many. It seems like she had a lot.

0:46:49.060 --> 0:46:54.680
<v Speaker 2>But that and also survive, like, yeah. The thing of the, like,

0:46:54.700 --> 0:46:56.520
<v Speaker 2>the whole thing is, like, bitches, like, to the ladies,

0:46:56.640 --> 0:46:57.319
<v Speaker 2>don't get got.

0:46:58.110 --> 0:47:00.270
<v Speaker 3>Don't get, God, these niggas will got you if you

0:47:00.310 --> 0:47:00.509
<v Speaker 3>let them.

0:47:00.890 --> 0:47:03.770
<v Speaker 2>Well, especially niggas with money. Well, you don't be a

0:47:03.790 --> 0:47:06.210
<v Speaker 2>slave to the image. Niggas with money and who have

0:47:06.250 --> 0:47:07.370
<v Speaker 2>that mouthpiece on them.

0:47:08.510 --> 0:47:12.009
<v Speaker 3>You, because niggas have, this is another thing, especially with

0:47:12.030 --> 0:47:14.430
<v Speaker 3>short niggas, because the short kings be having big dicks, okay?

0:47:14.530 --> 0:47:15.150
<v Speaker 2>That's another thing.

0:47:15.170 --> 0:47:19.350
<v Speaker 3>That's another statistic that I'm pretty sure is true.

0:47:19.370 --> 0:47:21.730
<v Speaker 2>They beat bitches and they have big dicks. So short, Muslim,

0:47:22.070 --> 0:47:27.160
<v Speaker 2>big dick niggas, you gotta watch out. Watch them. Intently. Intently.

0:47:27.180 --> 0:47:28.390
<v Speaker 2>In fact, don't even watch him. Just walk away.

0:47:30.080 --> 0:47:33.080
<v Speaker 3>I was telling somebody, sometimes, okay, this is another thing. Women,

0:47:33.460 --> 0:47:37.560
<v Speaker 3>our pussies are our portals. So there are a certain

0:47:37.600 --> 0:47:41.840
<v Speaker 3>type of manipulative, scamming ass nigga that they have learned

0:47:41.880 --> 0:47:45.540
<v Speaker 3>their entire life to dickmatize bitches. If your gift is

0:47:45.580 --> 0:47:47.810
<v Speaker 3>your dick and you don't have much and you are

0:47:47.910 --> 0:47:52.390
<v Speaker 3>not a good person, you're going to pour into maximizing

0:47:52.410 --> 0:47:55.750
<v Speaker 3>your dick game and your mouth game because women will

0:47:56.510 --> 0:47:59.469
<v Speaker 3>eventually surrender to that. Especially if you're fucking raw. There's

0:47:59.510 --> 0:48:01.390
<v Speaker 3>a combination. Sometimes we're like, oh my god, we have

0:48:01.410 --> 0:48:02.290
<v Speaker 3>such intense chemistry.

0:48:02.710 --> 0:48:03.129
<v Speaker 2>Do you?

0:48:03.310 --> 0:48:06.390
<v Speaker 3>Or is he fucking digmatizing you, bitch? Because men have

0:48:06.450 --> 0:48:09.200
<v Speaker 3>learned that women love, and a lot of that portal

0:48:09.239 --> 0:48:12.480
<v Speaker 3>sometimes comes between your pussy. And I've been digmatized from

0:48:12.520 --> 0:48:15.279
<v Speaker 3>a fucking little short Muslim nigga, so I know. And

0:48:15.320 --> 0:48:18.779
<v Speaker 3>there's a level of manipulation that comes with sex and

0:48:18.820 --> 0:48:23.780
<v Speaker 3>with understanding your weaknesses. And this happens to even intelligent women.

0:48:23.820 --> 0:48:25.410
<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm saying. Like you said, everybody.

0:48:26.040 --> 0:48:28.259
<v Speaker 3>goes through dumb bitch phases, but it's up to you

0:48:28.320 --> 0:48:30.040
<v Speaker 3>to like, how long is this shit going to last?

0:48:30.440 --> 0:48:32.049
<v Speaker 3>How many times are you going to get got by

0:48:32.070 --> 0:48:35.750
<v Speaker 3>the same prototype of nigga? And like, you need to

0:48:38.469 --> 0:48:41.290
<v Speaker 3>get smarter, not dumber. As you get older, and hopefully

0:48:41.330 --> 0:48:44.250
<v Speaker 3>if you're catching this show at the young tender age

0:48:44.290 --> 0:48:47.110
<v Speaker 3>of 18 or 19 or 20 or 22, listen to

0:48:47.130 --> 0:48:49.109
<v Speaker 3>what your big sisters are telling you and do not

0:48:49.530 --> 0:48:53.700
<v Speaker 3>fuck around and get caught up with these niggas that lie,

0:48:54.880 --> 0:48:58.760
<v Speaker 3>and lead with money and lead with that dick because

0:48:58.920 --> 0:49:01.540
<v Speaker 3>they know they've been, they've been, they've been mastering that

0:49:01.580 --> 0:49:03.719
<v Speaker 3>dick for years so they can get your dumb ass.

