WEBVTT - NATASHA BEDINGFIELD: Roll With Me

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<v Speaker 1>De Hello, my friend, and welcome back to another edition

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<v Speaker 1>of Love Someone, my podcast. I have had such a

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<v Speaker 1>great time this year doing these podcasts. I love talking

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<v Speaker 1>to people on the air, but when you hear a

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<v Speaker 1>call on my radio show, it's usually only two or

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<v Speaker 1>three minutes long, and sometimes people have a lot more

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<v Speaker 1>to share than we can cram into two or three minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>And so we decided to do these podcasts so that

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<v Speaker 1>I could talk to people in depth about things that matter.

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<v Speaker 2>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>There are some podcasts that are political in nature, some

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<v Speaker 1>all about sports, some about cars. There's some really amazing

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<v Speaker 1>podcast out there. I mean, anything you are interested in,

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<v Speaker 1>you can find a podcast about. But what we focus

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<v Speaker 1>on is talking to real people about ways to make

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<v Speaker 1>a real impact in the world. A lot of times

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<v Speaker 1>we wait for someone else to fix it. We wait

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<v Speaker 1>for the county to fix it, or the state to

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<v Speaker 1>fix it, or the government to fix it, or the

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<v Speaker 1>church to fix it. We wait for other people to

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<v Speaker 1>step in and fix huge problems climate change, pollution, animals

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<v Speaker 1>dying off and becoming extinct, human trafficking something we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about today. We're waiting for somebody to fix

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<v Speaker 1>these things. But in reality, we have to be the

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<v Speaker 1>change that we want to see in the world. We

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<v Speaker 1>have to be willing to step outside of our comfort

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<v Speaker 1>zone and make a difference, make a difference in our

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<v Speaker 1>corner of the world. A day in the studio with

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<v Speaker 1>me is a woman who has been doing that for decades.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard to believe, but Natasha Bettingfield has been singing

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<v Speaker 1>and speaking out against human trafficking for a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>decades now, which is really weird because she's so young,

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<v Speaker 1>and so beautiful and so so sassy. If you met her,

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<v Speaker 1>if you were to meet her, you would think she

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<v Speaker 1>was probably twenty twenty one years old. But she's been

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<v Speaker 1>around the block three times, maybe four. And today she's

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<v Speaker 1>going to spend some time talking about her new music,

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<v Speaker 1>talking about her baby, talking about her family, talking about

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<v Speaker 1>her brother who is a dear, dear friend, Daniel Bettingfield,

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<v Speaker 1>and talking about human trafficking. It's a bigger problem than

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<v Speaker 1>most people know. It's one of those dirty little secrets

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<v Speaker 1>we don't want to talk about. When people talk about slavery,

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<v Speaker 1>they talk about slavery.

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<v Speaker 3>In the past tense.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you know there are more people enslaved today than

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<v Speaker 1>at any other time in the history of our world.

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<v Speaker 1>Natasha is going to shed a little light on that.

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<v Speaker 1>But before we get started in this wonderful conversation, I

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<v Speaker 1>More, saving more doing with me in the studio is

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that I have known from a distance, for probably

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<v Speaker 1>twenty years eighteen years.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>I have seen pictures of you at a hospital bedside

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<v Speaker 1>when you were nurturing somebody back to health.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>But this is the first time I met you face

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<v Speaker 3>to face.

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<v Speaker 2>That's amazing because you are really great friends with my brother.

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<v Speaker 2>I Yeah, and he loves you.

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<v Speaker 3>I love your brother like my own child.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I truly he feels that the same with you.

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<v Speaker 1>When I met him, there was such an instant connection.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, for those of you, for those of

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<v Speaker 1>you listening to this broadcast, I'm talking with Natasha Battingfield.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, who's gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>You are just naturally beautiful. And we're going to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about your new music. You're going to talk about your

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<v Speaker 1>old music. We're going to talk about your new baby.

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<v Speaker 3>We're probably going to talk.

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<v Speaker 1>About your mom and her ministry and what you do

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<v Speaker 1>was stopping child trafficking and sex trafficking.

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<v Speaker 3>We're going to talk about all of.

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<v Speaker 2>That, right, and my brother, but we're gonna lead with

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<v Speaker 2>the brother like it's also a thing. Actually had two

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<v Speaker 2>hits before I did in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>Two amazing hits and amazing world tour. Daniel Beddingfield, who

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<v Speaker 1>is one of the most talented human beings I have

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<v Speaker 1>ever met.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, I mean, I like he like when you see

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<v Speaker 2>him on stage, he makes so much sense because on

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<v Speaker 2>stage he's just he is. On off stage, he's a

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<v Speaker 2>larger than life character.

