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Speaker 1: Welcome. You are now listening to the Professional Professional. Hey guys,

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Speaker 1: welcome to this week's episode the PSD podcast. Is your

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Speaker 1: girl eban A and I'm super excited about this week's episode.

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Speaker 1: Before we begin, please make sure to follow me on

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Speaker 1: Instagram at the Professional home Girl, at the PhD podcast,

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Speaker 1: and last but not least, at eban a Beauty. Please

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Speaker 1: keep in mind that all of my guests are a nonymous.

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Speaker 1: So let's begin this week's show. How are you feeling today?

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Speaker 1: I'm fine, I'm good, I'm good. I'm a little tired,

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Speaker 1: but this is gonna be a really good episode. Um,

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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna give them a little back end of

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Speaker 1: how this episode started or I even came into fruition.

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Speaker 1: So me and my guests have been friends for we

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Speaker 1: share our best friend. So we've been friends for like

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Speaker 1: over I guess seven years. And we was at somebody's house.

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Speaker 1: What what's the holiday? Oh? Was that regular weekend? Weekend? No?

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Speaker 1: Because we were barbecue. Were barbecue for nothing. Well, at

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Speaker 1: this point, don't don't, don't put your sexy voye so

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Speaker 1: ons up. I feel like at this point we got

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Speaker 1: to do I didn't know what the reason was really

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Speaker 1: go So we was at this girl house right and

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Speaker 1: it was four dark skinned girls. Me and my guests

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Speaker 1: are best friend that we share and the girl house

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Speaker 1: shool was over. Um, it was a Puerto Rican girl

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Speaker 1: over there, and it was our best friend boyfriend. I

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Speaker 1: was there and we were talking about music because a

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Speaker 1: lot of people in the room was in the music

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Speaker 1: or in the music industry. And my guests and the

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Speaker 1: Puerto Rican girl was going back and forth about colorism

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Speaker 1: in the music industry. As we was listening, or as

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Speaker 1: I was listening to them, I'm like, yo, Like, this

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Speaker 1: is a really like conversation that I want to have

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Speaker 1: with my listeners because I feel like a lot of

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Speaker 1: people who are not dark skinned don't think that colorism exists.

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Speaker 1: So I'm super excited about this week's episode. Um, what

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Speaker 1: does colorism means to you? Um? What does colorism mean

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Speaker 1: for me? Basically, colorism is when we're all of the

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Speaker 1: same group, same race for black, and we're showing favoritism

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Speaker 1: or dislike towards a certain group of people. Well, I

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Speaker 1: don't like lightskin people and I don't like dark skin people.

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Speaker 1: Had to me as colorism. But to touch on the

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Speaker 1: topic of colorism, I wanted to say, like, I think

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Speaker 1: a lot of lights can people and you know what,

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Speaker 1: not to cut you off, and we're not speaking for

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Speaker 1: every dark scanned woman out there. This is this is

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Speaker 1: just our experiences. But I just feel like from having

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Speaker 1: conversations with my guests and other woman that look like

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Speaker 1: we all kind of share the same views of how

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Speaker 1: we feel about this topic. But go ahead, um, as

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Speaker 1: I was saying, I think that for a lot of

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Speaker 1: lighter shade people, they just have what you call a

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Speaker 1: cognitive dissonance when it comes to colorism and the black

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Speaker 1: people's side, Like instead of saying like, oh well, they

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Speaker 1: just don't care, I think that is just a cognitive dissonance,

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Speaker 1: meaning that they do know that there is something wrong,

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Speaker 1: but there is nothing that you can really do about

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Speaker 1: it because there's nothing that has been done about it

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Speaker 1: for a time, so they just kind of just pass

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Speaker 1: it over, you know, like it does affect them, and

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Speaker 1: it's not something that directly affects anything that has to

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Speaker 1: feel like colorism in our community is more so with

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Speaker 1: because I think guys like make jokes and stuff, but

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Speaker 1: later on um. So, one of the experience that I

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Speaker 1: experienced growing up and not sharing my guests. When I

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Speaker 1: it really was. It came off a negative way. So

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Speaker 1: I was talking to you and you were saying how

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Speaker 1: things were for you when you were growing up. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so share some of your experiences when I was growing up.