0:49:04.180 --> 0:49:08.770
<v Speaker 2>So just be clear. You know, what I appreciate even

0:49:08.810 --> 0:49:13.410
<v Speaker 2>from our, our guest, uh, last week, Crystal was her

0:49:13.450 --> 0:49:22.930
<v Speaker 2>acknowledgement and her contributions to leading women astray. And so

0:49:22.950 --> 0:49:25.620
<v Speaker 2>I think when women who are coming out of circumstances

0:49:25.660 --> 0:49:30.219
<v Speaker 2>like this that have benefited from these circumstances that are

0:49:30.260 --> 0:49:35.040
<v Speaker 2>now not what they seem and are actually abusive, I

0:49:35.080 --> 0:49:39.840
<v Speaker 2>think it's important for women, especially who are leading other women,

0:49:40.430 --> 0:49:44.359
<v Speaker 2>to acknowledge when they have done wrong by women.

0:49:44.680 --> 0:49:47.739
<v Speaker 3>Or when they have the epiphany and they realize, okay,

0:49:47.980 --> 0:49:48.299
<v Speaker 3>I was.

0:49:48.260 --> 0:49:51.760
<v Speaker 2>Leading you astray. So I hope that at some point

0:49:51.940 --> 0:49:55.069
<v Speaker 2>she'll take responsibility for that in some capacity because there's

0:49:55.110 --> 0:49:59.170
<v Speaker 2>a lot of women that followed him and her because

0:49:59.230 --> 0:50:02.490
<v Speaker 2>of this fake life that she was putting on, right?

0:50:02.710 --> 0:50:04.630
<v Speaker 2>There's a lot of women that invested and there's a

0:50:04.650 --> 0:50:08.720
<v Speaker 2>lot of women that have probably dealt with men, hopefully

0:50:08.780 --> 0:50:11.569
<v Speaker 2>not because... From what it's from, at least from what

0:50:11.630 --> 0:50:14.860
<v Speaker 2>they presented, it wasn't abusive. Like he was he was

0:50:14.930 --> 0:50:17.160
<v Speaker 2>very much like if he if he wasn't who he

0:50:17.340 --> 0:50:19.460
<v Speaker 2>said he was, he would have been like a really

0:50:19.540 --> 0:50:23.000
<v Speaker 2>great person to be married to. Right. So hopefully she's

0:50:23.040 --> 0:50:26.040
<v Speaker 2>not guiding women to date abusive men and tolerate bullshit.

0:50:26.080 --> 0:50:30.739
<v Speaker 2>That really wasn't that wasn't the message. But like the persona.

0:50:30.780 --> 0:50:32.900
<v Speaker 3>But it's more so about the investment that people have

0:50:33.000 --> 0:50:35.049
<v Speaker 3>put into them. What do you mean by like the

0:50:35.070 --> 0:50:37.640
<v Speaker 3>financial investment with Adam and Eve?

0:50:37.680 --> 0:50:39.859
<v Speaker 2>The money they contributed, the money they contributed to just

0:50:39.890 --> 0:50:43.660
<v Speaker 2>like her, her, her workshops and just like, but that, that,

0:50:43.680 --> 0:50:46.100
<v Speaker 2>that weren't real. I mean, I'm sure like some of

0:50:46.120 --> 0:50:51.259
<v Speaker 2>the education around like how to be treated in your

0:50:51.300 --> 0:50:54.580
<v Speaker 2>partnership or how to maneuver through the world as in,

0:50:54.900 --> 0:50:56.900
<v Speaker 2>in soft life and goddess was real, but there's a

0:50:56.900 --> 0:51:00.520
<v Speaker 2>level of responsibility that I think like as women who

0:51:00.620 --> 0:51:03.200
<v Speaker 2>have propped men up in this way have to take.