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<v Speaker 1>He is he's But did you ever see Mozart Amadaeus

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<v Speaker 1>when they were saying, just take it's too busy, take

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<v Speaker 1>some of those notes out.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, I can't take notes out of a song

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<v Speaker 3>amazing that is created. I can't. I can't be less

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<v Speaker 3>I am. This song is is what it is. I think.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Daniels people, I know, white people love to

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<v Speaker 2>categorize and to contain, to label, to contain. It's impossible

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<v Speaker 2>to do that with him.

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<v Speaker 1>He's It's impossible to do it with anyone, but especially

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<v Speaker 1>with Daniel exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>And he was my older brother. That's what I grew

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<v Speaker 2>up with him, and I grew up just like learning

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<v Speaker 2>everything off him. He's very generous and he taught me

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<v Speaker 2>how to sing. And he was a staff from the

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<v Speaker 2>moment he was born.

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<v Speaker 1>And I knew you were going to be very famous, Natasha,

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<v Speaker 1>because when I met Daniel, he was a teenager. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>oh wow, he was not yet twenty and you were

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<v Speaker 1>a kid, and he was saying, he said to me,

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<v Speaker 1>if you think I'm talented, wait until you hear my

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<v Speaker 1>little sister.

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<v Speaker 2>Isn't that that's amazing?

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, yeah, but but you're in the spotlight

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<v Speaker 1>right now. He goes, I know, I know, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>but wait until you hear my little sister.

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<v Speaker 2>That's amazing. That's so beautiful to hear that. Because he

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<v Speaker 2>he like taught me everything I know. And he was

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<v Speaker 2>hard on me sometimes, like he like he was like

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<v Speaker 2>he had to high standards. Yeah, but that's why because

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<v Speaker 2>he saw me as he knew what I was capable love,

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<v Speaker 2>I think.

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<v Speaker 1>And was it hard like a dad to me? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he's I don't know if he's like, but he is.

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<v Speaker 1>He is a force to be reckoned with for sure. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's genius. And uh and I knew that I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to love you because just all the lovely things

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<v Speaker 1>he said. But he shared pictures of you with me

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<v Speaker 1>for years and he shared your mom with me.

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<v Speaker 2>That's so cool, isn't that?

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<v Speaker 3>So he did.

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<v Speaker 1>Daniel was very kind and when he saw the energy

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<v Speaker 1>level of my two young children, they were like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>five and six or something ridiculous younger than that.

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<v Speaker 3>They were, you know, in diapers or something.

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<v Speaker 1>When when we first met and he came to the house,

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<v Speaker 1>I have the house where my studio is now, and

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<v Speaker 1>I had a trampoline in the yard and he played

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<v Speaker 1>on that trampoline for hours with my children. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>he saw that my boys had some unique character traits.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, please call my mother's Please call my mother.

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<v Speaker 1>She's such a good counselor, and she's such an expert,

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<v Speaker 1>and she helped me to navigate and to avoid letting

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<v Speaker 1>the doctors put them on medicine all of his young life.

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<v Speaker 1>I never want allow the doctors had a sense to

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<v Speaker 1>put him because because of in part of your mom,

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<v Speaker 1>what your mom taught me, and she's sent me literature

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<v Speaker 1>and had me read books and learn about the you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the side effects of the medication to fix Adhd.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, I'm Adhd. I don't want to fixed.

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<v Speaker 1>It's what allows me to to juggle my life and

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<v Speaker 1>live my life.

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<v Speaker 3>So but your mother is lovely.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks, I think I did.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and now you're a mom.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a mom. And I waited a while like I

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<v Speaker 2>had like full already full career, like I have this

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<v Speaker 2>married for ten years and then I just had a baby,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's amazing. I don't know why I was waiting

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<v Speaker 2>so long.

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<v Speaker 1>So let me ask you this, Natasha Beddingfield, who's had

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<v Speaker 1>how many hits and great success and you're beautiful?

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<v Speaker 3>How much more full.

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<v Speaker 1>Is your heart, your life, your soul since becoming a mama.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's incredible, It's absolutely incredible. And I also

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<v Speaker 2>feel so much more in touch with people in general

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<v Speaker 2>because I know now what people go through and what

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<v Speaker 2>it takes. And my little son is such a joy.

