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Speaker 1: I take it away.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much, deer blog. So I would love

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Speaker 2: ladies your help in this. Just how do you explain

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Speaker 2: this feeling to a man? Okay, because this is a feeling.

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Speaker 2: This is really something that I hold near and dear

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Speaker 2: to my heart. It's probably the most basic thing about me.

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Speaker 2: But I truly enjoy this. I love when it's just

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Speaker 2: like a day of nothing.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 2: It's say it's a Saturday or Sunday, you have nothing planned,

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Speaker 2: nothing to me. It's the best, that's how right, And

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Speaker 2: I enjoy that now at this point in my life

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Speaker 2: where I'm like, I just have a slow morning, a

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Speaker 2: slow day whatever on the weekend. And what about though,

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Speaker 2: when you have like nothing going on? So you put

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Speaker 2: on like your comfy's your little boots, right because it's winter,

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Speaker 2: and then right because it has to be in the winter,

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Speaker 2: and then you go to either like Starbucks or dunkin

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Speaker 2: or a coffee shop.

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Speaker 1: You got to get your coffee, my latte of coffee,

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Speaker 1: whatever it.

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Speaker 2: Is, and then you take your little butt, you drive over.

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Speaker 2: You're in Home Goods, You're in Marshalls, right, You're at Target,

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Speaker 2: and you get to just take your time and shop

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Speaker 2: and like just like emerge in the culture.

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Speaker 3: Immer, emerge in the culture. Immersing me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like I'll never buy that sign, but it's giving that,

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Speaker 2: Like that's the energy I'm putting out when I do this.

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Speaker 1: I need a reindeer with skis. I know where to

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Speaker 1: go marshals drink.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you go there for nothing, but you go there

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Speaker 2: for everything.

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Speaker 1: Like how do you explain this feeling to a man?

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Speaker 1: I didn't know that I needed a candy cane that

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Speaker 1: lights up and smokes. They truly have it all. They

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Speaker 1: have everything.

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Speaker 2: Like you'll go and you'll get like your bath essentials,

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Speaker 2: and you'll go shop for like some new jammys. Then

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Speaker 2: you're gonna go I look at baby clothes now.

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Speaker 1: And then I'm looking at mugs I don't need. I

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Speaker 1: don't even make coffee at home, but I need mugs.

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Speaker 1: Like you just get everything there.

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Speaker 2: And this feeling that I'm trying to describe, Like my

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Speaker 2: husband doesn't understand because when he comes with me, which

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Speaker 2: I do not let him go with me anymore, we

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Speaker 2: gotta go quick and get in it.

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Speaker 3: It's like what's on the list, Go get it right?

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Speaker 3: And you're talking about like a browsing situation. Oh you're

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Speaker 3: that's how I feel about I feel about bookstores that way.

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Speaker 3: That's how I feel.

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Speaker 1: You got to take your time. You get me a coffee,

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Speaker 1: go walking around in there, you know, breathe it in.

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Speaker 1: Time doesn't exist.

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Speaker 3: But there's no such thing as time, right, No time

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Speaker 3: stands still in the bookstore, Marshals, and they're always It's.

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Speaker 1: Like a home improvement store, you know what I'm saying. Like,

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Speaker 1: if I go to whatever Home Depot or Low's or Minards,

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Speaker 1: I will go down every hole like plumbing. I don't

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Speaker 1: need anything, but for some going to build loon Jason,

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Speaker 1: it's the record store, right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I hate going to home improvement stores except

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Speaker 2: for that contract.

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Speaker 1: I'm here for that.

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Speaker 3: I don't even know how to use half the crap

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Speaker 3: in there. I'm not building anything, but I'll walk in there.

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Speaker 3: Oh I better, I better see what they have like

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Speaker 3: rotting lawnmower section. I'm like, you're living a condo in

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Speaker 3: a high rise.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you got a browse. It's gotta be like nicely paced.

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Speaker 2: You know. You can't don't rush me like I got

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Speaker 2: to do with my coffee in my hand and just

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Speaker 2: vibes in the other and I'm just I'm just I'm

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Speaker 2: just in this and it feels great, and I just

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Speaker 2: want to know, like if anyone else relates to that feeling,

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Speaker 2: because it really brings me true happiness.

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Speaker 1: Just do nothing at Marshals and Home Goods. It's a

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Speaker 1: great feeling. Yeah, thank you. You can go to back

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Speaker 1: and body Works and just smell the smell. That's another

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Speaker 1: one they still open.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, the laundry detergent and everything.

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 1: Oh I can't remember which.

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Speaker 3: Body shop that's gone, not that I ever went there,

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Speaker 3: but maybe that's.

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Speaker 1: Why it's gone. Okay, No, I get it.

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Speaker 3: I get it, and I think theres a lot of

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Speaker 3: people listening now then they're going, yes, Paulina, you know

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Speaker 3: what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: It's just an enjoyable feeling.

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Speaker 3: And really gets that because I feel like everyone's so

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Speaker 3: fast paced. It's like, you know, you've got to have

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Speaker 3: a purpose and I can. I can be this way too,

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Speaker 3: you know. It's like I don't know, I just want

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Speaker 3: to get all this stuff done so I can, you know,

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Speaker 3: go home or whatever.

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Speaker 1: And the other problem is when I do.

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Speaker 3: If I do go to Target and I have, you know,

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Speaker 3: aimless amount of time, I I then spend aimless amounts

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Speaker 3: of money on stuff.

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Speaker 1: That's the problem with this, with the vibein that's trying

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Speaker 1: to get you the hell out of there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a game my credit card, and I say,

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Speaker 2: what credit card?

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Speaker 1: The limit does not exist? True, but it does. Oh

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Speaker 1: it does, but it does. I got my chopped up.

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Speaker 3: The entertainment report is next to Friends show. That sounds

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Speaker 3: like a different blog.