0:51:03.760 --> 0:51:05.799
<v Speaker 3>That's the problem with social media is you get on here,

0:51:05.820 --> 0:51:09.580
<v Speaker 3>you get 100,000, 200,000, whatever fucking amount of followers, and

0:51:09.620 --> 0:51:12.319
<v Speaker 3>then you start believing the hype. One thing I'll say

0:51:12.390 --> 0:51:14.830
<v Speaker 3>about us, as many fucking years we've been on this

0:51:14.870 --> 0:51:17.510
<v Speaker 3>couch and we've been putting out reels, we have never,

0:51:18.469 --> 0:51:24.819
<v Speaker 3>ever claimed to be experts or degree holders or doctors or,

0:51:24.960 --> 0:51:28.480
<v Speaker 3>you know what I mean? Like the women of, you

0:51:28.500 --> 0:51:30.020
<v Speaker 3>know what I mean? Like we're going to tell you

0:51:30.100 --> 0:51:32.910
<v Speaker 3>about real nigganness. And that's the thing is, I need

0:51:32.930 --> 0:51:37.549
<v Speaker 3>you guys to have real nigga radar. Real niggas are

0:51:37.590 --> 0:51:40.239
<v Speaker 3>going extinct and it's a problem. And I see it

0:51:40.320 --> 0:51:42.219
<v Speaker 3>all the time. Where are all the real niggas at?

0:51:42.280 --> 0:51:43.480
<v Speaker 3>And I mean the bitches too.

0:51:44.010 --> 0:51:46.440
<v Speaker 2>Where are they at? Bitches who are like, I fucked up.

0:51:47.070 --> 0:51:49.390
<v Speaker 3>Bitches who are like, I was being a dumb bitch

0:51:49.430 --> 0:51:52.109
<v Speaker 3>that season. Bitches who are like, yeah, I fucked some

0:51:52.130 --> 0:51:54.450
<v Speaker 3>niggas and that was it and I've grown from it.

0:51:54.530 --> 0:51:56.830
<v Speaker 3>Where are the real niggas at? Because that is the

0:51:56.850 --> 0:52:00.430
<v Speaker 3>problem with the internet. It props up fake niggas and bitches.

0:52:00.800 --> 0:52:02.660
<v Speaker 3>And then a bunch of dumbass niggas and bitches go

0:52:02.719 --> 0:52:06.250
<v Speaker 3>follow it and purchase the fucking workshop. everybody's not an expert.

0:52:06.570 --> 0:52:09.030
<v Speaker 3>Everybody doesn't need to teach you a lesson. Bitch, fucking

0:52:09.230 --> 0:52:11.570
<v Speaker 3>live your life and learn like a regular ass motherfucker.

0:52:12.469 --> 0:52:14.589
<v Speaker 3>But like this world that we're living in, and that's

0:52:14.610 --> 0:52:16.870
<v Speaker 3>why sometimes I'm just like, you know, the internet's cool.

0:52:16.890 --> 0:52:19.090
<v Speaker 3>We get a lot of memes and tarot card readings

0:52:19.150 --> 0:52:23.259
<v Speaker 3>and information. But sometimes I get so completely overwhelmed and

0:52:23.300 --> 0:52:25.279
<v Speaker 3>like exhausted by it. Because if I see one more

0:52:25.320 --> 0:52:27.879
<v Speaker 3>fucking bitch say, I teach women to do this. I

0:52:28.380 --> 0:52:29.800
<v Speaker 3>am a woman who teaches women how to be a

0:52:29.840 --> 0:52:30.319
<v Speaker 3>soft bitch.

0:52:30.800 --> 0:52:33.690
<v Speaker 2>Bitch, shut the fuck up. Shut up.

0:52:34.820 --> 0:52:37.970
<v Speaker 3>Just like Tony Baker said, shut the hell up for

0:52:37.969 --> 0:52:38.510
<v Speaker 3>72 hours.

0:52:39.690 --> 0:52:40.710
<v Speaker 2>Like, come on.

0:52:40.730 --> 0:52:42.830
<v Speaker 3>Like, you guys have to be smarter than that. Like,

0:52:42.850 --> 0:52:44.790
<v Speaker 3>you have to be smart enough in your gut and

0:52:44.810 --> 0:52:47.049
<v Speaker 3>in your intuition. And that's another thing. Good moms has

0:52:47.070 --> 0:52:49.529
<v Speaker 3>always taught you, bitch, go into yourself. Go into your

0:52:49.570 --> 0:52:52.080
<v Speaker 3>own pussy, into your own intuition and figure out what

0:52:52.180 --> 0:52:54.520
<v Speaker 3>feels like some bullshit and what doesn't. And if you

0:52:54.560 --> 0:52:56.219
<v Speaker 3>can't feel it, it's because you're on the internet too much.

0:52:56.800 --> 0:52:58.979
<v Speaker 3>Go live your fucking life and touch some grass, bitch.

0:52:59.480 --> 0:53:04.709
<v Speaker 3>Because the real niggas are becoming extinct and I'm tired. Amen.

0:53:05.270 --> 0:53:11.589
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Now to our third business. Shall we watch it together? Sure.