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Speaker 1: I got I have like two spectrums on it, like

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Speaker 1: it's I mean, it's a wide spectrum for me because

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Speaker 1: I've had people say like, oh, you're pretty for a

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Speaker 1: being dark skinned. I've been called dark, but I've been

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Speaker 1: called a darky. I've been like people have just antagonized

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Speaker 1: also because I'm confident with my shade of skin. So

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Speaker 1: also have been like, Okay, now you're a target because

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Speaker 1: it's also being passionate. Being passionate, I have had so,

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Speaker 1: as I told you, so many different experiences where I

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Speaker 1: one and I was just like wow, like and it

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Speaker 1: Like I remember you, yeah, and I remember you was

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Speaker 1: York even now, when you argue with dudes, if you're

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Speaker 1: thing that they're relating into YouTube is a man, just

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Speaker 1: like remy mom. When people talk about Remy man and stuff,

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Speaker 1: he described drummy mind, he described Cardi being. He said

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I have my feelings many years times. But

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Speaker 1: feel like, okay, well now like you have something to

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Speaker 1: A preference is when you're saying you're like an origin

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Speaker 1: google that, and you can google the word preference. That's

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Speaker 1: not it. And people don't like to use fit words

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Speaker 1: when it's coming to like, you know, I don't I

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Speaker 1: But you know, so let's clear up some stereotypes. So

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Speaker 1: then it's like, oh well, no, not ald our skinned

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Speaker 1: like anything, honestly, So it's just kind of asking on

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Speaker 1: for people to say things like that. But um, yeah,

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Speaker 1: my tone of voice. Every time I speak, it is

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Speaker 1: and it's all it's like, no, I'm just passionate. And

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Speaker 1: it's like when I'm passionate it's looked at as like

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Speaker 1: she feels what she's saying like, you know, people would

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Speaker 1: get their point, but as for me, it's kind of

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Speaker 1: Can you share an experience with us that you had

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Speaker 1: how I've had many experiences even like uh, like what

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Speaker 1: I could I could say something and the way that

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Speaker 1: Now I could be like, well, no, I don't agree

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Speaker 1: with that, and someone soe so, and someone just be like, okay,

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Speaker 1: well she's angry, she's mad. But someone of a like sha,

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Speaker 1: you could say it in the same tone and it's

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Speaker 1: like you don't people just don't take it that way.

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Speaker 1: but you could just see because their reaction is totally different,

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Speaker 1: I want some little kid petty stuff. But I had

426
00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:57,680
Speaker 1: it because I was tired of constantly people every day

427
00:20:57,680 --> 00:20:59,560
Speaker 1: I come to school, people having something to say. I

428
00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:02,080
Speaker 1: don't just who would a predominantly Spanish area. So it

429
00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:04,080
Speaker 1: was just like they always been like, oh, you're my

430
00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:05,720
Speaker 1: favorite black girl. And then when that I was just

431
00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:08,520
Speaker 1: like stop playing, that's me, Like that's not cool, Like

432
00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:10,600
Speaker 1: I'm not your favorite black girl. I'm the only black

433
00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:12,720
Speaker 1: girl that you child right now, like what the hell

434
00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:15,520
Speaker 1: is going? One? And and then from there is when

435
00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:17,440
Speaker 1: I started getting oh, you're pretty far a duskin girl.

436
00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:20,440
Speaker 1: What do you mean our dog skin girls not pretty?

437
00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:22,159
Speaker 1: This is what I asked people immediately once you were

438
00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:24,040
Speaker 1: saying okay, so our dog skin girl is not pretty?

439
00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:27,760
Speaker 1: Are you not? Just never pretty? Done? But what does

440
00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:31,200
Speaker 1: the dark skin girl look like? Right? Yeah? And it's

441
00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:34,119
Speaker 1: like even now but now people don't do it as much.