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<v Speaker 3>So what's his name?

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<v Speaker 2>His name is Solomon, and he's almost two. Yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 2>going to be two in three months. And I mean, man,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't imagine, Like that's a hard thing. Like when

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<v Speaker 2>you open your heart to love, is that you can lose,

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<v Speaker 2>something can happen, Like you know, you can lie awake

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<v Speaker 2>thinking of the terrible things that can happen to your child.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't want to focus on that stuff, of course,

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<v Speaker 2>But like I feel like I never, really I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>want to love somebody that much? Is it terrible? Like

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<v Speaker 2>I would keep I kept my heart a bit closed

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<v Speaker 2>because I didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Want It's not terrible. It's true.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, why would we purposefully set ourselves up to

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<v Speaker 1>be crushed like that?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but that's love and that there's the thing is

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<v Speaker 2>you're not living life if you if you close down.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think I guess I was living a bit

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<v Speaker 2>closed down. So for me, now that I've opened up

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<v Speaker 2>to having this little being in my life who I

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<v Speaker 2>can't control, I can't predict. I can just love and

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<v Speaker 2>hear you love me. But I feel like there's a

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<v Speaker 2>new flow in my life. It's it's really interesting, like

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<v Speaker 2>there's just this energy.

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<v Speaker 3>So tell me how that translates in your music, because

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<v Speaker 3>now you've got a new song out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So I signed a record deal, I got offered

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<v Speaker 2>a deal, I left my label, and then I got

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<v Speaker 2>offered this amazing indie deal by Linda Perry, and we

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<v Speaker 2>wrote She's Incredible, And this album just came together in such.

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<v Speaker 3>A talk about genius.

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<v Speaker 2>Just felt like, yeah, such a genius too. And the

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<v Speaker 2>flow was just not try hard, and you as you

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<v Speaker 2>hear the album, you can hear it's not. It just

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<v Speaker 2>isn't try hard. And a lot of pop music you

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<v Speaker 2>can get in that zone where you start being safe,

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<v Speaker 2>where you're like, oh, this is a guaranteed hit, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>no one can guarantee a hit, but you start kind

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<v Speaker 2>of writing a bit like that with these kind of

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<v Speaker 2>executive label people, like saying what people want.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you seen the video it was on YouTube? It's

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<v Speaker 1>gone around social media where two guys play every song

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<v Speaker 1>that's been a hit in the last five years.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and they all sound like the same.

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<v Speaker 1>Quote, the exact same two And I'm like, whoa, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't even realize how formula.

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<v Speaker 2>Like so formulaic.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, everything has become.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's just staying in a save zone. And I

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<v Speaker 2>mean that's just you're You're not growing if you kind

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<v Speaker 2>of do that.

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<v Speaker 1>So, so tell me about roll with me, tell me

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<v Speaker 1>about some of the songs.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so roll with me. What's fun about this album

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<v Speaker 2>is it is really fun, but I also got to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about some of the stuff that really matters to me.

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<v Speaker 2>For example, so there's a song called Hey Papa, which says,

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<v Speaker 2>hey Papa, what's the news? What's going on in the world?

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<v Speaker 2>This is there's some crazy stuff like every time you

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<v Speaker 2>wake up in the morning, every time I wake up

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<v Speaker 2>in the morning, I look at my phone and then

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh, what bad news am I going to

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<v Speaker 2>see as well, Like I'm almost afraid to look at

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<v Speaker 2>my pon.

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<v Speaker 1>You know how you unfollow people that are I have

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<v Speaker 1>this stuff. I have unfollowed a lot of news feers

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<v Speaker 1>that used to come into my phone because I would

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<v Speaker 1>wake up and then I would be instantly terrorI exactly

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<v Speaker 1>terrified or in a negative kind of not that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to be aware of what's going on, but

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<v Speaker 1>I can't be inundated every day with negativity.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and there's there's the first line of songs. There's

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<v Speaker 2>kids and guns. Starting out so young, we normalize and

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<v Speaker 2>empathize and then hold our hands over our eyes, so

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<v Speaker 2>like this, it's like this, there's been so many gun

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<v Speaker 2>shootings this year. When you hear about so many, it

0:12:56.720 --> 0:12:59.360
<v Speaker 2>almost desensitizes you and you can end up like just

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<v Speaker 2>like burying your head under the blankets and just not

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<v Speaker 2>even doing anything about it. And so it's great because

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<v Speaker 2>I never really talked about stuff like that in my

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<v Speaker 2>last albums. They were all just about personal like relationships

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff and fun things.