0:53:11.610 --> 0:53:13.390
<v Speaker 2>Because I don't know if I've watched this one.

0:53:17.820 --> 0:53:20.379
<v Speaker 3>The fact that our group chat is consisting of so

0:53:20.420 --> 0:53:29.200
<v Speaker 3>much fuckery. Mount Rushmore thing really lived.

0:53:29.680 --> 0:53:40.480
<v Speaker 2>No, not this one. I love my blackness. And then

0:53:40.500 --> 0:53:42.400
<v Speaker 2>you were judging me for the things that I'm saying.

0:53:42.420 --> 0:53:45.500
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, no, no, no. I love my blackness. But

0:53:45.540 --> 0:53:48.410
<v Speaker 2>my blackness can look so many different ways.

0:53:48.450 --> 0:53:50.930
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but you also said that because Raven Baxter was

0:53:51.010 --> 0:53:54.590
<v Speaker 3>so fucking black that then people took that to be.

0:53:54.650 --> 0:53:57.529
<v Speaker 2>Was she black? She felt black as hell to me.

0:53:57.550 --> 0:53:59.370
<v Speaker 2>Give it to me, though. Why did she feel black

0:53:59.390 --> 0:53:59.560
<v Speaker 2>to you?

0:54:00.810 --> 0:54:02.790
<v Speaker 4>Because it was the first time that I seen like

0:54:02.830 --> 0:54:03.930
<v Speaker 4>this black family.

0:54:03.989 --> 0:54:06.810
<v Speaker 2>So you saw color. Yeah. Take away the color. Shut

0:54:06.850 --> 0:54:09.630
<v Speaker 2>the fuck, not her, wait, her wife said yes. And

0:54:09.710 --> 0:54:16.200
<v Speaker 2>hear the words. What color are they? Because let's be 100.

0:54:16.200 --> 0:54:20.500
<v Speaker 2>He looks confused. Who wrote Raven? White people? It was

0:54:20.540 --> 0:54:22.779
<v Speaker 2>a mix, but white men headed it. Yeah, it was

0:54:22.840 --> 0:54:25.979
<v Speaker 2>white men. But that's, I think that's why that show

0:54:26.080 --> 0:54:30.989
<v Speaker 2>and the good shows matter because it is. This is

0:54:31.010 --> 0:54:35.110
<v Speaker 2>why it's dangerous for black people to marry outside their race. Yeah,

0:54:35.450 --> 0:54:39.210
<v Speaker 2>I don't. This is why we got to stick with

0:54:39.230 --> 0:54:42.250
<v Speaker 2>the people. Stick with your people. Because what in the

0:54:42.290 --> 0:54:43.870
<v Speaker 2>motherfucking fuck are you talking about?

0:54:44.770 --> 0:54:45.270
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:54:45.710 --> 0:54:49.770
<v Speaker 2>Was she black? Bitch, what? Are you black? What? Did

0:54:49.810 --> 0:54:52.290
<v Speaker 2>you play her? Okay, I was confused.

0:54:52.370 --> 0:54:55.030
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I didn't watch a lot of whatever the fuck, whatever.

0:54:56.140 --> 0:54:59.500
<v Speaker 3>That's so Raven. But a witchy black girl on the

0:54:59.540 --> 0:55:04.089
<v Speaker 3>Disney Channel. obviously is going to speak to witchy black

0:55:04.130 --> 0:55:06.070
<v Speaker 3>girls all over the world because we don't have a

0:55:06.090 --> 0:55:08.640
<v Speaker 3>lot of shows. I mean, I couldn't really tell what

0:55:08.660 --> 0:55:10.580
<v Speaker 3>she was trying to say. Like maybe she's saying black

0:55:10.620 --> 0:55:13.420
<v Speaker 3>is not a monolith, which yes, it's true. And also,

0:55:14.239 --> 0:55:15.900
<v Speaker 3>you know, we, we come from Hollywood. A lot of

0:55:15.940 --> 0:55:18.680
<v Speaker 3>these shows, black shows that we grew up on had

0:55:18.719 --> 0:55:21.020
<v Speaker 3>a lot of white writers and a lot of white heads,

0:55:21.500 --> 0:55:23.180
<v Speaker 3>but a lot of them also had black writers and

0:55:23.200 --> 0:55:23.640
<v Speaker 3>black heads.