442
00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:37,240
Speaker 1: They'll just be like people beautiful, They just they just

443
00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:40,720
Speaker 1: say beautiful. It's there's no dark skin nothing. It's just

444
00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:44,199
Speaker 1: people write me like I have people that I went

445
00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:45,600
Speaker 1: to school but there right me like, oh, I like,

446
00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:48,040
Speaker 1: how confident you all? I have dud skins daughter. I

447
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:49,200
Speaker 1: had like two or three people right me. And I

448
00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:51,560
Speaker 1: was like, oh that was nice because I write posts

449
00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:54,640
Speaker 1: like be confident in yourself, I know, being a little

450
00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:56,639
Speaker 1: brown girl. It's hard, And it's hard when you have

451
00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:58,879
Speaker 1: little nappie hair and you can't go into a ponytail

452
00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:06,520
Speaker 1: and you can't make way. But you know these struggles, No, honestly,

453
00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:08,200
Speaker 1: these are the things that we go through. And I

454
00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:10,479
Speaker 1: feel like when I was little, I was raising fourth care,

455
00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:13,440
Speaker 1: was nobody really there around to tell you, like, especially

456
00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:15,120
Speaker 1: when you're growing up with people who got different hands.

457
00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:17,879
Speaker 1: Actually that's serious, Like how how am I supposed to

458
00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:19,240
Speaker 1: do my hair? I have to learn I'm not a

459
00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:21,240
Speaker 1: brain of home, like why because I have to do

460
00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:24,120
Speaker 1: my own here from a very young age. These are

461
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,720
Speaker 1: different things that you just have to go through. And

462
00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:30,320
Speaker 1: even if you're around somewhere where someone is not telling

463
00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:31,959
Speaker 1: you how beautiful, you are looking at Mary and tell

464
00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:34,880
Speaker 1: yourself how beautiful? Okay, you don't ever forget it? Where

465
00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:40,439
Speaker 1: that's it for me? What? Um? What about the beauty

466
00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 1: and fashion industry? And the reason why I put that

467
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:44,760
Speaker 1: is because so I used to be the ops manager

468
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:49,760
Speaker 1: for a cosmetic store, right, and it was just amazing

469
00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:53,040
Speaker 1: to me. How you know a lot of these brands

470
00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:59,040
Speaker 1: don't have shades that match our shade. You literally stopped

471
00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:02,719
Speaker 1: at ship let's say Rihanna's color and they think they

472
00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:04,879
Speaker 1: doing something for us, and then when they give you

473
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,240
Speaker 1: a shade is as yeah. And I remember working and

474
00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:09,200
Speaker 1: working in the story and it was me and my

475
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,720
Speaker 1: home girl, and she was a little bit darker than me,

476
00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:14,080
Speaker 1: but we can like play with the same color. And

477
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:16,600
Speaker 1: they used to try to put a light ass shade

478
00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 1: on us and like, do you see it? Imagine we're

479
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:20,840
Speaker 1: like girl shies as she has hell. So how do

480
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:24,360
Speaker 1: you feel about that? Because it's so hard to find.

481
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 1: It's hard for me to find my shade for me

482
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:30,919
Speaker 1: that doesn't come off as ash. I don't have an

483
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:35,160
Speaker 1: issue anymore. I like Kevin Kauan. I love Kevin Yeah,

484
00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:40,120
Speaker 1: love Blave Blair, get that, Yeah, that is it, Kevin

485
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:45,960
Speaker 1: Quan fit I like fit Um three sixty. I like Sapphora. Yeah.

486
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:48,080
Speaker 1: I just used a lot of people, a lot of

487
00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:53,400
Speaker 1: fancy too. I don't like fancy. Yeah, but I feel

488
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:56,159
Speaker 1: like I haven't. I tried her first one, but I

489
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:58,679
Speaker 1: didn't like the first one. But the second one they

490
00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:00,760
Speaker 1: said she reformally and they say, is really good. I

491
00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 1: should try that one. I tried the first one when

492
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 1: everyone was give my hype, and I'm like, it's not

493
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:10,480
Speaker 1: for me, but I would definitely. Um, I like, I

494
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:13,920
Speaker 1: don't really use no extreme makeup because my skin is

495
00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 1: like regular. I like my regular skin, but I like

496
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 1: concealer to Forma and Kevin that's the best thing I've

497
00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:22,960
Speaker 1: ever heard. Yeah, that's the best thing I ever came as.