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<v Speaker 3>So now that you've been married ten years.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and now I've had a kid, and now I

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<v Speaker 2>care about things more. But I feel like I've got

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<v Speaker 2>a microphone in front of my face, and I have

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<v Speaker 2>the freedom because I'm in an indie label too, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm working with someone who also cares about that kind

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<v Speaker 2>of stuff too. So I just I feel that's quite

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<v Speaker 2>a release for me because I've definitely had that thing

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<v Speaker 2>that a lot of women feel if I mustn't be

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<v Speaker 2>that angry woman or I mustn't be like, I mustn't

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<v Speaker 2>rock the boat. So yeah, it's great.

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<v Speaker 3>So let's rock a few boats.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let's rock a few boats and talk about another thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you're passionate about trafficking. Trafficking, Yes, that rocks boats.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know why, because we love to celebrate that

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<v Speaker 2>we're a free society. We love to you know, England

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<v Speaker 2>and America, that we have democracies and that we abolished slavery.

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<v Speaker 2>But the problem is that a lot of the companies

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<v Speaker 2>that we buy all our products from are not accountable

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<v Speaker 2>and they don't check and they poposedly stay ignorant about

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<v Speaker 2>the fact that they use a lot of slave labor

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<v Speaker 2>to make all of their products.

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<v Speaker 3>And yeah, nobody wants to believe that.

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<v Speaker 2>No, but this is shocking. There's more slavery today than

0:14:24.440 --> 0:14:28.480
<v Speaker 2>there ever was. When I'm crazy and we celebrate anti slavery.

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<v Speaker 1>I go to West Africa at least twice, sometimes three

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<v Speaker 1>times a year, and I go to the slave castles

0:14:38.240 --> 0:14:43.240
<v Speaker 1>where humans were exported as chattel sixty million, wow, over

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<v Speaker 1>the course of three hundred years. And I see people weeping,

0:14:47.320 --> 0:14:50.400
<v Speaker 1>I see people crying. I see people going back to

0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:53.960
<v Speaker 1>the roots and trying to wrap their head around it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I stand there screaming. But it's going on today,

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<v Speaker 1>right right, There are more slaves today. There are more

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<v Speaker 1>people being trafficked today than ever in the history of

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<v Speaker 1>our world.

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<v Speaker 2>And then we celebrate things like fourth of July Independence Day,

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<v Speaker 2>and we talk about the amazing constitution, and we talk

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<v Speaker 2>about all these freedoms that we.

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<v Speaker 1>Have while we neglect to pay attention to the fact

0:15:15.840 --> 0:15:20.000
<v Speaker 1>that thousands of children go missing every year. That's right,

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<v Speaker 1>tens of thousands of human beings are trafficked, not just

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<v Speaker 1>across state lines, but country to country.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a whole network.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you go up and down the corridors on

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<v Speaker 1>either coast, there's people every day being trafficked through the

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<v Speaker 1>truck driving stops. You know they're in they're enslaved.

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<v Speaker 3>And we close our eyes.

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<v Speaker 2>And because it's in a different country. But it's not

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<v Speaker 2>it's not you're right, it's not you're right. It's right

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<v Speaker 2>here too, right because people can't see it, like people

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<v Speaker 2>like to focus on the nice and fluffy and like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll tell you a funny example my mom, because she

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<v Speaker 2>found out about that a lot of chocolate companies use

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<v Speaker 2>labor to make the chocolate. And when you talk to them,

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<v Speaker 2>they're like, they're like, oh, we don't we can't really

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<v Speaker 2>tell you, know, they they purposely don't know about it.

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<v Speaker 1>We outsource our chocolate exactly, yeah, exactly, No, we just

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<v Speaker 1>buy it in bulk.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, own the excitations.

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<v Speaker 2>So she told us, she told she did a press

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<v Speaker 2>release instead that our family are all fasting chocolate. Well

0:16:23.280 --> 0:16:25.360
<v Speaker 2>she didn't check with us, and chocolate happens to.

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<v Speaker 3>Be my favorite food.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, I'm sorry, mom, I'm not fasting chocolate.

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<v Speaker 2>Pick another, Pick another food.

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<v Speaker 3>There are chocolates though you can find.

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<v Speaker 1>There are there are fair trade, fair trade chocolates, so

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<v Speaker 1>they're delicious, especially dark.