0:55:23.700 --> 0:55:31.089
<v Speaker 2>But he said, she said, was she black? He said

0:55:31.390 --> 0:55:36.210
<v Speaker 2>Raven was black as fuck. Was she black? I'm confused

0:55:36.230 --> 0:55:40.410
<v Speaker 2>by that. Perhaps she was saying, like, was the overall

0:55:40.570 --> 0:55:44.759
<v Speaker 2>show black because it wasn't just catered and marketed towards

0:55:44.820 --> 0:55:48.859
<v Speaker 2>black people? Obviously, the Raven-Symoné, like, That's So Raven was a, like,

0:55:49.260 --> 0:55:52.980
<v Speaker 2>everyone watched that show, whether you were black, brown, green,

0:55:53.020 --> 0:55:57.360
<v Speaker 2>I guess. But her debating whether or not, like, seeing

0:55:57.400 --> 0:56:01.190
<v Speaker 2>a black family on that show, and them even digging

0:56:01.370 --> 0:56:05.600
<v Speaker 2>into topics around blackness. Like, what are you talking about?

0:56:07.420 --> 0:56:08.800
<v Speaker 2>What are you talking about? What are you talking.

0:56:10.460 --> 0:56:10.660
<v Speaker 1>About?

0:56:11.420 --> 0:56:12.180
<v Speaker 2>I am confused.

0:56:12.219 --> 0:56:15.239
<v Speaker 3>And just for clarity, just so we're transparent, we also

0:56:15.360 --> 0:56:18.810
<v Speaker 3>asked them to come on the show. Because, yeah, but

0:56:18.930 --> 0:56:21.270
<v Speaker 3>then they responded and said only the wife could come.

0:56:21.310 --> 0:56:22.870
<v Speaker 3>And we were like, no, why the fuck would we

0:56:22.910 --> 0:56:23.230
<v Speaker 3>do that?

0:56:23.870 --> 0:56:24.109
<v Speaker 1>Why?

0:56:24.370 --> 0:56:27.450
<v Speaker 2>Why? Who? Why the fuck would we? No, Miranda can't

0:56:27.500 --> 0:56:32.310
<v Speaker 2>come by her fucking white self. No. No, Miranda. No,

0:56:32.350 --> 0:56:33.430
<v Speaker 2>you can't. No, thank you.

0:56:34.250 --> 0:56:35.630
<v Speaker 3>What the fuck are you guys talking about? You know

0:56:35.670 --> 0:56:37.910
<v Speaker 3>we want to raven. Or else what are we even

0:56:37.969 --> 0:56:38.510
<v Speaker 3>talking about?

0:56:40.340 --> 0:56:44.520
<v Speaker 2>Even also... Some of the things that irritate me about

0:56:44.700 --> 0:56:47.279
<v Speaker 2>just this interaction and just the interactions I've seen in

0:56:47.320 --> 0:56:50.610
<v Speaker 2>the past just with them together is the dismissiveness in

0:56:50.650 --> 0:56:56.130
<v Speaker 2>which her wife has around her career in ways. And granted, listen,

0:56:56.150 --> 0:56:59.410
<v Speaker 2>you're not you obviously are a white woman who lived

0:56:59.430 --> 0:57:01.590
<v Speaker 2>a very white life prior to deciding to marry a

0:57:01.660 --> 0:57:05.879
<v Speaker 2>black woman. And you're not necessarily beholden to that. You

0:57:05.920 --> 0:57:09.680
<v Speaker 2>must have watched all these things prior to, but it's

0:57:09.739 --> 0:57:13.020
<v Speaker 2>the smugness in which I've seen her talk about her career.

0:57:13.040 --> 0:57:16.960
<v Speaker 2>And also just like the need for her to, for,

0:57:17.180 --> 0:57:21.050
<v Speaker 2>for people to know, for her to, for, for her to, for,

0:57:21.690 --> 0:57:24.910
<v Speaker 2>people to know that she had money before Raven, like

0:57:24.950 --> 0:57:27.450
<v Speaker 2>that she doesn't need Raven. There's like this element of like,

0:57:28.550 --> 0:57:31.950
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. White excellence. I've never used that word.

0:57:31.990 --> 0:57:33.610
<v Speaker 2>I don't even know what that means. It's almost like

0:57:33.630 --> 0:57:37.190
<v Speaker 2>needing to put Raven in her place. Like needing her, like, okay,

0:57:37.250 --> 0:57:37.570
<v Speaker 2>sit down.

0:57:37.770 --> 0:57:41.160
<v Speaker 3>Oh, well, maybe correct, but people think like, oh, I'm

0:57:41.180 --> 0:57:42.860
<v Speaker 3>not marrying her for fame maybe.

0:57:42.880 --> 0:57:48.400
<v Speaker 2>It's just like a white elitism and it bothers me.