498
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 1: But does it a tear you when you don't see

499
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,439
Speaker 1: somebody that look like you from the place that you're

500
00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:33,800
Speaker 1: buying from, like on advertising and stuff, Yeah it does.

501
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:38,879
Speaker 1: I but it's like you almost because me personally, I

502
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 1: can't buy from a certain brand because I'm not on

503
00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:43,920
Speaker 1: a website. I don't see nobody looks like me and

504
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:47,119
Speaker 1: everybody shops there, but I just can't do it. You

505
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:48,680
Speaker 1: know What's some funny. I've never been on Kevin this

506
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:52,080
Speaker 1: one thing because he you know, I always bought his stuff,

507
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 1: um and Safara. But I'm just really big on like

508
00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 1: I feel like if I don't see anybody that look

509
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:03,720
Speaker 1: like me, I I can't really support though. Yeah, I'm

510
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:05,879
Speaker 1: not really big on the beauty thing either, Like I

511
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:08,359
Speaker 1: don't I don't see I am. It's like I'm not

512
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,440
Speaker 1: really I just buy the one two things yeah, like

513
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 1: I need and not even this just even in the

514
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:15,360
Speaker 1: fashion industry, like I need to see people that look

515
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:18,119
Speaker 1: like me, Like I'm glad that we touch based on

516
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 1: that when we're talking about fashion, I don't like that

517
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,200
Speaker 1: when there's the image of the black girl, it's that

518
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:28,119
Speaker 1: one image the ball headed blacks, many different shape and

519
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 1: it's like we come in so many difference and when

520
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:32,879
Speaker 1: I put emphasis on the dark skin and ball hit

521
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 1: the girl, like, you can't put empasis on the brown

522
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 1: skin girl when straight hair like so many different, so

523
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:43,640
Speaker 1: many dark skin and ball had it or mix, there's

524
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 1: no else. Can we have a little bit of something

525
00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 1: for me? Like I don't see me right? And then

526
00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:52,680
Speaker 1: that is something I don't like, Like when I watch

527
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 1: a lot of models and stuff, when I think fat

528
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 1: like that, it's like, wow, they just want people like

529
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:00,040
Speaker 1: like they want to create their own image out of you.

530
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 1: Right we are, Oh this is what they think diversity means. Yeah,

531
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:10,679
Speaker 1: it's just sucking annoying. Um what about working, Like, how

532
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:14,359
Speaker 1: has your skin your played a difference or impact of

533
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:18,159
Speaker 1: your workplace environment? I feel like the same like as

534
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:22,200
Speaker 1: I would say with like um men like engaging in

535
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 1: like friendships and relationships and stuff like pretty much the

536
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 1: same out society so I'll be at work and I

537
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 1: get the same thing, like if people think I'm too passionate,

538
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:35,159
Speaker 1: you feel like you get overlooked. Yeah, but do you

539
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:39,680
Speaker 1: think you have something do with your race the color

540
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:47,640
Speaker 1: of um in this job? I would say so, yeah,

541
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 1: Like people just treat you a certain type of way,

542
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:54,240
Speaker 1: and it's just like you know, like it's almost like

543
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 1: you walk into you in a box, like you already boxed,

544
00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,600
Speaker 1: goosed to eat a certain types and it's like you

545
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,159
Speaker 1: kind of know that your innox, you can feel at

546
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,920
Speaker 1: your innox. You're treated that way. So why do you

547
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 1: think we still think this way? Because that's what it is.

548
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 1: Nothing has changed, and it's like people speak on it

549
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 1: as if speaking on it would make it change. There's

550
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:19,159
Speaker 1: no real action, there's no real change. There's not really happening.

551
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 1: Because like one time I was like my last job,

552
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:26,119
Speaker 1: I had a meeting and in the meeting I was

553
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 1: talking to like one of the head bosses and she

554
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:31,359
Speaker 1: was like, wow, you're very articulate, and she said it

555
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 1: like three times, and I was like, I'm offended. Right.

556
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 1: At the last time, I'm like, wow, I'm offended, right,

557
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 1: Did you not expect me to be your guy. All right, Well,

558
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 1: that's just like when I tell people have an NBA?