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<v Speaker 2>But this is why it's so hard. It's because we

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<v Speaker 2>love we love you know, we love our mobile.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't want to know that our soccer balls that

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<v Speaker 1>our kids are kicking around were sown by four year olds.

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<v Speaker 3>Exact want to know exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>That the jeans that you're wearing are sown by men

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<v Speaker 1>and women imprisoned for not violent crimes, and they're making

0:16:59.440 --> 0:17:03.760
<v Speaker 1>twenty five since an hour two to make the jeans

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<v Speaker 1>that you're wearing.

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<v Speaker 3>We don't want to think about them.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think about it right now. I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I truly don't want to think about it. No, I

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<v Speaker 3>know I don't, but it's true.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh it's it's such a horrific, pervasive problem and

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<v Speaker 1>nobody wants to talk about it. But you're you and

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<v Speaker 1>your mom and my brother and my brother.

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<v Speaker 2>And there's a company that I've been so the name

0:17:24.720 --> 0:17:28.359
<v Speaker 2>of the ministry that well, my MoU's ministry is called

0:17:28.760 --> 0:17:31.800
<v Speaker 2>it's a charity called Global Angels, but she works very

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<v Speaker 2>closely with Stop the Traffic. And then there's another one,

0:17:35.840 --> 0:17:38.120
<v Speaker 2>a guy called justin Dylon, and his charity is called

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<v Speaker 2>Freedom f R d M, Freedom No Vows, And what

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<v Speaker 2>he does is he works on talking with companies to

0:17:46.480 --> 0:17:49.359
<v Speaker 2>keep them accountable because companies have realized, oh my gosh,

0:17:49.440 --> 0:17:51.240
<v Speaker 2>we are going to be in trouble when people figure

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<v Speaker 2>it out.

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<v Speaker 3>People figure out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And it's just like the organic food, Like if

0:17:55.000 --> 0:17:57.560
<v Speaker 2>there's enough demand for something, then suddenly you see a

0:17:57.560 --> 0:18:00.560
<v Speaker 2>whole aisle full of organic food. And so his thinking is, look,

0:18:00.560 --> 0:18:03.600
<v Speaker 2>if companies could know like that this is important to people,

0:18:04.119 --> 0:18:06.600
<v Speaker 2>that's where our power is, you know, because these companies

0:18:06.600 --> 0:18:09.320
<v Speaker 2>are just doing what they think people will accept. I

0:18:09.640 --> 0:18:13.240
<v Speaker 2>talked to my friend who runs the charity Freedom that

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<v Speaker 2>I mentioned, and he said that, like, we did a

0:18:16.440 --> 0:18:19.600
<v Speaker 2>documentary together called Call and Response, and this is about

0:18:19.640 --> 0:18:21.359
<v Speaker 2>ten years ago, and we were talking about this issue

0:18:21.359 --> 0:18:23.760
<v Speaker 2>because nobody knew about it ten years ago. There's definitely

0:18:23.800 --> 0:18:25.800
<v Speaker 2>a lot more awareness. But what he said is that

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<v Speaker 2>in England and in Australia, there was a law past

0:18:29.800 --> 0:18:33.520
<v Speaker 2>that makes companies have to be responsible for what at

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<v Speaker 2>least on with this level with you know, with companies,

0:18:36.119 --> 0:18:37.960
<v Speaker 2>at least they have to be responsible for the people

0:18:37.960 --> 0:18:39.359
<v Speaker 2>who work for them into making their.

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<v Speaker 3>Products so that they're paid a fair wage.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, so it's an act that was passed that makes

0:18:45.119 --> 0:18:48.640
<v Speaker 2>it legal that they have to. So that's just good

0:18:48.680 --> 0:18:52.040
<v Speaker 2>news because we are making progress and that pressure from

0:18:52.119 --> 0:18:54.359
<v Speaker 2>the public does actually work. And so that's the kind

0:18:54.400 --> 0:18:56.440
<v Speaker 2>of stuff that we need to see happen in America.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think that one of the things that I

0:18:59.080 --> 0:19:01.960
<v Speaker 2>you know, people are strung so hard. Everyone listening here,

0:19:01.960 --> 0:19:03.960
<v Speaker 2>we all have our own issues that we're dealing with,

0:19:04.080 --> 0:19:05.840
<v Speaker 2>not to mention let's talk about all the stuff that's

0:19:05.840 --> 0:19:08.119
<v Speaker 2>happening in other people's lives, but also our own lives.