0:57:48.500 --> 0:57:50.640
<v Speaker 2>And I'm just like, bitch, just be proud of who

0:57:50.880 --> 0:57:54.100
<v Speaker 2>your wife is. You know, like, just learn to shut

0:57:54.120 --> 0:57:58.680
<v Speaker 2>the fuck up also. Like, I just, it just feels,

0:57:58.700 --> 0:58:05.230
<v Speaker 2>it feels interesting that these kind of topics are coming

0:58:05.290 --> 0:58:08.590
<v Speaker 2>to light now that she is married to this white woman.

0:58:08.610 --> 0:58:10.510
<v Speaker 2>And this is what I'm saying. Like, when you become,

0:58:10.810 --> 0:58:13.490
<v Speaker 2>when you're in the bed, when you're laying next to

0:58:13.550 --> 0:58:17.420
<v Speaker 2>someone who doesn't understand your culture, doesn't understand where you

0:58:17.480 --> 0:58:21.410
<v Speaker 2>came from. The history of having that culture, like, you

0:58:21.430 --> 0:58:26.710
<v Speaker 2>can so easily be influenced and like your blackness can

0:58:26.750 --> 0:58:30.270
<v Speaker 2>be negotiated apparently because of who you decide to love.

0:58:30.750 --> 0:58:32.270
<v Speaker 2>And that's why if you do decide to date out

0:58:32.290 --> 0:58:34.530
<v Speaker 2>your side, your race, like make sure that they respect

0:58:34.590 --> 0:58:37.510
<v Speaker 2>and understand where you come from and that they're not

0:58:37.700 --> 0:58:41.360
<v Speaker 2>questioning your experience. Because when you have to keep explaining

0:58:41.380 --> 0:58:43.580
<v Speaker 2>yourself and questioning your experience, and then, you know, you

0:58:43.600 --> 0:58:46.080
<v Speaker 2>see different things, you know, come up in the news

0:58:46.120 --> 0:58:50.920
<v Speaker 2>where stereotypes are present, then you start believing the hype. Yeah.

0:58:51.180 --> 0:58:54.380
<v Speaker 2>You know, and and that's a slippery slope on top

0:58:54.420 --> 0:58:57.240
<v Speaker 2>of the fact that you're a Disney girl and all

0:58:57.280 --> 0:58:59.600
<v Speaker 2>the trauma and all the bullshit that you've already had

0:58:59.640 --> 0:59:02.470
<v Speaker 2>to go through. And like dating a white woman only

0:59:02.650 --> 0:59:05.430
<v Speaker 2>adds or marrying a white woman only adds and validates

0:59:05.510 --> 0:59:07.390
<v Speaker 2>to those traumas. You know, so it's just.

0:59:07.490 --> 0:59:10.400
<v Speaker 3>And then there's always like there's always like this. we've

0:59:10.420 --> 0:59:12.300
<v Speaker 3>gotten so much hate on the internet because of my

0:59:12.340 --> 0:59:16.280
<v Speaker 3>interracial relationship shut the fuck up one of my biggest

0:59:16.460 --> 0:59:18.180
<v Speaker 3>pet peeves of all time and then I'll leave this

0:59:18.200 --> 0:59:21.650
<v Speaker 3>shit alone because I don't really give a fuck is

0:59:21.670 --> 0:59:26.070
<v Speaker 3>because we have another acquaintance who's married to someone outside

0:59:26.090 --> 0:59:28.150
<v Speaker 3>of her race and she one time was talking about

0:59:28.190 --> 0:59:32.360
<v Speaker 3>like the racism that they've experienced because she decided to marry.

0:59:32.420 --> 0:59:34.460
<v Speaker 2>A white person. And I had to argue her down like, bitch,

0:59:34.840 --> 0:59:37.640
<v Speaker 2>black people can't be racist. I don't give a fuck.

0:59:37.880 --> 0:59:40.080
<v Speaker 2>If you know the meaning of the word racism, it

0:59:40.120 --> 0:59:40.800
<v Speaker 2>does not exist.

0:59:40.900 --> 0:59:42.780
<v Speaker 3>Black people cannot be racist because we did not set

0:59:42.820 --> 0:59:44.730
<v Speaker 3>up the system in which we are at the bottom

0:59:44.750 --> 0:59:46.690
<v Speaker 3>of the totem pole. We don't benefit from it.

0:59:47.050 --> 0:59:47.890
<v Speaker 2>Can we be prejudiced?

0:59:48.070 --> 0:59:48.330
<v Speaker 4>Sure.

0:59:48.350 --> 0:59:49.050
<v Speaker 2>Can we be mean?

0:59:49.430 --> 0:59:49.650
<v Speaker 4>Sure.

0:59:49.670 --> 0:59:52.669
<v Speaker 2>Could there be bullying? Absolutely. But there's no such thing

0:59:52.770 --> 0:59:55.610
<v Speaker 2>as black people being racist. And I think.