559
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:44,680
Speaker 1: Do you have an NBA? And I'm not supposed to

560
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: have an NBA? Get it? Can I not get an

561
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:52,399
Speaker 1: like they stopped with you? No? Yeah, that's exactly how

562
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 1: I feel about it. Let's talk about relationships. What about

563
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:56,960
Speaker 1: friendships because I know you want to talk touch on

564
00:27:57,080 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 1: that friendships and relationships with men. I mean, I remember

565
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 1: this one situation. I was in college and this guy

566
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:08,880
Speaker 1: was like DM and men we this is on Facebook,

567
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 1: so he was like messaging me and stuff, and then

568
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 1: when we finally men up, he was like, oh I

569
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 1: didn't want to Um, I didn't want to talk to you.

570
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:18,119
Speaker 1: I got you confused with your your friend and my

571
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,160
Speaker 1: friend is light skinned, and he's like, I don't really

572
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 1: talk to our skinned girls. And I was just looking

573
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: like when they gonna talk to you, I just wanted

574
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 1: to free meal. But I was thinking like, yeah, I've

575
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 1: had niggas are mad rude, I've had many weird experiences

576
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 1: with even when it comes down to like, um, how

577
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 1: how people just treat you overall? Like dudes come to

578
00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 1: me and like what was your worst, like your worst

579
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:49,959
Speaker 1: weird experience with dude. What a dude. Man. I've had

580
00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:53,520
Speaker 1: many read experiences. Let's think of one that I would

581
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 1: say was like the worst. I've had a situation where

582
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 1: I was like, I was about to talk to a

583
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:03,800
Speaker 1: dude and he was like or maybe like you were

584
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 1: looking at someone and they're like, oh, no, I'm looking

585
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 1: for your friend. But that to me is not like

586
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 1: the worst. But it's like, wow, Like if you're looking

587
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 1: at somebody and you just haven't thoughts in your head

588
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 1: already that it's anything checking for you, honey, and then

589
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 1: your fun play him, It's like I had stupid. But

590
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 1: I've also had many situations where like, guys just treat

591
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 1: me differently. I feel like, because I'm dark skinned, they

592
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 1: trying to like over sexualize me. M Like, I feel like,

593
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: I don't know. I really think that it's because, um,

594
00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 1: I don't know if I want to say, is it

595
00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 1: my character or isn't my skin zone? I'm so confused.

596
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:44,320
Speaker 1: But even when plays wrong and I feel like because

597
00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 1: I'm dark skin, like they'll just try to approach you

598
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 1: with sex more or try to hear that before. Yeah,

599
00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 1: like like as to where you were trying to wand

600
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:56,960
Speaker 1: and din a light skin chick or try to do

601
00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 1: certain type of things. You'll just try to come to

602
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 1: me like, well, try to have as me. I've had

603
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 1: that happened before, and I'm just looking like, what the

604
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 1: fun did you think was going on? There? Nothing changeable

605
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 1: and you feel like it, because yeah, I feel like so,

606
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 1: I feel like guy's really over, even like outside when

607
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 1: we walk in a damn your chocolate ass. I'll do

608
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 1: what it says. What's some advice you want to give

609
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 1: to our dark skin sisters out there? Because I feel

610
00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:23,720
Speaker 1: like it's a lot of dark skinned women that are

611
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 1: like still uncomfortable, uncomfortable with the skin. There is yes

612
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 1: um for me. All I could really say is self love.

613
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 1: You really have to learn to love yourself. You gotta

614
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 1: look in the mirror and see that's something that really

615
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 1: comes from within. Even when it comes down to things

616
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 1: like depression, anxiety and all this, it's really about yourself.