0:19:08.680 --> 0:19:11.840
<v Speaker 2>I think it's sometimes we just get overwhelmed and people

0:19:11.960 --> 0:19:15.760
<v Speaker 2>feel apathetic, like my voice doesn't count. So something that's

0:19:15.760 --> 0:19:18.400
<v Speaker 2>important to me is that people that my music would

0:19:18.440 --> 0:19:21.360
<v Speaker 2>encourage people to feel like their voice counts and that

0:19:21.480 --> 0:19:23.280
<v Speaker 2>you should. We all need to get involved. And we

0:19:23.400 --> 0:19:26.840
<v Speaker 2>are in a democracy, and basically people love to take

0:19:26.840 --> 0:19:28.760
<v Speaker 2>people's power away and to make you feel like you're

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<v Speaker 2>just nothing and that you just don't have a voice.

0:19:31.280 --> 0:19:33.360
<v Speaker 2>But we do have a voice, and so the more

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<v Speaker 2>active we get, the more it can change can happen.

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<v Speaker 3>Amen. Amen to that. So we're bouncing around here, but

0:19:40.119 --> 0:19:42.080
<v Speaker 3>let's get back to roll with me.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it, thank you. Let's bring back to my album.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, bring it back to your album because I want

0:19:47.240 --> 0:19:49.040
<v Speaker 1>to learn more. I want to hear more about some

0:19:49.160 --> 0:19:51.920
<v Speaker 1>of the singles that we're going to be hearing from there.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you. Yeah, okay, roll with me? How to get

0:19:55.960 --> 0:19:59.960
<v Speaker 2>its name? I wrote a song called Rollskate with Linda

0:20:00.119 --> 0:20:03.320
<v Speaker 2>Perry and it's about just being in London growing up

0:20:03.320 --> 0:20:05.760
<v Speaker 2>and roller skating. We talked about all these you know,

0:20:06.040 --> 0:20:09.879
<v Speaker 2>like big world life changing things that terrible, but it

0:20:09.960 --> 0:20:11.880
<v Speaker 2>is just great to have music that makes you feel good.

0:20:11.920 --> 0:20:13.880
<v Speaker 2>And one of the things that I loved being in

0:20:13.920 --> 0:20:16.520
<v Speaker 2>London was roller skating growing up with my brother who

0:20:16.560 --> 0:20:19.200
<v Speaker 2>we've talked about, Daniel, and he would be roll skating

0:20:19.200 --> 0:20:21.640
<v Speaker 2>and I'd be trying to catch up with him, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's great.

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<v Speaker 3>Finds no way to catch up with your brother.

0:20:25.680 --> 0:20:29.399
<v Speaker 2>No, he's he is, He's larger than life. I can

0:20:29.480 --> 0:20:30.360
<v Speaker 2>never catch up with him.

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<v Speaker 3>No, not on.

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<v Speaker 1>Roller skates unless you, you know, had roller skates that

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<v Speaker 1>had like a jet pack on the side.

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<v Speaker 2>That you yeah, and he might say that I'm amazing,

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<v Speaker 2>that I'm better than him, but it's not true. He's

0:20:41.680 --> 0:20:43.880
<v Speaker 2>actually the most talented person I've ever met.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you seen those jet ski things, those jet packs

0:20:47.320 --> 0:20:50.040
<v Speaker 1>that you can ride above water on.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, funny enough. My sister wrote there's a there's a

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<v Speaker 2>whole commercial with those in them that she wrote the

0:20:58.040 --> 0:21:02.159
<v Speaker 2>theme tune to really writer. My sister is also, I

0:21:02.200 --> 0:21:05.679
<v Speaker 2>have to say, also the best songwriter and singer in

0:21:05.720 --> 0:21:06.840
<v Speaker 2>the world. So wait till you.

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<v Speaker 3>Hear that's what Daniel said about you now, your.

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<v Speaker 1>Sister Nicola, Yeah, just like your folks just have like

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<v Speaker 1>major talent DNA.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think so. Yeah, I don't know what was

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<v Speaker 2>going on, but my brother also I have two a

0:21:20.080 --> 0:21:22.760
<v Speaker 2>brother and a sister, who are both incredible singers. But

0:21:23.119 --> 0:21:25.720
<v Speaker 2>I think that if you have, if you kids need

0:21:25.800 --> 0:21:30.200
<v Speaker 2>creative stuff, if if kids have access to learning how

0:21:30.240 --> 0:21:33.800
<v Speaker 2>to do like music, if kids are brought up around music,

0:21:33.840 --> 0:21:37.320
<v Speaker 2>then I think that all kids are musical. But everyone is.