0:59:56.350 --> 0:59:59.050
<v Speaker 3>as a black person, when you or if you decide

0:59:59.090 --> 1:00:02.709
<v Speaker 3>to marry outside of your race, it is a slippery slope.

1:00:02.810 --> 1:00:06.260
<v Speaker 3>And I think that there has to be such deep understanding.

1:00:06.300 --> 1:00:08.600
<v Speaker 2>Maybe a checklist. There has to be such a deep.

1:00:08.480 --> 1:00:10.980
<v Speaker 3>Understanding from your experience that you'll never, there has to

1:00:11.020 --> 1:00:13.080
<v Speaker 3>also be acknowledged that you'll never understand because you don't

1:00:13.420 --> 1:00:17.260
<v Speaker 3>wake up in my skin. But like, I don't know.

1:00:17.300 --> 1:00:20.160
<v Speaker 3>It's just not the season for it. We're not progressive

1:00:20.200 --> 1:00:22.460
<v Speaker 3>enough for it. People are not educated enough and people

1:00:22.540 --> 1:00:28.070
<v Speaker 3>are not like, humble enough to listen and hear. And like,

1:00:28.150 --> 1:00:30.550
<v Speaker 3>you see that in this case, but you know, to

1:00:30.590 --> 1:00:32.570
<v Speaker 3>each its own baby, you want to lick the pink

1:00:32.610 --> 1:00:34.090
<v Speaker 3>puss tonight? Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Hmm. Yeah. Well, anyway, that concludes our current events for

1:00:41.780 --> 1:00:44.240
<v Speaker 2>this week. If you have any current events that you

1:00:44.260 --> 1:00:46.940
<v Speaker 2>would like us to comment on, send them our way.

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<v Speaker 2>You can DM them to good moms, underscore bad choices,

1:00:50.580 --> 1:00:53.720
<v Speaker 2>or email them to info at good moms, bad choices.com.

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<v Speaker 2>we'll be happy to leave our social commentary there.

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<v Speaker 3>Because we're experts. We teach women how to be not

1:01:00.890 --> 1:01:01.430
<v Speaker 3>dumb bitches.

1:01:03.450 --> 1:01:07.280
<v Speaker 2>Amen. I'm adding that to my bio. Is there an

1:01:07.320 --> 1:01:10.240
<v Speaker 2>affirmation today? Oh, don't be a dumb bitch. I feel

1:01:10.260 --> 1:01:12.660
<v Speaker 2>like we've had that before. Oh, okay. That probably was me.

1:01:12.680 --> 1:01:13.880
<v Speaker 2>That's all I got.

1:01:13.980 --> 1:01:16.980
<v Speaker 3>Every week, all I got is this one affirmation, and it's, please,

1:01:17.000 --> 1:01:19.180
<v Speaker 3>for the love of God, stop being a dumb bitch.

1:01:20.030 --> 1:01:21.770
<v Speaker 2>Where are all the real niggas at? No, you're better

1:01:21.790 --> 1:01:22.650
<v Speaker 2>at the affirmations.

1:01:22.670 --> 1:01:25.990
<v Speaker 3>You know, I'm better at long, swill, swill.

1:01:26.150 --> 1:01:28.150
<v Speaker 2>I like that one. Where are all the real niggas at?

1:01:28.150 --> 1:01:29.870
<v Speaker 2>Where are all the real niggas at?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

1:01:31.510 --> 1:01:38.310
<v Speaker 2>Please don't go extinct. I wonder if Tarot has anything

1:01:38.330 --> 1:01:41.850
<v Speaker 2>about being a real nigga in the deck. Tarot cards.

1:01:41.870 --> 1:01:44.770
<v Speaker 2>Do you have any messages for where the real niggas

1:01:44.810 --> 1:02:14.580
<v Speaker 2>have gone? Where art thou, real niggas? Have all of

1:02:14.620 --> 1:02:19.390
<v Speaker 2>y'all died off? Are you hiding in plain sight? Are

1:02:19.410 --> 1:02:27.750
<v Speaker 2>you currently being birthed? I think you should choose since.

1:02:30.400 --> 1:02:32.720
<v Speaker 3>I feel so passionately about where the real niggas are at,

1:02:32.720 --> 1:02:34.180
<v Speaker 3>the dying species of real niggas.

1:02:36.720 --> 1:02:39.040
<v Speaker 2>You know, we got kind of hyped up with these last...

1:02:40.160 --> 1:02:40.980
<v Speaker 2>Social commentary.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's do a little me lemones before we get out

1:02:43.220 --> 1:02:43.600
<v Speaker 3>of here.