617
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:48,720
Speaker 1: You have to be mentally strong. You have to love

618
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:51,480
Speaker 1: yourself because if you don't love yourself when you're looking

619
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 1: for love from someone else, it's not gonna happen. You

620
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 1: need to love yourself and be able to trust what

621
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 1: you see because I feel too many times we don't

622
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 1: trust what we see and that's why we look for

623
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 1: the okay, or what do you mean by trust what

624
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 1: you see? Like you know, trust what you see, have

625
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 1: confidence in you. Sometimes you'll know that like hey, I'm beautiful,

626
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 1: I am this is what I am. I'm enough, And

627
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 1: then you'll turn on the TV like Damn, maybe I

628
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 1: should maybe I should do this. Maybe that's not enough,

629
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 1: Maybe I should get a little more titties, a little

630
00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:23,960
Speaker 1: more ass. And it's like you have to trust that

631
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:27,800
Speaker 1: you're enough, trust that you are enough for you. Like

632
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 1: once you're enough for you, you're gonna be enough period

633
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 1: and you won't be going outside looking to try and

634
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 1: accommodate anybody, and you'll come out stronger. You'll be that

635
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 1: strong black woman that you're supposed to be because deep

636
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 1: down inside you love you because you trust you. And

637
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 1: ask the Natilie, what's the advice you would give to

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Speaker 1: our life's constance? Is that there that don't understand where

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Speaker 1: we're coming from with this topic. Talk to more of

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Speaker 1: your dark skin home girls, you know, have have more

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Speaker 1: open ended conversations. I'm was saying because I think it's

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Speaker 1: the same on both both lanes, Like I'm sure lights.

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Speaker 1: I know I have lights can fronts. So there are

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Speaker 1: things that light scanned girls go through that they feel

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Speaker 1: like dark skinkers don't understand, or they feel like they

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Speaker 1: have been um, you know, there's colorism with them because

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Speaker 1: dark and girls have been aggressive to them. So I

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Speaker 1: think that there needs to be an open in the

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Speaker 1: conversation between both groups and like where we could just

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Speaker 1: kind of like put things on the table and just

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Speaker 1: hash it out, because it's no needs because like we're

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Speaker 1: not speaking for all dark skinned girls and they can't

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Speaker 1: speak for all light scanned girls, you know, no, but

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Speaker 1: for the for the few that have or for the

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Speaker 1: group that feel like there is that issue of that

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Speaker 1: is that colorism coming along, and the only way to

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Speaker 1: get over it is to work through it. So to

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Speaker 1: work through it will be to come to the table

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Speaker 1: together and just hash it out, because that's a positive thing.

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Speaker 1: Though you hashing out like I'm giving you my ideas,

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Speaker 1: like you're taking and they don't have to be an argument.

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Speaker 1: It's more so like, hey, this was my experience with

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Speaker 1: you when I was around you. This is how we

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Speaker 1: both could be together and have two different experiences. So

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Speaker 1: all I want to do is explain my experience with you,

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Speaker 1: how I experienced life being around you or being here

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Speaker 1: and being and then you come and tell me sometimes

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Speaker 1: you don't know. I had to talk to a lot

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Speaker 1: of my friends and be like, yo, damn, now you're right,

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Speaker 1: I didn't see that. Even with that, when I'm saying, well,

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Speaker 1: over sexual lies, I have like SKA home girls, I

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Speaker 1: feel like they're over sexualized, Like every time they can

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Speaker 1: see them, they feel like, oh well I was about

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Speaker 1: this time for sex, So yeah, she's gonna give it

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Speaker 1: up a dada dada. And I'm like, well, we could

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Speaker 1: compare right there. There's so many things. If we talk

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Speaker 1: about it, we'll see that we have a lot more

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Speaker 1: common than to really have the Even you'll be like, damn,

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Speaker 1: why do we even have colorism? Like we have so much,

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Speaker 1: way too much. We all bad people at home. We

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Speaker 1: have just too much in common to even have this

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Speaker 1: thing so thick rotting in between us. Well, guys, I

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Speaker 1: hope you enjoyed this week's episode. Um, if anything, if

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Speaker 1: you haven't, if you gained anything from this episode, just

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Speaker 1: make sure you don't tell a dark skinned woman that

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Speaker 1: she is pretty or a dark skinned woman, because that

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Speaker 1: was beautiful ye, just college. Beautiful college, pretty college, sexy,

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Speaker 1: but don't call it pretty for a dark skinned girl. UM.

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Speaker 1: If you have any questions, comments, at concerns, please email

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Speaker 1: me at hello at the Professional homegirl dot com And

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Speaker 1: until next time, guys later. I like that