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<v Speaker 3>No.

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<v Speaker 1>After raising as many as I've raised, I can tell

0:21:40.600 --> 0:21:43.919
<v Speaker 1>you that is no. Oh yeah, several of my children

0:21:44.000 --> 0:21:47.720
<v Speaker 1>are very very musical, and some are theatrical, and some

0:21:47.880 --> 0:21:53.000
<v Speaker 1>have the dance gene and can dance like rhythm rhythm,

0:21:53.640 --> 0:21:58.320
<v Speaker 1>and some aren't. And there's a verse that says train

0:21:58.440 --> 0:22:00.040
<v Speaker 1>up a child and the way they should go, and

0:22:00.160 --> 0:22:02.600
<v Speaker 1>they are old, they will not depart from it. And

0:22:02.680 --> 0:22:04.920
<v Speaker 1>most people take that to mean train up a child

0:22:05.000 --> 0:22:07.880
<v Speaker 1>in a church or in a particular religion, and I

0:22:07.920 --> 0:22:09.880
<v Speaker 1>agree with that. I think that you need to give

0:22:09.920 --> 0:22:15.800
<v Speaker 1>your children a firm foundation moral kindness and morals and

0:22:15.840 --> 0:22:21.720
<v Speaker 1>a moral compass and saying. But I also think it

0:22:21.920 --> 0:22:26.240
<v Speaker 1>means train up a child in the way they should go.

0:22:27.320 --> 0:22:33.320
<v Speaker 1>They individual, They every I believe every child has gifts

0:22:33.560 --> 0:22:38.280
<v Speaker 1>that are unique to them in different measures, in different combinations,

0:22:38.359 --> 0:22:41.439
<v Speaker 1>and my one of my most important jobs as a

0:22:41.520 --> 0:22:47.080
<v Speaker 1>parent is to find what that is and then train

0:22:47.200 --> 0:22:47.879
<v Speaker 1>them up.

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<v Speaker 3>In it.

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<v Speaker 1>So that when they are old, they will be true

0:22:52.040 --> 0:22:55.320
<v Speaker 1>to to who they were meant to be. And some parents,

0:22:55.400 --> 0:22:57.159
<v Speaker 1>you know, say you're going to be a lawyer, or

0:22:57.400 --> 0:23:00.520
<v Speaker 1>you need to be a doctor. But if you see

0:23:00.640 --> 0:23:03.400
<v Speaker 1>in your son a passion for music, I know you're

0:23:03.400 --> 0:23:05.960
<v Speaker 1>going to sign them up for drum lessons, yeah, guitar

0:23:06.080 --> 0:23:08.040
<v Speaker 1>lessons or piano lessons, or if you see.

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<v Speaker 2>You're right. A lot of people try and actually like

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<v Speaker 2>the kids. They try and give them opportunities they never had.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, well, you know, like they never got to

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<v Speaker 2>go to college. They're like, you will go to college,

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<v Speaker 2>or you are going to be a football player, or yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's important not to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you see that your son loves to kick

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<v Speaker 1>a soccer ball around exactly, yeah, then it's your responsibility

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure yeah they're fair trade soccer ball, that

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<v Speaker 1>it gets on the field and learns how to kick

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<v Speaker 1>a soccer ball. So so, speaking of kick it, tell

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<v Speaker 1>me about cause we've been like that.

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<v Speaker 3>We've been kicking it with you before any other regio station.

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<v Speaker 3>I might, I might add.

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<v Speaker 2>I kick it. That's the single. It's like not even

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<v Speaker 2>a typical pop song. It's it's definitely like but this

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<v Speaker 2>something about it that has just got this energy and

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<v Speaker 2>it's talking about making a relationship last. How do you

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<v Speaker 2>do it? You do?

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<v Speaker 3>How do you do it?

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<v Speaker 2>You've done it for ticket has a few meanings. We

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<v Speaker 2>actually google kick it because it's kind of a cool

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<v Speaker 2>word and it means hanging out exactly, but it also

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<v Speaker 2>means like letting go of stuffly, kicking, yeah exactly, or

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<v Speaker 2>kicking of football. But like my husband, he was great,

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<v Speaker 2>he said, actually, yeah, you know you when you when

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<v Speaker 2>you make a relationship last, you have to do the

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<v Speaker 2>things that are fun that you used to do. You

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<v Speaker 2>have to hang out with each other's put.