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<v Speaker 2>Deep inhale. The world's a crazy place. We're going to

1:02:47.510 --> 1:02:54.150
<v Speaker 2>exhale the bullshit. Because life is good anyway. I'm still

1:02:54.170 --> 1:02:55.010
<v Speaker 2>fine and so are you.

1:03:01.340 --> 1:03:01.700
<v Speaker 3>Damn.

1:03:02.320 --> 1:03:05.660
<v Speaker 2>Ten of wands. He's working hard. It does look like

1:03:05.680 --> 1:03:10.350
<v Speaker 2>he's working hard. Are you going to look it up?

1:03:10.370 --> 1:03:19.240
<v Speaker 2>You want me to? Ten of Wands. Here we go.

1:03:23.920 --> 1:03:27.520
<v Speaker 2>The Ten of Wands. Wait, why is it? Oh, wait.

1:03:29.540 --> 1:03:31.900
<v Speaker 2>And it's 111. Oh, I think because I wrote 19

1:03:31.900 --> 1:03:32.780
<v Speaker 2>of Wands. Ten of Wands.

1:03:32.820 --> 1:03:33.120
<v Speaker 3>Ten of Wands.

1:03:38.430 --> 1:03:44.820
<v Speaker 2>Burden, extra responsibility, hard work, completion. The Ten of Wands

1:03:44.860 --> 1:03:47.200
<v Speaker 2>notes that you are taking on an extra burden, a

1:03:47.240 --> 1:03:50.900
<v Speaker 2>heavier workload, or greater responsibility. Even though it is weighing

1:03:50.940 --> 1:03:53.040
<v Speaker 2>you down and making things tougher for you, understand it's

1:03:53.080 --> 1:03:55.220
<v Speaker 2>only temporary. So you are willing to put in the

1:03:55.280 --> 1:03:58.160
<v Speaker 2>hard work now to accomplish your goal and reap the

1:03:58.200 --> 1:04:01.600
<v Speaker 2>rewards later. Sometimes the Ten of Wands appears when you

1:04:01.640 --> 1:04:05.450
<v Speaker 2>are unconsciously taking on extra responsibility and finding yourself feeling

1:04:05.490 --> 1:04:08.520
<v Speaker 2>weighed down, exhausted, and burnt out. You may try to

1:04:08.560 --> 1:04:10.610
<v Speaker 2>do everything at once, even though you know it's adding

1:04:10.700 --> 1:04:13.570
<v Speaker 2>extra pressure to your daily life. The Ten of Wands

1:04:13.730 --> 1:04:16.430
<v Speaker 2>asks you to stop and examine your current lifestyle or work.

1:04:17.370 --> 1:04:21.690
<v Speaker 2>Assess which activities or tasks are urgent or important, particularly

1:04:21.750 --> 1:04:24.710
<v Speaker 2>concerning your broader goals. You may need to use various

1:04:24.770 --> 1:04:28.770
<v Speaker 2>time management or prioritization methods to determine where best to

1:04:28.810 --> 1:04:31.900
<v Speaker 2>spend your time and which tasks you can drop. Your

1:04:31.940 --> 1:04:34.960
<v Speaker 2>goal needs to be higher efficiency while also freeing yourself

1:04:35.040 --> 1:04:37.990
<v Speaker 2>for rest and relaxation when you need it. The good

1:04:38.050 --> 1:04:42.420
<v Speaker 2>news is that 10s in tarot represent the completion of

1:04:42.460 --> 1:04:45.220
<v Speaker 2>a cycle. And with the 10 of wands, the end

1:04:45.300 --> 1:04:47.980
<v Speaker 2>is in sight. You've been pushing yourself to your limits

1:04:48.120 --> 1:04:50.740
<v Speaker 2>and working very hard towards your goal. Now you're taking

1:04:50.780 --> 1:04:54.340
<v Speaker 2>those final steps on the path of realizing your dreams. Sure,

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<v Speaker 2>you might collapse in a heap of exhaustion because you

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<v Speaker 2>were a real nigga. But when you get there, it'll

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<v Speaker 2>all be worth it and well earned.

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<v Speaker 3>AKA, don't waste your time and energy on not real niggas.

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<v Speaker 3>beautiful the 10 to wands the gift of hard labor

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<v Speaker 3>is coming thank you guys for joining us on another

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<v Speaker 3>episode of the experts good moms bad choices show i

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<v Speaker 3>am your host jamila map and you can find me

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<v Speaker 3>on instagram at mila underscore map and i'm erica and.

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<v Speaker 2>You can find me at watch erica.

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<v Speaker 2>Amen. So you can make sure to go follow all

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<v Speaker 2>those things in this episode description. Click all the links.

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