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<v Speaker 1>The time in, fall in love again, falling in love

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<v Speaker 1>especially when you have a toddler.

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<v Speaker 3>Is it hard to date your husband?

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<v Speaker 2>It really is. There's a book called What's It Called?

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<v Speaker 2>And Baby Makes Three, which is actually kind of an

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<v Speaker 2>awesome and it talks about how like you have to

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<v Speaker 2>keep your relationship strong that's because that's important for your kid.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so sweet. Oh my gosh. Like I was away

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<v Speaker 2>from my husband for a week with my son. He

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<v Speaker 2>was touring with me in Germany, and when we got

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<v Speaker 2>back all together, like we're lying in bed, he's lying

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<v Speaker 2>in between us, and he was like, Mama, dadda mama,

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<v Speaker 2>Like he was like, he was so excited. He's only

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<v Speaker 2>got a few words, but he was so excited.

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<v Speaker 1>About the fact that we were all together, all together,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was relishing that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Natasha, hold that thought.

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<v Speaker 1>As we hear from one of the sponsors that makes

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast possible. Welcome back to Love Someone with Delilah.

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<v Speaker 1>Today we're talking with Natasha Beddingfield and we continue our

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<v Speaker 1>conversation now. So when you had your child, did you

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<v Speaker 1>suddenly understand your mom a lot more?

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<v Speaker 2>I did? I did, And I felt so much grace

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<v Speaker 2>up and so much gratefulness, and also just thought about

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<v Speaker 2>single mothers and how like just incredible women are and

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<v Speaker 2>how incredible bodies are. And I felt more love for

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<v Speaker 2>my body and acceptance.

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<v Speaker 1>And I called my mom when my son was about

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<v Speaker 1>a week old to do and I said thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>He said for what I said, for everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I had no idea how much you loved me

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<v Speaker 1>until now.

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<v Speaker 2>And I also I also like say, I just say

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<v Speaker 2>thank you to my son, like I like that he

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<v Speaker 2>I love the idea that he chose me maybe somehow,

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<v Speaker 2>like he like chose me as his mom or God

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<v Speaker 2>chose me as his mom. But I God love the

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<v Speaker 2>whole world. Oh yeah, And I just I just want

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<v Speaker 2>to have gratitude, even if I feel anxiety or like

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<v Speaker 2>that I might mess up as a mom or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>I just try and be grateful of like thank you

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<v Speaker 2>for each moment, and.

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<v Speaker 3>You will muster, I will. I know you're human.

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<v Speaker 2>Well. One of the songs actually on the album is

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<v Speaker 2>called King of the World, and it's actually saying that

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<v Speaker 2>around my son. I feel like I'm king of the world.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I feel like he sees me right now in

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<v Speaker 2>that infant stage, he sees me as like.

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<v Speaker 3>Enjoy it because when they hit nineteen fourteen.

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<v Speaker 1>Fifteen years old, all of a sudden, you become a

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<v Speaker 1>big dummy head.

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<v Speaker 3>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>And I've got friends who have teenagers. So I like

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<v Speaker 2>hear all those stories and I'm like, somebody told me, like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, there's so much cynical stuff, but like basically

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<v Speaker 2>your job apparent, you're just letting them down slowly. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but you want the things back in life. You've got

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<v Speaker 2>all this, Natasha Bettingfield.

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<v Speaker 1>You've got all these videos, you've got all this history.

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<v Speaker 1>You've filled stadiums, Your brothers filled stadiums. I'm sure your

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<v Speaker 1>sister's filling stadiums. You've got thousands of followers, I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>on social media. But when your kid hits fourteen or fifteen,

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<v Speaker 1>you will not be cool.

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<v Speaker 3>I know it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's that's just and you'll get mom and it

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<v Speaker 1>becomes like a three syllable word mom.

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<v Speaker 2>To kiss them and it hugs them.

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<v Speaker 1>Mom, Like what yesterday I was your superhero?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, king of the world.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why. Like I'm like I say to my husband,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, give you mama cuddle right now, Like tell

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<v Speaker 2>her something nice. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Natasha betting Field, thank you for spending this time here

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<v Speaker 1>in the studio with me. I know that your music

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<v Speaker 1>is available everywhere. I am glad you're back in the studio.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you're recording again, but I'm really really glad

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<v Speaker 1>that God is blessing you and your husband and your

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<v Speaker 1>baby and your life. Thank you for coming and spending

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<v Speaker 1>time here on love someone with the Limah